February 28, 2024 • 38 mins
In today's episode, Sisanie shows off her new fitness gadget that she is VERY excited about! Plus, she and Erica talk about a puppy Diego update, the latest season of Vanderpump Rules, working out while at work and the best rom com of our generation.
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So then I said, what aboutbreakfast at sicinys. Well, that's one
thing. We got time to sitback, relax and indulge in your weekly
tea. Welcome to breakfast at Sicinsand we're back another week. Hey,
it's Sisney and Erica and hello.You might not notice this, Erica,
but I am cycling right now aswe speak. As we speak, Oh,
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you've become an under the desk pedaler. I sure have, and I
am proud of it. It isso great, a true game changer.
Okay, okay, hold one,do you feel that this truly is affecting
your fitness levels? Yes, andI need to do probably before and after
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on THEO. I probably will neverpost these, but I want to do
like a before and after on mylegs, especially because I feel, I
mean, it can't be hurting me. No, no, it couldn't be
hurting you, but but I feelthe burn. So I feel the burn
because I had to change out thewheels on my chair too to make them
be lockable, weird wheels because Ipedal. It was like pushing me back.
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But anyways, I feel my thigh'sworking, I feel my glutes working,
and I feel my lower abs workingbecause you're wow all of this together,
and so it also comes with atracker. So I have this trackerund
my desk that tells me how manysteps I've done and how many calories on
the bottom that I've burned. You'vedone four thousand steps just with this little
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pedaler. No, this is yesterday, but yes, oh I average about
So I'm going to clear it rightnow. I just got in here.
So now it's that zero, andI'll peddal the whole podcast and else we'll
see how your calories. You're notgoing to pedal this whole podcast. I'll
peddal the whole podcast, and we'llsee how many calories I burned by the
end of the podcast, which isprobably give or take thirty minutes or so.
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Right. Sure, Okay, wait, I actually a visual of this
for me, similar to the waythey cannot see us. I cannot see
what's at your feet. It's basicallylike picture like almost like an elliptical machine,
like the bottom half of an elliptical. Okay, and it's much shorter
petals then, but it's their flat, big and flat like an elliptical.
I would hope that they're shorter pedals. Well, I'm just saying it's not
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like a pedal that I'm like strappinginto like you do like a peloton or
something. Sure, it's like anice flat like and is it like a
bicycle motion or is it more oflike a push push and pull motion.
If I move my camera, it'sgonna like destroy everything. But let me
right, I'll take take a picturevideo. This is ridiculous, okay taking
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a video of this? How howmany days have you been doing this?
Now? I just got it lastweek and so this is my I got
it like late last week's I didone full day last week, I did
all day yesterday, I'm doing today, And so I want to average about
I'm saying this here. I wantto average anywhere from you know, four
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hundred three to four hundred calories caloriesa day at least seated here, Like
I'll still go home and like dothe peloton or do other things or my
treasure at home or walking around theneighborhood and other exercise weights and things like
that. But uh, for Ijust felt as if I'm here so much,
like especially yeah, or the earlierpart of the week, I can
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I pulled yesterday, I pulled atwelve hour day. Oh you know,
it's like yeah, five to five, So the majority of that time I'm
in here taking meetings, doing apodcast with you, doing whatever, you
know, and I'm just sitting here. I definitely was duped by, not
duped by, like persuaded by influenceron Instagram. Of course you were,
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because you are pretty prone to that. You're pretty susceptible. Surprise you being
in aries You're not as impulsive asI think the true areas is. Yeah,
I'm not, probably because I waslike so poor for so long that
I just like couldn't be So whoknows what will happen in the next five
years, you know, But Imean it doesn't even have to be money
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related. Like you're not impulsive tolike come and you know, do a
weekend somewhere if someone asked you,like, hey, let's you know,
I've always tried to like come toVegas with me, like it wasn't part
of your plan, but like youwon't jump on you know. The one
time I did do that was yousaid we got an extra ticket to Coachella,
can you leave in thirty minutes?And I said, let me leave
work and I will be there.Out of the ten plus years that you
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and I have been friends. Onetime. You are spontaneous. Okay,
I'll give you that writing your journalabout this, okay, because I'm telling
you you want me to write inmy journal? Yes, why am I
not more spontaneous? But you know, let's get to the root of it.
Well, I don't write in ajournal, so I guess that's problem
number one. Also, I'm notgetting your video of your who did you
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send that to? Oh? Oh, who'd I send you to? Sisney
sending this weird video of her pedalingto someone else? Did you send it
to someone else? I did sendit to someone else. I just didn't
send it like I closed it andI just never send no, thank goodness.
Group chat. Yeah, if youhad some random group chat that I'm
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alls or that's is to other people, that would be really wild. Oh
my gosh, Okay, no,I'm sending it. So here's my pedling.
By the way, I've actually neverpeddled and A and spoke the entire
time. This might be a newchallenge. That was my question. I
was going to say, if you'repedaling while you podcast, do you pedal
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while you morning show? Oh?I mean those are big pedals. That
is a full blown little mini bike. Told you interesting? Okay, I'm
interesting. I'm probably curious of thebrands. And let me just scoot down
and see what. Yeah you shouldshe's going under the desk cycle, very
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literal ellipse, desk cycle, ellipse. Okay, so, yes, you
have not done this during the morningshow. No, but they're requesting that
I bring it in and for showand tell, and maybe I will.
Maybe you should do it during awhole show and then see how many calories
you burn in a four hour show. Not bad. When I was doing
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mid Days, which is the shiftright after the morning show, and it
was ten am to three pm,yeah, I won. It was like
my twenties, so you know youcould just your metabolism in your twenties is
like yeah, incredible, right,so I could skip a meal and lose
five pounds. Anyways, besides thepoint I would I would argue that my
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body was better in my twenties thanit is now, right, as most
people's bodies usually tend to change.Literally had three children, so sure you
know I've did poop three children outof me? All right, So what
I tell them? I think it'sfunny. I'm like, you know,
I pooped you, right, AndI'm like, whoa, my gosh.
They're like, is that good?That's gonna be scarred. No, I'm
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joking, And they know they cameout of my stomach, like, but
they don't really get the obviously don't. They don't understand the birds and the
bees at all yet, but theythink they came out of like my belly
button or like my stomach or something. I think I've showed them my scar.
Yeah. I haven't gotten into theweeds as the house savey I was
born, so right right, let'scover that. Sorry, we were going
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to feedback for anybody that doesn't knowbecause born some other weird fucking way never
heard you talking about a feeback Andthey're like, how was bored? I
actually did poop her that one?But when you were in mid days,
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okay, when I was in middays, I would stay I would try to
stay on top of my fitness likea lot more. I didn't have kids
this and that it was like allI did was like get my hair and
nails done and like work out.That's my life right now, enjoying because
it's like that's all I had.And then I would also do twenty push
ups at every top of the hour, So our top of the hours,
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like in the radio world, islike when the legal id has to play.
Well. I'd also like to pointout it is the top of the
hour, sure, I guess,but to me, it was more like
it starts the new hour. It'slike it's very like an alarm clocky,
you know, it's like you know, no matter what, like I'm gonna
have five top of the hours.So I would average one hundred push ups
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a day. So were you doingknee push ups or full push ups?
Full push ups? I couldn't doa full push up now, Like I
probably can do five, that is, but they were twenty at a time,
and I would take an hour breakstill, you know what you think
about it? Like you could dothis in your show right now. No,
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No, I can't do a fullpush up. You could do a
full push up. You could doat least five. Maybe I could do
knee push ups and work up toa full push up. Sure, but
I'm alost in like work clothes halfthe time. The other half are we
really in work clothes? I'm inlike a good pair of jeans and like
this big jacket today. But shouldI start doing this? My coworkers might
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be confused, I'm telling you,and I'm kind of started doing it,
like just a little bit, likeI'll do like the desk push ups right
now because I'm not fully getting onthe ground. Well, I need to
bring that back because I thought itwas looking great and granted, metabolism was
on my side back in the day. But you know what you should do.
