April 17, 2025 • 10 mins
Brandon called up The Jubal Show after a week of getting ghosted. He needs help and some closure to find out why Kaitlin is ghosting him. It's an awful feeling. Let's see if The Jubal Show can get him a second date!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocates Law dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Brandon is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Caitlin. So in
a few minutes we're gonna call her in Stasi's house
why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.
But first, Brandon, how long has it been since you
heard from Kaitlin?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Man? Uh, it's been probably about a week or so.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Okay, okay, have you been trying to hit her up?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Yeah, been trying to just call and nothing.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Nothing. All right, Well, tell us a little bit about
your date.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
So we were setting by a mutual friend. Man, I've
heard it was right that Caitlin was beautiful and so
fun and instantly.
Speaker 5 (00:45):
I was I was hooked.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
So we took her or I took her out to
uh just this chill pizza place and pretty cool that
did you build your own pizza and put your own
toppings and stuff and you get to be you know,
creative with with your with your pie and uh, that's
that's all cool. But I'm you know, I'm really more
of just like a guy. So I just did that.
But Caitlin. She actually convinced me to try some proto
(01:13):
on my pizza, and I gotta hands her it was.
It was delicious. I didn't know what I've been missing
out on.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Please tell me when you ordered that. I did, Okay,
I got.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
To throw in a little bit. I love Italian, so
anytime I could say no, it was it was great,
so good. They were like, well, let's just keep this going.
We grabbed a nightcap, got some wine at a place
next door. Fortunate enough, Kitlin loves a good whiskey too,
so I treated her to an excellent Japanese whiskey, and
(01:47):
uh that opened the door to talking about travel and
our hopes and dreams and.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
Places we've been, places we'd like to go.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
So then after that I walked her home and actually
ended the.
Speaker 5 (02:03):
Night with the kiss. It was.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I guess it was a little.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
Awkward, but it was awkward.
Speaker 5 (02:08):
Well you just like I went in to kiss her,
kiss her sheep, and then like she turned and I
ended up like kissing.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Her lips, and it was It was kind of an
awkward slash funny moment, but cool.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
And okay, like one of those weird first kiss moments
where it's like some you're kind of kind of dancing
trying to figure out where you're supposed to go with it.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
Yeah, yeah, like it was.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
It was kind of like a funny moment, but I
mean it turned into kind of a passionate kiss and
and we're planned to see each other afterwards.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Okay, that's good, But she hasn't gone back to you.
What do you think? What do you think the reason
is she's goes to you?
Speaker 3 (02:46):
That's that's the thing. I don't know, Like, like we
had a great day, you know, the piece was was great,
the drinks afterwards were great.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
You know.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
The kiss, although awkward, it was kind of.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
Funny and and she didn't seem put off by it.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
You know, she actually leaned into the kiss afterwards, so
like it seemed like everything was happening. But then I
don't know, I mean, you know how these things go,
Like any anything could have happened here in the night
that she might have I just sound disgusting or off putting,
and then just didn't want to make it awkward. I
don't know. I'm kind of I've never been.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Ghosted, so I'm just got I have all these questions, but.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Did nothing happen? That's sticking out in your mind.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
No, no, and like even at the like I said,
like at the end of the night, like with the kiss,
like I don't think anyone that didn't want to see
me again would have engaged like that, you know. And
then when we were done, she actually mentioned she was
excited to see me again. So that's even more like
trivia with the situation now.
Speaker 5 (03:46):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Okay, well we'll see if we can forget oft for you.
Then we'll play a song come Back, and then call
her and sous yourselse why she's ghosting you and maybe
get to another date.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Okay, okay, perfect, all right, we'll play song come Back.
Get your first Day follow up Next.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
First follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online
at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.
But Brandon is on the phone and he's getting ghosted
by Caitlin. So we're about to call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and see
if we ca get him another date. But first, Brandon,
before we call her, why don't you refresh our memory
on your date with Kaitlin.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
So Caitlin and I went on a date. I set
it by mutual friends. We had pizza and wine and
that was great, build your own, and then we went
out for drinks afterwards, a great conversation and that that
walked her home and we ended up kissing and it
was great.
Speaker 5 (04:37):
And then she was excited to seemingly excited, tossing me again.
But after that, it's just been not been no communication.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
And you have no idea why.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Yeah, nothing.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
It's kind of disappointing.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
So I really liked her.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
I thought we had great chemistry and it seemed to
be mutual.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
So yeah, I'd be really bummed if it didn't work out.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Yeah, Well, you're ready for us to call her?
