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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Dashy and the Morning Show with DJ Feign It's such
a morning.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Sustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Hi, everybody, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
I think we've all met those couples in our time that,
for some reason they just have to like make it
clear to you at some point in the conversation.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
That, oh, no, we never fight.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
It's either it's either a lie when they say that,
or they've been dating for like four months.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
George Clooney was on I Think with like CBS Mornings
with Gail King, and he wants us to believe that
him and a Mall his wife have not fought in
the ten years of their marriage.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Cap Yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Remember, he said, I remember we were here with you
once before, and I remember we said we'd never had
an argument. We still haven't. We're trying to find something
to fight about. I feel so extraordinarily lucky I met
this incredible woman. I feel as if I hit the jackpot.
There isn't a day that goes by where I don't
think I'm the luckiest man in the world.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
So it's just great.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
If that got up George, that's the case, then she
clearly is hiding her emotions and is afraid to say
anything they.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Did the way around. All they don't spend enough time
with each other, you know what, and that could be
it y'ah happy, Yeah, because y'all only spend like five
thirty minutes with each other a couple of hours in
the time. There's no way that you don't you guys
don't beef. That means yah, y'all foundation is a little
shaky because the day y'all do beef, it's over.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
I just don't.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
I refuse to buy it at all, Like ten years,
you haven't even gotten like because there's even times where
my anger is misplaced, Like I'll get an attitude with
the fireman, but I don't mean it, but we end
up getting in an argument because he's like, yo, you
have an attitude, you know, I mean, like just little
things in life.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Do you think it's a world where they kind of
determine the fight. They look at a fight as being different,
like we think about a fight as a certain thing
with them.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
True, because I think some people are like, well, was
it an argument or.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
Was it.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
A fight?
Speaker 4 (02:00):
And I might do the same thing exactly. I think
you're like yelling at each other like I'm mad at you,
you mad at me? We go to me.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
We're not talking right now.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Yes, we ignore each other throughout the crib. That's a fight. Yeah, unlessly,
I got a different level of fighting. I don't know
what else you'd be talking about.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
There's no worse feeling than going home and knowing that
you're not good and you gotta like go in there
and you might not be speaking. And everybody knows that
feeling is everybody fights.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
It's okay, dude.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
I used to hold on to fights for days for days,
and then that that feeling is the worst, So I
avoid that. Now I go in and say, listen, here's
what I'm upset about, and here's how I feel like
I was taken wrong.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
And a fight really shows you each other's like, you
gotta fight. It's okay to have a little bit of tention.
Sometimes create attention just to kind of see y'are solid
with me, or not to create it. We find things
of time because it's like yo, we fight and we
that breaks us. That means ourbu foundation is not strong.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
It's the it's the recovery from the fight, the communication
and how you guys are like battling that adversity that
defines you. Yeah, for sure, that can like figure you
out as a couple. I just any time I've met
somebody that has like really pushed this narrative, I'm like, Oh,
they're toxic.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
They must fight so bad, because why is that coming up?
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Or if you've never fought, then your relationship is completely
broken and fragile and fake for real.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Right but watch, I'm gonna give go.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
I'm going to give the number, and I want somebody
to call me and tell me that you and your
significant other have never gotten in a fight. You've never argued,
you don't fight, You've been together however long, and you've
never once gotten into a little tiff. Six one seven
nine three one one nine four five six one seven
(03:47):
nine three one one nine four five.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
If you and your love have never gotten into a fight,
call me. You know what. I'm proud of you guys
for being honest.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
Nobody called because nobody can say I've been with my
partner for ten years or however many years, and we
don't fight. We've never gotten in a single argument. Like
George Clooney, you're a nice actor, pal, but I'm not
buying it.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
His wife also doesn't strike me as a type. She's
very intelligent, very like she's strong minded. So like you
have to imagine at some point they had a disagreement
about something, at.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Some point ten years it's a long time.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
That's so long, and there are levels to fighting. I
mean we got this talk back.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
Do you understand how difficult it is to argue with
a Gemini, like it's her rules or you know, it's
just so hard for her to say, I'm sorry, you're right.
So it's like I try to avoid arguments with the
wife and all that, because she is she is, like wow,
(04:51):
sometimes she is heartless. She goes from the juggler. Yo,
these Geminis, y'all be careful with them.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
You're I know that, Hey, yeah, we know that about Gemini's.
But I'm a Scorpio and I'm the same way. I
look back at some of the things that I've said
in arguments just to win, like just to feel like
I've gotten the one up or the upper hand, and
I'm horrified at some of the things.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
And I'm not saying it's.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Been recent, but over the years, I just it's not
I'm embarrassed.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
I the winning in a fight and having that feeling
to win is very dangerous.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Yes, and I've certainly gotten better about that over the years.
