March 19, 2025 • 49 mins
We’ve covered welcome party, we’ve re-lived the ceremony, but now it’s time for the reception! Our recap of Tanya’s wedding continues, along with the results of the bouquet toss and we go through our wedding bingo card!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in scrub.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Dub Dub and the wife.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
A tub tub.
Speaker 4 (00:18):
This is part two of the wedding recap.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Tanya and Becca's version. I think we need to have version.
Speaker 5 (00:27):
Maybe we'll have.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Yeah, Oh, I see, We'll see it could Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
I'm just saying it could be its own thing because
I feel like being in the wedding and being a
guest and a wedding of two very different perspectives.
Speaker 5 (00:39):
Sure.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Yeah, I forgot to mention this on the part one.
The weather was.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
When I was walking down I finally I was like,
I should have just been outside all day and let
the wind hit me. Because as soon as the fresh
air was on me and I was in that moment,
I was like revived. It was like the most per
picked weather I've ever experienced.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
It was perfect.
Speaker 6 (01:03):
It's perfect, And I have to admit I was wrong
because when she was planning this, I was like, Tanya,
just pick a place you can't control the weather.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
It's gonna be fine. Just do it in La It's
the best climate in the world.
Speaker 6 (01:13):
Range sometimes in La in March and sure enough that
day in Los Angeles.
Speaker 5 (01:18):
Was rating, so I was wrong.
Speaker 6 (01:21):
She chose correctly and wow.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
And it was also National Butterfly Day?
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Was that planned?
Speaker 1 (01:30):
What if I told you this was accidental?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:34):
No no, no no no?
Speaker 5 (01:35):
And a blood moon and.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Period money like everything?
Speaker 4 (01:42):
Did you know the National Butterfly Day?
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I feel like you saw someone call your mastermind and
now you're playing into there's no way.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Wudn't you like to know?
Speaker 1 (01:54):
No, we didn't pick the date because it was National
Butterfly Day. But it's so funny because everything honestly works
out to your benefit. Because we were obviously planning on
having a wedding on Saturday, as most people get married
on Saturdays, and they ended up booking the Garden, which
is where we wanted to have our reception for like
a corporate dinner the Saturday that weekend, which we had
(02:16):
already kind of like locked down that weekend. So Rob
and I were like so upset about it, and it
could not have worked out better because I feel like
having the weddings, the actual ceremony of the reception on
a Friday, and then having that next day to still
be with everybody and like not have to like rush
to the airport and go home. The next day was
like such a blessing, Yes, and that it was National
(02:39):
Butterfly Day, like it all.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
I was like, this is it. That's what was meant
to be. It's what I meant to be. I literally
was saying.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
I told Haley, I was like, we will do a
Friday wedding because if we do a destination having people
have the time to hang out Saturday and then still
have that full day or Sunday to go back.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Because like the most people will do like a brif
it's a destination, they'll do like a bunch on the Sunday.
But like nobody wants to go. You're trying to get
to an airport, you're trying to pack. But also like
look cute for this brunch for the bride, you know
what I mean. Like it's like there's a lot going on.
So like, I don't know, it just totally worked out.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
So after the ceremony you went and took photos. Yeah, Robbie, quickly, quickly, quickly,
we all headed to the reception area, which again it
was a tent of twinkle lights and all the tables
were set up and all the tables had a theme.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
First of all, it makes me so happy that you
said that it was like so beautiful because we did
it like I don't want to say low budget, but
like what we stripped down so much of the Like
we were gonna have so many crazy flower installments like
along the along the aisle and like along the the
(03:53):
the staircase of the ceremony, and then we were gonna
have like crazy flowers on all the tables. And then
who knew flowers were so expensive and in Mexico they're
like times ten what they are like here for some reason,
and so we were like, we don't need all this,
Like we don't need all these flowers. It's so gorgeous
the setting in and of itself. So we got rid
of all of that stuff. We got rid of all
(04:14):
those extra flowers, and and like it still.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Looked stunning, it looked like expense.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Yeah, no, we didn't. We were like, let's just do
single bud based flowers. And we did it for the
welcome the welcome dinner too, because you use less flowers.
You just put one in the vase and it takes
up like more space. But yeah, we like totally cut
costs from the flower like so much cost.
Speaker 4 (04:40):
Whoa.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Yeah, where we really sprung was the Twinkle Tent. But
I feel like that's what made it.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
It was worth every penny. Yeah, the lighting, it was stunning.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
So y'all come down the stairs. Everyone tears, and then
we already talked about Sophia do well.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
I have a little bit of that too.
Speaker 6 (05:02):
But we should also mention that Tanya and Robbie took
the time, oh to write a brand written card to
every single person at.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
The wedding, every single guest I've ever even heard of.
Speaker 7 (05:12):
Such a thing, never happened before. Like that's incredible.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
It's so funny because like we agreed, like Robbery and
I are like, we really want the guest list was
like our biggest thing for the wedding, and so like
everybody that's there are people who have either been in
a part of our lives that we want in our
lives moving forward, like these were. This was like this
was like our core, and we were like, how do
we convey how important it is and how special it is.
(05:37):
Everybody took the time and the effort to like be
out here for us, and so we're like, let's write
them all like a note and Robbie goes, are you
sure you don't want to do it by like couple
like Wright to like the couple, and I'm like, no,
each individual gets their own letter, and he was like
so happy that we did it that way.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
He's like, I think it was so much better.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Haley did not stop talking about that. She was like,
I have never experienced such a thoughtful gesture from like
a bride and groom or someone someone who's like putting
on an event like that, for them to take the
time to write every single person.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
She was like, I have never experienced that in my life.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
And I everyone kept talking like it was like constantly,
and I think because I knew you were doing it.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
It didn't hit as hard hit it.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Hard, but like the more people were talking about it,
I realized, like how insanely thoughtful and just giving.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
That was one of my favorite things was getting videos,
like people were taking videos of other people like reading
their cards. Yeah, but Mark is like weeping like a baby.
We could definitely post that video on scrubbing in right,
I'll send it to Crystal, but I love it. But
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that was like one of my favorite things because that
was also we were like, what's thing because we're not
doing a seat at dinner. What's something people can do
while we're taking a couple of photos before we get there,
and we're like, oh, they can read their letters, so like,
but I was like, I want to see everybody's faces
when they do it, and so I was really glad
that like other people like caught videos of people like
reading them.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
So that was really cool.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
We did enjoy that and it was incredible, truly, and
I was I remember I think I even said on
the podcast, like you should you were thinking saying all
the things that you still needed to do, and You're like,
I need to write cards for everyone, and I was like,
take that off that nice, take that off your.
Speaker 7 (07:33):
Like one card and copy it and put it in.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
But it made a difference.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
Oh god, everyone talked about it.
Speaker 6 (07:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
It took us like and that was one of the
last things we did before we left for Mexico because
we had to wait to get like the card stock
that we did them on. But it took us like
two to three full days. We didn't like sit there
at the table like twenty four hours writing them, but.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Like, yeah, yeah, yeah, it was incredible. So first dance comes,
y'all get announced missus and mister Yadagar yes, and they
announced Sophia.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
By the way, I was going back and forth about
this MC of the night and I wanted to ask
you Mark, and Robbie was like, it's so not nice
to have a guest, like have a guest have a
like work, like make a guess work like that, and
I'm like, ah, you're right, but I think Mark would
(08:35):
like it, like I don't think it would be like
imposing on his time. But then everybody got in my
head about like it's not nice to do that, you know,
I mean, like you should have if we wanted Mark
to do it, we should have asked him like a
month ago, and like, you know, you know, I'm not
sprung it on him the night before. So then I
was like, you know what, You're right, these these band members,
this is what they do, and we'll just like let
them do it.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
I regret not having you.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
Do it again.
Speaker 6 (08:58):
I have no complaints about the whole week and so
it's not a big deal, but I would have loved to.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
I go listen, I heard the sentiment of not making
a guest work, but Mark would be honored because.
Speaker 6 (09:10):
You could have sprung it on me thirty seconds you
had me in a microphone and that would have been honored.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
So because we asked, we like floated the idea to
Paulina and she was like, ah, it feels kind of weird.
And so then I got in my head about like
a guest doing. I was like, yeah, she'd probably I
shouldn't be a guest. And then I was going to
ask you the night before at the rehearsal because I
was like, I got at.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Least give him a day.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Yeah, And then everybody got in my head about like
not asking a guest. And then as we were taking
our photos on the sunset, our wedding planner, Marger was like,
so it's not it's it's going to be the band member, right,
And I was like, well, we can't do it now.
It's so last minute.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
We can't just like go in there and ask Mark.
Speaker 6 (09:47):
So anyways, thank you for thinking of me. It's fine,
it's okay, it worked out great. Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 8 (09:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
The only reason why this is funny is because when
he announced Sophia, yeah, because she had what did you
write my butterfly sister?
Speaker 4 (10:00):
Yeah, and he said my buttery But.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
I was like, so he's like a Tanya's buttery sister.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
I was like, yeah, that's that's her, my buttery sister.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
So beyond that the announcement, I knew that what I
knew about the Sophia arrangement was that she changed the lyrics.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
I did not know she had come up with an
entire arrangement of the song. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
I didn't know that either.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
So we had told her that we wanted the songs
for four and a half minutes, and we didn't want
to be like having everybody stare at us dance for
four and a half minutes, so we were like, can
you cut it to like two two and a half minutes.
I didn't know she was going to do like a
whole new arrangement. Thank god we didn't have like a
choreographed dance. Really thrown me off.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
I'm like, because she had her cellis with her, Yeah,
like she flew her cellis so oh yeah. No.
Speaker 3 (10:58):
She took it very seriously.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
She was in rehearsals like she had a I'm taking
photos in my room. She was on with her vocal
courch like coach warming up like before, like she was
like she I don't know if you noticed, Like she
barely drank and spoke the night before because she was
like saving her voice.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
Which now makes sense because I was like, this is
she's doing a lot for just singing the song. But
when I heard when it started, oh my.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
Gosh, I know, it was like an angel came down
from heaven?
Speaker 3 (11:28):
Am I crazy?
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Is that would have found?
Speaker 2 (11:29):
It? Was an angel under the twinkly lights? It was
like an we were all ascended.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Yeah, and then she like changed the lyrics and she
made it all about the maid worn, which is where
we got engaged. Red is the color that made my.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
Stars burst round? Were the color of his eyes?
Speaker 1 (11:48):
Yeah, Like she changed all the lyrics and then the
final lyric lyric is right here, just the whole stream
telling you a lot, lady tea.
Speaker 9 (12:11):
So good.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
It's so crazy.
Speaker 4 (12:15):
I've never seen a first dance to do that.
Speaker 5 (12:19):
I was caught off guard.
Speaker 7 (12:20):
How about this now I'm getting.
Speaker 4 (12:25):
Can I play the intro of it? Because I do?
You have it?
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (12:29):
I just have.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
That's all I have is just that clip because I
wanted to like just be present and I was like,
someone's filming the whole thing.
Speaker 4 (12:46):
I guess she ended it the same way. Huh. That
was the beginning. Oh I didn't realize that she was all.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Around like there was like I felt like very like
like I felt like she was like like coming down from.
Speaker 5 (13:05):
It was.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
It was magical like that was. I can't wait to
see the video of us dancing to that because like
every lyric change, I would like cry and like seeing
her like I could tell she was getting choked up
to it was so special. Treated that like so with
such care. It was like the most important thing in
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the world to her.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
It was one of my favorite parts of the weekend. Yeah, same,
it was incredible.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
Then we do hold on.
Speaker 6 (13:36):
I think we should maybe let people know about some
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Speaker 4 (13:43):
Oh yeah, yeah, to let him know. All right, we
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are back.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
So the reception, you had the first dance and then
you did the dances of your dad.
Speaker 4 (14:12):
People wanted to know what song you danced.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
We did Van Morrison Days like this Love Days like this, Yeah,
and uh I found out like two days before we
left for Mexico, I picked the wrong song accident, No
It's day. Uh these are the days song. I'm like,
how many days Van Morris are there?
Speaker 4 (14:34):
The songs that days like this and these are.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
The days, Yes, and these are the days is the
more like beautiful one. I totally messed that up. I
was like, oh, hell, but the band. You have to
give the band like a three week it's like three
weeks that you have to tell them the songs that
they could learn them. So it was like two days
before we left from Mexico. So I was like, there's
no way I can change it now, but we did.
