April 2, 2025 • 45 mins
Today on “Golden Hour,” we’re sitting down with Alli Jo from Grant's season of “The Bachelor”! We kick off the episode by getting her thoughts on the finale, the deets behind her friendship with Juliana, the season’s drama, and more. Then, we kick off our advice portion with our question of the day: What qualities are you looking for in a potential partner? Next, Alli Jo helps give some advice to a listener whose boyfriend is making her uncomfortable with his jokes; what would she do? Tune in now to hear all this and more and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
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Speaker 1 (00:07):
Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks for
joining us. We're so excited to be back yet again
this week. Susan, how are you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
I can't wait?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Bachelor Nation fans, Wait, do you hear about today? And
make sure you've checked out all our episodes because we
are having fun.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
We are having so much from it. I want to know, Susan,
real quickly, harm getting better, the risk getting better, healing.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Actually, the pain is less now we're under a four. However, yesterday,
you know, when it starts feeling better, you tend to
use it and then set me back a little bit.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
But yeah, yeah, you just remember your four as somebody
else's ten. So take those drugs you prescribed. Okay, Today
we have a really special guest from Grant season. She
is gorgeous. She's fabulous. Welcome Ali Joe to Golden Hour.
How are you doing today?
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Hey, thank you so much.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
I'm doing great. How are you, ladies?
Speaker 1 (01:01):
We're fabulous.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Well I'm here mending.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
Yes, I see that boxing.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
It was not boxing, I promise. Okay.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
Well, I'm glad to hear that.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
So you live in Fort Lauderdale, but you're a Jersey girl,
Susan from Philly. I'm from Newton, Massachusetts. So we've got
the New England Atlantic coast covered here today.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
We do.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Yeah, we love it the East coast.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
And you're a You're you teach boxing.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
Yes, I do.
Speaker 5 (01:31):
I teach rumble boxing, so it's rumble So rumble boxing
is a forty five minute workout. You have strength training
and boxing. It's ten rounds. Every round is three minutes.
It started in New York City. I've been with the
company for a couple of years. I'm the head trainer
in Fort Lauderdale, but I do work for the company
on the corporate side, so I don't just I'm not
just the trainer. I do a lot of the back
(01:53):
end stuff for the company as well. I help open
studios a lot in the South Florida market right now.
I did a lot in North Jersey when I was
living there.
Speaker 4 (02:01):
And yeah, I love what I do.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
I totally do.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
I have a trainer. One time doing boxing catchy my
I think my knuckles would be swollen and I get
to the salon and my boss would say, that's your money.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
So that's allie, that's my question. I'm a I'm a
crazy girl. I work out in the gym a lot,
and my trainer also teaches boxing. So I got boxing
gloves and I loved it. I did, like, but my
hands were like knuckles were swell, hurting. What's the deal?
Is that just a thing?
Speaker 3 (02:31):
Well?
Speaker 4 (02:32):
Are you wrapping your hands? First of all?
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Doing it?
Speaker 5 (02:36):
Of course your hands, and then we'll chat and make
sure you have good gloves. Like there's twelve ounces of
fourteen ounces sixteen.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
I don't know, but my guy told me what to
get and I loved it, like I was. I could.
I had the quick move, but it was killing my hands,
so rapping, all right, Maybe I'll try it again. Yeah,
you know what, I didn't need boxing lessons for that, Sinis,
and that came naturally.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
Don't mess with the Northeast, that's all.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
That's right, all right? So, so Ali, we want to
get to know you a little bit better, and you're
gonna give us some advice to Bachelor Nation. We're gonna
ask you all kinds of questions about so many questions.
We have so many.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Questions, so excited to answer that.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
I love all right. First, we're dying to know what
was it like being in person at AFR and Senior
Bachelor Pesty get engaged to Grant, which by the way,
was also if we're being technically your ex.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
Yeah, we're getting technical. Honestly, it was a great time.
I'm so happy I got the opportunity to go because
I wasn't sure if I was going to be able to,
but I was so happy to support Juliana and I'm
so happy for her in Grants and it was exciting.
It was really cool to watch live because I've been
watching the show since i was a little kid. I'm
thirty one, so to like see it live, like obviously
I did a tell all, but it's just different, like
(03:52):
the energy is different, feeding the alumni that like I've
watched on TV, I see.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
On social media. It was a really cool experience.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Yeah, yes, oh my god. So first and foremost, have
you talked to Julia?
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Yes, I talked to Juliana. Of course.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I am happy.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
She is so happy, you know.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
I think also like overwhelmed, like it's such a whirlwind,
You're dealing with so many emotions and you know, social media. Yeah,
you know, I definitely feel like I always tell her,
like if you need somebody to lean on, like I'm here.
She's very very close to her sister. I'm very close
with my sister as well, and that's kind of how
we also like linked up Juliana and I because we're
(04:33):
very very tight with our family. But yeah, I saw
her right after we had she had a little after party,
and it was it was really fun.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
It was great East Coast as well. You have to know, though,
as soon as I found out where you were from
and your eyes and your beauty, I was for you.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
I really was.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Thank you. I appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
We'll get we got to get into your dating life,
but we got but we have we have some more
questions on this, of course, Zoe. You know we're going
to hit you on Zooey. We're but here's something I
have to say before you. We all know edits right,
we all know that's the way it's portrayed. And you know,
people stand up for you saying you're a lovely person,
(05:12):
and you are clearly nothing but a lovely person. So
tell us about that, Like, are you friends now, because
you know I was the villain with Teresa or maybe
you don't know on our show and we're fine, So
tell us about that.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
And I are good. Like we squashed it the next day.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
It wasn't shown like there was instances where you can
see her and I sitting on the couch. I saw
her at Afar the other day. We facetimed last week.
We took a photo of the other day. And I
are good, like I always say, like, yeah, I can
in the moment.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
I'm not looking back on it.
Speaker 5 (05:42):
It wasn't the best thing, but I always am true
to myself.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
And I'm not saying yelling is true to me. But
like I didn't think of that.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
I just something was bothering me and I said it,
and I might not react it.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
I don't know. I think she is me how many
years ago. I mean, I'm exactly yeah, I'm exactly sorry
to speak.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
You end up resenting them, right.
Speaker 5 (06:01):
And I never I always say my favorite quote, and
I've had helped this with me for like the last
ten years, especially my career. Closed mouth, don't get fed
And I always always say that, and I live by
that quote. It's one of my favorite ones.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
It is also about the delivery, correct, yes, yeah, and.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
It wasn't not good. It was not a good delivery.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
But I was that bad, it really was.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
It took all so Theresa.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
My favorite but Teresa and I are over it. It's
you know, we're friends, it's I saw I get I
empathized with you. I also love the fact, Alie Joe,
that you say you on one of the one of
the shows, you said, you know, I believe in fighting
for yourself. I love that. It just shows such confidence
that you have great I mean, not only are you beautiful,
(06:53):
but you clearly are a woman who has confidence, and
you know. I love that. I love to see women
empowered and and doing your.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
So, Alejo, do you feel you built even more confidence
being on the show or were you like this prior
but it brought out.
Speaker 5 (07:08):
Yeah, I've always been like listen, I think that there
was definitely growing up, I had a lot of insecurities
with things that I dealt with personally, family, my body image.
Like I danced my whole life, and from a young age,
I always remember like looking at myself in the mirror
and I was bigger than the other girls, and that
kind of messed with my head. And I was like
eight years old and that kind of stayed with me.
And I really got into the whole fitness background honestly
(07:31):
when I was in middle school. But even before that,
my dad would train. My sister and I would go
on runs. We'd run up and down the stairs in
our house. We would have a deck of cards. You
would flip it over. If it's at eight, you make
us do eight sit ups, eight push ups.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
So I learned. I learned that at a really young age.
Speaker 5 (07:45):
But I think my confidence has come from just me
being independent. My mom raised me really independent, and just
like you know, I don't like to kiss anybody's ass.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
I'm me.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
I can be in a room full of people if
we don't like each other, or you don't like me,
I could still be in the room with you and
sit there, and I like to go to sleep that
night with my head on my pillow, knowing like I'm
true to me and yourself.
Speaker 4 (08:04):
Okay, someone will love that.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
Okay, Well, so let me ask a question. If you
so many questions you got into boxing. I don't know
just how did you get into boxing because fitness. I'm
stunned by you saying that you were bigger than the
other girls. I could blow you away with a you
know you're gone, so you're tiny. So I don't know
where that came from.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
But when I was little, I felt that way.
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Though it's like, growing up, I always had just like
some bad body image issues, but I've grown from it.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Good.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
Well that's not your always going to say or everybody
was twiggy, you had to be this big, you know
nowadays people with a full figure.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
It's awesome.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Yeah, So how did you get into boxing? Obviously you're
you're a fitness person, but boxing, I mean that's not
a typical thing for you.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
Yes, I'm of course, So I went through some things
in high school. I kind of have a similar background
to Grant. I haven't really been able to like talk
about this on the show and other you know, podcasts
and stuff, but I do have a very, very similar
upbringing with my dad, who did have some abuse issues,
substance abuse with with pills and pills and stuff like that,
(09:15):
and he was my coach growing up. I played soccer,
I did sports, and I always idolized him and I
wanted to make him proud and my mom, like I danced.
I was very very active, and then in high school
I went to a high school for a dance and
I just I fell out.
Speaker 4 (09:28):
Of love with it.
Speaker 5 (09:28):
I loved it. And then I was like fifteen, sixteen,
seventeen and I just hated it.
Speaker 4 (09:33):
I didn't like myself.
Speaker 5 (09:35):
I was going through like really bad things mentally, and
my cousin was like, come to like a kickboxing class.
So I did, and I fell lever again and I
picked it up through dance. I feel like you have
to have like tempo and rhythm. So that's where a
small part of it started for me.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Wow, I love it. So dating dating? Would you date? Yeah,
Susan and I talk about this all the time. I'm
a fitness freak. I mean for I really, I'm ridiculous.
Speaker 4 (10:03):
We got to work out together.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
I would love it. I work out a lot, I
lift weights, I do heavy stuff. Man, I love it.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
You know, dating somebody that does it though, what.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
I would know that is that important to you to
have a guy that's into that kind of fitness.
Speaker 5 (10:19):
I actually just had a conversation about this the other day.
So it's not like the end all be all for me.
Like I've really worked on myself the last couple of years,
and especially living in Florida, Like I've really learned balance.
Like I wouldn't go out in Jersey because I didn't
want to go out An because I had to wake
up and go to the gym, or I had to
wake up and teach a six am seven am class.
But now being like thirty one, that's there's more to
life than your what you look like and waking up.
(10:41):
I want to have a cocktail at night. I want
to sometimes stay out till three am, and how that happens.
I want to have a life. So for me, I
don't need the person that I'm dating to be obsessed
with the gym. But like, if you want to go
take a class or I want to walk with me, amazing.
A lot of peak times, I feel like guys approached
me talking about the gym because they think that's what
I want to hear. But yeah, yeah, and that's my career,
(11:04):
so like you know, I'm treating people, I'm teaching classes,
I'm working out, so sometimes they don't really want to
talk about that.
Speaker 4 (11:09):
Jim, Like, I live it all day.
Speaker 3 (11:11):
Yeah, do you have a romantic side of you? Are you?
Like you know how they say you wear hard on
your sleep? Are you that person? I think if you
have the dumpterior and you keep it all to protect yourself.
Speaker 4 (11:33):
A little bit of both.
Speaker 5 (11:33):
I've been told that I'm pretty tough or intimidating, which
is crazy to me because I don't think I am.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
I just think, raise your hand if you are intimidating
or men thinking.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
That's all we hear.
