March 13, 2025 • 17 mins
Would you travel to see where a movie or tv show was filmed? Megan is planning a detour to do that!
Spencer has a subtle complaint about the doctors office which led to someone going to jail!
Spencer has a subtle complaint about the doctors office which led to someone going to jail!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Megan, you're getting ready to go to Savannah, but on
the way, you're going to stop where they film the
Vampire Diaries.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Oh yes, I'm excited. It's in Covington, Georgia, and I
have several friends who have gone to this this place
and it just seems so magical. I think maybe I'll
have to send g I, Joe on to Savannah without
me because I might just stay.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
What do they call it Mystic River.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Or something, Mystic Falls.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Yeah, they've actually filmed a lot of things there, Like
there was a movie back in the day called My
Cousin Vinnie with Joe Peshi I love when he was
an attorney, that was filmed all in that same area
of Covington, Georgia.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I had no idea about that.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
So, Blair, you've traveled so much, You've gone to New York.
I'm surprised that every time you go to New York
City you're not trying to find some TV show or
movie that's being filmed, because they're always there.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Okay, well, I did try to try down lawn and
order SVU, and secretly I'm doing that every single time
I go to New York City, and scene's on board
for that, like he actually is secretly like okay, like
this would actually be really cool. But I'll tell you
the one set that I would do just about anything
to go to is Grey's Anatomy, which you know, of
course they make it look like the show is set
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in Seattle, Washington, but they film it in La and
a couple of years ago, when we were in La,
I was trying so hard to convince our group we
only had one rental car. I was trying so hard
to convince them to drive fifty minutes one way in
LA traffic, which means probably two and a half three hours,
just so I could see the hospital that they use
for the exterior shots of Grey's Anatomy. Like I packed
(01:29):
scrubs in my suitcase that I was going to whar
to take pictures outside of said hospital, and nobody would
get on board.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
I'm glad you brought up the picture, because that's exactly it.
Everybody just wants to stand in front of the one
famous thing. Like Ben box Office, Ben, who does a
lot of ticket giveaways for us, He's gone to Montana
just because he wanted to see all the Yellowstone stuff
that was happening. I can't really laugh at you guys either,
Because as a kid, I grew up on the lake
where they filmed a movie called What About Bob with
(01:57):
Bill Murray. I mean, this is in the early nineties,
and whenever people ask me where I'm from, it's like automatic,
I go, oh, I'm from Smith Mountain Lake, Virginia. It's
where they filmed the movie What About Bob. As I've
gotten older, I've realized that less and less people know
what that movie is. Probably like the two of you
have no idea what it is.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Yeah, okay, I've drawn a bike. We're a little on
the younger scale. Probably.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
It's a really funny movie. Though, If you're somebody that
actually traveled and wanted to see where your favorite TV
show or movie was filmed, where did you go? Tell
us what the set looked like? A five five Grave
zero giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot. It's
the good good on the Spencer Grave show, Blair, when
(02:42):
you were dress shopping for your wedding, how stressful of
the time is that?
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Honestly, you won't believe this, but for me, I was
kind of bride chilla. All of my other friends not
so much.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Okay, right, Chilla. I like that, thank you, much different
than Zillah, which is what everybody else was. There was
a woman who bought the dress of her dreams and
three days before her wedding found out that the order
had been canceled. That's when she took to social media
and shared everybody what the latest update was. She wasn't
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doing it for any other reason. Well, that's when somebody
who actually was planning on getting married but ended the
engagement had the same exact dress and it was in
the same exact size, said hey, I'll just give you mine,
So she shipped it to her overnight and she got
married the next day.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
Okay, way a step up, because and what kind of
luck are we talking about talking about timing?
Speaker 1 (03:42):
This wedding was meant to be, Blair, You and Steve
have a much different relationship than the majority of people.
Steve is significantly older and you he had grandchildren, So
when you married him, you end up getting this group
of tiny humans. They end up staying at your house.
How do you guys designate the time so the tiny
humans parents say we'll be there Sunday at nine to
(04:03):
pick them up, or do you guys just feel like
you've had enough of the tiny humans and you just say, hey,
we're bringing them by the house.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
I mean this wholeheartedly. I never have enough time with
the tiny humans, like give me, give me them every chance.
