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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
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At all at all, So don't given them all back
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Speaker 1 (00:24):
Listening to.
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To I want to Joy.
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Joy you.
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Don't turn.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
You got to turn them out. Turn you probably got
to turn the mouth.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Turn out, turn the water the water jump look me.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Come come on, you'll think that.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
Uh huh, I sure will. A good morning everybody. You
are listening to the voice. Come on, digney now one
and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, today
is simple. I want to tell you. I want to
just talk to you about effort today. Just about effort.
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You know, it's it's it's it's a word that people
use to describe sometimes trying. But what I found out
about trying is trying is just a noble way of
saying you didn't get it done. I tried when and
then everybody go, well, he tried, that was the best.
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Well that's that's not.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Exactly true though, that that's that's not exactly true.
Speaker 5 (02:52):
You are and I want to talk to you about
that because I don't want you to be one of
the people who just tried.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
See trying. I mean, I gotta tell you to attempt something.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
You're gonna have to first try, but I want you
to change your mindset from trying to getting it done. See,
that's a big difference. I'm really more apt to listen
to the person that says to me, I'm gonna get
it done. I'm gonna try. What try does is it
allows you to fail. It's the person that has the
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mindset that I'm gonna get it done. It's the person
who changes the complexion of things. I'm gonna get it done.
It's very different than I'm gonna try.
Speaker 6 (03:39):
You know.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
Look, man, I know this sounds a little harsh, but
you gotta stop feeding yourself these little old wise sayings
that ain't it was a valiant tried. Hey man, you
talk to anybody that took second place in the Super
Bowl and see how they feel about their valiant try.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
The only way.
Speaker 5 (04:01):
To gain God's real blessings is you have to try something.
Steve Backpeddling, now, listen to me close. You have to
put forth an effort to allow God to put his
finger on something to bless on your behalf. You must
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start to attempt now in saying getting it done and
I'm gonna try.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
That's a difference of two different faiths. To me, I'm
just talking about me.
Speaker 5 (04:37):
Now. You may be different, so I can't say this
about you, but I can say this about me. If
I say I'm gonna get it done, I have a
lot of faith in it. I am going to get
it done because I just don't see failure as an option.
A lot of times now, if somebody says to me,
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like the Olympic team invited me out to curl one day,
which is throw these stones on the ice. If you're
not familiar with this very simple thing.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
And so I said, man, I'd like to give that
a try.
Speaker 5 (05:15):
I went in full well knowing I may not come
away from this little curling lesson as a person.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Who could make the Olympic team. I just wanted to
try it because I thought it looked cool, and.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
I always wanted to get it done. When I failed twice,
I threw a stone completely into the other lane, I
lost that little ice shoe. It shot out under me.
But you know what, I kept trying though. I kept
trying until I got four of them stones in that
circle right where I aim. But now had I given
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up after I failed. After I threw that stone in
the other lane, after I shot my shoe down all
the way to bottom side, the little ice shoe they
give you. I never did it, but because I was trying.
Something got me together a little bit because of my effort,
and it caused me not to fall the next time,
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not to throw it in the other lane, not to
shoot my shoe to the back of the wall. All
of a sudden, my trying became something. Now had I
stayed out there and it wasn't so cold, and I
went back week after week after week after week, I
promise you I could get it done. I could at
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least know how to compete in a game of curling.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Might not be the best.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
I might not win the championship, but I could have
got it done to the point where I could have
competed in a game of curling. So sometimes if you're
scared to say I'm gonna get it done, just go
out there and get started. You know, learn from every
attempt that you make. See, don't quit writing yourself off
as a failure every time something don't go right. And
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when I fail on that ice, I could have said, man,
I can't curl, but hold up, Man, I'm watching four
other women.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
Out here curl.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
Four of the dudes out here curling, little kids out
here curling. Hold up, Pardner. You know, man, So I
learned when I threw that stone on the other ice,
when I failed, when when my shoe shot off, I
learned from every attempt a little bit more about it.
And then I said to myself one point in time, man,
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I'm gonna get this stone in that circle. I'm gonna
get this stone in this circle. And guess what I
got it done. Now what you're saying to me, Steve,
I'm saying to you that you gotta get started. That
you got to put forth an effort. Give God something
to bless Oh God, bless me, Oh God, bless me.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Bless you?
Speaker 6 (07:48):
What?
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Bless you?
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Where?
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Bless you?
Speaker 6 (07:51):
How?
Speaker 5 (07:53):
Stop basing your results on what you're thinking. You gotta
think higher. You get God in your life. Man, He
allows you to think, KaiA, bigger, better more. I'm sitting
up in my debt. I came up with a plan
to get out of debt in five years. I came
up with this plan right, I was sitting up and
I was tripping on it. Now, I said, wait a minute, man,
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hold on, this is what I came up with. I said,
God created heaven and earth, all of it, the mountains,
the sky, the valleys, the oceans, trees, the birds, the
Indian Ocean, all of it, made all of it in
six days, and then he rested on the seven. So
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why am I taking to God the five year plan?
If he can create heaven and earth in six days,
why am I walking in there talking about help me
in five years? How is it gonna take God five
years to getting me out of debt?
Speaker 2 (08:57):
And he made heaven and Earth in six days? A math? Hell, Man,
I ain't that big. You ain't that big. You ain't
in that much trouble. I ain't in that much trouble.
Speaker 5 (09:08):
See, God got a way of showing you some things, man,
but it's gonna take some faith, and faith gonna take
some effort on your part. Man, get out and do something. Man,
you God will bless you a little bit and he
give you a little bit more courage. And then all
them attempts you making is gonna and all this so
I'll try. You know what that turned into. I'm gonna
get it done. And at the end of the day,
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that's what you have to do, because trying to pay
your rent and not paying your rent is two different things.
You could you can try to play your pay your rent,
or you can get it done. Now, how long you
think you gonna stay in that house trying? You got
to go with the mindset of getting it done. And
if you can put some stuff out there and give
God a chance to put his finger on and bless
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it for you the most stuff he can do for you,
quit looking around at what everybody.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Else got and gonna get some of it for yourself.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Okay, all right, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Ladies and gentlemen again.
Speaker 5 (10:07):
Today we have been provided blessed with grace, favorite with
a new opportunity. Today you have an opportunity to make
a set of brand new choices. Today you can decide
to be grateful. You can decide to do the right
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thing or the wrong. Today. You get to pick if
you are going to improve yourself or if you are
going to remain the same. You can choose today to
be proactive or stagnant. You get to make the choice.
But do you understand how valuable of an opportunity you've
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been given to do? Either one of those, I choose
the positive and the one that's more with thinking. That's
how I choose to live my life. I'm gonna make
those choices today. I'm gonna ask God to help order
my steps so I don't stumble, and if I do stumble,
hold me. But also I'm just gonna concern myself with today,
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taking tomorrow off the plate, because there is nothing you
can do today about tomorrow. Nothing you could wake up
tomorrow and it go completely different from everything you've planned.
So give us this day our daily bread. That's a
very important line in that prayer. Steve har Marty Show,
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Chlon Strawberry Collin for rerel Mississippi, Monica Jr.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
And the legend that is nephew Tommy Junior. What's going
on with you?
Speaker 7 (11:49):
Yeah, let me ask you a question. Do you remember
where you were when you decided to stop running from God?
Do you remember how you how that went?
Speaker 6 (11:57):
Well?
Speaker 5 (11:57):
I've had a couple of those because I read more
than once. The first time I was sixteen seventeen. I
got saved when I was about sixteen seventeen. Then I
went to college. It was in a foot race the
other way, a track meet to Hell. I ran lead
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off and anchor.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Yeah, yeah, they handed to stick to myself.
Speaker 5 (12:31):
That second leg I got when I got it from
myself from the lead off that second leg.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Who if they had.
Speaker 5 (12:38):
If they had video cameras back then, you just saw
something world record. Then I got married and I tried
to straighten up a little bit, and so I slowed down.
So I gave up relay racing and just turned into
a cross country runner.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
Oh long long, yeah, long distance. I'll try to do
it like that.
Speaker 5 (13:04):
And that didn't work out for me too well either,
and then I lost everything and became homeless and bought
the relay team back out of retirement.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
Retirement.
Speaker 5 (13:17):
Oh, I was doing pretty good. And then I got remarried,
and then I fell off the wagon. Right then I
became a full blown, recovering alcoholic. At that point, I
didn't know what was going on. I ain't even dreamed.
That's what made that That second man was.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Just coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour, Junior.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Yeah, well here.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
As he runs that prank back right after this. You're listening.
Speaker 8 (13:47):
Morning show.
Speaker 2 (13:52):
My name is.
