July 30, 2025 • 13 mins
Bailey revisits a qualm from yesterday - is she allowed to be tired even if she doesn't have kids?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Yesterday I was complaining a little bit, and I'd like
to revisit because yesterday I talked about how I have
some friends in my life that do not think that
I am tired because I don't have kids, or they
don't think that I'm busy because I don't have kids,
where they'll look at my Instagram stories I'll be like
out about be boo bopping around and they'll be like, wow,
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you're so busy, and I'm like, yeah, I'm pretty busy,
but I like to stay busy and they're like, oh, well,
you don't have kids, so you can be busy because
you have the choice of being busy because you don't
have kids. If you had kids, you would know what
real busy is. And I don't like that. There's like
a little validity. And I said this yesterday to you
on and off the air. I think that, yes, it's
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a choice.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
You have kids, so like you know, you chose to
be busy in that regard.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
But tired is different, like having kids, being tired is
different than your beeboobopping around tired.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Well, no, I agree.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
I think there is a difference, but I don't think
their tiredness and or busyness negates my tiredness and busyness.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
I am still tired and busy. I am just a
different kind of tired and busy.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Because if mine is optional, theirs is also optional, because
kids are optional to have.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
But being optional does not invalidate their busy or tiredness. Right,
they're still busy or tired.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
I'm not saying to them though, oh you're tired. Well,
I've been beboo bopping around all the day. But they're
doing it to me, So how is it okay if
they do.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
It to me? But I can't do to them.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
I put some thought into this, yeah, and then quickly
forgot what my thoughts were. But then I remembered one
of them, and that is I think they're probably just
kind of be like a funny like conversational like, oh,
you're tired, I'm the one with three kids, and we
got soccer practice and boy scouts, and we've got band
practice in football camp.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Well, okay, then those are also activities that your kid
that you have enrolled your kid in willingly so.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
So, Bailey, you hate people with kids? No, I don't
hate people with you hate kids.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
No, I don't hate kids.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
You hate people you're just annoying with people who say
that you cannot be tired because you don't have kids.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Right exactly, So they're they're gatekeeping being tired, Like how
is that? Like, Okay, so because I don't have kids,
I am lesser than you you are?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Well, yeah, for sure, I mean we people with kids
are much greater than I use the greater than symbol
people that don't have kids, Mmmm, greater.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Than greater than your greater.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
That we're procreating the race and the human race, and
that some.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
People shouldn't be But okay, well.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
To the list of people that shouldn't have kids. Okay,
the Irish, for example, the Irish. There's Irish kids everywhere?
Speaker 3 (02:36):
Are there?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
The little drunks?
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Yeah, I was gonna say that those are the ones
at the bars. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
So you get annoyed when people said, well, you're like,
oh and here's another thing, Well, Bailey will do it. Yeah,
Bailey's got plenty of times. She didn't have many kids.
In the meantime, Marsha's got to leave early because little
Jessica's got to go get get get a cap on
her teeth.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
And that's what it was like working in retail is
that they would say like, okay, can anyone stay an
extra hour, And it would always be me because somebody,
you know, Trish or whatever would be like, yeah, well
I have to go home to be with my kid
right now. So Bailey will work and I would work
the late shift all the time, or I'd work inventory
all the time because I didn't have a family quote
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unquote okay, yeah, sure, but.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Like I have a life. I still have a life.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
I like get how that's negated sometimes because back when
I was you know, single and like, you know, twenty
two years old. Yeah, it's like, well, Dave'll work weekends,
Dave'll work on Christmas Day because he didn't have any kids.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
How is that fair?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Well, in a way, I could see it as fair.
It's like, yeah, I don't have any kids. I don't
have to get up on Christmas morning and have the
little train set ready and the cabbage patch doll ready
for the you know, little kid that I didn't have
back then. But I can kind of see that a way,
and I didn't mind.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
See, well, I always worked those shifts because I thought, well,
Trish has kids, so she has to get home. She
gets to leave early because she has kids. And I don't,
so I have to work late. But also like what
if I'm fit fifty seven years old, I'm a spinster
my whole life. No one wanted to marry me, no
one wanted to bore me children, And I've been taking
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the crappy shift or I've been conceding to the people with.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Children my whole life. How is that fair?
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Stop conceding?
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Well, no, I don't want to be a douchebag, like, well,
my kids are I have to go take care of
my kids. I'm like, you're right, you do have to
go take care of kids because you're better than me.
