March 11, 2025 • 26 mins
Is not wearing your wedding ring disrespectful to your spouse? Spencer noticed this at hibachi recently!
Sharon crushed it on How Country Are Ya she just needs to brush up on her bass boat knowledge.
Nothing like your kids spending money without you knowing!
Sharon crushed it on How Country Are Ya she just needs to brush up on her bass boat knowledge.
Nothing like your kids spending money without you knowing!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Megan, since you apparently don't mind if your clock has
the wrong time on it.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
I mean, you're late all the time anyway, so what's
the matter?
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Right?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
I have this for you. Today's show is brought to
you by Daylight Saving Time. It's later than you think,
or is it.
Speaker 4 (00:18):
That?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Ladies and gentlemen. This is what go through Meg's head
every single day.
Speaker 5 (00:23):
Time is just a man made concept.
Speaker 6 (00:26):
It's all relative, bro.
Speaker 5 (00:27):
Stop trying to control the people.
Speaker 6 (00:29):
Oh my god, I'm feeling it this morning.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
I honestly have.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
I had a heart attack this morning when I got
into my car because I got in my car, I
started driving and it said two point fifty and I was.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Like, wait a minute, what And then I realized that
my clock was screwed up.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
I thought that my car would automatically change, but yet again,
here we are twenty twenty four, and not everything automatically changes.
But your phone can, your watch can, almost every other
clock in your world, except for your appliances in your vehicles.
Speaker 6 (01:01):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 5 (01:01):
I get in the car and I'm like, whoa, it
is what it is, man, We're just riding with it.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
It's like am I in the movie Back to the Future.
Because this is strange.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Is this really a Dolorean?
Speaker 1 (01:16):
She's giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
It's the good good. On the Spencer Grave.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Show recently, I shared a story about a purse snatcher
who got beat up by a guy that knew Brazilian
jiu jitsu. Remember that happened in Philadelphia. So this woman
had her purse stolen and this guy chasing dude down
and then opened up a can of whoop. Well, the
same thing happened, except the woman fought back. She is
(01:43):
a martial arts expert, and she stopped an armed robbery
that happened at a convenience store.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
She did all of this by.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Taking down two would be robbers while wearing high heels.
Speaker 7 (01:57):
Of course she did. I'm not surprised women roll the world.
Add this doesn't surprise me at all.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
We can run far distances when it counts in heels.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
She has trained in martial arts for twenty years. The
police even thought it was impressive. She was sitting on
both of them. I mean, it's like something out of
a movie. But congratulations to Marie. You know, Megan, we
know that you had a job prior to radio where
you worked as a recruiter for the army and you're
(02:25):
still a member of the National Guard.
Speaker 6 (02:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
But what did you actually want to be in college?
Did you want to do broadcast?
Speaker 5 (02:31):
I wanted to be a radio personality.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Yep, I did. Has your dream come true?
Speaker 8 (02:36):
Finally?
Speaker 9 (02:36):
Yes.
Speaker 5 (02:37):
It took a lot of running, a lot of wrench turning,
a lot of three hours labored, but I got here. Yeah,
but it was between a radio personality and a lawyer.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
I always wanted to do sports broadcasting. My dad said
that I should have been a preacher. He also said
I should have been a lawyer and a doctor. It's like,
we'll leave the people out of this, but you should definitely.
My dad was more you should save some souls, but
not by a scout. He was that type of guy.
Luke Combs finally mentioned what he was planning on going
(03:12):
to college for. At Appalachian State, my major.
Speaker 10 (03:16):
Was criminal justice. I wanted to be a homicide detective.
People are pretty surprised by I don't actually have the
physical build of a police officer necessarily. I think it
was like solving the puzzle was the intriguing part to me,
which is what I love so much about writing. Songs.
It's a puzzle that has no pieces, so you make
the pieces and then you have to put them together.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
I could have seen Luke Combs on the first forty eight.
Speaker 5 (03:38):
I think he does look like a police officer.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
He looks like a detective. There's no doubt about that
he does.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
And he's like a big human being, like tall to
so imagine him coming up to you and being like,
you're speeding. I'd be like, yes, I was.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
He's tollme, Megan, that's for sure. Sp'ser Graves Show. What
did you want to be? And what are you now?
Eight five five graves?
Speaker 11 (04:00):
Hi? I wanted to be a CEO of a fortune
five hundred company and now I am a personal gardener
slash landscaper.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
So I'll tell you right now, I would have loved
to have been the CEO of a fortune five hundred company.
I wouldn't want all the bs that goes with it
and all the things they have to deal with, but
whatever check gets signed to me, I'd be down for that.
It's the Spencer Grave Show. I went to Hibachi the
other night with a couple of my neighbors. One of
them is extremely pregnant, so she changed what restaurants she
(04:35):
wanted to go to several times. But there's something I
noticed at dinner, and I have to get y'all's opinion
on this. A five to five grave zero, especially if
you're married. So Blair heads up. Is it disrespectful if
your spouse doesn't wear their wedding ring in public?
Speaker 7 (04:49):
Steve hasn't worn a wedding ring since maybe six months
after our wedding, but a couple of years ago he
did get our anniversary date tattooed on his ring finger.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
So it's a bothery you that he doesn't wear a
ring or is the tattoo sufficient?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Not at all?
Speaker 7 (05:08):
And I mean it was one of those things that
he lost weight, the ring started getting big, and the
silicon ring he couldn't stand the way it felt on
his finger. So there was just never you know, it's
never bothered me. It's like I'm ready to attack if
a woman tries to approach.
Speaker 6 (05:23):
It's fine. I'm ready, like I will go to battle
if need be.
Speaker 7 (05:27):
But you know, I mean, I'm a person that, believe
it or not, I don't wear my wedding I wear
it every day to work, but I take it off
for the gym. Once I shower in the afternoons, it
comes off for the rest of the night. I don't
wear it why I sleep, So I'm not losing it.
I have a ring dish that my one of my
best friends, Chelsea, she got me when we got engaged. No,
it's like a ten dollar a little like get it yeah,
(05:49):
No from Etsy that has had my monitor at like
my new monogram on that she had for me when
we came back from the chrip. We got engaged on it,
and so it just goes in there. It goes in
there every night, So I mean, I know exactly it's
where it is. I could tell you this. I don't
think Steve knows where his wedding band is today.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
That's good.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Kind of proves my point on a whole losing things.
So as we were sitting at Hibachi, there was another
family that was with us, and they had three teenagers
and mom and dad, and we started asking questions and
I looked down and I noticed she didn't have her
wedding ring on. He didn't have his ring on. So
I just hit him with that one question, like, oh,
are you guys married? They were like, oh, yeah, fifteen
years And I was a little shocked because I've heard
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people that are blue collar, like they don't wear it
at work because if you're working on cars, engines metal,
there's some real dangers that can come with that. You
can worry about something hitting your finger, crushing the ring,
and then you're in all sorts of problems. But I
grew up in a house where my dad wore his
wedding ring every single day. My mom wore her wedding
ring every single day. I don't even think they took
(06:53):
him off to wash their hands. They just stayed on there.