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Tony and my daughter Bailey is seven years old. We
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the news, my first mind was WHI else. I remember
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to God and Saint Jude and all the angels that
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Speaker 1 (14:23):
It is time now to run that prank back with
the nephew.
Speaker 10 (14:26):
What you got for his new Can you bring me
some paper? I'm at a house, I'm visiting. Nobody's at
this house with me, So I called the neighbor down
the street to see if he can bring me some paper.
I mean, it's the neighborly thing to do. Don't you
think you know it wouldn't be a problem bringing me
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some paper. So cat dog, let's run this thing. Can
you bring me some paper?
Speaker 11 (14:53):
Hello?
Speaker 4 (14:53):
Hello, I'm trying to Charles. I'm looking for Charles.
Speaker 11 (14:57):
Yeah, this child this How can I help you?
Speaker 4 (15:01):
Hey, listen, I'm you by singing with I'm sorry, it's
gotty man, I'm house sitting for Rita.
Speaker 11 (15:10):
See y'all okay, okay, yeah, yeah, she told me she
was going out of town. What can I do for you?
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Brother?
Speaker 4 (15:15):
How far y'all down the way? Man, y'all, I'm in
the house file houses.
Speaker 11 (15:18):
Yeah, I think let's see. Yeah we four houses down.
Speaker 4 (15:22):
Okay. Now, she loved me a number, man, love me,
y'all know me? And then she loved Miss Dars. No,
I try to call Miss Darts, but then nobody after
the phone.
Speaker 11 (15:31):
Yeah, you know, I'm in church around this time. Ria
said she was gonna be gone for a minute.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
So you say you dowing there right right right? And
she told me if I got an emergency anything, that
I could reach out to y'all and call y'all right,
right right, okay? Are you are you busy right now? Man?
Speaker 6 (15:46):
Well?
Speaker 11 (15:46):
Actually, I'm in the middle of cooking my wife some
dinner and uh got some meat on the grill.
Speaker 4 (15:51):
But other than that, you know, okay, I mean you
you are you able to help me out with something
right quick? Or you got you got time for that?
Speaker 6 (15:59):
Well?
Speaker 11 (15:59):
Like I said, I'm in the middle of cooking. If
there's something I can help you with, I you know,
I don't mind coming down there and showing you doing
whatever it is that we need to do.
Speaker 4 (16:08):
Okay, Charlie, would you outen to have any paper? Man?
Speaker 11 (16:11):
Any paper?
Speaker 6 (16:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 11 (16:14):
I think I got some newspaper. You're trying.
Speaker 4 (16:17):
No no, no, no, no, no, no, no news.
Speaker 6 (16:19):
I mean some paper.
Speaker 4 (16:19):
You have some paper?
Speaker 11 (16:21):
What notebook paper?
Speaker 6 (16:23):
No?
Speaker 4 (16:23):
See man, listen, Chylie, Like I said, my name's gootted. Man,
I know you don't know me. I didn't got myself
in this situation here down here read the house man,
and I didn't. Man, I'm in a situation I actually
and in the bathroom. Man, it ain't no paper in here.
Speaker 6 (16:41):
Dog.
Speaker 11 (16:42):
So you're saying you want me to bring you.
Speaker 4 (16:45):
Some toilet paper, I mean, if you don't mind. I'm
sitting there. My legs ain't got none of my I
can't feel my my, my whole little body man, from
butt down. I can't feel nothing, man, my feet, everything
that went to sleep on me.
Speaker 11 (16:57):
Hold up, babe, dude down here at rid the house
saying he wants me to bring his taper because he
didn't got numb sitting on a TuS man. Look at it, bruh.
I'm in the middle of cooking. I wish I could
help you, but you know, I mean.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
Tell you ain't about four hours a doctor. You just
run down here right quickly. I'm in the back door open.
Speaker 11 (17:15):
I have to say. Man, I understand all that you're saying,
but like I said, I'm in the middle of cooking
for my wife. We having a little special occasion because
our kids and stuff gone, and I can't leave her
like that just to come bring you know, taper. Now,
what I can tell you to do is if Rita
got one of them toils or something that.
Speaker 4 (17:32):
Man, I'm not using nobody tie like. That's disrespectful.
Speaker 11 (17:35):
Man. Okay, hey, but lord your voice? Man, you calling
me to help you, and you acting like I caused
you to not have no guy?
Speaker 4 (17:43):
You case the handsati the bachelor. I got all I'm
asking for. Just ain't gonna take no more but two
three minutes. Run down here right quick and bring the
paper man and then you get on back to your dinner.
Speaker 11 (17:53):
Well, what you was kind of like what you need
to do?
Speaker 6 (17:55):
Brother?
Speaker 11 (17:56):
You said you had emergency. I thought the house or
the dog that got out of Uh you lock yourself
out the house. But I'm not gonna come down there.
And bring you no papers, because that doesn't sound like emergency.
That sounds like some personal And furthermore, you're in the
bathroom just jump shot your cool getting a shot on white.
Speaker 4 (18:13):
I'm not fein the dog. That's like I said, I'm
numb right now, man, I need some help.
Speaker 6 (18:17):
It's on.
Speaker 11 (18:17):
So you want me to come down there and bring
you some toilet papers and pick your number? You can't
get up out the tilet if I want to help
you things this day.
Speaker 4 (18:26):
That's why I'm trying to tell you I'm in an emerging.
Speaker 11 (18:28):
See man, Okay, Well that, like I said, Man, that
don't sound like emergency. It seems like a little quick fix.
Get your drawings and white your drawings. So the way go,
get you some molds. I mean, I'm not send to
walk four houses down there to bring you some toilet papers.
Your legs, n h. How you gonna get up and
open the door.
Speaker 4 (18:47):
The back door is open. All you gotta do is
come in here and reaching him and pass me roll
of paper. Man, That's all I'm asking you to do,
mister Charlotte.
Speaker 11 (18:53):
I understand that, but I'm not gonna come down there
and bring you no table. I'm not gonna bring you
bring me.
Speaker 4 (18:59):
Some paper down here?
Speaker 11 (19:00):
Man told you?
Speaker 4 (19:01):
Man, you no man to say?
Speaker 11 (19:03):
Man, who the hell you think you holling at?
Speaker 4 (19:05):
You need me? I don't need you or want you
to do something. Man. You see, I'm sitting in a
situation noreda left y'all number that y'all will help me
while I'm down there house watching. Man.
Speaker 11 (19:13):
Just here's crazy, baby. Man, what whyn't you you gonna
call me asking me to bring you some newspapers? I
told you that I was in the middle of fixing
me and my wife from dinner, and you come calling
me talking about some paper.
Speaker 4 (19:26):
Man.
Speaker 11 (19:26):
I don't want to hear no, by no doubt, and
I ain't coming down there to bring you no paper.
Speaker 4 (19:31):
Man. Hello, Charlie, you're gonna bring this paper man?
Speaker 11 (19:37):
Man? Look like I told you before, I ask him
to bring you no paper down there. We don't wape
no on this street.
Speaker 4 (19:43):
Hold old man, I can't just you can't just leave
me here.
Speaker 11 (19:45):
And I'm Numb'm like this, bounce to come bring no
brown man, no toilet papers because he is responsible when
he going into a restroom. That sound like a personal problem.
You you too wrong for that.
Speaker 4 (19:55):
Just situation though this is an emergency. Man.
Speaker 11 (19:58):
Man, that don't sound in no penc. That sounds like
a personal problem that you got going on.
Speaker 4 (20:03):
I'm gonna get off of here, man, you know to
be off with I don't give about you being man
mat a fact.
Speaker 11 (20:10):
Soon as you get your out of there, you so, man,
you come on down here.
Speaker 4 (20:14):
I'm coming down there.
Speaker 11 (20:15):
By the trick.
Speaker 4 (20:16):
I'm coming down there the way. I am just like
this hell and I'm gonna whoop for not helping me
while I'm in a situation.
Speaker 11 (20:22):
Will bring your tomb. I got one more thing I
need to say.
Speaker 4 (20:25):
To you that I'm gonna do, is.
Speaker 11 (20:27):
You're listening ringio tongue. I got some snake skin shoes
that fit right up, clean up. Only.
Speaker 4 (20:32):
I got one more thing and you listening?
Speaker 6 (20:35):
Man?
Speaker 11 (20:35):
What man like I said?
Speaker 6 (20:36):
What what you got to say?
Speaker 4 (20:37):
Man, this is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
You just got pranked by your neighbor readers.
Speaker 11 (20:45):
Anxious damn cat mother from the radio stations. This timing
from the Steve Harvey Morning So.
Speaker 4 (20:55):
I'm gonna whoop.