So bye, have fun with your kids.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
So you'd annoyed when people say like, oh you go like,
oh man, I am tired. I was out of the
play last night till eleven, and they're like, oh, I
was up with Cindy Lucy had diarrhea four in the morning.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Or they'll be like, well that sounds fun.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
I wish I could have fun like that, but I
have kids, Like that.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Was your choice.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
I like the sex that says everyone likes to play
the pain Olympics. People like to complain and their complaints
are more significant than yours.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
For X y Z.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
It's so true.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
It doesn't even have to be about kids or being tired.
I feel like everyone's like, oh, you a lot of work,
Well guess what I have this and this and that
to do.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
You know, you don't understand what a hard day is.
Here's on the phone.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Well, we have people that want to talk to Bailey
about this bold statement. So let's see what people have
to say. Jenna, good morning. You're on Katie WB. What
do you think about Bailey's statement?
Speaker 5 (05:18):
I understand what Bailey is saying because everyone is tired.
But the difference is that they don't that she cannot
comprehend quite yet. Is that when she wants peace and quiet,
she can find it. And when you have little ones around,
and I'm a grandma so I've been through a lot
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of them, you don't have the option.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Yeah, you can find peace and quiet. What'd you do yesterday?
You took a three hour nap? Right? Whereas if I'm
a mom or a daddy, I'm not going to get
a three hour nap because little Cindy LEEU who is
you know? Sure, she's unnoting and she's running them up.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
So and then and that makes sense, But then how
can the parents come to me and then compare their
tired to mind, because if there isn't a comparison, because
as you said, you get no peace and quiet, there's
difference between you know, being existentially exhausted versus my tired,
then like, why are you trying to compare it? I
could say, oh, I'm tired, and then you'd be like,
I'm tired too. Here's what happened.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
You know, I'm a jealousy. These moms are jealous that
you get to nap.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
I guess yeah, they're probably yeah, And then then there
probably is a little bit. But I think there is
something what Jenny said is like or that Tech said
that we all love to play the pain game where
it's like, oh, well you had this happen, wait till
you hear about my day. And I think the right
answer might be like, oh god, I'm sorry you're tired.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Yeah that's yeah, yeah right, or just say like me too,
and instead of you can't be tired because you don't
have kids. That's what I'm annoyed about, is you can't
be tired because you don't understand tired, Like okay.
Speaker 5 (06:55):
I think it's almost like you think you're tired now, Bailey,
just wait.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
I don't see I don't want like that's for some
reason that's not impressive to me. And I feel like
they say it in a way to be like one
up to me, like, oh, you just wait until you have.
Speaker 5 (07:08):
Kids, say oh you could look at you look good now,
or you look good now because you're young, right exactly,
you have kids, Just wait until your body's gone excuse
for pain?
Speaker 2 (07:17):
Yeah, just thank you, Jenna. I appreciate your insight text messages.
I totally agree with Bailey. I get similar things from
older people than me. I'll be like, I'm a back hurts.
The old people are always like, waitill you get older,
you think your back hurts. Now, even though I'm younger
than you, my back is allowed to hurt and I
can be in pain. Age has nothing to do with it. Oh,
I'm very guilty of that one. Bailey. You'll be like,
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oh you know what, uh now that I'm thirty four, Oh,
I can't climb stairs like I used to. And I'll
be like, wait till you hit fifty Wait till you
hit fifty five then you can come. So I've just
negated your pain.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
Yeah, but why why are we trying to one up.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
Each other, because I think part of this is we're
making conversation.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
I think you can make conversations by just adding and
saying yes and instead.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
Of but can you imagine you go to the doctor liked,
my throat is killing me, and the doctor she's like,
you think your throat hurt? Oh, I've had tons of
lightis for a week.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
Get away from that. You should see the guy before you.
His tonson is falling out.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Okay, some text messages. I think Bailey has resentment because
she doesn't have kids and a family of her own
and wants to. So therefore you hate when other people
complain about it. Please respond.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
I think it's the opposite way.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
I think the people with kids and a life of
family of their own resent me for being able to
do whatever I want.
Speaker 4 (08:39):
Billy is, Yeah, Bailly's very happy with her life.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
My life is fine. I would love to, you know,
be married. I wouldn't I wouldn't mind having a kid.