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Days like this, it's still beautiful, and like it was the.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
Van Morrison of it all.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
That was my connection to my dad and like he
used to play that every summer in our backyard, so
it was really about Van Morrison, not so much of
the song, but like I totally picked.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
Up the song.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Yeah, so we don't know, no one knew. And then
Robbie and his mom danced to.
Speaker 4 (15:17):
Celine Dion because you loved Me.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
Yeah, because you loved Me, which seemed to be a cloud,
a crowd pleasing. People enjoyed that, and then we went
right into the horror.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
That was the first Jewish wedding. That was my first
time experiencing that.
Speaker 4 (15:34):
Everyone should do that.
Speaker 8 (15:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
Absolutely, yeah, so fun, it's so fun, it's so fun.
Speaker 5 (15:41):
So that's a banger.
Speaker 4 (15:43):
First of all, yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
And everybody like, that's what's I love so much because
like it wasn't a so like fully jewish, Like half
of the people there had no idea what was going on,
had never even heard that song, I'm sure. And everybody
was in it, Like from the minute the party started,
every single guest was like in it. Everybody gave one
hundred and ten percent. I could not I had no
notes for anybody, Like, there was not anybody like straggling
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around like on their phone. Like everybody was locked in
and gave it all of them. It was so fun
being up in that chair. Yeah, was so fun and
also so terrifying because I'm like, I think people are
kind of drunk at this point.
Speaker 5 (16:21):
Well, and how many.
Speaker 6 (16:21):
Videes have you seen it on social media? People falling
off those chairs?
Speaker 4 (16:24):
Yeah, Like I was like sick.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Yeah, one second it's very fun, the next second it's
like terrifying.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
I have live photos of Tanya in that moment, and
every photo starts with her smiling, waving the towel, and
then the ends with her like with this terrified look
on her face.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
Yea, all have the same She was in and out
of fear and joy.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
So then the horror ends and I needed to do
my alpha change, and so I grabbed Becca, grab Robbie
and we go back to the room. I change my dress,
change my hair, Robbie changes, and then we get back out.
I don't know how long we were gone for. I
didn't feel like we were gone for the twentynutes. I
was gonna say maybe fifteen twenty minutes. Yeah, And at
that point I was like, Mamma eats to eat, Like
(17:05):
Mom's gonna go down if she doesn't eat something. So
I like finally get my plate together. Sierra runs over.
Speaker 3 (17:12):
She's wanting to take photos and then.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Like you know, like again like everybody, and I respect
it because like you want to take your photo with
like the bride and groom. But I was like, I
have to eat. So then I finally get down to
the table. I sit down to eat, and then I
Will Survive comes on, which is like my mom's favorite song.
So she's like you have to come and I was like,
if I don't eat, I'm going to fall down.
Speaker 3 (17:31):
Like I like needed.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
To eat, so after I will Survive, I was like
nobody touched me for like five minutes.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
I got to eat and then it was like.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Game on, Yeah, game on until the end of the night.
Speaker 4 (17:42):
It was so fun.
Speaker 1 (17:43):
It was so fun. The DJ crushed, the band crushed.
H I Like we had two to choose from and
we just kind of like crossed our fingers and hope
we picked the best ones and like they nailed it.
Speaker 4 (17:57):
Yeah, they were amazing on the dance floor the whole night.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
You know what. Else was really cute that we did that,
like only a couple people picked up on because it
really only impacted like two.
Speaker 3 (18:07):
Of our guests.
Speaker 1 (18:08):
But we gave every table and said we didn't want
a number table because we don't want be able to feel
like your table number one, your table number ten. So
we gave them all names that had something to do
with like our relationship, and one of the tables was
named Ace because we love to play cards. It's like
our favorite thing to do. And we sat our friends
Heather and Josh Altman at the Ace table because they
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have a son named Ace. Oh, so like they like
thought that was like really cute. And then we named
another table Delilah because that's the restaurant that Robbie asked
me to be his girlfriend. And we put the owner
of Delilah and his wife at the Delilah table. Yeah,
so like that was like really cute. Robbie had no
idea I did that.
Speaker 6 (18:49):
We were at the t R L L Table, Yeah, Trust, respect,
Lust table, the four Pillars.
Speaker 5 (18:54):
Of the Relationship.
Speaker 4 (18:55):
Oh yeah, table called Butterfly.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
Oh there was a hinge table Ringe Hydrangea.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Which is the flower that Robbie used to give me
like in the beginning of our relationship, Ace, Butterfly, t R. L. L.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Maybourne, Funny and Sonny. Yeah, those are self explanatory.
Speaker 7 (19:15):
I don't want to derail from the perception too much,
but we did miss At the welcome party, we got
a big bag of rad yad merchant. I love everything
in that bag.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
It was so rad is like the pride and joy
of Robbie's like heart. He puts so much thought and
effort into all those designs. He designed all of it
and he had like so much fun doing it.
Speaker 3 (19:37):
He loved it.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
Yeah, that, along with the cards on the table, I
think really like shocked people the like thoughtfulness.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
And the merch was so cute.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
All of the scrubbers I posted a hat and they're.
Speaker 4 (19:48):
Like, how do we get merched?
Speaker 1 (19:49):
I'm going to give some to the scrubbers because we
had so much left over because we like put in
our we had to put our order in before we
had like all the RCPs, and I was like, I'd
rat they have too much, too much.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
Than not enough. So like I like, I don't even
know what I did.
Speaker 6 (20:05):
I really rumors of scrubbers at the ceremony in the
in the restaurant that overlooked the beach.
Speaker 5 (20:12):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (20:12):
I never got confirmation on that, but there are rumors
that there were scrubbers there that booked a room in
this resort and were in the restaurant to watch the ceremony.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
From afar, I have no idea you'll.
Speaker 7 (20:22):
Neither scrubbers are trying to buy the tote bag from me.
I was getting over and I was like, a, let's
see how HI, these.
Speaker 5 (20:28):
Visits can go.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
The toads are really cute, very cute.
Speaker 4 (20:33):
Yeah, very handy for people to have.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
Yes, yes, I know, and you know it's so like
this just shows you how much is going through your brain.
When I was packing, Like I didn't pack a purse,
not a single purse, but I packed my beach bag.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
I'm like, I made beach.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
Bags for everybody. Why would I pack my beach bag
like so insane? But yeah, okay. So then my second
favorite thing that happened at the reception. There's this Taylor
Swift song that at at my bacherette party, we were
playing and like me and Sofia and Becca had like
a moment like we just had this like moment during
this Taylor Swift song. So I put it in the
(21:10):
DJ set, making sure like we played at some point
in the reception, and like it sticks out like a
sore thumb because like we did not play any Taylor Swift,
like it was very like international music. And then this
Taylor Swift song comes on that's like kind of like
is it over?
Speaker 2 (21:23):
Now?
Speaker 4 (21:23):
Is the song?
Speaker 1 (21:25):
And I felt like I was like in Rome and
Michelle's high school reunion and like every or like no Wicked,
and it was like it was like like Glinda and Alpha.
Speaker 3 (21:35):
Ba like scene where it was like me and Sofia
were just like.
Speaker 5 (21:38):
That was so it look choreographed.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Everybody thought it was choreographed.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
It was not.
Speaker 1 (21:43):
And then I was like looking everywhere for Becca because
I really wanted Beck to be there, but she was gone.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
But it was almost like we planned it because then she.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Comes in like running in halfway through and like I
in my mind it played out like a music video.
But I've been watching videos that people took and it's
like so funny seeing like people standing around being like
what is happening? Like what, like what's going on?
Speaker 3 (22:07):
But like into it, but like what's happening?
Speaker 2 (22:10):
Yeah, like mesmerise, yeah, but also like what is this?
I mostly like what's happening?
Speaker 1 (22:17):
Right, what's happening? But it's one of my favorite moments
of the night.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
I had gone, well, I didn't know that she was
playing it or that what time it was being played,
and so I had gone in the restroom and Haley
and I were walking out.
Speaker 4 (22:28):
And she's like heye, like my thong is rolled, help me?
Speaker 2 (22:31):
And I hear this song and I'm like I have
to go.
Speaker 4 (22:37):
I like ran down the stairs. I was like I
saw the dance floor parted. Yeah, that was really fun.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (22:46):
Right before we started the podcast, I was recording American
Top forty with Ryan and we played is it over now?
And Tony looked over and was given like a.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
Yeah, it's like a breakup song.
Speaker 1 (22:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
It had like no business being played at the reception,
but I was like, it was one of my favorite.
Speaker 3 (23:03):
Moments of the night.
Speaker 4 (23:03):
It was so fun.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
And then we ended there. We ended the reception with
I don't know the name of the I don't know
the name of the dance, but it's a Persian tradition
where they throw like white rose petals at the bride
and groom and it's like a very.
Speaker 5 (23:18):
It was skipped over like weald, I want to tell
you your dad.
Speaker 6 (23:21):
Oh yeah, he played a song for your dad or
traditional Serbian folk song.
Speaker 9 (23:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (23:26):
And he was extremely emotional about that, sobbing.
Speaker 1 (23:29):
I've never seen him cry like that, like hands in
his face, sobbing.
Speaker 4 (23:34):
The video is like really emotional.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
Have you send it to me?
Speaker 4 (23:38):
I thought you showed it to me.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
Oh, I have so many videos on my phone, it's
like crazy. Okay, So apparently you thought I said no
to that song, or like no to playing it or something.
Speaker 4 (23:51):
Oh. So he was surprised.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
He thought, yeah, it was a surprised and I was like, yes,
it was.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
A surprise.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
Because I saw it on like the down or something
like on the wedding schedule.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
Yes, I put it like those are that we put
the horror the Persian song with the flowers, and then
I put this song that that was my dad's favorite.
I just did it, but boy, he broke reaction.
Speaker 6 (24:17):
Yeah, you got a good DJ where you can you know,
seamlessly blend into it.
Speaker 5 (24:22):
There's serbian folk song out of I don't.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Know literally, you're so right, but that was pretty. That
was pretty emotional. I was like, whoa, Yeah, it was beautiful.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Yeah, the whole thing. It was so fun because everyone
was on the dance floor. Even if they were on
the dance floor, they were like in the lawn dancing
in the back, like you just sew people in like
little sex floor, so people would just be like off
like in the.
Speaker 4 (24:51):
Lawn dancing or you know. It was just fun.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (24:55):
And by the way, in case anyone was wondering, Ryan
was there for the entire I mean I left a
little earlier than when it was over, but he was
there and he was dancing with Robbie's aunts and stuff.
Speaker 3 (25:06):
Yes, everyone really in it.
Speaker 7 (25:10):
The DJ played Give Me Everything by Pitbull and Ryan
gets mentioned in that song, and I was really hoping
we were Mark and I were like the second.
Speaker 5 (25:17):
Version, we were so ready.
Speaker 6 (25:18):
We got our cameras out, like they're going to say
Seacrest and then he mixed it out.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Yeah dang.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
And then the reception ended with Robbie giving a speech
like saying thank you to everyone, and.
Speaker 4 (25:33):
It was so emotional. Again we all thought we had
gotten through the crying.
Speaker 2 (25:39):
And then Robbie gets the mic again to say thank
you to everybody and is just like so humble and
gracious and grateful thanking everybody, and he the boys are
up there with Tanya, and it was just I was like,
round of applause for just the most beautiful weekend top
(26:01):
to bottom.
Speaker 1 (26:02):
Yeah, that speech was emotional, very emotional.
Speaker 3 (26:06):
Yeah, he was very weepy.
Speaker 4 (26:08):
And then we had Saturday.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
But but the night did end.
Speaker 4 (26:13):
It did not, which we will get to when we
come back.
Speaker 1 (26:33):
All right.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
We forgot something about the reception, which was the bouquet toss.
Speaker 1 (26:38):
I wasn't going to do the bouquet toss and then
people were like no, yeah.
Speaker 3 (26:41):
I was like, I was so drunk that way.
Speaker 5 (26:46):
Do you think you had, by the way.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
A lot.
Speaker 4 (26:48):
Yeah, you didn't even finish the one I get.
Speaker 9 (26:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
No.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
So my thing is I never take a full shot.
I take half and then I pass it off. This
took a lot of halbs.
