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January 21, 2025 75 mins

Actor, Da'Vinchi joins the ladies of Lip Service this week to promote his latest role in 'Family Affair,' a LifeTime series that's executive produced by Mary J. Blige. Da'Vinchi opens up about why he wouldn't date fans, how his parents got divorced, then remarried years later, meeting Mary J Blige, and much more. Da'Vinchi even asks the ladies for a rapid fire round of salacious questions!

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ms lip service. I'm Angela.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Ye, I'm Gg Maguire, I'm Jeordie, I'm jazz Renee.

Speaker 1 (00:09):
Yes you are, ye you listen. We were having such
a great conversation because, first of all, you know, I
already automatically love anybody from Brooklyn, and Dvini's from Brooklyn
like me, and we met before at Nati's wedding. We
were both at her wedding, by the way, one of
the most amazing weddings.

Speaker 3 (00:26):
Yeah, it was really nice.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
Didn't make you think about your own.

Speaker 4 (00:29):
Definitely, definitely, Yeah, but I don't think I will be
that extravagant.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
It was. I mean, it was nice. It was at
the same regions in Atlanta. It was it was a beautiful,
beautiful ceremony. I remember right after it happened, you talked
about it for a minute. Yeah, it was. It was great. Yeah,
and it was like I always wondered what guys are
thinking at weddings, Like you know, as women, we automatically.

Speaker 5 (00:53):
Don't catch the bouquet.

Speaker 1 (00:54):
Well, guess what the it.

Speaker 3 (00:59):
Wasn't a real day, Yeah, actually.

Speaker 6 (01:03):
Didn't.

Speaker 3 (01:04):
Yeah, she might actually get married.

Speaker 1 (01:07):
She cut the bouquet, and then there was those y'all
talked about it already, so it's not a big deal.
But you were super cool, so I could see why
it was fun for her to work with you on BMF.
So that was nice shout out. I was like, oh,
he's nice, because sometimes, yeah, you can meet somebody and
be like I don't even want it. But he was
super cool, so I appreciate that. Yes, and I saw

(01:28):
you were at the next game court side recently.

Speaker 3 (01:30):
Right, that was my first court side game. What Yeah,
it was just crazy.

Speaker 7 (01:34):
Not the Nets to Brooklyn.

Speaker 3 (01:36):
I mean, the Nets is not really Brooklyn, Jersey.

Speaker 1 (01:39):
The Nets is Brooklyn, definitely.

Speaker 3 (01:41):
No, it's Brooklyn now. But I'm just saying, but it's
been Jersey, New Yorker, you know, like the next is
like that's the Yankees.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
The Nets is like the Nets side seats at the
next than it is to get court side seats at
I love my Nets though, but it is a hard
thing to get them next court because that team has
been around for so long. So how was that for you?
I saw everybody was there too.

Speaker 4 (02:01):
Oh yeah, no, it was great, Honestly, I was I
was like a little kid in the candy store. I
was like, I was sitting down shout out to Julie
because Julie is the one who hooked me.

Speaker 3 (02:10):
Up with the tickets, but.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
Everybody called Juliet to Julie had the last name.

Speaker 3 (02:20):
It was dope.

Speaker 4 (02:21):
Like I'm just like sitting there and looking down and
you see Spike Lee, you see Tracy Morgan, you see
Emma Roberts.

Speaker 3 (02:27):
I'm like, yo, this is like crazy. Like everybody was there, you.

Speaker 4 (02:31):
Know, And I was like and sometimes being in that
position because this is like so new, I'm like, damn,
like do I really like I really like here with
these people? Like like when Spike Lee he was leaving,
he said what up to me? I was like, yo,
like that's Spike Lee.

Speaker 6 (02:45):
Yeah, he'd be at them gay.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
When when Cat Karl Anthony Towns.

Speaker 4 (02:49):
Like he just came, he was like, Yo, what up
my boy? I was like, yo, bro, this felt like
you ever seen the show Entge.

Speaker 3 (02:54):
Yeah, of course, Like that's like I felt. I was like, damn,
this is crazy.

Speaker 6 (02:59):
You know made it.

Speaker 1 (03:00):
Man, what's been your most surreal experience? You would say,
because you've like managed to I mean and well deserved,
been in amazing positions, and I want to say, like
starting with grown ish up to where you are now.
It hasn't been what has it been like seven years?
That's not like a super long time. And I feel
like you are like so much.

Speaker 4 (03:21):
I appreciate that man, And that's honestly, that's all about
the grace of God.

Speaker 3 (03:24):
Shout out to God for that. And I just I
just try to be a.

Speaker 4 (03:29):
Servant and do my due diligence because I know if
I act up, you know, someone else to take my
position for sure, because nothing. It's really God that I'm
in this position. But it's the most surreal moment.

Speaker 3 (03:40):
Honestly. It's just.

Speaker 4 (03:43):
I think when I was working with fifth, like I
was like, Yo, no, you're working with fifty. I was like, Yo,
this is crazy. Like when we took a private jet
to Detroit the film and like I'm sitting right here,
fifty is right there, and I remember the whole time, like, Yo, this.

Speaker 6 (03:56):
Is really is really my life.

Speaker 4 (03:58):
Like I used to like the fifty was like such
an icon in my house and my oldest brother we
used to call him like twenty five cent and just
the way he influenced our culture so much, you know,
like everyone wanted to be fifty. I'm like, yo, this
niggas right here. And then I started doing an instant
story and I was like, yo, its first time, Jess.

(04:19):
I'm like, you know what, I'm trying to be cool.
And then he hopped in my story. He just randomly
cameround me and I was like, yo, bro, this was
like crazy. I think that was like a moment that
had me like and I remember one time someone also
my boy hit me. He was like, yo, bro, guess
who followed you. I was like, oh, he was like Drake,
I said, stopped fucking playing. He's like I was like what,
And I looked. I was like, yo, like that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (04:41):
That's so fun. Does he still follow you?

Speaker 3 (04:51):
The fact that Drake.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
He was like, let me not post not like us,
because I'm not.

Speaker 4 (05:04):
Even if he was to following the fact that he Yeah,
I'm like, just like, people can say what they want.
But with witnessing a living legend like the records that
he broke rap wise, it's like his numbers are not
comparable to anyone else in a rap Kindergary.

Speaker 1 (05:21):
It's crazy how people are like down playing him and
counting him out and have so many things to say
when he really did accomplish a lot. But it just
shows that. Yeah. I mean, he's broken all kinds of
records and still shows that people be brought and Dick
from the right.

Speaker 6 (05:38):
Team Drake and I'm still team Drake.

Speaker 3 (05:40):
I'll go too concert any day.

Speaker 5 (05:42):
People really down playing them break.

Speaker 2 (05:45):
You know, I think everybody still realizes that Drake is Drake.
I just think with that whole attitude, I think that
they have that time.

Speaker 5 (05:54):
You know what I'm saying, Like, realistically, you win some
you lose something.

Speaker 2 (05:59):
But I don't think that that discredits Drake for who
he is now.

Speaker 8 (06:03):
People don't trying to count him out because Pop on
tour next month and it's still going to.

Speaker 1 (06:12):
Be absolutely but think about people he was super cool
with that was like you know, and we've seen it happen,
like you saw the Toronto rapt this day, like he
can't get on the mic for a year because you
know whatever, But well no, because of who was it,
DeMar DeRozan. He said something about him because that was
his friend. But then you know, I guess Drake like

(06:33):
went at him because he's dancing, yeah at the concert, yeah,
crip walking to not like I mean, but it's like.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
Not like us just do that to you though, you know,
what I'm saying. And I'm a Drake fan as well.

Speaker 3 (06:43):
Right, it's a good but I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 4 (06:46):
I Like, if Drake was my man and like we
really chill, we go out and we party, and his
opposition made a song that was like a bop like this, right,
I would not be Okay.

Speaker 3 (07:09):
It's not loyal no more.

Speaker 4 (07:10):
Bro, if I rock with you, even if you're wrong,
I'm still your back, Like you know what I'm saying.
But I'm gonna tell you closed doors, Like, Bro, you
got you.

Speaker 3 (07:16):
But I'm never gonna like that.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
But what are you both people? Because a lot of
people did you know what I'm saying? It's I think also,
I was say, in the industry, friendship is a like
you might think you're friends with somebody, but it's an
industry friendship and friendship, right, And that's true. Like, I
know there's certain people if I wasn't if I was,
like you know, in fact, that's gonna run my coffee shop.

(07:39):
They don't give up, they won't give a fuck about me.
Like to keep it real, you know, I would friends.

Speaker 3 (07:45):
I know.

Speaker 8 (07:45):
You know that's funny because Drake does have a song
called no Friends in the industry.

Speaker 6 (07:49):
Right, no friends in the industry.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
It's hard to really see people really be friends in
the industry. You know, friends is a term that's.

Speaker 5 (07:57):
Just throughout there, like in America.

Speaker 6 (07:59):
Yeah, my friend. You know, people need to use more
words like associate that you're not my associate.

Speaker 1 (08:13):
I like.

Speaker 2 (08:16):
With somebody, but I don't feel like they're on that
level for me to be like this is.

Speaker 5 (08:21):
My friend, because see, your friend really cares.

Speaker 1 (08:23):
You know.

Speaker 5 (08:24):
I like to say my homegirl.

Speaker 6 (08:26):
Okay, homegirl, homegirl, like a friend you think so?

Speaker 9 (08:30):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (08:30):
Yeah, I don't think so.

Speaker 3 (08:32):
You know, like there's more than a friend homegirl.

Speaker 6 (08:34):
I think it's you're saying less.

Speaker 3 (08:36):
Oh you're saying its more friend.

Speaker 5 (08:38):
I think the word friend is deeper than home.

Speaker 4 (08:41):
Homegirls like bro like you can't to my crib, like
that's my home.

Speaker 5 (08:45):
Look at it.

Speaker 6 (08:46):
I take I take a friend so serious, but your
friend is like friends. I feel like friend is like
you didn't been in my house and we are really
like tight. You know you know my real name, yeah
type time. People can't read that. It looks like a
different lage. It is probably shout out to my parents.

(09:11):
They on there to G. G.

