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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Toby and Chili Mornings on Demand on ninety seven point
one Wash.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
You're waking up to some wet weather with ninety seven
point one Wash Chef m We're Toby and Chili in
the Morning.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Welcome to a brand new day.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
In case you were wondering, it's Wednesday, just because I
know people are all screwed up with the days and
the week and whatnot.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
But you know, I'm feeling.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Good today, Chili because and this is this is actually
incidental to something that just happened off the air. You
know how you were kind of stretching your neck a
little bit. Yeah, I am going to before the end
of the day make a date with my massuse. Oh
very nice, Yes, because I need to have like some
sort of lymphatic massage sort of a thing going on. Nice. Well,
(00:42):
maybe I'll ask her if she can come in here
and just you know, give us some chair massages.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
No, no, no, I would not want that during the show,
because I will be asleep.
Speaker 5 (00:52):
Well after the show, okay, well like right around you
know nine, Like we'll just act like we're working, but
we'll just keep the or shut and we'll just be like, okay, yeah,
we're in here.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Please leave us be. That would be good and that
would bring us both some joy. So I'm thinking a
massage might be helpful this morning. Why are you feeling good?
Speaker 4 (01:12):
I forgot what I was going to say. Honestly, now
that we're talking about massages, I honestly can't remember what
I was going to tell you. Well, so I'm feeling
good because I guess I'm here today. Well present, I swear,
I'm like I had something present.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
It's gone present. I had to do with Donado.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
No, I don't think it did.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
I had to do it don No.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
Oh, I just remembered. Okay, I ordered some organizational drawers
for my bathroom countertop. And I know that seems silly
to bring up, but here's why. You know how stereotypically
women take over like the entire counter in the bathroom. Yes, yes,
well it's gotten so bad my poor husband. So I
bought these things that I hopefully will be able to
(01:54):
organize my face creams and whatever little makeup I've got.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
If that works, can you send me the link on
Amazon so I can do that for my daughter Kyla,
who's taken control of the bathroom since she's been home.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Yeah, I will if it works out.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
All right, good stuff. Now you've got to be feeling
good this morning. Eight sixty six nine two seven forty
three sixty one is the number. Tap the talkback microphone
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you're feeling good as we get a brand new day
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(02:30):
top of the hour.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
What's going on United Changing How long travelers have to
check in for their flights? Details on the way, Top Stories,
Top of the Hour, Top stories presented by Celsia's Energy Drinks.
President Trump announced on truth Social that Canada could either
pay over sixty billion dollars for protection under his proposed
(02:51):
Golden Dome missile defense or receive it for free by
joining the US as the fifty first state. He claims
that Canada is actually considering the offer. US Health Secretary
Robert F. Kennedy Junior announced yesterday that COVID nineteen vaccines
are no longer recommended for healthy children and pregnant women,
a move that was immediately questioned by several public health experts.
(03:15):
The DC government plans cuts next year due to a
billion dollar tax revenue shortfall. Under Mayor Bowser's proposed budget,
Medicaid eligibility may shrink, impacting over twenty five thousand residents,
and the budget also drops a proposed child tax credit
and alters some employee benefits. Fairfax County teachers are going
(03:36):
to get a six percent raise under the newly approved
school budget, but to cover the cost, the district plans
to cut about two hundred and seventy five positions, potentially
increasing class sizes. United Airlines is changing how long travelers
have to check in for their flight, So starting June third,
that's next week, passengers without checked bags we have to
(04:00):
check in for domestic flights forty five minutes before departure.
Previous cutoff was half an hour. And President Trump plans
to parton Todd and Julie Chrisley, the reality TV stars
we're currently serving prison time for bank fraud and tax evasion.
The couple obtained fraudulent loans exceeding thirty million dollars for
(04:21):
lavish expenses and evaded taxes on reality TV income. Forecast
today we'll have rain throughout the day, highs only getting
up to about sixty right now, fifty four in Riverdale.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Don't forget she had top stories at the top of
the hour with ninety seven point one WASHFM or Toby
and Chilly in the Morning, and next we're going to
talk about you and your headspace. How are you feeling
on this Wednesday morning. We've got some words that could
help make your day better and maybe turn it around.
If we're lucky, your morning mindset.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Is on the way.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Stay with us ninety seven point one WASHFM. You've got
Toby and Chilly in the morning, and we would like
to pause now to talk about you and that the
space between your ears called your mind.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
We want to get you into a better headspace, something
for you to be motivated or inspired by as we
share our morning mindset quote.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
All right, and Albert Einstein says this morning, creativity is
intelligence having fun. Albert Einstein, creativity is intelligence having fun.
See smart ideas, they're born from play and curiosity. So
embrace that play and the curiosity today and realize that
(05:31):
that's where intelligence and creativity come from. Creativity is intelligence
having fun, says Albert Einstein. So are you having fun?
If you are, it will unlock your creativity and you
will do things that you never thought were possible. Keep
that in mind today as you go through this brand
(05:51):
new day, and that is your morning mindset. If it helped,
let us know, and if you need it, because you
want to send it to somebody who might need it
like you did, well, feel free to reach out to
us and let us know. You can find us at
the Toby and chilipage at washchefm dot com and we'll
send it your way. Coming up in just a few
minutes is Toby and Chili in the Morning continues.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
If you're in a relationship, is there something that your
significant other does in an effort to turn you on,
but it actually has the opposite effect?
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Mmmm, well, we'll discuss coming up the numbers eight sixty six,
nine two, seven, forty three sixty one. If you want
to jump in little pop quiz this morning, you're waking
up with Toby and Chilly in the Morning at ninety
seven point one WASHFM. What is something that they do,
they being your significant other? What is something that they
do that they think turns you on but it actually doesn't?
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Chilli.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
I bring this up because I was thinking back to
the days when I used to go out a lot.
There would be women that I might be just flirting
with at the bar and they would go in and
they would just say, grab my buttocks. Hmmm, And I
was not a fan of that. When you grabb my
up butttoks, it did not turn me on. It made
me think to myself, I don't have no butt docks
(07:04):
for you to be grabbing, how about you.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Thankfully, my husband doesn't do anything to turn me off
thinking he's turning me on. But a previous relationship a
person who just didn't know how to effectively bite the lip,
it would be very painful. I'm like, nope, you know what,
Stop doing that. That is not okay.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
That's not my orogenous zone. You're hurting me.
