April 14, 2025 • 33 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Man, the enthusiasm today, I said, you want to do
a tangent and they go yay, yeah, like I can't
screamed at the top of her lungs. It was incredible.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
I was streaking.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
I was like, let's do it. Hit the intro. It's
the tangent giving you all this shit we couldn't talk
about on the air. Put your clothes back on. You're
a kept woman. Put your clothes back on.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
That means I can't streak.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Yeah, I'm sorry. Well not around here again, I promise you, guys.
I know you were all waiting with a bit of breath.
But this woman, who apparently I used to hang out
with twenty years ago, not in that kind of way,
but she is a porn star used to hang out
this bar and my buddy was like, don't you remember her?
And I'm like no, and he was like, well, she's
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a big time porn star now. And then I guess
one of the security guys at the same bar is
a real big time porn star, like one of the
I know there's more than one, but he's one of
the more well known bald dudes. White bald dudes with
beards that have huge dicks oh, I think there's a
couple that are well known. He's not the guy with
the British acts. It's another guy. I'm not gonna say
his name. But when I was like really, and then
(01:03):
I went and looked I'm like, oh my god, I've
seen this this man's work.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Now, how did our friend figure all this out?
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Well, because he still lives there, and so I guess
he runs into some of the same folks that used
to work at this bar and they're like, did you
hear about so and so? Do you hear about so
and so? Do you hear about so and so? You know? Anyway,
But what cracked me up was I was like, I
don't remember this lady. And then I went and looked
up her picture. I'm like, oh, I do remember her.
But then I went to her IMDb. Okay, you know,
(01:30):
just to see some of the some of her body
of work. What appears she's been in one hundred and
seventy five different productions, Oh, things like porn starts like
A big twenty seven. Now, I'm not sure why she
didn't make it in twenty one through twenty or through
one through twenty six. I'm not sure why. It was
just twenty seven, Dirty Massus, Pornstar Therapy four, My first
(01:56):
sex teacher, Fixing for a Fuck two again, don't know
what happened with one, don't know what happened with three?
Four five, I don't know what happened after that. Hot
and Mean nineteen. Oh, Jesus in me Hot and Mean,
it could be the other one. Don't Fuck my daughter
(02:18):
five for me two was the best in the series.
But I mean she was in five, so congratulations. I
mean milf Hunter, Oh yeah, Fluody Wife, Happy Life three?
M A dream Come True? Are you allergic to that? One?
(02:43):
A dream come true? Ass Parade? Mommy Got Boobs, which
was a whole series. I guess. Oh, she was in
Slutty Wife, Happy Life two, so she did get she
did get the re signe callback. Yeah, yeah, she got
to be part of the series. Ass effect. Don't fuck
(03:06):
my daughter again.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Jesus won't try.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Oh my god, I got it the first time. Flesh
Hunter thirteen, I mean he's Oh she was in a
bang bus. Okay, I just these are hilarious Office Booty
Aintal Provocateur After School Special. Oh no, that one. He
hits a little close to home these days. Because we
got that one teacher on the suburbs acting like an idiot,
and apparently her husband's staying with her too. He is
(03:32):
It looks like that in some of the videos I've
seen that she's living in the house with him and
he's still around.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Is he a victim? How does he? Is he one
of her students?
Speaker 1 (03:41):
No? Allegedly there's a woman in the Chicagoland Suburbs suburbs
who hooked up with more than one student and she
was in her twenties and there like fifteen. That is
against the law. You cannot do that. Allegedly, she has
not gone to court to trial yet, but the question
was whether her husband will stay with her, and she's
out of jail, and it looks like her husband's with her,
which is just like, I don't know, but there is
(04:03):
a lot of evidence. Allegedly three some addiction girls of Bangbros.
Eighteen Okay, I'm just trying to find some of these
were funny top bottoms. Big tits at work?
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Yeah, you have big tits. You have to bring them
to work.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
I mean absolutely, oil overload eight. Oh my god, for me,
it's for me. It's big tits in uniform. Seven for me,
it's we had to continue with the series. You know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
If you have big tits, they have to be in
your uniform.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
You know, no I apparently, and go to work. But yeah,
I'm just I'm real happy. It looks like she was
in a number of you know, she was brought back
for parts of the series. It would appear that they
skipped over her a few times and then came back
to her. So you know, there's there's hope, you know.
I if for some reason you were not part of
a sequel and it doesn't do as well, they may
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come back to you. So that's a nice thing, I guess.
But I was really I had a really really good
time going through her body of work, and I'm really
proud of her, and I wish her the best. I
hope she gets an AVN. I'd like to know someone
who I think my other friend, the other guy I knew,
I think he has an AVN. So I actually know
a person who has an AVN.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
I mean, that's goal, I think.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
So I know a lot of different kinds of people.
I'm proud of the well rounded nature of the folks
I've run into, you know, in my life and career.
It's just a lot of different kinds of folks, you
know what I mean. Bella sent us this, and you
know we have this debate every now and again on
the show. Is this considered cheating? Is that considered cheating?
So here's the question, and it's from Reddit. Is engaging
(05:43):
with an AI? This is the actual title. Is engaging
with an AI for sexting, ERP, dirty talking, et cetera. Cheating?
If you are interacting with AI in a sexual manner
and you have a partner, is that cheating by definition?
Because that's where we're at. I guess, and there are
(06:05):
things of course, a janitor AI. I don't know what
this is. I actually google the other day and this
is no bullshit. I googled the other day how should
I be using AI?
Speaker 2 (06:16):
You're still trying to figure that out because.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
I continue to be like everyone's talking about it, how
would it help me? I've tried to get it to
plan the show and it does a shitty job. Like
I literally have typed in some days like what should
I talk about on our radio show targeting thirty year
old females or whatever? And it's just shit. Yeah, it
comes up with shit.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
Well, nineties radio would have probably loved it. Have you
read that?
Speaker 1 (06:36):
I think some of our competitors are using it.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
They are clearly yes, Hey I use AI to sext
so I get my ideas from a.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
For sex thing. No oh, I was like, tell me
more about that.
Speaker 5 (06:48):
I know you are like writing their cards for their
loved ones using AI, or their speeches or.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Their Instagram cap shit.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
Hey now, hey, work harder, No, work smarter, not harder.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Always fuck that up.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
I just I would love to know. I mean, because
I saw something on TikTok the other day like if
you're not using AI in your life, then you're you're
you're missing it basically, like your life could be so
much easier. I'm like, well, how you.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
Plan everything on there?
Speaker 6 (07:12):
So let's just say you want to a meal prep
for the week because you're on your fitness journey and
you're like, hey, I don't know what's eat for the week.
I'm trying to, you know, stay whatever trim for the boys.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
And yeah, you know me, I'm trying to stay trim
for the boys.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
That's how my best friend always says, so I repeated it.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Well, he's gay, so that's why he would say something
like that, yeah, gay man.
Speaker 4 (07:30):
It was a very gay man, but he tragic.
Speaker 6 (07:33):
BT will basically give you like a list of like okay,
cook this and this by this much so you know,
overspending at the store right by like you know whatever,
two potatoes whatever. They're literally telling you what to do.
It's incredible and amazing. People use it for therapy, which
is fucking crazy clean.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
No, it's fool on therapists for some people.
Speaker 5 (07:50):
I need a human who has lived through experiences to
be my therapist.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 6 (07:55):
I haven't done it, but I've considered it. I actually
asked her to read my palm the other day.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Oh jeezy. They say, like my mom, I'm getting my
mom to go to therapy, and which is a feat.
She she is conditioned, she had a bad experience and
and just refuses to go. And finally I got her
to go, and I and and she was of the
same mindset by the way that like, no one's gonna
no one's been through what I've been through, they won't
get it. And the fact is they're actually not supposed to.
(08:20):
They don't have to have been through what you went through.
In fact, it's better if they don't. I mean, you
want to. I get that you want a human because
you want some empathy.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Yeah, I want a human for that, But you know
I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
I don't. I don't want my therapist to have daddy
issues like I do. And if they do, I don't
want it to break through because I feel like then
it becomes kind of about them. You know, it's almost
like are we talking about you orre we talking about me?
I mean, if I get to be selfish with my
communication in one area, it's that one because I'm paying
your ass, so it's about me when I when I'm
paying you that much money every week, it's about me.
(08:54):
But this person said no on Reddit, a lot of
comments on this, it's not cheating. The AI is being used,
so the same thing porn is being used for. In
this case, it's purely for sexual reasons, not emotional fulfillment.
