April 19, 2024 • 48 mins
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Okay, guys, we're just hoppingright into it. Maybe we'll go back
and record the other segments. Butif you don't know, we are starting
with this because you're gonna got somemajor updates. Okay, major updates.
Well, I love AV. Ican actually see you in the camera the
camera screen. I didn't even thinkto do this to me. I can't
see you, but it's okay.I did it for some reason, I
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guess because I always have my notesup. Yeah, because last episode I
did notice I cut AV off somany times. But I think its because
I can't see your ass. Idon't know when you're about to talk,
so I like say something, butwow, I'm looking right at you in
this camera. That's you know whatI'm saying. Yeah, I can't see
you. I guess I lied.I couldn't feel the energy. Yeah,
I need to see you, Butnow I can. Okay, you guys,
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there's a layer you're instigating. Halfthe episode, we talked about how
Carpenter Bay was giving me the eck, and we decided that, you know,
I'm not gonna go stam or anythingcrazy, like, it's not enough
to like cut him off, butit definitely has a conversation, and you
know, so I was like,okay, next one hang out, That's
what's gonna happen. So mind you, those past two weeks he's been like
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super trying to hang out with me, because you know, the weekend before
we spent the entire weekend together.So that next weekend he got on my
nerves and I was like, youknow what, we don't need to hang
out every weekend anyway, but obviouslyI just need a space to figure out
like where I was with my feelingsand how I wanted to handle that situation.
So now you know, we justgot done recording. He hit me,
I think the next day, Ithink it was a Thursday or Friday,
and he was just like, areyou working this week? I might
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have said this last week, didI tell you? He made plass okay,
yes, oh but I told youokay. So basically the day we
recorded, he did text me,are you working this week? I said
tomorrow, I do have work,but you know, free this weekend?
Like I'm not available on Friday,and he goes, okay, well,
if you're free, let's get dinnerand drinks after on Saturday. I said,
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down, let me know time andplace He says, are you craving
anything specific lately? I said,I could always do Mexican, but I'm
down for whatever. He said,okay, great, Like I'm gonna hit
you when I'm off work and letyou know where we're going. Right Thursday,
Saturday comes around, he texts me, I wake up. Honestly,
I love work. Super layos editingthe podcast on Friday, so I literally
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did not leave work till four inthe morning because I had a bunch of
shows to track. So I didn'twake up to like one pm, but
I saw I had like three messagesfrom him. He texted me like ten
in the morning, like, goodmorning, how was work last night?
I respond at one and I said, like super long with like some emojis.
I said, I didn't leave tillfour am. How was your night?
He never text me. Sunday rollsaround. Oh no, and you
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guys, I something in my guyfelt something like I was getting ready still
because I was like, you knowwhat, maybe he's like super slammed o
work and like not. This doesn'thappen often, but like one time I
remember he did it off work atlike eight. We don't have plans,
but like we were planning to hangout. It wasn't necessarily like this time
where he's like, let's get dinnerand drinks. But I think he was
like, let's hang out after work, and I remember hitting get up till
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nine or something, So in myhead, I'm still excited to see him,
like I haven't seen him in awhole week. I'm getting ready.
Everything's working out of my like that'sthe thing. It was too perfect.
I was like, wow, Ihave all this time to like shower,
I bow, I blow drive myhair. You guys, that is a
lot. It takes like me almosttwo hours a blow off my hair,
Like give me a good blowout.I use my good body butter. And
as I'm getting ready, I justlike when things are going too perfect,
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like my makeup's coming out good.I just I was like, something's gonna
come up, like this is toogood to be true. And now I'm
putting my makeup on finishing and I'mlike, you know what if he doesn't
hit me by six, now I'mlike saying this to myself, like okay,
seven, Like okay, if youdon't by eight thirty, plans are
canceled. Fuck him. So nowit's like nine, I think I told
myself eight forty five, if thismotherfucker don't text me, I know,
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terrible, terrible, terrible. AndI'm still getting ready and I'm like,
okay, fuck this. I'm notin my head like we won't hang out,
but like when he texted, I'mgona give him shit. But I'm
definitely already gonna make plans because likeI'm getting hell of cues. So I
hit up my friend Sonya and Iwas like, hey, like what are
you doing. She's like, I'mdoing Lundra like let's go get a drink.
So I mean her decided to goget drinks, am I, And
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I'm still thinking he's gonna text me. I'm gonna be like, well,
I'm not with my friend. I'vemade plans because you like never hit me
one of the morning, two inthe morning, he never text me.
Next day Monday, doesn't text me. You guys, I have not heard
from this man since since worse fullsince his Saturday morningning. Okay, and
at first, okay, in thebeginning, like that night and like even
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the next morning, I was like, that's crazy. He ain't even hitting
me up with the follow up textlike hey, so sorry, and you
guys know, I got irritated anddeleted the text. Friend did she it
didn't have because I would have keptlooking and he has his red receipts on
and I know I would like feelso mad if I know for sure.
He goes like if you'd read thatshit, but he's didn't text me when
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you were checking, like hold on, hold on, hold on, hold
one, hold on, get there, okay. But I'm just like,
at first I was like making jokeslike not this motherfucker ghosted me, But
once like Monday, Rodman is like, Okay, this is actually a ghosting.
Like at first I was like,maybe I'm not using the right word,
but like to not even text methe next day an update whatever whatever.
Second sight's crazy story. I kindof don't even want to say to
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the person is because it's like almosta legal thing. But I was talking
to a friend who said that shealso thought she was getting ghosted, right
because I'm just venting to her,She's like, yeah, like the same
time as you. And she said, basically, this is someone she used
to date a long time ago.She like will always have love for him,
but they just like never worked out, Like you know, he's just
never gonna get a shit together.But she's going through a breakups, so
she's been like talking to him moreand they've been like you know, having
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phone calls, and in her headshe's like, I think I want to
like finally hook up with him.So she's on the phone with him like
they always are, and he's driving, and then she said, all of
a sudden, he like gasp,and she's like, well, what the
fuck and he's like I gotta go. I gotta go. And she's like,
well, are you okay, likewhat's wrong and he's like, yeah,
I'm fine, I just don't wantto talk about it, like I
have to go. Hangs up,and she said the next day like he
never texts her back, and she'slike what the fuck? And then she's
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like calling him and then like Ithink a day passed and then she now
she's mad, so she like literallytexted him like fuck you, like are
you goes to me right now?You know? And then she noticed he
blogged her or like the text wasn'tgoing through, so she had I think
that's when she had him like onher his work phone like fuck you wow,
or her work phone sorry, Solike you gonna get this text I'm
gonna tell you, fucking you gonnaread this like you might be done with
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me, but I just want tolet you know. Fuck but don't even
think about texting me, you knowif your are goes to me. She
gets a call from his sister andshe's like, Hey, did you talk
to blah blah blah? I heardyou, like saw him last Satday.
She's like, yeah, he's injail because he saw his ex with another
man and got out the car andstabbed him and now was facing a tempt
massa. It's my job, sohe said, he said, gotta cut
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you back, gotta come in afucking case. Man. The guy didn't
die, by the way, hedid not die. No, wait,
the first thing I said that Whenshe told me, I was like,
well, you know he didn't gosee you, you know, I mean,
it's a legitimate excuse to not reply, right because you're in jail.
You don't he in jail you're facingBut I wonder why I didn't go through,
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like the whole blocking part. MM yeah, not still questioning him.
He's either not over this girl orsomething. There's some beef with that
guy. Oh no, all around. I think we found a little more
details where it was maybe not askingit like she we're not can get into
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it, I legally, but exactlyeither way, She dotes a bullet like
wow, that's crazy, like hejust like ruined his ipen in one second,
also goes to show he was notover his X you know, like
all around it's all bad. Anyways, Well, good for her for finding
out all that. For her totell me when if something did happen to
him, like obviously I don't thinkhe's in jail or like died, because
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my friend definitely looked him up onlocal obituaries. She's like, what's his
last name? She's crazy? Wait, I was. I was like,
yeah, look, because would beso sad if you like, when you've
been through it already, I getit, like you know what to do.
So yeah, she's wild. Sowe googled he didn't die or at
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least it's not in the system,okay, or in jail. I know,
I literally we don't know. Wedon't know. Look up the county.
But something she did say. Shewas like, well, because I
told her, I deleted the textread and then she goes, well,
do you have a MacBook? Iknow, and I already know where this
is going, because there's times whereI think I talked about this last episodes,
but like there's times where I blocksomeone and I'm like cool, and
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I open on my laptop and Isee text messages from them because it doesn't
like correlate with your MacBook. I'msure there's a setting you could do.
But so when she told me that, I was like, I don't even
want to know, Like I'm Ilike this whole like and I don't like
it, but I'm like, I'mgonna see red if like this motherfucker read
my message, like then it's likeobvious, like I know he's I guess
I'm still giving him the benefit ofthe doubt a little bit. I'm not
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like I'm more mad and more likefuck you, and like, I know
this motherfucker ain't ghosting me, buta little part of me is like,
damn, what if something did happen? So I told I didn't want to
do that, but of course,the moment I got home, I opened
up that MacBook and it does stillsay delivered okay, and he has his
red receipts on Yeah, now youknow of yeah, but also this motherfucker
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knows where I lives, so hecould be at my front porch with the
fucking jukebox, so he could leavea letter. He could roll through and
be like, oh sorry, myphone died still down the hand. And
the friend that he talked about,he has round Instagram. He could like
message her and be like, hey, do you have Angelina's number? I'm
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and I'm just like if he did, like why you're the one that made
the plans and he texted me thatmorning, I don't think he's ghosting you.
