April 22, 2025 • 48 mins
Tasha Smith joins Lip Service and drops gems on life, love, and holding out. She opens up about staying celibate for 8 YEARS, why real connection matters more than sex, and the power of self-love. Tasha gets real about friendship breakups, being a fearless woman in Hollywood, and why she’s always rooting for other women. Plus, she dishes on Survival of the Thickest, and her directorial hustle...
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
What's up.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
It's lip service. I mean Jela Yee.
Speaker 3 (00:04):
I'm gg McGuire, I'm Geordie George, I am Tosha Smith.
Speaker 4 (00:14):
What's funny is that we've been sitting here talking so much.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
We thought we have a podcast.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Key, I thought we was already.
Speaker 5 (00:22):
Was like, oh, okay, let me because we've been trying
to say stuff like okay before we start, are we
allowed to talk about this? And Gigi shocked us all
because you know, you like, you have a boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yes. Gigi's like, I have a boyfriend, You have.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
A boyfriend, y'all, all stuff. And then what did we
say after she said that?
Speaker 2 (00:37):
I said, she said they haven't had sex yet.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
And then I said where you meet him in Nigeria?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
And then what you said?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
I said, that's not your boyfriend. We haven't had sex.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
I mean.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
You said, Joe, I mean, do you think that you
can't go together if you haven't had sex?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
And eight months it's been eighteen months.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
You ever seen the yes.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Yes together.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
I've been to Michigan to see him, he's been to
Atlanta to see me. I've met his mom and his grandmom.
I'm his dad on FaceTime Tennis. I have not seen
his penis.
Speaker 4 (01:18):
But I'm sorry, I am are you don't see nothing?
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Something wrong? You got born again? What happened? Like? Are
you celibate?
Speaker 3 (01:33):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
What I mean? How is this possible?
Speaker 3 (01:35):
I mean there's a lot of self pleasure happening. Next,
you've never have you ever touched it?
Speaker 4 (01:42):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:44):
We slept together twice and you know nothing about it.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
But I haven't had it in my hands where in
my mouth yet?
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Oh my god? Okay, so what is it?
Speaker 4 (01:54):
What is the reason that that you guys have upstained?
Speaker 1 (01:59):
So it's more our timing thing.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
We felt like we didn't want to rush you wanted
to take our time on purpose. So there's an age gap.
That's the first thing. There's long distance and there's an age gap,
and I had a problem with both. So I'm like,
we gotta slow walk this because these are two of
my red flags. But our energy, our chemistry and everything
is just so aligned that, you know, some things are undeniable.
And throughout the time these eight months, there has been
(02:24):
two situations that we actually slept in the bed together.
And the first time was like our first time sleeping together,
so it was kind of like, let me not, you know,
try not.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
With this little boy.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Yeah, let me not like, you know, scare him off
by being so aggressive. Right, and then the second time,
the second time we slept together, it could have happened,
but I didn't want it to happen because he had
a five am flight and I'm like, we're not about
to do it and you're about to get up and leave.
Not the first time, so we could have happened last time,
but I'm like, no, we going saber in this moment
when it finally after eight months, Oh, we're gonna live
(02:56):
in a right right right right.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
But it's just a months.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Yeah, we literally like just made it like officially air relationship.
But he was supposed to come to Atlanta this past week,
but I extended my Miami trip because I needed a chance.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
So you shout on the beach.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Instead of that's not a good sign.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Well he understands.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
You're gonna have to keep me posted. I mean, do
y'all know, Like I know Gg?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I love GG.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
That's my week go with fifteen, Like we go way way.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
I remember I was coming to Atlanta.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
You picked me up from the airport, right, like seriously,
I love it, like I love GG.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
She's such a legend.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
So but you've got to keep me posted on this situation,
what your thoughts you have. I mean, I just think
eight months is a long time, and so it makes
me question things.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
I mean, the fact that you've never touched he might
be a little bit low key intimidated.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
I mean, you know, I mean, I'm just like, but
I'm proud of you that you're taking your time.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
I guess. I mean, I am could have been you
know what, but no, it could have been me know what.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
But mental and emotional stimulation can be so much more
fulfilling than sexual.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
And this is my first time having that right exactly.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
So take your time. I mean, honestly, I think it's beautiful.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
You know what I'm saying. We got no more time
to take you wt me come to Atlanta.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
I'm pulling it, pull it out because I'm buckles and.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Yeah, but you know this has been eight months. You
know I was celibate before for eight years. Okay, so
like years celebate. I don't even know how I did it,
but bribe the grace of God.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Okay, did you want a lot of work done?
Speaker 4 (04:46):
Like it's because I didn't have a guy in my life, Like, yes,
I was focused, I was busy. I was I mean,
it was all about me taking care of myself, you
know what I mean. I got to know me on
a whole new level just from like taking time away.
And it's almost like like during that time, because I
was twenty five years old, right, and I had had
(05:09):
a lot of relationships prior to that and a lot
of broken hearts, and I felt like I was constantly
trying to reset myself. So I spent a lot of
time trying to heal from the last relationship, you know
what I mean, and just retriggered all the time. So
it was like eight years of peace, you know what I'm.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Saying, Like I didn't take.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
So when you broke this sec how did you know
that it was time?
Speaker 1 (05:37):
How did you know that you was ready to die?
The girls?
Speaker 4 (05:39):
Do you know that the first time I had sex
when I was celibate, I was married.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
I got married.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
I waited until I got married, and that lasted for
two years.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
And no shade. But I was like, we should have
just fucked. Ever, that's it.
Speaker 5 (06:00):
It has God forgiveness, no tell you not like you
had to be married to have.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Some Well, because I was very much in church, I
was very much like I was in and out of
ministry school, and it was a very spiritual thing for me.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
So yeah, for me, that's where I was at.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
How long wou y'all engaged before he was like we
got to get married?
Speaker 4 (06:18):
It was about a year, okay, like six months to
a year somewhere around there.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
I would have a guy, how would he handle that?
If you told him we gotta we tel.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Married, they'd be married. I'd be appreciating the wedding.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
I would literally be officiating the wedding on Sunday in
Atlanta Detroit.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
We never heard the other way around.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
But if a guy told you I don't want to
have sex until I get married.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
I'd probably marry him.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Okay, I swear to God, but i'd have to see it,
touch it. No, it's still get hard, you know, twenty.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Nine, you know, But I don't know. I don't mean thing.
He could have a nub what I'm just saying.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
You know, sometimes I do tend to think what the
guys that like really wait a lot of times it's
because they want to feel comfortable, yeah.
Speaker 6 (07:12):
Or they're not any good or it's.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Just small, and it's like I want to know that
she really likes me.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
First, you continue, y'all, y'all, I'm gonna.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Keep your I mean, I've just shocked that you never
like touched it.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Yeah, I'm being like respectful and like, you know, I
remember one of my friends from college told me she
dated this guy and she told me his dick was
so small.
Speaker 5 (07:33):
She was like horrified by it. But then every time
I saw him, that's all I thought about. Yeah, because
she still was dating him after that, but she was.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
When it's fine, chocolate six', five young, men pull out
that third leg on, Me i'm gonna hit you all,
up all, right, well.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
LISTEN i also want to get to Why tasha's been
doing a round as, well WHICH i, love AND i
want to that not everybody looks like they enjoy doing,
interviews but you look like you're truly having a good,
time And i'm sure they have to love. That AND
i know this is a, project well you have a
couple of projects right, now but that you're really passionate.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
About SO i love the thing is it's.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Back for season. Two i'm so. Excited marley's. Back marlee
is back in full, force full. Demand she has so much.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
FUN i don't know if you guys have seen it,
yet but this, second, yeah it's so. Good LIKE i
looked AT i was, like, wow this is really really.
Good like it's great, storytelling great. CHARACTERS i just just
full of. SUBSTANCE i love all the different relationships that's going.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
ON i Love. MARLEE i love how badass she. IS
i love that she's a business.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
Woman she's, powerful she's, bold she's, fearless she's running the.
BOARDROOM i just love it she can support her best.
FRIEND i, MEAN i JUST i love the line when
her friend Mar Mayvis Michelle pluto's character you, know Says
i'm trying to get a bank loan and she's, like,
BABY i am the, bank.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Friend the, property, right she is the bank do that to.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
Me BUT.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
I was watching BECAUSE i know Ton bella is on that.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Show he's one oh. Girl and WHEN i stand, up he.
Speaker 5 (09:22):
Was talking about, how you, know, financially how he's, doing
and he's like when people are, asking he's, Like i'm doing,
okay BUT i ain't doing good enough to lend you,
nothing because that's what people think when they.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
See you ON. Tv, yeah sometimes.
Speaker 4 (09:36):
You don't want people to know you working because the
second you negro find out you got a.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
Job they be asking for. Something you can't even cast the.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
Check yet you can't even like go by yourself, something.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
You know WHAT i, mean money spent not even on. You,
Okay so now.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Trying to spend money real quick before, everyone, right.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Because you can truly SAY i don't have it.
Speaker 5 (09:57):
Now marley's character, SAYS i date like a to white
man with all the.
Speaker 4 (10:01):
Entitlements is that some boss lovely? Stuff what is that
tape type of? DATING i mean that type of. Dating
it's LIKE i feel LIKE i feel like SOMETIMES i
was coaching an actress one time AND i was, like
what's the difference, between you, know a white woman and
a black? Woman she was like, privilege, Right and there
(10:23):
are sometimes like when you think about the way white
men work in the art move in the, world especially
like in that very rich corporate space when they're, balling
when like that that checkbook can.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Go zero zero zero zero zero zero, zero there's like no,
care no.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
Worry all the entitlements are there just to be able
to play this black woman that identifies with that because
financially she's, secure she's, confident you, know she feels, entitled
AND i feel like a lot of us don't necessarily
walk around feeling and. Title But i'll say, this and
(11:02):
this is a little bit of a, word like we
are all rich in.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
SPIRIT i feel, right.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
Even, You, jordan and even in the situation that we
quietly talked, About like if you walked around with the
mentality of entitlement and, expectation you probably wouldn't even care
about that or about what the circumstance.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
Is you know What i'm.
Speaker 4 (11:25):
SAYING i think it's a great way for us to
look at our life instead of looking at our life
from a place of lack and like feeling like we
can't afford, something we can't do, something we don't have,
something if we act like the rich people that we,
are BECAUSE i really believe That god has such a
(11:45):
purpose for all of our, Lives like we are. Rich
even WHEN i was, BROKE i was, rich you know
What i'm, Saying like even WHEN i didn't have, MONEY
i was. Rich my dreams are, rich my desires are,
rich my aspirations are, Rich like all the THINGS i
want to do are, rich are, rich rich. Rich SO
i don't have to walk through life looking at it
(12:07):
from a perspective of.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
Lack, right you know What i'm.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
Saying WHEN i was younger AND i really didn't have,
MONEY i never felt LIKE i was. BROKE i will,
say LIKE i enjoyed my life so, much AND i,
Did AND i think you get very creative during that.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
Time you, know you get real creative when you change
some coins and figure it.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Out, absolutely, absolutely.
Speaker 6 (12:28):
YEAH i think some of it, though is It it's
almost like we have to train our minds out of
being fear. Based AND i feel that way a lot
about black people in. General it's like society has beating
us down in so many different ways that sometimes it's hard.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
To almost get out of that, mindset you.
Speaker 6 (12:47):
Know AND i think that's why it's so important that
you are a big advocate for mental health as. Well
it's like sometimes we don't even know how to get
out of our own, way, yeah because we don't even
know where to search for the.
Speaker 4 (12:56):
TOOLS i, know SINCE i really, DO i really do understand,
That and that's why it's, IMPORTANT i, feel you, know
for us to really help support each other and inspire each.