Speaker 5 (05:03):
Absolutely?
Speaker 4 (05:03):
All right, here we go.
Speaker 7 (05:18):
Hello.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Hi, man, sweet to Caitlin. Please Caitlin, Hey, how are you?
Speaker 2 (05:23):
My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Hi, Caitlin, we're all here. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi,
and I'm Victoria. Okay, Hi, Hi, what's going on? Not much?
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Why are you calling me?
Speaker 4 (05:38):
Have you ever listened to the show before? No, I'm sorry,
that's okay.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
You don't have to apologize. Maybe you will know that's
we're calling you because we do a segment on the show.
It's called the First Day follow Up. That's where if
you go on a date with someone and then you
ghost them, that person can email us and ask us
to call you and see if we can figure out
why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about
you from somebody that you went on a date with.
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Oh are you gasting somebody? Well you are, but do
you know who it is?
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Is it Brandon?
Speaker 6 (06:07):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Brandon emailed us and told us a little bit about
your date and he said he really likes you and
he thought you were into him, so he's confused as
to why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
Do you mind telling us?
Speaker 6 (06:17):
Well? I did really like him. Okay, he's hot and
smart and kind of awkward. It's actually kind of charming.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
So you liked him, but you're ghosting him.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
Well, he texted me something after our date that I
just like, haven't been able to get over.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
I didn't really know what to do with it.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Well was it a picture or something?
Speaker 7 (06:40):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (06:40):
No, no, god, no, I mean that happens.
Speaker 6 (06:45):
I think he's a good guy.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
What did he text you?
Speaker 3 (06:49):
Okay, let me really find it. Uh, Okay.
Speaker 6 (06:55):
The text is your magic and have awakened parts of
my body that I have never felt before. Romantic it's
like on the line, you know, Like I don't that's
just that's a lot after one day and kiss, and
(07:15):
like I don't know if he's like in a Shakespeare play,
Like is he taking himself seriously when he says that.
I kind of was expecting another text that was like,
you know, harks their maiden. I longed for another evening
of your presence or something like that, you know, But
I have been funny.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
You know, there's some people out there that believe in
love at first sight. So if they're laying on on
think that could be a good thing.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
It was just it was so earnest, and it just
kind of felt like too much.
Speaker 6 (07:43):
And I think he hasn't been in a relationship in
a while, and so I was afraid he was in
like this romantic, dreamy bubble and I I gotta be
with someone who's been the world that I'm living.
Speaker 4 (07:56):
In, you know what I mean. So I just hit
you like a little bit too much.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
It just felt a little I mean, how is that possible?
Speaker 4 (08:03):
Like I'm just a person, give yourself a little magic,
but like.
Speaker 6 (08:09):
I've awakened parts of his body they never show. It's
a little overwhelming to me.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Okay, and then I don't know if I'm like on
a pedestal.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
I just it just made me a little nervous.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Okay, all right, Well thank you for telling us that.
Now I got to let you know that Brandon is
on the phone and has been listening and what's it's
talks on?
Speaker 7 (08:30):
Okay, Park for yes, Well, I have dreamt of this
pleasure of occasion. Again, Hi, Park, I'm sorry, I just
(08:53):
put your business out on the radio, but you didn't
have them call me.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
So no, that's that's quite all right.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
What parts of the body were awakened? Brandon?
Speaker 3 (09:04):
I mean, I'd rather not discuss that. I think people
understand that was.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
Pretty bold of you. Brandon. What was going on through
your mind when you sent that text?
Speaker 3 (09:16):
I don't know I was awakened. I'm just I'm a
playful guy, but Kaylyn just want to assure you that
I do live in a reality. And after our date,
I was like, legit, I've never felt that way, and
you know, after my last relationship, I just that was
(09:38):
lacking and I want another date and I want to
be a part of your reality. Oh maybe I'm over
the top, but.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
This is how I was feeling, honestly, Well, Caitlyn, would
you like another date with Brandon? We'll pay for it. Yeah,
oh see Shakespeare's got congratulations Brandon, you did it, You
got another day.
Speaker 6 (10:03):
I mean, I like that he has a good attitude
and and could laugh at this, and I appreciate that
we're more on the same page than.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
I thought, Kaylen. And I can't say how I say it,
And I promise if I'm going overboard with anything, you
can always talk to me about it.
