Be Open Minded pt. 1

AJ is back on the prowl after not finding ant sparks??

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wake up, Wake Joe, wake up.

Speaker 2 (00:13):
All right.

Speaker 3 (00:15):
J Warren's back. He's gonna He's gonna end this debate
for us. Oh, DJ Warren is not back. He was back.
I know. I saw him.

Speaker 4 (00:24):
I heard him, Yeah, heard him, saw him. Confirmed the
man is here. I don't open that door. See if
you see him in the hallway. Okay, can you yell
to him, tell.

Speaker 3 (00:32):
Him to her?

Speaker 5 (00:33):
Do you know he'll get in there and like a
second yep?

Speaker 4 (00:38):
Okay, okay, he's like what the show starts at six
tenths or I don't know where?

Speaker 3 (00:44):
Where were you? Where were you? What were you doing?

Speaker 5 (00:47):
Perfect time?

Speaker 3 (00:48):
Okay?

Speaker 5 (00:49):
What up?

Speaker 4 (00:50):
So we need you to end this debate that we
had yesterday. You will confirm you did go to New York. Yes, okay, Sunday,
I said that New York for me, like I'm good.
I feel like New York has kind of lost its sparkle.
There are certain places of it that I like to go,
but for me now, like Times Square, you couldn't pay

(01:12):
me what I It's just it's too much. Mickey Mouse
looks like he's on Heroin, Like I don't. It just
does nothing for me. I've done my time there.

Speaker 5 (01:22):
In Times Square New York in general, I think both.

Speaker 4 (01:25):
I think I'm just over it and Alison I said,
Christmas time in New York's hard to beat.

Speaker 3 (01:30):
There's something about it. But New York is just.

Speaker 5 (01:33):
You know, I'm agree with you there.

Speaker 6 (01:35):
I mean again, I went to I've been to Time
Square plenty of times.

Speaker 5 (01:38):
Yeah. I took my mom because my mom has never
been here.

Speaker 3 (01:40):
I said that because I was like, you have to.

Speaker 5 (01:42):
Yeah, and especially at night, you know what I mean.

Speaker 6 (01:44):
So we did the ferry during the day and now
I was like, Mom, you gotta see Time Square at night,
like it looks like it's still broad daylight. There's so
many lights, so many people. Sunday is a little bit
more calm. But I agree with you, like Time Square
has become a hustle. Yeah, just every body there is
hustling somebody for money.

Speaker 5 (02:02):
Yo, you'll be walking across this.

Speaker 6 (02:04):
They got these photographers now who got this big iPads
around their neck. They'll just take a random picture of
you and then they'll walk up to you. As you're
walking up to them, they'll be oh, look and they're
nice pictures, crispy clean. Yeah, yeah, that's new and just
give me, just give me twenty dollars. They're everywhere. I'm thinking.
I was like, yo, is it okay? I get this
graduation weekend? Is everybody in Times Square doing photo shoots?

(02:26):
And then I realized that these are just all dudes
and chicks that are just out here hustling, and they'll
take a picture. They've gotten now the ring camera set
up at this right, like you go stand on the
platform and you do it, and I'm like, wow, this
is not this is not what it's supposed to be.
Like I remember the guy. There's a guy in a gorilla.
There's a guy who's the Statue of Liberty. There's a
guy who's you know, Mario.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
There's another Hello Kitty.

Speaker 4 (02:49):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (02:49):
And then and as soon as you walk up to them,
hey guys, it's ten dollars for a picture, okay.

Speaker 5 (02:53):
And they bully you too.

Speaker 3 (02:55):
They rashy, like I'm talking by you, I don't want
a photo.

Speaker 6 (02:59):
Don't get caught walking by them, and somebody else on
your team takes a picture with you on them.

Speaker 5 (03:04):
Try to be sneaky.

Speaker 6 (03:05):
They'll damn you get mad at you and be like, yo,
delete the picture, damn near No. It's that the household
in Times square is just it's it's too much. It's
like everything you can't just there's nobody genuinely saying hello
to you. If they saying hello to you, they coming
after your pockets.

Speaker 5 (03:22):
That's why you avoid time Like times, you.

Speaker 6 (03:25):
Have to like, how do you go, especially for someone
who's never been She's coming in from Africa.

Speaker 4 (03:29):
We don't know when you You probably don't have a
plan trip for her coming back. She needs to see
you have to ask. I feel like at some point
when my girls get older, they're gonna say, I want
to see times and tell.

Speaker 5 (03:40):
Them it's awful. Don't go No, you don't tell them that.

Speaker 3 (03:43):
Did she go into any of the big stores.

Speaker 6 (03:46):
We went into Eminem. Everybody goes you got it into Eminem.
Aside from that, not.

Speaker 5 (03:52):
Not really, because a lot of stores also will close.

Speaker 6 (03:54):
I wanted to take into the Forever twenty one just
so she could see that it's like four levels. But
aside from that, nah, I mean, we just kind of
moved around those you know again guys doing their little
hustle dancing and all this and doing acrobatics and all
kinds of stuff, and she was intrigued. She was overwhelmed.
Once we got a time. We did not stay there
twenty minutes.

Speaker 3 (04:13):
You were in and out smart thirty because.

Speaker 6 (04:15):
Again, it wasn't a big crowd, so majority of the
people that were there were getting hustled by the other
majority of people were there were just hustlers. So it
became a thing where it's like, nah, I'm good, but
you enjoyed.

Speaker 3 (04:26):
Did you guys sleep over in New York?

Speaker 5 (04:28):
No?

Speaker 6 (04:28):
Okay, I felt bad for him, but they're gonna be
they sleeping on the plane right now. But yeah, we
went out there from early. We hit the boat, We
did a little tour of the Statue of Liberty and
all that.

Speaker 4 (04:38):
Nothing brought me greater joy than to see your parents,
you know, being able to be tourists in New York
and your dad doing it in a Bass Pro shop hat.

Speaker 5 (04:47):
Yeah, thing brought me.

Speaker 3 (04:48):
I was just like little this guy, he's living it up.

Speaker 6 (04:51):
Pro has been everywhere with us. We were in Boston
with that with that pros everywhere.

Speaker 3 (04:58):
Hey, by the way, don't sleep from the Best Pro Shop.

Speaker 5 (05:01):
Oh my god, it's the best place ever.

Speaker 3 (05:03):
You can like spend hours in there.

Speaker 4 (05:05):
And during Christmas time they're Santa out of tender.

Speaker 3 (05:11):
Bass Pro shops Santa. He got like a camo belt.

Speaker 6 (05:15):
I didn't know how serious that spot was until I
finally I could get my car hert get over there
from mad cheap, cheaper than everybody else, Like they had
the lowest price.

Speaker 5 (05:22):
But when I walked in, I was.

Speaker 3 (05:24):
Like, whoa thunderland.

Speaker 6 (05:25):
They got boats, like literal boats on one they got Yeah,
they got You got this like you got to go
through this little it's it's it's I ask you about it.
It's fancy, Yeah, it's fancy. But it was a good
time for them.

Speaker 3 (05:40):
Now they're gone. Do you get that?

Speaker 4 (05:41):
Like I remember when my family would leave, I get
that weird feeling in my stomach because you don't know
when you're going to see them next.

Speaker 6 (05:47):
I hate that bitter sweet man, especially my my pops.
My Pops is in his eighties. Bro, Yeah, I don't
think he could. He looks he does look good, but
you know, you talk to him and you think he's
going into a grave tomorrow. That's how they move, you know.
But I don't know. I don't know if he would
make the trip back over here again. Well you go
back there at some point, yeah, you know, Christmas times
and all that for show but I don't think I

(06:07):
don't think.

Speaker 5 (06:08):
Pops is going to come back to America anymore.

Speaker 3 (06:10):
Which I mean, that's a that's a travel it is.

Speaker 6 (06:13):
It's hard, you know, like right now they don't know
what a thirteen hour flight going basically to Dubai basically
and then from there another four I will flight back home.

Speaker 4 (06:22):
With thirty seven suitcases. He's probably gonna have to carry a.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
Lot of us.

