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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back
with yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl justs hilarious.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
What I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
And we got my girls Taylor here, Taylor probably knock
going be talking today. She getting further and further into
this pregnancy, and she getting closer and closer to this
due day. When is your dude a bol July twelfth, Oh,
July twelfth, Okay, oh my god, So at least you
don't got to go through the whole summer pregnant.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
I like you've seen that. But regardless, I'm probably gonna
be yeah in size and im.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Like, I know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
It's annoying your shit being pregnant and as hot as
a bitch.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Yeah, because I mean, even how the wedd has been going,
I feel like they don't really get hot until June.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Yeah, exactly, Like seasons are definitely different.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
But all right, so we got another crazy ass motherfucking's story.
I didn't really read all the way into this because
I really liked the element of surprise.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
I like natural reactions. So we're gonna read this. Okay,
Hello Jessica.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
First of all, don't nobody fucking call me Jessica, But
hello Jessica. I just recently lost my husband of fifteen years.
We were lovers ever since college, so it's just so
weird trying to continue life without him. What's even weirder
is that's not even the word. But I'm gonna let
you slacksh your husband that all right. What's even weirder
(01:41):
is I, well, what's even more weird because I can't
even bring myself to talk that dumb Okay, what's even
more weird? I've learned more about my husband in the
past week than the fifteen.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Years we were together.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Oh shit, surely after the funeral at the repass, all right,
this way, I stopped.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Okay, so it's about to get good. Oh my god,
I mean the piece, but it's gonna be it.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Shortly after the funeral at the repast, I was approached
by this woman who was clearly way younger than me.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
I'd say mid twenties. Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
She asked me if I was his wife, and I
said yes. So this bitch is popped upout the fucking repass.
Bitches as reckless as fuck. Okay, she told me that
her and Edwin, Oh yeah, this was definitely a old nigger.
Her and Edwin, I can say the name, what is
he gonna do?
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Ah? Ah?
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Wait what she said? She told me that her and Edwin,
I can say the name, what is he going to do?
Because you know I.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Tell people that I keep it anonymous. So she just
said his name, but she like, what you gonna do
he did? Oh my god, she got a little sense
of Haimer. Okay, her and Edwin had been seeing each
other and that he promised her a brand new car
and a ten thousand dollar check to start her business.
Oh yeah, this definitely sound like a sugar daddy, because
I said, I said, oh, is you out of your mind?
(02:58):
She said she didn't want me to find out about
her this way, but here we are. I asked her
how long have they been sleeping with each other? And
she says two years. I couldn't believe I didn't see this.
She also tells me that they have an eight month
old daughter, and I told her that that couldn't be
true because he had a vasectomy, and she says, no,
(03:19):
he just got it after they had their daughter.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
What the fuck?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
She said, that's not true, because my husband got a
sect me and she said, no, no, no, he just
got it after we gave birth to my daughter. Jessica,
I choked. Oh, Jessica, I choked her. Oh shit, Jessica,
I choked her. That man told me he had a
vasectomy two years ago because we were struggling to get pregnant,
and I guess that was how.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
He dealt with it.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Oh man, We definitely argued about it because that was
I don't think so unless she tell us that by
the time I finished the story, but so far, No,
we definitely argued about it because that was another thing
that was quite weird. But it's just crazy how he
(04:08):
supposedly got of exectomy two years ago when he met her.
Now they have a kid. Wow, back to it, though.
It took three of my cousins to get me off
of that wench. M. Yeah, she' old to you calling
somebody wench. She ain't do shit, and I wasn't expecting
her to neither. This is all too much for me,
jess I really thought I knew this man a kid though. Wow, man,
(04:32):
how do I even deal with all this?
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Oh? Wow? Well, she ain't never say how.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Old they were, but this nigga name is Edwin, so
obviously he was a bit seasoned.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
And then she's more than likely older as well. Well,
she asked you for I think she did.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Said how does she deal with all this? I think
she did the right thing to you. But what's so
fucking heartbroken? Is that doing not even hear like you
know what I'm saying. Yeah, it's like, excuse me, I'm
back in the grave.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
That's so crazy.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
No, I know, but it's like, you know, he not
even here. You can't confront of soon. Now you're man
that your dead ex husband. I mean, now that you're
mad at your dead husband, you're a widow and it's
fucked up.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Honestly, that would make me I won't even feel sad
about him dying anymore.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Yo, To be honest with you, I was literally about
to say the same ship.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
You know, I very fucked because this is easier for
me to get over.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
It's so betraying though, because it's like nigga and then
it's like, Nigga, you died and got away with the ship, right,
That's that's what they took.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Get me upset. Yeah, he literally took it to the
grave sala. That's crazy.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Yeah, but I ain't gonna lie to sent that bitch
with him, because ain't no way you knew he was married.