You should cycle during commercial breaks sothat you're not actually having to talk
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on a morning show while you're cycling, right, and then do the do
twenty push ups a day versus onehundred. Sure could be a good start.
Now do I need a cycle deskthing? Ah? You were totally
rolling your eyes at me. Iwas, I was, and now I'm
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thinking it's not bad at least putit wherever you were at the most Like,
so yeah, I'm like, mytime is split fifty fifty between my
office and the studio. So Ifelt as if, you know, I
didn't really because look, I ama little out of breath by cycling.
Sure, sure, and so youcan take breaks as you wish. Hey,
I can. We're not like,oh holding fifty calories so far?
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Oh my it's only been like nineminutes. Yeah, oh, that's impressive.
I'd like to I'd like a puppyupdate, a pup date, if
you will. Oh. I thoughtyou were like, I like a puppy.
I was like, well, youknow, there's lots of shelters that
need it. I would also lovea puppy, but no, I would
like an update on mister Diego.He is so good. I feel like
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we only had him for a fewdays last time we spoken. He's sleeping
through the night, very with verylate, like one last week. Take
him out eleven thirty, eleven eleventhirty, and then he'll make it to
like five ish. That's great.It's not bad. Michael is you know,
really jumping on in with the training, and you know he's he's ninety
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percent, he's the he's eighty toninety percent, and I, you know,
come in with the other percentage thatis needed. You know, what
is the thing they say, likethe twelfth hour or the thirteenth hour,
that's you that last for the day. You really exactly bring The kids love
him though, and he's the bestobviously, Like when I'm home, like
weekends, we're all in. Wewere out this past weekend. It was
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so nice. We were in thebackyard the entire time with Diego and the
dogs and the kids, and howare Dakota and Gypsy and Diego doing?
Oh no, no, it's nota oh no, okay, it's just
a Dakota is an older dog,and so she is like an og like
both she and jypsire ogis. Andeventually Diego is going to be like,
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you know, be able to becauseit already has end energy level. Before
we would like you know, bein the house and be going around in
circles around the couch and like yeah, you know, wouldn't be able to
like stop. And now he's kindof him exploring, you know, you
want to see every corner, likewhat's this? What's this? Like is
this a kid toy? Like whoawhat? And so the area that we've
kind of confined him to is notas excited anymore. Now he's like,
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Okay, I know what this is, so I don't need to like jump
on the couch and do this.He's still trying to jump on the couch,
but sure whatever with Gypsy. Gypsywill sit in his bed and not
like have a care in the world, you know, he's like resting whatever,
and die Go will come up anddo like the puppy like boo his
paws in front and try to likeplay with him, and he just doesn't
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want anything to do with him.And I think he was just getting like
so frustras he gets like really intoGypsy's face. And then at one point
my older dog was like a likekind of just like not bit him,
but like definitely like stared him off. Yeah, and he did, and
he goes like and then like justlike waddled off and like grabbed the toy
and then started playing with a toy. By I told you, I was
like Lee even be. But whenwe really want to get his like energy
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out, then we'll kind of justget make sure that our older dogs have
their space. And then yep,Diego's playing, and then Diego goes back
in his crate, and then youknow he's he's gonna start graduating to being
able to roam around the house likethe other dogs. But yeah, as
far as like, oh my gosh, are the best friend's really playing fetch
together? Like, no, theyprobably have well they're very big age difference,
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yes exactly. But someone told me, you know, because Dakota's older.
She's fifteen or she'll be fifteen thisyear. And then Gypsy's gonna gosh,
I forget his age. He's eitherthey're nine or ten. Oh,
okay, No, he's nine orten. He's like six years apart from
Dakota. Okay. And so someonesaid that for him, like he Gypsey
still has like a lot of energy, Like he'll still play fetch, he
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still does all that. He takeslong walks like all of that. He's
still great. Dakota doesn't like longwalks anymore. She's just it's not her
thing. She can rarely go upthe stairs. Someone told me that having
Diego will bring out like a youthfulside to my other dog. That yeah,
essentially we're kind of becoming a littlemore senior. Then he'll bring out
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like not a puppiness in them.But it's just like an energy. Yeah,
it's like they see him playing andmaybe Gypsy will want to play or
whatever. So yeah, cute,but he's a lot of fun. And
I'm like full blown a Dalmati.Mom. Now you be watching dalmation movies
like this these whole past few weeks. Dalmation movies like one hundred and one
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Dalmatians. You would think that that'slike the only one, but there's a
bunch like there, did you botherDalmation movies? No, it's on Disney,
So Disney has like one hundred andone and one hundred two, and
then they also have the the reallife version one hundred one Domination movie.
Oh I loved that movie growing up, Glenn Close. Yes, we loved
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that one. Speaking of movies,what have you seen? And I always
forget the title of it anyone?But you? Yes, I think I
told you on this podcast to gosee it. Oh did you? Was
that you? I think? So? It was so cute. Well I
didn't go see it because it's nowavailable to stream or whatever or rent.
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Okay, it's yes, it islike the rom calm for our time.
You watched it, pay twenty dollarsfor it? Oh okay, okay,
it is the best rom com I'veseen in probably ten years. That's yeah.
I'm like, someone else told methat was that you, and that
was probably me. I was notyou, Sierra, my friend Sierra.
You know Sierra? Oh yeah,you friend zero from work. She was
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telling me like the day before Irented it. So okay, But maybe
you had too and whatever. Everyoneknows this movie's cute because it like did
really well. And you know,the only part that was alarming the surprised
penis. Wait, did I missthat? It's in the shower. It's
not Glenn Powell's Okay, it's ohuh, it's not like a full Penis
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podcast is taking a turn. Itwas the guy dating the surfer guy,
the Australian surfer guy. You seeyou see his dingling for a minute,
unless you've rented some sort of weirdedited version. Uh, maybe maybe they
take that part out sometimes they do. It was and he it and he
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goes Armadillo or something, and suddenlyyou see one hundred percent did not see
the scene, or if I did, I fell asleep for a second and
woke back up. I don't rememberthis. It was to the point where
I went and saw it with mylike two really good girlfriends here and we
all went like we were not readyfor it. Yeah, I want to
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go back and watch it. Ofcourse you do well, And for research,
I keep calling it the alarming PenisLike every time I talk to someone,
I'm like, except for the alarmingpenis, Like, yeah, I
did not see that Medillo. MaybeI did. I feel like you would
remember it because it was everyone Iremember, but like Tasha and I were
drinking a lot of wine when werented it. Oh it could have been
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maybe it escaped me or chatting orsomething. But yes, that is the
greatest rom column perhaps of our generation. Well, the song Natasha Beddingfield's Unwritten
is now streaming, and people are, you know, considering. I'm like,
I was actually just talking to ourboss Bet. I was like,
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we should put this song back inand like gold like you know, so
that we should just don't kiss.What's funny is we play at my station
Pocket full of Sunshine by Natasha Beddingfieldand I'm like, shouldn't shouldn't it be
the one that's in the movie rightnow? You should definitely bring it up.
I'll you the I'll send you thisemail blast that I go. I
mean, I don't tell your bosshow to do their job, but but
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a lass, Well, I'm gladyou finally watched it and took my advice.
Uh yeah, I always take youradvice and remember what you told me
so right rightly, just always listento me. It's great. Have you
been keeping up with Vander pump becauseI have to admit something I'm super behind.
Okay, well, you know thatI got rid of my direct TV,
which you still like record it forme, right, because I'm still
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not horrified by this. Yes,so someone else is telling me that YouTube
TV you can record or you canhave like a DVR. I'm nearly certain
that was me. I's not you. Someone that worked told me. Okay,
well I think I also told youmaybe you did as well. Okay,
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anyways, so I want to maybeswitch. I just don't know what
my contract currently is with the becauseI'm getting my live TV from my internet
company, which also does cable.But it's all right, I just can't.
I don't have a DVR and Idon't know like what it takes to
get one or what. But someonesaid, maybe, Erica, that YouTube
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can DV are you without having tohave a box? Is that correct?
Yep? Or do you still needa box? What's a box? Even
I've never had a box? Okay, yes, I believe. I believe.