Speaker 11 (20:55):
Reader, got you called? Now? Man? You had me house,
gonna come down there, man and boy, you better be
glad I'm eating. I can't believe it.
Speaker 4 (21:08):
Hey man, I gotta ask you man, one more thing.
What is what is the baddest I'm talking about the
baddest radio show in the land, The Steve Harvey Show.
Speaker 11 (21:16):
Y'all playing practical joke sold folks many.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
Let me back and I thank you.
Speaker 8 (21:28):
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We'll talk about all of these stories at the top
of the hour, but right now it is time to
ask the colo.
Speaker 1 (22:39):
This is from Quinn and Minneapolis.
Speaker 8 (22:43):
Quinn writes, my husband takes my cell phone at times
if he's out, running out to get coffee or anywhere quick.
I have nothing to hide, but it's annoying that he
grabs my phone. That's over sharing and he needs to
take his own phone. Am I overreacting on it?
Speaker 5 (23:00):
I don't think you are. I don't think you are.
I don't understand why. Well, I'm taking your phone. You
ain't got none of my contacts in there. I don't
want to talk to none of your friends.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
I just don't. I don't know. I don't know what
that is. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (23:21):
You know it called itself taking the phone. You ain't
talking nobody while I'm gone. It could be that insecurity
you could be checking your phones whatever. But no, you're
not overreacting. It's your phone to take your phone. Yeah,
even if you're married, you don't belong to somebody just well,
I can't say that. Let me put to you this way,
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just because you're married, you still have to have some
things that are yours. You can't give up your individuality completely, right,
you know, a woman and a man. You deserve your
own phone, your own bank account. Every married person should
have their own own bank account. You got to have
something of yours that you can control. You can't just
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give yourself over to somebody else to let them do
what they want to do.
Speaker 2 (24:07):
No, who do that?
Speaker 1 (24:08):
That ain't fun at all?
Speaker 2 (24:11):
All right?
Speaker 1 (24:12):
Thank you, Philo? What's wrong?
Speaker 2 (24:13):
Nobody sent me into sumright? The left the house with
the phone. What that couldn't happen to you if you
had got to run that car off the road. All right?
Speaker 1 (24:31):
Moving on to Brittany and Norcross.
Speaker 8 (24:33):
Brittany writes, my dad was not in my life until
I got married and had a child.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
Now he's the best grandfather ever.
Speaker 8 (24:41):
He was even there for my son's birth, and I
got jealous and resentful because of that.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
I'm almost thirty. So should I tell my dad or
let go of the past.
Speaker 5 (24:51):
Well, I'm not a psychologist or psychiatrist, but let me
just say this.
Speaker 2 (24:56):
You can ruin your future dwelling on your past. You
can do that. I know a lot of people who
have done it.
Speaker 11 (25:05):
Now.
Speaker 5 (25:05):
I know you might have some daddy issues because you
didn't have a father. That's very very reasonable, that's very
doable in you, and you might have to discuss that
with him. But he's grown into a new person. People
have a right to change. You're in his life now.
He's a great grandfather.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (25:26):
He said, Man, I messed up on trying to get
it right. I don't think you're looking at that part.
You're only looking at the part of what he didn't
do for you. You're not looking at what he's doing
for you now and what he's providing for the grandchild.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
So you can go.
Speaker 5 (25:39):
I mean, you might as well have a talk with
him and just say, hey, look I felt resentful forgive me,
I've been thinking these ways. I'm sorry. I was upset
with you because you weren't there for me. Now you're
there all the time, and now I don't know why
you mad because he there now though. But people have
to deal with issues they way. You might have to
bring it up and say something to him about it,
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or get counseling, which I don't you know. I'm not
a counsel type person, but a lot of people are.
So you might have to get therapy to talk to
the issues about it because him not being there has
created something for sure.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
Absolutely. Yeah, okay, all right, Celo, thank you for that one.
Speaker 8 (26:19):
Asia in Baltimore says, my boyfriend will take my car
to the car wash, but he will not get the
inside cleaned and vacuumed.
Speaker 1 (26:27):
I get tired.
Speaker 8 (26:28):
I got tired of it, so I hired the young
man across the street to vacuum and wash my windows
to get back at him.
Speaker 6 (26:33):
It worked.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
Am I petty for doing it?
Speaker 2 (26:37):
Yeah? You said, to get back at him and it worked? Yeah, yeah,
am I petty? Yeah? Yeah you petty? The next question,
all right, the last one, and you know you petty?
Speaker 1 (26:48):
You said, yeah, yeah yeah. Eric and Dothan writes that
my wife talks in her sleep.
Speaker 5 (26:56):
Jothan, Alabama, two thirty one, Baby day in Express, go ahead.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
Share my wife.
Speaker 5 (27:04):
With lounge Parrot Parrot lounge to be outside of holiday
in Express. On two thirty one.
Speaker 8 (27:11):
At Doping okay uh, anyway, Eric writes that my wife
talks in her sleep, and last night she said, hey, Steve,
I assumed it was Steve Harvey because we watched Family
Feud before bed. Survey says, my wife is dreaming about you, Steve.
Is it normal to dream or fantasize about a phil.
Speaker 5 (27:33):
Absolutely not, absolutely not, absolutely not. And she didn't say
Steve Harvey, So you know, it could be Steve Wilco.
He got a show, used to be Jerry Spranger's bodyguard.
Speaker 1 (27:48):
You yeah, before bed?
Speaker 2 (27:55):
Yeah, it could be here, Yeah, it's you. It could be.
There's a lot of Steve's. I know, you could just
be one of them.
Speaker 5 (28:02):
You could be dreaming about Steve Stout and then that'll
be a problem because he ain't that family, but he
lived in New York.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
And then you know it's either you or Stephen Smith.
It's one of the two. But would oh, there you go,
oh Stephen a right here? She would say, though, no,
she wouldn't. There's Steve. They don't they cool?
Speaker 6 (28:26):
You know?
Speaker 12 (28:26):
So I don't.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
I'm not in her dreams.
Speaker 13 (28:28):
Dog, No.
Speaker 1 (28:31):
I ain't.
Speaker 2 (28:31):
I ain't finna be that, No, no, sir.
Speaker 6 (28:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:41):
All the people shout out to Monica Barnes, who was
at the.
Speaker 5 (28:47):
Golf tournament and uh who has been on some type
of program and look absolutely amazing. Yesterday shout out to
Monica Bard straight out of Mississippi on some type of
program them and they was on hall at the golf
Turn to yesterday.
Speaker 6 (29:05):
The hall.
Speaker 2 (29:07):
Yeah, she was out there. She was out there winning
Shirley in college.
Speaker 1 (29:12):
Get your dub girl, win win.
Speaker 2 (29:15):
She looks great.
Speaker 1 (29:16):
And that's all her own hair, thank you, Yes, beauty, Paul.
Speaker 2 (29:20):
And I told them that too. I said, she's single
and that's her hair.
Speaker 3 (29:26):
That's all.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
That's her hair.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
If she bought it is her hair.
Speaker 5 (29:31):
No, No, she ain't bought that though. That ain't come
out the bag, that comes straight out the roots.
Speaker 8 (29:40):
Sorry, So so you're you're convinced that it wasn't you.
She was dreaming about we're all in disagreement.
Speaker 2 (29:47):
That's way too many steeves.
Speaker 8 (29:50):
Yeah, but they watched Family Feud right before bed. Okay,
so it stands to reason that.
Speaker 2 (29:57):
They don't stand what you stand to reason me that.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
Is you because they watched the show.
Speaker 2 (30:03):
Stand to.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
It's you could have been on the show.
Speaker 6 (30:12):
She was.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
She was on her phone. She was on her phone.
She could have been talking about Steve.
Speaker 8 (30:17):
Jobs, everybody in Family, Seeds and Taste. Yeah, coming up,
at the top of the hour. We'll have some entertainment
news for you right after this taste.
Speaker 1 (30:32):
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 8 (30:39):
In trending national news, according to CNN and ABC News,
protests and folding nationwide against President Donald Trump's immigration agenda
come as ice immigration and customs enforcement races. Uh, they're
racing to meet White House arrest quotas. La Mayor Karen
Vass has announced an eight pm curfew due to the
protests and lou President Trump and his administration officials said
(31:03):
the use of the military in response to protests against
his immigration crackdown may not be limited to just Los Angeles,
saying it could be the first of quote many, and
that protesters could be met with equal or greater force.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
In addition, the.
Speaker 8 (31:18):
President said that protesters who assembled during the Army's two
hundred and fiftieth Birthday military parade in Washington would be
met with very big force, very big force. So he's
already threatening getting ready for that. That's happening this weekend, Yeah,
Saturday in Washington.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
Yeah. So yeah, it's a lot.
