April 25, 2025 • 10 mins
Avery is confused why Jason won't call her back after a fun date together... Find out why Avery got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
You've ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
It's the Fred Show. Avery, Good morning, welcome to the program.
How are you Hi? I'm doing okay.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
How are you?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
We're doing all right, We're doing gratually. We're doing great,
maybe better than you because you feel like this guy
Jason is ghosting you. So what we need to know
is kind of you have to set us up here
with all the backstory. How did you meet Jason? How
many dates have you been on Jason rows?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Is you?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Are you dabbling again? It is not me because I
would be doing Avery right. Yes, of course you would.
Of course you would. I just didn't know if you're
going back to your pastways. But you never know. There's
a different Jason. But what did fill us in? Avery?
What's the backstory? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Different, different Jason. Because we matched on hinge.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
And he asked me out for drinks, I will say
he is hun.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
It could be this Jason though.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Okay, well, I mean I'm glad to be talking to
you then if it is you Jason, but no, we
had a blast in our date and I'm honestly just
so confused about why he's ghost to me because I
thought we had so much fun he was so cute.
I I don't get it.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Okay, all right, so everything went well. I asked the
same question several times a week. I feel like, but
we're looking back on the communication. That was good, The
conversation was good. No weird topics. I don't know. You
don't have like seven pet parrots at home or something.
Speaker 4 (01:27):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
I'm giving you a chance to just you know anything,
when you look back, is there anything that you thought
was weird or any reason why this guy wouldn't have
called you?
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Again, I have no parrots?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
No, okay? All right? Yeah no, And that's perplexing, right,
and it's frustrating. Perplexing. It's not a word I thought
I was going to pull out today of the old lexicon.
But you know, you meet someone on the apps and
it can be kind of a process and it's a
pain and not that much fun sometimes, And then you
meet someone you're like, this is great, and then we
don't hear from them. You're like, what's going on? So
let's call this guy Jason in just a second, see
if we can get him on the phone. Ask these questions.
(02:02):
You'll be on the phone as well. And the hope
is always is that we can straighten this out, set
you guys up on another date and pay for it.
All right, Okay, let's see what happens next. Part two
of Waiting by the Phone after this song on the
Fred Show. Good morning, it's the Fred Show. Part two
of Waiting by the Phone. Avery, Let's call Jason. You guys,
you met up one of the apps and you went
out for drinks and you were super attracted to this guy, Jason.
(02:26):
You had a great time on the date, but you
have not heard a peep from him since then, not
a word. He's not responding to you, he's not initiating,
and you're like, what's going on? Why? All right, let's
call him now, Avery, Good luck?
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Thank you? Hello.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Hi is this Jason?
Speaker 4 (02:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Yeah, who's Jason? Hig? Good morning. My name is Fred
calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio show, and
I have to tell you that, oh wow, all right,
we're off to a good start. I have to tell
you that we are on the radio right now. I
have to say that, and I do need your permission
to continue with the call. Yeah, sure, go for it, okay, perfect, Well,
thank you man. This guy's sounds like a nice guy.
So far, so good. Let's see if now I'm going
(03:13):
to tell you why we're calling you, we'll see if
you're still nice. We're calling on behalf of a woman
named Avery who you recently went on a date with.
I guess you guys masked. Okay, Well, she had a
lot of nice things to say about you, especially your appearance.
She thought you were very attractive, really enjoyed the date
that you guys went on. And she's trying to figure
out why you're not calling her back. She says, she's
(03:36):
reached out, you haven't. You have not responded, nor have
you initiated a second date. So where is the disconnect here?
What happened?
Speaker 6 (03:42):
So this is like if I'm a family of shows,
so thank you. If I want to go down this
path with her, then you guys like pay for our
second date.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Right, that's right? That is that is correct?
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Cool, cool, not going to happen. That's funny. So if
I do want to there, you'll pay for it, even
though there's no way we're going to do that again.
Why is she nuts?
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Yeah no, So.
Speaker 6 (04:07):
What do I I start? She she like, during the date,
she kept bragging about all this crazy stuff that she's
done to her exes like she was. She was smoking hot,
and I had a lot of fun.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
And it was until that point that I was like, oh,
this chick.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Is dangerous, dangerous, like like vindictive, you know, like she
she was like laughing telling me about how she smashed
the windows of one of her exes car, like he
cheated on our.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Guests and he should not have done that. I mean, yeah, don't,
don't and then don't get your car windows smashed. And
I see it pretty simple to make. Yeah, okay, well
she was crazy. One doesn't so crazy yet.
Speaker 6 (04:54):
She put she putnir in this other dude's shampoo bottle there.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
You know, and she did he was he inconsiderate with
the grooming process. I mean, what why would he do that?
Or why would she do that?