Speaker 1 (09:12):
Maguire legally, changed the Da Vinci middle name.

Speaker 3 (09:19):
Yeah, I was born with no middle.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
Names but no middle name, but you like, okay. We
were trying to figure it out earlier, trying to change
his name to j elect legally like.

Speaker 3 (09:31):
Electronica. Yeah, he was thinking.

Speaker 6 (09:33):
Yeah he did that.

Speaker 5 (09:35):
What made you legally change your name to da Vinci?

Speaker 6 (09:39):
Just middle name?

Speaker 3 (09:41):
Didn't.

Speaker 4 (09:41):
I didn't have a middle name, so my first name
is nothing is just so instead were just like I.

Speaker 1 (09:48):
Was like, you know what, let me give myself a
middle so you made it legally middle Yeah. How is
it when people that knew you growing up want to
call you by like your you know, your first name?
Does that bout you know? How some people get trying
to act like I know him, know him, that's.

Speaker 4 (10:02):
My homeboy, Like I know that, but that's aj Like
I just like I like Aje.

Speaker 3 (10:09):
I'll just tell them like bro in public, just just go.

Speaker 1 (10:14):
You know.

Speaker 6 (10:15):
For me, I don't like when my family called me Gig.
I don't call me that. Don't I'm still coffee like,
don't break Yeah. But I also don't like when I
meet a guy and I'm like, oh, my name is
Gig whatever And then a couple of days or weeks
go by and he learns it, and now you want
to start calling me coffee night, like you know, know mely
like that.

Speaker 1 (10:32):
If I introduced to you myself as GG, then we're
gonna stick with GG facts and you probably can you
pronounce it right anyway, so don't even try. How do you, yeah,
how do you make that transition when you're with somebody
like seriously to be like you could call me by
coffee when.

Speaker 6 (10:45):
It really gets to that point. What's that point? Like love,
like really together, like it's really a thing. And then
still don't call me that. You know, I was with
your friend for fifteen years he still called me gg.
I mean twelve, it is. But the thing is, it's
been it's been mispronounced. Like for instance, my daughter is

(11:06):
twenty eight years old. I've known her grandparents for thirty years.
Them people, good girl.

Speaker 3 (11:10):
Thank you girl.

Speaker 6 (11:12):
Youm people still call me cafe. Their whole family. They
have that, his parents, the sister. They called me and
I answer. He's like, hey, I answered the cafe out
of respect. I've never corrected them.

Speaker 8 (11:28):
They've been calling me cafe for thirty years, and my
cafe okay, but it's coffee.

Speaker 6 (11:34):
And when you read it. You know, people don't really
know how to pronounce it, so we just stick with
where you're from. I'm originally from Philly. The name is
Hindu Coffee. Ooh, I'm saying a lot. Let me know,
yeah a f I oh that's cute.

Speaker 1 (11:49):
Yeah, I like see.

Speaker 4 (11:50):
I like it sounds like cofee, like coffee, just with
a French accent.

Speaker 1 (11:57):
Now, I tell you talk about being on Broadway and
playing the character of Lust, and you said that was
nothing like who you really are, right right, Yeah, But
I do want to say I feel like for you
growing up, didn't girls always like you even aside from
all of.

Speaker 3 (12:13):
This, Yeah, yeah, for for sure.

Speaker 4 (12:15):
Like I was, I was like I didn't have a
well when I went to high school. High school was
tough because I got I sent to Florida with my
father because I was getting in trouble. So I got
the rested when I was thirteen, and I was like
a juvenile the linkud. So I was just doing bad shit.
So when I started living with my pops, I went
to all Way High School and over there, it was different,

(12:36):
Like girls were saying stuff like yo, like I would
date you, but like my parents were like hanging to
both of us.

Speaker 1 (12:41):
Right, Dad, that's crazy.

Speaker 3 (12:45):
Friend.

Speaker 4 (12:46):
I was kind of like he was kind of like damn,
Like I'm in a different environment and it's like and
then you would like talk to him like some girls
like they have a conversation with you, but then they're
just like it's like gotta be like low key if it's.

Speaker 3 (13:00):
You know, like yeah, yeah, it was just weird.

Speaker 4 (13:02):
It was like yeah, and I was like, then people
really still live like this, and that's like I didn't
know like New.

Speaker 1 (13:08):
York was not really like that at all.

Speaker 4 (13:10):
Yeah, it's such yeah exactly, but it's like there's places
like and I was in the area in Florida that's
not like Miami Orlando, Florida. That was like middle of nowhere,
like it's the south right, you know what I'm saying
to where it's just like you go to the wrong
area that you.

Speaker 3 (13:23):
Might see blacks only, like.

Speaker 4 (13:30):
Yeah, but basically like it was like certain like it
was in the central like the middle, like but like
the Horse Capital like you see, like it was it
was how.

Speaker 1 (13:37):
Would your dad have people at home a white girl
or your mom?

Speaker 3 (13:40):
My parents did?

Speaker 4 (13:40):
We don't care about that, Like it's like them being
you know, they're not from this country, like they never
raised this in our group, our family, which is so mixed.
It's like it I think this concept of racism is
so big in America, which it makes a lot of
sense as to why, because it's systemic racism and what
happens with you know, transit learning, slaves, trade. But the

(14:02):
whole like racism is just a social construct that's not
a real thing, Like black and white people are basically
the same thing, like our skeleton, Like from our skeleton alone,
you can't tell the difference. This whole thing is just
it's just a political gain And honestly, it was just
used to justify the hainus crimes it was doing black people.

(14:22):
So they're trying to make white people feel better by
pinning them against us and saying, oh, we're biologically inferior,
we don't feel pain, we don't do this, we're a
beasts where this and that and all these different things
are justified. But at one point in America, black and
white people was also teaming up together and trying to
destroy the elite whites, you.

Speaker 3 (14:38):
Know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (14:39):
So we were buddies and the elite whites was like yo,
we need to stop this. Like if they come together
like we're done so then like you know, the whole
concept of whiteness and blackness started coming out of that,
and they started making the poor white people be like, no,
you're still better than the blacks because they definite.

Speaker 3 (14:56):
They started making them own us.

Speaker 4 (14:57):
But it's just like but it was just a game
being played just to keep this ship in order, you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (15:02):
So it's like, but some countries, like we.

Speaker 4 (15:04):
Don't look at it, like like my mom wouldn't care
if I brought a cricket home.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
I mean, you know, it's because in Haiti, I feel
like there's a son.

Speaker 5 (15:10):
I can't bring no cricket home.

Speaker 3 (15:13):
I take that. Yeah, but anything any color, they won't care.

Speaker 6 (15:18):
You know.

Speaker 1 (15:18):
It's interesting because in Haiti, I feel like there's a
lot of colorism. And we've always heard about the issues
with Haiti and dr you know that's facts. Yeah, and
I feel like there's a lot of colorism there, like
when it comes to people feeling like oh, darker skin
and lighter skin.

Speaker 4 (15:35):
You know, So that's true, that's rue, It is there,
But it's just like you have different classes of like
like usually the most popular story. It's not the ones
from like the educated people, Like there's some just like this.
There's a lot of educated people in this country, but
that's not the story that get told. Like for instance,
a lot of times when European see black people, you know,
they have this preconceived notion about us based off the

(15:57):
interviews and the TV shows and.

Speaker 10 (16:00):
People people all over around the world, right, but exactly
to your next door neighbor, and they're white, they have
this notion of you based off what like the media
takes a percentage of black people, make that seem like
it's the majority.

Speaker 6 (16:12):
Right.

Speaker 3 (16:12):
You can't speak English, you know, we can't do this.

Speaker 4 (16:15):
And they have certain people that don't even know anything
about politics talking about certain political issues, and people are
looking at it like, oh my god, my god, these
black people are ignorant. But it's like, no, you asked
the right nigga that question, and that's what goes right exactly.

Speaker 3 (16:27):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (16:27):
So I just think, like, so even the colorism over there,
it's just that ignorant story is just the story that's
being told.

Speaker 3 (16:33):
But some people are just way more educated above that.

Speaker 4 (16:36):
My parents are, like they're educated so it's like certain
things that was like that I've been hearing.

Speaker 3 (16:40):
I'm be like, what bro, Like, that's not even bro.
It's just he wasn't.

Speaker 1 (16:43):
Raised properly because I just think I taught in Washington
Heights for a little while when I was in college,
and Washington Heights is a neighborhood that's it's like predominantly Dominican.
And there was one Haitian kid in the class that
I have him, yes, and when I tell you, they
gave him hell, Like I used to be like, I
just want to like help him, you know what I'm saying,
because it was really tough for him because he was

(17:04):
the only black kid in the class. And I didn't
really realize because I'm from New York, so you know,
we like, I know, in Detroit. I don't think Detroit
has like a big Dominican or it's not really like big.

Speaker 2 (17:15):
It's as far as like outside of black Detroit. It's
a lot of mixed people.

Speaker 3 (17:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:20):
Yeah, and there's like Mexican Town and stuff like that.

Speaker 5 (17:22):
It's a lot of Mexicans.

Speaker 11 (17:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:24):
But I didn't realize how bad like that was until
I was in this school teaching and I saw how
badly they treated this kid, you know what I'm saying,
And so that's honestly, but unfortunately they learned that, you know,
that's like I learned behavior said. They hear it home

(17:45):
from their parents because they were in sixth grade. So
it's not like these are things. Yeah, these are things
that are taught, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (17:54):
And so.

Speaker 4 (17:56):
And the thing is the funniest thing about the beef
between Dominicans and Asian is the dumb thing because they
both made of the same thing.

Speaker 3 (18:02):
He's made of slave masters having sex with slaves.

Speaker 4 (18:05):
That's why we're all different shapes and colors and sizes,
you know what I'm saying. It's like, you could be
you look Haitian. Julie could be Haitian. You could be Haitian.
I can be Hatian. Anyone in here could be Asian,
anyone in here could be Dominican. So it's just it's
so like it's it's so dumb.

Speaker 3 (18:22):
Ignorant.

Speaker 5 (18:23):
The slave masters love them some, Yeah, absolutely.

Speaker 2 (18:27):
They loved it because they were sneaking out the big
White house going out back and.

Speaker 6 (18:34):
The women show.

