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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Daddy and the Morning Show with d J four and
it's Sawdust's.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Number one for hip hop jam in ninety four or five.
I'm can go on venmo right now. We all know
that when we send somebody money on Venmo, you look around.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Yeah yeah, I definitely look at the emojis and see
what they put there.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Venmo used to be diabolical. Venmo used to like show
you what people were paying.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
That's right, we pay.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
We pay some people on there so you can see that.
We picture of like a house or like a flex
and arm mine.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Well, first off, who doesn't make their Venmo private? That
is the strangest thing on planet to make like make
it private. It's no one's business, no one's business.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Egg planting moojis and all kinds of weird things like
this is.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
I own a friend. I begged her to not be
I begged her to make her Venmo private. Happy marathon, Eve,
by yourself some coffee lunch pre post marathon needs on me.
I know you're going to crush tomorrow. I'm so excited
for you. I'm so proud of you. What you're writing
a novel on here and I can see it.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
But at least they took out the pricing though, because
that was another thing. Once you saw that you could judge,
can really judge, or to mean the pricing like how much?
Because I don't think it tell you like any more,
like how much they gave, right, It.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Just tells you, it doesn't really No, Yeah, yeah, that's
why I went in.
Speaker 4 (01:28):
Private, because I didn't want people to see how much
I was paying for whatever it was. Yeah, oh so
now it doesn't matter.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Now they're going to see whatever you describe the payment ass.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Okay, but they'll see sometimes I pay a guy with
a flexed arm. It's like, what's that for.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
I'm telling you, it's wild crazy.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I say all this to say that they're so okay.
Just to set this up for you. There's coworkers that
work here. One works in this building, one works in
a different one, but both in radio. The one was
telling me a story about how his brother is married
with a kid on the way, Like she has a
(02:08):
baby in her womb, and he Venmo requests her for
anything they do. So the example he gave, listen to me.
The example he gave was we all went out to bowl. Okay,
they went bowling, but they had chicken fingers and fries. Okay,
(02:30):
there were four people, so there were the two brothers
and their two wives. The one brother paid for the
chicken fingers and fries, and Venmo requested his own brother,
his brother's wife, and his own wife for chicken fingers
and fries. We're talking like three dollars and sixty two cents.
(02:52):
Like that's embarrassing, right, That is the strangest thing I've
that's beyond embarrassing.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
I could almost under stand if they were like teenagers, right,
and you're counting each dollar and all that stuff. But
if you're a dollar, if you're an adult and married
or whatever it is, you should not be doing that.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
I also couldn't imagine the conversation if the chicken fingers
and fry's bill came out for twelve dollars and he
like held it up and said, how do you guys.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Want to do this?
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Do what?
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Yeah, give it to me. I'll pay It's twelve dollars.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Right, yeah there. I don't know if you guys feel
like this, but I think there's a certain like threshold
of amount of money where I'm like not gonna say, Venmo,
me me.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
I think for the most part, maybe over ten dollars.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
I would even push it like ten to twenty. Yeah,
like anything above like below that, I'm not gonna ask
at minimum.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
You're gonna say to the person. If to me, if
it was something that was ten bucks, I'd be like, oh,
can I venmo you or like I'll give you care.
I would say those words out loud. If it was
like three or four dollars.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Yeah, three ben moy, Like, but your own wife, if
you're if you're doing that to your wife, then then
like something's up right, Like I'm not saying something's up
on the side or anything like that, but like that
is something diabolical than yourself. Yeah, that's gonna lead to
probably this relationship not working out at the end.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Of the day.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
You have deep rooted issues, like you have a baby
on the way, sir, Yeah, three dollars, three dollars. And
that would be like if every time the fireman was
driving home from work and grabbed me a coffee, he
would venmo request me for the coffee.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
You know, And I've said this in the past, like
if you have like separate bank accounts, that's an issue
for me, like because we share everything, right, this is
a thousand times worse than that. Well, no, I have
some Well I know you do, but I wasn't talking
to you. I was talking just in general. But you
don't live this life because this is like ten levels
deeper than that.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
This is crazy. Like I feel sad for her. I
feel sad for her, like she she maybe she didn't
even want the chicken fingers and fries, but that was
what the consensus said, and now she got to pay
three sixty two for it.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Well, I feel sad for him that he's worrying about this.