You knew she had to know. That was her sugar daddy.
She ain't lot that nigga. She had a baby. He
was probably he was giving a bread and she like, look,
I'm just going you know, because and it's the thing
(06:08):
you had.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Your child, you hid your child.
Speaker 4 (06:12):
Yeah, but her asking her going up to the wife that.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Yeah, that was pointless as fuck.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Hold up, hold up, I know this ship getting good,
but listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
If you love me, you'll listen, because.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Yeah, because he probably didn't leave a will or anything,
you know, or if he did, shorty and a baby
not in it, you know what I'm saying, Because then
that would alert to do that obligated to what pay
Like they were married.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Yeah, so all your debts become like inclusive. That's why, mother, that's.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Right, that's what He didn't want to marry me in
DC the real way. Like you know, remember, it took
them a while to really finalize the marriage, to officiate
their marriage because he was in a lot of debt
I think like with like courts and ship courtporateceedings like
all of that type ship and if he would have
married Yandy would have married him, his debt would have
became her dad. So she waited until he got all
(07:13):
that shit situated and then May officiated the marriage because no,
and I don't I don't blame her either, but.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
That's I think that's a lot of people in that
type of situation though. Yeah, like people just think, oh married,
and no, you gotta think about other ship. I heard
say this, well not that, but what's your name? Ari
Fletcher sayce she don't want to get married in a
sense because.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
M but she already married the big they already married.
They're married.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
They've been married for a while. They've been married for
like a whole year or two. I remember her not
with that nigga. Yep, they went and got married quietly
some well probably not quietly, but like privately.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
He has said, well, how do you know though that
she she showed the ringing they found out.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
Yeah, I think it went.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
Viral, but I didn't know if it was.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
They're married. She is money Bag's wife. She is Mario's wife.
But time she was saying like she didn't want because
it's a child support or something.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
But she probably didn't want Mary a nigga who couldn't
afford child support, because then that becomes her bill too.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
But money bag, yo, better be able to afford the
child support. Money bag? Yeah, yeah, exactly. You can't be
walking around and you broke a stop.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Like come on, now, I know manifestation works in many
different ways, but that's not it, you know, so, but
this lady's story is complete asinine, like it's crazy and
her But I'm upset.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Yeah, I know, right, it's like him. I know. I
wonder what type of measures could she take to and
they had a prenup, would it be the same thing?
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Still, No, I'm not sure. We got to ask Lauren
because you know all the lawyer and ship. I have
no idea.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
It's just like I'm almost at a loss for words.
I don't really know.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
I mean, she she the advice that she's asking for
is how she can deal with all this.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
The thing is to tell you the thing that you
have to kill two bodies. You have to kill the way.
So that's crime. I don't think she I know you did, like.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
If you if she was to, you know, do something
to the girl.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Girl, it's still but the baby. She don't want the baby.
It's not about even the mom though.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
It's still like that was the dad though, So it's
still she need to take care.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Of right because she because if she killed her mother,
but she's gonna have to take care of that child.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
But then because that's our step child, honestly, right.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
But it's eight months she honestly get away with because
maybe eight months she could make the baby hers if
they don't have any kids too.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Though he was not gonna remember they much. I wonder
how who Edwin was. Listen, those fish were still swimming.
I would I'm like thinking about this though, because it
was me.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
I would be like, you know, I would have to
kill her off, raised the baby, like.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
Yeah, okay, give the baby away in better hands. I
would have every single day I looked at that baby,
and I know this, this mind canceled, but that's.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
All right, get checked my mind, like you know this
is my child?
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Yeah, yeah, exactly, you got it. Almost developed a mental
illness like that baby because both of the parents gone.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
Yeah. I wonder how he died. Was old. He probably
had a heart attack or something, all right, but he
Ain't he better not be that motherfucking old for real?