Speaker 5 (11:43):
I'm where, which I feel like is a good thing
kind of because that means I fel like you're just
like strong and you know who you are.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
Do I wear my heart in my sleeve. Not all
the time.
Speaker 5 (11:52):
I am sensitive and if something is bothering me or
if you're doing something I love, I will tell you,
but it takes me a minute, you know.
Speaker 4 (11:59):
I like to take my time. I don't like to
Russian to anything.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
So so what okay, So you said you'll date a
guy with a big paunch and out of shape. That's
a joke. What what pollies? What are you looking for
in a date? And are you dating? Let's just stop
right there? Are you da?
Speaker 5 (12:18):
So it's been a while, yeah, like dating here and there?
You know, I feel like it's really hard right now
at my age, everybody is so like hyper focused on
social media and like that's just not what I'm really
looking for. Like even like in a partner, I don't
care how many followers you have. Just be a good person,
and like I just want somebody who's you know, keeps
(12:41):
it real and could be my best friend.
Speaker 4 (12:43):
Have I been dating yet? Here and there?
Speaker 5 (12:45):
I've gone on a couple of dates, but I'm just
kind of riding the wave and I don't I don't
want to force anything. I want it to happen on
its own. I feel like when you're not looking, that's
when it happens.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
It does.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
I'm truth to that. But how about your dms? Like,
remember Kathy and I talked about this one hundred times.
Somebody said, oh my gosh, you're gonna be get millions
of them. We did, Okay, you did, You didn't.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
We did not. We got dms. We got dms from
thirty year old guys from people.
Speaker 3 (13:12):
But I think the problem was the social media thing.
A lot of people our age do not get on.
They don't even know what Instagram is. Yeah, I know,
you might imagine your boxes.
Speaker 5 (13:23):
First of all, my mom is probably your age too,
And when she looks at a picture, I'm like, don't
like it, and she's like, and I'm like, please don't
like the photo, Mom, just showing you what the guy
looks like.
Speaker 4 (13:32):
Yeah, my d MS, I don't know. I have with
a bunch of requests.
Speaker 5 (13:36):
I'm lazy, Like I have like a lot of notifications,
but honestly, a lot of college kids have messaged me,
like guys and girls, and they're like, can you come
to our frat party?
Speaker 4 (13:44):
Can you come to do this recording of that?
Speaker 3 (13:47):
But yeah, consider the considered dating somebody that you read
a message from, would you give that?
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Would you know?
Speaker 5 (13:56):
I need to see them in person. I'm so about personality.
It's not just about.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Okay, that's my question. What are the palities? Personalities? Tell
me what you're looking for, and a.
Speaker 5 (14:04):
Guy, I'm looking for somebody who is very close to
their family, very family oriented is something that's huge for me.
If you're not close with your family, that's okay, But
I'm super close with mine. So if you're dating me,
you're like also dating.
Speaker 4 (14:17):
My mom and my sister.
Speaker 5 (14:18):
We Like, my sister was going on a date the
other day, she was like sending us photos, So like,
I'm really close with my mom and my sister. So
somebody who's family oriented, but also just somebody that could
be my best.
Speaker 4 (14:26):
Friend and that I can rely on.
Speaker 5 (14:28):
I feel like I'm a very reliable person and I
don't always get that in return from relationships trendships. So
I just want I want to be able to have
somebody like do something for me without me asking, and
that's hard to find. Yeah, and somebody that just can
like sit on the couch and show with me, have
a glass of wine and be goofier, like go out
to dinner, have a couple of drinks.
Speaker 4 (14:48):
I want to be able to do everything with somebody.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
On dating a Jewish man, excuse me, kay, No.
Speaker 4 (14:55):
I'm not said, said on dating just a Jewish man.
Speaker 5 (14:57):
I am Jewish. I am not like very religious. I
do believe in the tradition. I've had two serious relationships
in my life. One of the guys was Jewish, the
other one was Italian. My stepdad's Italian. Like I feel
like Jewish and Italian people are very similar. But religion
isn't like the end all be all for me because listen,
both my parents are Jewish, they're divorced, so I don't
necessarily believe in that if you marry your religion, it's.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
A very dull.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
So it happens exactly.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Well, what I was going to say is it's I'm hearing,
which I don't know if it's a good thing or
a bad thing. But I'm hearing the same thing out
of your mouth. You're you're very articulate, you're beautiful, you
have a successful prayer. And what she's looking for, what
you are looking for? Ali Joe. It sounds like the
younger version of what Susan and Ira was saying. So
(15:44):
it's in some ways the generations just are the same.
We're looking for the same thing.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
Yeah, and they're out there.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
I gotta believe that they're I want to be challenged.
Speaker 5 (15:58):
I want to be challenged too, Like I want somebody
to grow with me, not grow apart, like whoever I
marry or date whatever, like I just want to be
able to grow with that person and be on the
same page.
Speaker 4 (16:08):
But I love a challenge.
Speaker 5 (16:09):
So someone who can keep me in my toes is
very I said, that's I said, that's a grand because
he was.
Speaker 4 (16:13):
Really tall, but like literally, I do want you to
keep me on my toes and like, how are you?
Speaker 1 (16:17):
How tall are you?
Speaker 2 (16:21):
Girls? Small and mighty?
Speaker 3 (16:25):
How about that?
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Was gonna say, drum roll, drum roll together, Susan, would
you do paradise? And want you go? I'll go.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
We heard the announcement that I know, like they better call.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
Ladies go all go.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
I don't know, Joe.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
Here's the thing, Susan, I am not standing next to her.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
I'm going because she's gonna work out with you and
my boo boo.
Speaker 5 (16:53):
Yeah, we'll work out and then we'll like have like
a glass of rose or something.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
I love this, Okay. All we got to do is
get the invitations and make it happen, an Allergia, who
do you want to see? Their alle jobs? Besides us?
Who else would you like to see?
Speaker 3 (17:05):
Is there anybody in particular you'd like to be or
a few?
Speaker 5 (17:09):
I'm not sure because like I did take us off
some watching of some of the seasons. So I kind
of if I, if I do go, I would like
to just like go in with a kind of like
a clean slate. I don't necessarily need to know everything
about somebody. I think that's what like the part of
the journey in the process is. And I feel like
also if I know something about that person, I might
feel intimidated, like, oh, this person does this or this
(17:31):
person does this, Like I that might intimidate me.
Speaker 4 (17:34):
So I kind of just want to, like, if I
do go, because.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
It's not a so you're not going to give us
names of guys you would like to be that you
would like to see there, which I think makes sense.
But Ali, Joe, what guys would you like to see there?
Speaker 2 (17:50):
I'm not sure I.
Speaker 5 (17:53):
Have to if I was to go, I kind of
again like want just a clean slate. I don't want
to walk into there being I know every single thing
about this person.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
Do I find some people attractive?
Speaker 5 (18:03):
Yeah, absolutely, of course, But to me, it's personality is
what makes you attractive, So you can be the hottest
person on the block, like your personality could.
Speaker 3 (18:12):
Not be got new people, new faces, people you've never
seen before, you.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
Know what I'm saying. Yeah, would you be over mean
a stranger?
Speaker 1 (18:22):
Yeah? Or you meet lots of strangers and they become
your best days. Would you consider an engagement? Would you can?
Do you want kids? I mean, tell me what, like,
what's your you know, what's your two three year game plan? Here?
Speaker 4 (18:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (18:37):
I mean I don't like to put a timeline because
if I was in my head, I would have already
been married with.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
Like a kid or two.
Speaker 5 (18:43):
And it's so crazy because I've always had like a
plan for myself and I feel like right now, thirty one,
I'm actually a little nervous because I don't necessarily have
like a five year plan. I'm very gold oriented and
I like to set goals and there's no ceilings. But
you know, in the next three years at least, I would,
of course want to be married on a house. I
would like to live, you know, somewhere warm. That's kind
of why I moved out of Jersey. And I definitely
(19:04):
do want a family, probably two kids, and I just
want to be happy and.
Speaker 3 (19:08):
Be able to hear.
Speaker 1 (19:12):
It sounds to me like she's just going with the
flow right now.
Speaker 4 (19:15):
For once in my life. I'm going with the flow,
which is not normal for me.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
But that's a good thing. That keeps you healthy, that
keeps you ave.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
And like you just said, when you least expect.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
It's true.
Speaker 3 (19:27):
All right, guys, So before we get into our listeners
what they wrote in, we're going to start with Kathy
and I call the question of the day.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
All right, here we go, Ali, Joe, what do you
think are the most important qualities to look for in
a potential partner? You sort of answered a little bit,
but I want more specifics here. Okay, I'm drilling.
Speaker 5 (19:53):
Yeah, someone that's Trustworthyes, again, I said before. Somebody that
is reliable, someone that's outgoing, doesn't take things like to
seriously and has like a fun side, but like not
too fun. You do there are parts of life that
you need to take seriously. Someone that can support me,
you know, not like emotionally, and someone that allows me
to be independent because I am independent and I think
(20:13):
that's what I struggle with finding someone is that I
am sometimes too independent, which isn't a bad thing, but
I want somebody to be able to kind of crack
that for me.
Speaker 4 (20:21):
I'm used to doing everything for myself.
Speaker 3 (20:23):
Okay, somebody who loves it and is involved with this family,
because you had said that earlier as well, So I
don't think we're different.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
Well, I was just gonna say, Ali, Joe, what many
of what you just said? So I'm looking not I'm
not looking to start a family. Let's start there. You know.
I'm not looking, thank god, thank god I have three
and I'm taking it at that. But I am also looking,
and you're about to get the same questionnaire. I'm also
looking for the guy who is kind. I am just
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like you. I'm I'm ohoops, I'm smart, I'm outspoken. Sometimes
I say what I think, But like you, I can
tell I have a kind heart too, So I'm looking
for guy that recognizes that in me and isn't put
off by my you know, my my mouth that just
sometimes runs away with me. And a kind man and
a man I want to spoil him, you want to
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spoil me. We're looking for the same things. What about you, Susan,
I'm just about to have a sense of humor and.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
A kind heart.
Speaker 3 (21:21):
Just somebody that loves me for me, for who I
am and accepts the big personality and the type a.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
Somebody just said me, Yeah, somebody just yeah, someone just
said to you and me, Susan. I don't know, but
Ali Joe, I bet you're exactly the same. When you
meet a guy and they say to you, you know, wow,
you're a lot, which I get that from, then you're
a lot. You're you're smart, you're funny, but you know,
you're a little intimidating. I never had interpret that, nobody. Oh,
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I've had I've had a couple of men intimidating words.
Speaker 4 (21:57):
You, I've had some things.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Yeah, you know what, do you know what the answer
to that is? Then I guess you're not the guy
for me. If you're intimidated by me.
Speaker 5 (22:05):
It's how simple is that somebody else love you for
who you are. I always say that when like one
door closes, guess what, then there's another one.
Speaker 3 (22:14):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (22:15):
I don't.
Speaker 5 (22:15):
I don't ever want to settle in my life, in
my relationships, friendships, anything, I will never settle.
Speaker 4 (22:20):
So I'll know when I find that person.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
That's my first Okay, And here's the line. If you're
too much, they're not enough.
Speaker 4 (22:28):
May I love that?
Speaker 1 (22:29):
Right? I just made that up in my head. I
just came to me.
Speaker 4 (22:33):
I'm going to steal that. I'm gonna put it in
my Instagram.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
I may or may not have stolen it, Ali Joe,
I'm just kidding. Okay, So we're going to give some
advice and that this are our listeners writing questions, and we're.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
Going to ask you how you yes advice.
