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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Is there a chance that the semi continues to back
up moving closer for Megan and g I Joe to
move in together, eventually get engaged and get married, have
lots of babies. There's one thing that really needs to
take place, and you want it to happen now because
of selfish reasons. What is it?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Our dogs meeting?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
I wanted our dogs to meet before because I thought
that would help in my you know, attempt to get
him to move in with me.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
But now it's because his wonderful sweet mother has his
dog with her.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Okay, I want my dog to be able to be
babysit by its future grandmother, so I don't have to
search for a dog sitter anymore.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
We go out of the.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Only reason why you want your dogs to meet is
so you have somebody built in that will watch your dogs.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Yes, she she's offered to do this. Is that a
yes or no?
Speaker 4 (00:53):
No?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
No, she hasn't.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
She's probably learning right now.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
But this is why Megan's fine.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
But she spoils his dog and she has her own
dog too. Those two dogs are so spoiled, like I've
never seen the dog be so taken care of. She
makes gourmet meals for these dogs. It is the cutest
thing ever. So that they have a good balanced diet.
And I just think that my dog could benefit from
meeting its future grandmother.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
You'll never get your dog back. Your dog will never
want to leave.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
She probably she probably won't. She's acting out when Gi
Joe leaves the house.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
I can only imagine, like when she goes over there,
she's gonna be so grammat at me.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Yeah, this place is awesome. I've got two friends here,
I get gourmet meals. Yes, I got a new floor
that I could poop on.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
She better behave if she goes to her future grandmother's house,
she better behaves.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Can you imagine if she acts a fool and all
of a sudden, Gi Joe's Mom's like, you know, I'd
love to watch.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
The dogs, but what if that's the breaking point. What
if she's like, look, I really liked Megan for a while,
but that dog, like it's too much.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
She giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot. It's
the good good on the Spencer Grave Show. Just give me.
Hell yeah. If you got a scholarship in college, hell yeah, wow,
good for you.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
I got an academic one. Oh yeah, I YEA said no,
Alma said no, and then I was like, no.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
I did idea. How about a Georgia high schooler who's
been accepted to fifty eight colleges and has earned over
a million dollars in scholarships.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
That's crazy, is wild, but so cool for them.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Manavis Presley, a high school senior from Georgia, has fifty
eight colleges that want him as an active student leader.
He manages the cheer teams, serves as the president of
multiple organizations, and is the senior class vice president. Wow,
couldn't get to the presidency.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
And is he related to Elvis? Is that why he
got all the Probably?
Speaker 1 (02:56):
I don't know if Mavis Presley is or not, but
knas I've got some wild news coming out of Houston,
Texas that I wanted to share with you. Okay, there's
a guy named Orlando Coleman. He's been pretending to be
a bishop, and he traveled around the country to different churches.
But he wasn't leaving town empty handed. He would leave
(03:20):
married to a woman in that church.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
What, oh my gosh, I thought you were gonna say
he would steal the collections. Well, that would have been
a little bit better.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
I think he kind of did. He married ten women. Okay, okay,
Orlando Coleman only married these women for financial gain. But
he married the wrong woman in Houston because she found
checks from another woman, did her own investigation and found
out that Coleman was actually married to nine other women,
(03:50):
including herself. What. He was sentenced this week to three
weeks behind bars, So you can go.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
To jail for marrying multiple people.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
I know, talk about two prison sentences.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
I guess he should have just started off in Utah
and made its way around the state.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Be married to ten different women, and go to jail.
He's probably like, jail's a break.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Does he have to divorce everyone?
Speaker 5 (04:12):
I wonder you got me broke broke buddy.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
When you guys download the new iHeartRadio app, or at
least update it, you'll get a lot of new features.
You can set the radio station as a preset. You
can even set the Spencer Graves show as a preset.
Talkback is still on there, so you click the microphone.
You can share with us whatever you want. Michelle left
this one for us last night. Obviously it was a
rough night in her household.