You all here cheating.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
I thought, like, all that ship supposed to expire at
a certain age, you hold a ship. That's crazy, Lord
Jesus anyway, so you just want her to just find
a way to kill the lady, kill a side check
and take the baby and figure it.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Out just as she wants the baby. And that I
just feel like, okay, you know, because.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
The baby's innocent, definitely, so the girl. No, the girl
is not innocent in any of the shit. No, Okay,
So Taylor could be feeling her hormones right now, but
I think to deal with it, because that's what she
really want to know how to deal with it. I
think you should definitely start some type of therapy for yourself.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
And I know this seems repetitive.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
All you've probably been hearing from people is go to therapy,
Go to therapy, go to therapy, and listen. I've never
been a fucking therapy so I don't know if that's
gonna work for you or not.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
But it's really really a great outlet.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
I've seen that so many people do work on themselves,
and the work that they're doing on themselves they get
from their therapist.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
You know, I'm not mad.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
Yeah, I'm not mad at people doing it. Like before,
like ten years ago, black people really didn't want.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
To do that shit.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
I can't speak for whites, you know what I'm saying, Like,
I can't, but I can only speak for my people
and mostly the out Yeah it is, you know, And
the problem with black people though, like we don't trust motherfuckers.
We don't trust people with our business. We don't really
like for our business to be ever thrown back in
our face.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
I know that's the thing. But we're just guarded as
a people.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Anyway, you know what I'm saying, a lot of people,
A lot of us hold shit from our friends, like
really good friends. A lot of us like sit with secrets.
We sit with shit, and that's how people go crazy.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
But a therapist, I mean, the only thing is that
theists probably gonna just tell their person.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
Yeah yeah, no, I feel you, but I do kind
of understand why, like fans is wrong. My ash dad
Rome has been trying to gather himself to push toward
therapy for about seven years.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
He cannot do it.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
Charlemagne even referenced him like to like three of them
He did one session with each therapist and was like, yo,
I nah, I just don't feel right.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
I'm like, what is wrong? Though? I don't know?
Speaker 4 (13:17):
Or is this the fact that he cause I think
he has a ga of his mindset.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
That's a therapist, another person that is not biased and
that won't judge you. You just gotta lay it all out,
but you gotta tell the true if you got to
keep that shit a hunted, yeah, because Rome will hold
back like that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
Enough, this is a therapist. You gotta trust them.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
You have to trust your therapist, right, because then you're
a lie about shit and they can't really fully assess
you if you're not giving them everything.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
You know. But I do know that Rome was.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
At first, he was very hesitant because he felt like
a lot of therapists were white and he didn't want
to be looked down on by a white person. Like
He's just like, no, they if they not my color,
they can't relate to me. Like that's exactly how he feels.
It's a lot of black therapists, so and that's exactly
what Charlemagne referred to him. He referred black therapists to him.
(14:09):
Two men and one woman and room trying to flirt
with the woman. I'm like, listen, this is not what
you do because it was virtual obviously, and he was like,
surety bad.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
I'm like, look, no, you're bad and you're trying to
be good.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
So just focus on the you know, the whole subject here, Like,
let's focus on the goal.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and
then we'll be right back.
Speaker 4 (14:35):
This means a therapist, like I know how his friends are.
Just that's just maybe it's a setting.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Right, and then Rome don't really have many friends. You
can count on one hand how many friends. Wrong guys
same here. I mean I was just, yeah, yes, you
grow into yourself and you grow away from other people,
grow apart.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
Maybe they're just gonna sit back, have a blend his
hand and talk to him.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
Yeah yeah, setting.
Speaker 4 (15:00):
Maybe he's seeing too much like oh he's trying.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
Yeah yeah yeah, Because yeah, Rome don't like for it
to feel like an interrogation, like why am I just
telling you all my information? Like and I'm uncomfortable we
in this clinic or we in this office and this
is just set up to it's too corporate, like so yeah,
I do get it.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
But what therapists will smoke a blunt and hear me out.
Therapist out with you definitely would give the outlet. Right hmm.
That's different, right.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
I like that because now, in a sense, no, seriously,
because he might be really onto something. Because it's the
settings and you have to provide that safe space in
that environment for somebody to even open up to you,
to be vulnerable, you know what I mean? That's different.