Speaker 4 (26:58):
I took a lot of habs, Okay.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
I wasn't like I didn't get sick at all. I
was never like sick from being drunk. So I think
it was like the perfect amount of drama. But I
did the bouquet toss, and like ninety percent of my
wedding were married people, and so I uh, there was
a small pool of single ladies on the dance floor.
(27:21):
I throw my bouquet out and it just goes over everybody.
Everyone watch does they go over their heads? I'm like,
can someone at least just like throw up a hand
for this, like come on?
Speaker 3 (27:32):
So then I go.
Speaker 1 (27:33):
Back and do it again, toss the bouquet and it
literally lands like perfectly in Paulina's hands.
Speaker 2 (27:41):
Like no one even no one made an effort, but
they didn't need to because.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
It was like divine intervention, a magnet. Yeah, I'm moth
to a flame.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
The first almost hit me in the head, like I
was turned around trying to get Haley and Uni on the.
Speaker 4 (27:56):
Out for the bouquet toss.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
Yeah, and you didn't know, so you did, And I
just see it land on the floor behind me, and
I'm like what.
Speaker 3 (28:04):
Yeah, I was like, dang, nobody wants to touch this UK.
Speaker 4 (28:09):
But it went straight to Paulina.
Speaker 3 (28:12):
So did go straight to Paulina?
Speaker 1 (28:13):
So TBC.
Speaker 4 (28:17):
So yeah, we the reception ends and they.
Speaker 1 (28:21):
Had like eleven and ended out like eleven, right, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
And Robbie had mentioned wanting everyone to go jump in
the ocean.
Speaker 3 (28:28):
I'm sad he didn't get that moment, honestly.
Speaker 2 (28:30):
You know what, though, I personally don't think he cared
because when we were there a few days early and
it was like hot and sunny and we got in
the water, it was very cold water.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
He didn't seem sad. Yeah, I was just sad that
he didn't have his moment. So then I was like,
why don't we just like do it in the hot tub,
like everybody go jump in the hot tub, And he's like,
not really the same Like the pool. The pool was
so warm. I wish we would have done the pool anyway.
I wish he had his moment because that's all we wanted.
Speaker 2 (28:58):
Yeah, but it was the water was so golden. I
was saying about how drunk everyone was and getting in
the ocean.
Speaker 4 (29:03):
I'm like, this is dangerous.
Speaker 1 (29:04):
Tied was high, Tied, the tide is high, so we
go to the restaurant.
Speaker 4 (29:09):
They keep the restaurant open for us.
Speaker 2 (29:11):
They start sending in It's like chicken fingers and French
fries and casadas, and we are just like ravenous.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
Rat I was ravenous. I don't think I ate more
chicken fingers in my life.
Speaker 2 (29:22):
Tony was eating chicken fingers dipped in ranch, dipped in ketch.
Speaker 5 (29:26):
Of a chicken hands.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
Yeah yeah, yeah. And so we raged there until I
think it was like one something when we all walked back.
Speaker 4 (29:38):
To your room.
Speaker 3 (29:39):
Yeah, it was Saturday. I wanted to end.
Speaker 2 (29:42):
I know, we dropped all off, said you're on your own,
husband and wife.
Speaker 3 (29:49):
Everything.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
When I tell you, it like exceeded all expectations, Like
and I honestly, I know it took me a long
time to like decide on the venue, but I feel
like the hotel the we chose was so perfect for
the vibe that we wanted.
Speaker 4 (30:03):
Yes, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (30:04):
Like every spot that we.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Did, everything like felt so us beautiful but like a
sense of chill, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (30:14):
Like it was everything wrapped it wrapped up into one.
Speaker 4 (30:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (30:18):
I think everyone said that it was just the location
was perfect. The guest list was perfect. The food was great.
Everything was just ideal. The weather was perfect.
Speaker 3 (30:29):
Did you guys have the dessert?
Speaker 5 (30:30):
No?
Speaker 3 (30:32):
Yeah, the chocolate hazelnut?
Speaker 5 (30:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (30:34):
I had.
Speaker 4 (30:34):
Both of them.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
Were delicious, right, so good, so good. I was like
dreaming about that like two weeks before the wedding. Can't
wait to eat it again. We did not have a cake.
We did not do a cake cutting.
Speaker 2 (30:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (30:48):
People were asking about the cake.
Speaker 3 (30:50):
No cake, no cake.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
When you taste a delicious hazelnut chocolate bar like that
and adult ja de leja banana, whatever the hell that was,
when you taste that and then they say you can
have that or a cake, you take that?
Speaker 5 (31:03):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get that.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
Yeah yeah a lot of people also had questions about
Robbie's facial hair, because we were all under the impression
that four or five, whatever you chose, was going to
be welcome party and then wedding day.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
Yeah he reversed it, Oh he did. I think it
was day four for the welcome party and then he
shaved it down to like a day one for the wedding.
Speaker 5 (31:26):
How did you feel about that?
Speaker 4 (31:29):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (31:29):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (31:30):
I let him do his thing. I prefer them a
little harrier oh, but I also respect the fact that
he wanted to be a little more trim on the
wedding day.
Speaker 6 (31:38):
It's really a lot of pressure because those pictures are
going to live for the rest of your lives.
Speaker 5 (31:41):
You're going to see them every day for the rest
of your lives.
Speaker 6 (31:43):
So twenty three years married, we have a big picture
in the playroom.
Speaker 5 (31:48):
It's not like you're going to see it forever.
Speaker 2 (31:50):
Yeah, so I deferred, oh because I okay, So now
I feel better because he he made that decision. Yeah.
You had always thought that you were too sing what
you wanted, which was gonna be like four or.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
Five day Yeah, but I got that at the wild Front, right,
So like I got mine, he got his, you know.
Speaker 2 (32:07):
Yeah, ye yeah, marriage compromise, compromise.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
I'd thank you, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2 (32:15):
Oh. People were asking about me finding my dress and
how I chose my dress.
Speaker 1 (32:19):
Oh so, so nobody even knows this, but Becca had
butterflies in her dress.
Speaker 2 (32:24):
Oh yeah, there was like a really faint print that
had butterflies, and I didn't know when I ordered it.
So I ordered two dresses and I just send them
to Tanya, like I'm gonna bring both of these. But
do you have a preference? And she zoomed in and
there was a butterfly on like my shoulder. She didn't
plan it, and she goes, did you know there's butterflies
on this dress? And I was like, no, I didn't know,
(32:44):
and she it has to be that one. So that's
that's how I chose it.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
It has to be.
Speaker 3 (32:48):
How could she not have worn that?
Speaker 1 (32:49):
Yeah, my bridesmaids all looked amazing by the way the
dresses like compliment each other perfectly.
Speaker 2 (32:55):
Yeah, the colors were great. I love that everyone's felt
like their personality.
Speaker 4 (32:59):
Yeah, totally, it's great.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
The nuts literally no, No, My hair and makeup teams
said that they do weddings all the time and they're like,
I've never experienced a bridal party like yours. They were
on it, they were attentive, they were like like, those
are my girls, right.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
So the next day was the pool party, yes, at
the hotel, and y'all rented out all the cabanas and
basically the whole adults only pool was ours.
Speaker 1 (33:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (33:28):
A couple of people that were not involved in.
Speaker 4 (33:30):
The wedding didn't notice, didn't notice them.
Speaker 3 (33:33):
Yeah, honestly, I.
Speaker 2 (33:34):
Was just like, didn't see them last night. Nope, didn't
get to meet them. Maybe they weren't even part of
the wedding.
Speaker 3 (33:40):
We had coconuts with our logo printed on them too, I.
Speaker 4 (33:43):
Shall do that. That was just incredible.
Speaker 1 (33:46):
We spent the whole last night chot ourselves, chiseling away.
Speaker 4 (33:53):
Sophia was just chiseling.
Speaker 9 (33:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (33:56):
But you know what's interesting, I didn't realize it within
the planning. I didn't know ever was going to go
so hard on Friday. I thought Saturday it was going
to be like a little bit more like intense. I
thought it was gonna be like a kind of like
a raging pool party. Oh interesting, And it wasn't. But
it was like so perfect.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
It was perfect. It was like I had a couple
of drinks at this one in the bar.
Speaker 1 (34:14):
Yeah, Like in the pole, people were like in cabanas
with like their immediate friends. People were laying out like
it was very like chill, mingling mingly, yeah, mingly, meshy.
People would like leave to go get a SPA treatment
and come back like it was like chill.
Speaker 4 (34:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (34:31):
I loved it.
Speaker 4 (34:31):
Yeah, me too, And I think everyone loved it.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (34:34):
I feel like it was a perfect finale. Finale event.
Speaker 1 (34:38):
Okay as guests, because I feel like you see everything
so different, like as a bride. What was all of
your favorite parts of the whole weekend?
Speaker 5 (34:50):
The whole weekend.
Speaker 6 (34:51):
My favorite part of the whole weekend was at the
reception and we were dancing, and I was kind of
on the outskirts of the dance floor and just kind of,
you know, I don't want to be the guy that's
just sitting there the whole time, but I'm not necessarily
going to be the center of the dance floor either,
so I just kind of doing my thing. And then
you came and got me and pulled me into the
middle of the dance floor right around the time we
started to hear Game start and then APT started, and
(35:13):
then it was off and we just it was APT
and then it was Hot to Go, and then it
was Uptown Funk, and then it was mister Bright's side,
and that that arc of songs right there, that was
the high point of pop probably my year up to
this point.
Speaker 5 (35:26):
It was just the greatest. You didn't leave the dance
floor after that, I kind of didn't.
Speaker 3 (35:31):
You were just in there.
Speaker 5 (35:32):
I kind of established my place.
Speaker 1 (35:34):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, And then.
Speaker 6 (35:35):
Everyone was recording me and sending videos of me and
laughing at me. But it was a really great time.
Speaker 3 (35:41):
I don't think people were laughing at you know, I
think they I think they were.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
No, I think they they were sending posting them for
the scrub scrubbing in because they love it when you dance.
Speaker 5 (35:50):
You're sure, Okay, I got so many people.
Speaker 4 (35:53):
I have so many requests to film you all dancing.
Speaker 6 (35:56):
Well, that's okay, I've just done. Know what the motivation
is there, you know what I'm saying. But like Ryan
was making fun, Like Ryan was joking, Ronnie was laughing.
Speaker 1 (36:07):
Oh really, I think so.
Speaker 7 (36:10):
I got a video of you dance an apt and
I watched that video ten thousand times because, like you
like give Robbie, it's like big hug and a high five,
and there's just so much joy.
Speaker 5 (36:19):
It's all joy.
Speaker 7 (36:20):
It's so it's so infectious to watch. I just like
that night, I was just falling asleep watching the video.
Speaker 1 (36:24):
I like everybody was like that. I felt like everybody
was like I feel like Robby and I dance with
everybody at the wedding.
Speaker 3 (36:32):
Somehow, the whole.
Speaker 5 (36:33):
Weekend was joy and love.
Speaker 6 (36:34):
Yeah, that's what it felt like and this and this
is a more and more personal note. It just felt
like by overwhelming feeling that weekend, especially at the reception, was.
Speaker 5 (36:45):
I'm gonna get emotional.
Speaker 6 (36:47):
You make a lot of decisions in life to get
to where you end up, and that's how I felt.
Speaker 5 (36:53):
I felt I've made.
Speaker 6 (36:54):
A lot of right decisions that I'm here at this
spot with these people.
Speaker 3 (36:59):
That's how I felt.
Speaker 8 (37:02):
Nice, It's it's so fun.
Speaker 7 (37:14):
I was thinking about this the other day, like it
didn't I didn't feel like it was like, oh, I'm
here with people I work with, you know, Like it
was like if everyone felt like family there. It was
so it was there's so much love. It's so hard
to pick a favorite part of that weekend, like my.
Speaker 5 (37:30):
Gut, but see.
Speaker 7 (37:33):
I was I couldn't wait to see you walk down
the aisle, And when I saw you, it was I
was thinking about everything you've been through, everything you've wanted
and then seen like in three D physical space like
I was just it was it was everything everything you
know that that I dreamed of, that everyone listening is
(37:54):
dreamed of.
Speaker 5 (37:55):
It was.
Speaker 7 (37:55):
It was like watching the Princess.
Speaker 4 (37:56):
It was so great.
Speaker 7 (37:58):
I love seeing you walked down when I first saw
you and your dad walked down the aisles like this,
this is the moment, and and seeing you up there
with Robbie and all the times you almost kissed. I
love the ceremony, I think was what I kept replaying.