Speaker 4 (07:25):
That is not okay.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
No, I need my mouth to talk for a living.
Leave it around.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Don't bite her lip, Melanie, good morning in Silver Spring.
Thanks for waking up early with us. So it's something
that they do that they think turns you on, but
you actually can't stand.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
My boyfriend sings love songs to me.
Speaker 6 (07:43):
He thinks she has a great voice, but it really
just it kills the moon.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
Oh that's too bad.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
You really thought you loved that.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
He's trying to serenade you and whatnot. She's thinking, just
leave it to the professionals. Put on a good soundtrack.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Okay, Claire, good morning, Thanks for listening in Fairfax. What's
something that they do that they think turns you on
but you really don't like.
Speaker 7 (08:05):
The thing that a guy does that that I kind
of feel like should turn me on but actually doesn't
is when they open the car door for me.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
But he's trying to be a gentleman.
Speaker 7 (08:15):
It has nothing to do with me feeling like, you know,
chivalry is dead or anything like that. It's just I
feel weird sitting in there waiting for them to come
around to the car just to open the door for me.
Speaker 6 (08:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
I mean, especially with the days of key fobs right right,
you don't have to unlock anything.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
So what's something that they do that they think turns
you on but you actually don't like?
Speaker 3 (08:38):
You're not a fan? What is it?
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Eight six six nine two seven three sixty one Tap
the talk back microphone. We always love hearing from you
in the meantime. Stay there for the news top stories
at the top of the hour on the way.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Thank you for waking up with the ship.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Top stories top of the hour.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
The Trump administration is reportedly putting student visa interviews on whole.
That decision comes as the administration considers requiring foreign students
to undergo social media screening. Early voting begins today in
Prince George's County for a special election to replace Angela
also Brooks as county executive following her election to the
(09:17):
US Senate. Early voting will run through Monday, with the
election day on Tuesday. A new development project around the
North Bethesda Metro station is moving forward. The mixed use
development will feature residential and educational components, including the University
of Maryland's new Institute for Health Computing, along with the
new station entrance and to public plazas.
Speaker 8 (09:39):
D C.
Speaker 4 (09:39):
Parkson Wreck is offering seniors a chance to relax at
the pool this summer with kidfree Senior Drip Pool parties.
The events will take place from eleven to two on
June twenty sixth at Fort Stanton and July fourteenth at
Fort Stanton. Is also August seventh at Banneker Pool. According
to a recent survey, the app which American feels fully
(10:01):
healthy only nineteen days a month. Common issues include digestive problems, fatigue,
mood changes and headaches. And finally, Jennifer Lopez returning to
Las Vegas with a new residency. It'll open at Caesar's
Palace the week of New Year's Eve with four shows
and then an additional eight performance in March of twenty
twenty six. Forecasts today, have that umbrella handy. It's going
(10:24):
to be rainy with highs only around sixty right now
fifty four in Centreville eight.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Six six nine two seven forty three sixty one is
the number. Talkback microphone is always on for you too,
if you're signed it to your iHeart app and you
want to jump into any conversation you hear us having
with Toby and Chilly in the morning at ninety seven
point one watch FM like coming up in a few minutes.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
We're going to talk about seagulls.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
Perhaps maybe you were out at the beach, maybe you
were at rehoveth over the weekend Ocean City, and you
notice these seagulls and how they can be. They love
to harass beach goers when they're in groups, but when
they're alone they're not so brave. Wait till you hear
about our experiences with seagulls. We'll get to that coming
(11:05):
up in a few minutes, and if you want to
jump in, you know where to find us. Six nineteen
at ninety seven point one watch FM Toby and Chilly
in the morning.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
If you were over at the beach.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Or the shore or over there near like Ocean City
over the holiday weekend, you probably encounter to some of
these these seagulls.
Speaker 4 (11:28):
Yeah there, what do you call them?
Speaker 3 (11:29):
The vermin of seagulls or the vermin of the skies?
They really are. They are.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
They're they're brave in numbers, and they always come in numbers.
You never see really just one. If you do, it's
not a problem. You're just flying around. But you know,
these seagulls, when there's like a group of them, a
flock of them as it were, that's when things get bad.
Speaker 4 (11:54):
Yeah, they're very brave. They will come right you know.
Anyone who's experienced an encounter with a seagull knows that
they will come right up to your personal space and
grab your food, no problem. They'll do it in a heartbeat,
sometimes right out of your hand, which has happened to
me more than one.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
Really grab the food out of your hand.
Speaker 4 (12:15):
Yes they have. And I'm not like trying to feed them.
They grab me. I'm just kind of sitting there talking
with my head turned the other way with the last
kind of bite of sandwich, and lo and behold they
swoop in and they take it out of my hand.
It is jarring. And I'm telling you right now, this
makes me not want to even have snacks at the beach.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
I swat at them.
Speaker 2 (12:37):
But you know, I used to have lunch at a
sonic when I lived in Tampa, Florida, and myself and
a couple of coworkers would go and we would we
would take for granted that the seagulls were the vermin
of the skies and they would eat anything, so we
would throw like tater.
Speaker 4 (12:55):
Tots, so you would intentionally feed them.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
Yeah, we would intentionally feed them. So we would like, oh,
so they stood just as swarm. We would just do
it just seem short. And then one of our coworkers
got the idea that we could throw tater tuts in
the back of a truck's flatbed, you know, like a
pickup truck sort of thing. Throw it in the bed
at the truck, or throw a few in the bed
of the truck and then all the seagulls would go
(13:18):
in there and they did. Oh, it was hours of
endless entertainment. Taunting the vermin of the sky.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
Is haunting them. You're giving them dinner. They loved you guys.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
Well that's true too, now that now that I know
what the research says. When when they're in numbers, when
they're a flock of seagulls, they're far braver than they
are on their own. Yes, oh, these seagulls, if you
have any problems with them, you need to tell us
all about those problems. You know where to find us,
(13:48):
right right, We're Toby and Chilly in the morning. It's
ninety seven point one watch FM, and now it's time Toby.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
And Chilli's newly impossible question for us.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
To give you the chance at tickets to see k D.
