July 23, 2025 • 23 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Can'tfuley Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio and
the Black Effects, And.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Just like that, we're back on the air.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Welcome back to yet another cafully reckless episode with your girl, Jess.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Hilarious. What I'd be doing.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
I'll be fixing mess, y'all, and I do it pretty
well in my opinion. We do not have Taylor here
with us today. Oh, you're right here, but she got Look,
I didn't think she would say because she had other
works to do.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Taylor be working, y'all. She'd be working, so I ain't
want to bother her today.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
But because she actually edits podcasts and everything for our hearts,
so she actually do be working. Don't be thinking that
she just sitting up here pregnant me and shit fucking
up reading. No, she she'd be doing other things, so
my bad. I ain't have to say that last Yeah,
my be. But we're going jump straight and so this
(00:58):
woman wrote me, I have two wives who are writing
me about their husbands. So let's jump straight into the
first Jess. I married my husband and now I'm responsible
for his debt. He has student loans and he's locked
up and not trying to let me out of the marriage,
talking about just don't pay them. But that's my fucking credit.
(01:21):
He is so fucking selfish and irresponsible. He speaks to
me as if it east out here raising. Oh he's okay,
so she can't spell yes, child, looks like you need
some fucking student loans too.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Should? He speaks to me as if I'm not.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Out here raising our twins and his older daughter by myself.
Her mom is also incarcerated with a twenty year sentence
for killing.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Her daughter's abuser.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Ooh, should So his older daughter was abused and the
mom is in jail for killing that person. Okay, okay,
so rightfully, so I.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Do get it. She can't go to jail for though
I know. Isn't that weird?
Speaker 1 (02:02):
It depends on what what state it is, honestly, because
in some states that's self defense law or something like that.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
It's one of those laws that exempts you from going
to jail if you do.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Partake in any retaliation with an abuser or to an
abuser or something like that. But it doesn't say how
she was abused. I'll say whether she was raped or
beaten or whatever. But she killed that nigga or I
don't even know if it was a nigga a woman.
It just said she killed her abus her. So she's
so his first baby mother is in jail serving ten years,
(02:38):
doing ten years for that. Okay, So but the problem
at hand, all right, because Shaney had to tell us
the mom business because.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
I'm waring that, damn shit.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
I want to fix the mother's mask. God damn well,
she fixed it because the niggas did. But the problem
at hand, she married her husband and now she's responsible
for his debt, and that is really just unfortunate because
she didn't know.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Obviously, she didn't.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Know that when you marry somebody, you are married, like
y'all are one. You marry everything. You married their debt, Yes,
you marry their family, whether you believe it or not.
You marry into a oneness. It's a unity, you know.
So your debt would be his debt too. But the
thing is, she don't have no fucking debt. He got
it and he's incarcerated. It's funny that she told us
(03:26):
what his baby mother was incarcerated for, but she ain't
tell us what his ass is incarcerated for.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Oh, he's in jail too, Yes, she.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Said he's locked up, but he's not trying to let
me out of the marriage. But the thing is, damn,
you want out of the marriage.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Why say so. Maybe that's probably one of the reasons too.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Why he why she wants to get out of the marriage. Well,
she didn't say. One of the reasons that she wanted
to get out of the marriage was him being incarcerated
because he probably ain't got as much time as his
baby mother got. But she'd taken care of their kids.
She said they have two kids. No, she said, he
(04:07):
has student loans and he's locked up, not trying to
let me out of the marriage, talking about just don't
pay them. But that's my fucking credit. And he's so
selfish and irresponsible. He speaks to me, is if I
don't as if I'm not out here raising our twins.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Okay, so they have two children and his older daughter.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Hmm, Well, my advice on the part of you see,
I need some more meat on the bone because is
that the only reason why you want to leave him,
or you want out of the marriage, or are you
even sure if you want out of the marriage. I
think that you may be just frustrated because you know
you do have debt. You do have his debt. He
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has student loans obviously. You know he went to college,
you know, so he might not be that bad of
a person. You know, who knows why he's incarcerata. She
didn't tell us. All we can do is assume that
he is a good guy, you know what I mean,
because there's a lot of good people sitting in jail too.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
You know, everybody's not bad, you know what I mean.
You know why he went to jail? Yeah? Why?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:07):
I would love to know why he went to jail too,
and why you told us the reason that his baby
mother went in there but not him. But that's neither
here or there. She has these debts that he has
accumulated over time from student loans that she married into.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
I don't know if he knew that.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Maybe he didn't even know that when I married my wife,
she'll be responsible for my student loans. Maybe that's something
that he didn't know either, because he told her just
don't pay them. That's that is irresponsible and the selfish.