If I didn't have to be at work early in
the mornings, I would keep them during the week. And
so what we always do is we always make a
point to drive them back to their parents' house so
they're not actually coming to pick them up. And it
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really does depend on what we have going on that
day when we get them back. Sometimes it's hey, after
we get them up, get them breakfast, you know, snack
all that, we'll bring them back to you. When it's
into summertime and our pool is open, we're like, just
don't ever come get your children because they have so
much fun in the pool and that kind of thing.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
So it truly just depends.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
But you do bring up a good point, because I
wonder if that's how all grandparents are, or if we're
the weird ones or what that looks like.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
I would probably say no, I think some grandparents are like,
you know, I've already raised kids, so I could see
my tiny humans for a little bit of time. But
then I want the parents to come out. I was
thinking about the parents' side, like, if you're dropping your
kids off to your your in laws or to your
parents for them to watch, do you say to them like,
we will be back by this time or do you
(05:25):
just kind of let the grandparents decide what they want
to do, because then you got all this extra free
one on one time with just you and your spouse
and you don't have to worry about that.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
Maybe the problem.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
The problem that's how you get more grandkids. That's for
sure a five five grave zero. If you're a parent,
can you shed some light on this when it comes
to dropping the tiny humans off at the grandparents? Lacy,
why don't you share with us from the parents' perspective
about dropping off kids to the grandparents?
Speaker 5 (05:54):
Well, when my son was younger, I kind of felt
like I had joint custody with my mother.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
I might theold call and be like, what time can
we get him?
Speaker 1 (06:05):
It's our weekend? Oh wow, and you know.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
And then return him late as possible.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
If he had a day off from school or he was.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
On spring break, it would be immediate call. So what
day can we come getting.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
When did that end? The Terrible twos?
Speaker 6 (06:21):
He was like thirteen. Wow, all right, So what you're
saying is I should actually put together a calendar and
where I designate my weekends and email it over to
Craig and Leslie, and then I set a calendar invite
for a meeting where we can discuss it.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
Oh my gosh, that is.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Way too extreme. Do you want to see these children again?
Because I think that might get you banned.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
You can't get your number blocked.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Listen, I a.
Speaker 7 (06:50):
Calendar, it would have been wonderful.
Speaker 5 (06:52):
It was just an assumption.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
That that was the weekend that they were going to
get it.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
So you're saying, I don't even have to tell them.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
I'll tell you what. It's pretty nice, like the first
two years of a baby's life, like mom wants to
spend every waking minute with the baby, wants to make
sure everything's good. Then the Terrible twos happened, and you're like,
I'll give this kid to anybody right now.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
Well, when he was thirteen, he was able to get
into more trouble with my mom and my stepdad, and
so it's.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
Kind of a okay, trouble or they're not in trouble,
these perfect, little, tiny human angel pies. They are just
learning how to express themselves.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
What was your son doing? Was he doing like grand larceny,
grand theft?
Speaker 4 (07:33):
You know, he'd come back with like a cut on
his arm or scratch and I'd be like, okay, so
where did we get that?
Speaker 5 (07:39):
And he'd be like, oh, Papa, let me cut a
tree down with him. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Learning I'm forty.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Two years old. I want to go to your parents' house.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
That's not the time that I can't remember what it was.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
But Leslie made the comment about like, oh, Emma's never
had I forget what kind of snack it was. And
then she looked at me and she's like that I
know of, And I'm like, will she may have had that?
Speaker 1 (08:05):
Yeah? Grandparents always have bad influences on their children.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
There's no doubt a lot of influences. Or are we
teaching them how to be themselves?
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Sure, you're just making more cultured. I get it. Thank
you very much. We appreciate you listening to the Spencer
Grave Show.
Speaker 5 (08:20):
Oh I absolutely love y'all. I listened to y'all every day.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Thank you. I had a moment yesterday where I had
a subtle complaint. These are the complaints that they're big
enough that they bother you, but they're not big enough
for you to plant your flag in the ground and
say I will die on this mountain trying to fight this.