Perry cfg Bank Arena when she comes to town thanks
to Live Nation.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
Here's the question.
Speaker 4 (14:05):
In a typical year, around four hundred and fifty thousand
Americans finish one of these. It is a physical achievement. Okay,
so what are we talking about?
Speaker 3 (14:15):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (14:15):
Eight sixty six nine two seven forty three sixty one.
That's the number. Here's the question again.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
In a typical year, around four hundred and fifty thousand
Americans completes one of these what is it all right?
Speaker 3 (14:27):
Calling now?
Speaker 2 (14:27):
If you know the answer Katie Perry tickets up for
grabs CFG Bank Arena in August thanks to Live Nation
CFG Bank Arena of course in Baltimore. If you want
to go to the show, call nowt answer correctly, we'll
all learn something together and you'll win your nearly impossible
question for this Wednesday Morning is on Kelby.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
And Chilli's nearly Impossible question.
Speaker 3 (14:47):
Jillie hit us with that question one more time.
Speaker 4 (14:50):
In a typical year, around four hundred and fifty thousand
Americans complete one of these what is it.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
Crystill in Greensboro. Welcome, You've got the question. Now for
the tickets to see Katie Perry. What is your guests?
Good morning?
Speaker 7 (15:05):
Good morning? I would guess the marathon.
Speaker 4 (15:07):
Have you ever attempted to run that kind of a distance.
Speaker 7 (15:11):
I have done a few half k I am half marathons,
but I've never done the full.
Speaker 6 (15:16):
My husband's done the full.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
My significant other does those full marathons and triathlons and
stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (15:23):
I got it. I barely made it through a five k.
Speaker 7 (15:27):
I've done a few of the times too, I love those.
Speaker 4 (15:31):
But yeah, Marathon No Bristol Marathon is an excellent guest
because yeah, in a typical year, around four hundred and
fifty thousand Americans complete a marathon. Congratulations, awesome, Thank you
guys so much.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
That means you're gonna go see Katie Perry to CFG
Bank Arena August fifteenth, thanks to Live Nation. Tickets are yours.
Enjoy the show and I'll see you walking in a
five k near you soon.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Sounds good, so I'm honest.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
At least I'm honest. More tickets to Katie Perry tomorrow morning.
Another round of Your Nearly Impossible Question is on. And
if you need the news and you do, Top Stories
at the top of the Hour on the way in
just minutes, stay with Toby and Chilly in the morning.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Top Stories, Top of the Hour.
Speaker 4 (16:17):
President Trump says Canada could be protected by his Golden
Dome missile defense shield for free if they become the
fifty first state. He made the announcement on truth Social
yesterday and claim that Canada very much wants to be
part of his proposed missile defense system. US Health Secretary
Robert F. Kennedy Junior announced yesterday that COVID nineteen vaccines
(16:39):
will no longer be recommended for healthy children and pregnant women,
a move immediately questioned by several public health experts. The
DC government plans cuts next year due to a billion
dollar tax revenue shortfall, and under Mayor Bowser's proposed budget,
Medicaid eligibility may shrink, which would impact over twenty five
thousand residents. The budget also drops a proposed child tax
(17:03):
credit and alters some employee benefits. Fairfax County teachers are
going to get a six percent raise under the newly
approved school budget, but to cover the cost, the district
plans to cut about two hundred and seventy five positions,
which will potentially increase class size. According to a new study,
(17:23):
Utah is the state with the worst nurse shortage in
the entire country, and Maryland came in fifth on that list.
President Trump is partning reality TV stars Todd and Julie Chrisley.
The former Chrisly Knows Best couple had been serving time
in prison for defrauding Georgia banks out of millions, and
(17:45):
researchers say that waking up before seven am may lead
to a healthier, happier life. Early risers report greater life
satisfaction and fewer depression and anxiety symptoms, and expert states
because morning light helps regularly the body's internal clock. Forecast
for today, we'll have rain throughout the day, highs around
sixty right now fifty four in kensing day.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
Eight six six nine two seven forty three sixty one
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It's wide open if you're signed in listening to us
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we're going to talk about something that's kind of tough
for a parent, overcovering their kids separation anxiety. Now, Chili,
you and your husband are trying to go through some
of this with your son.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
We are the training has begun.
Speaker 3 (18:43):
This training has begun.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
If anybody has any thoughts on how to make separation
anxiety easier, feel free to reach out. In the meantime,
stay there, let's hear what's going on over with Chili
and her husband and their son in just minutes. Eight
sixty six nine seven forty three sixty one. That's the number,
tellby and Chilly in the Morning on ninety seven point
one Wacham.
Speaker 3 (19:06):
Parenting. Sometimes it's not easy.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
Sometimes you wish it came with a manual, but there
are times when it doesn't. Like I take it Chilly
when we talk about what's happening with you and your
husband and your son's separation anxiety, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (19:19):
It's pretty severe. So he's eleven years old, and my
husband and I have never taken a trip just the
two of us away from our son. And part of
that is us a you know, decision we made. But
we've getting to the point now we're like, look, he's eleven,
We've got family in town that's more than willing to
take him for a night or two so we can
escape to New York City. And we decided to give
it a trial run a couple of weeks ago, and
(19:42):
lord it, it almost did not work out. What happened,
So my sister lives nearby, and he was initially really
excited about spending the night at his auntie's house, but
about two hours after he got there, and he realized
we weren't going to come pick him up, and we're
going to lead there for just one night. The phone
(20:02):
call started, you know, using my sister's phone to call us.
Then the video calls and my sister was texting us like,
he's very upset. He's crying. I'm okay with it if
you guys are okay with it. So we get to
about nine ten o'clock at night, Toby, and he calls
us just sobbing, Please come pick me up, Please come
pick me up. We stood our ground and he did
(20:25):
get through the night. His biggest fear was he wasn't
going to be able to sleep or whatever, but he did.
He got through it, and it built a little bit
of confidence that he can do this. Now it's just
a matter of us doing it more times so that
we can actually escape. So, you know what I'm saying,
so that we can actually do it.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
The term is rinse and repeat, rinse and repeat.