You're not engaging with another human. It's just a computer
code that's responding to how other people have responded to it.
I guess it learns from other people. Oh good, so
(09:14):
I get whatever saying to me is what got somebody
else off previously.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Yeah, it's enough for me.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
And then someone said and it's pretty I think it's
a fair comment. It's like, well, why are you doing
that if you're in a relationship, just text me.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
Right, That's the part I would get caught up on.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Like the porn, I kind of get because if you like,
men are visual more. I think scientifically it's been proven
that we are more visual than you guys are. So
if I'm looking for stimulus, I guess I could watch
that and you're not around. Now, if I'm watching that
while you're in the house and doing that, then we
probably have a disconnect. But like, if you're not there,
(09:51):
and especially for long distance, and I'm looking for and
you're not available or whatever, then I don't necessarily see
a problem with that. But when I see a problem,
and I'm not sure if consider it cheating or just
that there's a disconnect in your relationship, but when you're
relying on that over the connection with your partner, Again,
not sure if it's cheating. But my question would be,
why do you need that? Why do you need a
(10:12):
computer to tell you shit to get you off when
you're with somebody, Right, That's what I would say. So
I don't know if it's I don't know if it's cheating.
But I guess I wouldn't be happy if I found
out that my if I had a girlfriend that she
you know, when she got horny, she went on chat
GPT and told it that she was horny.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
Yeah, I don't like it.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
I need to hear what it says.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
Do you think porn is cheating?
Speaker 3 (10:37):
No?
Speaker 7 (10:38):
No, but this I feel like when you're talking to somebody,
it's like emotional, it's thoughtful. Porn is just you watching it.
You get off, okay, you move on, but like when
you're having a conversation, like you can fight in in
somebody else.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
I don't like this at all.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
And it doesn't matter that it's not even a real person.
Speaker 7 (10:55):
Yeah, it doesn't matter because you have somebody that you
can text and provide it.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
I'm right here, I agree with that.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
Yeah, I don't like this at all.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
What do you think?
Speaker 6 (11:03):
I think that we should stop looking for love and
machinery and like a AI, I'm telling you ask it
to like read your palm, ask it to make you
a prep you know, prepper meals for the week or whatever.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
Or your barbie or what the damn barbie that everybody's making.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Yeah, I don't get those Oh those right now.
Speaker 4 (11:21):
I knew that was coming, but I figured, yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Some of them are funny, though I've seen a couple
that are funny.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
The barbies.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Yeah, it's like a dude, and then like a bottle
of jack is included, like the thing that's funny to me,
whatever you're into. But when I for the first one
I saw, the only one I thought was funny. I
thought somebody had actually made that for the person for
their it was their birthday, and I was like, oh,
that's cute. I didn't realize it was a It was
like a thing that will spit it out for you.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
And the other thing is funny to me is that
it's always funny to me when people have a chance
to make an avatar of themselves because you get to
see how they view them.
Speaker 5 (11:59):
So else I or your bit moji, I'm like, my
do we think a lot of ourselves.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
You're awfully skinny in that bit.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
Moody and it's hysterical to me too.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
You don't be looking like that. Sorry a second, but
you but you made that and you and you posted it,
so that's what you think of yourself, right.
Speaker 3 (12:19):
Funny?
Speaker 2 (12:19):
Your hairline is receding that is a full head of hair.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Hey, but god bless you if you got that kind
of confidence, because I don't so yeah, so fair enough.
I guess yeah, I don't know. I wouldn't be happy.
I don't think it's cheating. I just I guess I
would ask why, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:33):
I would, it would It would be a problem in
my house.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
I think excessive like excessive masturbation, Like if you're always
getting yourself off and and like way like at a
way higher percentage than the times that I'm included, then
I would start to feel self conscious. If I'm being honest,
whether you're using chat ept or porn or whatever you're doing,
at some point I would be like, wait a minute,
why are you so ravenous? You know when I'm not around,
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And then when I am around, it's like because I guess,
I would just assume it's not very good with me.
That's what I would assume, wouldn't you If Big Tim
were home just whacking it like I mean like once
an hour every hour you're gone, and then you come
home and you're like, okay, well I'll help you with that,
and he's like no, I'm good.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
Oh yeah, No.
Speaker 7 (13:17):
If he's not giving me what I need, then I
have a problem with that. But if you're doing I
don't know.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
What you're doing, so hey, whack off, my bro. I
don't care. But like, if it comes to the point
where it's like I can't.
Speaker 7 (13:26):
Get what I need because you are already doing it,
then yeah, because now you prefer yourself over me.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
Because I've said this before, I honestly think. I think
I'm at a point in my life where I can
satisfy myself pretty easily. And I don't. And I don't
know if it's like a forty year old drive thing
or whatever, but like once a day I'm good, Like
I'm a happy guy, and I can handle that quickly
and efficiently. I don't have to do anything.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
You don't have to buy nobody a meal, right, I
don't have.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
To talk to anybody. I don't have to go on
a bunch of shitty days just to get laid. You know,
I don't have to. And I'm telling you it's a problem.
I'm telling you that it is causing me to disconnect.
I think. But I think when my drive was when
I was like insatiable, and I think because I was
kind of late to fucking you know, I was twenty one,
So maybe I spent a lot of time in my
twenties and thirties like doing what everybody else was doing,
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like catching up, you know, and like discovering. But now
I don't know, like I could very easily go home
do what I need to do with myself, and then
I'm set. I'm set, Like I don't necessarily need to
go out for that. Now I realize there's more to
a relationship than sex. But if you take that off
the table, then the motivation to put yourself through the
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process to meet someone, I think it becomes a little
bit less important. And I think that, you know, technology
probably is appeasing people in ways that humans should be,
and so that is the issue, I think, more than
cheating or whatever else. It's, well, why aren't we using
other humans to do things that we used to use
humans for? Right, You could say the same thing about friendships.
(14:58):
You could say the same thing about it people finding
companionship in places everywhere, but in sort of the more
traditional way. And I think I think we're starting to
see people aren't getting married, people are getting married later people.
I was talking to my buddy over the weekend. Who's
got a high school, a couple of high school students,
the girls will leave the house that his son will not.
His son would much and good looking kid, talented, smart,
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His would much rather play video games and talk to
his friends on a little headset while they're shooting it shit.
Then then go out and do the shit we used
to do. And we were forced to do it because
that was the only human interaction we were going to get.
It wasn't like it is now.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
These kids are different.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
Man.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
They're drinking less, they're they're having sex less. I mean,
I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
Well I think I think a lot of folks they
don't have that. They're not ingratiated with each other like
they see each other at school. Look at the COVID
kids who didn't see each other at school for like
two years. But I think, you know, a lot of
my friends who have teenage kids will tell you that
it's like go outside, like go outside. A lot of
them don't the crazy thing. And we've talked about this
(16:02):
on the air before. A lot of them don't want
to get their driver's licenses. Don't wait till like they
got to go to college. They have to drive because
they're leaving town, they'll go and get a driver's license.
But otherwise it's like you can either drive me around
or I don't need it. Let me tell you something.
My birthday, that DMV open at seven, I was there
at six fifty. I was fucking ready. Ran yeah, I
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was ready, like give me a driver's license. This is,
aside from getting a bicycle, that was the most freedom
that I can ever remember having. I could go anywhere.
Remember when I get a bicycle and your parents will
let you drive, you know, ride away and go hang
out with your friends and stuff everywhere.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
Track.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
Yes, I I don't think i'd let my kids do
it now. But it was like you would get up
and you go and you'd ride your bike with your friends.
You go to the ice cream store, maybe get a
little money, you go get some lunch. And I wouldn't
be home till the street lights came on. I'd be
gone all day. And we didn't have cell phones pagers.
I mean this was the late eighties. Man, Like nobody
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could get a hold of me, and it was just
like he'll be home right, you know. And but now
you can get stimulation in other ways. You don't have
to leave the house, and I think that's kind of crazy.
Speaker 3 (17:12):
It's very wild.
Speaker 7 (17:13):
They talked to kids in different states that they you know,
they never met, but like they'll be a part of
their lives for years because they sit on the video
game and talk to each other.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
The other thing I think is weird, and I'm not
saying it's it's necessarily creepy because I think most of
it's benign, but like when adults are playing kids in
video games, Yeah, I think that's kind of weird. I agree, Yeah,
I wouldn't be happy about that. And I'm not saying
everybody who does that is doing something wrong, but I
I there are some examples of that, and it's just like,
I don't know, go play with other adults, or go
play with other kids or something. I don't know, Like
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why are growing ups playing video games with children? I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (17:45):
It's kiss Yeah, our stay or Go caller deals with gaming.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Oh it does.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
Yeah, So stay tuned.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
That's tease. You're listening to this real time. That's tomorrow. Yeah. Yeah.