The only time I remember my parents taking their rings
off is when they saw my uncle who was a jeweler,
and he cleaned them for them, and then it was
immediately right back on their finger. So to me, I
was like, wow, if you're married, you should be wearing
your wedding ring.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
I would try my best to wear it, but as
someone who's left handed, and also I broke my arm
when I was young, and the pinky and ring finger
on my hands they're kind of sensitive, so I don't
know how well that would do. I might have honestly,
I might have to wear it on like my pointer finger.
Speaker 6 (07:26):
Oh my, I mean so real.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
Just because imagine having to write with a ring crushing
into your your fingers all the time. It sounds horrible.
Speaker 7 (07:35):
And I think for women, when you first get engaged,
whether you want to admit it or not, you are
so terrified of messing up this ring.
Speaker 6 (07:41):
You're taking it off a.
Speaker 7 (07:42):
Lot at the beginning because you're like, I don't want
it to touch my laptop.
Speaker 6 (07:46):
I don't want it to touch this like you're so scared.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Eight five five Graves zero, Julie, what do you think?
Speaker 9 (07:52):
My husband actually doesn't wear his rings. He does he
and cooling and the metal rings. If he was to
get heard or caught on something, he could cut his
finger off, so I do when he gets home. His
hands are so cut up. He's almost cut his finger
(08:14):
off a couple of times, just not at work.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Okay, so he does it when he's not working.
Speaker 6 (08:19):
Right, does it bother you?
Speaker 5 (08:20):
He doesn't just get like a silicone ring though to
where wales at work.
Speaker 9 (08:24):
He actually does have one, and normally he will wear that. Honestly,
if he forgets it or whatever, it doesn't really bother me.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
I wouldn't be able to do that going from this
ring to that ring to this, and for me, it's either.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Or it's off.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
Well, do you have to as someone who's married, like
with your wedding ring, do you take it off when
you take a shower?
Speaker 9 (08:48):
I do typically I kick it off when I get
hold and okay, but.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Then as soon as you get done taking a shower,
it's sitting there right on the counter, and you just
slide it right back on before you even dry off.
Speaker 9 (09:02):
I actually take it off when I get home, and.
Speaker 12 (09:04):
It just kind of steees off all night.
Speaker 9 (09:08):
Yeah, I don't wear it while we're at home.
Speaker 6 (09:11):
I feel like I would lose it too.
Speaker 5 (09:13):
I don't think I could sleep with it on either
it would maybe snag like the sheets or might cut.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
My Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Could you imagine if you're somebody with like restless leg syndrome,
but it's your arms like scratching it.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
I actually do, Like.
Speaker 9 (09:30):
I don't wear any kind of jewelry or anything too bad,
but like when I I wear mine when I go
to work and when we're out and about, every once
in a while I'll forget it and I'm.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
Like, oh, you ever seen those women where their wedding
ring gets snagged on their sweater and then they're like
caught up in their shirt and they can't go anywhere.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
So good.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
Well, thank you very much. I hope you have a
great day.
Speaker 13 (09:53):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
I have a great day you too. What's going on, Rebecca.
Speaker 8 (09:57):
I'm a nurse, and so I don't wear my ring
because I have thrown away many of them. Ye like,
take it off my gloves. I actually threw away my
engagement ring when we first got engaged. And you don't
want to go for hospital trash?
Speaker 6 (10:18):
Did you recover it? Do what you did? Recover it
though you just had to go through the trash.
Speaker 12 (10:26):
Now, I didn't. I didn't realize it was gone until
it was too late, and then I did the same
thing with the With the second one, I was able
to recover it. But so I don't do it. And
my my husband's a decent mechanic, so he doesn't wear
it because of the dangers. But I think it's more
of a secure thing in your relationship, you.
Speaker 5 (10:48):
Know, as.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
The big question. How was the conversation that you had
with your husband when you told them you.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
Threw it away?
Speaker 13 (10:58):
So, honey, I was like, ah, accidentally, summer, I was like,
I'm never buying you another one.
Speaker 6 (11:09):
You know it insured? I need to know.
Speaker 5 (11:14):
Yes, Thank goodness, we can't. This is something we cannot
judge her on it. There's people that lose things all
the time, and it's really not Megan. This is not
the same to anyone, Megan.
Speaker 7 (11:26):
This is not the same as losing your military ID
seventy four times in the last three hundred and sixty
five days.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
But you did tell us that you're a nurse, so
you're constantly working on people, you know. I think dental
high genis is probably the same thing. Like do they
wear their engagement rings because their hands are in people's
mouths all day?
Speaker 6 (11:44):
Can imagine choking on engagement ring?
Speaker 8 (11:47):
Exactly, exactly.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Thank you very much for the phone call today. We
really appreciate your time.
Speaker 12 (11:53):
All right, thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
Suspencer Grave Show.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
It's one O two five The Bowl, Birmingham's number one
for New Country Wall selection Sunday is coming up this
Sunday and the March Madness brackets will be set. We
do know that Auburn and Alabama are both going to
the Big Dance, so that's exciting.
Speaker 3 (12:10):
Huh.
Speaker 7 (12:10):
You want to mention anybody else you want to mention?
Speaker 6 (12:14):
I have a guess. I don't know, but I have
a guess.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Okay, there's nobody else that I really.
Speaker 6 (12:19):
Mean is trying to Megan's trying to get.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
Let's just start with it's so weird that the microphone
just cut off at the wrong time. Can't remember if
something happens, don't see it cut off again. I just
don't understand how they I can't. It's it's an emergency
in here, gonna have.
Speaker 7 (12:35):
To No, it's not. It's an emergency. And me letting
everyone know that Tennis.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Did it again, I don't know anywhere.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
We'll see how that all goes. How much money have
your kids spent without you knowing? But you found out
about it later? Eight five five grave zero. Now, while
Meghan lives by herself, you caused for yourself a pretty
big bill.
Speaker 6 (13:00):
I think it's probably because I live by myself.
Speaker 5 (13:02):
I don't have a parent, Like, stop doing that. I
about a Nintendo switch cost me like three hundred dollars, right,
So then when you set it up, you have to
you know, create your profile and all this other stuff,
put a card number in and they start showing you
all these games.
Speaker 6 (13:16):
So what do I do?
Speaker 5 (13:17):
Oh, this is only thirteen dollars. This one's only fifty
nine dollars. This one's only sixty nine dollars.
Speaker 6 (13:22):
What a steal.