Speaker 6 (04:35):
I'm looking for advice on whether or not I should
leave my marriage. My husband's been lying to me about
everything big and small for a very long time. Before
the holidays, I finally told him I was done, but
he begged me for another chance and promise that he
would change. Things were better for a couple months, but
recently he's breaking promises again, including lying about finishing school.
(04:56):
He quit with only one month left after I spent
weeks in courage. We have two kids, and I'm torn
between wanting out for good and feeling guilty because he'll
have nowhere to go. I just start school myself, and
I don't have an income, so I'm stuck. How do
I know if it's finally time to leave, especially when
kids are involved?
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Michelle, thank you for that, and I don't think now
is the right time to leave. I think you need
to game plan because you said you just started school,
you say that you don't have a job, there's two
kids involved. It's not you just getting out of a situation.
You're trying to escape a situation along with your children.
So you got to make sure you're set up. So
I suggest start counseling. While you're doing that, good, bad,
(05:38):
or indifferent, start to set your future up with possibility
of having a job, figuring out what your school calendar
is going to be, like a way that you can
figure out childcare, because man, that's expensive twelve hundred bucks
for some people every single month, and you got to
be able to pay for that.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Thoughts on this, Blair, I'm totally opposite from you. I
think that from what I'm hearing. First of all, I'm
so sorry you're going through this because I can't imagine
having to even question ending a marriage or not. But
the fact that there's kids involved definitely does complicate things.
But from what I'm hearing, your decision's kind of already
(06:14):
made up. You're just trying to make it as easy
as possible. And I think at the end of the day,
it's not going to be easy, no matter how set
up you feel or don't feel. And I think that
staying in something that is no longer serving you is
just not okay.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
And I think that you deserve.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Somebody that's going to meet you at the same stage
of life you're at support you.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
You can support them.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
There has to be a trust level there, and clearly
that's not there.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
And it's not like.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
You haven't given him chances, and I feel like your
mind's made up. And if that is the case, I
feel like you know you're going to be a resilient
woman and you're going to figure it out.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Eight five five Graves zero. Help Michelle. She's trying to
figure out if she should get out of her relationship. Megan,
you're dating g I, Joe. You guys have yet to
get engaged or yet to marry. What would you say
to Michelle?
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Well, I've never.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
Been married, but I have been stuck in a relationships
I couldn't get out of before. And most of the time,
I feel like when you're sharing the negative sides about
your relationship, it's because there's a lot more going on
that you're not sharing. So I just really hope that
she's able to get on the internet, look up local
resources if she needs them, and make the best decision
(07:28):
for herself and her children.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Why couldn't you get out of those relationships?
Speaker 3 (07:31):
There's just sometimes especially when you're young, and even when
you're not young, but when you're with toxic people who
they start to drain the life from you, they start
to isolate you from people, and they become your whole world.
And when you're in that relationship in any type, shape
or form, it it's difficult to leave because you forget.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
What you were like before the relationship A.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Five to five grave zero help. Michelle questioning whether or
not she needs to get out of her mane.
Speaker 6 (08:00):
I'm looking for advice on whether or not I should
leave my marriage. My husband's been lying to me about
everything big and small for a very long time. Before
the holidays, I finally told him I was done, but
he begged me for another chance and promised that he
would change. Things were better for a couple months, but
recently he's breaking promises again, including lying about finishing school.
(08:21):
He quit with only one month left after I spent
weeks encouraging him. We have two kids, and I'm torn
between wanting out for good and feeling guilty because he'll
have nowhere to go. I just started school myself, and
I don't have an income, so I'm stuck. How do
I know if it's finally time to leave, especially when
kids are involved?
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Jen, what's your opinion?
Speaker 7 (08:43):
Oh, well, that's that's really tough, and I can I
can relate. I went through a pretty crappy relationship where
being firstaised and said and said never accomplished, and I
finally did leave. My opinion and my advice would be
just find that source of income and find somewhere that
you can go and be safe and then make that plunge.
(09:04):
It sucks to quote unquote tear your family apart, but
it's better for your kids to see you happy and healthy.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Jen, when you were talking about the relationship that you
were in, was that a marriage or a longtime boyfriend?