I don't think he's that is theonly thing. Yeah, or something
crazy happened, because that's not alot of time. Yeah, what have
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happened? Or sometime after you justdidn't see the text yet you know,
no, like dead ass, likewhat happened? Maybe someone died because pardon
me, I'm still ready to belike fuck you, But now I'm just
like, wait, does something happen? Like my the girl my friend gave
me anxiety and I'm like wait andlike for her to tell me that,
you know, we're all about thescience like all that she also got ghosted
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on the same day end up beingsomething crazy and yeah, the delivered thing
is what's making mad. But lasttime we want to go. He's one
of those people that fucking his mailboxhas like a thousand because he does in
check that ship. So I'm like, oh, is he someone that like
just won't check a tech this message, you know, like doesn't bother him.
I could also yeah, and he'sjust like I'm just not going over
her ship, and like I justdecided to go make plans and I don't
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went drinking with his friends and gotsucked up and I was like, damn,
I fucked up. But now Ican't text her if he did that
and he didn't open it on purpose, just so that he's like, oh,
Angelina, I want her to seethat. Sorryone, that's kind of
lame. No, oh no,And even the situation in general, like
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let's say he is ghost to me, like lie to me, like do
you have a common courtesy to justlike that? That is the worst thing
you could do. Honestly. Youcould cancel the plans, say you didn't
want to go do something else.Sorry, I gotta go feed my fucking
goldfish, Angelina, I can't makeit today. Like that's the least you
could do. It could be alie. And then to even further like
not even texted me the next morninglike, hey, my bad, I
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fucked up, Like that's crazy.On my birthday week, goes to me
on my birthday week, it's crazy, that's ruthless. Just as much as
I want so that you could justI don't think he's ghosting you. Yeah,
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Saturday, Sunday, this is Saturday. You guys about to be a
week so you have got a newphone by now, you haven't heard back
nothing. Nothing last night is whatI checked if it was on ready to
deliver. It's been a few daysthen got lost. But what was the
time between? It was a week? Yeah, it was like a week.
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Like remember it was like the exactseventh day where we were like ready
to be like throwing in the trashand even that one, like that is
we were in the area of likeyou could go someone like I've been looking
up and dating for like wow,no, like probably a couple of months
at least. You can ghost me. Ah, you can't ghost me anymore
and it's a conversation at this point, or yeah, you could definitely like
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blow me off or like it stopor like signs of I don't want to
hang out with you anymore. Butlike to make plans that day, You
made plans with me in advance,and also like it's the good morning part
that gets me, Like, sohe checked in to make sure you're still
down right, that's another weird thing. That's like what the guys are weirdos
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we are weird. I know.Part of me is feeling like exactly,
I'm thinking all those things too,like wow, that is weird that he
would text me that morning, likesomething must have happened. But I also
just like, don't put nothing pastany guys exactly, So that's I'm just
like, yeah, sure, thatis a possibility, and like I really
hope nothing like serious happened, likeoh, if he's alive, I hope
like his mom and dad are stillalive. Like anything other than that,
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that's like tragic, you know,yeah, yeah, yeah, because you
never know. I mean, butthe slight chance that this motherfucker just left
me on delivered and carried on livinghis life and doesn't give a fuck to
one cancel the plans, check inwith me, or even apologize for ghosting
me that night is like making me. Yeah, just being on my toes
a little bit. So I toldmyself, I'm not gonna be pressed.
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I'm like, this is this isas much pressed I am about though talking
to my friends about it, LikeI'm not like crying or losing sleep.
But it's just I've never been ghostedbefore, so that's why I'm just like
that's crazy. The only one thatcame close was that that episode that we
had about ghosting, about ghosting,but that was like that was a one
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night stand, Like that doesn't count. It's not like a ghost really,
Like I don't even know that guy'slast name. Give it a week last
time the first instance, a weekturnover this time another week to see okay,
cause does he know when your birthdayis? Nobody knows it's coming up?
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Like I think I think he askedme a couple of times. I
did not want to tell him becauseI didn't want to put any pressure on
him having to do anything. ButI think one time he did. He
like asked me like the third time, and I think I did say,
oh, it's next Saturday or something. I don't know till Saturday because that's
when, well, no, we'renot gonna be thinking about it that day
because I have a birthday party.But the next day and Monday, when
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you revisit this. I don't thinkif this motherfucker text me on my birthday
or on my birthday party, becauseit's like, fuck you, it's my
birthday now, and I don't wantto hear your stupid exceesays. And if
it is, it better be somethingso good like car accident, like near
death experience. I don't want himto be dead, but you are dead
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to me right now, so youbetter have almost died, or he better
have found his motherfucking sold me likethe baddest bitch ever, like Salama hiak
level bad bitch walked in and theyjust clicked and he was like, Wow,
I'm in love. Anything else otherthan that, I don't think it's
that. No, I don't thinkI did not want that for myself.
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I'm saying life like I could excuseit that way, like you fucking love
your life soulmate, Like okay,we can't deny that, you know,
and she looks like somethiic. Shebetter be twenty times hotter than me.
Anything else happening is not justifiable.And I'm like, uh, you really
ghost to me? Oh my birthdayweek is crazy? Is crazy? I
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don't think he did either. Itdoesn't because because you've said you've said before
too, like like there has beentimes where you guys text like after a
span of days, you know whatI mean. So so this is this
isn't. No, that's not thesame thing. It's not. But because
if you just cancel plans, youbetter be hitting me the next day for
not showing up. Oh actually,I would actually get even more mad ab
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if if he hits me up onsome nonchalant shit like oh we just sometimes
we message. Know he needs toacknowledge this for sure, and there needs
to be some kind of excuse ofwhy this happened. So if he just
hits me like, hey, what'sup, no, I will see red
and I I might not even Iwould either just be like we need to
not talk anymore, or would actuallyghost. I'm not the ghosting type,
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but like that calls for her bye. If you hit me up on some
nonchalantch it like okay, hey,girly, that's the plan this weekend,
you know what, I didn't evenacknowledge that. And because of that,
mm hmost yeah, that's true.I know. I think I think I'm
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just like saying it to think Iwould do that, But like I probably
wouldn't for sure. It's like itsounds good though, right, but I
feel like it's better and it's moregrown of us to just say what's up
and that's it, you know,and in your case it's on it's his
fault the reason why you you knowfor sure it's not me. I guess
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if I had some actions do noteven like he doesn't even deserve a response
to me, like you know youdid something bad, fuck you, But
no, I probably would just belike we need to not talk anymore.
But like I don't want to hearyour side if he hits me on some
nonchalant and like nothing crazy happened,because even just the situation in general,
like if anyone has dealt with thiskind of thing in my head, like
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you obviously don't respect my time,but just the dumbed down even more,
it's just like, okay, sonext time you asked me to hang out,
am I supposed to just like notthink things are confirmed until you text
me like three hours within the event, and if that is how you're thinking,
so am I just supposed to waitaround all day and to see if
maybe you're actually gonna hang out withme, like you said, like,
is that just a suggestion when youmake plans? No, because no,
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that's not how it works. I'mnot feeling this for you. Yeah,
I don't know. It's two redflags so close to each other. Yeah,
it hasn't hit the one he haslost his phone or what? Right,
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I guess I'm saying it doesn't helpthat. Like, literally, I
was planning to talk to him aboutsomething that bothered me for him to just
bother me with a second thing beforeright right, right, right right,
having a conversation. Not to havea whole new problem. You gotta talk
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about two things, yea, Ihave a list actually yeah, literally,
And it's just like exactly like datingneeds to be fun, like for this
to like two things already, we'regetting on the borderline of like not fun.
I am having a guest. Ifeel like it's been not fun for
a minute now. Okay, No, it's been fun. Yeah. That
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last thing was the only thing thatpissed off. And I was like,
and another thing that my friend,my nail tech that checked me on.
And I think that's what I wastrying to say to you, and like
when I was not trying to justifywhat he said, but she said it
perfectly because I was like, yeah, I'm just gonna tell him I don't
like the comment he made. Andshe's like, well, it wasn't a
comment that he made, like itwas a response to your thing, Like
comments are something that's unsolicited, andand that's what I was thinking when I
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say that, because it's like exactly, so not like he came up and
like made this comment. Was like, hey, you're a friend unattractive,
Like, well you did say yourselfthat you were kind of like that's the
only thing. I'm like, evenslightly defending him. Still not cool,
like he could have lied about adifferent way. But exactly, it's like
one I was pressing him, wewere drinking, and exactly it wasn't a
comment that he made. It wasa response to my question, but still
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gave me the ick enough to Iwant to talk about this, you know.
But it's been great, like likewe were doing so good to like
this bicker. I just talked abouthow we spent the entire weekend at my
house. That's right. Yeah,this is a big enough one of it's
starting right after the first one,the second one. No, this is
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a big one. This is definitelyworth ending things for because this is just
like, oh, you're the kindof person. Yeah, unless someone died,
I got a car accident. Numbertwo is kind of bio is worth
I think two and a half.But but I agree with that, yeah,
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exactly exactly right now at least.Yeah, but you want to make
sure, you want to make sure. Maybe he doesn't have the funds.