This is what he's thinking about and doing math in
your head while those chicken fingers are Maybe.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
There was a conversation to have before man and they
were like, hey, you know, I don't know what the
convo would be.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Again, don't you pixure someone picking up? How do you
guys want to do this? And it says twelve dollars?
I'm like, give me me, but what's your threshold? Number four?
And like you where you feel as if.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Yeah, I'm kind of with you anything on the twenty,
maybe even at thirty. I'm kind of like that it
is what it is.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
I just think if it's like double ditch, like if
we hit ten bucks, I at least offer, hey, let
me get let me get you some cash, let me
vemo you the ten I think the person's usually gonna
say no.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
I mean, now, if we're going out to dinner to
a nice place and there's a group before you, then
there's an open conversation around around the table, and right, well,
some people don't even believe in that.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Well, actually, if you guys want to put the contact
clothes together, that's on you. This same person once I
was out to dinner with him and we all agreed
to go out to dinner to the to the State,
this steakhouse in the city, and there was like six
or seven of us at the table. It was agreed
upon that we were going to go out to dinner
and there was going to be one bill, and that
(06:07):
was what it was. We talked about it. The bill
comes and everyone just puts their card down and says, okay,
what are we splitting it? Six ways? That he says, no,
I only ate a salad.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Like that's embarrassing, so uncomfortable, especially.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
Embarrassing because the convo was already had. Yees, now, the
convo was not had.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
He should have just said, I like to get my
bill separate. So then went yes, well, asion, when we
first sat down of the table, like hey, I'm going
to get a separate bill, I would have been like, Okay,
you're a loser, but that's better than us now having
to do the math and you know it's stupid.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
Yeah, I'm not of the belief if I sit down
at the table and I have a salad and the
bill is eight hundred dollars that I'm splitting it with y'all,
y'all got me fed up?
Speaker 3 (06:58):
Yeah, crazy for you to eat.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
It's not the easiest, yeah thing for you because you
having drinks all meat, yes, but having for late all me,
you having salmon all meat. I had a salmon, but yes,
but at the end of the day, we're paying for
the whole occasion environment. I don't care the group twelve dollars,
give me the bill. I'm i chipping on the on
the tip.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
I'm coold with that.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
I'm not buying you all drinks and your food. Yeah, crazy,
eight dollars, Yeah, twelve bucks. Let's let's just be happy.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Yeah. I think when you go to a dinner like that,
there's the general consensus like okay, wor but I at
least I always go with that knowledge. But that's neither
here nor there. We're talking about a three or four
dollars ven like that, And actually you're right, it's him
like he he because think about it, he had to
go find them, hit the three sixty two and then
(07:51):
hit request. Yeah, like he had to go through the
whole thing with his own wife. His own wife three
dollars and sixty two.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
He's doing that for her. He's doing that in every
aspect of life. Buys coffee for people. He's thinking about, Oh,
she owes me ninety cents.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
That's fairy.
Speaker 5 (08:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
If he's thinking three sixty two, he's thinking less.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
And this isn't the thing about being cheap. This is
almost borderline I think of, like you're.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Crazy frugal bro.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Yeah, that's nice. He needs to grow up six one
seven nine three one one nine four five six one
seven nine three one one nine four five Are we
oh here asking our significant others for three sixty two
three sixty two? Hi, everybody, good morning. It's ashing the
jam of morning show. It's funny. We're talking about a
(08:35):
person that I know that is the type where you
could go out to dinner and he'll be He'll immediately say, well,
I only got this, so I'm not paying.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
That amount.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
You know, he Venmo requested his own wife who's pregnant,
for three dollars and sixty two cents because they ordered
a round of chicken fingers and fries like crazy.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
So if he's on the way home and he has
to buy diapers, is he splitting that with his wife? Yes,
that's crazy. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
The way we do it in our house is like
we kind of every other it. If we notice that
the diapers are almost empty, I might order them. Then
the next time he will. I know some people don't
like I don't get that either.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
I know you get like three three pots there. I
don't like it. Just one pot is easy.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
I know that I was gonna say, I know you
don't like that, and I, you know the fireman, I
kind of have this unwritten, like if I grab lunch,
he might then later order dinner. Like we try to
really make it as even as possible. But he definitely
pays for more.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
But I can summack that one. That one. I can
understand and comprehend the whole asking for three dollars is crazy.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Three I would feel I would feel legit disrespected, Like
are we you okay? Annie is in Canton? Good morning Annie.
