July 17, 2023 • 11 mins
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(00:00):
Second date update. We got Jesseon the phone after he was ghosted on
by Amanda Ck and Carmen. He'sbeing ninety five. So you went on
a date with Amanda, you hada good time talk to us. Yeah,
so I'm pretty concerned after my datewith this chick, Amanda, I
met on tender no so he wenton on drinks and we were quicking and
(00:22):
we quick so much that she actuallywent to my home an apartment that night
and did some adult stuff, youknow what. But then right after she
wanted to leave, And I justwant to know, was it just a
quick hook up or is this somethingyou know to pursue after you know what?
I'm saying, maybe she was lookingfor something more. I don't know.
(00:47):
I'm just confused about the entire situationbecause I haven't heard from her.
And before our first date, wewere just talking like every day for like
two weeks. Oh so before thisthere was a different type of communication,
right like like before you have thatdate, before you hook up with somebody,
it's like a constant conversation, andthen after going to your place,
all of a sudden changed, Yea, it disappeared. That's weird. Yeah,
(01:12):
that definitely is giving off. Somethingwent wrong, right, something definitely
went wrong, because you know,prior to the date, there's a lot
of energy, a lot of anticipation, a lot of back and forth,
a lot of flirting. I mean, to the point where they ended up
in his house, right, wentback to his place. Yeah, doing
what he said, adults stuff.Yeah. So with that being said,
(01:34):
y'all did adult stuff and then shekind of just tapped it and left.
Yeah. So do you do youremember anything that happens specifically during the adult
stuff, like did she in aphone call or anything like that should make
a weird face? Yeah, likesomething. It was all good, That's
what I thought. So you know, he's like, Na, she was
making facess a good way, youknow what's right? All right? All
(02:00):
right, right about, Yeah,we gotta get a Manda on the phone.
We're gonna talk to her and seewhat she has to say about going
on that first date with you,and we're gonna see if we can make
a second date happen. Okay,what's Amanda gonna say? We're gonna find
out next Ck and Carmen be ninetyfive second date update. We tracked her
down. We got a mand onthe phone, right now. Second date
(02:22):
update. Ck and Carmen got tofigure out why my man got ghosted on
see why Amanda left him high anddry. Hello, good morning? Is
this Amanda? It is hey Amanda. How's everything going? It's going well?
How about you doing all right?Doing all right well? As Ck
and Carmen from B ninety five Amanda, And we're calling because we do this
thing called a second date update.Do you have any idea of who we
(02:46):
might well, you know, beforewe do that, do we have your
permission to continue this phone conversation onthe radio and use your voice yet?
Okay? So do you have anyidea of who we may be calling about?
I think, but I do thinkI have an idea. Yes,
okay, who would that be?Oh? Because he would call the radio
(03:07):
station of course? Is it Jesse? Yes? Okay, Now tell me
how that date went. Okay,so listen, it was going well,
like you know, we we juststept from you know, online and stuff
like that, and we have beentalking for like a couple of weeks,
like every day. I like tovibe, and so it was going super
(03:30):
well. So of course we goout, we're having drinks and stuff like
that. So you know, it'scub or flirting and you know, and
so we go back to a sleepand you know, we get it to
it. You know, it wastrash hey and you like totally fell asleep.
(03:50):
I like it was scared for mylife. I thought he had died
or something or like, you know, he was like very unresponsive, like
left. I just like got outof there as soon as possible. And
I mean it was terrible because hewas like he had drank mebe too much,
because for one, everything wasn't happeninglike it should haven't gotten or like
(04:15):
he thought he was putting it down. Yeah, and he wasn't, and
things didn't turn out in full effects, if you know what I'm saying right
right, it was a Lomaller disappointmentsomething there's like alright, alright, alright,
alright, alright, let's go aheadand stop. I mean, I
(04:35):
just can't get past the word trashy. Jesse, we've stopped her from talking.
What do you got to say?Yeah, First of all, I
was a little drunk that night,so I was kind of sweet at times.
