January 21, 2025 • 24 mins
Falen and Jenny discuss Falen's new fav spot for lunch, body image/self love, Falen's confession about Jake and more!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. We are a
little bit late today. Yes, we didn't really like warn
you last week. That's on us kind of totally forgot
it was a holiday weekend.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
I know, I wasn't thinking about that, and then you
and I were texting yesterday and we were like maybe
going to hang out, but my day kind of got
away with me with some plans I had, so it
didn't happen. But I almost was going to be like,
should we just like go in and do the podcast,
because like we were going to hang out anyways.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Do you know that every time I text you, because
you always say you don't like texting, really, I always
feel like I'm bothering you, so I like hesitate on
if I should even text you or not. I'm always
like I don't know if I should text her because
I don't want you to feel like you have to
hang out with me or something.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
No, I very much wanted to hang out with you
A and B. I don't ever think of that when
you text me. I feel like it's more of like
I get overwhelmed in group chats a lot, so I
kind of don't respond to those for a while until
I have like the energy to look through all the
conversations and then respond.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
But it's also like, I don't.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Know, we communicate for work via text a lot, and
so I feel like I'm kind of hindered because this
is the first job. Is that's so like kind of
text based versus email, Like I really don't use email
barely at all, compared to like the text like Dave
and I are going back and forth on or like
the whole show is and stuff. So I think that's
(01:19):
where like me not wanting to always answer text comes from.
It's because I associate that would work sometimes too, So
I don't know, And I like to call people, and
you and I usually actually just like if we have
things we want to get out or talk to, we
just call each other.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
We do.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Yeah, I had like pretty much nothing actually because all
of actually did have daycare. My daughter and I was like,
I went back and forth on the thing of like, well,
I have the opportunity to hang out with her today,
but I also have the opportunity well I worked the
Jason Show. But I was like, maybe I can like relax,
But I didn't end up texting Tina and we went
and got lunch, which is actually when you texted me
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that you wouldn't be able to hang out or whatever.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Which I was like, already, I'm a lunch right now.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Yeah, it's fine anyway, But I was like around your
neck of the woods because we went to Wakame, which
is now officially I think become one of my top
five lunch spots cities.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Going there tonight for happy hour with girlfriends. It is
so funny. I love Wakame so much.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Okay, I don't know what their dinner vibe is, but
they're a lunch. Bento box is what dreams are effing
made of. I never had that, okay, So it's like
fifteen dollars, it's gonna be like twenty with tax, which
I think is actually very good for this day and age.
A salad is sixteen dollars.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
At this point.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
You get the miso or hot and sour soup to start.
You get the salad that has the ginger dressing. Then
you get the box. The box has a very delightful
serving of warm white rice with like sesame seeds on it.
You pick your like entree kind of meat if you will.
I did the rock shrimp, which is like tempora shrimp
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with like a sauce on it. Okay, you get four
pieces of a California role. You get like a an
egg roll, but it's like a thinner kinds of like
a spring roll and a cream cheese, one ton all
of that.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
For this price. That is like literally a taste of
every favorite thing I could have, and all you like
kind of sort of want to because like how many
egg rolls, how many wantons? How many pieces of sushi
do you want? You kind of want like a little
of everything, And it is and I'm telling you, I don't.
I love it so much. I've only done it twice now,
and I'm like, I'm ready to go back again. Man,
(03:28):
I've always just gotten a bunch of rolls when I've
gone there, so maybe I got to try that out instead.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
I guess.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I don't know if it's available at dinner. I don't
think i've ever gone.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
No, it's under lunch special, so I doubt it is
probably gonna be rolling tonight.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Okay, I know, I'll that's fine because I haven't had
sushi in a really long time, so I'm so looking forward,
Like I know we're going during a happy hour for
drink specials, but I don't care about the drinks at all.
I'm only hyped about the happy hour sushi roll. Hell yeah,
sushi is interesting because it doesn't keep me full for long, right,
It's good in the moment and then and I my
top issue and that place, though, at least has fresh
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tasting sushi, which I like. I also can't stand the
places now that make the sushi pieces so massive.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
You cannot fit it into your mouth. I know there's
a place I went one time. I was like, I'll
never come back here again. I cannot eat this and
I have a big mouth, like, what the hell is
this stopping? Ridiculous with it? Good God, this is the
most americanized sushi I've ever seen my freaking life.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
I couldn't agree with you more. I don't like it.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
If I have to like deep throat the sushi, that's fair.
That's pretty much what you have to do.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
You have to open so wide.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
You do, and then you get the little like seaweed
thing that sometimes won't break and for a split second
it like it bobs down your throat and it won't
And am I.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Gonna choke and die?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Is yet go?
Speaker 3 (04:45):
You know?
Speaker 2 (04:46):
I only want certain people to hear that sound, I
mean not a public restaurant. Well not everyone that listens
to this podcast gets to hear that. I'm sorry, but
speaking of deep throating, yes, go on. So I had
Texas fallon because she was like, what are you doing
right now? And I'm like, trying to become a housewife
proved Andrew that I can stay at home and make
us delicious meals and I can just live in a
camp or van whenever I want whatever. So I sent
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her a picture of the meal we made and I
tell I told Andrew that I told you that. And
then later on he comes home from doing stuff, he goes, well,
where's my dinner, like jokingly jokingly, and he's like, I
thought you were like auditioned to be this housewife whatever,
And I go, no, We're still gonna both be making food,
like I'm not always making all the meals, like I'm
(05:29):
just proving to you that I can be like a
really good times and he goes yeah, He's like, well,
still haven't gotten my daily blow job either, and I go, well,
who's been giving you your other ones? He hasn't been me.
He goes, well, that's going to be part of it too.