Like I don't want to hurt him. I like he's
my best friend and I love him. But in my
older relationships, like I would say I would say anything
I had to to cut the right like right at
because I would know. I know if you're that close
(05:44):
to me, I know what I can say. I know
how to end it.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Why is I'm sorry so difficult for some people to say.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
I would try it, it won't come out of my mouth.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
I know it's not good.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Like you can't say that the entire city. She can
separate like all of the words, but together I don't.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
It's so messed up because when I say it, it's
like I'm admitting defeats into the argument. And I don't
like it. I hate having to be the one to
say sorry.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
I do it. I do it, but I don't love it.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
I'm sorry gives me an understanding feeling. I'm like, oh
good' on the same page. We understand where we're both
coming from.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Get where I'm coming from. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Something I have found easier as I've gotten older to
say is like, because it's true, I will say like,
I'm sorry I.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Made you feel like that, because if he reacts.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
In a way where I'm like, oh damn, I didn't
mean for it to to, you know, to get that
sort of reaction that I feel like is something specific.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
Just like the broad I'm sorry, I don't I don't
love it.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Yeah, but I'm sorry I made you feel that way
is so much more powerful because it validates the feelings
that he had and came to you win.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
And these people who say I try to avoid arguments
with my wife, it's because you have to get into
arguments to then want to avoid them because you're like,
I'll never where I've experienced it. I don't want to
know parts of it. I just do who thank you
know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Another another little thing of growth for me that I
don't know if anybody else does this too. But sometimes
the fireman will say sorry, and I'll refuse it.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
No, I got it.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
I used to tell you he said like, I'm I'm
really sorry, and I'd be like I don't care. I'm like, no,
you're not, No, you're not, and I just try to
keep the argument going. I'm better now at being like yeah,
forty minutes.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Yeah, now, I'm like, you know what, thank you for
saying that. But I used to be like, no, I'm good,
keep it, are you? Are you sorry?
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I don't want it.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
By the way, make fun of me all you want,
but I'm not the one that got in a fight
with my significant other. Impack a duffel bag and said
I'm going to Medford like that was not me, my
double and I put my old Navy on bees in there,
and I'm headed to Burlington.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
You know what we're all doing.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
We're all going to be better now. We're going to
accept sorries and we're going to say it. It goes like this,
I'm sorry.
Dashy and the Morning Show with DJ Feign It's such
a morning.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Sustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Hi, everybody, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
I think we've all met those couples in our time that,
for some reason they just have to like make it
clear to you at some point in the conversation.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
That, oh, no, we never fight.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
It's either it's either a lie when they say that,
or they've been dating for like four months.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
George Clooney was on I Think with like CBS Mornings
with Gail King, and he wants us to believe that
him and a Mall his wife have not fought in
the ten years of their marriage.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Cap Yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Remember, he said, I remember we were here with you
once before, and I remember we said we'd never had
an argument. We still haven't. We're trying to find something
to fight about. I feel so extraordinarily lucky I met
this incredible woman. I feel as if I hit the jackpot.
There isn't a day that goes by where I don't
think I'm the luckiest man in the world.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
So it's just great.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
If that got up George, that's the case, then she
clearly is hiding her emotions and is afraid to say
anything they.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Did the way around. All they don't spend enough time
with each other, you know what, and that could be
it y'ah happy, Yeah, because y'all only spend like five
thirty minutes with each other a couple of hours in
the time. There's no way that you don't you guys
don't beef. That means yah, y'all foundation is a little
shaky because the day y'all do beef, it's over.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
I just don't.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
I refuse to buy it at all, Like ten years,
you haven't even gotten like because there's even times where
my anger is misplaced, Like I'll get an attitude with
the fireman, but I don't mean it, but we end
up getting in an argument because he's like, yo, you
have an attitude, you know, I mean, like just little
things in life.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Do you think it's a world where they kind of
determine the fight. They look at a fight as being different,
like we think about a fight as a certain thing
with them.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
True, because I think some people are like, well, was
it an argument or.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
Was it.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
A fight?
Speaker 4 (02:00):
And I might do the same thing exactly. I think
you're like yelling at each other like I'm mad at you,
you mad at me? We go to me.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
We're not talking right now.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Yes, we ignore each other throughout the crib. That's a fight. Yeah, unlessly,
I got a different level of fighting. I don't know
what else you'd be talking about.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
There's no worse feeling than going home and knowing that
you're not good and you gotta like go in there
and you might not be speaking. And everybody knows that
feeling is everybody fights.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
It's okay, dude.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
I used to hold on to fights for days for days,
and then that that feeling is the worst, So I
avoid that. Now I go in and say, listen, here's
what I'm upset about, and here's how I feel like
I was taken wrong.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
And a fight really shows you each other's like, you
gotta fight. It's okay to have a little bit of tention.