So I wasn't operating in full halfstaff at that's half staff. Uh
(05:00):
huh, listen, totally passed out. We didn't if you don't know,
we didn't even it didn't even finishfinished, because you like kind of passed
out. I mean again, youknow I was you know again, we
were I was drinking a lot.We were drinking, we were having fun.
I didn't know it was gonna gothat way, you know what I'm
saying. So if I knew,I'd been more prepared, you know what
I'm saying. And then you,but you went back to your place,
(05:24):
and you you also made it seemlike you was putting it down. I
mean he said that she was makingthose faces, yeah, of confusion faces
confusion. No, I mean hethought he was. He was. He
was hurting. He's really hard.Just gosh, he was throwing a lot
of bobs. But he wasn't hitno back, you know, Like,
(05:45):
you know, I'm gonna give methe benefit of the doubt though, because
I feel like, what is thebenefit of doubt? Because he was rinking
too much? Yeah, you like, man, you may have good if
you didn't drink so much. Don'tthat happen? Seek man? I mean,
you know, if you're drinking thatmuch, you shouldn't do it.
Yeah, true, true, Butyou shouldn't even been thinking like, oh
man, I got this. Ifyou're that drunk where you passed out,
(06:05):
she said, my man passed out. She thought he was dead. Yeah,
okay, that's true. But let'sbe honest. Okay, you ever
been drunk and you just thought youcould rule the world, still think you
could do a little something. That'sthat's what was happening to him. So,
Amanda, what do you got tosay? Uh, you know,
you gotta everybody got him, youknow what I mean? Yeah, and
(06:28):
so I think you just I thinkthat was the case, learned his limit.
But you know now I think it'sa little awkward. So that so
was a turn off to you obviously, and now you're not even thinking about
a second day. I mean thefact that you kind of went in my
own him just left him hanging,Yeah, literally left him hanging. Literally,
Well okay, everybody was left hangingthat nice there she was. She
(06:50):
was like, come on, man, yeah, see, so now you
don't understand where she's coming from.Sorry, Jesse, you know what,
I ain't trying to hear all this. Man, I'm out. You know,
it's just ridiculous, it is.You know, you gotta make sure
you can turn your alcohol though,because that that can't happen. I mean,
it's a known fact for men.I'm just replaying the conversation in my
(07:13):
mind. The word trash, yeah, I mean that, the phrase half
staffed. Yeah, um, Imean yeah, this is of confusion.
Listen, Jesse's trying to get offthe line so he can avoid this conversation
that you're happy with him right now. I feel bad for Jesse, But
man, Amanda did not hold back. I mean, hey, she wasn't
the one that called us though,true truth. I feel bad for you,
(07:38):
girl, because I know, Iknow what that's like. What is
it like when you sitting there,left hanging? Okay you have especially when
it's like leading into it. Ohyou wait till I see you girl.
I had such high hopes. Imean the conversation. Yeah, well we
were talking at trash. You leftthat man with blue balls, okay,
the couple lash shots did a man, and you know, we should have
(08:01):
maybe not went there, should haveleft the mystery. Then on top of
that, she wasn't at home,so she couldn't even go into her drawer.
