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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, guys, let's see the Tangent are off fair
(00:02):
Uncensored podcast?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Shall we? Are you ready?
Speaker 1 (00:04):
It's the Tangent giving you all this ship we couldn't
talk about on the air. It just came up right
before the Tangent started. We were joking about, uh, basically
people finishing in the bedroom quickly.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
And I do wonder.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
I wonder as grown ups, you know, and I guess
those of you who have been in relationships for a while,
I don't know how you feel about it. But like,
let's say you first start dating somebody, and I guess
this could be tricky because you don't know whether this
is how they roll, you know, or like, or whether
they're just really turned on and excited by you. But
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if a dude comes fast, and this is the Tangent,
I can say, I can say, come, I I know
it does throw me off effect. I just had to
look to make sure there was no way that we
were on the air. But if a dude, if the
dude finishes quickly, is there ever a world where you're
like that was cool, Like I'm not offended by that,
Like I'm actually that's actually like obviously you were super
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turned off about what I have to offer.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Yes, yes, I've been waiting to speak on this. Why
is this a problem? It's so flattering to me every
single time. And if you're with the right dude, you'll
get taken care of first, so it's not an issue, right.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
That's always been my philosophy is that if you if
you take care of business before we even start. And
I get it, it's different kinds of pleasure, like te
people want that more of that or less of that
or whatever. But if you're good to go or at
least I hopefully hopefully in a perfect world, you're good
to go. But if I made a valiant effort and
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then we do that and it doesn't last very long,
I mean, I guess I don't know, especially if you
already got yours, then I kind of wonder, like, why
do you needed to take ten minutes or fifteen or
twenty or thirty?
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Why? A you're not saying anything.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Because I totally agree with Kaylain.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Oh, I would think you'd say that that. Yeah, flat,
you're looking at me disgusted.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
No, no, no, I'm not discussing from this.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
It was giving, like it was giving you will marathon
this bitch, like yeah.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
No, no, no, no, I like, I got stuff to do,
so let's let's get this done. You take care of me,
I take care of you. And when it's not happening,
like when it takes a long time, like wait a minute,
something is off, like how are you lasting so long?
You know, I start looking like what's going on?
Speaker 2 (02:15):
You know? And what are your theories?
Speaker 4 (02:16):
I didn't already hit you with the finishing move, and you.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Still I know.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
I kind of want to know too.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
But I know what Caitlin does because you've said it before,
not because I've experienced a lot of people. A lot
of people think I've experienced it, which I certainly haven't,
because she would never be shot dead with me in
bed with her. But well that was that was the
way of saying you that would never happen. But anyway,
I know that you've said before that you like say
something like when you want it to be over, you'll
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say something super.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Filthy sometimes and that that does.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Work, like and it happened to me recently where a
girl was like she said something really nasty and then
I was good, and then she's like no, no, no, five
more seconds, like but I'm yelling at her as I'm
as I'm finishing, I'm like.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Don't do that.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I'm like, don't do that, like you did this, it's
your soul. No, But I'm like, she said the nasty
thing about five seconds too early. Luckily apparently all worked
out fine, but like, well.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Not that fine, not that fine.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
But I just mean, I mean, like, if you gotta
be if you're going to pull on that string, you
got to be sure you're ready. Do not prematurely say
the nasty thing to me, otherwise it's over.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
That's why you can't show all your tricks at first,
Like you gotta have some that you keep in the
back pocket that you might need. I'm not going to
show you how good I'm am at this or show
you the rooky.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Mistake is just to lay it all out there from
the beginning. What how would you describe even if it's
vague you're finishing, move Kiki, because I agree, I kind
of want to know what that looks like.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
I cannot tell you, you know, any of my future
men that might be listening when I do that. I
know what you're doing, so I can't. I can't tell
you like to sneak attack.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
Right, Yeah, she's upside down and you know.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
That you gotta you gotta sneak attack them, and then
it's just you gotta grip you gotta grip it right.
Speaker 7 (04:16):
Oh my squeeze my yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
And then and then you just mixed that with a
combination of one other thing in.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
Boom left right, combo right. And if that.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
Don't work, I'm like, hold on what you what you're doing?
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Like either he's drunk, or he's been cheating, or he's
been getting himself off the what either you had.
Speaker 5 (04:39):
Some alone time with yourself before I got here, or
because don't make me work hard, say you know, if
you know that we're gonna get it popping today, reserve
it for me because I don't don't come in here
and then I gotta go through an extra lap of
courses to get you where you need to go.
Speaker 8 (04:55):
This morning, Today is today.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Yeah, I don't always know.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
Oh well, with me, you gonna know because I'm you
just gonna know. It's not every day.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
But do you say ahead of time, like do you
wake up and before you go You're like later on,
we'll put.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
It on you when I get home.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Yeah, Sometimes, so he can plan ahead and make sure
the conditions are right.
Speaker 5 (05:10):
Right, like don't play, like, don't make me work harder
than I need to, so you.
Speaker 8 (05:13):
Know in the morning tonight it's going down.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Yes, yeah, I would agree with that sometimes yeah yeah, wow, I.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Mean I guess it's it's nice to know, like after
this hard work day, you know, I got to look
forward to, right, But like a surprise too. I don't
always want it to be like that, like where if
you don't tell me that, it means it's not happening.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
I don't want that.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Well, sometimes I tell him and it don't happen, and
then that's a surprise all day, Like you know what, i'mber,
I'm tired.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Oh yeah, I got you tomorrow. Obay, I got you
tomorrow with.
Speaker 8 (05:45):
The letdown, Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
But yeah, I'm like, what do you what did you do?
You took a gas station?
Speaker 9 (05:51):
Peel or you?
Speaker 2 (05:53):
He is out here blue chewing it?
Speaker 4 (05:54):
Yeah, like what what's going on?
Speaker 1 (05:56):
But yeah, you are shockingly quiet on this top because
I think of all the people on the show, I
know the most about what you're into. You're extremely open
about it, which is great. I love that for you.
But I don't know thoughts on this, like if Hobby
just you know too, pumps it.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
I mean, are you mad about it?
Speaker 5 (06:17):
Uh?
Speaker 10 (06:17):
No, because I take it as like, oh, like you
wanted wanted me, you know what I mean. So but
then I get kind of mad because then I didn't
get mine. So then it's like not a fight.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
But like he ain't doing it, He ain't taking care
of you ahead of time.
Speaker 9 (06:28):
No, he does. But like if he ever was to
like pump it twice, would you call it pumped.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
One pumped up? Yeah?
Speaker 10 (06:33):
Yeah, if he too pump chumped me, then I'd be like, well,
that's not fair.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Nobody. I'm saying, like did he do other things to
you ahead of time?
Speaker 9 (06:40):
Usually yes, because first.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
That's what I'm out, A system, a routine, That's what
I mean.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
So and that's what Kanada was saying, like as long
as I mean, look, if you're greedy and you want
it twice, that's great and hopefully that's the way it goes.