Once I become a house. I will go, Ah, maybe
I'll keep working.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Yeah, I'll keep the nine at five.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Then I saw a video today you should actually try
this with Andrew. I saved it because I was like,
how can I turn this into a version that has
no nothing to do with this.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Let me be very clear with Colt.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
You know, I see like other videos, I'm like, oh,
how can we turn this into something for co workers
and not? So I want to be very clear. This
is not something I would put in front of Colt.
But it was a girl and she wrote on a
piece of paper and she's like, I'll give you a
you I'll give you a sucky sucky if you don't smile.
And so he's playing a video game and she puts
it in front of him because you know the guy's
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going to read it and smile, yeah, or laugh, and
he looks so stone cold serious and like for like
thirty seconds just staring away from it. And then she
walks away and it made me laugh so hard because
I was like, he had to.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Fight for that one, you know what I mean? So
you should do that.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
And there's no way Andrew won't smile. He's a laugh
He smile, He probably will.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
For instance, at Christmas, so there was like this long
tube of probably like leftover wrapping paper, so the tube
you get once the wrapping paper is gone. Well, and
the kids were playing with it, and then I grabbed
it and I started like saying dirty things through it, Yeah,
in front of the whole family's in the living room,
and I'm like saying dirty things to him through it,
and he couldn't stop laughing, and he was I was
(07:06):
like answered the question because I think I was asking
how whatty his balls were, or like weird things like that,
and he was just like he couldn't handle it because
we were literally my family was like two feet away
and I'm saying the most ridiculous things toamp.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
Oh God, that's the joy though.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
I like those videos too where the girl I like
a family function, will text the guy, yeah something she
wants to do to him.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Have you also seen the trend going around where it's
like the guy turns his hat backwards and puts his
hand up against the wall around the girl. They say
it like makes the guy so much hotter, and he
just flips his hat backwards and he like kind of
he's not pinning herybody's leaning into her.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
And his hand goes up on the wall.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Okay, if Jake did that, I'd be like, get the
fuck out, he here, you douche canoo. But every video
is like set to music and the girl's like, oh
my god, I got so hot, and I'm.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Like, what the hell? It just makes me.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
I'm like, that is not mine and Jake's relationship at all.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
No, I don't think that Andrew and I have that
kind of a relationship either. But also, he doesn't wear hats,
so that would never fly. He wears like winter hats, right,
But that said, he never wears like brimmed hats or sometimes.
And I gotta be honest, I don't love Jake has
such a good head of hair, like you want to
fix it today or whatever. And I'm like, okay, but
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I have told Jake this, which I know if he
said this to me, I would be so mad. I
do not love Jake's style anymore. I think, slowly but surely,
he is turning into the most Midwestern wearing a vest
I have to wear a golf hat with a golf polo.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
I am so sorry if that is your husband's vibe,
or if you like that. I do not like that.
It makes me feel old and like I am, and
even you could be like you are a bitch.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Fine. I don't want to feel old though it makes
me feel like I am with like the most suburban
white dad of all time.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
I hate it so much. And you might be saying,
was this style before? It was just to me simple
and hot. He would just wear like a black T
shirt and like jeans. It was very simple. And I
know he can't wear that to work, But how is
that any different than wearing a fucking puffer vest.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Or a title hat? Is that the thing? Title? I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Oh, and like the the golf polos are one of
my top biggest turn offs of all time.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
I hate them.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
I okay, that's interesting because I feel like Jake has
always had really good style, and I guess I haven't
seen the change into the puffer vass.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
He has some moments of style, but I would argue
it's stuff that I pick out or buy for him,
because if the man could just shop at Shields, he would,
And if you are not from here, Shields is basically
Dick's sporting goods, but mixed in some hunting and fishing yeah,
a bass pro shop in certain regions and high like Shields.
(09:58):
They do have good stuff. I'm not knocking sheels, but
I'm just saying.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
It's Harry like Athletic at Leisure.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Or whatever drug Shields.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
I would get stuff there too, and he could probably argue,
you only wear hucking is an oversized sweatshirt, right, and
he might be right.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Yeah, but this isn't about me.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Okay, it's not about I got him obviously, and you
wear whatever you want, thank you. I get that Andrew's
very much a hammermaid kind of guy with his style.
Or he's like a groutfit. So he's either super bougie
because he's going on a showings or you're holding an
open house or something, or he's literally wearing a groutfit
where gray sweatpants, gray sweatshirt, that's like his everyday at home.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
I don't know if I'm.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Allowed to say this, and we can edit it out
because you said that Andrew listens sometimes. Yeah, one time, again,
we can edit this out. You told me there was
something he wears that is a turnoff, and I remember it,
but I don't want to say it if it's going
to cause issues.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
Gosh, I don't know what it is. It was like, I'm.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
Pretty sure like a sleeveless jersey kind of shirt. Oh yes, okay,
so there was a picture from your recent van life
experience and he was wearing something like this and you
took a picture together. And all I could think of was,
is Jenny so turned off by him right now? Because okay,
(11:17):
but I know what you're talking about.
Speaker 3 (11:18):
Ever shared this with him before? So I think I
said this, So this is what it was.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Last winter, I had gotten this really oversized jersey for
the Timberwolves because I was hosting a couple of games
and it was just super big, and I was like, well,
I'm literally never gonna wear this unless they asked me
to host again, Like, I'm never gonna wear this. And
so he kind of took it under his wing, and
then the Wolves were doing good, so he was always
wearing it and he wouldn't wear a shirt underneath it,
(11:45):
and I just thought he had a little bit of
like a farmer tan.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
He looked kind of like.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Trashy in it. And I feel like I've said that
on the podcast and I can't remember that that's the
vibe that I didn't like, but I don't mind those
like bro tanks. He was okay, and that photo that's
like different. This was like the jersey thing like it
just it wasn't a good style for him, gotcha. Yeah,
And we don't have to edit this out.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
It's fine.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
I feel like I've maybe told him this before, but babe,
if you're listening, and I haven't, I love you and
you look hot, even though like not so much in that.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
I know, Jake, I'm not listening, and it's something I've
said to him anyway, And the other day he did
make me feel bad and so I shouldn't even so
I was like, I think I said something along the
lines of, oh, is that you dressed up? Yeah, which
is such a bitch thing to say, a very like
backhanded compliment. And then he made me feel bad because
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he was like, I am like heavier than i've been
lately and a lot of my stuff doesn't fit.
