May 8, 2025 • 17 mins
A person offered JT $1,000 to eat a bowl of queso at dinner the other night. Did he do it and what have you done for money?
Nothing like a guy who take the advice of his wife! It paid off in a big way! It's today's "the Good Good."
Jessica called us and feathers were ruffled when she claimed that Mothers Day should be more for moms who are currently caring for their child and not the ones who have raised theirs.
Connie wasn't sure about her country-ness but knocked it out of the park on How Country Are Ya!
Blair shared a cleaning hack but of course, Spencer had to interject with a power tool solution.
Nothing like a guy who take the advice of his wife! It paid off in a big way! It's today's "the Good Good."
Jessica called us and feathers were ruffled when she claimed that Mothers Day should be more for moms who are currently caring for their child and not the ones who have raised theirs.
Connie wasn't sure about her country-ness but knocked it out of the park on How Country Are Ya!
Blair shared a cleaning hack but of course, Spencer had to interject with a power tool solution.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I've got JT ready to come in vainly because I
heard that he was offered one thousand dollars last night
at a Mexican restaurant to chug the caso.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Oh my gosh, so he's probably rich.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Now.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Man was offered one thousand dollars to finish off the
caso and he didn't do it.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
Let me tell you something.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
He didn't do it. I would have destroyed that.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
I do that without any cash offer.
Speaker 5 (00:22):
Hold on a second, I can destroy some keeso, There's
no doubt.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
I like, no, sounds like he gave up on a
thousand bucks.
Speaker 5 (00:27):
But listen, normally, when you go, you get a little
cup of caeso and you dip your chips and it's like,
give me a little cup of that.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Yeah, well it's paying you a thousand bucks for that.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
No, they have that size, and then you can get
the large, which is bigger than any clam chowder bowl
I've ever seen. It's the size of a small bucket.
Speaker 6 (00:44):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
Oh, it's like a serious business. It's one thousand dollars.
It's over a quart of keso poured into a bowl.
This were you worried about your ticker, Well.
Speaker 5 (00:53):
I almost did it. I picked it up and I'm thinking, Okay,
I'm going to start chugging. He didn't give me time limit.
And then Dino's sitting there like, hey, you know you're
just drinking pure crisco. That's not even real cheese. What
do you do with I'm like what? And then my
daughter faced timey and she's like, what are you doing?
Speaker 1 (01:10):
I'm like, okay, I'm I'm out. I got spooped off
the green Field a thousand bucks. I would have been
all over that.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
I usually get bet to do things by men, so
it's not like my girls what like just the stuff
that you're talking about. It's always dudes who are like
fifty dollars twenty.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Five dollars like chug ranch or chug a beer whatever,
stupid stuff.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
But my girlfriends are never like they never say that.
I usually say that to them. But I think it's
because they've been in the army for too long. I
think that's where that comes from.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
What was the bet that your friends put you up
to and you did a five five graves zero?
Speaker 4 (01:47):
Well, I was a bouncer and a club. The bartender
bet me ten dollars if I would chug the whole
glass gym Bean and I did for ten dollars ten bucks.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
I would have held out my money.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
We knew we need it and we need to work
on your negotiating skills.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Well back in the eighties, ten dollars is probably like
forty or fifty today.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
WHOA Still I think I would have held out.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I paid my electricity bill with that.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Megan would have had two problems. She would have been
blacked out in her house would have been blacked out.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
Yeah, that would have been bad. I would have felt
for that.
Speaker 4 (02:20):
Okay, dude, you'll have a great day.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Thank you, buddy. So for anybody that missed our conversation
earlier this morning, or Buddy JT went to a Mexican
restaurant because you know Sinco to Mayo is recently if
somebody bet him one thousand dollars to chug the entire
bowl of kso and he didn't do it? Wow, I
mean he thought about doing it, but he didn't do it.
He backed out after a couple of people got involved.
(02:43):
So what were you bet to do? And how much?
Speaker 7 (02:45):
Oh well, he shoot on the cracker with a bunch
of hot souls.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
What's the problem with that?
Speaker 7 (02:50):
How do we shoot it always the hot souls.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Oh take you out.
Speaker 7 (02:57):
They're trust to me to the hospital.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
So how much were they putting on the line?
Speaker 7 (03:01):
One hundred and fifty dollars?
Speaker 6 (03:02):
I mean, I can't risk my life for one hundred
and fifty bus.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Time out though they take care of the medical care.
They pay that and one hundred and fifty bucks. Or
does your hospital bill come out of the one fifty
fifty good?