Speaker 7 (09:16):
Longtime boyfriend? But we do have children together.
Speaker 8 (09:19):
Oh, we were together for over a decade.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
So he just never wanted to commit and put a
ring on your finger, and that's what you were looking for.
Speaker 9 (09:27):
You know.
Speaker 7 (09:27):
I'm actually the one that held off on marriage because
I could see it coming, but I got complacence.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
It's so stupid, but it's okay. Let's have different strokes
for different folks. You're happier now, yes, perfect? Well, thank you, Jen,
appreciate you, No.
Speaker 7 (09:40):
Worry is have good day.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
It's how country are you? On The Spencer Grave Show, Alicia,
where are you from?
Speaker 8 (09:48):
I'm from huey Town.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
Personality plus is on the phone with us Alicia from
huey Town. On a scale of one to country, how
country are.
Speaker 8 (09:54):
You probably a six and a half.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Good, prove it today. Megan's got three questions.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Okay, Alicia finished this lyric for us.
Speaker 8 (10:07):
Take a little note, yes, a little oh no, you
take a little note.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
Right.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
Question number two you were just left.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Alicia, You sound like you come from a fun country family.
If we came to your redneck family reunion, what would
we see?
Speaker 8 (10:38):
Chaos functional?
Speaker 4 (10:41):
Chaos dysfunctional is really the key word there, So you
put the f U in dysfunctional.
Speaker 8 (10:48):
Well there's other words that go with that sea but anyways, okay.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
Here we go. Final question on how country are you doing? Great?
Speaker 3 (10:56):
What's something that you've seen or heard out in the
country that seemed kind of like a tall tail you
heard growing up.
Speaker 8 (11:03):
Probably that cows lay down before rain. But until I
moved out there from trustful area years ago, I didn't
believe it was true. But it's true, very.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Proven, very good. She is a nine point three today.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
Oh yeah, oh wow.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
N A random guy at a gas station asked Megan
to draw a tattoo for him.
Speaker 7 (11:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
He's one of my, you know, friends that I go
in and say hi to him while I'm getting my
zen every day.
Speaker 4 (11:31):
His name, I don't I don't want to sound like fine,
everything's fine, everything's fine.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
But you don't know his name.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
I have a hard time remembering things.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
That's okay. So you don't know who this guy is.
You just see him all the time, and now he
wants you to draw him a permanent tattoo.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Well we're friends, you know, Like I go in there
and we talk about the zen of the day and
we talk about he's actually really cool guy. He does
all this all these cool leather working stuff, and I
actually know a lot about him and the stuff that
he's working on.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
It's cool.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
Well, he asked me if I was good at drawing,
and asked if maybe I could sketch up some stuff
for him to add to his tattoo that he's got.
It's really cool and it's very family oriented. And I
was like, oh, that would be kind of cool.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
I've never done that before, So what are you thinking
about sketching?
Speaker 3 (12:16):
Well, he wanted to get like a dolphin, and so
I was like, that would be really cool.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
I don't know how to draw one back and try.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
He could just go at spring break to Myrtle Beach
or down to PCB and just pick one off the wall.
They do dolphins all the.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Time, you wouldn't be getting a Megan original.
Speaker 4 (12:32):
It's very true, and he understands the significance of that.
Speaker 5 (12:35):
Yeah, I was.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Like, this is so cool.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
Now would you be upset if you actually sketched a
tattoo and let's just say that it didn't come out
the best? In fact, while you doodle today, because I
know you like doing that, why don't you doodle up
a dolphin. We'll take a picture of it. We'll put
up on the Spencer Grave Show, Facebook and Instagram. If
he doesn't get it exactly the way that you do it,
would you be upset?
Speaker 4 (12:58):
No?
Speaker 3 (12:58):
Actually, when I delivered to him my sketch, I'm going
to feel a lot of pressure because I don't want
anyone to feel like they have to do something because
I have made it.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
Like I love doing my crafts.
