June 13, 2025 • 6 mins
Jesse and Vanessa had 3 zoom calls before actually
meeting in person. What did Vanessa observe in real life that made her ghost?
meeting in person. What did Vanessa observe in real life that made her ghost?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
A variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one on one three, it's Marcus and Corey.
It's that time again. This is second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
We just want to help in your dating adventures, yes,
and figure out why maybe you went on a first
date and you're not getting that second date.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Bring on Jesse, Laura all about his lady Vanessa. Jesse.
Speaker 4 (00:18):
Yeah, Hi, guys, I guess.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
I'm being presumptuous. She is not your lady. She's a
woman that you took out on a date.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
Yes, that is correct.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Let's talk about it. So how did you guys meet?
And then like, let's run through the first date really quick.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Okay, So we met on Hinge And the interesting thing
about this is we actually had three zoom dates.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Yeah, three dates over zoom and then finally we went
for a drink date. And now she's not answering my.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Texts three zoom calls.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
It's like he's trying to get a job at Facebook
or something, or it's like the pandemic.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Yeah, it definitely took me back. It was interesting, but
also like what I mean, I get like one quick
zoom date, you know, to see if you're interested. Right, Sure,
we look like our pictures all that stuff like, it
seems like a good idea, but three was a giant
waste of time. I went along with it just to
so she would feel.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
You know, comfortable meeting up.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
In person, and like, I just feel like I put
in all this work and it didn't go anywhere.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Sure, here's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Yes, Vanessa's babysitting and her bestie calls and says she's
stuck at the bus station. So Vanessa doesn't want to
leave the kids at home, so they all pile in
the car, where a bunch of wacky things happen, like
being chased by car thieves, they get a flat tire,
there's a man with a hook.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
It's a lot.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
That is a lot. She's been busy.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
I mean that seems plausible, but fair point.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
What movie is that?
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Adventures and babysitting?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
No idea, never saw it.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Lame me either.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Back to you, Jesse, I agree with you. That's a
lot of time to put in. Maybe one or two
is frankly to get ghosted. Let's call her and figure
it out.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Can you hang on the line for a song, Yeah, okay, sure,
we'll have you hang we'll regroup. We're gonna call Vanessa.
We'll have you mute so you can listen in, but
we'll try to get some answers.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Okay, we'll do that.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Next it's second Date updates Star one on one three
more variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
O one three.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
It's Marcus and Corey. We're in the middle of second
Date Update. We've got Jesse on the phone. We're about
to call his date, Vanessa. And this is like some
twenty first centrally chivalry. Jesse agreed to three zoom dates
so that she would feel comfortable to meet Irl, right,
and they did, and they did, and now she's ghosted.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
So Jesse, am I on point here?
Speaker 4 (02:41):
So far yep, that's pretty much it.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Okay, we're gonna call her. We're gonna figure this out.
Go ahead, mut your phone so you can listen in.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Here we go. All right, Hello, Hi, may speak with Vanessa. Please.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
This is hi Vanessa. It's Marcus and Corey from Star
one to win three.
Speaker 5 (03:05):
Hey, wait the radio.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Yes, yes, finally, God, somebody that listens to the show.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
It's been too long. Yay, I'm sorry, do you.
Speaker 5 (03:15):
Listen yeah, I know, I like put the radio on
in my car.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Loves it. We'll take it.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Are you familiar with second date updates?
Speaker 3 (03:26):
I am awesome.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
We would like to invite you to say.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
You want to be on it.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
This is not it's okay, let's do this.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
So I don't know if you know how it works.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
Wait, so someone called about me as yes, okay, okay,
any guesses.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
I mean, don't make it weirder that it needs to be.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
You're weird it is?
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Did she said?
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (03:59):
She said, Jesse? Okay, Jesse, are you there? You can unmute.
It's fine, yep, all right.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Okay, so Vanessa Jesse said he had a good time.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
I feel like he was being accommodating with the three
zoom calls. What happened on the date? Because something happened
because you ghosted?
