April 8, 2025 • 26 mins
Episode 375 - "Shamea Morton" Feat: Ferrari Simmons & You Know BT Produced by: Baller Alert
Topics Include: Real Housewives Of Atlanta, Singing, Family, Husband
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
They get a litty called me. Broadcasting live from Atlanta, Georgia.
Welcome to the Ball Alert Show podcasts. I go by
the in Ferrari sings. You know, BT is out being
famous today, but I got a famous bread that pulled
up all bad?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Should I hate? Best friend?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
How you doing? Man?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
I'm doing better now that I'm hanging out with you. Man,
I'm glad you pull up all the famous friends.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
So they they they sent me a text and was like, Yo,
do you want me? I was like, yeah, I didn't
even asked what you had going on.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Listen. Anytime I get a chance to come kick it
with you, it's gonna be a fun time. Man.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
What's up man? So what we got going on right now?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Man?
Speaker 3 (00:40):
I just dropped my new single. Oh my god, never
had have you heard of it yet?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
I needed? Wait? Wait? Is it on all streaming.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Platform all of your favorites.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
So we singing?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Come on now, you can come get this love on
a whole another level. Get into it, you know right?
Speaker 3 (01:00):
I got r L from you know RL next Legend
and be flat They roll produce.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
They really show love on this. So you got to
be a.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
Stop stop stop yeah wow, yes, yeah, I'm extremely impressed.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
I'm excited, That's what I'm has.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
This has this singing vibe always been something in the
background that you always did.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
Always say.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
I've been in groups with some of the best singers
in the industry.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
I mean, Kerry Hillson, super connected.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
I've seen yeah, television everything, fox, games, radio, act acting, hosting, dancing,
all the things.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
And I've always been this way. So it's so funny
when people come in they're like, well, when does she
get off this personality or when does she become Like
I've been doing all this stuff around Atlanta, so if
you know me, you know me. But yeah, but I
mean this is now on a national platform, being on
the Real Houselves of Atlanta this season. Now that I'm
officially he Shoulder, people are like keyed in.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
To me and finished for that. Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
And there you know it's I'm under a lens now.
So like everybody's like, oh, let's be perfect time to
perfect to pop out.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
God's time. It's all on his plan.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
It's all in his time, because you know, I've tried
doing it before, like I said, in groups, and I've
been a friend on the show for over a decade
for sure.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
It's my season.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Now. Of course I've seen people ask you this question.
I just want to ask you because for me, now,
are we going to see Hubby Moore this season?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
You will see him, but he's we want to see
him on the show.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Why the show?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
He was just on this last past week like a
whole part.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
I give him fifteen It's not the.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Real Husbands of house Tis, it's the real house wife.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
I just think he tries not to see if people wanted,
it's almost like it's a they want to see more
because they don't see enough.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Yeah, less is more, and I mean he's enough right
there at the house of me. So he's from me now,
Y'all'm for y'all.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
I get this show.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
But he's a pop saying when it's necessary like my
birthday parties or mine for sure, big events that I
host or have, he's there because he's always super supportive
and he's always supported me doing the show.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
He just doesn't want to be on a camera.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Okay, this is just an honest answer question. I want
to honest answer. Would you say that there's a boundary
set based off of personal preferences? He does not want that,
so he sets a boundary or this is just more
so like a conversation y'all had, like nine.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Well, he's always said, oh, I don't want to be
on TV. I don't want to that's not my thing,
and I've always respected that. But in the past the
network was like, if you can't show you a man
on TV, then you can't do it. You can't be
full time, you can't be a peach holder because we
got to see you.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
They want to see how you communicate. I want see
how you overcome arguments.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
They want to see that I a man, do have
a husband, you know, And they're like, you, since you're
not dating, you can't just go off and be like, oh, well,
I'm not going to show this part of my life
because then you're not really a full time peach holder.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
So for that was the thing. But he's always supported.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Me doing it.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Yeah, go with the kids, do it at the house whatever.
He's like, just I don't want to be on camera.
But he's not that guy, Like he's very low key
when it comes down to that.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
And you're always we were saying, off camera, always a
ball of positive energy. I don't even think I've ever
seen the last time I maybe saw you kind of
a little flush. You was pregnant.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
It's so funny. We had a good time though, a
good time that day.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
You always have the best energy and vibes like and morning.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
It's tough.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
That was tough for me too, because I was doing nights.
Yeah I had.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
That's crazy, but you can't tell.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
But they said they had you. I was like, oh,
this is gonna be good.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
And the time flew by, because you know a lot
of times it's all on who you working with, and
if you got the wrong person, it's like, all right, dang,
when is it going in?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
We got another hour?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
But back to what I was saying, you always have
a great you always have great energy. Where is it?
Does that come from from outside of you?
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Well?
Speaker 3 (05:03):
My mom my parents are like that, you know, my
mam and dad both. My daddy is super silly and
the jokester, like the jone. My mom is always very
positive and likes to uplift everybody and their mama.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
You know, she never met a stranger.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
She always, you know, just pours into her community from
owning child care centers my whole life.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
She's just a gifferend.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
So I think that's where I get it from you know.
You just have to be kind. Yeah, like you got
to put out what you want to receive and treat
treat others as you would have to, you know, treat you.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
So okay, So how's mom? How is mom? How is mom?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
So that's so funny.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
She had a surgeon rotator CUF today. So she's doing
great though, she's doing great.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Prayer for sure.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
You know how you being a mom?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
I love being a mom. That's like my favorite job.
My girls are so sweet and kind. They're six and two.
You know, my youngest daughter was a little bit you know,
I remembers had some challenges, yes, but now she's thriving.
She got the wobble walk going. She just celebrated her
second birthday on Valentine's Day. I love being a mom,
you know. I get to see these little minis men
(06:12):
running around and getting bigger personalities, and they just bring
so much joy. I'm telling you gonna have the worst
day ever when you get home and see your kids.