That would be great. It's just not in the cards
for me right now.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Want to take another phone?
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Oh again, the way you stirred the pot here vont
von Yeah, we're here, sir. It that I no Okay, Hi, Sarah, Hi.
In case you missed the statement, Bailey, restate your case here.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Yeah, well, I'm just I'm complaining because I've had parents
be telling me that, oh, you're tired. Well you don't
have kids. You don't understand tired or busy or.
Speaker 5 (09:18):
Whatever thing right, which is in my mind is crazy.
Like I agree with you, Bailey.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
I have gone from being single for I'd rather not
say how many years, to like having two step children,
and like, I've been.
Speaker 5 (09:33):
Tired the whole damn time. Okay, it's different types of tired,
but like what I hear from you is like you're
acknowledging them, right, Like you're like, yeah, having kids, Wow,
you must be super tired, but they're not acknowledging you.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (09:48):
Yeah, well you're really tired.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Me too.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
I'm so tired because X y Z like everyone can
be tired.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Right, Why can't we all be tired? Why can't we
all be busy?
Speaker 2 (09:58):
That's like complaining about your diamond s shoes being too
tight though I went out to the show and I
went to the Wild Game last night.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
Okay, so the di my life could be compared to
a diamond, then.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Is that your diamond shoes are too tight. You're pitching
about how and I'm only playing Devil's advocate here, but
you are pissing me off.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
But I would say in the brain of some of
these people who are like trying to one up me
with their families, they have the diamond shoes, They're like.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
Well, I have a family, so I am.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
I am therefore I have kids, so I'm more tired
than you.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
You don't understand my diamond.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Shoes lost with the diamond shoes.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
It's either way, dude. It depends on which one you
are like jealous of. Are you jealous of children? Are
you jealous of my fun, free, free load in life?
Speaker 2 (10:48):
I am not because I've loved my kids, and when
my kids were keeping me busy, I probably complained about it,
But at the same time, deep inside my little pea
pick and heart, I was very happy because I love
my kids. Here's a text. Oh my god, Bailey, this
completely resonates with me. When I was in my early
twenties a pharmacy tech waitress and clean houses to make
ends meet, and my other pharmacy tech single mom would
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always make me feel like my reality was nothing compared
to what she went through and it was so frustrating.
I literally worked over one hundred hours a week and
still had to take care of my little brother. How
can I not understand one hundred hours a week is insane?
God bless you. That's a lot. I agree with Bailey
one hundred percent, and a lot of people agree with you.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Yeah, except for that one person that says I resent
to all people with children. That's what I do. I
go home and I stew about it. I'm like, man,
I'm alone and I have no kids.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Okay, here's one. You're tired, Bailey, go take a nap.
You ain't got kids run ruining your day with seventy
six questions. Nobody's going to miss you for three hours
of your glorious nap.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
My mom will miss me. She'll be like, I wonder
what Bailey's up to.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
Ye, Well there's there is that, and no one's Okay.
This person says that no kids are ruining your day.
Your kid is ruining day. You chose to have that kid.
But being by a boom when I step in the room, wow, okay,
singing an entire song.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
Somebody says it sounds like Bailey's the one making it
a tired competition. I'm not.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
I literally say I'm tired, and they come back with
you're tired.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
That's what it is.
Speaker 4 (12:19):
They're invalidating that Bailey can't be tired. They're basically saying,
you can't be tired you don't have kids.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Yeah, everyone can be tired.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
I love this, Bailey getting the smoke today instead of me,
except most people are.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
Most people are agree with Bailey.
Speaker 4 (12:32):
Yeah, and I'm just reading the ones that I and
I think that barely understands that, like me and myself
want and Bailey, we don't understand. Yeah, what it's like
to be tired, kid tired. Yeah, we might not understand
that kind of tired. However we still know what it's
like to be tired. Yeah, I still yawn.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
I remember one time when Alison was about two and
I was home at my house in Plymouth, and I
was so tired from getting up early and non of
sleep or whatever that I didn't have a baby gait.
