BEST I EVER HAD

Drake trends after an explicit leaked video, Disney announces Moana 2, I'm overthinking my new situationship, + the crew talks all things Valentine's Day! Should you ask your sneaky link? Should you still ask your partner? And our favorite date spots in the Bay!

Episode Transcript

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Just just okay, real quick testMike, test me test test all of

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them, all of them. Okay, Hello, Hello, for the record,
which is which is which is forthe record with me Angelina. But
we do have the returning guest hereand Nge Lake what's up? And the
freaking heard her two episodes ago ab in the house like Selena's brother.

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Oh that's cute story, which hersoft Graham per usual. In this week's
episode, and for the culture,we're talking about Drake breaking the Internet,
and let's talk TV. Disney announcesa big one that we did not see
coming. And in Bitch we're talkingall things of Valentine's Day, So by
all means, let's get to it. This is for the culture, for

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the culture, for the culture.This is where we pick a headline and
ask if they, she or hedid it for the culture. Uh,
this week Drake had the Twitter andit's so we all saw. I just
got on board with what you justsaw. You want to see it again?

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I got it. It was like, person was Drake trending? Then
it was like damn Drake trending,Like literally the words damn and the words
Drake saw that it was trending.Went straight to Twitter. And you know
what I will give Twitter. Well, first, okay, if you're living
under a rock this past week,I get it, you're busy, you
have a life. We don't.But Drake was turning on Twitter after a

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riskue video leaked. He was pleasuringhimself. If you will no one thing
I will give Elon Musty Dreads wouldnever like I could really count on good
old Twitter to have those that videoimmediately. Yeah, I did same thing.
I didn't google Google dot com.No, I went to my Twitter

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search bar, took my little fingersput Drake Leak, scrolled like for two
point seconds and was like, boom, there it is. There, it
is, it is. It's notonly the video that's so great, but
then the reactions like and that isone reason I truly would never give up
Twitter. Yeah, it's in thesemoments that Twitter really is goaded. There
was a hell a good picture.I'll show it to you, but for

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you, for you people, it'slike this true. Yeah, let's just
say he wasn't a fully equipped becauseyou know, loaded, But for honey,
I'm okay with it. I wasokay with its shadow. Oh no,

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that is a confident man. Andnow I know why. Now I
know why he got head at himself. You know, he was like,
I don't even care. He's tryingto beat the BBL allegations. I'm making
it my god honestly though, Ilove it. I love it and it's

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definitely Drake. I mean people arekind of speculating, is it really Drake?
It looks a lot like oh yeah, and like he's on his private
jet, like you could hear likethe humming of the Yeah. I didn't

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really. I had my team.We were like you I we you know,
had a three day yeah, butyeah, you know, I just
must say. You know, I'mkind of a size queen right now.
That's kind of my thing. Ilove a big dick, but you know,
I'm like a thick girl. I'mreally like a thick girl right now.

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It's giving really long and skinny,which I'm not mad at. But
it wasn't fully like, it wasn'tthere, not dick shaming, but no,
I think if it was there,it would be she could have been
thicker. No yeah, no,no, but I think it could be
though. Yeah, you're right,you're right now, No, not only
theoretically, I mean, like ifsomething happens to it. It was flaccid.

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You know, it wasn't on.He didn't he didn't flip the switch.
But when he does really like paidattention to this video, huh is
no, I've been analyzing it forforty eight hours. I couldn't have a
full investigation. So there we go. I'm into the peen the pe and

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it was great. Shout out tohis parents. Oh my god. Oh
yeah, I saw on Twitter theywere like, he's talking about it at
his concert and he was like,oh, I know you guys heard the
rumor. No way is here,like he he like, I hate ye
see the guys that are blessed likethat, that are so corny. Maybe
the corny is w like Drake isso corny and we know that. And

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he continues to be so corny.But a lot of people thought like,
maybe it wasn't real. That's whyhe's so confident and corny, because that's
that's God's plan. Good for him, an say, he really took care
of himself. You take care ofme for sure. This is good.

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No, that was God's fine forsure. Alright, all right, let's
talk t V you guys. ThisSunday is the season finale of Taylor Swift
and Travis Kelsey's relationship. They're gonnaget renewed though for sure, like immediately

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next year. They're going for tenseasons. It's gonna happen. But this
Sunday Broad partying them breaking hearts.She's definitely going to the game though.
I think she is. Oh right, I saw that she's got like,
uh, she's on tour in HongKong or something. Yeah, yeah,
she's fine straight there. Yeah.People think like he's gonna propose and they're
gonna win. They're not gonna win. He can still propose after they lose.

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Wait, why did they have hismom on CNN or her mom?
They had her mom on CNN askingabout if she's gonna get married, and
she's like, whatever's right for her. It as long as she's happy.
I'm like, oh, that's whather That was her answer. Yeah,
But what Also, why the fuckTaylor swifts mom on CNN talking about them
getting like it's too much like sheshe goes, she does press, press

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friends. But in actual TV news, Disney announced Mowana to the sequel.
But I'll give to them, likeno one saw that coming, right,
Like that was a good thing,Like usually there's some leaks going on,
like some rumors they said, andthis November like no business ship dropping this
year. We've been working on it. It's probably finished end of the year.

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It's here. I saw it prettycool. The star she posted on
her Twitter and it was like itwas like a video of friend. She
was like, when your friends findout from Disney and Pixar that Moanitu is
coming out and from not from me? Oh yeah, So like it was
just like everyone's oh, yeah,they probably signed all what's it called the

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things they gotta sign so they don'tsay nothing. Yeah, they because Disney
would get their asks. My god, did you guys see the There's like
a theory. I don't know ifit came out right after they announced the
second movie or what, but abouther being the first transgender princess, like
like supposedly that's Mohana. Yeah,that's supposed They would never do it.

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I don't know if they do that, but I mean maybe doing it,
But I don't know about what Molanna. What do they do? They don't
they don't do LGBT characters, justsaying it's all queer except the redhead one
brave lesbian. Yeah, let's behonest, you flaying arrows. You're kind
of a little elsa little too closewith her sister, if you know what

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I mean. You don't brush herhair that much. The Caveman one,
I think I never watched it,like an Irish because her husband. Also
there was a Monsters one and likethey had like the LGBTU. It was

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a cop. Remember Lena Waite wasthe We talked about that. Yeah,
oh yeah, yeah yeah, butshe was like she was barely gay and
it was a girlfriend or something likethat. Yeah, that was like she
was gay, but also whatever,it didn't count, It didn't count,
It didn't make it much. Thatwould be crazy though. I just I

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don't see that working or I don'tsee that happening. But maybe, yeah,
I don't know, be down.I don't know. I think maybe
doing that. I don't see itwith Malana. Yeah, you can't show
me that. That week, theythey saw that Malana was popular as fuck.
Kids love I mean even adults.Everybody loves Molana. So they're like,
we're making a sequel, and Ireally hope they like throw away the

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whole live action because I know thatwas like a rumor. I mean,
it's like yeah, give us asequel. We don't want that. Damn
live action. I'm not into theDisney live actions. I've seen that fake
commercial with Dwayne the Rock Johnson init. They're like, he's gonna be
He's gonna play the character that hevoices. Yeah, and it should be
Jason Mamala. I'm kidding the Rockobviously already it'd be perfect. I heard

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they do live action Disney movies sothat Disney could keep the rights to the
character. Sure. Yeah, that'sthe only reason why they do it,
because it's like seventy years or somethingsomething like that. Yeah, you have
to like like the whole Mackey MouseI just heard. Yeah, Mickey Mouse

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the Steamboat Willie version is public now. Anybody can use it live action,
like they can make it into ascare movie anything that makes sense. That
one. Yeah, I'm not herefor it. Minus a Little Mermaid,
But like Lion King, that waslike a less Beyonce is gonna be there
in physical forms. It doesn't havethe same Yeah, I would like to
more of like Beyonce actually showed uplike she was the only human in the

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movie. Ye, so much better. Yeah, I didn't like it,
but my nieces actually love that one. Okay, that's my favorite movie,
Like Lion King has always my favoritemovie, and when they came out,
I think I had higher expectations,like Go to the Zoo. Li King
is the superior Disney movie, likeLion King is always number one, then