Speaker 5 (13:22):
It's on sale. I probably spent another four hundred dollars. Ooh,
I don't make enough money to be buying all these
games on Nintendo.
Speaker 6 (13:30):
And then they got me for a subscription.
Speaker 5 (13:32):
They were like, well, do you want to play the
old Nintada sixty four games? Well, obviously, so, I said,
And it's a subscription based thing where yearly you're charged
like two hundred bucks.
Speaker 6 (13:44):
And I get on there.
Speaker 5 (13:45):
There's only one I want to play, Mario Party sixty four.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
All right, So you're telling me you got out of
this for about six hundred bucks. That's not bad. Listen,
there's parents that are out there and their kids have
spent way more money on their game systems or with
mom or dad's credit card, and they found out about
it much later.
Speaker 7 (14:01):
I would never confirm nor deny if these tiny humans
ever did something like that to me, And I would
never confirm nor deny if they called me to try
to get them out of it.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
So wait a minute, you're tiny humans because they're not
your children, like these are your nephew's, nieces, grandkids. Right,
they have your credit card without you knowing they need things?
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Blair, how much.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Money have your tiny humans spent without maybe you knowing?
Speaker 7 (14:25):
You're okay with it, But there was one time that
it was a couple hundred dollars and I just called
and asked this.
Speaker 6 (14:32):
I'm not calling them out. I called and asked what
did we need?
Speaker 7 (14:36):
And they told me what we needed and I agreed,
and I said, ballad. I, Oh that much, I would
lose it.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
I don't know if I could handle that. I don't
think kids should have access to cards. That's why it's
such a danger, like Megan jumping on her gaming situation
and then all of a sudden you got a card
link to it, Like that's catastrophe.
Speaker 6 (14:56):
Or am I teaching them responsibility?
Speaker 2 (14:58):
Well, that's not response ability. Dave Ramsey would yell at.
Speaker 5 (15:02):
You, it's too hard, like when you have the card
entered and then all you have to make it too easy?
Speaker 6 (15:08):
And do you want this game?
Speaker 5 (15:10):
Yeah, well you can.
Speaker 6 (15:11):
It might take you a year to.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
Pay off, but you gotta take out a mortgage for it.
Eight five five grave zero.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
How much money did your kids spend without you knowing,
but you found out they.
Speaker 14 (15:23):
Have one hundred percamps used my debit card on their
Amazon tablets.
Speaker 8 (15:29):
And balls upon it belonging.
Speaker 2 (15:31):
What happened?
Speaker 14 (15:32):
I got emails that I had orders that I had
not placed.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
And how much were those orders?
Speaker 14 (15:38):
For the cheapest one change the most expensive one sixty
seventy bucks?
Speaker 4 (15:45):
So they needed these things right like there was a
knee No they did not, So what do you do?
Speaker 1 (15:55):
Do you let the items show up to the house
or do you cancel the order?
Speaker 3 (16:00):
Oh? I canceled them immediately.
Speaker 14 (16:01):
And now I have changed the card. I've changed the
default card, so if they try to order anything on
their tablets, it's not going to go.
Speaker 1 (16:08):
Through, right, It's kind of it's kind of strange, right
that adults allow kids to have access to a credit
card or a debit card.
Speaker 14 (16:15):
You know, I didn't think about pay You need to
change your default card because if they try to get
anything on there, it's tablet, it's going to.
Speaker 12 (16:23):
Order it with your debit card.
Speaker 14 (16:25):
And now I have changed it, so the default card
never has money on it for them to spend, so.
Speaker 8 (16:34):
You couldn't go through.
Speaker 14 (16:36):
And then if I want to place an order on Amazon,
I just click a different card.
Speaker 12 (16:40):
It's check out.
Speaker 6 (16:42):
You know, these tiny humans, it's illegal for them to work.
They need thing they need to buy.
Speaker 14 (16:52):
They didn't need an ungodly amount.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
That's right, all right, heaven have an awesome morning.
Speaker 9 (16:58):
Thanks by guys.
Speaker 3 (17:00):
So back when you got charged twenty five cents for
every text message you sent in one night, my daughter
rang up about eight hundred dollars in text messages.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Were moving and the.
Speaker 3 (17:19):
Person she was texting was sitting. They were at like
a dairy queen or something, and they were sitting like
a couple of booths over.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
Oh.
Speaker 7 (17:28):
Well, you know, things happen and I don't know, I'm
having a you know, you got a text.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
What kind of conversation? What kind of conversation did you
have with your daughter about that?
Speaker 3 (17:45):
Oh? It was not a nice one at all. She
I mean, of course I had to. You know, I
had to pay it. We all of our phones were
linked at that time, so I had to pay it.
And she, you know, I worked and she went to school,
so I needed contact with her also, So yeah, we
(18:08):
she stayed home for quite a while after that though, Actually, do.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
Chores are like work? The bill down at?
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Anyway, she worked at that fairy Queen that she was at.
Actually so yes, I got quite a few of her
paychecks after there.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
You go have an.
Speaker 1 (18:22):
Awesome dame, you too, Randall, How did your kids spend
money without you knowing?
Speaker 11 (18:27):
All?
Speaker 10 (18:27):
Right?
Speaker 15 (18:27):
Well, I put my credit card on his Xbox to
get him a game offer. It was like maybe twelve dollars.
While I left that card on that, well, within about
a month I checked my card and he does spend
like six hundred dollars on games, anything from two dollars
to ten dollars to fifty dollars. And believe it or not,
(18:48):
I called Microsoft and they, for him being underage, they
paid me all my money back.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
Oh wow, I was going to ask you if your
son's name was Megan, because that sounds like something she did.
Speaker 6 (19:00):
What then, this means they probably took away all his games.
Speaker 5 (19:02):
I hope he was able to store them on an
external I.
Speaker 15 (19:05):
Thought they were going to do that and he did too.
But they get They left him all these games and everything,
but him being underage, they gave me all all.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
That's nice. It's look at Microsoft doing right by some parents.
Speaker 5 (19:15):
Did they ask you to provide like any kind of
confirmation that he was indeed underage.
Speaker 11 (19:20):
As.
Speaker 15 (19:23):
I guess I looked the fire under him. They kind
of kind of gave him the money back.
Speaker 14 (19:28):
Could you call?
Speaker 6 (19:29):
Could you call on my behalf as well?
Speaker 1 (19:31):
Hey, my daughter just did the same exact thing, and
see what happens?
Speaker 15 (19:35):
I heard it. Yeah, tell me who I need to call.
I'll handle him for you. Appreciate you, buddy, have an
awesome day.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
Wow, it's like it's like Megan's actually thought about this
entire process.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
A five five grave zero. What's going on? Joseph Sancher,
My man, how did you we are?
Speaker 1 (19:52):
But how did your kids cost you? A crazy amount
of money? And you found out later he.