It'd be like that sometimes I forgot. I forgot too, but I know
it definitely broke. And he didget a new phone, but like didn't
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have his old contacts, and likewhen he hit me, he's like,
oh my god, I thought Iwas not gonna find your number again,
and then sent me a picture oflike his old phone with his new phone
again, so hopefully something different.Yeah, and you know what, I'm
someone that loses and breaks up allthe time. They can't be two of
us, they can't be we can'tboth be losing. And also like if
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I really wanted to see you,you like he knows where I live exactly,
like like Angelique said, like thatdoes sound a little crazy, Like
sure, maybe not the first day, but like, oh I never got
a number, so I guess Iwas never talking to her again, Like
you catch you up at my apartment. You could leave me a little note.
You can hit up one of mywe have a mutual friend. You
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could be like, hey, yeah, I hate you, like can you
send me? So that was mypast couple of days. What an interesting
little plot twists. I was soready for that stupid ass date. Oh
but I did look good that day. And I will say when I went
to that bar, three different menbought me a free drink because Barten up
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comes to me saying, this personwants to buy you a shot for you.
But of course I was pressed ashell getting I know, because it's
like, I'm glad to be hangingout with the girl that's getting a bunch
free drinks tonight. I'm glad youyou went out. You know, I'm
glad you're not the type of justyeah that was my thing. I was
like, you know, I gotready. I plowed out my hair like
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I'm going, this is not gonnabe a wasted makeup day, and like
I'm exactly, I'm definitely because Iwould have drove myself crazy that guy just
looking at my phone and it keptdoing the time thing. I would have
been like, okay, he's gottill two ams right for you at work,
because once it was out like that, I was like, Okay,
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he's definitely not working anymore. Like, no way he's working till two in
the morning in the morning time,or even if you're working that late,
like at some point you got topeet and you could text, Yeah,
you guys, he's still at work. He never clocked out on Saturday.
That's crazy. It's a long jobbuilding those houses or whatever he does.
Yeah, there's a lot of cabinets. He definitely ghost you. It's just
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weird, Like, I don't knowwhat prompted you to ghost me. I
don't think you're being ghosted. Totext me that morning is crazy. I
don't think you being my birthday weekis crazy. Plus what did you you
Obviously it's not something you did rightor when it's like he was at work
and someone was like, hey thatgirl you talking to I just found her
podcast. She said you gave herthe egg and that you're balding, and
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then he like listens to every thatnever talked about him. That is a
risk. That is a risk.I'd feel some type of way. If
you have a podcast and I'm onit all the time, I think it'd
be something that could front me about. But I don't think i'd ghost you.
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But you have a little podcasts,Yeah, I just probably tell him
it. I would wait till weget a little more serious. I'd be
like, for the record, Yeah, you know I do. That is
something I should give people heads up. Okay, just let you know I
do talk about my life. Butno, I think that's why it gets
more seriou But yeah, exactly,like you don't need permission. Yeah,
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I'm not saying we don't even know. Yeah, like that, you know,
I don't know his name. Why, I've seen pictures of him,
but his profile, right, Isaw the hand. I did delete all
my dating apps, not for him. But I was just like, I
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think I feeling just like more confident. I'm like, I'd rather just meet
someone. And she got drugs onSaturday, so yeah, I know it
worse. Man. One guy wascute, but then he left early.
It's like, yeah, I'm justlike, I don't like it's like I'm
actively looking. I don't want toactively look. I'd rather meet someone in
(25:44):
person. Yeah, to attract someone, yeah, not like And I feel
like I feel like I could show. I feel like everybody shows who they
are more in person because I'm profile, You're still getting to choose, you
know, and like, I don'tknow. Yeah, no one lists those
things. No one lists. Hey, might talk about about your friends and
might ghost you day of our plan. Yeah, that's how we need honest
(26:11):
dating app like put your phone,you know. Yeah, I constantly lose
my phone and I ghost people.So now it's just a mystery if I'm
being ghosted or if I'm not beingghosted. If something happened to this man
I did. We did, likeI said, we checked the local buttures.
We'll make the decision next whether orif it doesn't live by next week.
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Yeah, what if two weeks past? That's definitely it would have been
a week and a half by thetime. Yeah right, yeah, especially
you already told him, you said, he knows when your birthday is too,
so yeah right, you know,yeah, he could definitely call whatever
phone service he has to be,like, look up this number. He
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could show up at your house.I feel like you guys are at that
point where it's not shows up atyour house, you know, explain everything
happened. I don't know. Yeah, better be there with a broken leg,
no arms, in a wheelchair.Hey, couldn't make it down the
stairs because I lost all of mylips. But I told someone to drop
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me off just to let you know. I didn't go stee because I heard
your podcast and I just wanted tomake it clear. Yeah, you're selling
the specific. See what is thatpoem I was. I was on a
(27:45):
day cruise. I was trying totake a selfie and and then he also
fell over, almost drowned. Howto go to the hospital at me?
And then it was until you recoveredtwo days after he's like, fuck,
where's my phone? Ship also inthe ocean. So he's still recovering,
(28:07):
right something my Saturday. He's niceand warm. You probably can't even eat
the jello yet, you know whatI'm saying. Yeah, he's probably not
even speaking, But the moment hedoes, he's gonna be like, I
know, no, deadass, ifyou really liked me and you're really about
it, your body would recover fasterin the name of love for me.
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No, like ill he gave methe ag again. But we do know,
oh, we do know he hasa weak thing, and we're not
gonna go down that round. Don'topen that door. Don't open that door.
Just keep it pushing issues right,doesn't matter. Yeah, maybe that
(28:59):
came back, you know what thatwould be, That would be, that
would be legit, that would bea very legitimate. No, he finds
out that morning. It doesn't happenthat way. No, But mental health,
now, okay, you could takea day, but the next day
you could be back to being healthyand messaging me or okay, even if
(29:23):
something yeah I really want to buteven to that excuse, say something just
really bad did happen, I feellike, yeah, sure, I'll give
it a week. But you couldat least be like, hey, I'm
going through something right now. Yeah, hey, sorry, I've been whatever
whatever, Because I'm thinking if somethinglike crazy happened to me, where like
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you know that that happens like youjust don't even know how you're gonna handle
it, I would at least belike, I'm going through something right now,
see it. Ever, and I'veactually done that too, where like
something comes up and I don't youknow, you don't want to give someone
details or you can't whatever it isright where I've been like you know what,
I'm sorry, I haven't texted back, you know, and be very
brief about what's going on. Butyeah, I can, and I would
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just be like, hope, everything'sokay. Thanks Rach exactly, at least
for your peace of mind, andthen for his too low key, because
he's probably like, I don't obviouslyif I'm interested, I don't want you
to think I'm ghosting. I don'twant you to think I'm ignoring you,
you know, exactly, So okay, I'll give it a week, which
is like two more days. Ifyou're hearing this and you know this is
about you, you're lucky. Youhave forty eight hours for the TV show
(30:37):
is the talk? Yeah, Igot forty eight hours. Somebody else's phone,
he could call he knows what stationwork, or you gonna call the
station. I like to make arequest, Angelina, I'm not ghosting you.
Can you play du alifa the mainline office or our person or the
(31:03):
executive assistant. Oh really, it'snot that Angelina, I think. Yeah.
And also he's not ghosting her.Give us the callback man, but
yeah, still on delivered. SoI guess I made me feel like,
oh, maybe he's not ghost tome, but he can still very much
(31:26):
just be ignoring my tax and belike I'm not going to open it.
But I also feel like he's notthat smart to even think like, oh,
don't want her to see my badreceipt on I don't know. Yeah,
yeah, yeah, time to timewill tell. Okay, we will
visit this our next pod and thenmaybe even our subsequent next pot case.
(31:48):
We don't know what there's that wedon't see, but looking forward to this
weekend. You guys, my thirtiethRATT day. You might be listening to
this episode day of my birthday?So dirty, you know, you give
them momm me something. I'm justkidding. I'm just kidding. But yeah,
if you want to favorite tequila likeaokay, I love pizza, love
(32:14):
coffee, love feels coffee, loveall coffee. Yeah yeah, no even
a love card all love letter,well card, love that. But yeah,
my mom told me this big assparty. You guys, I'm I
feel a little baud today. Icalled her. She was definitely a little
stressed out. Yeah, I don'tknow. She just trying to plan everything.
(32:36):
She's like, don't like, aparty is hard, No, my
mom goes hard. You guys,like, don't to my Instagram. Are
now at Angelina on air. There'sa highlight with a little confetti like a
highlight of some of the parties I'mon his strow, not even the best
ones. But like my brother's exgirlfriend rip, she didn't die, but
yeah, yeah, we loved herthough sad damn breakups. She had the
(33:00):
we she loved Jersey Shore and likeit was last minute too, mind,
this was like in a two weekspan. My mom put this out last
Hello, last minute, maybe likeless less than a month for sure.
Yeah, and Jersey Shore themes likewhen you entered you had to like take
a shot. We had these glowsticks, and the glow sticks stood for
like something. She got the letter, you know, the infamous letter like
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blown up on this big ass Likeit was like a whole back drop drinks.
We had like a separate section wherewas like kind of a confessional like
the TV vibes, and we hadeveryone like record a message for her,
and like we put it on awhole video so she can watch it.
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I know, it's like we're we'refriends. Then that was a long time
ago. That was I don't know, I feel like it was after the
Jurassic Oh, that angel was invitedto the Jurassic Park. Let's see,
let's look at the highlights when itcame firsts. That looks so much fun.
Yeah. For but their grandson,my stepdad, like his side,
(34:10):
they have a baby, so youknow yeah yeah, oh no Jasic Park
was before September eighteen. Oh me, Oh yeah that's not good then,
Yeah, you're right now. Mymom had a whole back job. We
had like a dig site for thekids, like full ass sand with these
little dig things. Your status.Oh yeah that was a park range bad
(34:39):
ass. I know, I'm lookingat the highlight now. Little hats like
little I love, like like themeparties are really fun, you know,
like oh yeah, my family lovesthe thing. That's cool. Machine.