What do you think it's insane to ever ask your
spouse for money? Like what if they go to grocery
shopping and they spend five hundred You're not going to
throw a couple of hundo their way?
Speaker 6 (10:04):
Oh no, absolutely. What I'm saying is I think three
dollars and ninety two cents for chicken fingers and fries
is insane.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
No, it's like one sad.
Speaker 6 (10:15):
Yeah, when it comes to buying groceries like you mentioned
you and the firemen splitting going and buying dump diapers
or whatever like twitching off, I.
Speaker 5 (10:24):
Don't see that as an issue. What the issue is
is that.
Speaker 6 (10:28):
You're asking for three dollars ninety two cents. I think
that that's a little much. It's I don't I don't
see the need for that. What is mine is yours,
what is uh yours is mine? Also, So it's like.
Speaker 5 (10:43):
I don't see the need in that.
Speaker 6 (10:44):
I find that kind of embarrassing too.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
I know I do too, changed especially with your partner,
Like I wouldn't even thank you for the call. Any
ask a stranger for three sixty two. No like it?
You know, fine, it's keep it. Susan is in Rhode Island. Hi, Susan, Susanne, Susan. Yes, Susan, Okay,
(11:07):
So tell us your story, all right.
Speaker 7 (11:11):
So basically, my friend was dying for me to meet
her boyfriend for the first time. I'm like, fine, we
can go out. They say, suggested dinner. We went out
to dinner, had some appetizer, drinks and all that. Towards
the end of the night, her boyfriend was in the bathroom,
so check came. I wasn't thinking twice. I always put
my card down. I'm thinking we're gonna split it. I'm
(11:33):
assuming either three ways or he's going to cover for
her meal, as he should. I don't tend to pay
for me, but I suspect him to pay for her.
My friend puts her card down on top of it,
so it ended up getting splitting two ways, and I
paid for basically half of his meal.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
No, so you and your friends split for the three
of you? Yes, oh my god, see, because they went
ahead and counted themselves as one. Like that's not you
don't do that.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Plus, she invited you out to dinner. She should have
covered the whole bill. You shouldn't have had to pay
anything exactly.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
Homeboy's fit for her, right, and are they still together? Yeah?
Speaker 7 (12:17):
So next he's actually getting my man, and my my
man was like, I'm not I'm not putting my card
down for her.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
Hey, facts, you know what.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
We I like him too. He's defending his girl. That's
very strange. But also I feel like that's like your
your friend should have said if if she knew he
was gonna I thought, yeah, I know, I'm just saying,
given that situation, if that's me, if I know that
he's not gonna put the car, I'm gonna put my
card down and be like, I'll take care of this.
Because that's that's so weird, all right, to Dan, and
(12:47):
thank you for the car. People get when the bill comes,
people get weird.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
No, that that's she shouldn't have even have put down
that car.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
No.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
I think her friend friend should have been like, I
got this exactly.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Especially if her man wasn't gonna put his card down,
Like that's weird. That's very weird. Katie's in New Hampshire. Katie,
we're running a little bit out of time. But you say,
if you offer something to get something for somebody on
the way.
Speaker 5 (13:11):
To work, you'll pay, yeah, definitely. So like if I
am grabbing stuff for someone, I'm not going to expect
to be paid back. So in your friend's case, if
he ordered chicken tenders and then shared, definitely don't expect
to get paid back. But if somebody asks you to
pick up something for them, then I'm going to expect it,
even if it's under ten dollars. Like if you're asking
(13:33):
me to stop at a Romodo's and get in a rush,
or get something at Storybucks, then I'm going to expect
you already know the average cost of that, and I'm
going to get a Vendmo for it because I went
out of my way to grab it for you.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
What if it's under five dollars, maybe.