Speaker 4 (05:06):
To be honest, like I I kind of like I
disassociated at some point because the last one she told
me about was another X where she she took every
single I'll never forget this for the rest of my
left every single left shoe of her X just so
that he only had right shoes.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
That's actually I've never heard that is a problem. Like
you you got to throw all your shoes when you're done.
You got to start over with shoes, no shoes, just
the way it was.
Speaker 6 (05:42):
I mean, I was laughing a bit until she like
winked and then was like, just don't hurt me and
we're good.
Speaker 4 (05:47):
It's like cool, yeah, yeah, we're good, definitely. And I'm
just thinking, how the hell do I get out of here?
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Oh? God, yeah, I guess. I mean, I see both
sides here. Obviously, if you cheated on that's a terrible
thing to do to somebody. It's a really awful thing
to do. Somebody goes without saying. But as far as
you know retaliation, I guess I can see why people
might think that's a little bit nuts. But you know
what here to tell us more? And you know this,
of course because you're a fan of the show. But
Avery is here, Avery tell us about why you would
(06:14):
brag on a first date about some of the nutty
things that you've done, because, let's face it, you may
have been justified, still nutty, and still concerning for somebody
who doesn't know you not to mention hasn't cheated on you?
Oh nutty?
Speaker 5 (06:29):
I don't think is you know the proper word, But honestly,
I do have defense mechanisms up a little bit on
first dates, especially when someone is so hot, you know,
like I get a little nervous and I just want
to protect myself and say, hey, you know, don't mess
with me.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Those people did cheat on me. And if he treats
me right, there's nothing to worry about. Yeah, I mean,
but we don't have to. I mean, we don't have
to commit vandalism. I mean it's actually against the law
what you've done, you know, with the smashing of the
windows thing. Not to say this person didn't deserve it,
but I mean, I guess I would be thinking, Wow,
this person, this person's going to become unhinged if she
(07:08):
feels that I've betrayed her or done something. And I
don't know that I necessarily blame you, but I also
wouldn't maybe advertise all that when I first met someone. Well,
I think.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
Cheating should be a crime, truly, I really do.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Interesting take, Yeah, it.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Should be consequences for cheating to just go around and hurting.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
People like that.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
And I've really been hurt.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
And I defend myself and you know, an act of
justice where I think justice should be an acted and
I just want new men in my life.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
I don't know who they are. I don't necessarily trust them,
yet I want them to know. Just don't mess with me.
I'm tired of being messed with. I really am, And
I don't think there's anything wrong with saying, you know,
I'm a strong woman. I'll take care of my help
if I meet too, But don't mess with me, you know,
treat me properly or there will be consequences.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Well, let me ask you. It's Jason. You know, you
said you admitted she was smoking hot and she thought
you were good looking. So I don't know, maybe you
just don't mess with her. You know, you don't cheat
on her, you don't screw her over, and then you
don't have this problem. I don't know.
Speaker 6 (08:15):
I'm I'm totally down to go on another date with
Avery after she's gone and like hooked up with a
therapist and process some of this stuff, because yeah, it's
just too much. On the first date, like I Avery,
like I was having a great time, but just it's
just it was like it.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
Was a lot to lead off with.
Speaker 6 (08:35):
So at this point, I think, I'm it's just I'm
a little nervous to go out.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
With you again.
Speaker 6 (08:41):
I don't know what will happen, and uh, you know
my cars. My car's not that great, but I do
value the windshields, so like, yeah, I think I'm good. So, Kicky,
you're not in your head. This is not a risk
worth taking.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
No, the only thing she did wrong was tell him,
my girl, you don't never tell them about your crazy. Yeah,
that's kind of where I'm at, Like like it's a warning. Yeah,
but like we got to keep the crazy inside for
several days. And everybody, everybody knows you don't act normal
until the person's like definitely locked in, and then you
can start, you know, actually exposing who you really are.
(09:16):
Everybody knows that. Yeah, yeah, exactly. Now the guy's basically
stuck with you, so yes, exactly. Yeah what did you say?
I've never heard that. I've not heard that. Okay, look
so Jason, I'll ask the question. I think I know
the answer. But would you like to go out with
(09:37):
Avery again? We'll pay for it, thank you, but no,
thank you.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
I wish you the best, Avery, I really do.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Yeah, you better be nice to her because now hey,
and hide your kids, hide your wife, hide your car,
you know, because hide all your shoes, your windows, yeah,
all that stuff. Yeah, Avery, look, I wish you the best,
and I agree. I think the only the only mistake
that was made here is is telling this guy who
doesn't know you very well that you're capable of this.
(10:06):
Whether it was right to do or not, that's up
to you. But maybe we just don't advertise that.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
I guess I didn't realize how that honesty was coming off,
but I suppose I can.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Think about that. We live, and we learn avery, we
do avery. Good luck to you, Jason, good luck to
you as well, and thanks thanks for answering. You have
a great day.
