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(00:00):
If we go, y'all this timefor a second date. Update to Ck
and Carming it's b ninety five.So you went on the first day,
you had a great time with her, and then she ghosted on you.
What happened? Man talked to us? Now, okay, so it was
a pretty good date. We wentto we went to like an escape from
okay, and it was really fun. I mean we didn't end up escape
(00:20):
things, but it was still likea bunch of fun. So we had
fun. We hung out there andand then afterwards you went to a ball
had a few drinks, and thenwe went back to my place and we
had obously, we had a reallygood night and I made breakfast the next
morning. Okay, all right,so she stayed over a little bit.
(00:41):
It was a good time, Yeah, it was. It was good.
It was good. It was Ithought we had a girl. I thought
we had a reading chemistry. Andwe planned to meet up again, like
you planned, like to hang outagain, and then I just having her
back from what did you make forbreakfast? What did you make for breakfast?
It was good? This was likewhy I'm let and like that baking
off that job like this a regularbreakfast. Let them all right, Okay,
(01:06):
not bad? Okay. Now whenshe left, she seemed like she
was in a good mood, happyto see you. Yeah, I mean
when when she woke, when likeeverything seemed to be going perfect, Like
we were talking, we had funto breakfast, we had good conversations,
and then when she left, wehad planned to meet up again, like
like, oh we should get tohang out again, but blah blah,
and then she disappeared. Yeah,like I mean trying contact, you know,
(01:32):
that's what I was going to asknext. Yeah, I tried like
two or three techs. I don'twant to like bow a phone up,
but I found like two or threetanks and she did drew pride of any
of them, maybe like she'd readthem, like you know, you can
see it from the rest attacks left. That's worse. Yeah, now,
yeah, that's that means something orshe was busy. We're gonna hold for
(01:53):
that. Yeah, I mean,I mean maybe I don't want to be
to dude to keep phot up.So yeah, you don't want to do
that, I'm right now. Imean it sounds all good. You guys
had a great date, did thewhole escape room thing. You even made
her omlets the amer thing is noteasy to make the following day. Like
if you would have said, ohI had some a goos or whatever,
I'd be like, okay, bro, come on, but you olets.
(02:13):
Yeah, yeah, you went allout. Clearly y'all had fun. You
had a good vibe in the morning, because you know, you know when
it's good. But then you're like, what the hell could have been?
You know, killed it? Ordid you know? Does she have something
going on at home that you don'tknow about? Oh? Yeah, so
very true. So here's what we'regonna do. We're gonna get Vale on
the phone right now, and we'regonna see if we can make a second
date happen. Is that all right, Curtis? Yeah? What's Value gonna
(02:35):
say? You're gonna hear it next? Ckn Carmen Second date update inside a
second date update right now with CKand Carmen. Now it's time to track
down Val. Get her on thephone. Value there. Oh hey,
Val, So it's Ck and Carmenbe ninety five. Do you mind coming
on the radio with us? Imean a guy like okay, so vow
you know we're calling you for asecond date update, meaning you went on
(02:58):
a first date. Do you rememberthat? Yeah? Yeah, So who
was it? Well, I mean, I know you're calling about Curtis right
right? Yeah about it? Okay, Well we I mean we had a
great time, you know, andI mean everything that could have went right
like it it went right. Likehe like he hit all the right buttons,
(03:21):
like he's just a sexy guy,you know, Like I don't know,
it just like it was all gooduntil the thing that kind of threw
me for a loop. Was ithe had on this song underwear and I
don't know, like I've never seenthat before but whatever, So like I
don't know, it was like,but it was I mean, yeah,
(03:46):
yeah, and I was like,like, why wouldn't he just three bought?
Why just the point of that,like that's just what you know,
unless he I don't know, LikeI don't know. That's all right,
we understand. So the song underwearthree for a loop, but I mean
through all of us for a loopback? Yeah. Well okay. So
the next day at work, likeI showed a picture of him to my
co I didn't tell her about thesong thing, but I showed a picture
(04:09):
of him to my coworker, andI found out he's a male stripper,
and he has a baby with mycoworker's friend, and he might have hooked
up with some slutty women that paidhim to strip in the path, and
so like I just kept hearing storyafter story of like all this stuff of
him being a stripper and then likehow he is to this chick's friend,
and like for you, well,what really mess it up was that thong?