Yeah there was a fog machine andyeah, this one's gonna be lit.
So my birthday theme is Savannah Nights, and my mom's already been showing me
(35:01):
the stuff she has. We havea cigar bar. We got our favorite
bartenders that we've been like having forour past couple. They're like a family
owned, like small business. Yeah, and there drinks are fire the only
thing. But I'm not gonna complainabout anything because you know, I was
on the strict to my whim.I was like everything needs to be Cuban
thing, like the food, likeI was like the first alb, I'm
(35:22):
only gonna play keep music. Ofcourse I'm in charge of the music,
but I was editing. I waslike, okay, only the first fifteen
minutes because you know, there's alot of themes and people to get to
in the music. Yeah, Ionly got like six seven, eight hours.
You know, I can't waste awhole hour on all Cuban music.
But because I said that my momat the bar, it's only rum drinks,
(35:45):
which which is gonna be great.It's gonna taste good. But like
a lot of people drink tequila though, I know there's something that's gonna be
like rum. No, the cocktailsare gonna be bombed regardless, but yeah,
it's good, be so cute.I know I should really not say
all of the things that are happeningbecause we get the recap. Well,
(36:06):
I'm sure something will happen for therecap all good things. So yeah,
I can't get crazy, but Iwas so key, even like the drinks
have like I don't know names andstuff. Yeah, like once she's upbeat
because if you're a one, youknow that's my old A name and old
Instagram name too. Yeah, andthen like my Instagram, bile was always
reasonable down track eight, which isjay Z's Can I Live And one of
(36:29):
the drinks is called track eight.Yeah, so she is so good,
like, yeah, she's shown methe patty like we have a little gazebo
section or they do because I don'tlive there anymore. And they just like
redid that to be like the dancefloor and they set up like all these
disco balls and like these big asdominoes, the tate center pieces look so
(36:50):
good. She send to me thedrafts hello like lights, like there's big
gas like sign that's a van andice. There's gonna be a big as
sig of a cigar bar. I'mexcited. And I got my dress and
it fits me. My sister,Yeah, my sister's gonna pay for my
makeup appointment. Shout out to her, Shout out to your sister. I
got a hairppointment the day before,so we're gonna try to keep that blowout
intact because what I do, okayblow but like not as silky like by
(37:15):
the end of the day, it'sfrizzy. Why did it give U today?
But I needed to last make adness. No, I'm so excited,
So everyone like great producer Chris said, he's gonna pull up. We don't
see. Oh, I think he'slate, but he's gonna get there.
(37:37):
Okay, that's tell you too,because it's her sister's birthday. Or he'll
there. That's fine too. You'renot gonna want to do that. I
can see him leaving. You can, but no one leaves our party early.
I mean, yeah, you might, but no one's gonna want to
leave early. I promise you,if you are not planning to stay the
(37:58):
whole time, I would show uplate then because you're not gonna want leave
early. I already have I don'tknow, two of your old Jurassic No.
My family parties. You guys,that's so cool. We're gonna have
like blunts hidden in the cigar bar. There's cigars that you can have,
(38:20):
but like my family's big smokers,so there will be. You gotta have
to say the secret word to getit, which I haven't figured out what
is the secret word yet. Figureit out. I'll probably just say something
Yeah, I don't text real quick, like gonna say the secreord gos on
what it is. Yeah, myuncle rig like he's like the O g
(38:42):
in the family. And my uncleJohn Chris, not producer Chris, his
dad. They're gonna be like workingthe cigar bars, so we'll like cut
it for people and pass them outand like even if you don't smoke,
like it's a good little souvenir.You know, got like customized like things
to wrap it in. She's crazy, I don't know about starting his birthday.
Yeah, hey, that's exciting.No, I'm so excited, like
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you guys. I never do anythingreally big for my birthday, Like I'll
like maybe plan a dirt like thatday. Like I never plan anything like,
oh, I have this plan formy birthday. And but I always
wanted to be thirty since I wasa little girl. I probably said this
a million times. But when Iwas younger, I saw an interview with
America Fererra and they asked her whatag she wants to be forever, and
she said thirty. And ever sincemy little ass saw that, I always
wanted to be thirty. Nice Andwhen they were like, you know what,
(39:30):
I'm thinking what I want to do? Like, oh, you know,
my friends are like we should goon a trip, we should do
this that, I'm like, no, I want my mom to throw me
a party because she throws the bestparties, and I want the shit in
my parents' backyard, Like I wantto be with my family and like all
my closest friends. So I'm excited. I'm excited for you, and I'm
(39:50):
like, really, you know,I love making a playlist, and I
feel like I'm always in charge ofthe playlist for family parties. But I'm
obviously always thinking of like that person'sday, yeah, and like and also
who's going to be there, likenot that no one's gona like my music,
because i also want everyone to havea good time. But I'm always
like sneaking in the bad Bunny atthe end, but now vision be bad
buy like every other song, don'tbecause it's my birthday. So super excited.
(40:14):
What do you guys have planned itfor the weekend? Days with you
guys? Oh yeah, go tomy party? Matters period? Why you're
not party? He wasn't already?Yes, I will be in Eureka that
speakend, So yeah, so I'mexcited to go. But I really wish
(40:37):
I could have major party because itsounds late. Who just goes to Eureka's.
There's a lot to do. I'lllet y'all know how it goes Glenn
urban but about like a gold Okay, so hear me out. So I'm
low key like a hike, LikeI love going on hikes and trails and
(40:58):
I like seeing nature and I'm reallybig on that kind of stuff. So
Areka has this like it's called likea like a Redwood skywalk thing where you
like go up these stairs and youyou walk through the forest, but like
you're at the height of like halfwayof how tall like the trees are,
(41:20):
so you're not walking the floor.You're actually it's my party to go class
some trees. Kidding, yes,But it was supposed to be. It
was a trip in January, butthe weather kind of ruined it, so
we postponed for April, and youknow, plans sounds amazing, get your
traveling. Yeah, I look cute, but it's giving Ship's Creek, so
(41:45):
we're definitely California gold Rush. No, it's literally getting Ship's Creek. Look
up the skywalk here, that's whatI think it's gonna be worth it.
And an avenue of the Giants,which is another like this lake is killed,
right, I am excited, Likethat's what I like to do,
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you know, And I haven't doneit a lot this year, and I
need it mentally. I'm not gonnalie. So oh yeah, yeah,
Oh there's a show called Eureka andDisney. Yeah, Eureka is mad random.
I had a disappointment with like aclient the other day and they were
(42:29):
like, yeah, I guess whereI'm from, just like by looking around.
But I didn't look like behind me. And the first thing I looked
up was the posed was Antarctica.Was like he was like, oh no,
sorry, now he's like look behindyou, and there was like a
Phillies thing, so like, oh, Philadelphia, but literally I was like
Antarctica, Like the doesn't have likea lot of like the big cities that
(42:52):
you like come to California for,but it has a lot of national parks
and a lot of like state parksthat have really beautiful views. So yeah,
yeah, I don't know, youknow, because I like hiking to
I'm not as much like know aboutall of them. But when people like,
when I think of like the besttrails, like I don't, I
(43:13):
don't know, is Eureka like thehotspot. It's this one itself is not
really like a hike per se.It's more like sightseeing trails. I think
they're like not even that long,to be honest, but so what is
But but it's it's something that mycousin and I have wanted to do.
And so it's the largest coastal citybetween San Francisco and Portland. And we're
(43:40):
supposed to be doing Utah in September. So that's exciting. That's gonna be
like a whole week. Okay,says Eureka is a market and cultural center
of a beautiful region filled with iconicredwoods, the world's tallest trees. It's
suddenly beautiful, rugged, remote oceanlandscapes. Okay, he's gonna go find
(44:00):
himself in Eureka. We're gonna gogrounding, you know. Wow, Okay,
fine, you get a pass formissing my birthday. I guess if
you don't show up, you haveno motherfucking excuse because you're not going to
Eureka unless you're going to Eureka,or whatever happened to Carpenter Bay happened to
you as well. There's no otherexcidemn Yeah, just Chris number two,
(44:30):
Chris number one, the other Chris. But yeah, I think that's it.
We probably want to to do thesegments because this one was just such
a Thanks for helping us in youknow, in this investigation. All your
help is needed. If you haveany clues, if you've seen this man
on this wanted poster, let meknow, Okay, balding, beautiful,
(44:52):
smile, last name Bay, firstnamed Carpenter. Yeah, those are the
two things tall like, yeah,if he said last name day, first
name Carpenter. If you see thatman, call me, slide in my
(45:13):
d MS, let me know andthen slap him and run away like that
was for Angelina and then walk away. Yeah. Yeah, just continue on
living your life, but you lethim know and everything. That's me again.
So we'll give update next week onthe party. Whatever happens at my
(45:34):
party, it's gonna be a greatnight. And if hopefully Carpenter Bay is
not, nothing bad happen. Ihopefully he's not dead. But if he
goes to me, then yes,you better be dead. And that's his
two options. Thanks much, BreakingOut. If you like us, if
you love us, give us fivestars and nothing less. Please leave a
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Love you by bye. If youjust just just just
Okay, guys, we're just hoppingright into it. Maybe we'll go back
and record the other segments. Butif you don't know, we are starting
with this because you're gonna got somemajor updates. Okay, major updates.