Yesterday I went to a doctor's appointment and they said,
your doctor's appointment is set up a two fifteen. Great,
So I showed up at two o'clock. I got through
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any of the paperwork that they asked, and then I
sat there patiently waiting. Women came out of the doors
and she goes Davis, and guy gets up and walks
in there. Ten minutes later, another woman comes out and
she goes Shepherd. Guy gets up, he walks in there.
Three o'clock comes. My name hasn't been called. I had
an appointment at two fifteen. Well, when I looked at
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the paperwork, it said, if you're late by fifteen minutes
to your appointment, we will be forced to reschedule you
and charge you fifty dollars. Okay, I was there early.
I didn't get brought back until three fifteen, an hour
after my appointment. So my subtle complaint is, if you
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say you're going to charge me fifty bucks for being late,
I should get fifty bucks off my bill because you
were over an hour late. Do you guys have subtle
complaints things that aren't really that big of a deal?
Eight five five Grave, zero Blair. What would be a
subtle complaint from you?
Speaker 4 (09:44):
Nothing irks me more than when I go through the
self checkout, whether it be at Target, whether it be
at Walmart, wherever it might be, and people are going
through the self checkout knowing good and well they're not
how do I say this kindly doing it in a
speedy fashion if you were going to be slow, If
(10:05):
you barely know how to turn your cell phone on
self check it's not for you, Okay, if you're over
there and you're having to push seventy five buttons and
call somebody over to assist you fourteen times. Self checkout
should be for people that are, hey, I'm going to
be focused for the next five minutes getting in and out.
I know what I'm doing. I also know that I
am mentally capable of doing this on my own.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
People who want to be efficient. Isn't it the worst
two when you go through self checkout and then you
have to stop at the person at the door for
them to validate. It's like, if you want to validate
the items, put somebody on a register to watch where
get scanned exactly.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
And our hands are full because we're not taking a
card out to the car. If you don't have.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
To, Megan, what is your subtle complaint?
Speaker 2 (10:45):
I hate when I have to get up super early
for drill, and I mean I drive an hour and
a half, so i'm you know, I have to be
on the move, and I stop at the gas station
to make sure I got caffeine, a little snacky snack
and some sin, and I'm sitting there so early, hitting.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
There like this is the only open gas station. Where
are you? I can hear the Netflix going.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
No little bell, no little bell, nothing like that.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Nope.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
But I know, you know they're probably doing something, maybe
like making the breakfast sandwiches for the day or whatever.
But it's like, I'd hate being that person, like excuse me,
because you have to do it multiple times.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
You can't just do it once.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
They don't hear you, and there's no nice way to
say excuse me, really, and there's not a situation they
know they know. What's your subtle complaint? A five to
five grave zero it's up Scott.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
I like to say people pulling into the gas station
and pull up to the pumps, but they're not getting
gas or just going inside the door.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
And they park there.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
Oh that's what I do.
Speaker 5 (11:42):
Yes, and other people are trying to get gas.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
Hang on, Megan, you.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
Do that, yes, and I didn't think there is anything
wrong with that. Wow, there's so much wrong with that.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
You are part of the problem.
Speaker 3 (11:52):
I don't understand. Like, it's a lot easier to get
out of there.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
Yeah, but it's rude. What if somebody parks there, they
pump gas, but then they walk away, so they put
it on automatic, they walk away, they go inside, they
get whatever, and then they come out and it might
already finish. Are they just as guilty?
Speaker 4 (12:08):
I think if you're getting gas at that moment, you're okay,
you're good.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
Let me ask you this then, because I have gotten
some some weird looks before I have put the gas
nozzle into my vehicle.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
You're faking it?
Speaker 5 (12:28):
Is that bad?
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Scott? I'm very sorry, But Megan is the person that
you're mad at.
Speaker 5 (12:33):
It's me.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Okay, Thank you so much. The pros have a great day, Scott.
Speaker 5 (12:41):
You two.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Thanks by Matthew, what's your subtle complaint?
Speaker 5 (12:44):
My complaint is is that, yes, they should have people
checking you out at the register. Because I was at
Target and I was doing self checkout and my bill
was two hundred and ninety one dollars and I forgot
on the bottom of my cart. I didn't check out
a saying of pepsi zeros. I was arrested. What put
(13:06):
in jail me and my wife last March said they
thought we were trying to be a team to take
the pepsi zeros.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
Right now, you can be honest with us. You obviously
run a black market scheme of selling pepsi zeros to exactly.