Speaker 2 (38:10):
In my head.
Speaker 7 (38:10):
I love that so much.
Speaker 2 (38:13):
Yeah, I mean, well, I agree. I think the whole
the whole weekend, I could find something in every moment,
but I think that right when Sophia started singing and
I have it on video, Robbie like did this motion
where he like hugged you like three times, and it
(38:35):
was this moment of like like we got here, you know,
like we did it, and it was like watching y'all
have this like joyful moment that we have been also
waiting for with you, you know, like this journey has
been all of us collectively, like the listeners, like all
(38:59):
of it felt like it came to this like moment
and it was like the twinkle lights and Sophia's voice
and this song that has had so much significance on
National Butterfly with like y'all's favorite people, and it was
just like I felt Robbie like have this moment. And
(39:19):
I guess the other thing was like I knew, I
know how much you love Robbie, and I know how
much Robbie loves you, but something about Robbie like it
felt like y'all were so locked in on like we
did this together, and like we got here together, and
we planned it together, and like.
Speaker 1 (39:35):
I think that like obviously you guys have seen like
my side of the journey and like my side of everything,
but like he's been through hell and back, and I
think for his family it was like the same feeling
on his end, you know what I mean, Yeah, he's
gone through so much and he finally gets his happily
ever after, and so it was like what you guys
were feeling on my side. I think his family was
also feeling on his side for him.
Speaker 3 (39:55):
So yeah, all of it.
Speaker 4 (39:57):
And that's what we were saying.
Speaker 2 (39:58):
I would talk to so many people and I was
like the way I kept describing that, the feeling all
weekend with everybody was like this joy for you guys.
And it's also like it was such a testament of
like the people that y'all are, because you know they
say like if you show someone your friends and like
the people in their life, it's a telling part of
(40:19):
who you are, and I was thinking about how much
joy and celebration and like.
Speaker 4 (40:26):
Happiness there was in that room for y'all, and.
Speaker 2 (40:28):
That's because of y'all, like you put that towards everybody,
like y'all have made sure to make every single person
that y'all encounter feel special, even at your own wedding
cards for everyone, like you made sure to dance with everyone,
you address everyone, And it was just like, I hope
that y'all felt that back so much, because that's what
the energy felt like the whole weekend, at least for me.
Speaker 1 (40:50):
We did. We both were just like we couldn't get over.
And then like like you know, like you're in it
and you're the bride and groom, like of course you're
having fun. We're like, yeah, is everybody else having fun?
Like we're like it seems like they are, but like
you know what.
Speaker 3 (41:01):
I mean, like you just can't tell.
Speaker 4 (41:03):
Everyone gets a survey in the room at.
Speaker 1 (41:05):
The end, Yeah, right, a zero to five and they're
like one, No, who is the guess that surprised you
the most, or like maybe that you love the most
that you didn't know, not like it asked me somebody
that you didn't know.
Speaker 5 (41:19):
I mean I knew. I feel like I knew so
many people.
Speaker 7 (41:22):
We sat on the welcome party. We sat with some
of Robbie's childhood or one of Robby's childhood friends.
Speaker 5 (41:27):
We sat with Seth.
Speaker 7 (41:29):
We hung out with him and his wife the whole
weekend and they were so cool and we had such.
Speaker 5 (41:34):
A good time with them.
Speaker 7 (41:35):
And something Seth said that I really liked is I
was like, oh, you know, what was it? Like? Uh,
what's it like being here and seeing Robbie in this
like phase of life? And he's He's like, I have
never in our entire lives seen him as happy as
he was with Tanya, like, and he was so excited
because I was so welcome party. He's like, I'm so
excited for tomorrow because that. And I was like, okay, okay, cool,
(41:59):
this guy is the real deal. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (42:01):
They were.
Speaker 7 (42:02):
They were they were rad. We hung out with them.
Speaker 3 (42:03):
Okay, okay, fun, that was good answer.
Speaker 5 (42:06):
I talked to your mom and dad more than I
talk to anybody, I think.
Speaker 1 (42:09):
Okay, so my mom and my dad.
Speaker 6 (42:11):
Dad, we chat with both of them, and they were
both they were very I don't know, we just had
a really great connection just talking about you and all
you've been through in your radio career in the last
fifteen years.
Speaker 5 (42:22):
And it was really sweet. It was really nice to
get to know them better.
Speaker 9 (42:24):
Oh great answer, I would say, so Robbie's brother first
of all, that was my first time spending time with them.
Speaker 2 (42:36):
More like David and his family. David is so awesome. Yeah,
and Nonah was. I mean I knew already. I've spent
more time with Nona, I feel and talked to her,
but Nonah's parents, specifically her dad Cookie, every time we
ran into them with Haley, they were so curious about
(42:59):
her and us and ask so many questions and I
was just like, wow, like they are you know, it's
just getting to know more of Robbie's side of the family.
And then that was even like his extended family was
really cool. But every single person that I got to
meet and talked to, I was like, I get it. Wow, Yeah,
I love that.
Speaker 4 (43:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:21):
But it was so fun getting to see people like
Charme and like people that I just get to see
here and there every now and then.
Speaker 3 (43:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:28):
That it was just so fun to get to see
them celebrating, y'all.
Speaker 4 (43:32):
It was so fun.
Speaker 1 (43:34):
It was the best ever. It literally was the best
weekend of our lives, like top to bottom.
Speaker 6 (43:39):
All right, real quickly, if you have your wedding Bengo card,
get it out now, here's what we got put it.
You can mark these off as we go. Cake smash
in the face. No, someone other than bride wearing white. Yes, yeah,
the booquet is tossed and got caught. Yes, Robbie crying, Tiny, crying,
Mark crying, Easton, crying, Becker crying all yes. Is someone
gives a toast it was not scheduled to do so.
Speaker 5 (43:59):
No?
Speaker 6 (43:59):
No, Oh, someone trips on Tanya's dress. No, I don't
think your dad tripped on your dress. Wardrobe malfunction, not
that I'm aware of. Sonny poops during the ceremony.
Speaker 3 (44:11):
No, nope.
Speaker 6 (44:12):
Someone vomits at the reception. I mean there was vomiting
after the welcome party.
Speaker 4 (44:17):
No, one, we don't really need to rehash that. And
I'm sure it wasn't just me.
Speaker 6 (44:21):
I'm saying, yes, though, I'm saying give yourself credit for vomiting.
Someone ignores black tie and dresses too casually. Yes, definitely,
definitely garter toffed and caught. No speech longer than five minutes. Yes,
Ryan asked if anyone objects. No, he did not say
kiss a family, did not say tea rad he did
not say buy you a drink. Group dance, I say
(44:42):
yes because of the Beyonce Texas hold him.
Speaker 2 (44:46):
Oh yeah yeah, there was no chaw slide built.
Speaker 5 (44:49):
Yeah, sing along on the dance floor.
Speaker 9 (44:52):
Many.
Speaker 3 (44:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (44:53):
Bride's maid mentions Tanya's dating history in her speech. Yes, yes,
and someone reached some First Corinthians.
Speaker 5 (44:58):
Yes, yes, call that one. So there you go. I
hope you got bingo.
Speaker 4 (45:06):
Wow, that sounds like.
Speaker 3 (45:07):
A lot of bingos on that car.
Speaker 4 (45:08):
Yeah, they probably got a probably a high number of bingos.
Speaker 2 (45:12):
Had Ye, they should get Tanya Merch TNR Merch Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (45:16):
Yeah, I have to go through all that, the amount
of just like unpacking and like the aftermath, Like what
do I do with my wedding dress?
Speaker 5 (45:24):
Now, well that's a good question.
Speaker 7 (45:26):
I think Amy still has hers, Allison has hers.
Speaker 3 (45:30):
I think I'm gonna make it into a mini cute.
Speaker 5 (45:33):
That you can like wear casually.
Speaker 3 (45:35):
No, I'd wear it like on our anniversary or something.
Speaker 9 (45:38):
You know.
Speaker 2 (45:38):
I'm like, you could just do your reception dress if
you wanted to do a mini.
Speaker 3 (45:42):
What am I going to do with this wedding dress?
Speaker 4 (45:44):
Just save it? Yeah, you save it, save it.
Speaker 5 (45:47):
Maybe your daughter would like it one day.
Speaker 3 (45:48):
Or maybe I'm not the I'm not putting pressure.
Speaker 4 (45:52):
It's not pressure.
Speaker 2 (45:54):
I had a dress that I loved and she kept
it for me. I would be so honored.
Speaker 1 (45:59):
And what if it was like blue and had like.
Speaker 2 (46:01):
Then I'd be like, I thank you so much for
saying this. But maybe maybe I can take a piece
of it and sew it onto minor but like there,
it could be such a special thing. It's it's stunning.
Why would you instantly make it a mini dress?
Speaker 1 (46:14):
I wasn't gonna make it a mini but I was
thinking about making it like somebody no, like like taking
off the train and like like making it not like long.
Speaker 4 (46:22):
I'm just saying I would preserve it. I would preserve
it at least at least for a year.
Speaker 1 (46:29):
Be honest that her was sitting in her closet for
nine years and she donated it.
Speaker 6 (46:35):
Scrubber getting married to you's wedding dress. We'll have a
little contest.
Speaker 1 (46:40):
I'm gonna take out because my something blue at the
bottom was like a note that Robbie when he asked
me to be his girlfriend. He got it written on
blue fabric or like blue ink fabric handwriting, and.
Speaker 3 (46:50):
Then we stitch it into the bottom of my dress.
That was my something blue.
Speaker 1 (46:53):
But I could I could take that piece out and
like frame that and like make that be kind of
like my moment toe, you know what I mean, that
little patch of my.
Speaker 4 (47:02):
Wh Why are you so anti keeping your dress?
Speaker 3 (47:05):
Anti?
Speaker 1 (47:06):
Just like it's going to cost so much money to
clean and preserve because you have to put it in
this like preserve. It's like thousands of dollars, like for.
Speaker 7 (47:13):
To say, yeah, maybe I cheaved out on it. It
was I padd like three hundred dollars to have it.
Speaker 1 (47:22):
They put it in like some special thing, and I
think it's at least like a thousand dollars nowadays if
you did it the right way post COVID, everything's doubled.
Speaker 5 (47:29):
You've married what eight years?
Speaker 4 (47:30):
Maybe it's going up inflation.
Speaker 2 (47:35):
Well, let's just think on it before we start taking
to it with.
Speaker 3 (47:40):
Some s not going to be like cutting itself.
Speaker 2 (47:42):
Yeah, and maybe some people have great ideas of what
they did always come through it, Yeah, yeah, yeah. Any
any news on when you're posting photos for the for the.
Speaker 1 (47:53):
People, hopefully tomorrow or by the end of today.
Speaker 4 (47:59):
Okay, yeah, yeah, stay tuned.
Speaker 3 (48:01):
It was I can get into that later.
Speaker 2 (48:06):
That's all for now. I feel like we answered everything.
Do we miss anything?
Speaker 3 (48:11):
No, I don't think so. Mark.
Speaker 5 (48:13):
I have questions, you know, let us know to answer them.
Speaker 2 (48:17):
All right, Well, we will be back on Thursday with
Dylan Ephron.
Speaker 5 (48:24):
He is so baby girl.
Speaker 2 (48:27):
Is so baby girl the definition of baby girl, but
not the mood.
Speaker 4 (48:31):
Not to be confused with the movie Baby Girl.
Speaker 1 (48:33):
Correct.
Speaker 2 (48:34):
Just have to make that clear. So we'll be back Thursday.
We love you so much.
Speaker 1 (48:39):
We love you.
Speaker 4 (48:40):
Congratulations.
Speaker 3 (48:43):
Yeah, have to change my handle?
Speaker 4 (48:46):
Are the people are asking if you're going to change it?
Speaker 1 (48:49):
I have to do all and like my voicemail. My
sister in law called me and she was like, tany
your body is.
Speaker 3 (48:53):
So who is this?
Speaker 4 (48:55):
I love Hi? This is Tanya.
Speaker 3 (48:59):
I can't change until get my voice back though.
Speaker 4 (49:01):
Yeah, I give it some time.
Speaker 1 (49:02):
Yeah, all right, we'll have somebody changed my name.