And I had a boss once and like I went
over to his house and he was he had his
little headset on when he answered the door, and he
was playing Madden and he was fucking screaming. He's like,
fuck you, man, And I'm like, who are you playing?
He's like, I don't know, some teenager in Minneapolis or something.
And I'm like wait, and he's like, I don't know that.
(18:13):
They're the best at the game, like they have the
most time to perfect it, like they're really good at challenging.
And I'm like, I know. And he wasn't doing anything
he shouldn't be doing. But I'm like, dude, you're a
married man, Like, come on, go find someone in your
own age to play video games? Work right, Like do something?
I don't do something?
Speaker 2 (18:29):
Hunt gather yes, Hunt make a fire yes.
Speaker 5 (18:35):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (18:37):
So okay, so we don't necessarily think AI sexting, which
is the thing. I guess it's cheating, but we'd all
prefer if our partner didn't do it. No, I think
that's fair.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
I be better at it than that a computer. You
don't need her, right.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
But I also, I mean, if we're being honest, if
we're being honest, okay, well i'll ask you that you're
the married one. I'm gonna ask you this, so you
can't tell me though, that there aren't occasional times when
Hobby wants to do something and you're not like, dude,
go whack off to AI, Like there've gotta be there.
There have got to be times where and I'm not
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saying it's all the time, but there have to be
times where you're like, oh, fuck okay, even if it's good,
I'm not saying it's not good, but like, I know,
I've been in relationships where I'm like, hey, it's like,
you know, one o'clock in the afternoon and I'm like,
come on, you know, and it's like, wow, we got
shit to do, okay, and something don't want to fuck me,
but it's like I'm doing this for you right now,
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and I think if it wouldn't hurt my feelings, there
have been times when it's like why don't you go
and why don't you go, why don't you go take
a shower because I have I have to wash the
fucking dishes, Like I don't know, I got shit to do.
I'll fuck you later, but if you have to do
it now, but that would hurt my feelings, that would
hurt his feelings if you were like no, not now,
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or what if it's the time of a month of something,
and he's like, let's fuck and you're like, I just
know we're not gonna do that. Wouldn't you like a
nice place for him to go where he could be
satisfied and you don't have to mess with it? Honestly?
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Occasionally he can never he can wait.
Speaker 4 (20:08):
What does the word restrain? He can restrain himself.
Speaker 6 (20:11):
Really, yes, you could wait till nine o'clock if it's one,
which first of all, you men, why do you guys
do that?
Speaker 4 (20:18):
Like you guys just like don't know how to read
the room or something. It's like, this is exactly now,
this is exactly what.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
But you're you're saying what I'm saying. You're reaffirming what
I'm saying. You're like, the ticket office is closed right now?
Is closed?
Speaker 4 (20:31):
What in you makes you want to do that at
one o'clock the sun is.
Speaker 5 (20:33):
I'd rather do it at one and get it done
with so I can go to better I would edible.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
I often do. I say we'll do it now so
I don't have too later.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
That's so, so you know what I'm saying. I do nothing.
You don't love your partner, it's nothing.
Speaker 4 (20:45):
You don't I'm asleep.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
But it's like, okay, you know what I don't.
Speaker 6 (20:51):
And then nine o'clock comes and I am tired, and like, yeah,
the sun has has you know, what's the opposite of
risen whatever, the sun has set, and I am no
longer maybe in the mood, but I'll do it because
I love them. And then once I do it too,
I feel bad. I'm like, Okay, I'm glad we did that,
you know. To be honest, I just yeah, the one
o'clock thing, you guys.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
To figure it out.
Speaker 7 (21:10):
No, I'm just I'm just laughing there, Pelina, she said,
why y'all be doing that?
Speaker 5 (21:13):
Right?
Speaker 3 (21:14):
I know, I'm on a zoom call.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
And that's what I mean. And again, like if if
you found out that that's all he was doing, was
like a I whacking or whatever, you know, internet jagging
off or whatever it is, then you'd be pissed. But
occasionally it's got to be like or you know, I
don't know, we go out to dinner and I ate
a big steak, you know, and and well that's I
(21:38):
guess I went out with you then, and I'm just
I'm full, you know, and it's like we're probably supposed to,
you know, But like I don't really, I don't know,
you know what I mean, and so I don't know.
But I would be very hurt if I found out
that somebody was was going elsewhere, you know, was finding
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other means without me. But then again, how many times
do you tell somebody no before they go find a
way to satisfy their needs And it's probably better than
if they're doing it with another human being.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
Well, definitely better than that.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
So absolutely well, another life issue solved AI fucking maybe
not not for us, probably don't, but it's not cheating.
And go check out Cliff Banger seven with my sorry
my friend, she's not really my friend, but starting someone
I know that would be so strange, I think to
like know a porn star or date a dating a
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porn star. I couldn't do it. No, I couldn't. I
couldn't do it. I don't care if you tell me
it's work and you're disconnected and I don't care, Like no,
I'm not. No, you come home from work and because
you just sucked for dicks, like but what I'm saying
like no, it's.
Speaker 5 (22:50):
Like a guy in acologist, like I'm sure the last
thing you want to see when you get home is
another vagina.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
But I would argue that is much easier to disconnect
from because it's not sexual, very clinical, and from what
I understand, it's I've heard this. I've heard I've heard
this from female kind of colleges that I know who
are just like, ah, like, it's not sexy at all. No, no, no, no, no, no,
one should be set of. You know, you're either going
(23:17):
for a check up, you're going because you're pregnant, or
you're going because something's wrong and right, ye and yeah,
yeah and yeah, yeah, I heard some stories. Man, I'm like,
excuse me. Yeah, if anything, the stories clouded my ability
to see like I have to.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
It's like it's like eating It's like.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
Eating meat, Like meat is delicious, okay, but if I
think too much about what I'm I'm eating something that
was living, you know what I'm saying. Like, if I
get too in my brain about what eating meat entails exactly, yeah,
excuse me, then it's yeah, well there you go. Then
I get all choked up and it's nasty and disgusting.
If you think about what sex is like, if you
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really think about it, it's kind of gross.
Speaker 2 (24:06):
I don't see you lost me there.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Like physiologically, like it's kind of gross, Like you think
if you really get into the weeds about like I'm
sticking my penis, is that like p comes out of
into your vagina that lots of things come out of yeah,
or like I mean ingesting, you know what I mean?
Like if you again, if you get really into the weeds,
(24:29):
like scientific on what you're doing, it's like, well, that's
it takes the fun away. So if anything, I would think,
I don't know, like I hear these stories that I'm
just like, oh, that happens there.
Speaker 5 (24:40):
Right, But then maybe a straight male gynecologist would be like, oh,
I don't want to see that, you know, for a
different reason.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
Hopefully he's not seeing that, right, you know. I wonder
about that though, like if you're a straight male gynecologist
and you're married, does your wife come home be like, dude,
I don't know, something's up, take a look or do they?
Or do they never do that? And go to someone
I would imagine the best thing to do would be
to have someone completely unrelated, like disconnected from you, that
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they can go to to talk about that, because again,
like they're doctors. But does that take away from the
sensuality of it when you're being scientific about your partner,
you know, I don't know, or like when people have
to go through IVF or they have to go through
like you know, when they're trying to get pregnant and
you get into the science of it. I've heard that
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takes all the fun out of it.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Yeah, I can't understand, because.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
It's like we got to fuck right now, you know,
we like today we have fuck ten times and like
I don't care if you want to, like you're going
to do it because we're trying to have a baby.
And it's like because I'm ovulating, because I did the math,
and because this and that and the other thing. You know,
it's I don't know. I feel like that it just
takes the improvisation out of it and it becomes like
a task. And it's funny because I never would have
thought that. But my friends who have been through it
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are like, dude, I got to go home. It is
like the third time the day, you know, and they're
just like, it's not even fun because it's not we're
not doing this because we're like for pleasure. We're doing
this for function. And so I think once if you
start thinking about anything too much. It becomes a lot
less sexy.
Speaker 3 (26:08):
But for sure, I don't. I try not to think.
I love that for yourself.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
I do too, I do. I do way too much thinking.
