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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Michayla is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jason.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see if you'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe
get her another date. But first, Mikayla, how long has
it been since you heard from Jason.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been two weeks.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
We had been like talking very regularly before that, so
this is not common like for us to go days
without like.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Talking like this.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
Did you try to talk to you?
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (00:32):
I mean, oh, so I texted him after a date
and he sent me a one word response and then nothing.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
I was like, how is your day? And he was
like good, and I was like sick.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
That always feels like a middle finger, like after you
asked me a question and all you get back is good.
Speaker 5 (00:46):
Well, how is the date? Though? Was the date good?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Amazing?
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Well, yeah, it lasted for like.
Speaker 5 (00:52):
Ever it lasted for.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
It was a long date, it was it was We
did like a lot of different things, so we like
we met at the mall, which I At first, I
was like, this is a little weird, but it was
because he'd coordinated with the pet store to let us
play with the puppies.
Speaker 5 (01:10):
That's so sweet.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
Yes, they like never do that, but I guess he
like knows the owner or the manager or something and
so and I was like, oh, okay, So I felt
very special and I gotta play with the puppies and
I love puppies, and so that was wonderful. And we
just like cuddled with puppies and like talked for like
the longest time, and yeah, and.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
He is like so cute with the puppies.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
And then like we went to the cheesecake Factory, which
is like one of my favorite because I just I'm
like obsessed with the avocado.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Egg rolls, like genuinely.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Then like we were, you know, like we'd finished eating,
and he was like, I really don't want like to
say goodbye yet, like I'm not really ready for it
to end. And he's like, I have a couple of
like Aaron's run over're at Target, like there's a few
things I need to get, Like would you want to
go with me?
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Is that weird? And I was like, oh no, I
would love to go with you. Thank you.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
Wait so you hit puppies the cheesecake factory and all
day one day.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Right, I was like this is beautiful.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
I'm like you can tell a lot by Peruson like
what they get when they go to Target and.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Like how they do the Target experience.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
And I was very impressed by like what he got,
Like he was getting like Method surface cleaner, so like
obviously he likes to keep things really clean, and like
that's important, you know, because like a lot of guys
don't clean. And he bought toilet paper, you know, Like
I was like, okay, so he feels comfortable around me,
and he like he gets good toilet paper, which like
(02:39):
a lot of guys I feel like, get really cheap,
scratchy toilet paper, and you're like, I never want to
go to the bathroom when I'm over at your house.
And he got really nice, like very soft toilet paper.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
And so okay, okay, he takes care of himself. Okay.
But then like after Target, it kind of felt like
he was rushed. He was like, oh, I really got
back home.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
I really check out my dog, which I totally understand,
but then it kind of felt like he was like
trying to get away from me, and he like he
took me to my car that was back at the mall,
but I just kind of felt like he was like
like something changed and maybe he was like ready to,
like I don't know, get out of there, which made
(03:20):
me feel like maybe I did something wrong, Like maybe
I mess something up. Like I was kind of like
ribbing him and like teasing him a bit, and like,
you know, when we got back to the car, like
I was kind of teasing him about the soft toilet paper,
and it was kind of I was trying to be
like flirty and cute and like joky, and I'm like
worried that it like came across like demeaning or like
(03:41):
weird or mean.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
Or oh well, what did you say, Like how did
it become demeaning?
Speaker 4 (03:46):
Well, I was just like, Sweety needs extra sauce for
his extra cute bumb bumbs, and I was trying to
be cutesy, and I.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Don't you know, sometimes they hand some sometimes he miss
the mark.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
And now I'm like and then that was kind of
when he was like, yeah, I really need to get
back and check on my dog.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
And I was like, yeah, I feel the maybe, but
I don't feel like that war is like completely goost.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
Yeah, like you know obviously, I know I we had
so much fun so for such a long time them
just like, Okay, so I said one stupid thing, I'm
gonna say.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
A lot of stupid things. The one stupid thing ruined it.
Speaker 5 (04:24):
We'll see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
We'll play a song come back, and then call him
and see if he'll tell us why is ghosting you?