They just light up the room the best ever.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
So what can we expect this season, Miss peach.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Holder, You're gonna see everything. I think that we have
a great group of girls. This Isn't you know they've
kind of revamped the shows. We have a bunch of newbies,
we've got the vets were turning to. So you have Portia,
you have Cynthia and Drew, and then of course Cynthia
comes as a friend. Oh she's the sweetest person ever.
Then as far as new girls, we've got Kelly, Angela
(06:49):
and Britt and of course myself. So I think there's
somebody that you can connect with on this cast. No
matter who you are, no matter what your walk of
life is, somebody on this guest we'll speak to you
and you'll find something in common with them.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
All I know is the reunions, but the whole season
flowers and reunion here.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
That's the thing about reality TV.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
So you start out and you you may have some confrontation,
right then y'all apologize and get over it. Then they
see it on TV and they relive it and you
gotta apologize again.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
And then you have the then you.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Have the reunion.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
And now I got to say what I had to
say because I didn't saw how the editors edited add
the extra commentary.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
You said you and then you probably said something else
in your interview or confessional so it's like, oh, it's
like you just know if you make one mistake, you're
gonna pay for it for oh my god, five or
six different times. It's good though. I'm enjoying it. I'm
enjoying being in this space and just having the world
see me outside of the shadow of friends that I've
supported there, like Candy and Porsche. I love them and
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they they're they're great, but there's so much more to
me than being a good friend.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Yeah, now never had Are we're going to see that
rollout on the show? Are we recording now?
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Well? I mean, are you going to sign the release.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Seconds that?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Boy? What's your wife gonna say?
Speaker 3 (08:18):
She?
Speaker 1 (08:19):
Oh, no, no, no, she my wife hates attention. My
wife is your.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Husband, exactly the opposite of the track, right.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Boy, she is your husband. She do not want me.
She don't even like taking pictures. I know, take pictures
for her phone.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
But it's like that's it. They're not going away.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
She don't like, she don't like none of that. It
was almost like because she's she from the East Side too,
She's from to cater and it was almost like my
boy Jay rocking there. It was almost like when we
met she was like, man, you're way too popular. You
got too much going on. I love you know, she
normal go to work.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
You need that.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
I definitely need that. I needed that.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Oh for sure, for sure, for sure we got exactly
what we need.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Schedules be crazy, though.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
But that's how it is. And then how many kids
you got?
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Now, well I have two with her, and then she
had one before me. The ones I had worked one
and seven?
Speaker 2 (09:10):
So don't they just take up your like they have schedules.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
That are like and they have schedules.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Yeah, you're like their assistant for sure.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
They they run show.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
People don't understand when your parents, like you just kind
of give up your whole life. You just now it's
all about them, Okay, swim class, ballets and gymnastics.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Yeah, even though tumbling and gymnastics is different.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
No, that's a whole different things. Yeah. So I mean
I love it though, you love being I.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Love being a dad. La got a baseball game, so
I gotta stop.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
No.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
I had the surgery. I don't even want no. No, no,
oh yeah, I I ain't gonna lie. That surgery was
like unmanly.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Really yeah, do taell? You were you down a long time?
Speaker 1 (09:58):
No? No, it was up. They just numb the area
and then you just sit there and then they and
then a girl walked in the door over.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Here, like, yo, no way outside. Yeah yeah, it looks
all right over here.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
Yo.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
It was a laser. It was the laser. I did
the laser. I was scared of the knife. So you know, dog,
you know what.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Did you have to like take?
Speaker 1 (10:26):
This is the crazy thing.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
It was.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
My wife had just had our one year old, so
it was maybe like two months after because I was like, yeah,
I'm done, I'm done because she would not go to sleep.
I'm talking about she was thirty minutes. She was thirty minutes.
Thirty minute napper.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
I'm sure.
Speaker 3 (10:45):
But you know what, I'm glad you did it, not her.
It's a lot less invasive for men.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
Women. It takes us down.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Your recovery was only three weeks.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
I man, please don't just go get yourself snipped. Ready,
y'all do that make us do all that?
Speaker 2 (10:59):
We don't want to do all that.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
But yeah, being a dad is being the dad is
super cool. I'm just happy that you found.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
A good Kenyon man to deal with all my stuff.
You know, I get upset about little stuff. Yeah, and
they kind of be a little stupid after because you'll
be all, like, I mean, I asked for extra pickles
on my sandwich and you didn't even He's.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Like, oh, sorry, baby, I didn't.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
I told the lady and barently she didn't get I'm like,
then I'll be like, oh damn, okay, you all right,
it's all right, everything's fine.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Nobody died.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
I just don't get some pickles out the fridge because
in the past you be with the wrong partner.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
You like, you ain't get the pickle onself.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Oh goddamn.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
You know it's like y'all both chestwolding each other.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Well this I do have a segment of the show.
Let's get into it right now. Since we on that
type of energy, it's called you got me fugged up? Now,
this is something that you can think. It's so now
it's a person, place, or a thing you think about.
Something that got to give me a thud. That could
be somebody call you FaceTime back to back to back,
so I'll call you three times, back to back to back.
So that's send you a voice note. You know what
I'm saying. What's something that got you Atlanta traffic? What's
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something that got you fucked up, messed up. It just
makes you anytime you think about it, you get mad.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
I mean, there's a couple of them you got time.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
Well, first of all, don't you ever come for my
kids anytime anybody has ever came from my child children.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
I'm like, you got me fed up. That's one these comments,
y'all so nasty in the comments. What is wrong back
to you?
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Do you reply?
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Nah? I never reply. I just deleted block because they
got me up.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (12:41):
Sometimes because then sometimes I feel like if you give
that negative energy, you let them know you looking at you,
then they just keep going.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
You know.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
Then now you start getting more negative because people like,
well she responded to the negative.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
You can respondlier than that, a little bit with with
a nice little jab.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
I'll be having to tell my mom like, don't even respond,
I don't even get into it.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
Just see it along.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
Okay, that's let me think. What else got me fed up? Oh?