Speaker 5 (13:21):
What, exactly, exactly right, And I'll tell you what. It
was absolutely embarrassing.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
We asked Michael for a subtle complaint and he's like,
my complaint is that I went to jail. That's really subtle.
Speaker 5 (13:38):
Yeah, and me and my wife both went to jail.
We went to jail in Hoover.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Well, at least it was a nice jail, you know.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
So me and Blair need to just keep doing.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
You don't want to run the rest. Matthew, thank you
very much. We appreciate your time. Hopefully you have a
great day and don't go to prison. Today.
Speaker 5 (13:57):
Yes, thank you, y'all have wonderful I love the show.
Keep doing what you're doing, and thank you for what
you do for a boe.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Thank you. We're number one with felons, so we appreciate that.
Thanks buddy, I'm a hard We appreciate it. Thank you
A five five Grave zero. Vicky, what's your subtle complaint.
Speaker 7 (14:14):
When you go to a gas session and you pay
it the pump and then you have to go inside
for the receipt?
Speaker 2 (14:22):
See cashier, cashier, I pull off and risk it exactly.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
I'm not doing that, Vicky. Thank you very much, appreciate you.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
It's how country are you? On the Spencer Grave Show? Emily,
where are you from? Hal make them proud today? Okay,
Meghan's gonna ask you three questions on how country are
you on a scale of one to country? Emily, how
country are you?
Speaker 7 (14:48):
I'd have to say a solid yes.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
We love that kind of confidence. Good luck, thank you.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
R and T, Primos and Zinc are companies that make
this noise?
Speaker 3 (15:06):
What are we talking about?
Speaker 1 (15:12):
We might have.
Speaker 3 (15:12):
To make even the way she said that.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
I know how to blow one of them duck holes.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Okay, let's see if you can get this one.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
If you jump in a country person's vehicle, tell us
what you would find on their floorboard.
Speaker 7 (15:27):
Oh, that depends on if you're jumping a woman's car
or a man's car.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
All right, break it down. Give us a woman read
in that car.
Speaker 7 (15:35):
A woman read that car, you probably find clothes, hair, tides, accessories,
baby wops, they got kids.
Speaker 4 (15:42):
Up with hair the whole nine yards.
Speaker 7 (15:45):
That's my car.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
Yeah, and then what about a guy's car.
Speaker 7 (15:49):
Guys, you can probably find empty dipped hands. You know,
works hard out whatever.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
So basically you're describing my vehicle.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
Alright, fdal question, tell us three outdoor activities you are
sure to find Southerners doing.
Speaker 3 (16:08):
He said, outdoor activity, yes, ma'am.
Speaker 7 (16:11):
Okay, uh, Well, summertime. You know you got the pontooning,
noodling activities at the lake. Oh, you got hunting fishing
every day? Oh yes, and then bonfires. You always find
a redneck person in that baronfire.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
What do you find a redneck doing in the winter.
Speaker 7 (16:31):
Mainly just hunting, sitting around a bonfire, drinking beer.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
Nice, trying to make a last minute garage mechanic move
on the car even though it's cold.
Speaker 3 (16:39):
Those are the worst, and that's.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
Always looking at it. Today she was right, she said
a nine or ten. She is a perfect score of ten.
We're gonna see Whiskey Myers.
Speaker 7 (16:54):
Oh my gosh, I'm so excited.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Well, Blair, is Blake Shelton doing Rocky Top after posting
Orange Square?
Speaker 3 (17:01):
Okay, I think he's not.
Speaker 4 (17:03):
But I'm even more confused now than I was beforehand
because he reposted the Orange Square with four white letters
F R U o.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
Oh, so it's gonna be the new title of one
of the songs. No, it's like F stands for something,
R stands for something you.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
And oh, maybe he's opening Maybe he's opening a frozen
yogurt place.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
It kind of sounds like froio. Oh okay doesn't it.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
And their primary colors are orange and white. Yes, it's
like a Sherbert type place.