Speaker 16 (19:56):
Tells me about about a bucks one day, and then
come to find out he also went and spent about
six hundred bucks on his girlfriend as well.
Speaker 9 (20:05):
Did she need things?
Speaker 16 (20:08):
They didn't need things out of my pocket. But the
thing is, though you given a you're given a kid
access to your check card or your credit card, they
would they will not tell you anything they spent until
the bill comes in. Now you ask them, we're just
coming from.
Speaker 3 (20:25):
I needed that.
Speaker 7 (20:26):
I need to invest in these children young and figure
out which one's going to put me in a good
nursing home one day. Since I don't have kids of
my own, and so it's like, oh, they'll feel bad
one day.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
Have you read that time, Joseph, Thank you, buddy, appreciate
your time.
Speaker 16 (20:39):
As always spending fish it this year.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
I caught two five pounders last two weekends.
Speaker 16 (20:46):
And that's it nothing.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
I mean, I had ninety I almost have twenty pounds
on Gunnersville on Saturday.
Speaker 16 (20:51):
Do you do anything any get in the tournament?
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Did you do third place?
Speaker 16 (20:55):
That's what I'm talking about. Good deal, my man, Good deal.
Speaker 5 (20:58):
We'll be careful, y'all.
Speaker 11 (20:59):
Have a great day.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
All right, dude, we'll talk to you later. It's How
Country are You? On the Spencer Grave Show.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
Sharon is from rem Lab. She's getting ready to go
through three questions that Megan's going to ask her. But
first we need to know, on a scale of one
to country, how country are you?
Speaker 6 (21:14):
Sharing eight love the very competent.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Yeah, leaves a little bit of room for a little
bit of debate, but she feels really really good about this. Megan,
whenever you're ready, hit Sharon with three questions.
Speaker 5 (21:29):
Okay, Sharon, we want to know what the bass boat
name is? It's named after a mosquito.
Speaker 8 (21:38):
Named for a mosquito.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
Pretty popular.
Speaker 8 (21:43):
The blood suckerdo does the blood sucker?
Speaker 6 (21:46):
That'd be honestly really cool.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Uh No, that's not it. It's called skeeter. Skeeter boats.
Speaker 4 (21:51):
Yeah, like a mosquito, a skeeter.
Speaker 14 (21:56):
That's what.
Speaker 8 (21:59):
Sharon.
Speaker 5 (21:59):
We would like for you to politely tell somebody off
in a Southern way.
Speaker 8 (22:05):
Oh, bless your heart, honey, Chart.
Speaker 6 (22:11):
Oh my god, I love that. It's always you. You
need Jesus. You need to go to church. Okay, Sharon.
Speaker 5 (22:17):
What is the most country thing on your nightstand? Oh?
Speaker 8 (22:21):
Probably my mountain every day every day?
Speaker 2 (22:25):
And is it half drink in the morning? And do
you drink it? Yeah, yep, that's it. Do you drink it?
I get you because like.
Speaker 1 (22:33):
You have it at night, right, and you only get
halfway through and then you wake up in the morning
if it's the first thing you hit, that is a
Southern move exactly.
Speaker 8 (22:40):
You can't waste it.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Seven and a half for Sharon today.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
Sharon.
Speaker 1 (22:45):
You have your choice. Do you want to go to
Talladega or see.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
Whiskey Myers on Talladega? Done? Blair?
Speaker 1 (22:52):
Since you've won a spelling bee before, can you spell
the word prosthetic p R.
Speaker 7 (22:56):
O S T h E T I see nicely?
Speaker 2 (23:04):
This is that right?
Speaker 1 (23:06):
Hard trying to figure out which ones of us want
to school spelling and which one didn't.
Speaker 7 (23:11):
Why do I fill the need every time I spell
something I have to look up to.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
Yeah you did do that.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
I was actually happier that you did that and not
stare at a computer screen to google prosthetic.
Speaker 7 (23:21):
To spell always anytime I spell any word, like if
I look up.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
There are fun of me.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
There are a lot of people that do that. I
had a friend of mine he played Mario Brothers back
in the day. Every time he made Mario jump, he
had to jump at the same exact time.
Speaker 5 (23:36):
Oh, yeah, I do that too, you do, yeah, I'll
I moved the controller on my games, and when I'm
on my walking pad, I have actually fallen off the
walking pad because I jump, I get startled.
Speaker 1 (23:47):
So when you're playing like a racing game, you treat
the controller like the actual steering wheel.
Speaker 2 (23:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (23:54):
I treat my whole body like the stern wheel. I
drive myself off the couch.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
I want to give you guys a pro tip when
you go to Nowville. If you go to Lower Broadway,
there's a good chance you're not gonna see the artists
that you really want to see perform. Like if you
go to Blake Shelton's bar, there's a chance you're not
gonna see Blake Shelton. But if you go to Losers
in Midtown, you can see some artists that just pop up,
jump on stage and we'll play twenty to thirty minutes.
(24:21):
In fact, did you guys hear Snoop Dogg was there
with Ernest I saw this.
Speaker 7 (24:26):
But let me just clarify something. If you happen to
be in the same place as me, you won't see anyone.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
You're just gonna blarify that real quick. Here is Snoop performing.
This is becoming the hot spot that midtown area because
Losers is right next to Riley's Bar, the Duck Blind,
(24:52):
and you are starting to see a lot of well
known singers showing up a loser Zach Top Stop Buy
he did forty five minutes, and they just will play
because they're having fun. It's almost like they're just doing
it for tip money.
Speaker 5 (25:08):
Nashville is the new Los Angeles, that's what I think.
Like this is the hot spot to be and I
just I love the excitement and not knowing, like if
you just go to Nashville, who knows who you'll see
or like who you'll run into.
Speaker 6 (25:21):
It is so cool.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
How about Ashley McBride, I think we need to give
her a round of applause. Thousand days sober, she just
announced that.
Speaker 2 (25:30):
The other day.
Speaker 7 (25:31):
I love that she's sharing this journey with everybody else too,
so that maybe she can be an example for people
that might want to get on a journey like this
similar to this.
Speaker 6 (25:40):
I just think it's great that she's sharing it.
Speaker 14 (25:41):
Right.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
This is some of the stuff that you wouldn't have
heard back in the day, Like if only Keith Whitley
had found himself sober, if only George Jones had found
himself sober, what a difference that may have been in
their careers.
Speaker 5 (25:54):
There was somebody that's a part of my unit who
is just sharing a story with all of us, and
it was about his journey with sobriety, and honestly, like
none of us knew he was even struggling with that.
And the way that he came out and was open
about it, I'm sure inspired a lot of people in
that room to go and get the help you need.
A thousand days is absolutely incredible and it probably seems
(26:17):
like something far off in the distance for people that
are struggling with any kind of addiction or you know,
reliance on alcohol or whatever it is. But we believe
in you and we you know, we love you and
we're rooting you on.
