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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
Roman is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
He's been with his girlfriend Willa for a little over
a year, but now he thinks something might be going on,
so we'll see if we can help him out. Roman,
thanks for coming on the show man. Sorry that you're
having a situation. But what's going on with Willa?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Like you said, we met a little more than a
year ago, met at an art gallery where she was
actually working the event, and I just like saw her
and I spent the whole night kind of like trying
to be cool check her out, And then was like,
you know what, if I don't ask her out, I'm
gonna regret it. So I didn't, And like, pretty much
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she's everything I've ever wanted in a girl. Like I
would I do anything for her, Like truly would. I
would go to the end of the earth to like
make sure she was happy. Like she's just the best.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
So what's going on?
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Listen. We like to have a good time, We like
to go do things. We go to our exhibits, we
go out a lot, we go to a concert with
my work. She definitely like keeps you on my toe.
I work for my family, like we work in banking
and finance. She definitely like keeps it interesting because work
can get like can kind of be a grind, and
I don't have a lot of like free time, so
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she fills it up. And she's never taken advantage of
the fact that I actually have money, like, you know,
my family's pretty well off, right. And I actually took
her to the Bahamas for like a little kind of getaway,
you know, and it was this big family vacation thing
and where she was super excited to go. She said
she'd never been out of the country and she was
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really cool because my mom was like, oh, I can't
get her first class ticket, and she was like, no problem.
So she like sat and coach. But she had a
blast the entire time. And it was like kind of
awesome to see like this girl that I really fall
in love with, like, you know, getting along with my mom.
She doesn't like a lot of my girlfriends, so that
was kind of like something I was worried about. Okay,
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But we got back from the trip and in the
last few weeks, like Will has been totally mia. She
like hasn't been calling me back at all. She's been.
She like used to come over to my place every night,
and she's just like she doesn't really return my phone calls,
like I can't get a hold of her. It's it's
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like a total total one eighty. And I know she's
been like going through to work. Like the gallery she
works for is like kind of in trouble. It's like
bleeding a lot of money, and she's like worried she
might be out of a job. So I'm trying to
be supportive. I actually offer to like give her a
little bit of money, but she wasn't interested in that.
She wasn't like put off, she wasn't angry. She just
was like I want to deal with it myself. I'm
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an adult. There's like a few guys that are work.
They're like more interested in the art world, and they know,
like you know, they're a little more I don't know,
I guess it's a little more intelligent than me, and
they're like more passionate or whatever. And I'm just always
kind of like threatened by that. That's that's kind of
that's kind of where we're at. I'm like just a
little worried because it, I mean, I wouldn't be doing
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this extreme thing like calling you all if it really wasn't,
like if I really wasn't noticing that she just will
not connect with me anymore.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
So you feel like she's just been spending a lot
of time at work with these passionate guys.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Yeah, and like, like I said, I know, it's like
a stressful time at work. So I'm I'm not I'm
not trying to like create any kinds a big conspiracy
or anything around it, but I'm like, I definitely know
she talks about these guys. Oh they're so interesting. Oh
they you know, they studied this, and they know about
this artist and this author, And I just I work
in finance. I don't know that stuff, you know.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
I mean maybe she likes that though, you know, like
it's a little more stability than the art world.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Yeah. Yeah. So there's this new art exhibit at the
City Gallery that she's really been talking about wanting to
go on, and she's on like a million different mailing
lists for galleries at for work. So I thought, maybe
like you could call offer free tickets with a plus
one and see who she invites.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
That's a good idea. Oh cool, Okay, Yeah, that's a
good idea. All right, we'll do that. Then we'll play
a song, come back, and then call her and get
your to catch a Cheater next.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Okay, awesome, Thanks, It's.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Time take Catch a Cheater only on.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
The Jubile Show.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater, if
you're just joining us, Roman is on the phone and
he thinks that his girlfriend of just a little over
a year named Willa might be cheating on him. We're
about to call her and see if we can catch
her if she is. But before we do that, Roman,
why don't you catch everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
My girlfriend, Willa works in art. We met at an
art gallery. I work in finance, so very different work lifestyle,
and everything's going great. She loves to go out and
do things. I'm having great experiences because of her concerts
and bars, and just took her on vacation with my family.
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She got along great with my mom. Everything was like cool.
And now she is completely not talking to me. She's
not calling me back, she's not coming over. She used
to spend every night over and I'm afraid that because
her art gallery is kind of struggling, she's been spending
a lot of time at work. I'm afraid she's maybe
like spending time with some of her like art bros
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that are a little more cultured than I am. And
so I just kind of want to know what's going
on there, why she's just totally kind of ignoring me,
because it is like we've been in a relationship for
a long time. It's not like we only went in
a couple of dates.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Yeah, that's a big change, definitely. And you gave us
the name of an art gallery that has an exhibit
that she really wants to go to, and she's on
a bunch of mailing lists. We're about to call and
say that she's won free tickets and a plus one
and we'll see if she makes that plus one you
or someone else? Okay, perfect, Yeah, Okay, here we go.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Hello.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Hi, this is thead calling from the b I was
looking for.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
WILLI.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Yeah, this is WELLA.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
I'm calling you today because you're on a mailing list
and I'm not sure if you're aware, but we're doing
a pop up gallery of coming up in a few weeks.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Oh yeah, that sounds awesome. I mean, I'm sure tickets
are hard to get, but I'd love to go.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Well, they are hard to get. It's already been sold
out for a while. But guess what, willa not for
you because you just won two free tickets? No way, Yes, congratulations.