The situation is YouTube TV allows youto record your shows and then watch
them back whenever you wish, similarto streaming. Well, right now,
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currently I have to set an alarmon my phone for whatever time. Vander
Pump comes on on Tuesdays and youhave to watch it. I can sit
and watch it live if I wantyou. Otherwise, I have to wait
until the next day on Peacock orHulu or whatever the hell I want to
watch, which you know, oneday of waiting. No, okay,
how often do you watch it dayof It's not good enough. Well,
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last week I missed the first halfhour because I didn't realize what that alarm
was for. It's a weird alarm. Turned it out, and then I
was like, ah, for Vanderbump. So you're how am I going back
in time? Like we should beevolving with the way we could watch live
TV or record shows like this.This seems like a step back for me.
Sis I believe the normal average human, which again we have different jobs,
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it would be awesome if I couldwatch this stuff live, but I
don't. The average human is watchingon Peacock the next day. It's too
late for me. I know,I understand it, just you can't talk
about it in the show that dayif you need to. I get it.
But but yeah, that being said, the drama with Sandoval and Ariyana,
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it is getting worse in real time, Like you're like, this is
happening not on the show, butlike in real time. It's the still
the debacle with this whole house,right, he wants to keep it,
she wants to sell and split theprofit. Now it's gone to court,
and like all the beasts, right, what would you do? I would
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have kicked his you know what outof that house the minute all of this
went down. But do you thinkshe tried? Yeah, I mean sure,
that's the issue. And then atone point, like when do you
just give up? Right, It'sso strange to me that they're still living
in that same house. It isso wild, And I was saying I'm
behind on the show, but Iwas just watching the episode where he asks
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to have his birthday party and she'slike no, but they're going through his
assistant, which, by the way, since when does Tom Sanderval make enough
money to have a full time assistant? Probably doesn't. When is he making
enough money to like pay for hisfriend's proposal? I don't think we did
that for James, you know,with the girl he ended up cheating with.
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Exactly is this man of money Longderer? This is where I'm at now
with this, but it's all justvery strange. I certainly wouldn't still be
living there. I don't think Iwould demand that I get my money out
of it. But I'm not surewhy she's being so stubborn on it.
I thought that the the whole livingthem there. I mean, yeah,
like they started filming two or threemonths, three months maybe after all that
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one day, right, so maybeit was a little soon. So I
get like on the show, purposelike to why he's still there? But
yeah, I didn't realize Now inreal time, a year later, he's
still in that house and she stillallows him to be, but they own
it together. This is why youdon't buy a home with someone that you're
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not married to. Okay, bodkettle Black, I'm not buying a house
with something i'm not married to.I'm buying a house and someone I'm not
married to will live in it withme. Oh god, I gotta got
it. Okay, that's a lotsmarter. I guess, yes, paper
wise, right. You know,if I were in this situation, I
would be well, I'm a tMarion anyways, but I would be wanting
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to do what she's doing. Youknow, why does he get to be
Why does he get to cheat,blow up their relationship, blow up their
lives, and then he gets tostay in the house right that he destroyed?
Yeah, this is all his mess. It is like there should be
no he should like not win inany sort of situation, right, And
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I think that's where she's standing onit. But like a year later,
you could not catch me. Granted, sheese where is she in New York?
Chicago? She's doing Chicago the playright, and she's doing Chicago,
So I wonder if it's like she'snot even there, but she's like,
you know, move along, mydude, And who knows like what her
plan is, right she wants to. I mean, it's expense and it's
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expensive to buy a new house anddo the whole move and all that.
So but they'll first first of all, there they'll get a profit on that
house so much they paid. Whydo you mean so, because I,
like Loki found out where it was? Oh yeah, super low key.
It's not like not far from yourold house from my old house. Yeah,
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no, when and my current house, like they live they live like
the city over okay, okay,yeah, well but like I found out
based off of like when they boughtbecause I knew when they bought the home,
this is so stocker is I can'tbelieve I'm in a mining this so
when they bought the home. Sothen I went on red Fin and I
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saw the reason home that we're soldin that area. And then you know,
they show the house in vander Pomand I was like, oh that's
the house. Wow. Very simpleto be again, it's like public listing
when you buy a house and whatnot. But are you still yeah, so
that's great? Can you not hearit in my voice? I feel like
I'm out of No, you can'treally hear it in your voice, but
I could see your body kind ofgoing back and forth. And first I
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thought you were just really into thetopic. And then I realized, Oh,
she's pedaling the she's not excited aboutthis. She's either got appear or
she's peddling. Oh it's really fun. Oh my gosh. Well, I
say, at this point, obviously, if it's going to court, who
knows it's yeah, I will decide. But I think his reasoning is like,
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if I buy her out, thenwhat does she care? It's still
the half of the money, butit's probably not unless he buys her out
for like the list price of whatthey might sell it for. I didn't
think of that. I was justthinking like, yeah, just take the
money and run girl. But you'reright, like the house is probably more
value, so he should buy herout for what it would be sold at
now, and I just if hewants to stay there, does he have
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the money to do that? Again, I don't think this man should have
a full time personal assistant. I'mconcerned. Yeah, I don't know how
that would work out because he wouldYeah, because even if they even if
he liquidated like the equity of thehome, I don't think that's half of
what it would be worth anyway,No, right now, And again I
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don't know what. Maybe they paidfor cash. I doubt it though.
No, he was also like takingout loans against it for his Schwartz and
Sandy's business, so he might bein big do doo. I mean more
reason why he should so yeah,I agree, I agree. I feel
bad for our I do. Iyou know, I really do want to
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visit Schwartz and Sandy's though. OhI'd have done that while I was there.
It's on my to do of placesI want to see in La or
I think you should go there andjust just for a moment, I could
DM Schwartz maybe you know, maybehe'll get us a good table and a
reservation on a really busy and night. I heard that if you try to
make a reservation there, they chargeyou one hundred are they? It's like
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one hundred and fifty dollars? Holdin your car? What? Yeah,
I don't even currently in the show, which was filmed months ago. Uh,
they're not doing so well, sothey should be so lucky that people
want to come in. Yeah,well that at that time they were not
doing so well, remember because likeeverybody was everybody was boycotting it and all
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that. Yikes. Anyways, anyways, have you heard of the friendship recession?
No? What is that? It'sthere's the basically that was my breath
because I'm telling it's basically something thatlike at the average thirty year old Okay,
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doesn't have the same friends that theyhad before the pandemic. Hmmm,
so they've lost anywhere from like fourto five friends. The article actually had
four point five friends, which Ithought was it's just on average half of
friend So isn't that just the evolutionof time? Though? Like it's been
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four years now, don't you changefriends a little bit? Especially, wait,
hold on, especially if you're goingfrom twenty six to thirty, which
is exactly my age. If you'regoing from twenty six to thirty in that
time since the pandemic started, Ithink that's a time when you really shake
out. Some of your college friendsfall to the wayside, and you make
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like your good work friends. Maybeso aren't they just making something up?
Maybe? You know, it's interestingyou say this, because now that you
put it like that, I waslike, yes and no, Like I've
had all my same girlfriends since highschool, like middle school, all of
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them, And yes, we'll gomonths of not speaking sometimes, sure,
whatever, but when we do it'slike no time has passed. And even
if we get together once a year, at this point, it's like a
win because we are so busy andour lives have changed so much. But
as far as like close friends go, people that were like in your circle
before, I guess maybe the peoplethat you know, it just depends on
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who they did the survey on becauseone of those people moved away or like
whatever. But well, I'm thinking, like I have a good handful of
people. I probably don't speak tonearly as much as I did when the
pandemic started, and part of thatis I've moved twice. So but it's
interesting they're using the pandemic as anexcuse. I think this is channing.
I think this is just being thirty. When I was thirty, I swear
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I had all the same friends aswhen you were like twenty five, twenty
six. Yeah hmmm. And thenwhen if I go before the pandemic now,
like obviously I'm not, I'm likelate thirties. Yeah, I would
say two or three, you know, like, it's not the same.
