April 11, 2025 • 18 mins
Dave is back! We hear a new rant from Juanita, talk about having pets in the bed, and screaming babies on the plane.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Would you guys talk about microwaves on the Minnesota Goodbye
while I was gone, because I've been going through emails
here kind of previewing and what is it all about microwaves?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
We were I don't know how it came up, but
we were talking about how what was like the first
time you accidentally put something in the microwave that wasn't
supposed to be in there?
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
And so now everybody's emailing in their experiences of putting
something in the microwave.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Because I think some people you don't realize it until
you do it and you go, oh yeah. I don't
think Carson realized that until he puts some sort of
metal aluminum tray in there to reheat Chipotle or something.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Yeah, that's the pretty much most of the stories involved
some kind of aluminum foil of some sort.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Mine was a cup with metallic writing on it and
it said like, you know, Duluth, Minnesota in metallic writing
or something, and it was sparking and I'm like, oh, yeah,
it's got metal in there, so all right. Interesting. I
just saw those. I'm like, Okay, what did I miss
last week? On the Minnesota Goodbye? All right, moving on.
One thing that I missed was Juanita's rant. So let's
get right to Juanita's rant on the Minnesota goodbye and
(00:59):
pushing all the right buttons here, and let's see whether
I can make this happen.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Here we go, Hey, y'all, So this rent for the
rent for this week is about the company meetings.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Now.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
I don't know how many company meetings you all have
down there at the Ihearts, but every other week or
so we have this meeting about they want to go
over the budget and how much we made and production
and uh boring shit. The thing is is that everybody
in the meeting knows that when it gets timed and
they say, does anybody have any questions, you don't ask
(01:30):
anything because all that does is just prolong the fucking meeting. Yes,
but there's always that one asshole and wants to ask
fifteen fucking questions about the shit that they already went over.
Shut the fuck up, you're just prolonging the meeting. We
don't want to sit here any longer. Then they just
go on and on. Send a goddamn email. Don't make
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the meeting go any longer than it has to, because
you got some dumb ass question that you want to
ask God that just this is me the fuck off.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Well that's my rant. I love you guys.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
Bye.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
You know what, that is probably my favorite rant you've
ever done, because I can so relate to that. Everybody,
they go does anybody have any questions? And the standard
response is no, silence, yeah, silence, and then they go, okay,
well all right, if you have any questions, let me know.
Steve Lettart he used to work here at the station
on the morning show. Great guy, very funny, but he
(02:24):
would always piss me the fuck off. He always had
a question. And the funny thing about Steve was I
sat behind him in his staff meeting.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
One time.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
This kid was on his phone the in tie your meeting.
So at twenty thirty minute meeting, I mean not for
a minute did he get off his phone? Not for
a minute. Yeah, And then at the end he's like,
you know, he had to ask the questions. And I
think sometimes people ask questions to let the bosses know
I'm here, I was paying attention, I'm engaged, sure, and
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so I finally had to tell Steve, don't ask questions,
and he's like, what, because I just want to, I'm like,
don't ask questions. So I was in a meeting yesterday
about one of our clients that were doing ads for
and I had missed the first meeting because I was
on vacation. So I felt like I needed to bring
up and let them know, Hey, I'm here and I'm
interested and I'm not just like, you know, like not
(03:17):
paying attention. So I asked a question or two, but
I was very brief and I didn't keep asking questions
because I didn't want to be that person.
Speaker 6 (03:26):
Yeah, yeah, I don't be that person.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
I was on a meeting one time. It was like
we were doing it was like a national call where
there were DJs from all over the country from iHeart stations,
like probably a dozen of us, and we're all talking
about like advertising Pajama Gram or some shit like that,
and so we're going over like, you know, here's the
things to say, here's what they want you to focus on, whatever.
(03:51):
And we had one of the people from Pajamagram on
the call, and this DJ from like Austin, Texas. He's like,
you know, I just want to tell you what an
honor it is to be included in his campaign, and
I just want to let you know that we are
just thrilled over here at k b utt to be
a part of this. And he went on and on
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and on, and he just and he was one of
these blow hard DJs and most of them have died
off by now. This was probably twenty years ago. And
he just kept going and going about how much he
loved being a part of but and I finally hung up.
I'm like, this is fucking bullshit. I'm going to hang up.
And I did they see.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
You hang up?
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Though?
Speaker 5 (04:32):
Or they hear you hang up? That was before zoom, Okay,
so they don't.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
They didn't know. Yeah, they just heard a beep beep.