Speaker 3 (22:52):
Okay, I'll read the first one, and this is from
anonymous hie ladies. I need your help. I really need help. Lately,
my boyfriend of three years has been making a ton
of jokes about wanting to hook up with his best
friend's sister. He says it all the time, and he's
done so many times. Right, in front of me and
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my friends. He makes crude jokes a lot, so that's
not the issue. I just feel like this is crossing
a line. I started to tear up one time, and
he apologized and said, it's just a joke. Relax, Am
I overreacting? Thank you so much, Love you ladies.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
WHOA okay.
Speaker 2 (23:36):
Your first?
Speaker 4 (23:37):
That is a joke.
Speaker 5 (23:38):
That's not funny, first of all, So like, go read
a book or a comedy book and find other jokes,
because that's not funny.
Speaker 4 (23:44):
Number one, lot of numbers too.
Speaker 5 (23:47):
If it was me in that position, I wouldn't mean
I wouldn't hopefully be that, but like I would go
to the girl that he's talking about and say like, hey.
Speaker 3 (23:56):
Going on here?
Speaker 4 (23:57):
Yeah, I would just go straight to her and be like,
what's going on?
Speaker 5 (24:00):
Because once you say something multiple times, it's kind of like, okay,
said it so many times it's like believable at this point.
Speaker 4 (24:05):
So like I would go right to her the girl.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
Wait, he doesn't. Yeah, he doesn't say he doesn't. This
doesn't say there no, right, she doesn't know the girl
that we're in questionnaire. We're not sure if she knows,
why would.
Speaker 5 (24:23):
Pull her aside or pick up the phone and say, hey,
just have like a question, you know, and it's okay
if this has happened, have you ever hooked up with
my boyfriend whatever?
Speaker 3 (24:31):
She didn't think he's already done it and you want
to question. Oh okay, so I read it too. He's
in front of friends, they're all together all the time,
and he constantly says, yeah, I want to hook up
with such and such a girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
Okay. Can I be the elephant in the room here? Yes,
go Ali, Joe, you hinted at it. I don't think
i'd be with a guy who made those kinds of
when she said, he makes crude jokes and that's not
the issue. Did you see me nod for me? That
would be an issue. I don't want a man who's crude.
I don't want a man who's making jokes about hooking
up with anybody. I don't think it's funny. So I
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probably wouldn't be with him.
Speaker 4 (25:13):
To me, it's like on you fool me twice, Shame
on me.
Speaker 5 (25:16):
My mom always like tak me if you're sorry to
see things in the beginning that you don't like, it's
not like to change and you there's some things that
as a woman you could like change in a guy,
like the clothes he wears sometimes, but like personality things.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
You are so smart to know that people can I
tell you how many? Uh, I'm honestly amazed that you're
only thirty one because you're wisdom. No, I'm serious, your
wisdom belies your years. So many women, my daughter's friends,
they think that they're going to change a guy. And
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you're right, you can get, maybe on a good day,
to put his socks in the hamper. But if you
think you're going to change his basic characters, that is.
Speaker 3 (26:01):
Not You're barking up the wrong tree. And like you said,
a red flag is a red flag, they're not. So
you can alter some things. And I would definitely to
Anonymous who wrote into us, thank you so much, what
I would do is nip it in the button.
Speaker 2 (26:18):
He cannot do that anymore. That's a deal breaker for you.
That's a deal breaker, he continues, seriously.
Speaker 5 (26:27):
It's a deal breaker for me too, because like, also,
why are you keep saying this about the girl?
Speaker 4 (26:32):
Like are you thinking about her?
Speaker 5 (26:33):
Like you should be thinking about me if I'm your
significant other.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
Right, it's not funny. People say things all the time.
You know, and then they think if they add on
the tagline, it's just a joke.
Speaker 6 (26:44):
It's just that right there, it's not okay, it's not jokes,
all right, And you don't get to have me, then
that's all right, and that's their loss.
Speaker 3 (26:59):
And then some people would say anonymous, then you do
what he does, and see how it feels that.
Speaker 2 (27:06):
I don't believe.
Speaker 4 (27:07):
I don't being spiteful.
Speaker 2 (27:09):
No, does it make you feel better? Right?
Speaker 3 (27:13):
No? See, it's not a game.
Speaker 4 (27:16):
It's not a game either.
Speaker 5 (27:17):
Like I feel like a lot of people play games,
whether they've been with somebody for like a year or
like before they're seriously dating, Like I hate the games.
Like some people are like, oh, he just texted me,
I need to wait an hour before I answer me.
Speaker 4 (27:28):
I'm god right now, I don't have time to wait
an hour.
Speaker 5 (27:32):
We are all I'm multitasking all day long. I don't
have time to like go back and be like, oh,
because I don't forget to answer you.
Speaker 4 (27:39):
Yes, yeah, I don't care. I'm like, I'm going to
answer you right now.
Speaker 3 (27:44):
I'll do it first too. I don't care too. I
don't care either.
Speaker 1 (27:55):
Have you asked a guy out?
Speaker 5 (27:58):
No, So I do a draw line. I will never ask.
I won't approach a man first. I won't ask a
guy first the first like date, two dates, I.
Speaker 4 (28:04):
Will have him like reach out. Well, I won't have him.
Speaker 5 (28:06):
I would like for him to reach out to me,
but I have no problem texting somebody being like, yeah,
how's going that. I don't think that's weird. But I
won't ask the guy out the first couple of times.
Speaker 1 (28:16):
Do you pay way? Do you pay on a first date?
Do you offer to pay?
Speaker 5 (28:20):
I have before, yes, And I've been told from men
that they really appreciate that, especially down here, and I
don't know why. I just think it's a respectful thing.
And I don't ever want to come across a certain
type of way. So I just think it's it's the
I feel comfortable doing it. I would feel uncomfortable sometimes if.
Speaker 4 (28:38):
I didn't have. I done it on every first date
i've been on. Absolutely not.
Speaker 5 (28:42):
But there have been instances, probably when I was a
little bit younger, that I did it.
Speaker 4 (28:45):
Now that I'm older, I really I haven't done it.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
Okay since an I'm depressed. Now I'm depressed because look
at her. She's beautiful, she's smart, she's wise, and.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
I have a son.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
I don't know what the age thing is.
Speaker 4 (29:01):
How old is it?
Speaker 2 (29:02):
He's thirty and beautiful?
Speaker 3 (29:04):
Oh okay, beautyful.
Speaker 4 (29:07):
Well you're beautiful. So we got it from his mama.
Speaker 1 (29:09):
Look at her. We're gonna we're just having so much
troub with you. We're going to do this scene where
we're gonna just you know, uh, get dig a little deeper,
take a little deeper. Here we go. So what what
musician because we probably don't know who they are anyway
this world. But what musician would you love to see
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perform live?
Speaker 4 (29:32):
Ooh, I would love to see Morgan Wallan.
Speaker 1 (29:34):
I really oh. I love Morgan wallet you're a country fan.
Speaker 5 (29:38):
Yeah, I like all kinds of music, honestly. I like
old music like I like the Dowie Brothers, I like
Earthwind and Fire like Oh My Girls, I like Whitney Houston.
I love nineties music like I really, I really do.
I am an old soul. I've always been told that
I freaking love eighties, seventies dance music like all that stuff.
Speaker 2 (29:55):
I still do.
Speaker 3 (29:55):
I still do.
Speaker 1 (29:56):
I do too.
Speaker 5 (29:57):
I have a nineties playlist, but I would I am tree,
So I would love to see Morgan Wall and.
Speaker 3 (30:02):
Comfort, any pot country the more modern tree. Yes, yes, yes, Okay.
So how do you unwine after a long day?
Speaker 2 (30:11):
What is your thing?
Speaker 5 (30:13):
I like to bake banana bread, which I actually just
did and I did it and I did it in
the mansion and I gave it to.
Speaker 4 (30:19):
All the girls in the cameraman.
Speaker 5 (30:21):
But after a long day, I will sit on the
couch and I watch reality television, mainly The Real Housewives.
Speaker 4 (30:26):
I watched all them. I just watched What Really Was
last night. I just love The Real Housewives. Honestly.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
Do you know Kim Zoliac Right?
Speaker 3 (30:35):
I just did a show that's coming out in April,
and I got to be in the same place with Kimp.
Speaker 2 (30:40):
She was so fun.
Speaker 5 (30:42):
That a lot of people have a lot of people
in Jersey that I know how to make up artists
that our friends and stuff have done some of their
makeup and stuff. I've never met The Jersey Housewives, and
not even because I'm from Jersey. That's just my favorite,
like franchise is the Jersey One.
Speaker 2 (30:56):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (30:57):
So what.
Speaker 1 (31:00):
It's something? Because you seem like you've done a lot
in your life, what's something you've always wanted to do,
but you haven't done yet, And frankly, why haven't you
done it? You know, what is that thing that you
haven't done yet?
Speaker 4 (31:13):
Something I haven't done?
Speaker 1 (31:14):
What you want?
Speaker 5 (31:15):
The first thing that has come to mind is traveled
to Italy with my partner, Like I just really want
to go to Sisily and travel all of Italy with somebody.
I went with my mom and my sister, but I
was like, when I come back, I wanted to be
like romantic and.
Speaker 4 (31:28):
Be with my person, like that is I love.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
I can't this, So I went. I took my family
last year for my birthday to celebrate, and we had
the best time. My son in law is italianis families
from Sicily, so we had a great time, but the
whole but not the whole time because I loved being
with my family. But I was like, this would be
so romantic if I had a partner, hair with resolutely
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I love my family.
Speaker 3 (31:54):
I went on a e prey love solo trip to
Italy for fifteen days. When I got off the planet
was thinking what the hell did I just do? And
just like both of you were saying, every couple hours,
I had a moment, this would be so special if
I had my person with me, I still enjoyed every
minute of it.
Speaker 4 (32:14):
It was like, not.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
Have you done solo traveling?
Speaker 2 (32:20):
No?
Speaker 3 (32:20):
I haven't.
Speaker 4 (32:21):
That's something I haven't done either. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (32:23):
Like people are even like you can go sit a girl,
can go sit at a bar, like at a nice
golf course, and like, go have a drink and a
guy I'll pick you up.
Speaker 4 (32:29):
Like I don't feel comfortable.
Speaker 2 (32:31):
True, people tell me to.
Speaker 4 (32:34):
Do that, like go bring your laptop and go do work,
and like a guy will find you.
Speaker 1 (32:38):
And I'm like, no, are your friends? Wait? Do you wait?
Do you not a friend setting you up? Ali? Joe?
I mean I'm really not blowing hot air? You know
where you are absolutely stunning. I do you feel like
men are afraid to ask you out? Or what's you know?
Speaker 4 (32:54):
Do you have a friend listen? I don't know.
Speaker 5 (32:57):
Like my family like me and my sister are the
only ones we are not married, engaged to have kids,
And they're like why, I'm like, I don't know. If
I knew, I would not be single. And I've been
on a television show to find a man because I
need to find them. They're I don't know what it
is me and it's not like I have like these
crazy requirements like somebody did say to me.
Speaker 4 (33:14):
They're like, you must have crazy, you must have a list,
or like high expectations. And I'm like, I actually really don't.
Speaker 3 (33:21):
You repeating what we've said, and it makes me believe
once again, Kathy, just like I was told and you
were told, men are intimidated by your beauty, by your strength,
by they're just.
Speaker 1 (33:35):
A thank you, Susan, oh, Joe, both of you. Thank you.
Speaker 4 (33:40):
I appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (33:41):
I really do.
Speaker 2 (33:41):
I'm serious.
Speaker 3 (33:43):
Okay, Now I have one what's one piece of advice
that you've always kept within you? Someone gave you a
piece of advice and you've never forgotten it.
Speaker 4 (33:55):
You can't make someone else happy until you're happy.