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Maybe we're bad. It has somethingto do with No, I think it
has something to do with we werelocked up, yes, and your time
became more valuable, and so nowthat we have the freedom to go back
and do events and work more andbe out of the house, you're more
selective of the friends that you wantto be around. I would agree with
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that, like I could. I'mnot going to name a friend, but
a friend in particular that I poseto stop making an effort with because I
was like, it's not worth it. I feel drained when I'm around them,
Like I'm done with that. Andit was a friend from college who
happened to live in La So Ithink that's why I can like think like
that. But hmm, I thinkmaybe there is a priority thing, Like
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the pandemic showed us what's really important, and so then we changed our priorities
on who we want to spend timearound and who made the effort when we
could like barely open up and thingslike that. One hundred percent. So
I think, full circle here,this is real. I think it is
real. I don't think it hasto do with growing older and apart from
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people. It's more so the effectthat the pandemic has, and like we'll
see it like because it was agood I mean even through parts of last
year. It was three or fouryears at this point, so it's like
all of twenty twenty, all oftwenty twenty one, all of twenty twenty
two, and some of twenty twentythree. Yeah, so almost four years.
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Take this whole friendship recession aside,like forget about that, but think
about the effects that it's going tohave, like on someone that was starting
high school at the beginning of thepandemic and then as a senior. You
know, it's like those are pivotalyears, even college. I'm grateful that
that wasn't my time. I thinkmy time sucked too. For a while
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there, I felt very like behindin life compared to my friends who maybe
had started dating someone prior to thepandemic. I felt like, oh my
gosh, I'm never going to catchup and then guess what I did.
But yeah, I'm just glad Iwasn't in high school or college. My
nephews were my oldest nephew, he'llbe twenty next month, so sweet.
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Then were like high school. Hewas like in tenth grade. Yeah,
he got to have a graduation okaand all of that, but obviously the
class of twenty twenty diden right,but he graduated in twenty twenty one,
maybe twenty two, maybe twenty two. Yes, because you moved him to
college. You helped him get tocollege in twenty three. Oh wait.
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But anyways, My point is isthat the younger generation, I feel,
will see like you're not gonna seethe impact right this second, but like
maybe when they're thirty. It affectslike all the decisions that you make,
Like I don't know, and somesome people have higher anxiety because of the
pandemic or not, like I wasjust reading an article that the majority of
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people have their phone on do notdisturb or seven. Majority of that were
people because then they don't have topick up phone calls. They don't have
to pick up phone calls, theycan respond to text messages and emails on
their on their time. It lowerstheir anxiety. And when I was reading
on it more because I first Ialways get annoy when someone has do not
disturb. I was like, yeah, really, like it's that important,
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like do not disturb? And nowI get it now I'm like, huh,
maybe there's something here. Plus ithelps with robocalls. Oh yeah.
Honestly, I just keep my phoneon silent all the time and then I
get to it. When I getto it, mine's always on silent or
vibrate. Sure, but I neveruse they do not disturb. I rarely
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do unless I'm at one of thekids, like recitals or something. I
put it on just so that Ican videotape because that's happened before. I'm
like, videotape in the recital.I'm getting You're like, not now a
so sad so in that sense,yes, but no, this is twenty
four to seven. Do not disturbat all times, and then you get
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to it when you get to it. Almost like back in the day when
used to have an answering machine inyour house and you would come home from
work and let me check the messages. That would be a beautiful you would
Well, you can be like,all right, three PM, I check
my messages on my phone and afterthat I won't check again until I go
to bed at six. Yeah,do you go to bed at six?
No, I go to bed atninem No. I really like on weekends,
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I don't check email. It's likeI'm like, if it's an emergency,
someone will call me, but otherwiseI'm not dealing with that. Do
you really not? Okay? SoI don't I don't check. I mean
I don't need to respond to email, right, but don't you check it?
Like I still find myself going throughit, and I'm just like deleting
things I don't want to see becausethen it's like when I get here Monday,
it's like that much work. Idon't get that many emails to my
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work email. So no, yeah, I check my work email on Sundays,
but not on Fridays afternoon or Saturdays. It's pretty legit I know,
and there's and they I'll throw yourwhole week en off if you read something
and then you're like, oh,then you're stressing around it. I don't
check it usually till like Sundays aroundfour or five, and then I get
ready for the week and it's it'sgood, okay, but what about this?
(34:44):
This is next level? This istext messages. No, I'm always
phone calls. Yeah, I can'tavoid those who was your maid of honor
in your wedding. My maid ofhonor was to okay, wait and my
ma train of honor. I wasn'tyou have a sister, Because I just
saw something thinking about the friend reversessionthing. I saw something this past week
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called like the maid of honor curse, and it's people being like, I'm
not in contact with my maid ofhonor anymore, and I'm like, is
that real? People are saying?This is like very common? Well not
in my case. I couldn't becloser to my maid of honor at this
point. Yeah, I'm still reallygood friends with my friend who I was
made of honor for, and thenI was made of honor for both my
sisters as well. But I wasalso made of honor for my friend Bianca,
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and she's very much a really closepart of my life, even when
she wasn't living close she was livingin New York for five years. Okay,
but now she's back. Well,we're not those people. Then.
Apparently it has to do with likethe amount of stress you put on them
during your wedding planning. I'm like, how horrible are these brides? Yeah,
there's a horribleness on both sides here. Yeah, it's like one though.
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Sure, maybe I was stressful becauseof the bride, but then you
made a commitment so followed through withit. Can't be that bad. Can't
be that bad. The worst you'redoing, at least from my understanding of
being a maid of honor, isplanning the bachelorette party and helping like a
shower. Maybe I don't know,helping organize my day of It's not like
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I was like with a clipboard onthe wedding day and like ushering the guests
and or anything. I think Ijust helped make sure for my friends.
I think I just helped make surethat all the hair and makeup was running
on time. That was it?How was it? So? Well?
Good luck out there, bride's maidmaybe us stay strong. You call this
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you've got this all right? WellI'm gonna wrap it up. And what
are your calories and what are yoursteps? Oh? That's like, gosh,
let's get an update. I didtake a little break in the middle
because I noticed a breath. Itlooks like I've done one eight hundred and
seventy six petals. Yeah, andone hundred and eighty eight calories. That
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is really thirty thirty something minutes.That's good. It's good. So I'm
telling you better than nothing. Canyou tell me? And like, you
know what, it doesn't get whatit doesn't get picked up on my Apple
watch. It's really pissed crappy.Yeah, maybe if you set your watch
to exercise cycle, it would Itried that and it like didn't. Like
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I don't know what difference it wouldmake when I'm like actually on a peloton
or something like maybe there's just likea my arms or like my torso and
it's reading that. But I triedit the other day and I was like,
I'm like, well, this isgetting me a little thirty minute workout.
I was like seven minutes. Whatwell, I'd like you to report
back in a couple of weeks onhow you're feeling about the desk cycle.
(37:45):
This is what I was going totell you and then and then we'll business.
But I wanted to do like abefore and after of my legs because
I want to see the difference inthe toneedness of them, okay, versus
when I before the pedal blank forthe I'm trying to say, for the
bike, desk bike, desk thisdesk bike, Oh god? Okay?
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And after well, how long areyou going to give yourself? A month?
Yeah, my birthday? Okay,did you take up before photo yet?
No? No? Yeah, okay, it's been like three three sessions
of pedaling. Okay, so takeup before photo today and then take an
after photo your birthday weekend and letus know. Okay, great, all
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right, that's all. Oh I'malmost a two. By the name of
it is the oh desk desk cycle, lip desk cycle, your lips.
Not a paid ad, guys,not a paid ad at all. Anyways. Bye,
So then I said, what aboutbreakfast at sicinys. Well, that's one
thing. We got time to sitback, relax and indulge in your weekly
tea. Welcome to breakfast at Sicinsand we're back another week. Hey,
it's Sisney and Erica and hello.You might not notice this, Erica,
but I am cycling right now aswe speak. As we speak, Oh,
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you've become an under the desk pedaler. I sure have, and I
am proud of it. It isso great, a true game changer.