Speaker 4 (20:48):
Yeah, this is not a scenario I ever imagined before
we had kids, because I loved spending the night with
friends and family, And you know what I'm saying, Like,
I can't relate to my son's separation anxiety at.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
All, Right, well, I mean, you know, hey, first it's
the tablet, then it's the phone calls. Who knows what's
next to get your attention. But here's the thing. You
and your husband held the line, yes, because if you
would have given in and you would have run and
you would have like picked him up, you would have,
i think, subconsciously told him that, hey, I can act
(21:23):
this way and my mom and dad will come running
like the cavalry to save me.
Speaker 4 (21:27):
That's exactly right. So I'm proud of us, and I'm
proud of him. And now it's just a matter of
booking a trip and hopefully by the end of this
year we can maybe go a way to New York City,
just the two of us.
Speaker 2 (21:37):
And you've got a goal in mind too. Well, hopefully
he doesn't hear about that goal this morning, because you're
gonna be rinsing and repeating the spending the night at
the auntie's house and other houses too. Eight sixty six,
nineteen seven forty three sixty one. If you've got some
thoughts for Chili trying to get through this separation anxiety
with her son, feel free to reach out or tap
(21:59):
that talk back microphone. We always love to hear what
it is that you have to add to the conversations
we have here at ninety seven point one WASHFM with
Toby and Chilly in the Morning coming up next. When
was the time that you didn't get the reaction you
were expecting? You went above and beyond for somebody and
you thought maybe, maybe, just maybe they would be a
(22:20):
certain way about it, and then they weren't. You were like, hmmm,
this's ever happened. Well, we're going to talk about it next.
Speaker 3 (22:27):
Stay with us.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
I want to get your take on this. Eight six, six,
nine two, seven forty three sixty one. It's ninety seven
point one wash FM, Toby and Chilly in the Morning.
When was the time you did not get the reaction
you expected after you went above and beyond for someone.
And there's a woman who made a cake.
Speaker 4 (22:43):
A six tier birthday cake for family member. It was
a for twins teenagers, and instead of saying thank you,
oh my god, they said, oh, next time, can you
maybe not use buttercream?
Speaker 5 (22:56):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 4 (22:56):
And she went on Reddit and of course complained about
the experience because that is not the reaction she was
hoping for nor expecting.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
Right, she was looking for the oh this was so great.
Thank you for taking the time, because she spent a
lot of time on the cakey hours twenty hours. Yes,
I mean, you know you kind of want a little
pat on the back for that. You want to be
recognized for something you did good.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
When you go above and beyond for somebody, a part
of you does it not for the reaction, right, because
you genuinely want to do something nice for someone. It's
when they get critical about it. I think that it
makes it not good.
Speaker 2 (23:32):
Right when you fill and you when you cover something
for somebody, or you do something for someone else, right,
and nobody says thank you for it?
Speaker 3 (23:42):
That can be a problem.
Speaker 4 (23:44):
Should we just say welcome to parenting, I mean, isn't
that right?
Speaker 2 (23:47):
Welcome to parenting, Welcome to the world of work, I mean,
welcome to really anything, because there are times you're not
going to hear, hey, great job, but sometimes you want
to hear great.
Speaker 3 (23:57):
Job, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
And then you don't hear great job, and you end
up poopy pants like this woman and you're posting away
on Reddit. And that's just I mean, it's it's tough,
but it happens. What do you do when it happens
eight six, six, ninety two, seven forty three sixty one
is the number. If you've got thoughts on this, tell
us what you're thinking. Tell us about a time when
you didn't get the reaction you expected after going above
(24:20):
and beyond for someone. And we'll get into this coming up.
Tyby Chilly in the Morning continues, and we've got the
news on the way Top Stories at the top of
the hour.
Speaker 3 (24:29):
Stay with us.
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Top Stories Top of the Hour.
Speaker 4 (24:34):
The Trump administration is pausing student visa interviews. This decision
comes as the administration considers requiring foreign students to undergo
social media screening. A Leesburg man is in custody after
an alleged road rage shooting that happened Memorial Day. A
twenty two year old Freddy Gonzalez Escu, though reportedly shot
(24:54):
into another vehicle multiple times along ninety five in Prince
George's County on Monday. Early the voting begins today in
Prince George's County for a special election to replace Angela
also books as county executive after her election into the
US Senate. Early voting will run through Monday, with election
day on Tuesday. A new development project around the North
(25:16):
Bethesda Metro station is moving forward. It'll feature residential and
educational components, including the University of Maryland's new Institute for
Health Computing, along with a new station entrance into public plazas.
United Airlines is changing how long you have to check
into their flights, so starting June third, passengers without check
(25:38):
bags must check in for domestic fights forty five minutes
before departure instead of the current half hour. And according
to a recent survey, new college grads find that talking
salary with potential employers is more anxiety inducing than breaking
up with somebody. Only thirty fo five percent of actually
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made and stuck to a budget while you were have
written a check or even balanced a checkbook. Forecast today, rain,
make sure you've got that umbrella handy. Hi's only around
sixty right now, fifty four in Woodbridge.
Speaker 2 (26:14):
All right, we want to hear from you eight sixty
six nine two seven forty three sixty one or tap
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it did, tell us your story. We love great stories.
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what have you gone above and beyond for someone? Only
not to get the response here we were hoping for.
Just to recap, there's a woman who spent like twenty
hours making a cake for a teen's birthday and she
was furious at the insulting reaction.
Speaker 4 (27:10):
Yeah, the team basically said, please don't ever use butter
cream again. Come on now.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
Responses on Reddit very polarized this morning. Have you ever
gone above and beyond for someone and then you didn't
get the response you were hoping for?
Speaker 3 (27:23):
Michael silver Spring, Good morning. What happened?
Speaker 8 (27:26):
I planned this huge anniversary dinner for my girlfriend of
four years. I cooked two huge steaks, all the sides,
and bought some nice wine.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
I put together the perfect playlist of music, and.
Speaker 8 (27:36):
I even cleaned the house that day when she was
at work. Well, she came home and didn't want to
eat and went straight to bed. I got a thank
you and that was it. I was hoping for a
little more enthusiasm than that.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
I think we know what he's implying.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Don't you take a pound wound? Took a pound wound.