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it's the rest. But yeah,I'm really excited. My niece is also
obsessed with Wana, so is mymom. Like anytime I come over,
it's on to this day. Theylove that movie. A movie between Wanna
and a Conto like that is onrepeat at my parents house. Coco.
I like Coco too, and Iwant Conto was more successful though, which

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makes you sad because you know Mexican, but I think they're both pretty Like
they're both pretty successful, and Contowas definitely literally be like, yeah,
the sound try to be like numberone, like out of what was it
frozen? If you let it go, it is guess while Mighty Friend,
I was literally playing we Don't talkabout Bruno on the radio, I interviewed

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like the character, Yeah, waslike huge. I mean, I love
Coco. Coco is never one inmy heart, though I don't like I
didn't cry respectfully. Yeah one time, Yeah, I would buy I think
it's like I don't know, Likefor me, it was perspective because like

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for Coco, I think because I'mMexican too, Like I think I was
expecting to be able to relate toit a lot, and I did,
but there were some parts that Iwas like, Okay, that doesn't apply
to like how I was raised,the like traditions that we had, like
we never celebrated he low key andI related more than conto. Like when
I was talking to the girl,I was telling her how like how they

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treated Brunos, how they treated Idon't think I've seen the movie me familiar.
No, No, it's like it'slike a hood like Mexican movie.
Yeah, it's like you have along Jennifer Lopez. Yeah, everyone's in
it. It's long as hell,like all the famous like Mexican actors in
it. Oh yeah, but likenot as gangster's button but out but it
is a little there's some gangster scenes. But one of the brothers to show

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was like always like the outcast,and I was like, this time were
like the PG version. And Iliterally told Adasa that when she's on that
place, who's the sister that likeknowsh it or like whispers or whatever.
I know the secrets. No.I told her that theory and she was
like, no, absolutely one.She allow felt me. I was like,
period, No, okay, Iagree. I agree with the A

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B. But Coca was beautiful.I do love the whole do you do.
It's more those like theme colors,like when I saw that, let
me a little alter, I know, let me let me get more in
the spirit, Let me get morein the spirit. No, was fire.
Not to pick on you, abbecause the chance this snarana has heard

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some crazy What was the other conspiracytheory you told us? I was like,
crazy he has earlier? That wasa crazy one? Which one you
had a lot of. We're talkingabout Selena, Frozen one, Taylor Swift
one. See, I'm telling youhe has so many. The Frozen one
was the theory about, oh yeah, that they created the movie Frozen all

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to like change the s c Oon Google. So like a lot of
people were googling allegedly like Disney Frozento see if it was true that they
frozen Walt Disney like that every day. So so apparently they supposedly did this
movie so that whenever you google it, it's like frozen like to erase that

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theory because it could be fair.Okay, but his head is frozen in
the matter horn. I don't know, they say, they say, and
that's the about original was about thesame thing that this one's crazy. She
just wanted to date one of thejets, so that a player from the

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Jets, so that when you searchedher up, I guess she was one
of like back to back years wetalked about this. She's like the environment
with her target everyone. Her privatejets are the ones that have been like
adding a lot to like the Ozone. I don't know, but supposedly that
was giving her bad publicity. Andsupposedly she dated or she wanted to date

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someone from the Jets, or theywanted her to date something from the Jets
so that when you googled it itwould just be it would just be like
her and like the rumors of themdating. Whether you know what it is,
my my Instagram reel spiral that night, like that algorithm changes I'm saying,
I don't know, I don't wantto say. I was just watching

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and watching and then I get intolike this deep hole of like all these
theories that contribute each other but Iwill leave them all sometimes. Oh Jomas
Casey would not be happy with that. He's like, I need my bag,
Do not leave me, Taylor,I didn't get my I need my
bags. God damn jets. Speakingof we'll just mention this really quickly.
Clowns though. Uh the oxygen they'regiving Yolanda all the bitch that kills Selena

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a documentary they just give everybody week. It's so disgusting and like, if
you watch the trailer, her mainthing is like, oh, but she
had a secret, which I don'tcare what secrets she had. You murdered
her. Like my friends have madsecrets, but I still can't get away
with murdering them and being like it'sjustified because that bitch had a secret.
We all got secrets. It's justgirls care about what she has to say.

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Yeah, I don't watch that ship. I think a lot of people
are still going to see just tolike yeah last yeah, yeah, I'll
watch the highlights. I'm not goingto go on Tiktoka. I'll go.
I wonder if she gets paid forthat though, absolutely, and her pearls
coming up yeah next year. Yeah, I want to see what kind of

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guns she used. Like, whatwhat are we going to find out?
So see, that's even more disrespectful. Yeah, it's disgusting. Don't watch
that ship. And then I sawNetflix they like put out like they try
to promote the series, like rightwhen the teaser dropped, it's like,
we're still watching your wag a series. Netflix, Like yeah, it's like
Yolanda, but that series was trash. We will not be revisiting that.

(17:07):
That's terrible. Did you watch theseries? Yeah, kind of like I
thought it was good. Yeah,like it was like the story, like
I heard a lot of controversy,it was kind of corny. I like
that thing was terrible. The wigswere terrible, and the green ski the
green screens were terrible. Crazy.Where was the budget? And that's like
the corn part was when they addedthat little Beyonce meeting her part, because

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like like Beyonce said in an interviewonce that that happened, So I guess
when they did, when they didthe series they added that part. I
think that was like I feel likethat part wasn't necessary for her story,
you know what I mean. Theywere just trying anytime they can, you
know, the only thing I willgive it. And obviously then still make
me sad because it's a sad story, Like hard to not be sad about

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that. But the corny part whenshe first meets Chris and opens the door
and it's like no more even likeso like every time they were in the
car, I was like, Ican't get over the screen. Screen It's
terrible. It was so cute.It was cute. One thing I kind
of liked that they did, though, it was like the truth. Like
in the movie when she does herGrammy speech, you know, she's like,

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my husband, Chris, thank youbaby, But in real life,
she actually never thanked him and theyhad a fight over it, and they
show that in the in the series. So wow, there's some cool stuff
that got right. But for themost part I wouldn't rewatch it. But
I said, bitch, if youwanted to go to Taylor's, just tell
her brother you want to go toTaylor's. Nice You said that? Oh

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hell yeah, man, I laidit out right, I said, I
said, I says, I said, bitch. All right already, guys,
m bit okay, shout out toour first ninety five listeners last week
you'll know what I'm talking about.I did decide to edit a thing something
out just because I don't know forsome reasons. Anyways, what are we

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talking about? Anyways, guys,I went on a date two weeks ago.
Actually I kind of updated you.I know you guys aren't hear this.
I'll tell you again. I wenton day two weeks ago and it
went amazing. I didn't know.We did all the things like god drinks.
We were gonna leave that spot becauseit wasn't popping. We ended up
staying there for like two hours talkinglike such a good conversation. Then we

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got tacos and then we went dancinglike it was perfect. So then after
that he started texting me again andthen we went on another date. Well
it wasn't a date. We're stillgood. The movies I fvited him over,
but we ended up watching like threemovies, like Legit, watching it
like actually watching, like had awhole conversation and there's like little stuff that
he was saying. I was likesuper cute. That like was a good

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I don't know, he has agood character. That was on Sunday though,
you guys, and he does nottext me since should I be overthinking?
And okay, so pretty sick Chrisjust said, why don't we hit
him up first? Are you talkingto them like producer Chris No, It's
okay, he's probably a little shy. Okay, this is what I will
say. So from the first timewe hung out, I was like,

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okay, should I text the first? And I actually don't mind. So
I did hit him that Wednesday,and like he is like a very natural
texter, like he'll text me likefor he's not one of those people that's
like, oh, I'm like youhave a player about it. Like he'll
text me like five texts in arow. He'll ask me questions back,
like super easy to talk to you. Yeah, I love that. So
it made it easy for me.So like that Wednesday that I hit him
up first and great conversation. That'swhen he was like, hey, let's
go to the movies, like let'slet's lake up like this weekend and like

(20:33):
made plans and then I ended uphaving like plans that went overboard whatever,
but like maybe plans to hang out. But I do kind of feel like
like after I saw him Sunday,it's like, well, I text him
first last time, Like I feellike he could text me like it's that
big of a dot I ain't catnothing wrong with it. Well, let
me give you a new slash woman. Also like the attention read a fucking

