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April 14, 2025 11 mins

If you're getting ghosted, you can hit up The Jubal Show and we can help you figure out why by calling the person. Then, we will see if we can get you a second date. This is exactly what Drew did, and we are going to see if we can find answers for him.


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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jordan is on the phone today for our first date
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Drew.
So in a few minutes we'll call him and see
if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe
get her a second date. But first, Jordan, how long
has it been since you heard from Drew.

Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been about two weeks now, Okay.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
How many times have you tried to hit him up
in that time?

Speaker 3 (00:28):
Just twice, once like really soon after our date and
then once again, I want to say, like three days ago, okay,
and nothing.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
He just left you on red.

Speaker 4 (00:39):
Yeah, just nothing.

Speaker 5 (00:41):
Okay, let's talk about the date. Let's go back and
try to figure it out. I know, I'm sorry, this
is the worst.

Speaker 3 (00:48):
No, thank you for doing this. So we met on
Pinge right and he messaged me first, which is already
a win in my book. And he saw my photos
in Thailand and said something about white lotus, which, full disclosure,
I did not know what that was. But I was
just playing along and we're making plans to get drinks

(01:09):
and he suggested the sports bar because there was a
vibe there, which honestly wasn't my favorite, but I went
with it because he's really cute and you know, fun,
and so yeah, we were just we had a great
talk and he's really ambitious. He told me about how
he wants to launch his own streetwear brand, and he

(01:32):
had a couple of friends yet and then someone sent
shots over, which honestly I don't I don't usually do shots,
but like, again, he's really cute, I'm having her.

Speaker 2 (01:44):
Back got really quick.

Speaker 5 (01:45):
He introduced you to some of his friends.

Speaker 3 (01:48):
Yeah, I guess this is a bar that they kind
of frequent, so a couple of them just happened. I
thought that was you know, like it's not like he
was like, oh, my friends, we have to go, you know.
He introduced me, so that was nice, okay, and then
after a while they were like, okay, we're gonna go
do our thing over some bar and just left us

(02:08):
on our own.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Okay.

Speaker 4 (02:09):
Good.

Speaker 5 (02:09):
I was like, these friends do crash the party, try
to get you guys wasted, and then sit back and
watch what happened.

Speaker 2 (02:15):
That's actually kind of funny.

Speaker 3 (02:17):
Yeah, no, they were like apropos.

Speaker 2 (02:19):
They were good, Okay, good. Okay, are they the ones
that sent you the shots?

Speaker 3 (02:22):
So yeah, I think ultimately that's what we figured out.
But I wasn't really paying attention. I was just like
I was just having fun and like I said, like
I don't really do shots, so I was just like, Okay,
I'm gonna get this over with and okay, thanks so
much about it.

Speaker 5 (02:38):
Were you feeling it?

Speaker 2 (02:40):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (02:40):
Yeah, I mean I felt safe enough to like not
overly question where the shots were coming from. I guess
now that I'm thinking about it, I probably should have.
But it's okay. It was. It was just a lot
of fun, all right.

Speaker 2 (02:52):
Well, how did the date end with him?

Speaker 3 (02:56):
I think it was okay, Like, Okay, it got a
little weird, so like he's laughing, having fun, We're all cool,
and then like out of nowhere, he had to leave
and he made up some excuse he paid the tab
and then he did. And at one point shortly before that,
he and his friends were at the bar and they

(03:17):
kept looking back at me, which it made me feel
like self conscious, But you know, I was like, what
is there something on me? So I went to the
bathroom and the only thing I can think is, like
my shirt was a little to be through, but I
thought that that was, you know, hot, It made me
feel good and not a reason to be like grossed

(03:37):
out by me or anything.

Speaker 5 (03:39):
Yeah, his friends were pointing at you or looking over
at you and talking. What was the excuse that he
gave you?

