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Welcome to Thought Shower. Intern John. Is my name? My name?
It if I just like change myname one day, I was like,
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my name is Stacy. I wouldn'teven I would just keep going.
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It was great, Okay, itwas good. Yeah, I mean,
um, it was fun. Igot to see all my friends I
did it was it was good.It was good. Birthday Yeah, blank
Way two is lovely. Um.Yes, I think they think we forgot
about this stuff just because, likeI don't really go to concerts less I'm
working the concert, which sounds doucheyby something to be, but it's cool
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to like go to a show kindof like you probably saw a Taylor where
it's like there's a bunch of peoplegoing to a building who probably would never
see each other or of anything commonother than like the one thing you're going
to see, and it's it's aweird, like I'm a magical as the
word, but it was cool.A right here, every here's the step
Blinkway two. That's the one thingwe have in common. So it's kind
of like that's what music has alwaysdone, Like music just bring for sure
together. We think we just forgotthat the last couple of years because there
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wasn't I'm sure because I remember thatsong that went viral on the internet about
us all being like the celebrities singingthat Imagine what was it a Matt Yes?
And that made me really really thatAgain, sometimes I wonder like we
put so much stock in what celebritiessay. I'm like, these idiots did
that video in their mansions with theirpools outside by the way, But how
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we're all in this together and didn'tstop to think. And I know I've
gonne this ramp before, but itwas like fifteen years ago. They did
this social media campaign. I don'tremember the charity, great idea for the
charity charity awesome, where these celebritiesall died on social media and the only
way to get them back on Twitterwas if they raised one hundred million dollars
for the charity. And I waslike, I'm seeing it was like Leo
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DiCaprio, Kim kardash I'll send youthe link, Like you guys could just
written the check. Like how pretentiousto think that, like you you're not
being in social media, it's gonnabe enough for us to stop, like
to donate you. I mean,yeah, that's charity. With the Imagine
video though, I just always likeforget sometimes who was like in that video?
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And then I remember again and Iget sad because I'm like, wow,
like they seemed really cool. Imean, yeah, it was a
Galgadote was the first one. Yeah, but there was like, uh like
Kristen Wigg I think was in it. I don't want to start making up
names. I do this all thetime on the podcast, where I just
assume I know and I don't.I could have googled it, but there
was an actor that it was ina movie I watched a few weeks ago,
and I was like, I didn'trealize they were in that stupid video
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because I googled them. Wait,I found I found it. Okay,
you found like a list. Idon't want to watch the Twitter thing.
Okay. It was called the DigitalDeath Campaign Disaster. So this was like,
here was it two thousand and six, that's Kim Kardashian. That was
her profile phot Kim Kardashian is deadnow. It was four World As Day.
Great organization, great cause. Butagain, so all these celebrities the
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goal was to raise let me justread this, okay, so that's like
really mess up though. I'm justgonna sorry as someone whose uncle passed away
from HIV, like, I don'tlike that at all. The idea of
what they did, like you're dead, yes, you're dead. Yes.
So the the goal was to raisea million dollars. So it was the
celebrities like Kim Kardashian, justin timberLake, Lady Gaga, Alicia Keys were
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expect to raise money within a dayor so. Okay, that was the
other thing because I remember this becauseI just saw radio in Minneapolis. Because
the idea was like celebrities like they'llthey'll want us back right away. I've
never even heard of this. I'mgonna be honest with you. And in
two thousand and six, Lady Gagawasn't hadn't just hadn't just danced yet,
you'd say, Felicia Keys, youcould have clearly done that back then.
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They also they only raised two hundredninety six thousand dollars um as Timberlake on
that back then. I heard thatyou just got seven thousand dollars check in
the last podcast. But I don'tcare. But that again, like that,
that's like the that was the wholeidea of like who write the check?
That's I said this before. Rihannais the realist in the game.
She has writes the check. Yeah. Anyway, oh my god, that's
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so that, like, that's sogross. I don't remember that I didn't
have Twitter in two thousand and sixor anything. But like, but that's
like the celebrities because they know betterthan we do, and it's just like
just so, no, that's nottrue. I wan to hit this real
quick. Fear of Friday. Ithought this would be good to get into
the holiday weekend. The unfortunate signsyou're stuck in the past. Oh no,
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I think everybody has like that.One person. Maybe he's signed somebody
you're friends with. But just likein the circle where it's just like falls,
I'm kidding. I have done awonderful work in therapy rival Lauren to
not dwell in the past. Nowyou Shelby Sauce remember everything. I can't
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help myself. But my mom mymom brought the other day because she's listening
to podcasts and my dad brob mydad's I didn't um us Sauce become friends
because one day she came in withpink hair and you said, hey,
you have some shoe was going throughit. I was like, yeah,
look see your dad rubbers everything too. Yeah. Yeah. The first sign
is you can plain constantly. Idon't complain, Okay, they say,
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it's every single day. You canplain about the neighbor's dog, even about
your own shadow. But that's asign you're stuck in the pass is all
that reminds me of like an olderperson, Does that make sense, Like
someone that's just like kind of beenthrough a lot of life, like hardships
in life, and then they Idon't know. It reminds me of movies
like the old man neighbor who's justangry. Yeah, the guying up.
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I don't remember up. But yes, the balloons in the house. Yeah,
I know, I know that,I've seen the pictures. I just
don't remember the movie you. Thrivingnegativity, They say, people who thriving
negativity look for and stir conflict becausethey don't want to be alone of misery.
