February 11, 2025 • 31 mins
Falen and Jenny ask Jake all of your hard hitting questions...how is it dealing with someone stubborn like her, what might surprise people to learn about Falen, when did they first hookup...and more!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. I'm Fallon,
I'm Jenny, and guess what. Last week we had Andrew,
Jenny's lover, on this week we have mine. Say hello, Jake, Hello, goy.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
He's so respectful. Andrew chimed in immediately before he was
spoken to, like, hey, okay, so I guess Andrew's on
the podcast.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Oh yeah, it didn't start with him talking, and they
were like, oh, okay, let's go. Yeah pretty much, that's fine.
People really liked the episode last week with Andrew. No pressure, Jake,
h Andrew thinks he's not going to be a regular
guest on our podcast. Calm down, absolutely not.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
I go, what do you mean, Like, we're not going
to just keep having you on and asking you questions.
He's like, no, like, I'll just be part of the
podcast contributor. Yeah, And I was like, why, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
He's so fun, okay fun.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
He's not though, because he won't reveal funny stories that
are funny and perfect for podcasting, and I have to
be warned, I'm not allowed to tell them.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
That is one of the questions that you're going to
be asked today as well. But I like, yeah, I
feel like, Jake, just does you do you listen our
podcast at all? Because Andrew said he listens sometimes.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
I've listened to several several episodes.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Do you ever feel uncomfortable?
Speaker 4 (01:07):
I know there are a few stories that have been
told that at this point, it's all just kind of
it rolls off the shoulders there because I don't know
if I could get any worse.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
But that's fair.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
That's fair.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Okay, Well, we Jenny. Last week basically we had people
submit questions to ask Andrew, and I asked Jenny and
Andrew the question. So this week I had people submit
Jenny will be kind of guiding this questionnaire with you.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Yeah, First, Jake, I just want to say thank you
for taking the time today with this is. I know
you work for a real job where you have hours you.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Have to be at that job, and should we pretend
that you recorded this after hours in case any of
your coworkers listen.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
That's all good.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
I get a lunch break, Yeah, it's lunch break. What
are you talking about? He's on his lunch. He's Ben
on his lunch with us.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
So yeah, all.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Right, talking for the questions, Yeah, Jake, what's something that
listeners misunderstand the most about Palin.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
I think it's easy to assume that someone as loud
as her is uh extroverted. She is, Uh, she just
is not. She doesn't like people. She doesn't like people
or being around them or.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Come down, calm down.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
She's like, uh, I mean, you know, part of it
is because you know the nature of your both of
your job is is you got to be kind of
on all the time. And then you know, if you
go from that to like a social event after work,
you're you're kind of still on. Uh So I can
get that, get how that can be. Yeah, yeah, so
I totally understand that. But yeah, she's she's she's very
(02:44):
very introverted.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
I think we.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
Choose kind of chilling on the couch, ideally in an
empty house without mere kids over overmost uh social activities.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
I end up. I think a lot of the time
I build it up to be worse in my head
that it's going to be.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
You do do that.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
And so like yesterday, Jake took Olive to a kids
Valentine's party because we talked about this on the podcast
three hours long, and I was like, I'm not going
to I'm not making small talk with people for that
I don't know for three hours, but Jake is very
okay with it. And then I have the guilt of like, well,
I should put my feelings aside and go be with Olive.
(03:24):
But I also do not feel like it's a two
parent requirement or needed.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Yeah, okay, that's interesting. I think I did somewhat know
that about you.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
But when I'm outside of work with like you and Tina,
my comfort kind of people, I wouldn't say I'm introverted.
I'd say I'm loud, and yeah, we're all annoyingly loud
and together, and but yeah, it's I don't like to
put myself in position because when people don't know me,
I think I feel like I have to perform to
be the version of me that they might like on
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the radio or something. And I don't necessarily want to
do that because I'm tired. Yeah, yeah, I don't know,
but I don't want to let people down, you know,
so for sure?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
All right?
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Next one is when's the moment you fell in love
with Fallen?
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Oh yeah, yeah, I had a pretty good sense of
I think my feelings for her after we went on
that first taco date that was the first night I
met both of you was at the Star party. She
brought me there and I think to make sure that
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you know, if I was crazy, you could get away.
And then we went a couple of days later or
something like that, we went on a date to Taco
Rindo in Northeast and yeah, I don't know, I just
had a pretty good sense of, like, yeah, this is
a person I want to.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Spend a lot of time with.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
So you fell in love with Fallen on your first date?
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Yeah, I think, I mean we sort of progressed quickly
because I think both of us had been through enough
yeah bys at that point to kind of know like
what we like, what we don't like. And I don't know,
just had a pretty good sense of, Yeah, this is
something I want to seriously pursue.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Now.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
This question is not on here, it's just a personal one.
When when was the first time that you made love?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Gross? No, I remember, I remember it was not making love.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
That was rowdy.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Yeah, it was very rowdy drunk.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
Yeah, that would have been what like two weeks later,
two weeks after we met.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Maybe it was.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Pretty it was, wasn't it like memorial lyate weekend? Because
it went to a party got liquored up. Yeah, banged. Yeah,
I love that now, thank you, Jake.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
What does Fallon do now when she gets drunk?
Speaker 3 (05:48):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
She doesn't often, but.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Yeah, I don't know. It's a routine she does, she does. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:55):
No, if she gets drunk, like actually drunk like, she
will hit a certain point and then just kind of
like she's done with the night. The night is over,
and then she's going to bed, or if it's really bad,
she will. You'll wake up to the sound of the
shower yep, two three in the morning or something like that,
(06:15):
and she is laying on her back, letting the water
just beat onto her stomach with her eyes closed.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Yeah, it's a comfort thing.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Jenny does it too.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
I do.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
She's the only other person I've met that does it,
and which I think is one more reason why we're
just perfectly match for each other.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Ellen and I are meant to be together, and you
and Andrew are meant to be together.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
You guys could listen to all your management financial podcast together.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
You've got to have a counterbalance there and be too much,
too much. Yeah, all right.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Next question is, Jake, how do you like being a
girl's dad?
Speaker 3 (06:51):
How do I like being a girl. Dad. Oh it's
I mean, I love it.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
She's you know, she's incredible, but it's a it is
a challenge.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
That was it different than Dylan.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
It's so different.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
Well, it's different in a lot of ways because I
was so young when when Dylan was born, So like
when he was you know, three four five, I was
still in my early to mid twenties. You just have
a very different lens on parenting in general when you're
you know, older and more established and you don't have
to worry about like am I debit card gonna go
through a target or not?
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Or right? So yeah, there's that.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
Uh, Dylan was just he's always just been very easy, chill,
go with the flow, all of his about his firmly
opinionated on literally everything as you could be. Y. Yeah,
she's she's a she is a force to be reckoned with.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
So well you've also described has shown like videos that
make you laugh about how you treat them differently. There's
like a video of how a dad wakes up their
son versus how a dad wakes up their daughter.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Sure.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Yeah, I try and be a little tough on her too, though,
Like I try and I try and push her a
little bit because it's a you know, world's not nice
out there. I don't want to be some softy so
maker kind of you know, just little stuff like push
through hard things and not get discouraged and don't give
up and things like that.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
So nice. Okay, I'm gonna there's a lot of questions,
by the way, so so I'm sorry if we don't
get to all of them, but we'll get to as
money as we can this one. How did you work
your way up in your career?