Speaker 4 (27:53):
Oh, I'm sorry that happened to you. You know, it's
not a good thing because now he's never going to
want to do anything over the top. Nice for her again.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
Samantha and Alexandria, Good morning, what'd you do?
Speaker 6 (28:06):
I was playing this whole surprise birthday weekend? So my partner,
We're talking reservations and gifts, even got their friends to
fly in. They've showed up late and said oh wow,
and then spent most of the night scrolling on their phone.
I smiled through it, but inside I was like, cool,
there isn't going to be a next time.
Speaker 4 (28:25):
And all of his friends ended up being a witness
of the day. You broke up one more.
Speaker 1 (28:34):
Toby and Jilly head over to washupm dot com or
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Toby and Chili Mornings on Demand on ninety seven point
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Speaker 2 (00:05):
You're waking up to some wet weather with ninety seven
point one Wash Chef m We're Toby and Chili in
the Morning.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Welcome to a brand new day.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
In case you were wondering, it's Wednesday, just because I
know people are all screwed up with the days and
the week and whatnot.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
But you know, I'm feeling.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Good today, Chili because and this is this is actually
incidental to something that just happened off the air. You
know how you were kind of stretching your neck a
little bit. Yeah, I am going to before the end
of the day make a date with my massuse. Oh
very nice, Yes, because I need to have like some
sort of lymphatic massage sort of a thing going on. Nice. Well,
(00:42):
maybe I'll ask her if she can come in here
and just you know, give us some chair massages.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
No, no, no, I would not want that during the show,
because I will be asleep.
Speaker 5 (00:52):
Well after the show, okay, well like right around you
know nine, Like we'll just act like we're working, but
we'll just keep the or shut and we'll just be like, okay, yeah,
we're in here.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Please leave us be. That would be good and that
would bring us both some joy. So I'm thinking a
massage might be helpful this morning. Why are you feeling good?
Speaker 4 (01:12):
I forgot what I was going to say. Honestly, now
that we're talking about massages, I honestly can't remember what
I was going to tell you. Well, so I'm feeling
good because I guess I'm here today. Well present, I swear,
I'm like I had something present.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
It's gone present. I had to do with Donado.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
No, I don't think it did.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
I had to do it don No.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
Oh, I just remembered. Okay, I ordered some organizational drawers
for my bathroom countertop. And I know that seems silly
to bring up, but here's why. You know how stereotypically
women take over like the entire counter in the bathroom. Yes, yes,
well it's gotten so bad my poor husband. So I
bought these things that I hopefully will be able to
(01:54):
organize my face creams and whatever little makeup I've got.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
If that works, can you send me the link on
Amazon so I can do that for my daughter Kyla,
who's taken control of the bathroom since she's been home.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Yeah, I will if it works out.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
All right, good stuff. Now you've got to be feeling
good this morning. Eight sixty six nine two seven forty
three sixty one is the number. Tap the talkback microphone
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Speaker 4 (02:31):
What's going on United Changing How long travelers have to
check in for their flights? Details on the way, Top Stories,
Top of the Hour, Top stories presented by Celsia's Energy Drinks.
President Trump announced on truth Social that Canada could either
pay over sixty billion dollars for protection under his proposed
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Golden Dome missile defense or receive it for free by
joining the US as the fifty first state. He claims
that Canada is actually considering the offer. US Health Secretary
Robert F. Kennedy Junior announced yesterday that COVID nineteen vaccines
are no longer recommended for healthy children and pregnant women,
a move that was immediately questioned by several public health experts.
(03:15):
The DC government plans cuts next year due to a
billion dollar tax revenue shortfall. Under Mayor Bowser's proposed budget,
Medicaid eligibility may shrink, impacting over twenty five thousand residents,
and the budget also drops a proposed child tax credit
and alters some employee benefits. Fairfax County teachers are going
(03:36):
to get a six percent raise under the newly approved
school budget, but to cover the cost, the district plans
to cut about two hundred and seventy five positions, potentially
increasing class sizes. United Airlines is changing how long travelers
have to check in for their flight, So starting June third,
that's next week, passengers without checked bags we have to
(04:00):
check in for domestic flights forty five minutes before departure.
Previous cutoff was half an hour. And President Trump plans
to parton Todd and Julie Chrisley, the reality TV stars
we're currently serving prison time for bank fraud and tax evasion.
The couple obtained fraudulent loans exceeding thirty million dollars for
(04:21):
lavish expenses and evaded taxes on reality TV income. Forecast
today we'll have rain throughout the day, highs only getting
up to about sixty right now, fifty four in Riverdale.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Don't forget she had top stories at the top of
the hour with ninety seven point one WASHFM or Toby
and Chilly in the Morning, and next we're going to
talk about you and your headspace. How are you feeling
on this Wednesday morning. We've got some words that could
help make your day better and maybe turn it around.
If we're lucky, your morning mindset.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Is on the way.
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Stay with us ninety seven point one WASHFM. You've got
Toby and Chilly in the morning, and we would like
to pause now to talk about you and that the
space between your ears called your mind.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
We want to get you into a better headspace, something
for you to be motivated or inspired by as we
share our morning mindset quote.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
All right, and Albert Einstein says this morning, creativity is
intelligence having fun. Albert Einstein, creativity is intelligence having fun.
See smart ideas, they're born from play and curiosity. So
embrace that play and the curiosity today and realize that
(05:31):
that's where intelligence and creativity come from. Creativity is intelligence
having fun, says Albert Einstein. So are you having fun?
If you are, it will unlock your creativity and you
will do things that you never thought were possible. Keep
that in mind today as you go through this brand
(05:51):
new day, and that is your morning mindset. If it helped,
let us know, and if you need it, because you
want to send it to somebody who might need it
like you did, well, feel free to reach out to
us and let us know. You can find us at
the Toby and chilipage at washchefm dot com and we'll
send it your way. Coming up in just a few
minutes is Toby and Chili in the Morning continues.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
If you're in a relationship, is there something that your
significant other does in an effort to turn you on,
but it actually has the opposite effect?