It's just like a comfest. But I mean, but if
it's not, as long as you got yours, and then
you know what I mean, Like, if I'm not on
my game or if I'm super turned on, like when
I was twenty two years old, I would do everything
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I possibly could to make it last as long as
I could, because I thought that's what everybody wanted. No,
you know, or I'd be embarrassed if it was fast,
because I like, if I was super turned, I was
like embarrassing. I guess the only way that's a problem
is if it is always that way and you're never
aallful about the other person's needs, right, yeah, correct.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Yeah, I mean sometimes I don't mind a long session,
as you guys know, but it's it's certainly not in
this day and age.
Speaker 6 (07:33):
I don't have time, so yeah, that is true. You know,
just take care of your ladies. There's a book called
She Comes First that I think a lot of people
need to read.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
I think so too. Yeah, maybe we should get some copies.
Speaker 8 (07:43):
And get it. I'm not interested.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
I might want to call it he Comes First too.
I haven't feeling the same rules apply. I think you
just insert she in whatever relationship and it doesn't he's so, yeah, Well.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
But is there?
Speaker 1 (07:59):
We've talked to by this before, But I mean again,
I don't I'm asking the question because I'm not trying
to stereotype, But is there? I hate to make it
like male female, but that's that's what most people I
think understand is a male and a female dynamic. And
I know there are women who exhibit more of the
male dynamic in relationships sometimes and men who exhibit more
of the female. But but that that's true in a
male male relationship too, isn't It isn't there like a
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like a giver most of the time and like a driver.
Yeah you know what I mean, So like that she
comes probably would work in your relationship too, right.
Speaker 7 (08:30):
Yeah, I mean, like you said, we have systems, we
have processes, systems.
Speaker 9 (08:36):
I got a system, man, I mean of just you.
Speaker 8 (08:39):
Know, like what's going to go down.
Speaker 7 (08:40):
I mean the vehicle is different, like how to get
how to get them, but the destination is always the same.
Speaker 8 (08:47):
Well right yeah, so yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Okay, And do you say ahead of time like not
that tonight or like we're not doing this well.
Speaker 7 (08:54):
I mean we don't do butt stuff like often like
it's never even on the table for me, like not
even a well you love cheese and yeah, yeah, it's
just never even on the table. So it's working with
everything else you got.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
You know, I'm always amazed at at in my in
my repertoire, and I've slowed way down. I'm a retired
I like Paulina, I retired from these streets. Yeah you mean,
but I was always amazed at the people that would
whip that trick out just willy nilly, like yeah, go ahead,
and I'm just like, and now I learn how lucky
I've been that there have been no calamities patriots, because,
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like I can tell you, in every single case where
that has happened in my life, it wasn't like, Okay,
on Wednesday at seven point thirty, we're going.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
To do that, you know.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
It's always just been like, go ahead. And it's like,
I don't think there was like we had dinner, Like
I don't think there was any planning. But I've been
very fortunate. We haven't had any any disasters. You are,
but I feel like I'm asking for it if. But
it's also another fun fact, it's never been my idea.
The times that has happened, I've been asked to do it.
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I've never I've never been like, I want to do
this because I feel like that's what most guys like.
Speaker 8 (10:06):
I didn't know that ladies would like prefer.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
I dated a girl who that was her preferred method.
That was that was her prime that was the primary method.
Speaker 10 (10:16):
She was a virgent right in her head.
Speaker 6 (10:18):
Uh, one of those in high school.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
We had some of those in college, Yeah, where it
was like everybody knew that, well if if you do it,
she'll only do it that way. And the reason is
because that she believes that she's intact still and she's
so she's saving she's saving that the normal method for
her husband, but giving everybody else that.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
No, it's a real thing. That's a real thing. But
it's never been my idea. I've never been the guy
who's like, I like how you and I we impersonate
stupid men the same way.
Speaker 9 (10:53):
But then is like, oh, that's your girl. But when
you do that one.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
You why are I'm like, I'm not done that.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
I mean my friend and her husband talk about if
they're doing you know, the rear door at breakfast, like
they'll de side. It's cracks me up, like in the morning,
so like.
Speaker 7 (11:11):
In twelve hours, I'm putting it in your butt. That
is what her husband was says, such a wild Like
that's a wild due planned. I understand you have to
be planned out or take measures, proper measures before you go, but.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
That's what I'm saying is crazy. I don't think any
of that stuff's been done in my example, And part
of me wonders if you overthink it, if it's more
if you're more likely to have issues, like if you
really are thinking about it versus like these situations where
I've never had an issue, but it was just like, yeah,
go ahead, or I want you to. And it's like,
I know you didn't think I was with you when
we ate, you know, a big mac an hour.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
I was there.
Speaker 9 (11:47):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying now.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
And you're like, just Willy Neely, just have at it,
and I'm going. And honestly, it wasn't until I met
I think it wasn't until I met you, Jason or
or maybe someone when people started telling me like, oh
my god, that is that is you are out here
like that is that is a nuclear plant that you
I mean, like any at any moment, you could have
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an absolute catastrophe on your hands.
Speaker 8 (12:11):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
And I guess I just never really considered it because
it always has been so just well loose isn't the word,
but you know what I mean, it's it's always just
been so like seemingly impromptu.
Speaker 7 (12:20):
Yeah, I mean, but I also feel like in my community,
I will speak for our community that I think it's
if you're playing with fire, you might get.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Burned, and it's just something Yeah right, that's what I mean.
Speaker 8 (12:31):
Accept you know it's gonna happen.
Speaker 6 (12:33):
Yeah, you're planning an exit only are what are you
gonna get?
Speaker 8 (12:36):
And if it happens, then it happens, and you just
keep moving.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
And I think you're so surprised about like why women
can plan because dudes, and I'm not speaking for all,
but most are always ready to go and can always go,
and and women typically hold the keys. I'm not saying everyone,
So don't like pump show up to my house with pitchforks,
but like they're.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
Already there, no where, There's for another reason.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
But so I think it's like women obviously have certain
times of the month that they can't you you want
to be like certain women want to be shaved or
waxed or whatever. So it's there's like more that goes
into it. So you know, Okay, tonight's to night, like
I can give it up or I'm in a right
situation or I want to give it up.
Speaker 8 (13:14):
I guess.
Speaker 7 (13:14):
Yeah, okay, yeah, tonight is a possibility. But to like
be so sure that like, no, it's happening and it's
nine am, but by you know, ten pm it's on.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Well, it sounds like he's a liar because it isn't
It may not always.
Speaker 4 (13:28):
Be pave that audio. It sounds like yeah, well.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
Because she'll she'll say it, she'll say, you know, tonight,
and then and then tonight comes and it ain't tonight.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
Well, I have to do it when I get home
from this job sometimes because I can't be doing it
at night.
Speaker 7 (13:41):
Oh girl, you right out here sometimes And that's why
sometimes I got too.
Speaker 9 (13:46):
I got you because I'm tired.
Speaker 8 (13:48):
Oh yeah, well I gotta go now.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
I know.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
See I'm exhausted.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
When I want out of here, I would need a
nap before I Like a lot of people are like
want to you know, I know guys that hang around
the radio station, and we've joked about this a lot.
