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(00:00):
Second date up day, gonna helpout. Michael, c K and Carmen
being ninety five talked to us.Michael, Yeah, so I've been seen
the kolk Catherine, and we've beendating for about it. We've probably gone
out seven or eight times, okay, and yeah, things have been going
great. We have great chemistry andshe's lasting it on my jokes, I
mean I thought things are perfect.Anyway, we went out a couple of
(00:22):
nights ago and they seem like againand went really well. I was a
gentleman. I have no idea whathappened. But yeah, now she's just
disappeared, okay in two days.I have thee would happened. So you've
been out several times, but they'renormally when we do a second date up
day, you go on the firstdate and then you get ghosted on.
But you went on like seven oreight dates, and then now you're ghosted
(00:44):
on. Yeah exactly. It's soweird. I mean you had thought at
this point, you know, wewere comfortable enough in our relationship. I
have no idea would happened, right, No, I mean, especially since
you've been on several days, likeeverything seems to be going good. Now,
did you do anything different on thislast date, say something different.
Nope, nothing, nothing different,that's right. So weird, and you
(01:04):
guys have been having a good timeand the vibe has been really cool,
get really great. That's why Ikeep going over to my mind. I'm
like, I don't know what findingme, so so I figure, you
know, bring you guys in.She considered out for me to. Sorry,
I need some help. Okay,No, we could definitely help out.
Michael, that's not a problem.I mean it seems like you guys
definitely have been vibing. I meanyou've already been on seven or eight dates
(01:27):
with her, so I'm wondering,like, what the hell happened recently that
made her go Nope, not theguy not calling, not even texting you
back, Yeah exactly, not evenworth attacks saying I don't want to see
you anymore. Just posted me.All right, So here's we're gonna do.
We're gonna get Catherine on the phone. We're gonna see if we can
make a guess in this case,another date and just get to the bottom
(01:48):
of this and figure out what happened. Yeah exactly. It's crazy. What's
Catherine gonna say? You're gonna findout next k and Carmen be ninety five.
We're in the middle of a seconddate update, so we already spoke
to Michael. Now we gotta Catherineon the phone. We're inside a second
date update. CK and Carmen beingeighty five. Gotta figure out why Katherine
ghost to my man? Katherine?Hey, is this uh Katherine? Hello?
(02:09):
Yeah, Hey, Katherine, howyou doing a Ck and Carmen from
being eighty five? Good morning?Hi. Hi. So we're calling because
we do this thing called a seconddate update. And before we go any
further, I have to ask youpermission to continue this phone call. Are
you good with that? Use yourvoice and all that stuff. Okay,
(02:30):
okay, Well the reason we're calling, I'm not gonna make you guess.
You've recently been dating Michael and havinga good time. Everything seems to be
going well, and then out ofnowhere, you just stopped communicating with Michael
period A. Yeah, so howdisgusted I am with him? Wait a
(02:52):
minute, but from my understanding,y'all went on like seven or eight dates
like it wasn't like one date,and then everything with sour like y'all I've
been laughing, flirting and the chemistrywas good. Well, it was fine
until what he did on the lastdate. I'm no guy has ever embarrassed
me like that. Damn Well whathappened? So when we got to the
(03:15):
date, there were no open parkingspots and except for the handicap section right
by the restaurant. So Michael sawthis opening and he not only parked there,
but then he asked me to limpinto the restaurant. And no,
no, yes, no, Holdon a second Okay. I don't know
(03:43):
if you've heard the second date update before, but Michael is on the
phone, right Michael, Catherine.I know that you guys haven't talked,
and I can see why you madat him. But Michael, what's the
big deal? Bro? Come onnow, y'all going on a date,
trying to have a good Um,he's a day and then you're like handicap
parking you want her to limp intothe restaurant? Who wasn't a big deal.
(04:05):
Honestly, there was no spots andlike we got a really great spot.
I mean it was right in frontof the place. It was perfect.
Oh my goodness, little bit likeit was like, you know,
thirty feet she said a whimple,Catherine. It was a big deal.
It is so disrespectful to people whoactually have a disability. It is embarrassing
(04:29):
to me. It's like, whodoes that? What a man does that?
Date? Like? It's disgusting.I have disgusted. I don't blame
you. I mean, come onnow, I mean, part walk you're
okay with it. You don't haveto take the handicap spot and then pretend
to have a disability. I thoughtshe supposed to be on my side while
(04:54):
well, because I mean that's youtook the handicap parking and then you asked
her to limp into the restaurant.Put it this way. I want a
second date to happen more than anybody. But damn, that's crazy you.