Speaker 5 (33:57):
I learned that, like with my parents, I love you,
and you don't know what happens behind closed doors, because
when I was little, I would compare like my family
dynamic or my body like to other people, and people
seem perfect. And you know, twenty years later now that
social media is a big thing, Like you know, not
everything is always what it seems, And you can't make
anybody happy until you feel fulfilled and you feel good
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in your life. And then I feel like if you
reradiate positivity and good energy, you get that in return.
Speaker 1 (34:25):
Yea.
Speaker 5 (34:26):
And I feel like a lot of people don't think
that from me, if they don't know me, if they've
only seen me on social media or television. But like
my real people, my clients, like, I love to give
good energy and I like to surround myself with positive people.
Speaker 2 (34:37):
So I won't surround myself with negativity. Absolutely not.
Speaker 4 (34:42):
I mean, I'll exit.
Speaker 1 (34:43):
Yeah, it just it just sucks the literally sucks the
air out of the room. Yes, Okay. One of my
favorite questions that I love to ask is I guess
because I was a writer, I knew you were going
to take that.
Speaker 4 (34:55):
Well, my degree is we're so similar. My degree from
college is English.
Speaker 3 (34:59):
And I love me too.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
I'm telling you, I just if I just if I
just were your height and your weight and your beauty,
I'd have it all. Okay, what would the title of
your autobiography be?
Speaker 4 (35:13):
A Cup of Joe? That's me?
Speaker 1 (35:16):
Oh that's a great title. Yeah, you must have thought
that through. That didn't just come to you.
Speaker 5 (35:22):
Well, it's my Instagram handle, but it did start by
I had a blog called A Cup of Joe.
Speaker 4 (35:27):
I have a mug called a cup of Joe of
a jacket.
Speaker 5 (35:29):
It was kind of like, it's kind of like my brand,
so that yeah, and I'll tell you a little bit
about it. So basically, where a cup of Joe comes
from is my name is Ali Joe. A lot of
people call me Jojo. Coffee is really expensive. I love
coffee and I'm loud, energetic, so I'm like a cup
of Joe. But what originally transparred from that was I
used to rate boutique fitness gyms in New York City,
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Filly and New Jersey, and I would rate them once
a five cups of Joe, like the trainer, the workout,
the lobbies, anything, the front desk, because like coffee, I
think I love cookies, but like coffee, it's expensive once
you get all those anons, like I'll walk out of
a coffee place and spend ten bucks. So people are
intimity to go try fitness classes and they're expensive. So
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I was like, there's really nobody reviewing classes. So I
started to do that, and then covid hit a couple
of months later, and I was doing it for like
online classes, and then I just.
Speaker 4 (36:21):
Kind of stopped and it Cup of Joe just always stuck.
Speaker 1 (36:24):
Wow, and then you.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
Went to Bachelor.
Speaker 1 (36:26):
Yeah, so what that's so that is an amazing accomplishment.
Is what is your greatest accomplishment so far? Because you
already accomplished?
Speaker 2 (36:36):
Thank you.
Speaker 5 (36:36):
I think moving to Florida by myself. I didn't know
anybody in Fort Lattery Dale. I took the leap of faith.
I literally moved everything like I found a sub lease,
figured it out where did I want to move? And
I went back to Jersey packed all my stuff up.
My mom did help me, but like my furniture, I
came down here did it by myself.
Speaker 1 (36:53):
Why Dale? Why for? I mean I love Yeah, I.
Speaker 4 (36:57):
Love I love it here.
Speaker 5 (36:58):
I was originally actually like think of like Boca, it's
all write area.
Speaker 1 (37:02):
And then this.
Speaker 5 (37:03):
Opportunity came about and I pivoted because I was like,
it's new, and I, like I said earlier, I like
to be challenged. It's a young area. I was about
to be thirty years old. It's I like a city
because I used to live in Jersey City and work
in New York City.
Speaker 4 (37:14):
But it's not too big of a city where you're
like overwhelmed.
Speaker 2 (37:17):
Does walk down there.
Speaker 1 (37:19):
Hey, Susan, we can cross Fort Lauderdale off our list.
Did you hear what Ali Joe said? It's a really
young city with young people. Yeah, it's a mixed young
become a four letter word to me.
Speaker 4 (37:31):
It's mixed. It's mixed. But I'm three miles around the beach.
I'm not even a mile away from like where all
the bars and restaurants are.
Speaker 3 (37:37):
So I love it.
Speaker 4 (37:38):
It makes me happy.
Speaker 2 (37:40):
Yeah, it's a beautiful area. It really is. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (37:44):
Okay, how bell do you, if any what advice would
you give to someone younger that's dating.
Speaker 2 (37:54):
What could you tell them? What bit of advice I would.
Speaker 5 (37:57):
Say, don't overthink every little thing that you do, or
overthink every little comment that the man says.
Speaker 1 (38:04):
I'm sorry, could to Susan. Would you repeat that to Susan.
Just repeat that, say Susan.
Speaker 5 (38:10):
And then Susan, don't think everything I do. I used
to do the same thing, and I do to a
certain extent. But I feel you get so caught up
in that and you get nervous. And what I've realized
is because I have dated, you know, people the last
couple of years, is that if I can't be myself
around you and you give me anxiety like this is
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not going to go anywhere, and justifying and behavior that's
not justifiable.
Speaker 1 (38:34):
So just be here.
Speaker 3 (38:36):
Someone's love that is it not work? Not to be yourself.
You're trying to be your best person for that part.
Speaker 2 (38:42):
No, I can't.
Speaker 4 (38:42):
I can't. And I've been there and done that, and
that's what I've learned from It was absolutely.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
And same thing on the show, you know, be yourself.
And Susan I used to look at each other on
the Golden Batch and go, how else are we going
to be?
Speaker 3 (38:54):
What do you mean?
Speaker 5 (38:56):
That's why Juliana and I like got along, I feel
like so well because we would have these conversations like
I'm just gonna be me, take it or leave it,
like that's just how it is. And we got along
because the first night we like literally said that to
each other. But yeah, younger people, I think, just be yourself.
Somebody is going to absolutely love it, and if they don't,
then it's a blessing in disguise and you find your person.
Speaker 3 (39:19):
If you were stranded on the deserted island and you
could only bring three girls from your season, and I
think we already know Juliana is going to be one
of them.
Speaker 4 (39:29):
Yeah, Juliana, Parisa.
Speaker 2 (39:32):
And Vicky, Oh interesting, tell me why we just.
Speaker 5 (39:38):
Became like super close. We had a super tight bond.
Vicky is an NFL cheerleader and she danced her whole life.
I dance, so we bonded on that and she was
just very like I'm me Like I remember her and
I were sitting down one time like yeah, we need
to see if we like grands Like yes, yes, like us,
but like we need to see if we like him
as well, thank you, And we had this whole conversation
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about it, and Parisa is like me, she's just like
her happy self and take it or leave it, happy,
go lucky, like no drama. And I love being around
people that are like that, like they're just that's what
makes to you.
Speaker 1 (40:11):
Yeah, I love it. Okay, do you have any questions
or advice for us? Because I keep saying you're you're smart,
and you have any questions or advice for us? I
would be dying to hear it.
Speaker 5 (40:22):
Well, I want to house like your dating life, like
are you because like my mom was single, she she's
with somebody.
Speaker 4 (40:28):
I called her.
Speaker 3 (40:29):
Did she get him? Where did she at a.
Speaker 5 (40:32):
Restaurant or like a bar that is like popular in Jersey,
and they work together and then took time off, but
now they're together again. And I always had an issue
that I hated every single guy my mom dated after
my dad.
Speaker 4 (40:42):
I was mean as hell to.
Speaker 2 (40:47):
Tell me.
Speaker 5 (40:48):
I was like very overprotected. But the person she's with now,
I absolutely ignore him.
Speaker 4 (40:53):
I love him.
Speaker 5 (40:54):
I want what my mom and her partner have, like
I truly do. Me and my sister always say that.
So for you ladies, like do you date?
Speaker 4 (41:02):
Are you on apps?
Speaker 1 (41:03):
You just well, Susan can give her answer. My answer
is not very short. My answer is very short. Allie, Joe.
Speaker 2 (41:12):
Crickets?
Speaker 1 (41:13):
Do you hear it? It's crickets?
Speaker 5 (41:14):
Do you ladies that like the show changed anything in
your lives? Like in this chapter of your lives?
Speaker 1 (41:21):
I can say for me, it just made me and
Susan I agree on this. It just affirmed that we
are enough, that we're good people, and we're happy, and
we live life to the fullest and we're doing the
right thing because that's for me, and that just like.
Speaker 3 (41:38):
Her cup of Joe, my motto and my book would
be called enjoy who you are. And I've done that
all my life. I mean, I make my own roles,
it makes my world and not everybody agrees with that.
That being on that.
Speaker 2 (41:53):
Show confirmed that I love myself.
Speaker 3 (41:56):
I have days that you know, you doubt and you overthink,
but it's about no contact with the outside world. Remember,
all you have are the ladies to wake up to
every single morning. I wasn't jealous. I was encouraging and
happy for somebody that got a one on one.
Speaker 1 (42:16):
As although Susan. Although, and I'm not going to put
you on the Spider ally Joe if you were interested
in Grant, but Susan and I have gone on the record,
so I'm not giving anything away here. We knew pretty
early on that I was about to say I was
about to say Grant, not Grant, that we were about.
I was about to say that. Susan and I figured
out really quickly that we were just friends with Gary.
(42:39):
Nice guy, but not our guys. So for us it
made it a lot easier, easier.
Speaker 4 (42:44):
You know too, I agree with that. I can relate
to that.
Speaker 3 (42:47):
I feel. Yeah, Remember, Kathy, you made a statement, you
said to me, what if she was your person that
you really were intoday?
Speaker 2 (42:55):
And what was my response? She said, I'll never forget it.
Speaker 1 (43:00):
I'll never forget it. Susan said she would have behaved
very differently, acted very differently if she'd want them, she
would have gone after him.
Speaker 2 (43:09):
Absolutely, you didn't see that side of me.
Speaker 3 (43:11):
Because if there's something I want, I'm the same.
Speaker 1 (43:17):
On all these happy notes, everyone's going after the guy
they want. I don't know if we're gonna be in Paradise,
but if you go, we want to go. We're putting
out the positive vibe that we get invited. And if
we go and you go, we will see you there and.
Speaker 5 (43:33):
Will be best least if I do go and you
guys are there, I kind of love this, Like I
don't know what the dynamic is going to be, but
I love it because, like I said, I'm so close
to my.
Speaker 4 (43:43):
Mom and I love hanging out with people that are older.
Speaker 1 (43:46):
And like we go.
Speaker 4 (43:48):
Yeah, gives me that sense of like home and like,
can't you Charlie Joe, You.
Speaker 3 (43:54):
Know you guys, so Elie Joe, you have watched past
seasons of Paradise, correct, Yeah, I tried to catch up
on it and see what it's all about.
Speaker 2 (44:02):
It is way different. Yeah, it's totally different than our experience.
Speaker 1 (44:08):
Well, you know what, Susan, No one's gonna spill what
goes on in paradise. If we get to go, we're
gonna find out on ourselves by ourselves as well, Ali,
Joe and and we just know that we're not dating
the younger guys and they're not dating us. That's what
we know. But we got to wrap here. That's gonna
do it for this episode of That's what Happy Hours,
(44:31):
Golden Hour. Thank you so much for to you. You
are the lovely person truly inside and out, and you
are incredible with the great advice. So thank you.
Speaker 3 (44:41):
Thank you for having wise, very wise, and I am
looking forward to staying with you, keeping company with you
and having some fun with you for sure. Yes, stay
in touch absolutely, and thank everybody for joining us today.
