July 23, 2025 • 14 mins
Hola and welcome to a new episode of Dear Chiquis! This week, Neli needs my advice after her daughter recently told her that she likes girls; Cynthia wants to know how I manage to keep moving forward during difficult times and also has a question about the best ways to lose weight; and an anonymous listener doesn’t know what to do with a girl who keeps asking him for money!
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Speaker 1 (00:18):
Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached
my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheekys podcast. I'm here
to give you a device on anything and everything you
need help with. Whether you're going through a breakup or
having issues with your family, or maybe you have a
question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I
want to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts
(00:39):
in my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious
issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional.
All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at
the sound of the beeB.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Well, let's take care. When I started Mike monicole, this
is that they have even as soon as oh, come
on text plico so bacomplete una the pero nose gave
(01:21):
leus the last.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Icas quandoors list.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Glass chickies.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
I mean elier mosaosna the Los Angelesa. So Nellie is
asking me, guys that she has a daughter who is
twenty years old, I believe, and she's thirty five, and
her daughter is into girls. She likes girls, and she
doesn't know how to accept it. She feels that the
(02:05):
more that she is resistant, the further. Her daughter slips
from her hands. You know there's space being created here,
so she's just wondering what I think and how I
can help her. Ali machino do co madrea pero prestelos,
(02:29):
I care record prestelos theos knows that man is madre
no de s madre, the arlous the vida prestelos process
(02:53):
da you know Jose quest prosy to Kiris tuvida is
ti tennis can contral la manercept reesto Marcy catoske buena
(03:16):
persona comb rason.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
K y.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Lesbian and tens came for cents corrasson and la mo
to Kriste no in knowing Susie so su okay, yes
that our viendo no your secuse deficial maf joelov called
mer mano Johnny pero Jose Vita and talment ma mant
(03:45):
aspecto pero jr Ma Ma la more q let la
tis y accepta Johnnys know and mess pero lou bur
Ela mores grandees algo n compara knows yours and for
cartenesso and la mota lista to tallah yesso pero po
(04:17):
po de vaira cost Brando Paso por passo ta and
conversa mira amo your sec The rest in Taramo por
Vida returns to Avita Lo Yes. The Comosa Tida pero
(04:39):
conel t book is a our return with Aceptoo lok
leve pa flora estemundo esp Nelli tendo a you guys.
(05:01):
I was just telling Nelly, I'll try to be short,
but you know that I'm sure it's difficult. I'm not
a mother yet, but I have raised my siblings and Johnny,
the youngest is you know, he's gay, and I'm just
a little bit more open minded. My mom wasn't as
open minded, but I know that the love that she
had and has for her children, she was going to
accept it with time. And it was difficult because I
(05:24):
wasn't sure how to navigate certain things. But I told her,
we have to remember that the children that God gives
us are just borrowed. We're just a tool to bring
this life into this world, you know, this this light,
and they they're borrowed, you know, and and we're supposed
to just let them fly with their own wings and
make their own decisions. And if she wants her daughter
(05:47):
in her life. Then she's going to have to find
and focus more on the light that her daughter has,
the woman that she has raised, and focused on the
love part of it. Maybe right now she's not ready
to hear about details and on how she's living her life,
but at least she could say I accept you and
I love you, and I'm willing to walk this with you.
(06:09):
Just be patient with me as well, and that's going
to help her daughter so much. So I always say this, guys.
I know it's easier said than done, but it's true.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
You know.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
I think it's a little by little, step by step
and being open to it, and especially if she wants
her daughter in her life, she has to give her
daughter that space to feel safe. You an update, okay, guys.
(06:42):
Next question comes from Cynthia.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Alla chigi is when as not just.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Cause?
Speaker 4 (06:57):
And Antolo that perro esperoke lo a Crista's passando service. Well,
Mosa never.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
That Miro It is.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
In spirits much the chick is yell com to the.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
I think okay is be ya, there is be loss.
