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September 20, 2024 11 mins
Alabama and Steak Daddy talk about how they handle other people flirting with the other and they talk about the text that came from one of the neighbors. 
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Speaker 1 (00:06):
Hey, I'm Alabama, the girl that drives my boyfriend crazy.

Speaker 2 (00:10):
And I'm almost crazy.

Speaker 3 (00:13):
It's not that bad.

Speaker 1 (00:15):
That's my boyfriend's Steak Daddy, also known as Blake. If
you like real conversations with a not so perfect couple,
get ready for a fun ride. Buckle up. It's the
She Drives Me Crazy Podcast. Here's the thing I wanted
to talk about that I didn't tell you about last
episode mm hmm, and it has to do with trust.

Speaker 3 (00:35):
Because I wanted to talk about.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
By the way, thank you for listening to the podcast.
Go follow this She Drives Me Crazy podcast. At the
end of the last episode, we were talking about trust
and I said, it's not that I don't trust me.

Speaker 3 (00:49):
It's not that I don't trust you.

Speaker 1 (00:51):
It's that I don't trust other people because I know
how people think, and you are a hot steak Daddy
and people are going to hit on you, which leads
into what I wanted to talk about today. Is when
dealing as a couple with when other people hit on
you because our neighborhood on me and you're real mad about.

Speaker 4 (01:06):
It, it's because I told you what it was happening.
For like weeks, I told you that this is what
he's doing. And you're like, no, he's not. He's just
at and taking care of this stuff while he's out
of town. Like no, no, I'm telling you, and you
don't even see it.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
You're walking right into it.

Speaker 1 (01:25):
So let me tell the story of what happened, and
then you can tell the rest of the story of
what happened.

Speaker 3 (01:31):
So we have this neighbor.

Speaker 1 (01:32):
There have been a couple of kittens found on the
highway that we live off of, and one of the
kittens he found, I got it. Our other neighbor got
it after I took care of it for a few days.
Then there was a second kitten that was found and
I went and got it from this neighbor because she
had to be bottle fed and she was super tiny,
and I said, do you want me to foster her
until she's big enough for you to have in your house?

(01:53):
Because he's the older single guy, definitely likes his doobies
and his beer when he gets off work, and he's.

Speaker 2 (01:58):
Got fun like he's not a sixties or anything.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
He's fifty six. Really, Yeah, we had this. I had
this conversation with him one of the many times I've gone.

Speaker 2 (02:06):
To his house yeah, because he's all by yourself. He's
over at random dude's house.

Speaker 3 (02:11):
He's a random.

Speaker 2 (02:13):
He is the definition of random.

Speaker 3 (02:15):
He did not go along. I took the kitten because.

Speaker 2 (02:17):
It doesn't count.

Speaker 1 (02:19):
I was fostering the kitten until she was big enough
for him to have, and so I would take the
kitten over to his house to see him, to play
with him, because I'm.

Speaker 3 (02:27):
Like, this is your cat. She's going to be your catch.
She's going to be your cat.

Speaker 2 (02:30):
She needs to acclimate to you. You need to have
a you need to bond with.

Speaker 4 (02:34):
Her so she doesn't feel ridiculous when she leaves me
and goes to you.

Speaker 1 (02:38):
And he was like, hey, when are you going to
bring the cat over? And so Blake my boyfriend was like,
this guy's just trying to get a pretty girl to
come to his house. Because I started falling in love
with the kitten and I wanted her, and that like,
we made an agreement. He was going to let me
have her a couple like a month ago. I was like,
she's my cat. We agreed I could have her, and
but then he was going out of town and wanted

(03:00):
me to feed his cats, and so I had to
go like hang out with his cats and more and
see where he keeps the food, and you're upset about that, Hm,
you want to elaborate on that?

Speaker 3 (03:13):
And I was like, it's fine, it's fine, it's fine.

Speaker 2 (03:16):
Not fine.

Speaker 3 (03:16):
And then the next day he sent me a text
where he hit on me.

Speaker 2 (03:20):
So you were is that what you want to call that?

Speaker 3 (03:23):
And I told you.

Speaker 2 (03:24):
Do you want to call it? Jim? Just hitting on you?

Speaker 1 (03:28):
I told you, I mean, I can't read. I'm not
even going to say it out loud. You don't even
know what the full time was.

Speaker 4 (03:34):
I haven't even refused to read it because I don't
know what the statute of limitations is on what I
would do to him.

Speaker 1 (03:40):
I told one person in our neighborhood about it, and
the person goes, I wouldn't even say that to my wife,
and we've been married thirty years. So that's how descriptive
this text was. But we were talking about it again
the other day because this particular neighbor he like, he's like.