Speaker 1 (26:30):
Kudos to Ashley McBride. She also announced that she's going
to be with us at the Peach jam in Chilton
County later this summer.
Megan, since you apparently don't mind if your clock has
the wrong time on it.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
I mean, you're late all the time anyway, so what's
the matter?
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Right?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
I have this for you. Today's show is brought to
you by Daylight Saving Time. It's later than you think,
or is it.
Speaker 4 (00:18):
That?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Ladies and gentlemen. This is what go through Meg's head
every single day.
Speaker 5 (00:23):
Time is just a man made concept.
Speaker 6 (00:26):
It's all relative, bro.
Speaker 5 (00:27):
Stop trying to control the people.
Speaker 6 (00:29):
Oh my god, I'm feeling it this morning.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
I honestly have.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
I had a heart attack this morning when I got
into my car because I got in my car, I
started driving and it said two point fifty and I was.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Like, wait a minute, what And then I realized that
my clock was screwed up.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
I thought that my car would automatically change, but yet again,
here we are twenty twenty four, and not everything automatically changes.
But your phone can, your watch can, almost every other
clock in your world, except for your appliances in your vehicles.
Speaker 6 (01:01):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 5 (01:01):
I get in the car and I'm like, whoa, it
is what it is, man, We're just riding with it.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
It's like am I in the movie Back to the Future.
Because this is strange.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Is this really a Dolorean?
Speaker 1 (01:16):
She's giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
It's the good good. On the Spencer Grave.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Show recently, I shared a story about a purse snatcher
who got beat up by a guy that knew Brazilian
jiu jitsu. Remember that happened in Philadelphia. So this woman
had her purse stolen and this guy chasing dude down
and then opened up a can of whoop. Well, the
same thing happened, except the woman fought back. She is
(01:43):
a martial arts expert, and she stopped an armed robbery
that happened at a convenience store.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
She did all of this by.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Taking down two would be robbers while wearing high heels.
Speaker 7 (01:57):
Of course she did. I'm not surprised women roll the world.
Add this doesn't surprise me at all.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
We can run far distances when it counts in heels.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
She has trained in martial arts for twenty years. The
police even thought it was impressive. She was sitting on
both of them. I mean, it's like something out of
a movie. But congratulations to Marie. You know, Megan, we
know that you had a job prior to radio where
you worked as a recruiter for the army and you're
(02:25):
still a member of the National Guard.
Speaker 6 (02:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
But what did you actually want to be in college?
Did you want to do broadcast?
Speaker 5 (02:31):
I wanted to be a radio personality.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Yep, I did. Has your dream come true?
Speaker 8 (02:36):
Finally?
Speaker 9 (02:36):
Yes.
Speaker 5 (02:37):
It took a lot of running, a lot of wrench turning,
a lot of three hours labored, but I got here. Yeah,
but it was between a radio personality and a lawyer.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
I always wanted to do sports broadcasting. My dad said
that I should have been a preacher. He also said
I should have been a lawyer and a doctor. It's like,
we'll leave the people out of this, but you should definitely.
My dad was more you should save some souls, but
not by a scout. He was that type of guy.
Luke Combs finally mentioned what he was planning on going
(03:12):
to college for. At Appalachian State, my major.
Speaker 10 (03:16):
Was criminal justice. I wanted to be a homicide detective.
People are pretty surprised by I don't actually have the
physical build of a police officer necessarily. I think it
was like solving the puzzle was the intriguing part to me,
which is what I love so much about writing. Songs.
It's a puzzle that has no pieces, so you make
the pieces and then you have to put them together.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
I could have seen Luke Combs on the first forty eight.
Speaker 5 (03:38):
I think he does look like a police officer.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
He looks like a detective. There's no doubt about that
he does.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
And he's like a big human being, like tall to
so imagine him coming up to you and being like,
you're speeding. I'd be like, yes, I was.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
He's tollme, Megan, that's for sure. Sp'ser Graves Show. What
did you want to be? And what are you now?
Eight five five graves?
Speaker 11 (04:00):
Hi? I wanted to be a CEO of a fortune
five hundred company and now I am a personal gardener
slash landscaper.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
So I'll tell you right now, I would have loved
to have been the CEO of a fortune five hundred company.
I wouldn't want all the bs that goes with it
and all the things they have to deal with, but
whatever check gets signed to me, I'd be down for that.
It's the Spencer Grave Show. I went to Hibachi the
other night with a couple of my neighbors. One of
them is extremely pregnant, so she changed what restaurants she
(04:35):
wanted to go to several times. But there's something I
noticed at dinner, and I have to get y'all's opinion
on this. A five to five grave zero, especially if
you're married. So Blair heads up. Is it disrespectful if
your spouse doesn't wear their wedding ring in public?
Speaker 7 (04:49):
Steve hasn't worn a wedding ring since maybe six months
after our wedding, but a couple of years ago he
did get our anniversary date tattooed on his ring finger.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
So it's a bothery you that he doesn't wear a
ring or is the tattoo sufficient?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Not at all?
Speaker 7 (05:08):
And I mean it was one of those things that
he lost weight, the ring started getting big, and the
silicon ring he couldn't stand the way it felt on
his finger. So there was just never you know, it's
never bothered me. It's like I'm ready to attack if
a woman tries to approach.
Speaker 6 (05:23):
It's fine. I'm ready, like I will go to battle
if need be.
Speaker 7 (05:27):
But you know, I mean, I'm a person that, believe
it or not, I don't wear my wedding I wear
it every day to work, but I take it off
for the gym. Once I shower in the afternoons, it
comes off for the rest of the night. I don't
wear it why I sleep, So I'm not losing it.
I have a ring dish that my one of my
best friends, Chelsea, she got me when we got engaged. No,
it's like a ten dollar a little like get it yeah,
(05:49):
No from Etsy that has had my monitor at like
my new monogram on that she had for me when
we came back from the chrip. We got engaged on it,
and so it just goes in there. It goes in
there every night, So I mean, I know exactly it's
where it is. I could tell you this. I don't
think Steve knows where his wedding band is today.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
That's good.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Kind of proves my point on a whole losing things.
So as we were sitting at Hibachi, there was another
family that was with us, and they had three teenagers
and mom and dad, and we started asking questions and
I looked down and I noticed she didn't have her
wedding ring on. He didn't have his ring on. So
I just hit him with that one question, like, oh,
are you guys married? They were like, oh, yeah, fifteen
years And I was a little shocked because I've heard
(06:31):
people that are blue collar, like they don't wear it
at work because if you're working on cars, engines metal,
there's some real dangers that can come with that. You
can worry about something hitting your finger, crushing the ring,
and then you're in all sorts of problems. But I
grew up in a house where my dad wore his
wedding ring every single day. My mom wore her wedding
ring every single day. I don't even think they took
(06:53):
him off to wash their hands. They just stayed on there.