Speaker 1 (18:35):
Let's be clear, the women, the wives.

Speaker 5 (18:42):
He was sleeping with the slaves.

Speaker 4 (18:43):
God, yes, and their baby.

Speaker 5 (18:47):
That's right.

Speaker 8 (18:49):
I think my great Granda was one of those and
he was left on the steps of his family, which
are the Jordans, and they adopted him. So we don't
actually know where that part of the family goes because
we think.

Speaker 5 (19:02):
A story like that too.

Speaker 2 (19:03):
They say down my family line, somebody slip with the
slave master had a baby because I got like mixed great.

Speaker 4 (19:11):
Grandparents absolutely, like all of us like that, like all
of us. It's like, it's so crazy how it makes
me like so to hate the other.

Speaker 1 (19:19):
Like yeah, yeah, it's like, bro, you just thinking like
an animal right now. You know, it's so interesting to me.
We were talking about this earlier because we love Love
Island Jordan and she's a huge fan.

Speaker 8 (19:33):
Just this this last season was doing it for me.
My friend was the whole so I was like, I
need to support it with So you.

Speaker 1 (19:39):
Did a whole thing right with an interview with Yeah,
have you ever watched that show? Do you watch any
of those shows?

Speaker 4 (19:47):
Like I would never watch that, Like you've got to
watch this, yeah, Like it's just.

Speaker 1 (19:53):
Like, what what do you watch for fun? Come on?

Speaker 3 (19:56):
Point?

Speaker 4 (19:57):
I mean I read a lot and I read scripture
a lot, and I try to like watch things that's
honestly that's positive to my brain, you know, and it
just helps me. I think we we consume a lot
of things that's to our detriment, so I try to
limit that. So like everything that I consume now, like honestly,
it's it's pretty positive.

Speaker 1 (20:19):
You're right, though, Love Island. Dude, be feeling viitious.

Speaker 6 (20:21):
I'm like, works your own work.

Speaker 4 (20:25):
Nah, well by myself. I will watch it just to
critique certain things, but I hate seeing myself from you.

Speaker 6 (20:32):
I never watched this. I never watched You don't know.
I'm here what I need to watch it for. Like
if somebody else else wants to watch it and they're like,
oh can you please you know episode, then I'll go
back and watch it. But I'm not at home, like oh,
lip service game, I'll let me watch that.

Speaker 5 (20:50):
I was here.

Speaker 6 (20:50):
I need you to you want me to start watching
I am. I don't want.

Speaker 2 (20:54):
To play any and everything in you go back and
watch I watch that ship with binoculars.

Speaker 3 (21:01):
Okay, Well, you like yourself a lot.

Speaker 2 (21:03):
Yeah, I love meection, so I critique myself.

Speaker 1 (21:09):
I don't want to do my worst critic. That's what
I don't watch because I don't want to create. That's
what I have to watch my anxiety. It's like playing
football to watch like you know, watch the place like this.

Speaker 4 (21:22):
Yeah, definitely for learning purposes, like I would watch, but
like to just watch.

Speaker 1 (21:27):
Have you ever dated somebody and they were like, let's
watch b MFTR group. You want to be like, Okay,
she's a fan and she's like, no, you don't want
your person you're dating to be a fan to.

Speaker 4 (21:42):
I think I think that you're like you want them
to be a friend. Like I think it's like no,
if you if you're a fanatic, then it's just like
when we go certain places and it's like then there's
gonna be other people you know, and it's like that's
I think. Well, I mean, I don't want to say
I love my fans. I love fans, but I just
think you've never been with a fan.

Speaker 7 (22:04):
Then I'm guessing that he.

Speaker 8 (22:05):
Knows because you know that secretly he probably never been
with one, but he's been with them.

Speaker 1 (22:10):
Yeah, you don't know both.

Speaker 3 (22:13):
This is what it's called service.

Speaker 1 (22:17):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (22:18):
That's a good thing. No, uh no, I don't think so.

Speaker 4 (22:21):
Usually I go places to where nobody have TVs at
every party.

Speaker 1 (22:25):
Ghost face, Goddamn, that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (22:31):
He said that if I was a man, if I
was a man too like and then I'm like, you know,
or like in the bring, I would be I mean
you know what I'm saying, Like, I would kind of
be scared of the fans because I feel like fans
they're gonna do something like you know what I'm saying, right,
You're gonna Yeah, They're gonna they're gonna expose you. They
might set you up, and if they get pregnant, they

(22:53):
keeping that baby. See, men don't really have the choice
of the baby coming.

Speaker 1 (22:58):
That's the fact.

Speaker 5 (22:59):
So if I was a.

Speaker 3 (23:02):
Pro life, now I have.

Speaker 5 (23:03):
To put two kindoms.

Speaker 4 (23:04):
Oh my gosh, I don't know if that's not too
At this point, you're feeling ship, don't do it?

Speaker 1 (23:15):
Okay? Your character on B m F is so iconic
for people. Do people like approach you like you are
absolutely Southwest?

Speaker 4 (23:26):
He like all the time, wh people be telling me
that criminal stories like they be like yo, bro, like
like yeah, and they start telling me the ship that
they did like me too whatever, And I'm like, brokay,
keep that ship to you. I'll be telling them that
I'm telling you, like just like just.

Speaker 3 (23:47):
Because if you're telling me this ship, then now I
know about the crime.

Speaker 1 (23:50):
So but there is a statute of limitations. Maybe it's
like over.

Speaker 4 (23:55):
Yeah, that's true, but it's just like I don't even
want to hear because then because then when you like
tell me more, you're like interested than they just keep going,
keep going, And really I was like probably three and.

Speaker 3 (24:03):
I don't three right, Like it's like I really like
don't like.

Speaker 4 (24:09):
I mean, it's cool, like just to see that, but
I'll be like, bro, like just keep that to yourself.

Speaker 3 (24:12):
Mind like we can talk by anything else, Just keep
that part to yourself.

Speaker 1 (24:15):
I feel like lately you've been getting cast it in
a lot of like more like romantic type of roles.

Speaker 3 (24:22):
Yeah, do you like that?

Speaker 1 (24:24):
Do you like those?

Speaker 4 (24:25):
It's it's good because I do like projects that shows
the beauty between like a man and a woman, a
family nucleus. I think in a black community, we promote
so much promiscuity and things that have nothing to do
with family, and that's actually like greatly destroying us. I

(24:46):
think family is one of the strongest relationships a man
or a woman can have outside of the relationship with God.
So to see projects that is promoting that, it's that's
also promoting peace, health balance, you know, like the mental
health crisis. The reason why it's becoming so crazy is because,
like so I sat down with the certain General the
United States of Americas and this guy I didn't know

(25:06):
what he was for, but last year he reached out
to me to do the second leg of his tour
and do his last stop. And he's basically like the
voice of the US when it comes to like, you know,
speaking about certain mandates that's somewhere centered around health, could
be physically, mentally, spirit whatever, Right, So, you know, we
were having a conversation, sitting down talking and when I

(25:26):
was looking at the numbers a lot of things and
that we were talking about, I was like, Yo, this
is just crazy that when I looked at obviously my people,
specifically black and brown, I was just like, bro, like
everything we consume is actually poison. And I'm just like yall,
Like it's like so like if you could if you
could be at the third party or just from an

(25:47):
outside perspective looking and you're just seeing dots or you're
just looking at it as just objects and animate objects,
you would be like, Okay, this group, whatever it is,
it's cancerous. And but the thing is, but it's not
fault because during a reconstruction era in this country, it's
like black people are outpacing white people economically, you know.
So it's like but then when it was burning everything down,

(26:08):
so obviously it's not like it's us that's wanting to
do that. But because that's what we get praised for,
that's what we get rewarded for, so we keep perpetuating that.

Speaker 1 (26:17):
It's so interesting you say that because I was thinking
about my show right on Way Up with the Angela. Yea.
I have a segment called tell Us a Secret, and
people call it and the whole point when I started this,
it was like a judgment free zone. People be calling
in with the craziest secrets and I can't help what
people say. But I also do Wealth Wednesdays. I also
do like my advice. I do a lot of other things,

(26:38):
but that is what people are most drawn to.

Speaker 5 (26:40):
Yeah, because I love.

Speaker 1 (26:43):
It's crazy. But it's interesting to me because then sometimes
people will watch that and see that, and that's what
goes viral. Like literally right now, I have one that
has like one point five million views in two days.

Speaker 3 (26:58):
US gossip.

Speaker 1 (26:59):
But it's like people calling in and it was like
a confessions things anonymous confession.

Speaker 3 (27:04):
Yeah, like what like, so what was the confession that
went like.

Speaker 5 (27:07):
Tell him today?

Speaker 1 (27:09):
Today's The one that went viral first is the one
where she had a kid with her boyfriend's dad and
so that we had a baby with her baby daddy. No,
that's not her baby daddy. Her boyfriends.

Speaker 6 (27:27):
I'm sorry dad, she.

Speaker 5 (27:28):
Had aid, but the boyfriend think it is.

Speaker 1 (27:30):
Yeah, but the boyfriend thinks that was the secret.

Speaker 6 (27:36):
That's really it's really his brother. His brother is really
his brother.

Speaker 1 (27:39):
Yeah. And so but to me, the whole point like, wow,
I won't tell you what today's was because if you
took glasses off of that, oh you got to tell
keep that today's was really crazy. But I wanted to
say she was like girl, But I want to say this, right,

(28:00):
I can do like all these things with what I
have experts that come in on finance and that it
doesn't get the traction that are telling it. That's not me.

Speaker 6 (28:08):
They love doing that.

Speaker 1 (28:09):
That's what people are. And people will see that and
be like, oh my god, this is you don't do
anything but this is like, now I do this is
only three times a week, got to do this? I
have all these other segments and like, but no one
cares about that.

Speaker 4 (28:20):
And then the algorithms actually push it more. So when
it's something that is that negative, like, the algorithms actually
push it more. If you is to make a post
saying some wild shit right about like you can say
anything like like let's say like me and Vince she
has sex, We'll go crazy. But if you said me
and a Vince she is talking about financial literacy to

(28:41):
people that's in college, you're teaching them.

Speaker 6 (28:42):
That turns down right.