Oh yeah, I hate I hatepeople like that. But I don't
think I'm stuck in the past,so I'm not seeing you. I just
can't relate the exactly makes me sotired and drains me. This one might
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be one of the biggest ones tome. You bury your head in the
sand, so when you're stuck,you reject any information or feedback that challenges
your status quo. Um. Yeah, but some people like I don't think
that necessarily means you're stuck in thepast, though some people just like like
you. I like always will tellpeople I don't have the mental pascity for
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something. If I'm going through alot of stuff at once, so something
so I will bury my head inthe sand. Yeah, but I think
this is more so like if youkeep doing the same thing wrong and they're
like, I can't believe again todayI got a speeding ticket on fninety five.
I'm like, well, why don'tyou just go to speed limit?
No, I'm just gonna like.I think it's more so that where it's
like you like being in the negative, like you almost like the bad choices
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after me again? Yeah, okay, I mean I think that's kind of
like the or like I always keepdating the same bad people. Why don't
you change? Well, yeah,but that's that's a bad example because you
don't know what yeah you do,No, you don't know. The last
person you told me about Vegan.I was like then that that particular colors
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who cares I was? And that'sthat's that wasn't even the flag. I
just like my girl, I couldtell you you could give me the characteristics
of somebody I could tell you rightaway that ain't got work for you.
That was like the hang at work. He sent me flowers. That was
the first lie he sent me flowers. Yeah. I opened the car and
it said XO XO your number fanand I looked at Morgan. I was
like his first lie, and Ijust put down, Yeah, okay,
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next ones. You reject opportunities.People are stuck now opportunities presenting to them,
not because of the the opportunities,because it take issue with who made
the suggestion. I mean, that'swhere some of us have trauma that we
just need to work on you tenharder than we tend to think. Opportunities
are presenting you to undermine your intelligence. That's like the idea of like I
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had an analogy about somebody um yearsago where it's like this person if they
were drowning and you said, hey, you're drowning, here's a life fest,
they'd be like, oh, samething, I can't swim, and
then they'd rather drowned. That kindof vibe where it's like yeah, yeah,
and I even talking about you sayyeah, this was this is a
long long time ago. You holdon to grudges or unresolved issues. Shelby,
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I do not hold on to grudges. I just think that as an
adult that I don't like men aretackie. I hate them. No,
no, no. My thing isthat I think that I am very like
I don't want to say like I'ma people pleaser, but I do like
let things go easier than others incertain situations, to the point that I
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sometimes I feel like a doormat.But then also I feel like if I
keep letting someone behave a certain way, I'm rewarding their behavior for treating me
crappy by letting it go all thetime. I agree with that, and
that's my problem. That's why I'vegotten a little bit more of a backbone
the last few years. Good foryou. I also use scoliosis, So
no, that's a lie. Ido not have scolios. No, no,
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what are you talking, brace orsomething? Yeah, I was in
a car accident. I was guy. Never mind, I take that back.
I did have a scoliosis. Iwas in a car accident. Here
I am thinking I was like givinga compliment for like fixing your scoliosis,
But that wasn't the case. Atall. Oh my god, I'm like,
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okay, okay. Continue. Nextone is signs on the past.
You hold on to grudges or unresolvedissues. So I just said that.
No, I didn't, Yes youdid. No, I didn't. I
about you did. No. No. The last one was hold on the
last one was you're jacked opportunities.No, you already said the grudges thing.
No, I didn't, Yes youdid. No, Okay, you
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know you're getting old. No,because I was gonna say, I think
I've gotten better at this. Theysay, holding on the grudges yearning for
revenge, in which, in theworst others are signs of lack of forgiveness.
I think I used to be fueledby that. I've worried better to
be like, I'm just gonna workwith myself. I did not just do
that. Yes you did. I'llbet you, okay, I bet you
one hundred bucks. I bet youone hundred dollars. Okay, fifty dollars.
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Now it's fifty. No, it'sfifty. Okay, I about you
fifty. Okay. I'm on vacationright now. Um, so we'll like
replay it later. Um, what'sthe next one. I'll replay it next.
What do you mean play it later? We will. I'm gonna let
you know this podcast is at aone PM. I'll let you know by
one oh one oh one. Okay, I just have to go because I
have an appointment and coming up soon. So that's why I'm like, I
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can't I can't wait wait around foryou to reply it. Okay, I
trust you, I don't trust you. Yeah, no, I understand that.
Okay. Um, you haven't madeplans for the future. Interesting,
so while everyone around you use madeplans for near future and far ahead,
you refuse you and set envisioning andworking towards a better future for yourself.
You're content with seeing your current situation. That's kind of sad though, Yeah,
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but I think it's so crazy.We've talked about like the how it's
important to have like little things lookforward to, whether it's like for you
like the solid was that soccard youplotties like a ploties class on Friday wherever
it is, or like like atrip like having little like things look forward
to or major? Yeah major?Last one is you blame yourself for everything?
Yeah, I say you can play. You make a plan a lot
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about everything going on. But youalso have tendency a place blame on yourself
for situations outside your control. Youdon't do that. You never once placed
blame on you. You know whatI'm saying. I do that all the
time with made you, No,not with you. Everybody else. Yeah,
it must be nice to everybody elsewho gets the mercy. It must
be nice. What do you mean, I don't blame everything on you because
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you can't. Okay anyway, Hey, um my birthday is next in the
list. I'm very exciting. Actually, what Rose isn't two weeks or month?
Actually my brother, my brother nsRose's birthday month twenty fourth. Damn
it close enough? All right?You can follow a Sauce at Shelby saw
me at intern gen Radio see Mondayby Fine will sometimes get the past when
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Intern John is fucking up the mirrorand thinking in the shower and Sauce