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Right?
Speaker 5 (04:19):
Yeah, he was a nerd. I'm sorry, Jesse, you're a nerd?
Speaker 4 (04:24):
What you were?
Speaker 5 (04:26):
Khaki pants? You have like a Star Wars keychain, like
one of the like what's his name, it's like the
green one yoga or whatever, Yoga Yoda. But that's what
I'm saying. He's a nerd. I don't like that kind
of stuff. I could just tell you, like, I mean,
he was like Jesse, you know you're a nerd. We're
(04:48):
just not into the same kind of stuff you like
the like, I don't know, you go into the woods
with a cape or whatever, role playing stuff. I don't know.
It's just like I didn't I can't imagine getting high
heavy with this little it guy. Well what you were
talking about that?
Speaker 3 (05:05):
So did none of this come up on one of
their multitude room calls? If I may ask, I guess not.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
I just didn't see. I only saw him from the head,
you know what I mean, Like I didn't see his
whole what was going on down there? You know what
I mean?
Speaker 4 (05:20):
The khaki pants, that's really like I I came straight
from work and jeans are not allowed, so I wore khaki.
They're like two hundred dollars khaki pants from Nordstrom. Okay,
it's not like I'm dressing down for a date.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
Okay, so you're a rich nerd, got it.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
No, it's not even like I'm just saying like it
wasn't poorly dressed.
Speaker 5 (05:42):
It just didn't turn me on. I'm sorry, this is nuts.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
This isn't nuts. This is dumb, like because the kind
of entertainment I enjoy, like the type of TV shows
and movies I watched, this is, this is Yeah, that's
like a big.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
Part of a relationship. You literally brought up comic Con.
Speaker 4 (05:59):
It's fun, okay.
Speaker 5 (06:00):
And I'm not into that and I'm not attracted to
a guy that's into that.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
So secret or not, You're ridiculous, Vanessa. No is that
a no?
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Yeah, it's a no.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
Okay, Well thanks for wasting my time. Yeah that's great,
you know, three zoom calls later.
A variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one on one three, it's Marcus and Corey.
It's that time again. This is second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
We just want to help in your dating adventures, yes,
and figure out why maybe you went on a first
date and you're not getting that second date.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Bring on Jesse, Laura all about his lady Vanessa. Jesse.
Speaker 4 (00:18):
Yeah, Hi, guys, I guess.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
I'm being presumptuous. She is not your lady. She's a
woman that you took out on a date.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
Yes, that is correct.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Let's talk about it. So how did you guys meet?
And then like, let's run through the first date really quick.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Okay, So we met on Hinge And the interesting thing
about this is we actually had three zoom dates.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Yeah, three dates over zoom and then finally we went
for a drink date. And now she's not answering my.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Texts three zoom calls.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
It's like he's trying to get a job at Facebook
or something, or it's like the pandemic.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Yeah, it definitely took me back. It was interesting, but
also like what I mean, I get like one quick
zoom date, you know, to see if you're interested. Right, Sure,
we look like our pictures all that stuff like, it
seems like a good idea, but three was a giant
waste of time. I went along with it just to
so she would feel.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
You know, comfortable meeting up.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
In person, and like, I just feel like I put
in all this work and it didn't go anywhere.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Sure, here's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Yes, Vanessa's babysitting and her bestie calls and says she's
stuck at the bus station. So Vanessa doesn't want to
leave the kids at home, so they all pile in
the car, where a bunch of wacky things happen, like
being chased by car thieves, they get a flat tire,
there's a man with a hook.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
It's a lot.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
That is a lot. She's been busy.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
I mean that seems plausible, but fair point.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
What movie is that?
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Adventures and babysitting?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
No idea, never saw it.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Lame me either.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Back to you, Jesse, I agree with you. That's a
lot of time to put in. Maybe one or two
is frankly to get ghosted. Let's call her and figure
it out.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Can you hang on the line for a song, Yeah, okay, sure,
we'll have you hang we'll regroup. We're gonna call Vanessa.
