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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Piece of advice.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Your subcile company would never offer you free flowers for
a survey. It's war of the roses.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
On Katie w B.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
You know, I think sometimes people who are married are
in a relationship are so glad that they're not going
through the games and the wondering and questioning and all
the things that we that you go through.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Ouch, it feels a little like you're rubbing the sin.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
Does it?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Because the games and the wondering and how to approach
and what did they mean when they said this?
Speaker 5 (00:32):
I mean, and why haven't they responded to my text
in forty eight hours?
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Well, exactly right, And that's kind of what are you
going through that right now?
Speaker 6 (00:38):
Jenny?
Speaker 5 (00:39):
No, I'm not okay, I'm actually probably the one.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
So we're on the phone with Kayla, Kayla working on
a relationship and everything seems to be going okay until
you take the story from here, Kayla, what happened?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Hey?
Speaker 7 (00:59):
So, so I've been seeing my boyfriend for like pretty
much almost like a year now, and I'm calling today
because so he recently went to Denver, where he's actually from,
like where.
Speaker 8 (01:13):
He went to high school and everything, and he went
to Denver to go see one of his friends for
like a week or so, and I've just noticed that,
like pretty much halfway through the week, the way that
he was responding to me completely changed. Like he was porehand,
like he was, you know, facetiming me every day and
you know, like like I don't you know, I'm not like, oh,
(01:34):
you need to tell me where you are, but you know,
like he was like FaceTime me good night and everything
and text me during the day and everything was like
super loving and normal, and like halfway through the week,
like Thursday.
Speaker 7 (01:44):
Or so, he just kind of stopped facetiming me.
Speaker 8 (01:47):
He started getting like really short with his text.
Speaker 7 (01:49):
Messages, and I was.
Speaker 8 (01:52):
Just kind of like, oh whatever, like he's busy and
like he's come back, and like we've hung out a
couple of times, but he's like he always cuts it sure,
like he hasn't stayed the night. He's super just kind
of dismissive. And the thing is, as I've noticed that
he now has a passphone on his phone, which he
normally never did, and I'm just kind of like wondering,
(02:15):
what's going on.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Yeah, totally, so before when you would send him a
text message, I mean, if he was around his phone,
he would answer right away.
Speaker 8 (02:23):
I mean yeah pretty much, okay, yeah, and then like
if he was going to be away from his phone,
like oh, I'm going to a game or something like,
he would tell me. But now it's like it's like
five or six hours before I get a text message.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Back okay, and no face times.
Speaker 7 (02:37):
No face times, and no phone calls.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
And so he's pulled back since he's been back.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
But he started acting weird when he was in.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (02:45):
Yeah, but like like third day.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Okay, okay, you said that that's where he's from.
Speaker 8 (02:52):
Yeah, that's where he grew up, like he went to
he went to like high school there too.
Speaker 5 (02:56):
Do you feel like he's got some kind of X
he reacon with or something.
Speaker 8 (03:02):
I mean, you know, we did the whole thing where.
Speaker 7 (03:04):
We kind of briefed all of our exes.
Speaker 8 (03:06):
And everything, and he never really had somebody that was
super I mean, he had like a couple of girlfriends,
but nothing significant backs donever.
Speaker 7 (03:15):
But I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 8 (03:17):
I mean, you know, like there might be somebody that
he never disclosed.
Speaker 6 (03:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Okay, he wasn't back there for a high school reunion.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Was he because people hook up at a high school
reunion with somebody they haven't seen in like ten years.
Speaker 8 (03:28):
No, he was now visiting his friend, his fat friend.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Okay, well there goes that theory. Okay, So but he's
acting weird for some reason and we don't know why.
So we can call and find out. You know, if he,
you know, very willingly, excitedly sends roses to you, that's
good news. And if he sends them to somebody else,
well then you've got an answer. So if you can
hold on for a minute, we can call. His name
(03:53):
is Noah. We'll call Noah a second, we'll set the
trap for him.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Okay, okay, thank you, all right, hold on one second.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Are they cheating?