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Now? Oh, so did you have your EpiPen on you
because if he didn't, you know, Oh, Megan's thinking about
it and trying to get you some money.
Speaker 6 (03:24):
Make this work.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Well, thank you very much. We appreciate your time.
Speaker 8 (03:27):
Thank you guys, you have a great day.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
It's the good good on the Spencer Grave Show.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Megan, you're gonna love this story because it has to
do with one of your own. A member of the military.
He and his wife had a little time to kill,
so they decided to do something they never do, which
is stopped by a casino. He didn't actually want to
play any games, but his wife was like, just pull
the handle one time. What's the worst that can happen?
You lose two bucks, So he did you want a
(03:57):
million dollars?
Speaker 6 (03:58):
Oh my god, are you kidding?
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Did he buy himself out of his contract?
Speaker 4 (04:04):
All right?
Speaker 1 (04:04):
This woman does not have a very popular opinion when
it comes to Mother's Day. She left us this voicemail.
Speaker 9 (04:11):
I feel that Mother's Day should be honoring those who
are currently like in the trenches, who are who are
dealing with these cute little demon children that are.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
So sweet that we love so much.
Speaker 9 (04:24):
Hey, it should be my day, right, I shouldn't have
to have like it gets to be based around my mom,
my mother in law, Like I have to cater to
everyone else's schedule. Can I tell you I couldn't remember
the last time I took a shower by myself. I
don't get to go to the bathroom alone, Like this
should be my day. I think it should be for
those who are currently mothering children, not I mothered a
(04:49):
kid twenty years ago. I should get to go to
dinner and have a SPA day. You get a spa
day any day. You can do that any day of
the week. I'm sitting over here struggling. I had a
kid poop on me the dog, right, And I know
we're all gonna say like, oh, we're all mothering in
some capacity. No, some of us, we're in the trenches.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
That's Jessica who left us a voicemail. Reactions from Blair
and Meghan.
Speaker 10 (05:16):
Couldn't disagree more. I don't care how old your kids are.
You should be celebrated in some capacity.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
And there's people too who are motherly type, motherly like
figures to people, and they should be celebrated as well.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Good you said to people. You're not talking about dog mom.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
I do text my best friend and say Happy Mother's Day.
And she only has a dog. Oh but she is
I mean she takes care of that thing.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
No, yeah, that does not count.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
I think I don't think we should make rules on
who can.
Speaker 6 (05:47):
Be celebrated and not all getting aside.
Speaker 10 (05:51):
I'll say this, Corbin and Colby's stepmom made sure that
I got a Mother's Day gift as well.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Did you feel weird accepting that?
Speaker 6 (06:01):
I didn't?
Speaker 10 (06:02):
You know, she was so sweet and you know, just
you know, took the time to send a note and said, look,
you may not have birthed her, but you are a
mother figure in her life and you should be celebrated too.
And there are people that are very very sensitive to
that because I remember posting about it and I got
some ugly messages, and so I think we've got to
get out of like trying to, you know, dwindle down.
(06:24):
Who should be celebrated on Mother's Day because being a
mother looks different for certain people.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
You guys should jump into this conversation a five to
five grave zero.
Speaker 8 (06:33):
I disagree because there are so many mothers out there
that are not biological mothers. They adopt well. I mean
there's people that adopt well.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
And Blair's one. I mean, Blair doesn't have any children
of her own. She's a grandmother by proxy.
Speaker 8 (06:47):
Hey see, I'm a grandmother by proxy because I took
a girl in and she was pregnant when we took
her in, and since then she's had another one and
another one's on the way.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Now, what do you think of Megan's opinion about they
are mothers?
Speaker 8 (07:01):
It doesn't matter what kind of mother you are if
you're caring for someone or something. My dog is like
a kid to me.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Okay, then what about plant moms?
Speaker 8 (07:11):
Plant moms are still moms.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Oh wow.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
When there's somebody who takes care of you, or you're
taking care of somebody else. It's just like, why not
just show kindness and love. I don't understand why we
have to start knocking people down, because I mean that
caller was pretty much acting like she was superior to
other mothers.
Speaker 8 (07:34):
What other type it was being discriminatory.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Now, she did say one thing that was interesting in
that conversation. She mentioned that she has to bend around
every other mom's schedule when she's the one who's actually
in the thick of it. She's just trying to get
the focus a little more on what she's going through
at the time, thinking that they already went through the
same thing.