Part of it is the fact that he may like
seemingly not give a fuck like about I guess in
(05:48):
her opinion, he don't give a fuck about my credit
if he just saying don't pay them, like, nigga, we
both are responsible now we're legally married, so legally I'm
responsible for your debt if you don't fucking pay them,
you know what I mean. So I think that's the issue.
But to one out of the marriage for that is, uh,
it's a little wild.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Now there is. I wonder if that stops people from
getting married too.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah, it stopped Yandy from marrying mid DC right away.
Like she she did marry they are married, and she
did marry him, but she wanted to make sure that, Nigga,
that was clear, Like that was something that Yandy knew
going in. That's why she's like, oh no, you you
my husband, you know for playplate right now and you
(06:35):
know not for playplay. But they just didn't have She didn't.
She never set the paperwork off.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
She revealed that I know a girl, oh god, she
passed away, but she was married, was a lesbian couple.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
But they got married and.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
She had a lot her her wife had a lot
of debt and she that either and that's how I
found out.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
I'm like, oh, oh, so.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
You've been there, so you found that shit.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
Out, Like from her telling me like that, Yeah, you
got to make.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Sure all that is fucking clear, because what not my
dad is your fucking dad?
Speaker 2 (07:13):
That sucks. Yeah, because nigga, I don't want that on
my name.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Yeah, hold up, hold up, I know this shit getting good,
But listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
If you love me, you'll listen, bitch.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
And then up here one of the callers called up
and said that, you know, the whole student loan shit,
they they've been dealing with that, you know, because of
the government and ship.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Yeah with that, I didn't see the exact headline for it, though,
Like what what's the government?
Speaker 1 (07:40):
So basically they have to I think they're raising the
price on student loans or some shit like that, like
how you raised fifteen percent something about a fifteen percent
increase or some shit like that. And a woman had
called up and was saying like she's basically drowning and
(08:01):
student loans like because and then when she went to
school for she doesn't even have a job in that trade,
like and that's the truck driver. Yeah, and she's like,
I made the most money that I ever made in
my fucking life.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
I wonder if.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
I wonder if this makes people not want to.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Go to college though it ain't none of it credited
to school exactly.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
I only did one semester.
Speaker 4 (08:23):
Well, let's take a scholarship because I.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
Just wonder if it makes people like I'm gonna find
another way.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
You're fucking right, like, yeah, the fucking enrollment percentage is
about to drop. Crazy, like nah, this ship scared people
away from going to school, that's that. What if they
trying to do that though? But why what if they're
trying to fucking scare minorities away from going to school?
Speaker 3 (08:50):
It's not just minorities though, like white people got plenty of.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
I know loan that too, though I have no idea
the reason. But you know what the crazy thing is,
they stop funding. They cut funding from HBCUs though, So
that's another thing too. It's like and then it's it's
gonna be hard for black and brown kids to get in,
like students to get in any of these, you know
other schools, you know, these p wis and ship like,
(09:17):
you know, especially HBCUs, and they cutting everything for us.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
I think also, but I do think people applying the schools,
I don't think I think that's gonna go down lower,
just because this new generations finding new ways to make
money too with streaming and like you know what I mean,
they got YouTube University.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Oh absolutely, you can literally find out how to do anything.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
You got baby chips.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying, Like with all of this
ship the newer generations, girl, my daughter around be like, man,
I'm already answering that, Like I already learned like how
to do it, like what you learn doing what? But
like they're not going to be requiring certifications for certain
(10:06):
ship thanks, Like that's that's weird to me. And that's
why I think it's also so weird now even when
it comes to I mean I think people trying to
find ways around it, but even when it comes to
like if you have to be a college student to intern.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
Now in spots, so you do, okay, like here you
have to be a cause okay, but I was a
fucking intern and I was not in college.
Speaker 4 (10:35):
But they just start like they just started companies are
doing that now.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
It's yeah, it's just like you have to be in
school to receive any type of internship. Yeah, that's weird,
just about to be yeah, yeah, because an intern is
just really to take the experience, to get the experience,
and to work on whatever the credit.
Speaker 4 (10:54):
Now I think they're pushing.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
I don't know if there's this company, but they're pushing
like they want, you know, people to get paid.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
They don't. There's no free internships at least at least not.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
Well that's actually.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Yeah, I wasn't getting paid as aid. Yeah, so that
actually is a good thing when you think about it.
But back to this woman's mess, because I'm because girl,
we always go off on a t but it's okay.