Sometimes create attention just to kind of see y'are solid
with me, or not to create it. We find things
of time because it's like yo, we fight and we
that breaks us. That means ourbu foundation is not strong.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
It's the it's the recovery from the fight, the communication
and how you guys are like battling that adversity that
defines you. Yeah, for sure, that can like figure you
out as a couple. I just any time I've met
somebody that has like really pushed this narrative, I'm like, Oh,
they're toxic.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
They must fight so bad, because why is that coming up?
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Or if you've never fought, then your relationship is completely
broken and fragile and fake for real.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Right but watch, I'm gonna give go.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
I'm going to give the number, and I want somebody
to call me and tell me that you and your
significant other have never gotten in a fight. You've never argued,
you don't fight, You've been together however long, and you've
never once gotten into a little tiff. Six one seven
nine three one one nine four five six one seven
(03:47):
nine three one one nine four five.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
If you and your love have never gotten into a fight,
call me. You know what. I'm proud of you guys
for being honest.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
Nobody called because nobody can say I've been with my
partner for ten years or however many years, and we
don't fight. We've never gotten in a single argument. Like
George Clooney, you're a nice actor, pal, but I'm not
buying it.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
His wife also doesn't strike me as a type. She's
very intelligent, very like she's strong minded. So like you
have to imagine at some point they had a disagreement
about something, at.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Some point ten years it's a long time.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
That's so long, and there are levels to fighting. I
mean we got this talk back.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
Do you understand how difficult it is to argue with
a Gemini, like it's her rules or you know, it's
just so hard for her to say, I'm sorry, you're right.
So it's like I try to avoid arguments with the
wife and all that, because she is she is, like wow,
(04:51):
sometimes she is heartless. She goes from the juggler. Yo,
these Geminis, y'all be careful with them.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
You're I know that, Hey, yeah, we know that about Gemini's.
But I'm a Scorpio and I'm the same way. I
look back at some of the things that I've said
in arguments just to win, like just to feel like
I've gotten the one up or the upper hand, and
I'm horrified at some of the things.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
And I'm not saying it's.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Been recent, but over the years, I just it's not
I'm embarrassed.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
I the winning in a fight and having that feeling
to win is very dangerous.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Yes, and I've certainly gotten better about that over the years.
Like I don't want to hurt him. I like he's
my best friend and I love him. But in my
older relationships, like I would say I would say anything
I had to to cut the right like right at
because I would know. I know if you're that close
(05:44):
to me, I know what I can say. I know
how to end it.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Why is I'm sorry so difficult for some people to say.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
I would try it, it won't come out of my mouth.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
I know it's not good.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Like you can't say that the entire city. She can
separate like all of the words, but together I don't.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
It's so messed up because when I say it, it's
like I'm admitting defeats into the argument. And I don't
like it. I hate having to be the one to
say sorry.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
I do it. I do it, but I don't love it.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
I'm sorry gives me an understanding feeling. I'm like, oh
good' on the same page. We understand where we're both
coming from.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Get where I'm coming from. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Something I have found easier as I've gotten older to
say is like, because it's true, I will say like,
I'm sorry I.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Made you feel like that, because if he reacts.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
In a way where I'm like, oh damn, I didn't
mean for it to to, you know, to get that
sort of reaction that I feel like is something specific.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
Just like the broad I'm sorry, I don't I don't
love it.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Yeah, but I'm sorry I made you feel that way
is so much more powerful because it validates the feelings
that he had and came to you win.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
And these people who say I try to avoid arguments
with my wife, it's because you have to get into
arguments to then want to avoid them because you're like,
I'll never where I've experienced it. I don't want to
know parts of it. I just do who thank you
know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Another another little thing of growth for me that I
don't know if anybody else does this too. But sometimes
the fireman will say sorry, and I'll refuse it.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
No, I got it.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
I used to tell you he said like, I'm I'm
really sorry, and I'd be like I don't care. I'm like, no,
you're not, No, you're not, and I just try to
keep the argument going. I'm better now at being like yeah,
forty minutes.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Yeah, now, I'm like, you know what, thank you for
saying that. But I used to be like, no, I'm good,
keep it, are you? Are you sorry?
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I don't want it.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
By the way, make fun of me all you want,
but I'm not the one that got in a fight
with my significant other. Impack a duffel bag and said
I'm going to Medford like that was not me, my
double and I put my old Navy on bees in there,
and I'm headed to Burlington.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
You know what we're all doing.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
We're all going to be better now. We're going to
accept sorries and we're going to say it. It goes like this,
I'm sorry.
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