Speaker 8 (07:55):
I should try to bend to her schedule a little more,
but at the same time, don't try to not out
of it parble, because they're not in the middle of
it exactly they have been.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Yeah, maybe she just used the wrong words. Maybe she
was just trying to say, like, look, I'm stressed, I'm
in the middle of all this. This is happening in
my world right now. Why do I have to bend
everybody else's schedule when mine is the most chaotic and
the most hectic. Barbara, thank you very much for jumping
on with us today.
Speaker 8 (08:20):
Thank you.
Speaker 11 (08:21):
I think if you've birthed a child, then you should
be celebrated.
Speaker 7 (08:24):
For Mother's Day.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Now that's going to raise some eyebrows because we've had
some people say if you care for a child, meaning
you may not have had that baby, but you are
a mother figure, then you should be celebrated.
Speaker 11 (08:37):
And I get that. And if you're that child's primary caregiver, okay,
but if you're not and their mother's still in the picture,
then that mother should be celebrated.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Got it. So for you, it's how involved they are
in the child's life, because there are some moms we
can all agree on this, who are not necessarily the
primary role model for their young children. Correct, Megan, this
was kind of happening in your world. You lived with
your mom, but you chose to live with your father
later in life because of the relationship you and your
mom had. So did you celebrate your mom on Mother's Day?
(09:14):
Or did you kind of get away from that.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
A little bit.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
We celebrated everybody, So like Grammy got flowers, my mom
would get flowers, my step mom would get flowers. And
then on the other side of that, my dad and
my stepdad and my grandfather's they were the ones that
we celebrated. It was very just very inclusive, because it's
like it takes a village to raise children, you know,
(09:38):
So even though absolutely for the first half of my
life my mom did pretty much everything, and then after
that when I moved in with my dad, he did everything.
So at those different points, it was still though, like, hey,
you're appreciated, even you know, though we're all human.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
It's definitely a very personal decision because there are some
people who are listening to the show for Mother's Day
that are like, you know what, I didn't have a
grave relationship with my mom, so I'm not going to
celebrate my mom because of our relationship. There's plenty of
people like that.
Speaker 10 (10:10):
If your mother, who birthed you is the one that's
doing it all, absolutely she should be celebrated. And like
you're saying, you know, I think it depends on the
landscape of people's families, you know, who is celebrated.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Well, thank you very much. We appreciate you.
Speaker 8 (10:26):
You want to thank you.
Speaker 11 (10:26):
I appreciate you guys and making mine ride every morning
and going to work joyce, So thank you.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
It's very sweet of you. If you want to celebrate
the Spencer Grave show holiday. You can bring us cash, chocolates, flowers,
whatever you want.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
Yeah, blam wants for snacks and white monster.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
Well, thank you very much.
Speaker 11 (10:46):
Sure you're welcome, have a great day.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
It's how country are you? On the Spencer Grave Show, Tonnie,
where are you from?
Speaker 7 (10:54):
I'm originally from Ohio, but I live in Dora, nol.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
When you lived in Ohio, were you in rural or
like Cincinnati or Cleveland?
Speaker 7 (11:02):
I was in rural Ohio?
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Well, very good, So you might be country on a
scale of one to country. How country are you?
Speaker 7 (11:07):
Well today, I'm probably only about a five.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
Why does it change day to day?
Speaker 7 (11:12):
Well, you know, just depends on how much work they
cram on me. So I'm a.
Speaker 6 (11:18):
Little and the allergies.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Right here we go, Connie, Meghan's gonna ask you three questions.
Speaker 6 (11:27):
Good luck, okay, Connie.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
Name the store with the red logo where you can
go buy baby chicks.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
At oh King?
Speaker 7 (11:35):
I worked there.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
Rural King Works Tractor Supply is another one?
Speaker 6 (11:38):
You worked at Roal King?
Speaker 7 (11:39):
Yes? I do.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
Awesome, Okay, Connie. Tell us a piece of country advice
your parents gave you.
Speaker 6 (11:45):
That's stuck with you.
Speaker 7 (11:46):
Oh God, never take wooden coins. Don't walk in the
house with your shoes on.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
If you grew up in a place where there were snow,
don't eat yellow snow. That's a good one.
Speaker 7 (11:57):
Well, yeah, I grew up with a lot of snow
in a while.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
There you go. Right, here's your final question.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Let's say Spencer Blair and I invited you over for
a barbecue. We want to know what kind of side
you're bringing.
Speaker 7 (12:10):
My family's notorious for my macaroni salad, and I have
to make that for every family to get together.
Speaker 6 (12:15):
So well, now, where do you get that recipe?
