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April 22, 2025 11 mins
AJ strikes out again
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Please and the jam In Morning show with d J
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Speaker 2 (00:04):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.

Speaker 1 (00:10):
Hi, everybody, good morning?

Speaker 2 (00:13):
Just has an update and debt him. What would you say?
It's on ten seconds?

Speaker 3 (00:18):
Oh yeah, ten seconds ten Judge.

Speaker 2 (00:20):
Bev walks in. She goes, we have four motions to
get through. She gets to the fourth, she says, I
asked for text messages from Alan Jackson and the team.
I did not get certain text messages about the ARCA experts,
So you cannot now mention ARCA in your opening statements.
They couldn't. I mean, Alan was shaking his head. They
ended up having to have a sidebar, which is what

(00:41):
is happening right now. We were not even ten seconds in.

Speaker 1 (00:45):
We assumed. She asked Ray it must have gotten.

Speaker 2 (00:48):
She said, I requested the text messages, you didn't get
them in did.

Speaker 1 (00:52):
Somebody drop the ball somewhere? I don't think he wants
to give him up.

Speaker 4 (00:56):
I'll be honest with you, because the state, the state
wants them to reveal those texts. The argame is that
they paid ARCA to kind of do this whole thing,
and they're trying to say no, Arca did this independently,
and they're like, well, text messages will prove that.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
Remember there was a sum of money that was pretty grand.
And they were like, this doesn't this isn't adding up.
Make this make sense for us? And they were like, well,
cost of living here, we had to fly them in
all the things. Clearly she wants the communication exchanges. But
when they when they said you cannot mention Arka Alan
Jackson and as he was not.

Speaker 4 (01:27):
Happy you said that response when he was like did
you get me those text messages, he just stood up
and said nope.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:32):
I was like, yeah, bro, you're not trying to give
those up.

Speaker 2 (01:36):
So anyways, that is our update there.

Speaker 1 (01:38):
Let's go. That's hellish, let's.

Speaker 2 (01:40):
Continue to stay all right. So it was about a
week and some change ago. AJ, I'm gonna set the
scene for you. AJ was at the gym. A guy
and her had every Sunday. She goes to the gym
and she sees this one specific man. They had been
giving each other quote the eyes as she says, and

(02:03):
finally he says, he comes over to her. He pulls
out his ear pods and he says, hey, you have
very beautiful eyes. So she was like, you know what,
I'm not leaving this up to chance. Can I give
you my phone number? So he accepts her phone number.
He takes her phone number, and I'm gonna be honest
with everybody.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
That was last week.

Speaker 2 (02:25):
Her mood was, I mean, I've never seen her happier
like it was up, dude, And that's why I.

Speaker 1 (02:31):
Was saying, hope, hope.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
Hope is a dangerous thing, because she was she was
hoping that this could be something. A whole week went by,
hadn't heard a word, to the point where she posted
on her Instagram and was like, did he get the
number wrong? Did he see my social media?

Speaker 1 (02:47):
Did he not want to write me? Did he have
a whole family? Like?

Speaker 2 (02:50):
What do you guys think? So a week went by
and we were like, you have to let it go.
This man clearly didn't want to reach out. Fine, things
changed yesterday, Forn he follows you on Instagram.

Speaker 1 (03:02):
He sure did. What a moment.

Speaker 5 (03:04):
The fact that I even saw it is crazy because
I don't pay attention to that.

Speaker 1 (03:09):
Wait, he's been following you started, I.

Speaker 5 (03:12):
Gotta follow yesterday and by the time I noticed it,
he had already unfollowed me. But the notification was still there.

Speaker 2 (03:20):
And for you're gonna want to keep laughing. Because he
followed her, he unfollowed her, and as a present day
has since blocked her.

Speaker 1 (03:26):
I blocked her too. What yeah, we'll get to why.
We'll get to why. Oh yeah, you aired him? Oh well, there.

Speaker 5 (03:36):
Might be another reason I clicked his profile. I didn't
think it was going to be him, but they had
the same name, and I was shocked that it was him.
And I found out that he's got a whole wife
and a kid.

Speaker 2 (03:46):
Oh yeah, hey, what they were just in Disney World,
the magical place on Earth.

Speaker 1 (03:51):
You stayed bagging these people that go on these lavish trips.

