April 7, 2025 • 6 mins
Rudy and Megan meet online, but now she is ghosting. Did his appearance change?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties and to day.
It's Star one, one three, It's Marcus and Corey. And
if you're having trouble finding love, we got you.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
This is a terrible thing to start with. But I'm man,
am I glad I'm not on the single scene.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Second date update is on.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Yeah, we want to help you find your second date
because you had the first, right, why aren't you getting
the second?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
So I had a poor Rudy, Good morning, Rudy.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Hey, what's up?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Guys?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Hey dude, now you got ghosted after your date with
Megan is as accurate?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Yes, So set the scene for us a little bit.
Where'd you go? What'd you do?
Speaker 4 (00:32):
Pretty simple? We just had dinner, went to a really
nice restaurant a couple of weeks ago. Top of the
date was really good, you know, it's like good conversation,
just felt like there was a vibe and it's just
been like really weird and like barely communicating since our day.
And yeah, I just I don't know.
Speaker 5 (00:52):
I felt like before the day, you know, we.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
Were like texting each other like back and forth, like
you know, this is on fire, but like it's definitely
the date it's like cooled down a lot, Like she's
like just barely texting.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Me, So she's still there but not really. Is that fair?
Speaker 5 (01:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Okay, it takes on like a day or two to
respond to attack.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Don't play, okay, Corey, your thoughts.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I think she went to Thailand to study Buddhism and
has taken a vow of silence, probably not really checking
her phone.
Speaker 6 (01:24):
A vow.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Okay, Okay, Thailand? Is this a movie thing or a
TV shows? Loatus? Popper No. I knew it was gonna
be whiteladus tsunami. Okay, tell you what. Why don't we
call her and see what's up, Rudy.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
We'll have you on the phone, we have We'll have
you mute your mute your phone and see if we
can figure this out.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
Okay, Okay, sounds good.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Guys, All hang out for copper No.
Speaker 6 (01:48):
All right.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Second Date updates Star one on one three a variety
from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star
one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey doing second
Date update.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
We have been.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Talking to Rude who very simply just had dinner with Megan,
and the tale is they were super communicative, especially on
text before the date, and now she takes a couple
of days to get back to him. So something's going on. Yeah,
something went sideways. Rudy, are you still there?
Speaker 5 (02:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:16):
Good?
Speaker 1 (02:16):
All right, go ahead and mute, and let's see if
we can figure some things out. We'd love to see
if we can get you a second date. Let's call her.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Here we go. Hello, Hi, may speak with Megan. Please,
Hi Megan.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
It's Marcus and Corey from Star one one three.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Megan, Good morning, Hi, Hi, did we wake you? I'm
so sorry it's early.
Speaker 6 (02:44):
Oh. I just have a little frog in my show.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
That's funny. Do you you listen to our radio show?
Speaker 6 (02:50):
I do not?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Okayhold, it's delightful. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
So we work for Star one one three in San Francisco.
It's part of the iHeartRadio family, and we do a
segment on our show called Second Date Update, and basically
we're trying to figure things out. Somebody goes on a
first date and then kind of gets ghosted. And so
we got a call from a guy named Rudy who
went out with you and enjoyed his time, would love
to take you out again, and he's feeling like it
(03:16):
like the vibes really cooled off.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Did something happen?
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Did you enjoy the date?
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Do you mind talking about it? I guess is my
first question.
Speaker 6 (03:23):
Oh my yeah, I'll talk about it.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Okay with me? So, uh, how did it go for you?
Speaker 6 (03:30):
I think Rudy is he's a nice guy, but he's
just too big.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Wise, no like the Zeke body wise physically. I see.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Yeah, did you not know he was a bigger guy
before you?
Speaker 3 (03:49):
I mean because he's online, right, Yeah.
Speaker 6 (03:52):
Honestly, I kind of feel like I got catvished. His
pics were all of him in the gym, and he
was working out well and he looked really good.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Huh.
Speaker 6 (04:03):
Well, I don't know, like I would say he was
easily forty or fifty pounds heavy year when I actually
met him.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Okay, okay, I mean it's that big of a deal though.
Speaker 6 (04:14):
I mean, I am just like not attracted to him.