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Jake?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
And probably just for people listening, maybe tell us what
you did.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Yeah, I work at a software sales company or a
software company.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
I work in sales.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
I'm like oversee like a group a sale part of
the sales group. So I have like a group of
salespeople and sales managers that work under me. I worked
my way up just by starting in sales. I mean
I started in car sales and then kind of transition
to like a software company that sells to the auto industry,
and then to a software company, a couple of different
(08:55):
software companies.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
They've been at the same place now for seven years.
And uh. The primary way you work your way up
in sales is just selling a lot.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Well, I don't think that's always true because some people,
uh well, some people a don't want to go into management.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
For sure.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
There have been salespeople like here in our building who
probably have the opportunity, but they prefer the sales side,
and they are really good at sales, but they just
don't want to go into that that spot.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Yeah, you have to have the aspiration to kind of
want to be like a you know, a leader. So
I did and made that known and took stab at
the opportunity when it popped up.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
And do you think that Fallon has helped you maybe
be like motivated in your career totally?
Speaker 3 (09:37):
Yeah. I think just having.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
People that you are you know, accountable to and who
hold you to a high standard obviously is motivating. I'm
a pretty motivated, self motivated person in general. I don't
like to fail. I'm pretty competitive, like quietly, but uh yeah,
don't definitely having.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
A having you know, a family and a spouse who's
successful is very.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
Strong, Yeah, very strong motivator. Yeah, she's not going to
tolerate me sitting around loafing around the couch.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
No chance, that's her dream that ye.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Still he can't that kind of like I'm like, oh,
how just sit still. I'll actually say on some like
trips or vacations or places we're going, I'll be like,
I intend to not be moving all the time. So
if you can't handle that, that's fine, but I cannot
have you pacing around stressing me out when it's supposed
to be like a vacation where I'm supposed to be
(10:41):
able to relax. And he'll like, got it, and he'll
like say, like, for instance, we would go when we
go to Europe, we do so much walking. It's like
so much sight seeing. I need a midday rest and
I have to to recharge. He does not need anything.
So it has become our ritual that I go back
to the place I rest my bones, my moods, my dogs,
(11:02):
I take a little nap or just scroll my phone.
He'll go out and explore. He'll come back forty thousand
steps later and he's like, all right, you're ready to
go up for the next.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
Part of my day.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
And I'm like, yeah, but that's like kind of how
we just have to know how the other functions.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Yeah, And that's what I feel like helps a lot
of people travel well together. Is once you get that down,
because if you are with someone who doesn't like the
same way of traveling.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
It's like very miserable.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Yeah, we're pretty on par with how we enjoy traveling.
But sure he doesn't need the midday.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
No, I like to get up early too, and I
mean we both kind of do. But yeah, get up.
Speaker 4 (11:37):
Extra early and go, you know, jog or work out
or something.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
But oh gosh, I just had to work that in annoying.
Valid he's with jog and work out. He'll jog at
least once or twice on a trip so he can
tell everyone he jogged through Paris or something.
Speaker 4 (11:53):
But okay, I did every do we were on that
last Paris trip with Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
I feel like, in Jake's defense, yes, it sounds like
you're bragging to say I got up and ran on
a vacation, But it doesn't feel like a workout when
you're in a gorgeous place you've never seen before, because
your mind is taking in all the sights and you're
not even like that focused on the fact that you're running.
Because that's how I feel. If I've ever gone running,
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which has been very rare on vakings.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
I can't relate to either of you. I don't focus
on the fact I'm running, please, I would absolutely.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Focus on the fact that I'm running, only be like
a fifteen minute mile, which is basically walking at that point.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
That's what I'm at.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Yeah, you know whatever, we're not talking about pastry all right.
Next question, if Fallon was a worm, would you still
love her? Great question? Sure, Wow, that's fucking weird.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
Yeah, pervert.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
That was like a big TikTok question.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
For a while.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
I don't remember it. Okay, it was like, would you
still love me if I'm a worm? It feels like
a question you would ask Jake. It does like a
random Saturday she'd suddenly be like, if I was a warm, would.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
You love me? And then I would decide immediately if
I was mad at him for the rest of the
day or not.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
My advantage Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
Okay, this will get a little more personal. What's the
dynamic between Fallon and Dylan's mom. They sound very civil
but just curious.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
No, they are.
Speaker 4 (13:19):
I mean we Dylan's seventeen now, so there's not a
ton of like even communication needed between us. It's pretty
everything's kind of just automatic at this point.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Now.
Speaker 4 (13:30):
It's always been easy. I think she came into Balan
came into Dylan's life when he was nine, so we
worked out the kinks if there were any, you know,
pretty pretty well by then. So not, my god, it's
always been pretty pretty nine.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
I cannot believe Dylan was that young. And now he's seventeen.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
Yeah, yeah, eight years.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
He's about to be out of the house.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
I know.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Don't bring it up, cry on yeah sor right. I
don't mean to make it emotional for a second there.
I'm going to ask Palan those question because I feel
like Fallan has more of the answer to this, and
while I answer it honestly. Does Jake get hit on
a lot?
Speaker 1 (14:06):
Not around me?
Speaker 3 (14:07):
No, I don't know. I'm not like that. No. She
always jokes that, like I chose.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
After she asked me if i'd love her if she
was a worm, and I say the wrong answer, she
would then say, uh, I know you're cheating on me
or something like that, yeah, and then just get into
that for like the rest of the afternoon.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
But it's never happened for real, though I don't.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
I would never put myself in situations where I would
be hit on. I mean, yeah, you don't.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
Have to put yourself. Some people just get hit on.
I don't, but I I mean, I guess it wouldn't
happen in front of me anyway unless you just keep
it a secret. Are you keeping secrets?
Speaker 4 (14:42):
The only place that the only place is like, go,
I mean, I'm at work and I'm a at uh oh.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
So who's the coworker you're banging?
Speaker 3 (14:53):
Like the record show? That is? That is absolutely there's
no none of that.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
All right, Jake? What is Fallins? What is your favorite
personality trait of.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Fallon's sense of humor? For sure? Yeah, she's very, very.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Funny because you Oh, I thought you were going to say,
because she thinks you're funny.
Speaker 4 (15:11):
Well, well she does funny sometimes, but no, we have
a good like we can get some good back and forth,
risks going.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
Yeah, you got that six pack of abs from laughing
at her so.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Much something like that based on that that I'm not funny,
just getting Jake hilarious.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
So, I mean, I feel like we've sort of accomplished
this a little bit. But a lot of the questions
are like, what is it like dating a local celebrity,
a person in radio, having your life out there?
Speaker 3 (15:41):
I don't know how about this.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
You guys have been together for a while. At the beginning,
was it hard to know that your entire personal life.
I'm sure she's told plenty of sex stories. I know
she has, But like, at the beginning, was that weird
or honestly.