Speaker 6 (06:26):
Yeah, so it's it's but the trick is just throwing
in a wheelchair and everything gets taken care of.

Speaker 5 (06:31):
Them, like at the airport. Yeah.

Speaker 6 (06:33):
Yeah, that's a travel hack, by the way, no matter
how old you are.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
Yeah, but you can't be like forties and like one
wheelchair thing. It's just a bad look. And then you
get up on your phone of security just walk off
like fellow fast, I'm.

Speaker 5 (06:51):
The first on the board. I get no, not me.

Speaker 6 (06:54):
I'm just saying I do it because one time I
was going to Jamaica, I think, and I've seen this
young couple yeah, and I'm like, yo, he looks like
he might did his leg got hurt, and I just
figured out that they had the heck, they just went
and got the front row seats. They got bought it
on time because at the end of the flight, jump
right up and bolted out of it.

Speaker 2 (07:11):
But they look at you like you're incompetent, and I
don't like that. I'd rather wait in line, just deal
with it.

Speaker 3 (07:16):
I had one time when I had my achilles.

Speaker 4 (07:20):
I had to go to a wedding and I couldn't
walk at the time because it was early on after
my surgery and I had to be in the wheelchair
at the airport.

Speaker 5 (07:27):
Look at you.

Speaker 4 (07:28):
I hate it because going through security they have to
push you.

Speaker 2 (07:33):
It's just like it's something were to happen here. And
I pass out in the ambulance. Gig called bring me outside.
Do you not have the company?

Speaker 5 (07:42):
Always? And wheel me out? Are you serious? We gotta
burning you out the studio?

Speaker 2 (07:48):
Yeah, Like drag me out the backstep and put me
on the lawn by the way though.

Speaker 3 (07:52):
That's what people do at Disney too.

Speaker 4 (07:54):
And then when they get they fake it in the wheelchairs,
and then all of a sudden, when it's time for
them to get like their mickey, pretzel and cheese, they
get their coffee, they're popping like they're just do we
know what.

Speaker 3 (08:06):
You're doing out here? We know the.

Speaker 5 (08:08):
Tricks get off this lie like I know it works,
but it just feels shame.

Speaker 2 (08:12):
Yeah, my dad, my dad was not trying to do
it's eighty so it's like fire.

Speaker 6 (08:15):
But he also still he's he's prideful, just like he's like, nah,
I don't want people to think that I can't do this,
but you know, it was the easiest way to just
get through.

Speaker 4 (08:23):
That. Also, let's just add in, depending on where you
are and logan, you could have a hike, yes, like
for real, it could.

Speaker 6 (08:29):
Be a good walk terminal that's an international journ. It
gets busy because everybody's find out. So if you want
to just get through and not miss your flight, let's
let's do it. But not they had they had a
blast out here. Better sweet moment for me because now
the house is quiet. You know again, I don't know
when I'm gonna see my pops again, but.

Speaker 4 (08:44):
Yeah, you get you get the house back to yourself,
which is nice, clean, and get back to zero.

Speaker 5 (08:49):
But it was an amazing time all the way here though.

Speaker 3 (08:51):
Well good, well, there you have it. So I guess
my question is answered. New York has lost it. Sparkle.

Speaker 5 (08:55):
You said times Square, that's a different.

Speaker 3 (08:59):
La La Erry, especially in.

Speaker 1 (09:04):
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Speaker 7 (09:07):
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Speaker 1 (09:15):
Five.

Speaker 8 (09:16):
The Commonwealth has no case, They have no collision. They
are desperate and are trying to create evidence inspecters of
collision where the evidence doesn't support it.

Speaker 9 (09:31):
My brief review of the lab paperwork and looking at
the hoodie, the pears that I made a mistake.

Speaker 4 (09:40):
Fireworks and don him yesterday Tuesday, June tenth, and Babo
went off, Babo wants a mistrial.

Speaker 3 (09:48):
Guys. Basically, Hanky made a mistake.

Speaker 4 (09:51):
Hank said, Hey, these holes in John o'keef's hoodie.

Speaker 3 (09:55):
Yeah, they're from the road. They're from the collision. And
the defense was like, what a you talking about?

Speaker 4 (10:01):
These holes aren't from a collision, these aren't from road rash.

Speaker 3 (10:05):
These are from forensic testing.

Speaker 4 (10:08):
They had to cut holes into the hoodie from forensic testing.

Speaker 3 (10:11):
And Bobo went off.

Speaker 4 (10:13):
He was like, listen, he said this in front of
the jury. Now the jury could potentially think this like boom,
we need a mess trial and guess what Bevy said.
Absolutely not, And in fact, the jury's fed up with you.

Speaker 10 (10:27):
Guys can tell just by looking at this jury they're
fed up. So I would like us to be as
efficient for these jurors as possible tomorrow. I'm not suggesting
that today was a waste of time. Everything we did
was important, but it's very difficult for the jurors to
spend so much time back there. It seems that they're

(10:50):
just about ready to get this case, and everything that
we hear now is very important. So I don't think
anybody wants the juris to tune out at this point,
So let's try and keep things moving along. So I
told you all the other day I thought I might
be in a position to regret giving you last Thursday off,
and that's where we're at. So let's be as efficient

(11:11):
as we can possibly be.

Speaker 4 (11:14):
I told you I might be in a position last
week to be upset that I gave you Thursday off,
and I am here we are.

Speaker 5 (11:21):
How do you mess up that bad anny? How don't
you know that that was from.

Speaker 4 (11:25):
Well there's a little chatter online that he knew and
he was doing it on purpose. Hey, listen, could be
a smart play. Guess it could be a smart play.

Speaker 1 (11:34):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (11:36):
Listen, I don't think a mistrial could happen this deep
in like we're done, basically, like we're at the end.
I think if it was something crazy egregious, then maybe,
but I don't. I don't think she deemed that well.
She clearly did not deem that big enough.

Speaker 3 (11:50):
She ended up having the hoodie come back out.

Speaker 4 (11:53):
She showed the jury, she cleared it up and was like, hey,
this is why these holes were in here.

Speaker 3 (11:56):
Whatever. The bottom line is, there are.

Speaker 4 (12:00):
A lot of people that also believe that this was
just so crazy that the mistrial should have been granted
and Karen Read should be walking free none or nine.

Speaker 2 (12:08):
I don't know about that, but it definitely would make
me feel like this whole trial is not organized.

Speaker 3 (12:13):
At least you heard it there, Hank was like, I
messed up.

Speaker 4 (12:16):
Yeah, like I read it, she said, I read like
the sheet wrong or whatever it was. And again, whether
you did it on purpose or not, it's done. It's
there's no there's no mistrial. We're pushing forward. Yesterday on
the sand we stand, we saw crash Daddy, We saw
a medical examiner by the name of doctor La Fisada,
and we also saw a private investigator, John Tedeman.

Speaker 3 (12:35):
So I don't know.

Speaker 4 (12:36):
Her little Thursday comment thrown in there makes me feel
like everything's going to get bumped today because Tuesday today
was potentially going to be them rapping.

Speaker 3 (12:45):
But I don't know. It felt it felt like her
being upset that the jury.

Speaker 4 (12:52):
Seems upset and the jury's fat up about and she's like,
they're done.

Speaker 3 (12:56):
They're done with your guys, BS. They went out of here,
they won to enjoy their saturdays with Rain and New England.
They're just done.

Speaker 5 (13:03):
So we'll see whatever happens. I don't think this this
is gonna go a third time. I don't. I don't think.

Speaker 4 (13:09):
I also don't think we get a verdict this week.
I think there was there was the possibility we talked
about it yesterday of maybe Friday. It's not feeling like that.
I feel like we might have a couple more days
of action.

Speaker 3 (13:18):
Okay, all right.

Speaker 4 (13:20):
BT Awards took place last night, hosted by the One,
the Only, Kevin Hart.

Speaker 11 (13:26):
Also, I'm gonna do my part. I'm shutting down the
idea of at the parties. No after parties tonight. Okay,
none take you home after this. That's why I did it.

Speaker 5 (13:34):
On a Monday.