I'm with you a FaceTime don't face, don't face, I
don't even don't we don't talk like that.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
Well, you know the y ns be like in the
FaceTime it's untraceable.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
So oh no, that's a little FaceTime audio. We don't
do the same thing, then come, can we just FaceTime audio,
because like you want to see my face face Some
mornings I wake up looking like it's the role. Not
saying that that's a bad thing, but I just want
to look more like you know.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
So no FaceTime, FaceTime audio.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
Unless we only FaceTime my parents and my sisters or
my husband, my kids.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
You know, my best friends, me let mething. What else
got me fed up?
Speaker 1 (13:47):
I got something else for you.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
Oh this little limit. Y'all starting to put on condiments
and then charging them. We never did that in Buckhead.
Now all of a sudden, it's twenty five cent for
a extra pack of barber at Chip for l A
on West Paces.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
Y'all got me after.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
Hey, that roast the barbecue. Hey look, just say you'll
know it's not on the menu, the sauce packet called
roasted barbecue.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
I don't like that.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
What smokey put that on them?
Speaker 2 (14:14):
With people that drink that smoke.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Me not too much on itmoke it togither No, but
I like that roasted barbecue.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Don't do that. Don't do that.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
It's probably gonna end up eating you inside out.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
You'll find out.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Later well, now it's time for our segment of the show.
It's called do you like this when you shot out
your crush? We already know you happily married. So this
is the time where if you were to happen to
see something online and it be a clipper, uh you know,
you just look at that camera and tell them how
you feel about them. Lie on ball alert.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
So do I look at No.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
You don't look at me. You look at the camera.
Speaker 2 (14:50):
Look at the camera and tell tell your.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Man how you feel about him. It's called shot at
your crush.
Speaker 3 (14:54):
You just crushed in Hey baby, Hey baby, daddy, Hey
husb man you sexy.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
King and king you he's so damn fine, chocolate milk
dad head you so fine? Why let me tell them teeth.
He's so fraid.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Body like a god sitting up there looking like the king.
You are speaking with that good strong African accent that
just get.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
Me all hot and bothered me. Whoa you just turn
you on?
Speaker 3 (15:27):
Huh like? And then yeah, Gerald maynkiewonkee you so damn
you the one.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
You're the one that I really wanna thought that Yo,
Yeah they won Now he really is, like I said,
I told everybody David that it's you. It's just you
for me, like my mama said, you make my live.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
Equipment all right. Well, and closing, you got something called
you feel like.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
You got a little sad about it.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
You want no good your wife and I ain't no.
I talked about her. I talked what she'd be tired
to me. People be texting her talking about on the
radio again. Yeah, I'll be telling you how y'all been
together now eight years but five years married. Man. I love,
I love, I just love. I just love when she'd
be like, oh I don't look good at that girl, you.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Look amazed, it beautiful natural.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
I just I just walk with to him, smell it.
She hate when I skin.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
I just love skin and skin.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
That's the only person I want. That's when I think, people,
that's that's got me after just run back one more time.
Go ahead, y'all got me after up thinking I want
to go skin to skin with you, even even in
a photo. If you know I got a little bit
of my waist out, let's just stay right right. If
I got a little little side, I need you to
come put your hand and you know, and even when
(16:55):
you hug me, don't put your cheek to my face.
I'm going to skin skin with warrants at my husband,
not you. That's nasty, it's gross. I don't even like
when my leg touched the person beside me on an
airplane or something.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Don't touch me.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
Don't especially if you got on shorts and I got
on shorts. Now wearing your alove from your legs.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
No thanks. I don't like skinning.
Speaker 3 (17:17):
Skin like if I almost will pull my shirt down
all the way so I can we can take the
photo like that?
Speaker 2 (17:23):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (17:23):
Anyway, was in what was I was saying? We got
to say at show called the Mental Health check In.
When SMI is having a moment could be a bad day.
I don't know if you call them bad days, whatever
you call them. What do you do? Do you meditate?
Do you talk to the therapist?
Speaker 2 (17:35):
I am such a crier.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
You cried out, you feel better?
Speaker 2 (17:39):
I the ugliest cry face too.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
I honestly have started laughing at myself while crying, because
it's like, you ain't gotta look at it while you cry.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
I caught myself in my riber and I was like,
I was like, oh oh girl.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
But I sit in my car and I will turn
on some gospel music, okay, and play it and just
continue to play it and just until I come out
of that and get praise and worship in my car
and drive around twenty five a couple of times cry out,
and then I'll start like listening to something funny or
(18:14):
watching some memes that I got saved on my phone
until I put myself into a better space.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
And you know, it's always fake laughing.
Speaker 3 (18:20):
When you start fake laughing, you just you end up
laughing for real because you're like, I am a little
unwell right the fact that I'm in the car laughing
about nothing, and then you start laughing real and it's contagious.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
So you know, you find ways to put yourself out
of it.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
Okay. I appreciate that what you do, because maybe I
can learn from you. So I've been going to therapy.
I actually graduated from weekly till once a month now.
So I've been setting boundaries to play defense. I love
that to help me navigate through I don't know, man,
as soon as I hit forty, man, I just started
getting emotional. I don't understand it. I started thinking about
(18:57):
how precious life is. Now. You know, I pay attention
to my kids a lot more. When I was younger
and I was just navigating becoming Ferrari, I never paid
attention to feeling my feelings and stuff like that because
I was like, I got this money. I gave some money, yes,
and then I felt like when I got to the
finish line, I looked left and looked right, and I
was like, wait, my kids didn't care about that. My
(19:19):
significant other didn't care about that. My my siblings didn't care.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
They was just like yo.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
It was really little Riri. He was like, man, I
just want to hang.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
Out with you, dad. Yes, I don't care about it.
I kept saying, oh, you're missing on time.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
And I missed out on so much time with my family,
and I'm seeing like my older kids, my two older kids,
I missed out a lot they were with me. Because
Little raris my industry baby. Everybody saw him with me
a lot. He would come to work with me, especially
he was a boy too. I didn't really want my
daughter like around because I'd be doing like broadcast outside.