Speaker 5 (31:38):
Yeah, you have to avoid that at all because that's
you can't disrupt, you know, veterans and military and stuff
that I just stay away from that one, y'all because
he already said you'll be met with that. They gonna
take that personally, right, I'm okay with peaceful protests. It's
(31:58):
a way to express how you are. I think what
happening with this administration is they now seem to have
this quotea of the feel and now they're not filling
it with criminals and uh, drug dealers and people who
have warrants. They just feeling it. They're just breaking up
families and stuff now. And that's kind of kind of
(32:22):
what the problem is that they're having. I mean, when
you go to a school and take a child out
of school. They arrested this one girl and it was heartbreaking.
She said, I have finals. Can I go back to school?
I have my finals. It's sent it to a center
and everything that's not right, it's not right with it.
Speaker 1 (32:46):
He didn't call the military and handle all this.
Speaker 2 (32:52):
Yeah, he's all of them, he's his partner.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
There, right exactly. So Yeah, very hypocritical.
Speaker 5 (33:03):
Yeah, And January sixth, it was one of the craziest
things I've ever seen perpetrated in this country. Yes, of
late against the government and all that window breaking and
wall climbing, brall daylight, nothing any pardoning these people, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (33:22):
Right, had them been black people.
Speaker 1 (33:25):
Please, Lord Jesus Mercy or brown people, yeah, you know.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
How many people would have got shot off that wall man?
Speaker 6 (33:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (33:34):
Yeah, big four as he says, very big force.
Speaker 14 (33:38):
Yeah yeah, all right, moving on, he needs a vocabulary,
I know that he got. We're gonna switch gears here.
Speaker 8 (33:50):
Steve and Entertainment News, a leader of an Arian Brotherhood
prison gang, claimed that federal authorities offered him freedom to
spend his last days outside of prison and if he
killed r Kelly, he allegedly told the authorities he was
willing to Yeah, he allegedly told the authorities he was
willing to commit the murder, but instead told r Kelly
(34:10):
about the plot and warmed him about the danger to
his life. R Kelly's attorney said, quote R Kelly's life
is now threatened because of his willingness to fight and
to expose a very kind of corruption that President Trump
has been fighting and standing up to since the day
he took that office. We will ask the President for
help end quote. R Kelly is currently, of course, incarcerated
(34:32):
due to a thirty year sentence in New York City
after he was found guilty of nine counts of racketeering
and sex trafficking back in twenty twenty two, and he
faces up to twenty years from being found guilty to
criminal sexual charges in Chicago.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
So they're appealing now to President Trump to release r.
Speaker 2 (34:51):
Kelly.
Speaker 15 (34:51):
Basically, Oh no, he's not getting up of that.
Speaker 2 (34:57):
Care who told you.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
This is horrible?
Speaker 6 (35:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (35:03):
I don't put nothing. I don't put nothing past this
administration nothing.
Speaker 1 (35:10):
Oh so yeah, yeah, you never know what you're saying, Steve.
Speaker 2 (35:15):
All of this is on the table. And you know what, man,
we could we can be angry if we want to.
Speaker 5 (35:21):
But I tell people all the time, slow it down
for yourself, man, stop stretching yourself out. Do you know
we as Americans, we're not allowed to vote on foreign policy?
What's happening in Israel, what's happening with Ukraine?
Speaker 2 (35:35):
How we gonna have? We don't get to vote on
foreign policy.
Speaker 12 (35:39):
All all that?
Speaker 5 (35:40):
And this is what he's doing with Ice. That's a
foreign policy he's creating. Yeah, he's putting that on the
foreign policy. He just we don't get to vote in that.
So y'all can relax you know, and I know it's
people say it's easy for you to say relaxed, Eve.
Now what I mean by that is take that off
your plate of worry. Yep, because this guy is doing
(36:03):
what he wants to do, and he has the entire
Republican Party by the throat and under his knee, and
he and they are intimidated by him, and they can
and you know a few of them came, oh, we're
not going to pass this great bill. Now I have
some problems with it.
Speaker 2 (36:24):
It passed.
Speaker 5 (36:26):
They all say this is not good. If I could
it passed. Vibe, we're gonna do it. He gonna do
what he want to do anyway, because they scared of him.
Speaker 1 (36:37):
He told people what he was going to do.
Speaker 8 (36:39):
Yeah, all absolutely, but they didn't believe him. They didn't
believe him. And that's why he's president.
Speaker 2 (36:48):
They believed that's what they wanted.
Speaker 1 (36:51):
Well, yeah, a lot of people didn't though.
Speaker 8 (36:53):
I thought they didn't believe that he really was going
to do all these terrible things he said he was
going to do.
Speaker 1 (36:59):
They just liked him and wanted him to win, so
they voted. Who told you, Yes, he who they are?
Believe them, believe them and they cheated. Uh all right, right,
all right.
Speaker 8 (37:12):
Guys, coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, we'll
have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.
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All right, Steve Harvey, Nation, listen up.
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Speaker 8 (41:04):
All right, guys, thank you so much. Coming up at
thirty four minutes after the hour, here's a question. Should
a daughter spend Father's Day with her husband or her father?
We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Steve
Harvey Morning Show. Here's a question that we saw online.
(41:25):
Should a daughter spend Father's Day with her husband or
her father? That is a question, and older dad wrote
in and said, it's been a long time since I've
seen my daughter on Father's Day. Her husband says she
needs to spend Father's Day with him, the father of
her children. My daughter told her husband you are not
my daddy? Why is my son in law Tripp? Then okay,
(41:48):
all right, we've had this situation on Mother's Day. Yeah,
so what you say your thoughts, Steve Tommy Junior.
Speaker 2 (41:59):
Don't say.
Speaker 10 (41:59):
You know, if you could split the day, it would
be probably ideal to please everybody. But I'm going to
my parent first. My dad, uh father'd my daddy. I
don't really have to see my kids on Father's Day.
Speaker 2 (42:14):
I really don't. I see them every day.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
So yeah, okay, so you wouldn't mind if your daughter
was married.
Speaker 16 (42:28):
You wouldn't mind her going to be with her husband
if they had kids, versus coming to see you.
Speaker 2 (42:34):
Her husband ain't her dad?
Speaker 1 (42:39):
Yeah okay, okay, yeah you getting mad to.
Speaker 2 (42:43):
Let me back husband ain't her dad. I'm sorry I
was still agree.
Speaker 5 (42:48):
But that's the problem with the letter, because the husband,
who is the father of their children is mad at
her for wanting to go spend it with her daddy.
Speaker 2 (42:58):
Put your selfish of him.
Speaker 5 (43:00):
Yes, yes, it is because bruh, if you the father
didn't spend it, spend the time with your kids, you know,
if you're gonna have that argument and let her go
see her daddy. You don't knock him out of his honor,
so you can just have an honor yourself. That's that's ridiculous.
You hang with your kids and let her go see
(43:21):
her daddy.
Speaker 8 (43:22):
But it sounds like in this situation though, someone's gonna
be mad, either the husband or the dad.
Speaker 5 (43:28):
Come on, man, you got a man up on this one.
Let her go see her daddy. You don't know how
many more of them she got right with her? Can't
they just being selfish? And then considerate he is a father.
If it wasn't for this man, you don't even had
his wife. Though we'll still be found in the evenings.
He ain't gonna be gon on that long she lived
(43:49):
with you?
Speaker 2 (43:49):
Is one day? Listen to me, Father's Day at that
bigger deal? No way, let's stop.
Speaker 12 (43:54):
It is.
Speaker 5 (43:55):
Yes, No, it ain't a little ragged holiday, y'all. Just
a matter of fact. I'm getting no fall canceling. Why
he didn't go?
Speaker 2 (44:08):
He didn't? He didn't? Yeah, yeah, tommy, why wait?
Speaker 6 (44:17):
Man?
Speaker 1 (44:17):
Let me ask you.
Speaker 16 (44:18):
This Father's Day is a big deal. We will celebrate
you a wonderful dad. You're wonder got on a big
deal Tommy and everything? What do you want for Father's Day?
Speaker 6 (44:31):
No?
Speaker 7 (44:32):
Say nothing about r I've just been doing this a
bout three years. I don't I have not seen nothing.
So I see what Steve saying.
Speaker 15 (44:39):
Ain't you saying?
Speaker 1 (44:41):
You don't get gifts? You don't get?
Speaker 2 (44:43):
Give what I got?
Speaker 15 (44:47):
Step in front of mine? What are you talking about?
Step Daddy, they fathers? I got step in here.
Speaker 6 (44:55):
This is not.
Speaker 1 (45:03):
But all right, okay.