I feel like this should not be the reason that
(11:29):
she wants out of the marriage. I feel like it's
some other ship that she's not happy about and she's
just not saying it.
Speaker 4 (11:34):
Well, hold on, what's my orange? She said?
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Oh, this pregnant woman just walked the fuck up out
of here looking for an orange juice. So we be
sending we be sending this girl who work up here
to get fucking breakfast every morning, right and you know,
because I be doing my podcast up at the breakfast club,
you know, because I do it in between bricks or whatever. Right,
So a girl, why well not girl? Because girls and
(12:04):
boys listening, girls and guys.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
So your Taylor. You know she pregnant.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
She bought the fucking pop literally right, and so oh
she's backing here, so we can't talk.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
About her no more.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
But Grabble's letting them know, like how you being We
be sending the girls to the store, like girl saying
to be like, where the fuck is my orange? Sounding
very much like Eve from the Bubble Shop when somebody drunk.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
You want some orange juice? You fucking with my time?
Oh my gosh, oh my, hey, can you grab an
orange juice for tailor for me? Please?
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Okay, cool, thank you? All right.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
See I had to get that pregnant woman at orange juice, honey,
Like one thing I learned from myself, get them whatever
the fuck they want when they pregnant.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Just get them, give them that ship. Chris learned.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
He learned real quick, and I learned to you. I
was like, oh shit, okay, please get it anyway. So, yeah,
it has she has to be unhappy with something else.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
Like she is locked up, and I wonder how did
she say no, she didn't say how long he's locked up.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
She made sure she gave us all the details about
mother twenty is she kills Mike.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
So but you gotta think about it too.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
His older daughter. More than likely she's a fucking teenager.
She's probably a handful on top of the two twins.
Then she got this debt, and she's probably frustrated. She's
sexually frustrated.
Speaker 4 (13:28):
She's not huh, you know how old the twins are.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
No, I'm assuming they're younger though, because she said older daughter,
So she's probably a teenager or going into that stage
of life.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Maybe she's between.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Uh, she can be anywhere between eleven and fucking fifteen.
You just don't know. I'm assuming the twins are younger. Yeah,
that's three kids. Bam, you in jail. Then I find
out I got this fucking debt, My credit is gonna fuck.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
It's gonna be fucked up.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
So she frustrated, And I understand his frustration as well,
because if you've never gone to prison, then you don't
know you've ever gone to jail, Then you don't know
how they feel in there.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
And yes, I get it.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Oh well, the listeners can say, oh, that's his fault
hand in jail. Yeah, that's not always the case. And
we don't know what landed him there, you know. Obviously
I can't even say obviously I was gonna say, obviously,
he's not gonna be in there for a long time.
But if she's trying to get out the marriage, maybe
he did get a lot of time.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Maybe maybe got a amount of time fuming up.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Though. Yeah, he probably just like he was probably on
trial or some ship, and he probably just got sentenced
and now he's serving his time.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
I have no fucking idea. But if you love me,
you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back.
See how long they've been married for. No, she did
not see that I'm responsible for his dad.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
No, that's why I say, No, they didn't give me
any fucking meat, one of her own, Like he was typing.
It's like she was about to be on the way
in the jail, and I was like, let me just
send this real quick with visit him, like because she
left a lot of meat off the bones, but using
with using what we know.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
But what should she do? I mean, it's a marriage.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
I mean the only thing I think is like you
didn't like you said, she didn't give us enough meat.