But you know what, what aboutthis? What about this? What
about this? I mean I knowthat Jesse's a little mad right now,
that's why he's so quiet. ButI mean, let's say you guys have
one more date, a little lessdrinking because you were connecting enough where you
got to the confusion face. Yeah, your energy is matched before this,
(08:24):
right, So I mean, Amanda, I mean, you know what about
one more try? Hey listen,I tell you, guys, I do
think we had a lot of coolthings in coming, and I was enjoying
his company. So maybe we couldslow it down a little bit, take
our time, and then you know, I'll go out with you again,
(08:45):
Jesse if you were doing out likethis. But I mean, you put
me on the spot by called that'strue. So Jesse, now you gotta
make it up for yourself. Comeon, Jesse, get back into batter's
box. Brother. I mean,I mean, I mean, after all
this slander, I don't know,man, Jesse, you could correct the
(09:05):
slander, is my point. Yeah, you have the opportunity ear back and
come correct that. Right, thereis a challenge. Come on, she
said, come back and come correctJesse. I mean, because we've already
done it. So I mean,you know, are you are you ready
to come back and come correct?I mean you know, I thought we
(09:26):
had a good time, but thenshe's coming on the radio making fun of
me. Jesse, we called her, Okay, she didn't call us radios
on me? I know. Imean, I'm saying, like, all
I'm saying is like, what youwhat did you think? For the reason
(09:48):
he's intimidated, especially because he's like, damn, I gotta go harder on
the second round, and then ifI disappoint her again, then I got
no excuse the it won't be athird date. That's true. All I'm
saying is I'm not feeling it.I'm not feeling it. I'm sorry,
I'm not feeling it. Bro damNow you don't even know I'm laughing,
(10:15):
but this is hilarious to me.All right, Well, obviously there will
not be a second date. Imean, if I'm not mistaken. This
is why I'm confused. Jesse calledus because he wanted to see a mandate
again and figure out what was goingon. Next thing, you know,
a man is like, look,I'll let you go ahead and get round
two in. You just gotta comecorrect, and then Jesse is backing down.
(10:35):
Yeah, so we did our job. We did. Thank you.
I appreciate chilling. He's not gonnahave a good rest. Believe me,
A lot of people are like,let me get a man the number,
Yeah, let me go, Hey, single aminga real Hey, thank you
(10:56):
guys. We appreciate you. Guys. Come full, come full. STA's
not playing around, playing with y'alltalking about I came to bring the pain.
Hey, listen, she was letdown. I feel her and I
love her energy for that too.Hey, thank you guys both for coming
on the second date update. Thankyou just as like man as mad as
(11:16):
well. Hella quiet, not evena goodbye or nothing. He called us
too. There you go, man. Second Date updates, CK and Carmen
be ninety five
Second date update. We got Jesseon the phone after he was ghosted on
by Amanda Ck and Carmen. He'sbeing ninety five. So you went on
a date with Amanda, you hada good time talk to us. Yeah,
so I'm pretty concerned after my datewith this chick, Amanda, I
met on tender no so he wenton on drinks and we were quicking and
(00:22):
we quick so much that she actuallywent to my home an apartment that night
and did some adult stuff, youknow what. But then right after she
wanted to leave, And I justwant to know, was it just a
quick hook up or is this somethingyou know to pursue after you know what?
I'm saying, maybe she was lookingfor something more. I don't know.
(00:47):
I'm just confused about the entire situationbecause I haven't heard from her.
And before our first date, wewere just talking like every day for like
two weeks. Oh so before thisthere was a different type of communication,
right like like before you have thatdate, before you hook up with somebody,
it's like a constant conversation, andthen after going to your place,
all of a sudden changed, Yea, it disappeared. That's weird. Yeah,
(01:12):
that definitely is giving off. Somethingwent wrong, right, something definitely
went wrong, because you know,prior to the date, there's a lot
of energy, a lot of anticipation, a lot of back and forth,
a lot of flirting. I mean, to the point where they ended up
in his house, right, wentback to his place. Yeah, doing
what he said, adults stuff.Yeah. So with that being said,
(01:34):
y'all did adult stuff and then shekind of just tapped it and left.
Yeah. So do you do youremember anything that happens specifically during the adult
stuff, like did she in aphone call or anything like that should make
a weird face? Yeah, likesomething. It was all good, That's
what I thought. So you know, he's like, Na, she was
making facess a good way, youknow what's right? All right? All
(02:00):
right, right about, Yeah,we gotta get a Manda on the phone.
