September 14, 2023 • 7 mins
Things got a little crazy on the first date. Kendra knows what she wants!!! Listen with CK and Carmen!
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(00:00):
Confident. Second date update, Ckand Carmen is be ninety five. We
have Kindrell on the phone. She'strying to see if she can get hooked
up with James. Okay, SoI met James. We went on on
a date. The date went reallywell. Uh, we had dinner.
Dinner was delicious, right right.We went to a yardhouse at River Park,
okay, and went to the movies. All was good. I felt
(00:22):
like he had rizzed, you know. So the deal was that we were
going to head back to my placeand see where the night goes. Okay,
And we got back to my placeand you know, it was all
cool, but then he said hehad to like get up early and meet
with his boss, and I kindof didn't know what was going on.
So he left and we haven't plannedfor a second date. But he's not
(00:46):
calling me back, and you know, I want to see him again.
I want to see where that dangcan do. You know, we had
good he didn't get you that day. I just want to know why not.
Okay makes sense. So I obviouslyyou're trying to finish off what it
started that night exactly. Okay,Hey, she said, I want to
(01:10):
see what that thing can do rightnow, it seems like they had a
good time for them to go fromthe date to the plan is to go
back home, and they did makeit back home, but then something went
wrong or maybe he really did havehis boss call him up. Yeah,
I mean, but something suddenly happened, like yeah, you're a guy,
it's date number one, you goback to her house. I mean,
(01:32):
most dudes are like, let's getit. Yeah, let's get it.
I mean I could, I couldsay that maybe he was trying to be
a gentleman, but that's rare thathe's gonna pass up on something, but
very true. I mean, thereare some people, you know, they're
the open up the door, holdinghands type, like, hey, you
know, it's the first date.I don't know if that's cool, but
they might not just say that insteadof lying right, it's like say goodbye
(01:53):
at the door a little too.It's like, look, I definitely want
to see you, to see youagain, but I want to show you
that this is not what I'm heretopics exactly exactly. Okay, But yeah,
so since then, he's been mI a no call back, no
nothing, No, I haven't heardof me. I reached out, I've
called, I texted, and Ihaven't heard a thing. All right,
Well here's the thing. We haveJames number. We're gonna give James a
(02:15):
call. We're gonna see if wecan make a second date happen. Also
trying to figure out why he dippedout so abruptly. Okay, but are
you okay with that? Yeah?All right, I'm calling James right now.
C K and Carmen B ninety fiveSecond date Update. We're back.
We think we have James on thephone right now. CK and Carmen B
ninety five Second date Update. Wegot to see why he left Ken draw
(02:36):
high and dry. Is this James? Yeah, Hey, James, how
are you doing a c K andCarmen from B ninety five? Sorry,
man, I know a little time, we'll woke him up or something.
Oh you know from what do yousay? Yes, c K and Carmen
from B ninety five, James wouldcall him because we're doing a second date
update. You recently went on adate with somebody. But before we get
(02:58):
into that, now that kind ofwaking up a little bit, can we
have your permission to continue this phonecall? Uh? Yeah, yeah,
all right? All right, SoJames recently went on a date. Talk
to us. Please let us know. Do you remember who you went on
a date with? Yeah, ofcourse, Oh okay, let us know.
So so you went on a datewith Kendra. Yeah, and you
(03:22):
know, Kendraw was great. Wehad fun. I thought it was a
good time, right right. Idon't know what else you want me to
say. Well, I mean,from what we understanding, if you ever
heard the second date up date beforewe did talk to Kendra, but you
left kind of abruptly, like youhad a good time, went to yard,
announced, went to the movies overthere, river Park. Next thing,
(03:43):
you know, you you kind ofwent back to her place and then
dipped out. Yeah. I meanthat's there's a real easy explanation. She
was doing too much, that's allit was. It was she came on
real strong, real quick, andit was too much. Yeah. But
if that was a case, whywould you then choose to go down to
(04:03):
her house. I mean, you'regrown people here, we're talking about grown
adults. Okay, here, letme let me let me show you what
happened. Okay, So everything wasgreat, we were having fun. You
know, we get back to herhouse. Everything's looking good. Uh,
but then she's like here. Whywhy don't you let me show you this?
So I followed her back to ourroom, thinking okay, but she
(04:23):
opens her dresser drawer and she's gotnine boyfriends in that top drawer in there,
all named and various sizes and links, and and then she started talking
about like you know how long it'sgod song, booty and stuff, and
she got combo, hello, quicklittle quick. Yeah, it was a
(04:46):
turnout for you, right, obviously, what's that? It was a turnout
for you that she was just doingtoo much? It was too much too
soon. Yeah, you know whatI met you. You know, if
you want to play around a littlebit, okay, let's have some fun.
But I don't needn't meet the wholefamily in the dressery. Just so
you know, that is a commonthing for a lot of women, you
know what I'm saying, Single womenspecifically too, so un married women too.