Speaker 3 (13:14):
I love doing my art at home, but I don't
really show people it except g I Joe when he
gets all the craps that I make him.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
So would you be okay knowing that somebody took an
idea of a dolphin and they completely reworked yours, then
it wouldn't really be your work of art?
Speaker 2 (13:30):
Well, but he still asked me to.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
And if you don't like something it's going to be
permanently on your body, then don't get that.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
Would you guys allow Meghan Terry to draw a tattoo
for you?
Speaker 4 (13:41):
Eight?
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Five five graves zero? Would you let Megan give you
a tattoo?
Speaker 9 (13:45):
Sure?
Speaker 5 (13:46):
Just got it my clothing.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
I like this.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
Megan may have a side hustle. Screw those multi level
marketing ideas. Megan should just sell sketches for tattoos.
Speaker 5 (13:58):
I don't have to sell candles anymore, Megan.
Speaker 4 (14:02):
If you want this kind of support from everybody else,
let's flip the tables a little bit.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
Would you let me draw you a tattoo? Blair? Yes,
you would, absolutely.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
That sounds like Blair. Can you actually draw?
Speaker 2 (14:18):
Absolutely not?
Speaker 5 (14:20):
Oh no, you could, but you've already committed.
Speaker 4 (14:26):
Yes, it's a contract spun around. I'm confused about I
can't draw, but I can trace, and I'm going to
trace the no Shoes Nation flag and we can get matching.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
Isn't MTV like random tattoos?
Speaker 9 (14:42):
Get?
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Yeah, it is a batter of my husband's bald head.
Which one do you want? I don't want Steve's bald head. No,
and I don't want Kenny Chesney on me.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
This is pretty wild. But you know when people win
the lottery, most of the time the big billion dollar
jackpots or one with an office for multiple people playing
in a pool. Not the case in California. She just
won one point two billion in Mega millions and she
is the only person associated to the ticket.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
Please tell me that she has sometime it ties to
Davis's that may have been from West Tennessee. Ish.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
I bet she has a long list of long lost
relatives that are coming out of the woodwork. She won
this and took a lump sum payment of five hundred
and seventy one million dollars.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Oh, oh my gosh, she's not working today.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Would you do that if you won that kind of money?
Would you quit your job or would you continue to
work just to have something to do.
Speaker 4 (15:46):
My psychopathic husband would go to work like the next day,
like nothing happened.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
I love y'all.
Speaker 4 (15:53):
I'm headed to Saint John and I don't know if
y'all ever see me again.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
Would you let people know?
Speaker 2 (15:58):
No, Well, Bobby d would know. Course, he'd be with
me in Saint John.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
So you would move your entire family, the ones that
you love.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
No, no, no, no, no no.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
I didn't say I can come to not I hope
fam everybody else you're just going to get a notice
of death and it's going to go, oh man, what
happened to Blair?
Speaker 4 (16:17):
So is why people should share locations, Megan, because then
you would be like, oh, this is odd.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
No I have your location, Just don't have.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
She'll know where you are, but you won't know if
she's coming.
Speaker 9 (16:32):
I've never been on the radio before ever, like my
voice or anything, and I was like, I want to
give it a shot.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
Is that a dream of yours?
Speaker 9 (16:39):
Yes, it is that.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
Your dream is to have your voice on the radio. Yeah, congratulations,
we make dreams happen. You're on the radio.
Speaker 9 (16:47):
Really yeah, Oh my gosh, crazy.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
Listen, this is your moment to shine. What do you
want to say to everybody in your fifteen seconds of fame?
Speaker 9 (16:57):
I wish the younger generation good look in the future.
And if I'm a teen mom, but if anybody out
there is a teen mom, just go with your gut,
because that's the best way to go. I have two kids.
My oldest is my senior year baby, but I still
graduated with him. Don't let anything stop you from being
(17:18):
a mom.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
Ladies and gentlemen, the best fifteen seconds of fame that
we can have right here. You were just on the radio. Congratulations,
wait to be on the Spencer Grave Show. Is your debut?