Other like WHEN i, was you, know talking to the
guys on The Breakfast club AND i was just talking
about we're not in. Competition we're in, community, right and
we really do need each, other you, guys because it'd
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be so much going on inside of us around, us
and we don't need to beat each other down all the,
time like we need real sisters numbers like we really,
are like we really. ARE i, mean just like like
you AND i we've, known like most people probably don't
even know that you AND i are as cool and
as close as we, are you know What i'm, Saying
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but like, you my, girl and even like there are
times WHERE i know we've just talked and checked in
and just always motivated each.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Other at wherever we are in.
Speaker 4 (13:48):
LIFE i just think we gotta love our, sisters and
we really have to be our sisters, keepers because like she,
said the world is already doing a number on. Us
we don't need to do a number on each. Other
and if we motivate each, Other i'm telling, you we
would be so much more excited about any, challenge any,
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situation any circumstance that we have to, encounter because we
got somebody speaking life in us and helping us to
be able to keep on pushing past the, pain past the.
Fear and SOMETIMES i remember reading this book where it
was about it was about fear and just like doing it,
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afraid you know What i'm, Saying, like even if you
are afraid of, something just do it. Afraid and how
sometimes like even with her, situation we may not always
know where we're going to land right or how we're
going to. Land we feel that, turbulence we feel like
it's shaky and. Rocky but just because the plane is
shaken doesn't mean it's gonna go down like we. Don't
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just because if we're, driving we could be on our
way somewhere right and we could have hit all these potholes.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
And bumps in the.
Speaker 4 (15:00):
Roads just because we got to bump in the road
or a pothole or a detour does not mean we're
not going to make it to our. Destination we just
gotta be easy on ourselves and easy on each.
Speaker 5 (15:13):
Other, YEAH i would say every bad situation has turned
into later on something.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Better, yeah it Really and think about like.
Speaker 5 (15:20):
Even You, gig how you were Like, Okay i'm, Moving
i'm doing this and look at where you are.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
Now oh my, god got so much.
Speaker 5 (15:26):
Happening and sometimes and sometimes it doesn't happen right, away
and there's like a period of time where it's, like,
dang you, know when AM i going to get a?
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Break but then you get like ten?
Speaker 3 (15:37):
Breaks its exactly right, Now LIKE i went through the
ringer a year or two, ago and LIKE i climbed
up out of that, hole and now it's just like
blessing the, blessing nef the, Blessing And i'm like overwhelmed
with excitement of everything that's. Happening and on one, SIDE
i like can't believe. It but then on the other,
Side i'm, like, NO i put in the work for this.
ALREADY i deserve, this.
Speaker 4 (15:57):
Isn't there Something because we are so used to going
through pain that it's almost like we expect to go
through that all the. Time we're not comfortable when things
that go and get you know What i'm, saying because
we're so used to looking in the past at all
the bad stuff that we miss out the, moment or
we miss out the.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
Opportunities of the.
Speaker 4 (16:17):
Future because when you think about, it sometimes like our,
fear like for like moving forward or taking a leap of,
faith could be based.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
On some kind of trauma from the.
Speaker 4 (16:30):
Past but if we keep looking, back we can't look
forward and we cannot move out there in. Faith that's
WHY i think it's important for us to REALLY i,
mean this is What i'm on right, now BUT i
feel like that's why it's important for us to try
to have faith and take chances and take leaps of,
faith like talking about, you even what you've, done you
(16:50):
know What i'm saying in your. LIFE i was talking
With lauren and talking like About jess and like both of,
Them like When lauren LEFT, tmz look at the opportunities
that she.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Has, now, right but at the, time she.
Speaker 4 (17:03):
Wasn't sure what that was going to, be what that
was going to look. Like but when you take leaps of.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Faith your faith.
Speaker 4 (17:10):
Increases it's almost like your faith muscle becomes. Stronger so
the next time you encounter something, crazy you have more
faith to get you through, that you know What i'm.
Speaker 5 (17:22):
Saying and sometimes you do have to leave a situation
when you realize this isn't whether it's a, relationship a,
job a. Friendship you, know we have friendship breakups that
sometimes you, like you know, what from my Own, SELITYYO
i just can't deal with this. ANYMORE i went.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Through that recently. Too, yeah it was a friend up seven.
Speaker 3 (17:41):
Years we were like Freaking, fred and it'll never be the.
Same it cannot be.
Speaker 4 (17:45):
Reconduled do you feel like after that breakup you have
more time for?
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Yourself?
Speaker 5 (17:50):
Absolutely like ya don't have to hear this person complaining
about stuff following me all the, TIME i.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Really.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
Do and as close as we were and as tight
AS i thought we, were because clearly we weren't if
we went through what we went, Through it's just like
it was a, relief like a weight off my shielders At.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
Yeah you don't even realize. It how are you?
Speaker 5 (18:09):
About, Like, like let's say you're friends with somebody and
they mess, Up, like how forgiving are?
Speaker 2 (18:16):
You as far AS.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
I, Think i'm more forgiving of my friends than they
are of. Me, okay to be honest.
Speaker 4 (18:22):
With, you it's like LIKE i feel like LIKE i
will be quicker to forgive my, friends like or some
of the people THAT i may have been friends, With
LIKE i think that, sometimes you, Know i've had friends
that get frustrated with my, truth my, honesty the WAY
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i see. Things but for, Me i'm, like you can't
always get only what you want to, Hear, LIKE i
don't want to be a yes person in someone's, Life
like IF i can be a, person you, know to
spend time with, you to pray with, you you know
WHAT i. Mean and for us to be able to
have like these intimate, moments, RIGHT i should be able
(19:05):
to have the right to say things that may make
you uncomfortable without you getting upset with, me you know
What i'm. Saying and so SOMETIMES i feel, like you,
know you got to kind of re look at, relationships
you know What i'm.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Saying BUT i feel LIKE i.
Speaker 4 (19:19):
Forgive BUT i have definitely had friends that have not
forgiven me and not given me the same amount of
grace That i've given.
Speaker 5 (19:29):
Them, okay that's fair BECAUSE i had to. LEARN i
think SOMETIMES i was too forgiving AND i really had
to learn to be, like maybe this person isn't really your,
friend like If.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
I've had that two SINCE i.
Speaker 4 (19:41):
Have and my problem IS i feel like LIKE i
probably hold on to some like relationships too long.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Too you know WHAT i.
Speaker 4 (19:50):
Mean like and you, know and sometimes it's the voices
around us that will keep us involved in certain relationships because.
Speaker 1 (19:56):
People have come up to you and be, like, well.
Speaker 4 (19:58):
No, no, no but y'all coodn't but y'all for, now
y'all need to fix that everything you don't supposed to
fix and some things you're supposed to let.
Speaker 1 (20:05):
Go you know, What i'm say.
Speaker 5 (20:10):
Another one some, people BUT i will say, this some
people will forgive their man.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
FASTER, yea let's talk about.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
That CAN i just be? Like that is so?
Speaker 4 (20:22):
True i'm, like you didn't caught this, person you didn't
heard about this, person you didn't dealt with this person
doing all kinds of stuff to, You but you got
grace and mercy for. Them but the friend that's been
there for, you that's had your, BACK i do one
small thing that may have hurt your feelings or, something
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but you can't forgive. ME i think that's some. BS
i really, do because it's so.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
TRUE i see women do it all the.
Speaker 4 (20:52):
Time i'm, like you will give that man so much
grace and so many, chances BUT i say one thing
you don't, like and you want to throw me to the,
wayside like, literally and.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
LISTEN i believe. IT i know.
Speaker 5 (21:09):
It Like i'm not very forgiving when it comes to, men,
though SO i get. It Probably i'm probably more forgiving
with my friends than with a.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
Man i'm definitely more forgiving with my girlfriends THAN i.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
Am and SOMETIMES i feel.
Speaker 5 (21:22):
Like that's also a disadvantage, though because there's times that
guys mess up AND i didn't give much grace for
that the.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
Same but part of that is.
Speaker 5 (21:29):
BECAUSE i know, me, LIKE i know That i'm never
it's never going to feel the same, Thing and so
what's the point in me like doing that IF i?
Speaker 1 (21:37):
Know, yeah.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
How would he react in a? Situation will he have
grace with?
Speaker 1 (21:42):
You?
Speaker 5 (21:42):
No, yeah BECAUSE i feel like once a guy catches
you doing, something they feel like they have a free
get out of jail card for the rest of their.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
Life or they just never let.
Speaker 4 (21:51):
It BECAUSE i know some guys that have caught some
situations but they have given.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Grace it's you'd be so. Surprize how many men when
they are in.
Speaker 4 (22:03):
Love, yeah they don't even want to. Know they don't
want to, know but they don't.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Want to make.
Speaker 5 (22:08):
OUT i don't know that there are guys who have
pretended to not know something that they, Knew like. This
one guy was dating some one of my friends AND
i was friends with both of, them and she definitely
did something and he told, me don't tell her THAT
i know about.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
It don't even want her to know That i'm like
this is going To we're going to eat me up for.
This BUT i feel like.
Speaker 6 (22:34):
Women who forget or who are forgiven by men for their.
CHEATING i feel Like i've noticed a lot of women
like lose respect for their partner, Okay AND i feel
Like i've been one of those women, before, right like
you got me get away with, this, right Because i'm,
LIKE i wouldn't let you get away with, that, Right
and SO i don't. KNOW i feel like after, THAT
i was, Like, okay that was, cool and THEN i found,
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myself DO.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
I need to do it?
Speaker 5 (22:57):
Again that's how men, are you, know you forgive them
and take them back a lot of times they'll be
like they'll keep until it turns into a huge blow
up that they can lose their whole.
Speaker 4 (23:06):
Family AND i just think that sometimes men will keep
trying to see exactly how far you'll let them.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
Go, tas do you think that for?
Speaker 5 (23:15):
You being like an acting coach also AND i direct
it also makes you kind of a life.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
COACH i mean IT i consider myself because but you
know what it, is, SIS i just you, KNOW i
genuinely love people LIKE i just genuinely love people LIKE
i just genuinely care about. PEOPLE i mean, honestly it
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just really, is like this is How i've been my entire.
Life LIKE i love. PEOPLE i love seeing people. SUCCESSFUL
i love seeing people. HAPPY i love seeing people have.
MONEY i love seeing people. RICH i love seeing people look.
GOOD i love seeing women look.
Speaker 1 (23:59):
Good you know What i'm.
Speaker 4 (24:00):
Saying Like bernicia's behind when she first WHEN i first Met,
bernicia beautiful, girl just.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Gorgeous she came in like a. NUN i, mean she
was so wrapped, up weren't, You.
Speaker 4 (24:17):
Bernicia but the way THAT i look at, it like
and the REASON i said to, HER i, said you
don't have to cover up in front of, Me like
you don't have to come around me covered.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
UP i want you to. SHINE i want you to be.
Speaker 4 (24:30):
Beautiful Like i'm confident and WHO i am as a,
woman AND i love beautiful. WOMEN i, mean come, on
Like i've been friends With gigi for how? Long, okay
you know WHAT i? Mean, LIKE i just love women
to feel good about themselves and be. Beautiful AND i
don't believe in hating on women because they're.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
Beautiful it's not in the whole.
Speaker 4 (24:53):
Team it's like that's What i'm, saying, like even back
in the day WHEN i was, young we have this
girlfriend that we're still friends with Named.
Speaker 1 (25:02):
LYDIA i know she's gonna be But, LYDIA i, swear
looked just Like Shila.
Speaker 4 (25:13):
Ed, okay, okay back in the ag know how Fine
chili my home girl she and.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
Lied she she but Like Sheila. E i mean talking
about Fine like y'all see her On Crush.
Speaker 4 (25:27):
Groove like back in the, day she would wear that
one leg covered in that leg you, know AND i
mean just. Fly she had that asymmetrical, haircut just. GORGEOUS
i Met lydia and she looked just like. HER i was,
LIKE i want to be her, friend and she.
Speaker 3 (25:44):
Gonna get us in the.