We're gonna talk to her and seewhat she has to say about going
on that first date with you,and we're gonna see if we can make
a second date happen. Okay,what's Amanda gonna say? We're gonna find
out next Ck and Carmen be ninetyfive second date update. We tracked her
down. We got a mand onthe phone, right now. Second date
(02:22):
update. Ck and Carmen got tofigure out why my man got ghosted on
see why Amanda left him high anddry. Hello, good morning? Is
this Amanda? It is hey Amanda. How's everything going? It's going well?
How about you doing all right?Doing all right well? As Ck
and Carmen from B ninety five Amanda, And we're calling because we do this
thing called a second date update.Do you have any idea of who we
(02:46):
might well, you know, beforewe do that, do we have your
permission to continue this phone conversation onthe radio and use your voice yet?
Okay? So do you have anyidea of who we may be calling about?
I think, but I do thinkI have an idea. Yes,
okay, who would that be?Oh? Because he would call the radio
(03:07):
station of course? Is it Jesse? Yes? Okay, Now tell me
how that date went. Okay,so listen, it was going well,
like you know, we we juststept from you know, online and stuff
like that, and we have beentalking for like a couple of weeks,
like every day. I like tovibe, and so it was going super
(03:30):
well. So of course we goout, we're having drinks and stuff like
that. So you know, it'scub or flirting and you know, and
so we go back to a sleepand you know, we get it to
it. You know, it wastrash hey and you like totally fell asleep.
(03:50):
I like it was scared for mylife. I thought he had died
or something or like, you know, he was like very unresponsive, like
left. I just like got outof there as soon as possible. And
I mean it was terrible because hewas like he had drank mebe too much,
because for one, everything wasn't happeninglike it should haven't gotten or like
(04:15):
he thought he was putting it down. Yeah, and he wasn't, and
things didn't turn out in full effects, if you know what I'm saying right
right, it was a Lomaller disappointmentsomething there's like alright, alright, alright,
alright, alright, let's go aheadand stop. I mean, I
(04:35):
just can't get past the word trashy. Jesse, we've stopped her from talking.
What do you got to say?Yeah, First of all, I
was a little drunk that night,so I was kind of sweet at times.
So I wasn't operating in full halfstaff at that's half staff. Uh
(05:00):
huh, listen, totally passed out. We didn't if you don't know,
we didn't even it didn't even finishfinished, because you like kind of passed
out. I mean again, youknow I was you know again, we
were I was drinking a lot.We were drinking, we were having fun.
I didn't know it was gonna gothat way, you know what I'm
saying. So if I knew,I'd been more prepared, you know what
I'm saying. And then you,but you went back to your place,
(05:24):
and you you also made it seemlike you was putting it down. I
mean he said that she was makingthose faces, yeah, of confusion faces
confusion. No, I mean hethought he was. He was. He
was hurting. He's really hard.Just gosh, he was throwing a lot
of bobs. But he wasn't hitno back, you know, Like,
(05:45):
you know, I'm gonna give methe benefit of the doubt though, because
I feel like, what is thebenefit of doubt? Because he was rinking
too much? Yeah, you like, man, you may have good if
you didn't drink so much. Don'tthat happen? Seek man? I mean,
you know, if you're drinking thatmuch, you shouldn't do it.
Yeah, true, true, Butyou shouldn't even been thinking like, oh
man, I got this. Ifyou're that drunk where you passed out,
(06:05):
she said, my man passed out. She thought he was dead. Yeah,
okay, that's true. But let'sbe honest. Okay, you ever
been drunk and you just thought youcould rule the world, still think you
could do a little something. That'sthat's what was happening to him. So,
Amanda, what do you got tosay? Uh, you know,
you gotta everybody got him, youknow what I mean? Yeah, and
(06:28):
so I think you just I thinkthat was the case, learned his limit.