Speaker 5 (04:38):
But well someone left us.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
So don't be that person. Thank you. On need to
be that guy that was pissed me the fuck off?
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Ah, I love it.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Okay, here comes Charlene. Charlene says, I want to comment
on a conversation you had last week on the Morning show.
You were talking about a woman who had said something
like all women need two men in their lives, one stable,
insecure and the other that fills the wild, exciting need.
I only caught a little bit about the conversation, but
(05:09):
I believe that was the gist of it. I'm just
writing to speak on my experience in this situation, same
but different. I'll give an abbreviated version. I met a
woman six years ago that was searching to find another
woman to fill a void. Her husband was going through
a period where he was emotionally unavailable. Plus she wanted
to explore her sexual curiosity as well as introduce a
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third into their relationship, only if there was a strong
connection between her and I. Though fast forward six years
later to today, her and I are best friends and
more sometimes and sometimes all three of us spend time together.
Her and I have a level of intimacy that her
and her husband do not have, and he knows that
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and he's okay with it completely. She can be wild
and her true self with me, and she has her
husband that is everything else to her. All three of
us are happy and appreciate ciate what we have. Side note,
I only dated one person during this time, and even
though my bestie and I were friends during the time
I dated someone, the woman I was seeing was always
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jealous and ultimately it was too much for her. Anyway,
want to give you my insight on that conversation and
to say to each their own. As long as everybody's
open minded and honest and truly okay with everything that's
going on, then just be happy. The only thing that
I question about that, Charlene, is that you were left
without that emotional closeness. You were left without that rock.
You had your fun, love and you're exciting times.
Speaker 6 (06:33):
But she said that the girl was her best friend too.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Okay, I guess, yeah, I guess that's a good point.
Speaker 6 (06:38):
So maybe it was like still her emotional rock.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
But then do you have the person I think we
all need somebody at some point in life who signs
the the emergency medical stuff Like if I get in
a you know, a boat accident, yeah, and I've lost consciousness.
I need that person in my life who can go
to the doctor and say, yes, go ahead and take
him off life support, you know that tightly?
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Right, I mean Susan does that, would do that immediately.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
She would do that immediately.
Speaker 7 (07:04):
And when they're like, oh, he's got like a you know,
eighty percent chance, she's like, ah, it's not looking good
looking as well, take him off.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
He's only got a bloody nose. Yeah, well I would
euthanize him anyway. So that's interesting. So I'm glad that
it's working out for you, Sarlene, and I'm glad that
you are getting a chance and your your friend is
getting a chance to explore that sexual side that they
would not have got to explore in a other relationship.
Speaker 7 (07:32):
The only thing I'll say about that actual original email
that she maybe didn't catch was the fact that woman
wasn't being honest with her husband though, right, So it
was a matter of like pretty much cheaty yeah, and
no kind of agreement yeah versus like there was an
open conversation about what was happening.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Very interesting, Thank you, Charlene. Next one is from Charrace,
who is a regular supporter of the Minnesota Goodbye, and
she says, Hello, Dave, Jenny Bailey Vont And let you
guys know about a funny guy I found on TikTok.
Maybe Vont knows who he is. He makes all these
different funny videos about all the different stereotypes about black people.
Sure race, by the way, is black. In case you're
(08:10):
wondering and really exaggerate it. It's funny because ninety percent
of it is true. To find him on TikTok. His
name is I Am Randy Pyron. I am Randy p
y Ron. You guys should check it out because it
really is funny. My favorite video is things Black people
Can't help doing. He has several and they are funny.
(08:31):
You should check him out. Hope you have a great weekend,
all right. Rather than pull one up right now, I
think what we should do is we should let Vont
know about this. I'll tell him and then maybe Vont
wants to play some of them, you know, yeah, because
I think it'd be funnier if Vont presents this, then
the three whitest people in Minnesota presenting this on the show.
Speaker 5 (08:54):
So thank you, Arce.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Appreciate that. Next one, Hold on, I gotta scroll down
a little bit. Here we go, Minnesota, goodbye. Question regarding
pets like dogs and cats, do you let your animals
sleep with you in your bed or do you kennel
them or sleep on the floor, et cetera, Jenny, when
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you watch dogs, where do they sleep? We'll start there.
Speaker 7 (09:19):
Yeah, they all usually only sleep either. If they're kennel
trained and that's what they're used to, they'll go on
a kennel. Otherwise, I give them free range of the
main floor. There's only one dog, the Oji dog I
ever started watching that. I make a little bed next
to my bed with like a bunch of blankets, and
he sleeps next to the bed.