That is different, all right? Let me ask you this
smoke hookah, that's different, all right? What about wine? I
(15:54):
would say no, hard liquor. I would just say why
because but then sometimes it really opens you up.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Liquor really may open you up.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
I'm not saying like drink champs this shit, but I'm saying,
like at least three shots, two shots whatever, and your
therapist is not drinking. You're you're comfortable enough to drink.
They may have a glass of wine, or they may
a mocktail. They may act like because they still got
to do their job, but no, you really might be
on something day. I don't know what policy and protocol
(16:22):
that might go against letting a client deal with drugs
and shit, you know, because they would classify that as drugs,
you know, white people.
Speaker 4 (16:32):
Yeah, but like if it's like a.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
If it's therapeutic for you, yeah, yeah, you might be
onto something.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
I never heard anybody refer to.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
A therapy session with like spirits and and when I
say spirits, I mean like wine liquor shit, like you know,
wine and spirits, or like even hookah or you know, marijuana,
like just for stress relief and just to open up
and loosen up.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
We talk over a blunt of a glass of wine
all the time, you know, and sometimes those are the best,
most needed conversations.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
So yeah, I might look into that.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
You know, I want to how long you got to
go to school to be a therapist, because that might
be something I might do, like just go to school
and then allow my clients to to smoke and ship
if anything. Y'all heard it here first and Tailor gave
me the idea. So I know you're gonna want some money,
but exactly exactly or addibles, you gotta eat the edible?
(17:30):
Oh yeah, I was gonna say you gotta eat the
edible like ten minutes or no, it's thirty minutes before
you come to my session.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
What ayauasca? Ayahuasca is different, Yo.
Speaker 4 (17:43):
Don't they need like a person there.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
Yes, they need a shaman, they need a guy, a
spiritual guy sense.
Speaker 4 (17:49):
Yeah, therapy because they're going through.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
Well, yeah, that is definitely a form of therapy. The ayahuasca. Yeah,
you're right, but those people that ship can go and
that's shit lasts for so long.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
I do too.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
Oh that's what's up. You're not scared to try r
ak it. That's cool, that's what's up. I want to
as well. I love when Charlamagne was like yo, because
I was.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
Like, how you like, what do you do? Like? How
do you do it? He said? It gotta call you.
Speaker 4 (18:15):
Yeah, he said, pep.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
Or people make it seem like you see a whole
nother light up understanding of life.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
See, that's what I want to do that though, But
I feel like they don't do that shit nowhere in America.
I think that's like you gotta go out the country
or something, because it's like a whole camp. It's like
a treatment camp, a holistic therapeutic camp or some shit. Yeah,
so we gotta do that. Soon as you drop my baby,
we gotta go ahead and do that. Oh you had
(18:44):
shrimp tea. That shit hit you quick. Didn't it.
Speaker 4 (18:46):
Yeah, I was cracking the Oh yeah, watching Bad Trip with.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
So you did trooms and watch Bad Trip movie? Okay,
all right, because Bad Trip. You can have a Bad
Trip if you No.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (19:02):
It's a funny ass movies.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
Okay, this movie Bad Trip? Who else is in it?
Is that Mark Wahlberg?
Speaker 2 (19:10):
Who is it?
Speaker 3 (19:12):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (19:12):
Eric Andre? No, I never saw a Bad Trip. It's
on Netflix. I'm gonna watch it. Okay.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
I never say I never even heard of it. And
so just now, no, I'm telling you I didn't shit,
all right, I gotta watch it because my peoples.
Speaker 4 (19:28):
Yeah, and then I started crying.
Speaker 2 (19:30):
Oh why, yeah, you was definitely big high. I don't know.
I was just you don't know why? Right?
Speaker 1 (19:36):
Yeah, that's what shrooms are, you know. I feel like yo,
it makes you. It puts you in touch with your
feelings and then things that you bottle up, that you
keep inside and that you're just scared, the like that
ship will make you release it.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
And to your.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Point, ayahuasca is that too, But it's just that times ten.