You've ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
It's the Fred Show. Avery, Good morning, welcome to the program.
How are you Hi? I'm doing okay.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
How are you?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
We're doing all right, We're doing gratually. We're doing great,
maybe better than you because you feel like this guy
Jason is ghosting you. So what we need to know
is kind of you have to set us up here
with all the backstory. How did you meet Jason? How
many dates have you been on Jason rows?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Is you?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Are you dabbling again? It is not me because I
would be doing Avery right. Yes, of course you would.
Of course you would. I just didn't know if you're
going back to your pastways. But you never know. There's
a different Jason. But what did fill us in? Avery?
What's the backstory? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Different, different Jason. Because we matched on hinge.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
And he asked me out for drinks, I will say
he is hun.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
It could be this Jason though.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Okay, well, I mean I'm glad to be talking to
you then if it is you Jason, but no, we
had a blast in our date and I'm honestly just
so confused about why he's ghost to me because I
thought we had so much fun he was so cute.
I I don't get it.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Okay, all right, so everything went well. I asked the
same question several times a week. I feel like, but
we're looking back on the communication. That was good, The
conversation was good. No weird topics. I don't know. You
don't have like seven pet parrots at home or something.
Speaker 4 (01:27):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
I'm giving you a chance to just you know anything,
when you look back, is there anything that you thought
was weird or any reason why this guy wouldn't have
called you?
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Again, I have no parrots?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
No, okay? All right? Yeah no, And that's perplexing, right,
and it's frustrating. Perplexing. It's not a word I thought
I was going to pull out today of the old lexicon.
But you know, you meet someone on the apps and
it can be kind of a process and it's a
pain and not that much fun sometimes, And then you
meet someone you're like, this is great, and then we
don't hear from them. You're like, what's going on? So
let's call this guy Jason in just a second, see
if we can get him on the phone. Ask these questions.
(02:02):
You'll be on the phone as well. And the hope
is always is that we can straighten this out, set
you guys up on another date and pay for it.
All right, Okay, let's see what happens next. Part two
of Waiting by the Phone after this song on the
Fred Show. Good morning, it's the Fred Show. Part two
of Waiting by the Phone. Avery, Let's call Jason. You guys,
you met up one of the apps and you went
out for drinks and you were super attracted to this guy, Jason.
(02:26):
You had a great time on the date, but you
have not heard a peep from him since then, not
a word. He's not responding to you, he's not initiating,
and you're like, what's going on? Why? All right, let's
call him now, Avery, Good luck?
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Thank you? Hello.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Hi is this Jason?
Speaker 4 (02:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Yeah, who's Jason? Hig? Good morning. My name is Fred
calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio show, and
I have to tell you that, oh wow, all right,
we're off to a good start. I have to tell
you that we are on the radio right now. I
have to say that, and I do need your permission
to continue with the call. Yeah, sure, go for it, okay, perfect, Well,
thank you man. This guy's sounds like a nice guy.
So far, so good. Let's see if now I'm going
(03:13):
to tell you why we're calling you, we'll see if
you're still nice. We're calling on behalf of a woman
named Avery who you recently went on a date with.
I guess you guys masked. Okay, Well, she had a
lot of nice things to say about you, especially your appearance.
She thought you were very attractive, really enjoyed the date
that you guys went on. And she's trying to figure
out why you're not calling her back. She says, she's
(03:36):
reached out, you haven't. You have not responded, nor have
you initiated a second date. So where is the disconnect here?
What happened?
Speaker 6 (03:42):
So this is like if I'm a family of shows,
so thank you. If I want to go down this
path with her, then you guys like pay for our
second date.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Right, that's right? That is that is correct?
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Cool, cool, not going to happen. That's funny. So if
I do want to there, you'll pay for it, even
though there's no way we're going to do that again.
Why is she nuts?
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Yeah no, So.
Speaker 6 (04:07):
What do I I start? She she like, during the date,
she kept bragging about all this crazy stuff that she's
done to her exes like she was. She was smoking hot,
and I had a lot of fun.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
And it was until that point that I was like, oh,
this chick.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Is dangerous, dangerous, like like vindictive, you know, like she
she was like laughing telling me about how she smashed
the windows of one of her exes car, like he
cheated on our.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Guests and he should not have done that. I mean, yeah, don't,
don't and then don't get your car windows smashed. And
I see it pretty simple to make. Yeah, okay, well
she was crazy. One doesn't so crazy yet.
Speaker 6 (04:54):
She put she putnir in this other dude's shampoo bottle there.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
You know, and she did he was he inconsiderate with
the grooming process. I mean, what why would he do that?
Or why would she do that?
