April 21, 2025 • 9 mins
JR had a great date, and now he's getting ghosted by Marie. They met on the apps, and he's incredibly attracted to her. Let's see if The Jubal Show can get JR a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
JR.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Is on the phone today for our first Date follow
up and he's getting ghosted by Marie. So in a
second we're going to call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe you get
him another date.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
But first, JR. How long has it been since you
heard from Marie?
Speaker 4 (00:19):
Oh man, A couple of days. I guess maybe a
week now.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Okay, did you try to hit her up?
Speaker 5 (00:26):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Yeah, I've called a couple of times. I didn't leave
a voice message every time I called because I didn't
want to sound crazy or whatever. But she just hasn't
called back. I got nothing.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
All right, we'll tell us about the date.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
It was awesome, so we mount on the apps. I
just was so attracted to how nurturing she seemed. I mean,
she had pictures with animals, she was out in nature,
you know, okay, with her friends. I mean the second
we started talking, it was like I was telling her
about how always wanted to ride a horse, but I've
(01:02):
been like real afraid to try. And she laughed at it,
you know, But like it was that cute kind of laugh,
and then she was like really encouraging, and we decided
that actually our first meeting would be for me to
go horseback riding.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Oh that's a cool first day.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
It was amazing, Like I actually rode a horse. She
was amazing. She was like like my personal cheerleader.
Speaker 6 (01:34):
She was just.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
So warm and energetic and and I mean she.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Was gorgeous too.
Speaker 6 (01:40):
I just oh, I can't get it out.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
Of my mind. It was amazing. And after we rode horses,
we you know, we went home to shower and we
changed and then we met up for dinner. And oh
my gosh, I'm smiling so hard right now just thinking
about it.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
It was things, things are going great.
Speaker 6 (02:01):
You know.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
We we even kissed before we went into the restaurant.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
And that's a good sign, really good sign.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Oh my gosh. That's usually it's like if you're lucky
after dinner. You know, this was right away and you know,
set the tone for some real romance. And after dinner,
you know, we kissed again and I told her that
I was gonna call her this week with a plan
for another adventure. You know, it's just.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
This is so good, so you're really into her.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
It sounds like the date went great though, to have
a two part date and kisses and feels like there
was really great momentum.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
What could have gone wrong? You think?
Speaker 4 (02:43):
You know, the only thing that I can really think
of is like, you know, I'm the type of person that, like,
sometimes I stay the wrong thing at the wrong time.
You know, I don't mean to, but like we were
sitting at dinner and I noticed that she had like
an her handbag and some fancy jewelry, and you know,
(03:03):
she's a teacher, and right away you wanted to make
a little joke because she had really fancy stuff. So
I remember saying like, hey, what are you on OnlyFans
or something like the you know, how do you afford
that fancy stuff? She It was like the only point
where I forget all that romance is she looked just
(03:26):
like cold and uh. Then she kind of played it off,
but She's like, I'm just I'm a good thrifter. And
there was a little awkward moment there.
Speaker 6 (03:35):
You know.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
I moved on from it and I told her, you say, hey,
I'm mean to offend you or anything, and I told
her it was a joke, and that was the only
moment that kind of that I can think of. That
was like, oh, is that what it was? Did I
really ruin it by put my foot in my mouth again?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Okay, it sounds like you're joked in land. You got
to tell that one, right, just right, you got to
tell that one.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Like yeah, okay, well yeah, maybe that's why she's not
calling you back. We'll play a song come back and
then call her and see if some tell us why
she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Okay, oh my gosh, please, yes, thank you.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
All right, we'll play a song, come back and get
your first day follow up.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocateslad dot com.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Right in the middle of today's first Day follow up,
if you're just joining us, Jr. Is on the phone
and he's getting ghosted by Marie and so in the
second we're gonna call her and see if she's hell
us why she's ghosting him. But before we do that, Jarah,
why don't you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Yeah, So went on the best first day I've ever had.
We broke one of my fears going horseback riding. We
kissed before dinner, after dinner. It was something straight out
of a movie as far as I'm concerned. And I
may have put my foot in my mouth, but I
think it went really well overall, and I can't get
(04:56):
her to get back to me, and I really want
to go on another adventure with her.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Your foot in your mouth was there because you asked
her if she was on only fans because she had
nice things?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Yeah, but it was a joke, right right? All right?