Speaker 5 (09:35):
But that's it.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Yeah, Josie just would have the When she was younger,
she had the free reign of the house, but she
would sleep downstairs on the couch or wherever she slept.
Then we kept her in a kennel because she would pee.
I think we'd let her sleep in bed with us
for a while, but then that's when she started to pee.
Roger sleeps wherever he wants to, usually in bed with Susan.
(09:57):
I don't have a problem with dogs in the bed. Yeah,
they're your buddies.
Speaker 5 (10:01):
Yeah, yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Where does Cap sleep.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
With me if he wants to.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Usually he'll sit in the window until I fall asleep
and I'll wake up and he'll be like he likes
to be the big spoon, so he'll stretch out on
my side, Oh my god.
Speaker 5 (10:14):
Or he'll sit right by my head. I love him
so much.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
I know you do. A dog update. We are not
going to get Gavin? Oh yeah, yeah, I mean I
really liked Gavin and I just kind of had a
bond with him, like we clicked right away because he
seemed to love me back. And I think that's what
sometimes we like somebody because oh they like us too.
(10:37):
But Susan was just not She had an open mind
to it. But I just number one. I asked her
the other day, I said, we've got to get back
to these people about Gavin. Gavin was like a short
haired yellow lab mix and he was about you know,
he was a larger dog, and he was a puppy.
He still was ten months old. He had a lot
of energy, and he shed a lot. And I said
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to Susan, I said, we got to get back to
you know, spots last stop and let him know. And
she said, I can't. I just I missed Josie. And
then she started to cry.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
And I'm like, okay, well, not going to force this. Yeah,
but I'm sorry Gavin.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
I know.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Yeah. Oh. She goes on to say, my husband had
an English bulldog before me in his bed, so she
always slept with him. That was tough adjustment for me
to have a big bowling ball that wouldn't move at
the end of the bed, but I got used to it.
Now we're on our second English bulldog. And I cannot
imagine not sleeping with her in the bed. She curls
up between me and my hobby, likes to sleep under
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the covers, and even puts her head on the pillow.
Now it's always better to get her back. Now, it's
always better to get her backside at night versus her
paws side, as her paws are scratching your back at night.
But either way, I wouldn't change it for anything. She
is such a sweetheart. What are your thoughts? You have
any thoughts on sleeping with your dog in the bed
and let us know?
Speaker 3 (11:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (11:58):
Yeah, I mean why not.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Our dogs had the free reign of like they can
jump on the couch, they could sleep on the couch.
What one thing when Gavin came over, because he came
over to visit and we let him in the house
just a romp around. And one thing he did that
I didn't like that I would have definitely trained him
not to was counter surf where they put their paws
up on the counter. Yeah, and then they like start
(12:23):
licking around. And he was big enough to do it,
Josie was not. And I saw him do that and
I thought, well, that's definitely a habit that he is
going to have to break.
Speaker 6 (12:32):
Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 7 (12:33):
It's like, it's so hard to have a dog that
counter surf. I have Luckily, I honestly don't think I've
ever had a dog that counter surf of the dogs
I watch, but I know Fallon's dog, Dolly is a
little shit and counter surfs because last time I was
there and made food, she got into all of it
and it was like in the center of the counter.
Speaker 6 (12:52):
She like jumped up, yeah, And I was.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
Like, oh, that would be There's two things that dogs do. Well,
maybe there's several things I think that dogs do that
I would have to break them up. Number one, barking constantly.
I could never have a dog that like looked out
the front window. And there's a couple of dogs in
our neighborhood when I go for a walk that they
look out the front window. You could never have that.
(13:17):
Two a dog that jumps up on guests or you
when you walk in the door. Some people don't really
don't like dogs as much as we think, so, especially
when a bigger dog will jump up and put their
paws on your chest they think they're being very friendly. Nope,
can't do that one. So what I learned to do.
And if you're a breeder or trainer, tell me about this.
(13:38):
You grab their paws and you squeeze them, so it's uncomfortable,
not until they hurt, but their paws are up there.
You grab them and you squeeze them until that, like
is a little bit uncomfortable, and then you kind of
need them a little bit. Now you don't kick them
in the chest, but you give them a little bit
of a knee. So now that jumping up experience is uncomfortable. Sure,
do you know any better than that, Jenny, I don't.