I love smoking and all that stuff. Little Ri was
(19:52):
like at my hip. I just didn't pay attention to
the time I missed so with my little kids, I'm
spending so much time with them even and my older kids.
It's just like, you know, when I have a moment,
I just breathed through it, and I just like, you know,
I kind of create boundaries to where you know, I'm
not blocking. I try not to block. I just deal
(20:15):
and I go through what we're dealing with, and I
know that we're going to come out on the other side.
Because usually when you get upset about something, you really know,
and like two days it ain't really wasn't knowing when
you were talking about that.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
You should have had that should have had you that
upset just got to take.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
Miss conversation and miscommunication that could have gotten squared away
had you communicated.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
On your communication is key. Sometimes you're so fast you
can communicate.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
But that's why I'm glad you said you just take
a beat, take a moment, walk away from it, assess
the situation, and they come back to it. Let me
tell you, the best thing that you've said is the
fact that you've reached out and got help Like that
is such a people that look like community.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
We think, oh man, you crazy, you tripping.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
I always tell people like, if you can go and
get maintenance on your hair, your nail, it's on your mind.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
Oh my goodness, crazy thing.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
We had all our episodes go viral, right, man, we
had ME and BT had two mental health therapists, lowest
views ever. But we're talking about they need to hear
things that people need to hear. And they were two
young brothers. They didn't look like your normal therapists. Lowest
views ever. I kept saying, that's that's what I'm talking about.
(21:31):
Wild posted the clips everything, but the men of that post.
You know, the young lady that couldn't fit in the list. No,
the minute we post the young lady, I couldn't fit
in the list.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
Oh yeah, she went viral, went.
Speaker 1 (21:42):
Thousand shares, thousand comments. I mean, but we talked about
mental health.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
I mean, I think we all should do better at that.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
I think the algorithm, friends, how do how do we?
How do we? How do we change the algorithm? So
you know, now you get me all emotional?
Speaker 2 (22:00):
See, but I love that you that. I love that
you can be in touch with your emotions.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
As soon as I hit forty, I don't understand.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
This is what happens. You value life. You look at
like different, Like you.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
Said, I value life, value it. Yeah, it's really your
twenties when you are yan.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
Yeah, and then at forty you see some of our
friends and peers passing away too.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
Yes, you know, yeah, all the things.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
And you're like, that's I don't want that to be
my story, or at least if my day's are number,
I want to live them this way like I want
to live them to my fullest.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
And you said it, Yeah, let's get it sighted again.
Let's talk about this song. I want to give you
a hot ye talk about this song. Never never had,
never had, never had your bag, you and your music bag,
my music bag, anything you want to do.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (22:49):
I've seen it. I've hosted the Hawks morning show, radio, television, yes,
hosting big events, yes, influencing.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
Yeah. And that's why this is not for TV.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
I mean it's on TV now, but this has been
my life for at least the past two decades. From
the East Side, from the east Side, south miss Southwest,
the cab.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
High School.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
Come on now, Yes, that's all the things. I'm Atlanta
Georgia Peach. I'm a peach, a true peach. You don't
get peach. You're a fuzzier than me. You know, where
is that?
Speaker 3 (23:26):
And I think I'm like now, that the cameras are there,
you can see that stuff. But I've always just been me.
Like you said, We've always had a good vibe. It's
always been a blessing to be a part of this
industry because you know they'll spit you, you up, switch
you out, you'll be done in two seconds.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
So you can get sucked in and turn into something
that ain't.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
And then you get stuck in a rut.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
We've seen it because we do.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
We see it all the time.
Speaker 1 (23:52):
You see your first hand to a little bit more,
especially when that screen, when that television screen.
Speaker 3 (23:56):
Was I'm just happy that at I'm in my season
and I'm reaping the harvest. I planted the good seeds
early on, and it's finally my time to show the world,
you know. And that's why before I'll be like, well,
I'm trying to sing now that my single is out,
It's like I am singing.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
No, you are singing? How I want to hear it
real quick?
Speaker 2 (24:17):
Yeah? Never had you never had a friend like me,
You never had a peach like me.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Well, BT's done being famous. I think he just pulled up.
He was being famous today.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
BT. Where are you at?
Speaker 1 (24:29):
He around here somewhere one time for you know, bt okay,
any any shout outs anything.
Speaker 3 (24:36):
Shout out to my amazing family, my husband, Gerald, my
daughters and Shiloh, my mom and dad's here and Glenn
to want to Glenda, my sisters. And then also shout
out to the cast of the Real Housewives of Atlanta.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
It's a great group of ladies. We made our debut.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
You in your bag, I'm in my bag.
Speaker 3 (24:58):
Y'all gotta follow me on all social media platforms at Shamia,
Morton's spoke Shame with the A on the end and
Morton like the Seakhouse and we'll rt o n and
also follow Shemiah Shares dot orger because I do a
lot of community stuff with my nonprofit from I have
a prom dress giveaway coming up where we're sending thirty
(25:19):
girls to prom. We're gonna dress them, put their hair done,
makeup done, Neil's done everything did have them.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
Together for prom.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
So if you feel like you're a loved one is
deserving or that, send me a reason why you know,
and I'll set your girl up right for prom.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
We got that.
Speaker 3 (25:35):
We do a breast cancer event and I do a
cheer in dance camp every summer so you can find
all that information on shamia shares dot org.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
If you do that, I will sidebar.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
Yeah you're here.
Speaker 1 (25:45):
We need to do a little radio station crash at
the radio station. Come crash that.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
So the cheer stuff for sure.
Speaker 3 (25:53):
But coming up, it's at the end of the month,
I'm doing that prom dress giveaway and I partner with
the Atlanta Hawks and it's gonna be a really big deal,
a lot of fun.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
So you know, we definitely can ll let me let me.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
Know less in the building, you know BT, you know
the vibes, Oh, one time, one hungry, a F five location,
you know what I'm saying. My favorite location Smyrna. I
got a new location coming up in Conyers, Georgia.