It doesn't sound what you're on rightside. I mean it was it was
those spots. Okay, we're justdoing our best. We're just turning up
some dinner. Now you're sorry.She's mad at me. Now you're mad.
(05:14):
I'm not mad at you. Ijust think it's insane. But I
do want to know this. Didshe walk in with a limp? I
mean when he asked me, Iwas so shocked. I kind of went
along with it no myself. Wait, so you actually limped in? Yeah,
(05:36):
I can't. It was it wasn'tthat crazy to me. This doesn't
even sound real. But I mean, Catherine, I know you're disgusted with
yourself, and I know that thisis something you've never done before. Now,
Michael, you're just you're wrong foreven suggesting it and even parking in
(05:58):
the handicapped spot on the fact thatyou kind of went along with it and
limped him, and then you knowthat you guys already flirt a little bit,
laugh a little bit. You gota great chemistry. You've been on
seven or eight dates. Can youjust chalk this up to something stupid and
say, look, I'm discussing itmyself. I'm discussing that you even suggested
(06:19):
this. But I still like you. I actually like you so much.
I went along with it at first. No, because I wasn't because I
liked him. It was because Ifelt pressured. Oh and he parks in
the spot and then just tells meto limp and I felt so pressured and
so uncomfortable. I mean, Idid it, but I didn't agree with
(06:40):
it, and I wouldn't have doneit had I really had a chance to
think about it. So no,I did that because I felt pressured,
and no, I didn't want togo out with him. Michael. I
mean, I'm not the one thatshe did, you know what I mean.
So I don't know why I'm thebad guy. I don't want to
told me to do it. Iwent to do the restaurant you did,
(07:01):
But I'm the bad guy. Ohyeah, Man. First of all,
this is a crazy second date update. Second of all, I kind of
understand where she's coming from. Imean, it's kind of an embarrassing situation
to be put in. I meanI'm laughing just because you actually did it.
Like I'm like, first thing is, i'd be like, hey,
don't park there. No, no, no, we can go to the
back and we could walk. We'lldo it, but we're not parking here
and I'm not limping in. Butyou actually limped in, so and that's
(07:25):
why I kind of laughed. Butfrom the sounds of it, it doesn't
seem like she wants to see youagain, Michael, and that's why she
cut you all so abruptly. Yeah, I mean, I get it,
you're upset about it, and wedon't have to do that again. It's
that's a big issue. No,but you didn't. It is a big
issue, and no, we're notgoing to do it again. And the
(07:46):
fact is is that you went like, you didn't ask me, Hey,
I'm should I park in this spot? Would you pretend to live? You
didn't. You parked in the spotand then put me in this situation,
and then like as you're getting out, you're like, hey, you need
to limp. And I was soembarrassed that we were in the spot in
the first place that I did itand I played along. But it wasn't
(08:07):
really a choice. It just doesn'tseem like it's gonna happen. Michael.
I'm sorry, man, you've beenripping me the entire time. Hey,
I gave a scenario in which itkind of made sense, but it doesn't
make sense. I mean, everyonethat's listening right now is like, you
wrong for this, Michael. Youjust read me out to be the background
the entire time. Michael, Iwas on your side, man, I
really was. You parked in thehandicapped spot, you had a poor girl
(08:30):
limping into the restaurant. Bro Itried trusted you. I called you to
help me, and he's just beenripping me the entire time, making me
look like some terrible person, Catherine. Was it my fault? Catherine?
How is he not soft aware enoughto understand that you're reacting reasonably to something
insane that he did? Like,you have to take ownership of this time
that he conveniently left out of ourinitial conversation. When I said, hey,
(08:54):
man, was there anything that youmay have done or was there something
that might have happened that was differentthan any other date that y'all went on,
He's like, oh no, everythingwas all good. I don't know
why you listen to a restaurant pretendyou were headicap. Man. Look,
we're not gonna have another date withy'all. She's not going on another date
with you. Michael, You're wrongfor this, That's all I'm saying.
Catherine, thank you so much fortaking your time this morning. I appreciate
(09:16):
you. Sorry, Michael, ain'tgonna work out, bro, Yeah,
I don't think it out. Sorry, but okay, second day an update.