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Mmmm, well, we'll discuss coming up the numbers eight sixty six,
nine two, seven, forty three sixty one. If you want
to jump in little pop quiz this morning, you're waking
up with Toby and Chilly in the Morning at ninety
seven point one WASHFM. What is something that they do,
they being your significant other? What is something that they
do that they think turns you on but it actually doesn't?
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Chilli.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
I bring this up because I was thinking back to
the days when I used to go out a lot.
There would be women that I might be just flirting
with at the bar and they would go in and
they would just say, grab my buttocks. Hmmm, And I
was not a fan of that. When you grabb my
up butttoks, it did not turn me on. It made
me think to myself, I don't have no butt docks
(07:04):
for you to be grabbing, how about you.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Thankfully, my husband doesn't do anything to turn me off
thinking he's turning me on. But a previous relationship a
person who just didn't know how to effectively bite the lip,
it would be very painful. I'm like, nope, you know what,
Stop doing that. That is not okay.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
That's not my orogenous zone. You're hurting me.
Speaker 4 (07:25):
That is not okay.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
No, I need my mouth to talk for a living.
Leave it around.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Don't bite her lip, Melanie, good morning in Silver Spring.
Thanks for waking up early with us. So it's something
that they do that they think turns you on, but
you actually can't stand.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
My boyfriend sings love songs to me.
Speaker 6 (07:43):
He thinks she has a great voice, but it really
just it kills the moon.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
Oh that's too bad.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
You really thought you loved that.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
He's trying to serenade you and whatnot. She's thinking, just
leave it to the professionals. Put on a good soundtrack.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Okay, Claire, good morning, Thanks for listening in Fairfax. What's
something that they do that they think turns you on
but you really don't like.
Speaker 7 (08:05):
The thing that a guy does that that I kind
of feel like should turn me on but actually doesn't
is when they open the car door for me.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
But he's trying to be a gentleman.
Speaker 7 (08:15):
It has nothing to do with me feeling like, you know,
chivalry is dead or anything like that. It's just I
feel weird sitting in there waiting for them to come
around to the car just to open the door for me.
Speaker 6 (08:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
I mean, especially with the days of key fobs right right,
you don't have to unlock anything.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
So what's something that they do that they think turns
you on but you actually don't like?
Speaker 3 (08:38):
You're not a fan? What is it?
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Eight six six nine two seven three sixty one Tap
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Speaker 3 (08:50):
Thank you for waking up with the ship.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Top stories top of the hour.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
The Trump administration is reportedly putting student visa interviews on whole.
That decision comes as the administration considers requiring foreign students
to undergo social media screening. Early voting begins today in
Prince George's County for a special election to replace Angela
also Brooks as county executive following her election to the
(09:17):
US Senate. Early voting will run through Monday, with the
election day on Tuesday. A new development project around the
North Bethesda Metro station is moving forward. The mixed use
development will feature residential and educational components, including the University
of Maryland's new Institute for Health Computing, along with the
new station entrance and to public plazas.
Speaker 8 (09:39):
D C.
Speaker 4 (09:39):
Parkson Wreck is offering seniors a chance to relax at
the pool this summer with kidfree Senior Drip Pool parties.
The events will take place from eleven to two on
June twenty sixth at Fort Stanton and July fourteenth at
Fort Stanton. Is also August seventh at Banneker Pool. According
to a recent survey, the app which American feels fully
(10:01):
healthy only nineteen days a month. Common issues include digestive problems, fatigue,
mood changes and headaches. And finally, Jennifer Lopez returning to
Las Vegas with a new residency. It'll open at Caesar's
Palace the week of New Year's Eve with four shows
and then an additional eight performance in March of twenty
twenty six. Forecasts today, have that umbrella handy. It's going
(10:24):
to be rainy with highs only around sixty right now
fifty four in Centreville eight.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Six six nine two seven forty three sixty one is
the number. Talkback microphone is always on for you too,
if you're signed it to your iHeart app and you
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Speaker 3 (10:42):
We're going to talk about seagulls.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
Perhaps maybe you were out at the beach, maybe you
were at rehoveth over the weekend Ocean City, and you
notice these seagulls and how they can be. They love
to harass beach goers when they're in groups, but when
they're alone they're not so brave. Wait till you hear
about our experiences with seagulls. We'll get to that coming
(11:05):
up in a few minutes, and if you want to
jump in, you know where to find us. Six nineteen
at ninety seven point one watch FM Toby and Chilly
in the morning.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
If you were over at the beach.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Or the shore or over there near like Ocean City
over the holiday weekend, you probably encounter to some of
these these seagulls.
Speaker 4 (11:28):
Yeah there, what do you call them?
Speaker 3 (11:29):
The vermin of seagulls or the vermin of the skies?
They really are. They are.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
They're they're brave in numbers, and they always come in numbers.
You never see really just one. If you do, it's
not a problem. You're just flying around. But you know,
these seagulls, when there's like a group of them, a
flock of them as it were, that's when things get bad.
Speaker 4 (11:54):
Yeah, they're very brave. They will come right you know.
Anyone who's experienced an encounter with a seagull knows that
they will come right up to your personal space and
grab your food, no problem. They'll do it in a heartbeat,
sometimes right out of your hand, which has happened to
me more than one.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
Really grab the food out of your hand.
Speaker 4 (12:15):
Yes they have. And I'm not like trying to feed them.
They grab me. I'm just kind of sitting there talking
with my head turned the other way with the last
kind of bite of sandwich, and lo and behold they
swoop in and they take it out of my hand.
It is jarring. And I'm telling you right now, this
makes me not want to even have snacks at the beach.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
I swat at them.
Speaker 2 (12:37):
But you know, I used to have lunch at a
sonic when I lived in Tampa, Florida, and myself and
a couple of coworkers would go and we would we
would take for granted that the seagulls were the vermin
of the skies and they would eat anything, so we
would throw like tater.