(20:57):
book and deserve And I feel likeI'm giving him that energy, Like if
you're thinking about you shouldext me,you know, if it's your problem,
don't hit him off about it.No, see, I don't want to
do all that. It's like it'stoo early out twice you know what I
mean. I'm not I'm not gonna. It's like I just I want you
to want to hit me up.I don't want to be like, oh
text to me like that's that's doingtoo much Sunday. It's the middle of

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the week. It's literally Thursday.It's technically it's Friday. Fine minutes week.
You've seen him twice, Like,it's fine, don't trip out,
you know what, just take along walk off a short bridge, like
it's fine, just to play sometraffic. You'll be fine from it might

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be too early. But did youever talk about like if you guys are
dating multiple people? No, no, no, that's that's like we're smart.
But but what I will say?What he so? I know I
honestly other than this, like andI'm not gonna be crazy. I mean
I am, because overthinking is mymiddle name. I mean it's like we're

(22:06):
the overthinkers. Okay, I'm gonnado that every single time, like naturally,
but I'm not acting on the craziness, you know. So like in
the beginning, I'm like this,like I definitely enjoy this. I'm like,
wow, this is so fun,Like I'm hanging out with someone that
actually enjoyed their company and like matchingeach other's energy for the most part.
Like it's literally only hung out twice. But I will say, maybe he
does say things that like you likeinclude me in future plans. Like for

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example, I like made a jokeabout, oh, I told him about
our Grand Syer resort trip, Chriswent to the Gransy Air Resort and we
swear at Spinny Vegas, like weswear by this way, we weren't one.
So I was just telling him allthat, right, and then I'm
I know, I'm trying to showhim and like the overviews were terrible,

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Like he was like, I don'tknow about your suggestions, but he was
making a joke like, oh,let's take it, like let's go somewhere,
and like we were like children Igot my older cousin like by us,
a bottle of mouth like now wowrong, and a gator the go
cards and then that's when like Limitlesscame out. They had a movie theater
and that's why because we're gonna watchlimit lists. And I was like,
me and my cousin great because thetheater was like three dollars and I was

(23:10):
only playing that in the Lincoln Lawyerand we're like, should we watch another
movie or should we go watch thismovie ten more times? Because it was
so great Bradley Cooper's last good movie. Honestly, Okay, that's how we
let him to Barborn. Hold on, okay, Oh you're right, you're
right, You're right, you're right. Stars Warn is great. But he

(23:30):
was like from that, he's like, oh, we should take a trip,
and like saying like, oh,what when are you free? Like
we like literally like booked a marchin our calendar. It's like little future
plans, like another thing that wasreally cute. He's not really into football
or basketball at all. He's likestrictly soccer. He was he knows I'm
a Niner fan, so he's likewe should make a bet, like if
the Niners win, I'll buy youyour coffee table. And I thought it's
usually like if I'm saying I'm gonnatake a bet, it's gonna be my

(23:52):
thing, like oh, if wewent to bet, you owe me dinner.
Yeah, a coffee table. BecauseI was just telling him, like
what's left in my apartment that Iwas like, oh, I want to
get a new coffee table and he'slike, oh, let me see,
and I showed him, like theone I had like in my Amazon cart
that's cute. No, it's notthat expensive. It's like almost two hundred
dollars. That's expensive. Well thereal the real one I want on what

(24:15):
Films six hundred dollars. But Ijust thought it was cute that he's like,
let's make a bet. The thingyou want, I'll get and like
you pick mine, you know,like you just want to say something cute
like I'll buy your coffee table.Girl, that's cute, But I would
say the future plan thing like Idon't believe it until it happens. Oh

(24:36):
yeah, totally. No, absolutely, we're just talking shit. No,
But I like us both being delusionalin the moment, you know, like,
oh my god, what are running? Let's run it? Like I
think it's cute. Yeah, likeare we gonna do that? Who knows?
But I like that you're like justspeaking about me in the future like
that. It's just cute. Shit, No, that's what I'm saying.
Like the vibes are great in person, and like, honestly, even now

(24:59):
in my head, I'm just like, Okay, if we're just having fun,
that's fine. But I am,like, I guess I'm kind of
just like a little guard like,you know what, let me if he's
not texting me like that, LikeI'm just a little sign I'm not.
I'm not saying like I'm cutting himoff. He ain't like he doesn't love
me. He doesn't like me atall. You know, I'm not saying
all that, but I am alittle like be guarded. But maybe he's
busy. He's busy. You know. I'm busy too. I'm busy as

(25:21):
all cut him off. It's literallyso pretty so Chris So when he first
sad why when he first met hehas to pay on Instagram? And I
told him no, yes, yeah, yeah yeah, and that you worked
at Zara's and then I worked atzara Yes, And he said, what

(25:42):
did you do as you know that. Yeah, let me take the security
thing off for you. Do youwant to back? Do you want to
the person? Do you want tosell? Do you have a worse Do
you have a worse number? Ilove Sara? So he knows you have

(26:07):
to Instagram now right, he knowsyou have. We don't have each other's
Instagram. I mean I know hisbecause I'm crazy and I socked him and
found it. But it's private eachother. No, No, he doesn't
want to. I want to overthinkreal quick. Let's overthink. What if
he found out that you had anInstagram and he's like, oh, this
base lied to me. I knoweverything she does. I feel like he
knows. Yeah, He's like,I listen to you every night. I'm

(26:30):
listening to this podcast right now.Yeah, I'm reading you two stars.
I know this girl. Okay,Well, if you're listening, what would
you tell him? Hey, thereout there, if you're listening. Okay,
this story leads to a topic andit's not necessarily to me, but
let's say tomorrow he texts me andwe're texting every day and we like go

(26:51):
on a couple of dates, andthen Valentine's Day approaches. The question is
when you're talking to someone early ordating someone early, and Valentine's Day happens
to pop up. Is it tooearly to ask that person to be your
Valentine or to even like make planson that day, or do you kind
of like avoid that day altogether?Like, oh, butch, I was
sleeping all of February fourteenth. Ijust woke up and it's February fifteenth.

(27:11):
It's too early. You have topretend you were like in a coma for
a day. Just just say HappyValentine's there's too much like Verde thirteenth.
You're talking February fifteenth. Oh mygod, you will never believe this.
I dropped my phone in the middleof the sea. Just bought a new
one. How was your day yesterday? I don't know about that analogy of
the phone falling into the sea.If someone doesn't text me back like what,

(27:33):
they either died or their phone droppedin the middle of it depends.
What do you think. I feellike. I feel like I've actually like
I feel like I've been on adate with somebody, like a little bit
before Valentine's Day and like it wascoming up and was like, let's go
have dinner. Again, it's notlike be my Valentine, you know,
yeah, what you do for therest of your life exactly. Like I

(27:56):
feel like if it lines up likethat, like that's really cute and it
could be like that's cool. Ithink that's cool organically, like it just
right, like it's happening, likeit could just be uh, it could
be just a day on the fourteenth, that's what happens. And that's even
kind of keeps to my friend.Yeah, that's okay, but that could
be cute to you, like,yeah, we've been my Valentine. That
that's hell, Like you eat thatship up right, and it's like guaranteed

(28:18):
right, you didn't take me outof Valentine's Day. Calm down, I
mean if for men and men andmostly we're still in the pandemic guys,
remember that producer Chris, What doesthat mean? We're pandemic? So wear
a mask while you're doing it?Wrap it up. No, I don't

(28:44):
know. I think I would.I wouldn't do it anymore. When I
was working at Lows like two yearsago, three years ago, okay,
I actually asked this girl coworker ofmine to be my Valentine. Oh that's
like talking or dating like that.It was just like text messages kind of
like that blirting, little flirting butnot crazy. You haven't with he or

(29:07):
anything. No, no, no, okay, the story kind of it
goes downhill. But I asked herto be my Valentine. She said yes,
Valentine's Day. Like I got thislike nice like tulip okay thing because
like you don't want to do roses, right, that's too because you want
her to lips and then like somelittle chocolate things that she used to like

(29:37):
and what always talking about? Right, and like I asked her out to
dinner that night she said yes,whatever. She was like, oh,
like call me before you head out, so I know you're on your way
or whatever. Right, why areyou laughing already? He probably already knows
it's gonna go. Oh, soI'm ready to go, and I I'm