Speaker 4 (17:37):
I mean, how did I not know that this is
what's going on? Congratulations to Blake and Gwyn opening a
new frozen yoga CRUIOH
Speaker 3 (17:44):
Very excited to go check it out.
Megan, you're getting ready to go to Savannah, but on
the way, you're going to stop where they film the
Vampire Diaries.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Oh yes, I'm excited. It's in Covington, Georgia, and I
have several friends who have gone to this this place
and it just seems so magical. I think maybe I'll
have to send g I, Joe on to Savannah without
me because I might just stay.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
What do they call it Mystic River.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Or something, Mystic Falls.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Yeah, they've actually filmed a lot of things there, Like
there was a movie back in the day called My
Cousin Vinnie with Joe Peshi I love when he was
an attorney, that was filmed all in that same area
of Covington, Georgia.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I had no idea about that.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
So, Blair, you've traveled so much, You've gone to New York.
I'm surprised that every time you go to New York
City you're not trying to find some TV show or
movie that's being filmed, because they're always there.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Okay, well, I did try to try down lawn and
order SVU, and secretly I'm doing that every single time
I go to New York City, and scene's on board
for that, like he actually is secretly like okay, like
this would actually be really cool. But I'll tell you
the one set that I would do just about anything
to go to is Grey's Anatomy, which you know, of
course they make it look like the show is set
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in Seattle, Washington, but they film it in La and
a couple of years ago, when we were in La,
I was trying so hard to convince our group we
only had one rental car. I was trying so hard
to convince them to drive fifty minutes one way in
LA traffic, which means probably two and a half three hours,
just so I could see the hospital that they use
for the exterior shots of Grey's Anatomy. Like I packed
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scrubs in my suitcase that I was going to whar
to take pictures outside of said hospital, and nobody would
get on board.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
I'm glad you brought up the picture, because that's exactly it.
Everybody just wants to stand in front of the one
famous thing. Like Ben box Office, Ben, who does a
lot of ticket giveaways for us, He's gone to Montana
just because he wanted to see all the Yellowstone stuff
that was happening. I can't really laugh at you guys either,
Because as a kid, I grew up on the lake
where they filmed a movie called What About Bob with
(01:57):
Bill Murray. I mean, this is in the early nineties,
and whenever people ask me where I'm from, it's like automatic,
I go, oh, I'm from Smith Mountain Lake, Virginia. It's
where they filmed the movie What About Bob. As I've
gotten older, I've realized that less and less people know
what that movie is. Probably like the two of you
have no idea what it is.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Yeah, okay, I've drawn a bike. We're a little on
the younger scale. Probably.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
It's a really funny movie. Though, If you're somebody that
actually traveled and wanted to see where your favorite TV
show or movie was filmed, where did you go? Tell
us what the set looked like? A five five Grave
zero giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot. It's
the good good on the Spencer Grave show, Blair, when
(02:42):
you were dress shopping for your wedding, how stressful of
the time is that?
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Honestly, you won't believe this, but for me, I was
kind of bride chilla. All of my other friends not
so much.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Okay, right, Chilla. I like that, thank you, much different
than Zillah, which is what everybody else was. There was
a woman who bought the dress of her dreams and
three days before her wedding found out that the order
had been canceled. That's when she took to social media
and shared everybody what the latest update was. She wasn't
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doing it for any other reason. Well, that's when somebody
who actually was planning on getting married but ended the
engagement had the same exact dress and it was in
the same exact size, said hey, I'll just give you mine,
So she shipped it to her overnight and she got
married the next day.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
Okay, way a step up, because and what kind of
luck are we talking about talking about timing?
Speaker 1 (03:42):
This wedding was meant to be, Blair, You and Steve
have a much different relationship than the majority of people.
Steve is significantly older and you he had grandchildren, So
when you married him, you end up getting this group
of tiny humans. They end up staying at your house.
How do you guys designate the time so the tiny
humans parents say we'll be there Sunday at nine to
(04:03):
pick them up, or do you guys just feel like
you've had enough of the tiny humans and you just say, hey,
we're bringing them by the house.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
I mean this wholeheartedly. I never have enough time with
the tiny humans, like give me, give me them every chance.