Speaker 3 (12:46):
And it was like out of a movie.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
We're like the guy that you hate in the movie
says some shit to the girl and she's like, I'm sorry,
I've gained weight lately, and then you feel it even
worse for.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
And I was like, oh god, I'm.
Speaker 3 (12:59):
Like I was like, I'm just kidding, you look so good.
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
I mean, like, the man has never even when I
was like first fresh off of having the baby for
like three years and I was like, I'm not even
gonna try it all. Ye never did Jake ever make
me feel like I needed to lose a pound, which
I don't care about his weight.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
That's never. I actually prefer Jake to be a little plump.
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
I don't think Jake gets plumped, but for him his
version of plump. And but never has he ever made
me feel.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
Bad about anything.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
He will make fun of certain lounge where I wear.
I'm like, oh, I see you're wearing your best pants,
so you will say that to me.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
But I deserve it because they're disgusting, like you know,
PJ sweatpants.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
But yeah, I gotta get myself straight, Jenny.
Speaker 3 (13:43):
I got to stop.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
I can't be the person I've never picked Jake apart.
Jake is very beautiful. I just I think it's just
I don't like what.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
I said earlier, those certain staples that means you just
have to go shopping for him.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
That's That's the only way I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
I'm over just kidding on my kitchen nook right now
and getting quotes for our a new stairrails system situation.
So instead of you know, buying five dollars things on
Amazon quote unquote saving money, I'm spending in a xuberant.
Speaker 3 (14:10):
Amount of money on home renovations. It's ridiculous.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
Yeah, there's part of me that just wants to go
in and knock out our kitchen wall that she moved
in since I moved in. And Andrew told me he
went over to the neighbor's the other day and they
did that in their kitchen and they have a very
similar layout as us, and he said that one day.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
So it's Tom and Jerry. It's a female and male.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Tom comes home, Jerry just started going the town.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
On the wall.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
It started knocking it out, and was like I was
sick of it and just started doing it. But Tom
is like a contractor, makes it easier, knows a lot
more shit than me and Andrew do. Andrew is very
good at so many different things that I do not
have any knowledge. And like he installed that heater on
our camper van, all kinds of electrical shit, but like
so much smarter than me. And he's and he's done
a lot of things to his own properties. But it's
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like I have zero knowledge in that area. I know
I could teach myself simple things like probably putting it
in like vinyl, playing flooring or something.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
I think I could teach myself that.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
When it's like a board, that's important to keep the
house up right.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
No, I don't know what it is. I know we
sound we're gonna be. I know what it is.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
But with your luck, your house would be different and
you would do that and it would be the important
thing that keeps your house from crumble.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
Well, that's like the main thing that we've been trying
to figure out is if it had contained that. And
now I can't think of what the word is either,
because I would literally just start hammering it one day,
Like like one day when I just was like, I'm
going to paint a mural in my living room and
I did and then it was awful and then I
had to paint it back.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Well, how do I google this? What is an important
like it's going to come to our brain. My house
you can't tear down or it will collapse.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
God, so many people are screaming at their podcast right now, like.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
A load bearing. Thank you AI for helping me.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
Okay, important post or whatever in quotes because I'm stupid.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
Okay, Oh my gosh, that's funny.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
Well, we said we would still get to some more
AMA questions, so I think we're gonna kind of we
might be a little short on time today just because
I got to run off to some meeting.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
Jenny's very important.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
She has a Corporate America meeting I do, and it's
probably going to entail literally everyone across the nation who
is doing the same thing I'm doing.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
And I won't have to actually speak in it. I
just have to be present.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
And mac off, you've been on meetings like that, I'm sure.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Yes, all right, let's see what is Oh no, we
already did that one. I was gonna say the favorite
memory of twenty twenty four that we did together, and
we couldn't think of anything. I can't think of a
single memory with each other. God, Okay, is there anything
that you guys regret in life? Call and I have
always had one similar regret though.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
That we didn't study abroad. Yeah, I wish it.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
Had Outside of that, yes, plenty, But honestly, probably the
biggest ones I would.
Speaker 3 (16:57):
Never talk about same. Sorry.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Sorry, So yeah, we're just gonna leave you at the editor.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
C yea there.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
This one says Jenny with Andrew, do you want to
settle down, get married, and have kids?
Speaker 3 (17:10):
Tbd on and pretty much all of it.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Yes, I mean I would say that we're already settled down,
so that's already done. Get married, I think is on
the table when it will happen, I do not know.
And have kids is also something that is there, but
a final decision hasn't been made one way or another.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
So that's that one. Fallon.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
How does your and Jake's schedule work with all of
you both seem really busy with your careers.
Speaker 3 (17:39):
Mornings now, we kind of alternate.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
There a couple of days a week that Jake will
go into the office, So typically I take all of
to school, especially on those days, but I'll take her
on other days. She does like Adventure Club, so it's
like kind of pre before school and after school daycare
if you will, at her pre k and Jake picks
her up.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
And usually I try to buy all.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
The food like we're gonna need for dinner, and I
either just send him the recipe and leave everything on
the counter or I'll pre prep it, or sometimes I'll
just make it before I leave, like in a crock pot,
so that when he gets home, dinner is easier because
he'll pick her up at like four twenty. I mean,
he's still like technically working until five and sometimes later,
and then as soon as I get home, we eat,
I spend a little That's why I always say it,
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like I really that's that's the biggest thing I miss
about the morning show time slot is just having more
time in the afternoon to help Jake and to be
with Olive. And you know, I don't want to do
afternoon radio forever. I just don't because and it's so
funny because Jake will be like, now you see what
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it's like to have normal work hours, because I'm like,
this is awful.