So yeah, we're gonna do some drugs well after you
have the bedding. But we've come to you at the
end of an the can'tfully work this episode with your girl,
Just larious what I'll be doing. I'll be fixing mess
or at least I'll be trying, y'all. Say by the tailor, Tailor,
say bye to the people. Catch us next week. Peace
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and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back
with yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl justs hilarious.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
What I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
And we got my girls Taylor here, Taylor probably knock
going be talking today. She getting further and further into
this pregnancy, and she getting closer and closer to this
due day. When is your dude a bol July twelfth, Oh,
July twelfth, Okay, oh my god, So at least you
don't got to go through the whole summer pregnant.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
I like you've seen that. But regardless, I'm probably gonna
be yeah in size and im.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Like, I know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
It's annoying your shit being pregnant and as hot as
a bitch.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Yeah, because I mean, even how the wedd has been going,
I feel like they don't really get hot until June.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Yeah, exactly, Like seasons are definitely different.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
But all right, so we got another crazy ass motherfucking's story.
I didn't really read all the way into this because
I really liked the element of surprise.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
I like natural reactions. So we're gonna read this. Okay,
Hello Jessica.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
First of all, don't nobody fucking call me Jessica, But
hello Jessica. I just recently lost my husband of fifteen years.
We were lovers ever since college, so it's just so
weird trying to continue life without him. What's even weirder
is that's not even the word. But I'm gonna let
you slacksh your husband that all right. What's even weirder
(01:41):
is I, well, what's even more weird because I can't
even bring myself to talk that dumb Okay, what's even
more weird? I've learned more about my husband in the
past week than the fifteen.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Years we were together.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Oh shit, surely after the funeral at the repass, all right,
this way, I stopped.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Okay, so it's about to get good. Oh my god,
I mean the piece, but it's gonna be it.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Shortly after the funeral at the repast, I was approached
by this woman who was clearly way younger than me.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
I'd say mid twenties. Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
She asked me if I was his wife, and I
said yes. So this bitch is popped upout the fucking repass.
Bitches as reckless as fuck. Okay, she told me that
her and Edwin, Oh yeah, this was definitely a old nigger.
Her and Edwin, I can say the name, what is
he gonna do?
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Ah? Ah?
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Wait what she said? She told me that her and Edwin,
I can say the name, what is he going to do?
Because you know I.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Tell people that I keep it anonymous. So she just
said his name, but she like, what you gonna do
he did? Oh my god, she got a little sense
of Haimer. Okay, her and Edwin had been seeing each
other and that he promised her a brand new car
and a ten thousand dollar check to start her business.
Oh yeah, this definitely sound like a sugar daddy, because
I said, I said, oh, is you out of your mind?
(02:58):
She said she didn't want me to find out about
her this way, but here we are. I asked her
how long have they been sleeping with each other? And
she says two years. I couldn't believe I didn't see this.
She also tells me that they have an eight month
old daughter, and I told her that that couldn't be
true because he had a vasectomy, and she says, no,
(03:19):
he just got it after they had their daughter.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
What the fuck?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
She said, that's not true, because my husband got a
sect me and she said, no, no, no, he just
got it after we gave birth to my daughter. Jessica,
I choked. Oh, Jessica, I choked her. Oh shit, Jessica,
I choked her. That man told me he had a
vasectomy two years ago because we were struggling to get pregnant,
and I guess that was how.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
He dealt with it.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Oh man, We definitely argued about it because that was
I don't think so unless she tell us that by
the time I finished the story, but so far, No,
we definitely argued about it because that was another thing
that was quite weird. But it's just crazy how he
(04:08):
supposedly got of exectomy two years ago when he met her.
Now they have a kid. Wow, back to it, though.
It took three of my cousins to get me off
of that wench. M. Yeah, she' old to you calling
somebody wench. She ain't do shit, and I wasn't expecting
her to neither. This is all too much for me,
jess I really thought I knew this man a kid though. Wow, man,
(04:32):
how do I even deal with all this?
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Oh? Wow? Well, she ain't never say how.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Old they were, but this nigga name is Edwin, so
obviously he was a bit seasoned.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
And then she's more than likely older as well. Well,
she asked you for I think she did.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Said how does she deal with all this? I think
she did the right thing to you. But what's so
fucking heartbroken? Is that doing not even hear like you
know what I'm saying. Yeah, it's like, excuse me, I'm
back in the grave.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
That's so crazy.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
No, I know, but it's like, you know, he not
even here. You can't confront of soon. Now you're man
that your dead ex husband. I mean, now that you're
mad at your dead husband, you're a widow and it's
fucked up.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Honestly, that would make me I won't even feel sad
about him dying anymore.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Yo, To be honest with you, I was literally about
to say the same ship.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
You know, I very fucked because this is easier for
me to get over.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
It's so betraying though, because it's like nigga and then
it's like, Nigga, you died and got away with the ship, right,
That's that's what they took.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Get me upset. Yeah, he literally took it to the
grave sala. That's crazy.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Yeah, but I ain't gonna lie to sent that bitch
with him, because ain't no way you knew he was married.