Well, I love AV. Ican actually see you in the camera the
camera screen. I didn't even thinkto do this to me. I can't
see you, but it's okay.I did it for some reason, I
(00:49):
guess because I always have my notesup. Yeah, because last episode I
did notice I cut AV off somany times. But I think its because
I can't see your ass. Idon't know when you're about to talk,
so I like say something, butwow, I'm looking right at you in
this camera. That's you know whatI'm saying. Yeah, I can't see
you. I guess I lied.I couldn't feel the energy. Yeah,
I need to see you, Butnow I can. Okay, you guys,
(01:10):
there's a layer you're instigating. Halfthe episode, we talked about how
Carpenter Bay was giving me the eck, and we decided that, you know,
I'm not gonna go stam or anythingcrazy, like, it's not enough
to like cut him off, butit definitely has a conversation, and you
know, so I was like,okay, next one hang out, That's
what's gonna happen. So mind you, those past two weeks he's been like
(01:32):
super trying to hang out with me, because you know, the weekend before
we spent the entire weekend together.So that next weekend he got on my
nerves and I was like, youknow what, we don't need to hang
out every weekend anyway, but obviouslyI just need a space to figure out
like where I was with my feelingsand how I wanted to handle that situation.
So now you know, we justgot done recording. He hit me,
I think the next day, Ithink it was a Thursday or Friday,
and he was just like, areyou working this week? I might
(01:55):
have said this last week, didI tell you? He made plass okay,
yes, oh but I told youokay. So basically the day we
recorded, he did text me,are you working this week? I said
tomorrow, I do have work,but you know, free this weekend?
Like I'm not available on Friday,and he goes, okay, well,
if you're free, let's get dinnerand drinks after on Saturday. I said,
(02:15):
down, let me know time andplace He says, are you craving
anything specific lately? I said,I could always do Mexican, but I'm
down for whatever. He said,okay, great, Like I'm gonna hit
you when I'm off work and letyou know where we're going. Right Thursday,
Saturday comes around, he texts me, I wake up. Honestly,
I love work. Super layos editingthe podcast on Friday, so I literally
(02:38):
did not leave work till four inthe morning because I had a bunch of
shows to track. So I didn'twake up to like one pm, but
I saw I had like three messagesfrom him. He texted me like ten
in the morning, like, goodmorning, how was work last night?
I respond at one and I said, like super long with like some emojis.
I said, I didn't leave tillfour am. How was your night?
He never text me. Sunday rollsaround. Oh no, and you
(03:00):
guys, I something in my guyfelt something like I was getting ready still
because I was like, you knowwhat, maybe he's like super slammed o
work and like not. This doesn'thappen often, but like one time I
remember he did it off work atlike eight. We don't have plans,
but like we were planning to hangout. It wasn't necessarily like this time
where he's like, let's get dinnerand drinks. But I think he was
like, let's hang out after work, and I remember hitting get up till
(03:22):
nine or something, So in myhead, I'm still excited to see him,
like I haven't seen him in awhole week. I'm getting ready.
Everything's working out of my like that'sthe thing. It was too perfect.
I was like, wow, Ihave all this time to like shower,
I bow, I blow drive myhair. You guys, that is a
lot. It takes like me almosttwo hours a blow off my hair,
Like give me a good blowout.I use my good body butter. And
as I'm getting ready, I justlike when things are going too perfect,
(03:44):
like my makeup's coming out good.I just I was like, something's gonna
come up, like this is toogood to be true. And now I'm
putting my makeup on finishing and I'mlike, you know what if he doesn't
hit me by six, now I'mlike saying this to myself, like okay,
seven, Like okay, if youdon't by eight thirty, plans are
canceled. Fuck him. So nowit's like nine, I think I told
myself eight forty five, if thismotherfucker don't text me, I know,
(04:06):
terrible, terrible, terrible. AndI'm still getting ready and I'm like,
okay, fuck this. I'm notin my head like we won't hang out,
but like when he texted, I'mgona give him shit. But I'm
definitely already gonna make plans because likeI'm getting hell of cues. So I
hit up my friend Sonya and Iwas like, hey, like what are
you doing. She's like, I'mdoing Lundra like let's go get a drink.
So I mean her decided to goget drinks, am I, And
(04:27):
I'm still thinking he's gonna text me. I'm gonna be like, well,
I'm not with my friend. I'vemade plans because you like never hit me
one of the morning, two inthe morning, he never text me.
Next day Monday, doesn't text me. You guys, I have not heard
from this man since since worse fullsince his Saturday morningning. Okay, and
at first, okay, in thebeginning, like that night and like even
(04:49):
the next morning, I was like, that's crazy. He ain't even hitting
me up with the follow up textlike hey, so sorry, and you
guys know, I got irritated anddeleted the text. Friend did she it
didn't have because I would have keptlooking and he has his red receipts on
and I know I would like feelso mad if I know for sure.
He goes like if you'd read thatshit, but he's didn't text me when
(05:11):
you were checking, like hold on, hold on, hold on, hold
one, hold on, get there, okay. But I'm just like,
at first I was like making jokeslike not this motherfucker ghosted me, But
once like Monday, Rodman is like, Okay, this is actually a ghosting.
Like at first I was like,maybe I'm not using the right word,
but like to not even text methe next day an update whatever whatever.
Second sight's crazy story. I kindof don't even want to say to
(05:32):
the person is because it's like almosta legal thing. But I was talking
to a friend who said that shealso thought she was getting ghosted, right
because I'm just venting to her,She's like, yeah, like the same
time as you. And she said, basically, this is someone she used
to date a long time ago.She like will always have love for him,
but they just like never worked out, Like you know, he's just
never gonna get a shit together.But she's going through a breakups, so
she's been like talking to him moreand they've been like you know, having
(05:54):
phone calls, and in her headshe's like, I think I want to
like finally hook up with him.So she's on the phone with him like
they always are, and he's driving, and then she said, all of
a sudden, he like gasp,and she's like, well, what the
fuck and he's like I gotta go. I gotta go. And she's like,
well, are you okay, likewhat's wrong and he's like, yeah,
I'm fine, I just don't wantto talk about it, like I
have to go. Hangs up,and she said the next day like he
never texts her back, and she'slike what the fuck? And then she's
(06:17):
like calling him and then like Ithink a day passed and then she now
she's mad, so she like literallytexted him like fuck you, like are
you goes to me right now?You know? And then she noticed he
blogged her or like the text wasn'tgoing through, so she had I think
that's when she had him like onher his work phone like fuck you wow,
or her work phone sorry, Solike you gonna get this text I'm
gonna tell you, fucking you gonnaread this like you might be done with
(06:41):
me, but I just want tolet you know. Fuck but don't even
think about texting me, you knowif your are goes to me. She
gets a call from his sister andshe's like, Hey, did you talk
to blah blah blah? I heardyou, like saw him last Satday.
She's like, yeah, he's injail because he saw his ex with another
man and got out the car andstabbed him and now was facing a tempt
massa. It's my job, sohe said, he said, gotta cut
(07:11):
you back, gotta come in afucking case. Man. The guy didn't
die, by the way, hedid not die. No, wait,
the first thing I said that Whenshe told me, I was like,
well, you know he didn't gosee you, you know, I mean,
it's a legitimate excuse to not reply, right because you're in jail.
You don't he in jail you're facingBut I wonder why I didn't go through,
(07:34):
like the whole blocking part. MM yeah, not still questioning him.
He's either not over this girl orsomething. There's some beef with that
guy. Oh no, all around. I think we found a little more
details where it was maybe not askingit like she we're not can get into
(07:56):
it, I legally, but exactlyeither way, She dotes a bullet like
wow, that's crazy, like hejust like ruined his ipen in one second,
also goes to show he was notover his X you know, like
all around it's all bad. Anyways, Well, good for her for finding
out all that. For her totell me when if something did happen to
him, like obviously I don't thinkhe's in jail or like died, because
(08:16):
my friend definitely looked him up onlocal obituaries. She's like, what's his
last name? She's crazy? Wait, I was. I was like,
yeah, look, because would beso sad if you like, when you've
been through it already, I getit, like you know what to do.
So yeah, she's wild. Sowe googled he didn't die or at
(08:37):
least it's not in the system,okay, or in jail. I know,
I literally we don't know. Wedon't know. Look up the county.
But something she did say. Shewas like, well, because I
told her, I deleted the textread and then she goes, well,
do you have a MacBook? Iknow, and I already know where this
is going, because there's times whereI think I talked about this last episodes,
but like there's times where I blocksomeone and I'm like cool, and
(08:58):
I open on my laptop and Isee text messages from them because it doesn't
like correlate with your MacBook. I'msure there's a setting you could do.
But so when she told me that, I was like, I don't even
want to know, Like I'm Ilike this whole like and I don't like
it, but I'm like, I'mgonna see red if like this motherfucker read
my message, like then it's likeobvious, like I know he's I guess
I'm still giving him the benefit ofthe doubt a little bit. I'm not
(09:22):
like I'm more mad and more likefuck you, and like, I know
this motherfucker ain't ghosting me, buta little part of me is like,
damn, what if something did happen? So I told I didn't want to
do that, but of course,the moment I got home, I opened
up that MacBook and it does stillsay delivered okay, and he has his
red receipts on Yeah, now youknow of yeah, but also this motherfucker
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knows where I lives, so hecould be at my front porch with the
fucking jukebox, so he could leavea letter. He could roll through and
be like, oh sorry, myphone died still down the hand. And
the friend that he talked about,he has round Instagram. He could like
message her and be like, hey, do you have Angelina's number? I'm
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and I'm just like if he did, like why you're the one that made
the plans and he texted me thatmorning, I don't think he's ghosting you.