So I laid my body down in the living room
to block her from getting out, and I slept in
her way because I was so tired. But I couldn't
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go upstairs and enjoy a leisurely nap because I was
dad and I had to keep an eye. Well kind of.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
You slept on the floor.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
While Allison was doing her things.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
She got into the screwdrivers. You wouldn't have known, you
were saying.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
The liquid screwdrivers, never know, or the metal screwdrivers. Okay,
thank you, Bailey,
Yesterday I was complaining a little bit, and I'd like
to revisit because yesterday I talked about how I have
some friends in my life that do not think that
I am tired because I don't have kids, or they
don't think that I'm busy because I don't have kids,
where they'll look at my Instagram stories I'll be like
out about be boo bopping around and they'll be like, wow,
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you're so busy, and I'm like, yeah, I'm pretty busy,
but I like to stay busy and they're like, oh, well,
you don't have kids, so you can be busy because
you have the choice of being busy because you don't
have kids. If you had kids, you would know what
real busy is. And I don't like that. There's like
a little validity. And I said this yesterday to you
on and off the air. I think that, yes, it's
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a choice.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
You have kids, so like you know, you chose to
be busy in that regard.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
But tired is different, like having kids, being tired is
different than your beeboobopping around tired.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Well, no, I agree.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
I think there is a difference, but I don't think
their tiredness and or busyness negates my tiredness and busyness.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
I am still tired and busy. I am just a
different kind of tired and busy.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Because if mine is optional, theirs is also optional, because
kids are optional to have.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
But being optional does not invalidate their busy or tiredness. Right,
they're still busy or tired.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
I'm not saying to them though, oh you're tired. Well,
I've been beboo bopping around all the day. But they're
doing it to me, So how is it okay if
they do.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
It to me? But I can't do to them.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
I put some thought into this, yeah, and then quickly
forgot what my thoughts were. But then I remembered one
of them, and that is I think they're probably just
kind of be like a funny like conversational like, oh,
you're tired, I'm the one with three kids, and we
got soccer practice and boy scouts, and we've got band
practice in football camp.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Well, okay, then those are also activities that your kid
that you have enrolled your kid in willingly so.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
So, Bailey, you hate people with kids? No, I don't
hate people with you hate kids.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
No, I don't hate kids.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
You hate people you're just annoying with people who say
that you cannot be tired because you don't have kids.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Right exactly, So they're they're gatekeeping being tired, Like how
is that? Like, Okay, so because I don't have kids,
I am lesser than you you are?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Well, yeah, for sure, I mean we people with kids
are much greater than I use the greater than symbol
people that don't have kids, Mmmm, greater.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Than greater than your greater.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
That we're procreating the race and the human race, and
that some.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
People shouldn't be But okay, well.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
To the list of people that shouldn't have kids. Okay,
the Irish, for example, the Irish. There's Irish kids everywhere?
Speaker 3 (02:36):
Are there?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
The little drunks?
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Yeah, I was gonna say that those are the ones
at the bars. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
So you get annoyed when people said, well, you're like,
oh and here's another thing, Well, Bailey will do it. Yeah,
Bailey's got plenty of times. She didn't have many kids.
In the meantime, Marsha's got to leave early because little
Jessica's got to go get get get a cap on
her teeth.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
And that's what it was like working in retail is
that they would say like, okay, can anyone stay an
extra hour, And it would always be me because somebody,
you know, Trish or whatever would be like, yeah, well
I have to go home to be with my kid
right now. So Bailey will work and I would work
the late shift all the time, or I'd work inventory
all the time because I didn't have a family quote
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unquote okay, yeah, sure, but.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Like I have a life. I still have a life.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
I like get how that's negated sometimes because back when
I was you know, single and like, you know, twenty
two years old. Yeah, it's like, well, Dave'll work weekends,
Dave'll work on Christmas Day because he didn't have any kids.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
How is that fair?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Well, in a way, I could see it as fair.
It's like, yeah, I don't have any kids. I don't
have to get up on Christmas morning and have the
little train set ready and the cabbage patch doll ready
for the you know, little kid that I didn't have
back then. But I can kind of see that a way,
and I didn't mind.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
See, well, I always worked those shifts because I thought, well,
Trish has kids, so she has to get home. She
gets to leave early because she has kids. And I don't,
so I have to work late. But also like what
if I'm fit fifty seven years old, I'm a spinster
my whole life. No one wanted to marry me, no
one wanted to bore me children, And I've been taking
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the crappy shift or I've been conceding to the people with.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Children my whole life. How is that fair?
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Stop conceding?
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Well, no, I don't want to be a douchebag, like, well,
my kids are I have to go take care of
my kids. I'm like, you're right, you do have to
go take care of kids because you're better than me.