Speaker 5 (03:54):
It's crazy with matching T shirts.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
Yeah no, no, no, she didn't.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
Let's backtrack because I remember when we first discussed this
foreign goes. I would say that to somebody and not
want anything more that you would say to somebody like wow,
you have really pretty eyes and then go about your day.
Meant nothing to you. Fine, So I was like that
released it out to me. I'm like, okay. Then she says,

(04:22):
take my number. Remember he's married and he has a child.

Speaker 1 (04:26):
He takes it.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
Now my friends are theorizing did he take it out
of pity?

Speaker 1 (04:32):
Maybe because why why don't you just say to her
I'm married.

Speaker 4 (04:37):
And people like that, and instead they give you a
fake number, or they'll give you a you know what
I mean and plan on blocking you. Some people just
don't have the heart or can't just be like no,
like and.

Speaker 2 (04:47):
By the way, pity is in like yeah, like he
felt he didn't want to hurt Ashley's feelings, correct, but
I'm also just like, it's such an easy way to say,
you know what, I no, I actually get married. I
just wanted to say that or whatever, because even if.

Speaker 5 (05:00):
You aren't in a relationship and you do not want
to give your number to someone, saying you are with
somebody is the easy out.

Speaker 2 (05:07):
It is.

Speaker 3 (05:08):
Right then it goes back into like hurting feelings and
it's just easy to be like, oh, thank you.

Speaker 4 (05:12):
But now that I'm thinking But now that I'm thinking
about it, if he's married, that's different than I have
a girlfriend. You feel me like, if you're married and
you're really in love with wife, for you to be like,
I'm sorry, I'm married.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
Clearly also not trying to hide it, he followed her.
He's open, she didn't have to search. She just had
to click his name, and he's not trying to hide
the fact that he's married.

Speaker 3 (05:32):
The follow thing is the one part of her that
I don't understand. Why would he follow you if he's
married and has no interest in pursuing this life with you?

Speaker 5 (05:39):
I don't know life with you said was pretty life
with you?

Speaker 1 (05:45):
How did he find him? I don't know about him, though.
Yes I think someone told him. I do too.

Speaker 2 (05:51):
I do too, and I think he followed he watched
the video.

Speaker 1 (05:55):
It was like, oh god, unfollows.

Speaker 2 (05:58):
Because and then I think she makes the follow up
video and he blocks her because he's like, okay.

Speaker 1 (06:03):
Now can you search someone's IG off your phone number?

Speaker 5 (06:06):
Well, if he googled my phone number, he would have
gotten my name, and.

Speaker 1 (06:12):
Okay.

Speaker 4 (06:13):
She goes on the way to came back again and
then eventually found me.

Speaker 1 (06:17):
I can do this all day.

Speaker 4 (06:18):
But you know, maybe somehow, some way he found out
who she was and then found out the post about him,
and he's like damn, yeah yeah, and was like damn.

Speaker 2 (06:29):
And then she does the follow up where she says like, okay,
he followed me, now he un followed me. He has
a whole family, and he was like blocked.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
Maybe I don't know.

Speaker 5 (06:38):
It's so weird, and it also is weird that it
took over a week for him to Yeah, like everything
just feels very strange.

Speaker 3 (06:46):
Can we just throw out there. I don't believe that
this is the case, But do you think he's afraid
of you? That you the eyes that you guys are
exchanging back and forth were maybe he took it as
stalker eyes and was being no, I don't think so,
but we're here, let's just talk about this, right And
then maybe he's out of fear, took down the phone
number and was searching you up because hey, this girl.

Speaker 1 (07:03):
Might be crazy.

Speaker 3 (07:04):
They me google her and found your page and accidentally
followed you. Then said, oh no, let me unfollow.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
It's a lot.

Speaker 5 (07:10):
But you know, if he's scared of me, he wouldn't
have smiled at me, and he wouldn't have approached me
and said hi, my name is true, like he introduced
himself to me.

Speaker 3 (07:21):
But sometimes people who are getting stocked do unnecessary things
to make the stalker stock them more.

Speaker 5 (07:25):
And the last time I saw him, I walked away
from him into a completely different room in the gym and.

Speaker 1 (07:30):
He followed, well, just checking out boxes here. Fine, I'm
not a stalker.