Speaker 7 (12:22):
It's a secret family recipe.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
I feel like if you're the person in the family
that has a secret recipe bestowed upon you, that definitely
puts your country cred up a little bit. Nicely done today?
Eight point six Good, We'll get you a couple passes
to Homestead Hollow.
Speaker 7 (12:38):
Sweet.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Did you guys hear that the cell phone band in
school passed yesterday?
Speaker 4 (12:42):
No?
Speaker 6 (12:43):
I didn't. What exactly does this mean?
Speaker 1 (12:45):
So this means in the twenty twenty five twenty twenty
six school year, starting in the fall, students will not
be allowed to have their phone on them in class
while instruction is happening. It'll have to be in a locker,
It'll have to be in a bag in their car.
It just cannot be on them.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
I remember we talked to some parents one time, and
remember they had a lot of good points where they
brought up, like how they wanted their kids to have
their cell phones reachable just for safety reasons. I think
about that sometimes maybe they'll have their like little Apple
watches on or something.
Speaker 10 (13:18):
I bet they end up banning that too. And is
this for statewide or what exactly does.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
All Alabama schools K through twelve?
Speaker 10 (13:27):
I have mixed feelings because I mean, obviously, as I
was growing up, we weren't allowed to We had them,
but you weren't supposed to be They' supposed to be
you know, in your car, in your luck or whatever
it might be. But now I feel like things have
just changed a lot. And I mean I text my
tiny humans while they're at school just to even check
in and see how their day is going. And you know,
(13:49):
if I know they're not feeling well, I'm checking in
with it. So I don't know how to feel about this,
and I'm not even a parent, and I have some concerns.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
But they're probably hoping that if a kid gets a
text message, they can check in, like on a break
or between periods. They just don't want kids on their phones,
which obviously has become a growing issue.
Speaker 10 (14:08):
And so I think that's why I have mixed feelings,
because I do feel like kids are distracted and things
like that. I also don't like parents not being able
to talk to their kids when they want to.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
This is going to go into effect in the fall.
But the cell phone band passed in Alabama. Can you
share with everybody the cleaning hack that you showed Megan?
Speaker 10 (14:26):
So, Megan and I were chatting the other day and
she was talking about how her grout, specifically in her
bathroom just wasn't I can't remember the exact word Megan
that you use, but like wasn't fresh.
Speaker 6 (14:38):
And I shared with her.
Speaker 10 (14:39):
That the best thing to use, hands down are magic erasers.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
Megan, did it work?
Speaker 8 (14:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (14:46):
It worked.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
It's a complete life changer. Like as soon as I
heard this, I was like, why didn't I think of
this before? And I got down there and I had
been scrubbing with one of those little skinny scrubbers, using
all kinds of different cleaners try to finally get a
little bit of progress on this for hours.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
I saw a video the other day as somebody using
a pressure washer to clean their ground in their shower.
You know, I bet if you get too close, it
could be a big remodel job that you'll have to do.
But it would probably clean it a lot faster, would it.
Speaker 10 (15:17):
Because I sit here and think, I don't know that
a pressure washer, I mean, I guess unless you just
had it on.
Speaker 6 (15:23):
High, high, high pressure. I have used power genius.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
I've used power tools before to try to do cleaning hacks,
and those did not go well for me.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
I'll tell you what, though, that pressure washer, once you
see it in action, you sit there and you go
not a bad idea might not necessarily be the most
convenient thing dragging a pressure washer all the way into
your bathroom.
Speaker 10 (15:43):
But I wonder what I wonder what Steve would do
if he saw me bringing a pressure washer in our bathroom.
But I do think we all have that one pressure
washing story because you mentioned that, you know, we've all
been there. I tried to clean an indoor rug with
a pressure washer, and I thought this was genius. I
was like, look at me, this thing's going to look
better than ever before.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
How much was the new rug?
Speaker 6 (16:03):
A few dars?
Speaker 10 (16:06):
Because the pressure washer puts so much water into the
rug like it would never dry, so it had this
musty mildew smell.
Speaker 6 (16:12):
We had to throw it out.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
Tonight, Riba hosts the ACM Awards. It's her fiftieth year
in Country music, her nineteenth time hosting, and Megan Moroni
might actually do a special performance with Kenny Chesney. Blair,
are you noticing anything about that?
Speaker 10 (16:29):
I cannot currently locate Kenny Chesney, but I would not
be shocked if he didn't swing over to Texas from
Las Vegas, and we'll be there tonight.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
You don't, I know that of his location? Do You
never asked for that when you met him, did you?