But like by the time when the show is over,
I'm not I'm not necessarily leaving because I don't want
to hang out with I'm not leaving because I don't
want to hang out with you guys.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
And I'm not leaving. There are certain people.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
There are people I definitely am not trying to hang
out with here, but I mean I'm hungry and I'm tired,
and I have to address both of those things and
then my day can continue.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
But it's just a routine.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
It's been like, like I am starving right now, so
I am way more focused on leaving here to go
find somebody to eat than I am on anything else.
But then you're telling me I'm gonna go home, and
then I like you expecting to get fucked.
Speaker 9 (14:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:32):
Sometimes and I just talk for five hours straight.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
Nah, ifam no, I mean I can't sleep, so that's
out of the question for me, and I eat after no.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
But it's a mix, you know. I don't know the
nap thing.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
I do the nap thing because it's a luxury, because
I enjoy it and because I can most days. But
I will say the days when I just don't have time,
I sleep a lot better at night, oh yeah, because
I just wear myself out.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
But like if I got three.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
Hours and there's nothing going on, I got all my
work and like I don't have anything until later, well
then I'm going to take a nap because I like it,
because it feels good.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
I enjoy it. Three hour nap, not necessarily an hour
or two. Whatever.
Speaker 9 (15:09):
Do it if you can do it.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
Yeah, I'm just saying like I do enjoy it, but
it's not necessary. I know guys that don't. In fact,
sometimes it screws up the rest of the day because
if I got really nothing to do, there's a darn
good chance I get in that bed and no get
out for a while, and I get bed sores.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
I have never gotten bed source, not yet. Not yet.
Speaker 10 (15:26):
Can I ask what your day looks like? I'm always curious,
like I know a little bit about it.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
Get up at four thirty.
Speaker 9 (15:31):
Like a TikToker, right, I go through and everything.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
I go through them and I no, can don't do it.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
There are a lot of those videos. I'm not making
fun of one person. I'm not, and that person has
that person has six figures more followers than I do
on anything, So so the joke is on me. I
just cannot bring myself to believe. And I know this
is probably hard for some people to believe. I can't
bring myself to think that anybody gives a fuck what
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I am doing with my day. I do not know
why anybody would watch me, cook dinner or get out
of bed. I'm serious, and I'm I'm glad that there
are people out there who do care about that, and
it seems like it's therapeutic for a lot of people,
or relatable or whatever. No, that's great, No, that's wonderful.
It's a competent issue. On my end, some of this
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content would make me so uncomfortable to make because I
would have to believe in my mind that you care. Now,
you could argue, well, you talk for five hours a
day about yourself and others, and why do you think
anybody cares? Well, it's for me. The show is more
of a utility. Yes, there are people who listen because
they care, and we're grateful for that. But there are also
people who listen because they're in their car and they're bored,
you know what I mean. So like, in that case,
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we're filling time. So I feel like in that case,
we're entertaining, we're doing people a service. I don't know
why anybody would give a damn about me stirring up
my sturfry.
Speaker 10 (16:56):
I think what you are suffering from is what they
call the cringe fact. So like, once you get over
the cringe, factor of like, oh, why do people care?
Speaker 9 (17:04):
No one's gonna care, no one's gonna watch whatever it
might be, right, or like you just feel.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
But I really I'm not saying that to get people
to watch her, like for pity or something inside of me.
I wonder every day why it's still even with this shop.
Every day I wonder why anybody gives a shit when
I think about anything.
Speaker 10 (17:18):
Yes, but I think once you start getting more comfy
with the camera, right, and once you start posting more
and people, you know, being cool about it and being like, hey,
we want to see more, Hey like leaving comments right,
sharing your stuff, I think I think you do well.
Speaker 9 (17:30):
That's a space for you there, I think so well.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
And look, I'm not hating on the people who do it,
people who made a lot of money, people have helped
a lot of people. And then we've given examples in
the last couple of weeks as TikTok is going away,
the sp mowing guy was one. I mean, he's raised
almost I think last time I looked at was like
three quarters of a million dollars for some random old woman. Wow,
who needs who really just needed like a staircase accessible
staircase for her home. Now she's probably gonna wind up
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with a new home and a new car and everything else.
And it was all because this dude drove by and
saw that her stuff wasn't care for and did that
for free too. It just goes to show that, you know,
there's a lot of value me. I'm uncomfortable making some
of the content Kiki is not. And she crushes it
and has a lot of followers and people love it,
and I think that's great. I I don't think I
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could bring myself to do it consistently.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
I don't know. I didn't anyway. Where was I going
to life? Yeah? Thirty.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
I try and write all the emails, I try and
respond all the social media. I try and do everything
that I can before I get out of bed.
Speaker 9 (18:31):
You can't do that.
Speaker 10 (18:32):
Why, that's the worst thing you can do waking up
is check social media, check your phone.
Speaker 9 (18:35):
That is the worst bucket ting to do start you off.
You want to be in a bad mood at four thirty.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
But it's it's not always people wishing that I would die.
Speaker 9 (18:43):
Oh really, it's not every day.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
I mean recently, there's been a lot of that which
is completely misplaced.
Speaker 9 (18:49):
And well, yeah, that I'm angry, and that's.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
An amazing thing to me.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
We were talking about it out there this morning, like, look,
I know that there are people and I appreciate, you know,
talk about me doing content. That amazes me that people care.
I'm grateful that you do. Trust me. It's just inside
of me. It's that imposter syndrome. It's that me going
why me, you know, like, why how come we're here
doing this?
Speaker 2 (19:10):
And why do people choose us?
Speaker 1 (19:12):
I don't know. I'm grateful that you do. But the
thought of writing into or commenting or texting or emailing
anybody working at any business and telling them about something
of which you have no idea what you're talking about,
and trust me, I haven't seen one person write one
factual thing about any situation going on lately with this show.
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And then people will go, fuck you, I hate you,
I'll never listen. I hope you get fired, I hope
you fail. And it's like I just can't imagine having
that kind of rage within me. No, and even if
I did, I can't imagine necessarily sharing that with someone else. Right,
It's just like, first of all, it doesn't do anything,
but we're not going anywhere, and we've already told you whatever.
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And this is just one example, because it happened every
time I go into a new city with this show,
it's the show that was on three years ago. Fuck
you for replacing them. I don't even know these people.
I've never met any of them. I never chose this. Okay.
My philosophy about this show spreading out and unfortunately replacing
other shows when it does happen, is that the reality
is that that is what they're gonna do, and not
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just our company, every company. This is the way it's going. Okay,
So we can either be part of the solution or
we cannot, and then we can be part of the
people who get replaced. So my attitude is it's happening
either way. I'm glad it's happening to us, right, But like,
as far as I don't expect the average person to
know that, they just know that their buddy or whatever,
(20:38):
the girl they love or the guy they love or
whoever on the show is gone, and it's just like,
but that's not I don't know, what do you want
me to do? Say I'm sorry they got fired, I
refuse to work. I don't know, Like, are what are
we supposed to. I don't know what we're supposed to
do or if there's a change it's made, or if
somebody makes a decision right, or something happens right right,
(20:59):
you know, if someone said, hey, I need something different,
I'm walking away or whatever. It's like, well, what are
so we're supposed to just quit?