Speaker 2 (45:06):
You all I get is what are you expecting? I
just get the same thing I get?
Speaker 1 (45:11):
What are you expecting?
Speaker 2 (45:12):
What would you like?
Speaker 1 (45:13):
Nothing?
Speaker 2 (45:14):
I'm not gonna get nothing. You know why? We don't
know what to get you? You got everything? That's the
same whine ask you every year.
Speaker 8 (45:23):
Give them some suggestions. You do have everything. Sometimes people
do struggle getting you stuff.
Speaker 2 (45:30):
My oldest boy gave me a card in Spain's on
the dollar store. What kind of I can't read.
Speaker 1 (45:45):
Dollar at least?
Speaker 6 (45:53):
Man?
Speaker 1 (45:53):
Come on, Dave, you can't get mad mad.
Speaker 2 (46:02):
Merry Christmas. I don't know what the hell? Hey man,
if it wanted from my wife buying me some I
wouldn't get noney.
Speaker 8 (46:08):
Okay, we gotta do better, all right, coming up next,
it is the nephew with today's prank phone call.
Speaker 1 (46:13):
Right after this polease, you're listening to the Steve Harvey
Morning Show.
Speaker 8 (46:23):
Coming up at the top of the hour, right about
four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today, and
the subject is something seems fishy here. We'll get into
that find out what that's all about in just a
few because right now the nephew is here with today's
prank phone call.
Speaker 1 (46:40):
Nephew, what's on the menu.
Speaker 10 (46:43):
What's on the menu, Shirley. The menu this morning is
three minute remarks. You know, we have these funerals, you know,
and we lose our loved ones. You know, people want
to get up and say something, They want to get
up in there and express themselves about how they felt
about the person that passed away, and we all say
three minutes.
Speaker 2 (47:01):
And it's just I don't know, it's just for some
reason we other people don't know what three minutes are.
We either we don't know what it is or we
don't respect what it is.
Speaker 10 (47:11):
So we you know this right here, this is three
minute remarks right here, three minute remarks, cat dog, if you.
Speaker 6 (47:18):
Would well, yes, I'm trying to reach your brother Keith please.
Speaker 12 (47:25):
Yeah, this is Keith Keith.
Speaker 6 (47:27):
How you doing? This is Lawrence overhead your funeral home.
Speaker 12 (47:32):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (47:34):
We are the ones that have the doing the funeral
for sister Dolores. And that is your aunt. Am I understanding? Right? Yeah,
that's Lngti Okay? And yes you know the funeral is
this coming Thursday.
Speaker 12 (47:52):
Yes, I'll be that Thursday.
Speaker 6 (47:54):
I'm giving you a call because it's been brought to
my attention, uh that you were going to be giving
remarks for the funeral. Is that correct? Yes? Absolutely? Okay.
I wanted to call you because we're getting ready to
print the programs for the funeral and let you know
(48:16):
that they have taken you off for the remarks because
they say that you're not going to be.
Speaker 11 (48:26):
What do you mean taking me off?
Speaker 6 (48:28):
Well, what I'm saying they say that you're not going
to abide by the two three minute rule that they
have for remarks, and they wanted they've they've taken you off.
Speaker 12 (48:39):
And uh, who is they come out? Who?
Speaker 11 (48:45):
Who?
Speaker 12 (48:45):
What's the name in.
Speaker 6 (48:47):
Lawn? I'm Laune, I'm the actual funeral director.
Speaker 11 (48:51):
Lord, and who who.
Speaker 12 (48:53):
Told you to take me off?
Speaker 6 (48:55):
One of the one of the family members. I'm assuming
is who who the adjustment.
Speaker 12 (49:01):
And an adjustice that ain't no adjustment, that's that's changing
the whole program.
Speaker 11 (49:06):
Who else is on the list?
Speaker 6 (49:08):
I mean there's quite a few family members doing different
things throughout the funeral.
Speaker 12 (49:14):
Okay, so how did you get to my name? Is
what I'm trying to figure out.
Speaker 6 (49:18):
That they said that.
Speaker 2 (49:20):
Listen to me.
Speaker 6 (49:20):
Listen, Listen to me. Listen to me, brother, keep listen
to me. What they said is that you weren't going
to abide by the time. You weren't going to do
your remarks in three minutes or less.
Speaker 12 (49:34):
Listen, listen, listen, listen. Man, you raised me, he put
me through college, and you think I'm finna, I'm finel
goes down her funeral and be under two minutes.
Speaker 6 (49:46):
Well and well, listen to listen, brother, Keith, Brother, Keith,
listen to me. Normally, when we have these funerals, people
who give remarks, we have them three minutes or less.
Speaker 11 (49:57):
Okay, I'll tell you what I tell you. What mister
Lorst is on the list.
Speaker 6 (50:03):
Oh we have a seala. Yes, there's a seala that's
singing name off the list.
Speaker 12 (50:11):
You take her off the list and put me where
she's supposed to be with my time and her time.
Speaker 6 (50:17):
Is Bobby there too, Bobby now, yes, Bobby Jr. Is
given remarks that's that's that's Delorous. That's miss Delorus's son, right, Yes.
Speaker 12 (50:30):
Their son, the one that been locked up. He just
got out of tell the truth. He told he's the
one down there. Put her in the coat. You needn't
take him off the list too. Give me all that time,
because I mean, if I ain't gonna take nothing that.
Speaker 6 (50:43):
My brother Keith, let me let me. Let me just
say this to you. I cannot take Sheela or Bobby Jr.
Speaker 11 (50:50):
Off.
Speaker 6 (50:50):
I can't make any alterations to this program unless they
say that. I can't, sir.
Speaker 12 (50:58):
You already you already they take you already taking people
name off. We're taking my name off.
Speaker 17 (51:03):
But they they orchestrated this though his day who is Day?
Speaker 12 (51:10):
They for having much problems. They try to take me
off my Hotey program.
Speaker 11 (51:14):
Who is Day?
Speaker 6 (51:16):
Sir? I'm not gonna get into a family matter.
Speaker 17 (51:19):
But until they say that you can do in a
family matter, sure, I'm not gonna.
Speaker 11 (51:24):
I don't wanna.
Speaker 6 (51:25):
I don't want to have this. This turned out to
be bad and we want to have a great homegoing
for sister Delory. Okay, Right, And if I.
Speaker 12 (51:34):
Don't get to say nothing, I guarantee you, I guarantee
you it's gonna be a tooth for one in there,
somebody else gonna get there in the coffer two. I
guarantee you that if I don't get to say nothing
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Up, Thank you, nephew.
Speaker 8 (56:46):
Subject something seems fishy here, Dear Stephen Shirley. I rushed
into a relationship and I thought I was in love.
My boyfriend moved in with me after we date it
for two months, and I got pregnant four months later
to get married, but I couldn't do that until I
lost my baby. Wait, I ended up having a second child,
so I kept postponing our wedding. Now that our kids
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are two and four, my boyfriend doesn't mention marriage. All
he says is money is tight and he's focused on
getting his hustle, his side hustle going. He told me
that he wants to get a salon suite to do tattoos.
He hasn't done tattoos in years, but he feels like
it would bring in a lot of money. So he's
been going out every night of the week and saying
that he's going to find customers. He'll stay out all
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night sometimes, and his excuse is that he does not
want to wake the children by coming in late. Their
bedroom is right by the back door. But that's a
very bad excuse. This weekend, he stayed out again and
came home at seven am Sunday morning. He went straight
to the shower. I asked him to please take his
shower at his girlfriend's house before he comes home. That
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caused a big argument, and he told me to get
dressed and get the kids dressed. He took us to
the bad part of town to show me an old
gas station that he had been renovating. He said it
was going to be his tattoo shop. There was an
old sofa and a microwave in the back, and he
expected me to believe that's where he sleeps when he
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stays out. This is where all of his money has
been going, and he didn't even tell me about it.
I feel like he has plans to move on without
me and the kids. He still hasn't told me why
he doesn't come home some nights. Would I be foolish
to keep dating this man after all of this? I think, yeah,
you would be foolish to keep dating him, But not
(58:36):
for the reason you think.
Speaker 1 (58:38):
I'm saying.
Speaker 8 (58:38):
It's way past time for a commitment between the two
of you. You've moved fast in the beginning. You said
you rushed into this relationship, and now two kids later,
because you didn't lose your baby weight, you didn't want
to marry him, so he stopped asking. But if you're
still living together and having sex without protection like before,
guess what, baby number three can't.
Speaker 1 (59:00):
Be far behind. Huh. But I do agree with you.
Speaker 8 (59:03):
A man shouldn't be spending the night out and coming
in at all times at all kinds of crazy hours
and all of that. But he did take you to
the place. He showed you what he's been up to.