So bye, have fun with your kids.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
So you'd annoyed when people say like, oh you go like,
oh man, I am tired. I was out of the
play last night till eleven, and they're like, oh, I
was up with Cindy Lucy had diarrhea four in the morning.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Or they'll be like, well that sounds fun.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
I wish I could have fun like that, but I
have kids, Like that.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Was your choice.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
I like the sex that says everyone likes to play
the pain Olympics. People like to complain and their complaints
are more significant than yours.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
For X y Z.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
It's so true.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
It doesn't even have to be about kids or being tired.
I feel like everyone's like, oh, you a lot of work,
Well guess what I have this and this and that
to do.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
You know, you don't understand what a hard day is.
Here's on the phone.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Well, we have people that want to talk to Bailey
about this bold statement. So let's see what people have
to say. Jenna, good morning. You're on Katie WB. What
do you think about Bailey's statement?
Speaker 5 (05:18):
I understand what Bailey is saying because everyone is tired.
But the difference is that they don't that she cannot
comprehend quite yet. Is that when she wants peace and quiet,
she can find it. And when you have little ones around,
and I'm a grandma so I've been through a lot
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of them, you don't have the option.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Yeah, you can find peace and quiet. What'd you do yesterday?
You took a three hour nap? Right? Whereas if I'm
a mom or a daddy, I'm not going to get
a three hour nap because little Cindy LEEU who is
you know? Sure, she's unnoting and she's running them up.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
So and then and that makes sense, But then how
can the parents come to me and then compare their
tired to mind, because if there isn't a comparison, because
as you said, you get no peace and quiet, there's
difference between you know, being existentially exhausted versus my tired,
then like, why are you trying to compare it? I
could say, oh, I'm tired, and then you'd be like,
I'm tired too. Here's what happened.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
You know, I'm a jealousy. These moms are jealous that
you get to nap.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
I guess yeah, they're probably yeah, And then then there
probably is a little bit. But I think there is
something what Jenny said is like or that Tech said
that we all love to play the pain game where
it's like, oh, well you had this happen, wait till
you hear about my day. And I think the right
answer might be like, oh god, I'm sorry you're tired.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Yeah that's yeah, yeah right, or just say like me too,
and instead of you can't be tired because you don't
have kids. That's what I'm annoyed about, is you can't
be tired because you don't understand tired, Like okay.
Speaker 5 (06:55):
I think it's almost like you think you're tired now, Bailey,
just wait.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
I don't see I don't want like that's for some
reason that's not impressive to me. And I feel like
they say it in a way to be like one
up to me, like, oh, you just wait until you have.
Speaker 5 (07:08):
Kids, say oh you could look at you look good now,
or you look good now because you're young, right exactly,
you have kids, Just wait until your body's gone excuse
for pain?
Speaker 2 (07:17):
Yeah, just thank you, Jenna. I appreciate your insight text messages.
I totally agree with Bailey. I get similar things from
older people than me. I'll be like, I'm a back hurts.
The old people are always like, waitill you get older,
you think your back hurts. Now, even though I'm younger
than you, my back is allowed to hurt and I
can be in pain. Age has nothing to do with it. Oh,
I'm very guilty of that one. Bailey. You'll be like,
(07:37):
oh you know what, uh now that I'm thirty four, Oh,
I can't climb stairs like I used to. And I'll
be like, wait till you hit fifty Wait till you
hit fifty five then you can come. So I've just
negated your pain.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
Yeah, but why why are we trying to one up.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
Each other, because I think part of this is we're
making conversation.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
I think you can make conversations by just adding and
saying yes and instead.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
Of but can you imagine you go to the doctor liked,
my throat is killing me, and the doctor she's like,
you think your throat hurt? Oh, I've had tons of
lightis for a week.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
Get away from that. You should see the guy before you.
His tonson is falling out.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Okay, some text messages. I think Bailey has resentment because
she doesn't have kids and a family of her own
and wants to. So therefore you hate when other people
complain about it. Please respond.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
I think it's the opposite way.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
I think the people with kids and a life of
family of their own resent me for being able to
do whatever I want.
Speaker 4 (08:39):
Billy is, Yeah, Bailly's very happy with her life.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
My life is fine. I would love to, you know,
be married. I wouldn't I wouldn't mind having a kid.
That would be great. It's just not in the cards
for me right now.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Want to take another phone?