But you know now I think it'sa little awkward. So that so
was a turn off to you obviously, and now you're not even thinking about
a second day. I mean thefact that you kind of went in my
own him just left him hanging,Yeah, literally left him hanging. Literally,
Well okay, everybody was left hangingthat nice there she was. She
(06:50):
was like, come on, man, yeah, see, so now you
don't understand where she's coming from.Sorry, Jesse, you know what,
I ain't trying to hear all this. Man, I'm out. You know,
it's just ridiculous, it is.You know, you gotta make sure
you can turn your alcohol though,because that that can't happen. I mean,
it's a known fact for men.I'm just replaying the conversation in my
(07:13):
mind. The word trash, yeah, I mean that, the phrase half
staffed. Yeah, um, Imean yeah, this is of confusion.
Listen, Jesse's trying to get offthe line so he can avoid this conversation
that you're happy with him right now. I feel bad for Jesse, But
man, Amanda did not hold back. I mean, hey, she wasn't
the one that called us though,true truth. I feel bad for you,
(07:38):
girl, because I know, Iknow what that's like. What is
it like when you sitting there,left hanging? Okay you have especially when
it's like leading into it. Ohyou wait till I see you girl.
I had such high hopes. Imean the conversation. Yeah, well we
were talking at trash. You leftthat man with blue balls, okay,
the couple lash shots did a man, and you know, we should have
(08:01):
maybe not went there, should haveleft the mystery. Then on top of
that, she wasn't at home,so she couldn't even go into her drawer.
But you know what, what aboutthis? What about this? What
about this? I mean I knowthat Jesse's a little mad right now,
that's why he's so quiet. ButI mean, let's say you guys have
one more date, a little lessdrinking because you were connecting enough where you
got to the confusion face. Yeah, your energy is matched before this,
(08:24):
right, So I mean, Amanda, I mean, you know what about
one more try? Hey listen,I tell you, guys, I do
think we had a lot of coolthings in coming, and I was enjoying
his company. So maybe we couldslow it down a little bit, take
our time, and then you know, I'll go out with you again,
(08:45):
Jesse if you were doing out likethis. But I mean, you put
me on the spot by called that'strue. So Jesse, now you gotta
make it up for yourself. Comeon, Jesse, get back into batter's
box. Brother. I mean,I mean, I mean, after all
this slander, I don't know,man, Jesse, you could correct the
(09:05):
slander, is my point. Yeah, you have the opportunity ear back and
come correct that. Right, thereis a challenge. Come on, she
said, come back and come correctJesse. I mean, because we've already
done it. So I mean,you know, are you are you ready
to come back and come correct?I mean you know, I thought we
(09:26):
had a good time, but thenshe's coming on the radio making fun of
me. Jesse, we called her, Okay, she didn't call us radios
on me? I know. Imean, I'm saying, like, all
I'm saying is like, what youwhat did you think? For the reason
(09:48):
he's intimidated, especially because he's like, damn, I gotta go harder on
the second round, and then ifI disappoint her again, then I got
no excuse the it won't be athird date. That's true. All I'm
saying is I'm not feeling it.I'm not feeling it. I'm sorry,
I'm not feeling it. Bro damNow you don't even know I'm laughing,
(10:15):
but this is hilarious to me.All right, Well, obviously there will
not be a second date. Imean, if I'm not mistaken. This
is why I'm confused. Jesse calledus because he wanted to see a mandate
again and figure out what was goingon. Next thing, you know,
a man is like, look,I'll let you go ahead and get round
two in. You just gotta comecorrect, and then Jesse is backing down.
(10:35):
Yeah, so we did our job. We did. Thank you.
I appreciate chilling. He's not gonnahave a good rest. Believe me,
A lot of people are like,let me get a man the number,
Yeah, let me go, Hey, single aminga real Hey, thank you
(10:56):
guys. We appreciate you. Guys. Come full, come full. STA's
not playing around, playing with y'alltalking about I came to bring the pain.
Hey, listen, she was letdown. I feel her and I
love her energy for that too.Hey, thank you guys both for coming
on the second date update. Thankyou just as like man as mad as
(11:16):
well. Hella quiet, not evena goodbye or nothing. He called us
too. There you go, man. Second Date updates, CK and Carmen
be ninety five
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