I sit around and think all day, torture yourself about everything.
I do nothing but think. I'm thinking.
Speaker 3 (26:22):
Right now, That's what I'm always on TikTok. I can't.
Speaker 1 (26:24):
SAME's where the legos come in. Yeah, y'all laughing at me.
Y'all laughing at me. But the lego thing, you can't.
I guess I'm not smart enough to not focus on
the legos to the point where I can't be doing
other shit. I can't. I gotta be looking at the
instruction book. I got to be paying attention to what
I'm doing. And I can't be on the phone. I
can't be on TikTok. I can't be writing emails. I
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can't be looking at rating spreadsheets. I can't because I'm
too busy putting together the fucking DeLorean.
Speaker 2 (26:50):
I think you've got to go do some legos right.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
Which, by the way, is in the mail room right now,
my deloreon, And I'm about to go start putting that thing.
Speaker 2 (26:56):
Oh, get out of here.
Speaker 1 (26:58):
I know. I know, I've been here. Yeah, I mean,
do you.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
Watch that nerdy ship, the Mandalorian.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
The du Larean. It's the back to the Future time machine.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
Okay, got it? I uh, Star Wars that little guy okay,
got it.
Speaker 1 (27:15):
No, but if you like Star Wars and Harry Potter,
they got all kinds of legos for you. They got
all kinds of legos for you. I don't know, and
Harry Potter too, And I don't know anything about any
of them. So I can't like people putting together raven
door or what's it called raven.
Speaker 5 (27:31):
Raven gryffindor raven cloths, Lytherin and huffle.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
Poster putting together and I'm just I think it's a
I think it's I don't know what it is. It's
either Harry Potter. I know they have a thrones. Maybe
I don't know what it is, but it's like a whole.
It's like a it's like a like a mansion with
like green grass, and it's it's.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
From one of these sports.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Maybe I don't know if It'srry Potter, though it could be.
It could be one of the other nerdy things that
they have, but it's a nerdy thing and it looks
super cool. I just have no idea what I'm looking at,
so I can't buy that one.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
Ama Thrones would be hard. There's a ton of different
areas in that.
Speaker 1 (28:12):
They have a h They have a steamship right now.
That looks cool, but like it's like one of those riverboats,
you know, with the big paddle on the back. But
I don't know what the fuck I'd do with that.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
So, yeah, you don't think you need it?
Speaker 1 (28:27):
No, But I I went mini viral last week do
with a little TikTok video, and I can't believe how
many other adults can relate to exactly what I'm saying. Yes,
a lot of people are on there going oh no, no, no.
I'm a grown up with grown up money, and I
go to Lego store all the time. I'm always buying
these things. I got way more than I can. I
don't even know what to do with them. I started
with one, now I have a hundred. That's the other
(28:48):
thing is, I don't know what the fuck like the
pac Man thing is. The pac Man video game arcade
is cool. Yeah, that was awesome, and it's like I
put it on a little little shelf and like, I
like looking at it. It's cool looking, but at some
point I'm gonna wind to like what the fuck am
I going to do with Like they've got a Picasso
you can put together have like sunflowers. It's like and
you build the frame and everything. I'm like, yeah, it's cool,
(29:10):
but what the fuck am I going to do with that?
Speaker 7 (29:11):
Like I think it'll be cool to have like little
display cases of your different projects, and then you know.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
I have seen some people have like really cool floating shelves,
like a whole of floating shells, and.
Speaker 2 (29:24):
It's just so many toys.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
I got a lot of shit in there. It's a
very cool background. Like, it looks cool.
Speaker 3 (29:32):
That I think you should do that.
Speaker 1 (29:34):
I've also seen people display shoes in a cool way,
but it's if I've seen ten people display their shoes.
One of them looked really cool and the rest looked
really like cluttery.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
The bootleg version.
Speaker 1 (29:47):
I've seen it done in a cool way, And I
especially like when people have their closets custom made to
display all the shoes. That looks cool. But because I
have so many shoes, I've thought like what if I
I need space? So like what if I made it
shelf and like that was my background. In my office,
we're all my shoes. But it winds up looking junkie
and every now. But it's like super rich people that
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have them on display around. I'm like, that looks awesome.
Speaker 5 (30:10):
Yeah, Or see yourself moving to a house or do
you think you'll always be a city boy?
Speaker 1 (30:14):
I can't justify anything more than a condo right now
because it's close to work. I don't need all the space.
I don't want to have to clean it. I barely
use the space I do have. Yeah, but I think
about like when I go home and it does it's
very freeing. It's like, you know, you can kind of
spread out a little bit, like the condo can feel
a little claustrophobic at times. But it just doesn't make sense.
(30:34):
What about you. Would you move to the suburbs?
Speaker 2 (30:36):
Oh, God, over my dead body.
Speaker 5 (30:37):
It's so expensive to raise kids in the city though,
so if I'm blessed with kids, I would probably have
to rethink it. But if I had the money, I
would never move to the suburbs.
Speaker 2 (30:45):
Oh, I'm girl, it's for me. I'm not hating on you.
Speaker 7 (30:49):
I just would love you to be a suburban neighbor.
I feel like you would be so fun in the
COVID set listen.
Speaker 2 (30:54):
I love it. I was raised drinking beers in a garage.
I love it. But my people aren't in the suburbs here,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (31:02):
Like if I had, if I could live by my
friends or my family, then I would already bought a house,
you know.
Speaker 2 (31:07):
But I love the city, and I've heard about.
Speaker 1 (31:09):
Cool neighborhood shit that goes on, like Friday night barbecues.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Yeah, I feel like Kaylin's house would be like the house.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
Oh like my grandfather who had the cagerator in the
garage and everybody knew how to get the garage open,
and so like at any given time he'd stop by
and one of his neighbors would be standing there drinking
a beer, and it's like, oh hey, I mean that
would kind of annoy mean.
Speaker 2 (31:26):
Sometimes you wouldn't be that house.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
Yeah. No, no, I would definitely change the coat a lot.
But you know, I mean, you come to my house,
I would be generous with the beer. When I had.
The rule would be when the garage store is open,
then you are free to come drink my beer. It's
not that I don't want you drinking my beer. It's
I want to choose when you drink my beer? Is
how that would go?
Speaker 3 (31:49):
You would do no?
Speaker 1 (31:52):
Yeah, no issue which mine is yours? When I invite
you in? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (31:56):
No, I fucking love a black party. You are correct
about that. I do love it. If I had Paulinae situation,
if my gay best friend was knocking down the door
anytime of the day, you know, if my mom was nearby,
I would absolutely move to a house.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
I don't have a dog. I would have. I would
like more space, like, for example, if it's legos or
if it's whatever it is. I would love to be
able to have a space where I could lay that
shit out and then walk away from it and I
didn't have to look at it all the time. Yeah,
back here, I don't have that. Now a backyard. I
would have a dog, for sure.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
It's nice, you.
Speaker 1 (32:26):
Know, I just I Yeah, so maybe someday, but I
love this little life now. It's just me. It don't
makes sense right now. If I had another person living
with me, then we would need we would need to
ten x the space we would need. There would need
to be enough space where you could be in the
house I could be in the house. I didn't know it. Yeah,
I'm up there with a I whacking off and you're
(32:47):
I don't know what you're doing right above the garage.
Speaker 5 (32:49):
I will say, like when I go back to the
suburbs of Michigan, I'm like, wow, like I can just
drive and do my errand or everything so much easier.
Speaker 2 (32:57):
And that is a very nice feeling.
Speaker 3 (32:58):
But I don't know.
Speaker 1 (33:00):
Yeah, it seems like I go to my parents' house.
They got a yard, they got a pool, And I
know I took all that for granted growing up because
everybody had it. Not everyone had as nice of a house,
but like everybody had a pool, everybody had the backyard,
everybody had the basketball hoop, everybody had the big ride
their bikes. Everybody had that. And now it's like I
go back and I'm like, this is kind of cool.
You know, I can walk outside and I have like
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hotel amenities, you know, and his lawn you know, well yeah, yeah,
I mean, who the fuck is Jim.
Speaker 2 (33:28):
It's your neighbor. You know, he's always pool. Well, listen,
because it's it's a community.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
Get your get that's get my fucking beer out of
your hand and get your speedo ass out of my pool.
I didn't invite you. The garage store was not open.
You fuck never mind. I'm staying in my Gondo forever.
All Right, there's the chance. Thanks for listening.