Speaker 11 (13:35):
I did it on a Monday. People gotta go to
work tomorrow. No at the parties, that's get slippery them
at the parties. We're learning a lot about people. We're
learning a lot.

Speaker 3 (13:46):
Take it home, obviously, old pitty joke. I don't think
this will shock anybody.

Speaker 4 (13:53):
Kendrick Lamar was just the massive winner of the evening,
brought home five awards, including Album of the Year.

Speaker 12 (13:59):
I been here in a long time, but I always
kept my heart beat, always make sure that they represent
the culture right and always put me in the midst
of the cycle of what he's represent and that's real, true,
down to earth music that people can feel.

Speaker 5 (14:17):
So I always give my heart to.

Speaker 4 (14:19):
BT Snoop, Mariah Carry, Kirk Franklin, and Jamie Fox were
honored with the Ultimate Icon Awards, Jamie Fox even getting
choked up when he accepted it.

Speaker 13 (14:29):
When I saw that, when I saw that memoriam, I
was like, man, it could have been me. But I
don't know why I went through what I went through.
But I know my second chance. I'm not gonna turn down.
I'm not gonna turn down. I have so much love

(14:49):
to give. I told him, I said, men, bro, just
just give me one more crack at this. And I promise,
I said, whatever for a reason you put this on me,
I'm promise I'm gonna do right.

Speaker 3 (15:04):
I can't handle when guy's cry like it chokes me up.

Speaker 4 (15:06):
But that imagine that feeling of you know, usually in
most of these award shows, in the beginning they show
all the people that passed away from me or he's like,
I could have seen my face in that.

Speaker 3 (15:16):
I was thinking about that, that could have been me.

Speaker 5 (15:18):
It was he was so close to dying. I think
we forget, but he was on death's door.

Speaker 4 (15:23):
No, I don't forget because every day we were like, okay,
so is he playing pick or is he dead?

Speaker 3 (15:27):
Like what is it?

Speaker 2 (15:28):
He told the story about when he woke up he
saw the new story about like like the thing with
the clone, and then he was he believed it, and
then he when people came in, he was convinced that
they were trying to clone him and make a white
version of himself. That's how out of it, like, this
guy's this guy's mind, his mental was was crazy.

Speaker 3 (15:46):
But yeah, hearing him choked up is just it's awful.

Speaker 5 (15:49):
Shame back.

Speaker 4 (15:50):
Okay, I made the joke that I don't want to
go to LA, but I'm actually like, really serious, it's
not It's not good times right now in LA. By
the way, before these protests, it wasn't great to it
was in LA.

Speaker 3 (15:59):
Yeah, and you.

Speaker 4 (16:00):
Know, Newsom tries to fight this, but the bottom line
is LA is not great.

Speaker 3 (16:06):
It's not doing well, and that's the truth.

Speaker 4 (16:09):
More troops have been deployed to LA two thousand more
National Guard troops as well as seven hundred Marines to
assist the states with these protests. The protests continue in LA,
protesting the recent ice raids. I just watched a couple
videos this morning of cars driving by and they're getting
like rocks thrown at the cars. I don't know what
the answer is, because you know you're gonna hear a

(16:29):
lot of people say, well, you can't answer violence with violence,
which makes sense to me. But I also feel like,
how how do we we got to cut?

Speaker 3 (16:39):
Like we can't, we can't listen.

Speaker 2 (16:40):
I just feel bad for the guy who's going to work,
who has nothing to do with anything.

Speaker 4 (16:44):
Chet he's getting a rock front through his windshield and
he's like, wait, I just have to go like, yeah,
I don't, Yeah, I know, and you know, a lot
there's a lot of heat on Trump to try to,
you know, figure this out and do it the right way.
And you know, even sending the marine, like I believe
they're just kind of moving them around to different bases
to be ready if in fact they need to kind

(17:06):
of be deployed.

Speaker 3 (17:07):
But it's not.

Speaker 4 (17:09):
I don't know what the answer is because we can't.
We don't want to. We don't want to burn LA down.

Speaker 2 (17:14):
I mean, peace and conversation is a way to go,
but in this day and age, it's so tough to
get to that part of so I don't know.

Speaker 5 (17:19):
And La used to be a.

Speaker 2 (17:20):
Beautiful place you go to the beach, just the west coast.
Not anymore, man, not with this and not with the
way it's been for the last couple of years.

Speaker 4 (17:27):
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Speaker 3 (17:54):
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Speaker 4 (17:57):
DJ Forne was out yesterday, so we have to we
have to get them to speed on, you know, the
roller coaster that is AJ's dating life as we call it.

Speaker 3 (18:05):
That's how I described it yesterday.

Speaker 4 (18:07):
And I just think that there's just a lot of
highs and lows, and there's also the chance of vomiting
because you might get motion sickness.

Speaker 3 (18:14):
And that's how I feel a lot of times when
we're chit chatting about this.

Speaker 2 (18:17):
I disagree with you. I think there are a few
highs and a lot of lows.

Speaker 4 (18:21):
Okay, you might not have a lot of balance, yeah,
because you're right, For some roller coasters are fun.

Speaker 3 (18:27):
Dating life wouldn't be described as that.

Speaker 4 (18:31):
Yeah, down, yeah, and down, but there's always the chance
of been going.

Speaker 5 (18:36):
She found somebody the other day that she really liked.

Speaker 3 (18:38):
Oh did she.

Speaker 1 (18:40):
Like?

Speaker 6 (18:40):
The guy was eager to go out with her, and
she was like, no, pumpy or breaks, we can't go
out and within the.

Speaker 3 (18:48):
Don't forget Yeah, she didn't want him.

Speaker 4 (18:51):
Remember, she didn't want him to fall in love with
her too fast.

Speaker 3 (18:57):
That right, right, right, So just to you up to
speed for it.

Speaker 4 (19:02):
And they went on a second date, and he had
again invited her, Hey, come to my house, I'll cook,
and she was like no, because obviously if she did that,
he would fall in love.

Speaker 3 (19:10):
So they just went.

Speaker 4 (19:11):
Out for a little ice cream date. And after the
ice cream date, the recap she gave us was that
she she you didn't feel the same. You weren't sure
if there was still the connection, the spark if.

Speaker 14 (19:21):
Yeah, the second date was definitely just very different than
the first. Honestly, I just described it as okay, it
was an okay date.

Speaker 6 (19:30):
Yeah, what did he do different? Like was he just
not on your body like that or you?

Speaker 14 (19:36):
Honestly, I don't know, but I did tell them yesterday
that after I got home from the date, he had
apologized for being blah. So I kind of took that
as he wasn't himself.

Speaker 5 (19:46):
So you felt the.

Speaker 3 (19:46):
Energy, yeah, I guess so. I feel like it.

Speaker 4 (19:50):
Was the first date kind of seemed a little effortless,
and this one felt like people were trying to put
in like a little more efforts and it wasn't as.

Speaker 14 (19:57):
And this came after he also canceled on me, so
it was a whole thing.

Speaker 4 (20:01):
Yeah, they were supposed to go out, he canceled last minute, honor.
This was the makeup date from that. So anyways, they
have had a date scheduled for this evening, which is
why we discussed it yesterday, because they were they were
going to go out tonight, and AJ was kind of like, listen,
I'm gonna go on this date and just kind of
feel it out.

Speaker 14 (20:19):
Yeah, because I felt like, you know, he wasn't himself
on Saturday for whatever reason, So let's see how tonight goes,
and that'll kind of like, see, yeah, if there's a
vibe or not.

Speaker 4 (20:28):
Well, everybody buckle up. We will not be testing the
water tonight because we got dumped again. No, no, no, he
dumped us.

Speaker 3 (20:38):
He dumped us. Read the test. Remember first date, he
was falling in love with her, so she says, and
then now.

Speaker 5 (20:49):
We got dumped.

Speaker 3 (20:50):
Well last night I.