Speaker 2 (26:16):
You did
They get a litty called me. Broadcasting live from Atlanta, Georgia.
Welcome to the Ball Alert Show podcasts. I go by
the in Ferrari sings. You know, BT is out being
famous today, but I got a famous bread that pulled
up all bad?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Should I hate? Best friend?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
How you doing? Man?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
I'm doing better now that I'm hanging out with you. Man,
I'm glad you pull up all the famous friends.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
So they they they sent me a text and was like, Yo,
do you want me? I was like, yeah, I didn't
even asked what you had going on.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Listen. Anytime I get a chance to come kick it
with you, it's gonna be a fun time. Man.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
What's up man? So what we got going on right now?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Man?
Speaker 3 (00:40):
I just dropped my new single. Oh my god, never
had have you heard of it yet?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
I needed? Wait? Wait? Is it on all streaming.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Platform all of your favorites.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
So we singing?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Come on now, you can come get this love on
a whole another level. Get into it, you know right?
Speaker 3 (01:00):
I got r L from you know RL next Legend
and be flat They roll produce.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
They really show love on this. So you got to
be a.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
Stop stop stop yeah wow, yes, yeah, I'm extremely impressed.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
I'm excited, That's what I'm has.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
This has this singing vibe always been something in the
background that you always did.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
Always say.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
I've been in groups with some of the best singers
in the industry.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
I mean, Kerry Hillson, super connected.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
I've seen yeah, television everything, fox, games, radio, act acting, hosting, dancing,
all the things.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
And I've always been this way. So it's so funny
when people come in they're like, well, when does she
get off this personality or when does she become Like
I've been doing all this stuff around Atlanta, so if
you know me, you know me. But yeah, but I
mean this is now on a national platform, being on
the Real Houselves of Atlanta this season. Now that I'm
officially he Shoulder, people are like keyed in.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
To me and finished for that. Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
And there you know it's I'm under a lens now.
So like everybody's like, oh, let's be perfect time to
perfect to pop out.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
God's time. It's all on his plan.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
It's all in his time, because you know, I've tried
doing it before, like I said, in groups, and I've
been a friend on the show for over a decade
for sure.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
It's my season.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Now. Of course I've seen people ask you this question.
I just want to ask you because for me, now,
are we going to see Hubby Moore this season?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
You will see him, but he's we want to see
him on the show.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Why the show?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
He was just on this last past week like a
whole part.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
I give him fifteen It's not the.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Real Husbands of house Tis, it's the real house wife.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
I just think he tries not to see if people wanted,
it's almost like it's a they want to see more
because they don't see enough.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Yeah, less is more, and I mean he's enough right
there at the house of me. So he's from me now,
Y'all'm for y'all.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
I get this show.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
But he's a pop saying when it's necessary like my
birthday parties or mine for sure, big events that I
host or have, he's there because he's always super supportive
and he's always supported me doing the show.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
He just doesn't want to be on a camera.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Okay, this is just an honest answer question. I want
to honest answer. Would you say that there's a boundary
set based off of personal preferences? He does not want that,
so he sets a boundary or this is just more
so like a conversation y'all had, like nine.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Well, he's always said, oh, I don't want to be
on TV. I don't want to that's not my thing,
and I've always respected that. But in the past the
network was like, if you can't show you a man
on TV, then you can't do it. You can't be
full time, you can't be a peach holder because we
got to see you.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
They want to see how you communicate. I want see
how you overcome arguments.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
They want to see that I a man, do have
a husband, you know, And they're like, you, since you're
not dating, you can't just go off and be like, oh, well,
I'm not going to show this part of my life
because then you're not really a full time peach holder.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
So for that was the thing. But he's always supported.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Me doing it.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Yeah, go with the kids, do it at the house whatever.
He's like, just I don't want to be on camera.
But he's not that guy, Like he's very low key
when it comes down to that.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
And you're always we were saying, off camera, always a
ball of positive energy. I don't even think I've ever
seen the last time I maybe saw you kind of
a little flush. You was pregnant.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
It's so funny. We had a good time though, a
good time that day.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
You always have the best energy and vibes like and morning.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
It's tough.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
That was tough for me too, because I was doing nights.
Yeah I had.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
That's crazy, but you can't tell.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
But they said they had you. I was like, oh,
this is gonna be good.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
And the time flew by, because you know a lot
of times it's all on who you working with, and
if you got the wrong person, it's like, all right, dang,
when is it going in?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
We got another hour?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
But back to what I was saying, you always have
a great you always have great energy. Where is it?
Does that come from from outside of you?
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Well?
Speaker 3 (05:03):
My mom my parents are like that, you know, my
mam and dad both. My daddy is super silly and
the jokester, like the jone. My mom is always very
positive and likes to uplift everybody and their mama.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
You know, she never met a stranger.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
She always, you know, just pours into her community from
owning child care centers my whole life.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
She's just a gifferend.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
So I think that's where I get it from you know.
You just have to be kind. Yeah, like you got
to put out what you want to receive and treat
treat others as you would have to, you know, treat you.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
So okay, So how's mom? How is mom? How is mom?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
So that's so funny.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
She had a surgeon rotator CUF today. So she's doing
great though, she's doing great.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Prayer for sure.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
You know how you being a mom?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
I love being a mom. That's like my favorite job.
My girls are so sweet and kind. They're six and two.
You know, my youngest daughter was a little bit you know,
I remembers had some challenges, yes, but now she's thriving.
She got the wobble walk going. She just celebrated her
second birthday on Valentine's Day. I love being a mom,
you know. I get to see these little minis men
(06:12):
running around and getting bigger personalities, and they just bring
so much joy. I'm telling you gonna have the worst
day ever when you get home and see your kids.
They just light up the room the best ever.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
So what can we expect this season, Miss peach.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Holder, You're gonna see everything. I think that we have
a great group of girls. This Isn't you know they've
kind of revamped the shows. We have a bunch of newbies,
we've got the vets were turning to. So you have Portia,
you have Cynthia and Drew, and then of course Cynthia
comes as a friend. Oh she's the sweetest person ever.
