Dear Chiquis: When Will You Release Jenni's Monterey Concert?

I love the questions I got for this episode of Dear Chiquis. This week, Bell asks me if I’m over my ex-husband and why I keep talking about the situation to this day; Orly wants to know when we’re going to release my mom Jenni’s full concert in Monterey; and Ruth asks me if I ever thought I’d be as successful as I am now.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:18):
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Speaker 2 (00:51):
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Speaker 1 (01:28):
Me be mosa hena is the well not you guys
and the so you guys. Bell is asking if I
have healed and I guess, in other words, gotten over

(01:48):
my divorce because I continue to talk about it. She says,
you've already written in the books, You've already talked about
it in interviews, you said it in your podcast like
have you really healed? And then the words why are
you still talking about it? So I'm gonna answer in
Spanish and then I'll get back to you in English. Well,
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(02:20):
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yes paso.

Speaker 3 (03:52):
It was.

Speaker 1 (03:55):
So you, guys. I was just telling bell and not
trying to make it very short because I gave her
a very long answer, but I was telling her that, yes, wholeheartedly,
I do feel like I've healed it. I don't have anger,
I don't have sadness in my heart towards him. I
wish him well, I really really do. I want him
to be happy. Like now, I understand why it didn't work,

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and it took me a long time to get there,
and I'm in a very happy relationship. And I'm grateful
to each and every single ex that I had because
it prepared me for my relationship. Now. Again, things aren't perfect.
We're still working on things, but now I have a
partner that is willing to work with me through these things,
and I didn't have that before. And I was also

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telling her that it's part of my story, it's part
of my past, it's part of my testimony, and I
know that I am meant and I've talked about it
a lot on the podcast. One thing that I have
very clear is my mission on this earth and my purpose,
and my purpose is to help other people and by
doing that, unfortunately I sometimes have to tap into my

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past and talk about it and be honest and transparent.
I'm not just saying he was wrong. I was wrong too.
Now I see it more than ever what I could
have done differently, what I am doing differently in my relationship,
and it is something that I went through was very
traumatic for me, and a lot of people want to know.
How do you get over an ex? How do you

(05:19):
get over a divorce that was so painful, so public that,
mind you, he made public first, he talked about it first.
I was just say, hey, this is my side of
the story, this is my truth, and this is my purpose.
And I have no problem with being transparent and open
with people, and I'm going to continue to talk about
it if it comes up. So bam, Mike drop and

(05:40):
I'm just kidding. So anyway, Belle, thank you for your question.
Is stape was when a kies? Okay, okay, guys, So
we're going to move on to the next question, which
is from Orly.

Speaker 4 (06:02):
Hi Jiki's love you and your podcast. You guys are awesome.
My question is when are you guys releasing your mom's
full concert in Monterrey or as I say, movie as well.
Hopefully you can answer this question for me. Thank you,
love you so much, Orly, I love you too.

Speaker 1 (06:20):
Thank you for loving my mommy and thank you for
asking me this question. You guys, I have been feeling
so connected to my mom lately. It's crazy, like, oh,
it's just been so beautiful. So AnyWho, I don't know
that is a truth. I have no idea. I am
waiting patiently, just like you. We are ironing out some

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things and some wrinkles and organizing everything. It's taken a
long time, but I know that the plan is there.
I know that it's going to be done. I just
don't know when. So we are going to have a
family meeting very soon to talk about the details of
just everything that has to do with my mom because

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obviously there are a lot of things that we want
to do and keep her name and her music out there,
and Monterrey is one that everyone keeps asking about. It
just has to be the right time, with the right partner.
I don't want to rush anything. We don't want to
rush anything because then when you rush it and you
force it, just stuff doesn't come out the way it should.
And my mom I feel like, deserves it, and not

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only her but her fans. So be patient. Okay, be patient,
It'll come and you're gonna love it. Okay. Next and
last question, comes from Ruth.

Speaker 3 (07:36):
Hey Cheeky's My question for you is, did you ever
imagine that you would be as successful as you are
today with your businesses, with your career, with your seeing career,
with your podcast, your YouTube. Did you ever imagine that

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all that you have now was going to be a possibility?

Speaker 1 (08:00):
Thanks all, rude, I'm loving your guys's questions. Okay, so
truth be told. I knew that I was meant to
do something big for a long time in my teens.
I think once I graduated high school, I felt like
there is something that I meant to do and I

(08:22):
would close my eyes and I would hear applause, but
I never knew what it was. I was afraid to
sing because of everything I had seen my mom go
through and everything I witnessed, you know, But I just
I heard applause. I didn't know if it was going
to be acting, because that's something I wanted to do.
I always knew I wanted to write a book. Always

(08:42):
I knew that I loved writing, and later on the
whole podcast idea came out. But anyway, the truth is
that I thought I was going to do big things
and all these things, but living it through my mom.
I was okay with being behind the scenes and being
right hand because she also wanted a television show and

(09:03):
her career as a singer, and then she had her
radio show, which is kind of like a podcast, you know.
So I always thought, Okay, I'm here, I'm gonna make
and help my mom make her dreams come true, and
that for me at that time was enough. I was
just happy to make my mom happy, to help her
and support her in her dreams while I was helping

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with my siblings, and it just I felt that that's
what I was meant for for a long time, until
I realized I wasn't. That I was living my life
for someone else, and my mom also wanted something different
for me. She kind of had to force me, like, hey,
go spread your wings. These are my wings. Go find
your own, you know. And at first I was like,
what the heck? It was so foreign for me, but

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it was the best thing she could have done for me,
because now I'm doing all these things and now I
know what I meant to do. But again, I knew
I was going to do something big and something meaningful
and something with a lot of purpose, but it was
through someone else. If that makes sense. But yeah, I
just and I would claim it.

Speaker 3 (10:03):
Girl.

Speaker 1 (10:04):
I was like, visit, I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna
have a book one day. This was years and years ago,
in two thousand and nine, guys, like I had it
on my vision board, I'm going to write a book.
I didn't know what it was about. And now I
have four books, you guys, so you really the law
of attraction is real, guys, so tap into it and
really feed that. But thank you for your question. I
love that. Oh, very good questions, you, guys. I appreciate it.

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