(30:00):
gonna overthink her just like you.And when like, I'm very bad,
I'm very intentional when it comes tolike call me or text me. Like
when I say one or the other, I mean one or the other.
Right, let me know if youmade it home safely. No, like
like if I tell you text melater or call me lator like there's a
reason I use text or call,like it depends on what I'm going to
do. I'm intentional with that kindof stuff. So whenever she told me

(30:22):
she said call me before you headout, I was like, wait,
like, does that really mean called? Does that mean text? So I
was going back and forth on whatto do. But I was like,
let me just text her, let'sgo. And it was weird because it
was like the first time I wasever going to go out with her,
Like that, right, what's yoursign? I don't even know? I
know, So I text her,didn't get a reply, and I decided

(30:45):
to call like thirty minutes later orsomething like that, maybe forty and no
answer. And then I get atext like two minutes after that and she
was like, hey, sorry,I ended up going out with someone else
tonight. And I was it crazy. I was like, that's crazy.
I was feeling yes, yes,So so in the moment, I was

(31:07):
kind of like, okay, likeyou're telling me the truth. Cool,
So I just replied, it's cool. Maybe next time. That's all I
said. I don't know what tosay, and like, so, but
check this out. The next dayat work, I found out that the
person she went out with was anothercoworker. God that's and like on her

(31:33):
story, it was like a storyof like the rose bouquet that she got
that night, and like in thecar, I'm assuming he picked her up.
I don't know. And so eversince then, I like, you
feel like crap, right, Likein the moment, I was kind of
like, damn, like you couldhave. Well, that's when that's when
I realized, like I made themistake of like first never never asked someone

(31:55):
on the first she went with anotherLow's employee, as I never stop improved.
He was from pro Services, waylike I did. But then I
mean obviously nothing ever happened, butit made me kind of very like very

(32:19):
and very like like now I'm likeon Valentine's Day, I'm good. No,
she's kind of her but that's sofund up unless I'm actually dating you
or something like that, like I'mnot about to ask you at least for
now, I don't know. It'slike I gotta see you don't sha where
you eat? Just that that's reallythat's even really hard. Yeah, I

(32:42):
only shout at home people, sothat that is true. Because after that,
never again, like I never liketalked to a coworker like that before
never okay, and I did learnlike, okay, you really got to
be careful with that. My heartbroke saying someone every day like that,
ain't it? Oh yeah? Becauseyou had to see her the ana am
yeah on the next day, differentdepartments, so it was like like rare

(33:06):
when you cross backs, but damnthe one her. She was on my
team, so yeah, like didyou what you did? You ice her
out? You tell her like like, I didn't engage in that in that
topic anymore. I kind of justkept pushing it, like you kind of
just have to own it at thatpoint, and like who I was back
then, I'm trying to what Iwas her in that situation, Like if

(33:30):
she was if they were talking talking, I would have preferred her to tell
me before like hey, I'm kindof talking to someone, But that was
really weighing out her eyes, likeshe really was. She I'm not gonna
let it take me on a datetonight, she felt back, and I
didn't want to say yeah, butI'd rather would have gotten the yeah.
Then I would stand me up andthen let me know that you actually had
other players. She was waiting andI don't know she was for sure waiting

(33:53):
and she's like, who am Igoing to go out first? You know,
I don't you know what This isgoing to sound sucked up, But
she might have really been into otherdude and he might have been playing games
and you asked her and she waslike but then he finally crept around and
was like, actually, bitch,I'm gonna ask you. Stay surprised.
She was like, oh, thankgod, I mean they didn't work out.
Oh no, Like when you workwith somebody like you hear it,

(34:16):
You're like, I don't know,I don't know. Yeah, never stopping
proving, you're like, how's yourrelationship, Chrissy? Not good? That's
cool, that's crazy. So yeah, I don't know. I'd rather say
the little Valentine's thing for like someonethat you're at least dating a little more

(34:37):
than just yeah, you know,the very beginning to answer your question.
So when I worked at Lake shelA, this never happened because Valentine's Day
is like the worst day to workat a restaurant, like Valentine's Mother's Day,
Like you're planning to be there atthree in the morning, but overbuked,
like they say they scheduled it correctlyand they organized this year. No,
they're not your boss is gonna fuckyou. It's gonna be madness,

(34:59):
but like we're all going through it. There was this one kid that was
like the host. I mean hiwere like he was like probably a year
younger than me. He was socute, but I'm like a workaholic,
and he was one of those peoplethat like did not care about work,
which I'm respected, you know,fuck the man, but it's just like
not my weird we didn't see I'deye on that part. But he was
so cute, Like I remember onetime we hung out and like we like
stopped at the gas station and likethe clerk was like, you guys are

(35:21):
such a cute couple, and hewas like thank you, Like we would
have been so cute. But I'llnever forget. We like were slaving this
this episode this uh shift, andI remember he made like a He's like
Anglin and I made us reservations atScott, like Scott's like we're gonna go,
And in my head, I reallylike that would have been but of
course he didn't because he's broken,does not work hard. But in the
moment, like daydreamed him was dululyfor a second, like how cute,

(35:44):
Like I'm so tired right now fromthe shift, Like how cute would that
been if your ass really made hisreservations? I mean we didn't get off
to like one, like there's noway, Like there was no follow up
after that, like okay, youstill want to go to Scott's. Yeah,
I guess it was a joke.Could be diferent days, like a
different yeah, but no, no, I'm follow up just talking you still

(36:06):
at the lake? No, Idon't think so. I don't think anyone's
there anymore. I went there andI was like, who works here?
That's but I feel like that story, Abe, you should not let that
stop you from like making spontaneous decisionsand dates like that's cute. Yeah,
that was bold and it took alot of courage because I was back then

(36:30):
definitely super a lot shyer. Yeah. See, you take that as a
lesson of like, Okay, atleast that taught me how to like take
that stuff, you know all thetime. There's no shame in that story,
But I don't know, No,I'm not saying shame. I think
more as a win, like,oh that was my first time finally branching
out like it sucks that it didn'twork out, But I honestly think that
she had some other shady ship goingwith that guy, Like he probably was

(36:52):
playing her the whole time, andshe had it stirring along and then finally
you made like someone else, soit was it was perfect, but then
he came around Like it sounds fuckedup, but that's what it was.
But that has nothing to do withyou, which is why I'm saying any
other woman would be so happy thatsomeone made spontaneous just like I said.
I was like doolu in ahead on. My coworker said that, I was
like, am I gonna fall inlove with this person ten nights? Like?

(37:14):
Is this our story? Is thishow it starts? Like anyone would
love to hear I made? Doyou want to go out tonight? So
don't let that stop you from that? Yeah, So our conclusion that is
never tually like for the Valentine's plans, No, I think it just depends.
I feel like what you said aboutlike if it happens organically, if
like in your case for example,like if the third date happens to land,

(37:37):
you know, on the fourteenth,that could be cool let's still do
something Valentine's Day, Eve, thoughyou don't have to say you are a
Valentine. But it's also like togo to some balls, you're taking out
all Valentine's Day you are. We'rejust gonna ignore the fact that it's Fabruary
fourteenth, Like the restaurant probably hasa V Day set menu. Everyone turned
fucking Valentine's exactly, yeah, exactly, Like we don't know what today is

(37:59):
exactly. Oh, we're just andI think it's it's like being an adult.
Yeah, and it's like it doesn'tmean anything. It's Valentine's Day.
It's literally a hallmark day. Itcan be ordinary if that's what works for
you. Okay, so we talkedabout too early. Let's say you and
your partner have been together for along time, like going on a decade.