Make sure you follow Bachelor Happy as we have new
(45:01):
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Speaker 1 (45:17):
Listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio
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have a great week.
Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks for
joining us. We're so excited to be back yet again
this week. Susan, how are you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
I can't wait?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Bachelor Nation fans, Wait, do you hear about today? And
make sure you've checked out all our episodes because we
are having fun.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
We are having so much from it. I want to know, Susan,
real quickly, harm getting better, the risk getting better, healing.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Actually, the pain is less now we're under a four. However, yesterday,
you know, when it starts feeling better, you tend to
use it and then set me back a little bit.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
But yeah, yeah, you just remember your four as somebody
else's ten. So take those drugs you prescribed. Okay, Today
we have a really special guest from Grant season. She
is gorgeous. She's fabulous. Welcome Ali Joe to Golden Hour.
How are you doing today?
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Hey, thank you so much.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
I'm doing great. How are you, ladies?
Speaker 1 (01:01):
We're fabulous.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Well I'm here mending.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
Yes, I see that boxing.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
It was not boxing, I promise. Okay.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
Well, I'm glad to hear that.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
So you live in Fort Lauderdale, but you're a Jersey girl,
Susan from Philly. I'm from Newton, Massachusetts. So we've got
the New England Atlantic coast covered here today.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
We do.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Yeah, we love it the East coast.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
And you're a You're you teach boxing.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
Yes, I do.
Speaker 5 (01:31):
I teach rumble boxing, so it's rumble So rumble boxing
is a forty five minute workout. You have strength training
and boxing. It's ten rounds. Every round is three minutes.
It started in New York City. I've been with the
company for a couple of years. I'm the head trainer
in Fort Lauderdale, but I do work for the company
on the corporate side, so I don't just I'm not
just the trainer. I do a lot of the back
(01:53):
end stuff for the company as well. I help open
studios a lot in the South Florida market right now.
I did a lot in North Jersey when I was
living there.
Speaker 4 (02:01):
And yeah, I love what I do.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
I totally do.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
I have a trainer. One time doing boxing catchy my
I think my knuckles would be swollen and I get
to the salon and my boss would say, that's your money.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
So that's allie, that's my question. I'm a I'm a
crazy girl. I work out in the gym a lot,
and my trainer also teaches boxing. So I got boxing
gloves and I loved it. I did, like, but my
hands were like knuckles were swell, hurting. What's the deal?
Is that just a thing?
Speaker 3 (02:31):
Well?
Speaker 4 (02:32):
Are you wrapping your hands? First of all?
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Doing it?
Speaker 5 (02:36):
Of course your hands, and then we'll chat and make
sure you have good gloves. Like there's twelve ounces of
fourteen ounces sixteen.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
I don't know, but my guy told me what to
get and I loved it, like I was. I could.
I had the quick move, but it was killing my hands,
so rapping, all right, Maybe I'll try it again. Yeah,
you know what, I didn't need boxing lessons for that, Sinis,
and that came naturally.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
Don't mess with the Northeast, that's all.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
That's right, all right? So, so Ali, we want to
get to know you a little bit better, and you're
gonna give us some advice to Bachelor Nation. We're gonna
ask you all kinds of questions about so many questions.
We have so many.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Questions, so excited to answer that.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
I love all right. First, we're dying to know what
was it like being in person at AFR and Senior
Bachelor Pesty get engaged to Grant, which by the way,
was also if we're being technically your ex.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
Yeah, we're getting technical. Honestly, it was a great time.
I'm so happy I got the opportunity to go because
I wasn't sure if I was going to be able to,
but I was so happy to support Juliana and I'm
so happy for her in Grants and it was exciting.
It was really cool to watch live because I've been
watching the show since i was a little kid. I'm
thirty one, so to like see it live, like obviously
I did a tell all, but it's just different, like
(03:52):
the energy is different, feeding the alumni that like I've
watched on TV, I see.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
On social media. It was a really cool experience.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Yeah, yes, oh my god. So first and foremost, have
you talked to Julia?
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Yes, I talked to Juliana. Of course.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I am happy.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
She is so happy, you know.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
I think also like overwhelmed, like it's such a whirlwind,
You're dealing with so many emotions and you know, social media. Yeah,
you know, I definitely feel like I always tell her,
like if you need somebody to lean on, like I'm here.
She's very very close to her sister. I'm very close
with my sister as well, and that's kind of how
we also like linked up Juliana and I because we're
(04:33):
very very tight with our family. But yeah, I saw
her right after we had she had a little after party,
and it was it was really fun.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
It was great East Coast as well. You have to know, though,
as soon as I found out where you were from
and your eyes and your beauty, I was for you.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
I really was.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Thank you. I appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
We'll get we got to get into your dating life,
but we got but we have we have some more
questions on this, of course, Zoe. You know we're going
to hit you on Zooey. We're but here's something I
have to say before you. We all know edits right,
we all know that's the way it's portrayed. And you know,
people stand up for you saying you're a lovely person,
(05:12):
and you are clearly nothing but a lovely person. So
tell us about that, Like, are you friends now, because
you know I was the villain with Teresa or maybe
you don't know on our show and we're fine, So
tell us about that.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
And I are good. Like we squashed it the next day.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
It wasn't shown like there was instances where you can
see her and I sitting on the couch. I saw
her at Afar the other day. We facetimed last week.
We took a photo of the other day. And I
are good, like I always say, like, yeah, I can
in the moment.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
I'm not looking back on it.
Speaker 5 (05:42):
It wasn't the best thing, but I always am true
to myself.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
And I'm not saying yelling is true to me. But
like I didn't think of that.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
I just something was bothering me and I said it,
and I might not react it.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
I don't know. I think she is me how many
years ago. I mean, I'm exactly yeah, I'm exactly sorry
to speak.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
You end up resenting them, right.
Speaker 5 (06:01):
And I never I always say my favorite quote, and
I've had helped this with me for like the last
ten years, especially my career. Closed mouth, don't get fed
And I always always say that, and I live by
that quote. It's one of my favorite ones.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
It is also about the delivery, correct, yes, yeah, and.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
It wasn't not good. It was not a good delivery.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
But I was that bad, it really was.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
It took all so Theresa.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
My favorite but Teresa and I are over it. It's
you know, we're friends, it's I saw I get I
empathized with you. I also love the fact, Alie Joe,
that you say you on one of the one of
the shows, you said, you know, I believe in fighting
for yourself. I love that. It just shows such confidence
that you have great I mean, not only are you beautiful,
(06:53):
but you clearly are a woman who has confidence, and
you know. I love that. I love to see women
empowered and and doing your.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
So, Alejo, do you feel you built even more confidence
being on the show or were you like this prior
but it brought out.
Speaker 5 (07:08):
Yeah, I've always been like listen, I think that there
was definitely growing up, I had a lot of insecurities
with things that I dealt with personally, family, my body image.
Like I danced my whole life, and from a young age,
I always remember like looking at myself in the mirror
and I was bigger than the other girls, and that
kind of messed with my head. And I was like
eight years old and that kind of stayed with me.
And I really got into the whole fitness background honestly
(07:31):
when I was in middle school. But even before that,
my dad would train. My sister and I would go
on runs. We'd run up and down the stairs in
our house. We would have a deck of cards. You
would flip it over. If it's at eight, you make
us do eight sit ups, eight push ups.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
So I learned. I learned that at a really young age.
Speaker 5 (07:45):
But I think my confidence has come from just me
being independent. My mom raised me really independent, and just
like you know, I don't like to kiss anybody's ass.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
I'm me.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
I can be in a room full of people if
we don't like each other, or you don't like me,
I could still be in the room with you and
sit there, and I like to go to sleep that
night with my head on my pillow, knowing like I'm
true to me and yourself.
Speaker 4 (08:04):
Okay, someone will love that.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
Okay, Well, so let me ask a question. If you
so many questions you got into boxing. I don't know
just how did you get into boxing because fitness. I'm
stunned by you saying that you were bigger than the
other girls. I could blow you away with a you
know you're gone, so you're tiny. So I don't know
where that came from.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
But when I was little, I felt that way.
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Though it's like, growing up, I always had just like
some bad body image issues, but I've grown from it.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Good.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
Well that's not your always going to say or everybody
was twiggy, you had to be this big, you know
nowadays people with a full figure.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
It's awesome.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Yeah, So how did you get into boxing? Obviously you're
you're a fitness person, but boxing, I mean that's not
a typical thing for you.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
Yes, I'm of course, So I went through some things
in high school. I kind of have a similar background
to Grant. I haven't really been able to like talk
about this on the show and other you know, podcasts
and stuff, but I do have a very, very similar
upbringing with my dad, who did have some abuse issues,
substance abuse with with pills and pills and stuff like that,
(09:15):
and he was my coach growing up. I played soccer,
I did sports, and I always idolized him and I
wanted to make him proud and my mom, like I danced.
I was very very active, and then in high school
I went to a high school for a dance and
I just I fell out.
Speaker 4 (09:28):
Of love with it.
Speaker 5 (09:28):
I loved it. And then I was like fifteen, sixteen,
seventeen and I just hated it.
Speaker 4 (09:33):
I didn't like myself.
Speaker 5 (09:35):
I was going through like really bad things mentally, and
my cousin was like, come to like a kickboxing class.
So I did, and I fell lever again and I
picked it up through dance. I feel like you have
to have like tempo and rhythm. So that's where a
small part of it started for me.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Wow, I love it. So dating dating? Would you date? Yeah,
Susan and I talk about this all the time. I'm
a fitness freak. I mean for I really, I'm ridiculous.
Speaker 4 (10:03):
We got to work out together.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
I would love it. I work out a lot, I
lift weights, I do heavy stuff. Man, I love it.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
You know, dating somebody that does it though, what.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
I would know that is that important to you to
have a guy that's into that kind of fitness.
Speaker 5 (10:19):
I actually just had a conversation about this the other day.
So it's not like the end all be all for me.
Like I've really worked on myself the last couple of years,
and especially living in Florida, Like I've really learned balance.
Like I wouldn't go out in Jersey because I didn't
want to go out An because I had to wake
up and go to the gym, or I had to
wake up and teach a six am seven am class.
But now being like thirty one, that's there's more to
life than your what you look like and waking up.
(10:41):
I want to have a cocktail at night. I want
to sometimes stay out till three am, and how that happens.
I want to have a life. So for me, I
don't need the person that I'm dating to be obsessed
with the gym. But like, if you want to go
take a class or I want to walk with me, amazing.
A lot of peak times, I feel like guys approached
me talking about the gym because they think that's what
I want to hear. But yeah, yeah, and that's my career,
(11:04):
so like you know, I'm treating people, I'm teaching classes,
I'm working out, so sometimes they don't really want to
talk about that.
Speaker 4 (11:09):
Jim, Like, I live it all day.
Speaker 3 (11:11):
Yeah, do you have a romantic side of you? Are you?
Like you know how they say you wear hard on
your sleep? Are you that person? I think if you
have the dumpterior and you keep it all to protect yourself.
Speaker 4 (11:33):
A little bit of both.
Speaker 5 (11:33):
I've been told that I'm pretty tough or intimidating, which
is crazy to me because I don't think I am.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
I just think, raise your hand if you are intimidating
or men thinking.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
That's all we hear.
Speaker 5 (11:43):
I'm where, which I feel like is a good thing
kind of because that means I fel like you're just
like strong and you know who you are.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
Do I wear my heart in my sleeve. Not all
the time.
Speaker 5 (11:52):
I am sensitive and if something is bothering me or
if you're doing something I love, I will tell you,
but it takes me a minute, you know.