Speaker 6 (13:59):
I've never heard of that, And no, I don't know
any better.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
Yeah, but I can attest to I do not like
being jumped on my dogs because I like dogs, but
there's something ingrained in me that's a little bit scared
of any dog that jumps on me. So I do
not like being jumped on by dogs, and usually I
just put my back to them.
Speaker 7 (14:16):
And I think I seem to be very well aware
of that because I don't mind it. But I know
for the people who don't like it, like, they really
don't like it. And I think some owners just like
don't understand that, and so they don't really they're like, oh,
he's harmless, she's harmless whatever. Yeah, and it's like, yeah,
but some people just don't want to be jumped on
by dogs, so you should grab your dog if that's
the kind of dog they are.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
Yeah. Yeah. We used to have a colleigue that would
do that a lot, and they were older so they
were a little bit hard to train. But she was
just a joy. Her name was Gracie, and Gracey loved
everybody but Marcus, my daughter Beth's husband when he lived here.
He didn't like dogs. I don't know if he got
bit by a dog when he was a kid. He
was not a dog person. And Gracie did not like Marcus.
(14:58):
And I don't know if he jumped she jumped on her, whatever,
but it was the one person. Don't you think dogs
can tell whether you like dogs or not?
Speaker 4 (15:06):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (15:06):
Yes, I do, because I feel like every dog loves
me and I love them so much.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Same, so I think it's the same with babies. Babies
and toddlers can tell whether you are like them and
are comfortable kids and babies love me because I love
kids and babies. I remember a strange woman asked me
to hold her baby going through TSA at the airport
one time, and and she was harried and had a
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crib a cradle, she had a stroller, and she had
a suitcase, and she had a crying baby or baby,
and she's like, will you hold my baby? And I'm like,
i'd be happy to babies love me. And he just
looked up at me. He's so happy.
Speaker 6 (15:46):
Oh my god, none, he said, Dad, I'm.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
Going to play a recording for you. This is totally
spontaneous on the airplane yesterday on the way from Atlanta
to home. Now, we had not slept all night, overnight
flight from Hawaii to Atlanta. We're so fucking tired. This baby,
a boy probably ten months old, cried and screamed the
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entire time. And I'm gonna play it for you. You're ready, Okay,
let's see if I can find it here.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
Hold on, Okay.
Speaker 1 (16:33):
Now, this went on for two and a half hours.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
One N't they get tired?
Speaker 2 (16:38):
I guess I don't know how babies work, but I
feel like once you get tired, you tire yourself out
and fall asleep.
Speaker 5 (16:43):
After screaming so much.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
He did stop, probably about twenty minutes outside of Minneapolis,
but he cried and screamed, and it was such an
interesting thing because the dad tried to comfort him the
whole time. The mom did nothing.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
Well, I'm assuming wherever they were on vacation, the mom
was probably Karen for that kid the whole time.
Speaker 5 (17:04):
So the second they get on the plage, she's like, take.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Care of this, maybe so. And then Grandma, I think,
was across the aisle. Grandma picked up the baby and
kind of bounced, but nothing would console this baby. And
I try to be understanding, but I'm going to bring
up something that we brought up before. And Susan and
I had a little discussion about this one. We paid
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for Comfort Plus, which is not first class, but it's
a little bit cushier of a seat, a little bit
more leg room. Yeah, and because you know, it's a
long flight, long you know whatever, and so we paid
an upgrade for Comfort Plus. And Susan said, it pisses
me off that they are in Comfort Plus where we
decided to have like a little bit better experience, but
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they brought a baby that screams. And I said, you know,
it's funny. We brought this up on the show, and
because there was a TikTok or a video a couple
of months ago where a woman was arguing with another
passenger that she brought her baby into first class and
the baby cried the whole time, and he said, don't
bring a baby into first class. So we had a
discussion about whether that is elitist or whether you think that,
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you know, only poor people in the back should put
up with a crying baby. And I'm kind of on
the fence about it. To me, you know, that's why
you pay for more. That's why you pay for more
to live in a nice neighborhood, not that poor people
deserve to live in a shit neighborhood, but that's why
you buy, you know, live in the best neighborhood you
can afford. That's why you buy the safest car and
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most reliable car, not because poor people deserve to be
injured in a car crash, but because that's what you
feel is worthwhile. All Right, I'll leave that up to
you to discuss. That is going to be the Minnesota
Goodbye for today. Send your emails in to Ryan's show
at KADIWB dot com.