(38:22):
Do you so ask your partner tobe your Valentine? Absolutely? Yes,
I would say yes, absolutely,Yeah, that's so cute. Yeah,
I personally, whoever you are outthere in the future, I would
like you to ask me every singleyear. No, I agree with you
because I never forgot this thing.I forgot where it saw it was on
TV or something where they said likenever stop dating your partner. Yeah you

(38:45):
know what I mean, like likealways be boyfriend girlfriend? Yeah, you
know like that initial I I loveall that, and I agree it does
all that. But I will sayI was in a relationship for a long
time and I think it did getto a point where I mean in I
had on like bitch you, butgive me a gift today and like we've
got and we're definitely having sex today, Like you know, there's like those
things are like definitely, But Ithink I wasn't like that pressed to be

(39:06):
like asked me to be your valentine? Oh no, no, we're hanging
out, you know, And ittakes away that sincerity of it if you
asked me to ask you you knowwhat I mean. Oh yeah, so
just now to do it, LikeI'd rather like hurry up and have it
come from me than no. Butthere are some people in both relationships where

(39:27):
you got to tell them because eventuallythat gets lost and you got to be
like, hey, yesterday, I'mabout to break up with you, asked
yesterday my boyfriend he did ask me, how do you do it? How
do you like? So like hedidn't ask me to be his valentine,
but he was like, so likeValentine's Days next week, Like what do
you want to do? Like,do you have any ideas? Do you
want to do anything? Yeah?In the back of my mind, I'm

(39:49):
just thinking like I'm broke as fuckyou do anything. It's like I felt
really stressed, but I'm just like, yeah, like we should go get
dinner, like we should go goget massages that we've been saying we were
gonna do, like I gotta coop. Yeah. He was like yeah,
yeah, yeah, let's do it. But like I was like, loving
ship, it's crazy. Yeah,there's plans for the fourteenth. There are

(40:14):
plans for the fourteenth. And Iwas like in that moment, I was
like, wow, I haven't reallyI feel I do feel feel really lucky
like he said it it's a weekaway or whatever. And you know,
so if he hadn't asked would youdo it? Oh yeah, definitely,
definitely yeah, And then you wouldask him like yeah definitely, or I
would say like what do we do, Like let's let's let's make plans.

(40:36):
Yeah, okay, And I thinkwe're we're talking about like do we ask
people to be our Valentine's or wedo we talk about plans, and I
think that asking to be your valentineis so corny, but I would love
that. Sometimes corny is necessary.Yeah, but it's necessary, Baby and
Andy, like just regular. Ithink that's cool too. Like it's like,

(40:57):
are we going to acknowledge the elephantin the room. It's like we
both know we get dinner every Friday, but this one is February fourteenth.
You know, even if you don'tgo out that day because some couples wait
till that Friday week, or ifyou're long distance, you plan it.
You schedule a day, I don'tknow. No, something got to be
extra special with it, like youshowing up with flowers, your two lips

(41:19):
for my two lips, you know, like a box of something that signifies
I understand today is a holiday andI need to celebrate our love. Man
is very romantic, so I loveromance. I love Jorney Church this time
because it's ash Wednesday, so allday. No yeah, no, no,

(41:42):
no, I'm not going to thatday regardless I want to. Why
not? I want to get someoneelse wants on their forehead. No better
recognize on religious the giant put itsomeone before you God exactly. I was
gonna say something about Chris. Ohno, I just it's so crazy seeing

(42:06):
Chris in like a committed relationship.Oh, Like there was a time,
okay, I can only relate itto like, there was this time when
I was at like Shela, youguys, I swear to god, I
went over two years with like nosex, and like in my mind,
I was like, I may neverhave sex again, like I really thought
I would never Like I was like, oh, this is it for me.
There's a time when Chris was sosingle. I literally was like and

(42:28):
not even like feeling bad or anything, but I was like, I think
Chris is going to be single forever. I think that's his journey. But
I cannot imagine him serious about anyperson because I was just like everybody and
you were so set in it,like you standing out on Bennis like which,
I'm single and I'm gonna be singleand I don't understand. Like it
wasn't like funck love like it was. It didn't come from a bitter like

(42:50):
the fuck around like I'm gonna getmine, but like I don't need a
man the way I get the way. It wasn't even like oh I'm standing
like because I want to be ahoe or because I hate love, or
like it was not that there waslike no thing attached to it. It
was just very much like he justneeds to like that's him. That's what
he's gonna be forever, single,Like like I was almost becoming okay with
it, like you know, Idon't plan to be in Chris's wedding because

(43:12):
it's not gonna happen, you know, Like I almost had to be at
peace with it. In love,He's like in love, only it's only
been two years. Yeah, it'llbe two years, like in March or
I don't know that March April no. I held at the other day we
were with other people, they're like, oh, wins your anniversary, Like

(43:36):
you know when is That was likeit's like April tenth, and then like
an hour later he was like,it's March tenth or something like it's in
my calendar. I forget it's March. I forget it. That's how I
remember as there, Oh it's Aprilten, table tenth ten. So if

(43:59):
you have a partner bitch as someto be your Valentine, have you guys
ever got like a super wat giftfor Valentine and you're like mm hmmm.
Is there an expectation to get alittle some some I think there shouldn't be,
but there is. But yeah,you know what I mean. I
don't want to be this way aboutit, like I think, because even
like giving a gift, I thinkyou like, for example, me myself,

(44:21):
I have an expectation of what Iwant to give. You know,
like you want to I'm a biggift. I want to think about it
or you know, I don't know. It's like you got all you knew
this holiday was coming up every yearFebruary fourteenth. Guess what it is and
if you can, right, Likethere's times where I guess you really can't.
That's okay, but I can't evenman gets and I'm like, this

(44:42):
has never happened to me before.I've never got flowers one time. I'll
never forget. It wasn't in Valentine'sDay. We were like walking on the
street and we were passing like aflower like market or something. He yeah,
he made me a bouquet. Nobodygives me. I started to cry
like this I would cry too.I don't want to, but like it's

(45:07):
Valentine's probably gift and like, what'san example of like what's your respect want
an AirPod? Air force together?It depends how long we've been together.
I guess if you're good like firstyear gifts, there's good three year gifts

(45:30):
about like for example, like betweenI guess okay, yeahs down back and
okay, I'm not expecting the newiPhone your love language receiving gifts I'm giving
okay, okay, okay. Honestly, I'm like I think about my past
relationship and I'm like, like,is that if I repeated that gift to
someone else just because that's how bombit was? You know what? That's

(45:51):
actually a good point the whole likelove language thing, because like if you're
not yours is like quality time orwhatever, and I give you a gift
like that might not be a specialto you as planning something that's more it's
like we're gonna hang out. Ilove quality time too, But I mean
that's a good point. Like someoneif you know someone likes I would like
to unwrap a box. And Ifeel like if I was like in a

(46:15):
year or two relationships and we havegot Valentine's and all you got if someone
if someone gave me flowers and likea handwritten card expressing their love and devotion
to me and like telling me howmuch they love me and what they love
about me. That is I wouldcry, yeah, I mean cry.

(46:37):
Yeah, that would make me definitelygiving over here yea. And it is
sad to say, but I guesslike maybe when we're like down the bro

(47:00):
like we've been together for a longtime, then yeah, I guess you
could just give me some flowers orwhatever, because you know, I know
you want in the beginning, Ineed some cute gifts or like uh and
vice versa, or like if youlike planned like a day for us,
like we'd go out, like oh, I'm yeah, Like that kind of
makes up for it a little bit, like like if that's the gift quality

(47:21):
time together, He's like, Andhonestly, I think God counts as a
gift. But you know what amI geting on an echo sad dinner?
Okay, a moment from all thisship? I really I can't It's so
open here. No, I loveit, I love it, but I'm
just like I can't wait for theday. I guess. Okay, what
if you got your partner of bombass gift and they just gave you flowers,

(47:43):
You're fine with that. I don'tlike, I gave you a new
iPhone and you got me flowers.I know they probably picked up on the
way here. I think it dependsbecause what like there's some people that's right
exactly, That's what I'm saying.You have all your you know, Valentine's
put up every February fourteenth. It'snot like each You're like, oh,

(48:05):
what does it fall on again?I know it's a Sunday, but what
day? Like, No, it'sFebruary fourteenth every single one year for christ
the last Christmas or two Christmases ago, I gave my give him a fuck.
He gave me like such a meaningfulget first of all at Christmas,
he gives me. I have atattoo on the back of my uh whatever.
I have a tattoo and it isI'm gonna be a sign ingguage interpreted

(48:28):
so it is it's actually hands thatthe tattoo is of hands in my favorite
sign. And anyways, he makesme a bracelet that it has hands that
makes some silver like this is theyou can't see that the sign is content,
just google it content and it's ina bracelet. I literally got him

(48:49):
a jockstrap no, baby, II got Okay, we were going we

(49:09):
were going to Disneyland that year,so it was like the gift is a
Disneyland and going to get in thehotel and driving Christmas and his moms and
I gave him the jock shrap likebefore novels that I'm not giving this you
at your mom's and what did youget up? Oh my god, so
mad. Literally you gave him thegift before. Yeah, you got yours,