Speaker 9 (17:28):
Oh my gosh, thank you so much
Is there a chance that the semi continues to back
up moving closer for Megan and g I Joe to
move in together, eventually get engaged and get married, have
lots of babies. There's one thing that really needs to
take place, and you want it to happen now because
of selfish reasons. What is it?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Our dogs meeting?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
I wanted our dogs to meet before because I thought
that would help in my you know, attempt to get
him to move in with me.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
But now it's because his wonderful sweet mother has his
dog with her.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Okay, I want my dog to be able to be
babysit by its future grandmother, so I don't have to
search for a dog sitter anymore.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
We go out of the.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Only reason why you want your dogs to meet is
so you have somebody built in that will watch your dogs.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Yes, she she's offered to do this. Is that a
yes or no?
Speaker 4 (00:53):
No?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
No, she hasn't.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
She's probably learning right now.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
But this is why Megan's fine.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
But she spoils his dog and she has her own
dog too. Those two dogs are so spoiled, like I've
never seen the dog be so taken care of. She
makes gourmet meals for these dogs. It is the cutest
thing ever. So that they have a good balanced diet.
And I just think that my dog could benefit from
meeting its future grandmother.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
You'll never get your dog back. Your dog will never
want to leave.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
She probably she probably won't. She's acting out when Gi
Joe leaves the house.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
I can only imagine, like when she goes over there,
she's gonna be so grammat at me.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Yeah, this place is awesome. I've got two friends here,
I get gourmet meals. Yes, I got a new floor
that I could poop on.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
She better behave if she goes to her future grandmother's house,
she better behaves.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Can you imagine if she acts a fool and all
of a sudden, Gi Joe's Mom's like, you know, I'd
love to watch.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
The dogs, but what if that's the breaking point. What
if she's like, look, I really liked Megan for a while,
but that dog, like it's too much.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
She giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot. It's
the good good on the Spencer Grave Show. Just give me.
Hell yeah. If you got a scholarship in college, hell yeah, wow,
good for you.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
I got an academic one. Oh yeah, I YEA said no,
Alma said no, and then I was like, no.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
I did idea. How about a Georgia high schooler who's
been accepted to fifty eight colleges and has earned over
a million dollars in scholarships.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
That's crazy, is wild, but so cool for them.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Manavis Presley, a high school senior from Georgia, has fifty
eight colleges that want him as an active student leader.
He manages the cheer teams, serves as the president of
multiple organizations, and is the senior class vice president. Wow,
couldn't get to the presidency.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
And is he related to Elvis? Is that why he
got all the Probably?
Speaker 1 (02:56):
I don't know if Mavis Presley is or not, but
knas I've got some wild news coming out of Houston,
Texas that I wanted to share with you. Okay, there's
a guy named Orlando Coleman. He's been pretending to be
a bishop, and he traveled around the country to different churches.
But he wasn't leaving town empty handed. He would leave
(03:20):
married to a woman in that church.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
What, oh my gosh, I thought you were gonna say
he would steal the collections. Well, that would have been
a little bit better.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
I think he kind of did. He married ten women. Okay, okay,
Orlando Coleman only married these women for financial gain. But
he married the wrong woman in Houston because she found
checks from another woman, did her own investigation and found
out that Coleman was actually married to nine other women,
(03:50):
including herself. What. He was sentenced this week to three
weeks behind bars, So you can go.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
To jail for marrying multiple people.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
I know, talk about two prison sentences.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
I guess he should have just started off in Utah
and made its way around the state.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Be married to ten different women, and go to jail.
He's probably like, jail's a break.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Does he have to divorce everyone?
Speaker 5 (04:12):
I wonder you got me broke broke buddy.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
When you guys download the new iHeartRadio app, or at
least update it, you'll get a lot of new features.
You can set the radio station as a preset. You
can even set the Spencer Graves show as a preset.
Talkback is still on there, so you click the microphone.
You can share with us whatever you want. Michelle left
this one for us last night. Obviously it was a
rough night in her household.