If I didn't have to be at work early in
the mornings, I would keep them during the week. And
so what we always do is we always make a
point to drive them back to their parents' house so
they're not actually coming to pick them up. And it
(04:32):
really does depend on what we have going on that
day when we get them back. Sometimes it's hey, after
we get them up, get them breakfast, you know, snack
all that, we'll bring them back to you. When it's
into summertime and our pool is open, we're like, just
don't ever come get your children because they have so
much fun in the pool and that kind of thing.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
So it truly just depends.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
But you do bring up a good point, because I
wonder if that's how all grandparents are, or if we're
the weird ones or what that looks like.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
I would probably say no, I think some grandparents are like,
you know, I've already raised kids, so I could see
my tiny humans for a little bit of time. But
then I want the parents to come out. I was
thinking about the parents' side, like, if you're dropping your
kids off to your your in laws or to your
parents for them to watch, do you say to them like,
we will be back by this time or do you
(05:25):
just kind of let the grandparents decide what they want
to do, because then you got all this extra free
one on one time with just you and your spouse
and you don't have to worry about that.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
Maybe the problem.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
The problem that's how you get more grandkids. That's for
sure a five five grave zero. If you're a parent,
can you shed some light on this when it comes
to dropping the tiny humans off at the grandparents? Lacy,
why don't you share with us from the parents' perspective
about dropping off kids to the grandparents?
Speaker 5 (05:54):
Well, when my son was younger, I kind of felt
like I had joint custody with my mother.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
I might theold call and be like, what time can
we get him?
Speaker 1 (06:05):
It's our weekend? Oh wow, and you know.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
And then return him late as possible.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
If he had a day off from school or he was.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
On spring break, it would be immediate call. So what
day can we come getting.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
When did that end? The Terrible twos?
Speaker 6 (06:21):
He was like thirteen. Wow, all right, So what you're
saying is I should actually put together a calendar and
where I designate my weekends and email it over to
Craig and Leslie, and then I set a calendar invite
for a meeting where we can discuss it.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
Oh my gosh, that is.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Way too extreme. Do you want to see these children again?
Because I think that might get you banned.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
You can't get your number blocked.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Listen, I a.
Speaker 7 (06:50):
Calendar, it would have been wonderful.
Speaker 5 (06:52):
It was just an assumption.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
That that was the weekend that they were going to
get it.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
So you're saying, I don't even have to tell them.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
I'll tell you what. It's pretty nice, like the first
two years of a baby's life, like mom wants to
spend every waking minute with the baby, wants to make
sure everything's good. Then the Terrible twos happened, and you're like,
I'll give this kid to anybody right now.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
Well, when he was thirteen, he was able to get
into more trouble with my mom and my stepdad, and
so it's.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
Kind of a okay, trouble or they're not in trouble,
these perfect, little, tiny human angel pies. They are just
learning how to express themselves.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
What was your son doing? Was he doing like grand larceny,
grand theft?
Speaker 4 (07:33):
You know, he'd come back with like a cut on
his arm or scratch and I'd be like, okay, so
where did we get that?
Speaker 5 (07:39):
And he'd be like, oh, Papa, let me cut a
tree down with him. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Learning I'm forty.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Two years old. I want to go to your parents' house.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
That's not the time that I can't remember what it was.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
But Leslie made the comment about like, oh, Emma's never
had I forget what kind of snack it was. And
then she looked at me and she's like that I
know of, And I'm like, will she may have had that?
Speaker 1 (08:05):
Yeah? Grandparents always have bad influences on their children.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
There's no doubt a lot of influences. Or are we
teaching them how to be themselves?
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Sure, you're just making more cultured. I get it. Thank
you very much. We appreciate you listening to the Spencer
Grave Show.
Speaker 5 (08:20):
Oh I absolutely love y'all. I listened to y'all every day.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Thank you. I had a moment yesterday where I had
a subtle complaint. These are the complaints that they're big
enough that they bother you, but they're not big enough
for you to plant your flag in the ground and
say I will die on this mountain trying to fight this.
Yesterday I went to a doctor's appointment and they said,
your doctor's appointment is set up a two fifteen. Great,
So I showed up at two o'clock. I got through
(08:44):
any of the paperwork that they asked, and then I
sat there patiently waiting. Women came out of the doors
and she goes Davis, and guy gets up and walks
in there. Ten minutes later, another woman comes out and
she goes Shepherd. Guy gets up, he walks in there.