Speaker 2 (49:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (49:05):
Lots to do, lots
Speaker 1 (49:10):
Bye bye
Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in scrub.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Dub Dub and the wife.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
A tub tub.
Speaker 4 (00:18):
This is part two of the wedding recap.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Tanya and Becca's version. I think we need to have version.
Speaker 5 (00:27):
Maybe we'll have.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Yeah, Oh, I see, We'll see it could Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
I'm just saying it could be its own thing because
I feel like being in the wedding and being a
guest and a wedding of two very different perspectives.
Speaker 5 (00:39):
Sure.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Yeah, I forgot to mention this on the part one.
The weather was.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
When I was walking down I finally I was like,
I should have just been outside all day and let
the wind hit me. Because as soon as the fresh
air was on me and I was in that moment,
I was like revived. It was like the most per
picked weather I've ever experienced.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
It was perfect.
Speaker 6 (01:03):
It's perfect, And I have to admit I was wrong
because when she was planning this, I was like, Tanya,
just pick a place you can't control the weather.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
It's gonna be fine. Just do it in La It's
the best climate in the world.
Speaker 6 (01:13):
Range sometimes in La in March and sure enough that
day in Los Angeles.
Speaker 5 (01:18):
Was rating, so I was wrong.
Speaker 6 (01:21):
She chose correctly and wow.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
And it was also National Butterfly Day?
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Was that planned?
Speaker 1 (01:30):
What if I told you this was accidental?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:34):
No no, no no no?
Speaker 5 (01:35):
And a blood moon and.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Period money like everything?
Speaker 4 (01:42):
Did you know the National Butterfly Day?
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I feel like you saw someone call your mastermind and
now you're playing into there's no way.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Wudn't you like to know?
Speaker 1 (01:54):
No, we didn't pick the date because it was National
Butterfly Day. But it's so funny because everything honestly works
out to your benefit. Because we were obviously planning on
having a wedding on Saturday, as most people get married
on Saturdays, and they ended up booking the Garden, which
is where we wanted to have our reception for like
a corporate dinner the Saturday that weekend, which we had
(02:16):
already kind of like locked down that weekend. So Rob
and I were like so upset about it, and it
could not have worked out better because I feel like
having the weddings, the actual ceremony of the reception on
a Friday, and then having that next day to still
be with everybody and like not have to like rush
to the airport and go home. The next day was
like such a blessing, Yes, and that it was National
(02:39):
Butterfly Day, like it all.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
I was like, this is it. That's what was meant
to be. It's what I meant to be. I literally
was saying.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
I told Haley, I was like, we will do a
Friday wedding because if we do a destination having people
have the time to hang out Saturday and then still
have that full day or Sunday to go back.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Because like the most people will do like a brif
it's a destination, they'll do like a bunch on the Sunday.
But like nobody wants to go. You're trying to get
to an airport, you're trying to pack. But also like
look cute for this brunch for the bride, you know
what I mean. Like it's like there's a lot going on.
So like, I don't know, it just totally worked out.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
So after the ceremony you went and took photos. Yeah, Robbie, quickly, quickly, quickly,
we all headed to the reception area, which again it
was a tent of twinkle lights and all the tables
were set up and all the tables had a theme.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
First of all, it makes me so happy that you
said that it was like so beautiful because we did
it like I don't want to say low budget, but
like what we stripped down so much of the Like
we were gonna have so many crazy flower installments like
along the along the aisle and like along the the
(03:53):
the staircase of the ceremony, and then we were gonna
have like crazy flowers on all the tables. And then
who knew flowers were so expensive and in Mexico they're
like times ten what they are like here for some reason,
and so we were like, we don't need all this,
Like we don't need all these flowers. It's so gorgeous
the setting in and of itself. So we got rid
of all of that stuff. We got rid of all
(04:14):
those extra flowers, and and like it still.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Looked stunning, it looked like expense.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Yeah, no, we didn't. We were like, let's just do
single bud based flowers. And we did it for the
welcome the welcome dinner too, because you use less flowers.
You just put one in the vase and it takes
up like more space. But yeah, we like totally cut
costs from the flower like so much cost.
Speaker 4 (04:40):
Whoa.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Yeah, where we really sprung was the Twinkle Tent. But
I feel like that's what made it.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
It was worth every penny. Yeah, the lighting, it was stunning.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
So y'all come down the stairs. Everyone tears, and then
we already talked about Sophia do well.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
I have a little bit of that too.
Speaker 6 (05:02):
But we should also mention that Tanya and Robbie took
the time, oh to write a brand written card to
every single person at.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
The wedding, every single guest I've ever even heard of.
Speaker 7 (05:12):
Such a thing, never happened before. Like that's incredible.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
It's so funny because like we agreed, like Robbery and
I are like, we really want the guest list was
like our biggest thing for the wedding, and so like
everybody that's there are people who have either been in
a part of our lives that we want in our
lives moving forward, like these were. This was like this
was like our core, and we were like, how do
we convey how important it is and how special it is.
(05:37):
Everybody took the time and the effort to like be
out here for us, and so we're like, let's write
them all like a note and Robbie goes, are you
sure you don't want to do it by like couple
like Wright to like the couple, and I'm like, no,
each individual gets their own letter, and he was like
so happy that we did it that way.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
He's like, I think it was so much better.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Haley did not stop talking about that. She was like,
I have never experienced such a thoughtful gesture from like
a bride and groom or someone someone who's like putting
on an event like that, for them to take the
time to write every single person.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
She was like, I have never experienced that in my life.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
And I everyone kept talking like it was like constantly,
and I think because I knew you were doing it.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
It didn't hit as hard hit it.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Hard, but like the more people were talking about it,
I realized, like how insanely thoughtful and just giving.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
That was one of my favorite things was getting videos,
like people were taking videos of other people like reading
their cards. Yeah, but Mark is like weeping like a baby.
We could definitely post that video on scrubbing in right,
I'll send it to Crystal, but I love it. But
(06:57):
that was like one of my favorite things because that
was also we were like, what's thing because we're not
doing a seat at dinner. What's something people can do
while we're taking a couple of photos before we get there,
and we're like, oh, they can read their letters, so like,
but I was like, I want to see everybody's faces
when they do it, and so I was really glad
that like other people like caught videos of people like
reading them.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
So that was really cool.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
We did enjoy that and it was incredible, truly, and
I was I remember I think I even said on
the podcast, like you should you were thinking saying all
the things that you still needed to do, and You're like,
I need to write cards for everyone, and I was like,
take that off that nice, take that off your.
Speaker 7 (07:33):
Like one card and copy it and put it in.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
But it made a difference.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
Oh god, everyone talked about it.
Speaker 6 (07:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
It took us like and that was one of the
last things we did before we left for Mexico because
we had to wait to get like the card stock
that we did them on. But it took us like
two to three full days. We didn't like sit there
at the table like twenty four hours writing them, but.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Like, yeah, yeah, yeah, it was incredible. So first dance comes,
y'all get announced missus and mister Yadagar yes, and they
announced Sophia.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
By the way, I was going back and forth about
this MC of the night and I wanted to ask
you Mark, and Robbie was like, it's so not nice
to have a guest, like have a guest have a
like work, like make a guess work like that, and
I'm like, ah, you're right, but I think Mark would
(08:35):
like it, like I don't think it would be like
imposing on his time. But then everybody got in my
head about like it's not nice to do that, you know,
I mean, like you should have if we wanted Mark
to do it, we should have asked him like a
month ago, and like, you know, you know, I'm not
sprung it on him the night before. So then I
was like, you know what, You're right, these these band members,
this is what they do, and we'll just like let
them do it.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
I regret not having you.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
Do it again.
Speaker 6 (08:58):
I have no complaints about the whole week and so
it's not a big deal, but I would have loved to.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
I go listen, I heard the sentiment of not making
a guest work, but Mark would be honored because.
Speaker 6 (09:10):
You could have sprung it on me thirty seconds you
had me in a microphone and that would have been honored.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
So because we asked, we like floated the idea to
Paulina and she was like, ah, it feels kind of weird.
And so then I got in my head about like
a guest doing. I was like, yeah, she'd probably I
shouldn't be a guest. And then I was going to
ask you the night before at the rehearsal because I
was like, I got at.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Least give him a day.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Yeah, And then everybody got in my head about like
not asking a guest. And then as we were taking
our photos on the sunset, our wedding planner, Marger was like,
so it's not it's it's going to be the band member, right,
And I was like, well, we can't do it now.
It's so last minute.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
We can't just like go in there and ask Mark.
Speaker 6 (09:47):
So anyways, thank you for thinking of me. It's fine,
it's okay, it worked out great. Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 8 (09:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
The only reason why this is funny is because when
he announced Sophia, yeah, because she had what did you
write my butterfly sister?
Speaker 4 (10:00):
Yeah, and he said my buttery But.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
I was like, so he's like a Tanya's buttery sister.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
I was like, yeah, that's that's her, my buttery sister.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
So beyond that the announcement, I knew that what I
knew about the Sophia arrangement was that she changed the lyrics.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
I did not know she had come up with an
entire arrangement of the song. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
I didn't know that either.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
So we had told her that we wanted the songs
for four and a half minutes, and we didn't want
to be like having everybody stare at us dance for
four and a half minutes, so we were like, can
you cut it to like two two and a half minutes.
I didn't know she was going to do like a
whole new arrangement. Thank god we didn't have like a
choreographed dance. Really thrown me off.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
I'm like, because she had her cellis with her, Yeah,
like she flew her cellis so oh yeah. No.
Speaker 3 (10:58):
She took it very seriously.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
She was in rehearsals like she had a I'm taking
photos in my room. She was on with her vocal
courch like coach warming up like before, like she was
like she I don't know if you noticed, Like she
barely drank and spoke the night before because she was
like saving her voice.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
Which now makes sense because I was like, this is
she's doing a lot for just singing the song. But
when I heard when it started, oh my.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
Gosh, I know, it was like an angel came down
from heaven?
Speaker 3 (11:28):
Am I crazy?
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Is that would have found?
Speaker 2 (11:29):
It? Was an angel under the twinkly lights? It was
like an we were all ascended.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Yeah, and then she like changed the lyrics and she
made it all about the maid worn, which is where
we got engaged. Red is the color that made my.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
Stars burst round? Were the color of his eyes?
Speaker 1 (11:48):
Yeah, Like she changed all the lyrics and then the
final lyric lyric is right here, just the whole stream
telling you a lot, lady tea.
Speaker 9 (12:11):
So good.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
It's so crazy.
Speaker 4 (12:15):
I've never seen a first dance to do that.
Speaker 5 (12:19):
I was caught off guard.
Speaker 7 (12:20):
How about this now I'm getting.
Speaker 4 (12:25):
Can I play the intro of it? Because I do?
You have it?
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (12:29):
I just have.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
That's all I have is just that clip because I
wanted to like just be present and I was like,
someone's filming the whole thing.
Speaker 4 (12:46):
I guess she ended it the same way. Huh. That
was the beginning. Oh I didn't realize that she was all.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Around like there was like I felt like very like
like I felt like she was like like coming down from.
Speaker 5 (13:05):
It was.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
It was magical like that was. I can't wait to
see the video of us dancing to that because like
every lyric change, I would like cry and like seeing
her like I could tell she was getting choked up
to it was so special. Treated that like so with
such care. It was like the most important thing in
(13:27):
the world to her.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
It was one of my favorite parts of the weekend. Yeah, same,
it was incredible.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
Then we do hold on.
Speaker 6 (13:36):
I think we should maybe let people know about some
wonderful products or services that they should take advantage of.
Speaker 4 (13:43):
Oh yeah, yeah, to let him know. All right, we
(14:06):
are back.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
So the reception, you had the first dance and then
you did the dances of your dad.
Speaker 4 (14:12):
People wanted to know what song you danced.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
We did Van Morrison Days like this Love Days like this, Yeah,
and uh I found out like two days before we
left for Mexico, I picked the wrong song accident, No
It's day. Uh these are the days song. I'm like,
how many days Van Morris are there?
Speaker 4 (14:34):
The songs that days like this and these are.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
The days, Yes, and these are the days is the
more like beautiful one. I totally messed that up. I
was like, oh, hell, but the band. You have to
give the band like a three week it's like three
weeks that you have to tell them the songs that
they could learn them. So it was like two days
before we left from Mexico. So I was like, there's
no way I can change it now, but we did.