Speaker 2 (15:22):
So I would say, try to stick through it or whatever.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
The let me get a piece of bagel, just a
little piece not that I just look even smaller than
h okay, thank you.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Let me get a little bit of.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Cream cheese, thank you. But yeah, I don't know this
ship is good. I've been sleeping on how fucking good
bagels and cream cheesey it's listen mm hmm, because y'all
know I'm not a fan of the dairy, and that's
something is cream cheese over there.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
But it's it's really good. You haven't had the whip
cream cheese. That's better.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
Oh yeah, it's better for you. Yeah, but that if
Darry don't affect you, then it's different. Darry certainly affects
me in my thirties. I don't know why I used
to eat cheese and milk every fucking day. I cannot
do it now.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
I love it. Fucks me up. I love cheese. See.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
I know so many people that love it and they
can consume it every day and nothing happens to them. Yo,
my skin be fucked up. You know how you have
like post nasal drip that shit gets thicker and thicker
like when you swallow and shit like you can feel
the fucking dairy. And one thing about your body when
you haven't consumed dairy for a long time, like you
(16:41):
cut it out for like months, even just for one month,
two months, you'll see a difference, and then you start
to consume it again. Your body will be like, oh
hell no, yeah, your gas is like, oh my god,
I've had some of the worst gas, like after getting
back on there. Yeah that's spright. That's probably because it
(17:02):
doesn't bother you. I think everybody's different.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
I think a lot of people be scared to take
a ship.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
I'm not scared to take a ship.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
I already know who the fucking kid that's like I
should I actually die? No.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
But a lot of people don't do that certain hearing
something because they're like, oh my son's gonna be fucked up,
all am.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
I gonna be sucked up? Oh I get it, yeah,
because that's how that's how I be. I be scared sometimes.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
I'm like, you all could only eat macaroni and cheese
twice a year now Christmas and Thanksgiving.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
I cannot tell.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
I cannot y'all used to be eat that ship every
day with some fucking barbecue ribs, with some yams and
some Cali graens.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
G can't like there every day now.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
I'm not gonna wry them.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
This past weekend, you went in in Maryland and oh
he was in Maryland.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
Hey, that's what's up.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
I was in between Silver Springing Upper Marlborough.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
It was so fucking close, yo.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
I literally live like eighteen minutes away from Upper Marlborough.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
I literally live like, yeah, eight to ten minutes from
Upper Marlborough. Girl, he was right there by my fucking house.
Speaker 4 (18:08):
Oh I was. I was there for a baby shower
and I ate and I felt like I just.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Finished, like yeah, damn last weekend. Damn good food.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
Though, let me ask you this, if were gonna get
out of here, did you when you when you eat
certain foods?
Speaker 2 (18:29):
Do the baby cake? For real? What foods makes him?
Foods tail?
Speaker 1 (18:35):
Yesterday? Was it spicy?
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (18:38):
But he was like it felt like he was going
there and he might be like, thank you going for
something else other than a bagel with cream cheese, you
fucking dry cereal all day?
Speaker 4 (18:51):
No that he like, he probably liked it, like out
And then.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
Do you need anything that makes you throw up? Still? No,
So your morning sickness is kind of.
Speaker 4 (19:03):
Like for a while, it was just that one you
didn't in the beginning.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Oh, you just know you know what, I'm mistaking your
morning sickness for when you were coming and not feel good.
But you wouldn't throw up, Remember, you would just be
like like really.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
The only time I I did throw up in the
beginning that one day.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
It was one day you threw one time.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
Yeah, with I had jerk chicken and that shit came right.
Oh no, that was a little overpowering. Yeah that was
in the beginning. Because now I feel like I could
eat it and it's fine.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
Yeah, probably so the way you suck down on oxtails
and he was like, thank you mom. Okay, see me,
it was spaghetti that she used to give me heartburn.
Food that make her kick would be like Alfredo and
like ship with pestle in it. So spaghetti Alfredo. It's yep, yes,
(19:59):
oh for you that make him kick. See, I wasn't
drinking green juices when I was pregnant.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
No, but you.
Speaker 1 (20:07):
Know why be kicking because Ginger is fucking spicy tail.
Speaker 4 (20:11):
Are you strong?
Speaker 2 (20:13):
He's strong? Yeah, he had muscles. Okay, Ginger's not worrying
about fucking muscles that shi. Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (20:24):
Fine, he is fine.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
Everything that you do is good for him.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
No, you're and they said that when they looked at
his when I did that for d things like whatever,
they said, what I drinking like, it's clear you see it,
that's something.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
That's because you drink those juices, you drink water, you
drink like you don't drink You're not in this bitch
drinking soda.
Speaker 2 (20:46):
I don't drink so that at all though.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
Yeah, Oh, before pregnancy, you just didn't really, Yeah, gra
was drinking kool aid everything. Girls, I wanted what I
wanted your rail a little bit, but every now and then, Yeah,
I'm not a person ginger. It's horrible. I do not
like ginger. I never have really, yeah, it was. It
was not good to me.
Speaker 3 (21:05):
Interesting im juice though, Yeah, juicema, I love juice, like
juicing or just like orange juice, apple juice.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
Yeah, yeah, I'm that type of girl too. Well, just
like that with oh ship.
Speaker 2 (21:17):
Did we fix this bitch?
Speaker 1 (21:18):
I mean, I mean, girl, you gotta call us back,
call us back and give us more information friends, And
just like that, we've come to the end of yet
another carefully reckless episode with you girl.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
Just hilarious.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
What I be doing, I'll be fixing mess and I
do it on the daily. Make sure you well, I
do it on the weekly, so make sure you're say it.