Speaker 5 (13:48):
If you're asking me, then I would still expect you
to at least offer offer it.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Yeah, now I guess, yeah, I can see the offer
and then you do the quick little thing really like
oh no, it's good, But like okay, For example, Katie,
we've talked about this before. Santi gets mine and his
coffee every single morning, so we go every other like
I'll pay for a week and then you know, what
I mean, like we because it's Starbucks and it can
get pricey.
Speaker 5 (14:14):
That's like an unsaid mutual agreement though, because you're already rotating.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
We're rotating.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (14:19):
Yeah, Although Hey, I have instances too where I go
out with my friends. We have three girls. We'll catch
up and just go out for dinner, and I've had
like the last two times we've gone out. We usually
all three will split it, and there's one person that
usually never brings their card but will send me the
Venmo to cover and then they're looking at their receipt
and they're literally just paying like fourteen ninety nine for
(14:42):
whatever their meal was, not even doing tip or anything.
I haven't ever said anything because I mean, in the
back of my mind, I'm like, okay, well that's kind
of cheap. But at the same time, I have never
said anything because I'm literally covering tax and tip for them.
So it's not like it's thirty dollars a fifty dollars,
I just eat the cost.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
No, you do feel type of way, and it's just
there's something about the money, like the bill thing that
you you you would hope they would at least say,
can I send you the tip?
Speaker 3 (15:11):
Or whatever.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
All Katie, well, thank you for the call. No, I'm
telling you, when the bill comes people get weird.
Speaker 3 (15:15):
Would Katie and them get into a fight and with
that friend, the friendship is over. I've been paid.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Yeah, you broke. That's definitely a hundred percent coming out.
But I think if you're listening and you're like, damn,
I venmoed my husband three dollars last night, we might
want to reconsider. Okay,
Daddy and the Morning Show with d J four and
it's Sawdust's.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Number one for hip hop jam in ninety four or five.
I'm can go on venmo right now. We all know
that when we send somebody money on Venmo, you look around.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Yeah yeah, I definitely look at the emojis and see
what they put there.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Venmo used to be diabolical. Venmo used to like show
you what people were paying.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
That's right, we pay.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
We pay some people on there so you can see that.
We picture of like a house or like a flex
and arm mine.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Well, first off, who doesn't make their Venmo private? That
is the strangest thing on planet to make like make
it private. It's no one's business, no one's business.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Egg planting moojis and all kinds of weird things like
this is.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
I own a friend. I begged her to not be
I begged her to make her Venmo private. Happy marathon, Eve,
by yourself some coffee lunch pre post marathon needs on me.
I know you're going to crush tomorrow. I'm so excited
for you. I'm so proud of you. What you're writing
a novel on here and I can see it.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
But at least they took out the pricing though, because
that was another thing. Once you saw that you could judge,
can really judge, or to mean the pricing like how much?
Because I don't think it tell you like any more,
like how much they gave, right, It.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Just tells you, it doesn't really No, Yeah, yeah, that's
why I went in.
Speaker 4 (01:28):
Private, because I didn't want people to see how much
I was paying for whatever it was. Yeah, oh so
now it doesn't matter.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Now they're going to see whatever you describe the payment ass.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Okay, but they'll see sometimes I pay a guy with
a flexed arm. It's like, what's that for.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
I'm telling you, it's wild crazy.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I say all this to say that they're so okay.
Just to set this up for you. There's coworkers that
work here. One works in this building, one works in
a different one, but both in radio. The one was
telling me a story about how his brother is married
with a kid on the way, Like she has a
(02:08):
baby in her womb, and he Venmo requests her for
anything they do. So the example he gave, listen to me.