Speaker 6 (04:35):
I'm looking for advice on whether or not I should
leave my marriage. My husband's been lying to me about
everything big and small for a very long time. Before
the holidays, I finally told him I was done, but
he begged me for another chance and promise that he
would change. Things were better for a couple months, but
recently he's breaking promises again, including lying about finishing school.
(04:56):
He quit with only one month left after I spent
weeks in courage. We have two kids, and I'm torn
between wanting out for good and feeling guilty because he'll
have nowhere to go. I just start school myself, and
I don't have an income, so I'm stuck. How do
I know if it's finally time to leave, especially when
kids are involved?
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Michelle, thank you for that, and I don't think now
is the right time to leave. I think you need
to game plan because you said you just started school,
you say that you don't have a job, there's two
kids involved. It's not you just getting out of a situation.
You're trying to escape a situation along with your children.
So you got to make sure you're set up. So
I suggest start counseling. While you're doing that, good, bad,
(05:38):
or indifferent, start to set your future up with possibility
of having a job, figuring out what your school calendar
is going to be, like a way that you can
figure out childcare, because man, that's expensive twelve hundred bucks
for some people every single month, and you got to
be able to pay for that.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Thoughts on this, Blair, I'm totally opposite from you. I
think that from what I'm hearing. First of all, I'm
so sorry you're going through this because I can't imagine
having to even question ending a marriage or not. But
the fact that there's kids involved definitely does complicate things.
But from what I'm hearing, your decision's kind of already
(06:14):
made up. You're just trying to make it as easy
as possible. And I think at the end of the day,
it's not going to be easy, no matter how set
up you feel or don't feel. And I think that
staying in something that is no longer serving you is
just not okay.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
And I think that you deserve.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Somebody that's going to meet you at the same stage
of life you're at support you.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
You can support them.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
There has to be a trust level there, and clearly
that's not there.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
And it's not like.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
You haven't given him chances, and I feel like your
mind's made up. And if that is the case, I
feel like you know you're going to be a resilient
woman and you're going to figure it out.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Eight five five Graves zero. Help Michelle. She's trying to
figure out if she should get out of her relationship. Megan,
you're dating g I, Joe. You guys have yet to
get engaged or yet to marry. What would you say
to Michelle?
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Well, I've never.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
Been married, but I have been stuck in a relationships
I couldn't get out of before. And most of the time,
I feel like when you're sharing the negative sides about
your relationship, it's because there's a lot more going on
that you're not sharing. So I just really hope that
she's able to get on the internet, look up local
resources if she needs them, and make the best decision
(07:28):
for herself and her children.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Why couldn't you get out of those relationships?
Speaker 3 (07:31):
There's just sometimes especially when you're young, and even when
you're not young, but when you're with toxic people who
they start to drain the life from you, they start
to isolate you from people, and they become your whole world.
And when you're in that relationship in any type, shape
or form, it it's difficult to leave because you forget.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
What you were like before the relationship A.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Five to five grave zero help. Michelle questioning whether or
not she needs to get out of her mane.
Speaker 6 (08:00):
I'm looking for advice on whether or not I should
leave my marriage. My husband's been lying to me about
everything big and small for a very long time. Before
the holidays, I finally told him I was done, but
he begged me for another chance and promised that he
would change. Things were better for a couple months, but
recently he's breaking promises again, including lying about finishing school.
(08:21):
He quit with only one month left after I spent
weeks encouraging him. We have two kids, and I'm torn
between wanting out for good and feeling guilty because he'll
have nowhere to go. I just started school myself, and
I don't have an income, so I'm stuck. How do
I know if it's finally time to leave, especially when
kids are involved?
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Jen, what's your opinion?
Speaker 7 (08:43):
Oh, well, that's that's really tough, and I can I
can relate. I went through a pretty crappy relationship where
being firstaised and said and said never accomplished, and I
finally did leave. My opinion and my advice would be
just find that source of income and find somewhere that
you can go and be safe and then make that plunge.
(09:04):
It sucks to quote unquote tear your family apart, but
it's better for your kids to see you happy and healthy.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Jen, when you were talking about the relationship that you
were in, was that a marriage or a longtime boyfriend?