Speaker 4 (12:55):
Tots, so you would intentionally feed them.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
Yeah, we would intentionally feed them. So we would like, oh,
so they stood just as swarm. We would just do
it just seem short. And then one of our coworkers
got the idea that we could throw tater tuts in
the back of a truck's flatbed, you know, like a
pickup truck sort of thing. Throw it in the bed
at the truck, or throw a few in the bed
of the truck and then all the seagulls would go
(13:18):
in there and they did. Oh, it was hours of
endless entertainment. Taunting the vermin of the sky.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
Is haunting them. You're giving them dinner. They loved you guys.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
Well that's true too, now that now that I know
what the research says. When when they're in numbers, when
they're a flock of seagulls, they're far braver than they
are on their own. Yes, oh, these seagulls, if you
have any problems with them, you need to tell us
all about those problems. You know where to find us,
(13:48):
right right, We're Toby and Chilly in the morning. It's
ninety seven point one watch FM, and now it's time Toby.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
And Chilli's newly impossible question for us.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
To give you the chance at tickets to see k D.
Perry cfg Bank Arena when she comes to town thanks
to Live Nation.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
Here's the question.
Speaker 4 (14:05):
In a typical year, around four hundred and fifty thousand
Americans finish one of these. It is a physical achievement. Okay,
so what are we talking about?
Speaker 3 (14:15):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (14:15):
Eight sixty six nine two seven forty three sixty one.
That's the number. Here's the question again.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
In a typical year, around four hundred and fifty thousand
Americans completes one of these what is it all right?
Speaker 3 (14:27):
Calling now?
Speaker 2 (14:27):
If you know the answer Katie Perry tickets up for
grabs CFG Bank Arena in August thanks to Live Nation
CFG Bank Arena of course in Baltimore. If you want
to go to the show, call nowt answer correctly, we'll
all learn something together and you'll win your nearly impossible
question for this Wednesday Morning is on Kelby.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
And Chilli's nearly Impossible question.
Speaker 3 (14:47):
Jillie hit us with that question one more time.
Speaker 4 (14:50):
In a typical year, around four hundred and fifty thousand
Americans complete one of these what is it.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
Crystill in Greensboro. Welcome, You've got the question. Now for
the tickets to see Katie Perry. What is your guests?
Good morning?
Speaker 7 (15:05):
Good morning? I would guess the marathon.
Speaker 4 (15:07):
Have you ever attempted to run that kind of a distance.
Speaker 7 (15:11):
I have done a few half k I am half marathons,
but I've never done the full.
Speaker 6 (15:16):
My husband's done the full.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
My significant other does those full marathons and triathlons and
stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (15:23):
I got it. I barely made it through a five k.
Speaker 7 (15:27):
I've done a few of the times too, I love those.
Speaker 4 (15:31):
But yeah, Marathon No Bristol Marathon is an excellent guest
because yeah, in a typical year, around four hundred and
fifty thousand Americans complete a marathon. Congratulations, awesome, Thank you
guys so much.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
That means you're gonna go see Katie Perry to CFG
Bank Arena August fifteenth, thanks to Live Nation. Tickets are yours.
Enjoy the show and I'll see you walking in a
five k near you soon.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Sounds good, so I'm honest.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
At least I'm honest. More tickets to Katie Perry tomorrow morning.
Another round of Your Nearly Impossible Question is on. And
if you need the news and you do, Top Stories
at the top of the Hour on the way in
just minutes, stay with Toby and Chilly in the morning.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Top Stories, Top of the Hour.
Speaker 4 (16:17):
President Trump says Canada could be protected by his Golden
Dome missile defense shield for free if they become the
fifty first state. He made the announcement on truth Social
yesterday and claim that Canada very much wants to be
part of his proposed missile defense system. US Health Secretary
Robert F. Kennedy Junior announced yesterday that COVID nineteen vaccines
(16:39):
will no longer be recommended for healthy children and pregnant women,
a move immediately questioned by several public health experts. The
DC government plans cuts next year due to a billion
dollar tax revenue shortfall, and under Mayor Bowser's proposed budget,
Medicaid eligibility may shrink, which would impact over twenty five
thousand residents. The budget also drops a proposed child tax
(17:03):
credit and alters some employee benefits. Fairfax County teachers are
going to get a six percent raise under the newly
approved school budget, but to cover the cost, the district
plans to cut about two hundred and seventy five positions,
which will potentially increase class size. According to a new study,
(17:23):
Utah is the state with the worst nurse shortage in
the entire country, and Maryland came in fifth on that list.
President Trump is partning reality TV stars Todd and Julie Chrisley.
The former Chrisly Knows Best couple had been serving time
in prison for defrauding Georgia banks out of millions, and
(17:45):
researchers say that waking up before seven am may lead
to a healthier, happier life. Early risers report greater life
satisfaction and fewer depression and anxiety symptoms, and expert states
because morning light helps regularly the body's internal clock. Forecast
for today, we'll have rain throughout the day, highs around
sixty right now fifty four in kensing day.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
Eight six six nine two seven forty three sixty one
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It's wide open if you're signed in listening to us
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we're going to talk about something that's kind of tough
for a parent, overcovering their kids separation anxiety. Now, Chili,
you and your husband are trying to go through some
of this with your son.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
We are the training has begun.
Speaker 3 (18:43):
This training has begun.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
If anybody has any thoughts on how to make separation
anxiety easier, feel free to reach out. In the meantime,
stay there, let's hear what's going on over with Chili
and her husband and their son in just minutes. Eight
sixty six nine seven forty three sixty one. That's the number,
tellby and Chilly in the Morning on ninety seven point
one Wacham.
Speaker 3 (19:06):
Parenting. Sometimes it's not easy.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
Sometimes you wish it came with a manual, but there
are times when it doesn't. Like I take it Chilly
when we talk about what's happening with you and your
husband and your son's separation anxiety, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (19:19):
It's pretty severe. So he's eleven years old, and my
husband and I have never taken a trip just the
two of us away from our son. And part of
that is us a you know, decision we made. But
we've getting to the point now we're like, look, he's eleven,
We've got family in town that's more than willing to
take him for a night or two so we can
escape to New York City. And we decided to give
it a trial run a couple of weeks ago, and
(19:42):
lord it, it almost did not work out. What happened,
So my sister lives nearby, and he was initially really
excited about spending the night at his auntie's house, but
about two hours after he got there, and he realized
we weren't going to come pick him up, and we're
going to lead there for just one night. The phone
(20:02):
call started, you know, using my sister's phone to call us.