Speaker 4 (11:59):
I like to take my time. I don't like to
Russian to anything.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
So so what okay, So you said you'll date a
guy with a big paunch and out of shape. That's
a joke. What what pollies? What are you looking for
in a date? And are you dating? Let's just stop
right there? Are you da?
Speaker 5 (12:18):
So it's been a while, yeah, like dating here and there?
You know, I feel like it's really hard right now
at my age, everybody is so like hyper focused on
social media and like that's just not what I'm really
looking for. Like even like in a partner, I don't
care how many followers you have. Just be a good person,
and like I just want somebody who's you know, keeps
(12:41):
it real and could be my best friend.
Speaker 4 (12:43):
Have I been dating yet? Here and there?
Speaker 5 (12:45):
I've gone on a couple of dates, but I'm just
kind of riding the wave and I don't I don't
want to force anything. I want it to happen on
its own. I feel like when you're not looking, that's
when it happens.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
It does.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
I'm truth to that. But how about your dms? Like,
remember Kathy and I talked about this one hundred times.
Somebody said, oh my gosh, you're gonna be get millions
of them. We did, Okay, you did, You didn't.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
We did not. We got dms. We got dms from
thirty year old guys from people.
Speaker 3 (13:12):
But I think the problem was the social media thing.
A lot of people our age do not get on.
They don't even know what Instagram is. Yeah, I know,
you might imagine your boxes.
Speaker 5 (13:23):
First of all, my mom is probably your age too,
And when she looks at a picture, I'm like, don't
like it, and she's like, and I'm like, please don't
like the photo, Mom, just showing you what the guy
looks like.
Speaker 4 (13:32):
Yeah, my d MS, I don't know. I have with
a bunch of requests.
Speaker 5 (13:36):
I'm lazy, Like I have like a lot of notifications,
but honestly, a lot of college kids have messaged me,
like guys and girls, and they're like, can you come
to our frat party?
Speaker 4 (13:44):
Can you come to do this recording of that?
Speaker 3 (13:47):
But yeah, consider the considered dating somebody that you read
a message from, would you give that?
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Would you know?
Speaker 5 (13:56):
I need to see them in person. I'm so about personality.
It's not just about.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Okay, that's my question. What are the palities? Personalities? Tell
me what you're looking for, and a.
Speaker 5 (14:04):
Guy, I'm looking for somebody who is very close to
their family, very family oriented is something that's huge for me.
If you're not close with your family, that's okay, But
I'm super close with mine. So if you're dating me,
you're like also dating.
Speaker 4 (14:17):
My mom and my sister.
Speaker 5 (14:18):
We Like, my sister was going on a date the
other day, she was like sending us photos, So like,
I'm really close with my mom and my sister. So
somebody who's family oriented, but also just somebody that could
be my best.
Speaker 4 (14:26):
Friend and that I can rely on.
Speaker 5 (14:28):
I feel like I'm a very reliable person and I
don't always get that in return from relationships trendships. So
I just want I want to be able to have
somebody like do something for me without me asking, and
that's hard to find. Yeah, and somebody that just can
like sit on the couch and show with me, have
a glass of wine and be goofier, like go out
to dinner, have a couple of drinks.
Speaker 4 (14:48):
I want to be able to do everything with somebody.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
On dating a Jewish man, excuse me, kay, No.
Speaker 4 (14:55):
I'm not said, said on dating just a Jewish man.
Speaker 5 (14:57):
I am Jewish. I am not like very religious. I
do believe in the tradition. I've had two serious relationships
in my life. One of the guys was Jewish, the
other one was Italian. My stepdad's Italian. Like I feel
like Jewish and Italian people are very similar. But religion
isn't like the end all be all for me because listen,
both my parents are Jewish, they're divorced, so I don't
necessarily believe in that if you marry your religion, it's.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
A very dull.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
So it happens exactly.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Well, what I was going to say is it's I'm hearing,
which I don't know if it's a good thing or
a bad thing. But I'm hearing the same thing out
of your mouth. You're you're very articulate, you're beautiful, you
have a successful prayer. And what she's looking for, what
you are looking for? Ali Joe. It sounds like the
younger version of what Susan and Ira was saying. So
(15:44):
it's in some ways the generations just are the same.
We're looking for the same thing.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
Yeah, and they're out there.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
I gotta believe that they're I want to be challenged.
Speaker 5 (15:58):
I want to be challenged too, Like I want somebody
to grow with me, not grow apart, like whoever I
marry or date whatever, like I just want to be
able to grow with that person and be on the
same page.
Speaker 4 (16:08):
But I love a challenge.
Speaker 5 (16:09):
So someone who can keep me in my toes is
very I said, that's I said, that's a grand because
he was.
Speaker 4 (16:13):
Really tall, but like literally, I do want you to
keep me on my toes and like, how are you?
Speaker 1 (16:17):
How tall are you?
Speaker 2 (16:21):
Girls? Small and mighty?
Speaker 3 (16:25):
How about that?
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Was gonna say, drum roll, drum roll together, Susan, would
you do paradise? And want you go? I'll go.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
We heard the announcement that I know, like they better call.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
Ladies go all go.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
I don't know, Joe.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
Here's the thing, Susan, I am not standing next to her.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
I'm going because she's gonna work out with you and
my boo boo.
Speaker 5 (16:53):
Yeah, we'll work out and then we'll like have like
a glass of rose or something.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
I love this, Okay. All we got to do is
get the invitations and make it happen, an Allergia, who
do you want to see? Their alle jobs? Besides us?
Who else would you like to see?
Speaker 3 (17:05):
Is there anybody in particular you'd like to be or
a few?
Speaker 5 (17:09):
I'm not sure because like I did take us off
some watching of some of the seasons. So I kind
of if I, if I do go, I would like
to just like go in with a kind of like
a clean slate. I don't necessarily need to know everything
about somebody. I think that's what like the part of
the journey in the process is. And I feel like
also if I know something about that person, I might
feel intimidated, like, oh, this person does this or this
(17:31):
person does this, Like I that might intimidate me.
Speaker 4 (17:34):
So I kind of just want to, like, if I
do go, because.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
It's not a so you're not going to give us
names of guys you would like to be that you
would like to see there, which I think makes sense.
But Ali, Joe, what guys would you like to see there?
Speaker 2 (17:50):
I'm not sure I.
Speaker 5 (17:53):
Have to if I was to go, I kind of
again like want just a clean slate. I don't want
to walk into there being I know every single thing
about this person.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
Do I find some people attractive?
Speaker 5 (18:03):
Yeah, absolutely, of course, But to me, it's personality is
what makes you attractive, So you can be the hottest
person on the block, like your personality could.
Speaker 3 (18:12):
Not be got new people, new faces, people you've never
seen before, you.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
Know what I'm saying. Yeah, would you be over mean
a stranger?
Speaker 1 (18:22):
Yeah? Or you meet lots of strangers and they become
your best days. Would you consider an engagement? Would you can?
Do you want kids? I mean, tell me what, like,
what's your you know, what's your two three year game plan? Here?
Speaker 4 (18:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (18:37):
I mean I don't like to put a timeline because
if I was in my head, I would have already
been married with.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
Like a kid or two.
Speaker 5 (18:43):
And it's so crazy because I've always had like a
plan for myself and I feel like right now, thirty one,
I'm actually a little nervous because I don't necessarily have
like a five year plan. I'm very gold oriented and
I like to set goals and there's no ceilings. But
you know, in the next three years at least, I would,
of course want to be married on a house. I
would like to live, you know, somewhere warm. That's kind
of why I moved out of Jersey. And I definitely
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do want a family, probably two kids, and I just
want to be happy and.
Speaker 3 (19:08):
Be able to hear.
Speaker 1 (19:12):
It sounds to me like she's just going with the
flow right now.
Speaker 4 (19:15):
For once in my life. I'm going with the flow,
which is not normal for me.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
But that's a good thing. That keeps you healthy, that
keeps you ave.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
And like you just said, when you least expect.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
It's true.
Speaker 3 (19:27):
All right, guys, So before we get into our listeners
what they wrote in, we're going to start with Kathy
and I call the question of the day.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
All right, here we go, Ali, Joe, what do you
think are the most important qualities to look for in
a potential partner? You sort of answered a little bit,
but I want more specifics here. Okay, I'm drilling.
Speaker 5 (19:53):
Yeah, someone that's Trustworthyes, again, I said before. Somebody that
is reliable, someone that's outgoing, doesn't take things like to
seriously and has like a fun side, but like not
too fun. You do there are parts of life that
you need to take seriously. Someone that can support me,
you know, not like emotionally, and someone that allows me
to be independent because I am independent and I think
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that's what I struggle with finding someone is that I
am sometimes too independent, which isn't a bad thing, but
I want somebody to be able to kind of crack
that for me.
Speaker 4 (20:21):
I'm used to doing everything for myself.
Speaker 3 (20:23):
Okay, somebody who loves it and is involved with this family,
because you had said that earlier as well, So I
don't think we're different.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
Well, I was just gonna say, Ali, Joe, what many
of what you just said? So I'm looking not I'm
not looking to start a family. Let's start there. You know.
I'm not looking, thank god, thank god I have three
and I'm taking it at that. But I am also looking,
and you're about to get the same questionnaire. I'm also
looking for the guy who is kind. I am just
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like you. I'm I'm ohoops, I'm smart, I'm outspoken. Sometimes
I say what I think, But like you, I can
tell I have a kind heart too, So I'm looking
for guy that recognizes that in me and isn't put
off by my you know, my my mouth that just
sometimes runs away with me. And a kind man and
a man I want to spoil him, you want to
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spoil me. We're looking for the same things. What about you, Susan,
I'm just about to have a sense of humor and.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
A kind heart.
Speaker 3 (21:21):
Just somebody that loves me for me, for who I
am and accepts the big personality and the type a.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
Somebody just said me, Yeah, somebody just yeah, someone just
said to you and me, Susan. I don't know, but
Ali Joe, I bet you're exactly the same. When you
meet a guy and they say to you, you know, wow,
you're a lot, which I get that from, then you're
a lot. You're you're smart, you're funny, but you know,
you're a little intimidating. I never had interpret that, nobody. Oh,
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I've had I've had a couple of men intimidating words.
Speaker 4 (21:57):
You, I've had some things.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Yeah, you know what, do you know what the answer
to that is? Then I guess you're not the guy
for me. If you're intimidated by me.
Speaker 5 (22:05):
It's how simple is that somebody else love you for
who you are. I always say that when like one
door closes, guess what, then there's another one.
Speaker 3 (22:14):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (22:15):
I don't.
Speaker 5 (22:15):
I don't ever want to settle in my life, in
my relationships, friendships, anything, I will never settle.
Speaker 4 (22:20):
So I'll know when I find that person.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
That's my first Okay, And here's the line. If you're
too much, they're not enough.
Speaker 4 (22:28):
May I love that?
Speaker 1 (22:29):
Right? I just made that up in my head. I
just came to me.
Speaker 4 (22:33):
I'm going to steal that. I'm gonna put it in
my Instagram.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
I may or may not have stolen it, Ali Joe,
I'm just kidding. Okay, So we're going to give some
advice and that this are our listeners writing questions, and we're.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
Going to ask you how you yes advice.
Speaker 3 (22:52):
Okay, I'll read the first one, and this is from
anonymous hie ladies. I need your help. I really need help. Lately,
my boyfriend of three years has been making a ton
of jokes about wanting to hook up with his best
friend's sister. He says it all the time, and he's
done so many times. Right, in front of me and
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my friends. He makes crude jokes a lot, so that's
not the issue. I just feel like this is crossing
a line. I started to tear up one time, and
he apologized and said, it's just a joke. Relax, Am
I overreacting? Thank you so much, Love you ladies.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
WHOA okay.
Speaker 2 (23:36):
Your first?