Speaker 4 (15:58):
Yeah, no, that was weird. And then you know, having
people come up and like in public and say hi
and stuff was unique, unique different. Yeah, so not not weird,
but like, yeah, a new experience.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Devil does a bother him. He did have someone say
something to him that made him laugh in the past
year or two where they we were at an event
and Jake is nice enough to go to some events
with me. Yeah, I don't think Jake would necessarily go
to most of the events with me unless I was
like if I didn't ask him to, and usually if
I do, it's like I don't want to go, I
don't want to do this alone. You want to go
with me? Whatever? And someone was like, don't you just
(16:36):
feel so lucky like you get to be a part
of such fun events like this all the time because
of her, Like she's just and Jake was just like,
oh yeah, and he said the moment, well, don't overly
share what we were doing. But then he gets the
car and it's like, no, this is not this is
(16:57):
not bring me less joy to be at one of
your events.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
You know, well, because it's like Fallon has to work
during it, I know. And then you know Jake, like
I know, Jake came on one of the Boo cruises
Halloween cruises we did, and Andrew came, and I think
you're like your sister came and stuff. So it's like
you had like some built in people there.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
But if you don't, yeah, if you don't.
Speaker 2 (17:18):
And then Fallen is like busy kind of working and
doing whatever she is and it's basically.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
Taking photos is what he's doing.
Speaker 3 (17:24):
Doing a lot of that.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
Yeah, which she's really good at. By the way, Good job, Jake,
thank you.
Speaker 4 (17:29):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
Fallen has so many funny bits that she does, so
I love this question. It says, what is the funniest
thing Fallen does for me? It's the fact that she
randomly either sends me a meme or she'll say Jenny
and I look up and she's flipping me off. It's
all has to do with like being flipped off most
of the time. So what does she do in the
household of the Gottlers.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
Oh, she's got a few. She'll flip me off a lot. Yeah,
just randomly.
Speaker 4 (17:55):
She'll random boom flash here and there, just kind of
like the middle walk into the room and cut him loose.
She'll stick her feet into my face and say, lick them.
Speaker 1 (18:11):
That one doesn't happen a lot.
Speaker 4 (18:14):
That's just a big old hoof right under the Noah
is there the.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
He does it, by the way, and if he did,
I bet you're disgusting.
Speaker 3 (18:25):
Yeah. She likes to just ask what's your horning level?
Speaker 2 (18:29):
And then yep, is it always out of ten?
Speaker 3 (18:32):
I always say it's super high. She's like, you're sick.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Oh good, thank you.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Thank you like it.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
I don't feel like you have one. But someone wants
to know what's your biggest pet peeve that has talked
about on air. Is there anything that she talks about.
Speaker 4 (18:50):
Stuff about me that she talks about. I don't think so. No,
nothing really bothers me. I think if there's anything like
serious or anything she might beforehand, maybe I think.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
We've got a pretty good grip on what it's okay
to talk about there with our partners and what's not great.
So all right, This one actually comes from a good
buddy of the show, Tina's fiance. He says, how does
he grow that succulent Greek god facial hair? Asking for
a friend?
Speaker 4 (19:22):
Right right, Yeah, it's it's a trade off for being
roughly what six or seven inches shorter than.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Different ways?
Speaker 2 (19:32):
Yes, oh man, let's see what tips do you have
for other men who are with Oh hold on, sorry,
Pallon already told me I fucked this up ahead of time.
I was like part two, okay, Part one is is
it hard to be with someone who can be stubborn
and strong headed?
Speaker 1 (19:49):
What?
Speaker 2 (19:50):
Who thinks?
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Who thinks that about me?
Speaker 2 (19:52):
That's so surprising?
Speaker 3 (19:55):
Yes, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Why explain yourself?
Speaker 3 (20:00):
Oh, you've just.
Speaker 4 (20:01):
Got like, uh, you know, some we'll call them bits
that aren't bits that Yeah, yesterday, as an example, just
goes on an absolute tear cleaning stuff off the countertop. Now,
I'll lay a little context here, Like I do daily
picking up around the house like she does not.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
That's not true. Every day I come home every day,
I fold the blankets, put them up, I pick up
Frank's toy.
Speaker 4 (20:28):
But then at the same time, yeah, her, her spindriff
cans are left on the table and her socks are
thrown everywhere anyway she does next to next for a
coffee maker. There's this giant pile of stuff that's been
sitting It's her stuff that's been sitting there for weeks and.
Speaker 3 (20:49):
Weeks and weeks and weeks and weeks.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
I have sitting there one pack of floss, dental floss
that I bought and brought home and haven't brought to
the bathroom. I just said it, said it there, forgot
the grab it.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
And she's in.
Speaker 4 (21:01):
The middle of just on a rampage, picking stuff up,
yelling at me and Olive just like, uh and this
and this is just sitting here for two weeks.
Speaker 3 (21:09):
I told you, like to bring this back.
Speaker 1 (21:11):
It's just like yeah.
Speaker 4 (21:12):
And I laughed because I was just like, are you
getting me, like my one little pack of dental fluss
sitting there in this giant monstrosity pile of your your
stuff here?
Speaker 1 (21:21):
So I exactly that too. First of all, the seth
brush had probably been sitting there for two months. Actually yeah,
the floss maybe.
Speaker 3 (21:28):
Yeah, two weeks.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
I'd had it with a freaking dental floss.
Speaker 4 (21:31):
And she she she'll hit she'll hit a hit a
wall with like the state of things uh in a
certain area and just kind of go uh off for
a little bit.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
But you know, I appreciated the it looks a lot
better now.
Speaker 1 (21:43):
Has slowly taken over every room of the house with shit,
and that is why I'm snapping the one room. She
was like, the whole basement is now hers. We've just
given up. But then she went to the spare room
because Jake let her build a tent and for it
while he was on the peloton, And I'm like, that's it.
She doesn't get every room in the house.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
I would struggle with that myself too, because they don't
like random things laying around. Yeah, you can't have a chich.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
I know.
Speaker 2 (22:12):
I'm okay. Well, following up to being with someone who's stubborn,
what tips do you have for other men who are
with women like that? Because my man needs help?
Speaker 4 (22:22):
Oh well, I think you got to be the right
type of person. There's got to be the right balance there. Yeah,
you have to be you have to be patient and
understanding and not let you gotta thick skin, I think.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
But little jabs like that, yeah, you at all.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
I think that's a good way to put it. I
think it's like, you know, you gotta let things kind
of roll off the shoulder and be like.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
Yeah, what, I'm good at that with every aspect of life,
And I am not. He did. I don't think Jake's
ever ever spiraled about anything ever like that since I've
been with him, or if he does, he keeps it
well hidden.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
Bury it deep down inside.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
That's gonna explode someday. You need to talk to a therapist, Jake.
It's not healthy.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
I'm pretty pretty How do you let us seem?
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Do you do?
Speaker 2 (23:10):
You have a way to let it? That's what everyone's answer.
But outside of that.
Speaker 4 (23:18):
Exercise, I like to be outside skiing.
Speaker 3 (23:21):
Yeah, sure, I.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
Have so many follow up questions, but we'll keep to
the questions that listeners want answers to. Okay, what is
your favorite thing about Fallon or your best memory with Fallen?
Speaker 4 (23:33):
My favorite thing about her? We just have fun, like
I don't know, just.
Speaker 3 (23:42):
You could be.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
Going to a grocery store and you would have fun,
just like walking down the aisle, like going back and forth.
Speaker 3 (23:48):
Yeah, it's always easy.