Then his kets is the yas miran you crook. Josel
persona came siempre lego guand no I wear my my
(07:55):
emotions on my sleep coueno, yeah, stido, mocha pes mi corrasson,
contola sando jo no pus is it okay your and
my families and important los los mas porke no so
no so ya see press, candola, man cosas personalists and
(08:20):
podcast pyes perrokets as well. But bronto or muco is
that you on the pest okay sl goore oke, todas
sufrie mos conchas must be and sufrimos conesto j vida
yes so jo mio muco s comer candolas rmonas especial
(08:45):
com comemos not Mexico. Mexico is the malimpia no limit
in tanta cosa uh als males pero romona rocket las romonas,
the commas commis les person mobil quer pos, suma, mainting,
(09:05):
portante moveil querpo, the ario sudar sino posts and p
contes man yea levas jago como la mana and talmente
spiritual mental querpo park lost, musculos, paramos moil querpo is
quandel querpo m bos you know los muscolos duros explica
(09:33):
opera in Portantes. The last person said, okay, z commerments
the pastel ConA yaga. Now the so c commer come
mass the embas, the us, the theta or the ma
(09:54):
ma is usar the oliva because it does cam isasjo
(10:23):
and you guys. Cynthia was just basically saying that I've
looked a little sad lately, and that she's hoping that
everything that I'm or anything that I'm going through goes
away fast. And I told her that I think everything
that's going on in the world right now just breaks
my heart. And I'm a person that wears my emotions
on my sleeve, so I said, think you about that.
And I also she's also wanting to know about any
(10:46):
tips that I have for weight loss, and I think
it's a conversation that a lot of us can relate to.
I just have accepted that this is my life and
this is how my my body is. If I don't
take care of it, I'm just susceptible to gaining weight.
And I just I've accepted that. So I'm learning to
listen to my body and eat smaller portions and feed
(11:08):
it more good stuff, green teas, and I have one
every morning because that helps. It's an antioxidant, green juices,
more white meats versus you know, red meats. Just things
that help my body. And everybody literally everybody is different.
So it's just learning your body and making good choices
and it just feels good.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
You know.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Green juices are amazing. It's something for me that I
just drink in the morning and I feel so much
better the rest of the day. So just you know,
giving her some tips and more than anything, it's a
lot of hydration, a lot of water versus soda. That's
a huge one. And moving your body as much as
you can. I told her to start off with three
days out of the week, little by little, but moving
(11:49):
and sweating and moving the body as much as you
can because it helps you not only lose weight, helps
you mentally spiritually. Guys, sweating is so important. It's something
we have to do as much as we can. So
that's what I told her. So Cynthia be okay, guys.
(12:12):
Last question comes from an anonymous listener.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Hey, Chicky's how are you. There's this born girl that
she's always asking me for, like to send her money,
So I don't know what to do.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Boy, you know what to do. Okay, Wait, is she
asking you for money? And like you guys are dating.
I need a little bit more detail. But it doesn't
sound like this girl's your girlfriend, because you'd be like, oh,
my girl keeps asking me for money? Is she at
least giving you some poute? Like I need to know
why she's just asking for this money? You feel me?
(12:48):
I don't know and I can't say too much because
I don't have a lot of detail. But that girl
got to work like once in a while is fine.
But I just feel like I don't know. I'm feeling
like she's using you. So again, leave me another voice, No,
update me a little bit more, Let me in on
a little bit more detail, and I'll give you a
better answer. But my first instinct is stop giving her
(13:11):
money until you guys figure out what it is that
you guys are you know anyway? I hope that help. Okay,
I hope that helped. But thank you, guys, thank you
so much for your question. Which has it asked you?
As ANNELI A Cynthia Kensmandol I don't know his name,
(13:31):
but thank you guys, Thank you guys for your questions,
thank you for your time. Thank you for listening in
even if you haven't left a question, the fact that
you're here listening and learning from us because I'm answering
and people are asking. But anyway, have a beautiful day.
I love you, and if you want to leave me
a question, don't be shy. Leave your name, and if
you don't, that's fine too. Leave it at speakpipe dot com,
(13:54):
slash cheekis and Chow podcast your favorite podcast, I Love You.
This is a production of iHeartRadio and the Microdura podcast Network.