(49:32):
Yeah, before I got mine.Okay, I can hold up like
yeah, yeah, so I'm gotmom's giftless and he gives me like the
gift of the fucking so so forthis year. So I had the topic
this year this year, what didyou get? Oh, I guess he
writes. He writes scripts. He'slike a playwright, and so I got
that his script, like the PDIAversion. I got the ship made into

(49:55):
a book. Now we're talking alwaysyeah, show you later, he cried.
Yeah, it's secondar and you aregiving good gifts. So you guys
are throwing shade at me about thegifts. But look at you. If
you just got the flowers, I'dbe trash, you know, to give
a good gifts act like we're notabove good gifts. We're gonna top each

(50:15):
other now every year. I don'tknow, I don't really I'm not big
on gifts like that, Like Ireally don't care. Like now that I
don't, it doesn't. Yeah,like if you got me something that it
wasn't what I did. Like it'svery bad guests. This is a Valentine's
Day, I mean, I willtell let me tell the story real quick.
Christina, Well, there's always aChristina story. I wish she was

(50:37):
here today. No. For Christmas, her and her cousin are really close.
They literally live together their roommates.They're super tight around the same age.
For Christmas, she got her acat, a support animal, like
a whole pet order for the restof her life. Emotional yes, and
like some other cute little guests SoBrita. I mean, Christina's cousin got
her makeup whites and not even thedouble pack. The single makeup stoped at

(51:06):
the gas station was like cleaning herface last night. She's easy. Oh
my Godlina was dripping makeup. Iscrazy. Emotional support your face got her
an emotional support animal, and shegot me make Wait was she mean?

(51:30):
Like what was like how was herreaction. Did she she just had a
lie because she I think her cousinalways gives her Like really honestly, maybe
the cousin isn't a gift. Likeeven this year she my cousin, my
cousin, my friend was like tellingher like, oh, you're my sick
Chrisanna, like you know, here'slike send me a list of all the
stuff you want whatever. And thenlike the cousin was like, oh,
I forgot, I got you.I forgot we had each other. Christina

(51:54):
has like a Google dog. Shecould get her cousin Like that's just too
different. Personalities. We're born onthe same day April nineteen, were the
same Mary, so we're like giftgivers. Like I always love giving a
big, like expensive like gift,like oh he's gonna love this, but
also like a thoughtful one. Yeah. For example, one fire ass gift

(52:16):
that my ex I gave him.He was a big Ice Giants fan and
I'm an Ace fan. I gothim against the Dodgers behind home plate and
we still always watched the office.So I got him a Dundee Award,
so like a thoughtful one and thena bomb ask on that, oh you
know he gave me and I shoutto my mom. I know, Mom
got convinced him. But one timehe bought me a new iPhone and a

(52:37):
snow perfume and flowers Jesus Christ withthat one, Yeah he did. He
didn't go that year. And we'relike bro college students. So okay,
don't get me wrong, I'll takea nice yeah, but you know I

(53:01):
thought that counts. I'm says qualitytime. That's what I care about.
What about like attle bit? Okay, so like back then, like the
prison even talk about it, butlike you're talking about, but the passion
was like hell alone. Like shewould always tell you dot never write me
notes about for like three years,right, and then like that fourth year,

(53:23):
like I made like a big assphoto bit with like hell of our
pictures on our phone, right,like I had to go to CBS and
water ship. That costs me hellof money. I even go cap there's
a lot of pictures, every singlepicture that's like, see that's sweet.
Like you took her notes, Shegave you notes she wanted. She was
like I want this, you don'tgive me this, and then you got

(53:45):
it for her? Did she cry? Yeah? See, I try to
he's weird about crying though. Yeahhe's still to handle a therapist. Yeah
that's like therapist. You don't goingto get my boyfriend this year, this

(54:05):
pussy see. But yeah, Imean I like all that other stuff too.
I feel like we people. Ilike I get a gift. It's
like it's like I like giving goodgifts. I like receiving them. It's
not like I'm not above that stuff. And honestly, if my boyfriend my
partner was really down bad, likeI understand those things, but not every
year, Like okay, okay,you know when I'm giving you these bomb

(54:28):
as kiss, that's fair. Youshould want to return the love. As
what I'm saying, I'm going togive you the gifts, my boyfriend,
the gift whatever my man's wants toget, Like he could ask me for
whatever, I'll buy for him,but my thing like for me, I'm
like, I'm giving you this everynight, so like it's nothing special,

(54:49):
like I we have sex, youknow what I mean, Like, yeah,
maybe I'll wear a sexy lingerie orsomething, but like it's not like,
oh, this is a present somethingwe did yesterday. You know,
that's that's what you asked for.Like in that case, that's that's an
easy gift if that's what you want. Yeah, easy, easy, peasy,
you got it. I'll sex isnot a gift that we need to

(55:14):
make a PSA Valentine's Day. Sexis not a gift, And I feel
like it's definitely a lot of guything of like, of course, on
the guys minds, like I know, I'm about stuck with my girlfriend tonight,
like that is something they do lookforward to and that's why they're doing
the other things, so they couldget that. I get that. But
when it's just like I guess,when you're like later, I feel like
that's what happened to me, Likelater, it's like okay, it's not
just get boring. Okay, we'rejust gonna have sex and dinner. Like

(55:37):
it doesn't make a special like okay, but we all that like sexy lingerie,
Like no, I get it,that's something a little spicy extra.
But guys and women like that's nota price, like I got you something
like No, that's not a gift. Hey, that's someone here. Wait

(55:57):
he's gonna join us. Sex isnot a gift. Ps. It's so
cheamy. We always have sex.How is that a gift. That's fine.
That's that's a cheap way out.It is a cheap way out.
It's just to be like, ohI got you something like I don't know,

(56:19):
you know you didn't. Bottom line, Angelina needs a gift. It's
a necessity any better. But evenfor my girlies and boys out there who
are on like they like quality timeand all that stuff, if that's your
partner, still sex is not agift. That's all I'm saying. Okay,
there's nothing romantic about saying I gotyou this dick for Valentine's Day when

(56:40):
you got me that dick on aWednesday night, even if it's flopping around
like Drake, like you got anenhancement, like yeah, if you're sure
grew five inches and sure if yougot a new dick, wow, I

(57:00):
cannot it was going around there.He definitely casts it a shadow. Good
for him. Wosday? Well,I hope everyone has a great Valancine's Day.
Does it fall on like a weekendat all? Or not? Oh?

(57:21):
It's a Wednesday, hope day homeday. That sucks on a weekday.
It does make it a little harder. I feel like a lot of
couples will be like well, we'redoing something this Saturday or the next Saturday.
I know a lot of people whoare doing because we work in and
that kind of helps because like ifyou want to do a reservation or something
like, it kind of leaves likeyou have like Friday, Saturday, Sunday,

(57:44):
and everybody's gonna choose one of thosedays, so like it kind of
spreads it out and you don't haveto go somewhere that's super packed. Right.
Well, everyone treat your partner specialthis Valentine's Day. If you're broke,
that's fine. If you only havethis dick or this v to give
their partner, spice it up.You know, I have some lingerie,
have the Drake dildo. Whatever you'regonna do, make it a little more

(58:06):
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This is today in the Bay withyour hosts and Ngelina. Valentine's Day

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in the Bay. There are somegood places, I okay, me and
my Frank Garcina, we're such alesson for each other. No, literally
every year though we do go toLamacha in Brooklyn. I literally, so
I go back. So I don'tthink we're gonna go this water Marca,
Lamarca La Marcia. I don't know, Marcha. It's march It's Marca.

(59:01):
It's Marchia or Marca, I said, Marcia. Okay, okay, I
think it's you think it's Marca,like the wine like Lamarca. No,
no, no, no, no, it's La Marcia. But yeah,
the topest place I would want togo there, Lamarca La Macha. We

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want, yeah, I want togo there. That place is cute.
That's one of the first places thatI went on a date with Julia.
Is actually, oh really that isthe day spot. Yes, yes,
I'll actually I'm going to say thishere because it's never really been said before
since then, okay, but itwas like one of our first days.