Speaker 1 (25:45):
Club, okay she ain't gonna get us in the.
Speaker 4 (25:50):
Club AND i mean she had this little sports. Car
we became best. Friends we're still friends to this. Day
i've known her SINCE i was probably like fourteen or
fifteen years, old And i'm telling, you she.
Speaker 1 (26:02):
Fly she was flying in she fly.
Speaker 4 (26:03):
Now BUT i just LIKE i always loved fly friends around.
Speaker 3 (26:09):
ME i.
Speaker 1 (26:10):
COULD i didn't bear her it.
Speaker 4 (26:12):
IS i was, LIKE i don't have to be the
most beautiful girl in the. ROOM i don't. LIKE i
love when some everybody, bad everybody, fine everybody, hot.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
Everybody you know What i'm.
Speaker 4 (26:23):
Saying i'm, like let's, go let's walk, in like being
the hottest ones that walk in the.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
Club LIKE i just love, it you know What i'm, Saying,
LIKE i love.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
It that was.
Speaker 4 (26:43):
My joy right, THERE i, swear AND i love those
women LIKE i love those women like as a young,
girl like to even grow up to become friends With
Bernadette cooper From, crimes but to become friends With Shila
e you, know and see these gorgeous women just doing their,
thing it is.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
MOTIVATING i love.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
It, LISTEN i will, SAY i feel LIKE i got
like a fly. Crew you, DO i. DO i enjoy,
it like when we all go. Out it's. Nice WHEN
i go from city to. CITY i got. Friends, yeah
like let's go out.
Speaker 1 (27:14):
Friend oh, right SO i met my boyfriend was at In.
DETROIT i love. IT i love, it.
Speaker 2 (27:21):
You, KNOW i do the lau whatever we need to.
Speaker 5 (27:23):
Do i'm, like, listen you like. Her it's such and,
such like you, girl what you want me to tell?
Speaker 2 (27:27):
Him, OKAY i love.
Speaker 5 (27:29):
It now let's get back To marley's, character, though because
there's a lot going on on this season and everybody
y'all got to binge watch, it and it's like it
went too. Fast i'll say that because the episodes are
like thirty.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Minutes SO i feel like twenty.
Speaker 5 (27:44):
Five, Yeah and is it going to be picked up?
AGAIN i can't see it not because it's been getting.
Speaker 1 (27:49):
RAIDED i think it's so good it should be picked. Up,
yeah it's so.
Speaker 5 (27:52):
GOOD i can't see it not getting picked. Up and
another thing that people really loved about it, was, yes the,
friendships the, relationships but also the just existing like of
trans woman who's getting, Married, yes And Pepper peppermint, indeed
and so just even that speech That peppermint gave, about you,
know being able to have love and being a trans
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person that is able to actually like live the rest
of their life and love because everyone won't have that,
opportunity you, know to do. That AND i feel like
there's been so many harmful. Conversations, yes and the things it's,
awful like some of the THINGS i see. Online you,
KNOW i just had On Dwayne, curry whose trans they
did a movie about her ON Bt plus and the,
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Comments i'm, like y'all are wiling like.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
You're just mean for no, reason.
Speaker 5 (28:41):
Hateful, Yeah, Dwyn But dwyn been going right back at
people and like saying little funny comments because they just
keep saying.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
Stuff like you a.
Speaker 5 (28:48):
Man he's, like, yes you're, right like we'll just say
THAT I and then she hit me like you see
me going at these, people, girl, Right And i'm, like, okay,
good you. Know but it's ALSO i know that has
to feel like overwhelming.
Speaker 4 (29:00):
That it even needs to be like conversated. About LIKE
i don't even feel, LIKE i, mean that's the stuff
like THAT i feel we shouldn't even pay attention. TO
i think everyone should have the right to be who they, are,
period and that's the noise that can be very, distracting
you know WHAT i, Mean who cares about the? Comments
at the end of the, day who are these? People
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we don't know these, people.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
Like you didn't know these, people you.
Speaker 4 (29:25):
KNOW i, Mean i'm just, saying LIKE i, mean no
matter what anyone says about, anybody it's, like, like you
live your life like it's your life to. Live god
made you to be who you. Are you live your
life as you choose to live. It everyone has the
right to do. That as far As i'm concerned before they.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
Die, Right, no.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
But that's What i'm.
Speaker 5 (29:45):
Saying, like even watching, THIS i saw so many people
talking about that's me or that character is, me of
all these different characteris.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Yes, yes, YES i MEAN i love.
Speaker 4 (29:55):
IT i get to play a queer, woman you, KNOW
i get to work With Jerry, johnson.
Speaker 1 (29:59):
Who is up.
Speaker 5 (29:59):
Here WHEN i tell, You darry took it. PLACES i
had no idea we were going to.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Go, Absolutely she's.
Speaker 4 (30:09):
Fascinating she's, fascinating and she's so. MATURE i cannot believe
she's thirty years.
Speaker 1 (30:17):
Old now that's kind of like your. Man, Yes, okay.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
Did jerry get married?
Speaker 5 (30:23):
Yet BECAUSE i, know, okay not yet because last time
she was here she was talking about.
Speaker 2 (30:28):
It they have a very h they're about to explore.
THIS i couldn't do.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
It but my Best Jared's. Jerry that is So.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
Jerry then you can be polyamorous.
Speaker 1 (30:41):
Girl, PLEASE i, mean are you kidding?
Speaker 4 (30:43):
Me absolutely? NOT i mean absolutely. NOT i mean knows
this about.
Speaker 1 (30:52):
ME i never had a.
Speaker 4 (30:53):
THREESOME i only want one vagina in the. Room if,
ANYTHING i had like two.
Speaker 2 (30:57):
Guys how did it? Said she got?
Speaker 4 (31:04):
That But i'm a little, corny.
Speaker 1 (31:09):
Y'all Like i'm a little old. School i'm really old.
Speaker 4 (31:13):
School i'm like probably more conservative than, anybody you know
What i'm. Saying Like i'm like a ONE i, LIKE
i JUST i am definitely like a one person.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
Person.
Speaker 4 (31:26):
Yeah do you think that you'll get married? AGAIN i mean, yes, girl,
yes don't let me. STOP i don't want to talk about.
Speaker 5 (31:37):
That, Well, jesz when we first started, it she said
she never wanted to get.
Speaker 2 (31:44):
MARRIED i never getting married.
Speaker 4 (31:47):
Bything But i'm not looking to Like i'm not like
looking for a, Husband like that's not like my. Intention
Like i'm, like, OH i have to be married in
order to feel.
Speaker 1 (31:59):
WHOLE i agree with you know WHAT i. Mean i'm,
like if it, works it, works maybe it's a life,
partner you know. WHAT i could just be with you.
Speaker 2 (32:07):
FOREVER i.
Speaker 5 (32:08):
Could and we just made sure that our trust and
wheels are set up. Properly, yeah BECAUSE i think that's
a large part of the reason why people do. That
as a, contract it's easier the. Business something should, happen,
true you, Know and that's what people think about. Packwork
when it comes to the. Benefits you, know what the
government does if you're. Married there's a lot more things
that could. Happen BUT i want to ask you filming
this role Of, marley were there things about yourself that you're, like,
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hmm you know this actually sounds good just because of
the role that you had to play on.
Speaker 4 (32:36):
THERE i, mean, HONESTLY i just love how bold and
how Fearless marley.
Speaker 2 (32:42):
Is, honestly you're like that in real life. ALREADY i.
Speaker 4 (32:45):
Am BUT i probably wouldn't walk into a boardroom and,
say all, right everybody's shut the fuck.
Speaker 1 (32:49):
UP i probably wouldn't do.
Speaker 4 (32:52):
That but it's funny because one person was, LIKE i
Think i'm gonna walk into the bar and say that
everybody shut the fuck. UP i date like a rich
white man with all the.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
Entitlements, okay but.
Speaker 4 (33:04):
BUT i feel empowered by, Her LIKE i am bold
AND i am like. Fearless but IT'S i, Mean i'm
gonna say HOW i, feel, Right but BUT i do
HAVE i GUESS i try to have maybe some.
Speaker 1 (33:21):
Boundaries, maybe BUT i just.
Speaker 4 (33:23):
TRY i, MEAN i. GUESS i mean it's a little
bit Of marlee and. Me but she may push it
a little further THEN i may push.
Speaker 2 (33:33):
It she might be more. Abrasive, yeah, yeah maybe.
Speaker 4 (33:36):
That's like maybe she's a little more, abrasive Like marlee
is really the woman in my.
Speaker 1 (33:42):
Head you know, what you, know because what the problem.
Speaker 4 (33:47):
IS i feel guilty sometimes because, honestly people can't handle shit,
sometimes LIKE i. Swear it's like IF i go too,
FAR i don't, know maybe it's my. Voice maybe it's
too much for some, people you know WHAT i.
Speaker 1 (34:02):
MEAN i feel LIKE i gotta be very careful.
Speaker 4 (34:06):
Sometimes with, people you know What i'm saying and their
feelings and their emotions and things like, that you know
WHAT i.
Speaker 2 (34:13):
Mean you think it's this DNA's too where everyone, everybody.
Speaker 4 (34:18):
Everybody it is so like everyone is so like if
you see How i'm talking right, now.
Speaker 1 (34:25):
You're, like let me be. Careful let me tell.
Speaker 4 (34:27):
You some people would Say i'm yelling and this is
your regular li like literally like some people be like
she yelled at. Me LIKE i even had a situation
where SOMEBODY i was at. WORK i was actually on
a set and somebody.
Speaker 1 (34:43):
Was asking me to do.
Speaker 4 (34:43):
SOMETHING i was like, no And i'm in the middle
of the work and they, said, well can you guys say?
No and and they, said you guys said no and
no and then and then they were, like you're yelling at.
Speaker 1 (34:54):
Me i'm, like you act like you didn't hear.
Speaker 4 (34:57):
Me i'm not. Yelling i'm like in the middle of
working And i'm in my passion right, now AND i
just THOUGHT i needed to put a little extra tone
in that, voice so you know they.
Speaker 1 (35:09):
UNDERSTOOD i, said, NO i love. THAT i love that about.
Speaker 3 (35:14):
YOU i feel like that's something that we have in,
common our. Passion like when we really feel, something we
feel it and we let it be. Known and people
might take that the wrong, way but it's really just a.
Speaker 1 (35:23):
Passion it's just.
Speaker 2 (35:24):
Passion, yeah you're in a good. Space when you walked
in With, jordan you felt something was off of.
Speaker 4 (35:31):
HER i did you know what it? Is WHEN i
looked in her eyes AND i, said how you?
Speaker 3 (35:36):
Doing and this is y'all's first time meeting for the
people who don't, know.
Speaker 4 (35:39):
Yeah and she looked at me and she was like
it was something about the. Way she said she Good
AND i said you? Good you are and she was like,
YEAH i said for, real FOR i, SAID i could
just see, It, HONESTLY i could just see it in her.
Eyes but you know what that's BECAUSE i care about.
Her you know a lot of, times, right we overlook,
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people like we overlook people's, Feelings like we brush over
people when we're not looking.
Speaker 1 (36:09):
At them and seeing them and making a real connection with. Them.
Speaker 4 (36:13):
Right but if you take your, TIME i feel to
make a connection with, somebody you could probably experience a
lot and see a, lot you know What i'm. Saying
BUT i just feel like it's just it's almost like
a scrolling Through instagram or scrolling through social. MEDIA i
feel like when it comes to relationships and people and
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when we meet, people imagine how many People i've met
people literally that you, know like imagine you say, hi
say ahad to, Me, hey, hey, oh and so you,
know like people just people will up you don't take
the time.
Speaker 1 (36:49):
To look at you and say, hi how you.
Speaker 2 (36:52):
Doing you know What.
Speaker 1 (36:53):
I'm, Saying it's like there's no real.