Speaker 2 (28:46):
When you in the car it's eight am, you riding
the work not saying I can relate, but if I could,
if I was to the car on the way to
work eight am. I want to hear the secret, right,
I want to hear something that's going to happen.

Speaker 3 (29:00):
It's at eight a m.

Speaker 6 (29:04):
In the morning and they go to work.

Speaker 3 (29:07):
That's the first thing you want in your brain.

Speaker 2 (29:09):
I mean, I'm listening to music, but if I'm turning
on the radio, I want to hear something that's going
to have my mind boggled.

Speaker 1 (29:16):
Like and clearly a majority of people, yeah, go.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
First of all, I still on my way to work.
You pray that, you pray upon the wake up, you
pray when you lay, when you lift it when you lift,
and prayers left and afterwards you.

Speaker 1 (29:37):
Hear like, now I want to say this because Jazz
Renee she's on Okay, So I don't know if you have.
I kind of have a feeling that you don't.

Speaker 2 (29:45):
You don't know because it's the first of all, and
I'm a mother first, but still, like you know, I'm
also a girl too, and you know, gossip a little
something of tea.

Speaker 5 (29:56):
It's entertainment, but that's becas not my life.

Speaker 1 (30:01):
That's what I like.

Speaker 6 (30:04):
It's not me, it's them.

Speaker 2 (30:05):
They're telling they damn secrets and they want to get
on here and tell their secrets.

Speaker 1 (30:11):
Honest conversation about this because I know you don't have
the Zoos network. I could tell already, but I am profile.
So Dad's Rene's on Battye's Midwest, right, But that's know,
that's not how I know her on me for years
and I actually hit that.

Speaker 4 (30:33):
Yeah, so it's like I'm assuming it's beautiful woman from
Midwest in America, middle of America, something like that.

Speaker 1 (30:40):
Do you feel like people like themental about that if
that's how they know you from, because clearly she's had
her own following in Detroit already, like as an entrepreneur,
you know, as an artist also.

Speaker 2 (30:52):
Because I mean I came on Baddie's Midwest with almost
a half a million followers. I came on there with
my platform you know, already built. So Batties is in
addition to jazz rename, it's, you know, another line.

Speaker 5 (31:07):
Of work for me. It's not the first thing I've done.
It's not the last, you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (31:10):
How do you feel about it now that you've done it?

Speaker 2 (31:12):
I think that being a part of the Batties franchise,
I feel like, yes, it can be you know, a
judgment of things. People will pass judgment on some of
the Batties where that's all they are. You get what
I'm saying, no shade, but some people were created on Batties.
You know, they came on Batties without a platform. They

(31:33):
had no you know what I'm saying, portfolio or past
the compliments, accomplishments under their belt or anything like that.
And some people on there, you know, they're acting crazy
as hell. Now is it entertaining? Yes, it is, you
feel me because I watched Batties before I was actually
on there. But as far as me, I don't think
that it's a big judgment on who I.

Speaker 3 (31:55):
Am, because.

Speaker 1 (31:58):
Yeah, we're gonna talk about it episode, but for people me,
but a.

Speaker 5 (32:02):
Great presence on this.

Speaker 1 (32:03):
Yeah, when I go into trade, if I need something,
I'm like Jasmine, I'm coming to the trade. I need
to get X, Y and Z done And she would
get it done like that, like everybody knows that. Everybody,
Yeah he did it.

Speaker 6 (32:17):
West is nas new.

Speaker 2 (32:18):
But I've been on as for years and I said,
I came on there with over four hundred thousand followers.
I already had a fan base. I already had you know,
my tribe already.

Speaker 3 (32:28):
Girl.

Speaker 5 (32:29):
Yeah, I mean I do music, so I'm an artist.

Speaker 6 (32:32):
You know.

Speaker 2 (32:32):
I was a wilding out girl, right, you know, so
I did things prior to that.

Speaker 6 (32:37):
So but what do you.

Speaker 1 (32:38):
Watch for fun?

Speaker 4 (32:39):
Well, I do want to say this, I'm not I
hope I'm not judging.

Speaker 3 (32:43):
Yeah, I'm not judging.

Speaker 4 (32:45):
I would be the first one thing like, I got
a criminal past that I'm like judge.

Speaker 5 (32:53):
And I got good sense. So you can't. Yeah, so
you can't really judge.

Speaker 2 (32:56):
I mean, I'm I like to have fun and I
talk ship, you know, right, I do have great sense
at the end of the day, right, And you know,
I knew what I was doing when I went on there.
I knew what I was gonna do, what I knew
what I wasn't gonna do. Because I'm a mother. First,
I don't want to get all into me because it's
the venture episode.

Speaker 5 (33:11):
Now he said, you got the rest of at thirteen, right,
what you do?

Speaker 4 (33:16):
Well, okay, it was dealing stolen property, but that.

Speaker 5 (33:21):
Cart theft or being me.

Speaker 3 (33:22):
It was I mean breaking it. Okay, I don't want
to promote that stuff. It was a dummy. I was
just like yees, trying to find some money just to eat.
You know, poverty is the mother of all crimes. I
was trying and then just make some money.

Speaker 1 (33:38):
And I know that broke your mom's hard too, probably
yeah I can't, but.

Speaker 4 (33:43):
Like, but the thing is, like, what really broke her
is like recently, I was like, you know, the first
time I saw drugs, I was the fifth grade, and she.

Speaker 1 (33:49):
Was just like, what, gret why did you tell her?

Speaker 3 (33:52):
Why did you?

Speaker 4 (33:53):
Because she was having a conversation with me and she
was just like we were saying something like like there's
a lot of things like you did you don't.

Speaker 5 (33:59):
Know I would to beat your last years ago.

Speaker 4 (34:02):
So I was just like, yeah, I pick you up.
But no, I was just like I just explained it
to her and she was just like wow. But I
was like, you know, by the grace of God, you know.

Speaker 1 (34:17):
It's crazy that she didn't.

Speaker 3 (34:18):
Know she was busually working.

Speaker 4 (34:19):
I mean she was making thirty thousand dollars a year
taking care of five of us, and my grandma dad
didn't speak English, so it's like, I mean, there's only
so much you can see when you're just you're in
a rat race and you're trying to meet the basic
needs of survival.

Speaker 3 (34:30):
That he's like, you don't really have time to really
have a relationship with your kid.

Speaker 1 (34:34):
What type of person like recruits a fifth grader? You
know what I'm saying, that's wild think about I know that,
but I just can't.

Speaker 4 (34:44):
And that's why that's why most of the people that's
like the kids nowadays, it's blowing people's head off.

Speaker 3 (34:48):
They're like younger than sixteen.

Speaker 1 (34:50):
Yeah, because you it's harder to get hitwayans.

Speaker 3 (34:53):
Oh yeah, right, that's the new Wance. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (34:57):
Yeah, you know it's interesting because I saw an interview
where you said that even doing the show BMF, you know,
there was kind of a like a, well, should I
be doing this because you don't want to promote certain things,
but it is based on a true story. Yeah, so
talk to me about that process of you being like, Okay,
I can do this, I can handle it. I'm okay
with it. And then I know you Also, I started

(35:19):
like meditating thirty minutes every single morning, right right.

Speaker 4 (35:23):
Yeah, yeah, So I took on a road because, like
I mean, these are two characters that influence you on
a hip hop culture, and like you said, it's based
off a true story. So I was just like, I'm
as an actor, you're telling the story. The art of
what we do is to tell stories and portray characters.
And then also when I'm not filming, you know, I
make sure I offset that that I do a lot

(35:44):
of tours. I do a lot of mental health tours.
Last year I did two when a bunch of schools, I.

Speaker 1 (35:50):
Saw them, kids love you when you walk in. They
was going crazy.

Speaker 4 (35:54):
Yeah yeah, I appreciate them, but but yeah, so I
talked to them about out the experiences of the black
man from a different perspective, And like, I remember one
time I was being interviewed and then this lady was
just like, She's like, well, how do you feel that
you're promoting this and you're perpetuating this? So I was like, well,
I mean, I don't think I'm promoting and perpetuating. Is

(36:14):
it when you watch at a twenty four or Blumhouse
horror film or scream, do you think about stabbing someone
fifty two thousand times?

Speaker 3 (36:22):
And if you do, then you shouldn't be watching. Yeah,
you go do that?

Speaker 5 (36:26):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (36:26):
Yeah, And why are you looking at me? Like that's
what I'm you know, I'm promoting. But I was like,
at the same time, I'm telling the true story on
two brothers that are victims of one of the most
successful human trafficking in the world. The Transatlantic slave trade
was just so successful. They came in and worked for
ever part of the group that worked for four hundred
plus years of free label. When they got freed, it

(36:47):
was capped and then you're like, you're in the game,
defend for yourself. And they made it out of that situation.
But I'm like, had they had better parents different influences.
They probably would have been Steve Jobs, right, I like
that type of organization. Like so you got to think,
like what if they wasn't in Detroit with no money
with the parents that they had and making pennies in
our you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (37:05):
Right, they were super smart to be able to even
put something like that.

Speaker 4 (37:08):
Together, to have that courage, that boldness and that and
then you had that many people listening to you. But
those are leaders, like bro, they had like that would
have been that would have been that they would have
built spaceships.

Speaker 3 (37:20):
You know.

Speaker 1 (37:21):
So what did you learn about Detroit from filming that?
Because I want to hear jazz member name chiming on
that too.

Speaker 3 (37:27):
Detroit is big on like Nascars and racing.

Speaker 5 (37:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (37:32):
Yeah, like they real big on that.

Speaker 2 (37:34):
They had the races down there down Yeah, we just
had a big one.

Speaker 1 (37:37):
I saw they did. They just build that track not
that long ago. Yeah, I saw that those cars.

Speaker 3 (37:43):
Yeah, Detroit, Detroit is cool. Detroy it's cold as hell.

Speaker 4 (37:45):
Y'all got good, they got.

Speaker 3 (37:49):
Y'all got this good. What's this? The sandwich with Stromy Sandwiches?
This is the spot?

Speaker 4 (37:54):
Yeah yeah, yeah, And Detroit Detroit got a cool little culture.