Speaker 4 (05:06):
To be honest, like I I kind of like I
disassociated at some point because the last one she told
me about was another X where she she took every
single I'll never forget this for the rest of my
left every single left shoe of her X just so
that he only had right shoes.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
That's actually I've never heard that is a problem. Like
you you got to throw all your shoes when you're done.
You got to start over with shoes, no shoes, just
the way it was.
Speaker 6 (05:42):
I mean, I was laughing a bit until she like
winked and then was like, just don't hurt me and
we're good.
Speaker 4 (05:47):
It's like cool, yeah, yeah, we're good, definitely. And I'm
just thinking, how the hell do I get out of here?
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Oh? God, yeah, I guess. I mean, I see both
sides here. Obviously, if you cheated on that's a terrible
thing to do to somebody. It's a really awful thing
to do. Somebody goes without saying. But as far as
you know retaliation, I guess I can see why people
might think that's a little bit nuts. But you know
what here to tell us more? And you know this,
of course because you're a fan of the show. But
Avery is here, Avery tell us about why you would
(06:14):
brag on a first date about some of the nutty
things that you've done, because, let's face it, you may
have been justified, still nutty, and still concerning for somebody
who doesn't know you not to mention hasn't cheated on you?
Oh nutty?
Speaker 5 (06:29):
I don't think is you know the proper word, But honestly,
I do have defense mechanisms up a little bit on
first dates, especially when someone is so hot, you know,
like I get a little nervous and I just want
to protect myself and say, hey, you know, don't mess
with me.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Those people did cheat on me. And if he treats
me right, there's nothing to worry about. Yeah, I mean,
but we don't have to. I mean, we don't have
to commit vandalism. I mean it's actually against the law
what you've done, you know, with the smashing of the
windows thing. Not to say this person didn't deserve it,
but I mean, I guess I would be thinking, Wow,
this person, this person's going to become unhinged if she
(07:08):
feels that I've betrayed her or done something. And I
don't know that I necessarily blame you, but I also
wouldn't maybe advertise all that when I first met someone. Well,
I think.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
Cheating should be a crime, truly, I really do.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Interesting take, Yeah, it.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Should be consequences for cheating to just go around and hurting.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
People like that.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
And I've really been hurt.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
And I defend myself and you know, an act of
justice where I think justice should be an acted and
I just want new men in my life.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
I don't know who they are. I don't necessarily trust them,
yet I want them to know. Just don't mess with me.
I'm tired of being messed with. I really am, And
I don't think there's anything wrong with saying, you know,
I'm a strong woman. I'll take care of my help
if I meet too, But don't mess with me, you know,
treat me properly or there will be consequences.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Well, let me ask you. It's Jason. You know, you
said you admitted she was smoking hot and she thought
you were good looking. So I don't know, maybe you
just don't mess with her. You know, you don't cheat
on her, you don't screw her over, and then you
don't have this problem. I don't know.
Speaker 6 (08:15):
I'm I'm totally down to go on another date with
Avery after she's gone and like hooked up with a
therapist and process some of this stuff, because yeah, it's
just too much. On the first date, like I Avery,
like I was having a great time, but just it's
just it was like it.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
Was a lot to lead off with.
Speaker 6 (08:35):
So at this point, I think, I'm it's just I'm
a little nervous to go out.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
With you again.
Speaker 6 (08:41):
I don't know what will happen, and uh, you know
my cars. My car's not that great, but I do
value the windshields, so like, yeah, I think I'm good. So, Kicky,
you're not in your head. This is not a risk
worth taking.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
No, the only thing she did wrong was tell him,
my girl, you don't never tell them about your crazy. Yeah,
that's kind of where I'm at, Like like it's a warning. Yeah,
but like we got to keep the crazy inside for
several days. And everybody, everybody knows you don't act normal
until the person's like definitely locked in, and then you
can start, you know, actually exposing who you really are.
(09:16):
Everybody knows that. Yeah, yeah, exactly. Now the guy's basically
stuck with you, so yes, exactly. Yeah what did you say?
I've never heard that. I've not heard that. Okay, look
so Jason, I'll ask the question. I think I know
the answer. But would you like to go out with
(09:37):
Avery again? We'll pay for it, thank you, but no,
thank you.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
I wish you the best, Avery, I really do.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Yeah, you better be nice to her because now hey,
and hide your kids, hide your wife, hide your car,
you know, because hide all your shoes, your windows, yeah,
all that stuff. Yeah, Avery, look, I wish you the best,
and I agree. I think the only the only mistake
that was made here is is telling this guy who
doesn't know you very well that you're capable of this.
(10:06):
Whether it was right to do or not, that's up
to you. But maybe we just don't advertise that.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
I guess I didn't realize how that honesty was coming off,
but I suppose I can.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Think about that. We live, and we learn avery, we
do avery. Good luck to you, Jason, good luck to
you as well, and thanks thanks for answering. You have
a great day.
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