Speaker 4 (36:56):
Connection you, know people are just moving through life so
quickly that they missed great, Conversations they miss meeting beautiful,
people you, know they.
Speaker 1 (37:08):
Miss hearing great.
Speaker 4 (37:09):
Stories and you know What i'm, Saying it's like we
got to just slow down a little, bit experience and
enjoy the experience of another human.
Speaker 1 (37:17):
Being, Right and.
Speaker 2 (37:19):
You, know people when they ask you how you're. Doing
people don't really.
Speaker 1 (37:21):
Care want to.
Speaker 3 (37:22):
Know sometimes If i'm in a bad mood or if
something is wrong and somebody say how you, doing.
Speaker 1 (37:27):
You really want to Because i'll tell you you really
want to? Know ain't that the? Truth ain't that the?
Speaker 2 (37:35):
Truth let me ask you.
Speaker 5 (37:37):
This you've been in this business for so, long when
did you and because we were talking about what Tone
bell had to say about people thinking you're rich because
you're ON tv and you know you're you're doing the
acting and you're doing stand, up when did you finally feel, like,
okay like this Is i'm straight here.
Speaker 1 (37:55):
Financially let me tell you, something mindy.
Speaker 4 (37:59):
Child you, KNOW i don't ever like just feel Like
i'm straight because there's always so much MORE i want to,
do you know What i'm. Saying and a lot of
times when like my production Company Camden bridge, developing like
there's always you know WHAT i, Mean but LIKE i
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REMEMBER i did you Know Daddy's Little? Girls AND i
made fourteen thousand dollars On Daddy's, Girls LIKE i mean
literally like and everybody THOUGHT i had all this, money
BUT i got paid scale and fourteen thousand dollars for
the whole. Movie that's. It BUT i did the movie
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and then everyone's thinking THAT i was making all this.
Money But i'm, LIKE i made like two grand a
week or something like, that you know What i'm.
Speaker 1 (38:50):
Saying So i'm not too. Rich and the taxes and
you gotta pay your, agent you gotta pay your, lawyer
you gotta pay you know What i'm. Saying you had.
Drafted oh my.
Speaker 3 (39:02):
God people really don't understand the everything that goes into
the bottom.
Speaker 5 (39:05):
Line, yeah but That but the good thing is That Tyler,
perry you, know. DEFINITELY i think that connection continued to
be strong after that.
Speaker 4 (39:14):
Too, no it was a blessing to. Do why DID
i get? Married and why DID i get?
Speaker 1 (39:19):
Married? Too and for better or? Worse, yeah, yeah SO i.
Speaker 2 (39:22):
Think but you're, right, though people see you ON, tv
they don't.
Speaker 1 (39:25):
Know they don't.
Speaker 2 (39:26):
Know they don't.
Speaker 3 (39:27):
Know they see a, movie they're, like, yeah you, know she,
rich she acted, funny she's.
Speaker 1 (39:31):
But they don't.
Speaker 4 (39:31):
Know you have responsibilities and sometimes like as an, actor you,
know and director and all of, it you do a,
job you don't do a, job you you know WHAT i.
Mean sometimes you go a long period of time without,
working and you yet we had at you still have
to you know, what.
Speaker 2 (39:48):
We HAD covid all of.
Speaker 4 (39:50):
That so that's WHY i always, say, like as an,
actor you got to learn how to save your. Money
you never know how things are going to, go you
know What i'm. Saying but a lot of, time your
friends and family, think because they see you on all the,
stuff that the money is just.
Speaker 1 (40:04):
Overflown but you got to learn how to. Budget you
got to be.
Speaker 4 (40:07):
Responsible, yeah and you have the lifetime.
Speaker 2 (40:11):
Desire, yes that's going to Be april, Nineteen april.
Speaker 4 (40:14):
Nineteenth i'm so excited About so you buy a talk
show host on?
Speaker 1 (40:17):
It i'm playing a talk show.
Speaker 4 (40:18):
Host, OKAY i love.
Speaker 1 (40:21):
IT i love.
Speaker 4 (40:22):
It it's just such a fun, movie, honestly AND i
just feel like it's going to be. Entertaining and it's
a Character i've never gotten a chance to play, before you.
Know And i've worked With Adrian, holmes SO i got
a chance to direct in Bel. Air And i'm also
an executive producing. It my, Friends I'm Derek williams And Adrian.
Williams you, know they have this series of movies they're
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doing For. Lifetime SO i got a chance to work
with them on this And, DEREK i really Thank derek
for even, presenting like sharing the.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
Script it was just us. TALKING i was literally trying.
Speaker 4 (40:56):
To help him find another actress for one of his other,
movies and then he was talking about the one he
had coming up after, that and he's telling me the
storyline And i'm trying to help him come up with.
Somebody and THEN i, say you know, what Maybe i'll
do this one with. You and it was like for,
REAL i, said, yeah read the script and it was so,
good so, fun And i'm so excited for y'all to see.
Speaker 3 (41:16):
It, Yay, yes a lifetime movie.
Speaker 1 (41:19):
Too.
Speaker 2 (41:21):
Yeah, Yeah i'm never going.
Speaker 5 (41:24):
Anywhere that's, right, right, right right, RIGHT i.
Speaker 1 (41:28):
SWEAR i think. Y'ALL i hope y'all enjoy, it will be.
Speaker 5 (41:31):
Watching and THEN i saw you working WITH. Yg, Also, oh.
Speaker 1 (41:36):
Shout out to Y. G that's my, baby cakes.
Speaker 2 (41:40):
Man, LISTEN i love. Him so talk to me about
what that experience was.
Speaker 4 (41:44):
Like and, well first of, ALL i MET yg Through Terrace,
martin who was a very good friend of. Mine he's
my very very good, friend AND i JUST i THINK
yg is. TALENTED i THINK yg is a wonderful. ACTOR
i can't wait to see his acting career just go.
Far and we were just kind of chopping it, up
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you know WHAT i, mean about, life about work and.
Stuff and then he was just telling me about the
project that he had work that he was working, on
and he was, Like, tosh would you do this with?
Me AND i was, like, yep. SURE i was actually
honored honestly that he. WOULD i, mean HE'S. Yg he's
just like he's so, talented and you, know like all
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the girls love.
Speaker 1 (42:27):
HIM i, MEAN i got all the girls hit me.
Up oh my, god you, know Y.
Speaker 4 (42:31):
G i remember WHEN i was getting my hair and
makeup done and he was calling.
Speaker 1 (42:36):
Me they thought he was calling On FaceTime and.
Speaker 4 (42:39):
They were, like, wait wait my hair in the back
AND i was, like, yeah he ain't calling. FACE i,
mean it was so funny, everybody AND i was, Like,
yg everybody loves, you you know WHAT i. Mean but
he is like like my little, brother like my my.
Speaker 1 (43:00):
BABY i love him. DEEP i love his. Family he's
a wonderful, father you, know he's a wonderful. Son you.
Know i'm so proud of.
Speaker 2 (43:11):
Him and as that thing's so different for him, Too.
Speaker 4 (43:13):
It's so different AND i feel like this is What
god wants him to do right, now you.
Speaker 1 (43:19):
Know What i'm.
Speaker 4 (43:19):
Saying but he's like he, Is he's, amazing and he's
like he's not in no broken. Place he's just you,
know he's talked about everything else that he's. Experienced why
not talk about, this you know What i'm. Saying AND
i feel like it will unlock things with so many.
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People BUT i just think it's amazing that he is
willing to dig in other parts of himself to share.
Speaker 1 (43:48):
Artistically And i'm proud.
Speaker 4 (43:50):
Of him and he's beautiful AND i love you AND
i got you.
Speaker 1 (43:55):
Period.
Speaker 5 (43:55):
SEE i told you period is like the life coach
that makes you feel, safe BECAUSE i, SAID i think
with an as far as you being an acting, COACH
i feel like that's just so beneficial with your skills
of being able to relate to.
Speaker 1 (44:07):
People, YEAH i think.
Speaker 4 (44:09):
That you, know a lot of people don't know, this
BUT i went to ministry school before AND i was,
LIKE i was, like AM.
Speaker 1 (44:15):
I supposed to be a? Preacher or AM i supposed
to be da da da?
Speaker 4 (44:18):
Da AND i just, say you know, what whatever the
gifts are That god has given, me this is my
ministry my, acting my, directing my, teaching you, know my
coaching people like that is my. Ministry AND i feel
LIKE i just want to have a, responsibility you, know
as a, DIRECTOR i want to show up as a good.
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Leader as an acting, TEACHER i want to help you
to be empowered to do your job and be the
best at it and be as fearless as, possible unlocking
everything in you to tell your. STORY i just enjoy, it, like,
like how could you not joy witnessing someone else's. Success
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that's why my company is Called Camden bridge BECAUSE i
am grateful for the opportunity of being a.
Speaker 2 (45:11):
Bridge see there it.
Speaker 5 (45:13):
Is AND i saw A dc young FLY i want
to end with this, too was talking about how you
he feels, like are so, underrated and he gave you
all the flowers for your work as a, director.
Speaker 2 (45:23):
And he was, like people need to be talking about this.
Speaker 5 (45:26):
More AND i think not even being not even being
a woman, director but a director in, general because you,
know sometimes people be, like, oh it's a woman because
it's not a, lot you, know not. Enough i'll say
that there's not enough that are getting the accolades that they.
Should SO i just think as a director in, general
people should be looking to you even, more and they.
HAPPEN i, mean that's really taken off and it's been a.
Speaker 1 (45:48):
Blessing, HONESTLY i had to remind People i'm still an.
Speaker 2 (45:51):
Actor yeah, Right i'm. BACK i feel Like i'm.
Speaker 4 (45:53):
Just starting all over, again honestly as an actor acting
really yeah.
Speaker 2 (45:57):
Yeah but you're.
Speaker 5 (45:58):
Not but, anyway, LISTEN i know the schedule is buts
and so we just appreciate you for coming.
Speaker 1 (46:03):
Through, NO i love, you, right you? Know you know you?
Boys why you got this song by?
Speaker 4 (46:11):
Nigga you know you know What i'm about to show
you how CORNY i. Am this is so. CORNY i
never even told, This like, geez BUT i had never
heard that song.
Speaker 1 (46:24):
Before this Until. Win until the day BEFORE i was
shooting this. VIDEO i was like, this why G.
Speaker 2 (46:38):
I was, like Now i'll be playing that, SONG i.
Speaker 4 (46:42):
Swear, charlie my, stylist was, like you playing that song?
Speaker 2 (46:47):
Like it just came out so.
Speaker 4 (46:49):
Funny every photo, shoot every morning getting her, makeup it's
going to BE i am playing my.
Speaker 1 (46:58):
Nigga, okay so guess What i'm a. RAP i love
it so. CORDY i was, like oh my, god BUT
i love that.
Speaker 4 (47:13):
Song i'm about to play it in the car on
my way the way.
Speaker 2 (47:17):
Out let's play the.
Speaker 1 (47:19):
Wedding come when you get married. Again that's gonna get married.
Again that's what that.
Speaker 2 (47:25):
FACT i might have Y g.
Speaker 4 (47:27):
Performance if anyone is fabulous enough to marry, me you're
playing that at.
Speaker 1 (47:35):
My, Wedding that would be. Sold be a fun wedding.
Speaker 4 (47:39):
Though to have Y g playing my nigga coming down
The aisland, edition oh my.
Speaker 5 (47:46):
God unless you marry a white guy and you're going
to hear that was up, here it's lip, service thank
you so. MUCH i make sure y'all Watch. Survival the
thing is WHEN i go back watch season one, two
because it felt like it took a while for season,
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two SO i had to get a Refreshed, yes exactly.
Speaker 4 (48:09):
Exactly it's so Good season, One season two And Desire
april nineteenth, one like all this.
Speaker 5 (48:15):
THING i want to pop up on somebody In, italy
like come, ON i, know, right, YEAH i want like
that type of life WHERE i do something like crazy.
