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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Let's do a tangent, Caitlyn, how badly do you want
to do a tangent?
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Like the hardest, the hardest, long and hard. Yeah, okay, good,
let's do it. Hit the intro.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
It's the tangent giving you all this ship we couldn't
talk about on the air. So I saw this video
on TikTok the other day and I just look, I know,
people who have are you thinking? Are you smoking a
fake cigarette?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Because I feel like this is what the tangent is.
I'm sitting there, I got some I got some jack
or scotch. What you drink whiskey?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Okay, and I'm listening, okay, all right, good.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
I mean because I just look over and Keicky's just
smoking a fake cigarette.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Like it's just really like no one and doing the
weirdest ship all the time.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
I'm like, I just look over and she's just she's
looking at me and she got like the two fingers together,
like she has a cigarette and she's just fake smoking.
I'm like, what are the fuck are you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Her?
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Eggs bro In my mind, we're in a lounge right now.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Well, first o stuff and let me get light something
up to them in that case, do you think.
Speaker 6 (01:03):
We've made you weirder?
Speaker 5 (01:05):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (01:05):
I hope that's a badge of honor. Absolutely, that's a
badge of honor.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I've known you for a while.
Speaker 5 (01:12):
You didn't do this.
Speaker 6 (01:13):
I was normal.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
But like, I know people who live like this.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
I've I've actually tried to like people have tried to
date me and they're in this sort of relationship like
people who have open relationships, is what I'm getting at. H. So,
for example, this woman is describing how she and her
boyfriend are about to meet her husband's girlfriend. Okay, see
(01:44):
you follow me. Ye, So this woman talking is with
her boyfriend and she's about to have a double date
with her husband and his girlfriend. So married people who
have other partners, but not even just like flings, full
on side relationships. And again, if this works for you,
(02:04):
then by all means.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Like do it.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I just can't. I cannot imagine. What is the point
of being for me? What is the point of being
in a relationship if I'm also going to have a
full on fucking relationship with somebody else? Like why like
why am I in the one relationship? Why don't I
just not be in a relationship?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Now?
Speaker 1 (02:22):
I also understand that people get into relationships and this
isn't necessarily the plan, and then they're like, well, I
love you, but I want some more, I want something else.
I'm into shit that you're not into or whatever, and
they're able to make this work. I've also heard of
people doing this and it fails miserably, where it's like, oh, well,
let's just see other people and that'll that'll fix things,
and then it absolutely does not fix things. That's the
(02:43):
whole Like, let's all shit's going bad, Let's have a baby,
Like what the fuck are you thinking? Like honestly, like,
come on, what are the odds of that? Let's add
another human to this shit show? Just complete in total
complication that we have going to complicate life. We have
gone but here, let's listen to this woman talk. I mean,
this is just I just you're having trouble playing the video.
(03:04):
Why I am troubling the video?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
I feel that my son, Barney, and I are about
to meet my husband's girlfriend, and we thought that the
Uncle Cracker concert currently in Florida would be the perfect
occasion for all this to meet up for the first time.
We're so excited, aren't we, Babe? Excited? Nobody.
Speaker 7 (03:24):
I am a little jealous because I'm like, at.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
The end of the day, what are you doing with
my husband? She could be anywhere, could be making eye
contact with her right now.
Speaker 7 (03:33):
I know, I know it sounds like different, but.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
It's twenty twenty five looking for her. Then on they're
gonna say.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
She could be like you, and she's not that looking,
by the way, I mean, nothing has anything to do
with it, but it's just like on the ground.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
They're in an Uncle Cracker concert in Florida, just met her.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
She didn't want to be on camera, and thank god,
she's ugly.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
She's she's beautiful, and like, she doesn't seem to like it.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
I am beautiful too.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
She's like, she doesn't seem to like it.
Speaker 8 (04:15):
My god, I need her to make tighter edits on
those videos and pop up your voice a little bit.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
But wow, So she met the woman.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
The woman's good looking, and she's clearly jealous to look
on her face, and she's like having to reaffirm that
she's beautiful too. It just makes me wonder, are you
doing this under duress? Like is this is this the
life you want? But then she's bragging about her boyfriend,
So I mean, I don't know. I guess two things
can be true. I guess you could want to explore
and you can also be jealous, But like, I don't know,
(04:43):
why why put yourself in that position?
Speaker 6 (04:45):
I mean, it's hard to take a trip with three people,
you know what?
Speaker 1 (04:48):
I mean?
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Four?
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Because he's got a girlfriend and she's got a boyfriend.
Speaker 6 (04:54):
Oh I missed that part.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
She no, she's with her boyfriend right now. She and
her boyfriend are meeting her husband girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
So she brought a guy to So how can you
what okay?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
For?
Speaker 6 (05:06):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (05:07):
I need another drink for this?
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Why don't you light up your fake cigarette a day
to this is crazy? I guess I just don't understand.
And again I'm no judgment and if it works for you,
do it. But I'll admit I'm kind of a jealous.
I'm not a possessive person. I don't care do what
you want to do. If I'm in a relationship with you,
hopefully I trust you. So if you want to hang
out with your friends, or you want to hang out
with so and so, or you want to go out
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and do your own thing, I'm never going to tell
you not to. I mean, if we're in a relationship,
then I hope that I don't have to worry about that.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Like that's and.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
I'm so rarely in a relationship that I really want
to believe that that's the case. But but I value
what I have, like I value who the person I'm
in a relationship with. I don't want to share that.