Speaker 2 (21:05):
We're supposed to just stop my hands Like no, I
mean we're gonna kee.
Speaker 1 (21:08):
Yeah, we're just gonna keep We're gonna keep going, do
the best we can do a great show, you know.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
And they're like, that's what we're gonna do.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
But I and I'm not surprised, but I'm always kind
of amazed at the vigor. It's like, why are you
so angry? And you have a right to be disappointed,
you have a right to wish it were different, But
to take it out on the people that whose decision it's.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
Not, I just I'll never really understand.
Speaker 3 (21:31):
That, or to wish them, the people remaining to lose
their job, I mean.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
How does that help it? Okay, good, so great, So
the whole show. We'll just fold the whole show now
and then what like what does that serve? Does that
make it better?
Speaker 2 (21:43):
Like? Will you be happy.
Speaker 10 (21:44):
Then I just don't see a correlation. That's just my
hot take. This is Paulina speaking. If anyone's asking, I agree,
I just don't see a correlation, you know what I mean.
If somebody made a choice or whatever that is between
them and a company or whatever, that has nothing to
do with anybody else, And no one should be losing
their job or being removed.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
Well even if someone gets let go, I mean, that
doesn't have anything to do with anybody else with us either.
I mean it's like, you know, we work for a corporation, right,
I mean, people, It happens in every business every day.
And and if I guess, if I want to have
complete and total control over the process, that I should
go buy my own radio station, which i've would you please,
which I love you? No, Honestly, I kind of wish
(22:23):
I could. It, just it's not it's not economically viable.
I've looked at it. I've actually looked at buying several
radio stations, but they would be in like Paduka. I mean,
I can't afford like a real radio station.
Speaker 9 (22:34):
Yeah you can, Daddy, No, Mommy, I can't.
Speaker 3 (22:38):
I mean, yeah, we're all just like doing our best,
like everyone else trying to provide for our families and ourselves,
and we are coming.
Speaker 6 (22:46):
People say, you signed up for this, No, like I
signed up.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
I mean I didn't get enough attention as a child,
so I did sign up for that. But I also
signed up to try to be an escape for people,
to try to maybe put a smile on people's faces,
to just do our best. And I don't think just
because someone is in the public eye. I personally couldn't
sleep at night if that meant I was thinking, Oh,
I can just say the most horrible things to them
because they signed up for that.
Speaker 6 (23:08):
I mean, we're still real people.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
Well, the other thing is like, even if somebody in
this room wanted someone else to go, including me, by
the way, because I'm not a manager. I lead the room,
but I'm not a manager. That's a process that goes
on well above us and requires lots of other people
to agree to. Even if that were the case, which
it's not, Even if it were like I want this,
even in the cases when people have been escorted out
(23:33):
because it didn't work out, which is not what happened
most recently, which but I think people know what I'm
talking about. That was a whole thing that was. There's
so much context to that that nobody knows of course,
and then of course we're the only ones that aren't
allowed to talk about it because we still work here
and would like to keep our jobs. So it's just like,
you know, I don't think about your office. You've got
people that excel and do great, they're super healthful. You
(23:55):
got people who don't do shit and everything in between,
and sometimes those are factors in whether people stay or go, too, right.
I mean, again, I'm not being specific. I'm just saying
like there are so many other possibilities of why decisions
are made, whether it's us getting replaced or us replacing
or us you know, people coming or going, and they're
(24:15):
not all sinister. I mean, most of the times people
have left here, it's been to go do something they
wanted to do more, yeah, or something that made them
happy or fulfill them in a different way. Go do
their own show, or go get it, you know, go
go start their career in another market, or go go
get a master's degree or you know, shit that they
want to do for themselves and they can't do while
doing this, It's like, great, Well.
Speaker 9 (24:36):
People have choices, you know what.
Speaker 10 (24:38):
I mean, and the choices can vary, right, if you're
trying to do something different, like you said, or maybe
the circumstances that you're currently in you know, are not
vibing with you, that's okay too, and like everything's okay,
you know, like you're allowed to make choices.
Speaker 6 (24:51):
Yes, And I'm also legally not even allowed to.
Speaker 3 (24:53):
Know what's going on with Jason's contract, Paulina's contract.
Speaker 6 (24:56):
If they want to share something with me, that's that's
on them.
Speaker 2 (24:59):
But I like which we're also not supposed to be doing.
But anyway, well we're not. We're not a contract. You
can't share it, a coven answer, some sort of thing.
You're not.
Speaker 9 (25:09):
They definitely don't know.
Speaker 2 (25:10):
I made that up.
Speaker 1 (25:11):
But there's something, there's something in there that allows them.
I mean, it's I don't think people are supposed to
be sitting around saying I don't know if it's helpful
for people to sit around and be like, well, I
do I make this, and I make that and I
made Because we all negotiate independently, and we all come
from a different experience a place to be and as
much as you might believe in your head, well I'm
the most valuable or I do this that it also
(25:32):
wouldn't be up to any of us anyway. Like if
I sat here and told you how much I made,
how is that helpful to you?
Speaker 9 (25:37):
I'll just go cut myself some more.
Speaker 3 (25:40):
Oh my god, more, Okay, but I make money privately.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
I'm being funny, But like, let's take out let's let's
remove this show as an example, because we're talking about
like more worldly. It's like, if five people sit down,
if you all do the exact same job and come
from the exact same background and have the same experience
in education, then you should be making the exact same
you know, but nobody does. But it's America, right, but
nobody does. Yeah, I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 10 (26:10):
But I'm just like the pay gap in America with
two men and women. I'm just being very very vague.
It's funny, you know, but it's I don't.
Speaker 2 (26:17):
I can you.
Speaker 9 (26:18):
Control the pay gap in America?
Speaker 2 (26:19):
Like it's yeah, I'm not going to get into it
because I don't know. I don't.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
I really don't know what you're talking about. I do
know there is a pay gap, but I also.
Speaker 10 (26:26):
Know that, right, it's just a bigger thing Yeah, that's
more correct.
Speaker 9 (26:31):
But yes, that you have no control over. Of course,
not one is.
Speaker 2 (26:35):
I don't want there to be anything.
Speaker 10 (26:36):
I don't know that that's what we're talking about, talking
about society.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (26:40):
Again, I can honestly tell you. I can honestly tell
you one hundred percent. I don't know what any of
you make. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (26:45):
I do not know. Well, no, I'm just saying that's
not part of I know.
Speaker 6 (26:50):
Let's talk about tipping.
Speaker 3 (26:53):
Yeah, all right, tell us your finishing finishing is Michael
finishing Grippin?
Speaker 1 (27:02):
Is that your that's your finishing movie. You're just gonna
I see you know you don't want people to hear
what you're about to do to me?
Speaker 2 (27:06):
I got it. Okay, okay, good, this is exciting. There
you go.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
There's the tangent. I have business to attend to right now.
Wish we luck make a video
All right, guys, let's see the Tangent are off fair
(00:02):
Uncensored podcast?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Shall we? Are you ready?