Speaker 7 (10:21):
But hard, Kaylen, My heart and the onions are bloom
away next year at the Outback Steakhouse.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Soon enjoy
Speaker 4 (10:40):
Jubile's first date, fall Up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocates Law dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Brandon is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Caitlin. So in
a few minutes we're gonna call her in Stasi's house
why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.
But first, Brandon, how long has it been since you
heard from Kaitlin?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Man? Uh, it's been probably about a week or so.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Okay, okay, have you been trying to hit her up?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Yeah, been trying to just call and nothing.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Nothing. All right, Well, tell us a little bit about
your date.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
So we were setting by a mutual friend. Man, I've
heard it was right that Caitlin was beautiful and so
fun and instantly.
Speaker 5 (00:45):
I was I was hooked.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
So we took her or I took her out to
uh just this chill pizza place and pretty cool that
did you build your own pizza and put your own
toppings and stuff and you get to be you know,
creative with with your with your pie and uh, that's
that's all cool. But I'm you know, I'm really more
of just like a guy. So I just did that.
But Caitlin. She actually convinced me to try some proto
(01:13):
on my pizza, and I gotta hands her it was.
It was delicious. I didn't know what I've been missing
out on.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Please tell me when you ordered that. I did, Okay,
I got.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
To throw in a little bit. I love Italian, so
anytime I could say no, it was it was great,
so good. They were like, well, let's just keep this going.
We grabbed a nightcap, got some wine at a place
next door. Fortunate enough, Kitlin loves a good whiskey too,
so I treated her to an excellent Japanese whiskey, and
(01:47):
uh that opened the door to talking about travel and
our hopes and dreams and.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
Places we've been, places we'd like to go.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
So then after that I walked her home and actually
ended the.
Speaker 5 (02:03):
Night with the kiss. It was.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I guess it was a little.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
Awkward, but it was awkward.
Speaker 5 (02:08):
Well you just like I went in to kiss her,
kiss her sheep, and then like she turned and I
ended up like kissing.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Her lips, and it was It was kind of an
awkward slash funny moment, but cool.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
And okay, like one of those weird first kiss moments
where it's like some you're kind of kind of dancing
trying to figure out where you're supposed to go with it.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
Yeah, yeah, like it was.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
It was kind of like a funny moment, but I
mean it turned into kind of a passionate kiss and
and we're planned to see each other afterwards.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Okay, that's good, But she hasn't gone back to you.
What do you think? What do you think the reason
is she's goes to you?
Speaker 3 (02:46):
That's that's the thing. I don't know, Like, like we
had a great day, you know, the piece was was great,
the drinks afterwards were great.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
You know.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
The kiss, although awkward, it was kind of.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
Funny and and she didn't seem put off by it.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
You know, she actually leaned into the kiss afterwards, so
like it seemed like everything was happening. But then I
don't know, I mean, you know how these things go,
Like any anything could have happened here in the night
that she might have I just sound disgusting or off putting,
and then just didn't want to make it awkward. I
don't know. I'm kind of I've never been.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Ghosted, so I'm just got I have all these questions, but.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Did nothing happen? That's sticking out in your mind.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
No, no, and like even at the like I said,
like at the end of the night, like with the kiss,
like I don't think anyone that didn't want to see
me again would have engaged like that, you know. And
then when we were done, she actually mentioned she was
excited to see me again. So that's even more like
trivia with the situation now.
Speaker 5 (03:46):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Okay, well we'll see if we can forget oft for you.
Then we'll play a song come Back, and then call
her and sous yourselse why she's ghosting you and maybe
get to another date.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Okay, okay, perfect, all right, we'll play song come Back.
Get your first Day follow up Next.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
First follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online
at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.
But Brandon is on the phone and he's getting ghosted
by Caitlin. So we're about to call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and see
if we ca get him another date. But first, Brandon,
before we call her, why don't you refresh our memory
on your date with Kaitlin.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
So Caitlin and I went on a date. I set
it by mutual friends. We had pizza and wine and
that was great, build your own, and then we went
out for drinks afterwards, a great conversation and that that
walked her home and we ended up kissing and it
was great.
Speaker 5 (04:37):
And then she was excited to seemingly excited, tossing me again.
But after that, it's just been not been no communication.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
And you have no idea why.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Yeah, nothing.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
It's kind of disappointing.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
So I really liked her.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
I thought we had great chemistry and it seemed to
be mutual.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
So yeah, I'd be really bummed if it didn't work out.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Yeah, Well, you're ready for us to call her?
Speaker 5 (05:03):
Absolutely?