Speaker 14 (20:52):
Asked him what time we were going to do dinner tonight,
and he goes, I actually have been struggling a little
the past couple days. But the fact that we haven't
really had that spark. Yes, we have fun conversations and
we're always laughing when we meet, but I haven't really
been able to get past that. Unfortunately, I don't think
we should continue seeing each other, at least not in
a romantic way. I'm sorry, but I can't force it.
So I just want to let you know where I

(21:12):
stand at the moment.

Speaker 3 (21:12):
I hope you understand.

Speaker 4 (21:14):
Nice text though, he's yeah, super nice text. We got
to give it to him. But really, when we boil
that down, we got dumped.

Speaker 3 (21:23):
Really, that's what that is.

Speaker 2 (21:24):
I have to ask about the first date, and I've
always wondered because I think your perspective on things are
one thing. I wonder if he would have felt the
same exact thing, because to you, you were like, it
was awesome? Was this it was that? I wonder after
that he didn't feel the same because he canceled the
second date and then he pushed it back. So I
wonder if the perspectives are different.

Speaker 14 (21:46):
I mean, like I said, on the first date, he
was eager to schedule that second you know, so that
makes me feel like.

Speaker 3 (21:53):
The first date.

Speaker 4 (21:53):
He yes, and he took her chair and he turned
it to face her.

Speaker 5 (21:57):
I also do you think there's a chance too that
he was like, all right, well let's go tomorrow.

Speaker 1 (22:02):
You're like no, no, no, no no.

Speaker 5 (22:03):
And maybe he felt the way about that because the
things were going that good.

Speaker 14 (22:06):
Maybe, but I explained my feelings towards that. It wasn't
just like no, I don't want to do that. I
just said I didn't want to move.

Speaker 3 (22:12):
To my god, I forgot about that.

Speaker 4 (22:15):
He's the guy who was like, everything's going so great,
let's go out tomorrow too, and you said no.

Speaker 10 (22:21):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (22:21):
I think I think that hurt his ego.

Speaker 3 (22:24):
I forgot.

Speaker 6 (22:25):
I think that hurt his ego. I think maybe other
times that has worked for him, and chicks have been
all over, But I.

Speaker 3 (22:30):
Think about it.

Speaker 4 (22:30):
This is a girl that you put your guys in
that situation.

Speaker 3 (22:34):
You're like this, I am having the best time ever.
She tells me, no, I can't call it.

Speaker 4 (22:38):
That's not going to stop you from trying to go
back out there because you're like, oh, oh my god, girlfriend.

Speaker 6 (22:43):
Right, some people's eagles get heart because they felt like
they put in such an ill effort, and maybe he
got intimidated. He's like, damn, I'm going to have to
do like way more than what He probably pulled it
on on that first day. And when you was like, nah,
I'm cool, I don't want to go on a second day,
he was like, damn no.

Speaker 14 (22:58):
But I didn't say no to us second date. I
just said I don't have to do it tomorrow. I
want to see you again, but I don't want to
move quickly.

Speaker 5 (23:06):
Some people are going to take that as a no.

Speaker 2 (23:08):
Sometimes I think, like, I love you, but sometimes when
you present some information out there, it's it's very like
rigid and stiff, and I wonder if that maybe threw him.

Speaker 6 (23:19):
Off, like, ain't no way. Second date, he's like, oh,
I don't feel the spark when you were dying to
see this chake in less than twenty four hours. So
it's either one thing. It's's ego got hurt, or he
was just trying to get some or he met somebody
well he saw that You're not an easy lick, and
he was like, no, let me just I mean he
could have.

Speaker 3 (23:35):
Also gone on another date and been like I'm going
to be Yeah.

Speaker 14 (23:38):
To Tharn's point, I will add that on Sunday, when
we were planning our date for tonight, he threw out there, hey,
should I cook for you or should we go out again?
And I said I was still comfortable with going out
in public, and he you know expressed that like, okay,
that's fine. You know, it's just easier to be more
intimate if we are at like not in public. He's

(23:58):
not a big PDA person, So it's a big switch
from like inviting me over for dinner and now saying
that you don't feel the spark.

Speaker 3 (24:05):
I don't.

Speaker 4 (24:06):
I also said there's a chance he did some deep
diving and he hopped on our social media.

Speaker 3 (24:12):
I'm serious, true.

Speaker 1 (24:16):
To no.

Speaker 4 (24:17):
I mean really, maybe he saw the social media and
was like, but you you did tell him about it.
I told him, But maybe he saw it and was like,
I don't want to be centered on that.

Speaker 14 (24:26):
On the first date, I told him about it and
he actually told me he was going to do a
deep dive, and like the next like the next few
days he told me like, oh, he was like commenting
on like all the stuff that he saw. So he
did the deep dive and seemed okay with it.

Speaker 3 (24:39):
But yeah, I don't.

Speaker 14 (24:40):
I don't know what happened. I don't know something. I
definitely feel like I did something, but.

Speaker 4 (24:48):
Well, yeah, no, and I also said to her, even
if we reached out to this guy and we were like,
just tell us, like what exactly was it? Like, that
answer is never gonna We're never gonna feel good about it.
It's never gonna be enough.

Speaker 6 (25:01):
To your point, Ashley, some Tony just called it. He
couldn't get on the air, but he said, yeah, it's
because you came and ran with his business on and
he's probably like, nah, I.

Speaker 5 (25:08):
Don't want that.

Speaker 3 (25:09):
Yeah, No, it really could be to your point.

Speaker 5 (25:10):
Yeah, it could have been that. Yeah, another one bites
the dust. I hated here. It's freezing here, Like I'm
just we're just got a lot of loneliness and heartbreaking this.

Speaker 3 (25:29):
Yeah, welcome back from New York J four and absolutely
nothing has changed over here.

Speaker 4 (25:37):
Hi, everybody, good morning. It's actually in the jam In
Morning show. It's so funny when we talk about Aja's
dating life because it does sometimes get to the point
where I feel like people are fed up. I said
this yesterday for when we got a talk about from
a guy and he was like he.

Speaker 3 (25:53):
Just sounded fed up. He sounds as fed.

Speaker 4 (25:56):
Up as the jurors in bed, Like he just couldn't
He's like, I can't do it anymore. Now I can
just read the head like before and gave me a
little of little synopsis of what Mark wants to talk about.

Speaker 3 (26:08):
He has to have the wrong girl. Let's see, he
has to have.

Speaker 4 (26:12):
The wrong girl because it says I try to talk
to aj when I worked at the gym and she
was boogie Mark.

Speaker 3 (26:21):
Yeah, I don't believe it for a second.

Speaker 4 (26:24):
Now.

Speaker 3 (26:24):
If that said I try to.

Speaker 4 (26:25):
Talk to Ashley when I worked at the gym and
she was being bougie, I could maybe see it, but AJ.

Speaker 15 (26:33):
She was okay, So it was it was a girl, right.
She told me I work at GEMINARTI four five. I'm like, oh, shoot,
you do. She's like yeah, but I work on the
side and I'm like, oh, okay, that's cool with have
a boom boom boom. So I do a little deep
research and I end up finding out that she worked
for Gemini four five. So I go boom and I
try to talk to he or whatever, and she was

(26:54):
just like she was a very introvert.

Speaker 3 (26:56):
Let's say that, okay, yeah, no.

Speaker 15 (26:58):
Very like she didn't really talk to anybody, she didn't
really express herself. She was just like very like as
soon as she found out that I found that out,
she was like, I never found that post ever again.

Speaker 5 (27:10):
But that's not a boogie though. That's just her kind
of maybe be in private, being shy.

Speaker 4 (27:14):
By the way, we're talking about a j right. Was
it like a like a short person to the point
where you were like, could.

Speaker 3 (27:19):
Be a child?

Speaker 1 (27:20):
Yes, very sure, very short.

Speaker 3 (27:22):
Yeah, very short.

Speaker 4 (27:24):
And you know what, Mark, let's just go ahead and say,
were you at a planet fitnessed? Was it a planet
fitness Yes? Okay, okay confirmed. Does any of this ring
a bell to you?

Speaker 3 (27:37):
Are you No? Was it in Tucksbury?

Speaker 15 (27:41):
No, it was in Wilmington, from Beverly.