Speaker 3 (04:02):
I find out?
Speaker 8 (04:03):
Part two of Whard the Roses starts right now on
kat w B.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Never let your partner leave town, never let them out
of your sight. Because an innocent trip to Denver has
changed everything. So Bro goes out to Denver, hang out
with his boys, with the weekend or his friend or whatever.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
He comes back.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
He's acting different, he's acting distant, and then he changes
his phone to a lock screen and it used to
be just pick it up and swipe up and boom
there it is when nobody does that, nobody has just
pick it up and swap because you could leave it
like on the bus and somebody would know all your
intimate information. But all of a sudden he changed it
(04:42):
to a passcode to lock code, and so she's wondering
is he up to something? Did something happen in Denver?
We have a way of getting to the bottom of this,
and we're going to do it right now on War
of the Roses on katwbre All.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Right, thanks for doing that with me today. No, I
really appreciate it.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
So, like I said, for taking a survey our company
as a big thank you, is going to send out
a dozen red roses to whoever you'd like. So what
I'll need from you next is the name of the
person you want to send those roses to.
Speaker 6 (05:18):
Uh, you know, I don't really need the rose. That's fine.
I'm happy out.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Are you sure?
Speaker 5 (05:29):
I mean these are like completely complimentary, so you know
you're not going to see the show up on your
next bill.
Speaker 6 (05:36):
Yeah. I don't really have anybody send them to, so I'm.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Good youch.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Things are going to get kind of a little bit
interesting and a little bit awkward as I kind of
explain what's going on, Noah. The whole survey and the
flowers and everything was just a ploy to see who
you would send flowers to. There's no survey. We're not
from your phone company. We're over on KATIEWB radio. Maybe
you listen, maybe you don't, And we were asked by
(06:08):
your girlfriend Kayla to call you with this whole trap
to see who you would send roses to. And it
sounds like does that all make sense? Can I explain
that every week and most people get it? But so
does that make sense?
Speaker 6 (06:26):
I'm just I don't know why. Why?
Speaker 3 (06:33):
Well, let me explain.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
So Kayla is she listens to our show and she
called us and she said, hey, will you call my
boyfriend Noah and see if he would send roses to
me or to somebody else. And the funny thing is
she's listening right now, so she's hearing this entire conversation.
Speaker 8 (06:49):
I know, Kayla.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
So it's got to be a little bit of a
shock than Kayla to hear your boyfriend no say that
he doesn't really have anybody to send flowers to when
she fully was she fully expected you to.
Speaker 8 (07:06):
Say her, Yeah, no, I I'm not really getting like
an answer from you, but like you have been super
super weird.
Speaker 7 (07:15):
Since you got back from Denver, and like I've tried
to mention it to you, and like you've just been
super dismissive.
Speaker 8 (07:20):
So I just I'm sorry that I kind of blindsided
you with this, but I need to know, like what's
going on.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
Yeah, Okay, Well I didn't think that this was going
to be a conversation that's gonna happen on the on
the radio, but.
Speaker 9 (07:43):
I yeah, I've been meaning to talk to you for.
Speaker 6 (07:48):
A while now. But when I went to go visit John.
Speaker 9 (07:58):
Listen, I've known John since I was a kid, and
when I was on the trip, I just think he
and I were like having a lot of deep conversations
and obviously the.
Speaker 6 (08:10):
Relationship came up and we were kind of going into it.
And I don't think that I don't think that you're
the one for me.
Speaker 8 (08:25):
Okay, well, I've never met John before, you know, like
he doesn't know who I am. I mean, while I
was there, you know, I told John that you had
been married three times, and I.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
I think it just made me it maybe just rethink
everything to hear his perspective on that.