Speaker 4 (05:09):
Man?
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4 (05:11):
I'm nervous, but I am absolutely ready.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Okay, here we go.
Speaker 6 (05:28):
Hello.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Hi, man, speak to Marie please. This is her.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Hey, Marie, how are you? My name is Jebel. I'm
calling from a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show
him Marie.
Speaker 5 (05:36):
I'm Nina also on the show.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hey.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
How are you great? Thanks for asking? Have you ever
heard of the show before?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (05:46):
I love the show.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Oh great. Do you like the first A follow ups?
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Yes, congratulations because this is a first A follow up.
You're gusting somebody and the emailed us about you.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Do you know who that would be?
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Yes Jr? Yes Jr. So he emailed us and told
us about your date. He said, he really liked you,
and he's not sure why are you ghosting him? Deepoint telling us, oh.
Speaker 6 (06:19):
My goodness, I'm so very well, I really liked him too.
But and and the date was great and everything, but
to be honest, he was asking some personal questions and
he seemed like he was crying a little bit. I
couldn't tell if he was joking or not, but he,
you know, it was getting a little too close to
(06:39):
finding out a secret, honestly. And I I just don't
go out with guys.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Like that, like inquisitive, like guys like that, do you what.
Speaker 6 (06:48):
Do you mean, Yeah, like you know, nosy. You know,
I like to keep my privacy, you know, like my
personal business is my business.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Okay, what do you mean by that?
Speaker 6 (07:00):
Well, you know, I just I want a guy that
like me for me, and I'm not sure if he does.
And I, you know, I'm not sure if he's like
creepy or not.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
You don't know if he's creepy or not. Why.
Speaker 6 (07:17):
Well, he made a comment about my jewelry and my
bags that I mean, I'd like to have nice stuff.
And he asked me if I was on OnlyFans and
and and it made me think, is that how he
saw me? Is that?
Speaker 4 (07:31):
Like?
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Is that why he's okay?
Speaker 5 (07:34):
So you feel like he put two and two together
and you're usually low key about it.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
You probably knew how people that want to date you
because of that.
Speaker 6 (07:41):
Oh yeah, it's happened before, honestly, and I'm pretty sure
that's how he knows me. I'm pretty sure he figured
it out and that's why he asked me for a date.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Ohh whoa, whoa wait a minute, So you you are
only fans.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
He's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 6 (07:59):
No, Oh my god, Oh my goodness, old.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
Hi, Oh my gosh. Yeah, I swear I did not
know you were on there.
Speaker 6 (08:10):
I was just making a joke.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
That is a bad time joke.
Speaker 6 (08:16):
I thought that you that you for sure knew I
was on and that's why you asked me out. So
you really just saw me on the app and and
genuinely just wanted to go out with me.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Yeah, you seem so sweet. It's one percent for like
who you are.
Speaker 6 (08:36):
Oh my gosh, I'm going to cry.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
It is cool that you have an only fans.
Speaker 6 (08:43):
I like it, you do, You're cool with it.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
Yeah, I don't care about that. I'd never judge you
for that, you know, I mean, if you want to
keep it a secret, maybe, you know, don't bring out
the fancy stuff. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
You were doing so well. This is just another one
this moment. I like what I say.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
Yeah, No, I'm sorry. I was so stupid. I was
just trying to do I danced in person, but you
guys can't see that and it was supposed to be
a joke and I suck at that.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
But you rode a horse j R. You did Yeah,
and she was amazing.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
I never would have done it if it wasn't for Marie,
like it was.
Speaker 6 (09:24):
It was. You were my little You're my hero that day, Marie.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
It was great. You guys are actually really cute.
Speaker 6 (09:31):
Thank you. You are really sweet, Air and I and
I do really like you, Marie.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
Would you like to go on another date with you?
Speaker 4 (09:37):
Are?
Speaker 2 (09:37):
We'll pay for it?
Speaker 6 (09:38):
Really? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (09:41):
Oh my gosh, Please please say yes.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Please say yes. I swear to already whoever?