Speaker 6 (16:42):
I didn't, but I've thought about it.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
That's why you ended up on the no fly list.
I got it all right. So you think tonight ACM Awards,
Mega Maroni Kenny Chesney surprise collaboration because they're unveiling their
song tomorrow.
Speaker 10 (16:53):
Right, Yes they are, And I mean I just had
this gut feeling we're getting the surprise tonight
Speaker 1 (16:59):
ACMA war Words only on Prime
I've got JT ready to come in vainly because I
heard that he was offered one thousand dollars last night
at a Mexican restaurant to chug the caso.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Oh my gosh, so he's probably rich.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Now.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Man was offered one thousand dollars to finish off the
caso and he didn't do it.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
Let me tell you something.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
He didn't do it. I would have destroyed that.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
I do that without any cash offer.
Speaker 5 (00:22):
Hold on a second, I can destroy some keeso, There's
no doubt.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
I like, no, sounds like he gave up on a
thousand bucks.
Speaker 5 (00:27):
But listen, normally, when you go, you get a little
cup of caeso and you dip your chips and it's like,
give me a little cup of that.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Yeah, well it's paying you a thousand bucks for that.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
No, they have that size, and then you can get
the large, which is bigger than any clam chowder bowl
I've ever seen. It's the size of a small bucket.
Speaker 6 (00:44):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
Oh, it's like a serious business. It's one thousand dollars.
It's over a quart of keso poured into a bowl.
This were you worried about your ticker, Well.
Speaker 5 (00:53):
I almost did it. I picked it up and I'm thinking, Okay,
I'm going to start chugging. He didn't give me time limit.
And then Dino's sitting there like, hey, you know you're
just drinking pure crisco. That's not even real cheese. What
do you do with I'm like what? And then my
daughter faced timey and she's like, what are you doing?
Speaker 1 (01:10):
I'm like, okay, I'm I'm out. I got spooped off
the green Field a thousand bucks. I would have been
all over that.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
I usually get bet to do things by men, so
it's not like my girls what like just the stuff
that you're talking about. It's always dudes who are like
fifty dollars twenty.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Five dollars like chug ranch or chug a beer whatever,
stupid stuff.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
But my girlfriends are never like they never say that.
I usually say that to them. But I think it's
because they've been in the army for too long. I
think that's where that comes from.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
What was the bet that your friends put you up
to and you did a five five graves zero?
Speaker 4 (01:47):
Well, I was a bouncer and a club. The bartender
bet me ten dollars if I would chug the whole
glass gym Bean and I did for ten dollars ten bucks.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
I would have held out my money.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
We knew we need it and we need to work
on your negotiating skills.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Well back in the eighties, ten dollars is probably like
forty or fifty today.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
WHOA Still I think I would have held out.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I paid my electricity bill with that.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Megan would have had two problems. She would have been
blacked out in her house would have been blacked out.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
Yeah, that would have been bad. I would have felt
for that.
Speaker 4 (02:20):
Okay, dude, you'll have a great day.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Thank you, buddy. So for anybody that missed our conversation
earlier this morning, or Buddy JT went to a Mexican
restaurant because you know Sinco to Mayo is recently if
somebody bet him one thousand dollars to chug the entire
bowl of kso and he didn't do it? Wow, I
mean he thought about doing it, but he didn't do it.
He backed out after a couple of people got involved.
(02:43):
So what were you bet to do? And how much?
Speaker 7 (02:45):
Oh well, he shoot on the cracker with a bunch
of hot souls.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
What's the problem with that?
Speaker 7 (02:50):
How do we shoot it always the hot souls.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Oh take you out.
Speaker 7 (02:57):
They're trust to me to the hospital.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
So how much were they putting on the line?
Speaker 7 (03:01):
One hundred and fifty dollars?
Speaker 6 (03:02):
I mean, I can't risk my life for one hundred
and fifty bus.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Time out though they take care of the medical care.
They pay that and one hundred and fifty bucks. Or
does your hospital bill come out of the one fifty
fifty good?
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Now? Oh, so did you have your EpiPen on you
because if he didn't, you know, Oh, Megan's thinking about
it and trying to get you some money.
Speaker 6 (03:24):
Make this work.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Well, thank you very much. We appreciate your time.
Speaker 8 (03:27):
Thank you guys, you have a great day.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
It's the good good on the Spencer Grave Show.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Megan, you're gonna love this story because it has to
do with one of your own. A member of the military.