(04:33):
And now it all makes sense.Male stripper too much, Curtis too
much, Curtis, Yeah, talkto us man, by the way,
Curtis is on the phone mail stripperman. I mean, yeah, I
make I make good money that.I don't know. Why was that a
(04:54):
s say you were a dad though, and it's cool that you're a dad,
but like you're not treating them all. I don't know. I don't
know. So why was that asecret though? Why didn't you, you
know, mention that to her?That's just here that I am. I
mean, I am a dad,but I mean I mean obviously, baby,
when I was gonna have her friend'sgonna be on her side, Like
I mean, that's just I mean, it's obvious, like we were not
(05:15):
together, so clearly we don't getalong because we're not together. Okay,
but but she's like stripping. Youdidn't feel like you need to tell her
that, No, I mean noton her first day. I don't sell
you. I mean I don't know. I mean it's not like I'm not
I'm not gonna hide it. Likeif she asked me, I would have
been like, oh, yeah,what do I do? She said he
was kind of between jobs right now, and I was like, okay,
(05:38):
I mean, well, you know, I mean stripping. You know,
it's hard to say, like,hey, what do you do as a
professional, I'm a male stripper.It is hard, though, too to
come out with that. On thefirst date. He was wearing part of
his outfit on date number one,so that could have been clue number one.
That's true. That was that wasa little hint that he, you
know, only guys I know thatmale stripper. Yeah, too much?
(06:00):
Too much hook like too many storiesis like hook ups and stuff and him
going to like that's the right partiesand stuff, and like like, I
just too much. What if hewas willing to change that for you,
Maybe you guys get along and heends up dropping that career. Yeah,
okay, first of all, it'sokay, you're adding too much on it.
I'm good though, No, no, because that's not like I know
(06:20):
he's had a good date. Yeah, but you know you're like, I
just won't be able to handle.I mean, you know, Carmen,
you've been to many male strip shows. First of all, No, I
have not. And you see whathappens to some of those male strip shows.
I have hosted a few, andyou see what happens when the guy
takes the towel. Yeah, there'sa lot that goes on. And you're
right, there's you know, somepeople disappear just saying you're right. But
(06:46):
maybe he could have changed that.Maybe that's something that it wasn't. He
wasn't taken too serious because he's singles, So why not just spare the moment?
I mean, I mean, mything is like, if I'm single
and I'm working at this job andI want to people when you want,
please or whatever like that, Butwhat if I want to do I do
it. If I don't, Idon't. You're right, I wasn't in
a relationship doing any of this.Like I'm a single dude, I'm allowed
(07:10):
to do single dude stuff exactly.No, I am totally with you on
that. One. That's why Idon't think, you know, it's a
reason to just kind of mind toeat his own I mean, he's a
single guy doing single guy stuff.Yeah, well that's great for something,
Like I think he should go outwith somebody. Then who's cool with all
that? Like, I'm just not. I can't deal with all that.
Like I don't want to think ofhim like rubbing up on everybody at night
(07:32):
for work, Like that's real.That's not cool with me. I understand
that some people can handle in somepop. You can't, So yeah,
I don't. I don't blame you, and there's nothing wrong with that.
You don't want your man rubbing upon other women. You don't want your
man collecting dollars in that song.I mean, that's the first time you're
doing too much details just right now, the first time. Just listen.
(07:54):
I am a little bump that youguys, you know, aren't going to
make it work because it sounds like, yeah, it did sound like you
guys had a great vibe, butyou know it was a great vibe.
But it's I mean, what doyou guys can't I can't still much.
You know too many people that knowhim, That's what the problem is,
that's what the bigger problem is.I don't want to get into deep because
I don't know what's been into.I don't want to feel your girl.
(08:16):
Yeah, it's all gravy. It'sunfortunate. But it looks like there's gonna
be no second date. Well,I mean, I appreciate you being artist.
That's cool. All right, thankyou guys so much. And I
mean, I'm sorry we couldn't makeit work. Yeah, so there you
go this morning second date update.Right, he was c king Carmen.