I don't think he's that is theonly thing. Yeah, or something
crazy happened, because that's not alot of time. Yeah, what have
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happened? Or sometime after you justdidn't see the text yet you know,
no, like dead ass, likewhat happened? Maybe someone died because pardon
me, I'm still ready to belike fuck you, But now I'm just
like, wait, does something happen? Like my the girl my friend gave
me anxiety and I'm like wait andlike for her to tell me that,
you know, we're all about thescience like all that she also got ghosted
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on the same day end up beingsomething crazy and yeah, the delivered thing
is what's making mad. But lasttime we want to go. He's one
of those people that fucking his mailboxhas like a thousand because he does in
check that ship. So I'm like, oh, is he someone that like
just won't check a tech this message, you know, like doesn't bother him.
I could also yeah, and he'sjust like I'm just not going over
her ship, and like I justdecided to go make plans and I don't
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went drinking with his friends and gotsucked up and I was like, damn,
I fucked up. But now Ican't text her if he did that
and he didn't open it on purpose, just so that he's like, oh,
Angelina, I want her to seethat. Sorryone, that's kind of
lame. No, oh no,And even the situation in general, like
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let's say he is ghost to me, like lie to me, like do
you have a common courtesy to justlike that? That is the worst thing
you could do. Honestly. Youcould cancel the plans, say you didn't
want to go do something else.Sorry, I gotta go feed my fucking
goldfish, Angelina, I can't makeit today. Like that's the least you
could do. It could be alie. And then to even further like
not even texted me the next morninglike, hey, my bad, I
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fucked up, Like that's crazy.On my birthday week, goes to me
on my birthday week, it's crazy, that's ruthless. Just as much as
I want so that you could justI don't think he's ghosting you. Yeah,
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Saturday, Sunday, this is Saturday. You guys about to be a
week so you have got a newphone by now, you haven't heard back
nothing. Nothing last night is whatI checked if it was on ready to
deliver. It's been a few daysthen got lost. But what was the
time between? It was a week? Yeah, it was like a week.
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Like remember it was like the exactseventh day where we were like ready
to be like throwing in the trashand even that one, like that is
we were in the area of likeyou could go someone like I've been looking
up and dating for like wow,no, like probably a couple of months
at least. You can ghost me. Ah, you can't ghost me anymore
and it's a conversation at this point, or yeah, you could definitely like
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blow me off or like it stopor like signs of I don't want to
hang out with you anymore. Butlike to make plans that day, You
made plans with me in advance,and also like it's the good morning part
that gets me, Like, sohe checked in to make sure you're still
down right, that's another weird thing. That's like what the guys are weirdos
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we are weird. I know.Part of me is feeling like exactly,
I'm thinking all those things too,like wow, that is weird that he
would text me that morning, likesomething must have happened. But I also
just like, don't put nothing pastany guys exactly, So that's I'm just
like, yeah, sure, thatis a possibility, and like I really
hope nothing like serious happened, likeoh, if he's alive, I hope
like his mom and dad are stillalive. Like anything other than that,
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that's like tragic, you know,yeah, yeah, yeah, because you
never know. I mean, butthe slight chance that this motherfucker just left
me on delivered and carried on livinghis life and doesn't give a fuck to
one cancel the plans, check inwith me, or even apologize for ghosting
me that night is like making me. Yeah, just being on my toes
a little bit. So I toldmyself, I'm not gonna be pressed.
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I'm like, this is this isas much pressed I am about though talking
to my friends about it, LikeI'm not like crying or losing sleep.
But it's just I've never been ghostedbefore, so that's why I'm just like
that's crazy. The only one thatcame close was that that episode that we
had about ghosting, about ghosting,but that was like that was a one
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night stand, Like that doesn't count. It's not like a ghost really,
Like I don't even know that guy'slast name. Give it a week last
time the first instance, a weekturnover this time another week to see okay,
cause does he know when your birthdayis? Nobody knows it's coming up?
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Like I think I think he askedme a couple of times. I
did not want to tell him becauseI didn't want to put any pressure on
him having to do anything. ButI think one time he did. He
like asked me like the third time, and I think I did say,
oh, it's next Saturday or something. I don't know till Saturday because that's
when, well, no, we'renot gonna be thinking about it that day
because I have a birthday party.But the next day and Monday, when
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you revisit this. I don't thinkif this motherfucker text me on my birthday
or on my birthday party, becauseit's like, fuck you, it's my
birthday now, and I don't wantto hear your stupid exceesays. And if
it is, it better be somethingso good like car accident, like near
death experience. I don't want himto be dead, but you are dead
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to me right now, so youbetter have almost died, or he better
have found his motherfucking sold me likethe baddest bitch ever, like Salama hiak
level bad bitch walked in and theyjust clicked and he was like, Wow,
I'm in love. Anything else otherthan that, I don't think it's
that. No, I don't thinkI did not want that for myself.
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I'm saying life like I could excuseit that way, like you fucking love
your life soulmate, Like okay,we can't deny that, you know,
and she looks like somethiic. Shebetter be twenty times hotter than me.
Anything else happening is not justifiable.And I'm like, uh, you really
ghost to me? Oh my birthdayweek is crazy? Is crazy? I
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don't think he did either. Itdoesn't because because you've said you've said before
too, like like there has beentimes where you guys text like after a
span of days, you know whatI mean. So so this is this
isn't. No, that's not thesame thing. It's not. But because
if you just cancel plans, youbetter be hitting me the next day for
not showing up. Oh actually,I would actually get even more mad ab
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if if he hits me up onsome nonchalant shit like oh we just sometimes
we message. Know he needs toacknowledge this for sure, and there needs
to be some kind of excuse ofwhy this happened. So if he just
hits me like, hey, what'sup, no, I will see red
and I I might not even Iwould either just be like we need to
not talk anymore, or would actuallyghost. I'm not the ghosting type,
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but like that calls for her bye. If you hit me up on some
nonchalantch it like okay, hey,girly, that's the plan this weekend,
you know what, I didn't evenacknowledge that. And because of that,
mm hmost yeah, that's true.I know. I think I think I'm
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just like saying it to think Iwould do that, But like I probably
wouldn't for sure. It's like itsounds good though, right, but I
feel like it's better and it's moregrown of us to just say what's up
and that's it, you know,and in your case it's on it's his
fault the reason why you you knowfor sure it's not me. I guess
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if I had some actions do noteven like he doesn't even deserve a response
to me, like you know youdid something bad, fuck you, But
no, I probably would just belike we need to not talk anymore.
But like I don't want to hearyour side if he hits me on some
nonchalant and like nothing crazy happened,because even just the situation in general,
like if anyone has dealt with thiskind of thing in my head, like
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you obviously don't respect my time,but just the dumbed down even more,
it's just like, okay, sonext time you asked me to hang out,
am I supposed to just like notthink things are confirmed until you text
me like three hours within the event, and if that is how you're thinking,
so am I just supposed to waitaround all day and to see if
maybe you're actually gonna hang out withme, like you said, like,
is that just a suggestion when youmake plans? No, because no,
(18:37):
that's not how it works. I'mnot feeling this for you. Yeah,
I don't know. It's two redflags so close to each other. Yeah,
it hasn't hit the one he haslost his phone or what? Right,
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I guess I'm saying it doesn't helpthat. Like, literally, I
was planning to talk to him aboutsomething that bothered me for him to just
bother me with a second thing beforeright right, right, right right,
having a conversation. Not to havea whole new problem. You gotta talk
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about two things, yea, Ihave a list actually yeah, literally,
And it's just like exactly like datingneeds to be fun, like for this
to like two things already, we'regetting on the borderline of like not fun.
I am having a guest. Ifeel like it's been not fun for
a minute now. Okay, No, it's been fun. Yeah. That
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last thing was the only thing thatpissed off. And I was like,
and another thing that my friend,my nail tech that checked me on.
And I think that's what I wastrying to say to you, and like
when I was not trying to justifywhat he said, but she said it
perfectly because I was like, yeah, I'm just gonna tell him I don't
like the comment he made. Andshe's like, well, it wasn't a
comment that he made, like itwas a response to your thing, Like
comments are something that's unsolicited, andand that's what I was thinking when I
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say that, because it's like exactly, so not like he came up and
like made this comment. Was like, hey, you're a friend unattractive,
Like, well you did say yourselfthat you were kind of like that's the
only thing. I'm like, evenslightly defending him. Still not cool,
like he could have lied about adifferent way. But exactly, it's like
one I was pressing him, wewere drinking, and exactly it wasn't a
comment that he made. It wasa response to my question, but still
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gave me the ick enough to Iwant to talk about this, you know.
But it's been great, like likewe were doing so good to like
this bicker. I just talked abouthow we spent the entire weekend at my
house. That's right. Yeah,this is a big enough one of it's
starting right after the first one,the second one. No, this is
(20:53):
a big one. This is definitelyworth ending things for because this is just
like, oh, you're the kindof person. Yeah, unless someone died,
I got a car accident. Numbertwo is kind of bio is worth
I think two and a half.But but I agree with that, yeah,
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exactly exactly right now at least.Yeah, but you want to make
sure, you want to make sure. Maybe he doesn't have the funds.