You knew she had to know. That was her sugar daddy.
She ain't lot that nigga. She had a baby. He
was probably he was giving a bread and she like, look,
I'm just going you know, because and it's the thing
(06:08):
you had.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Your child, you hid your child.
Speaker 4 (06:12):
Yeah, but her asking her going up to the wife that.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Yeah, that was pointless as fuck.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Hold up, hold up, I know this ship getting good,
but listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
If you love me, you'll listen, because.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Yeah, because he probably didn't leave a will or anything,
you know, or if he did, shorty and a baby
not in it, you know what I'm saying, Because then
that would alert to do that obligated to what pay
Like they were married.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Yeah, so all your debts become like inclusive. That's why, mother, that's.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Right, that's what He didn't want to marry me in
DC the real way. Like you know, remember, it took
them a while to really finalize the marriage, to officiate
their marriage because he was in a lot of debt
I think like with like courts and ship courtporateceedings like
all of that type ship and if he would have
married Yandy would have married him, his debt would have
became her dad. So she waited until he got all
(07:13):
that shit situated and then May officiated the marriage because no,
and I don't I don't blame her either, but.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
That's I think that's a lot of people in that
type of situation though. Yeah, like people just think, oh married,
and no, you gotta think about other ship. I heard
say this, well not that, but what's your name? Ari
Fletcher sayce she don't want to get married in a
sense because.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
M but she already married the big they already married.
They're married.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
They've been married for a while. They've been married for
like a whole year or two. I remember her not
with that nigga. Yep, they went and got married quietly
some well probably not quietly, but like privately.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
He has said, well, how do you know though that
she she showed the ringing they found out.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
Yeah, I think it went.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
Viral, but I didn't know if it was.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
They're married. She is money Bag's wife. She is Mario's wife.
But time she was saying like she didn't want because
it's a child support or something.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
But she probably didn't want Mary a nigga who couldn't
afford child support, because then that becomes her bill too.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
But money bag, yo, better be able to afford the
child support. Money bag? Yeah, yeah, exactly. You can't be
walking around and you broke a stop.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Like come on, now, I know manifestation works in many
different ways, but that's not it, you know, so, but
this lady's story is complete asinine, like it's crazy and
her But I'm upset.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Yeah, I know, right, it's like him. I know. I
wonder what type of measures could she take to and
they had a prenup, would it be the same thing?
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Still, No, I'm not sure. We got to ask Lauren
because you know all the lawyer and ship. I have
no idea.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
It's just like I'm almost at a loss for words.
I don't really know.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
I mean, she she the advice that she's asking for
is how she can deal with all this.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
The thing is to tell you the thing that you
have to kill two bodies. You have to kill the way.
So that's crime. I don't think she I know you did, like.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
If you if she was to, you know, do something
to the girl.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Girl, it's still but the baby. She don't want the baby.
It's not about even the mom though.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
It's still like that was the dad though, So it's
still she need to take care.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Of right because she because if she killed her mother,
but she's gonna have to take care of that child.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
But then because that's our step child, honestly, right.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
But it's eight months she honestly get away with because
maybe eight months she could make the baby hers if
they don't have any kids too.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Though he was not gonna remember they much. I wonder
how who Edwin was. Listen, those fish were still swimming.
I would I'm like thinking about this though, because it
was me.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
I would be like, you know, I would have to
kill her off, raised the baby, like.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
Yeah, okay, give the baby away in better hands. I
would have every single day I looked at that baby,
and I know this, this mind canceled, but that's.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
All right, get checked my mind, like you know this
is my child?
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Yeah, yeah, exactly, you got it. Almost developed a mental
illness like that baby because both of the parents gone.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
Yeah. I wonder how he died. Was old. He probably
had a heart attack or something, all right, but he
Ain't he better not be that motherfucking old for real?