Speaker 1 (00:04):
It's the Tangent giving you all this ship we couldn't
talk about on the air. It just came up right
before the Tangent started. We were joking about, uh, basically
people finishing in the bedroom quickly.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
And I do wonder.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
I wonder as grown ups, you know, and I guess
those of you who have been in relationships for a while,
I don't know how you feel about it. But like,
let's say you first start dating somebody, and I guess
this could be tricky because you don't know whether this
is how they roll, you know, or like, or whether
they're just really turned on and excited by you. But
(00:39):
if a dude comes fast, and this is the Tangent,
I can say, I can say, come, I I know
it does throw me off effect. I just had to
look to make sure there was no way that we
were on the air. But if a dude, if the
dude finishes quickly, is there ever a world where you're
like that was cool, Like I'm not offended by that,
Like I'm actually that's actually like obviously you were super
(00:59):
turned off about what I have to offer.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Yes, yes, I've been waiting to speak on this. Why
is this a problem? It's so flattering to me every
single time. And if you're with the right dude, you'll
get taken care of first, so it's not an issue, right.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
That's always been my philosophy is that if you if
you take care of business before we even start. And
I get it, it's different kinds of pleasure, like te
people want that more of that or less of that
or whatever. But if you're good to go or at
least I hopefully hopefully in a perfect world, you're good
to go. But if I made a valiant effort and
(01:30):
then we do that and it doesn't last very long,
I mean, I guess I don't know, especially if you
already got yours, then I kind of wonder, like, why
do you needed to take ten minutes or fifteen or
twenty or thirty?
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Why? A you're not saying anything.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Because I totally agree with Kaylain.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Oh, I would think you'd say that that. Yeah, flat,
you're looking at me disgusted.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
No, no, no, I'm not discussing from this.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
It was giving, like it was giving you will marathon
this bitch, like yeah.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
No, no, no, no, I like, I got stuff to do,
so let's let's get this done. You take care of me,
I take care of you. And when it's not happening,
like when it takes a long time, like wait a minute,
something is off, like how are you lasting so long?
You know, I start looking like what's going on?
Speaker 2 (02:15):
You know? And what are your theories?
Speaker 4 (02:16):
I didn't already hit you with the finishing move, and you.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Still I know.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
I kind of want to know too.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
But I know what Caitlin does because you've said it before,
not because I've experienced a lot of people. A lot
of people think I've experienced it, which I certainly haven't,
because she would never be shot dead with me in
bed with her. But well that was that was the
way of saying you that would never happen. But anyway,
I know that you've said before that you like say
something like when you want it to be over, you'll
(02:48):
say something super.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Filthy sometimes and that that does.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Work, like and it happened to me recently where a
girl was like she said something really nasty and then
I was good, and then she's like no, no, no, five
more seconds, like but I'm yelling at her as I'm
as I'm finishing, I'm like.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Don't do that.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I'm like, don't do that, like you did this, it's
your soul. No, But I'm like, she said the nasty
thing about five seconds too early. Luckily apparently all worked
out fine, but like, well.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Not that fine, not that fine.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
But I just mean, I mean, like, if you gotta
be if you're going to pull on that string, you
got to be sure you're ready. Do not prematurely say
the nasty thing to me, otherwise it's over.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
That's why you can't show all your tricks at first,
Like you gotta have some that you keep in the
back pocket that you might need. I'm not going to
show you how good I'm am at this or show
you the rooky.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Mistake is just to lay it all out there from
the beginning. What how would you describe even if it's
vague you're finishing, move Kiki, because I agree, I kind
of want to know what that looks like.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
I cannot tell you, you know, any of my future
men that might be listening when I do that. I
know what you're doing, so I can't. I can't tell
you like to sneak attack.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
Right, Yeah, she's upside down and you know.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
That you gotta you gotta sneak attack them, and then
it's just you gotta grip you gotta grip it right.
Speaker 7 (04:16):
Oh my squeeze my yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
And then and then you just mixed that with a
combination of one other thing in.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
Boom left right, combo right. And if that.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
Don't work, I'm like, hold on what you what you're doing?
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Like either he's drunk, or he's been cheating, or he's
been getting himself off the what either you had.
Speaker 5 (04:39):
Some alone time with yourself before I got here, or
because don't make me work hard, say you know, if
you know that we're gonna get it popping today, reserve
it for me because I don't don't come in here
and then I gotta go through an extra lap of
courses to get you where you need to go.
Speaker 8 (04:55):
This morning, Today is today.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Yeah, I don't always know.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
Oh well, with me, you gonna know because I'm you
just gonna know. It's not every day.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
But do you say ahead of time, like do you
wake up and before you go You're like later on,
we'll put.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
It on you when I get home.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Yeah, Sometimes, so he can plan ahead and make sure
the conditions are right.
Speaker 5 (05:10):
Right, like don't play, like, don't make me work harder
than I need to, so you.
Speaker 8 (05:13):
Know in the morning tonight it's going down.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Yes, yeah, I would agree with that sometimes yeah yeah, wow, I.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Mean I guess it's it's nice to know, like after
this hard work day, you know, I got to look
forward to, right, But like a surprise too. I don't
always want it to be like that, like where if
you don't tell me that, it means it's not happening.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
I don't want that.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Well, sometimes I tell him and it don't happen, and
then that's a surprise all day, Like you know what, i'mber,
I'm tired.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Oh yeah, I got you tomorrow. Obay, I got you
tomorrow with.
Speaker 8 (05:45):
The letdown, Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
But yeah, I'm like, what do you what did you do?
You took a gas station?
Speaker 9 (05:51):
Peel or you?
Speaker 2 (05:53):
He is out here blue chewing it?
Speaker 4 (05:54):
Yeah, like what what's going on?
Speaker 1 (05:56):
But yeah, you are shockingly quiet on this top because
I think of all the people on the show, I
know the most about what you're into. You're extremely open
about it, which is great. I love that for you.
But I don't know thoughts on this, like if Hobby
just you know too, pumps it.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
I mean, are you mad about it?
Speaker 5 (06:17):
Uh?
Speaker 10 (06:17):
No, because I take it as like, oh, like you
wanted wanted me, you know what I mean. So but
then I get kind of mad because then I didn't
get mine. So then it's like not a fight.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
But like he ain't doing it, He ain't taking care
of you ahead of time.
Speaker 9 (06:28):
No, he does. But like if he ever was to
like pump it twice, would you call it pumped.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
One pumped up? Yeah?
Speaker 10 (06:33):
Yeah, if he too pump chumped me, then I'd be like, well,
that's not fair.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Nobody. I'm saying, like did he do other things to
you ahead of time?
Speaker 9 (06:40):
Usually yes, because first.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
That's what I'm out, A system, a routine, That's what
I mean.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
So and that's what Kanada was saying, like as long
as I mean, look, if you're greedy and you want
it twice, that's great and hopefully that's the way it goes.