Speaker 1 (48:23):
Yeah and then it doesn't.
Speaker 2 (48:24):
WORK i love, that all. Right it's lip, service
What's up.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
It's lip service. I mean Jela Yee.
Speaker 3 (00:04):
I'm gg McGuire, I'm Geordie George, I am Tosha Smith.
Speaker 4 (00:14):
What's funny is that we've been sitting here talking so much.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
We thought we have a podcast.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Key, I thought we was already.
Speaker 5 (00:22):
Was like, oh, okay, let me because we've been trying
to say stuff like okay before we start, are we
allowed to talk about this? And Gigi shocked us all
because you know, you like, you have a boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yes. Gigi's like, I have a boyfriend, You have.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
A boyfriend, y'all, all stuff. And then what did we
say after she said that?
Speaker 2 (00:37):
I said, she said they haven't had sex yet.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
And then I said where you meet him in Nigeria?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
And then what you said?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
I said, that's not your boyfriend. We haven't had sex.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
I mean.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
You said, Joe, I mean, do you think that you
can't go together if you haven't had sex?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
And eight months it's been eighteen months.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
You ever seen the yes.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Yes together.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
I've been to Michigan to see him, he's been to
Atlanta to see me. I've met his mom and his grandmom.
I'm his dad on FaceTime Tennis. I have not seen
his penis.
Speaker 4 (01:18):
But I'm sorry, I am are you don't see nothing?
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Something wrong? You got born again? What happened? Like? Are
you celibate?
Speaker 3 (01:33):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
What I mean? How is this possible?
Speaker 3 (01:35):
I mean there's a lot of self pleasure happening. Next,
you've never have you ever touched it?
Speaker 4 (01:42):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:44):
We slept together twice and you know nothing about it.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
But I haven't had it in my hands where in
my mouth yet?
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Oh my god? Okay, so what is it?
Speaker 4 (01:54):
What is the reason that that you guys have upstained?
Speaker 1 (01:59):
So it's more our timing thing.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
We felt like we didn't want to rush you wanted
to take our time on purpose. So there's an age gap.
That's the first thing. There's long distance and there's an age gap,
and I had a problem with both. So I'm like,
we gotta slow walk this because these are two of
my red flags. But our energy, our chemistry and everything
is just so aligned that, you know, some things are undeniable.
And throughout the time these eight months, there has been
(02:24):
two situations that we actually slept in the bed together.
And the first time was like our first time sleeping together,
so it was kind of like, let me not, you know,
try not.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
With this little boy.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Yeah, let me not like, you know, scare him off
by being so aggressive. Right, and then the second time,
the second time we slept together, it could have happened,
but I didn't want it to happen because he had
a five am flight and I'm like, we're not about
to do it and you're about to get up and leave.
Not the first time, so we could have happened last time,
but I'm like, no, we going saber in this moment
when it finally after eight months, Oh, we're gonna live
(02:56):
in a right right right right.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
But it's just a months.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Yeah, we literally like just made it like officially air relationship.
But he was supposed to come to Atlanta this past week,
but I extended my Miami trip because I needed a chance.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
So you shout on the beach.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Instead of that's not a good sign.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Well he understands.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
You're gonna have to keep me posted. I mean, do
y'all know, Like I know Gg?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I love GG.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
That's my week go with fifteen, Like we go way way.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
I remember I was coming to Atlanta.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
You picked me up from the airport, right, like seriously,
I love it, like I love GG.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
She's such a legend.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
So but you've got to keep me posted on this situation,
what your thoughts you have. I mean, I just think
eight months is a long time, and so it makes
me question things.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
I mean, the fact that you've never touched he might
be a little bit low key intimidated.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
I mean, you know, I mean, I'm just like, but
I'm proud of you that you're taking your time.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
I guess. I mean, I am could have been you
know what, but no, it could have been me know what.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
But mental and emotional stimulation can be so much more
fulfilling than sexual.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
And this is my first time having that right exactly.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
So take your time. I mean, honestly, I think it's beautiful.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
You know what I'm saying. We got no more time
to take you wt me come to Atlanta.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
I'm pulling it, pull it out because I'm buckles and.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Yeah, but you know this has been eight months. You
know I was celibate before for eight years. Okay, so
like years celebate. I don't even know how I did it,
but bribe the grace of God.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Okay, did you want a lot of work done?
Speaker 4 (04:46):
Like it's because I didn't have a guy in my life, Like, yes,
I was focused, I was busy. I was I mean,
it was all about me taking care of myself, you
know what I mean. I got to know me on
a whole new level just from like taking time away.
And it's almost like like during that time, because I
was twenty five years old, right, and I had had
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a lot of relationships prior to that and a lot
of broken hearts, and I felt like I was constantly
trying to reset myself. So I spent a lot of
time trying to heal from the last relationship, you know
what I mean, and just retriggered all the time. So
it was like eight years of peace, you know what I'm.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Saying, Like I didn't take.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
So when you broke this sec how did you know
that it was time?
Speaker 1 (05:37):
How did you know that you was ready to die?
The girls?
Speaker 4 (05:39):
Do you know that the first time I had sex
when I was celibate, I was married.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
I got married.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
I waited until I got married, and that lasted for
two years.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
And no shade. But I was like, we should have
just fucked. Ever, that's it.
Speaker 5 (06:00):
It has God forgiveness, no tell you not like you
had to be married to have.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Some Well, because I was very much in church, I
was very much like I was in and out of
ministry school, and it was a very spiritual thing for me.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
So yeah, for me, that's where I was at.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
How long wou y'all engaged before he was like we
got to get married?
Speaker 4 (06:18):
It was about a year, okay, like six months to
a year somewhere around there.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
I would have a guy, how would he handle that?
If you told him we gotta we tel.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Married, they'd be married. I'd be appreciating the wedding.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
I would literally be officiating the wedding on Sunday in
Atlanta Detroit.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
We never heard the other way around.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
But if a guy told you I don't want to
have sex until I get married.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
I'd probably marry him.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Okay, I swear to God, but i'd have to see it,
touch it. No, it's still get hard, you know, twenty.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Nine, you know, But I don't know. I don't mean thing.
He could have a nub what I'm just saying.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
You know, sometimes I do tend to think what the
guys that like really wait a lot of times it's
because they want to feel comfortable, yeah.
Speaker 6 (07:12):
Or they're not any good or it's.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Just small, and it's like I want to know that
she really likes me.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
First, you continue, y'all, y'all, I'm gonna.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Keep your I mean, I've just shocked that you never
like touched it.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Yeah, I'm being like respectful and like, you know, I
remember one of my friends from college told me she
dated this guy and she told me his dick was
so small.
Speaker 5 (07:33):
She was like horrified by it. But then every time
I saw him, that's all I thought about. Yeah, because
she still was dating him after that, but she was.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
When it's fine, chocolate six', five young, men pull out
that third leg on, Me i'm gonna hit you all,
up all, right, well.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
LISTEN i also want to get to Why tasha's been
doing a round as, well WHICH i, love AND i
want to that not everybody looks like they enjoy doing,
interviews but you look like you're truly having a good,
time And i'm sure they have to love. That AND
i know this is a, project well you have a
couple of projects right, now but that you're really passionate.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
About SO i love the thing is it's.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Back for season. Two i'm so. Excited marley's. Back marlee
is back in full, force full. Demand she has so much.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
FUN i don't know if you guys have seen it,
yet but this, second, yeah it's so. Good LIKE i
looked AT i was, like, wow this is really really.
Good like it's great, storytelling great. CHARACTERS i just just
full of. SUBSTANCE i love all the different relationships that's going.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
ON i Love. MARLEE i love how badass she. IS
i love that she's a business.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
Woman she's, powerful she's, bold she's, fearless she's running the.
BOARDROOM i just love it she can support her best.
FRIEND i, MEAN i JUST i love the line when
her friend Mar Mayvis Michelle pluto's character you, know Says
i'm trying to get a bank loan and she's, like,
BABY i am the, bank.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Friend the, property, right she is the bank do that to.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
Me BUT.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
I was watching BECAUSE i know Ton bella is on that.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Show he's one oh. Girl and WHEN i stand, up he.
Speaker 5 (09:22):
Was talking about, how you, know, financially how he's, doing
and he's like when people are, asking he's, Like i'm doing,
okay BUT i ain't doing good enough to lend you,
nothing because that's what people think when they.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
See you ON. Tv, yeah sometimes.
Speaker 4 (09:36):
You don't want people to know you working because the
second you negro find out you got a.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
Job they be asking for. Something you can't even cast the.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
Check yet you can't even like go by yourself, something.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
You know WHAT i, mean money spent not even on. You,
Okay so now.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Trying to spend money real quick before, everyone, right.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Because you can truly SAY i don't have it.
Speaker 5 (09:57):
Now marley's character, SAYS i date like a to white
man with all the.
Speaker 4 (10:01):
Entitlements is that some boss lovely? Stuff what is that
tape type of? DATING i mean that type of. Dating
it's LIKE i feel LIKE i feel like SOMETIMES i
was coaching an actress one time AND i was, like
what's the difference, between you, know a white woman and
a black? Woman she was like, privilege, Right and there
(10:23):
are sometimes like when you think about the way white
men work in the art move in the, world especially
like in that very rich corporate space when they're, balling
when like that that checkbook can.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Go zero zero zero zero zero zero, zero there's like no,
care no.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
Worry all the entitlements are there just to be able
to play this black woman that identifies with that because
financially she's, secure she's, confident you, know she feels, entitled
AND i feel like a lot of us don't necessarily
walk around feeling and. Title But i'll say, this and
(11:02):
this is a little bit of a, word like we
are all rich in.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
SPIRIT i feel, right.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
Even, You, jordan and even in the situation that we
quietly talked, About like if you walked around with the
mentality of entitlement and, expectation you probably wouldn't even care
about that or about what the circumstance.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
Is you know What i'm.
Speaker 4 (11:25):
SAYING i think it's a great way for us to
look at our life instead of looking at our life
from a place of lack and like feeling like we
can't afford, something we can't do, something we don't have,
something if we act like the rich people that we,
are BECAUSE i really believe That god has such a
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purpose for all of our, Lives like we are. Rich
even WHEN i was, BROKE i was, rich you know
What i'm, Saying like even WHEN i didn't have, MONEY
i was. Rich my dreams are, rich my desires are,
rich my aspirations are, Rich like all the THINGS i
want to do are, rich are, rich rich. Rich SO
i don't have to walk through life looking at it
(12:07):
from a perspective of.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
Lack, right you know What i'm.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
Saying WHEN i was younger AND i really didn't have,
MONEY i never felt LIKE i was. BROKE i will,
say LIKE i enjoyed my life so, much AND i,
Did AND i think you get very creative during that.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
Time you, know you get real creative when you change
some coins and figure it.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Out, absolutely, absolutely.
Speaker 6 (12:28):
YEAH i think some of it, though is It it's
almost like we have to train our minds out of
being fear. Based AND i feel that way a lot
about black people in. General it's like society has beating
us down in so many different ways that sometimes it's hard.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
To almost get out of that, mindset you.
Speaker 6 (12:47):
Know AND i think that's why it's so important that
you are a big advocate for mental health as. Well
it's like sometimes we don't even know how to get
out of our own, way, yeah because we don't even
know where to search for the.
Speaker 4 (12:56):
TOOLS i, know SINCE i really, DO i really do understand,
That and that's why it's, IMPORTANT i, feel you, know
for us to really help support each other and inspire each.
Other like WHEN i, was you, know talking to the
guys on The Breakfast club AND i was just talking
about we're not in. Competition we're in, community, right and
we really do need each, other you, guys because it'd
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be so much going on inside of us around, us
and we don't need to beat each other down all the,
time like we need real sisters numbers like we really,
are like we really. ARE i, mean just like like
you AND i we've, known like most people probably don't
even know that you AND i are as cool and
as close as we, are you know What i'm, Saying
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but like, you my, girl and even like there are
times WHERE i know we've just talked and checked in
and just always motivated each.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Other at wherever we are in.