Speaker 7 (09:16):
Longtime boyfriend? But we do have children together.
Speaker 8 (09:19):
Oh, we were together for over a decade.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
So he just never wanted to commit and put a
ring on your finger, and that's what you were looking for.
Speaker 9 (09:27):
You know.
Speaker 7 (09:27):
I'm actually the one that held off on marriage because
I could see it coming, but I got complacence.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
It's so stupid, but it's okay. Let's have different strokes
for different folks. You're happier now, yes, perfect? Well, thank you, Jen,
appreciate you, No.
Speaker 7 (09:40):
Worry is have good day.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
It's how country are you? On The Spencer Grave Show, Alicia,
where are you from?
Speaker 8 (09:48):
I'm from huey Town.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
Personality plus is on the phone with us Alicia from
huey Town. On a scale of one to country, how
country are.
Speaker 8 (09:54):
You probably a six and a half.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Good, prove it today. Megan's got three questions.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Okay, Alicia finished this lyric for us.
Speaker 8 (10:07):
Take a little note, yes, a little oh no, you
take a little note.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
Right.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
Question number two you were just left.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Alicia, You sound like you come from a fun country family.
If we came to your redneck family reunion, what would
we see?
Speaker 8 (10:38):
Chaos functional?
Speaker 4 (10:41):
Chaos dysfunctional is really the key word there, So you
put the f U in dysfunctional.
Speaker 8 (10:48):
Well there's other words that go with that sea but anyways, okay.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
Here we go. Final question on how country are you doing? Great?
Speaker 3 (10:56):
What's something that you've seen or heard out in the
country that seemed kind of like a tall tail you
heard growing up.
Speaker 8 (11:03):
Probably that cows lay down before rain. But until I
moved out there from trustful area years ago, I didn't
believe it was true. But it's true, very.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Proven, very good. She is a nine point three today.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
Oh yeah, oh wow.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
N A random guy at a gas station asked Megan
to draw a tattoo for him.
Speaker 7 (11:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
He's one of my, you know, friends that I go
in and say hi to him while I'm getting my
zen every day.
Speaker 4 (11:31):
His name, I don't I don't want to sound like fine,
everything's fine, everything's fine.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
But you don't know his name.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
I have a hard time remembering things.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
That's okay. So you don't know who this guy is.
You just see him all the time, and now he
wants you to draw him a permanent tattoo.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Well we're friends, you know, Like I go in there
and we talk about the zen of the day and
we talk about he's actually really cool guy. He does
all this all these cool leather working stuff, and I
actually know a lot about him and the stuff that
he's working on.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
It's cool.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
Well, he asked me if I was good at drawing,
and asked if maybe I could sketch up some stuff
for him to add to his tattoo that he's got.
It's really cool and it's very family oriented. And I
was like, oh, that would be kind of cool.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
I've never done that before, So what are you thinking
about sketching?
Speaker 3 (12:16):
Well, he wanted to get like a dolphin, and so
I was like, that would be really cool.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
I don't know how to draw one back and try.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
He could just go at spring break to Myrtle Beach
or down to PCB and just pick one off the wall.
They do dolphins all the.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Time, you wouldn't be getting a Megan original.
Speaker 4 (12:32):
It's very true, and he understands the significance of that.
Speaker 5 (12:35):
Yeah, I was.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Like, this is so cool.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
Now would you be upset if you actually sketched a
tattoo and let's just say that it didn't come out
the best? In fact, while you doodle today, because I
know you like doing that, why don't you doodle up
a dolphin. We'll take a picture of it. We'll put
up on the Spencer Grave Show, Facebook and Instagram. If
he doesn't get it exactly the way that you do it,
would you be upset?
Speaker 4 (12:58):
No?
Speaker 3 (12:58):
Actually, when I delivered to him my sketch, I'm going
to feel a lot of pressure because I don't want
anyone to feel like they have to do something because
I have made it.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
Like I love doing my crafts.