It's just like a comfest. But I mean, but if
it's not, as long as you got yours, and then
you know what I mean, Like, if I'm not on
my game or if I'm super turned on, like when
I was twenty two years old, I would do everything
(07:06):
I possibly could to make it last as long as
I could, because I thought that's what everybody wanted. No,
you know, or I'd be embarrassed if it was fast,
because I like, if I was super turned, I was
like embarrassing. I guess the only way that's a problem
is if it is always that way and you're never
aallful about the other person's needs, right, yeah, correct.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Yeah, I mean sometimes I don't mind a long session,
as you guys know, but it's it's certainly not in
this day and age.
Speaker 6 (07:33):
I don't have time, so yeah, that is true. You know,
just take care of your ladies. There's a book called
She Comes First that I think a lot of people
need to read.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
I think so too. Yeah, maybe we should get some copies.
Speaker 8 (07:43):
And get it. I'm not interested.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
I might want to call it he Comes First too.
I haven't feeling the same rules apply. I think you
just insert she in whatever relationship and it doesn't he's so, yeah, Well.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
But is there?
Speaker 1 (07:59):
We've talked to by this before, But I mean again,
I don't I'm asking the question because I'm not trying
to stereotype, But is there? I hate to make it
like male female, but that's that's what most people I
think understand is a male and a female dynamic. And
I know there are women who exhibit more of the
male dynamic in relationships sometimes and men who exhibit more
of the female. But but that that's true in a
male male relationship too, isn't It isn't there like a
(08:21):
like a giver most of the time and like a driver.
Yeah you know what I mean, So like that she
comes probably would work in your relationship too, right.
Speaker 7 (08:30):
Yeah, I mean, like you said, we have systems, we
have processes, systems.
Speaker 9 (08:36):
I got a system, man, I mean of just you.
Speaker 8 (08:39):
Know, like what's going to go down.
Speaker 7 (08:40):
I mean the vehicle is different, like how to get
how to get them, but the destination is always the same.
Speaker 8 (08:47):
Well right yeah, so yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Okay, And do you say ahead of time like not
that tonight or like we're not doing this well.
Speaker 7 (08:54):
I mean we don't do butt stuff like often like
it's never even on the table for me, like not
even a well you love cheese and yeah, yeah, it's
just never even on the table. So it's working with
everything else you got.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
You know, I'm always amazed at at in my in
my repertoire, and I've slowed way down. I'm a retired
I like Paulina, I retired from these streets. Yeah you mean,
but I was always amazed at the people that would
whip that trick out just willy nilly, like yeah, go ahead,
and I'm just like, and now I learn how lucky
I've been that there have been no calamities patriots, because,
(09:27):
like I can tell you, in every single case where
that has happened in my life, it wasn't like, Okay,
on Wednesday at seven point thirty, we're going.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
To do that, you know.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
It's always just been like, go ahead. And it's like,
I don't think there was like we had dinner, Like
I don't think there was any planning. But I've been
very fortunate. We haven't had any any disasters. You are,
but I feel like I'm asking for it if. But
it's also another fun fact, it's never been my idea.
The times that has happened, I've been asked to do it.
(09:57):
I've never I've never been like, I want to do
this because I feel like that's what most guys like.
Speaker 8 (10:06):
I didn't know that ladies would like prefer.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
I dated a girl who that was her preferred method.
That was that was her prime that was the primary method.
Speaker 10 (10:16):
She was a virgent right in her head.
Speaker 6 (10:18):
Uh, one of those in high school.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
We had some of those in college, Yeah, where it
was like everybody knew that, well if if you do it,
she'll only do it that way. And the reason is
because that she believes that she's intact still and she's
so she's saving she's saving that the normal method for
her husband, but giving everybody else that.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
No, it's a real thing. That's a real thing. But
it's never been my idea. I've never been the guy
who's like, I like how you and I we impersonate
stupid men the same way.
Speaker 9 (10:53):
But then is like, oh, that's your girl. But when
you do that one.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
You why are I'm like, I'm not done that.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
I mean my friend and her husband talk about if
they're doing you know, the rear door at breakfast, like
they'll de side. It's cracks me up, like in the morning,
so like.
Speaker 7 (11:11):
In twelve hours, I'm putting it in your butt. That
is what her husband was says, such a wild Like
that's a wild due planned. I understand you have to
be planned out or take measures, proper measures before you go, but.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
That's what I'm saying is crazy. I don't think any
of that stuff's been done in my example, And part
of me wonders if you overthink it, if it's more
if you're more likely to have issues, like if you
really are thinking about it versus like these situations where
I've never had an issue, but it was just like, yeah,
go ahead, or I want you to. And it's like,
I know you didn't think I was with you when
we ate, you know, a big mac an hour.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
I was there.
Speaker 9 (11:47):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying now.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
And you're like, just Willy Neely, just have at it,
and I'm going. And honestly, it wasn't until I met
I think it wasn't until I met you, Jason or
or maybe someone when people started telling me like, oh
my god, that is that is you are out here
like that is that is a nuclear plant that you
I mean, like any at any moment, you could have
(12:09):
an absolute catastrophe on your hands.
Speaker 8 (12:11):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
And I guess I just never really considered it because
it always has been so just well loose isn't the word,
but you know what I mean, it's it's always just
been so like seemingly impromptu.
Speaker 7 (12:20):
Yeah, I mean, but I also feel like in my community,
I will speak for our community that I think it's
if you're playing with fire, you might get.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Burned, and it's just something Yeah right, that's what I mean.
Speaker 8 (12:31):
Accept you know it's gonna happen.
Speaker 6 (12:33):
Yeah, you're planning an exit only are what are you
gonna get?
Speaker 8 (12:36):
And if it happens, then it happens, and you just
keep moving.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
And I think you're so surprised about like why women
can plan because dudes, and I'm not speaking for all,
but most are always ready to go and can always go,
and and women typically hold the keys. I'm not saying everyone,
So don't like pump show up to my house with pitchforks,
but like they're.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
Already there, no where, There's for another reason.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
But so I think it's like women obviously have certain
times of the month that they can't you you want
to be like certain women want to be shaved or
waxed or whatever. So it's there's like more that goes
into it. So you know, Okay, tonight's to night, like
I can give it up or I'm in a right
situation or I want to give it up.
Speaker 8 (13:14):
I guess.
Speaker 7 (13:14):
Yeah, okay, yeah, tonight is a possibility. But to like
be so sure that like, no, it's happening and it's
nine am, but by you know, ten pm it's on.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Well, it sounds like he's a liar because it isn't
It may not always.
Speaker 4 (13:28):
Be pave that audio. It sounds like yeah, well.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
Because she'll she'll say it, she'll say, you know, tonight,
and then and then tonight comes and it ain't tonight.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
Well, I have to do it when I get home
from this job sometimes because I can't be doing it
at night.
Speaker 7 (13:41):
Oh girl, you right out here sometimes And that's why
sometimes I got too.
Speaker 9 (13:46):
I got you because I'm tired.
Speaker 8 (13:48):
Oh yeah, well I gotta go now.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
I know.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
See I'm exhausted.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
When I want out of here, I would need a
nap before I Like a lot of people are like
want to you know, I know guys that hang around
the radio station, and we've joked about this a lot.
