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May 9, 2025 92 mins

Want to be even sexier to women than you are now? ;) Learn to strike while the iron is hot!

Seriously though -- striking while the iron is hot makes you a man who can generate polarity, build trust, and have women want to surrender to you. Knowing how and when to take action is very sexy ... and passivity, not so much. And all of these principles apply whether you're in a dating relationship or you've been married for decades.

Here we go through examples of men who've done this well in dating, relationships, and yes, definitely in sex! And we talk about times that we as women have felt confused, rejected, or both -- as well as times we felt lit up, radiant, desired, and HOT for the men in our lives!

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Memorable quotes from this episode:

  • “Sure, I’m not happy, but at least I know my non-happiness.”
  • “Relationships are a skill.”
  • “I always felt his desire for me and I always knew where I stood and how he felt”
  • "Panty Droppers: 'I’m on it,' 'I’ve got it,' 'I’ll take care of it now.'"
  • “My inner turmoil is more important than your needs.”
  • “I was saying, ‘I need more sex or this relationship won’t be successful.’”
  • “He wasn’t willing to do the hard work — the work to really look at his trauma."
  • "It’s deeply masculine to seek the right counsel.”

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