It's a breakfast club each and every Thursday, because I
fix the mess live there as well, and we'll catch
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Speaker 2 (00:15):
Just like that, we're back on the air.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Welcome back to yet another cafully reckless episode with your girl, Jess.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Hilarious. What I'd be doing.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
I'll be fixing mess, y'all, and I do it pretty
well in my opinion. We do not have Taylor here
with us today. Oh, you're right here, but she got Look,
I didn't think she would say because she had other
works to do.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Taylor be working, y'all. She'd be working, so I ain't
want to bother her today.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
But because she actually edits podcasts and everything for our hearts,
so she actually do be working. Don't be thinking that
she just sitting up here pregnant me and shit fucking
up reading. No, she she'd be doing other things, so
my bad. I ain't have to say that last Yeah,
my be. But we're going jump straight and so this
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woman wrote me, I have two wives who are writing
me about their husbands. So let's jump straight into the
first Jess. I married my husband and now I'm responsible
for his debt. He has student loans and he's locked
up and not trying to let me out of the marriage,
talking about just don't pay them. But that's my fucking credit.
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He is so fucking selfish and irresponsible. He speaks to
me as if it east out here raising. Oh he's okay,
so she can't spell yes, child, looks like you need
some fucking student loans too.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Should? He speaks to me as if I'm not.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Out here raising our twins and his older daughter by myself.
Her mom is also incarcerated with a twenty year sentence
for killing.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Her daughter's abuser.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Ooh, should So his older daughter was abused and the
mom is in jail for killing that person. Okay, okay,
so rightfully, so I.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Do get it. She can't go to jail for though
I know. Isn't that weird?
Speaker 1 (02:02):
It depends on what what state it is, honestly, because
in some states that's self defense law or something like that.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
It's one of those laws that exempts you from going
to jail if you do.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Partake in any retaliation with an abuser or to an
abuser or something like that. But it doesn't say how
she was abused. I'll say whether she was raped or
beaten or whatever. But she killed that nigga or I
don't even know if it was a nigga a woman.
It just said she killed her abus her. So she's
so his first baby mother is in jail serving ten years,
(02:38):
doing ten years for that. Okay, So but the problem
at hand, all right, because Shaney had to tell us
the mom business because.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
I'm waring that, damn shit.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
I want to fix the mother's mask. God damn well,
she fixed it because the niggas did. But the problem
at hand, she married her husband and now she's responsible
for his debt, and that is really just unfortunate because
she didn't know.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Obviously, she didn't.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Know that when you marry somebody, you are married, like
y'all are one. You marry everything. You married their debt, Yes,
you marry their family, whether you believe it or not.
You marry into a oneness. It's a unity, you know.
So your debt would be his debt too. But the
thing is, she don't have no fucking debt. He got
it and he's incarcerated. It's funny that she told us
(03:26):
what his baby mother was incarcerated for, but she ain't
tell us what his ass is incarcerated for.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Oh, he's in jail too, Yes, she.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Said he's locked up, but he's not trying to let
me out of the marriage. But the thing is, damn,
you want out of the marriage.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Why say so. Maybe that's probably one of the reasons too.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Why he why she wants to get out of the marriage. Well,
she didn't say. One of the reasons that she wanted
to get out of the marriage was him being incarcerated
because he probably ain't got as much time as his
baby mother got. But she'd taken care of their kids.
She said they have two kids. No, she said, he
(04:07):
has student loans and he's locked up, not trying to
let me out of the marriage, talking about just don't
pay them. But that's my fucking credit. And he's so
selfish and irresponsible. He speaks to me, is if I
don't as if I'm not out here raising our twins.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Okay, so they have two children and his older daughter.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Hmm, Well, my advice on the part of you see,
I need some more meat on the bone because is
that the only reason why you want to leave him,
or you want out of the marriage, or are you
even sure if you want out of the marriage. I
think that you may be just frustrated because you know
you do have debt. You do have his debt. He
(04:46):
has student loans obviously. You know he went to college,
you know, so he might not be that bad of
a person. You know, who knows why he's incarcerata. She
didn't tell us. All we can do is assume that
he is a good guy, you know what I mean,
because there's a lot of good people sitting in jail too.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
You know, everybody's not bad, you know what I mean.
You know why he went to jail? Yeah? Why?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:07):
I would love to know why he went to jail too,
and why you told us the reason that his baby
mother went in there but not him. But that's neither
here or there. She has these debts that he has
accumulated over time from student loans that she married into.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
I don't know if he knew that.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Maybe he didn't even know that when I married my wife,
she'll be responsible for my student loans. Maybe that's something
that he didn't know either, because he told her just
don't pay them. That's that is irresponsible and the selfish.