Speaker 3 (03:46):
Just that he had to. I think he said something
about like having to get up early the next day
and do something for building his business, which is okay, great, like, yeah,
he's I know that he's ambitious. I know, you know,
he gave me a lot of details.

Speaker 4 (03:59):
About his plan.

Speaker 3 (04:00):
But it was just the way that it happened, like
it was so stunned.

Speaker 2 (04:04):
To abruptly leave.

Speaker 4 (04:06):
Weird.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
It seems like something they said might be the reason
that he left.

Speaker 3 (04:12):
Exactly, and I don't know what it was, and I
just like I would really like to know what happened.

Speaker 2 (04:16):
Okay, Well we'll try to figure it out for you.
We'll play a song come back, and then call him
and see if he'll tell us why is ghosting you
and maybe get you a second date okay, if you
still want it, Okay, we'll get your first date follow up, next.

Speaker 1 (04:27):
First date, follow up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2 (04:34):
Right in the middle of today's the First Date follow
Up and if you're just joining us, Jordan is on
the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Drew.
So we're about to call him and see if he'll
tell us why is Ghostinger and get her a second
date if she still wants one. But before we do that, Jordan,
breakdown your date for us again real quick, one time.

Speaker 4 (04:49):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (04:50):
So we met on Hinge and we ended up going
to the sports bar and a couple of its friends
were there, and so I got to meet them, and
then we're having a great time, and then all of
a sudden, he decided like he needed to leave very quickly,
and he made up this excuse and I haven't heard
from him since, and I'd like to know what happened.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
Okay, weird? Well are you ready for us to give
Drew a call?

Speaker 3 (05:16):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (05:16):
All right, here we go. Whollo, Hi man, I speak
to Drew please.

Speaker 4 (05:32):
This is him? Who's this Drew?

Speaker 2 (05:34):
How are you? This is a radio show. It's called
the Jebel Show.

Speaker 5 (05:36):
Hi Drew. I'm Nina.

Speaker 2 (05:37):
Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubele. How are you.

Speaker 4 (05:41):
I'm good, I'm familiar with you guys, Just to see
how you're doing.

Speaker 2 (05:46):
Just checking in. You know, we know you listen. We
said to you too, and you don't know it.

Speaker 4 (05:49):
Checking in on all the fans.

Speaker 2 (05:53):
No, Drew, we're calling you because this is a first
date follow up. You know, if you go on a
date with someone and then you end up ghosting them,
take an email us to call you and find out why.
So we got an email about.

Speaker 4 (06:03):
You Jordan, isn't it Yes, it is.

Speaker 2 (06:08):
You don't even have to think about that. She told
us about your date, and she's really confused. Says that you, uh,
you guys are hanging out at the bar. Your friends
ended up being there too, and at one point you
went over to your friends and then it looked like
they were pointing towards her. And then after that you
said you had to get up for work or something
and bounced.

Speaker 4 (06:27):
Mm hmm. Well okay, so first off, thrilled to be
talking to you guys, been listening for a while. But
with Jordan, she was nice, fun even, but I ghosted
her because I cannot be out here dating someone who
just confidently uses words absolutely and completely wrong. What do
you mean like I tried to let it go, I

(06:49):
really did, but she kept using like juxtaposition, as if
it meant my compromise. You like wine, I like sports bars,
but I think we can find a juxtaposition.

Speaker 2 (06:59):
You know, Oh, okay, is cute.

Speaker 4 (07:04):
I mean, if it's one word, sure, I get it,
like you know, it's like a little quirky cute moment,
and then you can correct it. But it kept happening
over and over again with different words, and then uh,
like my friends ended up being at the bar and
she was like talking, They're joking about something, and she

(07:25):
just wanted this is such an ambiguous situation and it wasn't.
It was like super clear. I think she meant to
say like ridiculous or wild, but she was like so sure,
She's like, this is so ambiguous.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
Okay. She seemed well spoken when we talked to her,
like it didn't seem like that was going on when
we talked to her.