Would you guys talk about microwaves on the Minnesota Goodbye
while I was gone, because I've been going through emails
here kind of previewing and what is it all about microwaves?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
We were I don't know how it came up, but
we were talking about how what was like the first
time you accidentally put something in the microwave that wasn't
supposed to be in there?
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
And so now everybody's emailing in their experiences of putting
something in the microwave.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Because I think some people you don't realize it until
you do it and you go, oh yeah. I don't
think Carson realized that until he puts some sort of
metal aluminum tray in there to reheat Chipotle or something.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Yeah, that's the pretty much most of the stories involved
some kind of aluminum foil of some sort.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Mine was a cup with metallic writing on it and
it said like, you know, Duluth, Minnesota in metallic writing
or something, and it was sparking and I'm like, oh, yeah,
it's got metal in there, so all right. Interesting. I
just saw those. I'm like, Okay, what did I miss
last week? On the Minnesota Goodbye? All right, moving on.
One thing that I missed was Juanita's rant. So let's
get right to Juanita's rant on the Minnesota goodbye and
(00:59):
pushing all the right buttons here, and let's see whether
I can make this happen.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Here we go, Hey, y'all, So this rent for the
rent for this week is about the company meetings.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Now.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
I don't know how many company meetings you all have
down there at the Ihearts, but every other week or
so we have this meeting about they want to go
over the budget and how much we made and production
and uh boring shit. The thing is is that everybody
in the meeting knows that when it gets timed and
they say, does anybody have any questions, you don't ask
(01:30):
anything because all that does is just prolong the fucking meeting. Yes,
but there's always that one asshole and wants to ask
fifteen fucking questions about the shit that they already went over.
Shut the fuck up, you're just prolonging the meeting. We
don't want to sit here any longer. Then they just
go on and on. Send a goddamn email. Don't make
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the meeting go any longer than it has to, because
you got some dumb ass question that you want to
ask God that just this is me the fuck off.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Well that's my rant. I love you guys.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
Bye.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
You know what, that is probably my favorite rant you've
ever done, because I can so relate to that. Everybody,
they go does anybody have any questions? And the standard
response is no, silence, yeah, silence, and then they go, okay,
well all right, if you have any questions, let me know.
Steve Lettart he used to work here at the station
on the morning show. Great guy, very funny, but he
(02:24):
would always piss me the fuck off. He always had
a question. And the funny thing about Steve was I
sat behind him in his staff meeting.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
One time.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
This kid was on his phone the in tie your meeting.
So at twenty thirty minute meeting, I mean not for
a minute did he get off his phone? Not for
a minute. Yeah, And then at the end he's like,
you know, he had to ask the questions. And I
think sometimes people ask questions to let the bosses know
I'm here, I was paying attention, I'm engaged, sure, and
(02:55):
so I finally had to tell Steve, don't ask questions,
and he's like, what, because I just want to, I'm like,
don't ask questions. So I was in a meeting yesterday
about one of our clients that were doing ads for
and I had missed the first meeting because I was
on vacation. So I felt like I needed to bring
up and let them know, Hey, I'm here and I'm
interested and I'm not just like, you know, like not
(03:17):
paying attention. So I asked a question or two, but
I was very brief and I didn't keep asking questions
because I didn't want to be that person.
Speaker 6 (03:26):
Yeah, yeah, I don't be that person.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
I was on a meeting one time. It was like
we were doing it was like a national call where
there were DJs from all over the country from iHeart stations,
like probably a dozen of us, and we're all talking
about like advertising Pajama Gram or some shit like that,
and so we're going over like, you know, here's the
things to say, here's what they want you to focus on, whatever.
(03:51):
And we had one of the people from Pajamagram on
the call, and this DJ from like Austin, Texas. He's like,
you know, I just want to tell you what an
honor it is to be included in his campaign, and
I just want to let you know that we are
just thrilled over here at k b utt to be
a part of this. And he went on and on
(04:12):
and on, and he just and he was one of
these blow hard DJs and most of them have died
off by now. This was probably twenty years ago. And
he just kept going and going about how much he
loved being a part of but and I finally hung up.
I'm like, this is fucking bullshit. I'm going to hang up.
And I did they see.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
You hang up?
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Though?
Speaker 5 (04:32):
Or they hear you hang up? That was before zoom, Okay,
so they don't.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
They didn't know. Yeah, they just heard a beep beep.
Speaker 5 (04:38):
But well someone left us.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
So don't be that person. Thank you. On need to
be that guy that was pissed me the fuck off?