Speaker 5 (04:29):
And maybe get you another date?
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Okay, okay, thank you, Okay, plas song, come back and
get your first day follow up next. Right in the
middle of your first date follow up, if you're just
joining us, Mikayla is on the phone and she's getting
ghosted by Jason. So we're about to call him and
see if he'll tell us why is ghostinger and maybe
get her another date. But first, Mikayla, why don't you
refresh our memory on your date with Jason.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
I mean, we had an amazing date.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
We played with puppies, we had amazing avocado egg rolls,
and then we went and wandered the streets or the
streets the aisles of Target, and I mean, like it
doesn't get better than that.
Speaker 5 (05:07):
Right, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
And the only thing you can think of that he's
not calling you back is because of what I.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Teached him about his toilet paper selection.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
And I said that he needed extra soft toilet paper
for his extra cute bumbum.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
I can't believe I'm saying this.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
I'm going to lose my mind.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Yeah, I mean you told him you had to extra
cute bum bum. You should like that.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
I can't believe it.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
And then now I can't believe that I've had to
repeat it the world. I'm like, oh God, everybody knows.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Ok. Are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (05:44):
Okay, here we go. Hi, ma sweak to Jason? Please?
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Yeah, human, Hey Jason, how are you? My name is Jewbel.
I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
Hi, Jason, the show's here. I'm Nina also on it. Fine,
I'm Victoria. Hi.
Speaker 7 (06:09):
What can I do for you?
Speaker 8 (06:10):
Guys?
Speaker 5 (06:11):
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 3 (06:13):
No?
Speaker 4 (06:13):
I have not.
Speaker 7 (06:14):
But you know what, Actually, I have seen your clips
on tik tok so I am love actually, but I've
seen a couple of clips.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
That's dope. Okay, Well, congratulations you're on the show. We
do a segment on the show called the First Day
follow Up. That's where if you go out on a
day with somebody and you end up ghosting them, that
person can ask us to call you and ask why
you're ghosting?
Speaker 5 (06:32):
So are you ghosting anybody?
Speaker 7 (06:37):
Okay, yeah, I sure, Listen is going look, yeah I am,
I am. I'm ghosting a girl who is a she's
a bit of a kleptough. So that's kind of the
big crux of it, to be honest with you.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
Okay, are you talking about MICHAELA?
Speaker 7 (06:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (06:56):
I was gonna see if we can clarify.
Speaker 7 (06:58):
Okay, I am, let me, let me just kind of.
So we went to Target and she only had a purse,
so you know, I saw what she was carrying, and
she was right next to me the whole time. We
got into the car, and she had this huge thing
of orbit gum that she offered me and I said
where did she get that from? And said, oh, I
bought it. And I am absolutely positive she did not
(07:20):
buy anything in the Parian. I'm almost positive she she shoplifted.
And I'm not cool with that because I mean, how
do I know that You're not gonna, you know, give
me like stolen goods for my birthday or something.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
You know, she absolutely did. She absolutely took it with her,
but it seemed because she didn't she didn't pay for it.
She stood next to me when I.
Speaker 7 (07:42):
Checked out and walked out and me she said, oh, yeah,
I bought it. I'm like, no, you didn't.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
She just took it.
Speaker 7 (07:47):
So listen, that was her explanation. And I don't like
people that lie. I don't want people that shoplift. I
think that's you know, weird at the sticking gum.
Speaker 8 (07:56):
So, I don't know, it.
Speaker 7 (07:58):
Made me feel weird, you know. I I don't want
to go on a date that.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
I can guarantee you that I did pay for that. Yes,
yes I did.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Yeah, that's MICHAELA. She's actually on the phone listening and.
Speaker 7 (08:12):
Great, great, great, great.
Speaker 8 (08:14):
You know what.
Speaker 7 (08:14):
I'm actually, I'm actually glad she's on the phone because
I think that, uh, this will probably steer her away from,
you know, a life of crime. This will probably make
her maybe a little bit more embarrassed about, you know,
her conduct. The first time you meet somebody, I'm kind
of surprised you didn't make off with the puppy when
we were you know, trying out.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
You should be embarrassed by your con your conduct.