The example he gave was we all went out to bowl. Okay,
they went bowling, but they had chicken fingers and fries. Okay,
(02:30):
there were four people, so there were the two brothers
and their two wives. The one brother paid for the
chicken fingers and fries, and Venmo requested his own brother,
his brother's wife, and his own wife for chicken fingers
and fries. We're talking like three dollars and sixty two cents.
(02:52):
Like that's embarrassing, right, That is the strangest thing I've
that's beyond embarrassing.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
I could almost under stand if they were like teenagers, right,
and you're counting each dollar and all that stuff. But
if you're a dollar, if you're an adult and married
or whatever it is, you should not be doing that.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
I also couldn't imagine the conversation if the chicken fingers
and fry's bill came out for twelve dollars and he
like held it up and said, how do you guys.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Want to do this?
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Do what?
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Yeah, give it to me. I'll pay It's twelve dollars.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Right, yeah there. I don't know if you guys feel
like this, but I think there's a certain like threshold
of amount of money where I'm like not gonna say, Venmo,
me me.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
I think for the most part, maybe over ten dollars.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
I would even push it like ten to twenty. Yeah,
like anything above like below that, I'm not gonna ask
at minimum.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
You're gonna say to the person. If to me, if
it was something that was ten bucks, I'd be like, oh,
can I venmo you or like I'll give you care.
I would say those words out loud. If it was
like three or four dollars.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Yeah, three ben moy, Like, but your own wife, if
you're if you're doing that to your wife, then then
like something's up right, Like I'm not saying something's up
on the side or anything like that, but like that
is something diabolical than yourself. Yeah, that's gonna lead to
probably this relationship not working out at the end.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Of the day.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
You have deep rooted issues, like you have a baby
on the way, sir, Yeah, three dollars, three dollars. And
that would be like if every time the fireman was
driving home from work and grabbed me a coffee, he
would venmo request me for the coffee.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
You know, And I've said this in the past, like
if you have like separate bank accounts, that's an issue
for me, like because we share everything, right, this is
a thousand times worse than that. Well, no, I have
some Well I know you do, but I wasn't talking
to you. I was talking just in general. But you
don't live this life because this is like ten levels
deeper than that.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
This is crazy. Like I feel sad for her. I
feel sad for her, like she she maybe she didn't
even want the chicken fingers and fries, but that was
what the consensus said, and now she got to pay
three sixty two for it.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Well, I feel sad for him that he's worrying about this.
This is what he's thinking about and doing math in
your head while those chicken fingers are Maybe.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
There was a conversation to have before man and they
were like, hey, you know, I don't know what the
convo would be.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Again, don't you pixure someone picking up? How do you
guys want to do this? And it says twelve dollars?
I'm like, give me me, but what's your threshold? Number four?
And like you where you feel as if.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Yeah, I'm kind of with you anything on the twenty,
maybe even at thirty. I'm kind of like that it
is what it is.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
I just think if it's like double ditch, like if
we hit ten bucks, I at least offer, hey, let
me get let me get you some cash, let me
vemo you the ten I think the person's usually gonna
say no.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
I mean, now, if we're going out to dinner to
a nice place and there's a group before you, then
there's an open conversation around around the table, and right, well,
some people don't even believe in that.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Well, actually, if you guys want to put the contact
clothes together, that's on you. This same person once I
was out to dinner with him and we all agreed
to go out to dinner to the to the State,
this steakhouse in the city, and there was like six
or seven of us at the table. It was agreed
upon that we were going to go out to dinner
and there was going to be one bill, and that
(06:07):
was what it was. We talked about it. The bill
comes and everyone just puts their card down and says, okay,
what are we splitting it? Six ways? That he says, no,
I only ate a salad.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Like that's embarrassing, so uncomfortable, especially.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
Embarrassing because the convo was already had. Yees, now, the
convo was not had.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
He should have just said, I like to get my
bill separate. So then went yes, well, asion, when we
first sat down of the table, like hey, I'm going
to get a separate bill, I would have been like, Okay,
you're a loser, but that's better than us now having
to do the math and you know it's stupid.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
Yeah, I'm not of the belief if I sit down
at the table and I have a salad and the
bill is eight hundred dollars that I'm splitting it with y'all,
y'all got me fed up?