Part of it is the fact that he may like
seemingly not give a fuck like about I guess in
(05:48):
her opinion, he don't give a fuck about my credit
if he just saying don't pay them, like, nigga, we
both are responsible now we're legally married, so legally I'm
responsible for your debt if you don't fucking pay them,
you know what I mean. So I think that's the issue.
But to one out of the marriage for that is, uh,
it's a little wild.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Now there is. I wonder if that stops people from
getting married too.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah, it stopped Yandy from marrying mid DC right away.
Like she she did marry they are married, and she
did marry him, but she wanted to make sure that, Nigga,
that was clear, Like that was something that Yandy knew
going in. That's why she's like, oh no, you you
my husband, you know for playplate right now and you
(06:35):
know not for playplay. But they just didn't have She didn't.
She never set the paperwork off.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
She revealed that I know a girl, oh god, she
passed away, but she was married, was a lesbian couple.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
But they got married and.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
She had a lot her her wife had a lot
of debt and she that either and that's how I
found out.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
I'm like, oh, oh, so.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
You've been there, so you found that shit.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
Out, Like from her telling me like that, Yeah, you
got to make.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Sure all that is fucking clear, because what not my
dad is your fucking dad?
Speaker 2 (07:13):
That sucks. Yeah, because nigga, I don't want that on
my name.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Yeah, hold up, hold up, I know this shit getting good,
But listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
If you love me, you'll listen, bitch.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
And then up here one of the callers called up
and said that, you know, the whole student loan shit,
they they've been dealing with that, you know, because of
the government and ship.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Yeah with that, I didn't see the exact headline for it, though,
Like what what's the government?
Speaker 1 (07:40):
So basically they have to I think they're raising the
price on student loans or some shit like that, like
how you raised fifteen percent something about a fifteen percent
increase or some shit like that. And a woman had
called up and was saying like she's basically drowning and
(08:01):
student loans like because and then when she went to
school for she doesn't even have a job in that trade,
like and that's the truck driver. Yeah, and she's like,
I made the most money that I ever made in
my fucking life.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
I wonder if.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
I wonder if this makes people not want to.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Go to college though it ain't none of it credited
to school exactly.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
I only did one semester.
Speaker 4 (08:23):
Well, let's take a scholarship because I.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
Just wonder if it makes people like I'm gonna find
another way.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
You're fucking right, like, yeah, the fucking enrollment percentage is
about to drop. Crazy, like nah, this ship scared people
away from going to school, that's that. What if they
trying to do that though? But why what if they're
trying to fucking scare minorities away from going to school?
Speaker 3 (08:50):
It's not just minorities though, like white people got plenty of.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
I know loan that too, though I have no idea
the reason. But you know what the crazy thing is,
they stop funding. They cut funding from HBCUs though, So
that's another thing too. It's like and then it's it's
gonna be hard for black and brown kids to get in,
like students to get in any of these, you know
other schools, you know, these p wis and ship like,
(09:17):
you know, especially HBCUs, and they cutting everything for us.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
I think also, but I do think people applying the schools,
I don't think I think that's gonna go down lower,
just because this new generations finding new ways to make
money too with streaming and like you know what I mean,
they got YouTube University.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Oh absolutely, you can literally find out how to do anything.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
You got baby chips.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying, Like with all of this
ship the newer generations, girl, my daughter around be like, man,
I'm already answering that, Like I already learned like how
to do it, like what you learn doing what? But
like they're not going to be requiring certifications for certain
(10:06):
ship thanks, Like that's that's weird to me. And that's
why I think it's also so weird now even when
it comes to I mean I think people trying to
find ways around it, but even when it comes to
like if you have to be a college student to intern.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
Now in spots, so you do, okay, like here you
have to be a cause okay, but I was a
fucking intern and I was not in college.
Speaker 4 (10:35):
But they just start like they just started companies are
doing that now.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
It's yeah, it's just like you have to be in
school to receive any type of internship. Yeah, that's weird,
just about to be yeah, yeah, because an intern is
just really to take the experience, to get the experience,
and to work on whatever the credit.
Speaker 4 (10:54):
Now I think they're pushing.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
I don't know if there's this company, but they're pushing
like they want, you know, people to get paid.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
They don't. There's no free internships at least at least not.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
Well that's actually.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Yeah, I wasn't getting paid as aid. Yeah, so that
actually is a good thing when you think about it.
But back to this woman's mess, because I'm because girl,
we always go off on a t but it's okay.
I feel like this should not be the reason that
(11:29):
she wants out of the marriage. I feel like it's
some other ship that she's not happy about and she's
just not saying it.
