June 5, 2023 • 7 mins
Wait a minute, that's definaitly not Netflixing and Chillin! CK and Carmen in a 2nd Date Update!
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(00:00):
Second date update, Ck and Carmen'sbeing einety five. Hopefully we could play
the role of Cupid this morning.Yeah, you know, we we actually
we met on Tinder and we justclipped over the fact that, like,
we both love to travel, soI was excited to meet someone else who
like that. And you know,she's a CPA, which is pretty cool.
I work in a bookstore, andyeah, we just we went to
(00:22):
dinner, had a really great time, and you know, I thought it
went so great that I actually invitedher back to my place. Were a
little netflicks and chill, okay,okay, yeah, yeah, and I
thought we had this amazing time,not a real connection, and I mean,
honestly, I'm really pumped on her, and I was hoping that she'd
(00:42):
get back to me, so weget to get together again, like real
soon. But havn't heard a thing. So at your place, it was
obviously a good connection. It washeading the right direction too, right,
That's what I was saying. ButI don't know. I don't know if
she's too busy with the work,you know, master phone, or I
just I don't know what. It'sdriving me crazy. So I was hoping
(01:04):
y'all, Well, you came tothe right spot, man, CK and
Carmen Being ninety five. Is whatwe do inside a second date update.
We try to play the role ofCupid. Now, you're right, there's
so many different things that could havehappened here, busy at work, lost
the phone. But whatever the casemay be, we're gonna get to the
bottom of things. We're gonna figureit out. We're gonna get Sarah on
the phone and see if we canmake it happen. Awesome, I really
(01:26):
appreciate it. So what's Sarah gonnasay? You're gonna find out next HEK
and Carmen. Here we are insidethis second date update. Like I said,
trying to play the role of Cupid. It's Being ninety five, so
he got ghosted on by Sarah.But I believe we got Sarah on the
phone right now. CK and CarmenBeing ninety five. Hello, Hello,
is this Sarah? Hey Sarah,how are you doing it? Ck and
(01:47):
Carmen from Being ninety five. Goodmorning, Hey you guys, Hey,
good morning, and we love youtoo, Yes, we do. Well,
you know what Sarah. We arecalling because we do this thing called
a second date update. If youlove us then you know it, and
you happened to be on a seconddate. Update. Oh okay, I
think I know what this is about. Is this about Derek? Yes,
it is. But before we goany further, I do have to ask
(02:07):
your permission to continue this phone conversationon the radio. Are you good with
that? Yeah, I'm good withthat. Alright, alright, alright,
now tell us about this date withDerek. Oh, my gosh, I
mean the Derek. The Derek.The date was good with Derek. Uh,
we definitely had a connection, andI mean he had a lot of
good quality that loved his traveling spirit. The thing is, I wasn't early
(02:31):
in love with the fact that helives with his mom. You know,
when we were out, he mentionednothing of it, nothing is living with
his mom, or that he evenhad a roommate, just that he had
this awesome two bedroom house, normalin Clovis. And so when we went
back to his house, I wasjust expecting it to be us. Well
(02:51):
then here we were with his momin the kitchen. So it's like more
like Netflix and she'll turned into milkand cookies. Yeah, that's a little
bit off. His mama was givingy'all milk and cookies. Yes, and
like he would keep yelling for her, like what show did we watch with?
Can you bring us finish that?The other? Like mom the meat
(03:12):
loaf? Like I was just reallyuncomfortable. Oh wow, you know so
his mom is for real, likekicking him at the house, like living
with him like a legit roommate.Yes. Yes, at one point I
even sat like the opposite side ofthe couch hoping he would catch it him.
But no, Vanoville. Well hethinks it's a normal thing, because
for him to invite you over likeis nothing. Didn't even mention it that
(03:35):
so he seems comfortable. Yeah,real comfortable, And I'm sorry, I
just I'm not at that point.Okay, Well here's the thing, and
you know the second date update works. Derek has been listening in on this,
Derek, Yeah, you couldn't giveit her heads up? Wow,
I mean you just know, oreven being a homeowner, like well,
(03:58):
like that big of a deal,you know, like it allows me to
leave the life that I really wantto live. You know, she doesn't
charge me rant which is awesome.And wait, wait, wait, wait,
hold on a second. Yeah,so this whole time I thought you
were the homeowner. You said shedoesn't charge you rent. Well, I
mean I am a homeowner because it'smy child's at home, so it will
be mine one day some day,Okay, all right, okay, so
(04:24):
that's why you've been able to doso much travel. Okay, now I
get it, all right, soit all makes sense now. So you
know this is not normal, right, Derek? You know this is not
something that uh, most of doltsjust fine like, oh this isn't this
is normal? And you know Ilive with my mom, not even you
live, you know, with yourmom because she lives with you. No,
you live with her and that's herhouse. Yeah, but my point
(04:48):
is, Carmen, when he said, yeah, we went back, we
went we did the Netflix and chillthing. Come on now, yeah,
come on, yeah, yeah,this isn't what way? Really, this
isn't what we mean when we saynetflix and chill. Right. It was
really awkward more than anything else.So you don't find it weird at all,
Drek, that she's awful off bythis. Why would it be weird?