Speaker 4 (13:48):
LIFE i just think we gotta love our, sisters and
we really have to be our sisters, keepers because like she,
said the world is already doing a number on. Us
we don't need to do a number on each. Other
and if we motivate each, Other i'm telling, you we
would be so much more excited about any, challenge any,
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situation any circumstance that we have to, encounter because we
got somebody speaking life in us and helping us to
be able to keep on pushing past the, pain past the.
Fear and SOMETIMES i remember reading this book where it
was about it was about fear and just like doing it,
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afraid you know What i'm, Saying, like even if you
are afraid of, something just do it. Afraid and how
sometimes like even with her, situation we may not always
know where we're going to land right or how we're
going to. Land we feel that, turbulence we feel like
it's shaky and. Rocky but just because the plane is
shaken doesn't mean it's gonna go down like we. Don't
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just because if we're, driving we could be on our
way somewhere right and we could have hit all these potholes.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
And bumps in the.
Speaker 4 (15:00):
Roads just because we got to bump in the road
or a pothole or a detour does not mean we're
not going to make it to our. Destination we just
gotta be easy on ourselves and easy on each.
Speaker 5 (15:13):
Other, YEAH i would say every bad situation has turned
into later on something.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Better, yeah it Really and think about like.
Speaker 5 (15:20):
Even You, gig how you were Like, Okay i'm, Moving
i'm doing this and look at where you are.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
Now oh my, god got so much.
Speaker 5 (15:26):
Happening and sometimes and sometimes it doesn't happen right, away
and there's like a period of time where it's, like,
dang you, know when AM i going to get a?
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Break but then you get like ten?
Speaker 3 (15:37):
Breaks its exactly right, Now LIKE i went through the
ringer a year or two, ago and LIKE i climbed
up out of that, hole and now it's just like
blessing the, blessing nef the, Blessing And i'm like overwhelmed
with excitement of everything that's. Happening and on one, SIDE
i like can't believe. It but then on the other,
Side i'm, like, NO i put in the work for this.
ALREADY i deserve, this.
Speaker 4 (15:57):
Isn't there Something because we are so used to going
through pain that it's almost like we expect to go
through that all the. Time we're not comfortable when things
that go and get you know What i'm, saying because
we're so used to looking in the past at all
the bad stuff that we miss out the, moment or
we miss out the.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
Opportunities of the.
Speaker 4 (16:17):
Future because when you think about, it sometimes like our,
fear like for like moving forward or taking a leap of,
faith could be based.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
On some kind of trauma from the.
Speaker 4 (16:30):
Past but if we keep looking, back we can't look
forward and we cannot move out there in. Faith that's
WHY i think it's important for us to REALLY i,
mean this is What i'm on right, now BUT i
feel like that's why it's important for us to try
to have faith and take chances and take leaps of,
faith like talking about, you even what you've, done you
(16:50):
know What i'm saying in your. LIFE i was talking
With lauren and talking like About jess and like both of,
Them like When lauren LEFT, tmz look at the opportunities
that she.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Has, now, right but at the, time she.
Speaker 4 (17:03):
Wasn't sure what that was going to, be what that
was going to look. Like but when you take leaps of.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Faith your faith.
Speaker 4 (17:10):
Increases it's almost like your faith muscle becomes. Stronger so
the next time you encounter something, crazy you have more
faith to get you through, that you know What i'm.
Speaker 5 (17:22):
Saying and sometimes you do have to leave a situation
when you realize this isn't whether it's a, relationship a,
job a. Friendship you, know we have friendship breakups that
sometimes you, like you know, what from my Own, SELITYYO
i just can't deal with this. ANYMORE i went.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Through that recently. Too, yeah it was a friend up seven.
Speaker 3 (17:41):
Years we were like Freaking, fred and it'll never be the.
Same it cannot be.
Speaker 4 (17:45):
Reconduled do you feel like after that breakup you have
more time for?
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Yourself?
Speaker 5 (17:50):
Absolutely like ya don't have to hear this person complaining
about stuff following me all the, TIME i.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Really.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
Do and as close as we were and as tight
AS i thought we, were because clearly we weren't if
we went through what we went, Through it's just like
it was a, relief like a weight off my shielders At.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
Yeah you don't even realize. It how are you?
Speaker 5 (18:09):
About, Like, like let's say you're friends with somebody and
they mess, Up, like how forgiving are?
Speaker 2 (18:16):
You as far AS.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
I, Think i'm more forgiving of my friends than they
are of. Me, okay to be honest.
Speaker 4 (18:22):
With, you it's like LIKE i feel like LIKE i
will be quicker to forgive my, friends like or some
of the people THAT i may have been friends, With
LIKE i think that, sometimes you, Know i've had friends
that get frustrated with my, truth my, honesty the WAY
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i see. Things but for, Me i'm, like you can't
always get only what you want to, Hear, LIKE i
don't want to be a yes person in someone's, Life
like IF i can be a, person you, know to
spend time with, you to pray with, you you know
WHAT i. Mean and for us to be able to
have like these intimate, moments, RIGHT i should be able
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to have the right to say things that may make
you uncomfortable without you getting upset with, me you know
What i'm. Saying and so SOMETIMES i feel, like you,
know you got to kind of re look at, relationships
you know What i'm.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Saying BUT i feel LIKE i.
Speaker 4 (19:19):
Forgive BUT i have definitely had friends that have not
forgiven me and not given me the same amount of
grace That i've given.
Speaker 5 (19:29):
Them, okay that's fair BECAUSE i had to. LEARN i
think SOMETIMES i was too forgiving AND i really had
to learn to be, like maybe this person isn't really your,
friend like If.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
I've had that two SINCE i.
Speaker 4 (19:41):
Have and my problem IS i feel like LIKE i
probably hold on to some like relationships too long.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Too you know WHAT i.
Speaker 4 (19:50):
Mean like and you, know and sometimes it's the voices
around us that will keep us involved in certain relationships because.
Speaker 1 (19:56):
People have come up to you and be, like, well.
Speaker 4 (19:58):
No, no, no but y'all coodn't but y'all for, now
y'all need to fix that everything you don't supposed to
fix and some things you're supposed to let.
Speaker 1 (20:05):
Go you know, What i'm say.
Speaker 5 (20:10):
Another one some, people BUT i will say, this some
people will forgive their man.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
FASTER, yea let's talk about.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
That CAN i just be? Like that is so?
Speaker 4 (20:22):
True i'm, like you didn't caught this, person you didn't
heard about this, person you didn't dealt with this person
doing all kinds of stuff to, You but you got
grace and mercy for. Them but the friend that's been
there for, you that's had your, BACK i do one
small thing that may have hurt your feelings or, something
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but you can't forgive. ME i think that's some. BS
i really, do because it's so.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
TRUE i see women do it all the.
Speaker 4 (20:52):
Time i'm, like you will give that man so much
grace and so many, chances BUT i say one thing
you don't, like and you want to throw me to the,
wayside like, literally and.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
LISTEN i believe. IT i know.
Speaker 5 (21:09):
It Like i'm not very forgiving when it comes to, men,
though SO i get. It Probably i'm probably more forgiving
with my friends than with a.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
Man i'm definitely more forgiving with my girlfriends THAN i.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
Am and SOMETIMES i feel.
Speaker 5 (21:22):
Like that's also a disadvantage, though because there's times that
guys mess up AND i didn't give much grace for
that the.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
Same but part of that is.
Speaker 5 (21:29):
BECAUSE i know, me, LIKE i know That i'm never
it's never going to feel the same, Thing and so
what's the point in me like doing that IF i?
Speaker 1 (21:37):
Know, yeah.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
How would he react in a? Situation will he have
grace with?
Speaker 1 (21:42):
You?
Speaker 5 (21:42):
No, yeah BECAUSE i feel like once a guy catches
you doing, something they feel like they have a free
get out of jail card for the rest of their.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
Life or they just never let.
Speaker 4 (21:51):
It BECAUSE i know some guys that have caught some
situations but they have given.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Grace it's you'd be so. Surprize how many men when
they are in.
Speaker 4 (22:03):
Love, yeah they don't even want to. Know they don't
want to, know but they don't.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Want to make.
Speaker 5 (22:08):
OUT i don't know that there are guys who have
pretended to not know something that they, Knew like. This
one guy was dating some one of my friends AND
i was friends with both of, them and she definitely
did something and he told, me don't tell her THAT
i know about.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
It don't even want her to know That i'm like
this is going To we're going to eat me up for.
This BUT i feel like.
Speaker 6 (22:34):
Women who forget or who are forgiven by men for their.
CHEATING i feel Like i've noticed a lot of women
like lose respect for their partner, Okay AND i feel
Like i've been one of those women, before, right like
you got me get away with, this, right Because i'm,
LIKE i wouldn't let you get away with, that, Right
and SO i don't. KNOW i feel like after, THAT
i was, Like, okay that was, cool and THEN i found,
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myself DO.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
I need to do it?
Speaker 5 (22:57):
Again that's how men, are you, know you forgive them
and take them back a lot of times they'll be
like they'll keep until it turns into a huge blow
up that they can lose their whole.
Speaker 4 (23:06):
Family AND i just think that sometimes men will keep
trying to see exactly how far you'll let them.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
Go, tas do you think that for?
Speaker 5 (23:15):
You being like an acting coach also AND i direct
it also makes you kind of a life.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
COACH i mean IT i consider myself because but you
know what it, is, SIS i just you, KNOW i
genuinely love people LIKE i just genuinely love people LIKE
i just genuinely care about. PEOPLE i mean, honestly it
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just really, is like this is How i've been my entire.
Life LIKE i love. PEOPLE i love seeing people. SUCCESSFUL
i love seeing people. HAPPY i love seeing people have.
MONEY i love seeing people. RICH i love seeing people look.
GOOD i love seeing women look.
Speaker 1 (23:59):
Good you know What i'm.
Speaker 4 (24:00):
Saying Like bernicia's behind when she first WHEN i first Met,
bernicia beautiful, girl just.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Gorgeous she came in like a. NUN i, mean she
was so wrapped, up weren't, You.
Speaker 4 (24:17):
Bernicia but the way THAT i look at, it like
and the REASON i said to, HER i, said you
don't have to cover up in front of, Me like
you don't have to come around me covered.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
UP i want you to. SHINE i want you to be.
Speaker 4 (24:30):
Beautiful Like i'm confident and WHO i am as a,
woman AND i love beautiful. WOMEN i, mean come, on
Like i've been friends With gigi for how? Long, okay
you know WHAT i? Mean, LIKE i just love women
to feel good about themselves and be. Beautiful AND i
don't believe in hating on women because they're.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
Beautiful it's not in the whole.
Speaker 4 (24:53):
Team it's like that's What i'm, saying, like even back
in the day WHEN i was, young we have this
girlfriend that we're still friends with Named.
Speaker 1 (25:02):
LYDIA i know she's gonna be But, LYDIA i, swear
looked just Like Shila.
Speaker 4 (25:13):
Ed, okay, okay back in the ag know how Fine
chili my home girl she and.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
Lied she she but Like Sheila. E i mean talking
about Fine like y'all see her On Crush.
Speaker 4 (25:27):
Groove like back in the, day she would wear that
one leg covered in that leg you, know AND i
mean just. Fly she had that asymmetrical, haircut just. GORGEOUS
i Met lydia and she looked just like. HER i was,
LIKE i want to be her, friend and she.
Speaker 3 (25:44):
Gonna get us in the.
Speaker 1 (25:45):
Club, okay she ain't gonna get us in the.
Speaker 4 (25:50):
Club AND i mean she had this little sports. Car
we became best. Friends we're still friends to this. Day
i've known her SINCE i was probably like fourteen or
fifteen years, old And i'm telling, you she.