Speaker 4 (05:03):
All right, here we go.
Speaker 7 (05:18):
Hello.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Hi, man, sweet to Caitlin. Please Caitlin, Hey, how are you?
Speaker 2 (05:23):
My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Hi, Caitlin, we're all here. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi,
and I'm Victoria. Okay, Hi, Hi, what's going on? Not much?
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Why are you calling me?
Speaker 4 (05:38):
Have you ever listened to the show before? No, I'm sorry,
that's okay.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
You don't have to apologize. Maybe you will know that's
we're calling you because we do a segment on the show.
It's called the First Day follow Up. That's where if
you go on a date with someone and then you
ghost them, that person can email us and ask us
to call you and see if we can figure out
why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about
you from somebody that you went on a date with.
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Oh are you gasting somebody? Well you are, but do
you know who it is?
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Is it Brandon?
Speaker 6 (06:07):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Brandon emailed us and told us a little bit about
your date and he said he really likes you and
he thought you were into him, so he's confused as
to why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
Do you mind telling us?
Speaker 6 (06:17):
Well? I did really like him. Okay, he's hot and
smart and kind of awkward. It's actually kind of charming.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
So you liked him, but you're ghosting him.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
Well, he texted me something after our date that I
just like, haven't been able to get over.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
I didn't really know what to do with it.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Well was it a picture or something?
Speaker 7 (06:40):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (06:40):
No, no, god, no, I mean that happens.
Speaker 6 (06:45):
I think he's a good guy.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
What did he text you?
Speaker 3 (06:49):
Okay, let me really find it. Uh, Okay.
Speaker 6 (06:55):
The text is your magic and have awakened parts of
my body that I have never felt before. Romantic it's
like on the line, you know, Like I don't that's
just that's a lot after one day and kiss, and
(07:15):
like I don't know if he's like in a Shakespeare play,
Like is he taking himself seriously when he says that.
I kind of was expecting another text that was like,
you know, harks their maiden. I longed for another evening
of your presence or something like that, you know, But
I have been funny.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
You know, there's some people out there that believe in
love at first sight. So if they're laying on on
think that could be a good thing.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
It was just it was so earnest, and it just
kind of felt like too much.
Speaker 6 (07:43):
And I think he hasn't been in a relationship in
a while, and so I was afraid he was in
like this romantic, dreamy bubble and I I gotta be
with someone who's been the world that I'm living.
Speaker 4 (07:56):
In, you know what I mean. So I just hit
you like a little bit too much.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
It just felt a little I mean, how is that possible?
Speaker 4 (08:03):
Like I'm just a person, give yourself a little magic,
but like.
Speaker 6 (08:09):
I've awakened parts of his body they never show. It's
a little overwhelming to me.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Okay, and then I don't know if I'm like on
a pedestal.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
I just it just made me a little nervous.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Okay, all right, Well thank you for telling us that.
Now I got to let you know that Brandon is
on the phone and has been listening and what's it's
talks on?
Speaker 7 (08:30):
Okay, Park for yes, Well, I have dreamt of this
pleasure of occasion. Again, Hi, Park, I'm sorry, I just
(08:53):
put your business out on the radio, but you didn't
have them call me.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
So no, that's that's quite all right.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
What parts of the body were awakened? Brandon?
Speaker 3 (09:04):
I mean, I'd rather not discuss that. I think people
understand that was.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
Pretty bold of you. Brandon. What was going on through
your mind when you sent that text?
Speaker 3 (09:16):
I don't know I was awakened. I'm just I'm a
playful guy, but Kaylyn just want to assure you that
I do live in a reality. And after our date,
I was like, legit, I've never felt that way, and
you know, after my last relationship, I just that was
(09:38):
lacking and I want another date and I want to
be a part of your reality. Oh maybe I'm over
the top, but.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
This is how I was feeling, honestly, Well, Caitlyn, would
you like another date with Brandon? We'll pay for it. Yeah,
oh see Shakespeare's got congratulations Brandon, you did it, You
got another day.
Speaker 6 (10:03):
I mean, I like that he has a good attitude
and and could laugh at this, and I appreciate that
we're more on the same page than.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
I thought, Kaylen. And I can't say how I say it,
And I promise if I'm going overboard with anything, you
can always talk to me about it.
Speaker 7 (10:21):
But hard, Kaylen, My heart and the onions are bloom
away next year at the Outback Steakhouse.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Soon enjoy
Speaker 4 (10:40):
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