Speaker 4 (08:33):
You're just assuming that I stole it, But maybe you
were just a little too busy paying attention to your fancies.
Mans he tolet paper this way, I bought some gums.
Speaker 7 (08:44):
No, no, I'm not. You were at cashed with the
hips to me basically the entire time, following me around
like a poppy. Actually, so I did not see you
check out or anything.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
You know what, Let me see it.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Let me look, thurman. I'm sure I have a receipt.
I have the freaking app. So even if I don't
have this physical copy, I.
Speaker 7 (09:02):
Know I will have it.
Speaker 3 (09:03):
It's the darker app.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
You know.
Speaker 7 (09:05):
It actually will be better if you just admitted that
you took it, because I think that if at this
point your kind of just denying, denying, and it's not
really taking you any more appealing to me.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
Yeah, hello, yeah, I did.
Speaker 4 (09:16):
I found it, and I found the physical copy, so
you don't think that I bought it on a different
day if I send you an app, so I'm gonna
send you this right now.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
Your twit.
Speaker 7 (09:26):
Okay, yes'm guys, I'm I'm so devastated to call me
a Twitter I don't know how I'm ever going to
recover from this. Really, I don't know how I'm going.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
To recover from you.
Speaker 8 (09:39):
Just call me a twit twit guys, you call me
a twitter that is, yes, I've never called the Twitter crazy.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Right now, I'm lady, Uh.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
Huh, You're gonna feel bad if the.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Yeah, look at look at your tack.
Speaker 7 (10:07):
Okay, well, I guess I'm wrong. I do see it here.
Speaker 5 (10:12):
So he does say that she bought it?
Speaker 7 (10:15):
Yeah, yeah, it does. But yeah, all right, Well, look
I'm wrong, and when you're wrong, that you're wrong. So
I am sorry about that. I really was convinced, obviously,
because you know when you're when you're convinced, you stick
to your convictions.
Speaker 5 (10:30):
Well why did you jump to that, you know, because.
Speaker 7 (10:33):
I really did not remember a single instance where she
was not next to me. I didn't remember seeing her
pay for it, so the reasoning was there. So I
am sorry. I was wrong, totally am that.
Speaker 5 (10:44):
You don't think she's a thief?
Speaker 7 (10:45):
Now, I no, no.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
That was a little exciting.
Speaker 5 (10:54):
Jason. Would you like to go on another date with Mika?
We'll pay for it?
Speaker 7 (10:59):
I don't Yeah, well, I mean yeah, no, I actually would.
I actually would because he's very cute and like, yeah, no,
Like I am like very sorry about that. Like, well,
when I really believe something, I go in hard on it.
And I was definitely on this step by me. But
I would like another chance because I am sorry about that.
And up until that thing kind of sent me down
(11:20):
a rabbit hole, I was having a really nice time.
I really enjoyed, you know, getting to know her and
you know, go to Target and kind of just walk
around and have a nice time and bop around with
you know, puppies and whatnot. She probably told you about it,
but we had a great time. I brought her to
a pet store and it was it was fun, and
I would like I would like to see her again.
And I would be bummed if you know, this was
(11:44):
what ruined in some stupid you.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
Know, jumping to like the worst case scenario. Okay, well, Mikayla,
would you like to go on a date with him? Still?
Speaker 4 (11:57):
I would like to see him again because I did
think he was really cool. But like, you have to
give people the benefit of the doubt before you jump
to conclusions and called them something like a thief, like
that is a very far leak to make, especially before.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Somebody that you just met.
Speaker 4 (12:13):
So I am willing to give you a second chance
if you are willing to be.
Speaker 3 (12:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
I guess a little bit more open minded and give yeah,
and give people.
Speaker 7 (12:23):
Great. Absolutely again, I really am sorry, and I really
appreciate the second chap. I really did, actually, so thank you.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Okay, great, well you've got a second date. Congratulations Mikayla
and Jason. You know she's not a thief now, yay.
Speaker 7 (12:42):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
Oh good, you
Speaker 5 (12:47):
Will the first date to follow up