Speaker 1 (26:02):
Fly she was flying in she fly.
Speaker 4 (26:03):
Now BUT i just LIKE i always loved fly friends around.
Speaker 3 (26:09):
ME i.
Speaker 1 (26:10):
COULD i didn't bear her it.
Speaker 4 (26:12):
IS i was, LIKE i don't have to be the
most beautiful girl in the. ROOM i don't. LIKE i
love when some everybody, bad everybody, fine everybody, hot.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
Everybody you know What i'm.
Speaker 4 (26:23):
Saying i'm, like let's, go let's walk, in like being
the hottest ones that walk in the.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
Club LIKE i just love, it you know What i'm, Saying,
LIKE i love.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
It that was.
Speaker 4 (26:43):
My joy right, THERE i, swear AND i love those
women LIKE i love those women like as a young,
girl like to even grow up to become friends With
Bernadette cooper From, crimes but to become friends With Shila
e you, know and see these gorgeous women just doing their,
thing it is.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
MOTIVATING i love.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
It, LISTEN i will, SAY i feel LIKE i got
like a fly. Crew you, DO i. DO i enjoy,
it like when we all go. Out it's. Nice WHEN
i go from city to. CITY i got. Friends, yeah
like let's go out.
Speaker 1 (27:14):
Friend oh, right SO i met my boyfriend was at In.
DETROIT i love. IT i love, it.
Speaker 2 (27:21):
You, KNOW i do the lau whatever we need to.
Speaker 5 (27:23):
Do i'm, like, listen you like. Her it's such and,
such like you, girl what you want me to tell?
Speaker 2 (27:27):
Him, OKAY i love.
Speaker 5 (27:29):
It now let's get back To marley's, character, though because
there's a lot going on on this season and everybody
y'all got to binge watch, it and it's like it
went too. Fast i'll say that because the episodes are
like thirty.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Minutes SO i feel like twenty.
Speaker 5 (27:44):
Five, Yeah and is it going to be picked up?
AGAIN i can't see it not because it's been getting.
Speaker 1 (27:49):
RAIDED i think it's so good it should be picked. Up,
yeah it's so.
Speaker 5 (27:52):
GOOD i can't see it not getting picked. Up and
another thing that people really loved about it, was, yes the,
friendships the, relationships but also the just existing like of
trans woman who's getting, Married, yes And Pepper peppermint, indeed
and so just even that speech That peppermint gave, about you,
know being able to have love and being a trans
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person that is able to actually like live the rest
of their life and love because everyone won't have that,
opportunity you, know to do. That AND i feel like
there's been so many harmful. Conversations, yes and the things it's,
awful like some of the THINGS i see. Online you,
KNOW i just had On Dwayne, curry whose trans they
did a movie about her ON Bt plus and the,
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Comments i'm, like y'all are wiling like.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
You're just mean for no, reason.
Speaker 5 (28:41):
Hateful, Yeah, Dwyn But dwyn been going right back at
people and like saying little funny comments because they just
keep saying.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
Stuff like you a.
Speaker 5 (28:48):
Man he's, like, yes you're, right like we'll just say
THAT I and then she hit me like you see
me going at these, people, girl, Right And i'm, like, okay,
good you. Know but it's ALSO i know that has
to feel like overwhelming.
Speaker 4 (29:00):
That it even needs to be like conversated. About LIKE
i don't even feel, LIKE i, mean that's the stuff
like THAT i feel we shouldn't even pay attention. TO
i think everyone should have the right to be who they, are,
period and that's the noise that can be very, distracting
you know WHAT i, Mean who cares about the? Comments
at the end of the, day who are these? People
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we don't know these, people.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
Like you didn't know these, people you.
Speaker 4 (29:25):
KNOW i, Mean i'm just, saying LIKE i, mean no
matter what anyone says about, anybody it's, like, like you
live your life like it's your life to. Live god
made you to be who you. Are you live your
life as you choose to live. It everyone has the
right to do. That as far As i'm concerned before they.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
Die, Right, no.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
But that's What i'm.
Speaker 5 (29:45):
Saying, like even watching, THIS i saw so many people
talking about that's me or that character is, me of
all these different characteris.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Yes, yes, YES i MEAN i love.
Speaker 4 (29:55):
IT i get to play a queer, woman you, KNOW
i get to work With Jerry, johnson.
Speaker 1 (29:59):
Who is up.
Speaker 5 (29:59):
Here WHEN i tell, You darry took it. PLACES i
had no idea we were going to.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Go, Absolutely she's.
Speaker 4 (30:09):
Fascinating she's, fascinating and she's so. MATURE i cannot believe
she's thirty years.
Speaker 1 (30:17):
Old now that's kind of like your. Man, Yes, okay.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
Did jerry get married?
Speaker 5 (30:23):
Yet BECAUSE i, know, okay not yet because last time
she was here she was talking about.
Speaker 2 (30:28):
It they have a very h they're about to explore.
THIS i couldn't do.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
It but my Best Jared's. Jerry that is So.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
Jerry then you can be polyamorous.
Speaker 1 (30:41):
Girl, PLEASE i, mean are you kidding?
Speaker 4 (30:43):
Me absolutely? NOT i mean absolutely. NOT i mean knows
this about.
Speaker 1 (30:52):
ME i never had a.
Speaker 4 (30:53):
THREESOME i only want one vagina in the. Room if,
ANYTHING i had like two.
Speaker 2 (30:57):
Guys how did it? Said she got?
Speaker 4 (31:04):
That But i'm a little, corny.
Speaker 1 (31:09):
Y'all Like i'm a little old. School i'm really old.
Speaker 4 (31:13):
School i'm like probably more conservative than, anybody you know
What i'm. Saying Like i'm like a ONE i, LIKE
i JUST i am definitely like a one person.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
Person.
Speaker 4 (31:26):
Yeah do you think that you'll get married? AGAIN i mean, yes, girl,
yes don't let me. STOP i don't want to talk about.
Speaker 5 (31:37):
That, Well, jesz when we first started, it she said
she never wanted to get.
Speaker 2 (31:44):
MARRIED i never getting married.
Speaker 4 (31:47):
Bything But i'm not looking to Like i'm not like
looking for a, Husband like that's not like my. Intention
Like i'm, like, OH i have to be married in
order to feel.
Speaker 1 (31:59):
WHOLE i agree with you know WHAT i. Mean i'm,
like if it, works it, works maybe it's a life,
partner you know. WHAT i could just be with you.
Speaker 2 (32:07):
FOREVER i.
Speaker 5 (32:08):
Could and we just made sure that our trust and
wheels are set up. Properly, yeah BECAUSE i think that's
a large part of the reason why people do. That
as a, contract it's easier the. Business something should, happen,
true you, Know and that's what people think about. Packwork
when it comes to the. Benefits you, know what the
government does if you're. Married there's a lot more things
that could. Happen BUT i want to ask you filming
this role Of, marley were there things about yourself that you're, like,
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hmm you know this actually sounds good just because of
the role that you had to play on.
Speaker 4 (32:36):
THERE i, mean, HONESTLY i just love how bold and
how Fearless marley.
Speaker 2 (32:42):
Is, honestly you're like that in real life. ALREADY i.
Speaker 4 (32:45):
Am BUT i probably wouldn't walk into a boardroom and,
say all, right everybody's shut the fuck.
Speaker 1 (32:49):
UP i probably wouldn't do.
Speaker 4 (32:52):
That but it's funny because one person was, LIKE i
Think i'm gonna walk into the bar and say that
everybody shut the fuck. UP i date like a rich
white man with all the.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
Entitlements, okay but.
Speaker 4 (33:04):
BUT i feel empowered by, Her LIKE i am bold
AND i am like. Fearless but IT'S i, Mean i'm
gonna say HOW i, feel, Right but BUT i do
HAVE i GUESS i try to have maybe some.
Speaker 1 (33:21):
Boundaries, maybe BUT i just.
Speaker 4 (33:23):
TRY i, MEAN i. GUESS i mean it's a little
bit Of marlee and. Me but she may push it
a little further THEN i may push.
Speaker 2 (33:33):
It she might be more. Abrasive, yeah, yeah maybe.
Speaker 4 (33:36):
That's like maybe she's a little more, abrasive Like marlee
is really the woman in my.
Speaker 1 (33:42):
Head you know, what you, know because what the problem.
Speaker 4 (33:47):
IS i feel guilty sometimes because, honestly people can't handle shit,
sometimes LIKE i. Swear it's like IF i go too,
FAR i don't, know maybe it's my. Voice maybe it's
too much for some, people you know WHAT i.
Speaker 1 (34:02):
MEAN i feel LIKE i gotta be very careful.
Speaker 4 (34:06):
Sometimes with, people you know What i'm saying and their
feelings and their emotions and things like, that you know
WHAT i.
Speaker 2 (34:13):
Mean you think it's this DNA's too where everyone, everybody.
Speaker 4 (34:18):
Everybody it is so like everyone is so like if
you see How i'm talking right, now.
Speaker 1 (34:25):
You're, like let me be. Careful let me tell.
Speaker 4 (34:27):
You some people would Say i'm yelling and this is
your regular li like literally like some people be like
she yelled at. Me LIKE i even had a situation
where SOMEBODY i was at. WORK i was actually on
a set and somebody.
Speaker 1 (34:43):
Was asking me to do.
Speaker 4 (34:43):
SOMETHING i was like, no And i'm in the middle
of the work and they, said, well can you guys say?
No and and they, said you guys said no and
no and then and then they were, like you're yelling at.
Speaker 1 (34:54):
Me i'm, like you act like you didn't hear.
Speaker 4 (34:57):
Me i'm not. Yelling i'm like in the middle of
working And i'm in my passion right, now AND i
just THOUGHT i needed to put a little extra tone
in that, voice so you know they.
Speaker 1 (35:09):
UNDERSTOOD i, said, NO i love. THAT i love that about.
Speaker 3 (35:14):
YOU i feel like that's something that we have in,
common our. Passion like when we really feel, something we
feel it and we let it be. Known and people
might take that the wrong, way but it's really just a.
Speaker 1 (35:23):
Passion it's just.
Speaker 2 (35:24):
Passion, yeah you're in a good. Space when you walked
in With, jordan you felt something was off of.
Speaker 4 (35:31):
HER i did you know what it? Is WHEN i
looked in her eyes AND i, said how you?
Speaker 3 (35:36):
Doing and this is y'all's first time meeting for the
people who don't, know.
Speaker 4 (35:39):
Yeah and she looked at me and she was like
it was something about the. Way she said she Good
AND i said you? Good you are and she was like,
YEAH i said for, real FOR i, SAID i could
just see, It, HONESTLY i could just see it in her.
Eyes but you know what that's BECAUSE i care about.
Her you know a lot of, times, right we overlook,
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people like we overlook people's, Feelings like we brush over
people when we're not looking.
Speaker 1 (36:09):
At them and seeing them and making a real connection with. Them.
Speaker 4 (36:13):
Right but if you take your, TIME i feel to
make a connection with, somebody you could probably experience a
lot and see a, lot you know What i'm. Saying
BUT i just feel like it's just it's almost like
a scrolling Through instagram or scrolling through social. MEDIA i
feel like when it comes to relationships and people and
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when we meet, people imagine how many People i've met
people literally that you, know like imagine you say, hi
say ahad to, Me, hey, hey, oh and so you,
know like people just people will up you don't take
the time.
Speaker 1 (36:49):
To look at you and say, hi how you.
Speaker 2 (36:52):
Doing you know What.
Speaker 1 (36:53):
I'm, Saying it's like there's no real.
Speaker 4 (36:56):
Connection you, know people are just moving through life so
quickly that they missed great, Conversations they miss meeting beautiful,
people you, know they.
Speaker 1 (37:08):
Miss hearing great.
Speaker 4 (37:09):
Stories and you know What i'm, Saying it's like we
got to just slow down a little, bit experience and
enjoy the experience of another human.