Okay, okay, hold one,do you feel that this truly is affecting
your fitness levels? Yes, andI need to do probably before and after
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on THEO. I probably will neverpost these, but I want to do
like a before and after on mylegs, especially because I feel, I
mean, it can't be hurting me. No, no, it couldn't be
hurting you, but but I feelthe burn. So I feel the burn
because I had to change out thewheels on my chair too to make them
be lockable, weird wheels because Ipedal. It was like pushing me back.
(01:15):
But anyways, I feel my thigh'sworking, I feel my glutes working,
and I feel my lower abs workingbecause you're wow all of this together,
and so it also comes with atracker. So I have this trackerund
my desk that tells me how manysteps I've done and how many calories on
the bottom that I've burned. You'vedone four thousand steps just with this little
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pedaler. No, this is yesterday, but yes, oh I average about
So I'm going to clear it rightnow. I just got in here.
So now it's that zero, andI'll peddal the whole podcast and else we'll
see how your calories. You're notgoing to pedal this whole podcast. I'll
peddal the whole podcast, and we'llsee how many calories I burned by the
end of the podcast, which isprobably give or take thirty minutes or so.
(01:57):
Right. Sure, Okay, wait, I actually a visual of this
for me, similar to the waythey cannot see us. I cannot see
what's at your feet. It's basicallylike picture like almost like an elliptical machine,
like the bottom half of an elliptical. Okay, and it's much shorter
petals then, but it's their flat, big and flat like an elliptical.
I would hope that they're shorter pedals. Well, I'm just saying it's not
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like a pedal that I'm like strappinginto like you do like a peloton or
something. Sure, it's like anice flat like and is it like a
bicycle motion or is it more oflike a push push and pull motion.
If I move my camera, it'sgonna like destroy everything. But let me
right, I'll take take a picturevideo. This is ridiculous, okay taking
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a video of this? How howmany days have you been doing this?
Now? I just got it lastweek and so this is my I got
it like late last week's I didone full day last week, I did
all day yesterday, I'm doing today, And so I want to average about
I'm saying this here. I wantto average anywhere from you know, four
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hundred three to four hundred calories caloriesa day at least seated here, Like
I'll still go home and like dothe peloton or do other things or my
treasure at home or walking around theneighborhood and other exercise weights and things like
that. But uh, for Ijust felt as if I'm here so much,
like especially yeah, or the earlierpart of the week, I can
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I pulled yesterday, I pulled atwelve hour day. Oh you know,
it's like yeah, five to five, So the majority of that time I'm
in here taking meetings, doing apodcast with you, doing whatever, you
know, and I'm just sitting here. I definitely was duped by, not
duped by, like persuaded by influenceron Instagram. Of course you were,
(03:51):
because you are pretty prone to that. You're pretty susceptible. Surprise you being
in aries You're not as impulsive asI think the true areas is. Yeah,
I'm not, probably because I waslike so poor for so long that
I just like couldn't be So whoknows what will happen in the next five
years, you know, But Imean it doesn't even have to be money
(04:13):
related. Like you're not impulsive tolike come and you know, do a
weekend somewhere if someone asked you,like, hey, let's you know,
I've always tried to like come toVegas with me, like it wasn't part
of your plan, but like youwon't jump on you know. The one
time I did do that was yousaid we got an extra ticket to Coachella,
can you leave in thirty minutes?And I said, let me leave
work and I will be there.Out of the ten plus years that you
(04:34):
and I have been friends. Onetime. You are spontaneous. Okay,
I'll give you that writing your journalabout this, okay, because I'm telling
you you want me to write inmy journal? Yes, why am I
not more spontaneous? But you know, let's get to the root of it.
Well, I don't write in ajournal, so I guess that's problem
number one. Also, I'm notgetting your video of your who did you
(04:57):
send that to? Oh? Oh, who'd I send you to? Sisney
sending this weird video of her pedalingto someone else? Did you send it
to someone else? I did sendit to someone else. I just didn't
send it like I closed it andI just never send no, thank goodness.
Group chat. Yeah, if youhad some random group chat that I'm
(05:17):
alls or that's is to other people, that would be really wild. Oh
my gosh, Okay, no,I'm sending it. So here's my pedling.
By the way, I've actually neverpeddled and A and spoke the entire
time. This might be a newchallenge. That was my question. I
was going to say, if you'repedaling while you podcast, do you pedal
(05:39):
while you morning show? Oh?I mean those are big pedals. That
is a full blown little mini bike. Told you interesting? Okay, I'm
interesting. I'm probably curious of thebrands. And let me just scoot down
and see what. Yeah you shouldshe's going under the desk cycle, very
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literal ellipse, desk cycle, ellipse. Okay, so, yes, you
have not done this during the morningshow. No, but they're requesting that
I bring it in and for showand tell, and maybe I will.
Maybe you should do it during awhole show and then see how many calories
you burn in a four hour show. Not bad. When I was doing
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mid Days, which is the shiftright after the morning show, and it
was ten am to three pm,yeah, I won. It was like
my twenties, so you know youcould just your metabolism in your twenties is
like yeah, incredible, right,so I could skip a meal and lose
five pounds. Anyways, besides thepoint I would I would argue that my
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body was better in my twenties thanit is now, right, as most
people's bodies usually tend to change.Literally had three children, so sure you
know I've did poop three children outof me? All right, So what
I tell them? I think it'sfunny. I'm like, you know,
I pooped you, right, AndI'm like, whoa, my gosh.
They're like, is that good?That's gonna be scarred. No, I'm
(07:12):
joking, And they know they cameout of my stomach, like, but
they don't really get the obviously don't. They don't understand the birds and the
bees at all yet, but theythink they came out of like my belly
button or like my stomach or something. I think I've showed them my scar.
Yeah. I haven't gotten into theweeds as the house savey I was
born, so right right, let'scover that. Sorry, we were going
(07:33):
to feedback for anybody that doesn't knowbecause born some other weird fucking way never
heard you talking about a feeback Andthey're like, how was bored? I
actually did poop her that one?But when you were in mid days,
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okay, when I was in middays, I would stay I would try to
stay on top of my fitness likea lot more. I didn't have kids
this and that it was like allI did was like get my hair and
nails done and like work out.That's my life right now, enjoying because
it's like that's all I had.And then I would also do twenty push
ups at every top of the hour, So our top of the hours,
(08:16):
like in the radio world, islike when the legal id has to play.
Well. I'd also like to pointout it is the top of the
hour, sure, I guess,but to me, it was more like
it starts the new hour. It'slike it's very like an alarm clocky,
you know, it's like you know, no matter what, like I'm gonna
have five top of the hours.So I would average one hundred push ups
(08:39):
a day. So were you doingknee push ups or full push ups?
Full push ups? I couldn't doa full push up now, Like I
probably can do five, that is, but they were twenty at a time,
and I would take an hour breakstill, you know what you think
about it? Like you could dothis in your show right now. No,
(09:00):
No, I can't do a fullpush up. You could do a
full push up. You could doat least five. Maybe I could do
knee push ups and work up toa full push up. Sure, but
I'm alost in like work clothes halfthe time. The other half are we
really in work clothes? I'm inlike a good pair of jeans and like
this big jacket today. But shouldI start doing this? My coworkers might
(09:22):
be confused, I'm telling you,and I'm kind of started doing it,
like just a little bit, likeI'll do like the desk push ups right
now because I'm not fully getting onthe ground. Well, I need to
bring that back because I thought itwas looking great and granted, metabolism was
on my side back in the day. But you know what you should do.
You should cycle during commercial breaks sothat you're not actually having to talk
(09:43):
on a morning show while you're cycling, right, and then do the do
twenty push ups a day versus onehundred. Sure could be a good start.
Now do I need a cycle deskthing? Ah? You were totally
rolling your eyes at me. Iwas, I was, and now I'm
(10:03):
thinking it's not bad at least putit wherever you were at the most Like,
so yeah, I'm like, mytime is split fifty fifty between my
office and the studio. So Ifelt as if, you know, I
didn't really because look, I ama little out of breath by cycling.