Follow us on Instagram at Michael Dura Podcasts and follow
me Cheeky's That's c h i q u i s.
(14:14):
For more podcasts from iHeart, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
or wherever you listen to your favorite podcast.
Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached
my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheekys podcast. I'm here
to give you a device on anything and everything you
need help with. Whether you're going through a breakup or
having issues with your family, or maybe you have a
question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I
want to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts
(00:39):
in my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious
issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional.
All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at
the sound of the beeB.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Well, let's take care. When I started Mike monicole, this
is that they have even as soon as oh, come
on text plico so bacomplete una the pero nose gave
(01:21):
leus the last.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Icas quandoors list.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Glass chickies.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
I mean elier mosaosna the Los Angelesa. So Nellie is
asking me, guys that she has a daughter who is
twenty years old, I believe, and she's thirty five, and
her daughter is into girls. She likes girls, and she
doesn't know how to accept it. She feels that the
(02:05):
more that she is resistant, the further. Her daughter slips
from her hands. You know there's space being created here,
so she's just wondering what I think and how I
can help her. Ali machino do co madrea pero prestelos,
(02:29):
I care record prestelos theos knows that man is madre
no de s madre, the arlous the vida prestelos process
(02:53):
da you know Jose quest prosy to Kiris tuvida is
ti tennis can contral la manercept reesto Marcy catoske buena
(03:16):
persona comb rason.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
K y.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Lesbian and tens came for cents corrasson and la mo
to Kriste no in knowing Susie so su okay, yes
that our viendo no your secuse deficial maf joelov called
mer mano Johnny pero Jose Vita and talment ma mant
(03:45):
aspecto pero jr Ma Ma la more q let la
tis y accepta Johnnys know and mess pero lou bur
Ela mores grandees algo n compara knows yours and for
cartenesso and la mota lista to tallah yesso pero po
(04:17):
po de vaira cost Brando Paso por passo ta and
conversa mira amo your sec The rest in Taramo por
Vida returns to Avita Lo Yes. The Comosa Tida pero
(04:39):
conel t book is a our return with Aceptoo lok
leve pa flora estemundo esp Nelli tendo a you guys.
(05:01):
I was just telling Nelly, I'll try to be short,
but you know that I'm sure it's difficult. I'm not
a mother yet, but I have raised my siblings and Johnny,
the youngest is you know, he's gay, and I'm just
a little bit more open minded. My mom wasn't as
open minded, but I know that the love that she
had and has for her children, she was going to
accept it with time. And it was difficult because I
(05:24):
wasn't sure how to navigate certain things. But I told her,
we have to remember that the children that God gives
us are just borrowed. We're just a tool to bring
this life into this world, you know, this this light,
and they they're borrowed, you know, and and we're supposed
to just let them fly with their own wings and
make their own decisions. And if she wants her daughter
(05:47):
in her life. Then she's going to have to find
and focus more on the light that her daughter has,
the woman that she has raised, and focused on the
love part of it. Maybe right now she's not ready
to hear about details and on how she's living her life,
but at least she could say I accept you and
I love you, and I'm willing to walk this with you.
(06:09):
Just be patient with me as well, and that's going
to help her daughter so much. So I always say this, guys.
I know it's easier said than done, but it's true.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
You know.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
I think it's a little by little, step by step
and being open to it, and especially if she wants
her daughter in her life, she has to give her
daughter that space to feel safe. You an update, okay, guys.
(06:42):
Next question comes from Cynthia.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Alla chigi is when as not just.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Cause?
Speaker 4 (06:57):
And Antolo that perro esperoke lo a Crista's passando service. Well,
Mosa never.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
That Miro It is.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
In spirits much the chick is yell com to the.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
I think okay is be ya, there is be loss.