Then as far as new girls, we've got Kelly, Angela
(06:49):
and Britt and of course myself. So I think there's
somebody that you can connect with on this cast. No
matter who you are, no matter what your walk of
life is, somebody on this guest we'll speak to you
and you'll find something in common with them.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
All I know is the reunions, but the whole season
flowers and reunion here.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
That's the thing about reality TV.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
So you start out and you you may have some confrontation,
right then y'all apologize and get over it. Then they
see it on TV and they relive it and you
gotta apologize again.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
And then you have the then you.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Have the reunion.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
And now I got to say what I had to
say because I didn't saw how the editors edited add
the extra commentary.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
You said you and then you probably said something else
in your interview or confessional so it's like, oh, it's
like you just know if you make one mistake, you're
gonna pay for it for oh my god, five or
six different times. It's good though. I'm enjoying it. I'm
enjoying being in this space and just having the world
see me outside of the shadow of friends that I've
supported there, like Candy and Porsche. I love them and
(07:56):
they they're they're great, but there's so much more to
me than being a good friend.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Yeah, now never had Are we're going to see that
rollout on the show? Are we recording now?
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Well? I mean, are you going to sign the release.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Seconds that?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Boy? What's your wife gonna say?
Speaker 3 (08:18):
She?
Speaker 1 (08:19):
Oh, no, no, no, she my wife hates attention. My
wife is your.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Husband, exactly the opposite of the track, right.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Boy, she is your husband. She do not want me.
She don't even like taking pictures. I know, take pictures
for her phone.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
But it's like that's it. They're not going away.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
She don't like, she don't like none of that. It
was almost like because she's she from the East Side too,
She's from to cater and it was almost like my
boy Jay rocking there. It was almost like when we
met she was like, man, you're way too popular. You
got too much going on. I love you know, she
normal go to work.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
You need that.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
I definitely need that. I needed that.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Oh for sure, for sure, for sure we got exactly
what we need.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Schedules be crazy, though.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
But that's how it is. And then how many kids
you got?
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Now, well I have two with her, and then she
had one before me. The ones I had worked one
and seven?
Speaker 2 (09:10):
So don't they just take up your like they have schedules.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
That are like and they have schedules.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Yeah, you're like their assistant for sure.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
They they run show.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
People don't understand when your parents, like you just kind
of give up your whole life. You just now it's
all about them, Okay, swim class, ballets and gymnastics.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Yeah, even though tumbling and gymnastics is different.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
No, that's a whole different things. Yeah. So I mean
I love it though, you love being I.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Love being a dad. La got a baseball game, so
I gotta stop.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
No.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
I had the surgery. I don't even want no. No, no,
oh yeah, I I ain't gonna lie. That surgery was
like unmanly.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Really yeah, do taell? You were you down a long time?
Speaker 1 (09:58):
No? No, it was up. They just numb the area
and then you just sit there and then they and
then a girl walked in the door over.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Here, like, yo, no way outside. Yeah yeah, it looks
all right over here.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
Yo.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
It was a laser. It was the laser. I did
the laser. I was scared of the knife. So you know, dog,
you know what.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Did you have to like take?
Speaker 1 (10:26):
This is the crazy thing.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
It was.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
My wife had just had our one year old, so
it was maybe like two months after because I was like, yeah,
I'm done, I'm done because she would not go to sleep.
I'm talking about she was thirty minutes. She was thirty minutes.
Thirty minute napper.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
I'm sure.
Speaker 3 (10:45):
But you know what, I'm glad you did it, not her.
It's a lot less invasive for men.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
Women. It takes us down.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Your recovery was only three weeks.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
I man, please don't just go get yourself snipped. Ready,
y'all do that make us do all that?
Speaker 2 (10:59):
We don't want to do all that.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
But yeah, being a dad is being the dad is
super cool. I'm just happy that you found.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
A good Kenyon man to deal with all my stuff.
You know, I get upset about little stuff. Yeah, and
they kind of be a little stupid after because you'll
be all, like, I mean, I asked for extra pickles
on my sandwich and you didn't even He's.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Like, oh, sorry, baby, I didn't.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
I told the lady and barently she didn't get I'm like,
then I'll be like, oh damn, okay, you all right,
it's all right, everything's fine.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Nobody died.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
I just don't get some pickles out the fridge because
in the past you be with the wrong partner.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
You like, you ain't get the pickle onself.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Oh goddamn.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
You know it's like y'all both chestwolding each other.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Well this I do have a segment of the show.
Let's get into it right now. Since we on that
type of energy, it's called you got me fugged up? Now,
this is something that you can think. It's so now
it's a person, place, or a thing you think about.
Something that got to give me a thud. That could
be somebody call you FaceTime back to back to back,
so I'll call you three times, back to back to back.
So that's send you a voice note. You know what
I'm saying. What's something that got you Atlanta traffic? What's
(12:04):
something that got you fucked up, messed up. It just
makes you anytime you think about it, you get mad.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
I mean, there's a couple of them you got time.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
Well, first of all, don't you ever come for my
kids anytime anybody has ever came from my child children.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
I'm like, you got me fed up. That's one these comments,
y'all so nasty in the comments. What is wrong back
to you?
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Do you reply?
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Nah? I never reply. I just deleted block because they
got me up.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (12:41):
Sometimes because then sometimes I feel like if you give
that negative energy, you let them know you looking at you,
then they just keep going.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
You know.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
Then now you start getting more negative because people like,
well she responded to the negative.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
You can respondlier than that, a little bit with with
a nice little jab.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
I'll be having to tell my mom like, don't even respond,
I don't even get into it.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
Just see it along.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
Okay, that's let me think. What else got me fed up? Oh?