He said he's been working on his future, and it
looks like that's what he's been doing. He's been renovating
his business. He told you he wanted to open a
tattoo shop. That was his side hustle, so and he
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could make a lot of money with that. So I'm sorry,
but it doesn't feel to me like he's cheating.
Speaker 1 (59:32):
I don't know.
Speaker 8 (59:33):
He might be, but I don't think he is. You
never once mentioned that he's ever stepped out on you.
So I say to you, worry about yourself now. You
got to stop putting it off. Start your self care
routine right now, get your extra weight off, get your
self esteem back, and begin feeling better about you. This
is not about him, he says. He's doing something for
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the family, and he took you and the kids to
see it.
Speaker 5 (59:58):
Steve something. It seems fishy here, No, it doesn't. I
see exactly what's going on this letter.
Speaker 2 (01:00:06):
You typed it.
Speaker 5 (01:00:06):
I'm gonna read it to you. You tell me if
you don't see what I see, I rushed into a relationship,
and I thought I was in love. Okay, right there,
rushed into a relationship, you thought you was in love,
So now there's doubt. My boyfriend moved in with me
after we dated for two months. Who rolling kind of fast.
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I got pregnant four months later.
Speaker 2 (01:00:30):
That's six months.
Speaker 5 (01:00:32):
He wanted us to get married, but I couldn't do
that until I lost my baby. Wait, okay, I ended
up having a second child, so I kept postponing our wedding.
Now the kids are two and four. My boyfriend doesn't
mention marriage. Now let's stop right here, because this is
(01:00:53):
what this whole letter is about.
Speaker 2 (01:00:54):
And I figured it out.
Speaker 5 (01:00:56):
You said he wanted to get married after your baby,
but you couldn't do that because you didn't want to
get married until you lost your baby.
Speaker 2 (01:01:03):
Wait, because you gotta take pictures in everything.
Speaker 6 (01:01:05):
Right.
Speaker 5 (01:01:06):
Well, then you mess around and you had baby number
two and I ended up having a second child, so
I kept postponing I wedded.
Speaker 2 (01:01:17):
Yeah, you did, this is all you.
Speaker 5 (01:01:20):
Now the kids are two and four, and my boyfriend
don't mention marriage. Well you know why he don't mention
marriage because you told him before you wasn't getting married
until you lost the baby weight from the first baby.
Speaker 2 (01:01:34):
Then you had baby number two.
Speaker 5 (01:01:37):
Now, the reason he don't mention marriage is because you
ain't gonna get married because you still got.
Speaker 2 (01:01:43):
Some more babyweight. Now you got baby weight number one
and two.
Speaker 5 (01:01:48):
On you, and so he hasn't mentioned marriage because you
said you're not gonna get married until you lose the baby. Wait,
so now with two children, that's why he don't ask
you no more. Now he says money's tight, and he's
focused on getting inside hustle. Going told me, you want
(01:02:10):
to get a salon suite to do tattoos. He hasn't
done tattoos in years, but it feels like it would
bring in a lot of money. Okay, sounds like a plan.
So he's been going out every night of the week
and saying that he's going to find customers. That's when
a lot of people get tattoos after the club clothes
(01:02:30):
because they drunk.
Speaker 2 (01:02:35):
Okay, so he that was his plan.
Speaker 5 (01:02:38):
He'll stay out all night sometime and his excuse is
that he don't want to wake the children by coming
here late. God damn, you can say that. Hey, I
ain't never used that one. I love the d I
ain't never used that one. I ain't never used That's a.
Speaker 8 (01:02:57):
Good well, But we'll have part two of Steve's response
coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's
Strawberry Letters subject something seems fishy here. We'll get back
into it right after that. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject is something seems fishy here.
Speaker 5 (01:03:53):
Well, this couple met and they rushed into a relationship,
according to the lady who wrote the letter, and she
thought she was in love, so they moved in with
each other. After they dated for two months, and then
he wanted us to get married, but I couldn't do
that until I lost my baby weight. But then mess
around and had another baby. So and now she kept
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postponing the wedding cause of the baby weight. Now the
boyfriend don't mention marriage no more. You know why he
don't mention it cause of the baby weight. You know
you ain't gonna get married no way. Now you got
double baby weight on you. You got baby one and
baby two. Now that's a real issue because when women
gave them children, they gain weight. That's real, and then
(01:04:34):
they got the hormone in balance.
Speaker 2 (01:04:36):
It is real. What they go through is real.
Speaker 5 (01:04:38):
Okay, So now, yeah, but he telling you that the
money tight, he trying to get a side hustle going.
He won't open up a salon to do tattoos. But
you say, he ain't done tattoos in years. So he's
been going out every night of the week saying he's
going to find customers.
Speaker 2 (01:04:59):
He'll stay out of all all night sometime. And it's
excuse he is.
Speaker 5 (01:05:03):
He don't want to wake the children by coming here
late because their bathroom, their bedroom is right by the
back door. That's a very bad You know you can
open that door quiet. Kids don't wait coming. Kids sleep
hard as hell. Especially they feel safe. They ain't even
their problem. Who at the back door? Their mom and
daddy problem. I would I can't go and answer the door,
(01:05:25):
not way, So I got to lay here. I was
told you don't gonna answer that door. I got the
beating my life opening the door. One time on a
Saturday morning, open the door for the Jehovah witnesses. I
opened and let them in here, let them all the
way in that house. They was in the living little God,
(01:05:53):
watch your house. Yeah, I was just thinking about that time.
Open that door, man. They got all the way up.
I invited them me in as they want some water
and everything. Boy, my mama came around the corner. My
mom came around that corner boar, so they watchedowers standing there.
Speaker 6 (01:06:10):
Got her.
Speaker 5 (01:06:13):
Back to the letter anyway, So I couldn't have answered
that don't nobody anyway.
Speaker 2 (01:06:19):
This weekend he stayed out again.
Speaker 5 (01:06:22):
He came in at seven am on Sunday morning and
went straight to the shower. I asked him, please take
this shot his girlfriend's house before he come home. Oh
that started a big argument. He told me get dressed,
get the kids dressed.
Speaker 2 (01:06:37):
He took us to the.
Speaker 5 (01:06:38):
Bad part of town to show me an old gas
station that he had been renovating.
Speaker 2 (01:06:42):
He said it was going to be his tattoo shot.
Speaker 5 (01:06:45):
That was an old sofa and microwave in the back,
and he expected me to believe that that's where he
sleeps when he stays out.
Speaker 2 (01:06:53):
My man, come through? Boy?
Speaker 8 (01:06:54):
What e was?
Speaker 5 (01:06:55):
That's some good thinking right there. And they had a
microwave and a couch.
Speaker 2 (01:07:01):
WHOA, that was a good boy. But no pillow and
no blanket.
Speaker 5 (01:07:10):
Hard to sleep without a blanket, It really is, man,
something abouty blanket that makes sleep.
Speaker 2 (01:07:17):
Better, even in the summer time.
Speaker 5 (01:07:21):
Anyway, that and this is where all his money has
been going, and he didn't even tell me about it.
I feel like he has plans to move on without
me and the kids. He still hasn't told me why
he doesn't come home some nights. Should I be foolish
to keep dating this man after all of this? Well,
(01:07:44):
first of all, let me clarify a couple of things
for y'all. Ain't dating. Y'all live together. Y'all don't just
live together, y'all are family. So all this would I
be foolish to keep dating this man. Dating is man.
He the father your children? What you're talking about? Do
(01:08:06):
you know how far up the roads y'all are right now,
and you're gonna break it back down to just Dayton?
And he still ain't told me why he don't come
home some night. Wait a minute, lady, you waiting on
a man to walk in the house and really tell
you why he stay out at night? You know why
(01:08:29):
he stay out at night cause that because ain't no consequences.
There's none, because he's done it more than once and
there are no consequences. See, I can't stay out all
night because I already know when I come in there's
gonna be some consequence. Well, I'm gonna know that loan
(01:08:50):
before that because that phone, that phone gonna be off
the hook. If I was up to sum I wouldn't
beaby enjoy myself. My phone be on constant rain.
Speaker 2 (01:09:06):
As we lay nice Shirley Murdock. As we lay we
forgot about the price we had to pay.
Speaker 1 (01:09:28):
Oh the Gospel version.
Speaker 2 (01:09:32):
As I lay here and the song comes to the window,
my head explode.
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Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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Layla's ten years old.
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It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. What
you got Junior?
Speaker 2 (01:10:50):
All right, Shirley.
Speaker 7 (01:10:51):
It was Game three in the NBA Finals last night,
and let's go ahead.
Speaker 2 (01:10:56):
Man, look at this. We got us a series.