Speaker 1 (37:17):
Being, Right and.
Speaker 2 (37:19):
You, know people when they ask you how you're. Doing
people don't really.
Speaker 1 (37:21):
Care want to.
Speaker 3 (37:22):
Know sometimes If i'm in a bad mood or if
something is wrong and somebody say how you, doing.
Speaker 1 (37:27):
You really want to Because i'll tell you you really
want to? Know ain't that the? Truth ain't that the?
Speaker 2 (37:35):
Truth let me ask you.
Speaker 5 (37:37):
This you've been in this business for so, long when
did you and because we were talking about what Tone
bell had to say about people thinking you're rich because
you're ON tv and you know you're you're doing the
acting and you're doing stand, up when did you finally feel, like,
okay like this Is i'm straight here.
Speaker 1 (37:55):
Financially let me tell you, something mindy.
Speaker 4 (37:59):
Child you, KNOW i don't ever like just feel Like
i'm straight because there's always so much MORE i want to,
do you know What i'm. Saying and a lot of
times when like my production Company Camden bridge, developing like
there's always you know WHAT i, Mean but LIKE i
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REMEMBER i did you Know Daddy's Little? Girls AND i
made fourteen thousand dollars On Daddy's, Girls LIKE i mean
literally like and everybody THOUGHT i had all this, money
BUT i got paid scale and fourteen thousand dollars for
the whole. Movie that's. It BUT i did the movie
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and then everyone's thinking THAT i was making all this.
Money But i'm, LIKE i made like two grand a
week or something like, that you know What i'm.
Speaker 1 (38:50):
Saying So i'm not too. Rich and the taxes and
you gotta pay your, agent you gotta pay your, lawyer
you gotta pay you know What i'm. Saying you had.
Drafted oh my.
Speaker 3 (39:02):
God people really don't understand the everything that goes into
the bottom.
Speaker 5 (39:05):
Line, yeah but That but the good thing is That Tyler,
perry you, know. DEFINITELY i think that connection continued to
be strong after that.
Speaker 4 (39:14):
Too, no it was a blessing to. Do why DID
i get? Married and why DID i get?
Speaker 1 (39:19):
Married? Too and for better or? Worse, yeah, yeah SO i.
Speaker 2 (39:22):
Think but you're, right, though people see you ON, tv
they don't.
Speaker 1 (39:25):
Know they don't.
Speaker 2 (39:26):
Know they don't.
Speaker 3 (39:27):
Know they see a, movie they're, like, yeah you, know she,
rich she acted, funny she's.
Speaker 1 (39:31):
But they don't.
Speaker 4 (39:31):
Know you have responsibilities and sometimes like as an, actor you,
know and director and all of, it you do a,
job you don't do a, job you you know WHAT i.
Mean sometimes you go a long period of time without,
working and you yet we had at you still have
to you know, what.
Speaker 2 (39:48):
We HAD covid all of.
Speaker 4 (39:50):
That so that's WHY i always, say, like as an,
actor you got to learn how to save your. Money
you never know how things are going to, go you
know What i'm. Saying but a lot of, time your
friends and family, think because they see you on all the,
stuff that the money is just.
Speaker 1 (40:04):
Overflown but you got to learn how to. Budget you
got to be.
Speaker 4 (40:07):
Responsible, yeah and you have the lifetime.
Speaker 2 (40:11):
Desire, yes that's going to Be april, Nineteen april.
Speaker 4 (40:14):
Nineteenth i'm so excited About so you buy a talk
show host on?
Speaker 1 (40:17):
It i'm playing a talk show.
Speaker 4 (40:18):
Host, OKAY i love.
Speaker 1 (40:21):
IT i love.
Speaker 4 (40:22):
It it's just such a fun, movie, honestly AND i
just feel like it's going to be. Entertaining and it's
a Character i've never gotten a chance to play, before you.
Know And i've worked With Adrian, holmes SO i got
a chance to direct in Bel. Air And i'm also
an executive producing. It my, Friends I'm Derek williams And Adrian.
Williams you, know they have this series of movies they're
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doing For. Lifetime SO i got a chance to work
with them on this And, DEREK i really Thank derek
for even, presenting like sharing the.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
Script it was just us. TALKING i was literally trying.
Speaker 4 (40:56):
To help him find another actress for one of his other,
movies and then he was talking about the one he
had coming up after, that and he's telling me the
storyline And i'm trying to help him come up with.
Somebody and THEN i, say you know, what Maybe i'll
do this one with. You and it was like for,
REAL i, said, yeah read the script and it was so,
good so, fun And i'm so excited for y'all to see.
Speaker 3 (41:16):
It, Yay, yes a lifetime movie.
Speaker 1 (41:19):
Too.
Speaker 2 (41:21):
Yeah, Yeah i'm never going.
Speaker 5 (41:24):
Anywhere that's, right, right, right right, RIGHT i.
Speaker 1 (41:28):
SWEAR i think. Y'ALL i hope y'all enjoy, it will be.
Speaker 5 (41:31):
Watching and THEN i saw you working WITH. Yg, Also, oh.
Speaker 1 (41:36):
Shout out to Y. G that's my, baby cakes.
Speaker 2 (41:40):
Man, LISTEN i love. Him so talk to me about
what that experience was.
Speaker 4 (41:44):
Like and, well first of, ALL i MET yg Through Terrace,
martin who was a very good friend of. Mine he's
my very very good, friend AND i JUST i THINK
yg is. TALENTED i THINK yg is a wonderful. ACTOR
i can't wait to see his acting career just go.
Far and we were just kind of chopping it, up
(42:05):
you know WHAT i, mean about, life about work and.
Stuff and then he was just telling me about the
project that he had work that he was working, on
and he was, Like, tosh would you do this with?
Me AND i was, like, yep. SURE i was actually
honored honestly that he. WOULD i, mean HE'S. Yg he's
just like he's so, talented and you, know like all
(42:27):
the girls love.
Speaker 1 (42:27):
HIM i, MEAN i got all the girls hit me.
Up oh my, god you, know Y.
Speaker 4 (42:31):
G i remember WHEN i was getting my hair and
makeup done and he was calling.
Speaker 1 (42:36):
Me they thought he was calling On FaceTime and.
Speaker 4 (42:39):
They were, like, wait wait my hair in the back
AND i was, like, yeah he ain't calling. FACE i,
mean it was so funny, everybody AND i was, Like,
yg everybody loves, you you know WHAT i. Mean but
he is like like my little, brother like my my.
Speaker 1 (43:00):
BABY i love him. DEEP i love his. Family he's
a wonderful, father you, know he's a wonderful. Son you.
Know i'm so proud of.
Speaker 2 (43:11):
Him and as that thing's so different for him, Too.
Speaker 4 (43:13):
It's so different AND i feel like this is What
god wants him to do right, now you.
Speaker 1 (43:19):
Know What i'm.
Speaker 4 (43:19):
Saying but he's like he, Is he's, amazing and he's
like he's not in no broken. Place he's just you,
know he's talked about everything else that he's. Experienced why
not talk about, this you know What i'm. Saying AND
i feel like it will unlock things with so many.
(43:39):
People BUT i just think it's amazing that he is
willing to dig in other parts of himself to share.
Speaker 1 (43:48):
Artistically And i'm proud.
Speaker 4 (43:50):
Of him and he's beautiful AND i love you AND
i got you.
Speaker 1 (43:55):
Period.
Speaker 5 (43:55):
SEE i told you period is like the life coach
that makes you feel, safe BECAUSE i, SAID i think
with an as far as you being an acting, COACH
i feel like that's just so beneficial with your skills
of being able to relate to.
Speaker 1 (44:07):
People, YEAH i think.
Speaker 4 (44:09):
That you, know a lot of people don't know, this
BUT i went to ministry school before AND i was,
LIKE i was, like AM.
Speaker 1 (44:15):
I supposed to be a? Preacher or AM i supposed
to be da da da?
Speaker 4 (44:18):
Da AND i just, say you know, what whatever the
gifts are That god has given, me this is my
ministry my, acting my, directing my, teaching you, know my
coaching people like that is my. Ministry AND i feel
LIKE i just want to have a, responsibility you, know
as a, DIRECTOR i want to show up as a good.
(44:39):
Leader as an acting, TEACHER i want to help you
to be empowered to do your job and be the
best at it and be as fearless as, possible unlocking
everything in you to tell your. STORY i just enjoy, it, like,
like how could you not joy witnessing someone else's. Success
(45:04):
that's why my company is Called Camden bridge BECAUSE i
am grateful for the opportunity of being a.
Speaker 2 (45:11):
Bridge see there it.
Speaker 5 (45:13):
Is AND i saw A dc young FLY i want
to end with this, too was talking about how you
he feels, like are so, underrated and he gave you
all the flowers for your work as a, director.
Speaker 2 (45:23):
And he was, like people need to be talking about this.
Speaker 5 (45:26):
More AND i think not even being not even being
a woman, director but a director in, general because you,
know sometimes people be, like, oh it's a woman because
it's not a, lot you, know not. Enough i'll say
that there's not enough that are getting the accolades that they.
Should SO i just think as a director in, general
people should be looking to you even, more and they.
HAPPEN i, mean that's really taken off and it's been a.
Speaker 1 (45:48):
Blessing, HONESTLY i had to remind People i'm still an.
Speaker 2 (45:51):
Actor yeah, Right i'm. BACK i feel Like i'm.
Speaker 4 (45:53):
Just starting all over, again honestly as an actor acting
really yeah.
Speaker 2 (45:57):
Yeah but you're.
Speaker 5 (45:58):
Not but, anyway, LISTEN i know the schedule is buts
and so we just appreciate you for coming.
Speaker 1 (46:03):
Through, NO i love, you, right you? Know you know you?
Boys why you got this song by?
Speaker 4 (46:11):
Nigga you know you know What i'm about to show
you how CORNY i. Am this is so. CORNY i
never even told, This like, geez BUT i had never
heard that song.
Speaker 1 (46:24):
Before this Until. Win until the day BEFORE i was
shooting this. VIDEO i was like, this why G.
Speaker 2 (46:38):
I was, like Now i'll be playing that, SONG i.
Speaker 4 (46:42):
Swear, charlie my, stylist was, like you playing that song?
Speaker 2 (46:47):
Like it just came out so.
Speaker 4 (46:49):
Funny every photo, shoot every morning getting her, makeup it's
going to BE i am playing my.
Speaker 1 (46:58):
Nigga, okay so guess What i'm a. RAP i love
it so. CORDY i was, like oh my, god BUT
i love that.
Speaker 4 (47:13):
Song i'm about to play it in the car on
my way the way.
Speaker 2 (47:17):
Out let's play the.
Speaker 1 (47:19):
Wedding come when you get married. Again that's gonna get married.
Again that's what that.
Speaker 2 (47:25):
FACT i might have Y g.
Speaker 4 (47:27):
Performance if anyone is fabulous enough to marry, me you're
playing that at.
Speaker 1 (47:35):
My, Wedding that would be. Sold be a fun wedding.
Speaker 4 (47:39):
Though to have Y g playing my nigga coming down
The aisland, edition oh my.
Speaker 5 (47:46):
God unless you marry a white guy and you're going
to hear that was up, here it's lip, service thank
you so. MUCH i make sure y'all Watch. Survival the
thing is WHEN i go back watch season one, two
because it felt like it took a while for season,
(48:07):
two SO i had to get a Refreshed, yes exactly.
Speaker 4 (48:09):
Exactly it's so Good season, One season two And Desire
april nineteenth, one like all this.
Speaker 5 (48:15):
THING i want to pop up on somebody In, italy
like come, ON i, know, right, YEAH i want like
that type of life WHERE i do something like crazy.
Speaker 1 (48:23):
Yeah and then it doesn't.
Speaker 2 (48:24):
WORK i love, that all. Right it's lip, service
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Angela Yee
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