You all here cheating.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
I thought, like, all that ship supposed to expire at
a certain age, you hold a ship. That's crazy, Lord
Jesus anyway, so you just want her to just find
a way to kill the lady, kill a side check
and take the baby and figure it.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Out just as she wants the baby. And that I
just feel like, okay, you know, because.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
The baby's innocent, definitely, so the girl. No, the girl
is not innocent in any of the shit. No, Okay,
So Taylor could be feeling her hormones right now, but
I think to deal with it, because that's what she
really want to know how to deal with it. I
think you should definitely start some type of therapy for yourself.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
And I know this seems repetitive.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
All you've probably been hearing from people is go to therapy,
Go to therapy, go to therapy, and listen. I've never
been a fucking therapy so I don't know if that's
gonna work for you or not.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
But it's really really a great outlet.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
I've seen that so many people do work on themselves,
and the work that they're doing on themselves they get
from their therapist.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
You know, I'm not mad.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
Yeah, I'm not mad at people doing it. Like before,
like ten years ago, black people really didn't want.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
To do that shit.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
I can't speak for whites, you know what I'm saying, Like,
I can't, but I can only speak for my people
and mostly the out Yeah it is, you know, And
the problem with black people though, like we don't trust motherfuckers.
We don't trust people with our business. We don't really
like for our business to be ever thrown back in
our face.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
I know that's the thing. But we're just guarded as
a people.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Anyway, you know what I'm saying, a lot of people,
A lot of us hold shit from our friends, like
really good friends. A lot of us like sit with secrets.
We sit with shit, and that's how people go crazy.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
But a therapist, I mean, the only thing is that
theists probably gonna just tell their person.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
Yeah yeah, no, I feel you, but I do kind
of understand why, like fans is wrong. My ash dad
Rome has been trying to gather himself to push toward
therapy for about seven years.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
He cannot do it.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
Charlemagne even referenced him like to like three of them
He did one session with each therapist and was like, yo,
I nah, I just don't feel right.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
I'm like, what is wrong? Though? I don't know?
Speaker 4 (13:17):
Or is this the fact that he cause I think
he has a ga of his mindset.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
That's a therapist, another person that is not biased and
that won't judge you. You just gotta lay it all out,
but you gotta tell the true if you got to
keep that shit a hunted, yeah, because Rome will hold
back like that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
Enough, this is a therapist. You gotta trust them.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
You have to trust your therapist, right, because then you're
a lie about shit and they can't really fully assess
you if you're not giving them everything.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
You know. But I do know that Rome was.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
At first, he was very hesitant because he felt like
a lot of therapists were white and he didn't want
to be looked down on by a white person. Like
He's just like, no, they if they not my color,
they can't relate to me. Like that's exactly how he feels.
It's a lot of black therapists, so and that's exactly
what Charlemagne referred to him. He referred black therapists to him.
(14:09):
Two men and one woman and room trying to flirt
with the woman. I'm like, listen, this is not what
you do because it was virtual obviously, and he was like,
surety bad.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
I'm like, look, no, you're bad and you're trying to
be good.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
So just focus on the you know, the whole subject here, Like,
let's focus on the goal.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and
then we'll be right back.
Speaker 4 (14:35):
This means a therapist, like I know how his friends are.
Just that's just maybe it's a setting.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Right, and then Rome don't really have many friends. You
can count on one hand how many friends. Wrong guys
same here. I mean I was just, yeah, yes, you
grow into yourself and you grow away from other people,
grow apart.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
Maybe they're just gonna sit back, have a blend his
hand and talk to him.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
Yeah yeah, setting.
Speaker 4 (15:00):
Maybe he's seeing too much like oh he's trying.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
Yeah yeah yeah, Because yeah, Rome don't like for it
to feel like an interrogation, like why am I just
telling you all my information? Like and I'm uncomfortable we
in this clinic or we in this office and this
is just set up to it's too corporate, like so yeah,
I do get it.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
But what therapists will smoke a blunt and hear me out.
Therapist out with you definitely would give the outlet. Right hmm.
That's different, right.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
I like that because now, in a sense, no, seriously,
because he might be really onto something. Because it's the
settings and you have to provide that safe space in
that environment for somebody to even open up to you,
to be vulnerable, you know what I mean? That's different.