Speaker 4 (23:51):
Best memory, I don't know, We've had so many, all
the cool vacations and stuff like that. Just uh, I
don't know, probably something to do with travel and spending
time with the kids, or you know, being on top
of like a mountain with the would you.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
Say it was one of her legs were spread wide
open and she was popping all about. Oh wait, no,
you had a c section? No I didn't, you didn't.
Speaker 3 (24:11):
No, she came out dead.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
A couple of He's an eloquent man. You want her
eyes gotten so far in his career. It's it's word
words like that.
Speaker 4 (24:21):
Just really it was pretty easy. It was one push
and like she sneezed her out there.
Speaker 1 (24:27):
It was a one push, So I have a cavern
of a vagina. Sorry she fell out.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Oh my goodness, man. People are obsessed with your hair
and your beard. People are like, what's what makes that was.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
The number one question for you and all of Andrews
were when are you proposing?
Speaker 2 (24:45):
Yes, they were. Let's see, is starfishing a real thing?
I'm asking Jake this question because Fallon always says she
just starfishes in the bed, it's my favorite position.
Speaker 3 (24:56):
She doesn't, she doesn't starfish. Actually she'll she'll hoist the legs.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
And you know, sometimes depends on my hands arms around you.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Oh yeah, yeah, no, completely, now, there was. There was
one one time in.
Speaker 4 (25:10):
I went to Nantucket for just the two of us,
and I was trying to get it in like the
whole trips. I think maybe it was like the first
day she was like, let's just get this out of the.
Speaker 3 (25:19):
Way, and she just kind of like, I'm so amazed,
kind of like bed door. I mean, she even started
laughing because of how like uninvolved she was. It was.
It was funny.
Speaker 2 (25:27):
Were you on your phone too?
Speaker 3 (25:29):
She would have been.
Speaker 1 (25:32):
I don't remember that at all. I believe you, but
I don't remember.
Speaker 3 (25:35):
Sounds like me that was a funny one.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Okay, this is so personal, but Andrew and I recently
had this conversation where we were like, what was your
favorite moments of sex or like specific times do you
guys have favorite moments of sex with Probably.
Speaker 3 (25:49):
I had a couple that stand out.
Speaker 2 (25:50):
Yeah, yeah, right, everyone else those standout times? I feel like, yeah, we.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
I mean that probably, which is embarrassing to Nashville would
probably be one browny with that one. But we were
at his friend's airbnb. I'm not they live in the
same house. There's no way they didn't hear us. That
mortifies me to this day. What's the other one?
Speaker 3 (26:09):
I just got a few stand out blowy's.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
Yeah, yeah, I knew it. I knew it.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
Has she ever given you a double blowy? Elaborate so
like you you go and then she just keeps going,
and then you go again.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
No, oh, I don't even.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
At the moment. Andrew will never forget. And I don't
think I realized I was doing it, because otherwise I
wouldn't do it. Wow, well I would realize it, though.
A couple of double blowys have happened in our Unless
he's just.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Blowing out fumes, I don't know how you wouldn't know, Jenny, Okay,
let's it's just like dust is coming out at some point.
I don't.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
I just thought it was a little aftermath situation.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
But it was just like Jenny's not big on the
blowy though she's she's she's too old for that, well
especially swallow.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Oh, yes, that's what I'm too old for. Yeah, the Yeah,
I don't know. Whatever. I have a bad job. It's
fallen really as disgusting as she claims to be. Yeah,
you didn't have to think about that.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
Jake is also gross. I'd like to be clear anytime
I ever try to credit card. And he's like, I
would if I were you, because he says, and a
direct quote yesterday was I said, you just showered, your
crack is clean, and he goes, Fallin, it hasn't been
clean a day in my life, a direct quote. So
we are very gross together.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Oh gosh, okay, Fallin. We all know found's very funny,
and I think Jake is very funny too. But someone says, Jake,
how hard do you have to try to be funny
since it's so effortless for Fallon.
Speaker 4 (27:51):
I don't think I have to try very hard. No,
I think I'm funny less often than she is. But uh,
I would.
Speaker 1 (27:57):
Say, but your style, it's a different style, and you
also they hit harder, Yeah when they because maybe I
throw in like low hanging fruit, as we would say,
more often than you do. And yeah, our styles are different.
But that's one of the things that drew me to
you is I prefer less of my style, which there
(28:20):
can be some of my I feel it can be witty,
but a lot of mine is immature, and I feel
like yours is smarter, which I like.
Speaker 2 (28:30):
Yeah. Yeah, when she farts that baby out, yeah, thank
that one was not a good example of your mature humor. God,
did you know the folin was locally famous before you
ever went on a date with her? You knew she
was from y on katiew and stuff.
Speaker 4 (28:49):
No, I had listened to the show. I mean I
grew up in Minnesota, so I was familiar.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
With Did you know like a lot about her from
listening to the show or just from communicating before you
ever dated?
Speaker 4 (29:01):
Not a tongue, cause I don't think I listened to
a bunch then. But there was like maybe a few
years before when I drove every day from eating to
shock ape for work. I was a pretty regular, fairly
regular morning morning listener, and I had like a decent
I just remember thinking, like, there's one episode or not
one one time you guys were talking about I hated
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my job at the time. It was like worked in
car sales, and it was like the hours were terrible,
and I remember you talking about like basically getting done
with work and the things we're gonna do after work,
and it was like ten am, and I was like, Oh,
these people.
Speaker 3 (29:36):
Must be nice.
Speaker 2 (29:37):
Yeah, oh yeah, God, that would be hard to hear.
Speaker 4 (29:40):
I was like, I was on my way to work
like an eight am to nine pm shift or something
like that.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
So shut up radio people talking about your hardshift.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
Okay, I don't think we have too many more because,
like I said, a lot of the questions are like
very similar of like how did you know when you
loved fan? But this is what's the appropriate amount of
teasing in a relationship. I my mind meant immediately went
to sexual teaching, but I feel like they mean teasing
like poking fun at each other.
Speaker 3 (30:10):
I'll let you answer your version of it, but I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (30:14):
I don't know the answer to.
Speaker 2 (30:15):
That because if you know when you've hurt someone's feelings.
Speaker 1 (30:18):
I also know that you've been around people that tease
their partner in front of other people and it feels
mean and it like and it makes you uncomfortable for
their partner. So I never want to do that to
like Jake, Yeah, whatever whatever amount well with his siblings.
Speaker 4 (30:36):
Whatever amount makes it fun. If it's not fun, then yeah,
that's too much.
Speaker 2 (30:41):
Well, I think this is all the questions that we have. Okay,
I missed any I don't know what do I have
left Bound's favorite sex position outside of starfishing.
Speaker 3 (30:54):
Six A little doggy action here and there.
Speaker 1 (30:56):
Jacob t M I I do.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
I knew, yeah, I could look at you and tell yeah,
because it's another situation where yeah, another one where I'm doing.
But however, at least from the gentleman that I've ever
spoken to, it feels to be one of their favorite positions.
Speaker 3 (31:15):
I think it's a it's agreed.
Speaker 2 (31:17):
You ever a look at her butthole?
Speaker 4 (31:19):
Yeah, god in in those situations, Well, it depends. I
have seen it in a couple different circumstances here, so
like medically speaking, that's not my not my favorite doctor.
Speaker 3 (31:34):
Up from a sexual standpoint.