I can see past it. But the fact that he
looks so different online is just I don't know, I
feel like I would like to got it.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Okay, Okay.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Here's the other part of this is Rudy is actually
listening on mute right now, so I'd love to bring
him in Rudy.
Speaker 4 (04:37):
Hey, what's up guys.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Hey, so we got some answers.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Are those old photos?
Speaker 4 (04:43):
I mean, yeah, they're old photos, Like I don't look
that much different, but yeah, I was definitely working out
like hardcore.
Speaker 7 (04:52):
Okay when I took those and I got into an
accident at work, I like tore my shoulder, so I
had to have surgery, and like, you know, I've been
like doing a lot of rehab and like I can't really.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Work out the way that I was.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
But you know, my therapy is like very close to
wrapping up and like I'm about to get back on
my gride and yeah, I mean it's just I'm going
to get back to where I was, Like there's no
question about it. It's just I had an act then,
and I can't like train as artist.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
I could god it, So there's a there's a reason
for it, Megan, I mean, can we work through that?
Speaker 6 (05:34):
You know, I've been out on dates with guys and
I've been lying to before about this kind of thing.
Like I just don't know if I believe the whole story.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
Wally, Okay, you really think like I'm not going to
work out like you think like I'm I don't know.
What do you I mean, I'm going to lose the way.
Speaker 6 (05:56):
Well I think that then what would be better to
just send me up after your lost all the way? Well?
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Wow?
Speaker 5 (06:06):
I mean like I can't, like, do you really think
I want to go out with you again?
Speaker 4 (06:10):
Like after I lose the weight? I mean, now that
I know that's the kind of person you are, why
would I do that?
Speaker 6 (06:17):
I mean, I'm really sorry. I just I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Wow, hang on, you two, hang on the line.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Please hang on, Rudy.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Rudy be happy that that this isn't worth.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Their third bullet dodge of the week.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Wow, the last seven days anyway.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Totally, Yeah, I'm definitely like, I'm definitely I'm just gonna
say my best self for somebody who, like, you know,
actually appreciates what I like?
Speaker 5 (06:46):
Do I am?
Speaker 6 (06:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Sure, yeah, so I appreciate it, guys, thank you, though,
I appreciate it.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Trying
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties and to day.
It's Star one, one three, It's Marcus and Corey. And
if you're having trouble finding love, we got you.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
This is a terrible thing to start with. But I'm man,
am I glad I'm not on the single scene.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Second date update is on.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Yeah, we want to help you find your second date
because you had the first, right, why aren't you getting
the second?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
So I had a poor Rudy, Good morning, Rudy.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Hey, what's up?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Guys?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Hey dude, now you got ghosted after your date with
Megan is as accurate?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Yes, So set the scene for us a little bit.
Where'd you go? What'd you do?
Speaker 4 (00:32):
Pretty simple? We just had dinner, went to a really
nice restaurant a couple of weeks ago. Top of the
date was really good, you know, it's like good conversation,
just felt like there was a vibe and it's just
been like really weird and like barely communicating since our day.
And yeah, I just I don't know.
Speaker 5 (00:52):
I felt like before the day, you know, we.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
Were like texting each other like back and forth, like
you know, this is on fire, but like it's definitely
the date it's like cooled down a lot, Like she's
like just barely texting.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Me, So she's still there but not really. Is that fair?
Speaker 5 (01:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Okay, it takes on like a day or two to
respond to attack.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Don't play, okay, Corey, your thoughts.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I think she went to Thailand to study Buddhism and
has taken a vow of silence, probably not really checking
her phone.
Speaker 6 (01:24):
A vow.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Okay, Okay, Thailand? Is this a movie thing or a
TV shows? Loatus? Popper No. I knew it was gonna
be whiteladus tsunami. Okay, tell you what. Why don't we
call her and see what's up, Rudy.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
We'll have you on the phone, we have We'll have
you mute your mute your phone and see if we
can figure this out.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
Okay, Okay, sounds good.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Guys, All hang out for copper No.
Speaker 6 (01:48):
All right.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Second Date updates Star one on one three a variety
from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star
one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey doing second
Date update.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
We have been.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Talking to Rude who very simply just had dinner with Megan,
and the tale is they were super communicative, especially on
text before the date, and now she takes a couple
of days to get back to him. So something's going on. Yeah,
something went sideways. Rudy, are you still there?