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Ah, I love it.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Okay, here comes Charlene. Charlene says, I want to comment
on a conversation you had last week on the Morning show.
You were talking about a woman who had said something
like all women need two men in their lives, one stable,
insecure and the other that fills the wild, exciting need.
I only caught a little bit about the conversation, but
(05:09):
I believe that was the gist of it. I'm just
writing to speak on my experience in this situation, same
but different. I'll give an abbreviated version. I met a
woman six years ago that was searching to find another
woman to fill a void. Her husband was going through
a period where he was emotionally unavailable. Plus she wanted
to explore her sexual curiosity as well as introduce a
(05:29):
third into their relationship, only if there was a strong
connection between her and I. Though fast forward six years
later to today, her and I are best friends and
more sometimes and sometimes all three of us spend time together.
Her and I have a level of intimacy that her
and her husband do not have, and he knows that
(05:49):
and he's okay with it completely. She can be wild
and her true self with me, and she has her
husband that is everything else to her. All three of
us are happy and appreciate ciate what we have. Side note,
I only dated one person during this time, and even
though my bestie and I were friends during the time
I dated someone, the woman I was seeing was always
(06:10):
jealous and ultimately it was too much for her. Anyway,
want to give you my insight on that conversation and
to say to each their own. As long as everybody's
open minded and honest and truly okay with everything that's
going on, then just be happy. The only thing that
I question about that, Charlene, is that you were left
without that emotional closeness. You were left without that rock.
You had your fun, love and you're exciting times.
Speaker 6 (06:33):
But she said that the girl was her best friend too.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Okay, I guess, yeah, I guess that's a good point.
Speaker 6 (06:38):
So maybe it was like still her emotional rock.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
But then do you have the person I think we
all need somebody at some point in life who signs
the the emergency medical stuff Like if I get in
a you know, a boat accident, yeah, and I've lost consciousness.
I need that person in my life who can go
to the doctor and say, yes, go ahead and take
him off life support, you know that tightly?
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Right, I mean Susan does that, would do that immediately.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
She would do that immediately.
Speaker 7 (07:04):
And when they're like, oh, he's got like a you know,
eighty percent chance, she's like, ah, it's not looking good
looking as well, take him off.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
He's only got a bloody nose. Yeah, well I would
euthanize him anyway. So that's interesting. So I'm glad that
it's working out for you, Sarlene, and I'm glad that
you are getting a chance and your your friend is
getting a chance to explore that sexual side that they
would not have got to explore in a other relationship.
Speaker 7 (07:32):
The only thing I'll say about that actual original email
that she maybe didn't catch was the fact that woman
wasn't being honest with her husband though, right, So it
was a matter of like pretty much cheaty yeah, and
no kind of agreement yeah versus like there was an
open conversation about what was happening.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Very interesting, Thank you, Charlene. Next one is from Charrace,
who is a regular supporter of the Minnesota Goodbye, and
she says, Hello, Dave, Jenny Bailey Vont And let you
guys know about a funny guy I found on TikTok.
Maybe Vont knows who he is. He makes all these
different funny videos about all the different stereotypes about black people.
Sure race, by the way, is black. In case you're
(08:10):
wondering and really exaggerate it. It's funny because ninety percent
of it is true. To find him on TikTok. His
name is I Am Randy Pyron. I am Randy p
y Ron. You guys should check it out because it
really is funny. My favorite video is things Black people
Can't help doing. He has several and they are funny.
(08:31):
You should check him out. Hope you have a great weekend,
all right. Rather than pull one up right now, I
think what we should do is we should let Vont
know about this. I'll tell him and then maybe Vont
wants to play some of them, you know, yeah, because
I think it'd be funnier if Vont presents this, then
the three whitest people in Minnesota presenting this on the show.
Speaker 5 (08:54):
So thank you, Arce.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Appreciate that. Next one, Hold on, I gotta scroll down
a little bit. Here we go, Minnesota, goodbye. Question regarding
pets like dogs and cats, do you let your animals
sleep with you in your bed or do you kennel
them or sleep on the floor, et cetera, Jenny, when
(09:16):
you watch dogs, where do they sleep? We'll start there.
Speaker 7 (09:19):
Yeah, they all usually only sleep either. If they're kennel
trained and that's what they're used to, they'll go on
a kennel. Otherwise, I give them free range of the
main floor. There's only one dog, the Oji dog I
ever started watching that. I make a little bed next
to my bed with like a bunch of blankets, and
he sleeps next to the bed.