There you go. Ck and Carmenbe ninety five
Second date up day, gonna helpout. Michael, c K and Carmen
being ninety five talked to us.Michael, Yeah, so I've been seen
the kolk Catherine, and we've beendating for about it. We've probably gone
out seven or eight times, okay, and yeah, things have been going
great. We have great chemistry andshe's lasting it on my jokes, I
mean I thought things are perfect.Anyway, we went out a couple of
(00:22):
nights ago and they seem like againand went really well. I was a
gentleman. I have no idea whathappened. But yeah, now she's just
disappeared, okay in two days.I have thee would happened. So you've
been out several times, but they'renormally when we do a second date up
day, you go on the firstdate and then you get ghosted on.
But you went on like seven oreight dates, and then now you're ghosted
(00:44):
on. Yeah exactly. It's soweird. I mean you had thought at
this point, you know, wewere comfortable enough in our relationship. I
have no idea would happened, right, No, I mean, especially since
you've been on several days, likeeverything seems to be going good. Now,
did you do anything different on thislast date, say something different.
Nope, nothing, nothing different,that's right. So weird, and you
(01:04):
guys have been having a good timeand the vibe has been really cool,
get really great. That's why Ikeep going over to my mind. I'm
like, I don't know what findingme, so so I figure, you
know, bring you guys in.She considered out for me to. Sorry,
I need some help. Okay,No, we could definitely help out.
Michael, that's not a problem.I mean it seems like you guys
definitely have been vibing. I meanyou've already been on seven or eight dates
(01:27):
with her, so I'm wondering,like, what the hell happened recently that
made her go Nope, not theguy not calling, not even texting you
back, Yeah exactly, not evenworth attacks saying I don't want to see
you anymore. Just posted me.All right, So here's we're gonna do.
We're gonna get Catherine on the phone. We're gonna see if we can
make a guess in this case,another date and just get to the bottom
(01:48):
of this and figure out what happened. Yeah exactly. It's crazy. What's
Catherine gonna say? You're gonna findout next k and Carmen be ninety five.
We're in the middle of a seconddate update, so we already spoke
to Michael. Now we gotta Catherineon the phone. We're inside a second
date update. CK and Carmen beingeighty five. Gotta figure out why Katherine
ghost to my man? Katherine?Hey, is this uh Katherine? Hello?
(02:09):
Yeah, Hey, Katherine, howyou doing a Ck and Carmen from
being eighty five? Good morning?Hi. Hi. So we're calling because
we do this thing called a seconddate update. And before we go any
further, I have to ask youpermission to continue this phone call. Are
you good with that? Use yourvoice and all that stuff. Okay,
(02:30):
okay, Well the reason we're calling, I'm not gonna make you guess.
You've recently been dating Michael and havinga good time. Everything seems to be
going well, and then out ofnowhere, you just stopped communicating with Michael
period A. Yeah, so howdisgusted I am with him? Wait a
(02:52):
minute, but from my understanding,y'all went on like seven or eight dates
like it wasn't like one date,and then everything with sour like y'all I've
been laughing, flirting and the chemistrywas good. Well, it was fine
until what he did on the lastdate. I'm no guy has ever embarrassed
me like that. Damn Well whathappened? So when we got to the
(03:15):
date, there were no open parkingspots and except for the handicap section right
by the restaurant. So Michael sawthis opening and he not only parked there,
but then he asked me to limpinto the restaurant. And no,
no, yes, no, Holdon a second Okay. I don't know
(03:43):
if you've heard the second date update before, but Michael is on the
phone, right Michael, Catherine.I know that you guys haven't talked,
and I can see why you madat him. But Michael, what's the
big deal? Bro? Come onnow, y'all going on a date,
trying to have a good Um,he's a day and then you're like handicap
parking you want her to limp intothe restaurant? Who wasn't a big deal.
(04:05):
Honestly, there was no spots andlike we got a really great spot.
I mean it was right in frontof the place. It was perfect.
Oh my goodness, little bit likeit was like, you know,
thirty feet she said a whimple,Catherine. It was a big deal.
It is so disrespectful to people whoactually have a disability. It is embarrassing
(04:29):
to me. It's like, whodoes that? What a man does that?
Date? Like? It's disgusting.I have disgusted. I don't blame
you. I mean, come onnow, I mean, part walk you're
okay with it. You don't haveto take the handicap spot and then pretend
to have a disability. I thoughtshe supposed to be on my side while
(04:54):
well, because I mean that's youtook the handicap parking and then you asked
her to limp into the restaurant.Put it this way. I want a
second date to happen more than anybody. But damn, that's crazy you.