And so the idea of being like, yeah, we sleep
together every night and stuff, but like I guess except
for the nights that you're with your boyfriend, like I know,
I just I for me, that would drive me absolutely
(05:57):
fucking bonkers. Like in the rare occasion that I'm really
really into somebody and in a relationship with them, the
idea of them being with someone else, even if it
was before me, drives me nuts.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Oh really, Yeah, I don't like that. I don't like that.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Yeah, that parton And I get that none of us.
I'm not a virgin. They weren't a virgin, like I get.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
I get that. And they didn't know me.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
I know, I know, I know, I know. Give me
the fake cigarette I need to. I mean, I may
as well be a virgin. I've been celibate for a while.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
I'm starting to find a lot of men are like
that though they don't want to think of you even.
Speaker 5 (06:27):
Having a past.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
No, Like I feel like I get penalized in my
relationship because I had an ex. Like it's like, bro,
you had a lot of X to like, you had
way more exit than I had.
Speaker 5 (06:37):
Yeah, but it's like, no, but you had the X
like yeah, and I'm like, what, I.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Guess it's a little intimidating. If I'm being really transparent,
it's a little intimidating to know that the feelings you
have for this person and the things that you're doing
with this person and the way they feel about you
they've felt before with someone else. And granted, so have I, right,
but some people don't care and I, whatever reason, have
a hard time letting that go, not to the point
(07:03):
where I penalized the person, but it's just like, oh god,
Like I don't know if I'm like out with someone
I'm dating and that we run into the person that
used to bang and it's like so you know what,
I know, Like that's fucking weird, you know. But at
the same time, it's different. I can't take it out
on the person. I can't be like mad at them. Yeah, yeah,
it's different. What you were saying, well, I was just gonna.
Speaker 8 (07:22):
Say, like, it's a probably your intimacy with someone is
different than how it was with someone else.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
You think, right, well, yeah, it's better with me than
it was with everybody.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
That's You're exactly right.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Yeah, like it was. It's awesome with me, and it
was ship with the other person.
Speaker 6 (07:39):
That's what That's what they will always tell you.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Individuals up definitely never made you come not like me
at least you know what I'm saying. You know I
have an issue with that too. You know that I
don't buy I don't buy it when I don't. I
don't buy compliments in bed.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
I don't.
Speaker 5 (08:01):
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
You're so literal i'll buy it. Like if you're like, oh,
it's the best I've ever had. Fuck, you know it's not.
Like trust me, what I'm doing it right now is
not the best you've ever had. Have you been with
a Latin man? Because I'm not that you know what
I mean. Like, I don't have any rhythm, there's no sensuality. No,
I'm not the best you've ever had. I'm not, And
so don't even bother don't tell me I'm the biggest
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you've ever had either, because I'm not I will say.
Speaker 6 (08:25):
I won't say it unless it's true. So like if
I'm gassing you up in that way, then it's true.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
But just know that more than likely the person who's
hearing it is thinking that, thank you, but unlikely.
Speaker 6 (08:37):
Okay, you don't want me to say nothing.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
You want me to no, I mean you could say
it if you. I guess for me, it's I guess.
I'm just I do have some humility. I just don't
buy it. Like I don't. I don't believe it. Okay,
I mean, I'm forty something years old, you're probably thirty
to forty. You've been with other people. I'm not the best.
I'm probably not the best, and I also hope because again,
and not all of you agree with this, but some
(09:00):
of the best I've ever had is the most toxic.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Not all.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
I've had some toxic that's absolute fucking garbage too, But
I've had some ship that was unfucking believable, and it
was toxic. And I don't even think that the act
itself was any different. It's just the mental, the place
you were just barely hanging on, you know what I'm saying,
And so that makes it just dope. And so I
hope that you're not the same. I hope you're not
telling me it was so good because we're barely hanging on,
(09:23):
because that's no fun, right. But no, I don't think
anyone's I don't think anyone's going back to their don't.
I don't think anyone's going to their current boyfriends and going,
oh yeah that guy in the radio, fuck, yeah he
crushed it.
Speaker 8 (09:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
I don't think anywhere no one's.
Speaker 8 (09:38):
Saying that you can't tell your partner that no, very
literal I love you.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
I mean, just have fun. Let me ask you, let
me ask you on this question. And I'm not going
to ask you about who with whom every time you
give a compliment, and bet has it been honest?
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Thank you? That's what I thought.
Speaker 7 (09:54):
I mean because in the moment, like you're jizzy right,
like you're paying, like like you feel feelings that you
don't feel when you're just walking down the streets.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
You're jeezing, you're coming.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
Like you're doing things your body's doing.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
But answer, that's what you're answering my question.
Speaker 5 (10:08):
No, I hear you in that moment, I'm honest, this
is the best thing in the moment.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Like Okay, hear being technical. You don't say that. So
you don't say, in this moment right now, this is
you don't say this is the best I've ever had
asteris in the moment, you don't say that. Like you said,
we've all said things to people who were being intimate
with that may not be exactly the truth because because
(10:34):
we're pumping them up.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
So that's hyper people.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
But that's a fair and that's what I'm saying. That's
why I'm saying. I don't necessarily always believe.
Speaker 6 (10:45):
Like it hurts.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
And the funny thing is, I'm not even trying to
be because I hadn't even watched the show until this year.
You're so I just I'm I'm I think about this stuff,
and I think I'm right about a lot of it.