Speaker 3 (18:48):
I don't want to work till six.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
I hate this, and He'll be like, welcome to like
the real world basically, and I'm like, no, people typically
get to leave at five at least and they're home
before six. He's like, yes, sometimes, And I know I
was lucky and the way that my hours were before,
but I do hope to go back to something like
that or at least a little bit earlier at some point.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
It's just such a different shift, I think, to go
from having done mornings to then be in afternoons because
versus the other way. Because like I was a server
for years and then I switched to like starting a
job early, and that was more like, Okay, this is awesome.
When I started having afternoons free, right, If I had
to go back to like serving hours, I'd probably be.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Like, oh, I don't know about this. You know, Okay,
let's see.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
Would you rather have a one minute conversation with your
past self or future self?
Speaker 3 (19:42):
What do you think? I don't know, what do you ego? First?
Speaker 2 (19:49):
I think I would say future self, just because I mean,
I'm not changing the past, and I think I kind
of would be curious with my future self of like
where you're at, yeah, and just like some tips like hey,
maybe avoid all of those drugs that someone might present you,
and no, I'm just kidding, my god, I'm not gonna
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be around any drugs.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
I think I probably would have like hit that phase
of my life if I was gonna ever be around drugs.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
My futureself would literally put your phone down, be more present.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
With your kid. That's probably what they just what they
would element and be like, oh, you're right.
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Yeah, yeah, Well, as an anxious human always living in
the future, that's probably why I would be like my
future self.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
Yeah, I absolutely hands down.
Speaker 2 (20:31):
Uh. Do you miss being on the radio together? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (20:34):
Always, yes, we do.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
It's I mean, we obviously get to do this still
and we call each other when we war fern because
it's it's less fast paced, so less chaotic, less chance
for disaster, for us to turn on each other. Yep,
which I you know, I do miss those moments. You
still turn on me sometimes on here, but not quite
as much. It's just it's just on the radio. You
(20:58):
never know how a conversation could turn, and when you're
doing it for four and a half hours, it's like, yeah,
you're we're probably going to turn it at some point.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
Absolutely. Uh, Okay.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
Tips to loving yourself slash your body.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
That's a great question.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
I think that everyone, at least I will speak for
probably most females still struggles with that. And unfortunately, like
I'm thirty four now and I just had a really
bad weekend of not loving my body because I think
I've put on a little bit weight over the winter,
and I put on these shorts to work out in,
and they haven't been that tight on me, like almost ever.
(21:32):
So I was like, well, this is kind of a
bummer because I feel like I've been working out and stuff,
but my nutrition probably hasn't been as good. But I
was not concerned about that. So I do still struggle,
I think a lot with loving my body. But then
I also look in my ear, my ear. I look
at my ear. I look at my ear and I'm like,
(21:53):
you know what that is?
Speaker 3 (21:54):
A sexy?
Speaker 2 (21:54):
Yeah ear? Look at Oh my gosh, yeah, it's nice
and clean.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
No.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
I look in the mirror and I try to be like,
look at them curves, look at those titties.
Speaker 3 (22:06):
Damn.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
And Andrew also makes me feel really great because he's like,
do you ever just look at yourself naked?
Speaker 3 (22:10):
And You're like wow?
Speaker 2 (22:12):
And I'm like never, yeah, And he's like, really I
would if I was you. And I'm like, thank you, babe, Yes,
that's why you're the best.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
Jake will come in the bathroom naked, he'll make positive comments.
I'm like, oh, disgusting. Your standards are low, and I
turn on him, you know, and he's like, oh my god,
I'm just trying to you know what, No, I agree
with Jenny. It's like I I think as you get older,
you do care less. It's kind of like what am
I like? I for me, I'm not trying to be
sexy anymore for anyone, like for like the quote unquote
(22:39):
male gays, I'm not gonna be like I didn't go
like spend a majority of my life wanting men to
think I'm attractive. I did, but now like there are
times obviously I want to look good and feel confident.
But for the most part I have calmed on that,
but I still get in my head. You know, you'll
hear things like you aren't friends with a single one
of your friends because of how they look. Mm hm,
(23:00):
So I and I agree with that, like Jenny may
be hot, but I never ever care about that about Jenny,
Like I don't care at all. So I feel like
that's the same for you, Like you are who like
the important part of you is not how you look,
and we know that it's just man, it's hard to
separate it.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
And I also will just say, because it says not
just your body, loving your body, but also yourself. I
think one of those things is something that also comes
with age, which is stop caring what everyone else thinks
about you and be who you are, because I think.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
That nobody thinks about you as much as you know
they do exactly obs that's.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
With them their own self.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
We're all so self involved, we're all constantly worrying about
what other people think about us. So they may they
may spend a minute thinking about you if like you're
going through something dramatic at the moment that's gossip worthy
or whatever, but most likely probably not, probably not thinking
about you nearly as much as you think they are.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
Yes, And on that note, I think we got to
wrap up just because you know me importantly, whatever I'm needed.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
I don't have anything I'm needed. God, all right, it's nice.
I know it's not.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
I literally am going to be on a Zoom meeting
where my all I just need to do is present.
Jenny is Jenny Lutenberger here. You'd like to hear your thoughts.
You're like, ah, I don't have any thoughts. They're like,
can you please put your camera on, ma'am? And I'll
be like, hold on, let me put my shirt on,
Like I just I just have the audio on, and
then I'm.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
Like hold on, that'd be great. Actually, I support that.
Thank you so much for listening. Sorry it's a little
bit late, but it's still on the right day, which
is exciting.