Speaker 3 (37:59):
It's like the South and the North. I feel like, you.

Speaker 2 (38:02):
Know what, say that they feel like that. A lot
of people actually say that we sound southern.

Speaker 5 (38:12):
I don't understand that, but everybody says that.

Speaker 3 (38:16):
And there's a lot of Middle East people.

Speaker 1 (38:18):
Oh yeah, and they own a lot of stuff out there,
the money out there, and there was in every corner.

Speaker 5 (38:24):
It's a dispenser.

Speaker 7 (38:27):
I like.

Speaker 2 (38:29):
They could ever did was make weed recreation over there.
And now we just need New York to fall in
line because I.

Speaker 1 (38:36):
Can't take it. She's got She's like, Angela, you some weed.
I got some week for gi I got.

Speaker 3 (38:40):
I was like, gotta fly.

Speaker 5 (38:42):
Somebody gave me all this week.

Speaker 1 (38:45):
I was like, I'll take it. Take it now. You
also said you would never do online dating. Never What
if it's a check involved no, like with like a
TV show or something like maybe an endorsn from tender.
I'm just curious, like, what is it about online dating

(39:06):
that doesn't appeal to you?

Speaker 3 (39:08):
I just I believe in.

Speaker 4 (39:10):
Like I think the I think online and social media
and the internet.

Speaker 6 (39:18):
Is like not a real place.

Speaker 4 (39:20):
It's a great tool for the enemy. I would say,
like I think it is. I mean, it's a great
tool for positive stuff too, but there's so much more.
Like I feel like when you're on the internet, it's
like you could really move as a spirit in a
way like your your lies and your delusions is like

(39:41):
extra like abracadaver. Like if you see someone in person,
like I can't lie to you and say I'm six
for three if I'm not six for three.

Speaker 3 (39:49):
You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (39:50):
But when you see me, I stand next to you
and you have my kneecaps, You're like, oh, wow, he's
actually that.

Speaker 3 (39:54):
But just something like that online you can lie about.

Speaker 4 (39:58):
I'm kidding, but yeah, so and that's just that's their
physical appearance.

Speaker 3 (40:06):
Can you imagine this? And this?

Speaker 1 (40:09):
Like that is like, but you can't meet somebody in
person and they lie to you about all kind of stuff.

Speaker 3 (40:12):
That's what I know they can, But it's like the
chances of really getting away with.

Speaker 1 (40:16):
Like because you're talking about physical things that you know.
Because here's the thing. Have you you never met anybody
in the d MS?

Speaker 2 (40:22):
Right, That's what I was going to ask you. Do
you consider meeting someone in the DM online dating?

Speaker 1 (40:27):
No? I mean like signing up you do? I think that's.

Speaker 6 (40:31):
You think so yeah that social media? Social media?

Speaker 5 (40:35):
Is anything wrong with that?

Speaker 1 (40:36):
I listen.

Speaker 6 (40:38):
I don't know, because this is some weirdose. If he's
somewhere those in my list.

Speaker 1 (40:43):
I think Jo is the only one here who has
done online dating. What would you say about it?

Speaker 8 (40:46):
From experience, I've never had a successful relationship. I've met
a couple of friends and maybe like a booty gall. Okay,
that to me is where it ends. It's like, okay,
I know I.

Speaker 5 (41:01):
Can't do that. I never did the app thing either.
I'm scared of that.

Speaker 6 (41:04):
I don't.

Speaker 4 (41:06):
Know.

Speaker 5 (41:06):
See, this is the thing.

Speaker 2 (41:08):
Okay, if somebody was to send a DM, right, not
going for just any DM.

Speaker 5 (41:13):
You can't just be no out the d m ass bitch,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (41:17):
But like because because really you could be catfish on there,
like you siking me a full lie that you're looking
at but everything not a life.

Speaker 5 (41:24):
You know who people are.

Speaker 1 (41:25):
I think the men in my d M be scamming,
Like I'll be thinking this catfish, I'd be thinking they
try to.

Speaker 9 (41:31):
I'm very.

Speaker 1 (41:34):
Familiar with who you are that it can't be a
cold DM. It has to be somebody like maybe you've
been familiar.

Speaker 5 (41:40):
With them and then they are complete random.

Speaker 8 (41:45):
That's real, even if you haven't met them person like,
you know who they are incredible.

Speaker 1 (41:52):
You never let in nobody's DMS. He's lying you guys.

Speaker 6 (41:56):
You never responded, bro.

Speaker 3 (41:58):
Just slid in somebody them. No have I responded the.

Speaker 5 (42:02):
People whole life before you was da Vinci.

Speaker 3 (42:05):
No, I definitely I believe you definitely not like.

Speaker 2 (42:11):
Not even on Facebook back in the day.

Speaker 4 (42:16):
But there's just so many beautiful girls in real life
and real life like it's like like you like you.

Speaker 3 (42:21):
Be saying, I don't know what the ratio is.

Speaker 6 (42:23):
I know you'll have an easier time with.

Speaker 4 (42:27):
Per like it's harder for you guys to find like
the type of man that you guys are looking for.

Speaker 3 (42:32):
But looking for I'm that you guys are attracted.

Speaker 1 (42:37):
I'm not using these women attack.

Speaker 4 (42:43):
I think it's harder for you guys to find what
you're attracted to.

Speaker 3 (42:49):
In real life that it is for me.

Speaker 1 (42:51):
So you're saying, you admit y'all ain't ship. No, I'm
playing with you.

Speaker 2 (42:54):
I mean I think I think I think a lot
of it's more of us than it is, and I
don't like.

Speaker 6 (43:01):
That absolutely, that's true.

Speaker 4 (43:05):
You know how many jazzmins I know.

Speaker 1 (43:13):
From the d baby, yeah, jazzmine to let me ask
you that, what would you say about yourself and your profile?
Like if somebody if you, let's just say, you had
to make a profile for a role, because you're doing
method acting and the role that you're playing is a
guy who's on social media one of the day people,

(43:34):
what would your profile be hold on?

Speaker 2 (43:37):
Because piggyback to that jazzmines, you know, Asbraham had many sons?

Speaker 3 (43:43):
Oh yeah, what that means?

Speaker 2 (43:46):
You know how many abrahams it is? You know he
had many sons you know the Bible?

Speaker 3 (43:51):
Yeah, no, absolutely right, So if.

Speaker 5 (43:54):
He had ninety nine of them, how many you think
it is.

Speaker 1 (43:56):
In the world.

Speaker 3 (43:56):
That's great. We got to be fruitful multiply at this point, jument,
go ahead, it's like the one.

Speaker 1 (44:10):
Yeah, what would your profile say about you? Like if
if you were looking to find the one and you
were put in your profile, what would it say?

Speaker 3 (44:18):
Oh that is a great question, that is wow.

Speaker 1 (44:22):
Like how you describe yourself?

Speaker 6 (44:24):
First?

Speaker 3 (44:24):
I would say for sure, God first. Yeah, I would
just say God first. I'll take.

Speaker 1 (44:38):
Yeah, come on, you got he likes to read.

Speaker 4 (44:41):
Like the thing is like, yeah, that ship is just
it's so weird to me, like like doing that, like
you have a little profile and you just talking about
yourself like that's what you said.

Speaker 7 (44:51):
Instagram is a dating apps. That means you do have
a dating app.

Speaker 3 (44:54):
No, but I don't have.

Speaker 1 (44:55):
That's my Instagram.

Speaker 4 (44:57):
That's that's for entertainment, Like I'm not I'm not going
to meet some Instagram and be like yo, like yo,
let's go out like like let's fall in love.

Speaker 2 (45:04):
Okay, So now since you said all this, now we
can bring the tea to the table, the receipts of
these d ms that I had from someone between you YouTube.

Speaker 3 (45:13):
O ship go ahead?

Speaker 5 (45:17):
Any last words?

Speaker 6 (45:18):
All right?

Speaker 2 (45:19):
Because I got the thread right, I don't know screenshot.
We did our research before you got here, so you
know what I'm talking.

Speaker 12 (45:26):
About from Jersey what I got the recognition you said
said she's talking.

Speaker 1 (45:37):
I'm talking. I don't know about sweating love it SWD
a little last I don't know anything.

Speaker 6 (45:58):
With the double.

Speaker 4 (46:01):
You know, I can really backtrack my ship, like I
could feel like like like I've.

Speaker 3 (46:09):
Had rumors, but it's just like I was, like, listen.

Speaker 1 (46:13):
The rumors about you it's not nothing really juicy. It's
like a picture with somebody you're working.

Speaker 6 (46:17):
With them, they're dating. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (46:19):
We need like a juicier rumor.

Speaker 2 (46:20):
And even so, it's not juicy because he probably met
that person, you know, in person, Like you said, it
wasn't an online or d M thing.

Speaker 1 (46:28):
I want to say this. You met Mary fucking j Blige.
She is an icon.

Speaker 3 (46:34):
Absolutely.

Speaker 1 (46:34):
What was that like? Doing videos and then also starring
in that lifetime series that well it's a trilogy. What
was that like?

Speaker 4 (46:43):
I was fine, Like, honestly that that movie was probably
one of my most favorite projects I ever shot.

Speaker 1 (46:50):
You played a way older person.

Speaker 5 (46:54):
You look so old.

Speaker 3 (46:55):
Yeah, it was fine. It was fun.

Speaker 1 (46:57):
He was talking about that hair because I needed to know.

Speaker 6 (47:00):
No, it wasn't it was real.

Speaker 1 (47:02):
Okay, good, they're not gonna pull.

Speaker 3 (47:03):
That off going on, I'm dad, y'all funny as hell,
But noah, it was. It was cool.

Speaker 4 (47:11):
First of all working with Mary, Like, Mary is an icon,
so to sit down and have a conversation with her
like this, like the first time, I was just like, yo, damn,
this is my life, my life, my life.

Speaker 3 (47:20):
Like the whole time.

Speaker 4 (47:21):
I'm like I'm like, bro, like, no one is gonna
believe me, like, and I was like, I gotta take
a picture. But then I didn't want to be annoying
because we had who's having such a good conversation and
she's mad humble.

Speaker 3 (47:31):
Right, she's like mad regular. Like it was just so crazy.