A lot of you just don't want to tell me
I'm right because it makes it unromantic. But when I asked,
when I asked the hard hitting questions, I get the
answers that I'm looking for. Y'all lie to us. Y'all
(11:07):
lie to us. I'm a journalist. I'm fucking Gamazon Cuper.
Speaker 6 (11:11):
Try to make it a truth. Like you're the best
at this, you're the best of that. If you're not
the biggest or the best at that thing, I'm not
going to say that.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
That thing you're doing with your second finger on your
left hand, no one's ever done that before.
Speaker 8 (11:21):
No, you're the best of doing that and the best
of doing this, and the rest I'll leave out.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
You know, I'm not trying to take the fun out
of it. I'm just being realistic. Yeah, and I just
don't necessarily believe it.
Speaker 6 (11:30):
You don't like a chit chat, like a little chit chat.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
I just don't believe you.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
Okay, Yeah, I just okay, Kiki, have you told someone
they're the biggest and they weren't the biggest?
Speaker 2 (11:40):
That's what I thought.
Speaker 5 (11:41):
No, I'm not I don't say that type of stuff.
I'm not talking. He's a lady.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
You're not talking.
Speaker 5 (11:49):
Get to this, Okay, here where I need you to get.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
All right, here's a question unrelated. So I don't know,
So I guess i'll wrap that one up. Can any
of you imagine being in a relationship where you had
a primary partner and a secondary partner?
Speaker 6 (12:02):
No, do they help me like get things done? Because honestly,
like these days, maybe did they help her on the house.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Would you be okay with your boyfriend having a full
on side person. No, But if you know, the one
that amazes me is there are people. There are a couple.
There's a couple, and then there's some adult film stars
who like on TikTok, who capture their lives and not
the not the porn part, but just their lives. And
like there's a couple they're young and the girl is
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in porn. And there's one scene I talk about all
the time where like and they it's like point of view,
like they they show their lives, not bov like that,
but like they're just showing their lives because he's not
in the industry and she is so like in this one,
he's got like a dash cam and he pulls up
in front of the where they're shooting and to pick
up his wife or girlfriend or whatever she is who
just got railed. Yea, And she gets in the car
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and leans over to kiss him, and he goes no,
and he puts his hand up because it's like he
picked her up at a porn set. Yeah, we can
wait a little bit, like go home and brush your teeth. Now,
I don't know, but I don't know how people do that, like,
and again no judgment. In fact, I almost admire people's
ability to detach in that way and be like, yeah,
you can go do that because there's probably no emotion
(13:14):
involved whatsoever. It's your job, you're getting paid, and then
you love me and you choose to be with me.
I'm not paying you. But I could not. There is
no fucking way I could date a porn star. No way,
oh the porn start.
Speaker 7 (13:27):
Yeah, no, probably not.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
And I know you're in I know, Pauline know there's
no way the hobby could have a girlfriend.
Speaker 7 (13:32):
Well no, absolutely not. But I did read this thing
one time that was saying and it's really true. It
was like a TikTok and it said, I've never met
a woman with a side family, right, because a lot
of men had like secret families, And like, that's very
valid in this conversation, I think, because I feel like
when we're talking about the boyfriend girlfriend thing, not always,
not always, but I do feel like it's probably more
of men maybe that do it, because I personally feel
like a.
Speaker 5 (13:52):
Lot of women don't even want their husbands. Okay, so
we don't want our boyfriends their.
Speaker 7 (13:55):
Husband, So why would the fuck would we want two
of them?
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Like that's I mean, I feel the same way using
my shampoo.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
I need to try and navigate life with another woman,
Like you're adding another person in this.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
It's hard enough, that's.
Speaker 7 (14:09):
What seems hard. Like yeah, and be like in these
scenarios like the sex and the spontaneous part of it,
maybe that's what people It draws them in right to
want to do this, and maybe it's something new and
exciting and fun. Okay, great, but then when it comes
down to like you got to watch their underwear or
like you know what I mean, cook dinner or whatever,
like I do that already for one man, and I
just can't picture too. I don't know that part and
unless you keep that part separate, which they might right,
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they might not. That boyfriend might not be domestic right
domestically living with them, but I just I don't know.
To me, it seems really hard to balance that. That's
where I get lost.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
Yeah, exhausting, And then I'll wrap it with this. But
I did see this conversation on TikTok too how long
should sex last? Because I think we were talking about
efficiency a minute ago, Like, honestly, no jokes how long
should sex last on average? Because I guess you know
you're gonna have your times where it's maybe more passion yeah,
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or you know, a longer process. You're gonna have your
times where it's I don't know, he's like, hey, I
got to go in ten minutes like I'd love to.
But you know, let's see if you would a line
or hey, I'm not really in the mood but you
are so like more about that bang it out kind
of thing. But I mean, if we're just talking like
night in and night out, you go.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
I go for me.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
I can see five ten minutes and being very happy
as long as you went right and then I went
you know what I mean, as long as everybody can
get theirs in that period of time, I have no
issue with that. But some people would tell you, oh, oh,
it's gotta be like thirty forty five minutes an hour.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
Who got time for them?
Speaker 7 (15:34):
Yeah? I love and hate this question because I think
it's it's there is no answer. I don't think there's
an answer of like what people he everyone's different, But
like you said, are we doing this like on some
quick shit? Is this one of those long passionate candlelight?
Speaker 5 (15:46):
Nights like, I don't know if we don't do that,
but if I did, it's a long night.