Speaker 15 (01:10:58):
This is getting interested. Indiana beats Homer City.
Speaker 2 (01:11:02):
Oh you like it now?
Speaker 7 (01:11:04):
Oh yeah, I like it now? Now it's one sixteen,
one oh seven Indiana. Indiana takes a two to one
lead in this series. That's why I like it now,
Tim and the underdogs is winning. The underdogs is winning.
They don't care if you got the MVP on they
team or not.
Speaker 2 (01:11:18):
I am pulling for ok See.
Speaker 1 (01:11:20):
Oh real, okay, yeah, you.
Speaker 15 (01:11:22):
Pulling in the wrong direction. They lost last night.
Speaker 2 (01:11:24):
I understand, I understand, but I don't leave you when
you lose. I'm holding tight. Not a fairweather fans, No,
I'm not Fairwell, we're gonna be all right.
Speaker 7 (01:11:33):
Well if if Oklahoma City take the lead, I would
be rooting for them because this ain't my team, right,
neither one.
Speaker 2 (01:11:37):
That's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 7 (01:11:39):
Yeah, neither wanted my team. I just I just go
on for who win. That way, I'll be right hard
being on team and losing. Yeah, that's all I'm doing.
Speaker 2 (01:11:46):
Caller.
Speaker 7 (01:11:47):
Whoever's winning as who I'm going with. And today is Indiana.
The Indiana looking great?
Speaker 2 (01:11:52):
They did?
Speaker 6 (01:11:53):
You know?
Speaker 2 (01:11:53):
Uh?
Speaker 7 (01:11:54):
Halliburton finished with twenty two points and nine rebounds and
eleven assists, almost a triple double.
Speaker 15 (01:11:59):
That's what you want at your point guard.
Speaker 2 (01:12:00):
That was really good.
Speaker 6 (01:12:01):
Uh.
Speaker 15 (01:12:02):
Shay Gilder Alexander Sga he had twenty four.
Speaker 7 (01:12:04):
Jalen Williams for Okay, se had twenty six, but the
man of the hour was Benedict mcthurmon. I know you
ain't never heard of him, Benedict mcthurn. He came off
the bench and put down twenty seven. His her name
is Benedict, Benedict. I don't know how old his parents is,
but his name is being.
Speaker 10 (01:12:21):
They didn't have to do that, boy like that. They
really he can change that Monday morning. You know, he
can go down there and change that on Monday. You
know he can't.
Speaker 2 (01:12:30):
He could change his name.
Speaker 1 (01:12:33):
Maybe his names after his grandfather.
Speaker 7 (01:12:37):
And I'm sure if his granddaddy was here, he would
say that danger's boy. They got computers. Now, the name Benedict.
They got computers out here.
Speaker 2 (01:12:47):
Now what are we doing?
Speaker 7 (01:12:49):
So, you know, Friday night we're gonna have Game four.
But I'm telling you right now, Indiana played a really
good game last night. They didn't struggle. They just start
off slow. They came out and they completely and that's
how they got and so we're proud of them. So
I just want to say thank you Indiana for making
me look good because I've been riding with y'all since
serious started, you know, since they won Game one at
the last second that I like.
Speaker 2 (01:13:10):
I like Indiana with the last second.
Speaker 15 (01:13:13):
Yeah yeah, the last week when Okay was winning, but
then when they won the game.
Speaker 2 (01:13:17):
I switched right win so Walkahoma win Game four? You
who you with?
Speaker 15 (01:13:21):
Well, dog, I'm gonna have to be a Okay see
a fan. That's what I'm gonna do.
Speaker 7 (01:13:25):
I'm I'm gonna be a fan, I mean with Okay
see right, then you got to learn how to switch time.
Speaker 15 (01:13:30):
You can't stay the sund pivot. You gotta know how
to pivot. Yeah, thank you, sir. You gotta know how
to pivot.
Speaker 6 (01:13:36):
Man.
Speaker 15 (01:13:37):
I don't sitting here crying for these teams. This ain't
our Saint the Rockets.
Speaker 2 (01:13:42):
Man.
Speaker 1 (01:13:43):
All right, Junior, thank you. Coming up of the hour.
Speaker 8 (01:13:48):
On social media needs some advice, Steve White, move out,
I'm happy, she says, Okay, we'll get into it right
after this. Mark Jackson, you're listening to the Steve Harvey
Morning Show. All right, Steve, this is from Brianna on
Steve Harvey FM. Brianna says, I'm in my late twenties.
(01:14:10):
I have a good job, make good money, and I
still live at home with my parents and honestly, I
love it. We get along great, split responsibilities and I
have my own space. But some of my friends and
coworkers act like it's weird and even embarrassing that I
haven't moved out yet. I've started looking at apartments, but
it feels like I'm only doing it because of pressure
(01:14:31):
from other people, not because I actually want to leave.
Is it wrong to just do what makes me happy?
Or are societal expectations reason enough to finally get my
own place?
Speaker 2 (01:14:43):
No state in stay in.
Speaker 5 (01:14:45):
In some cultures that's very acceptable, right. The daughter stays
at the house until they get married. Married, right, and
you ain't got nobody on the hook?
Speaker 2 (01:14:55):
Yeah, and she enjoyed it. You ain't even hard date. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:15:01):
Yeah, so she has her own state. Yeah, yeah, it's
pretty cool, wasting.
Speaker 2 (01:15:08):
I couldn't stay at my mom and daddy house in
my twenties.
Speaker 1 (01:15:11):
Boy bye, because you're a man and you should be
out there.
Speaker 2 (01:15:14):
We had our stand in twenties. Who oh, Lord of
phone cameras.
Speaker 1 (01:15:23):
No phone cameras, no social media.
Speaker 2 (01:15:27):
I wasn't famous him.
Speaker 1 (01:15:30):
White things.
Speaker 2 (01:15:32):
I know the things I gotta wait with, Thank you.
Speaker 8 (01:15:38):
Thank you Lord, grateful no phone care, Yeah, I have
no record of anything. Yeah, so yeah, but she don't
don't buckle under the pressure of your coworkers and all
of that society, right.
Speaker 2 (01:15:59):
Do you girl?
Speaker 1 (01:16:00):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (01:16:03):
I like that and do you yeah?
Speaker 8 (01:16:06):
She's in late?
Speaker 1 (01:16:08):
When you wear it out?
Speaker 2 (01:16:09):
Do you save your money, get your stack your paper.
Speaker 1 (01:16:12):
Right, that's right, that's right, all right?
Speaker 2 (01:16:16):
Listening to everybody else, all right, Moving.
Speaker 8 (01:16:21):
On to Katina, we have time for another one. Steve
Katina on Steve HARBFM says, I think I've finally found
someone I can spend the rest of my life with.
Speaker 1 (01:16:31):
My boyfriend is.
Speaker 8 (01:16:32):
Kind, open minded, intelligent, everything I've ever wanted. He's met
my family once, but it was a quick, surface level visit.
Why he doesn't know. What he doesn't know is that
they're not great people. They're crass, a little racist, and
say crazy things like it's no big deal. I've spent
most of my adult life distancing myself from them, and
(01:16:54):
now that this relationship is getting serious, I'm terrified he's
going to find out who they really are are and
decide he wants no part of it or me. I
feel like I'm going to have to choose between the
man I love and the family I was born into
what should I do?
Speaker 2 (01:17:10):
It must be I would go with the man you love?
Speaker 5 (01:17:13):
Yeah, and he black? Yeah, No, it ain't. This ain't
everything A little bit, No, this ain't everything. His white
girl got her a black husband, that's what.
Speaker 6 (01:17:29):
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Speaker 5 (01:17:30):
Now here's the thing about this. And if it's not,
his disadvice applies black or white. It's very simple. You
have found the man you think it's all of this
and all that. You found a man you think you
are married with, married with yo. Go now, now let
me ask you a question. Has he said these words
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to you? Has he told you this that he can't
live without you, that you're the woman for him, he
won't spend the rest of your life with him? Because
right now, this one side, I think I found what
has he found? As he told you what he found?
You need to find that out because you might not
have to introduce him to your little racing daddy, just
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a little race. He might as well just not even
go over there and introduce him to your little daddy,
little fat archie bunker.
Speaker 2 (01:18:21):
You just leave that alone.
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What is that the shirt?
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The Africans weren't No, that's daddy.
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It is time now for a round of would you rather? Uh, guys,
would you rather be the ultimate barbecue griller? Or would
you rather be the ultimate handyman? Which one handy ultimate.
Speaker 10 (01:21:27):
Barbecuing or I'm not fixing nothing. I'm too old for that.
I'm barbecuing.