Speaker 3 (24:29):
Have a great week. We love you.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
This is us physically embracing you, giving you a nice
little hug and pinch in the ass too,
Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. We are a
little bit late today. Yes, we didn't really like warn
you last week. That's on us kind of totally forgot
it was a holiday weekend.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
I know, I wasn't thinking about that, and then you
and I were texting yesterday and we were like maybe
going to hang out, but my day kind of got
away with me with some plans I had, so it
didn't happen. But I almost was going to be like,
should we just like go in and do the podcast,
because like we were going to hang out anyways.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Do you know that every time I text you, because
you always say you don't like texting, really, I always
feel like I'm bothering you, so I like hesitate on
if I should even text you or not. I'm always
like I don't know if I should text her because
I don't want you to feel like you have to
hang out with me or something.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
No, I very much wanted to hang out with you
A and B. I don't ever think of that when
you text me. I feel like it's more of like
I get overwhelmed in group chats a lot, so I
kind of don't respond to those for a while until
I have like the energy to look through all the
conversations and then respond.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
But it's also like, I don't.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Know, we communicate for work via text a lot, and
so I feel like I'm kind of hindered because this
is the first job. Is that's so like kind of
text based versus email, Like I really don't use email
barely at all, compared to like the text like Dave
and I are going back and forth on or like
the whole show is and stuff. So I think that's
(01:19):
where like me not wanting to always answer text comes from.
It's because I associate that would work sometimes too, So
I don't know, And I like to call people, and
you and I usually actually just like if we have
things we want to get out or talk to, we
just call each other.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
We do.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Yeah, I had like pretty much nothing actually because all
of actually did have daycare. My daughter and I was like,
I went back and forth on the thing of like, well,
I have the opportunity to hang out with her today,
but I also have the opportunity well I worked the
Jason Show. But I was like, maybe I can like relax,
But I didn't end up texting Tina and we went
and got lunch, which is actually when you texted me
(01:55):
that you wouldn't be able to hang out or whatever.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Which I was like, already, I'm a lunch right now.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Yeah, it's fine anyway, But I was like around your
neck of the woods because we went to Wakame, which
is now officially I think become one of my top
five lunch spots cities.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Going there tonight for happy hour with girlfriends. It is
so funny. I love Wakame so much.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Okay, I don't know what their dinner vibe is, but
they're a lunch. Bento box is what dreams are effing
made of. I never had that, okay, So it's like
fifteen dollars, it's gonna be like twenty with tax, which
I think is actually very good for this day and age.
A salad is sixteen dollars.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
At this point.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
You get the miso or hot and sour soup to start.
You get the salad that has the ginger dressing. Then
you get the box. The box has a very delightful
serving of warm white rice with like sesame seeds on it.
You pick your like entree kind of meat if you will.
I did the rock shrimp, which is like tempora shrimp
(02:51):
with like a sauce on it. Okay, you get four
pieces of a California role. You get like a an
egg roll, but it's like a thinner kinds of like
a spring roll and a cream cheese, one ton all
of that.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
For this price. That is like literally a taste of
every favorite thing I could have, and all you like
kind of sort of want to because like how many
egg rolls, how many wantons? How many pieces of sushi
do you want? You kind of want like a little
of everything, And it is and I'm telling you, I don't.
I love it so much. I've only done it twice now,
and I'm like, I'm ready to go back again. Man,
(03:28):
I've always just gotten a bunch of rolls when I've
gone there, so maybe I got to try that out instead.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
I guess.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I don't know if it's available at dinner. I don't
think i've ever gone.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
No, it's under lunch special, so I doubt it is
probably gonna be rolling tonight.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Okay, I know, I'll that's fine because I haven't had
sushi in a really long time, so I'm so looking forward,
Like I know we're going during a happy hour for
drink specials, but I don't care about the drinks at all.
I'm only hyped about the happy hour sushi roll. Hell yeah,
sushi is interesting because it doesn't keep me full for long, right,
It's good in the moment and then and I my
top issue and that place, though, at least has fresh
(04:03):
tasting sushi, which I like. I also can't stand the
places now that make the sushi pieces so massive.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
You cannot fit it into your mouth. I know there's
a place I went one time. I was like, I'll
never come back here again. I cannot eat this and
I have a big mouth, like, what the hell is
this stopping? Ridiculous with it? Good God, this is the
most americanized sushi I've ever seen my freaking life.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
I couldn't agree with you more. I don't like it.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
If I have to like deep throat the sushi, that's fair.
That's pretty much what you have to do.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
You have to open so wide.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
You do, and then you get the little like seaweed
thing that sometimes won't break and for a split second
it like it bobs down your throat and it won't
And am I.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Gonna choke and die?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Is yet go?
Speaker 3 (04:45):
You know?
Speaker 2 (04:46):
I only want certain people to hear that sound, I
mean not a public restaurant. Well not everyone that listens
to this podcast gets to hear that. I'm sorry, but
speaking of deep throating, yes, go on. So I had
Texas fallon because she was like, what are you doing
right now? And I'm like, trying to become a housewife
proved Andrew that I can stay at home and make
us delicious meals and I can just live in a
camp or van whenever I want whatever. So I sent
(05:08):
her a picture of the meal we made and I
tell I told Andrew that I told you that. And
then later on he comes home from doing stuff, he goes, well,
where's my dinner, like jokingly jokingly, and he's like, I
thought you were like auditioned to be this housewife whatever,
And I go, no, We're still gonna both be making food,
like I'm not always making all the meals, like I'm
(05:29):
just proving to you that I can be like a
really good times and he goes yeah, He's like, well,
still haven't gotten my daily blow job either, and I go, well,
who's been giving you your other ones? He hasn't been me.
He goes, well, that's going to be part of it too.
Once I become a house. I will go, Ah, maybe
I'll keep working.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Yeah, I'll keep the nine at five.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Then I saw a video today you should actually try
this with Andrew. I saved it because I was like,
how can I turn this into a version that has
no nothing to do with this.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Let me be very clear with Colt.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
You know, I see like other videos, I'm like, oh,
how can we turn this into something for co workers
and not? So I want to be very clear. This
is not something I would put in front of Colt.