(05:10):
But the drawer looks a little differentfor them, you know, but
that is a common thing. Sowhat turned you off? It shouldn't be
that, because if grown people dogrown people's stuff here. But I think
it was him saying, I meanher saying things like she want to do
that's heard him say, and notall of it together. Tell me if
I'm wrong, because I heard yousaying you were like, you're down to
(05:33):
do this, but maybe not soquickly and maybe not rush into it.
Basically you're saying, I'm not opposedto going into this drawer. I'm not
opposed to even you know, doingthat, But damn you ain't gonna ask
me like this. Yeah, exactly. We didn't have any build up or
nothing. It was just Yes,It's like if it would have went in
(05:56):
dry or something. You know whatI'm saying. There's a thing. Yeah,
yeah, right, I get it. I get it. So I
feel like what happens here is Idon't know, this is like a common
thing for men. You guys likethe chase more than you like the women
just being there. It feels likeit's a desperate thing for some reason.
But isn't it easy work for mento get it like this? I don't
(06:16):
know. But Kimber's on the phoneright now and kill this. Yeah I'm
here, and I mean how Yeah, I did come on strong. I
gotta say, I gotta appetite.I'm sorry. I wanted to have a
good time, and you know,see, if you could put in that
work I wasn't like trying to scarehim off or whatever, but the day
had gone so well. I guess, I don't know. I just got
(06:39):
kind of got excited. Yeah,I don't know. Maybe it was an
alcohol talking. I don't know.I was a bit aggressive. Okay,
okay, So now that you're admittingthat you were a bit aggressive, James,
what I mean, Let's be honest, man, it sounds like you
down to hook up. But maybethat just kind of threw you for a
loop. It really did it withthe energy put me real off and I
(07:00):
just didn't know where to take it. So I just got out of there.
Okay, Okay, So okay,well, I'm sorry about that.
I would definitely look like to havea second date. Like I felt like
we had a real good time,you know, and I don't want to
see what that thing. Let's getit on. Okay, that's the second
time she said that down. Don'tworry. Okay, I put it down,
don't worry, let's do it.I'm okay with this. Yeah we
(07:23):
should. I think. So Jameswas a little scared in the beginning.
I don't know he really about thatlife, but I guess you'll find out.
Still kendo. We got to takeit a little slope. We take
it a little slow, but likeI'm here for this, let's do it.
Damn challenge accepted per James. Well, you know what, I'm happy
that we made a second I don'tknow if it's a day, I don't
(07:44):
know what. Connection n't be aconnection. You'll do something on that second
day, y'all enjoy each other's time. Well, thank you. There it
is. Second date update CK Carmenb. Ninety five
Confident. Second date update, Ckand Carmen is be ninety five. We
have Kindrell on the phone. She'strying to see if she can get hooked
up with James. Okay, SoI met James. We went on on
a date. The date went reallywell. Uh, we had dinner.
Dinner was delicious, right right.We went to a yardhouse at River Park,
okay, and went to the movies. All was good. I felt
(00:22):
like he had rizzed, you know. So the deal was that we were
going to head back to my placeand see where the night goes. Okay,
And we got back to my placeand you know, it was all
cool, but then he said hehad to like get up early and meet
with his boss, and I kindof didn't know what was going on.
So he left and we haven't plannedfor a second date. But he's not
(00:46):
calling me back, and you know, I want to see him again.
I want to see where that dangcan do. You know, we had
good he didn't get you that day. I just want to know why not.
Okay makes sense. So I obviouslyyou're trying to finish off what it
started that night exactly. Okay,Hey, she said, I want to
(01:10):
see what that thing can do rightnow, it seems like they had a
good time for them to go fromthe date to the plan is to go
back home, and they did makeit back home, but then something went
wrong or maybe he really did havehis boss call him up. Yeah,
I mean, but something suddenly happened, like yeah, you're a guy,
it's date number one, you goback to her house. I mean,
(01:32):
most dudes are like, let's getit. Yeah, let's get it.
I mean I could, I couldsay that maybe he was trying to be
a gentleman, but that's rare thathe's gonna pass up on something, but
very true. I mean, thereare some people, you know, they're
the open up the door, holdinghands type, like, hey, you
know, it's the first date.I don't know if that's cool, but
they might not just say that insteadof lying right, it's like say goodbye
(01:53):
at the door a little too.It's like, look, I definitely want
to see you, to see youagain, but I want to show you
that this is not what I'm heretopics exactly exactly. Okay, But yeah,
so since then, he's been mI a no call back, no
nothing, No, I haven't heardof me. I reached out, I've
called, I texted, and Ihaven't heard a thing. All right,
Well here's the thing. We haveJames number. We're gonna give James a
(02:15):
call. We're gonna see if wecan make a second date happen. Also
trying to figure out why he dippedout so abruptly. Okay, but are
you okay with that? Yeah?All right, I'm calling James right now.
C K and Carmen B ninety fiveSecond date Update. We're back.