Speaker 7 (15:49):
You know what I mean? Is our wine first, It's
gotta be the whole thing, or is it just like, Okay,
I'm tired, I work at four am. He's got work
at the firehouse tomorrow, so it's probably gonna be like
ten minutes, right or what else are we doing?
Speaker 1 (16:00):
But I would say, pound for pound, would you be
satisfied with a pretty consistent ten minute session?
Speaker 6 (16:04):
I think that's fine.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
I too. I don't think god, yeah, oh really yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
I think I kind of get offended when we go
longer because I'm like, are.
Speaker 5 (16:12):
You not okay? Saying like come on now? You like
I know what I'm doing, So that's what's going on.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
I know what I'm doing. I actually it.
Speaker 5 (16:21):
Turned on when a man comes quick, I'm like shit,
like yes.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
I'll say right when I was like twenty two, it
was my worst nightmare to tupump jump it. Now if
you can too pump, if I can too pump jump you,
I'm nutting. I don't give a ship and you know what,
we'll do it again. I'll make sure you're taking care
of But I have no shame in my game. If that,
if I am that turned on, then let's go right.
Speaker 6 (16:43):
No one should be upset with that. I don't I've
never understood that.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
I think the only reason people get upset is if
that's the end of it. Because for some guys it's
too pump jump and then they roll over and go
to sleep.
Speaker 6 (16:51):
That's why she comes first, exactly.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
This is what I've been saying to men for decades,
and You're correct. I've been saying I should get some
diding credit on me. Fuck. Why what does it mean
to know?
Speaker 1 (17:03):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (17:04):
What is it?
Speaker 8 (17:05):
Not?
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Fuck me too? Fuck?
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Let them fuck, let them, let them come first. Yes,
I've been saying this for decades. I enjoy the process
of the of oral sexus.
Speaker 2 (17:17):
I kind of.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Likeus, thank you, and it's a tangent I can say it.
I guess I like doing that, but I am no fool.
I have no dummy. That is an effective means to
get you off so that I'm off the hook with
whatever I'm gonna do next, because if you come before,
then if I too pump jump it no one seems
to care. No. In fact, some people appreciate it because
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it's like I already got mine, so I'm kind of
disconnected from this process. So like now it's time for
you to go, And if it's going to take you
a long time, then this is you know what I mean, Like, Okay,
do you.
Speaker 8 (17:49):
Get frustrated if it takes a long time when you're
down there?
Speaker 1 (17:52):
Uh No, But I've learned to accept that, Like it's
not some people in my life, it's been I could
slam dunk every time. Some people, if I'm being really honest,
some people I've never I don't think I've ever made
them come. And I've tried everything, and I don't know that.
I think it's me and they'll tell you it's not
you like yeah, this is kind of an issue whatever,
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and then somewhere in between. But no, I think as
long as I think I can do it sometimes then
I'm okay because I realize that, like there's there's so
many different things. There's medication, there's sensitivity, there's emotion, there's
some people. I mean, some people will tell you they've
never come.
Speaker 8 (18:29):
Also, like with our cycle, like right before, it's way
easier to come, Like you're so you know what I mean?
Speaker 6 (18:34):
So I think time period matters too.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
Yeah, but you got to be in the Some people
have to be very focused on it. Some people have
to be in an extremely trusting situation. Other people can
just willy nilly. Are you guys are more complicated than
we are. I mean, a strong wind comes by and
I'm good to go. I'm all set, Like I think
it's about to blow twenty knots today, I'm about to
go out there and just stand there on my balcony
for a minute, and I'm good.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
I'm set.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
Yeah, so twenty knots today, guys, check it out?
Speaker 2 (19:04):
All right? Well, I was just curious Jason for you.
Speaker 5 (19:07):
I mean, I'm fine with it. Could be two minutes,
it don't matter.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
Yes, two dudes, we don't care.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
The nice thing about dudes is like you know that
you accomplished the job.
Speaker 2 (19:15):
Oh yeah, there's not a question about it.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Right. With women, they'll tell you that they And that's
another thing, guys. I will say this. If you're a
woman who is consistently telling your man that you're coming
and you're not, you're not doing yourself any service. Because
if a woman tells me that makes me come, I'm
gonna go there every time. I'm going to do it,
just like that every time, because that's my goal. I
want you to come. And so if you're lying to me,
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then you're not helping yourself and you can't get mad
at me later and be like, oh, you never made
me come. It's like, well, you told me that I did, yeah,
and so then I did the same thing I was doing.
So if it's not working, do not tell me it's working.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
That stuff.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
But for a lot of men, we'll never really know.
I mean, some women there's a percentage that let you know,
like there's some visible proof of it. But most people
know in my experience, and you have to just trust
that they that they like it.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
But I'm not a fool. I'm no fool.
Speaker 5 (20:07):
You're no fool.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
I think a lot of you guys are really good
at making us think we did it when we didn't.
Speaker 6 (20:12):
Yeah. I mean I don't Yeah, I don't really do that.
But like sometimes if you don't ask, like I'm not
you know what I mean, I might not have.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
Yeah yeah, but I'm the idiot's like did you yeah,
because I don't want to be done until you did yeah.
And I've had to accept that sometimes you just have
to be because sometimes it ain't gonna happen, right, Yeah, yeah,
you're such a thinker, man. I know, I am going
back to smoking your face cigarette. All right, there's the tangent.
Have a nice day everyone,
Let's do a tangent, Caitlyn, how badly do you want
to do a tangent?