But it was a girl and she wrote on a
piece of paper and she's like, I'll give you a
you I'll give you a sucky sucky if you don't smile.
And so he's playing a video game and she puts
it in front of him because you know the guy's
(06:23):
going to read it and smile, yeah, or laugh, and
he looks so stone cold serious and like for like
thirty seconds just staring away from it. And then she
walks away and it made me laugh so hard because
I was like, he had to.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Fight for that one, you know what I mean? So
you should do that.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
And there's no way Andrew won't smile. He's a laugh
He smile, He probably will.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
For instance, at Christmas, so there was like this long
tube of probably like leftover wrapping paper, so the tube
you get once the wrapping paper is gone. Well, and
the kids were playing with it, and then I grabbed
it and I started like saying dirty things through it, Yeah,
in front of the whole family's in the living room,
and I'm like saying dirty things to him through it,
and he couldn't stop laughing, and he was I was
(07:06):
like answered the question because I think I was asking
how whatty his balls were, or like weird things like that,
and he was just like he couldn't handle it because
we were literally my family was like two feet away
and I'm saying the most ridiculous things toamp.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
Oh God, that's the joy though.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
I like those videos too where the girl I like
a family function, will text the guy, yeah something she
wants to do to him.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Have you also seen the trend going around where it's
like the guy turns his hat backwards and puts his
hand up against the wall around the girl. They say
it like makes the guy so much hotter, and he
just flips his hat backwards and he like kind of
he's not pinning herybody's leaning into her.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
And his hand goes up on the wall.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Okay, if Jake did that, I'd be like, get the
fuck out, he here, you douche canoo. But every video
is like set to music and the girl's like, oh
my god, I got so hot, and I'm.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Like, what the hell? It just makes me.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
I'm like, that is not mine and Jake's relationship at all.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
No, I don't think that Andrew and I have that
kind of a relationship either. But also, he doesn't wear hats,
so that would never fly. He wears like winter hats, right,
But that said, he never wears like brimmed hats or sometimes.
And I gotta be honest, I don't love Jake has
such a good head of hair, like you want to
fix it today or whatever. And I'm like, okay, but
(08:20):
I have told Jake this, which I know if he
said this to me, I would be so mad. I
do not love Jake's style anymore. I think, slowly but surely,
he is turning into the most Midwestern wearing a vest
I have to wear a golf hat with a golf polo.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
I am so sorry if that is your husband's vibe,
or if you like that. I do not like that.
It makes me feel old and like I am, and
even you could be like you are a bitch.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Fine. I don't want to feel old though it makes
me feel like I am with like the most suburban
white dad of all time.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
I hate it so much. And you might be saying,
was this style before? It was just to me simple
and hot. He would just wear like a black T
shirt and like jeans. It was very simple. And I
know he can't wear that to work, But how is
that any different than wearing a fucking puffer vest.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Or a title hat? Is that the thing? Title? I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Oh, and like the the golf polos are one of
my top biggest turn offs of all time.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
I hate them.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
I okay, that's interesting because I feel like Jake has
always had really good style, and I guess I haven't
seen the change into the puffer vass.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
He has some moments of style, but I would argue
it's stuff that I pick out or buy for him,
because if the man could just shop at Shields, he would,
And if you are not from here, Shields is basically
Dick's sporting goods, but mixed in some hunting and fishing yeah,
a bass pro shop in certain regions and high like Shields.
(09:58):
They do have good stuff. I'm not knocking sheels, but
I'm just saying.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
It's Harry like Athletic at Leisure.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Or whatever drug Shields.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
I would get stuff there too, and he could probably argue,
you only wear hucking is an oversized sweatshirt, right, and
he might be right.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Yeah, but this isn't about me.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Okay, it's not about I got him obviously, and you
wear whatever you want, thank you. I get that Andrew's
very much a hammermaid kind of guy with his style.
Or he's like a groutfit. So he's either super bougie
because he's going on a showings or you're holding an
open house or something, or he's literally wearing a groutfit
where gray sweatpants, gray sweatshirt, that's like his everyday at home.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
I don't know if I'm.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Allowed to say this, and we can edit it out
because you said that Andrew listens sometimes. Yeah, one time, again,
we can edit this out. You told me there was
something he wears that is a turnoff, and I remember it,
but I don't want to say it if it's going
to cause issues.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
Gosh, I don't know what it is. It was like, I'm.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
Pretty sure like a sleeveless jersey kind of shirt. Oh yes, okay,
so there was a picture from your recent van life
experience and he was wearing something like this and you
took a picture together. And all I could think of was,
is Jenny so turned off by him right now? Because okay,
(11:17):
but I know what you're talking about.
Speaker 3 (11:18):
Ever shared this with him before? So I think I
said this, So this is what it was.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Last winter, I had gotten this really oversized jersey for
the Timberwolves because I was hosting a couple of games
and it was just super big, and I was like, well,
I'm literally never gonna wear this unless they asked me
to host again, Like, I'm never gonna wear this. And
so he kind of took it under his wing, and
then the Wolves were doing good, so he was always
wearing it and he wouldn't wear a shirt underneath it,
(11:45):
and I just thought he had a little bit of
like a farmer tan.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
He looked kind of like.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Trashy in it. And I feel like I've said that
on the podcast and I can't remember that that's the
vibe that I didn't like, but I don't mind those
like bro tanks. He was okay, and that photo that's
like different. This was like the jersey thing like it
just it wasn't a good style for him, gotcha. Yeah,
And we don't have to edit this out.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
It's fine.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
I feel like I've maybe told him this before, but babe,
if you're listening, and I haven't, I love you and
you look hot, even though like not so much in that.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
I know, Jake, I'm not listening, and it's something I've
said to him anyway, And the other day he did
make me feel bad and so I shouldn't even so
I was like, I think I said something along the
lines of, oh, is that you dressed up? Yeah, which
is such a bitch thing to say, a very like
backhanded compliment. And then he made me feel bad because
(12:40):
he was like, I am like heavier than i've been
lately and a lot of my stuff doesn't fit.