Speaker 5 (09:35):
But that's it.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Yeah, Josie just would have the When she was younger,
she had the free reign of the house, but she
would sleep downstairs on the couch or wherever she slept.
Then we kept her in a kennel because she would pee.
I think we'd let her sleep in bed with us
for a while, but then that's when she started to pee.
Roger sleeps wherever he wants to, usually in bed with Susan.
(09:57):
I don't have a problem with dogs in the bed. Yeah,
they're your buddies.
Speaker 5 (10:01):
Yeah, yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Where does Cap sleep.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
With me if he wants to.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Usually he'll sit in the window until I fall asleep
and I'll wake up and he'll be like he likes
to be the big spoon, so he'll stretch out on
my side, Oh my god.
Speaker 5 (10:14):
Or he'll sit right by my head. I love him
so much.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
I know you do. A dog update. We are not
going to get Gavin? Oh yeah, yeah, I mean I
really liked Gavin and I just kind of had a
bond with him, like we clicked right away because he
seemed to love me back. And I think that's what
sometimes we like somebody because oh they like us too.
(10:37):
But Susan was just not She had an open mind
to it. But I just number one. I asked her
the other day, I said, we've got to get back
to these people about Gavin. Gavin was like a short
haired yellow lab mix and he was about you know,
he was a larger dog, and he was a puppy.
He still was ten months old. He had a lot
of energy, and he shed a lot. And I said
(10:57):
to Susan, I said, we got to get back to
you know, spots last stop and let him know. And
she said, I can't. I just I missed Josie. And
then she started to cry.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
And I'm like, okay, well, not going to force this. Yeah,
but I'm sorry Gavin.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
I know.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Yeah. Oh. She goes on to say, my husband had
an English bulldog before me in his bed, so she
always slept with him. That was tough adjustment for me
to have a big bowling ball that wouldn't move at
the end of the bed, but I got used to it.
Now we're on our second English bulldog. And I cannot
imagine not sleeping with her in the bed. She curls
up between me and my hobby, likes to sleep under
(11:37):
the covers, and even puts her head on the pillow.
Now it's always better to get her back. Now, it's
always better to get her backside at night versus her
paws side, as her paws are scratching your back at night.
But either way, I wouldn't change it for anything. She
is such a sweetheart. What are your thoughts? You have
any thoughts on sleeping with your dog in the bed
and let us know?
Speaker 3 (11:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (11:58):
Yeah, I mean why not.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Our dogs had the free reign of like they can
jump on the couch, they could sleep on the couch.
What one thing when Gavin came over, because he came
over to visit and we let him in the house
just a romp around. And one thing he did that
I didn't like that I would have definitely trained him
not to was counter surf where they put their paws
up on the counter. Yeah, and then they like start
(12:23):
licking around. And he was big enough to do it,
Josie was not. And I saw him do that and
I thought, well, that's definitely a habit that he is
going to have to break.
Speaker 6 (12:32):
Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 7 (12:33):
It's like, it's so hard to have a dog that
counter surf. I have Luckily, I honestly don't think I've
ever had a dog that counter surf of the dogs
I watch, but I know Fallon's dog, Dolly is a
little shit and counter surfs because last time I was
there and made food, she got into all of it
and it was like in the center of the counter.
Speaker 6 (12:52):
She like jumped up, yeah, And I was.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
Like, oh, that would be There's two things that dogs do. Well,
maybe there's several things I think that dogs do that
I would have to break them up. Number one, barking constantly.
I could never have a dog that like looked out
the front window. And there's a couple of dogs in
our neighborhood when I go for a walk that they
look out the front window. You could never have that.
(13:17):
Two a dog that jumps up on guests or you
when you walk in the door. Some people don't really
don't like dogs as much as we think, so, especially
when a bigger dog will jump up and put their
paws on your chest they think they're being very friendly. Nope,
can't do that one. So what I learned to do.
And if you're a breeder or trainer, tell me about this.
(13:38):
You grab their paws and you squeeze them, so it's uncomfortable,
not until they hurt, but their paws are up there.
You grab them and you squeeze them until that, like
is a little bit uncomfortable, and then you kind of
need them a little bit. Now you don't kick them
in the chest, but you give them a little bit
of a knee. So now that jumping up experience is uncomfortable. Sure,
do you know any better than that, Jenny, I don't.