I'm with you a FaceTime don't face, don't face, I
don't even don't we don't talk like that.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
Well, you know the y ns be like in the
FaceTime it's untraceable.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
So oh no, that's a little FaceTime audio. We don't
do the same thing, then come, can we just FaceTime audio,
because like you want to see my face face Some
mornings I wake up looking like it's the role. Not
saying that that's a bad thing, but I just want
to look more like you know.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
So no FaceTime, FaceTime audio.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
Unless we only FaceTime my parents and my sisters or
my husband, my kids.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
You know, my best friends, me let mething. What else
got me fed up?
Speaker 1 (13:47):
I got something else for you.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
Oh this little limit. Y'all starting to put on condiments
and then charging them. We never did that in Buckhead.
Now all of a sudden, it's twenty five cent for
a extra pack of barber at Chip for l A
on West Paces.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
Y'all got me after.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
Hey, that roast the barbecue. Hey look, just say you'll
know it's not on the menu, the sauce packet called
roasted barbecue.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
I don't like that.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
What smokey put that on them?
Speaker 2 (14:14):
With people that drink that smoke.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Me not too much on itmoke it togither No, but
I like that roasted barbecue.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Don't do that. Don't do that.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
It's probably gonna end up eating you inside out.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
You'll find out.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Later well, now it's time for our segment of the show.
It's called do you like this when you shot out
your crush? We already know you happily married. So this
is the time where if you were to happen to
see something online and it be a clipper, uh you know,
you just look at that camera and tell them how
you feel about them. Lie on ball alert.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
So do I look at No.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
You don't look at me. You look at the camera.
Speaker 2 (14:50):
Look at the camera and tell tell your.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Man how you feel about him. It's called shot at
your crush.
Speaker 3 (14:54):
You just crushed in Hey baby, Hey baby, daddy, Hey
husb man you sexy.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
King and king you he's so damn fine, chocolate milk
dad head you so fine? Why let me tell them teeth.
He's so fraid.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Body like a god sitting up there looking like the king.
You are speaking with that good strong African accent that
just get.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
Me all hot and bothered me. Whoa you just turn
you on?
Speaker 3 (15:27):
Huh like? And then yeah, Gerald maynkiewonkee you so damn
you the one.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
You're the one that I really wanna thought that Yo,
Yeah they won Now he really is, like I said,
I told everybody David that it's you. It's just you
for me, like my mama said, you make my live.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
Equipment all right. Well, and closing, you got something called
you feel like.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
You got a little sad about it.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
You want no good your wife and I ain't no.
I talked about her. I talked what she'd be tired
to me. People be texting her talking about on the
radio again. Yeah, I'll be telling you how y'all been
together now eight years but five years married. Man. I love,
I love, I just love. I just love when she'd
be like, oh I don't look good at that girl, you.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Look amazed, it beautiful natural.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
I just I just walk with to him, smell it.
She hate when I skin.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
I just love skin and skin.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
That's the only person I want. That's when I think, people,
that's that's got me after just run back one more time.
Go ahead, y'all got me after up thinking I want
to go skin to skin with you, even even in
a photo. If you know I got a little bit
of my waist out, let's just stay right right. If
I got a little little side, I need you to
come put your hand and you know, and even when
(16:55):
you hug me, don't put your cheek to my face.
I'm going to skin skin with warrants at my husband,
not you. That's nasty, it's gross. I don't even like
when my leg touched the person beside me on an
airplane or something.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Don't touch me.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
Don't especially if you got on shorts and I got
on shorts. Now wearing your alove from your legs.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
No thanks. I don't like skinning.
Speaker 3 (17:17):
Skin like if I almost will pull my shirt down
all the way so I can we can take the
photo like that?
Speaker 2 (17:23):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (17:23):
Anyway, was in what was I was saying? We got
to say at show called the Mental Health check In.
When SMI is having a moment could be a bad day.
I don't know if you call them bad days, whatever
you call them. What do you do? Do you meditate?
Do you talk to the therapist?
Speaker 2 (17:35):
I am such a crier.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
You cried out, you feel better?
Speaker 2 (17:39):
I the ugliest cry face too.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
I honestly have started laughing at myself while crying, because
it's like, you ain't gotta look at it while you cry.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
I caught myself in my riber and I was like,
I was like, oh oh girl.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
But I sit in my car and I will turn
on some gospel music, okay, and play it and just
continue to play it and just until I come out
of that and get praise and worship in my car
and drive around twenty five a couple of times cry out,
and then I'll start like listening to something funny or
(18:14):
watching some memes that I got saved on my phone
until I put myself into a better space.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
And you know, it's always fake laughing.
Speaker 3 (18:20):
When you start fake laughing, you just you end up
laughing for real because you're like, I am a little
unwell right the fact that I'm in the car laughing
about nothing, and then you start laughing real and it's contagious.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
So you know, you find ways to put yourself out
of it.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
Okay. I appreciate that what you do, because maybe I
can learn from you. So I've been going to therapy.
I actually graduated from weekly till once a month now.
So I've been setting boundaries to play defense. I love
that to help me navigate through I don't know, man,
as soon as I hit forty, man, I just started
getting emotional. I don't understand it. I started thinking about
(18:57):
how precious life is. Now. You know, I pay attention
to my kids a lot more. When I was younger
and I was just navigating becoming Ferrari, I never paid
attention to feeling my feelings and stuff like that because
I was like, I got this money. I gave some money, yes,
and then I felt like when I got to the
finish line, I looked left and looked right, and I
was like, wait, my kids didn't care about that. My
(19:19):
significant other didn't care about that. My my siblings didn't care.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
They was just like yo.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
It was really little Riri. He was like, man, I
just want to hang.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
Out with you, dad. Yes, I don't care about it.
I kept saying, oh, you're missing on time.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
And I missed out on so much time with my family,
and I'm seeing like my older kids, my two older kids,
I missed out a lot they were with me. Because
Little raris my industry baby. Everybody saw him with me
a lot. He would come to work with me, especially
he was a boy too. I didn't really want my
daughter like around because I'd be doing like broadcast outside.
