April 15, 2025 • 10 mins
It's been about two weeks, and Joseph really wants to know why Mia is ghosting. The date went 'SO WELL' so why is this happening? Let's see if The Jubal Show can get Joseph a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocates Law dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Joseph is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Mia. So we're
gonna see if we can find out why he's getting
ghosted and maybe get him another date if he still
wants one. But first, Joseph Hollegs, have been since you
heard from Mia?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Well, I mean it's been a couple of weeks now,
and I'm getting kind of worried.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Getting worried. Is there a reason why you feel worried?
Like about her? About her?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
She's ghosting you most of about like her, she's ghosting me.
It's it's been a little while, and it went so well.
This was one of the best days I've ever had.
It seems so promising. We actually we had We were
we were set up for dinner in a movie and
we were talking for so long at dinner that we
ended up missing the movie. Like that was great, you know, yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
You missed the whole movie.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Well no, I mean we're able to get it. It's
just it's been we ended up missing the opening. Those
just felt really good, you know, talking to her.
Speaker 4 (01:06):
No tell us more about it. What did you guys
talk about? Why? You know, do you feel like it
was so great?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Oh? Well, I mean we went to a pizza place because,
as she had said in the previous conversation how much
she loved pizza. And I was like, oh great, this
is kind of casual but also kind of like, you know,
sort of a dinner, so a little more than just
like coffee. Was great. We had to talk about our careers,
you know, our families. We seem to be on the
same wavelengths. You know. Actually we both mentioned that we
(01:33):
wanted to check out a museum that we had been
looking at and maybe we could do that sometime. And
I was like, oh good, okay, so like second date
right there, it's kind of built into it, and I
just felt really promising.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
Did anything happen on the date? We're kind of an
obvious sign.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Why she's not on you back, I've got I'm not
gonna lie. I've got an idea of what might have happened.
See you will. We were, uh, while we were out,
I saw my sister and you know, my my my
sister is married and I go over to dinner with
(02:12):
her and her family every once in a while so
I can see my nieces and nephews. And we've recently
talked about how I probably shouldn't talk about my love life, uh,
you know around like the kids right now, you know,
just until things get kind of settled, because that way,
you know, it kind of awkward for them. And when
you know, I saw it out, I was like, oh no,
(02:32):
this is kind of awkward, this is kind of weird.
How do I act in this situation? I wouldn't be
surprised if that was a little confusing.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Wait, so you didn't you didn't talk to your sister?
Speaker 3 (02:44):
No? No, I just was like, oh God, what do
I What do I do here? And I probably it
probably kind of upset how I I spoke to to
me as well?
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Did you tell me that it was your sister who
was there, or that you knew each other or anything
like that.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
No. I was afraid it was going to make things
even more awkward. And I was like, oh God, if
I just kind of play this off, let's not even
like make a thing out of it, because it's one
of those the bigger the thing that's the more weird
it get. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not sure I
did a great job.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
Okay, it sounds like it was kind of weird.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Yeah, it sounds awkward. All right, Well we'll see if
we can figure it out. We'll play a song and
then come back and call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you
another date.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Okay, okay, thanks, all right, well play song, come back,
Get your first Day follow up.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Next first Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocates Law dot com.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Right in the middle of the first Date follow Up
and if you're just joining us, Joseph is on the phone.
He's been getting ghosted for like two weeks now and
doesn't know why. So we're about to call the girl
that he went out with. Her name is Mia and
see if we can figure out why he's getting ghosted
and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Josephy,
don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Mia.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
Sure? Me and I had a great time. We went
to a pizza place, We talked about setting up a
second day at a museum. We actually were talking for
so long we almost missed the movie. I'm not sure
why she hasn't gotten back to me after like a
couple of weeks. I'm a little worried that it's because
I was a little awkward when I saw my sister out,
but I'm not sure.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Okay, Well, we'll give her a call right now and
ask her if she'll ask her why she's ghost to you,
and see if she'll tell us and then maybe get
you another day.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
You're ready, All right, let's go.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to
mea please? This Hey Mia, how are you? My name
(04:51):
is Jubell. I host a radio show. It's called The
Jebel Show.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Him Mia, the show's here too. I'm Nina, Hi, and
I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5 (04:57):
Oh ho, Hi, how are you doing today? Good? Okay,
So what's the show.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
It's a radio show. It's called The Jewel Show. We
do a segment on our show called the First Day Followup.