Speaker 1 (31:36):
Thanks for joining us to day my pleasure. I'll love
you back you I'm talking to Jenny. Love you bye,
All right, welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. I'm Fallon,
I'm Jenny, and guess what. Last week we had Andrew,
Jenny's lover, on this week we have mine. Say hello, Jake, Hello, goy.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
He's so respectful. Andrew chimed in immediately before he was
spoken to, like, hey, okay, so I guess Andrew's on
the podcast.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Oh yeah, it didn't start with him talking, and they
were like, oh, okay, let's go. Yeah pretty much, that's fine.
People really liked the episode last week with Andrew. No pressure, Jake,
h Andrew thinks he's not going to be a regular
guest on our podcast. Calm down, absolutely not.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
I go, what do you mean, Like, we're not going
to just keep having you on and asking you questions.
He's like, no, like, I'll just be part of the
podcast contributor. Yeah, And I was like, why, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
He's so fun, okay fun.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
He's not though, because he won't reveal funny stories that
are funny and perfect for podcasting, and I have to
be warned, I'm not allowed to tell them.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
That is one of the questions that you're going to
be asked today as well. But I like, yeah, I
feel like, Jake, just does you do you listen our
podcast at all? Because Andrew said he listens sometimes.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
I've listened to several several episodes.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Do you ever feel uncomfortable?
Speaker 4 (01:07):
I know there are a few stories that have been
told that at this point, it's all just kind of
it rolls off the shoulders there because I don't know
if I could get any worse.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
But that's fair.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
That's fair.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Okay, Well, we Jenny. Last week basically we had people
submit questions to ask Andrew, and I asked Jenny and
Andrew the question. So this week I had people submit
Jenny will be kind of guiding this questionnaire with you.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Yeah, First, Jake, I just want to say thank you
for taking the time today with this is. I know
you work for a real job where you have hours you.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Have to be at that job, and should we pretend
that you recorded this after hours in case any of
your coworkers listen.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
That's all good.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
I get a lunch break, Yeah, it's lunch break. What
are you talking about? He's on his lunch. He's Ben
on his lunch with us.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
So yeah, all.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Right, talking for the questions, Yeah, Jake, what's something that
listeners misunderstand the most about Palin.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
I think it's easy to assume that someone as loud
as her is uh extroverted. She is, Uh, she just
is not. She doesn't like people. She doesn't like people
or being around them or.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Come down, calm down.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
She's like, uh, I mean, you know, part of it
is because you know the nature of your both of
your job is is you got to be kind of
on all the time. And then you know, if you
go from that to like a social event after work,
you're you're kind of still on. Uh So I can
get that, get how that can be. Yeah, yeah, so
I totally understand that. But yeah, she's she's she's very
(02:44):
very introverted.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
I think we.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
Choose kind of chilling on the couch, ideally in an
empty house without mere kids over overmost uh social activities.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
I end up. I think a lot of the time
I build it up to be worse in my head
that it's going to be.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
You do do that.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
And so like yesterday, Jake took Olive to a kids
Valentine's party because we talked about this on the podcast
three hours long, and I was like, I'm not going
to I'm not making small talk with people for that
I don't know for three hours, but Jake is very
okay with it. And then I have the guilt of like, well,
I should put my feelings aside and go be with Olive.
(03:24):
But I also do not feel like it's a two
parent requirement or needed.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Yeah, okay, that's interesting. I think I did somewhat know
that about you.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
But when I'm outside of work with like you and Tina,
my comfort kind of people, I wouldn't say I'm introverted.
I'd say I'm loud, and yeah, we're all annoyingly loud
and together, and but yeah, it's I don't like to
put myself in position because when people don't know me,
I think I feel like I have to perform to
be the version of me that they might like on
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the radio or something. And I don't necessarily want to
do that because I'm tired. Yeah, yeah, I don't know,
but I don't want to let people down, you know,
so for sure?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
All right?
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Next one is when's the moment you fell in love
with Fallen?
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Oh yeah, yeah, I had a pretty good sense of
I think my feelings for her after we went on
that first taco date that was the first night I
met both of you was at the Star party. She
brought me there and I think to make sure that
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you know, if I was crazy, you could get away.
And then we went a couple of days later or
something like that, we went on a date to Taco
Rindo in Northeast and yeah, I don't know, I just
had a pretty good sense of, like, yeah, this is
a person I want to.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Spend a lot of time with.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
So you fell in love with Fallen on your first date?
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Yeah, I think, I mean we sort of progressed quickly
because I think both of us had been through enough
yeah bys at that point to kind of know like
what we like, what we don't like. And I don't know,
just had a pretty good sense of, Yeah, this is
something I want to seriously pursue.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Now.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
This question is not on here, it's just a personal one.
When when was the first time that you made love?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Gross? No, I remember, I remember it was not making love.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
That was rowdy.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Yeah, it was very rowdy drunk.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
Yeah, that would have been what like two weeks later,
two weeks after we met.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Maybe it was.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Pretty it was, wasn't it like memorial lyate weekend? Because
it went to a party got liquored up. Yeah, banged. Yeah,
I love that now, thank you, Jake.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
What does Fallon do now when she gets drunk?
Speaker 3 (05:48):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
She doesn't often, but.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Yeah, I don't know. It's a routine she does, she does. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:55):
No, if she gets drunk, like actually drunk like, she
will hit a certain point and then just kind of
like she's done with the night. The night is over,
and then she's going to bed, or if it's really bad,
she will. You'll wake up to the sound of the
shower yep, two three in the morning or something like that,
(06:15):
and she is laying on her back, letting the water
just beat onto her stomach with her eyes closed.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Yeah, it's a comfort thing.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Jenny does it too.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
I do.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
She's the only other person I've met that does it,
and which I think is one more reason why we're
just perfectly match for each other.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Ellen and I are meant to be together, and you
and Andrew are meant to be together.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
You guys could listen to all your management financial podcast together.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
You've got to have a counterbalance there and be too much,
too much. Yeah, all right.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Next question is, Jake, how do you like being a
girl's dad?
Speaker 3 (06:51):
How do I like being a girl. Dad. Oh it's
I mean, I love it.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
She's you know, she's incredible, but it's a it is
a challenge.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
That was it different than Dylan.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
It's so different.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
Well, it's different in a lot of ways because I
was so young when when Dylan was born, So like
when he was you know, three four five, I was
still in my early to mid twenties. You just have
a very different lens on parenting in general when you're
you know, older and more established and you don't have
to worry about like am I debit card gonna go
through a target or not?
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Or right? So yeah, there's that.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
Uh, Dylan was just he's always just been very easy, chill,
go with the flow, all of his about his firmly
opinionated on literally everything as you could be. Y. Yeah,
she's she's a she is a force to be reckoned with.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
So well you've also described has shown like videos that
make you laugh about how you treat them differently. There's
like a video of how a dad wakes up their
son versus how a dad wakes up their daughter.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Sure.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Yeah, I try and be a little tough on her too, though,
Like I try and I try and push her a
little bit because it's a you know, world's not nice
out there. I don't want to be some softy so
maker kind of you know, just little stuff like push
through hard things and not get discouraged and don't give
up and things like that.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
So nice. Okay, I'm gonna there's a lot of questions,
by the way, so so I'm sorry if we don't
get to all of them, but we'll get to as
money as we can this one. How did you work
your way up in your career?