Sure, sure, and so youcan take breaks as you wish. Hey,
I can. We're not like,oh holding fifty calories so far?
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Oh my it's only been like nineminutes. Yeah, oh, that's impressive.
I'd like to I'd like a puppyupdate, a pup date, if
you will. Oh. I thoughtyou were like, I like a puppy.
I was like, well, youknow, there's lots of shelters that
need it. I would also lovea puppy, but no, I would
like an update on mister Diego.He is so good. I feel like
(10:45):
we only had him for a fewdays last time we spoken. He's sleeping
through the night, very with verylate, like one last week. Take
him out eleven thirty, eleven eleventhirty, and then he'll make it to
like five ish. That's great.It's not bad. Michael is you know,
really jumping on in with the training, and you know he's he's ninety
(11:07):
percent, he's the he's eighty toninety percent, and I, you know,
come in with the other percentage thatis needed. You know, what
is the thing they say, likethe twelfth hour or the thirteenth hour,
that's you that last for the day. You really exactly bring The kids love
him though, and he's the bestobviously, Like when I'm home, like
weekends, we're all in. Wewere out this past weekend. It was
(11:30):
so nice. We were in thebackyard the entire time with Diego and the
dogs and the kids, and howare Dakota and Gypsy and Diego doing?
Oh no, no, it's nota oh no, okay, it's just
a Dakota is an older dog,and so she is like an og like
both she and jypsire ogis. Andeventually Diego is going to be like,
(11:58):
you know, be able to becauseit already has end energy level. Before
we would like you know, bein the house and be going around in
circles around the couch and like yeah, you know, wouldn't be able to
like stop. And now he's kindof him exploring, you know, you
want to see every corner, likewhat's this? What's this? Like is
this a kid toy? Like whoawhat? And so the area that we've
kind of confined him to is notas excited anymore. Now he's like,
(12:18):
Okay, I know what this is, so I don't need to like jump
on the couch and do this.He's still trying to jump on the couch,
but sure whatever with Gypsy. Gypsywill sit in his bed and not
like have a care in the world, you know, he's like resting whatever,
and die Go will come up anddo like the puppy like boo his
paws in front and try to likeplay with him, and he just doesn't
(12:39):
want anything to do with him.And I think he was just getting like
so frustras he gets like really intoGypsy's face. And then at one point
my older dog was like a likekind of just like not bit him,
but like definitely like stared him off. Yeah, and he did, and
he goes like and then like justlike waddled off and like grabbed the toy
and then started playing with a toy. By I told you, I was
like Lee even be. But whenwe really want to get his like energy
(13:03):
out, then we'll kind of justget make sure that our older dogs have
their space. And then yep,Diego's playing, and then Diego goes back
in his crate, and then youknow he's he's gonna start graduating to being
able to roam around the house likethe other dogs. But yeah, as
far as like, oh my gosh, are the best friend's really playing fetch
together? Like, no, theyprobably have well they're very big age difference,
(13:24):
yes exactly. But someone told me, you know, because Dakota's older.
She's fifteen or she'll be fifteen thisyear. And then Gypsy's gonna gosh,
I forget his age. He's eitherthey're nine or ten. Oh,
okay, No, he's nine orten. He's like six years apart from
Dakota. Okay. And so someonesaid that for him, like he Gypsey
still has like a lot of energy, Like he'll still play fetch, he
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still does all that. He takeslong walks like all of that. He's
still great. Dakota doesn't like longwalks anymore. She's just it's not her
thing. She can rarely go upthe stairs. Someone told me that having
Diego will bring out like a youthfulside to my other dog. That yeah,
essentially we're kind of becoming a littlemore senior. Then he'll bring out
(14:07):
like not a puppiness in them.But it's just like an energy. Yeah,
it's like they see him playing andmaybe Gypsy will want to play or
whatever. So yeah, cute,but he's a lot of fun. And
I'm like full blown a Dalmati.Mom. Now you be watching dalmation movies
like this these whole past few weeks. Dalmation movies like one hundred and one
(14:28):
Dalmatians. You would think that that'slike the only one, but there's a
bunch like there, did you botherDalmation movies? No, it's on Disney,
So Disney has like one hundred andone and one hundred two, and
then they also have the the reallife version one hundred one Domination movie.
Oh I loved that movie growing up, Glenn Close. Yes, we loved
(14:50):
that one. Speaking of movies,what have you seen? And I always
forget the title of it anyone?But you? Yes, I think I
told you on this podcast to gosee it. Oh did you? Was
that you? I think? So? It was so cute. Well I
didn't go see it because it's nowavailable to stream or whatever or rent.
(15:13):
Okay, it's yes, it islike the rom calm for our time.
You watched it, pay twenty dollarsfor it? Oh okay, okay,
it is the best rom com I'veseen in probably ten years. That's yeah.
I'm like, someone else told methat was that you, and that
was probably me. I was notyou, Sierra, my friend Sierra.
You know Sierra? Oh yeah,you friend zero from work. She was
(15:37):
telling me like the day before Irented it. So okay, But maybe
you had too and whatever. Everyoneknows this movie's cute because it like did
really well. And you know,the only part that was alarming the surprised
penis. Wait, did I missthat? It's in the shower. It's
not Glenn Powell's Okay, it's ohuh, it's not like a full Penis
(16:06):
podcast is taking a turn. Itwas the guy dating the surfer guy,
the Australian surfer guy. You seeyou see his dingling for a minute,
unless you've rented some sort of weirdedited version. Uh, maybe maybe they
take that part out sometimes they do. It was and he it and he
(16:26):
goes Armadillo or something, and suddenlyyou see one hundred percent did not see
the scene, or if I did, I fell asleep for a second and
woke back up. I don't rememberthis. It was to the point where
I went and saw it with mylike two really good girlfriends here and we
all went like we were not readyfor it. Yeah, I want to
(16:48):
go back and watch it. Ofcourse you do well, And for research,
I keep calling it the alarming PenisLike every time I talk to someone,
I'm like, except for the alarmingpenis, Like, yeah, I
did not see that Medillo. MaybeI did. I feel like you would
remember it because it was everyone Iremember, but like Tasha and I were
drinking a lot of wine when werented it. Oh it could have been
(17:12):
maybe it escaped me or chatting orsomething. But yes, that is the
greatest rom column perhaps of our generation. Well, the song Natasha Beddingfield's Unwritten
is now streaming, and people are, you know, considering. I'm like,
I was actually just talking to ourboss Bet. I was like,
(17:33):
we should put this song back inand like gold like you know, so
that we should just don't kiss.What's funny is we play at my station
Pocket full of Sunshine by Natasha Beddingfieldand I'm like, shouldn't shouldn't it be
the one that's in the movie rightnow? You should definitely bring it up.
I'll you the I'll send you thisemail blast that I go. I
mean, I don't tell your bosshow to do their job, but but
(17:56):
a lass, Well, I'm gladyou finally watched it and took my advice.
Uh yeah, I always take youradvice and remember what you told me
so right rightly, just always listento me. It's great. Have you
been keeping up with Vander pump becauseI have to admit something I'm super behind.
Okay, well, you know thatI got rid of my direct TV,
which you still like record it forme, right, because I'm still
(18:18):
not horrified by this. Yes,so someone else is telling me that YouTube
TV you can record or you canhave like a DVR. I'm nearly certain
that was me. I's not you. Someone that worked told me. Okay,
well I think I also told youmaybe you did as well. Okay,
(18:41):
anyways, so I want to maybeswitch. I just don't know what
my contract currently is with the becauseI'm getting my live TV from my internet
company, which also does cable.But it's all right, I just can't.
I don't have a DVR and Idon't know like what it takes to
get one or what. But someonesaid, maybe, Erica, that YouTube
(19:03):
can DV are you without having tohave a box? Is that correct?
Yep? Or do you still needa box? What's a box? Even
I've never had a box? Okay, yes, I believe. I believe.