Speaker 8 (08:52):
Okay, Well, if you're going to let your bro convince
you that I'm not the one, and he's also never
met me, doesn't even know who I I am, then
I'm sorry. I don't really want to continue this.
Speaker 3 (09:03):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
I guess that is the consensus, and that is the
way it is.
Speaker 5 (09:09):
Your friend just like convinced you, yeah that like the
person you're with who you've never met in your life
is not the one because they've been married a few times.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Something, Okay, but to just because I love playing Devil's advocate,
Yeah you do.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
I do. I love stirring the pod a little bit.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
I think that sometimes if you hear enough about somebody
and be like, I don't like them, because Jenny, you've
got a friend that I don't know very well. And
the more you tell me about this friend, the longer
a friend. Okay, no, that's what exactly. That's but thank
you exactly, no longer a friend. And the more you
would tell me about this friend, I would tell you
because I can be honest with you.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Yeah, you tell me that they were crazy.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
I said, I don't like her. I don't like her.
I don't like her.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
And sometimes Bailey will tell me about somebody, and the
more you tell me, I don't like them. So if
Bailey came to me and said I'm seeing this new guy,
I really like him. You know he does have a
drinking problem. Yeah, okay, little check mark goes off in
my head. Yeah, and he has gotten in a couple
of bar fights, which it's embarrassing to take him out
to Chili's because a lot of he jumped across the
(10:10):
bar and he slugged the bartender.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
Check Mark again.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Yeah, I've never met this guy, but I would say
maybe his friend in Denver said check mark, check Mark,
check Mark.
Speaker 3 (10:21):
I don't really like this girl.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
See Okay, I get what you're saying.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
Jenny, Like, I would be so peeved if I was
the girl, and like, oh, this guy's never met me,
and this is what he's telling me.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Though I have dated men in my life.
Speaker 4 (10:35):
And then after the fact, like after we've broken up
and not seen each other anymore, that's when my friends
are like, oh, I never liked never liked him yet,
And I'm like, well, why did you tell me before?
So I kind of see it from both sides. Obviously,
we're like on her side because she's the one who's
like calling and being like I need help. But what
if it was the guy's friend who's like, he's really
(10:55):
with the wrong woman? Blah blah blah? Would we feel different?
Speaker 1 (10:58):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (10:59):
But I and I agree, and I see where you're
coming from because I definitely have had someone very close
to me who I did not say I didn't like
their partner until after they finally broke up because they
weren't going to listen to me one way or another.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
That's the thing. It's like, I think that's what friends
are scared of. But like, I think you know when.
Speaker 5 (11:14):
Your friends like your partner, because they're going to openly.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Say I like your partner, you know, I really like him?
Like yeah, so like you really like him. Now, remember
she's been married three times now, that could be something
right there, right, didn't she say that she had been married?
He brought up you've been married three times? That's a
red flag. I'm sorry. If you've been married three times
(11:40):
and they didn't even sound like they were thirty five
years old yet, that's to me, that's something is wrong there.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
I feel like we don't have the background.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
Sorry on that one. Yeah, you married three times? There's
something wrong.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
If they don't, they doesn't need the background story. Yeah,
I'm just going to judge immediately.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
Absolutely, Hey, we all judge. We all say I don't judge.
I don't judge.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
Yes, you do. You judge every day.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
If you got your kid on the school bus and
the school bus drivers seemed like they were drunk, you're
gonna get judging and you're gonna call the school and say, yeah,
I think that Ms Thompson was drunk this morning. We
all judge. When I was dating Cricket, my friends didn't
like her. My friends are like, you can do better. Now,
I'm glad I stayed with her. We have a lovely child, beath.
But Cricket, I'll be honest with you, I could have
(12:23):
done a lot better than Cricket.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
And my friends were right. But I was stupid and
I stayed.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Oh and that's the thing I love best.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
And that's the thing is a lot of time in
a bad relationship, you get a wonderful child out of
the whole thing.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
But my friends were right.