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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2 (00:06):
Law dot com.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Josh is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Terren. So in
a second we're gonna call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
another date. But first, Josh, how long has event since
you heard from Terran?
Speaker 4 (00:18):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (00:18):
Man, it takes me like six days?
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Hello, when they are at the exact number, I know
you're feeling that Verson if you're saying it was six days.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Did you try to reach out to her in that time?
Speaker 5 (00:28):
I did. I tried sending text messages. I've only called
there one time, you know, because I don't want to
see like creep. Sure, right, but nothing, no response, no
like on the text messages. You know, we have iPhones,
so she used to have the red you know, settings on,
but I don't know if she just took them off.
I don't I don't really know what's going on.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Well, what happened? I woul tell us about the day first?
Speaker 5 (00:50):
All right, So as long as we were sure, you know,
we're on the same softball team and you know, after
practice last week, I offered to give her a ride home.
And just so you know, guys, there's always been some
sort of flirty tension. Like she literally winked at me
during like batting practice, so I see her looking at me.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
We always block eyes.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
We kind of laughed to each other and you know,
always talking. Everything is going good, and so I told
her we can hang out my place, have a beer,
maybe chill a bit, and she said yes very quickly.
So I took that as like a green light to
you know, let's hang out at my place.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (01:23):
But here's the thing, So my apartment isn't great right now.
And I pretty much told her that. I gave her
a full disclaimer. I literally told her. I said, hey,
it's gonna look like one of those post apocalyptic episodes
of Orders. I was like, you guys, said shows, Oh no, okay, yeah,
so she said, she said she didn't care and quote unquote,
(01:44):
I'm not precious, she said.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
And and so you know, I just I don't know.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
It just was weird, Like, you know, she came over,
we were hanging out and all that good stuff, and
I just don't get it, you know, I just we
were having a good time and then she and now
I had getting no response from her, and we were laughing.
It was like one of those random dates at my place.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
You know.
Speaker 5 (02:08):
It wasn't planned, it wasn't spontaneous. We just went over.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
I had a movie plane, you know.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
I had chips and stuff, so everything seemed to be
going really good.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
I just like, I.
Speaker 5 (02:19):
Don't know, I don't know what it is.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
You don't know, you don't know at all. Washing I've
been ghosting you.
Speaker 5 (02:24):
I mean, I hope it's not like you know, my house,
by the way, it was a huge mess. I mean
that that would suck.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
But yeah, I mean it's just yeah.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
It just sucks because I really like her, and I
haven't told her that I like her yet. I just
I know that she likes me.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
As well, you know, So how do you know?
Speaker 5 (02:42):
I mean, she came over my place. You know, usually
we always go, you know, with the team, you know,
to get some sports bar or something like that. I
usually we see each other like in a group setting.
But when I kind of just casually asked her, a
want to go over my place and she said yes
right away, I kind of thought at that moment, Okay,
I think this is going to maybe the next level
or wherever this may be.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
How messy was your place?
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Though?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
You say that you warned her and you said post apocalyptic,
but like, are we talking about like mold on things,
whoa like kitty litter on the floor?
Speaker 5 (03:14):
Well, you guys, I warned her, like.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
I mean, okay, that's when you don't invite somebody to
your house.
Speaker 5 (03:25):
I mean, I don't know, I just it wasn't like
I told her, hey, come see my pristine laugh. You
know I didn't. I didn't make it seem like it
was all something else. But yeah, total frad house. You know,
I'm gonna be honest with you. And she even, by
the way, when she came in, she kind of like
looked around and I said, I'm so sorry. You know,
I know it's a mess. And she said, no, don't worry.
I appreciate your honesty. And she even joked about it.
(03:47):
And she even told me how messy her car was.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Okay, so now did I think about it. I did
have a.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
Box of pizza out from last week.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
I feel like this whole conversation started with the big
red flag.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
And you keep making it sound so sweet by saying
but I told her though, like, yeah, anyway with so much.
Speaker 5 (04:07):
I mean, look, if it's the if it's my hideous apartment,
you know, everything pretty much like you know, messy everywhere,
the pizza boxes and the you know I had like
datory bottles. Josh, then that's gonna be horrible. You know,
that's gonna be like the worst of the worst. Why
would you ghost?
Speaker 2 (04:23):
All right, well, we'll see if we can figure it out.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and see if she tell us why she's ghosting.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
You and maybe get you another date. Okay, all right,
we'll get your first day follow up.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
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Speaker 3 (04:43):
Right in the middle of your first day follow up
if you're just joining us. Josh is on the phone
and he's getting ghosted by Terrence. So we're about to
call her and see if she'll tell us why she's
ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. Before
we do that, though, Josh, why don't you catch us
up on your situation again real quick?
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Yeah, everything, we're going great.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
You we went back to my place after practice, you know,
we had some some lunch there.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Watching TV and she just ghosted me. She left, and
I think that. I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (05:07):
I think it's the pizza boxes, guys, I mean, I
don't know, maybe the gator at Bottles. I don't know.
It was messy. I told her that my face was
a little messy. She said she liked my honesty.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
So that's where we're at. Well, we'll see if that
is it. Are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 5 (05:27):
Are you guys gonna tell him on the phone or not?
Or just do I think?
