April 10, 2025 • 6 mins
Anna and Trevor went to dinner. She says she looked good and they laughed a lot. She can't think of one red flag that would have caused him to not reach out ever again.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today Star
one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey, who is
ready for second date update?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
This is our dating segment and we're just basically trying
to help you. You're trying to navigate those single waters
and we want to help you find your foot mate.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
You're what, I don't know, You're going too hard, trying
really hard. It was terrible. Let's bring Anna on the
phone and a good morning, Hi, Hi, good morning Hi.
Or Anna is shook? She said she's never been ghosted before.
It's a new deal. Oh wow, that's yeah old. Yeah,
let's talk about.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
It for me.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Yeah, let's talk about your dates. It's like my daughter,
I am so awesome. I can't believe this happened. Wow,
I wonder where she learned. Let's talk about Trevor so
and not that bad. First of all, right, how'd you
guys meet?
Speaker 1 (00:50):
So?
Speaker 4 (00:50):
We met on Hinge and he seemed really serious, like
right away, he asked me at to dinner pretty quickly, okay,
And I've never like kind of had a guy that.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
Was like so mature like that.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
So it felt really good, like, you know, we didn't
just waste six months chatting and dinner was great, Like
the date was awesome and honestly, like, I know, it
looks good.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
There's no catfishing there.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
I looked like my pics okay too, I did, and
you know, I made him laugh and it seemed like
we were clicking, and you know, I thought he liked
my personality, so.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
I didn't think that was it.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
And not to seem bad or you know.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Conceited, but I really can't think of any like red
flags going off. We haven't talked since this.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Is like a traditional legit ghost, not a backstag or anything.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
He's just gone, no, just like gone.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
And like.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Not even like, hey, I had a great time, hope
do to get like nothing, and then the other saying
that doesn't usually happen if you didn't try to kiss
me at the end, which I thought it was kind
of like weird and like such a different vibe from
everything else that happened in the night.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
You know, Here's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Okay, I think he was attacked by a clicker and
a bloater.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
What a clicker? What is that?
Speaker 5 (02:24):
What does that mean? We're go.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
You have to be uh in the know. With the
last of us. You can't do that, Yeah I can. Well,
it's basically a virus infected human from a TV show,
The Last of Us. Okay, just now in it's second season. Wow,
my head hurts.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
Okay, does that mean he's going to call me back?
Speaker 3 (02:49):
I don't know. Can we just like, can we play through?
Is that cool? Cool with you?
Speaker 1 (02:55):
And we're gonna call Trevor. We'll see what really happened. Okay,
can you hang out for a song? Yeah, definitely great,
we'll call him next. All right, it's Second Date Update
Star one O one three, Well variety from the two thousands,
the nineties and today it's Star one on one three.
It's Marcus and Corey. We're doing Second Date Update. We've
been chatting with Anna about her date with Trevor. Anna
(03:15):
says it went great. I don't know why I'm talking
about your life. You're not there.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
I mean, she sounds pretty confident.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Yeah, I really think it went well, Like I don't
know what could have gone wrong.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
Confidence is high. Trevor has ghosted, so let's call him.
Go ahead and mute. We'll figure this all out. Okay, Okay,
thank you, Here we go.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Hello, Hi, may speak with Trevor. Please, that's hi, Trevor.
It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on one three.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Good morning, Trevor. Hey, hey, tell me you listen. Please
tell me you listen to the show and you love it.
You've been waiting for the day to be on second
date updates.
Speaker 5 (03:59):
That's that's pretty much it. No, I I'd be listening
to your show every time it's on.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Well, tell your friends understand you're in the dating game.
I am, and oh nailed it? Yeah, and say hi
there she is.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Hey, Hi, So Trevor, I'll be speaking very plainly. Here,
did you ghost? Because that's what it feels like, And
if so, what happened?
Speaker 5 (04:32):
Yeah? I did ghost, And you know, maybe I could
have handled it a little differently, but I'm not gonna
lie and honestly what I intend to do, And I'm
not that sorry about it.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
You're not sorry that you ghosted?
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Correct?
Speaker 3 (04:48):
What happened? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (04:51):
Well, I mean to be clearly honest. We had a
good time and the date was going well and then
out of nowhere, she cut the date short. She said
that she had to leave early. She's many, um some
friends to go clubbing, and honestly, I just thought that
was super rude. Like, if you're going to go on
a date with somebody, you're agreeing to spend time with them, right,
(05:14):
Like it's not something you can just step out whenever
you feel like it. Like I don't think it's cool
that she had made plans afterwards and she just, like
I said, I felt build on and she just went
to go club with her friends. And that's to me,
it's disrespectful.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Okay, Yeah, it's.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
Just not a sign of someone who I think is
serious about getting to know someone. Can we talk about
the clothing part real quick, Like I'm too old for that,
Like people our age just don't do that anymore. Like
I'm not twenty one. I'm not trying to be out
there with some sweaty, overpriced club with loud music and
people just bumping and grinding on each other, like I
(05:50):
think clubbing is. Honestly, I think it's not the way out,
Like it's to me, it's trashy, it's not cute, Like
the whole vibe just not there for me. Like when
you're in your late twenties and thirties and you're still
going clubbing.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Like and did you just overbook yourself for ye?
Speaker 4 (06:04):
First of all judgmental, much like that's a little judge, Trevor.
And second, it's a first date, like who goes on
a first date for the whole night. You don't just
get my entire night because we agreed to go on
a dinner date, like we didn't have plans after dinner.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
I just can't take that. Seriously. I'm really glad I.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Didn't invite you then, because you know what, I there's
nothing wrong with wanting to dance and have fun with
your friends.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Okay, look this is gross.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
I am glad.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
I know who Trevor is now, so I'm good.
Variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today Star
one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey, who is
ready for second date update?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
This is our dating segment and we're just basically trying
to help you. You're trying to navigate those single waters
and we want to help you find your foot mate.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
You're what, I don't know, You're going too hard, trying
really hard. It was terrible. Let's bring Anna on the
phone and a good morning, Hi, Hi, good morning Hi.
Or Anna is shook? She said she's never been ghosted before.
It's a new deal. Oh wow, that's yeah old. Yeah,
let's talk about.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
It for me.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Yeah, let's talk about your dates. It's like my daughter,
I am so awesome. I can't believe this happened. Wow,
I wonder where she learned. Let's talk about Trevor so
and not that bad. First of all, right, how'd you
guys meet?
Speaker 1 (00:50):
So?
Speaker 4 (00:50):
We met on Hinge and he seemed really serious, like
right away, he asked me at to dinner pretty quickly, okay,
And I've never like kind of had a guy that.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
Was like so mature like that.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
So it felt really good, like, you know, we didn't
just waste six months chatting and dinner was great, Like
the date was awesome and honestly, like, I know, it
looks good.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
There's no catfishing there.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
I looked like my pics okay too, I did, and
you know, I made him laugh and it seemed like
we were clicking, and you know, I thought he liked
my personality, so.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
I didn't think that was it.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
And not to seem bad or you know.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Conceited, but I really can't think of any like red
flags going off. We haven't talked since this.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Is like a traditional legit ghost, not a backstag or anything.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
He's just gone, no, just like gone.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
And like.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Not even like, hey, I had a great time, hope
do to get like nothing, and then the other saying
that doesn't usually happen if you didn't try to kiss
me at the end, which I thought it was kind
of like weird and like such a different vibe from
everything else that happened in the night.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
You know, Here's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Okay, I think he was attacked by a clicker and
a bloater.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
What a clicker? What is that?
Speaker 5 (02:24):
What does that mean? We're go.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
You have to be uh in the know. With the
last of us. You can't do that, Yeah I can. Well,
it's basically a virus infected human from a TV show,
The Last of Us. Okay, just now in it's second season. Wow,
my head hurts.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
Okay, does that mean he's going to call me back?
Speaker 3 (02:49):
I don't know. Can we just like, can we play through?
Is that cool? Cool with you?
Speaker 1 (02:55):
And we're gonna call Trevor. We'll see what really happened. Okay,
can you hang out for a song? Yeah, definitely great,
we'll call him next. All right, it's Second Date Update
Star one O one three, Well variety from the two thousands,
the nineties and today it's Star one on one three.
It's Marcus and Corey. We're doing Second Date Update. We've
been chatting with Anna about her date with Trevor. Anna
(03:15):
says it went great. I don't know why I'm talking
about your life. You're not there.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
I mean, she sounds pretty confident.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Yeah, I really think it went well, Like I don't
know what could have gone wrong.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
Confidence is high. Trevor has ghosted, so let's call him.
Go ahead and mute. We'll figure this all out. Okay, Okay,
thank you, Here we go.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Hello, Hi, may speak with Trevor. Please, that's hi, Trevor.
It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on one three.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Good morning, Trevor. Hey, hey, tell me you listen. Please
tell me you listen to the show and you love it.
You've been waiting for the day to be on second
date updates.
Speaker 5 (03:59):
That's that's pretty much it. No, I I'd be listening
to your show every time it's on.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Well, tell your friends understand you're in the dating game.
I am, and oh nailed it? Yeah, and say hi
there she is.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Hey, Hi, So Trevor, I'll be speaking very plainly. Here,
did you ghost? Because that's what it feels like, And
if so, what happened?
Speaker 5 (04:32):
Yeah? I did ghost, And you know, maybe I could
have handled it a little differently, but I'm not gonna
lie and honestly what I intend to do, And I'm
not that sorry about it.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
You're not sorry that you ghosted?
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Correct?
Speaker 3 (04:48):
What happened? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (04:51):
Well, I mean to be clearly honest. We had a
good time and the date was going well and then
out of nowhere, she cut the date short. She said
that she had to leave early. She's many, um some
friends to go clubbing, and honestly, I just thought that
was super rude. Like, if you're going to go on
a date with somebody, you're agreeing to spend time with them, right,
(05:14):
Like it's not something you can just step out whenever
you feel like it. Like I don't think it's cool
that she had made plans afterwards and she just, like
I said, I felt build on and she just went
to go club with her friends. And that's to me,
it's disrespectful.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Okay, Yeah, it's.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
Just not a sign of someone who I think is
serious about getting to know someone. Can we talk about
the clothing part real quick, Like I'm too old for that,
Like people our age just don't do that anymore. Like
I'm not twenty one. I'm not trying to be out
there with some sweaty, overpriced club with loud music and
people just bumping and grinding on each other, like I
(05:50):
think clubbing is. Honestly, I think it's not the way out,
Like it's to me, it's trashy, it's not cute, Like
the whole vibe just not there for me. Like when
you're in your late twenties and thirties and you're still
going clubbing.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Like and did you just overbook yourself for ye?
Speaker 4 (06:04):
First of all judgmental, much like that's a little judge, Trevor.
And second, it's a first date, like who goes on
a first date for the whole night. You don't just
get my entire night because we agreed to go on
a dinner date, like we didn't have plans after dinner.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
I just can't take that. Seriously. I'm really glad I.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Didn't invite you then, because you know what, I there's
nothing wrong with wanting to dance and have fun with
your friends.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Okay, look this is gross.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
I am glad.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
I know who Trevor is now, so I'm good.
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