Speaker 6 (27:48):
He said it was a minute ago that one also,
but you have you were at that one, so you're
all right it was you?

Speaker 3 (27:57):
It was okay, I did yeah, which means.

Speaker 14 (27:59):
That I had a boyfriend at that time. Okay, So
if you tried to holler at me, that's.

Speaker 3 (28:04):
Why I.

Speaker 16 (28:09):
Dump.

Speaker 3 (28:11):
You know what, Mark might have a boy Mark, she
just got dumped. She's on edge. Yeah, so that.

Speaker 5 (28:22):
She's yeah, do you want to shoot your shot now?

Speaker 15 (28:26):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (28:26):
Mark, the floor is yours.

Speaker 15 (28:27):
I'm not actually engaged now man, and.

Speaker 3 (28:30):
Good for you.

Speaker 5 (28:31):
Mark.

Speaker 3 (28:32):
Love that.

Speaker 4 (28:33):
Hey, Mark, do you listen to the show often? Do
you hear us talking about Aja's dating life?

Speaker 15 (28:38):
Yes? I do.

Speaker 3 (28:39):
What are your like, what's your take on it? Do
you have any advice?

Speaker 4 (28:42):
I mean, remember she's fresh off of a new breakup
of what two dates? But do you do you have
any advice for her?

Speaker 15 (28:51):
Let her guard down, let somebody in, and then she
controlled her shoes true self after like six months.

Speaker 14 (28:59):
But I had a girlfriend of ten years, so that
is why my guard is up. Unfortunately.

Speaker 15 (29:07):
I mean, you could shoot your shot. I mean, everybody's
not the same.

Speaker 4 (29:11):
Yeah, I know, And I think that's a good That's.

Speaker 3 (29:13):
A that is a good one. I don't you know.

Speaker 4 (29:15):
I feel like now it's you're so rigid to it
all because you've had some tough situations.

Speaker 3 (29:20):
But there's going to be a situation that's not that way.

Speaker 5 (29:22):
I know.

Speaker 14 (29:23):
But I do feel like I need to protect myself
because honestly, that situation still hurts, Like I'm still upset
about it, to be honest, don't laugh.

Speaker 4 (29:32):
Yeah, Jesus, she's having a layers it does builders. Mark,
thank you so much for the call.

Speaker 5 (29:39):
Congress and engagement. I'm not laughing.

Speaker 3 (29:50):
Laughing laughing, hysterical.

Speaker 4 (29:54):
He thinks it's so funny that you can't get over
the situation from a year ago, the one where he
had his wedding picture on the.

Speaker 5 (30:03):
Okay, but it was a girlfriend on the thing. She
didn't like that. She didn't even ask him that, she
just saw the picture up on the thing.

Speaker 14 (30:18):
Remember, you guys also sat here and said this one
feels different.

Speaker 5 (30:21):
So yes, but we didn't know the red flags.

Speaker 2 (30:25):
Didn't know the red flags that you ignored. That's the point.
And and listen, it's been a year, Like I get it,
but come on, come on, I just.

Speaker 14 (30:34):
Missed the feelings that I had in that situation, but
not felt good.

Speaker 3 (30:39):
Not felt good? Well, all right, I think that there
is hope.

Speaker 4 (30:45):
You know, a j will find love At that point,
I'll be a grandma Santile.

Speaker 1 (30:53):
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to know, we got you there.

Speaker 7 (31:00):
Read Things you need to know on Buddin's Number one
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Speaker 1 (31:05):
Five.

Speaker 8 (31:06):
The Commonwealth has no case, They have no collision. They
are desperate and are trying to create evidence inspecters of
collision where the evidence doesn't support it.

Speaker 9 (31:21):
My brief review of the lab paperwork and looking at
the hoodie, it appears that I made a mistake.

Speaker 4 (31:27):
Mistakes were made and ted on Tuesday, June tenth, and
you heard Babo.

Speaker 3 (31:31):
That was Boba Lesti going off. Man wants a mistrial,
and not without a good cause. I mean, he makes
a good point. Listen to.

Speaker 4 (31:39):
The defense was like, listen, Hanky is up here talking
about the holes in John o'keef's hoodie are from road
rash or from a collision, when in fact.

Speaker 3 (31:50):
They were from forensic testing.

Speaker 4 (31:52):
And he said that in front of a jury, and
you know, even when or if they find out that
that's not the case.

Speaker 3 (31:59):
They still have it in their brains. The seed has
been planted.

Speaker 4 (32:03):
And there was a lot of back and forth about it,
and our galley Judge beeB, who by the way, just
seems exhausted with the whole thing, was like, no, no, no, no, no,
we're not going to have a mistrial. In fact, I'm
sick of it because we've wasted half the day on
this and now the jury is just fed up.

Speaker 10 (32:22):
Can tell just by looking at this jury they're fed up.
So I would like us to be as efficient for
these jurors as possible tomorrow. I'm not suggesting that today
was a waste of time. Everything we did was important,
but it's very difficult for the jurors just spend so
much time back there. It seems that they're just about

(32:45):
ready to get this case, and everything that we hear
now is very important. So I don't think anybody wants
the jurors to tune out at this point, So let's
try and keep things moving along. So I told you
all the other.

Speaker 3 (32:58):
Day, I thought I might be in a position to
regret giving you last.

Speaker 10 (33:01):
Thursday off, and that's where we're at, so let's be
as efficient as we can possibly be.

Speaker 3 (33:08):
It reminds me of when you're little and your mom's.

Speaker 4 (33:10):
Like, all right, I will let you sleep over Joe's house,
but don't make me regret it in the morning, when
we have eighty things to do and you're.

Speaker 3 (33:18):
Sleepy, Like that's literally the I gave you Thursday off.
I told you, don't make me regret it, and now
I do. You little peasants again.

Speaker 5 (33:29):
The jury is just tired of this. They want the break.

Speaker 3 (33:31):
We're tired.

Speaker 1 (33:32):
I know.

Speaker 5 (33:33):
I agree.

Speaker 6 (33:34):
She's trying to make it sound like it's a jury
that's tied. She's the one. She's like, these people are
driving me crazy.

Speaker 3 (33:39):
I can't deal with I'm so sick of it.

Speaker 4 (33:42):
It was just a lot of back and forth yesterday,
you know, was this examiner going to be able to
talk about this?

Speaker 3 (33:47):
There were more var DearS like it. Just it was
a lot. Half the time, the jury wasn't even in
the courtroom, and listen, it waited.

Speaker 4 (33:55):
I don't I don't want to use the word it
wastes time because each side is fighting for what they're
fighting for, so it's you know, but it doesn't waste
the jury's time. Yeah, are they kind of sitting in
there unable to talk about what's happening, and.

Speaker 3 (34:05):
Just you know, so more rain on the weekend like that,
and it's a lot.

Speaker 4 (34:11):
Yesterday on the stand, we saw crash Daddy, We saw
a medical examiner by the name of doctor Lapisada and
a private investigator.

Speaker 3 (34:18):
There were rumors that today would be the final day
for the defense.

Speaker 4 (34:22):
And then I believe Hank has a couple people that
he's putting back up on the stand and rebuttal.

Speaker 3 (34:28):
I don't think we get a verdict this week anymore.
It just didn't feel that way in the courtroom yesterday, but.

Speaker 5 (34:34):
It definitely is looking like next week, which should should
be the week at.

Speaker 4 (34:36):
The very I would think I'll text Nick and see
if he has any inside info on that, and I'll
have before you in the next hour.

Speaker 3 (34:43):
All right.

Speaker 4 (34:43):
The BT Awards took place yesterday, hosted by Kevin Hard
and who's keV without a little Diddy joke.

Speaker 5 (34:51):
Also, I'm gonna do my part.

Speaker 11 (34:52):
I'm shutting down the idea of after parties. No after
parties tonight, okay, none? Take you home after it is.
That's why I did it on Monday. I did it
on the Monday. People gotta go to work tomorrow. No
after parties, that's get slippery.

Speaker 5 (35:06):
Had them with them after parties.

Speaker 11 (35:08):
We're learning a lot about people, ain't we We're learning
a lot take it home.