(05:10):
I'm I'm a loving person. Ilove my mom, you know,
I take care of women. Like, what's weird about that? I think
she takes care of you. Actually, how do you dare? Yeah,
I'm thirty one, thirty one,okay, and listen, no shame,
you know what I mean. It'sjust that it's not it's not common for
(05:33):
you to say that's Netflix and chillwhen you still live with your mom and
you didn't explain that to her,you didn't give her heads up. It's
just and then on top of that, your mom was mingling with you guys
right, making cookies. My mom'sgreat, Like, of course she's gonna
mingle with it. I mean,I get it. Your mom is great.
You love your mom, and that'sgonna be your home one day.
Yeah, but it's just not somethingSarah's into. Yeah, I don't think
(05:56):
there's gonna be a second day andjust for future, like that's not really
meant flixing and chilling. Yeah,it's not teach them true, true,
true, No, this is true. I'm sure you can find someone that
will be okay with this. It'sjust for Sarah. It's not grown enough
for her. You know what Ispoke for you, Sarah. Um,
I'm gonna let you speak for you. So our job is to make a
(06:17):
second date happen. I know.Derek is really into you. Um,
he traveled until this obviously, hetravels the world. As you can see,
he's a world traveler because all hismoney goes to doing all sorts of
fun stuff. He doesn't pay rentand bills. Right, but would you
like to go on another date withDerek? You know it's a no for
me. I'm sorry, Derek,I just, um, I think we're
(06:39):
in different places. Yeah, yeah, that's all it is. Yeah,
different places. You know what I'msaying in life right now. And it's
just it's not gonna make sense foryou guys to link up again. I
mean, that's that's fine. Youknow you're gonna miss out. My mom's
a terrific cook and she would havecooked for you. But you know whatever,
Well I cooked too, so Ithink I'll be all right. Yeah,
(07:00):
not as good as Sarah, butokay, alright, alright, alrighty.
Well, you know what, Derek, I'm sorry we couldn't make a
love connection happen for you today.I know that you're a homeowner in Clovis
and that's gonna be your house oneday. Well he's not a homeowner just
yet, true, but it's hischildhood home. It's been his rooms my
childhood home for a long time hasbeen his room, same poster has been
(07:24):
there since he was twelve. Sayagain to each his own, it's just
not for Sarah and many women outthere and no women out there. Um,
sorry, I shouldn't have said that. I'm sorry. We couldn't make
sure you are a great person.It's just not for Sarah. I'm sorry
we couldn't make it happen. Allright, Um, there you go.
Second date update and CK and Carmen'sbeing ninety five.
Second date update, Ck and Carmen'sbeing einety five. Hopefully we could play
the role of Cupid this morning.Yeah, you know, we we actually
we met on Tinder and we justclipped over the fact that, like,
we both love to travel, soI was excited to meet someone else who
like that. And you know,she's a CPA, which is pretty cool.
I work in a bookstore, andyeah, we just we went to
(00:22):
dinner, had a really great time, and you know, I thought it
went so great that I actually invitedher back to my place. Were a
little netflicks and chill, okay,okay, yeah, yeah, and I
thought we had this amazing time,not a real connection, and I mean,
honestly, I'm really pumped on her, and I was hoping that she'd
(00:42):
get back to me, so weget to get together again, like real
soon. But havn't heard a thing. So at your place, it was
obviously a good connection. It washeading the right direction too, right,
That's what I was saying. ButI don't know. I don't know if
she's too busy with the work,you know, master phone, or I
just I don't know what. It'sdriving me crazy. So I was hoping
(01:04):
y'all, Well, you came tothe right spot, man, CK and
Carmen Being ninety five. Is whatwe do inside a second date update.
We try to play the role ofCupid. Now, you're right, there's
so many different things that could havehappened here, busy at work, lost
the phone. But whatever the casemay be, we're gonna get to the
bottom of things. We're gonna figureit out. We're gonna get Sarah on
the phone and see if we canmake it happen. Awesome, I really
(01:26):
appreciate it. So what's Sarah gonnasay? You're gonna find out next HEK
and Carmen. Here we are insidethis second date update. Like I said,
trying to play the role of Cupid. It's Being ninety five, so
he got ghosted on by Sarah.But I believe we got Sarah on the
phone right now. CK and CarmenBeing ninety five. Hello, Hello,
is this Sarah? Hey Sarah,how are you doing it? Ck and
(01:47):
Carmen from Being ninety five. Goodmorning, Hey you guys, Hey,
good morning, and we love youtoo, Yes, we do. Well,
you know what Sarah. We arecalling because we do this thing called
a second date update. If youlove us then you know it, and
you happened to be on a seconddate. Update. Oh okay, I
think I know what this is about. Is this about Derek? Yes,
it is. But before we goany further, I do have to ask
(02:07):
your permission to continue this phone conversationon the radio. Are you good with
that? Yeah, I'm good withthat. Alright, alright, alright,
now tell us about this date withDerek. Oh, my gosh, I
mean the Derek. The Derek.The date was good with Derek. Uh,
we definitely had a connection, andI mean he had a lot of
good quality that loved his traveling spirit. The thing is, I wasn't early
(02:31):
in love with the fact that helives with his mom. You know,
when we were out, he mentionednothing of it, nothing is living with
his mom, or that he evenhad a roommate, just that he had
this awesome two bedroom house, normalin Clovis. And so when we went
back to his house, I wasjust expecting it to be us. Well
(02:51):
then here we were with his momin the kitchen. So it's like more
like Netflix and she'll turned into milkand cookies. Yeah, that's a little
bit off. His mama was givingy'all milk and cookies. Yes, and
like he would keep yelling for her, like what show did we watch with?