Man, the enthusiasm today, I said, you want to do
a tangent and they go yay, yeah, like I can't
screamed at the top of her lungs. It was incredible.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
I was streaking.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
I was like, let's do it. Hit the intro. It's
the tangent giving you all this shit we couldn't talk
about on the air. Put your clothes back on. You're
a kept woman. Put your clothes back on.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
That means I can't streak.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Yeah, I'm sorry. Well not around here again, I promise you, guys.
I know you were all waiting with a bit of breath.
But this woman, who apparently I used to hang out
with twenty years ago, not in that kind of way,
but she is a porn star used to hang out
this bar and my buddy was like, don't you remember her?
And I'm like no, and he was like, well, she's
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a big time porn star now. And then I guess
one of the security guys at the same bar is
a real big time porn star, like one of the
I know there's more than one, but he's one of
the more well known bald dudes. White bald dudes with
beards that have huge dicks oh, I think there's a
couple that are well known. He's not the guy with
the British acts. It's another guy. I'm not gonna say
his name. But when I was like really, and then
(01:03):
I went and looked I'm like, oh my god, I've
seen this this man's work.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Now, how did our friend figure all this out?
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Well, because he still lives there, and so I guess
he runs into some of the same folks that used
to work at this bar and they're like, did you
hear about so and so? Do you hear about so
and so? Do you hear about so and so? You know? Anyway,
But what cracked me up was I was like, I
don't remember this lady. And then I went and looked
up her picture. I'm like, oh, I do remember her.
But then I went to her IMDb. Okay, you know,
(01:30):
just to see some of the some of her body
of work. What appears she's been in one hundred and
seventy five different productions, Oh, things like porn starts like
A big twenty seven. Now, I'm not sure why she
didn't make it in twenty one through twenty or through
one through twenty six. I'm not sure why. It was
just twenty seven, Dirty Massus, Pornstar Therapy four, My first
(01:56):
sex teacher, Fixing for a Fuck two again, don't know
what happened with one, don't know what happened with three?
Four five, I don't know what happened after that. Hot
and Mean nineteen. Oh, Jesus in me Hot and Mean,
it could be the other one. Don't Fuck my daughter
(02:18):
five for me two was the best in the series.
But I mean she was in five, so congratulations. I
mean milf Hunter, Oh yeah, Fluody Wife, Happy Life three?
M A dream Come True? Are you allergic to that? One?
(02:43):
A dream come true? Ass Parade? Mommy Got Boobs, which
was a whole series. I guess. Oh, she was in
Slutty Wife, Happy Life two, so she did get she
did get the re signe callback. Yeah, yeah, she got
to be part of the series. Ass effect. Don't fuck
(03:06):
my daughter again.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Jesus won't try.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Oh my god, I got it the first time. Flesh
Hunter thirteen, I mean he's Oh she was in a
bang bus. Okay, I just these are hilarious Office Booty
Aintal Provocateur After School Special. Oh no, that one. He
hits a little close to home these days. Because we
got that one teacher on the suburbs acting like an idiot,
and apparently her husband's staying with her too. He is
(03:32):
It looks like that in some of the videos I've
seen that she's living in the house with him and
he's still around.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Is he a victim? How does he? Is he one
of her students?
Speaker 1 (03:41):
No? Allegedly there's a woman in the Chicagoland Suburbs suburbs
who hooked up with more than one student and she
was in her twenties and there like fifteen. That is
against the law. You cannot do that. Allegedly, she has
not gone to court to trial yet, but the question
was whether her husband will stay with her, and she's
out of jail, and it looks like her husband's with her,
which is just like, I don't know, but there is
(04:03):
a lot of evidence. Allegedly three some addiction girls of Bangbros.
Eighteen Okay, I'm just trying to find some of these
were funny top bottoms. Big tits at work?
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Yeah, you have big tits. You have to bring them
to work.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
I mean absolutely, oil overload eight. Oh my god, for me,
it's for me. It's big tits in uniform. Seven for me,
it's we had to continue with the series. You know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
If you have big tits, they have to be in
your uniform.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
You know, no I apparently, and go to work. But yeah,
I'm just I'm real happy. It looks like she was
in a number of you know, she was brought back
for parts of the series. It would appear that they
skipped over her a few times and then came back
to her. So you know, there's there's hope, you know.
I if for some reason you were not part of
a sequel and it doesn't do as well, they may
(04:59):
come back to you. So that's a nice thing, I guess.
But I was really I had a really really good
time going through her body of work, and I'm really
proud of her, and I wish her the best. I
hope she gets an AVN. I'd like to know someone
who I think my other friend, the other guy I knew,
I think he has an AVN. So I actually know
a person who has an AVN.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
I mean, that's goal, I think.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
So I know a lot of different kinds of people.
I'm proud of the well rounded nature of the folks
I've run into, you know, in my life and career.
It's just a lot of different kinds of folks, you
know what I mean. Bella sent us this, and you
know we have this debate every now and again on
the show. Is this considered cheating? Is that considered cheating?
So here's the question, and it's from Reddit. Is engaging
(05:43):
with an AI? This is the actual title. Is engaging
with an AI for sexting, ERP, dirty talking, et cetera. Cheating?
If you are interacting with AI in a sexual manner
and you have a partner, is that cheating by definition?
Because that's where we're at. I guess, and there are
(06:05):
things of course, a janitor AI. I don't know what
this is. I actually google the other day and this
is no bullshit. I googled the other day how should
I be using AI?
Speaker 2 (06:16):
You're still trying to figure that out because.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
I continue to be like everyone's talking about it, how
would it help me? I've tried to get it to
plan the show and it does a shitty job. Like
I literally have typed in some days like what should
I talk about on our radio show targeting thirty year
old females or whatever? And it's just shit. Yeah, it
comes up with shit.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
Well, nineties radio would have probably loved it. Have you
read that?
Speaker 1 (06:36):
I think some of our competitors are using it.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
They are clearly yes, Hey I use AI to sext
so I get my ideas from a.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
For sex thing. No oh, I was like, tell me
more about that.
Speaker 5 (06:48):
I know you are like writing their cards for their
loved ones using AI, or their speeches or.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Their Instagram cap shit.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
Hey now, hey, work harder, No, work smarter, not harder.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Always fuck that up.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
I just I would love to know. I mean, because
I saw something on TikTok the other day like if
you're not using AI in your life, then you're you're
you're missing it basically, like your life could be so
much easier. I'm like, well, how you.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
Plan everything on there?
Speaker 6 (07:12):
So let's just say you want to a meal prep
for the week because you're on your fitness journey and
you're like, hey, I don't know what's eat for the week.
I'm trying to, you know, stay whatever trim for the boys.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
And yeah, you know me, I'm trying to stay trim
for the boys.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
That's how my best friend always says, so I repeated it.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Well, he's gay, so that's why he would say something
like that, yeah, gay man.
Speaker 4 (07:30):
It was a very gay man, but he tragic.
Speaker 6 (07:33):
BT will basically give you like a list of like okay,
cook this and this by this much so you know,
overspending at the store right by like you know whatever,
two potatoes whatever. They're literally telling you what to do.
It's incredible and amazing. People use it for therapy, which
is fucking crazy clean.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
No, it's fool on therapists for some people.
Speaker 5 (07:50):
I need a human who has lived through experiences to
be my therapist.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 6 (07:55):
I haven't done it, but I've considered it. I actually
asked her to read my palm the other day.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Oh jeezy. They say, like my mom, I'm getting my
mom to go to therapy, and which is a feat.
She she is conditioned, she had a bad experience and
and just refuses to go. And finally I got her
to go, and I and and she was of the
same mindset by the way that like, no one's gonna
no one's been through what I've been through, they won't
get it. And the fact is they're actually not supposed to.
(08:20):
They don't have to have been through what you went through.
In fact, it's better if they don't. I mean, you
want to. I get that you want a human because
you want some empathy.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Yeah, I want a human for that, But you know
I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
I don't. I don't want my therapist to have daddy
issues like I do. And if they do, I don't
want it to break through because I feel like then
it becomes kind of about them. You know, it's almost
like are we talking about you orre we talking about me?
I mean, if I get to be selfish with my
communication in one area, it's that one because I'm paying
your ass, so it's about me when I when I'm
paying you that much money every week, it's about me.
(08:54):
But this person said no on Reddit, a lot of
comments on this, it's not cheating. The AI is being used,
so the same thing porn is being used for. In
this case, it's purely for sexual reasons, not emotional fulfillment.
You're not engaging with another human. It's just a computer
code that's responding to how other people have responded to it.