He and his wife had a little time to kill,
so they decided to do something they never do, which
is stopped by a casino. He didn't actually want to
play any games, but his wife was like, just pull
the handle one time. What's the worst that can happen?
You lose two bucks, So he did you want a
(03:57):
million dollars?
Speaker 6 (03:58):
Oh my god, are you kidding?
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Did he buy himself out of his contract?
Speaker 4 (04:04):
All right?
Speaker 1 (04:04):
This woman does not have a very popular opinion when
it comes to Mother's Day. She left us this voicemail.
Speaker 9 (04:11):
I feel that Mother's Day should be honoring those who
are currently like in the trenches, who are who are
dealing with these cute little demon children that are.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
So sweet that we love so much.
Speaker 9 (04:24):
Hey, it should be my day, right, I shouldn't have
to have like it gets to be based around my mom,
my mother in law, Like I have to cater to
everyone else's schedule. Can I tell you I couldn't remember
the last time I took a shower by myself. I
don't get to go to the bathroom alone, Like this
should be my day. I think it should be for
those who are currently mothering children, not I mothered a
(04:49):
kid twenty years ago. I should get to go to
dinner and have a SPA day. You get a spa
day any day. You can do that any day of
the week. I'm sitting over here struggling. I had a
kid poop on me the dog, right, And I know
we're all gonna say like, oh, we're all mothering in
some capacity. No, some of us, we're in the trenches.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
That's Jessica who left us a voicemail. Reactions from Blair
and Meghan.
Speaker 10 (05:16):
Couldn't disagree more. I don't care how old your kids are.
You should be celebrated in some capacity.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
And there's people too who are motherly type, motherly like
figures to people, and they should be celebrated as well.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Good you said to people. You're not talking about dog mom.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
I do text my best friend and say Happy Mother's Day.
And she only has a dog. Oh but she is
I mean she takes care of that thing.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
No, yeah, that does not count.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
I think I don't think we should make rules on
who can.
Speaker 6 (05:47):
Be celebrated and not all getting aside.
Speaker 10 (05:51):
I'll say this, Corbin and Colby's stepmom made sure that
I got a Mother's Day gift as well.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Did you feel weird accepting that?
Speaker 6 (06:01):
I didn't?
Speaker 10 (06:02):
You know, she was so sweet and you know, just
you know, took the time to send a note and said, look,
you may not have birthed her, but you are a
mother figure in her life and you should be celebrated too.
And there are people that are very very sensitive to
that because I remember posting about it and I got
some ugly messages, and so I think we've got to
get out of like trying to, you know, dwindle down.
(06:24):
Who should be celebrated on Mother's Day because being a
mother looks different for certain people.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
You guys should jump into this conversation a five to
five grave zero.
Speaker 8 (06:33):
I disagree because there are so many mothers out there
that are not biological mothers. They adopt well. I mean
there's people that adopt well.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
And Blair's one. I mean, Blair doesn't have any children
of her own. She's a grandmother by proxy.
Speaker 8 (06:47):
Hey see, I'm a grandmother by proxy because I took
a girl in and she was pregnant when we took
her in, and since then she's had another one and
another one's on the way.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Now, what do you think of Megan's opinion about they
are mothers?
Speaker 8 (07:01):
It doesn't matter what kind of mother you are if
you're caring for someone or something. My dog is like
a kid to me.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Okay, then what about plant moms?
Speaker 8 (07:11):
Plant moms are still moms.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Oh wow.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
When there's somebody who takes care of you, or you're
taking care of somebody else. It's just like, why not
just show kindness and love. I don't understand why we
have to start knocking people down, because I mean that
caller was pretty much acting like she was superior to
other mothers.
Speaker 8 (07:34):
What other type it was being discriminatory.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Now, she did say one thing that was interesting in
that conversation. She mentioned that she has to bend around
every other mom's schedule when she's the one who's actually
in the thick of it. She's just trying to get
the focus a little more on what she's going through
at the time, thinking that they already went through the
same thing.
Speaker 8 (07:55):
I should try to bend to her schedule a little more,
but at the same time, don't try to not out
of it parble, because they're not in the middle of
it exactly they have been.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Yeah, maybe she just used the wrong words. Maybe she
was just trying to say, like, look, I'm stressed, I'm
in the middle of all this. This is happening in
my world right now. Why do I have to bend
everybody else's schedule when mine is the most chaotic and
the most hectic. Barbara, thank you very much for jumping
on with us today.
Speaker 8 (08:20):
Thank you.