Then his kets is the yas miran you crook. Josel
persona came siempre lego guand no I wear my my
(07:55):
emotions on my sleep coueno, yeah, stido, mocha pes mi corrasson,
contola sando jo no pus is it okay your and
my families and important los los mas porke no so
no so ya see press, candola, man cosas personalists and
(08:20):
podcast pyes perrokets as well. But bronto or muco is
that you on the pest okay sl goore oke, todas
sufrie mos conchas must be and sufrimos conesto j vida
yes so jo mio muco s comer candolas rmonas especial
(08:45):
com comemos not Mexico. Mexico is the malimpia no limit
in tanta cosa uh als males pero romona rocket las romonas,
the commas commis les person mobil quer pos, suma, mainting,
(09:05):
portante moveil querpo, the ario sudar sino posts and p
contes man yea levas jago como la mana and talmente
spiritual mental querpo park lost, musculos, paramos moil querpo is
quandel querpo m bos you know los muscolos duros explica
(09:33):
opera in Portantes. The last person said, okay, z commerments
the pastel ConA yaga. Now the so c commer come
mass the embas, the us, the theta or the ma
(09:54):
ma is usar the oliva because it does cam isasjo
(10:23):
and you guys. Cynthia was just basically saying that I've
looked a little sad lately, and that she's hoping that
everything that I'm or anything that I'm going through goes
away fast. And I told her that I think everything
that's going on in the world right now just breaks
my heart. And I'm a person that wears my emotions
on my sleeve, so I said, think you about that.
And I also she's also wanting to know about any
(10:46):
tips that I have for weight loss, and I think
it's a conversation that a lot of us can relate to.
I just have accepted that this is my life and
this is how my my body is. If I don't
take care of it, I'm just susceptible to gaining weight.
And I just I've accepted that. So I'm learning to
listen to my body and eat smaller portions and feed
(11:08):
it more good stuff, green teas, and I have one
every morning because that helps. It's an antioxidant, green juices,
more white meats versus you know, red meats. Just things
that help my body. And everybody literally everybody is different.
So it's just learning your body and making good choices
and it just feels good.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
You know.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Green juices are amazing. It's something for me that I
just drink in the morning and I feel so much
better the rest of the day. So just you know,
giving her some tips and more than anything, it's a
lot of hydration, a lot of water versus soda. That's
a huge one. And moving your body as much as
you can. I told her to start off with three
days out of the week, little by little, but moving
(11:49):
and sweating and moving the body as much as you
can because it helps you not only lose weight, helps
you mentally spiritually. Guys, sweating is so important. It's something
we have to do as much as we can. So
that's what I told her. So Cynthia be okay, guys.
(12:12):
Last question comes from an anonymous listener.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Hey, Chicky's how are you. There's this born girl that
she's always asking me for, like to send her money,
So I don't know what to do.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Boy, you know what to do. Okay, Wait, is she
asking you for money? And like you guys are dating.
I need a little bit more detail. But it doesn't
sound like this girl's your girlfriend, because you'd be like, oh,
my girl keeps asking me for money? Is she at
least giving you some poute? Like I need to know
why she's just asking for this money? You feel me?
(12:48):
I don't know and I can't say too much because
I don't have a lot of detail. But that girl
got to work like once in a while is fine.
But I just feel like I don't know. I'm feeling
like she's using you. So again, leave me another voice, No,
update me a little bit more, Let me in on
a little bit more detail, and I'll give you a
better answer. But my first instinct is stop giving her
(13:11):
money until you guys figure out what it is that
you guys are you know anyway? I hope that help. Okay,
I hope that helped. But thank you, guys, thank you
so much for your question. Which has it asked you?
As ANNELI A Cynthia Kensmandol I don't know his name,
(13:31):
but thank you guys, Thank you guys for your questions,
thank you for your time. Thank you for listening in
even if you haven't left a question, the fact that
you're here listening and learning from us because I'm answering
and people are asking. But anyway, have a beautiful day.
I love you, and if you want to leave me
a question, don't be shy. Leave your name, and if
you don't, that's fine too. Leave it at speakpipe dot com,
(13:54):
slash cheekis and Chow podcast your favorite podcast, I Love You.
This is a production of iHeartRadio and the Microdura podcast Network.
Follow us on Instagram at Michael Dura Podcasts and follow
me Cheeky's That's c h i q u i s.
(14:14):
For more podcasts from iHeart, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
or wherever you listen to your favorite podcast.
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