(14:57):
Days like this, it's still beautiful, and like it was the.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
Van Morrison of it all.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
That was my connection to my dad and like he
used to play that every summer in our backyard, so
it was really about Van Morrison, not so much of
the song, but like I totally picked.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
Up the song.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Yeah, so we don't know, no one knew. And then
Robbie and his mom danced to.
Speaker 4 (15:17):
Celine Dion because you loved Me.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
Yeah, because you loved Me, which seemed to be a cloud,
a crowd pleasing. People enjoyed that, and then we went
right into the horror.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
That was the first Jewish wedding. That was my first
time experiencing that.
Speaker 4 (15:34):
Everyone should do that.
Speaker 8 (15:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
Absolutely, yeah, so fun, it's so fun, it's so fun.
Speaker 5 (15:41):
So that's a banger.
Speaker 4 (15:43):
First of all, yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
And everybody like, that's what's I love so much because
like it wasn't a so like fully jewish, Like half
of the people there had no idea what was going on,
had never even heard that song, I'm sure. And everybody
was in it, Like from the minute the party started,
every single guest was like in it. Everybody gave one
hundred and ten percent. I could not I had no
notes for anybody, Like, there was not anybody like straggling
(16:05):
around like on their phone. Like everybody was locked in
and gave it all of them. It was so fun
being up in that chair. Yeah, was so fun and
also so terrifying because I'm like, I think people are
kind of drunk at this point.
Speaker 5 (16:21):
Well, and how many.
Speaker 6 (16:21):
Videes have you seen it on social media? People falling
off those chairs?
Speaker 4 (16:24):
Yeah, Like I was like sick.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Yeah, one second it's very fun, the next second it's
like terrifying.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
I have live photos of Tanya in that moment, and
every photo starts with her smiling, waving the towel, and
then the ends with her like with this terrified look
on her face.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
Yea, all have the same She was in and out
of fear and joy.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
So then the horror ends and I needed to do
my alpha change, and so I grabbed Becca, grab Robbie
and we go back to the room. I change my dress,
change my hair, Robbie changes, and then we get back out.
I don't know how long we were gone for. I
didn't feel like we were gone for the twentynutes. I
was gonna say maybe fifteen twenty minutes. Yeah, And at
that point I was like, Mamma eats to eat, Like
(17:05):
Mom's gonna go down if she doesn't eat something. So
I like finally get my plate together. Sierra runs over.
Speaker 3 (17:12):
She's wanting to take photos and then.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Like you know, like again like everybody, and I respect
it because like you want to take your photo with
like the bride and groom. But I was like, I
have to eat. So then I finally get down to
the table. I sit down to eat, and then I
Will Survive comes on, which is like my mom's favorite song.
So she's like you have to come and I was like,
if I don't eat, I'm going to fall down.
Speaker 3 (17:31):
Like I like needed.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
To eat, so after I will Survive, I was like
nobody touched me for like five minutes.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
I got to eat and then it was like.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Game on, Yeah, game on until the end of the night.
Speaker 4 (17:42):
It was so fun.
Speaker 1 (17:43):
It was so fun. The DJ crushed, the band crushed.
H I Like we had two to choose from and
we just kind of like crossed our fingers and hope
we picked the best ones and like they nailed it.
Speaker 4 (17:57):
Yeah, they were amazing on the dance floor the whole night.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
You know what. Else was really cute that we did that,
like only a couple people picked up on because it
really only impacted like two.
Speaker 3 (18:07):
Of our guests.
Speaker 1 (18:08):
But we gave every table and said we didn't want
a number table because we don't want be able to feel
like your table number one, your table number ten. So
we gave them all names that had something to do
with like our relationship, and one of the tables was
named Ace because we love to play cards. It's like
our favorite thing to do. And we sat our friends
Heather and Josh Altman at the Ace table because they
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have a son named Ace. Oh, so like they like
thought that was like really cute. And then we named
another table Delilah because that's the restaurant that Robbie asked
me to be his girlfriend. And we put the owner
of Delilah and his wife at the Delilah table. Yeah,
so like that was like really cute. Robbie had no
idea I did that.
Speaker 6 (18:49):
We were at the t R L L Table, Yeah, Trust, respect,
Lust table, the four Pillars.
Speaker 5 (18:54):
Of the Relationship.
Speaker 4 (18:55):
Oh yeah, table called Butterfly.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
Oh there was a hinge table Ringe Hydrangea.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Which is the flower that Robbie used to give me
like in the beginning of our relationship, Ace, Butterfly, t R. L. L.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Maybourne, Funny and Sonny. Yeah, those are self explanatory.
Speaker 7 (19:15):
I don't want to derail from the perception too much,
but we did miss At the welcome party, we got
a big bag of rad yad merchant. I love everything
in that bag.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
It was so rad is like the pride and joy
of Robbie's like heart. He puts so much thought and
effort into all those designs. He designed all of it
and he had like so much fun doing it.
Speaker 3 (19:37):
He loved it.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
Yeah, that, along with the cards on the table, I
think really like shocked people the like thoughtfulness.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
And the merch was so cute.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
All of the scrubbers I posted a hat and they're.
Speaker 4 (19:48):
Like, how do we get merched?
Speaker 1 (19:49):
I'm going to give some to the scrubbers because we
had so much left over because we like put in
our we had to put our order in before we
had like all the RCPs, and I was like, I'd
rat they have too much, too much.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
Than not enough. So like I like, I don't even
know what I did.
Speaker 6 (20:05):
I really rumors of scrubbers at the ceremony in the
in the restaurant that overlooked the beach.
Speaker 5 (20:12):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (20:12):
I never got confirmation on that, but there are rumors
that there were scrubbers there that booked a room in
this resort and were in the restaurant to watch the ceremony.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
From afar, I have no idea you'll.
Speaker 7 (20:22):
Neither scrubbers are trying to buy the tote bag from me.
I was getting over and I was like, a, let's
see how HI, these.
Speaker 5 (20:28):
Visits can go.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
The toads are really cute, very cute.
Speaker 4 (20:33):
Yeah, very handy for people to have.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
Yes, yes, I know, and you know it's so like
this just shows you how much is going through your brain.
When I was packing, Like I didn't pack a purse,
not a single purse, but I packed my beach bag.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
I'm like, I made beach.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
Bags for everybody. Why would I pack my beach bag
like so insane? But yeah, okay. So then my second
favorite thing that happened at the reception. There's this Taylor
Swift song that at at my bacherette party, we were
playing and like me and Sofia and Becca had like
a moment like we just had this like moment during
this Taylor Swift song. So I put it in the
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DJ set, making sure like we played at some point
in the reception, and like it sticks out like a
sore thumb because like we did not play any Taylor Swift,
like it was very like international music. And then this
Taylor Swift song comes on that's like kind of like
is it over?
Speaker 2 (21:23):
Now?
Speaker 4 (21:23):
Is the song?
Speaker 1 (21:25):
And I felt like I was like in Rome and
Michelle's high school reunion and like every or like no Wicked,
and it was like it was like like Glinda and Alpha.
Speaker 3 (21:35):
Ba like scene where it was like me and Sofia
were just like.
Speaker 5 (21:38):
That was so it look choreographed.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Everybody thought it was choreographed.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
It was not.
Speaker 1 (21:43):
And then I was like looking everywhere for Becca because
I really wanted Beck to be there, but she was gone.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
But it was almost like we planned it because then she.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Comes in like running in halfway through and like I
in my mind it played out like a music video.
But I've been watching videos that people took and it's
like so funny seeing like people standing around being like
what is happening? Like what, like what's going on?
Speaker 3 (22:07):
But like into it, but like what's happening?
Speaker 2 (22:10):
Yeah, like mesmerise, yeah, but also like what is this?
I mostly like what's happening?
Speaker 1 (22:17):
Right, what's happening? But it's one of my favorite moments
of the night.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
I had gone, well, I didn't know that she was
playing it or that what time it was being played,
and so I had gone in the restroom and Haley
and I were walking out.
Speaker 4 (22:28):
And she's like heye, like my thong is rolled, help me?
Speaker 2 (22:31):
And I hear this song and I'm like I have
to go.
Speaker 4 (22:37):
I like ran down the stairs. I was like I
saw the dance floor parted. Yeah, that was really fun.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (22:46):
Right before we started the podcast, I was recording American
Top forty with Ryan and we played is it over now?
And Tony looked over and was given like a.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
Yeah, it's like a breakup song.
Speaker 1 (22:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
It had like no business being played at the reception,
but I was like, it was one of my favorite.
Speaker 3 (23:03):
Moments of the night.
Speaker 4 (23:03):
It was so fun.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
And then we ended there. We ended the reception with
I don't know the name of the I don't know
the name of the dance, but it's a Persian tradition
where they throw like white rose petals at the bride
and groom and it's like a very.
Speaker 5 (23:18):
It was skipped over like weald, I want to tell
you your dad.
Speaker 6 (23:21):
Oh yeah, he played a song for your dad or
traditional Serbian folk song.
Speaker 9 (23:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (23:26):
And he was extremely emotional about that, sobbing.
Speaker 1 (23:29):
I've never seen him cry like that, like hands in
his face, sobbing.
Speaker 4 (23:34):
The video is like really emotional.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
Have you send it to me?
Speaker 4 (23:38):
I thought you showed it to me.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
Oh, I have so many videos on my phone, it's
like crazy. Okay, So apparently you thought I said no
to that song, or like no to playing it or something.
Speaker 4 (23:51):
Oh. So he was surprised.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
He thought, yeah, it was a surprised and I was like, yes,
it was.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
A surprise.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
Because I saw it on like the down or something
like on the wedding schedule.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
Yes, I put it like those are that we put
the horror the Persian song with the flowers, and then
I put this song that that was my dad's favorite.
I just did it, but boy, he broke reaction.
Speaker 6 (24:17):
Yeah, you got a good DJ where you can you know,
seamlessly blend into it.
Speaker 5 (24:22):
There's serbian folk song out of I don't.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Know literally, you're so right, but that was pretty. That
was pretty emotional. I was like, whoa, Yeah, it was beautiful.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Yeah, the whole thing. It was so fun because everyone
was on the dance floor. Even if they were on
the dance floor, they were like in the lawn dancing
in the back, like you just sew people in like
little sex floor, so people would just be like off
like in the.
Speaker 4 (24:51):
Lawn dancing or you know. It was just fun.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (24:55):
And by the way, in case anyone was wondering, Ryan
was there for the entire I mean I left a
little earlier than when it was over, but he was
there and he was dancing with Robbie's aunts and stuff.
Speaker 3 (25:06):
Yes, everyone really in it.
Speaker 7 (25:10):
The DJ played Give Me Everything by Pitbull and Ryan
gets mentioned in that song, and I was really hoping
we were Mark and I were like the second.
Speaker 5 (25:17):
Version, we were so ready.
Speaker 6 (25:18):
We got our cameras out, like they're going to say
Seacrest and then he mixed it out.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Yeah dang.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
And then the reception ended with Robbie giving a speech
like saying thank you to everyone, and.
Speaker 4 (25:33):
It was so emotional. Again we all thought we had
gotten through the crying.
Speaker 2 (25:39):
And then Robbie gets the mic again to say thank
you to everybody and is just like so humble and
gracious and grateful thanking everybody, and he the boys are
up there with Tanya, and it was just I was like,
round of applause for just the most beautiful weekend top
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to bottom.
Speaker 1 (26:02):
Yeah, that speech was emotional, very emotional.
Speaker 3 (26:06):
Yeah, he was very weepy.
Speaker 4 (26:08):
And then we had Saturday.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
But but the night did end.
Speaker 4 (26:13):
It did not, which we will get to when we
come back.
Speaker 1 (26:33):
All right.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
We forgot something about the reception, which was the bouquet toss.
Speaker 1 (26:38):
I wasn't going to do the bouquet toss and then
people were like no, yeah.
Speaker 3 (26:41):
I was like, I was so drunk that way.
Speaker 5 (26:46):
Do you think you had, by the way.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
A lot.
Speaker 4 (26:48):
Yeah, you didn't even finish the one I get.
Speaker 9 (26:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
No.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
So my thing is I never take a full shot.
I take half and then I pass it off. This
took a lot of halbs.