It's being ninety five
If we go, y'all this timefor a second date. Update to Ck
and Carming it's b ninety five.So you went on the first day,
you had a great time with her, and then she ghosted on you.
What happened? Man talked to us? Now, okay, so it was
a pretty good date. We wentto we went to like an escape from
okay, and it was really fun. I mean we didn't end up escape
(00:20):
things, but it was still likea bunch of fun. So we had
fun. We hung out there andand then afterwards you went to a ball
had a few drinks, and thenwe went back to my place and we
had obously, we had a reallygood night and I made breakfast the next
morning. Okay, all right,so she stayed over a little bit.
(00:41):
It was a good time, Yeah, it was. It was good.
It was good. It was Ithought we had a girl. I thought
we had a reading chemistry. Andwe planned to meet up again, like
you planned, like to hang outagain, and then I just having her
back from what did you make forbreakfast? What did you make for breakfast?
It was good? This was likewhy I'm let and like that baking
off that job like this a regularbreakfast. Let them all right, Okay,
(01:06):
not bad? Okay. Now whenshe left, she seemed like she
was in a good mood, happyto see you. Yeah, I mean
when when she woke, when likeeverything seemed to be going perfect, Like
we were talking, we had funto breakfast, we had good conversations,
and then when she left, wehad planned to meet up again, like
like, oh we should get tohang out again, but blah blah,
and then she disappeared. Yeah,like I mean trying contact, you know,
(01:32):
that's what I was going to asknext. Yeah, I tried like
two or three techs. I don'twant to like bow a phone up,
but I found like two or threetanks and she did drew pride of any
of them, maybe like she'd readthem, like you know, you can
see it from the rest attacks left. That's worse. Yeah, now,
yeah, that's that means something orshe was busy. We're gonna hold for
(01:53):
that. Yeah, I mean,I mean maybe I don't want to be
to dude to keep phot up.So yeah, you don't want to do
that, I'm right now. Imean it sounds all good. You guys
had a great date, did thewhole escape room thing. You even made
her omlets the amer thing is noteasy to make the following day. Like
if you would have said, ohI had some a goos or whatever,
I'd be like, okay, bro, come on, but you olets.
(02:13):
Yeah, yeah, you went allout. Clearly y'all had fun. You
had a good vibe in the morning, because you know, you know when
it's good. But then you're like, what the hell could have been?
You know, killed it? Ordid you know? Does she have something
going on at home that you don'tknow about? Oh? Yeah, so
very true. So here's what we'regonna do. We're gonna get Vale on
the phone right now, and we'regonna see if we can make a second
date happen. Is that all right, Curtis? Yeah? What's Value gonna
(02:35):
say? You're gonna hear it next? Ckn Carmen Second date update inside a
second date update right now with CKand Carmen. Now it's time to track
down Val. Get her on thephone. Value there. Oh hey,
Val, So it's Ck and Carmenbe ninety five. Do you mind coming
on the radio with us? Imean a guy like okay, so vow
you know we're calling you for asecond date update, meaning you went on
(02:58):
a first date. Do you rememberthat? Yeah? Yeah, So who
was it? Well, I mean, I know you're calling about Curtis right
right? Yeah about it? Okay, Well we I mean we had a
great time, you know, andI mean everything that could have went right
like it it went right. Likehe like he hit all the right buttons,
(03:21):
like he's just a sexy guy,you know, Like I don't know,
it just like it was all gooduntil the thing that kind of threw
me for a loop. Was ithe had on this song underwear and I
don't know, like I've never seenthat before but whatever, So like I
don't know, it was like,but it was I mean, yeah,
(03:46):
yeah, and I was like,like, why wouldn't he just three bought?
Why just the point of that,like that's just what you know,
unless he I don't know, LikeI don't know. That's all right,
we understand. So the song underwearthree for a loop, but I mean
through all of us for a loopback? Yeah. Well okay. So
the next day at work, likeI showed a picture of him to my
co I didn't tell her about thesong thing, but I showed a picture
(04:09):
of him to my coworker, andI found out he's a male stripper,
and he has a baby with mycoworker's friend, and he might have hooked
up with some slutty women that paidhim to strip in the path, and
so like I just kept hearing storyafter story of like all this stuff of
him being a stripper and then likehow he is to this chick's friend,
and like for you, well,what really mess it up was that thong?