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Like the hardest, the hardest, long and hard. Yeah, okay, good,
let's do it. Hit the intro.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
It's the tangent giving you all this ship we couldn't
talk about on the air. So I saw this video
on TikTok the other day and I just look, I know,
people who have are you thinking? Are you smoking a
fake cigarette?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Because I feel like this is what the tangent is.
I'm sitting there, I got some I got some jack
or scotch. What you drink whiskey?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Okay, and I'm listening, okay, all right, good.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
I mean because I just look over and Keicky's just
smoking a fake cigarette.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Like it's just really like no one and doing the
weirdest ship all the time.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
I'm like, I just look over and she's just she's
looking at me and she got like the two fingers together,
like she has a cigarette and she's just fake smoking.
I'm like, what are the fuck are you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Her?
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Eggs bro In my mind, we're in a lounge right now.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Well, first o stuff and let me get light something
up to them in that case, do you think.
Speaker 6 (01:03):
We've made you weirder?
Speaker 5 (01:05):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (01:05):
I hope that's a badge of honor. Absolutely, that's a
badge of honor.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I've known you for a while.
Speaker 5 (01:12):
You didn't do this.
Speaker 6 (01:13):
I was normal.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
But like, I know people who live like this.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
I've I've actually tried to like people have tried to
date me and they're in this sort of relationship like
people who have open relationships, is what I'm getting at. H. So,
for example, this woman is describing how she and her
boyfriend are about to meet her husband's girlfriend. Okay, see
(01:44):
you follow me. Ye, So this woman talking is with
her boyfriend and she's about to have a double date
with her husband and his girlfriend. So married people who
have other partners, but not even just like flings, full
on side relationships. And again, if this works for you,
(02:04):
then by all means.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Like do it.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I just can't. I cannot imagine. What is the point
of being for me? What is the point of being
in a relationship if I'm also going to have a
full on fucking relationship with somebody else? Like why like
why am I in the one relationship? Why don't I
just not be in a relationship?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Now?
Speaker 1 (02:22):
I also understand that people get into relationships and this
isn't necessarily the plan, and then they're like, well, I
love you, but I want some more, I want something else.
I'm into shit that you're not into or whatever, and
they're able to make this work. I've also heard of
people doing this and it fails miserably, where it's like, oh, well,
let's just see other people and that'll that'll fix things,
and then it absolutely does not fix things. That's the
(02:43):
whole Like, let's all shit's going bad, Let's have a baby,
Like what the fuck are you thinking? Like honestly, like,
come on, what are the odds of that? Let's add
another human to this shit show? Just complete in total
complication that we have going to complicate life. We have
gone but here, let's listen to this woman talk. I mean,
this is just I just you're having trouble playing the video.
(03:04):
Why I am troubling the video?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
I feel that my son, Barney, and I are about
to meet my husband's girlfriend, and we thought that the
Uncle Cracker concert currently in Florida would be the perfect
occasion for all this to meet up for the first time.
We're so excited, aren't we, Babe? Excited? Nobody.
Speaker 7 (03:24):
I am a little jealous because I'm like, at.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
The end of the day, what are you doing with
my husband? She could be anywhere, could be making eye
contact with her right now.
Speaker 7 (03:33):
I know, I know it sounds like different, but.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
It's twenty twenty five looking for her. Then on they're
gonna say.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
She could be like you, and she's not that looking,
by the way, I mean, nothing has anything to do
with it, but it's just like on the ground.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
They're in an Uncle Cracker concert in Florida, just met her.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
She didn't want to be on camera, and thank god,
she's ugly.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
She's she's beautiful, and like, she doesn't seem to like it.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
I am beautiful too.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
She's like, she doesn't seem to like it.
Speaker 8 (04:15):
My god, I need her to make tighter edits on
those videos and pop up your voice a little bit.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
But wow, So she met the woman.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
The woman's good looking, and she's clearly jealous to look
on her face, and she's like having to reaffirm that
she's beautiful too. It just makes me wonder, are you
doing this under duress? Like is this is this the
life you want? But then she's bragging about her boyfriend,
So I mean, I don't know. I guess two things
can be true. I guess you could want to explore
and you can also be jealous, But like, I don't know,
(04:43):
why why put yourself in that position?
Speaker 6 (04:45):
I mean, it's hard to take a trip with three people,
you know what?
Speaker 1 (04:48):
I mean?
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Four?
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Because he's got a girlfriend and she's got a boyfriend.
Speaker 6 (04:54):
Oh I missed that part.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
She no, she's with her boyfriend right now. She and
her boyfriend are meeting her husband girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
So she brought a guy to So how can you
what okay?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
For?
Speaker 6 (05:06):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (05:07):
I need another drink for this?
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Why don't you light up your fake cigarette a day
to this is crazy? I guess I just don't understand.
And again I'm no judgment and if it works for you,
do it. But I'll admit I'm kind of a jealous.
I'm not a possessive person. I don't care do what
you want to do. If I'm in a relationship with you,
hopefully I trust you. So if you want to hang
out with your friends, or you want to hang out
with so and so, or you want to go out
(05:30):
and do your own thing, I'm never going to tell
you not to. I mean, if we're in a relationship,
then I hope that I don't have to worry about that.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Like that's and.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
I'm so rarely in a relationship that I really want
to believe that that's the case. But but I value
what I have, like I value who the person I'm
in a relationship with. I don't want to share that.