Speaker 3 (35:12):
It's just unrelated to this topic.

Speaker 4 (35:14):
It is crazy to hear that joke because that joke
was taking place far before this Diddy trial, Like, oh,
like you don't want to go to like the after
parties and the Diddy you.

Speaker 3 (35:24):
Know that was I had heard that joke before. It
turns out it was real. Uh And obviously to nobody surprise,
the King.

Speaker 4 (35:32):
Of the Awards, Kendrick Lamar bringing home five for Best
Male Hip Hop Artist and including Album of Year.

Speaker 12 (35:40):
I ain't been here in a long time, but I
always kept my heart beat. Always make sure that they
represent the culture right and always put me in the
midst of the cycle. What we represent, and that's real, true,
down to earth music that people can feel.

Speaker 5 (35:58):
So I'll always give my heart to Beat.

Speaker 4 (36:00):
It's good for you, man, You've had yourself a time
move over. It's Strakes turn okay. Jamie Fox, Snoop Dog,
Mariah Carey, Kirk Franklin, We're all honored with the Ultimate
Icon Awards, and everybody's talking about Jamie Fox as of
this morning because when he accepted it, he got emotional.

Speaker 1 (36:16):
When I saw that.

Speaker 13 (36:17):
When I saw that me memoriam, I was like, man,
that could have been me. But I don't know why
I went through what I went through. But I know
my second chance. I'm not gonna turn down. I'm not
gonna turn down. I have so much love to give.
I told him, I said, men, bro, just just give

(36:40):
me one more crack at this and I promise, I said,
whatever whatever reason you put this on me, I promise
I'm I'm.

Speaker 5 (36:50):
Gonna do right. Wow, they kept cutting between him and
his daughters and they were bawling.

Speaker 4 (36:56):
They were they were there the entire time, and and
you know, you always wonder too, or maybe it's just
me because I'm nosy.

Speaker 3 (37:03):
Katie Holmes had to have visited. Yeah, they're been a
part of.

Speaker 5 (37:08):
Probably because they were together for like ten years. So
there was some communication there.

Speaker 3 (37:11):
At the very Beast Wire.

Speaker 5 (37:13):
Dawson's Creek guy form No, absolutely no.

Speaker 3 (37:16):
So you couldn't weigh in on Dawson or Pascy like you.

Speaker 5 (37:18):
Thought you should end up with Noop.

Speaker 1 (37:20):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (37:22):
Yeah, I was always a pasty.

Speaker 6 (37:23):
Dawson was too emotional. I'm gonna give you a couple
of other viral moments that went on on the BT Awards.
A young thug showed up and I don't know what
kind of mask and a racoltaale as his I think
tie or whatever animal that was that he had on.

Speaker 5 (37:38):
That was one moment.

Speaker 6 (37:38):
And then there was a moment where Kays and not
by the way, who me and my son were watching
on live stream. This guy had a quarter million people
tuned into his Twitch account live stream from the BT Awards.
He one time passes La rapper Walla doesn't even recognize him,
jumps into a call. He's like, oh, what's up, bro,
what are you playing on your phone? Because while it
was on his phone, jumps into the suv. His chat

(37:59):
stops going crazy and he's like, oh, that's Wally and
they were like, no, it's Wale.

Speaker 5 (38:03):
He's like, who's so?

Speaker 3 (38:04):
Kai did it?

Speaker 6 (38:06):
He came up like he was just a security guard.
The dude was just walking by. He was like, oh,
what you're playing on your phone? And while they said
whatever he said, he jumped in the thing, looked at
his phone. The stream was white.

Speaker 17 (38:16):
Oh.

Speaker 6 (38:16):
They say, oh, that's a big name. They say that's
Wiley and they were like, no, Wle. He's like, who's
that a rapper? He's like, oh, that's crazy.

Speaker 5 (38:24):
It's it's it was.

Speaker 15 (38:27):
To us.

Speaker 3 (38:27):
It's weird when people don't recognize Kai sanat So for him,
you know.

Speaker 6 (38:30):
Kais was the star of the show yesterday. Everybody and
their mother was shaking his hand trying to get a
picture with him. There were older dudes being like, my
niece watches you and you know he has the youth.

Speaker 3 (38:40):
Bro, No, he has the influence. He definitely does all right,
this one is for the two of you.

Speaker 4 (38:46):
The Wu Tang clan is releasing their first video game
in twenty five years.

Speaker 3 (38:51):
Is this is this interesting?

Speaker 15 (38:53):
Guys?

Speaker 5 (38:53):
I mean they're pretty creative with stuff like that, but
I don't know what's the video game about.

Speaker 4 (38:56):
So it's called Presenting Wu Tang Rise of the Deceiver,
and players will have to find all of the missing
members of the group throughout the game.

Speaker 5 (39:06):
Okay for ODB and we digging in the dirt.

Speaker 3 (39:11):
I mean right, they had an og video game, which
I didn't know in nineteen ninety nine.

Speaker 4 (39:15):
Ye had you played? Have you guys played that one?
Ever played that one? I'm gonna Wu Tang something style?
I don't want to say it wrong. S h A
O L Challin all.

Speaker 2 (39:26):
Yes, back in the day, it's like a kung fu
game or something like that. Yeah, they were all influenced
by a lot of kung fu films like back in
the day. No, you know what was fire back in
the day? Methan Man and a couple of people inted
you remember Santy Deaf Jams? What was the fighting game
that they had?

Speaker 5 (39:42):
I do remember that game. I think fifty cent might
have been hit it too. It was kind of Fire.

Speaker 3 (39:47):
I know no games. I know duck Hunter that was six.
I know, dude, I'm saying, I don't know games like that.

Speaker 2 (39:55):
You you're missing out on so many classic games and gaming.
Now it's just a different world like you used to.
I've killed the doc, but now it's so immersive and amazing.

Speaker 3 (40:03):
Killed the doc.

Speaker 4 (40:05):
All right, This three thing you need to do for Tuesday,
June the tenth, The weekend is gonna be at Jellette
Stadium ten to night. So let me just walk you
through this. The Weekend's gonna be at Geellette tonight and tomorrow.
Right now, I'm gonna offer you tickets to see him
tomorrow night. Six one seven nine three one one four five.
But keep in mind if you're somebody who has off
tonight and you thought to yourself, I would love to

(40:25):
go see the Weekend under that moniker for the last time.
DJ pop Dog is gonna be at Splitzville, and I
know he has tickets, So if you want to roll.

Speaker 3 (40:34):
To Foxborough, there is still a chance.

Speaker 4 (40:36):
But right now six one seven nine three one one
nine four five twenty five, I'm locking you in with
tickets to Gillette Stadium tomorrow night for the weekend.

Speaker 3 (40:44):
Good Luck.

Speaker 7 (40:46):
Next up with Ashley and the jam In Morning Show
with DJ Flurid and Sunsey.

Speaker 3 (40:51):
Jamie and Lemonster is going to the weekend tomorrow night?

Speaker 4 (40:55):
Am I do?

Speaker 1 (40:55):
Am?

Speaker 3 (40:55):
I botching?

Speaker 4 (40:56):
Describing what's happening at Splitzville. I feel like I'm not okay,
So I just don't want anybody to be confused. We're
gonna give a pair of tickets again at eight twenty
for the weekend show tomorrow night at Gillette.

Speaker 3 (41:09):
That's done guarantee.

Speaker 4 (41:10):
But he's also gonna be there tonight and DJ pop
Dog is djaying at splitz Field to keep people ready
for the show, and he has an extra pair of
tickets into tonight's show. Same thing will apply for Foreign
Ford's gonna be at Splitsvield tomorrow night. You are gonna
have an extra pair of tickets as well. Are you
gonna dj and.

Speaker 3 (41:27):
Then go to the show.

Speaker 5 (41:29):
I'm going to the show for sure?

Speaker 3 (41:31):
How late you'll say, is I.

Speaker 6 (41:32):
Think once the weekend comes on? I'm gone? Really yeah,
I'm not really like you know, the weekend lately does?
He doesn't do it for me.