Speaker 4 (47:35):
It's like she forgot who she was and she gave
me great advice. She was chilling as her and afterwards
she was like, yeah, I'm working on some stuff. No no,
she was like, fuck with your talent. And I was like, man,
she's just chatting like she ain't.

Speaker 3 (47:47):
Even hit me. And I was like, yo, what the hell,
Like she's like for real, for real.

Speaker 4 (47:51):
But it was dope and and you know, to be
a part of a movie that is promoting family and family.

Speaker 3 (47:58):
Nucleus and then to get back on.

Speaker 4 (47:59):
That like that right there, that's that's healthy, that's beautiful,
and we got enough of the other side. It's like
we need to promote things that have nothing to do
with being black. You're just existing and the character.

Speaker 6 (48:14):
Everything. I didn't say it was.

Speaker 3 (48:19):
But yeah, yeah, it was.

Speaker 4 (48:22):
It was just fire to see that and just be
a part of that, you know, being part of something none.

Speaker 1 (48:27):
To do it being black and being our lifetime. I
feel like.

Speaker 4 (48:30):
Lifetime audience is like legit, legendary Lifetime.

Speaker 6 (48:34):
You hear me.

Speaker 1 (48:37):
And the cool I cannot wait. But even seeing you
want there, that's like a whole different audience too. From
it just gives a lot of range, you know, giving.

Speaker 2 (48:48):
I just grew up on Lifetime watching it with my man.
I didn't know what was going on story Thursday, so
I knew it was good.

Speaker 1 (48:54):
She was crying.

Speaker 2 (48:55):
And then as I got old and watch a Lifetime
movie like.

Speaker 8 (48:58):
The Heart will Be into Your Jerky and a lot
of them be based on true story. Yeah right, but
you did play like.

Speaker 1 (49:04):
A father with a teenage son on it, So what
was that like playing?

Speaker 2 (49:09):
Because I was like, he's so young, didn't look older
than you.

Speaker 3 (49:13):
You know, Yeah, it's crazy because we're like three years apart.

Speaker 1 (49:17):
That's hilarious.

Speaker 3 (49:18):
Yeah, but but no, it was, it was it was funny.

Speaker 4 (49:21):
I was just like, oh my god, like this is
just but I was just like I just thought about
seeing people with their sons and then just like created
this whole thing.

Speaker 3 (49:31):
Was I feel like it'll be like this, It'll feel
like having a little homie.

Speaker 5 (49:34):
No but I do like nine, you would be a
good father.

Speaker 3 (49:42):
I appreciate it. That is one of the highest compliments
you can feel just.

Speaker 5 (49:46):
By his conversation.

Speaker 2 (49:47):
What about their husband, maybe so well, anybody any black
man who says God first will be a good okay,
because you can't be a good husband first.

Speaker 1 (49:57):
You think you'd be a good husband definitely.

Speaker 2 (49:59):
And I I will say from the short time, I
like that about you as well. To see a young
black man, you know, put God on the forefront like that,
I respect that because you don't really see that. You know,
especially in the industry, people kind of like leave God out.

Speaker 3 (50:14):
You know, they're self made.

Speaker 2 (50:17):
You to give all credit to the most high on
a platform, take a shot to that.

Speaker 3 (50:22):
I appreciate you did go to church.

Speaker 4 (50:25):
Yeah, I grew up going to church, but I definitely
did like leave from it because at one point I.

Speaker 3 (50:29):
Was like, man, this is like this is BS.

Speaker 4 (50:32):
But it was only because of the Because the thing
about like I feel like the Bible and scripture is
like it's depending on who's talking to you.

Speaker 3 (50:39):
About it, it could rupt you the wrong way. But
like when you're really reading it.

Speaker 4 (50:43):
For yourself and then you ask God to just open
your heart and give you discerning wisdom otherness. Understand those words.
You could comprehend it in the way that you never
had before. And the thing about the Bible was like
the coolest book in the world, only because it really
depends on where your heart is at. If your heart's
not in the right place, it's just a novel, right.
If your heart isn't the right place, it's just so different.

(51:03):
And as you grow in life and as you experience
different things and grow more in wisdom and maturity, it's
like each text just hit differently. You're like, yo, like
this is really the way, Like all the chaos that's
going on in the world, it could be solved. Like
there's all the mental like the health crisis in this
country and the anti depressions and all those drugs if
people like we literally have a worship chromosome, like we

(51:25):
are designed to worship a higher power, you know, And
when you put that in yourself, it puts like this weight,
this war that is bigger.

Speaker 3 (51:34):
Than you on you.

Speaker 4 (51:35):
Like this self made concept is like it's the dumbest
thing in the world. It's like extreme narcissism.

Speaker 10 (51:39):
No one's self fin nobody like you came in this world,
two people had to come together.

Speaker 4 (51:44):
First of all, what was you doing the first six months?
What were you doing the first six years? What was
you the first eighteen years? And then the first time
you have an idea and marry j Oblige.

Speaker 3 (51:51):
Brother said this shut out to Bruce.

Speaker 4 (51:52):
He was just like, he was like, and when you
have an idea, the first thing you got to do
is tell somebody. But it's like, so it's just it's
like that concept is just use narcissm. But I just
feel like that's the enemy's way of trying to give
you the credit, like, yeah, you got this og and
then it really just takes the powerway from the original creator,
which then ends up fucking you in the long run.
And then you end up suffering a lot mentally because
you're putting way more on you than we were never

(52:14):
meant to bear the way of the world.

Speaker 1 (52:15):
How did you learn all that?

Speaker 5 (52:17):
Like everything he said, I.

Speaker 3 (52:20):
Knew I would.

Speaker 4 (52:26):
Reading scripture, being around people that is like actively trying
to pursue God and being around people that hold themselves
accountable and people that's I mean outside of the business
the nature of Hollywood. I mean, don't get me wrong,
I love that Hollywood is a great place. You know,
you can make a substantial amount of money. But I
think it prays on the cardinal sins like the you know,

(52:48):
and I'm not trying to see here again, act like
I'm better than no, like I ask for forgiven its
all the time. I'm just like everyone else here. I
just I think I just admit my faults more. And
then people was like, oh my god, you going through
the same thing. You're just not saying it.

Speaker 3 (53:01):
You know.

Speaker 4 (53:02):
But I think just being around people that you know,
have a better grasp of reality and people that could
like they have good hearts and good intentions, so I'm
able to when I look at them, I can see
a clear reflection of myself. And a lot of times
its like we need people because that's the only way
you can see yourself, Like if it was never from mirrors.
If you have something on your head, you got to

(53:22):
depend on me to be like Angela, you got someone
for it right now. But if you don't have.

Speaker 2 (53:26):
That, everybody, you know, if you don't have that, it's
like how you're going to know if you don't have
someone to call you out on certain things.

Speaker 1 (53:35):
Because sometimes people will look right at your ship and
not saying that nothing.

Speaker 3 (53:39):
They'll know your breath staking or something. They won't say nothing.

Speaker 8 (53:42):
That's ironic because you don't watch your work, which is
almost a mirror too, because it's how you interpret a script.

Speaker 3 (53:49):
And somebody's like, I watch it for like learning. I
watch it for learning purposes.

Speaker 4 (53:54):
And my agentcy managers know, let me know, and excuse me,
and like the response from the audience, and I'm like, Okay,
I think, I ate, like, but you're not sure.

Speaker 3 (54:04):
I think.

Speaker 4 (54:05):
I think in the moment, like when I'm doing it,
I mean, you got hair makeup, you got all the
directors staring at the monitor. If I'm like messing up crazy,
like that's on the you know what I'm saying. You
like it passed layers of things before it go out,
and sometimes things slip through the pipes, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (54:24):
Because we're humans.

Speaker 4 (54:25):
Someone could be on the phone called missing edit, and
then the next person missing edit, and then now you
out and you got bubble gum on your lips or
something like that, and they're like, damn, now you're mean,
But yeah, you know so, But I think that's I
don't know if I answer your question. But yeah, watching
myself is scary though you almost feel like like it's
you have to think of it, like that's not a

(54:46):
natural feeling. Like human beings been around for X amount
of years, our brains have not, Like we just really
got mirrors and shit like that.

Speaker 3 (54:54):
People used to really look at themselves.

Speaker 4 (54:55):
Just from water, right, and then afterwards you're just hunting
and you're doing whatever. Right, We're way like our brains
are closer to primitive humans than it is a human
to compete and and exist in this level of exposure
that we're this is a lot of us are suffering.

Speaker 3 (55:09):
People like it's like.

Speaker 4 (55:10):
You taking way too much content. You're taking way too
much material, Like you're like the ship that we're seeing.
All doctors are saying that it is not healthy. And
when you keep seeing these things, it's physically modifying your
brain to get better at it. So your brain is
like undergoing neuroplasticity. It's reshaping itself to become better at
looking at images and videos that have nothing to do
with the next.

Speaker 3 (55:29):
So you're giving yourself ADHD. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (55:31):
It's just like when you're not lifting weights anymore, it's
like your muscles, like, Bro, we don't need this.

Speaker 3 (55:34):
Bro, let's let it go. But you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (55:36):
So it's like once you start understanding that and you
and then and then like you really start getting in
tuning certain things. Even seeing yourself, it's like, Yo, that's
not that's like an outer body, godlike experience. It's like, Bro,
I can see myself like whoa like that was never
supposed to happen. You know what I'm saying at all,
And like some people who be watching themselves, I'll be like, damn,

(55:57):
like you looking.

Speaker 1 (55:58):
At myself here myself. I was gonna say, Yeah, I'm
always very critical because, like you know, it's sometimes you
could be really overly critical of yourself.

Speaker 2 (56:11):
He said that, Okay, Previously, prior to the invention of mirrors,
people looked at themselves and water. Every water I've looked in,
I can't see myself.

Speaker 4 (56:25):
You ever like looked in the pond, I don't see me. Yep,
bro go looking upon you could kind of see yourself to.

Speaker 1 (56:32):
Figure said about the Detroit riverfront.

Speaker 5 (56:34):
Do I even exist?

Speaker 3 (56:39):
I Mean it's not clear.

Speaker 6 (56:40):
It's not like clearest water.

Speaker 5 (56:41):
I can't see myself.