Speaker 6 (09:47):
Yes, great?
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Sorry, you will First date follow up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
JR.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Is on the phone today for our first Date follow
up and he's getting ghosted by Marie. So in a
second we're going to call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe you get
him another date.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
But first, JR. How long has it been since you
heard from Marie?
Speaker 4 (00:19):
Oh man, A couple of days. I guess maybe a
week now.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Okay, did you try to hit her up?
Speaker 5 (00:26):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Yeah, I've called a couple of times. I didn't leave
a voice message every time I called because I didn't
want to sound crazy or whatever. But she just hasn't
called back. I got nothing.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
All right, we'll tell us about the date.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
It was awesome, so we mount on the apps. I
just was so attracted to how nurturing she seemed. I mean,
she had pictures with animals, she was out in nature,
you know, okay, with her friends. I mean the second
we started talking, it was like I was telling her
about how always wanted to ride a horse, but I've
(01:02):
been like real afraid to try. And she laughed at it,
you know, But like it was that cute kind of laugh,
and then she was like really encouraging, and we decided
that actually our first meeting would be for me to
go horseback riding.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Oh that's a cool first day.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
It was amazing, Like I actually rode a horse. She
was amazing. She was like like my personal cheerleader.
Speaker 6 (01:34):
She was just.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
So warm and energetic and and I mean she.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Was gorgeous too.
Speaker 6 (01:40):
I just oh, I can't get it out.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
Of my mind. It was amazing. And after we rode horses,
we you know, we went home to shower and we
changed and then we met up for dinner. And oh
my gosh, I'm smiling so hard right now just thinking
about it.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
It was things, things are going great.
Speaker 6 (02:01):
You know.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
We we even kissed before we went into the restaurant.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
And that's a good sign, really good sign.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Oh my gosh. That's usually it's like if you're lucky
after dinner. You know, this was right away and you know,
set the tone for some real romance. And after dinner,
you know, we kissed again and I told her that
I was gonna call her this week with a plan
for another adventure. You know, it's just.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
This is so good, so you're really into her.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
It sounds like the date went great though, to have
a two part date and kisses and feels like there
was really great momentum.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
What could have gone wrong? You think?
Speaker 4 (02:43):
You know, the only thing that I can really think
of is like, you know, I'm the type of person that, like,
sometimes I stay the wrong thing at the wrong time.
You know, I don't mean to, but like we were
sitting at dinner and I noticed that she had like
an her handbag and some fancy jewelry, and you know,
(03:03):
she's a teacher, and right away you wanted to make
a little joke because she had really fancy stuff. So
I remember saying like, hey, what are you on OnlyFans
or something like the you know, how do you afford
that fancy stuff? She It was like the only point
where I forget all that romance is she looked just
(03:26):
like cold and uh. Then she kind of played it off,
but She's like, I'm just I'm a good thrifter. And
there was a little awkward moment there.
Speaker 6 (03:35):
You know.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
I moved on from it and I told her, you say, hey,
I'm mean to offend you or anything, and I told
her it was a joke, and that was the only
moment that kind of that I can think of. That
was like, oh, is that what it was? Did I
really ruin it by put my foot in my mouth again?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Okay, it sounds like you're joked in land. You got
to tell that one, right, just right, you got to
tell that one.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Like yeah, okay, well yeah, maybe that's why she's not
calling you back. We'll play a song come back and
then call her and see if some tell us why
she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Okay, oh my gosh, please, yes, thank you.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
All right, we'll play a song, come back and get
your first day follow up.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocateslad dot com.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Right in the middle of today's first Day follow up,
if you're just joining us, Jr. Is on the phone
and he's getting ghosted by Marie and so in the
second we're gonna call her and see if she's hell
us why she's ghosting him. But before we do that, Jarah,
why don't you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Yeah, So went on the best first day I've ever had.
We broke one of my fears going horseback riding. We
kissed before dinner, after dinner. It was something straight out
of a movie as far as I'm concerned. And I
may have put my foot in my mouth, but I
think it went really well overall, and I can't get
(04:56):
her to get back to me, and I really want
to go on another adventure with her.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Your foot in your mouth was there because you asked
her if she was on only fans because she had
nice things?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Yeah, but it was a joke, right right? All right?