Speaker 4 (26:58):
I took a lot of habs, Okay.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
I wasn't like I didn't get sick at all. I
was never like sick from being drunk. So I think
it was like the perfect amount of drama. But I
did the bouquet toss, and like ninety percent of my
wedding were married people, and so I uh, there was
a small pool of single ladies on the dance floor.
(27:21):
I throw my bouquet out and it just goes over everybody.
Everyone watch does they go over their heads? I'm like,
can someone at least just like throw up a hand
for this, like come on?
Speaker 3 (27:32):
So then I go.
Speaker 1 (27:33):
Back and do it again, toss the bouquet and it
literally lands like perfectly in Paulina's hands.
Speaker 2 (27:41):
Like no one even no one made an effort, but
they didn't need to because.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
It was like divine intervention, a magnet. Yeah, I'm moth
to a flame.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
The first almost hit me in the head, like I
was turned around trying to get Haley and Uni on the.
Speaker 4 (27:56):
Out for the bouquet toss.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
Yeah, and you didn't know, so you did, And I
just see it land on the floor behind me, and
I'm like what.
Speaker 3 (28:04):
Yeah, I was like, dang, nobody wants to touch this UK.
Speaker 4 (28:09):
But it went straight to Paulina.
Speaker 3 (28:12):
So did go straight to Paulina?
Speaker 1 (28:13):
So TBC.
Speaker 4 (28:17):
So yeah, we the reception ends and they.
Speaker 1 (28:21):
Had like eleven and ended out like eleven, right, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
And Robbie had mentioned wanting everyone to go jump in
the ocean.
Speaker 3 (28:28):
I'm sad he didn't get that moment, honestly.
Speaker 2 (28:30):
You know what, though, I personally don't think he cared
because when we were there a few days early and
it was like hot and sunny and we got in
the water, it was very cold water.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
He didn't seem sad. Yeah, I was just sad that
he didn't have his moment. So then I was like,
why don't we just like do it in the hot tub,
like everybody go jump in the hot tub, And he's like,
not really the same Like the pool. The pool was
so warm. I wish we would have done the pool anyway.
I wish he had his moment because that's all we wanted.
Speaker 2 (28:58):
Yeah, but it was the water was so golden. I
was saying about how drunk everyone was and getting in
the ocean.
Speaker 4 (29:03):
I'm like, this is dangerous.
Speaker 1 (29:04):
Tied was high, Tied, the tide is high, so we
go to the restaurant.
Speaker 4 (29:09):
They keep the restaurant open for us.
Speaker 2 (29:11):
They start sending in It's like chicken fingers and French
fries and casadas, and we are just like ravenous.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
Rat I was ravenous. I don't think I ate more
chicken fingers in my life.
Speaker 2 (29:22):
Tony was eating chicken fingers dipped in ranch, dipped in ketch.
Speaker 5 (29:26):
Of a chicken hands.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
Yeah yeah, yeah. And so we raged there until I
think it was like one something when we all walked back.
Speaker 4 (29:38):
To your room.
Speaker 3 (29:39):
Yeah, it was Saturday. I wanted to end.
Speaker 2 (29:42):
I know, we dropped all off, said you're on your own,
husband and wife.
Speaker 3 (29:49):
Everything.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
When I tell you, it like exceeded all expectations, Like
and I honestly, I know it took me a long
time to like decide on the venue, but I feel
like the hotel the we chose was so perfect for
the vibe that we wanted.
Speaker 4 (30:03):
Yes, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (30:04):
Like every spot that we.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Did, everything like felt so us beautiful but like a
sense of chill, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (30:14):
Like it was everything wrapped it wrapped up into one.
Speaker 4 (30:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (30:18):
I think everyone said that it was just the location
was perfect. The guest list was perfect. The food was great.
Everything was just ideal. The weather was perfect.
Speaker 3 (30:29):
Did you guys have the dessert?
Speaker 5 (30:30):
No?
Speaker 3 (30:32):
Yeah, the chocolate hazelnut?
Speaker 5 (30:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (30:34):
I had.
Speaker 4 (30:34):
Both of them.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
Were delicious, right, so good, so good. I was like
dreaming about that like two weeks before the wedding. Can't
wait to eat it again. We did not have a cake.
We did not do a cake cutting.
Speaker 2 (30:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (30:48):
People were asking about the cake.
Speaker 3 (30:50):
No cake, no cake.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
When you taste a delicious hazelnut chocolate bar like that
and adult ja de leja banana, whatever the hell that was,
when you taste that and then they say you can
have that or a cake, you take that?
Speaker 5 (31:03):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get that.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
Yeah yeah a lot of people also had questions about
Robbie's facial hair, because we were all under the impression
that four or five, whatever you chose, was going to
be welcome party and then wedding day.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
Yeah he reversed it, Oh he did. I think it
was day four for the welcome party and then he
shaved it down to like a day one for the wedding.
Speaker 5 (31:26):
How did you feel about that?
Speaker 4 (31:29):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (31:29):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (31:30):
I let him do his thing. I prefer them a
little harrier oh, but I also respect the fact that
he wanted to be a little more trim on the
wedding day.
Speaker 6 (31:38):
It's really a lot of pressure because those pictures are
going to live for the rest of your lives.
Speaker 5 (31:41):
You're going to see them every day for the rest
of your lives.
Speaker 6 (31:43):
So twenty three years married, we have a big picture
in the playroom.
Speaker 5 (31:48):
It's not like you're going to see it forever.
Speaker 2 (31:50):
Yeah, so I deferred, oh because I okay, So now
I feel better because he he made that decision. Yeah.
You had always thought that you were too sing what
you wanted, which was gonna be like four or.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
Five day Yeah, but I got that at the wild Front, right,
So like I got mine, he got his, you know.
Speaker 2 (32:07):
Yeah, ye yeah, marriage compromise, compromise.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
I'd thank you, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2 (32:15):
Oh. People were asking about me finding my dress and
how I chose my dress.
Speaker 1 (32:19):
Oh so, so nobody even knows this, but Becca had
butterflies in her dress.
Speaker 2 (32:24):
Oh yeah, there was like a really faint print that
had butterflies, and I didn't know when I ordered it.
So I ordered two dresses and I just send them
to Tanya, like I'm gonna bring both of these. But
do you have a preference? And she zoomed in and
there was a butterfly on like my shoulder. She didn't
plan it, and she goes, did you know there's butterflies
on this dress? And I was like, no, I didn't know,
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and she it has to be that one. So that's
that's how I chose it.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
It has to be.
Speaker 3 (32:48):
How could she not have worn that?
Speaker 1 (32:49):
Yeah, my bridesmaids all looked amazing by the way the
dresses like compliment each other perfectly.
Speaker 2 (32:55):
Yeah, the colors were great. I love that everyone's felt
like their personality.
Speaker 4 (32:59):
Yeah, totally, it's great.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
The nuts literally no, No, My hair and makeup teams
said that they do weddings all the time and they're like,
I've never experienced a bridal party like yours. They were
on it, they were attentive, they were like like, those
are my girls, right.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
So the next day was the pool party, yes, at
the hotel, and y'all rented out all the cabanas and
basically the whole adults only pool was ours.
Speaker 1 (33:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (33:28):
A couple of people that were not involved in.
Speaker 4 (33:30):
The wedding didn't notice, didn't notice them.
Speaker 3 (33:33):
Yeah, honestly, I.
Speaker 2 (33:34):
Was just like, didn't see them last night. Nope, didn't
get to meet them. Maybe they weren't even part of
the wedding.
Speaker 3 (33:40):
We had coconuts with our logo printed on them too, I.
Speaker 4 (33:43):
Shall do that. That was just incredible.
Speaker 1 (33:46):
We spent the whole last night chot ourselves, chiseling away.
Speaker 4 (33:53):
Sophia was just chiseling.
Speaker 9 (33:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (33:56):
But you know what's interesting, I didn't realize it within
the planning. I didn't know ever was going to go
so hard on Friday. I thought Saturday it was going
to be like a little bit more like intense. I
thought it was gonna be like a kind of like
a raging pool party. Oh interesting, And it wasn't. But
it was like so perfect.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
It was perfect. It was like I had a couple
of drinks at this one in the bar.
Speaker 1 (34:14):
Yeah, Like in the pole, people were like in cabanas
with like their immediate friends. People were laying out like
it was very like chill, mingling mingly, yeah, mingly, meshy.
People would like leave to go get a SPA treatment
and come back like it was like chill.
Speaker 4 (34:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (34:31):
I loved it.
Speaker 4 (34:31):
Yeah, me too, And I think everyone loved it.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (34:34):
I feel like it was a perfect finale. Finale event.
Speaker 1 (34:38):
Okay as guests, because I feel like you see everything
so different, like as a bride. What was all of
your favorite parts of the whole weekend?
Speaker 5 (34:50):
The whole weekend.
Speaker 6 (34:51):
My favorite part of the whole weekend was at the
reception and we were dancing, and I was kind of
on the outskirts of the dance floor and just kind of,
you know, I don't want to be the guy that's
just sitting there the whole time, but I'm not necessarily
going to be the center of the dance floor either,
so I just kind of doing my thing. And then
you came and got me and pulled me into the
middle of the dance floor right around the time we
started to hear Game start and then APT started, and
(35:13):
then it was off and we just it was APT
and then it was Hot to Go, and then it
was Uptown Funk, and then it was mister Bright's side,
and that that arc of songs right there, that was
the high point of pop probably my year up to
this point.
Speaker 5 (35:26):
It was just the greatest. You didn't leave the dance
floor after that, I kind of didn't.
Speaker 3 (35:31):
You were just in there.
Speaker 5 (35:32):
I kind of established my place.
Speaker 1 (35:34):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, And then.
Speaker 6 (35:35):
Everyone was recording me and sending videos of me and
laughing at me. But it was a really great time.
Speaker 3 (35:41):
I don't think people were laughing at you know, I
think they I think they were.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
No, I think they they were sending posting them for
the scrub scrubbing in because they love it when you dance.
Speaker 5 (35:50):
You're sure, Okay, I got so many people.
Speaker 4 (35:53):
I have so many requests to film you all dancing.
Speaker 6 (35:56):
Well, that's okay, I've just done. Know what the motivation
is there, you know what I'm saying. But like Ryan
was making fun, Like Ryan was joking, Ronnie was laughing.
Speaker 1 (36:07):
Oh really, I think so.
Speaker 7 (36:10):
I got a video of you dance an apt and
I watched that video ten thousand times because, like you
like give Robbie, it's like big hug and a high five,
and there's just so much joy.
Speaker 5 (36:19):
It's all joy.
Speaker 7 (36:20):
It's so it's so infectious to watch. I just like
that night, I was just falling asleep watching the video.
Speaker 1 (36:24):
I like everybody was like that. I felt like everybody
was like I feel like Robby and I dance with
everybody at the wedding.
Speaker 3 (36:32):
Somehow, the whole.
Speaker 5 (36:33):
Weekend was joy and love.
Speaker 6 (36:34):
Yeah, that's what it felt like and this and this
is a more and more personal note. It just felt
like by overwhelming feeling that weekend, especially at the reception, was.
Speaker 5 (36:45):
I'm gonna get emotional.
Speaker 6 (36:47):
You make a lot of decisions in life to get
to where you end up, and that's how I felt.
Speaker 5 (36:53):
I felt I've made.
Speaker 6 (36:54):
A lot of right decisions that I'm here at this
spot with these people.
Speaker 3 (36:59):
That's how I felt.
Speaker 8 (37:02):
Nice, It's it's so fun.
Speaker 7 (37:14):
I was thinking about this the other day, like it
didn't I didn't feel like it was like, oh, I'm
here with people I work with, you know, Like it
was like if everyone felt like family there. It was
so it was there's so much love. It's so hard
to pick a favorite part of that weekend, like my.
Speaker 5 (37:30):
Gut, but see.
Speaker 7 (37:33):
I was I couldn't wait to see you walk down
the aisle, And when I saw you, it was I
was thinking about everything you've been through, everything you've wanted
and then seen like in three D physical space like
I was just it was it was everything everything you
know that that I dreamed of, that everyone listening is
(37:54):
dreamed of.
Speaker 5 (37:55):
It was.
Speaker 7 (37:55):
It was like watching the Princess.
Speaker 4 (37:56):
It was so great.
Speaker 7 (37:58):
I love seeing you walked down when I first saw
you and your dad walked down the aisles like this,
this is the moment, and and seeing you up there
with Robbie and all the times you almost kissed. I
love the ceremony, I think was what I kept replaying.