I love smoking and all that stuff. Little Ri was
(19:52):
like at my hip. I just didn't pay attention to
the time I missed so with my little kids, I'm
spending so much time with them even and my older kids.
It's just like, you know, when I have a moment,
I just breathed through it, and I just like, you know,
I kind of create boundaries to where you know, I'm
not blocking. I try not to block. I just deal
(20:15):
and I go through what we're dealing with, and I
know that we're going to come out on the other side.
Because usually when you get upset about something, you really know,
and like two days it ain't really wasn't knowing when
you were talking about that.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
You should have had that should have had you that
upset just got to take.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
Miss conversation and miscommunication that could have gotten squared away
had you communicated.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
On your communication is key. Sometimes you're so fast you
can communicate.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
But that's why I'm glad you said you just take
a beat, take a moment, walk away from it, assess
the situation, and they come back to it. Let me
tell you, the best thing that you've said is the
fact that you've reached out and got help Like that
is such a people that look like community.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
We think, oh man, you crazy, you tripping.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
I always tell people like, if you can go and
get maintenance on your hair, your nail, it's on your mind.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
Oh my goodness, crazy thing.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
We had all our episodes go viral, right, man, we
had ME and BT had two mental health therapists, lowest
views ever. But we're talking about they need to hear
things that people need to hear. And they were two
young brothers. They didn't look like your normal therapists. Lowest
views ever. I kept saying, that's that's what I'm talking about.
(21:31):
Wild posted the clips everything, but the men of that post.
You know, the young lady that couldn't fit in the list. No,
the minute we post the young lady, I couldn't fit
in the list.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
Oh yeah, she went viral, went.
Speaker 1 (21:42):
Thousand shares, thousand comments. I mean, but we talked about
mental health.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
I mean, I think we all should do better at that.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
I think the algorithm, friends, how do how do we?
How do we? How do we change the algorithm? So
you know, now you get me all emotional?
Speaker 2 (22:00):
See, but I love that you that. I love that
you can be in touch with your emotions.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
As soon as I hit forty, I don't understand.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
This is what happens. You value life. You look at
like different, Like you.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
Said, I value life, value it. Yeah, it's really your
twenties when you are yan.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
Yeah, and then at forty you see some of our
friends and peers passing away too.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
Yes, you know, yeah, all the things.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
And you're like, that's I don't want that to be
my story, or at least if my day's are number,
I want to live them this way like I want
to live them to my fullest.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
And you said it, Yeah, let's get it sighted again.
Let's talk about this song. I want to give you
a hot ye talk about this song. Never never had,
never had, never had your bag, you and your music bag,
my music bag, anything you want to do.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (22:49):
I've seen it. I've hosted the Hawks morning show, radio, television, yes,
hosting big events, yes, influencing.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
Yeah. And that's why this is not for TV.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
I mean it's on TV now, but this has been
my life for at least the past two decades. From
the East Side, from the east Side, south miss Southwest,
the cab.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
High School.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
Come on now, Yes, that's all the things. I'm Atlanta
Georgia Peach. I'm a peach, a true peach. You don't
get peach. You're a fuzzier than me. You know, where
is that?
Speaker 3 (23:26):
And I think I'm like now, that the cameras are there,
you can see that stuff. But I've always just been me.
Like you said, We've always had a good vibe. It's
always been a blessing to be a part of this
industry because you know they'll spit you, you up, switch
you out, you'll be done in two seconds.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
So you can get sucked in and turn into something
that ain't.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
And then you get stuck in a rut.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
We've seen it because we do.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
We see it all the time.
Speaker 1 (23:52):
You see your first hand to a little bit more,
especially when that screen, when that television screen.
Speaker 3 (23:56):
Was I'm just happy that at I'm in my season
and I'm reaping the harvest. I planted the good seeds
early on, and it's finally my time to show the world,
you know. And that's why before I'll be like, well,
I'm trying to sing now that my single is out,
It's like I am singing.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
No, you are singing? How I want to hear it
real quick?
Speaker 2 (24:17):
Yeah? Never had you never had a friend like me,
You never had a peach like me.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Well, BT's done being famous. I think he just pulled up.
He was being famous today.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
BT. Where are you at?
Speaker 1 (24:29):
He around here somewhere one time for you know, bt okay,
any any shout outs anything.
Speaker 3 (24:36):
Shout out to my amazing family, my husband, Gerald, my
daughters and Shiloh, my mom and dad's here and Glenn
to want to Glenda, my sisters. And then also shout
out to the cast of the Real Housewives of Atlanta.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
It's a great group of ladies. We made our debut.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
You in your bag, I'm in my bag.
Speaker 3 (24:58):
Y'all gotta follow me on all social media platforms at Shamia,
Morton's spoke Shame with the A on the end and
Morton like the Seakhouse and we'll rt o n and
also follow Shemiah Shares dot orger because I do a
lot of community stuff with my nonprofit from I have
a prom dress giveaway coming up where we're sending thirty
(25:19):
girls to prom. We're gonna dress them, put their hair done,
makeup done, Neil's done everything did have them.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
Together for prom.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
So if you feel like you're a loved one is
deserving or that, send me a reason why you know,
and I'll set your girl up right for prom.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
We got that.
Speaker 3 (25:35):
We do a breast cancer event and I do a
cheer in dance camp every summer so you can find
all that information on shamia shares dot org.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
If you do that, I will sidebar.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
Yeah you're here.
Speaker 1 (25:45):
We need to do a little radio station crash at
the radio station. Come crash that.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
So the cheer stuff for sure.
Speaker 3 (25:53):
But coming up, it's at the end of the month,
I'm doing that prom dress giveaway and I partner with
the Atlanta Hawks and it's gonna be a really big deal,
a lot of fun.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
So you know, we definitely can ll let me let me.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
Know less in the building, you know BT, you know
the vibes, Oh, one time, one hungry, a F five location,
you know what I'm saying. My favorite location Smyrna. I
got a new location coming up in Conyers, Georgia.
Speaker 2 (26:16):
You did
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