Speaker 5 (02:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:16):
Good?
Speaker 1 (02:16):
All right, go ahead and mute, and let's see if
we can figure some things out. We'd love to see
if we can get you a second date. Let's call her.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Here we go. Hello, Hi, may speak with Megan. Please,
Hi Megan.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
It's Marcus and Corey from Star one one three.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Megan, Good morning, Hi, Hi, did we wake you? I'm
so sorry it's early.
Speaker 6 (02:44):
Oh. I just have a little frog in my show.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
That's funny. Do you you listen to our radio show?
Speaker 6 (02:50):
I do not?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Okayhold, it's delightful. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
So we work for Star one one three in San Francisco.
It's part of the iHeartRadio family, and we do a
segment on our show called Second Date Update, and basically
we're trying to figure things out. Somebody goes on a
first date and then kind of gets ghosted. And so
we got a call from a guy named Rudy who
went out with you and enjoyed his time, would love
to take you out again, and he's feeling like it
(03:16):
like the vibes really cooled off.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Did something happen?
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Did you enjoy the date?
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Do you mind talking about it? I guess is my
first question.
Speaker 6 (03:23):
Oh my yeah, I'll talk about it.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Okay with me? So, uh, how did it go for you?
Speaker 6 (03:30):
I think Rudy is he's a nice guy, but he's
just too big.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Wise, no like the Zeke body wise physically. I see.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Yeah, did you not know he was a bigger guy
before you?
Speaker 3 (03:49):
I mean because he's online, right, Yeah.
Speaker 6 (03:52):
Honestly, I kind of feel like I got catvished. His
pics were all of him in the gym, and he
was working out well and he looked really good.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Huh.
Speaker 6 (04:03):
Well, I don't know, like I would say he was
easily forty or fifty pounds heavy year when I actually
met him.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Okay, okay, I mean it's that big of a deal though.
Speaker 6 (04:14):
I mean, I am just like not attracted to him.
I can see past it. But the fact that he
looks so different online is just I don't know, I
feel like I would like to got it.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Okay, Okay.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Here's the other part of this is Rudy is actually
listening on mute right now, so I'd love to bring
him in Rudy.
Speaker 4 (04:37):
Hey, what's up guys.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Hey, so we got some answers.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Are those old photos?
Speaker 4 (04:43):
I mean, yeah, they're old photos, Like I don't look
that much different, but yeah, I was definitely working out
like hardcore.
Speaker 7 (04:52):
Okay when I took those and I got into an
accident at work, I like tore my shoulder, so I
had to have surgery, and like, you know, I've been
like doing a lot of rehab and like I can't really.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Work out the way that I was.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
But you know, my therapy is like very close to
wrapping up and like I'm about to get back on
my gride and yeah, I mean it's just I'm going
to get back to where I was, Like there's no
question about it. It's just I had an act then,
and I can't like train as artist.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
I could god it, So there's a there's a reason
for it, Megan, I mean, can we work through that?
Speaker 6 (05:34):
You know, I've been out on dates with guys and
I've been lying to before about this kind of thing.
Like I just don't know if I believe the whole story.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
Wally, Okay, you really think like I'm not going to
work out like you think like I'm I don't know.
What do you I mean, I'm going to lose the way.
Speaker 6 (05:56):
Well I think that then what would be better to
just send me up after your lost all the way? Well?
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Wow?
Speaker 5 (06:06):
I mean like I can't, like, do you really think
I want to go out with you again?
Speaker 4 (06:10):
Like after I lose the weight? I mean, now that
I know that's the kind of person you are, why
would I do that?
Speaker 6 (06:17):
I mean, I'm really sorry. I just I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Wow, hang on, you two, hang on the line.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Please hang on, Rudy.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Rudy be happy that that this isn't worth.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Their third bullet dodge of the week.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Wow, the last seven days anyway.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Totally, Yeah, I'm definitely like, I'm definitely I'm just gonna
say my best self for somebody who, like, you know,
actually appreciates what I like?
Speaker 5 (06:46):
Do I am?
Speaker 6 (06:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Sure, yeah, so I appreciate it, guys, thank you, though,
I appreciate it.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Trying
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