The only time I remember my parents taking their rings
off is when they saw my uncle who was a jeweler,
and he cleaned them for them, and then it was
immediately right back on their finger. So to me, I
was like, wow, if you're married, you should be wearing
your wedding ring.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
I would try my best to wear it, but as
someone who's left handed, and also I broke my arm
when I was young, and the pinky and ring finger
on my hands they're kind of sensitive, so I don't
know how well that would do. I might have honestly,
I might have to wear it on like my pointer finger.
Speaker 6 (07:26):
Oh my, I mean so real.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
Just because imagine having to write with a ring crushing
into your your fingers all the time. It sounds horrible.
Speaker 7 (07:35):
And I think for women, when you first get engaged,
whether you want to admit it or not, you are
so terrified of messing up this ring.
Speaker 6 (07:41):
You're taking it off a.
Speaker 7 (07:42):
Lot at the beginning because you're like, I don't want
it to touch my laptop.
Speaker 6 (07:46):
I don't want it to touch this like you're so scared.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Eight five five Graves zero, Julie, what do you think?
Speaker 9 (07:52):
My husband actually doesn't wear his rings. He does he
and cooling and the metal rings. If he was to
get heard or caught on something, he could cut his
finger off, so I do when he gets home. His
hands are so cut up. He's almost cut his finger
(08:14):
off a couple of times, just not at work.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Okay, so he does it when he's not working.
Speaker 6 (08:19):
Right, does it bother you?
Speaker 5 (08:20):
He doesn't just get like a silicone ring though to
where wales at work.
Speaker 9 (08:24):
He actually does have one, and normally he will wear that. Honestly,
if he forgets it or whatever, it doesn't really bother me.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
I wouldn't be able to do that going from this
ring to that ring to this, and for me, it's either.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Or it's off.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
Well, do you have to as someone who's married, like
with your wedding ring, do you take it off when
you take a shower?
Speaker 9 (08:48):
I do typically I kick it off when I get
hold and okay, but.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Then as soon as you get done taking a shower,
it's sitting there right on the counter, and you just
slide it right back on before you even dry off.
Speaker 9 (09:02):
I actually take it off when I get home, and.
Speaker 12 (09:04):
It just kind of steees off all night.
Speaker 9 (09:08):
Yeah, I don't wear it while we're at home.
Speaker 6 (09:11):
I feel like I would lose it too.
Speaker 5 (09:13):
I don't think I could sleep with it on either
it would maybe snag like the sheets or might cut.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
My Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Could you imagine if you're somebody with like restless leg syndrome,
but it's your arms like scratching it.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
I actually do, Like.
Speaker 9 (09:30):
I don't wear any kind of jewelry or anything too bad,
but like when I I wear mine when I go
to work and when we're out and about, every once
in a while I'll forget it and I'm.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
Like, oh, you ever seen those women where their wedding
ring gets snagged on their sweater and then they're like
caught up in their shirt and they can't go anywhere.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
So good.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
Well, thank you very much. I hope you have a
great day.
Speaker 13 (09:53):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
I have a great day you too. What's going on, Rebecca.
Speaker 8 (09:57):
I'm a nurse, and so I don't wear my ring
because I have thrown away many of them. Ye like,
take it off my gloves. I actually threw away my
engagement ring when we first got engaged. And you don't
want to go for hospital trash?
Speaker 6 (10:18):
Did you recover it? Do what you did? Recover it
though you just had to go through the trash.
Speaker 12 (10:26):
Now, I didn't. I didn't realize it was gone until
it was too late, and then I did the same
thing with the With the second one, I was able
to recover it. But so I don't do it. And
my my husband's a decent mechanic, so he doesn't wear
it because of the dangers. But I think it's more
of a secure thing in your relationship, you.
Speaker 5 (10:48):
Know, as.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
The big question. How was the conversation that you had
with your husband when you told them you.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
Threw it away?
Speaker 13 (10:58):
So, honey, I was like, ah, accidentally, summer, I was like,
I'm never buying you another one.
Speaker 6 (11:09):
You know it insured? I need to know.
Speaker 5 (11:14):
Yes, Thank goodness, we can't. This is something we cannot
judge her on it. There's people that lose things all
the time, and it's really not Megan. This is not
the same to anyone, Megan.
Speaker 7 (11:26):
This is not the same as losing your military ID
seventy four times in the last three hundred and sixty
five days.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
But you did tell us that you're a nurse, so
you're constantly working on people, you know. I think dental
high genis is probably the same thing. Like do they
wear their engagement rings because their hands are in people's
mouths all day?
Speaker 6 (11:44):
Can imagine choking on engagement ring?
Speaker 8 (11:47):
Exactly, exactly.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Thank you very much for the phone call today. We
really appreciate your time.
Speaker 12 (11:53):
All right, thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
Suspencer Grave Show.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
It's one O two five The Bowl, Birmingham's number one
for New Country Wall selection Sunday is coming up this
Sunday and the March Madness brackets will be set. We
do know that Auburn and Alabama are both going to
the Big Dance, so that's exciting.
Speaker 3 (12:10):
Huh.
Speaker 7 (12:10):
You want to mention anybody else you want to mention?
Speaker 6 (12:14):
I have a guess. I don't know, but I have
a guess.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Okay, there's nobody else that I really.
Speaker 6 (12:19):
Mean is trying to Megan's trying to get.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
Let's just start with it's so weird that the microphone
just cut off at the wrong time. Can't remember if
something happens, don't see it cut off again. I just
don't understand how they I can't. It's it's an emergency
in here, gonna have.
Speaker 7 (12:35):
To No, it's not. It's an emergency. And me letting
everyone know that Tennis.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Did it again, I don't know anywhere.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
We'll see how that all goes. How much money have
your kids spent without you knowing? But you found out
about it later? Eight five five grave zero. Now, while
Meghan lives by herself, you caused for yourself a pretty
big bill.
Speaker 6 (13:00):
I think it's probably because I live by myself.
Speaker 5 (13:02):
I don't have a parent, Like, stop doing that. I
about a Nintendo switch cost me like three hundred dollars, right,
So then when you set it up, you have to
you know, create your profile and all this other stuff,
put a card number in and they start showing you
all these games.
Speaker 6 (13:16):
So what do I do?
Speaker 5 (13:17):
Oh, this is only thirteen dollars. This one's only fifty
nine dollars. This one's only sixty nine dollars.
Speaker 6 (13:22):
What a steal.
Speaker 5 (13:22):
It's on sale. I probably spent another four hundred dollars. Ooh,
I don't make enough money to be buying all these
games on Nintendo.
Speaker 6 (13:30):
And then they got me for a subscription.