Speaker 3 (13:14):
I love doing my art at home, but I don't
really show people it except g I Joe when he
gets all the craps that I make him.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
So would you be okay knowing that somebody took an
idea of a dolphin and they completely reworked yours, then
it wouldn't really be your work of art?
Speaker 2 (13:30):
Well, but he still asked me to.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
And if you don't like something it's going to be
permanently on your body, then don't get that.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
Would you guys allow Meghan Terry to draw a tattoo
for you?
Speaker 4 (13:41):
Eight?
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Five five graves zero? Would you let Megan give you
a tattoo?
Speaker 9 (13:45):
Sure?
Speaker 5 (13:46):
Just got it my clothing.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
I like this.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
Megan may have a side hustle. Screw those multi level
marketing ideas. Megan should just sell sketches for tattoos.
Speaker 5 (13:58):
I don't have to sell candles anymore, Megan.
Speaker 4 (14:02):
If you want this kind of support from everybody else,
let's flip the tables a little bit.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
Would you let me draw you a tattoo? Blair? Yes,
you would, absolutely.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
That sounds like Blair. Can you actually draw?
Speaker 2 (14:18):
Absolutely not?
Speaker 5 (14:20):
Oh no, you could, but you've already committed.
Speaker 4 (14:26):
Yes, it's a contract spun around. I'm confused about I
can't draw, but I can trace, and I'm going to
trace the no Shoes Nation flag and we can get matching.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
Isn't MTV like random tattoos?
Speaker 9 (14:42):
Get?
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Yeah, it is a batter of my husband's bald head.
Which one do you want? I don't want Steve's bald head. No,
and I don't want Kenny Chesney on me.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
This is pretty wild. But you know when people win
the lottery, most of the time the big billion dollar
jackpots or one with an office for multiple people playing
in a pool. Not the case in California. She just
won one point two billion in Mega millions and she
is the only person associated to the ticket.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
Please tell me that she has sometime it ties to
Davis's that may have been from West Tennessee. Ish.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
I bet she has a long list of long lost
relatives that are coming out of the woodwork. She won
this and took a lump sum payment of five hundred
and seventy one million dollars.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Oh, oh my gosh, she's not working today.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Would you do that if you won that kind of money?
Would you quit your job or would you continue to
work just to have something to do.
Speaker 4 (15:46):
My psychopathic husband would go to work like the next day,
like nothing happened.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
I love y'all.
Speaker 4 (15:53):
I'm headed to Saint John and I don't know if
y'all ever see me again.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
Would you let people know?
Speaker 2 (15:58):
No, Well, Bobby d would know. Course, he'd be with
me in Saint John.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
So you would move your entire family, the ones that
you love.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
No, no, no, no, no no.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
I didn't say I can come to not I hope
fam everybody else you're just going to get a notice
of death and it's going to go, oh man, what
happened to Blair?
Speaker 4 (16:17):
So is why people should share locations, Megan, because then
you would be like, oh, this is odd.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
No I have your location, Just don't have.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
She'll know where you are, but you won't know if
she's coming.
Speaker 9 (16:32):
I've never been on the radio before ever, like my
voice or anything, and I was like, I want to
give it a shot.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
Is that a dream of yours?
Speaker 9 (16:39):
Yes, it is that.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
Your dream is to have your voice on the radio. Yeah, congratulations,
we make dreams happen. You're on the radio.
Speaker 9 (16:47):
Really yeah, Oh my gosh, crazy.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
Listen, this is your moment to shine. What do you
want to say to everybody in your fifteen seconds of fame?
Speaker 9 (16:57):
I wish the younger generation good look in the future.
And if I'm a teen mom, but if anybody out
there is a teen mom, just go with your gut,
because that's the best way to go. I have two kids.
My oldest is my senior year baby, but I still
graduated with him. Don't let anything stop you from being
(17:18):
a mom.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
Ladies and gentlemen, the best fifteen seconds of fame that
we can have right here. You were just on the radio. Congratulations,
wait to be on the Spencer Grave Show. Is your debut?
Speaker 9 (17:28):
Oh my gosh, thank you so much
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