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Oh again, the way you stirred the pot here vont
von Yeah, we're here, sir. It that I no Okay, Hi, Sarah, Hi.
In case you missed the statement, Bailey, restate your case here.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Yeah, well, I'm just I'm complaining because I've had parents
be telling me that, oh, you're tired. Well you don't
have kids. You don't understand tired or busy or.
Speaker 5 (09:18):
Whatever thing right, which is in my mind is crazy.
Like I agree with you, Bailey.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
I have gone from being single for I'd rather not
say how many years, to like having two step children,
and like, I've been.
Speaker 5 (09:33):
Tired the whole damn time. Okay, it's different types of tired,
but like what I hear from you is like you're
acknowledging them, right, Like you're like, yeah, having kids, Wow,
you must be super tired, but they're not acknowledging you.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (09:48):
Yeah, well you're really tired.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Me too.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
I'm so tired because X y Z like everyone can
be tired.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Right, Why can't we all be tired? Why can't we
all be busy?
Speaker 2 (09:58):
That's like complaining about your diamond s shoes being too
tight though I went out to the show and I
went to the Wild Game last night.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
Okay, so the di my life could be compared to
a diamond, then.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Is that your diamond shoes are too tight. You're pitching
about how and I'm only playing Devil's advocate here, but
you are pissing me off.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
But I would say in the brain of some of
these people who are like trying to one up me
with their families, they have the diamond shoes, They're like.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
Well, I have a family, so I am.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
I am therefore I have kids, so I'm more tired
than you.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
You don't understand my diamond.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Shoes lost with the diamond shoes.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
It's either way, dude. It depends on which one you
are like jealous of. Are you jealous of children? Are
you jealous of my fun, free, free load in life?
Speaker 2 (10:48):
I am not because I've loved my kids, and when
my kids were keeping me busy, I probably complained about it,
But at the same time, deep inside my little pea
pick and heart, I was very happy because I love
my kids. Here's a text. Oh my god, Bailey, this
completely resonates with me. When I was in my early
twenties a pharmacy tech waitress and clean houses to make
ends meet, and my other pharmacy tech single mom would
(11:11):
always make me feel like my reality was nothing compared
to what she went through and it was so frustrating.
I literally worked over one hundred hours a week and
still had to take care of my little brother. How
can I not understand one hundred hours a week is insane?
God bless you. That's a lot. I agree with Bailey
one hundred percent, and a lot of people agree with you.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Yeah, except for that one person that says I resent
to all people with children. That's what I do. I
go home and I stew about it. I'm like, man,
I'm alone and I have no kids.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Okay, here's one. You're tired, Bailey, go take a nap.
You ain't got kids run ruining your day with seventy
six questions. Nobody's going to miss you for three hours
of your glorious nap.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
My mom will miss me. She'll be like, I wonder
what Bailey's up to.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
Ye, Well there's there is that, and no one's Okay.
This person says that no kids are ruining your day.
Your kid is ruining day. You chose to have that kid.
But being by a boom when I step in the room, wow, okay,
singing an entire song.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
Somebody says it sounds like Bailey's the one making it
a tired competition. I'm not.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
I literally say I'm tired, and they come back with
you're tired.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
That's what it is.
Speaker 4 (12:19):
They're invalidating that Bailey can't be tired. They're basically saying,
you can't be tired you don't have kids.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Yeah, everyone can be tired.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
I love this, Bailey getting the smoke today instead of me,
except most people are.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
Most people are agree with Bailey.
Speaker 4 (12:32):
Yeah, and I'm just reading the ones that I and
I think that barely understands that, like me and myself
want and Bailey, we don't understand. Yeah, what it's like
to be tired, kid tired. Yeah, we might not understand
that kind of tired. However we still know what it's
like to be tired. Yeah, I still yawn.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
I remember one time when Alison was about two and
I was home at my house in Plymouth, and I
was so tired from getting up early and non of
sleep or whatever that I didn't have a baby gait.
So I laid my body down in the living room
to block her from getting out, and I slept in
her way because I was so tired. But I couldn't
(13:12):
go upstairs and enjoy a leisurely nap because I was
dad and I had to keep an eye. Well kind of.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
You slept on the floor.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
While Allison was doing her things.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
She got into the screwdrivers. You wouldn't have known, you
were saying.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
The liquid screwdrivers, never know, or the metal screwdrivers. Okay,
thank you, Bailey,
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