Speaker 5 (13:32):
They were like, well, do you want to play the
old Nintada sixty four games? Well, obviously, so, I said,
And it's a subscription based thing where yearly you're charged
like two hundred bucks.
Speaker 6 (13:44):
And I get on there.
Speaker 5 (13:45):
There's only one I want to play, Mario Party sixty four.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
All right, So you're telling me you got out of
this for about six hundred bucks. That's not bad. Listen,
there's parents that are out there and their kids have
spent way more money on their game systems or with
mom or dad's credit card, and they found out about
it much later.
Speaker 7 (14:01):
I would never confirm nor deny if these tiny humans
ever did something like that to me, And I would
never confirm nor deny if they called me to try
to get them out of it.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
So wait a minute, you're tiny humans because they're not
your children, like these are your nephew's, nieces, grandkids. Right,
they have your credit card without you knowing they need things?
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Blair, how much.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Money have your tiny humans spent without maybe you knowing?
Speaker 7 (14:25):
You're okay with it, But there was one time that
it was a couple hundred dollars and I just called
and asked this.
Speaker 6 (14:32):
I'm not calling them out. I called and asked what
did we need?
Speaker 7 (14:36):
And they told me what we needed and I agreed,
and I said, ballad. I, Oh that much, I would
lose it.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
I don't know if I could handle that. I don't
think kids should have access to cards. That's why it's
such a danger, like Megan jumping on her gaming situation
and then all of a sudden you got a card
link to it, Like that's catastrophe.
Speaker 6 (14:56):
Or am I teaching them responsibility?
Speaker 2 (14:58):
Well, that's not response ability. Dave Ramsey would yell at.
Speaker 5 (15:02):
You, it's too hard, like when you have the card
entered and then all you have to make it too easy?
Speaker 6 (15:08):
And do you want this game?
Speaker 5 (15:10):
Yeah, well you can.
Speaker 6 (15:11):
It might take you a year to.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
Pay off, but you gotta take out a mortgage for it.
Eight five five grave zero.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
How much money did your kids spend without you knowing,
but you found out they.
Speaker 14 (15:23):
Have one hundred percamps used my debit card on their
Amazon tablets.
Speaker 8 (15:29):
And balls upon it belonging.
Speaker 2 (15:31):
What happened?
Speaker 14 (15:32):
I got emails that I had orders that I had
not placed.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
And how much were those orders?
Speaker 14 (15:38):
For the cheapest one change the most expensive one sixty
seventy bucks?
Speaker 4 (15:45):
So they needed these things right like there was a
knee No they did not, So what do you do?
Speaker 1 (15:55):
Do you let the items show up to the house
or do you cancel the order?
Speaker 3 (16:00):
Oh? I canceled them immediately.
Speaker 14 (16:01):
And now I have changed the card. I've changed the
default card, so if they try to order anything on
their tablets, it's not going to go.
Speaker 1 (16:08):
Through, right, It's kind of it's kind of strange, right
that adults allow kids to have access to a credit
card or a debit card.
Speaker 14 (16:15):
You know, I didn't think about pay You need to
change your default card because if they try to get
anything on there, it's tablet, it's going to.
Speaker 12 (16:23):
Order it with your debit card.
Speaker 14 (16:25):
And now I have changed it, so the default card
never has money on it for them to spend, so.
Speaker 8 (16:34):
You couldn't go through.
Speaker 14 (16:36):
And then if I want to place an order on Amazon,
I just click a different card.
Speaker 12 (16:40):
It's check out.
Speaker 6 (16:42):
You know, these tiny humans, it's illegal for them to work.
They need thing they need to buy.
Speaker 14 (16:52):
They didn't need an ungodly amount.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
That's right, all right, heaven have an awesome morning.
Speaker 9 (16:58):
Thanks by guys.
Speaker 3 (17:00):
So back when you got charged twenty five cents for
every text message you sent in one night, my daughter
rang up about eight hundred dollars in text messages.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Were moving and the.
Speaker 3 (17:19):
Person she was texting was sitting. They were at like
a dairy queen or something, and they were sitting like
a couple of booths over.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
Oh.
Speaker 7 (17:28):
Well, you know, things happen and I don't know, I'm
having a you know, you got a text.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
What kind of conversation? What kind of conversation did you
have with your daughter about that?
Speaker 3 (17:45):
Oh? It was not a nice one at all. She
I mean, of course I had to. You know, I
had to pay it. We all of our phones were
linked at that time, so I had to pay it.
And she, you know, I worked and she went to school,
so I needed contact with her also, So yeah, we
(18:08):
she stayed home for quite a while after that though, Actually, do.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
Chores are like work? The bill down at?
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Anyway, she worked at that fairy Queen that she was at.
Actually so yes, I got quite a few of her
paychecks after there.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
You go have an.
Speaker 1 (18:22):
Awesome dame, you too, Randall, How did your kids spend
money without you knowing?
Speaker 11 (18:27):
All?
Speaker 10 (18:27):
Right?
Speaker 15 (18:27):
Well, I put my credit card on his Xbox to
get him a game offer. It was like maybe twelve dollars.
While I left that card on that, well, within about
a month I checked my card and he does spend
like six hundred dollars on games, anything from two dollars
to ten dollars to fifty dollars. And believe it or not,
(18:48):
I called Microsoft and they, for him being underage, they
paid me all my money back.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
Oh wow, I was going to ask you if your
son's name was Megan, because that sounds like something she did.
Speaker 6 (19:00):
What then, this means they probably took away all his games.
Speaker 5 (19:02):
I hope he was able to store them on an
external I.
Speaker 15 (19:05):
Thought they were going to do that and he did too.
But they get They left him all these games and everything,
but him being underage, they gave me all all.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
That's nice. It's look at Microsoft doing right by some parents.
Speaker 5 (19:15):
Did they ask you to provide like any kind of
confirmation that he was indeed underage.
Speaker 11 (19:20):
As.
Speaker 15 (19:23):
I guess I looked the fire under him. They kind
of kind of gave him the money back.
Speaker 14 (19:28):
Could you call?
Speaker 6 (19:29):
Could you call on my behalf as well?
Speaker 1 (19:31):
Hey, my daughter just did the same exact thing, and
see what happens?
Speaker 15 (19:35):
I heard it. Yeah, tell me who I need to call.
I'll handle him for you. Appreciate you, buddy, have an
awesome day.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
Wow, it's like it's like Megan's actually thought about this
entire process.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
A five five grave zero. What's going on? Joseph Sancher,
My man, how did you we are?
Speaker 1 (19:52):
But how did your kids cost you? A crazy amount
of money? And you found out later he.
Speaker 16 (19:56):
Tells me about about a bucks one day, and then
come to find out he also went and spent about
six hundred bucks on his girlfriend as well.
Speaker 9 (20:05):
Did she need things?