Speaker 11 (08:21):
I think if you've birthed a child, then you should
be celebrated.
Speaker 7 (08:24):
For Mother's Day.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Now that's going to raise some eyebrows because we've had
some people say if you care for a child, meaning
you may not have had that baby, but you are
a mother figure, then you should be celebrated.
Speaker 11 (08:37):
And I get that. And if you're that child's primary caregiver, okay,
but if you're not and their mother's still in the picture,
then that mother should be celebrated.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Got it. So for you, it's how involved they are
in the child's life, because there are some moms we
can all agree on this, who are not necessarily the
primary role model for their young children. Correct, Megan, this
was kind of happening in your world. You lived with
your mom, but you chose to live with your father
later in life because of the relationship you and your
mom had. So did you celebrate your mom on Mother's Day?
(09:14):
Or did you kind of get away from that.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
A little bit.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
We celebrated everybody, So like Grammy got flowers, my mom
would get flowers, my step mom would get flowers. And
then on the other side of that, my dad and
my stepdad and my grandfather's they were the ones that
we celebrated. It was very just very inclusive, because it's
like it takes a village to raise children, you know,
(09:38):
So even though absolutely for the first half of my
life my mom did pretty much everything, and then after
that when I moved in with my dad, he did everything.
So at those different points, it was still though, like, hey,
you're appreciated, even you know, though we're all human.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
It's definitely a very personal decision because there are some
people who are listening to the show for Mother's Day
that are like, you know what, I didn't have a
grave relationship with my mom, so I'm not going to
celebrate my mom because of our relationship. There's plenty of
people like that.
Speaker 10 (10:10):
If your mother, who birthed you is the one that's
doing it all, absolutely she should be celebrated. And like
you're saying, you know, I think it depends on the
landscape of people's families, you know, who is celebrated.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Well, thank you very much. We appreciate you.
Speaker 8 (10:26):
You want to thank you.
Speaker 11 (10:26):
I appreciate you guys and making mine ride every morning
and going to work joyce, So thank you.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
It's very sweet of you. If you want to celebrate
the Spencer Grave show holiday. You can bring us cash, chocolates, flowers,
whatever you want.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
Yeah, blam wants for snacks and white monster.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
Well, thank you very much.
Speaker 11 (10:46):
Sure you're welcome, have a great day.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
It's how country are you? On the Spencer Grave Show, Tonnie,
where are you from?
Speaker 7 (10:54):
I'm originally from Ohio, but I live in Dora, nol.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
When you lived in Ohio, were you in rural or
like Cincinnati or Cleveland?
Speaker 7 (11:02):
I was in rural Ohio?
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Well, very good, So you might be country on a
scale of one to country. How country are you?
Speaker 7 (11:07):
Well today, I'm probably only about a five.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
Why does it change day to day?
Speaker 7 (11:12):
Well, you know, just depends on how much work they
cram on me. So I'm a.
Speaker 6 (11:18):
Little and the allergies.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Right here we go, Connie, Meghan's gonna ask you three questions.
Speaker 6 (11:27):
Good luck, okay, Connie.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
Name the store with the red logo where you can
go buy baby chicks.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
At oh King?
Speaker 7 (11:35):
I worked there.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
Rural King Works Tractor Supply is another one?
Speaker 6 (11:38):
You worked at Roal King?
Speaker 7 (11:39):
Yes? I do.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
Awesome, Okay, Connie. Tell us a piece of country advice
your parents gave you.
Speaker 6 (11:45):
That's stuck with you.
Speaker 7 (11:46):
Oh God, never take wooden coins. Don't walk in the
house with your shoes on.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
If you grew up in a place where there were snow,
don't eat yellow snow. That's a good one.
Speaker 7 (11:57):
Well, yeah, I grew up with a lot of snow
in a while.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
There you go. Right, here's your final question.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Let's say Spencer Blair and I invited you over for
a barbecue. We want to know what kind of side
you're bringing.
Speaker 7 (12:10):
My family's notorious for my macaroni salad, and I have
to make that for every family to get together.
Speaker 6 (12:15):
So well, now, where do you get that recipe?
Speaker 7 (12:22):
It's a secret family recipe.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
I feel like if you're the person in the family
that has a secret recipe bestowed upon you, that definitely
puts your country cred up a little bit. Nicely done today?
Eight point six Good, We'll get you a couple passes
to Homestead Hollow.
Speaker 7 (12:38):
Sweet.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Did you guys hear that the cell phone band in
school passed yesterday?
Speaker 4 (12:42):
No?