It'd be like that sometimes I forgot. I forgot too, but I know
it definitely broke. And he didget a new phone, but like didn't
(21:37):
have his old contacts, and likewhen he hit me, he's like,
oh my god, I thought Iwas not gonna find your number again,
and then sent me a picture oflike his old phone with his new phone
again, so hopefully something different.Yeah, and you know what, I'm
someone that loses and breaks up allthe time. They can't be two of
us, they can't be we can'tboth be losing. And also like if
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I really wanted to see you,you like he knows where I live exactly,
like like Angelique said, like thatdoes sound a little crazy, Like
sure, maybe not the first day, but like, oh I never got
a number, so I guess Iwas never talking to her again, Like
you catch you up at my apartment. You could leave me a little note.
You can hit up one of mywe have a mutual friend. You
(22:18):
could be like, hey, yeah, I hate you, like can you
send me? So that was mypast couple of days. What an interesting
little plot twists. I was soready for that stupid ass date. Oh
but I did look good that day. And I will say when I went
to that bar, three different menbought me a free drink because Barten up
(22:41):
comes to me saying, this personwants to buy you a shot for you.
But of course I was pressed ashell getting I know, because it's
like, I'm glad to be hangingout with the girl that's getting a bunch
free drinks tonight. I'm glad youyou went out. You know, I'm
glad you're not the type of justyeah that was my thing. I was
like, you know, I gotready. I plowed out my hair like
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I'm going, this is not gonnabe a wasted makeup day, and like
I'm exactly, I'm definitely because Iwould have drove myself crazy that guy just
looking at my phone and it keptdoing the time thing. I would have
been like, okay, he's gottill two ams right for you at work,
because once it was out like that, I was like, Okay,
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he's definitely not working anymore. Like, no way he's working till two in
the morning in the morning time,or even if you're working that late,
like at some point you got topeet and you could text, Yeah,
you guys, he's still at work. He never clocked out on Saturday.
That's crazy. It's a long jobbuilding those houses or whatever he does.
Yeah, there's a lot of cabinets. He definitely ghost you. It's just
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weird, Like, I don't knowwhat prompted you to ghost me. I
don't think you're being ghosted. Totext me that morning is crazy. I
don't think you being my birthday weekis crazy. Plus what did you you
Obviously it's not something you did rightor when it's like he was at work
and someone was like, hey thatgirl you talking to I just found her
podcast. She said you gave herthe egg and that you're balding, and
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then he like listens to every thatnever talked about him. That is a
risk. That is a risk.I'd feel some type of way. If
you have a podcast and I'm onit all the time, I think it'd
be something that could front me about. But I don't think i'd ghost you.
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But you have a little podcasts,Yeah, I just probably tell him
it. I would wait till weget a little more serious. I'd be
like, for the record, Yeah, you know I do. That is
something I should give people heads up. Okay, just let you know I
do talk about my life. Butno, I think that's why it gets
more seriou But yeah, exactly,like you don't need permission. Yeah,
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I'm not saying we don't even know. Yeah, like that, you know,
I don't know his name. Why, I've seen pictures of him,
but his profile, right, Isaw the hand. I did delete all
my dating apps, not for him. But I was just like, I
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think I feeling just like more confident. I'm like, I'd rather just meet
someone. And she got drugs onSaturday, so yeah, I know it
worse. Man. One guy wascute, but then he left early.
It's like, yeah, I'm justlike, I don't like it's like I'm
actively looking. I don't want toactively look. I'd rather meet someone in
(25:44):
person. Yeah, to attract someone, yeah, not like And I feel
like I feel like I could show. I feel like everybody shows who they
are more in person because I'm profile, You're still getting to choose, you
know, and like, I don'tknow. Yeah, no one lists those
things. No one lists. Hey, might talk about about your friends and
might ghost you day of our plan. Yeah, that's how we need honest
(26:11):
dating app like put your phone,you know. Yeah, I constantly lose
my phone and I ghost people.So now it's just a mystery if I'm
being ghosted or if I'm not beingghosted. If something happened to this man
I did. We did, likeI said, we checked the local buttures.
We'll make the decision next whether orif it doesn't live by next week.
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Yeah, what if two weeks past? That's definitely it would have been
a week and a half by thetime. Yeah right, yeah, especially
you already told him, you said, he knows when your birthday is too,
so yeah right, you know,yeah, he could definitely call whatever
phone service he has to be,like, look up this number. He
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could show up at your house.I feel like you guys are at that
point where it's not shows up atyour house, you know, explain everything
happened. I don't know. Yeah, better be there with a broken leg,
no arms, in a wheelchair.Hey, couldn't make it down the
stairs because I lost all of mylips. But I told someone to drop
(27:22):
me off just to let you know. I didn't go stee because I heard
your podcast and I just wanted tomake it clear. Yeah, you're selling
the specific. See what is thatpoem I was. I was on a
(27:45):
day cruise. I was trying totake a selfie and and then he also
fell over, almost drowned. Howto go to the hospital at me?
And then it was until you recoveredtwo days after he's like, fuck,
where's my phone? Ship also inthe ocean. So he's still recovering,
(28:07):
right something my Saturday. He's niceand warm. You probably can't even eat
the jello yet, you know whatI'm saying. Yeah, he's probably not
even speaking, But the moment hedoes, he's gonna be like, I
know, no, deadass, ifyou really liked me and you're really about
it, your body would recover fasterin the name of love for me.
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No, like ill he gave methe ag again. But we do know,
oh, we do know he hasa weak thing, and we're not
gonna go down that round. Don'topen that door. Don't open that door.
Just keep it pushing issues right,doesn't matter. Yeah, maybe that
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came back, you know what thatwould be, That would be, that
would be legit, that would bea very legitimate. No, he finds
out that morning. It doesn't happenthat way. No, But mental health,
now, okay, you could takea day, but the next day
you could be back to being healthyand messaging me or okay, even if
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something yeah I really want to buteven to that excuse, say something just
really bad did happen, I feellike, yeah, sure, I'll give
it a week. But you couldat least be like, hey, I'm
going through something right now. Yeah, hey, sorry, I've been whatever
whatever, Because I'm thinking if somethinglike crazy happened to me, where like
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you know that that happens like youjust don't even know how you're gonna handle
it, I would at least belike, I'm going through something right now,
see it. Ever, and I'veactually done that too, where like
something comes up and I don't youknow, you don't want to give someone
details or you can't whatever it isright where I've been like you know what,
I'm sorry, I haven't texted back, you know, and be very
brief about what's going on. Butyeah, I can, and I would
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just be like, hope, everything'sokay. Thanks Rach exactly, at least
for your peace of mind, andthen for his too low key, because
he's probably like, I don't obviouslyif I'm interested, I don't want you
to think I'm ghosting. I don'twant you to think I'm ignoring you,
you know, exactly, So okay, I'll give it a week, which
is like two more days. Ifyou're hearing this and you know this is
about you, you're lucky. Youhave forty eight hours for the TV show
(30:37):
is the talk? Yeah, Igot forty eight hours. Somebody else's phone,
he could call he knows what stationwork, or you gonna call the
station. I like to make arequest, Angelina, I'm not ghosting you.
Can you play du alifa the mainline office or our person or the
(31:03):
executive assistant. Oh really, it'snot that Angelina, I think. Yeah.
And also he's not ghosting her.Give us the callback man, but
yeah, still on delivered. SoI guess I made me feel like,
oh, maybe he's not ghost tome, but he can still very much
(31:26):
just be ignoring my tax and belike I'm not going to open it.
But I also feel like he's notthat smart to even think like, oh,
don't want her to see my badreceipt on I don't know. Yeah,
yeah, yeah, time to timewill tell. Okay, we will
visit this our next pod and thenmaybe even our subsequent next pot case.
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We don't know what there's that wedon't see, but looking forward to this
weekend. You guys, my thirtiethRATT day. You might be listening to
this episode day of my birthday?So dirty, you know, you give
them momm me something. I'm justkidding. I'm just kidding. But yeah,
if you want to favorite tequila likeaokay, I love pizza, love
(32:14):
coffee, love feels coffee, loveall coffee. Yeah yeah, no even
a love card all love letter,well card, love that. But yeah,
my mom told me this big assparty. You guys, I'm I
feel a little baud today. Icalled her. She was definitely a little
stressed out. Yeah, I don'tknow. She just trying to plan everything.
(32:36):
She's like, don't like, aparty is hard, No, my
mom goes hard. You guys,like, don't to my Instagram. Are
now at Angelina on air. There'sa highlight with a little confetti like a
highlight of some of the parties I'mon his strow, not even the best
ones. But like my brother's exgirlfriend rip, she didn't die, but
yeah, yeah, we loved herthough sad damn breakups. She had the
(33:00):
we she loved Jersey Shore and likeit was last minute too, mind,
this was like in a two weekspan. My mom put this out last
Hello, last minute, maybe likeless less than a month for sure.
Yeah, and Jersey Shore themes likewhen you entered you had to like take
a shot. We had these glowsticks, and the glow sticks stood for
like something. She got the letter, you know, the infamous letter like
(33:23):
blown up on this big ass Likeit was like a whole back drop drinks.
We had like a separate section wherewas like kind of a confessional like
the TV vibes, and we hadeveryone like record a message for her,
and like we put it on awhole video so she can watch it.
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I know, it's like we're we'refriends. Then that was a long time
ago. That was I don't know, I feel like it was after the
Jurassic Oh, that angel was invitedto the Jurassic Park. Let's see,
let's look at the highlights when itcame firsts. That looks so much fun.