Speaker 16 (20:08):
They didn't need things out of my pocket. But the
thing is, though you given a you're given a kid
access to your check card or your credit card, they
would they will not tell you anything they spent until
the bill comes in. Now you ask them, we're just
coming from.
Speaker 3 (20:25):
I needed that.
Speaker 7 (20:26):
I need to invest in these children young and figure
out which one's going to put me in a good
nursing home one day. Since I don't have kids of
my own, and so it's like, oh, they'll feel bad
one day.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
Have you read that time, Joseph, Thank you, buddy, appreciate
your time.
Speaker 16 (20:39):
As always spending fish it this year.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
I caught two five pounders last two weekends.
Speaker 16 (20:46):
And that's it nothing.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
I mean, I had ninety I almost have twenty pounds
on Gunnersville on Saturday.
Speaker 16 (20:51):
Do you do anything any get in the tournament?
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Did you do third place?
Speaker 16 (20:55):
That's what I'm talking about. Good deal, my man, Good deal.
Speaker 5 (20:58):
We'll be careful, y'all.
Speaker 11 (20:59):
Have a great day.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
All right, dude, we'll talk to you later. It's How
Country are You? On the Spencer Grave Show.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
Sharon is from rem Lab. She's getting ready to go
through three questions that Megan's going to ask her. But
first we need to know, on a scale of one
to country, how country are you?
Speaker 6 (21:14):
Sharing eight love the very competent.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Yeah, leaves a little bit of room for a little
bit of debate, but she feels really really good about this. Megan,
whenever you're ready, hit Sharon with three questions.
Speaker 5 (21:29):
Okay, Sharon, we want to know what the bass boat
name is? It's named after a mosquito.
Speaker 8 (21:38):
Named for a mosquito.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
Pretty popular.
Speaker 8 (21:43):
The blood suckerdo does the blood sucker?
Speaker 6 (21:46):
That'd be honestly really cool.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Uh No, that's not it. It's called skeeter. Skeeter boats.
Speaker 4 (21:51):
Yeah, like a mosquito, a skeeter.
Speaker 14 (21:56):
That's what.
Speaker 8 (21:59):
Sharon.
Speaker 5 (21:59):
We would like for you to politely tell somebody off
in a Southern way.
Speaker 8 (22:05):
Oh, bless your heart, honey, Chart.
Speaker 6 (22:11):
Oh my god, I love that. It's always you. You
need Jesus. You need to go to church. Okay, Sharon.
Speaker 5 (22:17):
What is the most country thing on your nightstand? Oh?
Speaker 8 (22:21):
Probably my mountain every day every day?
Speaker 2 (22:25):
And is it half drink in the morning? And do
you drink it? Yeah, yep, that's it. Do you drink it?
I get you because like.
Speaker 1 (22:33):
You have it at night, right, and you only get
halfway through and then you wake up in the morning
if it's the first thing you hit, that is a
Southern move exactly.
Speaker 8 (22:40):
You can't waste it.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Seven and a half for Sharon today.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
Sharon.
Speaker 1 (22:45):
You have your choice. Do you want to go to
Talladega or see.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
Whiskey Myers on Talladega? Done? Blair?
Speaker 1 (22:52):
Since you've won a spelling bee before, can you spell
the word prosthetic p R.
Speaker 7 (22:56):
O S T h E T I see nicely?
Speaker 2 (23:04):
This is that right?
Speaker 1 (23:06):
Hard trying to figure out which ones of us want
to school spelling and which one didn't.
Speaker 7 (23:11):
Why do I fill the need every time I spell
something I have to look up to.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
Yeah you did do that.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
I was actually happier that you did that and not
stare at a computer screen to google prosthetic.
Speaker 7 (23:21):
To spell always anytime I spell any word, like if
I look up.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
There are fun of me.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
There are a lot of people that do that. I
had a friend of mine he played Mario Brothers back
in the day. Every time he made Mario jump, he
had to jump at the same exact time.
Speaker 5 (23:36):
Oh, yeah, I do that too, you do, yeah, I'll
I moved the controller on my games, and when I'm
on my walking pad, I have actually fallen off the
walking pad because I jump, I get startled.
Speaker 1 (23:47):
So when you're playing like a racing game, you treat
the controller like the actual steering wheel.
Speaker 2 (23:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (23:54):
I treat my whole body like the stern wheel. I
drive myself off the couch.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
I want to give you guys a pro tip when
you go to Nowville. If you go to Lower Broadway,
there's a good chance you're not gonna see the artists
that you really want to see perform. Like if you
go to Blake Shelton's bar, there's a chance you're not
gonna see Blake Shelton. But if you go to Losers
in Midtown, you can see some artists that just pop up,
jump on stage and we'll play twenty to thirty minutes.
(24:21):
In fact, did you guys hear Snoop Dogg was there
with Ernest I saw this.
Speaker 7 (24:26):
But let me just clarify something. If you happen to
be in the same place as me, you won't see anyone.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
You're just gonna blarify that real quick. Here is Snoop performing.
This is becoming the hot spot that midtown area because
Losers is right next to Riley's Bar, the Duck Blind,
(24:52):
and you are starting to see a lot of well
known singers showing up a loser Zach Top Stop Buy
he did forty five minutes, and they just will play
because they're having fun. It's almost like they're just doing
it for tip money.
Speaker 5 (25:08):
Nashville is the new Los Angeles, that's what I think.
Like this is the hot spot to be and I
just I love the excitement and not knowing, like if
you just go to Nashville, who knows who you'll see
or like who you'll run into.
Speaker 6 (25:21):
It is so cool.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
How about Ashley McBride, I think we need to give
her a round of applause. Thousand days sober, she just
announced that.
Speaker 2 (25:30):
The other day.
Speaker 7 (25:31):
I love that she's sharing this journey with everybody else too,
so that maybe she can be an example for people
that might want to get on a journey like this
similar to this.
Speaker 6 (25:40):
I just think it's great that she's sharing it.
Speaker 14 (25:41):
Right.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
This is some of the stuff that you wouldn't have
heard back in the day, Like if only Keith Whitley
had found himself sober, if only George Jones had found
himself sober, what a difference that may have been in
their careers.
Speaker 5 (25:54):
There was somebody that's a part of my unit who
is just sharing a story with all of us, and
it was about his journey with sobriety, and honestly, like
none of us knew he was even struggling with that.
And the way that he came out and was open
about it, I'm sure inspired a lot of people in
that room to go and get the help you need.
A thousand days is absolutely incredible and it probably seems
(26:17):
like something far off in the distance for people that
are struggling with any kind of addiction or you know,
reliance on alcohol or whatever it is. But we believe
in you and we you know, we love you and
we're rooting you on.
Speaker 1 (26:30):
Kudos to Ashley McBride. She also announced that she's going
to be with us at the Peach jam in Chilton
County later this summer.
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