Speaker 3 (06:58):
Yeah, crazy for you to eat.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
It's not the easiest, yeah thing for you because you
having drinks all meat, yes, but having for late all me,
you having salmon all meat. I had a salmon, but yes,
but at the end of the day, we're paying for
the whole occasion environment. I don't care the group twelve dollars,
give me the bill. I'm i chipping on the on
the tip.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
I'm coold with that.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
I'm not buying you all drinks and your food. Yeah, crazy,
eight dollars, Yeah, twelve bucks. Let's let's just be happy.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Yeah. I think when you go to a dinner like that,
there's the general consensus like okay, wor but I at
least I always go with that knowledge. But that's neither
here nor there. We're talking about a three or four
dollars ven like that, And actually you're right, it's him
like he he because think about it, he had to
go find them, hit the three sixty two and then
(07:51):
hit request. Yeah, like he had to go through the
whole thing with his own wife. His own wife three
dollars and sixty two.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
He's doing that for her. He's doing that in every
aspect of life. Buys coffee for people. He's thinking about, Oh,
she owes me ninety cents.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
That's fairy.
Speaker 5 (08:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
If he's thinking three sixty two, he's thinking less.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
And this isn't the thing about being cheap. This is
almost borderline I think of, like you're.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Crazy frugal bro.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Yeah, that's nice. He needs to grow up six one
seven nine three one one nine four five six one
seven nine three one one nine four five Are we
oh here asking our significant others for three sixty two
three sixty two? Hi, everybody, good morning. It's ashing the
jam of morning show. It's funny. We're talking about a
(08:35):
person that I know that is the type where you
could go out to dinner and he'll be He'll immediately say, well,
I only got this, so I'm not paying.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
That amount.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
You know, he Venmo requested his own wife who's pregnant,
for three dollars and sixty two cents because they ordered
a round of chicken fingers and fries like crazy.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
So if he's on the way home and he has
to buy diapers, is he splitting that with his wife? Yes,
that's crazy. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
The way we do it in our house is like
we kind of every other it. If we notice that
the diapers are almost empty, I might order them. Then
the next time he will. I know some people don't
like I don't get that either.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
I know you get like three three pots there. I
don't like it. Just one pot is easy.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
I know that I was gonna say, I know you
don't like that, and I, you know the fireman, I
kind of have this unwritten, like if I grab lunch,
he might then later order dinner. Like we try to
really make it as even as possible. But he definitely
pays for more.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
But I can summack that one. That one. I can
understand and comprehend the whole asking for three dollars is crazy.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Three I would feel I would feel legit disrespected, Like
are we you okay? Annie is in Canton? Good morning Annie.
What do you think it's insane to ever ask your
spouse for money? Like what if they go to grocery
shopping and they spend five hundred You're not going to
throw a couple of hundo their way?
Speaker 6 (10:04):
Oh no, absolutely. What I'm saying is I think three
dollars and ninety two cents for chicken fingers and fries
is insane.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
No, it's like one sad.
Speaker 6 (10:15):
Yeah, when it comes to buying groceries like you mentioned
you and the firemen splitting going and buying dump diapers
or whatever like twitching off, I.
Speaker 5 (10:24):
Don't see that as an issue. What the issue is
is that.
Speaker 6 (10:28):
You're asking for three dollars ninety two cents. I think
that that's a little much. It's I don't I don't
see the need for that. What is mine is yours,
what is uh yours is mine? Also, So it's like.
Speaker 5 (10:43):
I don't see the need in that.
Speaker 6 (10:44):
I find that kind of embarrassing too.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
I know I do too, changed especially with your partner,
Like I wouldn't even thank you for the call. Any
ask a stranger for three sixty two. No like it?
You know, fine, it's keep it. Susan is in Rhode Island. Hi, Susan, Susanne, Susan. Yes, Susan, Okay,
(11:07):
So tell us your story, all right.