I guess it learns from other people. Oh good, so
(09:14):
I get whatever saying to me is what got somebody
else off previously.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Yeah, it's enough for me.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
And then someone said and it's pretty I think it's
a fair comment. It's like, well, why are you doing
that if you're in a relationship, just text me.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
Right, That's the part I would get caught up on.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Like the porn, I kind of get because if you like,
men are visual more. I think scientifically it's been proven
that we are more visual than you guys are. So
if I'm looking for stimulus, I guess I could watch
that and you're not around. Now, if I'm watching that
while you're in the house and doing that, then we
probably have a disconnect. But like, if you're not there,
(09:51):
and especially for long distance, and I'm looking for and
you're not available or whatever, then I don't necessarily see
a problem with that. But when I see a problem,
and I'm not sure if consider it cheating or just
that there's a disconnect in your relationship, but when you're
relying on that over the connection with your partner, Again,
not sure if it's cheating. But my question would be,
why do you need that? Why do you need a
(10:12):
computer to tell you shit to get you off when
you're with somebody, Right, That's what I would say. So
I don't know if it's I don't know if it's cheating.
But I guess I wouldn't be happy if I found
out that my if I had a girlfriend that she
you know, when she got horny, she went on chat
GPT and told it that she was horny.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
Yeah, I don't like it.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
I need to hear what it says.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
Do you think porn is cheating?
Speaker 3 (10:37):
No?
Speaker 7 (10:38):
No, but this I feel like when you're talking to somebody,
it's like emotional, it's thoughtful. Porn is just you watching it.
You get off, okay, you move on, but like when
you're having a conversation, like you can fight in in
somebody else.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
I don't like this at all.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
And it doesn't matter that it's not even a real person.
Speaker 7 (10:55):
Yeah, it doesn't matter because you have somebody that you
can text and provide it.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
I'm right here, I agree with that.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
Yeah, I don't like this at all.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
What do you think?
Speaker 6 (11:03):
I think that we should stop looking for love and
machinery and like a AI, I'm telling you ask it
to like read your palm, ask it to make you
a prep you know, prepper meals for the week or whatever.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
Or your barbie or what the damn barbie that everybody's making.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Yeah, I don't get those Oh those right now.
Speaker 4 (11:21):
I knew that was coming, but I figured, yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Some of them are funny, though I've seen a couple
that are funny.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
The barbies.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Yeah, it's like a dude, and then like a bottle
of jack is included, like the thing that's funny to me,
whatever you're into. But when I for the first one
I saw, the only one I thought was funny. I
thought somebody had actually made that for the person for
their it was their birthday, and I was like, oh,
that's cute. I didn't realize it was a It was
like a thing that will spit it out for you.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
And the other thing is funny to me is that
it's always funny to me when people have a chance
to make an avatar of themselves because you get to
see how they view them.
Speaker 5 (11:59):
So else I or your bit moji, I'm like, my
do we think a lot of ourselves.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
You're awfully skinny in that bit.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
Moody and it's hysterical to me too.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
You don't be looking like that. Sorry a second, but
you but you made that and you and you posted it,
so that's what you think of yourself, right.
Speaker 3 (12:19):
Funny?
Speaker 2 (12:19):
Your hairline is receding that is a full head of hair.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Hey, but god bless you if you got that kind
of confidence, because I don't so yeah, so fair enough.
I guess yeah, I don't know. I wouldn't be happy.
I don't think it's cheating. I just I guess I
would ask why, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:33):
I would, it would It would be a problem in
my house.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
I think excessive like excessive masturbation, Like if you're always
getting yourself off and and like way like at a
way higher percentage than the times that I'm included, then
I would start to feel self conscious. If I'm being honest,
whether you're using chat ept or porn or whatever you're doing,
at some point I would be like, wait a minute,
why are you so ravenous? You know when I'm not around,
(12:58):
And then when I am around, it's like because I guess,
I would just assume it's not very good with me.
That's what I would assume, wouldn't you If Big Tim
were home just whacking it like I mean like once
an hour every hour you're gone, and then you come
home and you're like, okay, well I'll help you with that,
and he's like no, I'm good.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
Oh yeah, No.
Speaker 7 (13:17):
If he's not giving me what I need, then I
have a problem with that. But if you're doing I
don't know.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
What you're doing, so hey, whack off, my bro. I
don't care. But like, if it comes to the point
where it's like I can't.
Speaker 7 (13:26):
Get what I need because you are already doing it,
then yeah, because now you prefer yourself over me.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
Because I've said this before, I honestly think. I think
I'm at a point in my life where I can
satisfy myself pretty easily. And I don't. And I don't
know if it's like a forty year old drive thing
or whatever, but like once a day I'm good, Like
I'm a happy guy, and I can handle that quickly
and efficiently. I don't have to do anything.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
You don't have to buy nobody a meal, right, I
don't have.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
To talk to anybody. I don't have to go on
a bunch of shitty days just to get laid. You know,
I don't have to. And I'm telling you it's a problem.
I'm telling you that it is causing me to disconnect.
I think. But I think when my drive was when
I was like insatiable, and I think because I was
kind of late to fucking you know, I was twenty one,
So maybe I spent a lot of time in my
twenties and thirties like doing what everybody else was doing,
(14:17):
like catching up, you know, and like discovering. But now
I don't know, like I could very easily go home
do what I need to do with myself, and then
I'm set. I'm set, Like I don't necessarily need to
go out for that. Now I realize there's more to
a relationship than sex. But if you take that off
the table, then the motivation to put yourself through the
(14:37):
process to meet someone, I think it becomes a little
bit less important. And I think that, you know, technology
probably is appeasing people in ways that humans should be,
and so that is the issue, I think, more than
cheating or whatever else. It's, well, why aren't we using
other humans to do things that we used to use
humans for? Right, You could say the same thing about friendships.
(14:58):
You could say the same thing about it people finding
companionship in places everywhere, but in sort of the more
traditional way. And I think I think we're starting to
see people aren't getting married, people are getting married later people.
I was talking to my buddy over the weekend. Who's
got a high school, a couple of high school students,
the girls will leave the house that his son will not.
His son would much and good looking kid, talented, smart,
(15:20):
His would much rather play video games and talk to
his friends on a little headset while they're shooting it shit.
Then then go out and do the shit we used
to do. And we were forced to do it because
that was the only human interaction we were going to get.
It wasn't like it is now.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
These kids are different.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
Man.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
They're drinking less, they're they're having sex less. I mean,
I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
Well I think I think a lot of folks they
don't have that. They're not ingratiated with each other like
they see each other at school. Look at the COVID
kids who didn't see each other at school for like
two years. But I think, you know, a lot of
my friends who have teenage kids will tell you that
it's like go outside, like go outside. A lot of
them don't the crazy thing. And we've talked about this
(16:02):
on the air before. A lot of them don't want
to get their driver's licenses. Don't wait till like they
got to go to college. They have to drive because
they're leaving town, they'll go and get a driver's license.
But otherwise it's like you can either drive me around
or I don't need it. Let me tell you something.
My birthday, that DMV open at seven, I was there
at six fifty. I was fucking ready. Ran yeah, I
(16:23):
was ready, like give me a driver's license. This is,
aside from getting a bicycle, that was the most freedom
that I can ever remember having. I could go anywhere.
Remember when I get a bicycle and your parents will
let you drive, you know, ride away and go hang
out with your friends and stuff everywhere.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
Track.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
Yes, I I don't think i'd let my kids do
it now. But it was like you would get up
and you go and you'd ride your bike with your friends.
You go to the ice cream store, maybe get a
little money, you go get some lunch. And I wouldn't
be home till the street lights came on. I'd be
gone all day. And we didn't have cell phones pagers.
I mean this was the late eighties. Man, Like nobody
(17:01):
could get a hold of me, and it was just
like he'll be home right, you know. And but now
you can get stimulation in other ways. You don't have
to leave the house, and I think that's kind of crazy.
Speaker 3 (17:12):
It's very wild.
Speaker 7 (17:13):
They talked to kids in different states that they you know,
they never met, but like they'll be a part of
their lives for years because they sit on the video
game and talk to each other.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
The other thing I think is weird, and I'm not
saying it's it's necessarily creepy because I think most of
it's benign, but like when adults are playing kids in
video games, Yeah, I think that's kind of weird. I agree, Yeah,
I wouldn't be happy about that. And I'm not saying
everybody who does that is doing something wrong, but I
I there are some examples of that, and it's just like,
I don't know, go play with other adults, or go
play with other kids or something. I don't know, Like
(17:42):
why are growing ups playing video games with children? I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (17:45):
It's kiss Yeah, our stay or Go caller deals with gaming.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Oh it does.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
Yeah, So stay tuned.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
That's tease. You're listening to this real time. That's tomorrow. Yeah. Yeah.