Speaker 3 (03:54):
I'm sorry, I don't want to make anybody mad. I'm sorry,
I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

Speaker 1 (03:57):
I never said it. And I told Blake, I was like,
what do we do when we go to other neighborhood
functions because this guy is always there. I was like,
I need you to not get us kicked out of
the neighborhood events and here, and the statement was people
are gonna hit on us both and we it's up
to us on how we deal with it, because.

Speaker 4 (04:19):
I told you to deal with it way before it
got to this point.

Speaker 3 (04:22):
I didn't know it was gonna get to that point.
I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (04:24):
I didn't know.

Speaker 3 (04:25):
I was trying to be nice.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
I tried to tell you.

Speaker 3 (04:28):
I was trying to get the kitten who was right?
You were right?

Speaker 2 (04:31):
Thank you?

Speaker 1 (04:31):
You were right. You were right because you know how
a man thinks. That's how I am when i'm jealous
about women, because I know how women think.

Speaker 4 (04:38):
Yeah, but I wasn't jealous. I was trying to keep
you out of a bad situation.

Speaker 3 (04:41):
Oh you are jealous.

Speaker 2 (04:42):
I wouldn't jealous.

Speaker 4 (04:43):
I know that was gonna happen between you and this guy,
but I also didn't want you to be put in
that situation.

Speaker 3 (04:48):
Okay, Well, then why are you mad now? Still?

Speaker 4 (04:50):
Because of the disrespect that he showed you in the
things that he said.

Speaker 3 (04:54):
Well, I handled it.

Speaker 2 (04:55):
I told him that it doesn't mean that I'm not
upset about it.

Speaker 1 (04:57):
I definitely was like, he said, I feel so bad.
He goes, because I hope he doesn't listen to this podcast.

Speaker 3 (05:03):
He may. I was like, he.

Speaker 1 (05:05):
Goes, I don't want to make anybody angry. I was like, well,
my boyfriend has way too bad of a temper and
way too many guns for you to text meet things
like that.

Speaker 3 (05:12):
So don't do it again.

Speaker 4 (05:14):
Yeah, And that was when she went and got into
my truck so I couldn't leave.

Speaker 1 (05:19):
Well, the freaking girl at pull draws hearts on your cup.

Speaker 2 (05:22):
There's a big difference in that.

Speaker 3 (05:25):
No, and what he said, all hard on a cup
is an invitation.

Speaker 2 (05:29):
To, Hey, it is an invitation to I need bigger tips.

Speaker 3 (05:34):
That's what you want to call it, not that tip.
Oh that's so funny.

Speaker 1 (05:40):
I was going to look up a whole article about
how to handle other people hitting on your spouse, because
I've been saying for months, months, months, we're gonna get
more organized on this podcast.

Speaker 2 (05:51):
We are not organized.

Speaker 4 (05:53):
We walked into the studio, We're like, hey, what do
you want to talk about today?

Speaker 2 (05:58):
I'm here?

Speaker 1 (05:58):
We go how to handle when people hit up on
your girlfriend? Has this ever happened to you in past relationships.

Speaker 4 (06:03):
Though every relationship, and and what I'm not in jail,
so I guess I've handled myself well.

Speaker 1 (06:10):
It says, move your head away, stare into space, and
put a slight smile, as if what he's trying to
do is mildly amusing to you. Oh well, that's only
if you're right in front of them. I get mad
if a girl, Okay, let's talk about.

Speaker 2 (06:24):
This he threatened to cut somebody.

Speaker 3 (06:27):
No, you'll love this.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
Story when I talk. I really don't. I'm actually not
a violent person. I'll joke around and be ratchet, but
I'm not violent. I've never been in a fight. But
what I did do remember the time we went out
to the Cajun Steamer and we sat at the bar
and the waitress was hitting on you, and I even.

Speaker 2 (06:47):
I even said, I do remember this.

Speaker 1 (06:50):
Before we went out to eat, I was like, let's
go out to dinner. It's my tree, because normally you
alwait like you buy ninety percent of the time dinner.
And I'll be like, let's go out, it's my tree.
And we get there and we're sitting at the bar
and this girl the right in front of me was
super chatty with you, talking it up.

Speaker 3 (07:08):
And I don't know if she thought because.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
You were buying and you were gonna tipperh she.

Speaker 4 (07:13):
Was trying to be conversational and whatever with who she
thought was going to be the one dealing with the money.

Speaker 3 (07:19):
I also think it's because you are a very sexy man.
Go follow this. She drives me crazy podcast to see
stak Daddy. You are hot. A lot of like, I'm
sorry you're hot. You're the hottest guy I've ever dated.

Speaker 2 (07:28):
Anyway, I'm sorry you have low standards.