That's where if you go out on a date with
somebody and then end up ghosting them, they can get
they can email us to get you on the phone
and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an
email about you from Joseph.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
Oh oh oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I definitely went
out with a guy named Joseph.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Okay, Well, Joseph said, you've been ghosting him for like
two weeks now, and he wants to know why.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
He thought things went really well and he liked you
a lot.
Speaker 5 (05:42):
Well, it actually did spurn off really well. We went
and had pizza, and we had a lot of things coming.
We were laughing, we were even planning or going to
a mushim for the next date. But then we meet
the movies and he is clearly not over his ex
(06:05):
because he saw his ex there and he was acting
really weird. He showed no affection to me. It was
very awkward. And then after the movies we rushed out
of there. And so that is why, because he's not
over his X.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
How do you know that was his X? Did you
say that?
Speaker 5 (06:26):
He didn't say that, but it was like he looked
over at her. He was acting really strange. It just
it felt like it was his X. I mean, you
kind of just know that's his ex.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
You know.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
It was awkward because he like stopped touching me.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
He stopped, I mean he lost would it be you.
Speaker 4 (06:42):
Know, could it be like his sister or something?
Speaker 5 (06:46):
Well, why would his sister care if he was touching me?
Speaker 4 (06:50):
That is a very fair point. But sometimes what we
think is happening isn't always happening.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
Possibly, I mean, what was not his sister?
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I don't know, let's ask him. Joseph is actually on
the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5 (07:08):
Oh oh.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Wow, Hi.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
Yeah, you were actually really weird with that girl. It
definitely felt like that was your ex. You had your
hand on my lap and then when you saw her
you took your hand off and it was just very distant.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
It was very awkward. Yeah, believe it or not, that
actually is my sister. Yes, I was. We have an
agreement that I don't like that I don't talk about
my ongoing like romantic relationships for a little while here.
(07:52):
Definitely not you know, around my nieces and nephews, and
it's kind of that couple are like, oh god, it's
like not time. I don't really want to like introduce
you the family on a first date I had, So
I did not handle that well.
Speaker 5 (08:09):
Yeah, that was Why did you just say something or
text me afterwards? I mean we rushed out of the
movie thear what we just dressed it out and then
like it just felt very awkward. I mean, if you
kind of explain, which is kind of weird that you
(08:30):
don't want to talk about your relationship, but I guess
sometimes you don't. I mean, it was our first date.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
I got.
Speaker 5 (08:36):
I guess I got that, like you don't want to,
you know, introduce to the family. But that was really weird.
He couldn't say side to her or or even say
anything to me.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Did she say anything?
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Yeah? Right, yeah, no, I just kind of wanted to
leave the situation. I was really thinking. I was like,
oh good, I'll just kind of get out of here.
I'll play it off cool. I very clearly did a
terrible job of that. Yeah you did.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
I mean, yeah, it was very comfortable. And then all
of a sudden you saw her and like this night
and day you were affectionate, and then nothing.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
Joseph, you kind of turned into a red flag. I'm
really sorry. You're so sweet, and I really wanted this
to work out for you. But you can't just run
away from a situation that's I'm comfortable. Every time something's
not cool for you can't just go.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
Oh yeah, that's funny.
Speaker 4 (09:33):
That was for sure, I know somehow. I mean, on
a first day meeting family, you just say it's your friend,
but yeah, your sister's obviously not going to be But listen,
if you're doing it in front of kids, you're just like, hey,
this is my friend, Bob. You know, well for me,
you could have done that next time. The next time, yeah,
(09:54):
next time.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Well, how would you like to have another awkward situation
happened with Joseph? Because I think there might be many
things like like, yeah, would you like to go on
another date with Joseph? Will pay for it?
Speaker 5 (10:06):
How many siblings? How many times will this happen? Uh,
it's knowing that it's his sister, I actually feel a
lot better. It was a little weird. Just tell me
next time. But yeah, I actually have a really good
time at the pizza place, and I would like to
(10:26):
see that zoomed still, so I totally want.