Speaker 3 (12:46):
And it was like out of a movie.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
We're like the guy that you hate in the movie
says some shit to the girl and she's like, I'm sorry,
I've gained weight lately, and then you feel it even
worse for.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
And I was like, oh god, I'm.
Speaker 3 (12:59):
Like I was like, I'm just kidding, you look so good.
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
I mean, like, the man has never even when I
was like first fresh off of having the baby for
like three years and I was like, I'm not even
gonna try it all. Ye never did Jake ever make
me feel like I needed to lose a pound, which
I don't care about his weight.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
That's never. I actually prefer Jake to be a little plump.
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
I don't think Jake gets plumped, but for him his
version of plump. And but never has he ever made
me feel.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
Bad about anything.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
He will make fun of certain lounge where I wear.
I'm like, oh, I see you're wearing your best pants,
so you will say that to me.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
But I deserve it because they're disgusting, like you know,
PJ sweatpants.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
But yeah, I gotta get myself straight, Jenny.
Speaker 3 (13:43):
I got to stop.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
I can't be the person I've never picked Jake apart.
Jake is very beautiful. I just I think it's just
I don't like what.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
I said earlier, those certain staples that means you just
have to go shopping for him.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
That's That's the only way I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
I'm over just kidding on my kitchen nook right now
and getting quotes for our a new stairrails system situation.
So instead of you know, buying five dollars things on
Amazon quote unquote saving money, I'm spending in a xuberant.
Speaker 3 (14:10):
Amount of money on home renovations. It's ridiculous.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
Yeah, there's part of me that just wants to go
in and knock out our kitchen wall that she moved
in since I moved in. And Andrew told me he
went over to the neighbor's the other day and they
did that in their kitchen and they have a very
similar layout as us, and he said that one day.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
So it's Tom and Jerry. It's a female and male.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Tom comes home, Jerry just started going the town.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
On the wall.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
It started knocking it out, and was like I was
sick of it and just started doing it. But Tom
is like a contractor, makes it easier, knows a lot
more shit than me and Andrew do. Andrew is very
good at so many different things that I do not
have any knowledge. And like he installed that heater on
our camper van, all kinds of electrical shit, but like
so much smarter than me. And he's and he's done
a lot of things to his own properties. But it's
(14:57):
like I have zero knowledge in that area. I know
I could teach myself simple things like probably putting it
in like vinyl, playing flooring or something.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
I think I could teach myself that.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
When it's like a board, that's important to keep the
house up right.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
No, I don't know what it is. I know we
sound we're gonna be. I know what it is.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
But with your luck, your house would be different and
you would do that and it would be the important
thing that keeps your house from crumble.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
Well, that's like the main thing that we've been trying
to figure out is if it had contained that. And
now I can't think of what the word is either,
because I would literally just start hammering it one day,
Like like one day when I just was like, I'm
going to paint a mural in my living room and
I did and then it was awful and then I
had to paint it back.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Well, how do I google this? What is an important
like it's going to come to our brain. My house
you can't tear down or it will collapse.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
God, so many people are screaming at their podcast right now, like.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
A load bearing. Thank you AI for helping me.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
Okay, important post or whatever in quotes because I'm stupid.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
Okay, Oh my gosh, that's funny.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
Well, we said we would still get to some more
AMA questions, so I think we're gonna kind of we
might be a little short on time today just because
I got to run off to some meeting.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
Jenny's very important.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
She has a Corporate America meeting I do, and it's
probably going to entail literally everyone across the nation who
is doing the same thing I'm doing.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
And I won't have to actually speak in it. I
just have to be present.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
And mac off, you've been on meetings like that, I'm sure.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Yes, all right, let's see what is Oh no, we
already did that one. I was gonna say the favorite
memory of twenty twenty four that we did together, and
we couldn't think of anything. I can't think of a
single memory with each other. God, Okay, is there anything
that you guys regret in life? Call and I have
always had one similar regret though.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
That we didn't study abroad. Yeah, I wish it.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
Had Outside of that, yes, plenty, But honestly, probably the
biggest ones I would.
Speaker 3 (16:57):
Never talk about same. Sorry.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Sorry, So yeah, we're just gonna leave you at the editor.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
C yea there.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
This one says Jenny with Andrew, do you want to
settle down, get married, and have kids?
Speaker 3 (17:10):
Tbd on and pretty much all of it.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Yes, I mean I would say that we're already settled down,
so that's already done. Get married, I think is on
the table when it will happen, I do not know.
And have kids is also something that is there, but
a final decision hasn't been made one way or another.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
So that's that one. Fallon.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
How does your and Jake's schedule work with all of
you both seem really busy with your careers.
Speaker 3 (17:39):
Mornings now, we kind of alternate.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
There a couple of days a week that Jake will
go into the office, So typically I take all of
to school, especially on those days, but I'll take her
on other days. She does like Adventure Club, so it's
like kind of pre before school and after school daycare
if you will, at her pre k and Jake picks
her up.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
And usually I try to buy all.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
The food like we're gonna need for dinner, and I
either just send him the recipe and leave everything on
the counter or I'll pre prep it, or sometimes I'll
just make it before I leave, like in a crock pot,
so that when he gets home, dinner is easier because
he'll pick her up at like four twenty. I mean,
he's still like technically working until five and sometimes later,
and then as soon as I get home, we eat,
I spend a little That's why I always say it,
(18:24):
like I really that's that's the biggest thing I miss
about the morning show time slot is just having more
time in the afternoon to help Jake and to be
with Olive. And you know, I don't want to do
afternoon radio forever. I just don't because and it's so
funny because Jake will be like, now you see what
(18:45):
it's like to have normal work hours, because I'm like,
this is awful.