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Jake?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
And probably just for people listening, maybe tell us what
you did.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Yeah, I work at a software sales company or a
software company.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
I work in sales.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
I'm like oversee like a group a sale part of
the sales group. So I have like a group of
salespeople and sales managers that work under me. I worked
my way up just by starting in sales. I mean
I started in car sales and then kind of transition
to like a software company that sells to the auto industry,
and then to a software company, a couple of different
(08:55):
software companies.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
They've been at the same place now for seven years.
And uh. The primary way you work your way up
in sales is just selling a lot.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Well, I don't think that's always true because some people,
uh well, some people a don't want to go into management.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
For sure.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
There have been salespeople like here in our building who
probably have the opportunity, but they prefer the sales side,
and they are really good at sales, but they just
don't want to go into that that spot.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Yeah, you have to have the aspiration to kind of
want to be like a you know, a leader. So
I did and made that known and took stab at
the opportunity when it popped up.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
And do you think that Fallon has helped you maybe
be like motivated in your career totally?
Speaker 3 (09:37):
Yeah. I think just having.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
People that you are you know, accountable to and who
hold you to a high standard obviously is motivating. I'm
a pretty motivated, self motivated person in general. I don't
like to fail. I'm pretty competitive, like quietly, but uh yeah,
don't definitely having.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
A having you know, a family and a spouse who's
successful is very.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
Strong, Yeah, very strong motivator. Yeah, she's not going to
tolerate me sitting around loafing around the couch.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
No chance, that's her dream that ye.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Still he can't that kind of like I'm like, oh,
how just sit still. I'll actually say on some like
trips or vacations or places we're going, I'll be like,
I intend to not be moving all the time. So
if you can't handle that, that's fine, but I cannot
have you pacing around stressing me out when it's supposed
to be like a vacation where I'm supposed to be
(10:41):
able to relax. And he'll like, got it, and he'll
like say, like, for instance, we would go when we
go to Europe, we do so much walking. It's like
so much sight seeing. I need a midday rest and
I have to to recharge. He does not need anything.
So it has become our ritual that I go back
to the place I rest my bones, my moods, my dogs,
(11:02):
I take a little nap or just scroll my phone.
He'll go out and explore. He'll come back forty thousand
steps later and he's like, all right, you're ready to
go up for the next.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
Part of my day.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
And I'm like, yeah, but that's like kind of how
we just have to know how the other functions.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Yeah, And that's what I feel like helps a lot
of people travel well together. Is once you get that down,
because if you are with someone who doesn't like the
same way of traveling.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
It's like very miserable.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Yeah, we're pretty on par with how we enjoy traveling.
But sure he doesn't need the midday.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
No, I like to get up early too, and I
mean we both kind of do. But yeah, get up.
Speaker 4 (11:37):
Extra early and go, you know, jog or work out
or something.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
But oh gosh, I just had to work that in annoying.
Valid he's with jog and work out. He'll jog at
least once or twice on a trip so he can
tell everyone he jogged through Paris or something.
Speaker 4 (11:53):
But okay, I did every do we were on that
last Paris trip with Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
I feel like, in Jake's defense, yes, it sounds like
you're bragging to say I got up and ran on
a vacation, But it doesn't feel like a workout when
you're in a gorgeous place you've never seen before, because
your mind is taking in all the sights and you're
not even like that focused on the fact that you're running.
Because that's how I feel. If I've ever gone running,
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which has been very rare on vakings.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
I can't relate to either of you. I don't focus
on the fact I'm running, please, I would absolutely.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Focus on the fact that I'm running, only be like
a fifteen minute mile, which is basically walking at that point.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
That's what I'm at.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Yeah, you know whatever, we're not talking about pastry all right.
Next question, if Fallon was a worm, would you still
love her? Great question? Sure, Wow, that's fucking weird.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
Yeah, pervert.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
That was like a big TikTok question.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
For a while.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
I don't remember it. Okay, it was like, would you
still love me if I'm a worm? It feels like
a question you would ask Jake. It does like a
random Saturday she'd suddenly be like, if I was a warm, would.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
You love me? And then I would decide immediately if
I was mad at him for the rest of the
day or not.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
My advantage Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
Okay, this will get a little more personal. What's the
dynamic between Fallon and Dylan's mom. They sound very civil
but just curious.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
No, they are.
Speaker 4 (13:19):
I mean we Dylan's seventeen now, so there's not a
ton of like even communication needed between us. It's pretty
everything's kind of just automatic at this point.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Now.
Speaker 4 (13:30):
It's always been easy. I think she came into Balan
came into Dylan's life when he was nine, so we
worked out the kinks if there were any, you know,
pretty pretty well by then. So not, my god, it's
always been pretty pretty nine.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
I cannot believe Dylan was that young. And now he's seventeen.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
Yeah, yeah, eight years.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
He's about to be out of the house.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
I know.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Don't bring it up, cry on yeah sor right. I
don't mean to make it emotional for a second there.
I'm going to ask Palan those question because I feel
like Fallan has more of the answer to this, and
while I answer it honestly. Does Jake get hit on
a lot?
Speaker 1 (14:06):
Not around me?
Speaker 3 (14:07):
No, I don't know. I'm not like that. No. She
always jokes that, like I chose.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
After she asked me if i'd love her if she
was a worm, and I say the wrong answer, she
would then say, uh, I know you're cheating on me
or something like that, yeah, and then just get into
that for like the rest of the afternoon.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
But it's never happened for real, though I don't.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
I would never put myself in situations where I would
be hit on. I mean, yeah, you don't.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
Have to put yourself. Some people just get hit on.
I don't, but I I mean, I guess it wouldn't
happen in front of me anyway unless you just keep
it a secret. Are you keeping secrets?
Speaker 4 (14:42):
The only place that the only place is like, go,
I mean, I'm at work and I'm a at uh oh.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
So who's the coworker you're banging?
Speaker 3 (14:53):
Like the record show? That is? That is absolutely there's
no none of that.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
All right, Jake? What is Fallins? What is your favorite
personality trait of.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Fallon's sense of humor? For sure? Yeah, she's very, very.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Funny because you Oh, I thought you were going to say,
because she thinks you're funny.
Speaker 4 (15:11):
Well, well she does funny sometimes, but no, we have
a good like we can get some good back and forth,
risks going.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
Yeah, you got that six pack of abs from laughing
at her so.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Much something like that based on that that I'm not funny,
just getting Jake hilarious.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
So, I mean, I feel like we've sort of accomplished
this a little bit. But a lot of the questions
are like, what is it like dating a local celebrity,
a person in radio, having your life out there?
Speaker 3 (15:41):
I don't know how about this.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
You guys have been together for a while. At the beginning,
was it hard to know that your entire personal life.
I'm sure she's told plenty of sex stories. I know
she has, But like, at the beginning, was that weird
or honestly.