Speaker 4 (23:37):
That is a joke.
Speaker 5 (23:38):
That's not funny, first of all, So like, go read
a book or a comedy book and find other jokes,
because that's not funny.
Speaker 4 (23:44):
Number one, lot of numbers too.
Speaker 5 (23:47):
If it was me in that position, I wouldn't mean
I wouldn't hopefully be that, but like I would go
to the girl that he's talking about and say like, hey.
Speaker 3 (23:56):
Going on here?
Speaker 4 (23:57):
Yeah, I would just go straight to her and be like,
what's going on?
Speaker 5 (24:00):
Because once you say something multiple times, it's kind of like, okay,
said it so many times it's like believable at this point.
Speaker 4 (24:05):
So like I would go right to her the girl.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
Wait, he doesn't. Yeah, he doesn't say he doesn't. This
doesn't say there no, right, she doesn't know the girl
that we're in questionnaire. We're not sure if she knows,
why would.
Speaker 5 (24:23):
Pull her aside or pick up the phone and say, hey,
just have like a question, you know, and it's okay
if this has happened, have you ever hooked up with
my boyfriend whatever?
Speaker 3 (24:31):
She didn't think he's already done it and you want
to question. Oh okay, so I read it too. He's
in front of friends, they're all together all the time,
and he constantly says, yeah, I want to hook up
with such and such a girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
Okay. Can I be the elephant in the room here? Yes,
go Ali, Joe, you hinted at it. I don't think
i'd be with a guy who made those kinds of
when she said, he makes crude jokes and that's not
the issue. Did you see me nod for me? That
would be an issue. I don't want a man who's crude.
I don't want a man who's making jokes about hooking
up with anybody. I don't think it's funny. So I
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probably wouldn't be with him.
Speaker 4 (25:13):
To me, it's like on you fool me twice, Shame
on me.
Speaker 5 (25:16):
My mom always like tak me if you're sorry to
see things in the beginning that you don't like, it's
not like to change and you there's some things that
as a woman you could like change in a guy,
like the clothes he wears sometimes, but like personality things.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
You are so smart to know that people can I
tell you how many? Uh, I'm honestly amazed that you're
only thirty one because you're wisdom. No, I'm serious, your
wisdom belies your years. So many women, my daughter's friends,
they think that they're going to change a guy. And
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you're right, you can get, maybe on a good day,
to put his socks in the hamper. But if you
think you're going to change his basic characters, that is.
Speaker 3 (26:01):
Not You're barking up the wrong tree. And like you said,
a red flag is a red flag, they're not. So
you can alter some things. And I would definitely to
Anonymous who wrote into us, thank you so much, what
I would do is nip it in the button.
Speaker 2 (26:18):
He cannot do that anymore. That's a deal breaker for you.
That's a deal breaker, he continues, seriously.
Speaker 5 (26:27):
It's a deal breaker for me too, because like, also,
why are you keep saying this about the girl?
Speaker 4 (26:32):
Like are you thinking about her?
Speaker 5 (26:33):
Like you should be thinking about me if I'm your
significant other.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
Right, it's not funny. People say things all the time.
You know, and then they think if they add on
the tagline, it's just a joke.
Speaker 6 (26:44):
It's just that right there, it's not okay, it's not jokes,
all right, And you don't get to have me, then
that's all right, and that's their loss.
Speaker 3 (26:59):
And then some people would say anonymous, then you do
what he does, and see how it feels that.
Speaker 2 (27:06):
I don't believe.
Speaker 4 (27:07):
I don't being spiteful.
Speaker 2 (27:09):
No, does it make you feel better? Right?
Speaker 3 (27:13):
No? See, it's not a game.
Speaker 4 (27:16):
It's not a game either.
Speaker 5 (27:17):
Like I feel like a lot of people play games,
whether they've been with somebody for like a year or
like before they're seriously dating, Like I hate the games.
Like some people are like, oh, he just texted me,
I need to wait an hour before I answer me.
Speaker 4 (27:28):
I'm god right now, I don't have time to wait
an hour.
Speaker 5 (27:32):
We are all I'm multitasking all day long. I don't
have time to like go back and be like, oh,
because I don't forget to answer you.
Speaker 4 (27:39):
Yes, yeah, I don't care. I'm like, I'm going to
answer you right now.
Speaker 3 (27:44):
I'll do it first too. I don't care too. I
don't care either.
Speaker 1 (27:55):
Have you asked a guy out?
Speaker 5 (27:58):
No, So I do a draw line. I will never ask.
I won't approach a man first. I won't ask a
guy first the first like date, two dates, I.
Speaker 4 (28:04):
Will have him like reach out. Well, I won't have him.
Speaker 5 (28:06):
I would like for him to reach out to me,
but I have no problem texting somebody being like, yeah,
how's going that. I don't think that's weird. But I
won't ask the guy out the first couple of times.
Speaker 1 (28:16):
Do you pay way? Do you pay on a first date?
Do you offer to pay?
Speaker 5 (28:20):
I have before, yes, And I've been told from men
that they really appreciate that, especially down here, and I
don't know why. I just think it's a respectful thing.
And I don't ever want to come across a certain
type of way. So I just think it's it's the
I feel comfortable doing it. I would feel uncomfortable sometimes if.
Speaker 4 (28:38):
I didn't have. I done it on every first date
i've been on. Absolutely not.
Speaker 5 (28:42):
But there have been instances, probably when I was a
little bit younger, that I did it.
Speaker 4 (28:45):
Now that I'm older, I really I haven't done it.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
Okay since an I'm depressed. Now I'm depressed because look
at her. She's beautiful, she's smart, she's wise, and.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
I have a son.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
I don't know what the age thing is.
Speaker 4 (29:01):
How old is it?
Speaker 2 (29:02):
He's thirty and beautiful?
Speaker 3 (29:04):
Oh okay, beautyful.
Speaker 4 (29:07):
Well you're beautiful. So we got it from his mama.
Speaker 1 (29:09):
Look at her. We're gonna we're just having so much
troub with you. We're going to do this scene where
we're gonna just you know, uh, get dig a little deeper,
take a little deeper. Here we go. So what what
musician because we probably don't know who they are anyway
this world. But what musician would you love to see
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perform live?
Speaker 4 (29:32):
Ooh, I would love to see Morgan Wallan.
Speaker 1 (29:34):
I really oh. I love Morgan wallet you're a country fan.
Speaker 5 (29:38):
Yeah, I like all kinds of music, honestly. I like
old music like I like the Dowie Brothers, I like
Earthwind and Fire like Oh My Girls, I like Whitney Houston.
I love nineties music like I really, I really do.
I am an old soul. I've always been told that
I freaking love eighties, seventies dance music like all that stuff.
Speaker 2 (29:55):
I still do.
Speaker 3 (29:55):
I still do.
Speaker 1 (29:56):
I do too.
Speaker 5 (29:57):
I have a nineties playlist, but I would I am tree,
So I would love to see Morgan Wall and.
Speaker 3 (30:02):
Comfort, any pot country the more modern tree. Yes, yes, yes, Okay.
So how do you unwine after a long day?
Speaker 2 (30:11):
What is your thing?
Speaker 5 (30:13):
I like to bake banana bread, which I actually just
did and I did it and I did it in
the mansion and I gave it to.
Speaker 4 (30:19):
All the girls in the cameraman.
Speaker 5 (30:21):
But after a long day, I will sit on the
couch and I watch reality television, mainly The Real Housewives.
Speaker 4 (30:26):
I watched all them. I just watched What Really Was
last night. I just love The Real Housewives. Honestly.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
Do you know Kim Zoliac Right?
Speaker 3 (30:35):
I just did a show that's coming out in April,
and I got to be in the same place with Kimp.
Speaker 2 (30:40):
She was so fun.
Speaker 5 (30:42):
That a lot of people have a lot of people
in Jersey that I know how to make up artists
that our friends and stuff have done some of their
makeup and stuff. I've never met The Jersey Housewives, and
not even because I'm from Jersey. That's just my favorite,
like franchise is the Jersey One.
Speaker 2 (30:56):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (30:57):
So what.
Speaker 1 (31:00):
It's something? Because you seem like you've done a lot
in your life, what's something you've always wanted to do,
but you haven't done yet, And frankly, why haven't you
done it? You know, what is that thing that you
haven't done yet?
Speaker 4 (31:13):
Something I haven't done?
Speaker 1 (31:14):
What you want?
Speaker 5 (31:15):
The first thing that has come to mind is traveled
to Italy with my partner, Like I just really want
to go to Sisily and travel all of Italy with somebody.
I went with my mom and my sister, but I
was like, when I come back, I wanted to be
like romantic and.
Speaker 4 (31:28):
Be with my person, like that is I love.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
I can't this, So I went. I took my family
last year for my birthday to celebrate, and we had
the best time. My son in law is italianis families
from Sicily, so we had a great time, but the
whole but not the whole time because I loved being
with my family. But I was like, this would be
so romantic if I had a partner, hair with resolutely
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I love my family.
Speaker 3 (31:54):
I went on a e prey love solo trip to
Italy for fifteen days. When I got off the planet
was thinking what the hell did I just do? And
just like both of you were saying, every couple hours,
I had a moment, this would be so special if
I had my person with me, I still enjoyed every
minute of it.
Speaker 4 (32:14):
It was like, not.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
Have you done solo traveling?
Speaker 2 (32:20):
No?
Speaker 3 (32:20):
I haven't.
Speaker 4 (32:21):
That's something I haven't done either. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (32:23):
Like people are even like you can go sit a girl,
can go sit at a bar, like at a nice
golf course, and like, go have a drink and a
guy I'll pick you up.
Speaker 4 (32:29):
Like I don't feel comfortable.
Speaker 2 (32:31):
True, people tell me to.
Speaker 4 (32:34):
Do that, like go bring your laptop and go do work,
and like a guy will find you.
Speaker 1 (32:38):
And I'm like, no, are your friends? Wait? Do you wait?
Do you not a friend setting you up? Ali? Joe?
I mean I'm really not blowing hot air? You know
where you are absolutely stunning. I do you feel like
men are afraid to ask you out? Or what's you know?
Speaker 4 (32:54):
Do you have a friend listen? I don't know.
Speaker 5 (32:57):
Like my family like me and my sister are the
only ones we are not married, engaged to have kids,
And they're like why, I'm like, I don't know. If
I knew, I would not be single. And I've been
on a television show to find a man because I
need to find them. They're I don't know what it
is me and it's not like I have like these
crazy requirements like somebody did say to me.
Speaker 4 (33:14):
They're like, you must have crazy, you must have a list,
or like high expectations. And I'm like, I actually really don't.
Speaker 3 (33:21):
You repeating what we've said, and it makes me believe
once again, Kathy, just like I was told and you
were told, men are intimidated by your beauty, by your strength,
by they're just.
Speaker 1 (33:35):
A thank you, Susan, oh, Joe, both of you. Thank you.
Speaker 4 (33:40):
I appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (33:41):
I really do.
Speaker 2 (33:41):
I'm serious.
Speaker 3 (33:43):
Okay, Now I have one what's one piece of advice
that you've always kept within you? Someone gave you a
piece of advice and you've never forgotten it.
Speaker 4 (33:55):
You can't make someone else happy until you're happy.
Speaker 5 (33:57):
I learned that, like with my parents, I love you,
and you don't know what happens behind closed doors, because
when I was little, I would compare like my family
dynamic or my body like to other people, and people
seem perfect. And you know, twenty years later now that
social media is a big thing, Like you know, not
everything is always what it seems, And you can't make
anybody happy until you feel fulfilled and you feel good
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in your life. And then I feel like if you
reradiate positivity and good energy, you get that in return.