Speaker 2 (38:10):
In my head.
Speaker 7 (38:10):
I love that so much.
Speaker 2 (38:13):
Yeah, I mean, well, I agree. I think the whole
the whole weekend, I could find something in every moment,
but I think that right when Sophia started singing and
I have it on video, Robbie like did this motion
where he like hugged you like three times, and it
(38:35):
was this moment of like like we got here, you know,
like we did it, and it was like watching y'all
have this like joyful moment that we have been also
waiting for with you, you know, like this journey has
been all of us collectively, like the listeners, like all
(38:59):
of it felt like it came to this like moment
and it was like the twinkle lights and Sophia's voice
and this song that has had so much significance on
National Butterfly with like y'all's favorite people, and it was
just like I felt Robbie like have this moment. And
(39:19):
I guess the other thing was like I knew, I
know how much you love Robbie, and I know how
much Robbie loves you, but something about Robbie like it
felt like y'all were so locked in on like we
did this together, and like we got here together, and
we planned it together, and like.
Speaker 1 (39:35):
I think that like obviously you guys have seen like
my side of the journey and like my side of everything,
but like he's been through hell and back, and I
think for his family it was like the same feeling
on his end, you know what I mean, Yeah, he's
gone through so much and he finally gets his happily
ever after, and so it was like what you guys
were feeling on my side. I think his family was
also feeling on his side for him.
Speaker 3 (39:55):
So yeah, all of it.
Speaker 4 (39:57):
And that's what we were saying.
Speaker 2 (39:58):
I would talk to so many people and I was
like the way I kept describing that, the feeling all
weekend with everybody was like this joy for you guys.
And it's also like it was such a testament of
like the people that y'all are, because you know they
say like if you show someone your friends and like
the people in their life, it's a telling part of
(40:19):
who you are, and I was thinking about how much
joy and celebration and like.
Speaker 4 (40:26):
Happiness there was in that room for y'all, and.
Speaker 2 (40:28):
That's because of y'all, like you put that towards everybody,
like y'all have made sure to make every single person
that y'all encounter feel special, even at your own wedding
cards for everyone, like you made sure to dance with everyone,
you address everyone, And it was just like, I hope
that y'all felt that back so much, because that's what
the energy felt like the whole weekend, at least for me.
Speaker 1 (40:50):
We did. We both were just like we couldn't get over.
And then like like you know, like you're in it
and you're the bride and groom, like of course you're
having fun. We're like, yeah, is everybody else having fun?
Like we're like it seems like they are, but like
you know what.
Speaker 3 (41:01):
I mean, like you just can't tell.
Speaker 4 (41:03):
Everyone gets a survey in the room at.
Speaker 1 (41:05):
The end, Yeah, right, a zero to five and they're
like one, No, who is the guess that surprised you
the most, or like maybe that you love the most
that you didn't know, not like it asked me somebody
that you didn't know.
Speaker 5 (41:19):
I mean I knew. I feel like I knew so
many people.
Speaker 7 (41:22):
We sat on the welcome party. We sat with some
of Robbie's childhood or one of Robby's childhood friends.
Speaker 5 (41:27):
We sat with Seth.
Speaker 7 (41:29):
We hung out with him and his wife the whole
weekend and they were so cool and we had such.
Speaker 5 (41:34):
A good time with them.
Speaker 7 (41:35):
And something Seth said that I really liked is I
was like, oh, you know, what was it? Like? Uh,
what's it like being here and seeing Robbie in this
like phase of life? And he's He's like, I have
never in our entire lives seen him as happy as
he was with Tanya, like, and he was so excited
because I was so welcome party. He's like, I'm so
excited for tomorrow because that. And I was like, okay, okay, cool,
(41:59):
this guy is the real deal. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (42:01):
They were.
Speaker 7 (42:02):
They were they were rad. We hung out with them.
Speaker 3 (42:03):
Okay, okay, fun, that was good answer.
Speaker 5 (42:06):
I talked to your mom and dad more than I
talk to anybody, I think.
Speaker 1 (42:09):
Okay, so my mom and my dad.
Speaker 6 (42:11):
Dad, we chat with both of them, and they were
both they were very I don't know, we just had
a really great connection just talking about you and all
you've been through in your radio career in the last
fifteen years.
Speaker 5 (42:22):
And it was really sweet. It was really nice to
get to know them better.
Speaker 9 (42:24):
Oh great answer, I would say, so Robbie's brother first
of all, that was my first time spending time with them.
Speaker 2 (42:36):
More like David and his family. David is so awesome. Yeah,
and Nonah was. I mean I knew already. I've spent
more time with Nona, I feel and talked to her,
but Nonah's parents, specifically her dad Cookie, every time we
ran into them with Haley, they were so curious about
(42:59):
her and us and ask so many questions and I
was just like, wow, like they are you know, it's
just getting to know more of Robbie's side of the family.
And then that was even like his extended family was
really cool. But every single person that I got to
meet and talked to, I was like, I get it. Wow, Yeah,
I love that.
Speaker 4 (43:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:21):
But it was so fun getting to see people like
Charme and like people that I just get to see
here and there every now and then.
Speaker 3 (43:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:28):
That it was just so fun to get to see
them celebrating, y'all.
Speaker 4 (43:32):
It was so fun.
Speaker 1 (43:34):
It was the best ever. It literally was the best
weekend of our lives, like top to bottom.
Speaker 6 (43:39):
All right, real quickly, if you have your wedding Bengo card,
get it out now, here's what we got put it.
You can mark these off as we go. Cake smash
in the face. No, someone other than bride wearing white. Yes, yeah,
the booquet is tossed and got caught. Yes, Robbie crying, Tiny, crying,
Mark crying, Easton, crying, Becker crying all yes. Is someone
gives a toast it was not scheduled to do so.
Speaker 5 (43:59):
No?
Speaker 6 (43:59):
No, Oh, someone trips on Tanya's dress. No, I don't
think your dad tripped on your dress. Wardrobe malfunction, not
that I'm aware of. Sonny poops during the ceremony.
Speaker 3 (44:11):
No, nope.
Speaker 6 (44:12):
Someone vomits at the reception. I mean there was vomiting
after the welcome party.
Speaker 4 (44:17):
No, one, we don't really need to rehash that. And
I'm sure it wasn't just me.
Speaker 6 (44:21):
I'm saying, yes, though, I'm saying give yourself credit for vomiting.
Someone ignores black tie and dresses too casually. Yes, definitely,
definitely garter toffed and caught. No speech longer than five minutes. Yes,
Ryan asked if anyone objects. No, he did not say
kiss a family, did not say tea rad he did
not say buy you a drink. Group dance, I say
(44:42):
yes because of the Beyonce Texas hold him.
Speaker 2 (44:46):
Oh yeah yeah, there was no chaw slide built.
Speaker 5 (44:49):
Yeah, sing along on the dance floor.
Speaker 9 (44:52):
Many.
Speaker 3 (44:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (44:53):
Bride's maid mentions Tanya's dating history in her speech. Yes, yes,
and someone reached some First Corinthians.
Speaker 5 (44:58):
Yes, yes, call that one. So there you go. I
hope you got bingo.
Speaker 4 (45:06):
Wow, that sounds like.
Speaker 3 (45:07):
A lot of bingos on that car.
Speaker 4 (45:08):
Yeah, they probably got a probably a high number of bingos.
Speaker 2 (45:12):
Had Ye, they should get Tanya Merch TNR Merch Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (45:16):
Yeah, I have to go through all that, the amount
of just like unpacking and like the aftermath, Like what
do I do with my wedding dress?
Speaker 5 (45:24):
Now, well that's a good question.
Speaker 7 (45:26):
I think Amy still has hers, Allison has hers.
Speaker 3 (45:30):
I think I'm gonna make it into a mini cute.
Speaker 5 (45:33):
That you can like wear casually.
Speaker 3 (45:35):
No, I'd wear it like on our anniversary or something.
Speaker 9 (45:38):
You know.
Speaker 2 (45:38):
I'm like, you could just do your reception dress if
you wanted to do a mini.
Speaker 3 (45:42):
What am I going to do with this wedding dress?
Speaker 4 (45:44):
Just save it? Yeah, you save it, save it.
Speaker 5 (45:47):
Maybe your daughter would like it one day.
Speaker 3 (45:48):
Or maybe I'm not the I'm not putting pressure.
Speaker 4 (45:52):
It's not pressure.
Speaker 2 (45:54):
I had a dress that I loved and she kept
it for me. I would be so honored.
Speaker 1 (45:59):
And what if it was like blue and had like.
Speaker 2 (46:01):
Then I'd be like, I thank you so much for
saying this. But maybe maybe I can take a piece
of it and sew it onto minor but like there,
it could be such a special thing. It's it's stunning.
Why would you instantly make it a mini dress?
Speaker 1 (46:14):
I wasn't gonna make it a mini but I was
thinking about making it like somebody no, like like taking
off the train and like like making it not like long.
Speaker 4 (46:22):
I'm just saying I would preserve it. I would preserve
it at least at least for a year.
Speaker 1 (46:29):
Be honest that her was sitting in her closet for
nine years and she donated it.
Speaker 6 (46:35):
Scrubber getting married to you's wedding dress. We'll have a
little contest.
Speaker 1 (46:40):
I'm gonna take out because my something blue at the
bottom was like a note that Robbie when he asked
me to be his girlfriend. He got it written on
blue fabric or like blue ink fabric handwriting, and.
Speaker 3 (46:50):
Then we stitch it into the bottom of my dress.
That was my something blue.
Speaker 1 (46:53):
But I could I could take that piece out and
like frame that and like make that be kind of
like my moment toe, you know what I mean, that
little patch of my.
Speaker 4 (47:02):
Wh Why are you so anti keeping your dress?
Speaker 3 (47:05):
Anti?
Speaker 1 (47:06):
Just like it's going to cost so much money to
clean and preserve because you have to put it in
this like preserve. It's like thousands of dollars, like for.
Speaker 7 (47:13):
To say, yeah, maybe I cheaved out on it. It
was I padd like three hundred dollars to have it.
Speaker 1 (47:22):
They put it in like some special thing, and I
think it's at least like a thousand dollars nowadays if
you did it the right way post COVID, everything's doubled.
Speaker 5 (47:29):
You've married what eight years?
Speaker 4 (47:30):
Maybe it's going up inflation.
Speaker 2 (47:35):
Well, let's just think on it before we start taking
to it with.
Speaker 3 (47:40):
Some s not going to be like cutting itself.
Speaker 2 (47:42):
Yeah, and maybe some people have great ideas of what
they did always come through it, Yeah, yeah, yeah. Any
any news on when you're posting photos for the for the.
Speaker 1 (47:53):
People, hopefully tomorrow or by the end of today.
Speaker 4 (47:59):
Okay, yeah, yeah, stay tuned.
Speaker 3 (48:01):
It was I can get into that later.
Speaker 2 (48:06):
That's all for now. I feel like we answered everything.
Do we miss anything?
Speaker 3 (48:11):
No, I don't think so. Mark.
Speaker 5 (48:13):
I have questions, you know, let us know to answer them.
Speaker 2 (48:17):
All right, Well, we will be back on Thursday with
Dylan Ephron.
Speaker 5 (48:24):
He is so baby girl.
Speaker 2 (48:27):
Is so baby girl the definition of baby girl, but
not the mood.
Speaker 4 (48:31):
Not to be confused with the movie Baby Girl.
Speaker 1 (48:33):
Correct.
Speaker 2 (48:34):
Just have to make that clear. So we'll be back Thursday.
We love you so much.
Speaker 1 (48:39):
We love you.
Speaker 4 (48:40):
Congratulations.
Speaker 3 (48:43):
Yeah, have to change my handle?
Speaker 4 (48:46):
Are the people are asking if you're going to change it?
Speaker 1 (48:49):
I have to do all and like my voicemail. My
sister in law called me and she was like, tany
your body is.
Speaker 3 (48:53):
So who is this?
Speaker 4 (48:55):
I love Hi? This is Tanya.
Speaker 3 (48:59):
I can't change until get my voice back though.
Speaker 4 (49:01):
Yeah, I give it some time.
Speaker 1 (49:02):
Yeah, all right, we'll have somebody changed my name.
Speaker 2 (49:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (49:05):
Lots to do, lots
Speaker 1 (49:10):
Bye bye
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