Speaker 4 (11:34):
Well, hold on, what's my orange? She said?
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Oh, this pregnant woman just walked the fuck up out
of here looking for an orange juice. So we be
sending we be sending this girl who work up here
to get fucking breakfast every morning, right and you know,
because I be doing my podcast up at the breakfast club,
you know, because I do it in between bricks or whatever. Right,
So a girl, why well not girl? Because girls and
(12:04):
boys listening, girls and guys.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
So your Taylor. You know she pregnant.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
She bought the fucking pop literally right, and so oh
she's backing here, so we can't talk.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
About her no more.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
But Grabble's letting them know, like how you being We
be sending the girls to the store, like girl saying
to be like, where the fuck is my orange? Sounding
very much like Eve from the Bubble Shop when somebody drunk.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
You want some orange juice? You fucking with my time?
Oh my gosh, oh my, hey, can you grab an
orange juice for tailor for me? Please?
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Okay, cool, thank you? All right.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
See I had to get that pregnant woman at orange juice, honey,
Like one thing I learned from myself, get them whatever
the fuck they want when they pregnant.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Just get them, give them that ship. Chris learned.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
He learned real quick, and I learned to you. I
was like, oh shit, okay, please get it anyway. So, yeah,
it has she has to be unhappy with something else.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
Like she is locked up, and I wonder how did
she say no, she didn't say how long he's locked up.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
She made sure she gave us all the details about
mother twenty is she kills Mike.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
So but you gotta think about it too.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
His older daughter. More than likely she's a fucking teenager.
She's probably a handful on top of the two twins.
Then she got this debt, and she's probably frustrated. She's
sexually frustrated.
Speaker 4 (13:28):
She's not huh, you know how old the twins are.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
No, I'm assuming they're younger though, because she said older daughter,
So she's probably a teenager or going into that stage
of life.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Maybe she's between.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Uh, she can be anywhere between eleven and fucking fifteen.
You just don't know. I'm assuming the twins are younger. Yeah,
that's three kids. Bam, you in jail. Then I find
out I got this fucking debt, My credit is gonna fuck.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
It's gonna be fucked up.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
So she frustrated, And I understand his frustration as well,
because if you've never gone to prison, then you don't
know you've ever gone to jail, Then you don't know
how they feel in there.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
And yes, I get it.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Oh well, the listeners can say, oh, that's his fault
hand in jail. Yeah, that's not always the case. And
we don't know what landed him there, you know. Obviously
I can't even say obviously I was gonna say, obviously,
he's not gonna be in there for a long time.
But if she's trying to get out the marriage, maybe
he did get a lot of time.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Maybe maybe got a amount of time fuming up.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Though. Yeah, he probably just like he was probably on
trial or some ship, and he probably just got sentenced
and now he's serving his time.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
I have no fucking idea. But if you love me,
you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back.
See how long they've been married for. No, she did
not see that I'm responsible for his dad.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
No, that's why I say, No, they didn't give me
any fucking meat, one of her own, Like he was typing.
It's like she was about to be on the way
in the jail, and I was like, let me just
send this real quick with visit him, like because she
left a lot of meat off the bones, but using
with using what we know.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
But what should she do? I mean, it's a marriage.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
I mean the only thing I think is like you
didn't like you said, she didn't give us enough meat.
Speaker 2 (15:22):
So I would say, try to stick through it or whatever.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
The let me get a piece of bagel, just a
little piece not that I just look even smaller than
h okay, thank you.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Let me get a little bit of.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Cream cheese, thank you. But yeah, I don't know this
ship is good. I've been sleeping on how fucking good
bagels and cream cheesey it's listen mm hmm, because y'all
know I'm not a fan of the dairy, and that's
something is cream cheese over there.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
But it's it's really good. You haven't had the whip
cream cheese. That's better.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
Oh yeah, it's better for you. Yeah, but that if
Darry don't affect you, then it's different. Darry certainly affects
me in my thirties. I don't know why I used
to eat cheese and milk every fucking day. I cannot
do it now.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
I love it. Fucks me up. I love cheese. See.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
I know so many people that love it and they
can consume it every day and nothing happens to them. Yo,
my skin be fucked up. You know how you have
like post nasal drip that shit gets thicker and thicker
like when you swallow and shit like you can feel
the fucking dairy. And one thing about your body when
you haven't consumed dairy for a long time, like you
(16:41):
cut it out for like months, even just for one month,
two months, you'll see a difference, and then you start
to consume it again. Your body will be like, oh
hell no, yeah, your gas is like, oh my god,
I've had some of the worst gas, like after getting
back on there. Yeah that's spright. That's probably because it
(17:02):
doesn't bother you. I think everybody's different.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
I think a lot of people be scared to take
a ship.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
I'm not scared to take a ship.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
I already know who the fucking kid that's like I
should I actually die? No.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
But a lot of people don't do that certain hearing
something because they're like, oh my son's gonna be fucked up,
all am.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
I gonna be sucked up? Oh I get it, yeah,
because that's how that's how I be. I be scared sometimes.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
I'm like, you all could only eat macaroni and cheese
twice a year now Christmas and Thanksgiving.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
I cannot tell.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
I cannot y'all used to be eat that ship every
day with some fucking barbecue ribs, with some yams and
some Cali graens.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
G can't like there every day now.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
I'm not gonna wry them.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
This past weekend, you went in in Maryland and oh
he was in Maryland.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
Hey, that's what's up.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
I was in between Silver Springing Upper Marlborough.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
It was so fucking close, yo.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
I literally live like eighteen minutes away from Upper Marlborough.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
I literally live like, yeah, eight to ten minutes from
Upper Marlborough. Girl, he was right there by my fucking house.