And so the idea of being like, yeah, we sleep
together every night and stuff, but like I guess except
for the nights that you're with your boyfriend, like I know,
I just I for me, that would drive me absolutely
(05:57):
fucking bonkers. Like in the rare occasion that I'm really
really into somebody and in a relationship with them, the
idea of them being with someone else, even if it
was before me, drives me nuts.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Oh really, Yeah, I don't like that. I don't like that.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Yeah, that parton And I get that none of us.
I'm not a virgin. They weren't a virgin, like I get.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
I get that. And they didn't know me.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
I know, I know, I know, I know. Give me
the fake cigarette I need to. I mean, I may
as well be a virgin. I've been celibate for a while.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
I'm starting to find a lot of men are like
that though they don't want to think of you even.
Speaker 5 (06:27):
Having a past.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
No, Like I feel like I get penalized in my
relationship because I had an ex. Like it's like, bro,
you had a lot of X to like, you had
way more exit than I had.
Speaker 5 (06:37):
Yeah, but it's like, no, but you had the X
like yeah, and I'm like, what, I.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Guess it's a little intimidating. If I'm being really transparent,
it's a little intimidating to know that the feelings you
have for this person and the things that you're doing
with this person and the way they feel about you
they've felt before with someone else. And granted, so have I, right,
but some people don't care and I, whatever reason, have
a hard time letting that go, not to the point
(07:03):
where I penalized the person, but it's just like, oh god,
Like I don't know if I'm like out with someone
I'm dating and that we run into the person that
used to bang and it's like so you know what,
I know, Like that's fucking weird, you know. But at
the same time, it's different. I can't take it out
on the person. I can't be like mad at them. Yeah, yeah,
it's different. What you were saying, well, I was just gonna.
Speaker 8 (07:22):
Say, like, it's a probably your intimacy with someone is
different than how it was with someone else.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
You think, right, well, yeah, it's better with me than
it was with everybody.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
That's You're exactly right.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Yeah, like it was. It's awesome with me, and it
was ship with the other person.
Speaker 6 (07:39):
That's what That's what they will always tell you.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Individuals up definitely never made you come not like me
at least you know what I'm saying. You know I
have an issue with that too. You know that I
don't buy I don't buy it when I don't. I
don't buy compliments in bed.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
I don't.
Speaker 5 (08:01):
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
You're so literal i'll buy it. Like if you're like, oh,
it's the best I've ever had. Fuck, you know it's not.
Like trust me, what I'm doing it right now is
not the best you've ever had. Have you been with
a Latin man? Because I'm not that you know what
I mean. Like, I don't have any rhythm, there's no sensuality. No,
I'm not the best you've ever had. I'm not, And
so don't even bother don't tell me I'm the biggest
(08:23):
you've ever had either, because I'm not I will say.
Speaker 6 (08:25):
I won't say it unless it's true. So like if
I'm gassing you up in that way, then it's true.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
But just know that more than likely the person who's
hearing it is thinking that, thank you, but unlikely.
Speaker 6 (08:37):
Okay, you don't want me to say nothing.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
You want me to no, I mean you could say
it if you. I guess for me, it's I guess.
I'm just I do have some humility. I just don't
buy it. Like I don't. I don't believe it. Okay,
I mean, I'm forty something years old, you're probably thirty
to forty. You've been with other people. I'm not the best.
I'm probably not the best, and I also hope because again,
and not all of you agree with this, but some
(09:00):
of the best I've ever had is the most toxic.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Not all.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
I've had some toxic that's absolute fucking garbage too, But
I've had some ship that was unfucking believable, and it
was toxic. And I don't even think that the act
itself was any different. It's just the mental, the place
you were just barely hanging on, you know what I'm saying,
And so that makes it just dope. And so I
hope that you're not the same. I hope you're not
telling me it was so good because we're barely hanging on,
(09:23):
because that's no fun, right. But no, I don't think
anyone's I don't think anyone's going back to their don't.
I don't think anyone's going to their current boyfriends and going,
oh yeah that guy in the radio, fuck, yeah he
crushed it.
Speaker 8 (09:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
I don't think anywhere no one's.
Speaker 8 (09:38):
Saying that you can't tell your partner that no, very
literal I love you.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
I mean, just have fun. Let me ask you, let
me ask you on this question. And I'm not going
to ask you about who with whom every time you
give a compliment, and bet has it been honest?
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Thank you? That's what I thought.
Speaker 7 (09:54):
I mean because in the moment, like you're jizzy right,
like you're paying, like like you feel feelings that you
don't feel when you're just walking down the streets.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
You're jeezing, you're coming.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
Like you're doing things your body's doing.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
But answer, that's what you're answering my question.
Speaker 5 (10:08):
No, I hear you in that moment, I'm honest, this
is the best thing in the moment.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Like Okay, hear being technical. You don't say that. So
you don't say, in this moment right now, this is
you don't say this is the best I've ever had
asteris in the moment, you don't say that. Like you said,
we've all said things to people who were being intimate
with that may not be exactly the truth because because
(10:34):
we're pumping them up.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
So that's hyper people.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
But that's a fair and that's what I'm saying. That's
why I'm saying. I don't necessarily always believe.
Speaker 6 (10:45):
Like it hurts.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
And the funny thing is, I'm not even trying to
be because I hadn't even watched the show until this year.
You're so I just I'm I'm I think about this stuff,
and I think I'm right about a lot of it.