Yeah. For but their grandson,my stepdad, like his side,
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they have a baby, so youknow yeah yeah, oh no Jasic Park
was before September eighteen. Oh me, Oh yeah that's not good then,
Yeah, you're right now. Mymom had a whole back job. We
had like a dig site for thekids, like full ass sand with these
little dig things. Your status.Oh yeah that was a park range bad
(34:39):
ass. I know, I'm lookingat the highlight now. Little hats like
little I love, like like themeparties are really fun, you know,
like oh yeah, my family lovesthe thing. That's cool. Machine.
Yeah there was a fog machine andyeah, this one's gonna be lit.
So my birthday theme is Savannah Nights, and my mom's already been showing me
(35:01):
the stuff she has. We havea cigar bar. We got our favorite
bartenders that we've been like having forour past couple. They're like a family
owned, like small business. Yeah, and there drinks are fire the only
thing. But I'm not gonna complainabout anything because you know, I was
on the strict to my whim.I was like everything needs to be Cuban
thing, like the food, likeI was like the first alb, I'm
(35:22):
only gonna play keep music. Ofcourse I'm in charge of the music,
but I was editing. I waslike, okay, only the first fifteen
minutes because you know, there's alot of themes and people to get to
in the music. Yeah, Ionly got like six seven, eight hours.
You know, I can't waste awhole hour on all Cuban music.
But because I said that my momat the bar, it's only rum drinks,
(35:45):
which which is gonna be great.It's gonna taste good. But like
a lot of people drink tequila though, I know there's something that's gonna be
like rum. No, the cocktailsare gonna be bombed regardless, but yeah,
it's good, be so cute.I know I should really not say
all of the things that are happeningbecause we get the recap. Well,
(36:06):
I'm sure something will happen for therecap all good things. So yeah,
I can't get crazy, but Iwas so key, even like the drinks
have like I don't know names andstuff. Yeah, like once she's upbeat
because if you're a one, youknow that's my old A name and old
Instagram name too. Yeah, andthen like my Instagram, bile was always
reasonable down track eight, which isjay Z's Can I Live And one of
(36:29):
the drinks is called track eight.Yeah, so she is so good,
like, yeah, she's shown methe patty like we have a little gazebo
section or they do because I don'tlive there anymore. And they just like
redid that to be like the dancefloor and they set up like all these
disco balls and like these big asdominoes, the tate center pieces look so
(36:50):
good. She send to me thedrafts hello like lights, like there's big
gas like sign that's a van andice. There's gonna be a big as
sig of a cigar bar. I'mexcited. And I got my dress and
it fits me. My sister,Yeah, my sister's gonna pay for my
makeup appointment. Shout out to her, Shout out to your sister. I
got a hairppointment the day before,so we're gonna try to keep that blowout
intact because what I do, okayblow but like not as silky like by
(37:15):
the end of the day, it'sfrizzy. Why did it give U today?
But I needed to last make adness. No, I'm so excited,
So everyone like great producer Chris said, he's gonna pull up. We don't
see. Oh, I think he'slate, but he's gonna get there.
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Okay, that's tell you too,because it's her sister's birthday. Or he'll
there. That's fine too. You'renot gonna want to do that. I
can see him leaving. You can, but no one leaves our party early.
I mean, yeah, you might, but no one's gonna want to
leave early. I promise you,if you are not planning to stay the
(37:58):
whole time, I would show uplate then because you're not gonna want leave
early. I already have I don'tknow, two of your old Jurassic No.
My family parties. You guys,that's so cool. We're gonna have
like blunts hidden in the cigar bar. There's cigars that you can have,
(38:20):
but like my family's big smokers,so there will be. You gotta have
to say the secret word to getit, which I haven't figured out what
is the secret word yet. Figureit out. I'll probably just say something
Yeah, I don't text real quick, like gonna say the secreord gos on
what it is. Yeah, myuncle rig like he's like the O g
(38:42):
in the family. And my uncleJohn Chris, not producer Chris, his
dad. They're gonna be like workingthe cigar bars, so we'll like cut
it for people and pass them outand like even if you don't smoke,
like it's a good little souvenir.You know, got like customized like things
to wrap it in. She's crazy, I don't know about starting his birthday.
Yeah, hey, that's exciting.No, I'm so excited, like
(39:06):
you guys. I never do anythingreally big for my birthday, Like I'll
like maybe plan a dirt like thatday. Like I never plan anything like,
oh, I have this plan formy birthday. And but I always
wanted to be thirty since I wasa little girl. I probably said this
a million times. But when Iwas younger, I saw an interview with
America Fererra and they asked her whatag she wants to be forever, and
she said thirty. And ever sincemy little ass saw that, I always
wanted to be thirty. Nice Andwhen they were like, you know what,
(39:30):
I'm thinking what I want to do? Like, oh, you know,
my friends are like we should goon a trip, we should do
this that, I'm like, no, I want my mom to throw me
a party because she throws the bestparties, and I want the shit in
my parents' backyard, Like I wantto be with my family and like all
my closest friends. So I'm excited. I'm excited for you, and I'm
(39:50):
like, really, you know,I love making a playlist, and I
feel like I'm always in charge ofthe playlist for family parties. But I'm
obviously always thinking of like that person'sday, yeah, and like and also
who's going to be there, likenot that no one's gona like my music,
because i also want everyone to havea good time. But I'm always
like sneaking in the bad Bunny atthe end, but now vision be bad
buy like every other song, don'tbecause it's my birthday. So super excited.
(40:14):
What do you guys have planned itfor the weekend? Days with you
guys? Oh yeah, go tomy party? Matters period? Why you're
not party? He wasn't already?Yes, I will be in Eureka that
speakend, So yeah, so I'mexcited to go. But I really wish
(40:37):
I could have major party because itsounds late. Who just goes to Eureka's.
There's a lot to do. I'lllet y'all know how it goes Glenn
urban but about like a gold Okay, so hear me out. So I'm
low key like a hike, LikeI love going on hikes and trails and
(40:58):
I like seeing nature and I'm reallybig on that kind of stuff. So
Areka has this like it's called likea like a Redwood skywalk thing where you
like go up these stairs and youyou walk through the forest, but like
you're at the height of like halfwayof how tall like the trees are,
(41:20):
so you're not walking the floor.You're actually it's my party to go class
some trees. Kidding, yes,But it was supposed to be. It
was a trip in January, butthe weather kind of ruined it, so
we postponed for April, and youknow, plans sounds amazing, get your
traveling. Yeah, I look cute, but it's giving Ship's Creek, so
(41:45):
we're definitely California gold Rush. No, it's literally getting Ship's Creek. Look
up the skywalk here, that's whatI think it's gonna be worth it.
And an avenue of the Giants,which is another like this lake is killed,
right, I am excited, Likethat's what I like to do,
(42:07):
you know, And I haven't doneit a lot this year, and I
need it mentally. I'm not gonnalie. So oh yeah, yeah,
Oh there's a show called Eureka andDisney. Yeah, Eureka is mad random.
I had a disappointment with like aclient the other day and they were
(42:29):
like, yeah, I guess whereI'm from, just like by looking around.
But I didn't look like behind me. And the first thing I looked
up was the posed was Antarctica.Was like he was like, oh no,
sorry, now he's like look behindyou, and there was like a
Phillies thing, so like, oh, Philadelphia, but literally I was like
Antarctica, Like the doesn't have likea lot of like the big cities that
(42:52):
you like come to California for,but it has a lot of national parks
and a lot of like state parksthat have really beautiful views. So yeah,
yeah, I don't know, youknow, because I like hiking to
I'm not as much like know aboutall of them. But when people like,
when I think of like the besttrails, like I don't, I
(43:13):
don't know, is Eureka like thehotspot. It's this one itself is not
really like a hike per se.It's more like sightseeing trails. I think
they're like not even that long,to be honest, but so what is
But but it's it's something that mycousin and I have wanted to do.
And so it's the largest coastal citybetween San Francisco and Portland. And we're
(43:40):
supposed to be doing Utah in September. So that's exciting. That's gonna be
like a whole week. Okay,says Eureka is a market and cultural center
of a beautiful region filled with iconicredwoods, the world's tallest trees. It's
suddenly beautiful, rugged, remote oceanlandscapes. Okay, he's gonna go find
(44:00):
himself in Eureka. We're gonna gogrounding, you know. Wow, Okay,
fine, you get a pass formissing my birthday. I guess if
you don't show up, you haveno motherfucking excuse because you're not going to
Eureka unless you're going to Eureka,or whatever happened to Carpenter Bay happened to
you as well. There's no otherexcidemn Yeah, just Chris number two,
(44:30):
Chris number one, the other Chris. But yeah, I think that's it.
We probably want to to do thesegments because this one was just such
a Thanks for helping us in youknow, in this investigation. All your
help is needed. If you haveany clues, if you've seen this man
on this wanted poster, let meknow, Okay, balding, beautiful,
(44:52):
smile, last name Bay, firstnamed Carpenter. Yeah, those are the
two things tall like, yeah,if he said last name day, first
name Carpenter. If you see thatman, call me, slide in my
(45:13):
d MS, let me know andthen slap him and run away like that
was for Angelina and then walk away. Yeah. Yeah, just continue on
living your life, but you lethim know and everything. That's me again.
So we'll give update next week onthe party. Whatever happens at my
(45:34):
party, it's gonna be a greatnight. And if hopefully Carpenter Bay is
not, nothing bad happen. Ihopefully he's not dead. But if he
goes to me, then yes,you better be dead. And that's his
two options. Thanks much, BreakingOut. If you like us, if
you love us, give us fivestars and nothing less. Please leave a
(45:54):
review and the comments. That reallyhelps a lot. We love going through
it reading your comments. If youdon't, don't have anything nice to say
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Love you by bye. If youjust just just just
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