Speaker 4 (15:58):
Yeah, no, that was weird. And then you know, having
people come up and like in public and say hi
and stuff was unique, unique different. Yeah, so not not weird,
but like, yeah, a new experience.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Devil does a bother him. He did have someone say
something to him that made him laugh in the past
year or two where they we were at an event
and Jake is nice enough to go to some events
with me. Yeah, I don't think Jake would necessarily go
to most of the events with me unless I was
like if I didn't ask him to, and usually if
I do, it's like I don't want to go, I
don't want to do this alone. You want to go
with me? Whatever? And someone was like, don't you just
(16:36):
feel so lucky like you get to be a part
of such fun events like this all the time because
of her, Like she's just and Jake was just like,
oh yeah, and he said the moment, well, don't overly
share what we were doing. But then he gets the
car and it's like, no, this is not this is
(16:57):
not bring me less joy to be at one of
your events.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
You know, well, because it's like Fallon has to work
during it, I know. And then you know Jake, like
I know, Jake came on one of the Boo cruises
Halloween cruises we did, and Andrew came, and I think
you're like your sister came and stuff. So it's like
you had like some built in people there.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
But if you don't, yeah, if you don't.
Speaker 2 (17:18):
And then Fallen is like busy kind of working and
doing whatever she is and it's basically.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
Taking photos is what he's doing.
Speaker 3 (17:24):
Doing a lot of that.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
Yeah, which she's really good at. By the way, Good job, Jake,
thank you.
Speaker 4 (17:29):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
Fallen has so many funny bits that she does, so
I love this question. It says, what is the funniest
thing Fallen does for me? It's the fact that she
randomly either sends me a meme or she'll say Jenny
and I look up and she's flipping me off. It's
all has to do with like being flipped off most
of the time. So what does she do in the
household of the Gottlers.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
Oh, she's got a few. She'll flip me off a lot. Yeah,
just randomly.
Speaker 4 (17:55):
She'll random boom flash here and there, just kind of
like the middle walk into the room and cut him loose.
She'll stick her feet into my face and say, lick them.
Speaker 1 (18:11):
That one doesn't happen a lot.
Speaker 4 (18:14):
That's just a big old hoof right under the Noah
is there the.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
He does it, by the way, and if he did,
I bet you're disgusting.
Speaker 3 (18:25):
Yeah. She likes to just ask what's your horning level?
Speaker 2 (18:29):
And then yep, is it always out of ten?
Speaker 3 (18:32):
I always say it's super high. She's like, you're sick.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Oh good, thank you.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Thank you like it.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
I don't feel like you have one. But someone wants
to know what's your biggest pet peeve that has talked
about on air. Is there anything that she talks about.
Speaker 4 (18:50):
Stuff about me that she talks about. I don't think so. No,
nothing really bothers me. I think if there's anything like
serious or anything she might beforehand, maybe I think.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
We've got a pretty good grip on what it's okay
to talk about there with our partners and what's not great.
So all right, This one actually comes from a good
buddy of the show, Tina's fiance. He says, how does
he grow that succulent Greek god facial hair? Asking for
a friend?
Speaker 4 (19:22):
Right right, Yeah, it's it's a trade off for being
roughly what six or seven inches shorter than.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Different ways?
Speaker 2 (19:32):
Yes, oh man, let's see what tips do you have
for other men who are with Oh hold on, sorry,
Pallon already told me I fucked this up ahead of time.
I was like part two, okay, Part one is is
it hard to be with someone who can be stubborn
and strong headed?
Speaker 1 (19:49):
What?
Speaker 2 (19:50):
Who thinks?
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Who thinks that about me?
Speaker 2 (19:52):
That's so surprising?
Speaker 3 (19:55):
Yes, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Why explain yourself?
Speaker 3 (20:00):
Oh, you've just.
Speaker 4 (20:01):
Got like, uh, you know, some we'll call them bits
that aren't bits that Yeah, yesterday, as an example, just
goes on an absolute tear cleaning stuff off the countertop. Now,
I'll lay a little context here, Like I do daily
picking up around the house like she does not.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
That's not true. Every day I come home every day,
I fold the blankets, put them up, I pick up
Frank's toy.
Speaker 4 (20:28):
But then at the same time, yeah, her, her spindriff
cans are left on the table and her socks are
thrown everywhere anyway she does next to next for a
coffee maker. There's this giant pile of stuff that's been
sitting It's her stuff that's been sitting there for weeks and.
Speaker 3 (20:49):
Weeks and weeks and weeks and weeks.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
I have sitting there one pack of floss, dental floss
that I bought and brought home and haven't brought to
the bathroom. I just said it, said it there, forgot
the grab it.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
And she's in.
Speaker 4 (21:01):
The middle of just on a rampage, picking stuff up,
yelling at me and Olive just like, uh and this
and this is just sitting here for two weeks.
Speaker 3 (21:09):
I told you, like to bring this back.
Speaker 1 (21:11):
It's just like yeah.
Speaker 4 (21:12):
And I laughed because I was just like, are you
getting me, like my one little pack of dental fluss
sitting there in this giant monstrosity pile of your your
stuff here?
Speaker 1 (21:21):
So I exactly that too. First of all, the seth
brush had probably been sitting there for two months. Actually yeah,
the floss maybe.
Speaker 3 (21:28):
Yeah, two weeks.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
I'd had it with a freaking dental floss.
Speaker 4 (21:31):
And she she she'll hit she'll hit a hit a
wall with like the state of things uh in a
certain area and just kind of go uh off for
a little bit.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
But you know, I appreciated the it looks a lot
better now.
Speaker 1 (21:43):
Has slowly taken over every room of the house with shit,
and that is why I'm snapping the one room. She
was like, the whole basement is now hers. We've just
given up. But then she went to the spare room
because Jake let her build a tent and for it
while he was on the peloton, And I'm like, that's it.
She doesn't get every room in the house.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
I would struggle with that myself too, because they don't
like random things laying around. Yeah, you can't have a chich.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
I know.
Speaker 2 (22:12):
I'm okay. Well, following up to being with someone who's stubborn,
what tips do you have for other men who are
with women like that? Because my man needs help?
Speaker 4 (22:22):
Oh well, I think you got to be the right
type of person. There's got to be the right balance there. Yeah,
you have to be you have to be patient and
understanding and not let you gotta thick skin, I think.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
But little jabs like that, yeah, you at all.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
I think that's a good way to put it. I
think it's like, you know, you gotta let things kind
of roll off the shoulder and be like.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
Yeah, what, I'm good at that with every aspect of life,
And I am not. He did. I don't think Jake's
ever ever spiraled about anything ever like that since I've
been with him, or if he does, he keeps it
well hidden.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
Bury it deep down inside.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
That's gonna explode someday. You need to talk to a therapist, Jake.
It's not healthy.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
I'm pretty pretty How do you let us seem?
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Do you do?
Speaker 2 (23:10):
You have a way to let it? That's what everyone's answer.
But outside of that.
Speaker 4 (23:18):
Exercise, I like to be outside skiing.
Speaker 3 (23:21):
Yeah, sure, I.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
Have so many follow up questions, but we'll keep to
the questions that listeners want answers to. Okay, what is
your favorite thing about Fallon or your best memory with Fallen?
Speaker 4 (23:33):
My favorite thing about her? We just have fun, like
I don't know, just.
Speaker 3 (23:42):
You could be.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
Going to a grocery store and you would have fun,
just like walking down the aisle, like going back and forth.
Speaker 3 (23:48):
Yeah, it's always easy.
Speaker 4 (23:51):
Best memory, I don't know, We've had so many, all
the cool vacations and stuff like that. Just uh, I
don't know, probably something to do with travel and spending
time with the kids, or you know, being on top
of like a mountain with the would you.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
Say it was one of her legs were spread wide
open and she was popping all about. Oh wait, no,
you had a c section? No I didn't, you didn't.