A lot of you just don't want to tell me
I'm right because it makes it unromantic. But when I asked,
when I asked the hard hitting questions, I get the
answers that I'm looking for. Y'all lie to us. Y'all
(11:07):
lie to us. I'm a journalist. I'm fucking Gamazon Cuper.
Speaker 6 (11:11):
Try to make it a truth. Like you're the best
at this, you're the best of that. If you're not
the biggest or the best at that thing, I'm not
going to say that.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
That thing you're doing with your second finger on your
left hand, no one's ever done that before.
Speaker 8 (11:21):
No, you're the best of doing that and the best
of doing this, and the rest I'll leave out.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
You know, I'm not trying to take the fun out
of it. I'm just being realistic. Yeah, and I just
don't necessarily believe it.
Speaker 6 (11:30):
You don't like a chit chat, like a little chit chat.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
I just don't believe you.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
Okay, Yeah, I just okay, Kiki, have you told someone
they're the biggest and they weren't the biggest?
Speaker 2 (11:40):
That's what I thought.
Speaker 5 (11:41):
No, I'm not I don't say that type of stuff.
I'm not talking. He's a lady.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
You're not talking.
Speaker 5 (11:49):
Get to this, Okay, here where I need you to get.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
All right, here's a question unrelated. So I don't know,
So I guess i'll wrap that one up. Can any
of you imagine being in a relationship where you had
a primary partner and a secondary partner?
Speaker 6 (12:02):
No, do they help me like get things done? Because honestly,
like these days, maybe did they help her on the house.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Would you be okay with your boyfriend having a full
on side person. No, But if you know, the one
that amazes me is there are people. There are a couple.
There's a couple, and then there's some adult film stars
who like on TikTok, who capture their lives and not
the not the porn part, but just their lives. And
like there's a couple they're young and the girl is
(12:31):
in porn. And there's one scene I talk about all
the time where like and they it's like point of view,
like they they show their lives, not bov like that,
but like they're just showing their lives because he's not
in the industry and she is so like in this one,
he's got like a dash cam and he pulls up
in front of the where they're shooting and to pick
up his wife or girlfriend or whatever she is who
just got railed. Yea, And she gets in the car
(12:52):
and leans over to kiss him, and he goes no,
and he puts his hand up because it's like he
picked her up at a porn set. Yeah, we can
wait a little bit, like go home and brush your teeth. Now,
I don't know, but I don't know how people do that, like,
and again no judgment. In fact, I almost admire people's
ability to detach in that way and be like, yeah,
you can go do that because there's probably no emotion
(13:14):
involved whatsoever. It's your job, you're getting paid, and then
you love me and you choose to be with me.
I'm not paying you. But I could not. There is
no fucking way I could date a porn star. No way,
oh the porn start.
Speaker 7 (13:27):
Yeah, no, probably not.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
And I know you're in I know, Pauline know there's
no way the hobby could have a girlfriend.
Speaker 7 (13:32):
Well no, absolutely not. But I did read this thing
one time that was saying and it's really true. It
was like a TikTok and it said, I've never met
a woman with a side family, right, because a lot
of men had like secret families, And like, that's very
valid in this conversation, I think, because I feel like
when we're talking about the boyfriend girlfriend thing, not always,
not always, but I do feel like it's probably more
of men maybe that do it, because I personally feel
like a.
Speaker 5 (13:52):
Lot of women don't even want their husbands. Okay, so
we don't want our boyfriends their.
Speaker 7 (13:55):
Husband, So why would the fuck would we want two
of them?
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Like that's I mean, I feel the same way using
my shampoo.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
I need to try and navigate life with another woman,
Like you're adding another person in this.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
It's hard enough, that's.
Speaker 7 (14:09):
What seems hard. Like yeah, and be like in these
scenarios like the sex and the spontaneous part of it,
maybe that's what people It draws them in right to
want to do this, and maybe it's something new and
exciting and fun. Okay, great, but then when it comes
down to like you got to watch their underwear or
like you know what I mean, cook dinner or whatever,
like I do that already for one man, and I
just can't picture too. I don't know that part and
unless you keep that part separate, which they might right,
(14:30):
they might not. That boyfriend might not be domestic right
domestically living with them, but I just I don't know.
To me, it seems really hard to balance that. That's
where I get lost.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
Yeah, exhausting, And then I'll wrap it with this. But
I did see this conversation on TikTok too how long
should sex last? Because I think we were talking about
efficiency a minute ago, Like, honestly, no jokes how long
should sex last on average? Because I guess you know
you're gonna have your times where it's maybe more passion yeah,
(15:00):
or you know, a longer process. You're gonna have your
times where it's I don't know, he's like, hey, I
got to go in ten minutes like I'd love to.
But you know, let's see if you would a line
or hey, I'm not really in the mood but you
are so like more about that bang it out kind
of thing. But I mean, if we're just talking like
night in and night out, you go.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
I go for me.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
I can see five ten minutes and being very happy
as long as you went right and then I went
you know what I mean, as long as everybody can
get theirs in that period of time, I have no
issue with that. But some people would tell you, oh, oh,
it's gotta be like thirty forty five minutes an hour.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
Who got time for them?
Speaker 7 (15:34):
Yeah? I love and hate this question because I think
it's it's there is no answer. I don't think there's
an answer of like what people he everyone's different, But
like you said, are we doing this like on some
quick shit? Is this one of those long passionate candlelight?
Speaker 5 (15:46):
Nights like, I don't know if we don't do that,
but if I did, it's a long night.