Speaker 4 (07:46):
I don't know, I don't know. That wasn't my experience,
you know, like like I thought she was nice, she
was even fun, But I'm big on words, man, Like
you got no basic English language, you.

Speaker 2 (07:58):
Know, all right, thanks you for telling us, Drew and
also if you listen to the show, yeah, you know
what happens now.

Speaker 6 (08:05):
Hi, Hi Jordan, Hi, uh wow, I'm so sorry that
I didn't live up to here English speaking expectations.

Speaker 3 (08:21):
You knew what I meant, though, right, Like that's all
that matters. Communication is about intent, right, like reading people.

Speaker 4 (08:29):
Totally uh for the most part. But like this basic
first grade understanding of the language is important, like words
mean things, Jordan. Then the worst part is, like my
friends caught it too. A one of them even repeated
it back to you, like, yeah, you're all super ambiguous
and they're all laughing, and you just nodded like they
weren't roasting you. I was like, you got to have
a little bit of like self awareness about this.

Speaker 3 (08:52):
Roasting me. I wow, Okay, I don't even know what
to say that, Like, I'm pretty sure I have better
than a first grade understanding of the English language.

Speaker 5 (09:07):
Well, you did say you don't drink shots a lot,
so maybe that just kind of threw off your basic
understanding of certain words, you know. I don't know, maybe
because you do sound well spoken, now, thank you.

Speaker 3 (09:22):
I'd like to think that I am, at least most
of the time. I don't know what you expected as me.
But your friends were all of a sudden there, and
I guess I was trying to impressed and just be
you know, conversational with everybody, and you know, I was

(09:45):
drunk and like.

Speaker 4 (09:48):
Amused.

Speaker 3 (09:49):
I don't know, like you're you're acting like I did
something wrong to you.

Speaker 4 (09:55):
You were what, well, you got that one right, you
were amused?

Speaker 2 (10:00):
What is amused me? It means confused. I don't know.
I'm amused right now.

Speaker 3 (10:06):
See, I know how to use words totally.

Speaker 4 (10:09):
I mean, we're all a little amused right now.

Speaker 1 (10:11):
You know.

Speaker 4 (10:13):
I'm like, I was just saying, look, you didn't do
anything to me. You were nice, you were fun.

Speaker 3 (10:19):
It's just not for me, like words mean things, and
I can't for me, I can't be explaining basic vocabulary
every time we hang out. You know, I'm sure we
can find some sort of like explanation juxtaposition about this.

Speaker 4 (10:37):
Jordan's you're doing it again. You just did it. That's
not what that word means, like a compromise.

Speaker 3 (10:47):
Yeah, go on, It's just that's what that is. What
that means, It's that's what juxtaphones means.

Speaker 4 (10:57):
No, that's not what it means. Jordan's goodness.

Speaker 3 (11:02):
No, when two people disagree they come to a juxtaposition
that that is what that means.

Speaker 4 (11:08):
Oh my goodness, do you guys see what I'm talking about.
It's like and you're just getting a little sneak peek.
We were out there for like two hours.

Speaker 2 (11:14):
I think she's right. I think she's right. I wish
you guys could come to a juxtaposition. I mean, I.

Speaker 4 (11:18):
Understand, don't encourage her. This can be said. She needs
to know.

Speaker 2 (11:23):
Would you like to go on another date with Jordan?
We'll pay for it, and you guys can see if
you can juxtapose in person.

Speaker 4 (11:30):
Damn No, words mean things, man, I can't. I can't
be doing a Yeah.

Speaker 3 (11:36):
I also don't want another date because you clearly don't
know words like you think you do. What Why don't
you go look up juxtapose juxtaposition in a dictionary and
you can figure it out from there.

Speaker 4 (11:49):
Girl, I speak four languages, which is crazy. I hate
this so much. Right now, you will's first date fallow
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