Speaker 2 (07:34):
I so her and I have been going back and
forth about this all day. I'm really trying to put
myself in this situation, as in I find out that
the fireman went up to somebody at the gym and said, Hey,
I just want to say to you, you have beautiful eyes.

Speaker 1 (07:51):
Am I divorcing the man? Absolutely not.

Speaker 2 (07:53):
This isn't a divorce worthy offense. It's weird to me though.
It's a little off putting. The hell are you doing?

Speaker 1 (07:58):
It's definitely worth a conversation, But you compliment guys that
will work here all the time. It's about me.

Speaker 4 (08:04):
I know.

Speaker 1 (08:05):
This wasn't a two way stage. Are you okay? No,
I'm good now. I lapsed a little. That was that was?
That was uncomfortable.

Speaker 4 (08:17):
Stupid guy complimenting women's don't do that anyway.

Speaker 2 (08:22):
You're aware to lift some weights, squats, your legs are thin.
I don't know. Then fast forward, the same woman comes
up and gives the number and he accepts it.

Speaker 1 (08:36):
It's strange to me.

Speaker 2 (08:37):
The whole thing is maybe they have an open relationship,
but I doubt it because he unfollowed.

Speaker 1 (08:43):
As yes, yes.

Speaker 5 (08:44):
I honestly, I don't know what the answer is, but
I think we can all agree that he was sending
signs that he was interested and.

Speaker 1 (08:52):
You were eating them up.

Speaker 4 (08:53):
And for somebody who's in this game, who's out here
playing women, it's easy to spot people like you. I'm
not trying to be a defensive. I'm just saying it's
written all over your grill. It's like, Yo, she's smiling
and listen to me. I'm being real. I'm being real.
She's smiling at me, like my little, my little things
that I'm doing, she's eating them up. Oh, this is
an easy layup, so now you will approach it. And

(09:15):
then you approach him with the phone number, and he's like,
I'm in there for real.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
I think he said, what.

Speaker 5 (09:22):
Am I supposed to do when a man that I
think is attractive is locking ice for me? Am I
supposed to give him?

Speaker 4 (09:27):
Like an I've been setting from day one? Y'all do
your little flirty thing. Don't give up your number, let
him approach you. And I know other situations, we're going
to tell you the opposite. But in certain you just
got to know how to read these things.

Speaker 2 (09:38):
And in the wonder had she never given the number.
He probably never would have.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
I think he would have eventually. We don't know.

Speaker 4 (09:45):
I think he keeps playing the game until he breaks
you down and it's it's a game.

Speaker 2 (09:48):
It's on the hunt or okay, but is or is
he you that he that to him saying someone's eyes
are beautiful are nothingness?

Speaker 1 (09:57):
The way I actually described it, he was throwing shots.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
Yeah, I do early eyes.

Speaker 1 (10:02):
Yeah, he was throwing non verbal shots.

Speaker 4 (10:04):
And she jumped out the windows like here, take my
number and call me, and he's like, dad, okay, cool,
and then eventually finds you.

Speaker 3 (10:12):
I can get pictured from the other side of the gym.

Speaker 1 (10:13):
Going he.

Speaker 4 (10:19):
Was like, just give it, like she's mad, giddy about it,
like it shows on her face. And then he finally
found you on social and he's like, I'm gonna you know.
I let her simmer for a while and chase me,
and now he finds out who you really are, Like,
now I don't want to get blessed on.

Speaker 2 (10:34):
This man is in Disney with matching family t shots
and a whole hat that says dad with Mickey ears,
and he's telling this woman at the gym he has
beautiful I don't I don't know his wife like that,
but I don't think she would approved.

Speaker 4 (10:46):
Actually, from now on, even though they might lie, if
you approach somebody off rip, just be like you got
a throw from all you man, Just start with that,
because this is a I don't care how awkward it feels.
Just kick it off shot anymore.

Speaker 5 (10:57):
I'm not shooting my shot. I'm not using Danny apps.

Speaker 2 (10:59):
I'm just gonna well, I mean, I don't know if
we have to go all the way.

Speaker 5 (11:02):
I mean, at this point, I can't find someone decent
single either way. Everyone says, don't use dating apps. No
one on there is good. You have to meet someone organically,
and well, now I tried.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
And a voice.

Speaker 2 (11:22):
Have you ever heard of a voice
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