We'll have you mute so you can listen in, but
we'll try to get some answers.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Okay, we'll do that.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Next it's second Date updates Star one on one three
more variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
O one three.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
It's Marcus and Corey. We're in the middle of second
Date Update. We've got Jesse on the phone. We're about
to call his date, Vanessa. And this is like some
twenty first centrally chivalry. Jesse agreed to three zoom dates
so that she would feel comfortable to meet Irl, right,
and they did, and they did, and now she's ghosted.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
So Jesse, am I on point here?
Speaker 4 (02:41):
So far yep, that's pretty much it.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Okay, we're gonna call her. We're gonna figure this out.
Go ahead, mut your phone so you can listen in.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Here we go. All right, Hello, Hi, may speak with Vanessa. Please.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
This is hi Vanessa. It's Marcus and Corey from Star
one to win three.
Speaker 5 (03:05):
Hey, wait the radio.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Yes, yes, finally, God, somebody that listens to the show.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
It's been too long. Yay, I'm sorry, do you.
Speaker 5 (03:15):
Listen yeah, I know, I like put the radio on
in my car.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Loves it. We'll take it.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Are you familiar with second date updates?
Speaker 3 (03:26):
I am awesome.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
We would like to invite you to say.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
You want to be on it.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
This is not it's okay, let's do this.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
So I don't know if you know how it works.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
Wait, so someone called about me as yes, okay, okay,
any guesses.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
I mean, don't make it weirder that it needs to be.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
You're weird it is?
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Did she said?
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (03:59):
She said, Jesse? Okay, Jesse, are you there? You can unmute.
It's fine, yep, all right.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Okay, so Vanessa Jesse said he had a good time.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
I feel like he was being accommodating with the three
zoom calls. What happened on the date? Because something happened
because you ghosted?
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Right?
Speaker 5 (04:19):
Yeah, he was a nerd. I'm sorry, Jesse, you're a nerd?
Speaker 4 (04:24):
What you were?
Speaker 5 (04:26):
Khaki pants? You have like a Star Wars keychain, like
one of the like what's his name, it's like the
green one yoga or whatever, Yoga Yoda. But that's what
I'm saying. He's a nerd. I don't like that kind
of stuff. I could just tell you, like, I mean,
he was like Jesse, you know you're a nerd. We're
(04:48):
just not into the same kind of stuff you like
the like, I don't know, you go into the woods
with a cape or whatever, role playing stuff. I don't know.
It's just like I didn't I can't imagine getting high
heavy with this little it guy. Well what you were
talking about that?
Speaker 3 (05:05):
So did none of this come up on one of
their multitude room calls? If I may ask, I guess not.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
I just didn't see. I only saw him from the head,
you know what I mean, Like I didn't see his
whole what was going on down there? You know what
I mean?
Speaker 4 (05:20):
The khaki pants, that's really like I I came straight
from work and jeans are not allowed, so I wore khaki.
They're like two hundred dollars khaki pants from Nordstrom. Okay,
it's not like I'm dressing down for a date.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
Okay, so you're a rich nerd, got it.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
No, it's not even like I'm just saying like it
wasn't poorly dressed.
Speaker 5 (05:42):
It just didn't turn me on. I'm sorry, this is nuts.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
This isn't nuts. This is dumb, like because the kind
of entertainment I enjoy, like the type of TV shows
and movies I watched, this is, this is Yeah, that's
like a big.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
Part of a relationship. You literally brought up comic Con.
Speaker 4 (05:59):
It's fun, okay.
Speaker 5 (06:00):
And I'm not into that and I'm not attracted to
a guy that's into that.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
So secret or not, You're ridiculous, Vanessa. No is that
a no?
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Yeah, it's a no.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
Okay, Well thanks for wasting my time. Yeah that's great,
you know, three zoom calls later.
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