(59:42):
We were probably like like two monthsin and we were like we were we
were like crazy for each other,like I mean, we still are,
we still, but it was justthat like living, eating, breathing,
you never forget. I'm putting thissh on the record right now because for
the record, right he said,And I don't know if if you remember

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saying this, I don't know ifthis is my delusional brain remembering. But
he's like, should I just buythe ring already? I love because I
do. So he was like inthat moment, bitch, I love you.
Just get married right now. That'sso cute. So I sometimes think

(01:00:25):
about him, like did he reallysay that? I think he did?
He did? He did? Yeah, No, I've never brought it up.
I don't be crazy. I'm crazyand tell you. But if you
listen to this podcast, maybe youwill look into the camera looking to the
camera if you're listening and watching.I think she said, let me buy
the ring already. So yeah,I think he definitely said it, but

(01:00:47):
I don't think he met. Like, but I'm going to marry you maybe
in the future, but no,definitely it's gonna We talked about that's the
cutest thing to say, like you'remy wife, like like yeah, yeah,
yeah, literally. Anyways, that'scute. That place is cute.
It's fucking good food. I rememberthat other time two we've been there,
Remember once I was fucked up?You know every time because we stay there,

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we go through a couple of bottles, a couple of free sangrias,
and then the owner sat out toSergio, he'll like hang out with us,
give us more bottles. But yeah, the last time he kind of
did a dirty because he like boughtsome fucking uh incredible hulk, you know
what I mean, mixed up withthe dark and makes ship turned green like
we had hypnotic. It was likea hypnotic bottlem Were you for thereb That
was Christina, Yeah, I thinkit was my birthday. I don't remember.

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That was remember one time I wasthere and I was like, what
is going on? We were herefor a long time, and I was
every time we go there, westay after hours, like we sit there
for hours, like like oh we'vebeen here for five hours. It was
so fun. But yeah, it'ssuch a cute restaurants. All the food's
good, all the coquettas are good, Like every tapa is fire, every
is fired. Everything. I lovethat. I want to go there.

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The place really turned me out becauseI mean, I love San Francisco.
Now I live here. Now,I mean I live here, but I
work here. Now you know,I know more all the bombs food spots
are here. But growing up,like I was such an Eastpake girly,
Like if me my friends went out, we're going to Oakland when I going
to San Francisco, and like theonly time I would ever go to San
Francisco is if I went to ILove And I think they're more I think

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they're more a Cuban or spot.They're not necessarily Spanish tap us, but
they do have tap us, youknow, Like I think it's good,
but like similar like San Gria,same like tapas. Yeah. But after
once I found that place in Berkeley, I was like, oh goodbye.
Yeah, I mean I'll go there, but I haven't been in so long.
I've went on a date there onetime. It's such a good day

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spot. Wait, shout out toChristina again because recently she got asked to
go on a date there and shethought it was like She's like, is
that basic? And I'm like,Chad's is such a perfect day night spot.
You guys, remember that where thisgirl wouldn't go Like she was like,
it's too basic because like everyone goes, And I'm like, I think

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Child is such a good first datespot. Like it's screams first date,
San Gria, the Shrimp, youcannot go wrong. It's cute. I
don't know, you guys guess thatlike, oh if it's too popular a
spot like no, no, no, it's basic. The food is fire
and the sangra really is and Ilove like, I think I like you
more if you're down for whatever.Yeah, I love I love that because

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I'm very like, yeah I'm not. One time, that's cute. Yeah,
I was like, why do youlike the city so much? I'm
like, because I grew like mywhole my half, Like actually, when
I turned seventeen, I moved toEssex, so like my whole adulthood was
like over here. And then shewas like, so, what's your favorite
spot. Every was like, don'tbe like it's just kind of like a
regular like it's like, no,it's like a like I mean, it's

(01:03:50):
not like a fair. So thefirst time, like we went on a
day it is like, let metake you over there real quickly, she
went to beefs Man. It waslike she liked it. She really liked
it though. She was like,damn, this is really good. Yeah,
that's very cute. First, it'snot like a real like like a
deal place. She takes someone onthe first day, top of ship.
It's like a hole in the wall. It's beach burgers. Though that ship

(01:04:11):
is fired is good. It isgood. Oh my god. Not Beach
ChIL A bees Burgers like the apostrophe. Like I said, beach like swimming
the beach on the same page thebeach said. Beach beach Burgers is it's
once and it's like it's across thefood. It's really good. I bought

(01:04:36):
it last week. Yeah, butI like to beach beachil A is like
cha sister restaurants San Francisco, andits two stories and it's over looking the
water. Cute. Oh my god, I know exactly where. Yeah,
that's like, that's a hell goodrelated first be ChIL A like and Honor,
barn and Rebel, also a sisterrestaurant, Fun Facts, Learn something

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New every is also a really cuteWhat are you guys doing for Valencine's Day?
There a Nito's backyard in Oakland nearJack London. I think we this
year, we're just doing like alittle I think we'll have like a drink
special, just like one fun,cute little drink. It's like usually pink
and split serves cue. But oursister restaurant, Odin is going to have

(01:05:21):
like I think tickets are almost soldout actually, but it's like a little
mescalaria and they're gonna have like afull, like for three or four course
meal with like mescal pairings and likethat kind of thing. So yeah,
I think if you honestly, Odinis like the date spot again. The
food is like it's like kind ofsmall food items. If you're hell hungry,

(01:05:42):
I want to go there. Butyou can order, Yeah, you
can order a lot of You shouldrun that checkout. Yeah, yes,
but like you're going for the mescaland the drinks for sure. The drinks
are fire second Spot exactly exactly.It's cute. But Odin me is pretty
good. See you know what theguy that was talking to me up.

(01:06:04):
I want to do something VAL's Day. I want to go get drinks,
but I guess I couldn't because Ihave to work anyway. So it doesn't
have to be to be like aputting my tracks in from the restaurant.
Ye there you go. Okay,we're gonna make it happen if he ever

(01:06:26):
text me, like what if hejust never text me again, never talking
to I want to give you theopportunity to if that's what you want to
do. I don't want to stopyou. My time is way too present
for you to gost me. Timeis money and money not yeah. If
you no, no, no,no, you ain't playing me, son,

(01:06:47):
No, I'm gonna let you.It's not no like anyone that plays
me plays themselves. You're not playingme. But if you want to go,
I'm gonna give you the opportunity to. I don't like, I believe
in karmel. I don't ghost people, but you're gonna ghost me. I
hope gets you, bitch. He'sgotta go therapy. He's got to go
therapy. We're healing right now.But I'm just saying. I mean,

(01:07:14):
I've been ghosting, but I hitthem. I'm like, bro, what
you want? I can I stillhit them up? He's like, my
text agree, but I'm gonna stillkeep texting her. He comes back.
I resurrector what is some other goodValentine's Day? Spot? Like, what
is your ideal first date? OrV Day in the bay. He's like,

(01:07:40):
like, I know, it's fine. Honestly, I do love the
view. I love Chris. Youhonestly like and you could restaurant. I'm
kind of a sucker for a brewery. I like, I do like it.
I like, yeah, it's yeah, it's like, like, what's
again casual. It's definitely more lowkey casual. I love that too.

(01:08:01):
I love it if we can talkto each other. I don't want to
be super fancy, like white tableclothon a first day too much for me.
It's a littleised. It's scary.It's scary, and I'm going to
think, like, Okay, thisguy has high expectations, or maybe he's
rich and I'm not, or justlike the overthinking over grabbing the bill,
or yeah, I'm gonna get thestakes salads. I don't know. I've

(01:08:29):
gone to a brewery multiple times formultiple first days. It's ten out of
ten would recommend right a beer lover, Yeah beyond love it right, Oh
yeah, okay, and that's Ilove that one too. You were there
for like two hours, Like SanLeandro. Super cute. They also have
like a little food track that youcan like do that. Even Drake's Dealership

(01:08:53):
in Oakland, that's how cute.They got fire pants outside. Yeah,
fucking fire ass pizza. I alwayshear out that when I go there.
It's outside. But the rats aredogs. That's not a rat family,
that's my that's my co workers tryingto take your order the table for you.