We think we have James on thephone right now. CK and Carmen B
ninety five Second date Update. Wegot to see why he left Ken draw
(02:36):
high and dry. Is this James? Yeah, Hey, James, how
are you doing a c K andCarmen from B ninety five? Sorry,
man, I know a little time, we'll woke him up or something.
Oh you know from what do yousay? Yes, c K and Carmen
from B ninety five, James wouldcall him because we're doing a second date
update. You recently went on adate with somebody. But before we get
(02:58):
into that, now that kind ofwaking up a little bit, can we
have your permission to continue this phonecall? Uh? Yeah, yeah,
all right? All right, SoJames recently went on a date. Talk
to us. Please let us know. Do you remember who you went on
a date with? Yeah, ofcourse, Oh okay, let us know.
So so you went on a datewith Kendra. Yeah, and you
(03:22):
know, Kendraw was great. Wehad fun. I thought it was a
good time, right right. Idon't know what else you want me to
say. Well, I mean,from what we understanding, if you ever
heard the second date up date beforewe did talk to Kendra, but you
left kind of abruptly, like youhad a good time, went to yard,
announced, went to the movies overthere, river Park. Next thing,
(03:43):
you know, you you kind ofwent back to her place and then
dipped out. Yeah. I meanthat's there's a real easy explanation. She
was doing too much, that's allit was. It was she came on
real strong, real quick, andit was too much. Yeah. But
if that was a case, whywould you then choose to go down to
(04:03):
her house. I mean, you'regrown people here, we're talking about grown
adults. Okay, here, letme let me let me show you what
happened. Okay, So everything wasgreat, we were having fun. You
know, we get back to herhouse. Everything's looking good. Uh,
but then she's like here. Whywhy don't you let me show you this?
So I followed her back to ourroom, thinking okay, but she
(04:23):
opens her dresser drawer and she's gotnine boyfriends in that top drawer in there,
all named and various sizes and links, and and then she started talking
about like you know how long it'sgod song, booty and stuff, and
she got combo, hello, quicklittle quick. Yeah, it was a
(04:46):
turnout for you, right, obviously, what's that? It was a turnout
for you that she was just doingtoo much? It was too much too
soon. Yeah, you know whatI met you. You know, if
you want to play around a littlebit, okay, let's have some fun.
But I don't needn't meet the wholefamily in the dressery. Just so
you know, that is a commonthing for a lot of women, you
know what I'm saying, Single womenspecifically too, so un married women too.
(05:10):
But the drawer looks a little differentfor them, you know, but
that is a common thing. Sowhat turned you off? It shouldn't be
that, because if grown people dogrown people's stuff here. But I think
it was him saying, I meanher saying things like she want to do
that's heard him say, and notall of it together. Tell me if
I'm wrong, because I heard yousaying you were like, you're down to
(05:33):
do this, but maybe not soquickly and maybe not rush into it.
Basically you're saying, I'm not opposedto going into this drawer. I'm not
opposed to even you know, doingthat, But damn you ain't gonna ask
me like this. Yeah, exactly. We didn't have any build up or
nothing. It was just Yes,It's like if it would have went in
(05:56):
dry or something. You know whatI'm saying. There's a thing. Yeah,
yeah, right, I get it. I get it. So I
feel like what happens here is Idon't know, this is like a common
thing for men. You guys likethe chase more than you like the women
just being there. It feels likeit's a desperate thing for some reason.
But isn't it easy work for mento get it like this? I don't
(06:16):
know. But Kimber's on the phoneright now and kill this. Yeah I'm
here, and I mean how Yeah, I did come on strong. I
gotta say, I gotta appetite.I'm sorry. I wanted to have a
good time, and you know,see, if you could put in that
work I wasn't like trying to scarehim off or whatever, but the day
had gone so well. I guess, I don't know. I just got
(06:39):
kind of got excited. Yeah,I don't know. Maybe it was an
alcohol talking. I don't know.I was a bit aggressive. Okay,
okay, So now that you're admittingthat you were a bit aggressive, James,
what I mean, Let's be honest, man, it sounds like you
down to hook up. But maybethat just kind of threw you for a
loop. It really did it withthe energy put me real off and I
(07:00):
just didn't know where to take it. So I just got out of there.
Okay, Okay, So okay,well, I'm sorry about that.
I would definitely look like to havea second date. Like I felt like
we had a real good time,you know, and I don't want to
see what that thing. Let's getit on. Okay, that's the second
time she said that down. Don'tworry. Okay, I put it down,
don't worry, let's do it.I'm okay with this. Yeah we
(07:23):
should. I think. So Jameswas a little scared in the beginning.
I don't know he really about thatlife, but I guess you'll find out.
Still kendo. We got to takeit a little slope. We take
it a little slow, but likeI'm here for this, let's do it.
Damn challenge accepted per James. Well, you know what, I'm happy
that we made a second I don'tknow if it's a day, I don't
(07:44):
know what. Connection n't be aconnection. You'll do something on that second
day, y'all enjoy each other's time. Well, thank you. There it
is. Second date update CK Carmenb. Ninety five
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