Speaker 1 (34:25):
Yea.
Speaker 5 (34:26):
And I feel like a lot of people don't think
that from me, if they don't know me, if they've
only seen me on social media or television. But like
my real people, my clients, like, I love to give
good energy and I like to surround myself with positive people.
Speaker 2 (34:37):
So I won't surround myself with negativity. Absolutely not.
Speaker 4 (34:42):
I mean, I'll exit.
Speaker 1 (34:43):
Yeah, it just it just sucks the literally sucks the
air out of the room. Yes, Okay. One of my
favorite questions that I love to ask is I guess
because I was a writer, I knew you were going
to take that.
Speaker 4 (34:55):
Well, my degree is we're so similar. My degree from
college is English.
Speaker 3 (34:59):
And I love me too.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
I'm telling you, I just if I just if I
just were your height and your weight and your beauty,
I'd have it all. Okay, what would the title of
your autobiography be?
Speaker 4 (35:13):
A Cup of Joe? That's me?
Speaker 1 (35:16):
Oh that's a great title. Yeah, you must have thought
that through. That didn't just come to you.
Speaker 5 (35:22):
Well, it's my Instagram handle, but it did start by
I had a blog called A Cup of Joe.
Speaker 4 (35:27):
I have a mug called a cup of Joe of
a jacket.
Speaker 5 (35:29):
It was kind of like, it's kind of like my brand,
so that yeah, and I'll tell you a little bit
about it. So basically, where a cup of Joe comes
from is my name is Ali Joe. A lot of
people call me Jojo. Coffee is really expensive. I love
coffee and I'm loud, energetic, so I'm like a cup
of Joe. But what originally transparred from that was I
used to rate boutique fitness gyms in New York City,
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Filly and New Jersey, and I would rate them once
a five cups of Joe, like the trainer, the workout,
the lobbies, anything, the front desk, because like coffee, I
think I love cookies, but like coffee, it's expensive once
you get all those anons, like I'll walk out of
a coffee place and spend ten bucks. So people are
intimity to go try fitness classes and they're expensive. So
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I was like, there's really nobody reviewing classes. So I
started to do that, and then covid hit a couple
of months later, and I was doing it for like
online classes, and then I just.
Speaker 4 (36:21):
Kind of stopped and it Cup of Joe just always stuck.
Speaker 1 (36:24):
Wow, and then you.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
Went to Bachelor.
Speaker 1 (36:26):
Yeah, so what that's so that is an amazing accomplishment.
Is what is your greatest accomplishment so far? Because you
already accomplished?
Speaker 2 (36:36):
Thank you.
Speaker 5 (36:36):
I think moving to Florida by myself. I didn't know
anybody in Fort Lattery Dale. I took the leap of faith.
I literally moved everything like I found a sub lease,
figured it out where did I want to move? And
I went back to Jersey packed all my stuff up.
My mom did help me, but like my furniture, I
came down here did it by myself.
Speaker 1 (36:53):
Why Dale? Why for? I mean I love Yeah, I.
Speaker 4 (36:57):
Love I love it here.
Speaker 5 (36:58):
I was originally actually like think of like Boca, it's
all write area.
Speaker 1 (37:02):
And then this.
Speaker 5 (37:03):
Opportunity came about and I pivoted because I was like,
it's new, and I, like I said earlier, I like
to be challenged. It's a young area. I was about
to be thirty years old. It's I like a city
because I used to live in Jersey City and work
in New York City.
Speaker 4 (37:14):
But it's not too big of a city where you're
like overwhelmed.
Speaker 2 (37:17):
Does walk down there.
Speaker 1 (37:19):
Hey, Susan, we can cross Fort Lauderdale off our list.
Did you hear what Ali Joe said? It's a really
young city with young people. Yeah, it's a mixed young
become a four letter word to me.
Speaker 4 (37:31):
It's mixed. It's mixed. But I'm three miles around the beach.
I'm not even a mile away from like where all
the bars and restaurants are.
Speaker 3 (37:37):
So I love it.
Speaker 4 (37:38):
It makes me happy.
Speaker 2 (37:40):
Yeah, it's a beautiful area. It really is. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (37:44):
Okay, how bell do you, if any what advice would
you give to someone younger that's dating.
Speaker 2 (37:54):
What could you tell them? What bit of advice I would.
Speaker 5 (37:57):
Say, don't overthink every little thing that you do, or
overthink every little comment that the man says.
Speaker 1 (38:04):
I'm sorry, could to Susan. Would you repeat that to Susan.
Just repeat that, say Susan.
Speaker 5 (38:10):
And then Susan, don't think everything I do. I used
to do the same thing, and I do to a
certain extent. But I feel you get so caught up
in that and you get nervous. And what I've realized
is because I have dated, you know, people the last
couple of years, is that if I can't be myself
around you and you give me anxiety like this is
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not going to go anywhere, and justifying and behavior that's
not justifiable.
Speaker 1 (38:34):
So just be here.
Speaker 3 (38:36):
Someone's love that is it not work? Not to be yourself.
You're trying to be your best person for that part.
Speaker 2 (38:42):
No, I can't.
Speaker 4 (38:42):
I can't. And I've been there and done that, and
that's what I've learned from It was absolutely.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
And same thing on the show, you know, be yourself.
And Susan I used to look at each other on
the Golden Batch and go, how else are we going
to be?
Speaker 3 (38:54):
What do you mean?
Speaker 5 (38:56):
That's why Juliana and I like got along, I feel
like so well because we would have these conversations like
I'm just gonna be me, take it or leave it,
like that's just how it is. And we got along
because the first night we like literally said that to
each other. But yeah, younger people, I think, just be yourself.
Somebody is going to absolutely love it, and if they don't,
then it's a blessing in disguise and you find your person.
Speaker 3 (39:19):
If you were stranded on the deserted island and you
could only bring three girls from your season, and I
think we already know Juliana is going to be one
of them.
Speaker 4 (39:29):
Yeah, Juliana, Parisa.
Speaker 2 (39:32):
And Vicky, Oh interesting, tell me why we just.
Speaker 5 (39:38):
Became like super close. We had a super tight bond.
Vicky is an NFL cheerleader and she danced her whole life.
I dance, so we bonded on that and she was
just very like I'm me Like I remember her and
I were sitting down one time like yeah, we need
to see if we like grands Like yes, yes, like us,
but like we need to see if we like him
as well, thank you, And we had this whole conversation
(39:58):
about it, and Parisa is like me, she's just like
her happy self and take it or leave it, happy,
go lucky, like no drama. And I love being around
people that are like that, like they're just that's what
makes to you.
Speaker 1 (40:11):
Yeah, I love it. Okay, do you have any questions
or advice for us? Because I keep saying you're you're smart,
and you have any questions or advice for us? I
would be dying to hear it.
Speaker 5 (40:22):
Well, I want to house like your dating life, like
are you because like my mom was single, she she's
with somebody.
Speaker 4 (40:28):
I called her.
Speaker 3 (40:29):
Did she get him? Where did she at a.
Speaker 5 (40:32):
Restaurant or like a bar that is like popular in Jersey,
and they work together and then took time off, but
now they're together again. And I always had an issue
that I hated every single guy my mom dated after
my dad.
Speaker 4 (40:42):
I was mean as hell to.
Speaker 2 (40:47):
Tell me.
Speaker 5 (40:48):
I was like very overprotected. But the person she's with now,
I absolutely ignore him.
Speaker 4 (40:53):
I love him.
Speaker 5 (40:54):
I want what my mom and her partner have, like
I truly do. Me and my sister always say that.
So for you ladies, like do you date?
Speaker 4 (41:02):
Are you on apps?
Speaker 1 (41:03):
You just well, Susan can give her answer. My answer
is not very short. My answer is very short. Allie, Joe.
Speaker 2 (41:12):
Crickets?
Speaker 1 (41:13):
Do you hear it? It's crickets?
Speaker 5 (41:14):
Do you ladies that like the show changed anything in
your lives? Like in this chapter of your lives?
Speaker 1 (41:21):
I can say for me, it just made me and
Susan I agree on this. It just affirmed that we
are enough, that we're good people, and we're happy, and
we live life to the fullest and we're doing the
right thing because that's for me, and that just like.
Speaker 3 (41:38):
Her cup of Joe, my motto and my book would
be called enjoy who you are. And I've done that
all my life. I mean, I make my own roles,
it makes my world and not everybody agrees with that.
That being on that.
Speaker 2 (41:53):
Show confirmed that I love myself.
Speaker 3 (41:56):
I have days that you know, you doubt and you overthink,
but it's about no contact with the outside world. Remember,
all you have are the ladies to wake up to
every single morning. I wasn't jealous. I was encouraging and
happy for somebody that got a one on one.
Speaker 1 (42:16):
As although Susan. Although, and I'm not going to put
you on the Spider ally Joe if you were interested
in Grant, but Susan and I have gone on the record,
so I'm not giving anything away here. We knew pretty
early on that I was about to say I was
about to say Grant, not Grant, that we were about.
I was about to say that. Susan and I figured
out really quickly that we were just friends with Gary.
(42:39):
Nice guy, but not our guys. So for us it
made it a lot easier, easier.
Speaker 4 (42:44):
You know too, I agree with that. I can relate
to that.
Speaker 3 (42:47):
I feel. Yeah, Remember, Kathy, you made a statement, you
said to me, what if she was your person that
you really were intoday?
Speaker 2 (42:55):
And what was my response? She said, I'll never forget it.
Speaker 1 (43:00):
I'll never forget it. Susan said she would have behaved
very differently, acted very differently if she'd want them, she
would have gone after him.
Speaker 2 (43:09):
Absolutely, you didn't see that side of me.
Speaker 3 (43:11):
Because if there's something I want, I'm the same.
Speaker 1 (43:17):
On all these happy notes, everyone's going after the guy
they want. I don't know if we're gonna be in Paradise,
but if you go, we want to go. We're putting
out the positive vibe that we get invited. And if
we go and you go, we will see you there and.
Speaker 5 (43:33):
Will be best least if I do go and you
guys are there, I kind of love this, Like I
don't know what the dynamic is going to be, but
I love it because, like I said, I'm so close
to my.
Speaker 4 (43:43):
Mom and I love hanging out with people that are older.
Speaker 1 (43:46):
And like we go.
Speaker 4 (43:48):
Yeah, gives me that sense of like home and like,
can't you Charlie Joe, You.
Speaker 3 (43:54):
Know you guys, so Elie Joe, you have watched past
seasons of Paradise, correct, Yeah, I tried to catch up
on it and see what it's all about.
Speaker 2 (44:02):
It is way different. Yeah, it's totally different than our experience.
Speaker 1 (44:08):
Well, you know what, Susan, No one's gonna spill what
goes on in paradise. If we get to go, we're
gonna find out on ourselves by ourselves as well, Ali,
Joe and and we just know that we're not dating
the younger guys and they're not dating us. That's what
we know. But we got to wrap here. That's gonna
do it for this episode of That's what Happy Hours,
(44:31):
Golden Hour. Thank you so much for to you. You
are the lovely person truly inside and out, and you
are incredible with the great advice. So thank you.
Speaker 3 (44:41):
Thank you for having wise, very wise, and I am
looking forward to staying with you, keeping company with you
and having some fun with you for sure. Yes, stay
in touch absolutely, and thank everybody for joining us today.
Make sure you follow Bachelor Happy as we have new
(45:01):
exciting episodes coming out every week that you don't want
to miss. Make sure to submit your questions to us.
You can go to bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour,
or you can just DM us on Instagram at Bachelor
Happy Hour.
Speaker 1 (45:17):
Listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio
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have a great week.
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Joe Amabile
Susan Noles
Serena Pitt
Kathy Swarts
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