Speaker 7 (15:49):
You know what I mean? Is our wine first, It's
gotta be the whole thing, or is it just like, Okay,
I'm tired, I work at four am. He's got work
at the firehouse tomorrow, so it's probably gonna be like
ten minutes, right or what else are we doing?
Speaker 1 (16:00):
But I would say, pound for pound, would you be
satisfied with a pretty consistent ten minute session?
Speaker 6 (16:04):
I think that's fine.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
I too. I don't think god, yeah, oh really yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
I think I kind of get offended when we go
longer because I'm like, are.
Speaker 5 (16:12):
You not okay? Saying like come on now? You like
I know what I'm doing, So that's what's going on.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
I know what I'm doing. I actually it.
Speaker 5 (16:21):
Turned on when a man comes quick, I'm like shit,
like yes.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
I'll say right when I was like twenty two, it
was my worst nightmare to tupump jump it. Now if
you can too pump, if I can too pump jump you,
I'm nutting. I don't give a ship and you know what,
we'll do it again. I'll make sure you're taking care
of But I have no shame in my game. If that,
if I am that turned on, then let's go right.
Speaker 6 (16:43):
No one should be upset with that. I don't I've
never understood that.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
I think the only reason people get upset is if
that's the end of it. Because for some guys it's
too pump jump and then they roll over and go
to sleep.
Speaker 6 (16:51):
That's why she comes first, exactly.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
This is what I've been saying to men for decades,
and You're correct. I've been saying I should get some
diding credit on me. Fuck. Why what does it mean
to know?
Speaker 1 (17:03):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (17:04):
What is it?
Speaker 8 (17:05):
Not?
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Fuck me too? Fuck?
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Let them fuck, let them, let them come first. Yes,
I've been saying this for decades. I enjoy the process
of the of oral sexus.
Speaker 2 (17:17):
I kind of.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Likeus, thank you, and it's a tangent I can say it.
I guess I like doing that, but I am no fool.
I have no dummy. That is an effective means to
get you off so that I'm off the hook with
whatever I'm gonna do next, because if you come before,
then if I too pump jump it no one seems
to care. No. In fact, some people appreciate it because
(17:38):
it's like I already got mine, so I'm kind of
disconnected from this process. So like now it's time for
you to go, And if it's going to take you
a long time, then this is you know what I mean, Like, Okay,
do you.
Speaker 8 (17:49):
Get frustrated if it takes a long time when you're
down there?
Speaker 1 (17:52):
Uh No, But I've learned to accept that, Like it's
not some people in my life, it's been I could
slam dunk every time. Some people, if I'm being really honest,
some people I've never I don't think I've ever made
them come. And I've tried everything, and I don't know that.
I think it's me and they'll tell you it's not
you like yeah, this is kind of an issue whatever,
(18:13):
and then somewhere in between. But no, I think as
long as I think I can do it sometimes then
I'm okay because I realize that, like there's there's so
many different things. There's medication, there's sensitivity, there's emotion, there's
some people. I mean, some people will tell you they've
never come.
Speaker 8 (18:29):
Also, like with our cycle, like right before, it's way
easier to come, Like you're so you know what I mean?
Speaker 6 (18:34):
So I think time period matters too.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
Yeah, but you got to be in the Some people
have to be very focused on it. Some people have
to be in an extremely trusting situation. Other people can
just willy nilly. Are you guys are more complicated than
we are. I mean, a strong wind comes by and
I'm good to go. I'm all set, Like I think
it's about to blow twenty knots today, I'm about to
go out there and just stand there on my balcony
for a minute, and I'm good.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
I'm set.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
Yeah, so twenty knots today, guys, check it out?
Speaker 2 (19:04):
All right? Well, I was just curious Jason for you.
Speaker 5 (19:07):
I mean, I'm fine with it. Could be two minutes,
it don't matter.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
Yes, two dudes, we don't care.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
The nice thing about dudes is like you know that
you accomplished the job.
Speaker 2 (19:15):
Oh yeah, there's not a question about it.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Right. With women, they'll tell you that they And that's
another thing, guys. I will say this. If you're a
woman who is consistently telling your man that you're coming
and you're not, you're not doing yourself any service. Because
if a woman tells me that makes me come, I'm
gonna go there every time. I'm going to do it,
just like that every time, because that's my goal. I
want you to come. And so if you're lying to me,
(19:38):
then you're not helping yourself and you can't get mad
at me later and be like, oh, you never made
me come. It's like, well, you told me that I did, yeah,
and so then I did the same thing I was doing.
So if it's not working, do not tell me it's working.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
That stuff.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
But for a lot of men, we'll never really know.
I mean, some women there's a percentage that let you know,
like there's some visible proof of it. But most people
know in my experience, and you have to just trust
that they that they like it.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
But I'm not a fool. I'm no fool.
Speaker 5 (20:07):
You're no fool.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
I think a lot of you guys are really good
at making us think we did it when we didn't.
Speaker 6 (20:12):
Yeah. I mean I don't Yeah, I don't really do that.
But like sometimes if you don't ask, like I'm not
you know what I mean, I might not have.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
Yeah yeah, but I'm the idiot's like did you yeah,
because I don't want to be done until you did yeah.
And I've had to accept that sometimes you just have
to be because sometimes it ain't gonna happen, right, Yeah, yeah,
you're such a thinker, man. I know, I am going
back to smoking your face cigarette. All right, there's the tangent.
Have a nice day everyone,
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