The situation is YouTube TV allows youto record your shows and then watch
them back whenever you wish, similarto streaming. Well, right now,
(19:23):
currently I have to set an alarmon my phone for whatever time. Vander
Pump comes on on Tuesdays and youhave to watch it. I can sit
and watch it live if I wantyou. Otherwise, I have to wait
until the next day on Peacock orHulu or whatever the hell I want to
watch, which you know, oneday of waiting. No, okay,
how often do you watch it dayof It's not good enough. Well,
(19:48):
last week I missed the first halfhour because I didn't realize what that alarm
was for. It's a weird alarm. Turned it out, and then I
was like, ah, for Vanderbump. So you're how am I going back
in time? Like we should beevolving with the way we could watch live
TV or record shows like this.This seems like a step back for me.
Sis I believe the normal average human, which again we have different jobs,
(20:14):
it would be awesome if I couldwatch this stuff live, but I
don't. The average human is watchingon Peacock the next day. It's too
late for me. I know,I understand it, just you can't talk
about it in the show that dayif you need to. I get it.
But but yeah, that being said, the drama with Sandoval and Ariyana,
(20:34):
it is getting worse in real time, Like you're like, this is
happening not on the show, butlike in real time. It's the still
the debacle with this whole house,right, he wants to keep it,
she wants to sell and split theprofit. Now it's gone to court,
and like all the beasts, right, what would you do? I would
(20:59):
have kicked his you know what outof that house the minute all of this
went down. But do you thinkshe tried? Yeah, I mean sure,
that's the issue. And then atone point, like when do you
just give up? Right, It'sso strange to me that they're still living
in that same house. It isso wild, And I was saying I'm
behind on the show, but Iwas just watching the episode where he asks
(21:21):
to have his birthday party and she'slike no, but they're going through his
assistant, which, by the way, since when does Tom Sanderval make enough
money to have a full time assistant? Probably doesn't. When is he making
enough money to like pay for hisfriend's proposal? I don't think we did
that for James, you know,with the girl he ended up cheating with.
(21:41):
Exactly is this man of money Longderer? This is where I'm at now
with this, but it's all justvery strange. I certainly wouldn't still be
living there. I don't think Iwould demand that I get my money out
of it. But I'm not surewhy she's being so stubborn on it.
I thought that the the whole livingthem there. I mean, yeah,
like they started filming two or threemonths, three months maybe after all that
(22:03):
one day, right, so maybeit was a little soon. So I
get like on the show, purposelike to why he's still there? But
yeah, I didn't realize Now inreal time, a year later, he's
still in that house and she stillallows him to be, but they own
it together. This is why youdon't buy a home with someone that you're
(22:26):
not married to. Okay, bodkettle Black, I'm not buying a house
with something i'm not married to.I'm buying a house and someone I'm not
married to will live in it withme. Oh god, I gotta got
it. Okay, that's a lotsmarter. I guess, yes, paper
wise, right. You know,if I were in this situation, I
would be well, I'm a tMarion anyways, but I would be wanting
(22:49):
to do what she's doing. Youknow, why does he get to be
Why does he get to cheat,blow up their relationship, blow up their
lives, and then he gets tostay in the house right that he destroyed?
Yeah, this is all his mess. It is like there should be
no he should like not win inany sort of situation, right, And
(23:10):
I think that's where she's standing onit. But like a year later,
you could not catch me. Granted, sheese where is she in New York?
Chicago? She's doing Chicago the playright, and she's doing Chicago,
So I wonder if it's like she'snot even there, but she's like,
you know, move along, mydude, And who knows like what her
plan is, right she wants to. I mean, it's expense and it's
(23:33):
expensive to buy a new house anddo the whole move and all that.
So but they'll first first of all, there they'll get a profit on that
house so much they paid. Whydo you mean so, because I,
like Loki found out where it was? Oh yeah, super low key.
It's not like not far from yourold house from my old house. Yeah,
(23:56):
no, when and my current house, like they live they live like
the city over okay, okay,yeah, well but like I found out
based off of like when they boughtbecause I knew when they bought the home,
this is so stocker is I can'tbelieve I'm in a mining this so
when they bought the home. Sothen I went on red Fin and I
(24:17):
saw the reason home that we're soldin that area. And then you know,
they show the house in vander Pomand I was like, oh that's
the house. Wow. Very simpleto be again, it's like public listing
when you buy a house and whatnot. But are you still yeah, so
that's great? Can you not hearit in my voice? I feel like
I'm out of No, you can'treally hear it in your voice, but
I could see your body kind ofgoing back and forth. And first I
(24:38):
thought you were just really into thetopic. And then I realized, Oh,
she's pedaling the she's not excited aboutthis. She's either got appear or
she's peddling. Oh it's really fun. Oh my gosh. Well, I
say, at this point, obviously, if it's going to court, who
knows it's yeah, I will decide. But I think his reasoning is like,
(25:00):
if I buy her out, thenwhat does she care? It's still
the half of the money, butit's probably not unless he buys her out
for like the list price of whatthey might sell it for. I didn't
think of that. I was justthinking like, yeah, just take the
money and run girl. But you'reright, like the house is probably more
value, so he should buy herout for what it would be sold at
now, and I just if hewants to stay there, does he have
(25:23):
the money to do that? Again, I don't think this man should have
a full time personal assistant. I'mconcerned. Yeah, I don't know how
that would work out because he wouldYeah, because even if they even if
he liquidated like the equity of thehome, I don't think that's half of
what it would be worth anyway,No, right now, And again I
(25:45):
don't know what. Maybe they paidfor cash. I doubt it though.
No, he was also like takingout loans against it for his Schwartz and
Sandy's business, so he might bein big do doo. I mean more
reason why he should so yeah,I agree, I agree. I feel
bad for our I do. Iyou know, I really do want to
(26:07):
visit Schwartz and Sandy's though. OhI'd have done that while I was there.
It's on my to do of placesI want to see in La or
I think you should go there andjust just for a moment, I could
DM Schwartz maybe you know, maybehe'll get us a good table and a
reservation on a really busy and night. I heard that if you try to
make a reservation there, they chargeyou one hundred are they? It's like
(26:30):
one hundred and fifty dollars? Holdin your car? What? Yeah,
I don't even currently in the show, which was filmed months ago. Uh,
they're not doing so well, sothey should be so lucky that people
want to come in. Yeah,well that at that time they were not
doing so well, remember because likeeverybody was everybody was boycotting it and all
(26:51):
that. Yikes. Anyways, anyways, have you heard of the friendship recession?
No? What is that? It'sthere's the basically that was my breath
because I'm telling it's basically something thatlike at the average thirty year old Okay,
(27:15):
doesn't have the same friends that theyhad before the pandemic. Hmmm,
so they've lost anywhere from like fourto five friends. The article actually had
four point five friends, which Ithought was it's just on average half of
friend So isn't that just the evolutionof time? Though? Like it's been
(27:37):
four years now, don't you changefriends a little bit? Especially, wait,
hold on, especially if you're goingfrom twenty six to thirty, which
is exactly my age. If you'regoing from twenty six to thirty in that
time since the pandemic started, Ithink that's a time when you really shake
out. Some of your college friendsfall to the wayside, and you make
(27:57):
like your good work friends. Maybeso aren't they just making something up?
Maybe? You know, it's interestingyou say this, because now that you
put it like that, I waslike, yes and no, Like I've
had all my same girlfriends since highschool, like middle school, all of
(28:18):
them, And yes, we'll gomonths of not speaking sometimes, sure,
whatever, but when we do it'slike no time has passed. And even
if we get together once a year, at this point, it's like a
win because we are so busy andour lives have changed so much. But
as far as like close friends go, people that were like in your circle
before, I guess maybe the peoplethat you know, it just depends on
(28:41):
who they did the survey on becauseone of those people moved away or like
whatever. But well, I'm thinking, like I have a good handful of
people. I probably don't speak tonearly as much as I did when the
pandemic started, and part of thatis I've moved twice. So but it's
interesting they're using the pandemic as anexcuse. I think this is channing.
I think this is just being thirty. When I was thirty, I swear
(29:07):
I had all the same friends aswhen you were like twenty five, twenty
six. Yeah hmmm. And thenwhen if I go before the pandemic now,
like obviously I'm not, I'm likelate thirties. Yeah, I would
say two or three, you know, like, it's not the same.