Speaker 1 (07:32):
I was like, I was like, she is hitting on you,
and you were like, no, she's not, No, she's not.

Speaker 3 (07:37):
I was like, yes she is.

Speaker 1 (07:39):
And I've been a server before, and it's one thing
to be chatty with the person who thinks paying the bill.
She would blatantly ignore me. She would like throw my
food in front of me and then look at you
and be like, oh my god, how's your dinner? How
do you like this?

Speaker 3 (07:51):
And I was like, I'm going to the bathroom because
I had to go to the bathroom.

Speaker 1 (07:54):
I said, I guarantee you she comes over and hits
on you and talks to you while I'm gone, and
you were like, no, she won't.

Speaker 3 (07:59):
And then I came back and you went, you were right,
what'd she say? What she can?

Speaker 2 (08:03):
Oh, I don't remember anything that she said.

Speaker 1 (08:06):
She did come back, though, and was flirty with you,
And so when it was time for our bill to
get there, I was like, don't you dare, don't you even.

Speaker 4 (08:15):
Look at that when she puts it in front of you.
I want her to.

Speaker 3 (08:18):
See that I'm paying for it and you.

Speaker 1 (08:20):
This is what makes me love you, and this is
what made me love you even more that night, because
you knew I was upset that she was hitting on
you in front of me, And at one point you
grabbed my stool and pulled me close to you and
put your arm around me and made sure that she
knew we were together.

Speaker 3 (08:35):
And I loved that.

Speaker 1 (08:36):
That was like I needed that in that moment, and
you were freaking perfect.

Speaker 3 (08:40):
So thank you for that.

Speaker 2 (08:41):
Well, what can I say, I'm kind of a big
deal whatever.

Speaker 1 (08:45):
But no, then she handed us the bill and you
were like, oh no, you hand her the credit card
and you made sure I handed her the credit card
and I gave it to her, and I was so mad.
It was like a seventy dollars ticket. I gave her
a three dollar tip.

Speaker 2 (08:57):
Did you really?

Speaker 3 (08:58):
Oh yeah, I wasn't gonna tip her.

Speaker 1 (09:01):
You used to be a server, and that was rude.
Like even when I was a server, I was nice
to everybody at the table because you don't know who's paying.
She needed to learn a lesson that day, and she
was old enough. She should have known better. She was
probably older than me, and she learned her lesson, and
if she didn't, she got a crappy tip.

Speaker 3 (09:17):
I don't care.

Speaker 4 (09:22):
Yeah, so one of us is jealous and one of
us isn't so much. Oh no, we're both jealous.

Speaker 1 (09:27):
You want to do You have said multiple times I'm
going to burn the neighbor's house down.

Speaker 2 (09:31):
Again.

Speaker 4 (09:31):
It's not because I'm jealous. It's because he showed you disrespect.

Speaker 1 (09:35):
Well, and again, not because I'm jealous of the servers.

Speaker 3 (09:39):
You were jealous. She showed me disrespect.

Speaker 2 (09:42):
You were jealous.

Speaker 1 (09:43):
She was blatantly hitting on you, jealous in front of me.

Speaker 3 (09:47):
No, it pissed me off.

Speaker 2 (09:48):
That's because you can hint on my man, but.

Speaker 1 (09:51):
You do it right in front of me, and then
you ignore me and treat me like crap. Honey, I'm
paying the bar tab tonight and you ain't getting nothing.
So listen to all the servers listening to the podcast. God,
I hope your mom doesn't listen to this episode.

Speaker 4 (10:09):
I'm for sure she'd be like, that's right, you get them.

Speaker 3 (10:13):
Okay, are we done?

Speaker 2 (10:15):
I mean, let's go.

Speaker 3 (10:16):
We gotta go. We got things to do.

Speaker 2 (10:18):
Yeah, we got to go to the hospital.

Speaker 1 (10:19):
Go follow the She Drives Me Crazy podcast on Instagram.
We'll keep you updated there. You dropped a little nugget
about we got to go to the hospital. Do you
want to say why?

Speaker 2 (10:28):
Or yeah, I've got my little baby, Nieces has got pneumonia.
We got to go visit and see see my sister
and take food and care packages.

Speaker 3 (10:36):
Okay, that's what.

Speaker 1 (10:37):
Yeah, because as soon as you said hospital and everybody
listening is going.

Speaker 3 (10:40):
To be like, why are you going to the hospital?
What's going on? When are we going to have a baby?

Speaker 2 (10:44):
What?

Speaker 4 (10:45):
How do we go from a cousin in the hospital
or niece in the hospital with pneumonia?

Speaker 2 (10:50):
What are we going to have a baby?

Speaker 3 (10:51):
I love you. We're done. You you want to say
anything about Okay, Bye,
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