Speaker 3 (41:40):
After Teddro's forum was like I can't tell.

Speaker 6 (41:42):
Yeah, you know, play I think he's got two opening
I don't know who the first one is, but Playboy
Kudy for show I want to see. But I think, yeah,
maybe I stay for a few minutes of the set
for the weekend, just to kind of see what the
vib is like and what the energy is like. But yeah,
I'm definitely not staying for the show, not the whole show.

Speaker 4 (41:59):
You can't well, well you physically can't because you have
to drive all the way back to Manage and.

Speaker 3 (42:03):
We have to get up a three thirty.

Speaker 6 (42:04):
So regardless, even if I had the day off, I'm
not pressed to see the weekend like that. Not saying
that y'all shouldn't. That's why you should go over there,
check out pup, bright and early, you know what I mean,
while you're trying to beat traffic, get some extra tickets.
You never know, he might hook you up or even
see me tomorrow. But yeah, me personally, once a weekend
comes on, I'm good with his seeing him take.

Speaker 5 (42:24):
Off his mask.

Speaker 4 (42:24):
I just think there's by the way he takes off
his mask and he like, he's like, yeah, he's so.

Speaker 3 (42:29):
Excited when he takes up.

Speaker 4 (42:30):
I would say this, I would argue that not a
lot of people are going to be like, you know what,
I'm gonna get in the car and drive to foxbro
just because the weekend's playing, not because I have tickets.

Speaker 3 (42:42):
Meaning I don't think.

Speaker 4 (42:44):
I think you have a high chance if you show
up to see Pup and Furn that you're gonna get
these tickets because ninety seven percent, let's just say, of
the people that are going to be there have tickets
to the show.

Speaker 3 (42:53):
That's why they're going.

Speaker 4 (42:54):
So I really think if you're like you, if you
want to do the hike to Foxborough, I think you
have hyper high I.

Speaker 3 (43:00):
Think so, I really do.

Speaker 6 (43:01):
And to watch a show for free, and I'm hearing
you know, like Sante said, it's amazing. Yeah, sure, come through.

Speaker 4 (43:06):
Amazing to all not for foreign is all set?

Speaker 3 (43:10):
What are we doing something on the site? What is happening?

Speaker 4 (43:12):
And can somebody, for the love of God call me
right now and tell me that AJ is not going
to die alone, that there is a that there is
a chance for that there is hope that in the
dating world, as many bad stories as we hear, maybe
you're somebody you just went on a first date and
you're like Ash loves in the air, or you you know,

(43:34):
you were on tender, you were down and out, you
thought I'll never find love, And you're gonna tell Aj
a story that is gonna bring her joy, that's gonna
make her feel like that could happen to me too.
Six one seven, nine three one one nine four five
six one seven nine three one one nine four five.

Speaker 3 (43:51):
Or the usual you have a horrible dating, love or
relationship story to tell me. It's beyond the Swipe only
on Jamin ninety four.

Speaker 1 (43:57):
Five dactly and the Boy with DJ four and it's
such big morning.

Speaker 7 (44:03):
Bustin's number one for hip hop dam in ninety four five.

Speaker 3 (44:08):
Hi, everybody, good morning.

Speaker 4 (44:11):
We're doing Beyond the Swipe right now, and we're talking dating,
love relationships.

Speaker 3 (44:16):
Now usually it's a it's a venting session.

Speaker 5 (44:18):
I love that.

Speaker 4 (44:19):
I mean, it's not easy out there. I AJ and
I had a moment today where I looked at her
and I go, dating seems so fun because it's just
it's a lot. And by the way, AJ just has
the balls to come on the radio and tell about
her dating life. A lot of other women are going
through the exact same stuff, but they don't have a
microphone in front of their face.

Speaker 3 (44:39):
So we gotta give AJ props for that.

Speaker 4 (44:41):
Six one seven six one seven nine three one one
four five. This is beyond swipe. We're talking dating, love relationships.
Let's dig into your love life. Veronica is in Milford.
Veronica is gonna, you know, bring us up right. We're
a little down here today. AJ just got dumped less
than ten hours. People might be just tuning in and

(45:02):
as she got donbeed how long were they dating?

Speaker 3 (45:04):
It was one date? But Veronica make us feel better.

Speaker 17 (45:09):
Okay, So hi everyone, love the show, Ashley. You're so funny.

Speaker 11 (45:12):
I love you, love you.

Speaker 17 (45:15):
So I was in a very bad relationship for many years.
I got married pretty young, and I think we were
just young, but it turned into a very toxic relationship,
and you know, we ended up not working out, and
I said, you know, I'm never going to find someone again.
And I had two kids. It's so hard, you know,
especially when you have kids, and I was going through

(45:35):
I was just I just thought I'd never meet anyone again.
And then one day my sister was like, why don't
you go online? Why don't you download a dating app?
And I'm like, really, because you hear all these stories
and all of the I went in and I talked
to a few people and I was actually going to
delete the app. And then one day my now husband

(45:55):
he just said hey, and I was like, oh, you know,
this is typically not somebody I would talk to, but
I did, and we're now married. We thought for so long,
we met, we became friends, and then we're now married.

Speaker 3 (46:07):
You know what I You know there, Veronica, this is
not a guy I would typically talk to.

Speaker 4 (46:12):
Because when AJ sees those ones, door slammed, locked, dead, bolded.

Speaker 3 (46:16):
See you later. We been telling her this. I think
she needs to, you know, maybe take a risk.

Speaker 6 (46:22):
Veronica, How many of those ones did you? How many
dudes did you have to go through and suss out
before you found the love of your life?

Speaker 4 (46:28):
Was it?

Speaker 16 (46:29):
Was it?

Speaker 5 (46:29):
Many?

Speaker 4 (46:29):
Can?

Speaker 15 (46:30):
I can?

Speaker 18 (46:31):
I be honest?

Speaker 17 (46:32):
I think when something meant to be, it's meant to be.
I was literally on that app for like less than
a month. I maybe spoke to about like I've guys.

Speaker 1 (46:42):
Every now, Veronica.

Speaker 3 (46:43):
Everybody in the car is like, shut up, bitch, shut up.

Speaker 4 (46:46):
I was on there for two weeks the love of
my life, But no, listen, it can it can't happen
like that?

Speaker 3 (46:54):
Like, who knows AJ could find a new app, she
could hop on.

Speaker 4 (46:58):
You don't know.

Speaker 5 (46:58):
I don't think they got more apps.

Speaker 3 (47:00):
Yeah, you're right.

Speaker 17 (47:02):
I think that when you just let go, you just
let go and you don't really think too much about it,
and you're just like, Okay, I'm just gonna you just
have to let go and that things will happen. I
think when you stress too much, things don't happen. But
when you just let go, and like I'm telling you,
like I'm saying, this is somebody I would have never
thought that i'd once date, and she ended up. This

(47:23):
is the best relationship I've ever had in my life.

Speaker 3 (47:25):
It has to make you feel good to hit my
now husband.

Speaker 4 (47:28):
I like that.

Speaker 3 (47:29):
That sounded really nice coming off well love him. Okay,
oh that's good. That helps you know.

Speaker 4 (47:37):
Congratulations And I'm gonna I'm gonna pass that along to AJ.

Speaker 3 (47:42):
Just I'm gonna tell her let go.

Speaker 4 (47:44):
Veronica and Melfords thank you for the call. AJ's holding
on for dear life, Shade let go.

Speaker 2 (47:49):
She has a good point. Though she has an open mind.
She dated somebody that she wasn't really in her cards,
and you know, as she found love. That's AJ's problem though,
that she's so dead set on something so specific and
has all these rules of things she doesn't like.

Speaker 3 (48:02):
What do you mean so specific?

Speaker 4 (48:04):
As I see behind you the list of things that
age A. We haven't done this in a while. Just
really quick, I'll just go down through.

Speaker 3 (48:10):
Guys. There's four columns affair at this point. Four of them.

Speaker 4 (48:15):
These are things that AJ does not want in a man.
He cannot be too thin, he cannot be a smoker,
He can't live. I would say, I don't know more
than fifteen minutes from her. Once you hit twenty, there
could be traffic and she might have to find parking.