Then the video calls and my sister was texting us like,
he's very upset. He's crying. I'm okay with it if
you guys are okay with it. So we get to
about nine ten o'clock at night, Toby, and he calls
us just sobbing, Please come pick me up, Please come
pick me up. We stood our ground and he did
(20:25):
get through the night. His biggest fear was he wasn't
going to be able to sleep or whatever, but he did.
He got through it, and it built a little bit
of confidence that he can do this. Now it's just
a matter of us doing it more times so that
we can actually escape. So, you know what I'm saying,
so that we can actually do it.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
The term is rinse and repeat, rinse and repeat.
Speaker 4 (20:48):
Yeah, this is not a scenario I ever imagined before
we had kids, because I loved spending the night with
friends and family, And you know what I'm saying, Like,
I can't relate to my son's separation anxiety at.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
All, Right, well, I mean, you know, hey, first it's
the tablet, then it's the phone calls. Who knows what's
next to get your attention. But here's the thing. You
and your husband held the line, yes, because if you
would have given in and you would have run and
you would have like picked him up, you would have,
i think, subconsciously told him that, hey, I can act
(21:23):
this way and my mom and dad will come running
like the cavalry to save me.
Speaker 4 (21:27):
That's exactly right. So I'm proud of us, and I'm
proud of him. And now it's just a matter of
booking a trip and hopefully by the end of this
year we can maybe go a way to New York City,
just the two of us.
Speaker 2 (21:37):
And you've got a goal in mind too. Well, hopefully
he doesn't hear about that goal this morning, because you're
gonna be rinsing and repeating the spending the night at
the auntie's house and other houses too. Eight sixty six,
nineteen seven forty three sixty one. If you've got some
thoughts for Chili trying to get through this separation anxiety
with her son, feel free to reach out or tap
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that talk back microphone. We always love to hear what
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we have here at ninety seven point one WASHFM with
Toby and Chilly in the Morning coming up next. When
was the time that you didn't get the reaction you
were expecting? You went above and beyond for somebody and
you thought maybe, maybe, just maybe they would be a
(22:20):
certain way about it, and then they weren't. You were like, hmmm,
this's ever happened. Well, we're going to talk about it next.
Speaker 3 (22:27):
Stay with us.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
I want to get your take on this. Eight six, six,
nine two, seven forty three sixty one. It's ninety seven
point one wash FM, Toby and Chilly in the Morning.
When was the time you did not get the reaction
you expected after you went above and beyond for someone.
And there's a woman who made a cake.
Speaker 4 (22:43):
A six tier birthday cake for family member. It was
a for twins teenagers, and instead of saying thank you,
oh my god, they said, oh, next time, can you
maybe not use buttercream?
Speaker 5 (22:56):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 4 (22:56):
And she went on Reddit and of course complained about
the experience because that is not the reaction she was
hoping for nor expecting.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
Right, she was looking for the oh this was so great.
Thank you for taking the time, because she spent a
lot of time on the cakey hours twenty hours. Yes,
I mean, you know you kind of want a little
pat on the back for that. You want to be
recognized for something you did good.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
When you go above and beyond for somebody, a part
of you does it not for the reaction, right, because
you genuinely want to do something nice for someone. It's
when they get critical about it. I think that it
makes it not good.
Speaker 2 (23:32):
Right when you fill and you when you cover something
for somebody, or you do something for someone else, right,
and nobody says thank you for it?
Speaker 3 (23:42):
That can be a problem.
Speaker 4 (23:44):
Should we just say welcome to parenting, I mean, isn't
that right?
Speaker 2 (23:47):
Welcome to parenting, Welcome to the world of work, I mean,
welcome to really anything, because there are times you're not
going to hear, hey, great job, but sometimes you want
to hear great.
Speaker 3 (23:57):
Job, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
And then you don't hear great job, and you end
up poopy pants like this woman and you're posting away
on Reddit. And that's just I mean, it's it's tough,
but it happens. What do you do when it happens
eight six, six, ninety two, seven forty three sixty one
is the number. If you've got thoughts on this, tell
us what you're thinking. Tell us about a time when
you didn't get the reaction you expected after going above
(24:20):
and beyond for someone. And we'll get into this coming up.
Tyby Chilly in the Morning continues, and we've got the
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into another vehicle multiple times along ninety five in Prince
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bags must check in for domestic fights forty five minutes
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to a recent survey, new college grads find that talking
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All right, we want to hear from you eight sixty
six nine two seven forty three sixty one or tap
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next on ninety seven point one, WASHCHEFM Toby and Chilly
in the Morning on ninety seven point one washef M,
(26:55):
what have you gone above and beyond for someone? Only
not to get the response here we were hoping for.
Just to recap, there's a woman who spent like twenty
hours making a cake for a teen's birthday and she
was furious at the insulting reaction.
Speaker 4 (27:10):
Yeah, the team basically said, please don't ever use butter
cream again. Come on now.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
Responses on Reddit very polarized this morning. Have you ever
gone above and beyond for someone and then you didn't
get the response you were hoping for?
Speaker 3 (27:23):
Michael silver Spring, Good morning. What happened?
Speaker 8 (27:26):
I planned this huge anniversary dinner for my girlfriend of
four years. I cooked two huge steaks, all the sides,
and bought some nice wine.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
I put together the perfect playlist of music, and.
Speaker 8 (27:36):
I even cleaned the house that day when she was
at work. Well, she came home and didn't want to
eat and went straight to bed. I got a thank
you and that was it. I was hoping for a
little more enthusiasm than that.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
I think we know what he's implying.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Don't you take a pound wound? Took a pound wound.
Speaker 4 (27:53):
Oh, I'm sorry that happened to you. You know, it's
not a good thing because now he's never going to
want to do anything over the top. Nice for her again.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
Samantha and Alexandria, Good morning, what'd you do?
Speaker 6 (28:06):
I was playing this whole surprise birthday weekend? So my partner,
We're talking reservations and gifts, even got their friends to
fly in. They've showed up late and said oh wow,
and then spent most of the night scrolling on their phone.
I smiled through it, but inside I was like, cool,
there isn't going to be a next time.
Speaker 4 (28:25):
And all of his friends ended up being a witness
of the day. You broke up one more.
Speaker 1 (28:34):
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