Speaker 10 (56:43):
You never looked over as still water and I don't
see me in the sun.

Speaker 6 (56:47):
What are you see looking back the water?

Speaker 2 (56:51):
I don't know the water, That's what I seem some fish.
I see it underclear what I don't see me? And
then that takes me back like on the Lion King.
You know what I'm saying, the scene we're movasa, Well,
I mean where Simba looks in the water and he
sees me, I don't see nothing.

Speaker 6 (57:09):
I thought you were going along with it. We gotta
find you a body of water.

Speaker 3 (57:13):
Well, maybe JA don't exist. So you want to want.

Speaker 1 (57:19):
You did the video with Glorilla. Yeah, first my people thought,
you know you always of course, but it was a video.
And then you said this last video you'll ever do.
Is that true?

Speaker 3 (57:29):
Yes?

Speaker 6 (57:29):
We didn't like why.

Speaker 4 (57:31):
Yeah, well it's not Vicci. It was that it was
actually like it was like an acting role. Like she
we were having conversations. She was literally like yo, like
to explain the idea. It was really hard to understand
certain things that she was saying. But you know, trying
to put my listening huh in the video. Yeah, we

(57:52):
had a conversation and we just we knocked it out like.

Speaker 1 (57:55):
Loresa's a good person to do a video with them.

Speaker 3 (57:57):
She honestly she is cool as hell.

Speaker 1 (57:59):
Yeah, she's like they named her like the number one
female rapper of the year and here you are, and
I love that. And I know it probably took a
lot for her to even ask you, like and for
you to consider it. What was that like?

Speaker 3 (58:14):
First off, like mad people was reaching out to me.

Speaker 4 (58:16):
They was like, Yo, Glows team like Gorilla's team is
trying to like reach out to you.

Speaker 3 (58:21):
And I was like, Rilla, like.

Speaker 1 (58:24):
You got to say that.

Speaker 4 (58:26):
Yeah, And I was just making sure like I was
having it because oftentimes, like sometimes when you tell me
a name, like I don't know the person face, like
I switched them up a lot. So then I was
like Google and I was like oh, I was like,
oh ships seven pm Friday, like I fuck with her
music like she's she's dope. She got this fire cadence.
And then I was just like but like what, like what.

Speaker 3 (58:45):
Is this song? Like is it? Like like I'm like,
fuck Nigga free, Like I'm not about to put my thing. No,
I'm not going to promote. But then in this one,
in this one, I love but she was acting correct.
She was like in love you. Watch she a't say
I'm bad about a minute.

Speaker 5 (59:01):
Why wouldn't you do it again?

Speaker 4 (59:04):
I mean, I justly it just yeah, probably just not.

Speaker 2 (59:10):
It depends, all right, you just cut up the fifty
thousand dollars. Check, it's cut it up.

Speaker 5 (59:15):
I had for you just you know, twenty minute cameo.

Speaker 1 (59:19):
But it's cool.

Speaker 3 (59:20):
Let's cut it up in your video.

Speaker 1 (59:26):
No, I'll talk about that in the second in the
next episode.

Speaker 3 (59:31):
My girl.

Speaker 1 (59:31):
Right, I'm gonna tell you how I first heard about her.
It was a song about it. It was a distract,
and we talked about it. Okay, I'm not he already
thinks I'm crazy. She did a distract.

Speaker 5 (59:42):
Don't talk about it, but I won't talk about you crazy.

Speaker 3 (59:47):
I think you just existing yea.

Speaker 1 (59:50):
Yourself.

Speaker 6 (59:51):
She don't see her reflection.

Speaker 1 (59:55):
Well, listen, I want to say I really enjoyed having
you here today. It was amazing. And listen, we didn't
even get to talk about all of the things before,
you know, all of the acting, because I know music
was a passion of yours first and foremost. Are you
going to get back to that?

Speaker 4 (01:00:12):
I think so like I think, I think in a
perfect world, I would love to like write soundtracks with
like songs like certain movies, certain kids movies and stuff
like that.

Speaker 3 (01:00:21):
I think that would be fire.

Speaker 1 (01:00:22):
But movies in particular, I would like, Yeah, that.

Speaker 4 (01:00:25):
Would be fire, or like any movie, particularly the kids.

Speaker 3 (01:00:30):
And I probably would have hit the stage again through
music just for the hell of it.

Speaker 1 (01:00:34):
Okay, we would like that. I don't want to ask
you just on the outside looking in the character of
you know Terry that you played Terry Flennery, what did
you think about his dynamic with Marquisha and with Lewana?

Speaker 3 (01:00:49):
Oh yeah, right, what did.

Speaker 1 (01:00:50):
You think about the decisions that he made there?

Speaker 3 (01:00:54):
I like, from from your plan, Yeah, from my point
of view, I thought it was wild.

Speaker 4 (01:00:59):
But I know that some of the stuff in there
is exaggerated for cinematic purposes.

Speaker 1 (01:01:04):
But I mean, just as a human being, as Da Vinci,
I would.

Speaker 3 (01:01:08):
Never make that decision. I was like, no, I would
never make that decision.

Speaker 4 (01:01:13):
If anything, I would be like the wan that like, yeah,
there's this lady that you know, she got some game
and wisdom about this ship, Like yoh, we should down
to have a meeting with that and my shorty ain
on board.

Speaker 3 (01:01:23):
But like talking to her or whatever, it's clip you.

Speaker 1 (01:01:27):
Never did nothing grindy in real life, Like women that
you've dated in the past, would they be like he did,
or would they be like he was amazing honestly or both?
But he was amazing honestly.

Speaker 4 (01:01:42):
I think I think they would speak, well, you're not
out there the broken hearts broken heart before, definitely, but
I got my heart broken too. Yeah, this first girl, man, oh.

Speaker 6 (01:01:58):
Man, one of them got to go through that.

Speaker 1 (01:02:01):
It was just like, okay, my mom, my brother, and
my best friend.

Speaker 3 (01:02:05):
It was like high school. It was like high school.

Speaker 4 (01:02:06):
It was just down like you thought he was in
love and then you was just like, it's just those
emotions are so new and you're just you're growing something.

Speaker 3 (01:02:14):
You're going through puberty, you know what.

Speaker 4 (01:02:15):
I'm saying, And you know you realize you're like, damn'
a rebound.

Speaker 3 (01:02:19):
It's crazy. It was a rebound basically.

Speaker 5 (01:02:22):
That was that that high school love.

Speaker 1 (01:02:28):
Like you're ye, go to that, but where is she now?

Speaker 6 (01:02:34):
Because like, but I know you probably.

Speaker 1 (01:02:43):
Like, yeah, you're.

Speaker 2 (01:02:43):
Looking at me now like mama, you know she told
her mama, mom.

Speaker 1 (01:02:51):
Look, it was not rebound.

Speaker 3 (01:02:59):
Look at him. I can't wrong.

Speaker 1 (01:03:07):
It might have been a white girl on the Florida.
I don't know, Okay, I said, I was.

Speaker 2 (01:03:18):
Crying over everybody had a heartbreak. When I was crying,
especially in high school.

Speaker 3 (01:03:22):
I love making it over the.

Speaker 1 (01:03:26):
Making things.

Speaker 3 (01:03:28):
I love it.

Speaker 1 (01:03:29):
I love it tomorrow.

Speaker 3 (01:03:31):
He was like, I was chilling. I was chilling. I
took a leg.

Speaker 1 (01:03:36):
Okay, you didn't like say, I'm a break every heart
after this, she broke my.

Speaker 6 (01:03:45):
Young heartbreak and then they move on in life with
that defense as if they have to break the heart
first because it happened to them before. And I really
don't like that.

Speaker 4 (01:03:53):
Man do that, I would say, But my mother got
such a good heart that I could never like disrespect
a woman like I can never do that, Like I've
seen my mother held him back.

Speaker 3 (01:04:04):
So it's like because we all.

Speaker 4 (01:04:05):
Like you know, we come from a woman, and and
they they're giving their life up when you come out
between their legs. So I just feel like for me,
the disrespect woman, even if she doesn't value herself and
doing the wildest things, I could never really see it.

Speaker 3 (01:04:18):
And disrespect them. I knew better, they would have done better,
so I can't really disrespect.

Speaker 1 (01:04:26):
And you said your parents are retired now.

Speaker 3 (01:04:28):
Yeah, they've been chilling.

Speaker 1 (01:04:32):
Was married.

Speaker 4 (01:04:33):
Yeah, they were married, and when I was coming and
they like spread split up and and I didn't deal
with them.

Speaker 5 (01:04:39):
Until like, but you had a figure.

Speaker 3 (01:04:41):
Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:04:41):
Then I started living with my pops, and my Pops
is definitely around. It wasn't for him, I would have
probably been dead.

Speaker 3 (01:04:48):
Uh. And then I got like recently they got back together.

Speaker 1 (01:04:53):
You never hear that part of it is because of you?

Speaker 5 (01:04:58):
After how many God.

Speaker 1 (01:05:00):
Because sometimes you know they retired together.

Speaker 3 (01:05:07):
They probably was a part for like.

Speaker 1 (01:05:12):
Wow, Wow, that's a that's a movie.

Speaker 3 (01:05:17):
That's it's like the notebook.

Speaker 1 (01:05:23):
How did they get back together? Like who initiated it?
What happened?

Speaker 3 (01:05:26):
I think they just started talking and it was probably
going some like you know, like.

Speaker 1 (01:05:31):
They're like, you're going to Abraham's. It wasn't maybe we
should sit together, it was maybe.

Speaker 4 (01:05:44):
It definitely felt like it was like strange, like for
a second, but I was like, I'm happy for him,
Like I never saw them in the household together.

Speaker 5 (01:05:50):
To see them, that's such a lesson actually love.

Speaker 1 (01:05:56):
Them.

Speaker 6 (01:06:00):
That's the product of that love. And they get to.

Speaker 1 (01:06:04):
Tell them run his money up.

Speaker 8 (01:06:06):
Okay, that's they got remarried and everything.

Speaker 1 (01:06:12):
Yeah, that's so beautiful.

Speaker 3 (01:06:15):
It was adorable, and I.

Speaker 1 (01:06:16):
Was adorable, poor boy.