Speaker 3 (48:30):
She's out, no kinks. You can't be a freaky You
certainly can't be too nice.

Speaker 1 (48:37):
She.

Speaker 4 (48:38):
I think she may have bent on this one. At
first it was like no kids. I think she would
take somebody that had a kid. Now, just depending on
the situation. Don't be too comfortable with her. We learned
that one with this last guy that just dumped her.
Don't invite her to your house, like how dare you?
Don't compliment her, Do not tell her she is pretty.
Do not tell her you like her videos. Don't tell
her that she has a beautiful smile, idiot. Don't send

(49:01):
her voice notes, just talk, do not change the plans.
And two of my all time favorites. You cannot look
like Brad Pitt if you, if you, if you're giving
like model handsome vibes, you're out. And you also cannot
be white. How dare you, as a white man, think
you're gonna marry a.

Speaker 1 (49:21):
You know, I was.

Speaker 3 (49:21):
I was gassing them up, at least the one.

Speaker 5 (49:25):
She likes them bald, bald, black and bearded.

Speaker 3 (49:29):
Bald, black and bearded.

Speaker 5 (49:31):
Yeah, because it wasn't none of the other things. You
just listened.

Speaker 3 (49:34):
Yeah, I'm in column one though, like there are four
of them. We don't have its a J's list. I
read down one column. Okay, so maybe that woman has
a point.

Speaker 5 (49:44):
Let go a little bit. We do bald, bedded and white.
We could we do black and with hair and no beard,
like we don Just.

Speaker 3 (49:57):
That's letting go, that's taking veronic advice.

Speaker 5 (50:00):
My favorite one is she wasn't like, guys, we're too smart.
That's like my that's my yeah.

Speaker 1 (50:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (50:04):
Actually the one she went out with, he went to brown.
She was like, I'm out six one seven nine three
one one four five that's AJ's dating life.

Speaker 4 (50:14):
What is going on with yours? Call Us called the
t six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
It is Beyond the Swipe only on Jammin DJ. Popdog
added a lot more weekend to the rotation this morning
and tomorrow to make sure everbody's getting right for the show.
I have another pair of tickets in coming up at
eight twenty. Uh listen, we're doing Beyond the Swipe. Usually

(50:35):
it's event fest about how like it's tough out there,
the streets are wild. And I know this not just
because of Aja, my girlfriends that are single.

Speaker 3 (50:42):
It's not easy.

Speaker 4 (50:43):
Uh So today we were trying to kind of change
the tune a little bit, give Aja a little pump
up because you know, she just got dumped by a
guy less than ten hours ago.

Speaker 3 (50:52):
They went on one date.

Speaker 4 (50:54):
But I got this message from Shelby. Hi, SHELLB, thanks
for the message, she said, Good morning Ash. This weekend,
I just got it engaged to the man I met
on Hinge a year and a half ago.

Speaker 3 (51:05):
For our first date, we went to David Busters and
we hit it off.

Speaker 4 (51:08):
Ever, since it is possible, don't invite me out on
a date to David Busters.

Speaker 3 (51:13):
But that's great that it worked out for Shelby. Michelle's
in Rockland. Hi, Michelle, Michelle, I'm crying at this.

Speaker 4 (51:22):
So Michelle's gonna give aj a little tip as to
where she could maybe find a man.

Speaker 3 (51:27):
This is so true. My ex was in the AAU.

Speaker 4 (51:31):
Realm And yeah, she needs to hang around the tell everybody,
tell everybody.

Speaker 18 (51:37):
Yeah, she needs to hang around the AAU circuit. This
mad black.

Speaker 5 (51:42):
Yeah, she's not wrong because I spent a lot of weekends.

Speaker 1 (51:46):
There a lot.

Speaker 3 (51:49):
So the hot black guys are going to AU tournaments?

Speaker 15 (51:52):
Got it?

Speaker 18 (51:53):
How her her just randomly say that's my niece on
the quart of that's the stage, little Tommy. Just lie.

Speaker 5 (52:02):
I like editor.

Speaker 18 (52:03):
I mean, it's a little bit expensive to get in
because they really rape you to get into an AAU
basketball for the weekend. But I mean, what's thirty five
dollars if you signed in the love of our life?

Speaker 3 (52:16):
Yeah, thank you for that. Michelle. You're dropping the R word.
You must be expensive.

Speaker 2 (52:20):
He's not wrong, it's really she's not wrong. It's real expensive.
But some of those coaches they're good looking.

Speaker 4 (52:25):
Then okay, and you know what, let's just erace you
have and to pretend you could go to an AAU
game with son and you could just be like, I'm
watching his son play, and then there there's the love
of your life.

Speaker 3 (52:36):
Yeah that's really that simple.

Speaker 4 (52:38):
Uh.

Speaker 3 (52:39):
Curvag is in Boston High Curvage, good morning.

Speaker 16 (52:45):
Good morning's a going good.

Speaker 4 (52:47):
So listen all you feel like you have some of
the things that I've said that AJ is looking for.
Assuming you are bearded, black and volved, I am.

Speaker 16 (53:01):
Actually so, I actually judge dmu. I listen to you
guys every Tuesday. Tender. Tuesday is a lively my favorite thing.
When I was driving to work, when I was trying
to chat to BT, what was it? Change turned to
Tuesday two because I love It's the only thing I
listened to in the morning.

Speaker 5 (53:14):
But yes, oh my god, I got.

Speaker 16 (53:16):
AJ's boxes and I was like, huh, I'm curious to
see what she looked like. What it's not that she
brings to the table beside she has all this list,
but what does your break? I'm curious.

Speaker 4 (53:27):
I like this question, and nothing brings me greater joy
than when people put things back on her because her
face is as red as a stop sign.

Speaker 3 (53:32):
Right now, Curbris wants to know.

Speaker 4 (53:34):
AJ, you know you have all these demands, like you're
a demanding woman.

Speaker 3 (53:39):
What do you bring to the table? Like, what are
you give us? Three things that AJ is going to
bring to the table.

Speaker 14 (53:44):
Yeah, you know, I'm so glad that you asked this
because I've been asked this a lot and it you know,
it's hard to figure out what do I bring to
the table. So I actually recently addressed this. I bring anxiety,
irrational thoughts and overthinking.

Speaker 11 (53:59):
Us.

Speaker 5 (53:59):
I can't.

Speaker 3 (54:01):
HI get actually confirmed. I was so shocked at the
she walked to the mic, MA like what there you
have it, Curvage. So does any of that sound like
something be honesty? Okay, yeah.

Speaker 17 (54:22):
That is true.

Speaker 3 (54:24):
So listen, are you a single man? Like does any
of that? Does the anxiety interest you?

Speaker 16 (54:30):
The anxiety scientist?

Speaker 4 (54:31):
Me?

Speaker 16 (54:31):
And I'm currently I feel talking to someone, but I
have friends that also think the category. Okay, now still
have to play match maker for her?

Speaker 4 (54:39):
There?

Speaker 3 (54:39):
Can you please? Because because guess what, I should be fired.
I am not doing a good job, So you're hired, Curvage.

Speaker 4 (54:45):
Keep me posted if you find anybody willing to to
date our front here, well.

Speaker 16 (54:51):
Do AJ Bess of luck and I honestly I PRECID galaxy.
I think it's the best way to go, especially in
the D and age. Honestly, as you looking today, we
all have a baggage and so just be honest, you'll
find your person.

Speaker 4 (55:01):
Yeah, as is like the big suitcase that you definitely
have to pay for because it's overweight.

Speaker 3 (55:05):
But thank you, Curbage.

Speaker 5 (55:08):
You realized he called in like interested in the minute
he heard that. He pivoted and I have a couple
of friends. You made it up.

Speaker 4 (55:13):
Yeah, oh my god, Gurbage, he even got me.

Speaker 3 (55:19):
Listen, everybody, the weekend.

Speaker 4 (55:20):
Is in town tonight and tomorrow. I'm hooking you over
the pair of tickets in at eight twenty tomb