Speaker 4 (18:08):
Oh I was. I was there for a baby shower
and I ate and I felt like I just.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Finished, like yeah, damn last weekend. Damn good food.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
Though, let me ask you this, if were gonna get
out of here, did you when you when you eat
certain foods?
Speaker 2 (18:29):
Do the baby cake? For real? What foods makes him?
Foods tail?
Speaker 1 (18:35):
Yesterday? Was it spicy?
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (18:38):
But he was like it felt like he was going
there and he might be like, thank you going for
something else other than a bagel with cream cheese, you
fucking dry cereal all day?
Speaker 4 (18:51):
No that he like, he probably liked it, like out
And then.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
Do you need anything that makes you throw up? Still? No,
So your morning sickness is kind of.
Speaker 4 (19:03):
Like for a while, it was just that one you
didn't in the beginning.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Oh, you just know you know what, I'm mistaking your
morning sickness for when you were coming and not feel good.
But you wouldn't throw up, Remember, you would just be
like like really.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
The only time I I did throw up in the
beginning that one day.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
It was one day you threw one time.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
Yeah, with I had jerk chicken and that shit came right.
Oh no, that was a little overpowering. Yeah that was
in the beginning. Because now I feel like I could
eat it and it's fine.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
Yeah, probably so the way you suck down on oxtails
and he was like, thank you mom. Okay, see me,
it was spaghetti that she used to give me heartburn.
Food that make her kick would be like Alfredo and
like ship with pestle in it. So spaghetti Alfredo. It's yep, yes,
(19:59):
oh for you that make him kick. See, I wasn't
drinking green juices when I was pregnant.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
No, but you.
Speaker 1 (20:07):
Know why be kicking because Ginger is fucking spicy tail.
Speaker 4 (20:11):
Are you strong?
Speaker 2 (20:13):
He's strong? Yeah, he had muscles. Okay, Ginger's not worrying
about fucking muscles that shi. Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (20:24):
Fine, he is fine.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
Everything that you do is good for him.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
No, you're and they said that when they looked at
his when I did that for d things like whatever,
they said, what I drinking like, it's clear you see it,
that's something.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
That's because you drink those juices, you drink water, you
drink like you don't drink You're not in this bitch
drinking soda.
Speaker 2 (20:46):
I don't drink so that at all though.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
Yeah, Oh, before pregnancy, you just didn't really, Yeah, gra
was drinking kool aid everything. Girls, I wanted what I
wanted your rail a little bit, but every now and then, Yeah,
I'm not a person ginger. It's horrible. I do not
like ginger. I never have really, yeah, it was. It
was not good to me.
Speaker 3 (21:05):
Interesting im juice though, Yeah, juicema, I love juice, like
juicing or just like orange juice, apple juice.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
Yeah, yeah, I'm that type of girl too. Well, just
like that with oh ship.
Speaker 2 (21:17):
Did we fix this bitch?
Speaker 1 (21:18):
I mean, I mean, girl, you gotta call us back,
call us back and give us more information friends, And
just like that, we've come to the end of yet
another carefully reckless episode with you girl.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
Just hilarious.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
What I be doing, I'll be fixing mess and I
do it on the daily. Make sure you well, I
do it on the weekly, so make sure you're say it.
It's a breakfast club each and every Thursday, because I
fix the mess live there as well, and we'll catch
you next week. Peace Can't Fully Reckless is a production
(22:55):
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