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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:06):
Daniel is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Ashley.
So in a few minutes we're gonna call her and
see if she's house, why she's ghosting him, and maybe
get him another date. But first, Daniel, how long is
evinces you heard from Ashley?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
I think it's been like a week now.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Okay, Well have you been trying to get a hold
of her?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
I sent her a few messages and she like, this
is a flat out ghost There's no like messages saying
do you like short messages?
Speaker 3 (00:36):
This is just like really kissed.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
Actually I'm actually I can tell you, I mean the
stories you want.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
To hear it? Yeah? Yeah, absolutely, yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
So yeah, I'm pissed such I'm getting ghosted because like
day was really really awesome.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
I took her to dinner and drinks and I thought
she's really beautiful. I thought she was awesome.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
She even does like guy things, like she plays golf
of all things, and I was like, oh my god,
this is because I love golf, right, and sparks flew.
We had chemistry, like everything was perfect and I and
we got you know, a little tipsy drunk, and I
think I think we made out all.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Right, So you got where you don't remember if you
made out or not.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
Yeah, yeah, it was kind of debauchery at the end.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
But nothing like I would have remembered something terrible.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Was she on the same level as far.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
As drunks is. I probably drank a little bit more
than her. Again, I don't I remember things.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
I don't blackout, so there's no way that I would
have forgotten something.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
I'm really pissed though. Let me tell you the piss
part is because like the reason I'm I think the.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Reason I'm getting ghosted actually this this is just my series,
like I might be getting scammed by.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
This person getting scammed.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
Yeah, so everything went well, but then when I wake up,
like the next morning, I found that my Venmo account
had five hundred dollars I was sent to her.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
It's from mine, oh, five one hundred dollars.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Yeah, and I don't think that I sent it, and
maybe she.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
I think she might have stolen it.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
And that's why she's ghosting me, because I can't think
of any other reason why I'd send her five hundred
dollars under them.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
I don't do that kind of thing.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
So she must have grabbed my phone when I was
drunk and sent it to herself.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Did people do that on first sake? I never? I
must start trying I mean, I'm assuming people are going
to start trying out if they don't already.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
But I mean I could see people doing something like
that too. I can also see people scaring people just
for dinner. Like you hear about that all the time.
Were you away from your phone at any time where
she could have grabbed it?
Speaker 2 (02:40):
And bet?
Speaker 4 (02:41):
I mean, of course, like I might have gone to
the bathroom. I just left it on the table, So
I don't know if that's not what happened.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Like, I definitely want to go out on another date
with her. I don't want to accuse her of things
that she didn't do.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
I really like, Oh man, we're a lot of extremes here.
You don't remember if you made out with her or not.
You don't know how the five hundred dollars got there,
but you do want to see her again.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
If she didn't steal it, Seriously.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
She did steal this, I really want to call it
so I really need Well, yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
That's five hundred bucks she's stolen. Have you ever accidentally
or on purpose venmodes somebody like that before and not
known it?
Speaker 3 (03:17):
No, No, that's just not like me. I don't do
those kind of things.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
That's a weird number too. It's like five hundred dollars.
Let go for five thousand, right, Well, if the date
was going so well and then now she's ghosting you
and then there's five hundred dollars missing from your VENMO,
I would think that that's the reason.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Yeah, that's what I was thinking. I don't know. Again,
like cap, I just need some clarity here.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Well, play a song, come back, and then call her
and see if she stole your five hundred bucks or
if there's a different reason that she's ghosting you, and
maybe get you another date if you still want one. Okay,
and yeah, all right, Well play a song, come back,
and then call her and get your first date follow
up next right in the middle of your first date
(04:05):
follow up or a new edition of Crime Stoppers. I'm
not sure because Daniel is on the phone and Daniel's
getting ghosted by Ashley, So we're about to call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him another date. But first, Daniel, why
don't you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:20):
So I took this go out, bought her, you know,
dinner and drinks, and we had an amazing time, got
a little drunk. I don't remember what happened because that
I have five hundred dollars missing off of my Venmo account.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
It was sent to her, So either she stole it
or I gave it to her, and I'm trying to
figure that out.
Speaker 5 (04:37):
Okay, which neither of them makes sense? But I guess
scamming part that sucks?
Speaker 2 (04:42):
That does? It does really suck. Maybe she got you
drunk on purpose in order to get your phone and
spend more her money. Maybe that's her thing. All right, man,
are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4 (04:53):
I don't know what to expect right now, but I'm
definitely ready for the call.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, May I speak to Ashley? Please?
Speaker 6 (05:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Hey, Ashley, how are you? My name is Jebel, and
I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show. Hi, Ashley,
the show's here.
Speaker 5 (05:21):
I'm Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria, Oh, who's calling me?
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Yeah? This is the Jubel Show. It's a radio show.
Have you ever heard it before?
Speaker 6 (05:30):
I mean I know the name. Yeah, but why are
you calling?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
We actually got an email about you from somebody who
does listen to the show.