Speaker 1 (01:21:32):
Oh okay, okay, you'd rather be the ultimate fix ladders.
Speaker 2 (01:21:38):
I ain't doing none of that, junior.
Speaker 15 (01:21:41):
Yeah, I will be the handyman.
Speaker 2 (01:21:44):
Yeah, yeah, you can get out there right now. Stop
putting up a.
Speaker 1 (01:21:47):
Fence yourself to worry about.
Speaker 2 (01:21:55):
Yeah, that's this building a matter most What about you, ste.
Speaker 5 (01:22:01):
I'm gonna be a gorilla because if very handy man
when I'm a barbecue Oh all right, you shouldn't go
up there and put new gutters on the house. And
you have a stall of water heatering, you have.
Speaker 1 (01:22:17):
A chef, but you still prefer to do your own barbecuing.
Speaker 2 (01:22:20):
Yeah. I eat his, but you know, mm hmmm, he
done got better. He got better.
Speaker 11 (01:22:27):
Done it?
Speaker 5 (01:22:28):
He from South? Yeah, he don't. He don't do deserts. Well,
he needs to stay away from there. He need to
stop doing that. He made me, he made me a
peach cake the other day.
Speaker 2 (01:22:38):
I man, what the hell? Hey man, we don't do that.
What is she doing?
Speaker 5 (01:22:45):
Don't don't add nothing to just do what my mom
in law told you do. Don't add nothing. No little
peach quarters in hell dawn?
Speaker 6 (01:22:53):
What we eat?
Speaker 1 (01:22:56):
All right? Moving on?
Speaker 6 (01:22:57):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (01:22:58):
Pudding? You ain't posted see big slices of bread in here?
Speaker 6 (01:23:01):
What is.
Speaker 5 (01:23:05):
You're not supposed to it's bread pudding. You're not supposed
to actually see the corners and all that.
Speaker 1 (01:23:13):
You're so stupid.
Speaker 2 (01:23:16):
I don't really he got to stop. That ain't what
he do?
Speaker 6 (01:23:18):
You know?
Speaker 1 (01:23:20):
He was trying right quick?
Speaker 6 (01:23:21):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:23:22):
Yeah, and quick calling this cobbler too. Don't call it
that no more. Just call it tart. Yeah, he made tarts.
You don't make no peach cobbler. That ain't what this is.
I told you my mom in lawd and gave you
the recipe. What is you what?
Speaker 5 (01:23:36):
I wanted to leave it in the oven? Make it
extra chrispy? Oh, there wasn't no such thing as extra
Christmas peach cobbler? What Saint chicken? And then, hey, hey,
you're gonna messure when I lose your job. I ain't
gonna lie to you. It's just certain things.
Speaker 8 (01:23:53):
Would you rather have an unlimited supply of cigars? Would
exactly what I have?
Speaker 1 (01:24:00):
Ice cream? We've moved on. Cigars are ice cream? Cigars
ice cream? Why are you hello?
Speaker 3 (01:24:09):
Hello?
Speaker 1 (01:24:10):
Yeah, that's a tough decision for you.
Speaker 2 (01:24:12):
Isn't it ice cream?
Speaker 6 (01:24:13):
Here?
Speaker 2 (01:24:13):
That I got both?
Speaker 1 (01:24:17):
My favorite both?
Speaker 2 (01:24:21):
All right, I take the end the supply ice cream.
Speaker 1 (01:24:25):
Okay, that's today's rounded.
Speaker 8 (01:24:27):
Would you rather coming up next to our last break
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Speaker 2 (01:25:21):
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Speaker 5 (01:25:23):
Hey you know something, I was going over something the
other day. As I prepare you know, the boys uh
have arrived at the minering camp and it's a whole
new set of young minds that will try to have
an effective change on I always incorporate a spiritual element
(01:25:45):
in all of my talks with the young men.
Speaker 2 (01:25:48):
I found that there are quite a few young men.
Speaker 5 (01:25:50):
Who have church backgrounds, and you know, so it always
has an interesting twist to it. And then there are
some who have no idea what I'm talking about, and
I have to fix fix the verbiage to fit somebody
who doesn't understand. I'm saying that to say all this
(01:26:11):
that I will always always continue the spiritual component to
my camp because I look back over my life, I
don't know how I would have made it without a
relationship with God. I really, I really really don't. I
don't know how I could have overcome the things I've
overcome without God's presence. You know, man, I'm so grateful
(01:26:36):
to have come to the point to understand that it
ain't really me. Now, let me give myself a little
bit of credit. Did I work hard?
Speaker 2 (01:26:44):
Yes? I did?
Speaker 5 (01:26:46):
Did I never give up? I did my best? Did
I give it my all? I done have my foot
to the gas pedal to the floor. For a long
time now, have I been in relentless pursuit of my
dreams and aspirations, Yes I have. Did I grit my
teeth when it was necessary? Did I put the put
my fist in the lord back and being at the
(01:27:08):
knee and take the brace's position and just handle it?
Speaker 2 (01:27:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (01:27:12):
Have I survived all my haters and they say us, Yes?
Did I stay the course when I was offered directions
to go on another way?
Speaker 2 (01:27:20):
Yes I did. I did all of that.
Speaker 5 (01:27:24):
But none of that, None of that would have been
possible without my relationship, without without with God, without God
tucking me under his wings and protecting me. Man, when
I needed it so bad, when I didn't have nobody
to call, when nobody really knew what I was going through,
(01:27:45):
God was there when I had turned my back on God.
God never turned his back on me when I walked
the other way. God just stayed close by because he
just kept trying to get my attention because he had
a plan and a purpose me. Have you ever felt
that way, y'all? Have you ever felt like, man, it's
got to be more to my life than this. Have
(01:28:06):
you ever thought for a moment, man, that there's got
to be more to my life than what's going on.
If you're having that thought, that's cost it's what it is.
And God is touching you. He's tapping you on your shoulder,
he's whispering in your ear. He's giving you a gentle nudge.
He's always there as a reminder. Man, I've turned my
(01:28:30):
back on God so many times and walked the other way.
He just said, all right, okay, I need your attention, though, Steve,
I need your undivided attention. And because he gives us
the power of choice, and some of the decisions I
was making got me in a position.
Speaker 2 (01:28:47):
Or guess what, he had my undivided attention. I'll tell
you what.
Speaker 5 (01:28:52):
Man, when I was living in a car for all
in years, he had my attention. Then, Oh he got
it full blown.
Speaker 2 (01:28:57):
He got it.
Speaker 5 (01:28:59):
You remember that time he stricken you and you had
that You remember when you had that health scare. He
had your attention, then, didn't he didn't He Remember when
you lost somebody that was real deal to you. He
got your attention, didn't he.
Speaker 2 (01:29:16):
Didn't he?
Speaker 5 (01:29:18):
You remember that time you thought you weren't gonna make it.
You ain't have no answers, you ain't know what to do.
He had your attention, didn't he didn't He Remember when
you made that right turn, and he told you go left,
and you made that right turn. Anyway, He got your attention,
didn't he didn't he see? You know what I'm saying.
In all of this, We've always had a choice. We
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are the only creatures that God gave the power of
decision too. We get to decide all day long. We
get to decide. But by God's grace and mercy, even
when you make the bad decision, he always did always
get you, man, And you know why it gets you
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because his love is uncompromising. His love for you don't
come with conditions. He loves you in spite of your mistakes.
He loves you because He created you, and He has
a plan for you, and as a plan for you
to prosper you, he just trying to get your attention, man,
so you can do some of the stuff he wants
you to do. I tell you something, man, I've learned
(01:30:28):
some major lessons in my life. And one of the reasons, man,
I was just running from God. I was just running
from God because I felt like it was so much
I wanted to do, so much I wanted to be
and if I go over there, become a Christian and
honor God, I'm not gonna be able to do it.
And I read something one day that struck me as said,
(01:30:49):
becoming who God created you to be will cost you
who you thought you were. And that's what I was
afraid of. Becoming who God created you to be will
cost you who you thought you were.
Speaker 2 (01:31:08):
But it's worth it.
Speaker 6 (01:31:10):
Man.
Speaker 5 (01:31:11):
Everything I wanted to do and and and and and
and and and do and and become was nothing compared
to what God was working on for me. God been
working on us for a long time. Man, show would
be nice to give him your undivided attention before it's
too late. Give God your attention. Man, he got a
(01:31:34):
good plan for you, and I got news for you.
It's way better than the one you got. Took me
a long time to figure that out, but I'm sure
glad I did. Those are my close remarks today. Hope
you got something from it if you didn't try us
again tomorrow, because we're gonna try to do the same thing. God,
will y'all have a great day today. Talk to God.
He'd absolutely love to hear from.
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