Three o'clock comes. My name hasn't been called. I had
an appointment at two fifteen. Well, when I looked at
(09:06):
the paperwork, it said, if you're late by fifteen minutes
to your appointment, we will be forced to reschedule you
and charge you fifty dollars. Okay, I was there early.
I didn't get brought back until three fifteen, an hour
after my appointment. So my subtle complaint is, if you
(09:28):
say you're going to charge me fifty bucks for being late,
I should get fifty bucks off my bill because you
were over an hour late. Do you guys have subtle
complaints things that aren't really that big of a deal?
Eight five five Grave, zero Blair. What would be a
subtle complaint from you?
Speaker 4 (09:44):
Nothing irks me more than when I go through the
self checkout, whether it be at Target, whether it be
at Walmart, wherever it might be, and people are going
through the self checkout knowing good and well they're not
how do I say this kindly doing it in a
speedy fashion if you were going to be slow, If
(10:05):
you barely know how to turn your cell phone on
self check it's not for you, Okay, if you're over
there and you're having to push seventy five buttons and
call somebody over to assist you fourteen times. Self checkout
should be for people that are, hey, I'm going to
be focused for the next five minutes getting in and out.
I know what I'm doing. I also know that I
am mentally capable of doing this on my own.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
People who want to be efficient. Isn't it the worst
two when you go through self checkout and then you
have to stop at the person at the door for
them to validate. It's like, if you want to validate
the items, put somebody on a register to watch where
get scanned exactly.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
And our hands are full because we're not taking a
card out to the car. If you don't have.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
To, Megan, what is your subtle complaint?
Speaker 2 (10:45):
I hate when I have to get up super early
for drill, and I mean I drive an hour and
a half, so i'm you know, I have to be
on the move, and I stop at the gas station
to make sure I got caffeine, a little snacky snack
and some sin, and I'm sitting there so early, hitting.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
There like this is the only open gas station. Where
are you? I can hear the Netflix going.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
No little bell, no little bell, nothing like that.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Nope.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
But I know, you know they're probably doing something, maybe
like making the breakfast sandwiches for the day or whatever.
But it's like, I'd hate being that person, like excuse me,
because you have to do it multiple times.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
You can't just do it once.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
They don't hear you, and there's no nice way to
say excuse me, really, and there's not a situation they
know they know. What's your subtle complaint? A five to
five grave zero it's up Scott.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
I like to say people pulling into the gas station
and pull up to the pumps, but they're not getting
gas or just going inside the door.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
And they park there.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
Oh that's what I do.
Speaker 5 (11:42):
Yes, and other people are trying to get gas.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
Hang on, Megan, you.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
Do that, yes, and I didn't think there is anything
wrong with that. Wow, there's so much wrong with that.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
You are part of the problem.
Speaker 3 (11:52):
I don't understand. Like, it's a lot easier to get
out of there.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
Yeah, but it's rude. What if somebody parks there, they
pump gas, but then they walk away, so they put
it on automatic, they walk away, they go inside, they
get whatever, and then they come out and it might
already finish. Are they just as guilty?
Speaker 4 (12:08):
I think if you're getting gas at that moment, you're okay,
you're good.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
Let me ask you this then, because I have gotten
some some weird looks before I have put the gas
nozzle into my vehicle.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
You're faking it?
Speaker 5 (12:28):
Is that bad?
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Scott? I'm very sorry, But Megan is the person that
you're mad at.
Speaker 5 (12:33):
It's me.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Okay, Thank you so much. The pros have a great day, Scott.
Speaker 5 (12:41):
You two.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Thanks by Matthew, what's your subtle complaint?
Speaker 5 (12:44):
My complaint is is that, yes, they should have people
checking you out at the register. Because I was at
Target and I was doing self checkout and my bill
was two hundred and ninety one dollars and I forgot
on the bottom of my cart. I didn't check out
a saying of pepsi zeros. I was arrested. What put
(13:06):
in jail me and my wife last March said they
thought we were trying to be a team to take
the pepsi zeros.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
Right now, you can be honest with us. You obviously
run a black market scheme of selling pepsi zeros to exactly.