Can you bring us finish that?The other? Like mom the meat
(03:12):
loaf? Like I was just reallyuncomfortable. Oh wow, you know so
his mom is for real, likekicking him at the house, like living
with him like a legit roommate.Yes. Yes, at one point I
even sat like the opposite side ofthe couch hoping he would catch it him.
But no, Vanoville. Well hethinks it's a normal thing, because
for him to invite you over likeis nothing. Didn't even mention it that
(03:35):
so he seems comfortable. Yeah,real comfortable, And I'm sorry, I
just I'm not at that point.Okay, Well here's the thing, and
you know the second date update works. Derek has been listening in on this,
Derek, Yeah, you couldn't giveit her heads up? Wow,
I mean you just know, oreven being a homeowner, like well,
(03:58):
like that big of a deal,you know, like it allows me to
leave the life that I really wantto live. You know, she doesn't
charge me rant which is awesome.And wait, wait, wait, wait,
hold on a second. Yeah,so this whole time I thought you
were the homeowner. You said shedoesn't charge you rent. Well, I
mean I am a homeowner because it'smy child's at home, so it will
be mine one day some day,Okay, all right, okay, so
(04:24):
that's why you've been able to doso much travel. Okay, now I
get it, all right, soit all makes sense now. So you
know this is not normal, right, Derek? You know this is not
something that uh, most of doltsjust fine like, oh this isn't this
is normal? And you know Ilive with my mom, not even you
live, you know, with yourmom because she lives with you. No,
you live with her and that's herhouse. Yeah, but my point
(04:48):
is, Carmen, when he said, yeah, we went back, we
went we did the Netflix and chillthing. Come on now, yeah,
come on, yeah, yeah,this isn't what way? Really, this
isn't what we mean when we saynetflix and chill. Right. It was
really awkward more than anything else.So you don't find it weird at all,
Drek, that she's awful off bythis. Why would it be weird?
(05:10):
I'm I'm a loving person. Ilove my mom, you know,
I take care of women. Like, what's weird about that? I think
she takes care of you. Actually, how do you dare? Yeah,
I'm thirty one, thirty one,okay, and listen, no shame,
you know what I mean. It'sjust that it's not it's not common for
(05:33):
you to say that's Netflix and chillwhen you still live with your mom and
you didn't explain that to her,you didn't give her heads up. It's
just and then on top of that, your mom was mingling with you guys
right, making cookies. My mom'sgreat, Like, of course she's gonna
mingle with it. I mean,I get it. Your mom is great.
You love your mom, and that'sgonna be your home one day.
Yeah, but it's just not somethingSarah's into. Yeah, I don't think
(05:56):
there's gonna be a second day andjust for future, like that's not really
meant flixing and chilling. Yeah,it's not teach them true, true,
true, No, this is true. I'm sure you can find someone that
will be okay with this. It'sjust for Sarah. It's not grown enough
for her. You know what Ispoke for you, Sarah. Um,
I'm gonna let you speak for you. So our job is to make a
(06:17):
second date happen. I know.Derek is really into you. Um,
he traveled until this obviously, hetravels the world. As you can see,
he's a world traveler because all hismoney goes to doing all sorts of
fun stuff. He doesn't pay rentand bills. Right, but would you
like to go on another date withDerek? You know it's a no for
me. I'm sorry, Derek,I just, um, I think we're
(06:39):
in different places. Yeah, yeah, that's all it is. Yeah,
different places. You know what I'msaying in life right now. And it's
just it's not gonna make sense foryou guys to link up again. I
mean, that's that's fine. Youknow you're gonna miss out. My mom's
a terrific cook and she would havecooked for you. But you know whatever,
Well I cooked too, so Ithink I'll be all right. Yeah,
(07:00):
not as good as Sarah, butokay, alright, alright, alrighty.
Well, you know what, Derek, I'm sorry we couldn't make a
love connection happen for you today.I know that you're a homeowner in Clovis
and that's gonna be your house oneday. Well he's not a homeowner just
yet, true, but it's hischildhood home. It's been his rooms my
childhood home for a long time hasbeen his room, same poster has been
(07:24):
there since he was twelve. Sayagain to each his own, it's just
not for Sarah and many women outthere and no women out there. Um,
sorry, I shouldn't have said that. I'm sorry. We couldn't make
sure you are a great person.It's just not for Sarah. I'm sorry
we couldn't make it happen. Allright, Um, there you go.
Second date update and CK and Carmen'sbeing ninety five.
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