Speaker 6 (13:59):
I've never heard of that, And no, I don't know
any better.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
Yeah, but I can attest to I do not like
being jumped on my dogs because I like dogs, but
there's something ingrained in me that's a little bit scared
of any dog that jumps on me. So I do
not like being jumped on by dogs, and usually I
just put my back to them.
Speaker 7 (14:16):
And I think I seem to be very well aware
of that because I don't mind it. But I know
for the people who don't like it, like, they really
don't like it. And I think some owners just like
don't understand that, and so they don't really they're like, oh,
he's harmless, she's harmless whatever. Yeah, and it's like, yeah,
but some people just don't want to be jumped on
by dogs, so you should grab your dog if that's
the kind of dog they are.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
Yeah. Yeah. We used to have a colleigue that would
do that a lot, and they were older so they
were a little bit hard to train. But she was
just a joy. Her name was Gracie, and Gracey loved
everybody but Marcus, my daughter Beth's husband when he lived here.
He didn't like dogs. I don't know if he got
bit by a dog when he was a kid. He
was not a dog person. And Gracie did not like Marcus.
(14:58):
And I don't know if he jumped she jumped on her, whatever,
but it was the one person. Don't you think dogs
can tell whether you like dogs or not?
Speaker 4 (15:06):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (15:06):
Yes, I do, because I feel like every dog loves
me and I love them so much.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Same, so I think it's the same with babies. Babies
and toddlers can tell whether you are like them and
are comfortable kids and babies love me because I love
kids and babies. I remember a strange woman asked me
to hold her baby going through TSA at the airport
one time, and and she was harried and had a
(15:32):
crib a cradle, she had a stroller, and she had
a suitcase, and she had a crying baby or baby,
and she's like, will you hold my baby? And I'm like,
i'd be happy to babies love me. And he just
looked up at me. He's so happy.
Speaker 6 (15:46):
Oh my god, none, he said, Dad, I'm.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
Going to play a recording for you. This is totally
spontaneous on the airplane yesterday on the way from Atlanta
to home. Now, we had not slept all night, overnight
flight from Hawaii to Atlanta. We're so fucking tired. This baby,
a boy probably ten months old, cried and screamed the
(16:14):
entire time. And I'm gonna play it for you. You're ready, Okay,
let's see if I can find it here.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
Hold on, Okay.
Speaker 1 (16:33):
Now, this went on for two and a half hours.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
One N't they get tired?
Speaker 2 (16:38):
I guess I don't know how babies work, but I
feel like once you get tired, you tire yourself out
and fall asleep.
Speaker 5 (16:43):
After screaming so much.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
He did stop, probably about twenty minutes outside of Minneapolis,
but he cried and screamed, and it was such an
interesting thing because the dad tried to comfort him the
whole time. The mom did nothing.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
Well, I'm assuming wherever they were on vacation, the mom
was probably Karen for that kid the whole time.
Speaker 5 (17:04):
So the second they get on the plage, she's like, take.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Care of this, maybe so. And then Grandma, I think,
was across the aisle. Grandma picked up the baby and
kind of bounced, but nothing would console this baby. And
I try to be understanding, but I'm going to bring
up something that we brought up before. And Susan and
I had a little discussion about this one. We paid
(17:27):
for Comfort Plus, which is not first class, but it's
a little bit cushier of a seat, a little bit
more leg room. Yeah, and because you know, it's a
long flight, long you know whatever, and so we paid
an upgrade for Comfort Plus. And Susan said, it pisses
me off that they are in Comfort Plus where we
decided to have like a little bit better experience, but
(17:49):
they brought a baby that screams. And I said, you know,
it's funny. We brought this up on the show, and
because there was a TikTok or a video a couple
of months ago where a woman was arguing with another
passenger that she brought her baby into first class and
the baby cried the whole time, and he said, don't
bring a baby into first class. So we had a
discussion about whether that is elitist or whether you think that,
(18:14):
you know, only poor people in the back should put
up with a crying baby. And I'm kind of on
the fence about it. To me, you know, that's why
you pay for more. That's why you pay for more
to live in a nice neighborhood, not that poor people
deserve to live in a shit neighborhood, but that's why
you buy, you know, live in the best neighborhood you
can afford. That's why you buy the safest car and
(18:35):
most reliable car, not because poor people deserve to be
injured in a car crash, but because that's what you
feel is worthwhile. All Right, I'll leave that up to
you to discuss. That is going to be the Minnesota
Goodbye for today. Send your emails in to Ryan's show
at KADIWB dot com.
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