(04:33):
And now it all makes sense.Male stripper too much, Curtis too
much, Curtis, Yeah, talkto us man, by the way,
Curtis is on the phone mail stripperman. I mean, yeah, I
make I make good money that.I don't know. Why was that a
(04:54):
s say you were a dad though, and it's cool that you're a dad,
but like you're not treating them all. I don't know. I don't
know. So why was that asecret though? Why didn't you, you
know, mention that to her?That's just here that I am. I
mean, I am a dad,but I mean I mean obviously, baby,
when I was gonna have her friend'sgonna be on her side, Like
I mean, that's just I mean, it's obvious, like we were not
(05:15):
together, so clearly we don't getalong because we're not together. Okay,
but but she's like stripping. Youdidn't feel like you need to tell her
that, No, I mean noton her first day. I don't sell
you. I mean I don't know. I mean it's not like I'm not
I'm not gonna hide it. Likeif she asked me, I would have
been like, oh, yeah,what do I do? She said he
was kind of between jobs right now, and I was like, okay,
(05:38):
I mean, well, you know, I mean stripping. You know,
it's hard to say, like,hey, what do you do as a
professional, I'm a male stripper.It is hard, though, too to
come out with that. On thefirst date. He was wearing part of
his outfit on date number one,so that could have been clue number one.
That's true. That was that wasa little hint that he, you
know, only guys I know thatmale stripper. Yeah, too much?
(06:00):
Too much hook like too many storiesis like hook ups and stuff and him
going to like that's the right partiesand stuff, and like like, I
just too much. What if hewas willing to change that for you,
Maybe you guys get along and heends up dropping that career. Yeah,
okay, first of all, it'sokay, you're adding too much on it.
I'm good though, No, no, because that's not like I know
(06:20):
he's had a good date. Yeah, but you know you're like, I
just won't be able to handle.I mean, you know, Carmen,
you've been to many male strip shows. First of all, No, I
have not. And you see whathappens to some of those male strip shows.
I have hosted a few, andyou see what happens when the guy
takes the towel. Yeah, there'sa lot that goes on. And you're
right, there's you know, somepeople disappear just saying you're right. But
(06:46):
maybe he could have changed that.Maybe that's something that it wasn't. He
wasn't taken too serious because he's singles, So why not just spare the moment?
I mean, I mean, mything is like, if I'm single
and I'm working at this job andI want to people when you want,
please or whatever like that, Butwhat if I want to do I do
it. If I don't, Idon't. You're right, I wasn't in
a relationship doing any of this.Like I'm a single dude, I'm allowed
(07:10):
to do single dude stuff exactly.No, I am totally with you on
that. One. That's why Idon't think, you know, it's a
reason to just kind of mind toeat his own I mean, he's a
single guy doing single guy stuff.Yeah, well that's great for something,
Like I think he should go outwith somebody. Then who's cool with all
that? Like, I'm just not. I can't deal with all that.
Like I don't want to think ofhim like rubbing up on everybody at night
(07:32):
for work, Like that's real.That's not cool with me. I understand
that some people can handle in somepop. You can't, So yeah,
I don't. I don't blame you, and there's nothing wrong with that.
You don't want your man rubbing upon other women. You don't want your
man collecting dollars in that song.I mean, that's the first time you're
doing too much details just right now, the first time. Just listen.
(07:54):
I am a little bump that youguys, you know, aren't going to
make it work because it sounds like, yeah, it did sound like you
guys had a great vibe, butyou know it was a great vibe.
But it's I mean, what doyou guys can't I can't still much.
You know too many people that knowhim, That's what the problem is,
that's what the bigger problem is.I don't want to get into deep because
I don't know what's been into.I don't want to feel your girl.
(08:16):
Yeah, it's all gravy. It'sunfortunate. But it looks like there's gonna
be no second date. Well,I mean, I appreciate you being artist.
That's cool. All right, thankyou guys so much. And I
mean, I'm sorry we couldn't makeit work. Yeah, so there you
go this morning second date update.Right, he was c king Carmen.
It's being ninety five
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