Speaker 5 (13:21):
What, exactly, exactly right, And I'll tell you what. It
was absolutely embarrassing.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
We asked Michael for a subtle complaint and he's like,
my complaint is that I went to jail. That's really subtle.
Speaker 5 (13:38):
Yeah, and me and my wife both went to jail.
We went to jail in Hoover.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Well, at least it was a nice jail, you know.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
So me and Blair need to just keep doing.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
You don't want to run the rest. Matthew, thank you
very much. We appreciate your time. Hopefully you have a
great day and don't go to prison. Today.
Speaker 5 (13:57):
Yes, thank you, y'all have wonderful I love the show.
Keep doing what you're doing, and thank you for what
you do for a boe.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Thank you. We're number one with felons, so we appreciate that.
Thanks buddy, I'm a hard We appreciate it. Thank you
A five five Grave zero. Vicky, what's your subtle complaint.
Speaker 7 (14:14):
When you go to a gas session and you pay
it the pump and then you have to go inside
for the receipt?
Speaker 2 (14:22):
See cashier, cashier, I pull off and risk it exactly.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
I'm not doing that, Vicky. Thank you very much, appreciate you.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
It's how country are you? On the Spencer Grave Show? Emily,
where are you from? Hal make them proud today? Okay,
Meghan's gonna ask you three questions on how country are
you on a scale of one to country? Emily, how
country are you?
Speaker 7 (14:48):
I'd have to say a solid yes.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
We love that kind of confidence. Good luck, thank you.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
R and T, Primos and Zinc are companies that make
this noise?
Speaker 3 (15:06):
What are we talking about?
Speaker 1 (15:12):
We might have.
Speaker 3 (15:12):
To make even the way she said that.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
I know how to blow one of them duck holes.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Okay, let's see if you can get this one.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
If you jump in a country person's vehicle, tell us
what you would find on their floorboard.
Speaker 7 (15:27):
Oh, that depends on if you're jumping a woman's car
or a man's car.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
All right, break it down. Give us a woman read
in that car.
Speaker 7 (15:35):
A woman read that car, you probably find clothes, hair, tides, accessories,
baby wops, they got kids.
Speaker 4 (15:42):
Up with hair the whole nine yards.
Speaker 7 (15:45):
That's my car.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
Yeah, and then what about a guy's car.
Speaker 7 (15:49):
Guys, you can probably find empty dipped hands. You know,
works hard out whatever.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
So basically you're describing my vehicle.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
Alright, fdal question, tell us three outdoor activities you are
sure to find Southerners doing.
Speaker 3 (16:08):
He said, outdoor activity, yes, ma'am.
Speaker 7 (16:11):
Okay, uh, Well, summertime. You know you got the pontooning,
noodling activities at the lake. Oh, you got hunting fishing
every day? Oh yes, and then bonfires. You always find
a redneck person in that baronfire.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
What do you find a redneck doing in the winter.
Speaker 7 (16:31):
Mainly just hunting, sitting around a bonfire, drinking beer.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
Nice, trying to make a last minute garage mechanic move
on the car even though it's cold.
Speaker 3 (16:39):
Those are the worst, and that's.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
Always looking at it. Today she was right, she said
a nine or ten. She is a perfect score of ten.
We're gonna see Whiskey Myers.
Speaker 7 (16:54):
Oh my gosh, I'm so excited.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Well, Blair, is Blake Shelton doing Rocky Top after posting
Orange Square?
Speaker 3 (17:01):
Okay, I think he's not.
Speaker 4 (17:03):
But I'm even more confused now than I was beforehand
because he reposted the Orange Square with four white letters
F R U o.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
Oh, so it's gonna be the new title of one
of the songs. No, it's like F stands for something,
R stands for something you.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
And oh, maybe he's opening Maybe he's opening a frozen
yogurt place.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
It kind of sounds like froio. Oh okay doesn't it.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
And their primary colors are orange and white. Yes, it's
like a Sherbert type place.
Speaker 4 (17:37):
I mean, how did I not know that this is
what's going on? Congratulations to Blake and Gwyn opening a
new frozen yoga CRUIOH
Speaker 3 (17:44):
Very excited to go check it out.
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