(01:09:18):
There's a new one in San leright next to Sola Celebrity the fields
working. That's where I like goingthere is good. Yeah, there's I

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think it's like on the other sideof where Levi Stadium is, Bye by
that star Wucks we went to theother day. It's yeah. The day
of was like the Levi's thing.It's it's called bear Bottle. Oh yeah,
yeah, I think that. Ithink I drank like the way they
have it set up. It's indoorand outdoor, really open, but it's

(01:10:01):
it's good. Another good tip.I feel like if you want to exactly
maybe not the pressure of going toa fancy restaurant, like maybe things they're
too early, but you still wantto press them, Like you can never
go wrong with the rooftop bar,because that kind of came to like it's
kind of casual, but we're stillfancy out here. Get the view,
you get the views. Probably nicedrinks in Mexico in the mission what is

(01:10:23):
it called the rooftop bar. It'scalled the roof in Spanish. It's just
went there, she recommended. Asthe food is good, the drinks are
good. It's you like a finAngelik's favorite spot. It is Caya rooftop

(01:10:47):
at Yeah how much? What isit? How much? Crudo? Oh
yeah, one of the because there'slike there's like three much things, but
I forgot which one it is,but we got to order like three orders
of it. It's like the bestman she ever had. I need to
drench our goods. Bug. Theview is beautiful. It is a little
pricey though, it is. Whereis that at, honey? Like how

(01:11:08):
close? Yeah? Yeah, Hiltonor something? Yeah, kyo have no.
I always want to go to speakingspeak easy right. This is a
shout. I forgot their name already, damn it. Never mind. It
was like a Japanese place, youknow I'm talking about. I think I
hear the city. You literally walkin and it looks like a thing,

(01:11:30):
and then like honestly, like whateveryou got in your pocket could be like
some o that ship. It couldbe like a fucking post or whatever.
And then you just be like,I want to pond this. Oh my
cousin, Yeah, it's crazy ship. And they opened up the door and
it's a fucking wine bar in theback. I think it's my cousin she
had Yeah, because they kept tellingus like, don't forget to bring something
like bring something cheap, something youdon't like because it away. Yeah,

(01:11:54):
yeah, that's part of the experience. Was speak easy, but that would
be cute. Yeah, it's veryquiet in there, so it's very intimate
because it's very intimate. Yeah,I like that. I saved one on
my phone that I like, wait, send them to me because I want
to. I also love stand upcomedy. I feel like a good stand

(01:12:15):
up nights hit up paper Plane.Paper Plane is a cute ast bar in
San Jose, right on First Street. Go to the comedy, get some
drinks before after that is a hellcue bar. I went there from my
twenty first birthday. Ye. Yes, there a backdrop like their bar set
up is so nice, Like that'san ideal first date in the Bay two.

(01:12:36):
I'm not really on anymore. Therewas a time. There was a
time with a temple, and thenI never had that era. I always
went to and prov and that's it. You've never been no tuesdays long ago
we're talking about. I Oh,I never had to take it go to

(01:13:00):
therapy. I think No, Idon't know why. I think is always
like a drive. I've always feltlike for me, people would be like,
say, no, a drive orlike people will say like, oh,
it's always like ending in a likefight or and I can't. I
don't like and like see me seea roach when we were Oh, no,
I guess I was Stanford that wasIs it like like like San Jose

(01:13:26):
in summertime they got roaches on thestreet walking they have to stop like clicking
to pass Redwood City. No,I don't like seeing roaches walk with me.
How do you guys feel about likea hike? If we go on
a hike, I don't love you. I even go okay because I really
like nature. Me too. Ilove nature. People don't really know that

(01:13:47):
about me. They really be thinkingabout they'd be like, oh, he'd
be outshot with the hommy they popbottles. Na. I like to wake
up early and go on to hike. Let's le let's go do something active.
I men mean to call you that, but it's like, let's get
out shot and do something bro.There's so much like natural. I love
a hike. I love a hotgirl walk. I don't know if I
like it for a first day likewho it is? Yeah, as a

(01:14:14):
first day. I'm actually on ahike with somebody one time and that was
fun on the first day. Noton a first day. It was like
a maybe like a like I'm nottalking about like a longyard like yeah,
I guess depends like water, youknow, but like mission peak like no
right right, like like maybe notMission peak because not everybody. That's not

(01:14:35):
a h that's the last mission peak. The last part is up is not
a hike. I'm thinking. I'mthinking of in the city mission. Yes,
take me the twin piece like andlike a backpack with the water.

(01:14:59):
Yeah, we like every fourth ofJuly, which when wants to make an
addition, I guess it depends.Yeah, I guess if it's like a
short one we're gonna see the waterfallor like the Golden gate Bridge or something,
maybe it's like part of the datelike like okay, because I do
like it. But I think forme, like I like walking in hikes.
I like doing that by myself kindof or with the close friend like
it's something like like you do withexercising. I really talking about myself,

(01:15:23):
like I really do it for me, So I don't really like you're talking
to me. I don't know exactly. I rather I will like go walk
the rain. I think that's nice, like going on a walk with each
other. But I get it,you want to go see something like I
get White people like hikes. Ido too, but I like doing it
by myself. Like in half MoonBay they have like a trail that's not
like it's not crazy like inclines oranything like that, but it's close to

(01:15:45):
the half Moon Bay Brewery, whichis really good. Yeah, maybe like
something like that where it's like,then we'll get some beers. That's like.
It's also like what you're you andyour partner into, like like already
if you guys both are like littlegym buffs and like love working and I
like that have dates at the gym, Like that's the thing. I'm obviously
I've heard of that. Yeah,you and if somebody wanted to go to

(01:16:08):
a jit to the gym with meon a day, I'm not doing Yeah,
by working up at the gym,that's my own insecurity. I'm just
not going to go with you likethat. But people that are crazy about
it, I could see that beinglike like nature like Chris, Yeah,
that's too much. Yeah, sure, I'm not taking you on a hike

(01:16:29):
on the first day because I don'twant to if you're really like, if
she's really into that, and youride some bikes, they close off Ocean
beach. The people that are intoit in the Bay Avalon Canyon. It's
it's along the beach. There's aday there's not Okay, hold on,
listen, there is a beached whalethere. It doesn't smell you don't smell
it. There's a there's a whatdo you call it, like a carcass

(01:16:51):
cacas. I mean it's not acarget. There's jellyfish on this beach.
I saw someone getting engaged on thishike. This okay, hold on,
I was on shrooms tooth though,So the whale wasn't there. So all
these things I saw engagement. Thewhale was there. The engagement was there.
There was a there was a beach. I seen horses, mural.

(01:17:16):
The hike is in Daily City.There was jellyfish that was shaped in a
heartre okay, I have all videos. I don't know if it was the
Stretes, but I have a videoof it. Yeah. I definitely not
to do streams on the first dareabsolutely not. Those are good first date
spots. Kyos La Marcha. Ineed to go on an Yeah, I

(01:17:39):
think, Yeah, nice little hikeand twin peaks if you're into it.
Speaking of Half Bay, uh whenmy dad got married Mazsalona, I think
it's actually around the Half in BayBrewery, but that may be like a
little bit down the line because that'slike white table cloths. But like,
bitch, some of the best lasagnapasta I've ever had in my entire life.

(01:18:02):
It is so good. Messalona.They make that ship like like you
have to wait thirty minutes because they'llmake you one little piece of lasagna and
they make it individually, you know, it's like real italic. Yes,
it'll cut it in like it's notin a big pan. Yeah. And
I'm a Hayward baby, so youknow. I love the Mexican and lots
still Somano's my two favorite Mexican restaurantsof all time. I don't know if

(01:18:24):
they're doing anything special Valentine's Day.I'm sure they have like something going on
very hold the wall, but it'sso romantic too because it's hole in the
wall, you know what I mean. Like, and I like a good
like taco truck date, like maybea first day or maybe taco truck which
taco truck. I'm the guy.What's thee It's like fish on it but

(01:18:51):
orange one? Yeah, yeah,no, no wherever they were stopped.
Yeah, it is really good.It's like a car shop during the day
and then they that's how a cuereally good. Buffalo Bills and Hayward.

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Do you go the brewery, gocatch a movie right across the street,
and then go to the dB andget drunk on That's that's a cute day.
Anything that's like beers entertainment dancing likethree combination, Yeah, perfect,
you know. Do not take meto the dB on a day please?
The Dirty Bird, the Dirty Birdand Hayward. I love that player,

(01:19:40):
I love it to my heart.Do not take me there a day that
I get that? Yeah I ranbut yeah yeah. So that those are
our recommendations. Hope you guys havean amazing Valentine's Day. Whatever you get
into, be safe, okay,called the ubers called the lift, wrap
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