Speaker 7 (11:11):
So basically, my friend was dying for me to meet
her boyfriend for the first time. I'm like, fine, we
can go out. They say, suggested dinner. We went out
to dinner, had some appetizer, drinks and all that. Towards
the end of the night, her boyfriend was in the bathroom,
so check came. I wasn't thinking twice. I always put
my card down. I'm thinking we're gonna split it. I'm
(11:33):
assuming either three ways or he's going to cover for
her meal, as he should. I don't tend to pay
for me, but I suspect him to pay for her.
My friend puts her card down on top of it,
so it ended up getting splitting two ways, and I
paid for basically half of his meal.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
No, so you and your friends split for the three
of you? Yes, oh my god, see, because they went
ahead and counted themselves as one. Like that's not you
don't do that.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Plus, she invited you out to dinner. She should have
covered the whole bill. You shouldn't have had to pay
anything exactly.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
Homeboy's fit for her, right, and are they still together? Yeah?
Speaker 7 (12:17):
So next he's actually getting my man, and my my
man was like, I'm not I'm not putting my card
down for her.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
Hey, facts, you know what.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
We I like him too. He's defending his girl. That's
very strange. But also I feel like that's like your
your friend should have said if if she knew he
was gonna I thought, yeah, I know, I'm just saying,
given that situation, if that's me, if I know that
he's not gonna put the car, I'm gonna put my
card down and be like, I'll take care of this.
Because that's that's so weird, all right, to Dan, and
(12:47):
thank you for the car. People get when the bill comes,
people get weird.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
No, that that's she shouldn't have even have put down
that car.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
No.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
I think her friend friend should have been like, I
got this exactly.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Especially if her man wasn't gonna put his card down,
Like that's weird. That's very weird. Katie's in New Hampshire. Katie,
we're running a little bit out of time. But you say,
if you offer something to get something for somebody on
the way.
Speaker 5 (13:11):
To work, you'll pay, yeah, definitely. So like if I
am grabbing stuff for someone, I'm not going to expect
to be paid back. So in your friend's case, if
he ordered chicken tenders and then shared, definitely don't expect
to get paid back. But if somebody asks you to
pick up something for them, then I'm going to expect it,
even if it's under ten dollars. Like if you're asking
(13:33):
me to stop at a Romodo's and get in a rush,
or get something at Storybucks, then I'm going to expect
you already know the average cost of that, and I'm
going to get a Vendmo for it because I went
out of my way to grab it for you.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
What if it's under five dollars, maybe.
Speaker 5 (13:48):
If you're asking me, then I would still expect you
to at least offer offer it.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Yeah, now I guess, yeah, I can see the offer
and then you do the quick little thing really like
oh no, it's good, But like okay, For example, Katie,
we've talked about this before. Santi gets mine and his
coffee every single morning, so we go every other like
I'll pay for a week and then you know, what
I mean, like we because it's Starbucks and it can
get pricey.
Speaker 5 (14:14):
That's like an unsaid mutual agreement though, because you're already rotating.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
We're rotating.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (14:19):
Yeah, Although Hey, I have instances too where I go
out with my friends. We have three girls. We'll catch
up and just go out for dinner, and I've had
like the last two times we've gone out. We usually
all three will split it, and there's one person that
usually never brings their card but will send me the
Venmo to cover and then they're looking at their receipt
and they're literally just paying like fourteen ninety nine for
(14:42):
whatever their meal was, not even doing tip or anything.
I haven't ever said anything because I mean, in the
back of my mind, I'm like, okay, well that's kind
of cheap. But at the same time, I have never
said anything because I'm literally covering tax and tip for them.
So it's not like it's thirty dollars a fifty dollars,
I just eat the cost.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
No, you do feel type of way, and it's just
there's something about the money, like the bill thing that
you you you would hope they would at least say,
can I send you the tip?
Speaker 3 (15:11):
Or whatever.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
All Katie, well, thank you for the call. No, I'm
telling you, when the bill comes people get weird.
Speaker 3 (15:15):
Would Katie and them get into a fight and with
that friend, the friendship is over. I've been paid.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Yeah, you broke. That's definitely a hundred percent coming out.
But I think if you're listening and you're like, damn,
I venmoed my husband three dollars last night, we might
want to reconsider. Okay,
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