Speaker 4 (10:30):
To go out with you into girlfriend at the Musicum, sorry,
just kidding. I will see the best
Speaker 2 (10:40):
You will first date follow up
First Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocates Law dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Joseph is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Mia. So we're
gonna see if we can find out why he's getting
ghosted and maybe get him another date if he still
wants one. But first, Joseph Hollegs, have been since you
heard from Mia?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Well, I mean it's been a couple of weeks now,
and I'm getting kind of worried.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Getting worried. Is there a reason why you feel worried?
Like about her? About her?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
She's ghosting you most of about like her, she's ghosting me.
It's it's been a little while, and it went so well.
This was one of the best days I've ever had.
It seems so promising. We actually we had We were
we were set up for dinner in a movie and
we were talking for so long at dinner that we
ended up missing the movie. Like that was great, you know, yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
You missed the whole movie.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Well no, I mean we're able to get it. It's
just it's been we ended up missing the opening. Those
just felt really good, you know, talking to her.
Speaker 4 (01:06):
No tell us more about it. What did you guys
talk about? Why? You know, do you feel like it
was so great?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Oh? Well, I mean we went to a pizza place because,
as she had said in the previous conversation how much
she loved pizza. And I was like, oh great, this
is kind of casual but also kind of like, you know,
sort of a dinner, so a little more than just
like coffee. Was great. We had to talk about our careers,
you know, our families. We seem to be on the
same wavelengths. You know. Actually we both mentioned that we
(01:33):
wanted to check out a museum that we had been
looking at and maybe we could do that sometime. And
I was like, oh good, okay, so like second date
right there, it's kind of built into it, and I
just felt really promising.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
Did anything happen on the date? We're kind of an
obvious sign.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Why she's not on you back, I've got I'm not
gonna lie. I've got an idea of what might have happened.
See you will. We were, uh, while we were out,
I saw my sister and you know, my my my
sister is married and I go over to dinner with
(02:12):
her and her family every once in a while so
I can see my nieces and nephews. And we've recently
talked about how I probably shouldn't talk about my love life, uh,
you know around like the kids right now, you know,
just until things get kind of settled, because that way,
you know, it kind of awkward for them. And when
you know, I saw it out, I was like, oh no,
(02:32):
this is kind of awkward, this is kind of weird.
How do I act in this situation? I wouldn't be
surprised if that was a little confusing.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Wait, so you didn't you didn't talk to your sister?
Speaker 3 (02:44):
No? No, I just was like, oh God, what do
I What do I do here? And I probably it
probably kind of upset how I I spoke to to
me as well?
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Did you tell me that it was your sister who
was there, or that you knew each other or anything
like that.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
No. I was afraid it was going to make things
even more awkward. And I was like, oh God, if
I just kind of play this off, let's not even
like make a thing out of it, because it's one
of those the bigger the thing that's the more weird
it get. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not sure I
did a great job.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
Okay, it sounds like it was kind of weird.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Yeah, it sounds awkward. All right, Well we'll see if
we can figure it out. We'll play a song and
then come back and call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you
another date.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Okay, okay, thanks, all right, well play song, come back,
Get your first Day follow up.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Next first Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocates Law dot com.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Right in the middle of the first Date follow Up
and if you're just joining us, Joseph is on the phone.
He's been getting ghosted for like two weeks now and
doesn't know why. So we're about to call the girl
that he went out with. Her name is Mia and
see if we can figure out why he's getting ghosted
and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Josephy,
don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Mia.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
Sure? Me and I had a great time. We went
to a pizza place, We talked about setting up a
second day at a museum. We actually were talking for
so long we almost missed the movie. I'm not sure
why she hasn't gotten back to me after like a
couple of weeks. I'm a little worried that it's because
I was a little awkward when I saw my sister out,
but I'm not sure.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Okay, Well, we'll give her a call right now and
ask her if she'll ask her why she's ghost to you,
and see if she'll tell us and then maybe get
you another day.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
You're ready, All right, let's go.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to
mea please? This Hey Mia, how are you? My name
(04:51):
is Jubell. I host a radio show. It's called The
Jebel Show.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Him Mia, the show's here too. I'm Nina, Hi, and
I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5 (04:57):
Oh ho, Hi, how are you doing today? Good? Okay,
So what's the show.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
It's a radio show. It's called The Jewel Show. We
do a segment on our show called the First Day Followup.