It doesn't sound what you're on rightside. I mean it was it was
those spots. Okay, we're justdoing our best. We're just turning up
some dinner. Now you're sorry.She's mad at me. Now you're mad.
(05:14):
I'm not mad at you. Ijust think it's insane. But I
do want to know this. Didshe walk in with a limp? I
mean when he asked me, Iwas so shocked. I kind of went
along with it no myself. Wait, so you actually limped in? Yeah,
(05:36):
I can't. It was it wasn'tthat crazy to me. This doesn't
even sound real. But I mean, Catherine, I know you're disgusted with
yourself, and I know that thisis something you've never done before. Now,
Michael, you're just you're wrong foreven suggesting it and even parking in
(05:58):
the handicapped spot on the fact thatyou kind of went along with it and
limped him, and then you knowthat you guys already flirt a little bit,
laugh a little bit. You gota great chemistry. You've been on
seven or eight dates. Can youjust chalk this up to something stupid and
say, look, I'm discussing itmyself. I'm discussing that you even suggested
(06:19):
this. But I still like you. I actually like you so much.
I went along with it at first. No, because I wasn't because I
liked him. It was because Ifelt pressured. Oh and he parks in
the spot and then just tells meto limp and I felt so pressured and
so uncomfortable. I mean, Idid it, but I didn't agree with
(06:40):
it, and I wouldn't have doneit had I really had a chance to
think about it. So no,I did that because I felt pressured,
and no, I didn't want togo out with him. Michael. I
mean, I'm not the one thatshe did, you know what I mean.
So I don't know why I'm thebad guy. I don't want to
told me to do it. Iwent to do the restaurant you did,
(07:01):
But I'm the bad guy. Ohyeah, Man. First of all,
this is a crazy second date update. Second of all, I kind of
understand where she's coming from. Imean, it's kind of an embarrassing situation
to be put in. I meanI'm laughing just because you actually did it.
Like I'm like, first thing is, i'd be like, hey,
don't park there. No, no, no, we can go to the
back and we could walk. We'lldo it, but we're not parking here
and I'm not limping in. Butyou actually limped in, so and that's
(07:25):
why I kind of laughed. Butfrom the sounds of it, it doesn't
seem like she wants to see youagain, Michael, and that's why she
cut you all so abruptly. Yeah, I mean, I get it,
you're upset about it, and wedon't have to do that again. It's
that's a big issue. No,but you didn't. It is a big
issue, and no, we're notgoing to do it again. And the
(07:46):
fact is is that you went like, you didn't ask me, Hey,
I'm should I park in this spot? Would you pretend to live? You
didn't. You parked in the spotand then put me in this situation,
and then like as you're getting out, you're like, hey, you need
to limp. And I was soembarrassed that we were in the spot in
the first place that I did itand I played along. But it wasn't
(08:07):
really a choice. It just doesn'tseem like it's gonna happen. Michael.
I'm sorry, man, you've beenripping me the entire time. Hey,
I gave a scenario in which itkind of made sense, but it doesn't
make sense. I mean, everyonethat's listening right now is like, you
wrong for this, Michael. Youjust read me out to be the background
the entire time. Michael, Iwas on your side, man, I
really was. You parked in thehandicapped spot, you had a poor girl
(08:30):
limping into the restaurant. Bro Itried trusted you. I called you to
help me, and he's just beenripping me the entire time, making me
look like some terrible person, Catherine. Was it my fault? Catherine?
How is he not soft aware enoughto understand that you're reacting reasonably to something
insane that he did? Like,you have to take ownership of this time
that he conveniently left out of ourinitial conversation. When I said, hey,
(08:54):
man, was there anything that youmay have done or was there something
that might have happened that was differentthan any other date that y'all went on,
He's like, oh no, everythingwas all good. I don't know
why you listen to a restaurant pretendyou were headicap. Man. Look,
we're not gonna have another date withy'all. She's not going on another date
with you. Michael, You're wrongfor this, That's all I'm saying.
Catherine, thank you so much fortaking your time this morning. I appreciate
(09:16):
you. Sorry, Michael, ain'tgonna work out, bro, Yeah,
I don't think it out. Sorry, but okay, second day an update.
There you go. Ck and Carmenbe ninety five
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