But like by the time when the show is over,
I'm not I'm not necessarily leaving because I don't want
to hang out with I'm not leaving because I don't
want to hang out with you guys.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
And I'm not leaving. There are certain people.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
There are people I definitely am not trying to hang
out with here, but I mean I'm hungry and I'm tired,
and I have to address both of those things and
then my day can continue.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
But it's just a routine.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
It's been like, like I am starving right now, so
I am way more focused on leaving here to go
find somebody to eat than I am on anything else.
But then you're telling me I'm gonna go home, and
then I like you expecting to get fucked.
Speaker 9 (14:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:32):
Sometimes and I just talk for five hours straight.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
Nah, ifam no, I mean I can't sleep, so that's
out of the question for me, and I eat after no.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
But it's a mix, you know. I don't know the
nap thing.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
I do the nap thing because it's a luxury, because
I enjoy it and because I can most days. But
I will say the days when I just don't have time,
I sleep a lot better at night, oh yeah, because
I just wear myself out.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
But like if I got three.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
Hours and there's nothing going on, I got all my
work and like I don't have anything until later, well
then I'm going to take a nap because I like it,
because it feels good.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
I enjoy it. Three hour nap, not necessarily an hour
or two. Whatever.
Speaker 9 (15:09):
Do it if you can do it.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
Yeah, I'm just saying like I do enjoy it, but
it's not necessary. I know guys that don't. In fact,
sometimes it screws up the rest of the day because
if I got really nothing to do, there's a darn
good chance I get in that bed and no get
out for a while, and I get bed sores.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
I have never gotten bed source, not yet. Not yet.
Speaker 10 (15:26):
Can I ask what your day looks like? I'm always curious,
like I know a little bit about it.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
Get up at four thirty.
Speaker 9 (15:31):
Like a TikToker, right, I go through and everything.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
I go through them and I no, can don't do it.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
There are a lot of those videos. I'm not making
fun of one person. I'm not, and that person has
that person has six figures more followers than I do
on anything, So so the joke is on me. I
just cannot bring myself to believe. And I know this
is probably hard for some people to believe. I can't
bring myself to think that anybody gives a fuck what
(16:05):
I am doing with my day. I do not know
why anybody would watch me, cook dinner or get out
of bed. I'm serious, and I'm I'm glad that there
are people out there who do care about that, and
it seems like it's therapeutic for a lot of people,
or relatable or whatever. No, that's great, No, that's wonderful.
It's a competent issue. On my end, some of this
(16:27):
content would make me so uncomfortable to make because I
would have to believe in my mind that you care. Now,
you could argue, well, you talk for five hours a
day about yourself and others, and why do you think
anybody cares? Well, it's for me. The show is more
of a utility. Yes, there are people who listen because
they care, and we're grateful for that. But there are also
people who listen because they're in their car and they're bored,
you know what I mean. So like, in that case,
(16:47):
we're filling time. So I feel like in that case,
we're entertaining, we're doing people a service. I don't know
why anybody would give a damn about me stirring up
my sturfry.
Speaker 10 (16:56):
I think what you are suffering from is what they
call the cringe fact. So like, once you get over
the cringe, factor of like, oh, why do people care?
Speaker 9 (17:04):
No one's gonna care, no one's gonna watch whatever it
might be, right, or like you just feel.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
But I really I'm not saying that to get people
to watch her, like for pity or something inside of me.
I wonder every day why it's still even with this shop.
Every day I wonder why anybody gives a shit when
I think about anything.
Speaker 10 (17:18):
Yes, but I think once you start getting more comfy
with the camera, right, and once you start posting more
and people, you know, being cool about it and being like, hey,
we want to see more, Hey like leaving comments right,
sharing your stuff, I think I think you do well.
Speaker 9 (17:30):
That's a space for you there, I think so well.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
And look, I'm not hating on the people who do it,
people who made a lot of money, people have helped
a lot of people. And then we've given examples in
the last couple of weeks as TikTok is going away,
the sp mowing guy was one. I mean, he's raised
almost I think last time I looked at was like
three quarters of a million dollars for some random old woman. Wow,
who needs who really just needed like a staircase accessible
staircase for her home. Now she's probably gonna wind up
(17:53):
with a new home and a new car and everything else.
And it was all because this dude drove by and
saw that her stuff wasn't care for and did that
for free too. It just goes to show that, you know,
there's a lot of value me. I'm uncomfortable making some
of the content Kiki is not. And she crushes it
and has a lot of followers and people love it,
and I think that's great. I I don't think I
(18:16):
could bring myself to do it consistently.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
I don't know. I didn't anyway. Where was I going
to life? Yeah? Thirty.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
I try and write all the emails, I try and
respond all the social media. I try and do everything
that I can before I get out of bed.
Speaker 9 (18:31):
You can't do that.
Speaker 10 (18:32):
Why, that's the worst thing you can do waking up
is check social media, check your phone.
Speaker 9 (18:35):
That is the worst bucket ting to do start you off.
You want to be in a bad mood at four thirty.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
But it's it's not always people wishing that I would die.
Speaker 9 (18:43):
Oh really, it's not every day.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
I mean recently, there's been a lot of that which
is completely misplaced.
Speaker 9 (18:49):
And well, yeah, that I'm angry, and that's.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
An amazing thing to me.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
We were talking about it out there this morning, like, look,
I know that there are people and I appreciate, you know,
talk about me doing content. That amazes me that people care.
I'm grateful that you do. Trust me. It's just inside
of me. It's that imposter syndrome. It's that me going
why me, you know, like, why how come we're here
doing this?
Speaker 2 (19:10):
And why do people choose us?
Speaker 1 (19:12):
I don't know. I'm grateful that you do. But the
thought of writing into or commenting or texting or emailing
anybody working at any business and telling them about something
of which you have no idea what you're talking about,
and trust me, I haven't seen one person write one
factual thing about any situation going on lately with this show.
(19:33):
And then people will go, fuck you, I hate you,
I'll never listen. I hope you get fired, I hope
you fail. And it's like I just can't imagine having
that kind of rage within me. No, and even if
I did, I can't imagine necessarily sharing that with someone else. Right,
It's just like, first of all, it doesn't do anything,
but we're not going anywhere, and we've already told you whatever.
(19:55):
And this is just one example, because it happened every
time I go into a new city with this show,
it's the show that was on three years ago. Fuck
you for replacing them. I don't even know these people.
I've never met any of them. I never chose this. Okay.
My philosophy about this show spreading out and unfortunately replacing
other shows when it does happen, is that the reality
is that that is what they're gonna do, and not
(20:17):
just our company, every company. This is the way it's going. Okay,
So we can either be part of the solution or
we cannot, and then we can be part of the
people who get replaced. So my attitude is it's happening
either way. I'm glad it's happening to us, right, But like,
as far as I don't expect the average person to
know that, they just know that their buddy or whatever,
(20:38):
the girl they love or the guy they love or
whoever on the show is gone, and it's just like,
but that's not I don't know, what do you want
me to do? Say I'm sorry they got fired, I
refuse to work. I don't know, Like, are what are
we supposed to. I don't know what we're supposed to
do or if there's a change it's made, or if
somebody makes a decision right, or something happens right right,
(20:59):
you know, if someone said, hey, I need something different,
I'm walking away or whatever. It's like, well, what are
so we're supposed to just quit?