That's where if you go out on a date with
somebody and then end up ghosting them, they can get
they can email us to get you on the phone
and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an
email about you from Joseph.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
Oh oh oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I definitely went
out with a guy named Joseph.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Okay, Well, Joseph said, you've been ghosting him for like
two weeks now, and he wants to know why.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
He thought things went really well and he liked you
a lot.
Speaker 5 (05:42):
Well, it actually did spurn off really well. We went
and had pizza, and we had a lot of things coming.
We were laughing, we were even planning or going to
a mushim for the next date. But then we meet
the movies and he is clearly not over his ex
(06:05):
because he saw his ex there and he was acting
really weird. He showed no affection to me. It was
very awkward. And then after the movies we rushed out
of there. And so that is why, because he's not
over his X.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
How do you know that was his X? Did you
say that?
Speaker 5 (06:26):
He didn't say that, but it was like he looked
over at her. He was acting really strange. It just
it felt like it was his X. I mean, you
kind of just know that's his ex.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
You know.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
It was awkward because he like stopped touching me.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
He stopped, I mean he lost would it be you.
Speaker 4 (06:42):
Know, could it be like his sister or something?
Speaker 5 (06:46):
Well, why would his sister care if he was touching me?
Speaker 4 (06:50):
That is a very fair point. But sometimes what we
think is happening isn't always happening.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
Possibly, I mean, what was not his sister?
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I don't know, let's ask him. Joseph is actually on
the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5 (07:08):
Oh oh.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Wow, Hi.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
Yeah, you were actually really weird with that girl. It
definitely felt like that was your ex. You had your
hand on my lap and then when you saw her
you took your hand off and it was just very distant.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
It was very awkward. Yeah, believe it or not, that
actually is my sister. Yes, I was. We have an
agreement that I don't like that I don't talk about
my ongoing like romantic relationships for a little while here.
(07:52):
Definitely not you know, around my nieces and nephews, and
it's kind of that couple are like, oh god, it's
like not time. I don't really want to like introduce
you the family on a first date I had, So
I did not handle that well.
Speaker 5 (08:09):
Yeah, that was Why did you just say something or
text me afterwards? I mean we rushed out of the
movie thear what we just dressed it out and then
like it just felt very awkward. I mean, if you
kind of explain, which is kind of weird that you
(08:30):
don't want to talk about your relationship, but I guess
sometimes you don't. I mean, it was our first date.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
I got.
Speaker 5 (08:36):
I guess I got that, like you don't want to,
you know, introduce to the family. But that was really weird.
He couldn't say side to her or or even say
anything to me.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Did she say anything?
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Yeah? Right, yeah, no, I just kind of wanted to
leave the situation. I was really thinking. I was like,
oh good, I'll just kind of get out of here.
I'll play it off cool. I very clearly did a
terrible job of that. Yeah you did.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
I mean, yeah, it was very comfortable. And then all
of a sudden you saw her and like this night
and day you were affectionate, and then nothing.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
Joseph, you kind of turned into a red flag. I'm
really sorry. You're so sweet, and I really wanted this
to work out for you. But you can't just run
away from a situation that's I'm comfortable. Every time something's
not cool for you can't just go.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
Oh yeah, that's funny.
Speaker 4 (09:33):
That was for sure, I know somehow. I mean, on
a first day meeting family, you just say it's your friend,
but yeah, your sister's obviously not going to be But listen,
if you're doing it in front of kids, you're just like, hey,
this is my friend, Bob. You know, well for me,
you could have done that next time. The next time, yeah,
(09:54):
next time.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Well, how would you like to have another awkward situation
happened with Joseph? Because I think there might be many
things like like, yeah, would you like to go on
another date with Joseph? Will pay for it?
Speaker 5 (10:06):
How many siblings? How many times will this happen? Uh,
it's knowing that it's his sister, I actually feel a
lot better. It was a little weird. Just tell me
next time. But yeah, I actually have a really good
time at the pizza place, and I would like to
(10:26):
see that zoomed still, so I totally want.
Speaker 4 (10:30):
To go out with you into girlfriend at the Musicum, sorry,
just kidding. I will see the best
Speaker 2 (10:40):
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