Speaker 4 (05:09):
Man?
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4 (05:11):
I'm nervous, but I am absolutely ready.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Okay, here we go.
Speaker 6 (05:28):
Hello.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Hi, man, speak to Marie please. This is her.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Hey, Marie, how are you? My name is Jebel. I'm
calling from a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show
him Marie.
Speaker 5 (05:36):
I'm Nina also on the show.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hey.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
How are you great? Thanks for asking? Have you ever
heard of the show before?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (05:46):
I love the show.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Oh great. Do you like the first A follow ups?
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Yes, congratulations because this is a first A follow up.
You're gusting somebody and the emailed us about you.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Do you know who that would be?
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Yes Jr? Yes Jr. So he emailed us and told
us about your date. He said, he really liked you,
and he's not sure why are you ghosting him? Deepoint telling us, oh.
Speaker 6 (06:19):
My goodness, I'm so very well, I really liked him too.
But and and the date was great and everything, but
to be honest, he was asking some personal questions and
he seemed like he was crying a little bit. I
couldn't tell if he was joking or not, but he,
you know, it was getting a little too close to
(06:39):
finding out a secret, honestly. And I I just don't
go out with guys.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Like that, like inquisitive, like guys like that, do you what.
Speaker 6 (06:48):
Do you mean, Yeah, like you know, nosy. You know,
I like to keep my privacy, you know, like my
personal business is my business.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Okay, what do you mean by that?
Speaker 6 (07:00):
Well, you know, I just I want a guy that
like me for me, and I'm not sure if he does.
And I, you know, I'm not sure if he's like
creepy or not.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
You don't know if he's creepy or not. Why.
Speaker 6 (07:17):
Well, he made a comment about my jewelry and my
bags that I mean, I'd like to have nice stuff.
And he asked me if I was on OnlyFans and
and and it made me think, is that how he
saw me? Is that?
Speaker 4 (07:31):
Like?
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Is that why he's okay?
Speaker 5 (07:34):
So you feel like he put two and two together
and you're usually low key about it.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
You probably knew how people that want to date you
because of that.
Speaker 6 (07:41):
Oh yeah, it's happened before, honestly, and I'm pretty sure
that's how he knows me. I'm pretty sure he figured
it out and that's why he asked me for a date.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Ohh whoa, whoa wait a minute, So you you are
only fans.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
He's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 6 (07:59):
No, Oh my god, Oh my goodness, old.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
Hi, Oh my gosh. Yeah, I swear I did not
know you were on there.
Speaker 6 (08:10):
I was just making a joke.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
That is a bad time joke.
Speaker 6 (08:16):
I thought that you that you for sure knew I
was on and that's why you asked me out. So
you really just saw me on the app and and
genuinely just wanted to go out with me.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Yeah, you seem so sweet. It's one percent for like
who you are.
Speaker 6 (08:36):
Oh my gosh, I'm going to cry.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
It is cool that you have an only fans.
Speaker 6 (08:43):
I like it, you do, You're cool with it.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
Yeah, I don't care about that. I'd never judge you
for that, you know, I mean, if you want to
keep it a secret, maybe, you know, don't bring out
the fancy stuff. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
You were doing so well. This is just another one
this moment. I like what I say.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
Yeah, No, I'm sorry. I was so stupid. I was
just trying to do I danced in person, but you
guys can't see that and it was supposed to be
a joke and I suck at that.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
But you rode a horse j R. You did Yeah,
and she was amazing.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
I never would have done it if it wasn't for Marie,
like it was.
Speaker 6 (09:24):
It was. You were my little You're my hero that day, Marie.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
It was great. You guys are actually really cute.
Speaker 6 (09:31):
Thank you. You are really sweet, Air and I and
I do really like you, Marie.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
Would you like to go on another date with you?
Speaker 4 (09:37):
Are?
Speaker 2 (09:37):
We'll pay for it?
Speaker 6 (09:38):
Really? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (09:41):
Oh my gosh, Please please say yes.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Please say yes. I swear to already whoever?
Speaker 6 (09:47):
Yes, great?
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Sorry, you will First date follow up
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