Speaker 6 (12:43):
I didn't. What exactly does this mean?
Speaker 1 (12:45):
So this means in the twenty twenty five twenty twenty
six school year, starting in the fall, students will not
be allowed to have their phone on them in class
while instruction is happening. It'll have to be in a locker,
It'll have to be in a bag in their car.
It just cannot be on them.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
I remember we talked to some parents one time, and
remember they had a lot of good points where they
brought up, like how they wanted their kids to have
their cell phones reachable just for safety reasons. I think
about that sometimes maybe they'll have their like little Apple
watches on or something.
Speaker 10 (13:18):
I bet they end up banning that too. And is
this for statewide or what exactly does.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
All Alabama schools K through twelve?
Speaker 10 (13:27):
I have mixed feelings because I mean, obviously, as I
was growing up, we weren't allowed to We had them,
but you weren't supposed to be They' supposed to be
you know, in your car, in your luck or whatever
it might be. But now I feel like things have
just changed a lot. And I mean I text my
tiny humans while they're at school just to even check
in and see how their day is going. And you know,
(13:49):
if I know they're not feeling well, I'm checking in
with it. So I don't know how to feel about this,
and I'm not even a parent, and I have some concerns.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
But they're probably hoping that if a kid gets a
text message, they can check in, like on a break
or between periods. They just don't want kids on their phones,
which obviously has become a growing issue.
Speaker 10 (14:08):
And so I think that's why I have mixed feelings,
because I do feel like kids are distracted and things
like that. I also don't like parents not being able
to talk to their kids when they want to.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
This is going to go into effect in the fall.
But the cell phone band passed in Alabama. Can you
share with everybody the cleaning hack that you showed Megan?
Speaker 10 (14:26):
So, Megan and I were chatting the other day and
she was talking about how her grout, specifically in her
bathroom just wasn't I can't remember the exact word Megan
that you use, but like wasn't fresh.
Speaker 6 (14:38):
And I shared with her.
Speaker 10 (14:39):
That the best thing to use, hands down are magic erasers.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
Megan, did it work?
Speaker 8 (14:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (14:46):
It worked.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
It's a complete life changer. Like as soon as I
heard this, I was like, why didn't I think of
this before? And I got down there and I had
been scrubbing with one of those little skinny scrubbers, using
all kinds of different cleaners try to finally get a
little bit of progress on this for hours.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
I saw a video the other day as somebody using
a pressure washer to clean their ground in their shower.
You know, I bet if you get too close, it
could be a big remodel job that you'll have to do.
But it would probably clean it a lot faster, would it.
Speaker 10 (15:17):
Because I sit here and think, I don't know that
a pressure washer, I mean, I guess unless you just
had it on.
Speaker 6 (15:23):
High, high, high pressure. I have used power genius.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
I've used power tools before to try to do cleaning hacks,
and those did not go well for me.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
I'll tell you what, though, that pressure washer, once you
see it in action, you sit there and you go
not a bad idea might not necessarily be the most
convenient thing dragging a pressure washer all the way into
your bathroom.
Speaker 10 (15:43):
But I wonder what I wonder what Steve would do
if he saw me bringing a pressure washer in our bathroom.
But I do think we all have that one pressure
washing story because you mentioned that, you know, we've all
been there. I tried to clean an indoor rug with
a pressure washer, and I thought this was genius. I
was like, look at me, this thing's going to look
better than ever before.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
How much was the new rug?
Speaker 6 (16:03):
A few dars?
Speaker 10 (16:06):
Because the pressure washer puts so much water into the
rug like it would never dry, so it had this
musty mildew smell.
Speaker 6 (16:12):
We had to throw it out.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
Tonight, Riba hosts the ACM Awards. It's her fiftieth year
in Country music, her nineteenth time hosting, and Megan Moroni
might actually do a special performance with Kenny Chesney. Blair,
are you noticing anything about that?
Speaker 10 (16:29):
I cannot currently locate Kenny Chesney, but I would not
be shocked if he didn't swing over to Texas from
Las Vegas, and we'll be there tonight.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
You don't, I know that of his location? Do You
never asked for that when you met him, did you?
Speaker 6 (16:42):
I didn't, but I've thought about it.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
That's why you ended up on the no fly list.
I got it all right. So you think tonight ACM Awards,
Mega Maroni Kenny Chesney surprise collaboration because they're unveiling their
song tomorrow.
Speaker 10 (16:53):
Right, Yes they are, And I mean I just had
this gut feeling we're getting the surprise tonight
Speaker 1 (16:59):
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