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Quiet? Well, you can stay quiet at first. Eventually we'll
tell her.
Speaker 6 (05:32):
All right, all right, all right, Hello, Hi Aryan, Please,
(05:56):
this is she Tarren.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
How are you? This is a radio show. It's called
a Jewel Show. Hi, Taren, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria
and my name is Jebel. How are you?
Speaker 7 (06:05):
Wait?
Speaker 2 (06:05):
What what is this? It's a radio show called the
Jewbel Show.
Speaker 7 (06:11):
Like, I'm confused, I haven't like, why are you calling me?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Well, we're calling you because we actually got an email
about you. Okay, it's from somebody who listens to the show.
And we do a segment on a show that's called
the First Date follow Up. That's where if you go
on a date with somebody and then you end up
ghosting them. That person can email us to ask you
why you're ghosting them, And we got to email about
you from somebody that you're calling back.
Speaker 7 (06:39):
I'm sorry, Oh no, like this this isn't real, right,
Like this is a joke.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Are you joking? No, it's not a joke. Who are
you ghosting?
Speaker 5 (06:49):
Oh my god?
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Is it Josh?
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Yes, it is Josh. Josh emailed us. He told us
a little bit about your date, and he's confused. He
said he really liked you and he thought you were
in He wasn't a where your ghosting?
Speaker 7 (07:04):
Honestly, I mean if he really wants to know, I'm
ghosting him, because he's a man slainer, like an aggressive manslainer.
Like on the date, like things would be like going fine,
and he would literally pause what we're doing to explain
something to me, and like not things that are like
I don't know what they are, Oh that might be interesting,
(07:25):
but like basic things like at one point we're making
out and he literally paused to say, you know, physical
chemistry is just the result of electrical signals in the brain.
Speaker 8 (07:37):
And I'm like, why, why are you interrupting us making
out to tell me about this, like read the room, dude.
Speaker 7 (07:49):
Okay, well, then he explained to me the rules of softball.
To me me, I've played for ten years and I'm
literally our team shortstop.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
I'm sorry, are you like there's no excuse for this?
Speaker 7 (08:02):
She told me why the glove ish shape the way
it is, like I'm a freaking toddler.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Oh okay.
Speaker 7 (08:08):
Really, she's hot, like like ridiculously hot, like extremely freaking hot.
That's why I was like, you know, kind of indhim
at first, but and I tried to ignore it because
he's really good looking. But it's like once I've spent
time with him and everything was just man's plain this
man's plain.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
As I was just I couldn't quote up, put up,
put up, tearan tarn.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
That's Josh, he's actually on the phone. Who wants to
talk to you?
Speaker 5 (08:33):
Oh so, because I know things and I wanted to
share them with you. That's why you're ghosting me Because
I explained stuff that's just a nerdy charm. I thought
that was like a cute thing.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
That's how you were into that.
Speaker 7 (08:45):
Stuff, nerdy charm. You literally stop kissing me to break
down why some people just click like, who does that?
Speaker 2 (08:55):
It's kind of cute.
Speaker 5 (08:56):
I was nervous. I thought I thought you were smart.
I thought you'd appreciate insight.
Speaker 7 (09:00):
Yeah, insight is when someone offered you something you didn't
already know. Not when some dude explains how beer is
carbonated like a block twist.
Speaker 5 (09:10):
Maybe maybe you could have just said something instead of
just ignoring me like that. And then you know, you
calling radio like I thought you I thought you were cool.
Just man, it's just you're just like all the rest.
Speaker 7 (09:22):
Well, you know what, You're just like every guy who
thinks being condescending is a personality traits. Look, Josh, you're hot,
but that's not enough to sit through a freaking ted
talk every time I touch your arm.
Speaker 5 (09:36):
Cool, Okay, I understand you now, And you know I
don't date people who lie and go so, you know,
have fun being you know, mediocre arry and have fun
with that. Okay, I thought you were I thought.
Speaker 4 (09:45):
You were lied.
Speaker 7 (09:46):
I didn't lie to you.
Speaker 5 (09:48):
Yeah, you know, you know this is just I'm embarrassed
and just so what do we do now? We just
watched to say hi and practice like we ignore each other.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Taren, would you like another day with Joshua, we'll pay
for it.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
I would know that.
Speaker 7 (10:01):
No, I definitely, I'm I'm good on that. And also
I just like to say, nobody's toilet should look like that, Like,
get it together, John.
Speaker 5 (10:18):
I had told you that my apartment was messy. Okay,
you don't have to say.
Speaker 7 (10:24):
You know, I was gonna flat at first, but now
I'm not. It's it's it's really nasty, Like you're a
grown man. You need you need to figure that out.
Speaker 5 (10:31):
Oh, you can't hold that against me, No, no, no,
thank you.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
No.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
Yeah. What do you guys do now for your games?
Speaker 4 (10:38):
Is pretending you don't know each other? Get on another team.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
I'm open to forgetting everything about like I'm open to
forgetting this ever happened. And I'm sorry, and you know,
just it just sucks, that's all. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (10:49):
I mean I think that we were sign of practice before,
so maybe things could just go back to the way
they were.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
Pretend like you never saw a toilet.
Speaker 7 (10:56):
Oh, I'll never forget that.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
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