Speaker 2 (21:05):
We're supposed to just stop my hands Like no, I
mean we're gonna kee.
Speaker 1 (21:08):
Yeah, we're just gonna keep We're gonna keep going, do
the best we can do a great show, you know.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
And they're like, that's what we're gonna do.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
But I and I'm not surprised, but I'm always kind
of amazed at the vigor. It's like, why are you
so angry? And you have a right to be disappointed,
you have a right to wish it were different, But
to take it out on the people that whose decision it's.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
Not, I just I'll never really understand.
Speaker 3 (21:31):
That, or to wish them, the people remaining to lose
their job, I mean.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
How does that help it? Okay, good, so great, So
the whole show. We'll just fold the whole show now
and then what like what does that serve? Does that
make it better?
Speaker 2 (21:43):
Like? Will you be happy.
Speaker 10 (21:44):
Then I just don't see a correlation. That's just my
hot take. This is Paulina speaking. If anyone's asking, I agree,
I just don't see a correlation, you know what I mean.
If somebody made a choice or whatever that is between
them and a company or whatever, that has nothing to
do with anybody else, And no one should be losing
their job or being removed.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
Well even if someone gets let go, I mean, that
doesn't have anything to do with anybody else with us either.
I mean it's like, you know, we work for a corporation, right,
I mean, people, It happens in every business every day.
And and if I guess, if I want to have
complete and total control over the process, that I should
go buy my own radio station, which i've would you please,
which I love you? No, Honestly, I kind of wish
(22:23):
I could. It, just it's not it's not economically viable.
I've looked at it. I've actually looked at buying several
radio stations, but they would be in like Paduka. I mean,
I can't afford like a real radio station.
Speaker 9 (22:34):
Yeah you can, Daddy, No, Mommy, I can't.
Speaker 3 (22:38):
I mean, yeah, we're all just like doing our best,
like everyone else trying to provide for our families and ourselves,
and we are coming.
Speaker 6 (22:46):
People say, you signed up for this, No, like I
signed up.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
I mean I didn't get enough attention as a child,
so I did sign up for that. But I also
signed up to try to be an escape for people,
to try to maybe put a smile on people's faces,
to just do our best. And I don't think just
because someone is in the public eye. I personally couldn't
sleep at night if that meant I was thinking, Oh,
I can just say the most horrible things to them
because they signed up for that.
Speaker 6 (23:08):
I mean, we're still real people.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
Well, the other thing is like, even if somebody in
this room wanted someone else to go, including me, by
the way, because I'm not a manager. I lead the room,
but I'm not a manager. That's a process that goes
on well above us and requires lots of other people
to agree to. Even if that were the case, which
it's not, Even if it were like I want this,
even in the cases when people have been escorted out
(23:33):
because it didn't work out, which is not what happened
most recently, which but I think people know what I'm
talking about. That was a whole thing that was. There's
so much context to that that nobody knows of course,
and then of course we're the only ones that aren't
allowed to talk about it because we still work here
and would like to keep our jobs. So it's just like,
you know, I don't think about your office. You've got
people that excel and do great, they're super healthful. You
(23:55):
got people who don't do shit and everything in between,
and sometimes those are factors in whether people stay or go, too, right.
I mean, again, I'm not being specific. I'm just saying
like there are so many other possibilities of why decisions
are made, whether it's us getting replaced or us replacing
or us you know, people coming or going, and they're
(24:15):
not all sinister. I mean, most of the times people
have left here, it's been to go do something they
wanted to do more, yeah, or something that made them
happy or fulfill them in a different way. Go do
their own show, or go get it, you know, go
go start their career in another market, or go go
get a master's degree or you know, shit that they
want to do for themselves and they can't do while
doing this, It's like, great, Well.
Speaker 9 (24:36):
People have choices, you know what.
Speaker 10 (24:38):
I mean, and the choices can vary, right, if you're
trying to do something different, like you said, or maybe
the circumstances that you're currently in you know, are not
vibing with you, that's okay too, and like everything's okay,
you know, like you're allowed to make choices.
Speaker 6 (24:51):
Yes, And I'm also legally not even allowed to.
Speaker 3 (24:53):
Know what's going on with Jason's contract, Paulina's contract.
Speaker 6 (24:56):
If they want to share something with me, that's that's
on them.
Speaker 2 (24:59):
But I like which we're also not supposed to be doing.
But anyway, well we're not. We're not a contract. You
can't share it, a coven answer, some sort of thing.
You're not.
Speaker 9 (25:09):
They definitely don't know.
Speaker 2 (25:10):
I made that up.
Speaker 1 (25:11):
But there's something, there's something in there that allows them.
I mean, it's I don't think people are supposed to
be sitting around saying I don't know if it's helpful
for people to sit around and be like, well, I
do I make this, and I make that and I
made Because we all negotiate independently, and we all come
from a different experience a place to be and as
much as you might believe in your head, well I'm
the most valuable or I do this that it also
(25:32):
wouldn't be up to any of us anyway. Like if
I sat here and told you how much I made,
how is that helpful to you?
Speaker 9 (25:37):
I'll just go cut myself some more.
Speaker 3 (25:40):
Oh my god, more, Okay, but I make money privately.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
I'm being funny, But like, let's take out let's let's
remove this show as an example, because we're talking about
like more worldly. It's like, if five people sit down,
if you all do the exact same job and come
from the exact same background and have the same experience
in education, then you should be making the exact same
you know, but nobody does. But it's America, right, but
nobody does. Yeah, I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 10 (26:10):
But I'm just like the pay gap in America with
two men and women. I'm just being very very vague.
It's funny, you know, but it's I don't.
Speaker 2 (26:17):
I can you.
Speaker 9 (26:18):
Control the pay gap in America?
Speaker 2 (26:19):
Like it's yeah, I'm not going to get into it
because I don't know. I don't.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
I really don't know what you're talking about. I do
know there is a pay gap, but I also.
Speaker 10 (26:26):
Know that, right, it's just a bigger thing Yeah, that's
more correct.
Speaker 9 (26:31):
But yes, that you have no control over. Of course,
not one is.
Speaker 2 (26:35):
I don't want there to be anything.
Speaker 10 (26:36):
I don't know that that's what we're talking about, talking
about society.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (26:40):
Again, I can honestly tell you. I can honestly tell
you one hundred percent. I don't know what any of
you make. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (26:45):
I do not know. Well, no, I'm just saying that's
not part of I know.
Speaker 6 (26:50):
Let's talk about tipping.
Speaker 3 (26:53):
Yeah, all right, tell us your finishing finishing is Michael
finishing Grippin?
Speaker 1 (27:02):
Is that your that's your finishing movie. You're just gonna
I see you know you don't want people to hear
what you're about to do to me?
Speaker 2 (27:06):
I got it. Okay, okay, good, this is exciting. There
you go.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
There's the tangent. I have business to attend to right now.
Wish we luck make a video
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