And I had a boss once and like I went
over to his house and he was he had his
little headset on when he answered the door, and he
was playing Madden and he was fucking screaming. He's like,
fuck you, man, And I'm like, who are you playing?
He's like, I don't know, some teenager in Minneapolis or something.
And I'm like wait, and he's like, I don't know that.
(18:13):
They're the best at the game, like they have the
most time to perfect it, like they're really good at challenging.
And I'm like, I know. And he wasn't doing anything
he shouldn't be doing. But I'm like, dude, you're a
married man, Like, come on, go find someone in your
own age to play video games? Work right, Like do something?
I don't do something?
Speaker 2 (18:29):
Hunt gather yes, Hunt make a fire yes.
Speaker 5 (18:35):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (18:37):
So okay, so we don't necessarily think AI sexting, which
is the thing. I guess it's cheating, but we'd all
prefer if our partner didn't do it. No, I think
that's fair.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
I be better at it than that a computer. You
don't need her, right.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
But I also, I mean, if we're being honest, if
we're being honest, okay, well i'll ask you that you're
the married one. I'm gonna ask you this, so you
can't tell me though, that there aren't occasional times when
Hobby wants to do something and you're not like, dude,
go whack off to AI, Like there've gotta be there.
There have got to be times where and I'm not
(19:12):
saying it's all the time, but there have to be
times where you're like, oh, fuck okay, even if it's good,
I'm not saying it's not good, but like, I know,
I've been in relationships where I'm like, hey, it's like,
you know, one o'clock in the afternoon and I'm like,
come on, you know, and it's like, wow, we got
shit to do, okay, and something don't want to fuck me,
but it's like I'm doing this for you right now,
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and I think if it wouldn't hurt my feelings, there
have been times when it's like why don't you go
and why don't you go, why don't you go take
a shower because I have I have to wash the
fucking dishes, Like I don't know, I got shit to do.
I'll fuck you later, but if you have to do
it now, but that would hurt my feelings, that would
hurt his feelings if you were like no, not now,
(19:54):
or what if it's the time of a month of something,
and he's like, let's fuck and you're like, I just
know we're not gonna do that. Wouldn't you like a
nice place for him to go where he could be
satisfied and you don't have to mess with it? Honestly?
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Occasionally he can never he can wait.
Speaker 4 (20:08):
What does the word restrain? He can restrain himself.
Speaker 6 (20:11):
Really, yes, you could wait till nine o'clock if it's one,
which first of all, you men, why do you guys
do that?
Speaker 4 (20:18):
Like you guys just like don't know how to read
the room or something. It's like, this is exactly now,
this is exactly what.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
But you're you're saying what I'm saying. You're reaffirming what
I'm saying. You're like, the ticket office is closed right now?
Is closed?
Speaker 4 (20:31):
What in you makes you want to do that at
one o'clock the sun is.
Speaker 5 (20:33):
I'd rather do it at one and get it done
with so I can go to better I would edible.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
I often do. I say we'll do it now so
I don't have too later.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
That's so, so you know what I'm saying. I do nothing.
You don't love your partner, it's nothing.
Speaker 4 (20:45):
You don't I'm asleep.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
But it's like, okay, you know what I don't.
Speaker 6 (20:51):
And then nine o'clock comes and I am tired, and like, yeah,
the sun has has you know, what's the opposite of
risen whatever, the sun has set, and I am no
longer maybe in the mood, but I'll do it because
I love them. And then once I do it too,
I feel bad. I'm like, Okay, I'm glad we did that,
you know. To be honest, I just yeah, the one
o'clock thing, you guys.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
To figure it out.
Speaker 7 (21:10):
No, I'm just I'm just laughing there, Pelina, she said,
why y'all be doing that?
Speaker 5 (21:13):
Right?
Speaker 3 (21:14):
I know, I'm on a zoom call.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
And that's what I mean. And again, like if if
you found out that that's all he was doing, was
like a I whacking or whatever, you know, internet jagging
off or whatever it is, then you'd be pissed. But
occasionally it's got to be like or you know, I
don't know, we go out to dinner and I ate
a big steak, you know, and and well that's I
(21:38):
guess I went out with you then, and I'm just
I'm full, you know, and it's like we're probably supposed to,
you know, But like I don't really, I don't know,
you know what I mean, and so I don't know.
But I would be very hurt if I found out
that somebody was was going elsewhere, you know, was finding
(21:59):
other means without me. But then again, how many times
do you tell somebody no before they go find a
way to satisfy their needs And it's probably better than
if they're doing it with another human being.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
Well, definitely better than that.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
So absolutely well, another life issue solved AI fucking maybe
not not for us, probably don't, but it's not cheating.
And go check out Cliff Banger seven with my sorry
my friend, she's not really my friend, but starting someone
I know that would be so strange, I think to
like know a porn star or date a dating a
(22:33):
porn star. I couldn't do it. No, I couldn't. I
couldn't do it. I don't care if you tell me
it's work and you're disconnected and I don't care, Like no,
I'm not. No, you come home from work and because
you just sucked for dicks, like but what I'm saying
like no, it's.
Speaker 5 (22:50):
Like a guy in acologist, like I'm sure the last
thing you want to see when you get home is
another vagina.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
But I would argue that is much easier to disconnect
from because it's not sexual, very clinical, and from what
I understand, it's I've heard this. I've heard I've heard
this from female kind of colleges that I know who
are just like, ah, like, it's not sexy at all. No, no, no, no, no, no,
one should be set of. You know, you're either going
(23:17):
for a check up, you're going because you're pregnant, or
you're going because something's wrong and right, ye and yeah,
yeah and yeah, yeah, I heard some stories. Man, I'm like,
excuse me. Yeah, if anything, the stories clouded my ability
to see like I have to.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
It's like it's like eating It's like.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
Eating meat, Like meat is delicious, okay, but if I
think too much about what I'm I'm eating something that
was living, you know what I'm saying. Like, if I
get too in my brain about what eating meat entails exactly, yeah,
excuse me, then it's yeah, well there you go. Then
I get all choked up and it's nasty and disgusting.
If you think about what sex is like, if you
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really think about it, it's kind of gross.
Speaker 2 (24:06):
I don't see you lost me there.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Like physiologically, like it's kind of gross, Like you think
if you really get into the weeds about like I'm
sticking my penis, is that like p comes out of
into your vagina that lots of things come out of yeah,
or like I mean ingesting, you know what I mean?
Like if you again, if you get really into the weeds,
(24:29):
like scientific on what you're doing, it's like, well, that's
it takes the fun away. So if anything, I would think,
I don't know, like I hear these stories that I'm
just like, oh, that happens there.
Speaker 5 (24:40):
Right, But then maybe a straight male gynecologist would be like, oh,
I don't want to see that, you know, for a
different reason.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
Hopefully he's not seeing that, right, you know. I wonder
about that though, like if you're a straight male gynecologist
and you're married, does your wife come home be like, dude,
I don't know, something's up, take a look or do they?
Or do they never do that? And go to someone
I would imagine the best thing to do would be
to have someone completely unrelated, like disconnected from you, that
(25:06):
they can go to to talk about that, because again,
like they're doctors. But does that take away from the
sensuality of it when you're being scientific about your partner,
you know, I don't know, or like when people have
to go through IVF or they have to go through
like you know, when they're trying to get pregnant and
you get into the science of it. I've heard that
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takes all the fun out of it.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Yeah, I can't understand, because.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
It's like we got to fuck right now, you know,
we like today we have fuck ten times and like
I don't care if you want to, like you're going
to do it because we're trying to have a baby.
And it's like because I'm ovulating, because I did the math,
and because this and that and the other thing. You know,
it's I don't know. I feel like that it just
takes the improvisation out of it and it becomes like
a task. And it's funny because I never would have
thought that. But my friends who have been through it
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are like, dude, I got to go home. It is
like the third time the day, you know, and they're
just like, it's not even fun because it's not we're
not doing this because we're like for pleasure. We're doing
this for function. And so I think once if you
start thinking about anything too much. It becomes a lot
less sexy.
Speaker 3 (26:08):
But for sure, I don't. I try not to think.