Speaker 3 (24:11):
No, she came out dead.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
A couple of He's an eloquent man. You want her
eyes gotten so far in his career. It's it's word
words like that.
Speaker 4 (24:21):
Just really it was pretty easy. It was one push
and like she sneezed her out there.
Speaker 1 (24:27):
It was a one push, So I have a cavern
of a vagina. Sorry she fell out.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Oh my goodness, man. People are obsessed with your hair
and your beard. People are like, what's what makes that was.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
The number one question for you and all of Andrews
were when are you proposing?
Speaker 2 (24:45):
Yes, they were. Let's see, is starfishing a real thing?
I'm asking Jake this question because Fallon always says she
just starfishes in the bed, it's my favorite position.
Speaker 3 (24:56):
She doesn't, she doesn't starfish. Actually she'll she'll hoist the legs.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
And you know, sometimes depends on my hands arms around you.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Oh yeah, yeah, no, completely, now, there was. There was
one one time in.
Speaker 4 (25:10):
I went to Nantucket for just the two of us,
and I was trying to get it in like the
whole trips. I think maybe it was like the first
day she was like, let's just get this out of the.
Speaker 3 (25:19):
Way, and she just kind of like, I'm so amazed,
kind of like bed door. I mean, she even started
laughing because of how like uninvolved she was. It was.
It was funny.
Speaker 2 (25:27):
Were you on your phone too?
Speaker 3 (25:29):
She would have been.
Speaker 1 (25:32):
I don't remember that at all. I believe you, but
I don't remember.
Speaker 3 (25:35):
Sounds like me that was a funny one.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Okay, this is so personal, but Andrew and I recently
had this conversation where we were like, what was your
favorite moments of sex or like specific times do you
guys have favorite moments of sex with Probably.
Speaker 3 (25:49):
I had a couple that stand out.
Speaker 2 (25:50):
Yeah, yeah, right, everyone else those standout times? I feel like, yeah, we.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
I mean that probably, which is embarrassing to Nashville would
probably be one browny with that one. But we were
at his friend's airbnb. I'm not they live in the
same house. There's no way they didn't hear us. That
mortifies me to this day. What's the other one?
Speaker 3 (26:09):
I just got a few stand out blowy's.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
Yeah, yeah, I knew it. I knew it.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
Has she ever given you a double blowy? Elaborate so
like you you go and then she just keeps going,
and then you go again.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
No, oh, I don't even.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
At the moment. Andrew will never forget. And I don't
think I realized I was doing it, because otherwise I
wouldn't do it. Wow, well I would realize it, though.
A couple of double blowys have happened in our Unless
he's just.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Blowing out fumes, I don't know how you wouldn't know, Jenny, Okay,
let's it's just like dust is coming out at some point.
I don't.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
I just thought it was a little aftermath situation.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
But it was just like Jenny's not big on the
blowy though she's she's she's too old for that, well
especially swallow.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Oh, yes, that's what I'm too old for. Yeah, the Yeah,
I don't know. Whatever. I have a bad job. It's
fallen really as disgusting as she claims to be. Yeah,
you didn't have to think about that.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
Jake is also gross. I'd like to be clear anytime
I ever try to credit card. And he's like, I
would if I were you, because he says, and a
direct quote yesterday was I said, you just showered, your
crack is clean, and he goes, Fallin, it hasn't been
clean a day in my life, a direct quote. So
we are very gross together.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Oh gosh, okay, Fallin. We all know found's very funny,
and I think Jake is very funny too. But someone says, Jake,
how hard do you have to try to be funny
since it's so effortless for Fallon.
Speaker 4 (27:51):
I don't think I have to try very hard. No,
I think I'm funny less often than she is. But uh,
I would.
Speaker 1 (27:57):
Say, but your style, it's a different style, and you
also they hit harder, Yeah when they because maybe I
throw in like low hanging fruit, as we would say,
more often than you do. And yeah, our styles are different.
But that's one of the things that drew me to
you is I prefer less of my style, which there
(28:20):
can be some of my I feel it can be witty,
but a lot of mine is immature, and I feel
like yours is smarter, which I like.
Speaker 2 (28:30):
Yeah. Yeah, when she farts that baby out, yeah, thank
that one was not a good example of your mature humor. God,
did you know the folin was locally famous before you
ever went on a date with her? You knew she
was from y on katiew and stuff.
Speaker 4 (28:49):
No, I had listened to the show. I mean I
grew up in Minnesota, so I was familiar.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
With Did you know like a lot about her from
listening to the show or just from communicating before you
ever dated?
Speaker 4 (29:01):
Not a tongue, cause I don't think I listened to
a bunch then. But there was like maybe a few
years before when I drove every day from eating to
shock ape for work. I was a pretty regular, fairly
regular morning morning listener, and I had like a decent
I just remember thinking, like, there's one episode or not
one one time you guys were talking about I hated
(29:23):
my job at the time. It was like worked in
car sales, and it was like the hours were terrible,
and I remember you talking about like basically getting done
with work and the things we're gonna do after work,
and it was like ten am, and I was like, Oh,
these people.
Speaker 3 (29:36):
Must be nice.
Speaker 2 (29:37):
Yeah, oh yeah, God, that would be hard to hear.
Speaker 4 (29:40):
I was like, I was on my way to work
like an eight am to nine pm shift or something
like that.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
So shut up radio people talking about your hardshift.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
Okay, I don't think we have too many more because,
like I said, a lot of the questions are like
very similar of like how did you know when you
loved fan? But this is what's the appropriate amount of
teasing in a relationship. I my mind meant immediately went
to sexual teaching, but I feel like they mean teasing
like poking fun at each other.
Speaker 3 (30:10):
I'll let you answer your version of it, but I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (30:14):
I don't know the answer to.
Speaker 2 (30:15):
That because if you know when you've hurt someone's feelings.
Speaker 1 (30:18):
I also know that you've been around people that tease
their partner in front of other people and it feels
mean and it like and it makes you uncomfortable for
their partner. So I never want to do that to
like Jake, Yeah, whatever whatever amount well with his siblings.
Speaker 4 (30:36):
Whatever amount makes it fun. If it's not fun, then yeah,
that's too much.
Speaker 2 (30:41):
Well, I think this is all the questions that we have. Okay,
I missed any I don't know what do I have
left Bound's favorite sex position outside of starfishing.
Speaker 3 (30:54):
Six A little doggy action here and there.
Speaker 1 (30:56):
Jacob t M I I do.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
I knew, yeah, I could look at you and tell yeah,
because it's another situation where yeah, another one where I'm doing.
But however, at least from the gentleman that I've ever
spoken to, it feels to be one of their favorite positions.
Speaker 3 (31:15):
I think it's a it's agreed.
Speaker 2 (31:17):
You ever a look at her butthole?
Speaker 4 (31:19):
Yeah, god in in those situations, Well, it depends. I
have seen it in a couple different circumstances here, so
like medically speaking, that's not my not my favorite doctor.
Speaker 3 (31:34):
Up from a sexual standpoint.
Speaker 1 (31:36):
Thanks for joining us to day my pleasure. I'll love
you back you I'm talking to Jenny. Love you bye,
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