That is different, all right? Let me ask you this
smoke hookah, that's different, all right? What about wine? I
(15:54):
would say no, hard liquor. I would just say why
because but then sometimes it really opens you up.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Liquor really may open you up.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
I'm not saying like drink champs this shit, but I'm saying,
like at least three shots, two shots whatever, and your
therapist is not drinking. You're you're comfortable enough to drink.
They may have a glass of wine, or they may
a mocktail. They may act like because they still got
to do their job, but no, you really might be
on something day. I don't know what policy and protocol
(16:22):
that might go against letting a client deal with drugs
and shit, you know, because they would classify that as drugs,
you know, white people.
Speaker 4 (16:32):
Yeah, but like if it's like a.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
If it's therapeutic for you, yeah, yeah, you might be
onto something.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
I never heard anybody refer to.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
A therapy session with like spirits and and when I
say spirits, I mean like wine liquor shit, like you know,
wine and spirits, or like even hookah or you know, marijuana,
like just for stress relief and just to open up
and loosen up.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
We talk over a blunt of a glass of wine
all the time, you know, and sometimes those are the best,
most needed conversations.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
So yeah, I might look into that.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
You know, I want to how long you got to
go to school to be a therapist, because that might
be something I might do, like just go to school
and then allow my clients to to smoke and ship
if anything. Y'all heard it here first and Tailor gave
me the idea. So I know you're gonna want some money,
but exactly exactly or addibles, you gotta eat the edible?
(17:30):
Oh yeah, I was gonna say you gotta eat the
edible like ten minutes or no, it's thirty minutes before
you come to my session.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
What ayauasca? Ayahuasca is different, Yo.
Speaker 4 (17:43):
Don't they need like a person there.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
Yes, they need a shaman, they need a guy, a
spiritual guy sense.
Speaker 4 (17:49):
Yeah, therapy because they're going through.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
Well, yeah, that is definitely a form of therapy. The ayahuasca. Yeah,
you're right, but those people that ship can go and
that's shit lasts for so long.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
I do too.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
Oh that's what's up. You're not scared to try r
ak it. That's cool, that's what's up. I want to
as well. I love when Charlamagne was like yo, because
I was.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
Like, how you like, what do you do? Like? How
do you do it? He said? It gotta call you.
Speaker 4 (18:15):
Yeah, he said, pep.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
Or people make it seem like you see a whole
nother light up understanding of life.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
See, that's what I want to do that though, But
I feel like they don't do that shit nowhere in America.
I think that's like you gotta go out the country
or something, because it's like a whole camp. It's like
a treatment camp, a holistic therapeutic camp or some shit. Yeah,
so we gotta do that. Soon as you drop my baby,
we gotta go ahead and do that. Oh you had
(18:44):
shrimp tea. That shit hit you quick. Didn't it.
Speaker 4 (18:46):
Yeah, I was cracking the Oh yeah, watching Bad Trip with.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
So you did trooms and watch Bad Trip movie? Okay,
all right, because Bad Trip. You can have a Bad
Trip if you No.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (19:02):
It's a funny ass movies.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
Okay, this movie Bad Trip? Who else is in it?
Is that Mark Wahlberg?
Speaker 2 (19:10):
Who is it?
Speaker 3 (19:12):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (19:12):
Eric Andre? No, I never saw a Bad Trip. It's
on Netflix. I'm gonna watch it. Okay.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
I never say I never even heard of it. And
so just now, no, I'm telling you I didn't shit,
all right, I gotta watch it because my peoples.
Speaker 4 (19:28):
Yeah, and then I started crying.
Speaker 2 (19:30):
Oh why, yeah, you was definitely big high. I don't know.
I was just you don't know why? Right?
Speaker 1 (19:36):
Yeah, that's what shrooms are, you know. I feel like yo,
it makes you. It puts you in touch with your
feelings and then things that you bottle up, that you
keep inside and that you're just scared, the like that
ship will make you release it.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
And to your.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Point, ayahuasca is that too, But it's just that times ten.
So yeah, we're gonna do some drugs well after you
have the bedding. But we've come to you at the
end of an the can'tfully work this episode with your girl,
Just larious what I'll be doing. I'll be fixing mess
or at least I'll be trying, y'all. Say by the tailor, Tailor,
say bye to the people. Catch us next week. Peace
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