Speaker 6 (05:39):
Oh okay.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
So we do a segment on the show. It's called
the first Date follow Up. What that is is if
you go out on a date with somebody and then
you end up ghosting them, that person can email us
to get you on the phone and ask why you're
ghosting them. So you went out on a date recently
and you haven't been talking to them, and they were
wondering if we could figure out why.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Oh okay, yeah.
Speaker 6 (06:02):
I think I know who you're talking about.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Now, okay, who do you think it is?
Speaker 6 (06:07):
Yeah, I'm gonna say it's Daniel.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
And you are correct. Daniel emailed us and then we
talked to him a little bit about your date and
he's really confused. He liked you a lot. He's wondering
why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 6 (06:18):
Oh yeah, I mean it's pretty straightforward.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
I mean he disrespected me, like all the way.
Speaker 6 (06:25):
He was great, you know, for most of the night.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Then he got really drunk and like completely turned into
a different person.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Wait, so what did he do to disrespect you?
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Well, he just he spent so much time talking about money,
like he thought that that would be impressive, impressive to.
Speaker 6 (06:41):
Me, and it was just gross.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Like I'm not the kind of woman that needs someone
to like launt cash.
Speaker 6 (06:48):
And that's why I've been avoiding him. I mean it's
just that type of personality.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
That oh, it just it made me honestly stick to
my stomach, you know, to be with a guy that
thinks money.
Speaker 6 (06:57):
Is what's going to win me over, call him out, you.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Know what, I just remember something else. Okay, So he
got so drunk towards the end of the night and
then he started bragging about how much money he has,
like and he wanted to prove it to me, so
he sent me. He sent me five hundred dollars on venmo.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
What four? He just was like watch this, I can
do this.
Speaker 6 (07:20):
Yeah, he was like, look at me, like, you know,
still get something for you.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Like, yeah, dude, I make so much cash. Let me
just venmo you five hundred bucks?
Speaker 4 (07:29):
Right?
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (07:30):
I'm like, yeah, here's a half rock. Go get yourself
some nice I don't I don't know what I would
do with that, and you took the five hundred bucks.
Speaker 6 (07:39):
Of course, at least I'll get something out of this.
I mean, he's seeing like such a right now.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
All right, well, thank you Ashley for being honest with us.
I appreciate it. And now have to let you know
that Daniel is actually on the phone listening and does
want to talk to you.
Speaker 6 (07:55):
Oh god, you could have told me that, you know.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Like, yeah, sorry, I just told the truth. It's okay, yeah, Daniel.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Yeah, I'm here. Uh wow? Actually, can you can you
give me a recap of how that happened?
Speaker 6 (08:16):
Yeah? I mean you were like blorrying or like, yeah,
I'm gonna do you. I'm underdollar.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Ok. I thought you ripped me off. I was calling
them to tell you, tell them that I'm gonna call
a cop.
Speaker 6 (08:33):
I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
I don't think that. I don't think money is everything.
I'm sorry.
Speaker 6 (08:40):
Like, yes, I was.
Speaker 4 (08:42):
Drunk, and maybe I was like really nervous and trying
to impress you.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
I never do this.
Speaker 5 (08:49):
Does that mean you're subconscious things that like that's oh
what you're good for?
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Maybe?
Speaker 3 (08:55):
No, no, no, no, Like I just said, I just
I guess I do blow something because.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
I don't remember that part, and I sorry, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 5 (09:04):
Please, people are like, I'll listen to you talk about
how rich you are.
Speaker 6 (09:11):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
The whole thing was just like so not funny. It
was it was really like a b bag move. You know,
that's never happened to me before, and I honestly I
really don't This is so weird.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Please please listen. I promise, I promise, I promise. I
had so much fun.
Speaker 6 (09:28):
I'm sorry about.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
Getting drunk and being a bebag. Like, I just want
another date. Just please let me have one more chance.
I just want to.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
Go on another date and I won't drink a lot
and I won't talk about money.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
And we'll go to we'll go play golf, we'll go
to a range like you.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Want, Ashley, would you like to go on another date
with Daniel? We'll pay forty sounds since here to me?
Yeah he does to me.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Too, well, I mean, until he got drunk, he was
actually super fun. So yeah, I'm.
Speaker 6 (10:01):
Up for it.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
Okay, yeah, yeah, you're gonna give the money back?
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Well, I haven't thought about that yet, Like, you know what,
he's got work to do. Though, like, if he wants
me to trust him, he can't be an a hole.
Speaker 6 (10:15):
And if I see that, then yeah, I'm fine giving
him the money back.
Speaker 5 (10:19):
I mean, actually, you earned it though, you sat through
that stuff, and you're giving him another chance.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
I think that's just that's a wash. Now, congratulations, Daniel,
you got another date.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
Yeah, we'll make a bet, like who can hit the
ball further. Maybe maybe that will be like a five
hundred dollars decision.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Yeah, and I already bought some bear mace with that money,
so you know I'm not afraid to use.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
Fair Enough, you
Speaker 2 (10:43):
Will first date fall up.