Every single time we have one of these pop up exhibits,
we call somebody from our mailing list and they get
two free tickets. So you regarded this month's where great?
Speaker 3 (06:31):
That's so exciting, and.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
So it comes with a plus one. Because it's an
exclusive event, we do need to get both parties names.
So I'm assuming you're going to go.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
Well, yeah, I'd love to go.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
So I've got your name done. But do you know
who you would like to take with you already?
Speaker 3 (06:49):
You know what?
Speaker 4 (06:49):
I have my friend Amanda in mind because she wants
to go to this exhibit just.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
As bad as I do. And that would be amazing.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
You know, this would be a good thing to take
a date to it. It's just that it's a friend, right,
It's kind of.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
A personal question.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
I think it's just okay for me to get the
tickets and go to the exhibit.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
You can throw in a third ticket if you have
a romantic interest.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
I'll just go with my friend Amanda. But thank you?
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Are you currently dating anybody.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
No, I'm not And this is like super inappropriate.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
No, you're you're not dating anyone. So we're just we're done.
And you were going to tell me that.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Roman, Yeah, Willa, this is actually the Jubil Show. It's
a radio show and we do a segment called to
Catch a Cheater where we tried to see if people
are cheating, and that is your boyfriend, Roman.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Yeah, what is are you kidding me? What is this?
Speaker 2 (07:44):
What is this? I mean, what is it? What is
what is I don't have a boyfriend? Mean, I mean
you literally weren' going to tell me. You were just
going to after a year, you were going to ghost me.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
First of all, you heard that guy, he was being
an absolute creep You wanted me to tell him that
I had a boyfriend, like even talk to him for longer.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
No, I wanted to get off the phone.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Okay, But I took you on like this family vacation
and now you're you're telling people like that, You're you know,
you're you're picking your friend Amanda to go to this
art gallery exhibit. You're telling this guy you don't have
a boyfriend. Like if he was so creepy, why wouldn't
be like, yes, I have a boyfriend, leave me alone.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Oh my god, do you not know how women work?
I this is so. I have been.
Speaker 6 (08:27):
Protecting myself from you and your pompous, snobby, horrible family.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Oh excuse me?
Speaker 2 (08:36):
What what's wrong with my family? You and my mom
were getting along great?
Speaker 3 (08:40):
Okay, first of all, Mama's boy.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
When we went to the Bahamas, your mom pulled me
aside and told me that.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
She knew that I was in it just for the money.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Oh are you here?
Speaker 3 (08:51):
So your mom is.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
So threatening that I've shut and your mom threatens to
shut down my quote unquote little art gallery.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
I do anything to hurt you or take what isn't mine.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
Why do you think I was sitting in coach She
told me that's where blue collar people deserve to say.
Speaker 5 (09:07):
Oh yes, And I've been keeping my mouth shut, trying
to work myf just so this gallery doesn't close.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
And you put me on a radio show.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
No, no hold on, willis she? Are you hitting me?
She actually said that to you?
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Yes, of course she said that to me.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Okay, listen, listen, listen. She had never meddled like this
in any of my relationships. And I am I am
telling you I am so sorry. I'm so sorry that
I had to take you on a radio show. I
didn't know what else to do. And honestly, if I
had known this, I would have put a stop to
this a long time ago. Because listen, she was telling
me that she really liked you, that you were getting
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along great. She was like, yeah, she really understands me.
We have great conversations. But clearly she meant something differently
by that, So I am I am truly like I swear,
I am sorry. I had no idea she had never
done anything like this before.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
Well, I mean, I'm sorry that I haven't been around
a lot lately. But like I said, like, I love you,
but I hate your mom.
Speaker 6 (10:06):
Like I'm gonna stand for the time of snubbery arrogant,
which both And how dare your mom threaten me or
my passion and her in this relationship if I have
to be degraded like this?
Speaker 2 (10:18):
Listen, listen, listen, Willa, listen. I promise you I will
deal with my mother. I love you too. Your job
is safe. If my mom were to even dare to
even think about doing anything, I would make her pay dearly.
I promise you, promise you promise you that I had
no idea and there will definitely be consequences for what
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she's done. She gave me control over the over the finances,
so if she were to mess with that, she'd be
in she'd be in her own kind of trouble. Please
don't don't hold it against me. For my mother, that
kind of that kind of behavior is totally unacceptable, And
I have no problem telling my mom that, Please, Jo.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
We're going to take this slowly because I do just
love you show so much. But like, I can't tell
you that if I could treated like garbage one more
time or told that I'm worthless, I will you up.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Okay, Okay, I hear you.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
I promise you. I promise you. We can we can
take it. We can take take all the time you need.
But can I like make a suggestion here, I actually
did get tickets to that art exhibit when you said
you wanted to go, like a couple of months back
when they went on sale, And if it be okay
with you, like maybe that could be our first kind
of like date back. Could we can we try that?
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Yeah? Yeah, I can do that.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
That's great. I really do love you.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
I love you, and I'm relieved because well will have
found out that I didn't actually have tickets. I didn't
want to get, you know, the jubile shows to catch
a cheater,