Speaker 3 (18:48):
I don't want to work till six.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
I hate this, and He'll be like, welcome to like
the real world basically, and I'm like, no, people typically
get to leave at five at least and they're home
before six. He's like, yes, sometimes, And I know I
was lucky and the way that my hours were before,
but I do hope to go back to something like
that or at least a little bit earlier at some point.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
It's just such a different shift, I think, to go
from having done mornings to then be in afternoons because
versus the other way. Because like I was a server
for years and then I switched to like starting a
job early, and that was more like, Okay, this is awesome.
When I started having afternoons free, right, If I had
to go back to like serving hours, I'd probably be.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Like, oh, I don't know about this. You know, Okay,
let's see.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
Would you rather have a one minute conversation with your
past self or future self?
Speaker 3 (19:42):
What do you think? I don't know, what do you ego? First?
Speaker 2 (19:49):
I think I would say future self, just because I mean,
I'm not changing the past, and I think I kind
of would be curious with my future self of like
where you're at, yeah, and just like some tips like hey,
maybe avoid all of those drugs that someone might present you,
and no, I'm just kidding, my god, I'm not gonna
(20:09):
be around any drugs.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
I think I probably would have like hit that phase
of my life if I was gonna ever be around drugs.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
My futureself would literally put your phone down, be more present.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
With your kid. That's probably what they just what they
would element and be like, oh, you're right.
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Yeah, yeah, Well, as an anxious human always living in
the future, that's probably why I would be like my
future self.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
Yeah, I absolutely hands down.
Speaker 2 (20:31):
Uh. Do you miss being on the radio together? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (20:34):
Always, yes, we do.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
It's I mean, we obviously get to do this still
and we call each other when we war fern because
it's it's less fast paced, so less chaotic, less chance
for disaster, for us to turn on each other. Yep,
which I you know, I do miss those moments. You
still turn on me sometimes on here, but not quite
as much. It's just it's just on the radio. You
(20:58):
never know how a conversation could turn, and when you're
doing it for four and a half hours, it's like, yeah,
you're we're probably going to turn it at some point.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
Absolutely. Uh, Okay.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
Tips to loving yourself slash your body.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
That's a great question.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
I think that everyone, at least I will speak for
probably most females still struggles with that. And unfortunately, like
I'm thirty four now and I just had a really
bad weekend of not loving my body because I think
I've put on a little bit weight over the winter,
and I put on these shorts to work out in,
and they haven't been that tight on me, like almost ever.
(21:32):
So I was like, well, this is kind of a
bummer because I feel like I've been working out and stuff,
but my nutrition probably hasn't been as good. But I
was not concerned about that. So I do still struggle,
I think a lot with loving my body. But then
I also look in my ear, my ear. I look
at my ear. I look at my ear and I'm like,
(21:53):
you know what that is?
Speaker 3 (21:54):
A sexy?
Speaker 2 (21:54):
Yeah ear? Look at Oh my gosh, yeah, it's nice
and clean.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
No.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
I look in the mirror and I try to be like,
look at them curves, look at those titties.
Speaker 3 (22:06):
Damn.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
And Andrew also makes me feel really great because he's like,
do you ever just look at yourself naked?
Speaker 3 (22:10):
And You're like wow?
Speaker 2 (22:12):
And I'm like never, yeah, And he's like, really I
would if I was you. And I'm like, thank you, babe, Yes,
that's why you're the best.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
Jake will come in the bathroom naked, he'll make positive comments.
I'm like, oh, disgusting. Your standards are low, and I
turn on him, you know, and he's like, oh my god,
I'm just trying to you know what, No, I agree
with Jenny. It's like I I think as you get older,
you do care less. It's kind of like what am
I like? I for me, I'm not trying to be
sexy anymore for anyone, like for like the quote unquote
(22:39):
male gays, I'm not gonna be like I didn't go
like spend a majority of my life wanting men to
think I'm attractive. I did, but now like there are
times obviously I want to look good and feel confident.
But for the most part I have calmed on that,
but I still get in my head. You know, you'll
hear things like you aren't friends with a single one
of your friends because of how they look. Mm hm,
(23:00):
So I and I agree with that, like Jenny may
be hot, but I never ever care about that about Jenny,
Like I don't care at all. So I feel like
that's the same for you, Like you are who like
the important part of you is not how you look,
and we know that it's just man, it's hard to
separate it.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
And I also will just say, because it says not
just your body, loving your body, but also yourself. I
think one of those things is something that also comes
with age, which is stop caring what everyone else thinks
about you and be who you are, because I think.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
That nobody thinks about you as much as you know
they do exactly obs that's.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
With them their own self.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
We're all so self involved, we're all constantly worrying about
what other people think about us. So they may they
may spend a minute thinking about you if like you're
going through something dramatic at the moment that's gossip worthy
or whatever, but most likely probably not, probably not thinking
about you nearly as much as you think they are.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
Yes, And on that note, I think we got to
wrap up just because you know me importantly, whatever I'm needed.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
I don't have anything I'm needed. God, all right, it's nice.
I know it's not.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
I literally am going to be on a Zoom meeting
where my all I just need to do is present.
Jenny is Jenny Lutenberger here. You'd like to hear your thoughts.
You're like, ah, I don't have any thoughts. They're like,
can you please put your camera on, ma'am? And I'll
be like, hold on, let me put my shirt on,
Like I just I just have the audio on, and
then I'm.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
Like hold on, that'd be great. Actually, I support that.
Thank you so much for listening. Sorry it's a little
bit late, but it's still on the right day, which
is exciting.
Speaker 3 (24:29):
Have a great week. We love you.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
This is us physically embracing you, giving you a nice
little hug and pinch in the ass too,
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