I love that for yourself.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
I do too, I do. I do way too much thinking.
I sit around and think all day, torture yourself about everything.
I do nothing but think. I'm thinking.
Speaker 3 (26:22):
Right now, That's what I'm always on TikTok. I can't.
Speaker 1 (26:24):
SAME's where the legos come in. Yeah, y'all laughing at me.
Y'all laughing at me. But the lego thing, you can't.
I guess I'm not smart enough to not focus on
the legos to the point where I can't be doing
other shit. I can't. I gotta be looking at the
instruction book. I got to be paying attention to what
I'm doing. And I can't be on the phone. I
can't be on TikTok. I can't be writing emails. I
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can't be looking at rating spreadsheets. I can't because I'm
too busy putting together the fucking DeLorean.
Speaker 2 (26:50):
I think you've got to go do some legos right.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
Which, by the way, is in the mail room right now,
my deloreon, And I'm about to go start putting that thing.
Speaker 2 (26:56):
Oh, get out of here.
Speaker 1 (26:58):
I know. I know, I've been here. Yeah, I mean,
do you.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
Watch that nerdy ship, the Mandalorian.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
The du Larean. It's the back to the Future time machine.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
Okay, got it? I uh, Star Wars that little guy okay,
got it.
Speaker 1 (27:15):
No, but if you like Star Wars and Harry Potter,
they got all kinds of legos for you. They got
all kinds of legos for you. I don't know, and
Harry Potter too, And I don't know anything about any
of them. So I can't like people putting together raven
door or what's it called raven.
Speaker 5 (27:31):
Raven gryffindor raven cloths, Lytherin and huffle.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
Poster putting together and I'm just I think it's a
I think it's I don't know what it is. It's
either Harry Potter. I know they have a thrones. Maybe
I don't know what it is, but it's like a whole.
It's like a it's like a like a mansion with
like green grass, and it's it's.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
From one of these sports.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Maybe I don't know if It'srry Potter, though it could be.
It could be one of the other nerdy things that
they have, but it's a nerdy thing and it looks
super cool. I just have no idea what I'm looking at,
so I can't buy that one.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
Ama Thrones would be hard. There's a ton of different
areas in that.
Speaker 1 (28:12):
They have a h They have a steamship right now.
That looks cool, but like it's like one of those riverboats,
you know, with the big paddle on the back. But
I don't know what the fuck I'd do with that.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
So, yeah, you don't think you need it?
Speaker 1 (28:27):
No, But I I went mini viral last week do
with a little TikTok video, and I can't believe how
many other adults can relate to exactly what I'm saying. Yes,
a lot of people are on there going oh no, no, no.
I'm a grown up with grown up money, and I
go to Lego store all the time. I'm always buying
these things. I got way more than I can. I
don't even know what to do with them. I started
with one, now I have a hundred. That's the other
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thing is, I don't know what the fuck like the
pac Man thing is. The pac Man video game arcade
is cool. Yeah, that was awesome, and it's like I
put it on a little little shelf and like, I
like looking at it. It's cool looking, but at some
point I'm gonna wind to like what the fuck am
I going to do with Like they've got a Picasso
you can put together have like sunflowers. It's like and
you build the frame and everything. I'm like, yeah, it's cool,
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but what the fuck am I going to do with that?
Speaker 7 (29:11):
Like I think it'll be cool to have like little
display cases of your different projects, and then you know.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
I have seen some people have like really cool floating shelves,
like a whole of floating shells, and.
Speaker 2 (29:24):
It's just so many toys.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
I got a lot of shit in there. It's a
very cool background. Like, it looks cool.
Speaker 3 (29:32):
That I think you should do that.
Speaker 1 (29:34):
I've also seen people display shoes in a cool way,
but it's if I've seen ten people display their shoes.
One of them looked really cool and the rest looked
really like cluttery.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
The bootleg version.
Speaker 1 (29:47):
I've seen it done in a cool way, And I
especially like when people have their closets custom made to
display all the shoes. That looks cool. But because I
have so many shoes, I've thought like what if I
I need space? So like what if I made it
shelf and like that was my background. In my office,
we're all my shoes. But it winds up looking junkie
and every now. But it's like super rich people that
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have them on display around. I'm like, that looks awesome.
Speaker 5 (30:10):
Yeah, Or see yourself moving to a house or do
you think you'll always be a city boy?
Speaker 1 (30:14):
I can't justify anything more than a condo right now
because it's close to work. I don't need all the space.
I don't want to have to clean it. I barely
use the space I do have. Yeah, but I think
about like when I go home and it does it's
very freeing. It's like, you know, you can kind of
spread out a little bit, like the condo can feel
a little claustrophobic at times. But it just doesn't make sense.
(30:34):
What about you. Would you move to the suburbs?
Speaker 2 (30:36):
Oh, God, over my dead body.
Speaker 5 (30:37):
It's so expensive to raise kids in the city though,
so if I'm blessed with kids, I would probably have
to rethink it. But if I had the money, I
would never move to the suburbs.
Speaker 2 (30:45):
Oh, I'm girl, it's for me. I'm not hating on you.
Speaker 7 (30:49):
I just would love you to be a suburban neighbor.
I feel like you would be so fun in the
COVID set listen.
Speaker 2 (30:54):
I love it. I was raised drinking beers in a garage.
I love it. But my people aren't in the suburbs here,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (31:02):
Like if I had, if I could live by my
friends or my family, then I would already bought a house,
you know.
Speaker 2 (31:07):
But I love the city, and I've heard about.
Speaker 1 (31:09):
Cool neighborhood shit that goes on, like Friday night barbecues.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Yeah, I feel like Kaylin's house would be like the house.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
Oh like my grandfather who had the cagerator in the
garage and everybody knew how to get the garage open,
and so like at any given time he'd stop by
and one of his neighbors would be standing there drinking
a beer, and it's like, oh hey, I mean that
would kind of annoy mean.
Speaker 2 (31:26):
Sometimes you wouldn't be that house.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
Yeah. No, no, I would definitely change the coat a lot.
But you know, I mean, you come to my house,
I would be generous with the beer. When I had.
The rule would be when the garage store is open,
then you are free to come drink my beer. It's
not that I don't want you drinking my beer. It's
I want to choose when you drink my beer? Is
how that would go?
Speaker 3 (31:49):
You would do no?
Speaker 1 (31:52):
Yeah, no issue which mine is yours? When I invite
you in? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (31:56):
No, I fucking love a black party. You are correct
about that. I do love it. If I had Paulinae situation,
if my gay best friend was knocking down the door
anytime of the day, you know, if my mom was nearby,
I would absolutely move to a house.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
I don't have a dog. I would have. I would
like more space, like, for example, if it's legos or
if it's whatever it is. I would love to be
able to have a space where I could lay that
shit out and then walk away from it and I
didn't have to look at it all the time. Yeah,
back here, I don't have that. Now a backyard. I
would have a dog, for sure.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
It's nice, you.
Speaker 1 (32:26):
Know, I just I Yeah, so maybe someday, but I
love this little life now. It's just me. It don't
makes sense right now. If I had another person living
with me, then we would need we would need to
ten x the space we would need. There would need
to be enough space where you could be in the
house I could be in the house. I didn't know it. Yeah,
I'm up there with a I whacking off and you're
(32:47):
I don't know what you're doing right above the garage.
Speaker 5 (32:49):
I will say, like when I go back to the
suburbs of Michigan, I'm like, wow, like I can just
drive and do my errand or everything so much easier.
Speaker 2 (32:57):
And that is a very nice feeling.
Speaker 3 (32:58):
But I don't know.
Speaker 1 (33:00):
Yeah, it seems like I go to my parents' house.
They got a yard, they got a pool, And I
know I took all that for granted growing up because
everybody had it. Not everyone had as nice of a house,
but like everybody had a pool, everybody had the backyard,
everybody had the basketball hoop, everybody had the big ride
their bikes. Everybody had that. And now it's like I
go back and I'm like, this is kind of cool.
You know, I can walk outside and I have like
(33:21):
hotel amenities, you know, and his lawn you know, well yeah, yeah,
I mean, who the fuck is Jim.
Speaker 2 (33:28):
It's your neighbor. You know, he's always pool. Well, listen,
because it's it's a community.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
Get your get that's get my fucking beer out of
your hand and get your speedo ass out of my pool.
I didn't invite you. The garage store was not open.
You fuck never mind. I'm staying in my Gondo forever.
All Right, there's the chance. Thanks for listening.
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