Speaker 7 (01:06:24):
The wedding.

Speaker 3 (01:06:24):
No, I was just you know, I was just chilling.

Speaker 6 (01:06:28):
About their love story. That's so cute.

Speaker 4 (01:06:32):
No, but I'm unhappy for Hi because at the end
of the day, I don't think anyone wants to dialogue.

Speaker 1 (01:06:36):
No, they don't know. But you know, sometimes people move
on and they find somebody else, but they reconnected. They
found each other in twenty one years. That's why that's amazing.

Speaker 4 (01:06:44):
But like the way, like my mom and her and
the Bible, like you, unless he's like deceased, it's like
she thinks, like, yeah, she sees him certainly.

Speaker 1 (01:06:54):
Yea, because sometimes even divorced, you think like you can't
get divorced, you know, because I know from my mom
my grandfather was so religious, divorce was out of the question.

Speaker 3 (01:07:02):
Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:07:03):
Yeah he did get divorced.

Speaker 2 (01:07:05):
Yeah, but I'm waiting on this naked against ship together
for eleven years.

Speaker 5 (01:07:12):
You got hold. No, I'm just talking ship.

Speaker 3 (01:07:15):
Him.

Speaker 1 (01:07:17):
Yeah, I.

Speaker 6 (01:07:22):
Don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:07:25):
Foreigners, Foreigners like maybe taking they were serious. Good, they
make that vow, they like they dead asked a lot.

Speaker 1 (01:07:33):
I know, they like life is beautiful. We pray for
this ship.

Speaker 3 (01:07:36):
Right when we're done with.

Speaker 5 (01:07:37):
Want to see a picture of your parents? I got
to put the face to the story.

Speaker 3 (01:07:41):
Actually, don't you got a picture from the wedding.

Speaker 1 (01:07:44):
You didn't go to the wedding?

Speaker 3 (01:07:45):
No, no, I did, but I just don't have it
on this phone. I just got a new phone.

Speaker 1 (01:07:47):
Okay, yeah, sounds good. All right, Well, thank you so much.
It was everything I would have hoped it would be.
So we appreciate you. We had a good time. He's
streaking weather, ladies and gentlemen. It is yeah, it's not
it's not all right, it's water. It's lip service.

Speaker 3 (01:08:07):
Where did you get this name? Lip service room?

Speaker 1 (01:08:10):
You know that's a double onand okay, explain both lip services?
Like you told him something you don't clip service? You
know how it is in politics. So actually I have
lip service when I was serious, I used to work
at serious. Before that I heard yes, and so it
was like a double changre of lip service being like

(01:08:30):
just talking crazy but also lip service like being a
little bit sexy, maybe a little oral, a lot of oral.

Speaker 3 (01:08:37):
So you guys perform oral on the show?

Speaker 1 (01:08:39):
Yes, no, I'm kidding, but he's like you, is that
why you came, you know, all right, line up, lady turning.

Speaker 6 (01:08:51):
Something that's not.

Speaker 1 (01:08:57):
It was a double cute.

Speaker 5 (01:08:59):
You know, it's catch, just a little spice.

Speaker 1 (01:09:01):
You know, you don't know what.

Speaker 5 (01:09:02):
We're going to talk about.

Speaker 3 (01:09:04):
She got a lot of lip.

Speaker 1 (01:09:06):
Yeah, this is real. This was a warm up. Next time,
Oh my god, taking we didn't get he kept talking
about God question.

Speaker 6 (01:09:21):
But I'm training.

Speaker 1 (01:09:24):
We're going going as it's over. Now, it's over now,
going to a quick wrapping fire.

Speaker 5 (01:09:32):
Let's do a spit fire around for first questions.

Speaker 7 (01:09:36):
Okay, how old were you when you lost your virginity?

Speaker 3 (01:09:39):
Oh? Already afficable?

Speaker 1 (01:09:42):
And see what was the point of you? Yeah, is
very on crime.

Speaker 3 (01:09:50):
No, I just cannot like choose whether I.

Speaker 6 (01:09:52):
Can answer next question?

Speaker 1 (01:09:55):
How frequently do you ask?

Speaker 5 (01:09:56):
If he didn't even answer the question God question?

Speaker 6 (01:09:59):
Yes, you're gonna answer that and respect my p g
hers was I.

Speaker 8 (01:10:03):
Was like seventeen, okay, seventeen Okay, it's good, that's good.

Speaker 1 (01:10:09):
Was it a good experience?

Speaker 3 (01:10:13):
No? No, I mean.

Speaker 6 (01:10:20):
I don't like it was tragic.

Speaker 5 (01:10:23):
His first time was like me.

Speaker 3 (01:10:24):
No, yes, woman isn't any different.

Speaker 5 (01:10:28):
It wasn't.

Speaker 3 (01:10:29):
I don't know a woman was different?

Speaker 1 (01:10:37):
Yeah, like escape you don't massipate at all.

Speaker 5 (01:10:41):
He's a god fearing man.

Speaker 6 (01:10:43):
You don't know what I'm playing with himself.

Speaker 5 (01:10:46):
No fornication.

Speaker 6 (01:10:49):
Favorite sexual position, Oh my.

Speaker 3 (01:10:51):
God, that's what the quick Oh my god, sexual position?

Speaker 1 (01:10:57):
Uh, missionary. He likes doggy style because mostly gets me missionary.
He gave me like he gives me love making. He
gives me.

Speaker 6 (01:11:08):
You want to look into her eyes?

Speaker 3 (01:11:10):
And I think I think it depends. It really depends
if you want to pick one.

Speaker 6 (01:11:14):
What are you going?

Speaker 1 (01:11:15):
What's your goal?

Speaker 3 (01:11:15):
You go to with the person that I love?

Speaker 6 (01:11:22):
Tomatoes? Tomatoes?

Speaker 1 (01:11:23):
Last question, So you've only ever had sex with people
that you love?

Speaker 6 (01:11:27):
That's not true. That's not true.

Speaker 5 (01:11:32):
When it's the last time that you Oh.

Speaker 6 (01:11:35):
That's a good one.

Speaker 1 (01:11:36):
What time is it?

Speaker 3 (01:11:37):
Right?

Speaker 6 (01:11:41):
Answering this too much more, we don't even get it.
Gets when is the last time?

Speaker 3 (01:11:48):
Yeah? No, I can't. I can't answer, honestly.

Speaker 4 (01:11:51):
The only reason why I can't answer all this on camera,
I'll tell you why. Because when you when you portray
a role, right, a character, people come up to you
in real life thinking I'm Terry Frennery or I'm Darnell
or any of these other characters I play and when
you start talking about your personal life in a certain way,
you open the door to allow people to have criticism
on your personal life. So now you can't get mad

(01:12:13):
when they're asking when they see you in person and
they're doing certain things that it's like because I just
opened this door. So that's not true at all.

Speaker 3 (01:12:25):
I literally I went through I went through.

Speaker 4 (01:12:29):
Hell, Like I literally like I went through like some
real legal investigation ship with like people like it's like no, no,
like like people are like you for you being you know,
jazz and badass in Midwest and ship you don't really like,
you don't really like, so you you.

Speaker 3 (01:12:45):
Get in your own little world.

Speaker 4 (01:12:47):
But but some people it's like like.

Speaker 3 (01:12:50):
That, my man, my man, my man, they're like dead ass.
That's not a joke.

Speaker 4 (01:12:55):
You knowship like we ke ken, but anything personal or whatever,
like I can't talk about.

Speaker 6 (01:13:02):
That, So you're not gonna tell this if you're currently.

Speaker 1 (01:13:03):
I just don't talk about No.

Speaker 3 (01:13:08):
No, no, But but no, I know, I definitely know.

Speaker 10 (01:13:11):
I definitely know.

Speaker 3 (01:13:12):
I asked because I was just curious because I don't
know anything.

Speaker 11 (01:13:17):
You know what I'm saying, he't gonna come back, No, no,
I'll definitely come back you have sex is like I
always come back to think it's going to.

Speaker 6 (01:13:30):
Be waiting long ago.

Speaker 5 (01:13:32):
So it's long ago.

Speaker 6 (01:13:33):
My answer is way too long ago.

Speaker 3 (01:13:35):
Yeah, I'm glad. I'll talk to you guys about your
your problems.

Speaker 6 (01:13:39):
My problem.

Speaker 5 (01:13:40):
Would you believe that I haven't had sex since October?

Speaker 9 (01:13:43):
Yeah, but that attitude, I'm joking, don't.

Speaker 5 (01:13:57):
I'm finding these off.

Speaker 3 (01:13:59):
Okay, I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:14:06):
Believe you choice when I say what I learned today
is the bench You got so much game, y'all. This
was amazing.

Speaker 6 (01:14:14):
It was amazing.

Speaker 5 (01:14:14):
You have a love, good job.

Speaker 1 (01:14:16):
Thank you and we appreciate thank you. No, but honestly,
I didn't really enjoy this sit down. I knew that
like from when I first met you. You have a
great vibe and you from Brooklyn. I mean, what what
else can be said? So thank you and best of
like we're always going to be supporting everything you do.

Speaker 3 (01:14:32):
So we appreciate thank you so much.

Speaker 4 (01:14:34):
It was a pleasure me. You guys, thank you for
having me on the show. Appreciate all the questions.

Speaker 1 (01:14:39):
He's going, did you have.

Speaker 3 (01:14:45):
This is cool because this is this is a different
type of interview.

Speaker 6 (01:14:48):
Set up, and that's what we are which is different.

Speaker 3 (01:14:51):
You know.

Speaker 4 (01:14:53):
You guys, you guys played to your your base or
like depending on how the person is talking, becoming.

Speaker 3 (01:15:01):
Up crazy ship.

Speaker 4 (01:15:02):
I was just like, wait, I want to know the questions,
and I was like, damn, damn, damn.

Speaker 5 (01:15:09):
Would have loved to know the answers.

Speaker 9 (01:15:11):
Yeah, a little too much.

Speaker 7 (01:15:14):
One more sunglasses off for the cam?

Speaker 6 (01:15:17):
Do that one more time?

Speaker 4 (01:15:19):
Oh like just oh this is I appreciate you guys
so much, so much,
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