(29:30):
Maybe we're bad. It has somethingto do with No, I think it
has something to do with we werelocked up, yes, and your time
became more valuable, and so nowthat we have the freedom to go back
and do events and work more andbe out of the house, you're more
selective of the friends that you wantto be around. I would agree with
(29:53):
that, like I could. I'mnot going to name a friend, but
a friend in particular that I poseto stop making an effort with because I
was like, it's not worth it. I feel drained when I'm around them,
Like I'm done with that. Andit was a friend from college who
happened to live in La So Ithink that's why I can like think like
that. But hmm, I thinkmaybe there is a priority thing, Like
(30:17):
the pandemic showed us what's really important, and so then we changed our priorities
on who we want to spend timearound and who made the effort when we
could like barely open up and thingslike that. One hundred percent. So
I think, full circle here,this is real. I think it is
real. I don't think it hasto do with growing older and apart from
(30:38):
people. It's more so the effectthat the pandemic has, and like we'll
see it like because it was agood I mean even through parts of last
year. It was three or fouryears at this point, so it's like
all of twenty twenty, all oftwenty twenty one, all of twenty twenty
two, and some of twenty twentythree. Yeah, so almost four years.
(31:00):
Take this whole friendship recession aside,like forget about that, but think
about the effects that it's going tohave, like on someone that was starting
high school at the beginning of thepandemic and then as a senior. You
know, it's like those are pivotalyears, even college. I'm grateful that
that wasn't my time. I thinkmy time sucked too. For a while
(31:22):
there, I felt very like behindin life compared to my friends who maybe
had started dating someone prior to thepandemic. I felt like, oh my
gosh, I'm never going to catchup and then guess what I did.
But yeah, I'm just glad Iwasn't in high school or college. My
nephews were my oldest nephew, he'llbe twenty next month, so sweet.
(31:45):
Then were like high school. Hewas like in tenth grade. Yeah,
he got to have a graduation okaand all of that, but obviously the
class of twenty twenty diden right,but he graduated in twenty twenty one,
maybe twenty two, maybe twenty two. Yes, because you moved him to
college. You helped him get tocollege in twenty three. Oh wait.
(32:05):
But anyways, My point is isthat the younger generation, I feel,
will see like you're not gonna seethe impact right this second, but like
maybe when they're thirty. It affectslike all the decisions that you make,
Like I don't know, and somesome people have higher anxiety because of the
pandemic or not, like I wasjust reading an article that the majority of
(32:30):
people have their phone on do notdisturb or seven. Majority of that were
people because then they don't have topick up phone calls. They don't have
to pick up phone calls, theycan respond to text messages and emails on
their on their time. It lowerstheir anxiety. And when I was reading
on it more because I first Ialways get annoy when someone has do not
disturb. I was like, yeah, really, like it's that important,
(32:52):
like do not disturb? And nowI get it now I'm like, huh,
maybe there's something here. Plus ithelps with robocalls. Oh yeah.
Honestly, I just keep my phoneon silent all the time and then I
get to it. When I getto it, mine's always on silent or
vibrate. Sure, but I neveruse they do not disturb. I rarely
(33:13):
do unless I'm at one of thekids, like recitals or something. I
put it on just so that Ican videotape because that's happened before. I'm
like, videotape in the recital.I'm getting You're like, not now a
so sad so in that sense,yes, but no, this is twenty
four to seven. Do not disturbat all times, and then you get
(33:34):
to it when you get to it. Almost like back in the day when
used to have an answering machine inyour house and you would come home from
work and let me check the messages. That would be a beautiful you would
Well, you can be like,all right, three PM, I check
my messages on my phone and afterthat I won't check again until I go
to bed at six. Yeah,do you go to bed at six?
No, I go to bed atninem No. I really like on weekends,
(33:58):
I don't check email. It's likeI'm like, if it's an emergency,
someone will call me, but otherwiseI'm not dealing with that. Do
you really not? Okay? SoI don't I don't check. I mean
I don't need to respond to email, right, but don't you check it?
Like I still find myself going throughit, and I'm just like deleting
things I don't want to see becausethen it's like when I get here Monday,
it's like that much work. Idon't get that many emails to my
(34:20):
work email. So no, yeah, I check my work email on Sundays,
but not on Fridays afternoon or Saturdays. It's pretty legit I know,
and there's and they I'll throw yourwhole week en off if you read something
and then you're like, oh,then you're stressing around it. I don't
check it usually till like Sundays aroundfour or five, and then I get
ready for the week and it's it'sgood, okay, but what about this?
(34:44):
This is next level? This istext messages. No, I'm always
phone calls. Yeah, I can'tavoid those who was your maid of honor
in your wedding. My maid ofhonor was to okay, wait and my
ma train of honor. I wasn'tyou have a sister, Because I just
saw something thinking about the friend reversessionthing. I saw something this past week
(35:06):
called like the maid of honor curse, and it's people being like, I'm
not in contact with my maid ofhonor anymore, and I'm like, is
that real? People are saying?This is like very common? Well not
in my case. I couldn't becloser to my maid of honor at this
point. Yeah, I'm still reallygood friends with my friend who I was
made of honor for, and thenI was made of honor for both my
sisters as well. But I wasalso made of honor for my friend Bianca,
(35:30):
and she's very much a really closepart of my life, even when
she wasn't living close she was livingin New York for five years. Okay,
but now she's back. Well,we're not those people. Then.
Apparently it has to do with likethe amount of stress you put on them
during your wedding planning. I'm like, how horrible are these brides? Yeah,
there's a horribleness on both sides here. Yeah, it's like one though.
(35:52):
Sure, maybe I was stressful becauseof the bride, but then you
made a commitment so followed through withit. Can't be that bad. Can't
be that bad. The worst you'redoing, at least from my understanding of
being a maid of honor, isplanning the bachelorette party and helping like a
shower. Maybe I don't know,helping organize my day of It's not like
(36:13):
I was like with a clipboard onthe wedding day and like ushering the guests
and or anything. I think Ijust helped make sure for my friends.
I think I just helped make surethat all the hair and makeup was running
on time. That was it?How was it? So? Well?
Good luck out there, bride's maidmaybe us stay strong. You call this
(36:35):
you've got this all right? WellI'm gonna wrap it up. And what
are your calories and what are yoursteps? Oh? That's like, gosh,
let's get an update. I didtake a little break in the middle
because I noticed a breath. Itlooks like I've done one eight hundred and
seventy six petals. Yeah, andone hundred and eighty eight calories. That
(37:00):
is really thirty thirty something minutes.That's good. It's good. So I'm
telling you better than nothing. Canyou tell me? And like, you
know what, it doesn't get whatit doesn't get picked up on my Apple
watch. It's really pissed crappy.Yeah, maybe if you set your watch
to exercise cycle, it would Itried that and it like didn't. Like
(37:21):
I don't know what difference it wouldmake when I'm like actually on a peloton
or something like maybe there's just likea my arms or like my torso and
it's reading that. But I triedit the other day and I was like,
I'm like, well, this isgetting me a little thirty minute workout.
I was like seven minutes. Whatwell, I'd like you to report
back in a couple of weeks onhow you're feeling about the desk cycle.
(37:45):
This is what I was going totell you and then and then we'll business.
But I wanted to do like abefore and after of my legs because
I want to see the difference inthe toneedness of them, okay, versus
when I before the pedal blank forthe I'm trying to say, for the
bike, desk bike, desk thisdesk bike, Oh god? Okay?
(38:07):
And after well, how long areyou going to give yourself? A month?
Yeah, my birthday? Okay,did you take up before photo yet?
No? No? Yeah, okay, it's been like three three sessions
of pedaling. Okay, so takeup before photo today and then take an
after photo your birthday weekend and letus know. Okay, great, all
(38:30):
right, that's all. Oh I'malmost a two. By the name of
it is the oh desk desk cycle, lip desk cycle, your lips.
Not a paid ad, guys,not a paid ad at all. Anyways. Bye,
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